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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESdeadinsidelol69/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:21 PM
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Shoutout to the scrotes who think we got banned. Go take a shower you fucking losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/23 01:47 AM
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So he's unemployed, has no friends, eats fast food and is controlling and manipulative. What a catch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:34 PM
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My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. He still always pays the tab. Only cheap men complain about the bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:50 PM
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I'll never forget him harassing people in an arcade and licking the windows of the machines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 12:30 PM
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Men act as if women are willing to put up with them whining about their ex and tiny dick insecurities for 2 hours just for a 30 dollar entree. Yeah, absolutely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:20 PM
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Can't wait for a return to more thoughtful and engaging discussions on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:48 PM
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Let's translate this: "I'm financially abusive towards my wife, she attempted to make her own money in hopes I wouldn't be such a controlling asshole about it. I decided to punish her for trying to get some independence from me. Why is she mad?" My stepfather was like this. He made over 100k a year and I had once saved about 500 bucks, he found out and flew into an absolute rage that I didn't give it all to him instantly. He attempted to charge me 600/month in rent for a bedroom that was barely …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:26 PM
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I would literally rather beg on the streets as a homeless drug addict than whatever the fuck she's doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:04 PM
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Men feel so entitled to women's bodies that they're infuriated by the thought of having to put any effort towards accessing them. The worst of them will hire an escort then beat her up and take his money back. They do not see us as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:22 PM
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When I was dating I would immediately unmatch when a guy said "hang out" Just, ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:15 PM
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Lmfao even 6 months into my relationship by bf still picks out exactly where we're going and knows all the best places to eat. All our weekends are packed full of activities we do and some dudes can't even be bothered to open Google maps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:10 PM
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I feel like instead of men not being over their ex, they've created a better version of the relationship with ex in their heads that they fantasize about, and then compare that fantasy to their current relationship. They're not pining for the ex, they're pining for the fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:11 PM
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If he's willing to say that to you on a first date I wonder what the hell he said to his ex wife. He clearly wasn't the one who filed for divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:31 PM
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He gave you a very non answer to that question, if he was interested he would have said he wanted a relationship. He was avoiding having to say he only wanted to keep you as an option while he looked for "someone better". Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:19 PM
14

Got exactly what he deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:43 AM
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It was only a matter of time until scrotes started to use our wording to manipulate women, its a tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:17 AM
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Self absorption and the inability to see women as fellow human beings is a direct road to not having sex with a woman, but rather masturbating inside her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:55 AM
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He wants to keep her around just in case his plan falls through and he can go running back to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:35 PM
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Can't wait for men to pay 10 bucks just to have a tantrum about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:20 PM
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My boyfriend is a trucker. Monday through Friday he's on the road, works great for us because I don't like being around people constantly. He tells me which town he's in, buys me gifts from the road, and we have a phone call when I'm off my job. During the weekends when he's home, he's doing chores, helping his parents, helping friends, doing projects, cleaning, or just finding ways to go have fun. When he's gone I work and enjoy my time, he respects that. When he's back, he always brings me cof…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:31 PM
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I used to bend over backwards and work myself to the bone to "reciprocate" to a LVM, buying him lavish gifts, being a mommy mcbangmaid and even taking him on vacations. What did I get in return? Emotional abuse and cheating. Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:33 PM
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Men have spent literally the entire course of human history dominating the conversation. Their fragile egos can't handle being ignored. I've had men comment under me on other subs to ridicule me for being an FDS user because they can't do so here. It's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 07:41 PM
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Men have spent literally the entire course of human history dominating the conversation. Their fragile egos can't handle being ignored. I've had men comment under me on other subs to ridicule me for being an FDS user because they can't do so here. It's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 07:41 PM
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Hes probably just intentionally screwing up and not listening to her so he can push her boundaries and get what he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:14 PM
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I'm guessing it has to do with them switching their malignant behavior off while in public or while those they wish to deceive are in their presence, because they know their usual behavior behind closed doors is looked down upon in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:10 PM
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"I beat my dick so hard it deformed" disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:08 PM
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"Thank God I'm married" I feel bad for his wife if he's spending his spare time telling other women on the internet what to do with their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:17 PM
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They believe it because it's their worst fear, they're terrified they won't have a mommy mcbangmaid when they're old, and they'll be left to live in their nests. And because in their minds, women only exist to serve them, they can't imagine us being happy without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:39 PM
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Us so called "misandrists" would rather stay single, work on ourselves, and be happy than ever put up with your whiny, victim complex, abusive personalities, fellas. You only call us femcels as a cope, because let's face it, you're just mad we won't have sex with YOU. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:46 PM
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Happened to me, teacher put my quiet ass next to 2 football players who were really disruptive. Turned out I liked a certain video game as much as they did, made some new friends with those guys and the seating arrangement only lasted 2 weeks because of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:44 PM
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Yeah, let's not normalize breadcrumbing. Fuck all of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:01 PM
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Men will not wash their asses, leave dirty dishes in the sink, sniff his balls, ignore the kids and play call of duty all day and wonder why their wives don't want to have sex. You know what turns me the fuck on? When my boyfriend gets up before me and gets my favorite coffee to give to me when I wake up, then he makes the bed while I wake up. Then he brings me a warm towel from the dryer after I get out of the shower, and we plan a fun day together. Thats what gets that man laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:54 PM
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They can't relate to women, tons of men see women as merely objects so a female lead makes no sense to them, they can't imagine relating to something they view as an object. They view women as less intelligent and emotional so they don't take female creators seriously at all, chalking them up to only writing romance. Men are scared of women being creative and expressing themselves because it is a threat to their egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:56 PM
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"I already gave her 2 orgasms!1!" This loser's been having sex with her for months and he's only given her 2 orgasms? Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:30 PM
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Well the trick is you just stop trying to understand men, and then life gets better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:14 PM
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Your boyfriend is allowing his family to walk all over you and he isn't standing up to them. They've normalized misogyny to him and clearly they will never respect you, why are you with him? This also smells of a mormon family, if that's the case, run far and run fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:24 PM
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They want their cake and eat it too. Had a guy tell me "Oh I don't want a girlfriend, but I want us to be exclusive." So I dumped him on the spot and never spoke to him again. It's always the best option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:17 PM
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Wasn't there a recent reddit thread asking if men were willing to date a promiscuous woman and like 90% of them said no? Its a scam, men want to have as much sex as they possibly can with as many women as they can and see nothing wrong with it, but they'll never respect a woman who does the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:18 PM
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"Looking for a gym partner" = I want to subject you to the male gaze and I have unrealistic body standards for women "Canyon drives" = I want to have sex in the back of my car with you "In a healthy open marriage with my wife" = I'm cheating on my wife "Ask me anything" = I am the most boring person you will ever meet and I can't carry a conversation to save my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:12 PM
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"Busy with work" is always a lie. You're not so busy at your cubicle that you can't respond to a text, Brad. I work with heavy machinery all day and still manage to respond to texts, even my dad who works 100+ hours a week will still text me back, my boyfriend who is a truck driver can still call me regularly. There is no such thing as being too busy. When he can't take 5 minutes out of his day to respond, forget his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:20 PM
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My boyfriend is 100% deaf from a birth defect, if he can't hear me with his implants, he will let me know. If he mishears a word, he asks if it was the correct word or repeats it back to me for clarification. Men feigning their inability to hear you is utterly inexcusable. If a man who is fully deaf can do it, any man can do it, they're just choosing not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:11 AM
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I actually really enjoy metal concerts and mosh pits, just took my boyfriend to a metal concert 2 weeks ago. I'm one for jumping in the pit and having fun, but once the pit got too dangerous from some asshole breaking the rules, my boyfriend came out of nowhere and literally picked me up, pushed guys out of the way, and got me out before I got hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:00 PM
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When I made the mistake of using the dumpster fire of OLD there was a guy who was really cute in his pictures, was fit, had nice hair, all the goods. When he shows up to the restaurant this motherfucker is at least 5 years older than when the pics were taken, he's doubled his weight, and his hairline is receding. He was also clearly lying about his age, he claimed to be 23 but it was more like 27. I got very lucky and just so happened to see my friend and her mom at the same restaurant, so I dit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:13 PM
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In my opinion, I'd only draw once he rammed the car and became an active threat. I wouldn't ever point it at him unless he remained a threat or escalated his aggression. If he charged at me, then I'd drop his ass. Don't ever shoot someone unless you fear for your own life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:37 PM
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New sedans are very bendable these days. Automakers are cheap as shit, brand new cars can get totaled with that kind of damage because of material used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:09 PM
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I ignore men in public. I don't listen, I don't respond, nothing. Just in case some douche doesn't get the message, I do carry a weapon in my truck at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:07 PM
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Unacceptable, huge red flag for being pornsick. Block and delete immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:14 PM
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When I was dating I always had a friend or family member call me with a "emergency" so I could leave if I needed to. Worked great for so many shitty dates, I was once on a date with a guy who was 200+ pounds heavier than his pictures and was telling me all about his sexual history in GREAT detail when my sister called me with the fake emergency that my ferret got hurt. I jumped on it, ran out of the restaurant, and left him sitting there while I blocked him on the way out of the parking lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 09:48 PM
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My sister and her boyfriend don't live together. He occasionally stays over and still helps tremendously. Other than that, I'm actually not very sure, and it's an excellent question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:31 PM
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Very common for men to almost instantly turn abusive once the woman is tied to him via marriage or children. She can't leave easily, especially when she doesn't work, and he can show his true colors. My roommate, who is also my sister, got a puppy about 2 months ago and is very close to a real baby. He needs constant attention, love, care, and training. My sister's boyfriend is a HVM, he goes out of his way to help with the dog, gets up in the middle of the night to take him out, and when he get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:28 PM
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My boyfriend bought pads to put in his bathroom for me. Didn't even have to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:27 PM
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Willfully unemployed, promises to abuse you, and even flat out tells you how he will treat you. More red flags than Stalin's funeral with this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:24 PM
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Love this! Over the weekend, my boyfriend took me to a concert of one of my favorite bands. Yesterday, he cooked me breakfast, washed my truck for me, gave me a back massage, and made reservations for a winter trip down south together while I curled up on the couch and got to relax for the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:17 PM
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Die mad lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:11 PM
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Quite a large factor into why I choose not to have children is because men are notorious for never carrying their weight with kids and will leave the second things either get tough or she asks for anything of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:08 PM
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I dated a passive men for 2 months. He never had a strong opinion on anything, offered to help me move then bailed last minute so he wouldn't actually have to do it, never wanted to do anything fun, he was just floating in space expecting everything to just be handed to him. I dumped him when he refused to commit. What a sad, boring existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:31 PM
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I've tried finding her to no avail. I do however know how to reach his latest victim, they're still together as far as I'm aware and she would likely think all of his stories about how I'm the "crazy" ex are true if I did contact her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:28 PM
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Its a better use of time to dump his ass, toss all of his shit out onto the curb because we all know he ain't paying the bills, and do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:40 PM
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No. My abusive ex would regularly force me to give him them, and it was very traumatizing. I still can't brush my tongue without freaking out thinking he was forcing me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:43 PM
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This is definitely now my favorite episode. I loved the discussion, tearing apart the article in such a fantastic way, and dispelling myths about FDS. My only criticism is it really could have used a trigger warning for the graphic description of sexual abuse. Even when being used for context, it would be very much appreciated in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:09 PM
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Mayer is a creepy ass scrote who victimized Taylor Swift when she was 19 and he was 32. He's disgusting and one of the many, many scrotes I have blocked on Spotify.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:20 PM
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Yup, just because there was a controversial episode doesn't mean let's all just throw the baby out with the bathwater. FDS shouldn't be a singular hiveminded cult and we should strive for inclusion and individual preferences when it comes to strategy, we shouldn't have to adopt every single point and take it as gospel. This subreddit is about female empowerment, not about turning on each other when we disagree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:13 PM
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Can't wear a ring, I'm a professional woodworker. I'd love to use that kind of money towards my project car or a nice vacation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:30 PM
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So many men are obsessed with playing on their phones, gaming all day, and frying their brains with porn. It's like they never grew up past age 16.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:15 PM
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Space Force > Coast Guard > National Guard > Army > Air Force > Navy > Crayon Eaters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:27 PM
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Had an ex from 3 years ago comment on an Instagram post I made, the post was my boyfriend and I at an event. He wanted to know how much tickets cost to the event. I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:19 PM
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-Lived with his parents at 24 -worked a dead end job -would waste his entire paycheck on magic the gathering cards, literally 200 dollars a week -alcoholic -smoked -never lifted a finger to do chores -emotionally abusive - only worked part time while I worked full time, expected me to do all the shopping, cleaning, and laundry for him -cheated on me with 2 different women I once got into a car accident on my way to work one morning, my truck was being towed so I called him on his DAY OFF to come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:46 PM
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Breaking news: man who gets off on being racist gets fired for being racist. More at 10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:03 PM
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This. My step sister makes unfortunate choices in friends, and one of her male friends that was over at the shared house asked me if I could "help" him work on his car. (I'm a self taught mechanic) I knew this scrote well enough to know he wanted me to fix his car for him and use all of my very expensive tools for free. I told him to get bent and made him do it by himself, all I gave him was a spot in the driveway to make my sister happy and an hour. Magically, he fixed it himself and got his ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:35 PM
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I hope she gets half of that in the divorce and gets to live a happy life with her kids and 3 million dollars to take care of them. God knows he sure won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:29 PM
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Make a safety plan and ask local law enforcement or a domestic violence shelter about the requirements for a protective order. Go somewhere that he can't find you. Make sure your friends and family are aware of his actions and seek their support for how to get away from him safely. Call an abuse hotline. Stay safe!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:27 PM
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Need to do this with my boyfriend. He's shown plenty of green flags and has HV traits, I'm optimistic about the conversation since he already goes out of his way to respect my boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:24 PM
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I feel so bad for the women on that sub, but it also serves as a great reminder of why we vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:37 PM
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Dear reddit, My shitty womanizing boyfriend has told me he's going to pump and dump me. How do I rationalize this and can you help me gaslight myself into believing I'll actually stay his girlfriend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:20 PM
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My advice is to immediately block them. They've already shown how much effort they're willing to put in and if it isn't enough for you then it'll never work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:40 PM
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I love how his fragile little ego shatters the moment he isn't validated and flies straight into misogyny. Those women are right to run from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:30 PM
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Thank you, I'm glad for you as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:41 PM
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I've had something similar happen recently. Met a guy who actually cares to plan dates, times, and has even bought gas for me when I have to go out of my way to meet him. For our fourth date he remembered I love sushi so surprised me with a sushi date to a pretty nice restaurant. I mentioned I'm doing carpentry on my dad's house, without even blinking he offered to help and asked what time he should be there to lend a hand on his day off, and that he would bring his truck to go pick up lumber fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:32 PM
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Wow, he really tried to raise as many red flags as he could in less than 5 messages. He's already negging, wanting free labor, telling on himself that he's a garbage person, and likely expecting sex as well. It's like they're trying to get blocked or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:21 PM
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"I'm very sensitive and instead of focusing on the actual problem, we need to focus on how I feel, because that's more important." Lmao, how ironic. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:03 AM
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I started putting what really mattered first, my family, my career, my hobbies. Dating became dead last, and any man that showed interest had to compete with all of the priorities that I place higher than giving him attention just for me to even care enough to remember his name. It's proven to be extremely effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:50 AM
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We're literally called "Free Dinner Strategy" by them, as if we need a man to pay for our meals. You're right, LVM will jump at the chance to take advantage of domestic labor, sexual satisfaction, emotional labor, 50/50 deals to lessen their financial burden, and so much more. A meal doesn't even compare to the amount of shit men will gleefully take from a woman, and yet we are accused of taking advantage of them. Men have everything to gain by being in an unbalanced relationship, women have so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:16 PM
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I once had to borrow my dad's truck for a few days, it's a really nice truck, and made the mistake of showing up to a date in it and the guy noticed. The entire date was about my wealth, my family's wealth, and how he saw a "long term relationship" with me. Golddigger got blocked and deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:20 PM
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I feel like "if he wanted to, he would" and "always be vetting" go hand in hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:36 PM
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Really depends on the area and the cost of living, his career, etc. Most men in my area tend to either have roommates or their own place, if they're living in mom's basement its either pandemic related or they're a loser and have no intention of ever leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:29 PM
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In my area, every single OLD profile says that they "love the canyons and hiking" and then proceed to ask women to go hiking in a canyon for their first date. I also live where Bundy used to abduct his victims and take their bodies into those canyons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:43 PM
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Men do it because they hate their girlfriends and are immensely entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:21 PM
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It's probably likely the old geezer is lying about when he met the girl, too, but I hope that she's a catfish as well and he gets what he deserves in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:38 PM
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"Pay me 900 a month to be my mommy mcbangmaid"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:20 PM
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You are right, Animal Crossing and Pokémon Go have wonderful communities, I meant the guys with their PS4 being their most valued possession and have it as their personality trait instead of a relaxing hobby like Animal Crossing, or a physical activity like Pokémon Go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:17 AM
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I'm convinced it's simply lack of effort/interest. If a guy can't hold a conversation with me and keep it interesting, I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:29 PM
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Oh good Mary mother of God, thats terrible. My NVM ex also forced me to play MTG and gave me a red deck, I kicked his ass, then he threw a fit, destroyed the red deck, and didn't ever make me play MTG with him again. Children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:22 PM
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Gaming culture is so, so toxic. I don't date gamers, I myself never have the time to play video games. I used to, then I grew up. Men who spend all their time on games are unable to keep up with my lifestyle, so I leave them in the dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:19 PM
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This is why I blocked my ex on absolutely everything after I dropped the last of his shit off at his house. No thanks, I'm better off without his NVM behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:47 AM
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Had a guy on a first, and only, date that he loved to start arguments with people just to make them angry. Blocked him when I got home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:14 PM
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Don't ever give a man the time of day, focus on your career and family instead. Don't ever, ever, go seeking a relationship when you aren't completely happy with where you are and who you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:27 PM
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Don't feed the strays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:16 PM
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Can't turn a ho into a husband. They can't go from treating women as disposable objects to treating them like people. It's too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:06 AM
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My ex used to spend all his money on toys and games (he was 23, I shit you not.) Then cry to me when he didn't have money for bills/rent. He used to harass me into spending my money on him, either his bills, buying him more toys and games, or on expensive meals. He would cry, stomp around, throw temper tantrums and even threaten to commit s**cide if I didn't spend money on him. There were months where he was making me spend 25% of my paychecks on him. He never paid me back, constantly abused me,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 08:51 PM
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It helped me see that my dad is much, much better than most fathers but still has his shortcomings that he works on and admits fault to. He's becoming a better person, and gives me hope that people can change, but only when they want to. I realized my little brother is a HVM, and I'm so excited to watch him grow into an amazing man. He's a great kid who does chores without being asked, goes out of his way to support people, is extremely emotionally intelligent, he's a sweetheart who has a bright…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:11 PM
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My little sister used to use the word "boundaries" all the time as a fluff word for when she was trying to get her abusive NVM to stop abusing her. It never worked, and he kept getting worse and worse. She always said "oh hes respecting my boundaries now" right after he did something horrible to her, the word meant nothing. It was just a fantasy for my sister to hold on to during her abuse. It took more than I ever imagined for her to finally dump him. Women will, sadly, take so much abuse from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:27 PM
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Matt is this dudes boyfriend, she's just the bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:05 PM
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There's a very recent case where I live, where a woman went over to a man's house for a first date. He killed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:27 PM
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This is the only place on the internet where I can say that I have met multiple men who would think a mcdonalds meal on plastic plates is him spending a lot of money. It's not about the money, its about the effort he puts in for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:06 PM
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I'm a woodworker, I'm lucky enough that my boss is a HVM and doesn't tolerate any of that shit, ever. He's gotten rid of sexist people before, and won't hesitate to do it again. Don't give them the reaction that they want, and have zero tolerance. It works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:29 PM
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Sounds like "come over to my house so I can murder you in privacy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:02 PM
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Sounds like he has someone else in the house, who also has periods, who would notice the extra pad. Someone like a girlfriend. She should have tossed him into the garbage instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:01 PM
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Messages: 7 Snapchat: 30+ Facebook: 6 I now only use snapchat for people I know IRL and trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:03 PM
88

If I had a dollar for every time a man used the excuse of how I have short hair, tattoos, and a traditionally male job to get out of the bare minimum, I'd make Jeff Bezos look broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:53 PM
96

Oh boy, I can't wait for all the hate this post is going to get. I'll have to run to the store to get some popcorn so I can laugh at all the broke losers crying about this one. Its fucking bang on, though. I've made the mistake of making more than every single man I have ever dated, and every single one of them always wanted to use my money. It's about time I put an end to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:28 AM
77

I've known some men to be on OLD the day of or the day after a LTR ends. Before I deleted OLD myself, I managed to match with this loser who finally admitted to me "I just got out of a relationship so I'm just looking for hookups." He was unmatched the second I finished reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:30 PM
54

🙌 QUEEN SHIT! That guy was sure to turn into an abusive asshole and use any excuse to hold his house over her head to berate her and scream at her for any little thing she did wrong. She's so smart for getting out the first time he ever did it, he's a douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:22 PM
32

Notice how he has to put the mask back on in order to get his precious sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:13 PM
10

I live in a place where in the city, everyone is hip and doesn't want the relationship label. Outside of the city, everyone is getting married at 18 due to a certain religion pushing that standard. I've met multiple 20 year olds who are divorced, because they married a LVM. It's not easy finding someone who isn't in the big religion here and actually wants a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:42 PM
102

The men who claimed they were going their own way, (likely) got banned for mysoginy. The only surprising thing is reddit finally banned them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:34 PM
7

Lol, as if infiltrating FDS is even remotely as easy as they think. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:32 PM
27

Faker than a man on a first date. Guys like these are aware that they're low value, want to cry about it, and make shit up to get sympathy on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:26 PM
79

Yup, it was in a pretty busy restaurant. I didn't say a word to him, he didn't deserve a second more of my attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:38 PM
277

Happened with a guy I had been seeing for a while, but hadn't made things official. I asked him if he wanted to be official, he said he just wanted to be FWB in the middle of a date. Got up, walked out, got in my truck, blocked him and drove home. No regrets. He always wore boots to try and be taller than me, short little asshole that he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:32 PM
80

Yeah, I stopped dating months ago. Been single for over a year, tried dating again, it wasn't for me. Too much effort, and I have much better things to spend my time and energy on than dealing with the litany of LVM who populate the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:10 PM
29

I remember when my kindergarten teacher did this...why do grown ass men need a good noodle sticker to do the bare fucking minimum? If any woman needs to buy this, she needs to instead spend the money on renting a dumpster so she can throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:26 PM
10

I remember this guy I was dating at the beginning of the year. All seemed well at first, he put effort into dates, was always presentable, didn't show a single red flag, seemed genuinely interested in a relationship and made sure I knew it. Then all of a sudden at the 3 month mark, he thought he roped me in enough to tell me "oh I just want this to stay casual, I don't want a relationship." He legitimately thought I would be fine with it. I stood up, in the middle of the restaurant, and walked o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:50 PM
7

Funny how men cry when the tables are turned and they're the ones who are financially dependent. "I'm a student and plan on being a student for years" The translation to this is he's probably doing the bare minimum in school, if he is even going, so he doesn't have to get a job and contribute. Absolute leech. His wife needs to dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:28 PM
21

My stepfather is very similar to this guy. Everyone under his roof is a leech, has to pay rent/bills the second they get their first job, nobody ever gets financial help and if you ask, you're a spoiled brat. Any kind of gift from him never exceeded 50 dollars. He's a miserable bastard and I moved out ASAP and don't speak to him anymore. My stepfather is such a LVM greedy asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:46 PM
28

There's actually only one consistent sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:12 PM
37

And men have the gall to call us "Free Dinner Strategy" Projecting, much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:39 PM
28

I was so depressed at one point that all I would do after coming home from work was go to bed and cry myself to sleep. He thought it was annoying so he moved his computer into another room and started sleeping and gaming in there to avoid me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:38 AM
9

A warehouse manager who lost his job over the pandemic is such horseshit. Pretty sure warehouses only got busier during the pandemic, dude was fired and is lying about it. I'm blue collar myself and can smell a fired liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:21 PM
42

Every time a man tells me that something about me won't be "good marriage material" I know I'm on the right path and keep doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:13 PM
27

My mom used to bring felons into the house. I specifically remember one NVM in particular who worked at Burger King, had multiple warrants for his arrest, wanted to live off my dads child support and alimony, and threatened to kill my mom if she didn't let him move in and quit his job. My mom wound up marrying a different NVM ex felon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:54 PM
8

I'm so happy, my sister FINALLY dumped her NVM scrote. Words cannot describe how much I hated the guy, and how despicable his behavior was. She finally woke up, after he yet again verbally abused her, and told him it was over. She now understands she was trauma bonded to him, and how awfully he treated her. (She finally admitted he never once told her he loved her, without her having to beg him to do it. The guy hated her.) And she even told me he was beginning to physically abuse her as well. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:32 PM
49

I have 4 sisters. We go paddleboarding, to the arcade, fun dinners like Korean BBQ, have movie nights with ice cream, we go to the shooting range, out to bars with our friends, pool parties, every time we're together we always have something fun planned. I've been teaching the younger sisters about how they should never accept a date if being out with us sounds more fun, and my dad has been a good HVM role model towards them, and shows them how men SHOULD treat women. My 2 little sisters have de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:21 PM
5

Love how he tells us exactly why his marriage ended. He didn't even go grocery shopping/cook/chores. Probably because "hE wOrKs!" As if that stops any woman from doing infinitely more than he ever has in his sad life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:43 PM
128

Yup. My family isn't rolling in cash, but better off than most. I had to borrow my dad's brand new truck for a while, and made the mistake of showing up to a date in it. This loser immediately notices it, then proceeds to make the entire date about how much money he thought I had. He wanted to know how much I make, my dad makes, etc. Even wanted to know how much my dads house is worth. The best part? He confessed that he worked at a fast food chain later on in the date. Blocked and deleted. Disg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:44 PM
3

Women age way, way better than men. I'm sorry you have to deal with ugly old men. I know men can't control it at that age, my dad is 52 and still has a full head of hair, he's one of the lucky few.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:23 PM
4

5'6 40s "Just seeing whats out there" (in your fucking 40s? Really?) "My ex was CrAzY" "cHiValRy" I'm guessing he was bald/fat too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:28 PM
28

I don't mention I'm a woodworker, ever. The horrible same dirty jokes I've heard since high school are just annoying, and the men who didn't make those jokes just said "cAn YoU mAkE sOmEtHiNg FoR mE? Expecting my work for free. I'd rather toss them into a saw, actually. I've also had the occasional loser become threatened by the fact that I make more than them with my blue collar job, and try to put me down/prove they know more about the job. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:43 PM
208

Literally almost every single guy on OLD before I deleted it Him: do you want to go on a date? Me: yes Him: What should we do? The bar is beneath hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:34 PM
9

I realized the other day that I have been free from my NVM ex for a year now. I'm incredibly happy, doing great in my career, I'm making new friends, enjoying my hobbies, and have no interest in dating right now. My cousin died 3 weeks ago, and she always told all of us how we needed to just have fun in life, try new things, and know your worth. My goal is to take her words to heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:31 PM
7

I'm a woodworker. I don't talk about my job until like the 3rd date because I'm sick of the same 5 jokes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:38 AM
62

Sat on a date with a LVM a while ago. He did a pretty good job pretending to have HV traits over text, all I did on the date was sit there and listen to him brag about how LV he was. Blocked and deleted. A method I like to use is to just sit in silence on a date. The LVM do all the work after that and without fail, tell on themselves. I'm just about tired of going on dates, men don't even fucking try anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:28 PM
53

I'm not in debt but I lost at least 5k. All the damn money he constantly demanded for me to spend on him because I made more than his broke ass, the trips he always wanted to take on my dime because he overdrafted his account, the gas I bought for him because he didn't have enough, I could keep going. I even made his car payment once. What did I get in return? Abuse. Being cheated on. He even stole some of my belongings after I moved out from where we were living. Blocked me on everything so I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:57 PM
108

Exactly. I see a good looking woman and for one second go "Wow she's super pretty!" And move on with my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:20 PM
51

-gamer -dead end job complains about everything and anything talks about sex all the time no motivation for anything doesn't do any self improvement zero effort cheap, except when it comes to himself expects, never gives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:33 AM
24

I also love when they reply to your comment with some bullshit but immediately gets yeeted into the void of endless angry scrote rants. Nobody asked, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:23 AM
229

Men continue to have the most fragile egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:20 PM
34

My dad kicked him out and the NVM is banned from all family gatherings. Nobody is tolerating him, and he's convinced my sister into believing that we're punishing her for being in a relationship with him. She's lashing out at the people trying to help her. Men will mercilessly destroy women for their own gain, they do not care about the lives they destroy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:09 PM
95

She was in an even worse relationship before this dude. This motherfucker white knighted her while she was still recovering from the first one. She was so desperate to be in a relationship both times that she wound up with horrible men who mistreat her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:37 PM
198

My sister is 20, just got her associates and works 2 jobs. She was a great student in school and had a great social life until her NVM 27 year old boyfriend came into her life. He doesn't have a job, income, credit, nothing. He's fat, he's ugly, and he is abusive towards her. They were living in my dad's 2nd house for a while until this NVM verbally abused her in front of me, he was thrown out of the house last week since my family won't stand for that. Instead of staying in the house where she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:14 PM
61

He's DEFINITELY that guy on dating apps that goes "hey" when he means he always messages first, and then offers a walk date where he will talk about himself the entire time. I can go for a walk whenever I want and enjoy some silence. Why would I want to have an annoying man with me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:23 PM
16

Perfect, no woman will ever be stuck with him. He can die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:18 PM
42

Men literally expect us to show up in a cute outfit, hair done, makeup done, looking like a queen and then he shows up in a t-shirt, shorts, and a dirty beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:13 PM
31

women should contribute to the date Lol, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:10 PM
20

Translation: "I'm ignoring my wife to play video games and having her feed me because I can't do basic things in life." The loser who tweeted it is a hardcore scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:39 PM
5

I'm doing this for my sister who is dating a NVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:05 PM
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