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3

Throw the whole man away
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 05:42 AM
10

You're not being paranoid. You can do better
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/22 03:02 PM
27

David sounds like a tool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 11:16 AM
21

Can you keep her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 03:06 PM
37

I have been feeling the same these holidays and have been diving into podcasts. There are so many amazing stories from all around the world, it makes me feel connected to the human race again. Also journalling is helping me realise I had become disconnected from self due to too much work, maybe that is the real issue for me. Thank you for the honesty in your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 07:36 PM
10

"thirsty buffoon"! ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 02:05 PM
16

Also grew up with a father figure like this - alcoholic stepfather. One thing I've learned over many years is that it's not enough to know fiercely what we DON'T want, we also need positive role models. I've found mine in recovery meetings - Alanon Adult Children to be specific. Big hugs to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 03:11 AM
41

Same same 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 08:45 AM
234

Happened a lot in Gen X too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:46 AM
49

"Just say no..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:44 AM
26

Also therapy is much more effective now, on the whole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:17 AM
23

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 05:26 AM
-12

Changing the subject is a really good skill to practice in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 07:46 PM
8

Oh it's Steve. Fuck off Steve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 08:01 PM
4

"You light up my lifeeee" 🪔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:13 AM
2

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 02:10 PM
2

Is it possible that Will is being a giant pick me with Jada, and men hate to see that in other men, which is very telling? That's why his attack on CR was so OTT, he's a bit desperate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:50 PM
11

Ew! Totally dumbass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:27 PM
4

Wow, what a dick! That deserves to be mentioned in Google reviews....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 07:45 PM
3

You can do it! The fact that you're here speaks volumes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:47 AM
24

Queen Elizabeth I. Survived the most treacherous politics in her youth, knowing her father had killed her mother 😭. Knew 5 languages. Went on to reign like a badass. Came to understand she could never marry and accepted it - her work was her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:29 PM
64

Honestly all three of those men look like serial killers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:13 PM
2

Thank you, kind fellow appreciator of tough love...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:02 PM
12

Tl;dr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:13 AM
12

This is why very beautiful women are so pissed off and depressed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:27 PM
6

For me it's not rejecting other opportunities because I'm pining to be gf'ed, but it IS not taking the time to go out and find other opportunities out of a feeling of guilt and not feeling ready to bring matters to a head, which will be painful. Also only having so much free time and energy left over from my very demanding job. So still ultimately not acting in my best interests -> low self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:06 AM
13

Not necessarily, in my experience. But I think it's still problematic as 'blocking' a space in your life where other better possibilities could enter. So still ultimately an expression of female low self esteem, despite superficial appearances!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 12:30 PM
18

What if he's the one that wants a relationship and you're the one that's declaring FWB? That's a different dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:05 AM
13

Horrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:29 PM
9

Ok, makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:52 PM
110

🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:45 PM
32

What if he encounters for the first time in his life a woman who won't be played? 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:35 AM
14

LMAOOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:17 AM
52

"couldn't make this shit up"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:16 AM
6

🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:09 AM
1

Some still won't be bothered to say it though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:25 AM
6

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:58 AM
25

This doesn't seem real to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:00 AM
3

😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:31 PM
5

"Too right!" We could probably really benefit from a splinter group, but I know that modding here in the main group is a HUGE job...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:29 PM
48

A lip lift might be good for him, actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:58 AM
3

This should be illegal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:37 PM
1

"gloomy lonely donkey"!!!! 🐴 I've met a few
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:40 PM
4

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:15 AM
16

Oh ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:47 AM
2

If you don't want to have sex with him, your body is telling you something important, please listen, and don't beat yourself up about it. Been there, and it was also about money. Big hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:11 AM
3

In his will, he left her his "second best bed".True story LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:25 PM
8

"Extinction burst"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:07 PM
6

This is such an important post 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 08:04 PM
5

No!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 09:18 AM
11

"hubs" 🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:03 AM
15

"but I supported his dream!" I cannot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:43 AM
5

I'm so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:57 PM
29

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:30 PM
16

Of course he's a Sagittarius LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:50 PM
5

Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:22 AM
88

LinkedIn LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:02 AM
11

🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:12 AM
12

This is all so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:54 AM
22

Savage 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:24 AM
2

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:29 PM
3

Wow 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:43 PM
6

Ugh, can't pretend I don't know what you mean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:12 PM
11

They are trying, tho...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:25 AM
1

Username checks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:11 PM
53

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:49 AM
23

Hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:13 PM
26

👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:17 AM
60

LMAO! I'm 'saving it' for my wedding night, that's my story and I'm sticking to it. 54 now and still single....at this point why ruin a perfect run? P.s. asked my last bf if he felt it was missing from our sex life. He said "I'm not complaining!" 💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:11 PM
2

Cried!! 🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:48 AM
5

Hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:21 AM
66

Yes it's amazing to me too, as a Gen X woman, growing up, "Does my butt look big in this?" was the question all bff's and SOs HAD to answer with "of course not!" Now the conversation goes "Yes!" "Thank you!" 🤯🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:10 AM
5

Your attitude is the bomb! 💣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:43 AM
13

'Aussie sheilas of FDS' represent! 🦘🐨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:34 AM
1

Who cares?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:22 AM
22

But you're here now ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:11 AM
5

'gIrL'...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:31 PM
53

Shebeast! Can relate 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:53 AM
2

"Michael Head", are we sure his name's not Richard -? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:10 PM
17

🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:45 AM
23

Also mid-50s and CPTSD and locked down in Aus! DM if you'd like to chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:44 AM
49

Build strong friendships and spend time with those people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:38 PM
25

College professor here. Have had the same thing with a few moms calling me to get extensions on their son's assignments. Somehow it never seems to be a daughter, always a son...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 10:43 AM
17

smol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:31 PM
41

Scratch cards 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:03 PM
5

You sound like a lovely sincere person. ❤️🫂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:05 AM
1

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:32 AM
14

🤣🤣☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:15 PM
52

My thoughts too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:58 PM
8

Why do men have that fetish? It is so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:42 PM
2

I have to say, to me this looks like a passive-aggressive psychological ambush on her part. If a bf put a camera in my face and asked me a q like that, I'd probably want to flip the script too....my heart is not a performing seal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:43 AM
18

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:36 PM
6

🤣🤣🤣💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:27 AM
24

They're hoarding nookie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:27 AM
29

😅😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:08 AM
2

MeTa-fRaMe....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:16 PM
1

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:20 AM
7

Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:09 AM
18

Time to bring back the chaperone!! A much maligned wise, takes-no-shit female protector of younger women. I'm thinking of making a post about this....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:07 AM
24

Ugh 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:00 AM
36

'No penis no cry'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:17 AM
22

😱😱😱🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:14 AM
21

Men can be pick-mes too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:13 AM
15

WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:59 PM
1

That makes sense. Thanks! 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:56 PM
1

Interesting. Can you say how their approach is different?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:22 AM
3

He could well be a narcissist. But he could be on the spectrum and God is his 'special interest', in which case he should be left alone to be who he is. In either case, though, the author is spending too much energy feeling superior to him. As such, she might be the one with narc traits, ironically. ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:26 AM
6

What to do if it's your own mother though? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:04 PM
9

💥🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:32 PM
35

Please don't blame yourself. It's not your fault, it's the dirtbag's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:26 PM
25

This is so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 02:53 PM
10

There is nothing wrong with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:34 AM
12

🍆🦎😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:21 AM
2

"...whose name I have forgotten..." 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:58 PM
3

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:34 PM
4

Nick. Fuck off Nick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:48 PM
3

This sub is so amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:11 AM
12

🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:16 AM
2

Great post. LEVEL UP, BROS!!! P.s. my fuckboi ex did this with a naive vulnerable woman, and she stalked him for ~3years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:00 AM
17

Ted Bundy 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:05 PM
61

Just blocked a guy for texting "good morning angel!" Every damn morning but not being available to actually video chat. Probably married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:53 PM
14

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:55 PM
5

Gasp! 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:33 PM
5

I can...never mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:57 AM
54

🐻🐻🐻💥 🍵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:43 PM
1

Athens c. 400 B.C.E
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:51 AM
1

"Master"....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:47 PM
5

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:57 PM
5

🦘🐨😭😭 P.S. mods, any chance of upgrading my flair? (Been major fan-woman here long time now...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:31 AM
7

In their defence I will say that ice-cream withdrawal symptoms can be pretty scary, if ice-cream is all you've ever known...but they need to man up. Supposedly such a strong sex, etc etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:06 AM
10

You can always start your own business. Many queens do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:29 PM
5

How about that! Sounds useful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:48 PM
3

Her dad tho 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:43 PM
36

No idea what it means but I think it's wonderful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:31 PM
27

I found it here from Wall St Journal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:47 AM
12

I was also wondering about the girls who want to explore their 'bad' sides - they will also miss out in this game. Don't tell me there are no 'girl robbers'...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:42 PM
3

Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:56 PM
12

👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:47 PM
23

Oof! Their loss not having a better relationship with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:46 PM
3

Oh FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:43 AM
3

So did she not roll herself in a carpet and get it delivered to Julius Caesar, to get his attention? I kind of liked that story....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:42 AM
18

Mailbox! 📬😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:24 AM
5

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:02 AM
78

Can confirm. I'm in my 50s and never saw this in my 20s or 30s.... I'm horrified this is going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:45 PM
31

Yes, but be aware that if you shift it can seriously trigger certain people in the workplace - both men and pickmes - and in a situation with weak and useless management/HR these clowns can go after you and do some serious damage if you're in a profession where it's not easy to switch jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:58 PM
10

Lovely post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:01 PM
21

"bangbutler" 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:37 PM
2

What's with the prison bars on the windows?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:23 PM
2

You couldn't make this stuff up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:11 PM
4

Wow. Thanks for sharing. Too bad about the poem 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:50 PM
6

Can confirm! - Gen X woman who has been bullied in workplace. Though the ringleader was a sociopathic pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:51 PM
2

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:46 PM
7

Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:22 AM
4

Looks like scrote might have grown up in Lake Wobegon (where all the children are "above average")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:30 PM
5

Whoo-hoo! You're a ⭐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:53 AM
3

Whoah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:50 PM
5

Not exactly, but I think you're hilarious! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:49 PM
9

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:30 PM
75

Wow, that's so horrible. You didn't deserve that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:23 PM
13

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:14 AM
25

I set a boundary with a male 'friend' who's actually an ex from 25 years ago. We went for coffee and he negged me and dumped his bad mood all over me. I felt quite shit afterwards, so when he invited me again I said no if you're going to do that again. He said " if that's how you see me, I can see how you'd NEVER want to hang out with me". I immediately wanted to comfort him, but suppressed the urge and didn't respond at all. I haven't heard from him since and that was a year ago. This is the sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:27 PM
12

Ha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:10 AM
49

1 bloated husband 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:57 PM
3

'bepenised" LMAO 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:50 PM
7

🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:18 AM
2

A kind of bozo bootcamp, like the army but without the killing of other humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:14 PM
5

He will get worse and worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:48 PM
26

Fuck off Sean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:34 AM
16

This is gold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:35 PM
1

Women on this sub are so observant 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:55 AM
7

I hate to say it, but I'm in academia and I'm not sure that's true..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:52 AM
3

Nooooooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:28 PM
3

Yes! You're right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:26 PM
15

🎖️🎖️🎖️🎖️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:52 PM
22

What a RUDE scrote!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:47 PM
2

Awkward!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:21 AM
8

😎✊ What's the worst that could happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:07 AM
6

Yes, please do Bettina Arndt! Australian here 🦘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:54 AM
6

What a patronizing fuckwit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:40 AM
19

Wow. That's so awful. The Australian military has just been rocked by scandal re. afghanistan civilians being murdered by "special" forces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:17 PM
20

🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:32 PM
12

"This woman...' 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:09 AM
31

What? She shot him? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:38 PM
3

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:05 PM
18

Can relate. Sad for you! 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:59 PM
3

I thought he was suddenly feeling guilty about his own porn use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:46 PM
11

🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:58 PM
3

Is he the boss of the company? Could you report him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:37 PM
1

TL;dr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:37 AM
7

What a shitty uncle...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:08 AM
3

Good for you! Hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:07 PM
14

This is so interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:18 AM
12

Oh nooo 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:17 AM
15

Oh for Heaven's sake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:48 PM
5

What an absolutely brilliant post! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:10 AM
25

She said he got another gf and acted like it was no big deal. She was like, nah bro. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:42 PM
13

"...and what's the punchline?" (said expectantly)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:25 PM
14

Wow - this analysis is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:05 PM
26

Love the 'halo'!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:34 PM
12

🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:38 AM
4

All true! Moral of the story - find a relationship that doesn't suck! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:23 AM
2

Wow. That's intense. ❤️ to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:11 PM
2

...of the USA 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:48 AM
43

The army. At least in the past. That says a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:48 PM
3

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:57 AM
4

Wow, what a powerful post. Thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:03 AM
3

I love this sub so much ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:46 AM
1

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:59 PM
5

Could the answer be to abort mission much earlier? I think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:26 AM
5

Yes yes yes yes yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:58 AM
1

🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:33 AM
4

Stay vigilant ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:28 AM
13

Narcissistic injury re. bean-sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:06 PM
6

University lecturer here. Ladies please don't do this, it's unethical and unfair to other students who do their own work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:36 AM
2

Whooooah! We have another park dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:39 PM
12

Just for the record, I'm 53, have had loads of relationships and have never once sucked a dick. At this point I feel like it'd be a shame to ruin the record. I asked my last bf if he thought I 'should' be going it and he said sure if you want to, but honestly he had no complaints
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:38 PM
4

Scroternity! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:36 PM
7

What I got from that book (which I love) is that putting men in their place is hilarious and empowering, and that even HVM need it from time to time as they grow up in a world awash with pickmeishas. Also if you do it to a HVM it may very well turn him on and keep the spark alive in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:29 PM
2

Bye Kevin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:18 PM
3

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:03 PM
14

Well put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:40 AM
3

Bless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:21 PM
6

Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:19 PM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:16 PM
7

I searched a so-called feminist porn site once out of interest. Found one with a German couple doing the dishes together (lol) and then they get frisky in the kitchen. It was ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:14 PM
9

Whoo-hoo!! ✨🍸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:02 PM
1

Oh my Lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:34 PM
10

Hmmm...he sounds not kind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:09 PM
4

Bide time. Stay alert. Best of luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:40 PM
3

When she said 'nvm' she meant negative value male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:35 PM
12

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:16 AM
39

I went to Frida Kahlo's house and it was AMAZING, especially seeing her artist's illustrated journal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:10 AM
3

This is perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:56 AM
8

Ha ha ha - good call
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:55 AM
23

Lysistrata - ancient Greek play - sex strike to stop a stupid-ass war
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:53 AM
5

Good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:05 PM
2

Anyone else think this food prep looks obsessive to the point of being slightly crazed? 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:53 AM
6

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:41 PM
23

I'm 53, am in the process of paying off 3 properties - one home, two investments, and it's such a good feeling! Real self-esteem that I have done this. I have a spreadsheet where I keep track of how close I am to not needing to work any more. I could probably retire now if I were willing to move to the country, but I want to live in the city so for now I'm still working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:14 PM
4

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:58 PM
3

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:57 PM
1

Too true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:51 PM
30

Sounds like a broken person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:35 AM
2

I want to see him calling his elderly grandma, who is lonely, to cheer her up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:32 AM
2

👍👍👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:25 AM
14

Maybe we should make our voices heard on those subs one day...though it would take a strong stomach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:08 AM
14

Generation X can confirm, I can't believe this shit is serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:03 AM
2

Thanks for sharing what you've seen on this. I suspect much more is going to come out via Ms. Maxwell's trial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:59 AM
16

Wait til you hit your 50s 😱😱 It's a genuine horror show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:49 PM
3

OMG, really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:43 PM
28

I could make a rude joke about sexual preference here...but I will keep it on a leash! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:40 PM
4

Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:33 PM
2

I recommend the book "he's scared/ she's scared", on commitment issues, for this post.
/r/askFDS26/08/20 09:25 AM
1

Ooooh, very nice! I'll tell my friend 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:46 AM
2

Step 9, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:29 PM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:26 PM
3

🙄 of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:04 PM
36

This doesn't happen so much in your 50s. I could probably work out something if I gave the issue more time, but I m too busy kicking arse in my career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:03 PM
5

Ugh, so sorry to hear this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:00 PM
3

How nice to know that some men long for these gestures too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:57 PM
3

What are your top recommendations for bougie snacks? Asking for a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:55 PM
4

Off to delete 2 more Tinder "matches"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:28 AM
2

What the hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:23 AM
3

Lol, great story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:20 AM
3

Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:57 AM
4

...or live together more than 3 years (in some countries)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:50 AM
2

You should get a prenup whether or not you have a brother who needs financial help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:44 AM
36

Ladies, also be aware of countries where living together for ~3y becomes equivalent to marriage re. him getting half of your assets on breakup. The problem is very real in Australia and NZ. There are real cases of men entering into relationships with mature women solely for that reason, then 2.5 years in, starting to find fault with the woman, then making off like a bandit with half of her house. I'm not kidding, my mortgage broker personally met a couple of these women. Another reason why livin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:41 AM
3

Great to see both of you spending your own money on things you absolutely love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:34 AM
3

You'll get there! I own my own place and it's the best feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:39 AM
4

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:31 AM
5

Ew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:29 AM
1

Too many of those and you'll start to turn yellow, which is a sign of becoming jaundiced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:23 AM
5

A bit depressed now 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:50 PM
6

"Have a think about it, Steve"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:21 PM
1

😅😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:20 PM
116

Activate "fun mode" on the girl unit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:10 PM
24

This is a form of sexual harrassment, legally speaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:07 PM
1

😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:55 AM
7

As a female philosopher I feel so sad for my profession as I can't say that any of this is a lie. Imagine being surrounded by this all the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:13 PM
9

Username checks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:51 PM
2

Very astute comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:10 AM
24

And the old favorite, "I'm not sure I'm ready for a relationship due to all the crazy shit that happened with my ex... (change my mind)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:00 AM
28

Ah, philosophy...this is not untypical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:56 AM
7

For the love of God, don't come to Melbourne!! -Melbourne girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:50 PM
3

Yes! 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:34 PM
3

Nah bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:15 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:11 PM
1

🤣😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:57 AM
6

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:47 AM
2

Wow. I'd say he deserves to be kicked out by you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:08 AM
5

Love your thoughtful approach to dating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:48 AM
4

"cRyPtOprOpheT"...🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:21 AM
8

Well played
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:19 AM
1

No worries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:30 PM
4

Why would she not start to eat the sandwich? I would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:22 PM
1

These links are fascinating...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:24 AM
10

You're not responsible for him. Live your own life, honey! He is choosing to stay in that situation, for his own reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:21 AM
10

Hahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:20 PM
18

Well that sounds like a fun Sunday! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:17 PM
7

🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:40 AM
7

Ugh, rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:37 AM
15

Keep those standards high, sis 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:36 AM
1

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:24 AM
12

He'll get his - in God's time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:46 AM
7

Definitive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:45 AM
13

I think that sadness is a disallowed emotion for many men, so they displace it into anger in their own lives, and they only understand or 'see' anger in others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:44 AM
3

Keep swiping...😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:20 AM
22

Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:25 PM
7

I've been doing Yoga with Adriene almost every day! Also hunting for fabulous dresses sold used on eBay. I've found so many wonderful bargains that I now have an unreasonable number of dresses. But I enjoy them, and it's my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:33 PM
4

Yeah, fuck off Brian!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:27 PM
3

But they have a lot of baaad role models. Often their own fathers 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:37 AM
1

NTA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:01 AM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:44 PM
6

False dichotomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:36 PM
3

Love it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:03 PM
9

"biggest plot twist" = "most depraved cheating"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:48 PM
10

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:33 PM
2

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:46 PM
1

Sadly, I cannot disagree with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:44 PM
112

I think this is what happens in your mid-50s if you do too many drugs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:28 AM
2

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:22 AM
1

👍 Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:46 AM
2

Hahahahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:24 PM
1

😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:12 AM
1

WHY are men so boring????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:10 AM
24

Ha ha ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:55 AM
7

...and then acting out my issues all over her, and then when she objects, dumping her and calling her crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:12 AM
8

Whitebread men...🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:11 PM
2

You'd be amazed. I'll take some notes on the next few.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:51 AM
1

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:05 PM
11

I've seen dozens of these in the last few days on Tinder 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:03 PM
1

Nah mate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:46 PM
9

Early 20s relationships are such a shitshow. Glad mine are far behind me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:46 PM
6

Oof!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:48 PM
3

Thanks for all the incisive comments, ladies, you're the best! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:43 PM
5

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:27 PM
2

Ugh 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:12 PM
13

Negative value man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:20 PM
16

So naive! At 29...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:33 PM
13

🤣🤣🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:29 PM
4

Hooray! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:18 PM
3

Sound analysis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:08 AM
2

Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:02 AM
2

Probably!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:57 AM
4

Just got on Tinder again. I'm in my early 50s, and let me tell you, it is a horror show!! 😱😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:51 AM
2

🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:50 AM
1

The secret shallot-shake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:48 AM
6

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:45 AM
1

What a useful concept. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:40 AM
5

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/news/world/australasia/fortnite-domestic-assault-pregnant-parter-live-stream-twitch-video-luke-munday-sydney-a8992916.html%3famp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:38 AM
6

This issue really came to a head recently with the video which surfaced of the guy hitting his partner because she asked him one too many times to help with the baby (like he'd promised), and he was in the middle of a big campaign or whatever. He was livestreaming his playing, so he livestreamed his assault! It's such a sad scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:37 AM
6

Inspiring hobby list! 🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:33 AM
3

Solid research, please post to TRP! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:56 PM
6

🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:42 PM
12

girls....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:41 PM
19

😅🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:41 PM
3

Divorce was a big no-no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:23 PM
5

😭 the world we live in now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:12 PM
2

WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:05 PM
3

Hmmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:55 PM
7

You have your whole life ahead of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:05 PM
10

The worst part of this is actually that final sentence. Pickmes are snakes towards other women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:12 AM
50

Never go to counseling or mediation with a bully. It never works because the process only succeeds if "both parties agree", so you will be held hostage...been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:00 AM
10

This is so weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:18 PM
12

Defensiveness about being rejected all the time? Defiant disorder...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:11 PM
39

You're inspiring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:25 AM
2

Yes! Good points!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:48 AM
7

Hobbies!!!! FTW. also cats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:33 AM
14

There's a really good video about this on YouTube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:41 AM
40

I couldn't stand Juno and had to turn it off. Seemed like toxic 'knowing' cynicism to me....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:40 AM
1

"Truth Exposer!!!" Is this a child's comic book?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 12:56 AM
3

It's just so they can get it on camera! Done "the old fashioned way" it's invisible so the voyeur gets no satisfaction from it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:08 PM
17

Say it with a NZ accent 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:21 PM
1

Tl;dr -please for the love of God just block ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:30 AM
32

Oh my LORD 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:28 AM
56

Classic projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:25 AM
5

Yes I guess my comment was directed as much against the OP. Have had loads of therapy 🙄 and it has definitely helped👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:36 AM
14

This is perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:24 AM
99

This behaviour is very hard on kids. I have been the child exposed to this kind of self-righteousness towards someone who is my own parent and that cannot be changed. It is not for that Mom to declare whether her kids do or do not love their own father, sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:18 AM
3

"erryday"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:02 AM
3

"Christian" 😂🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:18 AM
5

Hang in there, every day it gets a little easier...one day you will wake up and realise you are a boss woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:04 PM
10

Very perceptive! Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:22 AM
11

😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:14 AM
6

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:12 AM
2

I cackled, but I've lived alone for the past 3 years...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:04 AM
2

Ha ha ha, all perfectly expressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:54 AM
3

Ugh. Sorry he did that to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:51 PM
24

Or just because of basic sexism...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:52 PM
8

What is that guy's username? @primenob? Checks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:46 PM
17

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:44 PM
16

Well played
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:44 AM
4

AAAAAAAAGH, that's it I've now officially read too many of these posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:42 AM
1

Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:59 AM
15

What a perfect commentary - both compassionate and hilarious...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:58 AM
3

Good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:53 AM
5

Sigh! Such trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:29 AM
1

Username checks out...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:19 AM
8

This is just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:17 AM
7

You seem free of a lot of our society's romantic myths and to be making your own choices, and that is very cool...maybe just send a vision out to the universe of what you would want in an ideal world and see what happens...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:16 AM
16

I seriously doubt it! Remember, women are the prize. You don't have to put up with stupid BS....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:10 AM
21

Glad you got out! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:08 AM
10

Why is he wearing a dressing gown?? Does he never leave the house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:04 AM
1

The picture!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:48 PM
3

Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:45 PM
2

😂🤣😂🤣 God I love this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:36 PM
2

UGH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:34 PM
12

Reading between the lines here, it seems that she may have been letting you down gently - she's really not into you. If she's in another country, it's not going to work dating her anyway. Advise to start shifting your energy towards women who are available, it will be less frustrating and painful for you. Good luck!
/r/askFDS10/06/20 06:37 AM
15

Dead at 25 😅🤣😅🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:16 AM
1

Look at that tiny pee pee! 🤣🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:03 PM
12

Still getting over the potato famine...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:08 PM
8

Oh noooooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:02 PM
26

Poor guy! I sympathize...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:59 PM
17

Hipsters? Metrosexuals?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:36 PM
1

Rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:23 AM
6

Yes but maybe you can keep them chasing you forever. That is Sheri Argov's theory...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:14 AM
6

Willing to bet that proposal would never have happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:09 AM
6

This is so inspiring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:02 AM
5

I LOVE this! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:01 AM
4

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:01 PM
13

A definite beta! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:59 PM
4

This should have been made grounds for sacking yesterday. Maybe one day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:53 PM
1

😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:43 PM
3

These things happen in many families, sadly, and in my view the right HVW will admire that you confronted the problem and took measures to build your own life free from the toxicity. So many men are still mired in that sort of crap and are undateable because of it. I had an extremely painful relationship with a man in my 20s that was this way. Take care
/r/askFDS05/06/20 09:46 AM
5

Ew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:00 PM
2

Hooray for you! 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:20 PM
8

This is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:12 PM
12

"Draw him a picture"?? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:06 PM
6

Or drop a red sock in with his white shirts and do a hot wash. "Oh, whoops, sorry!" Source: Sheri Tepper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:22 AM
2

WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:20 PM
3

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:19 PM
20

Recommend "Why Men Love Bitches'" as well. She addresses this issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:21 AM
1

Philosophy is male-dominated, sadly...
/r/askFDS02/06/20 12:09 AM
4

Yes
/r/askFDS01/06/20 03:35 PM
2

😂🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:26 AM
1

Look to the patterns in your family of origin. There will be answers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:19 AM
1

Not necessarily. Look into it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:08 AM
3

FDS women are so smart! I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:07 AM
2

Quite a high risk of divorce if you marry at 12 yo shown on that chart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:49 AM
2

Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:47 AM
9

Ouch! Also airmiles - gold elite yada yada...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:23 AM
17

OMG this is terrifying 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:30 AM
19

This is great to hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:19 AM
2

YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:34 AM
4

That is so interesting, thanks!. I always assumed he would be an immature jackass because of Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure. But there is such a thing as acting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 10:23 PM
2

Unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 10:19 PM
12

Why is Keanu our FDS HVM archetype? Enquiring minds want to know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:31 PM
11

It tells me why you're divorced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:23 AM
11

Just don't water it by pissing all over it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:14 AM
3

Academic here. 24 y.o. gf was probably his student. He felt he should be "honest" about his attraction to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:10 AM
18

Hope he got creamed in the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:25 PM
3

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.theonion.com/guy-in-philosophy-class-needs-to-shut-the-fuck-up-1819568055/amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:20 PM
5

Whoo-hoo! Go you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:41 PM
3

Yes I think this is s business proposition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:21 AM
28

Callous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:13 AM
3

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:12 AM
32

😨 can't say this is incorrect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:23 PM
58

We do sometimes talk about how unmarriageable men in the West are, but that's because they are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:22 PM
4

WTH is this pic, lol! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:20 PM
5

Well put!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:07 PM
7

You have to vet. Read handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:04 PM
13

No need to feel sorry for him, this is adult life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:20 AM
4

That video is disturbing. I couldn't watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:55 PM
5

Strong moves! 🏅🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:42 PM
5

This is seriously passive-aggressive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:29 PM
5

He's such a Kevin that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:16 PM
22

That last scrote is a real bottom-feeder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:02 PM
1

Hmmmmm.....🤔
/r/askFDS22/05/20 11:00 AM
4

I want to know what grandma might have heard in husband's voice or conversation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:49 PM
5

The time was not wasted if it forged a new you 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:48 PM
5

It's not too late!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:58 PM
2

Sorry for your lost pregnancy, that must have been hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:29 PM
3

Inspiring story 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:42 AM
299

"Community dick" 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:19 AM
25

Please don't feel bad - many sketchy things happen on Brunswick St, amongst which your experience is hardly the worst. Signed, fellow Melbourne girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:31 AM
6

Not sounding great to me, I have to tell you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:17 AM
5

A forever home for your ❤️. I love that, that's beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:10 AM
4

Hahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:01 PM
14

Yes but we women also need to step up and take responsibility for leaving if there is no marriage anywhere on the horizon... it's our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:18 PM
22

Yikes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:28 PM
11

Good for you! You've got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:14 PM
1

Yes that's it! A lot to be learned from that piece I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:46 AM
6

Sound advice, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:34 AM
2

Awful human beings!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:11 AM
33

Yeah! It's the almost but not quite men that are the real challenge. Sometimes they have been really nice to you at times...it feels so cruel to cut them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:59 AM
2

Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:19 AM
1

We don't know what people on the internet are thinking. In terms of what ppl say here, the tough love comments can be painful to receive, I agree, but I think they're terribly important. As I understand it, it's part of the deal in participating in FDS that you're ready and willing to grow up enough to receive such feedback and put it to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:17 AM
5

Would she benefit? Would she listen? It's not clear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:35 AM
5

I'm so sorry. You didn't deserve such mean treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:30 AM
5

My friend leveled up through FDS and sold me this T- shirt for a bunch of money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:29 AM
11

JESUS!! Can't believe this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:27 AM
27

"the dating pool is overflowing with garbage"! It's true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:23 AM
3

Odd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:21 AM
11

GOOD BYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:29 PM
9

Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 09:51 PM
1

He's just bored. Nothing more...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:39 AM
6

Read "Why Men love Bitches'". Shows you how much dating is not really about looks, even for women. It is also soo funny, it can break through those feelings of depression and hopelessness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:38 AM
3

Block! 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:42 PM
5

They live in a privileged bubble with fake values and have fewer ways to really make something of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:41 PM
29

Actually, I like that term a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:57 PM
3

Is this a troll?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:08 PM
7

This is all really impressive 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:01 PM
4

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:46 PM
22

She has such a strong face. I think she'll be ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:41 PM
2

And the motorbike pics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:02 PM
1

Ouch - that's my starsign!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:45 PM
13

This is so scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:43 PM
5

Ugh! So rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:22 AM
3

Ugh! I'm so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:16 AM
12

Unless he's over 25 and still a virgin, in which case you can train him up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:14 AM
5

I'm afraid it was just him. 😨 A lot of things were going on in my life at the time, but I suspect that overall the age + financial earnings imbalance inadvertently created something of a mother - child dynamic. We both struggled against it, but couldn't shake it in the end. I would encourage other FDSers to experiment with this kind of relationship, though, as it's very uncharted waters societally right now..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:02 AM
6

Yes there was that experiment where someone hacked Tinder and kept hooking up 2 men, making each believe they were talking to a woman. They were crying tears of joy at finally finding someone who wanted to do the things they did...When they found out the truth, it was not pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:23 PM
4

Try it and see how you go! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:15 PM
2

You should get him flowers?! 🙄😅 Guy sounds deranged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:12 PM
5

Do bears shit in the woods?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:04 PM
3

I was once told I was "formidable" by a guy and I really liked it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:01 PM
3

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:58 PM
21

I've always been professionally ambitious. In my 40s I found a guy who was willing to support my career and keep house. He was 18 years younger than me. He cooked, gardened, chopped wood and made all our own sauces. Lovely guy in many ways, but I ended up not wanting to have sex with him any more, and I couldn't shake it...interesting times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:30 AM
23

Ok so this is actually an NVM as per earlier post on FDS terminological precision
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:25 AM
1

Give r/raisedbynarcissists a try?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:22 AM
2

Stand strong! Things will get better for you because of your evident responsibility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:20 AM
8

Go you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:12 AM
16

I've done it and it never got me into a good relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:11 AM
8

Enquiring minds - don't want to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:44 AM
4

Declan 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:39 AM
12

🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:43 PM
6

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:58 PM
3

Yawn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:45 PM
5

Once went on an 8h bus trip where the driver wouldn't get off the intercom. He joked about taking his wife out for their anniversary to a "Scottish restaurant" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:39 PM
1

Wow. It's scary out there 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:01 AM
2

Wait til they reach their 50s! 🙄😨 Not pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:59 PM
3

"keep hooking up and see what sticks..." 😨😰 Such a perfect description! So sad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:57 PM
4

Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:57 PM
3

I have a personal theory about how to fix this. Get your man to slow doooown - around 1/20 of what society thinks is normal. Start by hardly moving at all. Really feel each other. It's amazing. My theory is that's what women need, especially in the beginning, and no-one knows and it's one of the world's biggest tragedies. I happened to sleep with a lot of virgins early on and I always trained them up that this is how sex works and since then I never had any problems getting off. Of course, the g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:49 PM
2

WTH is this nonsense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:38 PM
0

Tl;dr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:50 PM
7

Australian men have their own brand of unbelievably crude depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:43 PM
2

That's the one! The ending is exactly as described. This post cracked me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:25 PM
5

Jesus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:23 PM
9

And the movie stars Reese Witherspoon!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:56 PM
16

🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:23 AM
2

Funny how they nailed it way back in the 80s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:32 AM
1

Yeah great question. He was so genuinely into her it made a generation of women's hearts sing. But at the end of the film he had become a hanger-on to her career and opportunities. We have to conclude on FDS principles that it won't last, very sadly. Also a friend's millennial daughter rightly commented of the iconic playing-tape-deck-under-Diane's-window scene, which I used to swoon over: "If a girl breaks up with you, you really need to accept it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:31 AM
2

She's got some keen self-awareness, at least. Impressive for 17
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:23 AM
22

Unapologetically!! Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:48 PM
8

Not my Mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:23 AM
1

Whooooo!!! So excited for you. A whole new world awaits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:18 AM
3

Time to reread "Why Men Love Bitches'" by original Queen Sherry Argov
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:04 AM
7

Good practice in vetting ruthlessly. And for knowing there are thousands of fish in the sea, whereas at least for me real-life dating opportunities only arise rarely these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:35 AM
3

Yikes! Life in the big city!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:25 AM
40

Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:40 AM
2

This is a joke, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:59 AM
4

Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:03 PM
2

No no no no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:15 PM
5

I'm v surprised there were 70 000 signups for "Dinky one" 😵🤢. If there were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:13 PM
7

A moment of silence for all those ladies...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:56 PM
13

That first comment though. V supportive. And it's by a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:46 PM
5

"Self-darwin" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:42 PM
5

X 2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:51 AM
6

Sheila Jeffreys has a good book on the sexual revolution. It's called 'Anticlimax' 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:27 AM
2

Only an idiot! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:50 AM
10

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:11 AM
4

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:59 AM
1

Oh my GOD! That's scary (the first pic)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:52 AM
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