Ask Amy: After husband announces relationship with a 19-year-old, it’s time to talk to an attorney

pureFLsugar · 2021-09-09T15:25:31+00:00

“He was only trying to help her” JFC

Odd_Worth_3521 · 2021-09-09T16:51:32+00:00

The scrote is 76!!!! He said he wants someone younger.....The actual fuck!? The wife is 13 years his junior, and he wants to be in a 19 years old.

Technusgirl · 2021-09-09T16:11:57+00:00

"The more I cried, the more sadistic he became."

Sorry you married a sadistic Narcissist, lady. Also, he was probably catfished and was sending her money too. For all we know he was talking to some guy in Nigeria, the moron. No 19 year old woman is going to be interested in an elderly man, bleh.

ItsFreezen · 2021-09-09T16:03:43+00:00

Same Dumb Scrote "But, But Women have to get married or they will end up alone" /s

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-09-09T16:42:10+00:00

I hope the wife leaves him ASAP, he's in for a big surprise. There's no way on Earth a real teenager is interested in a man in his seventies.

aluriaphin · 2021-09-09T15:48:46+00:00

A "relationship" with a 19 year old that has lasted "at least 2 years" this man is a whole PEDOPHILE, the advice she received should have been "call the police." Columnist talking about "he's going to get taken to the cleaners" as if this girl is using HIM, where is the care and concern for the CHILD he GROOMED?? Disgusting.

Aviendah_Fan_Club · 2021-09-09T15:48:30+00:00

I'll bet you $20 that HE'S the one calling them both "seniors" 🙄

I'll double-down that this chick is a catfish 😂

seraph9888 · 2021-09-09T17:36:56+00:00

He recently told me that he is involved in a relationship with a19-year-old girl. When I pressed him for details, he said that they communicate several times a day and have been in touch every day for the last two years.

r/HolUp

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-09-09T17:37:19+00:00

A good lawyer can find all the money he gave her and get some of that back in the settlement. Most courts look poorly on spending marital assets in this way and can order it paid back to the spouse.

Constant-Wanderer · 2021-09-09T18:59:57+00:00

The other woman isn’t real.

I really wish I had a ringside seat to his life when he realizes that he gave up his wife for a prince in Nigeria.

Unusual-Concert9908 · 2021-09-09T15:26:31+00:00

So when he was about 72yo he was looking for underage girls? Disgusting! She was 17.

I hope they takes all his money. Both his ex-wife and his new sugar baby.

catlady4u · 2021-09-09T18:02:11+00:00

This reeks of catfishing. The poor wife will be better off without this crusty old pig in her life.

I hope there is an update where the saggy balled fossil got cleaned out by both the wife and the '19 year old'.

modernmedusaa · 2021-09-09T17:44:23+00:00

Lmfao look at me puffing my feathers I can manipulate a 19 year old

Or maybe you’re the one being scammed punk!

The fact this dude is almost 80 and a 19 yr old supposedly takes interest. Lmfao scam alert!

Even young goldiggas don’t go for post 70 scrotes.

Probably a cam girl or sex worker scamming him no doubt - trying to triangulate her.

This also why sex workers are a problem bc they are paid to blow the trumpets of undesirable egotistical men- quite often they rely on faking romances with them to keep the money flowing.

Scrotes with a rescue mentality almost always fall for sex workers playing damsel in distress.

The fact he said ‘he could help her’ makes me think she’s a scammer or sex worker.

And you’re right, that book about limerence (romantic obsession) mentioned people falling for ‘much younger’ scammers online & emptying their family bank accounts for them

Think of those catfish shows- it always shows uglier older men being catfished by younger stunning models because of their delusion lol I enjoy laughing at them

Side note: young women STOP dating men more than three years older. You are almost always the side chick and being manipulated

Also no this isn’t ‘older jealous women’ talking.

When I was a teenager- I didn’t look in the direction of men older than me either.

And now I’m older I can safely say - men prefer younger women for their naivety.

How do I know this? Men frequently guess I’m 8-10 years younger than I am….& the men my age/older almost always look disappointed when I tell them my real age. Because they know they can’t manipulate me the same. So it’s not an issue of attraction- it’s the fact I’m not as naive and impressionable as a young girl is.

lostntiredd · 2021-09-09T15:41:42+00:00

More like Time to call her parents. 😩

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-09-09T19:07:51+00:00

He’s going to end up alone. I don’t know if he has kids, but they’re going to side with their mom. I hope the 19y/o turns out to be a man that leaves him penniless.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-09-09T20:18:54+00:00

That senile fool is in a virtual "relationship" with a 19 yo? Sounds like an onset of dementia.

Amy is so right, she needs to protect their assets because that sheep of a husband is about to be taken to the cleaners lol.

Time to get a conservatorship lawyer!

catlady4u · 2021-09-09T18:14:06+00:00

This is the end game for an age gap relationship, and why we should not entertain age gap relationships. 13 years is just too much of a gap.

She was 38 and he was 51 when they got married. He clearly prefers much younger women and this wife 'aged out'. They trade us in for younger models, it's time-honored scrote behavior. So, younger readers take heed and don't let it happen to you.

Of course, I believe karma will bite this particular scrote in the ass, because there is no way he isn't being catfished. Whether or not this teenager is real, his intention is to cheat.

Edit: clarification

effypom · 2021-09-10T00:48:31+00:00

I hope he loses all his money in a divorce and lose what he has left to this potential catfish

vforvendetta87 · 2021-09-09T18:40:09+00:00

Amy knows what’s up.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-09-10T03:22:19+00:00

That senile old fart is seriously deluded if he thinks a 19 year old woman actually wants his saggy old man ass. I hope after his wife takes him to the cleaners, the 19 year old catfish takes whatever is left.

FDSfollower1 · 2021-09-10T02:12:18+00:00

He was probably awful all along, but Amy dropped the ball by not stating that the husband needs a full medical workup. He needs to be reported to CPS for the exploitation of a minor. It's also possible that the so-called nineteen year old girl (or her handler) needs to be reported to Adult Protective Services for elder abuse if the old man has some form of medical problem causing him to totally lose his judgement. Just in case this is a case of early onset dementia. I would still divorce him and take him for all he is worth.

akashyaboa · 2021-09-09T20:51:01+00:00

They never change ...

Title	Ask Amy: After husband announces relationship with a 19-year-old, it’s time to talk to an attorney
Author	deadinsidelol69
Upvotes	362
Comments	38
Date	September 9, 2021 3:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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