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Exactly! Unfortunately, I have slept with objectively ugly and poor dudes who were just great at talking to women
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:21 PM
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Learn how to speak respectfully and confidently with women
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:42 AM
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Oh ok, that gives me the tiniest bit of faith in men. I was hoping there wasn’t a bunch of men going “she knew what she was doing by getting OF” which I’ve seen before on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:26 AM
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I'm curious as to what the response was in the original post. Was he called out for being the asshole?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:56 AM
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And all the comments of course are men saying “he probably doesn’t mean it” or “communicate that to him” instead of recognising the real issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:16 AM
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Tbf she saw the red flags when they went 50/50 on the first date and he cancelled the date before that. She wasted 7 months with him when the signs were all there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:38 AM
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The comments misunderstand FDS so much. Do they understand how many of us have been mentally, physically, and/or sexually abused??! It’s literally protecting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:16 AM
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I’m Indian and Muslim and yes, a lot of men of my culture and race are misogynists and vile but I think it’s unfair to tie it solely to race or religion. Some of my cousins are normal because they grew up in western society and are influenced by liberalism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:09 AM
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Lily Tomlin stood up to men when it wasn’t acceptable to stand up to men like it is now. She is a trailblazer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:05 AM
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Another thing that was shoved down our throats by liberal feminists. Playboy was always disgusting and exploitative. The girls joined and modelled for it willingly, but they had no idea what they were getting themselves into, how they would be treated and abused, and how much their autonomy would be taken away. Just like with pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:27 AM
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That’s disgusting and disrespectful that people allowed him to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:24 AM
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Wow. And she’s looking after his baby??? Tell me your husband has no respect for you without telling me your husband has no respect for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:11 AM
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It’s really difficult. Men aren’t exposed to other men’s dating behaviour like we are so they don’t understand fds standards. We’re sick and tired of being treated awfully and if they were treated the same way by men, they would be sick of it too. Fds standards are necessary to vett men so we don’t have to go through horrible relationships anymore where we’ve been mentally abused. I feel like a lot of women who have been in long term relationships with HVM and haven’t dated much have similar ide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 05:59 PM
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Did anyone watch that show on Netflix Maid? It highlights how the courts don't recognise emotional abuse as well. Men who display violent tantrums get custody of their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:47 AM
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She seems stupid. She’s acting like the daughter is being unreasonable. Anyone would be grossed out if their father was doing that with someone so much younger than themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:28 PM
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He’s a sick pervert. Doing that in front of his daughter too. This girl doesn’t even seem to realise why an adult woman would be disgusted with her dad dating someone so much younger than her. The 23 year old is clearly naive. He also blocked his daughter for having a normal response to this. He’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:26 PM
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I think this is an issue with sexism and the law. In New Zealand, because marriage is not a big deal here, we have de facto partners - once a relationship hits 3 years, you get entitlement to property similar to a marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:12 PM
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Seriously, if women were causing men this much trouble we would be banned from clubs and bars. How can people not see men are the problem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:54 AM
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Yeah, I have ibs and literally have never left a mess. I would never accept another person to clean after me. Also, if it’s this bad, he’s probably unwilling to change his diet to fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:09 PM
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Lol women wouldn’t even need militaries. We would just talk it out. Let’s be real, all wars are started by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:19 PM
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Pornography has become this evil machine that we’ve lost control over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:08 AM
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You’re not too chicken. We’ve seen the responses some men can have to simple “no”. They argue back and try and intimidate you like they know better. It can be really scary to be straightforward with some guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:38 AM
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I always see a lot of redditors say this. Men only want to be asked out out by women who are extremely attractive. And if they haven’t asked them out a girl already, it’s either because the girl was out of his league or because he’s not attracted to her. If I don’t feel like a man is attracted to me, I’m not going to ask him out for him to have confidence boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:35 AM
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You’re an amazing woman and an amazing mother for protecting your child. This man (and a lot of others) probably haven’t been called out like this before. That’s why they think dismissing it as joke makes it okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:03 AM
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He did find someone else. I don’t understand why people are making excuses for him. The reason he did it is very clear. It’s quite clear he lost weight, got a new girlfriend and killed his wife and their children so he could be with this new woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:52 AM
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Not just YouTube, I’ve seen comments all over reddit like this. Men were really standing up for Brian. They want to assume he didn’t do it. Kept talking about how the video shows that he was unlikely the one who did anything and probably drove away from HER abuse. I’m seeing FDS members banned from subreddits for incel-like culture. But the average man on reddit is an incel and willing to blame women for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:44 AM
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That’s fair. I’ve just noticed since I was a young girl that men were always allowed to be older or unconventionally attractive in films and it always bothered me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:15 AM
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He still has gotten away with grey hair and wrinkles everywhere for the last 30 years. While his female counterparts have to be flawless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:43 AM
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I think there’s a lot of factors at play here. I think pornography and their emphasis on “teen” and “barely 18” is a big influence on males. If a significant amount of porn out there only has youthful women, then that’s going to warp men’s sexual desires. Also the media makes youthful women the most desirable and treats older women or women in their thirties like they’re clinging onto their youth. Men like George Clooney can age naturally and still be desirable but women such as Nicole Kidman pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:40 PM
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No, she absolutely loves him. Always has so much respect for him in interviews. Have you seem them at the golden globes? Their eyes literally water as they thank each other in their individual speeches for one another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:13 PM
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Doesn't really explain why he's going for a girl he's known since she was 10 though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:18 AM
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Seriously! Can you imagine if an actress aged like he has? She would be kicked to the curb so fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:14 AM
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I hope he loses all his money in a divorce and lose what he has left to this potential catfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:48 AM
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Ah fair. Doing well thanks. Hope you are too 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:57 PM
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This is awesome. Another kiwi on fds! Where are you? I’m in Wellington.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:54 PM
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They’re usually very insecure and naive 17-21 year old girls who have been taught by liberal feminists that it’s empowering to be used by boys like this. I do feel for them. It’s a harsh life lesson that probably takes a toll on their mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:50 PM
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Nope, these boys get plenty of women. I used to live in this town and party at these houses. It’s very common and these boys are similar to frat boys of America and unfortunately, they’re highly sought after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:36 PM
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This is Dunedin in New Zealand where I lived when I went to University. I can tell you the dating culture is something else. I was shocked how girls throw themselves a boys like this. And the boys continue to think this is okay. They’re usually rich kids whose parents pay for everything and they party and destroy everything. They throw rubbish on the streets, destroy property, break bottles everywhere and burn couches. Everyone blames the uni students in the town. This annoyed me so much because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:34 PM
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There was a question the other day asking about men’s experiences who have been to brothels. One of the top comments was about this guy who went to this brothel in Australia and what a nice experience it was and how great the conversation was… it was funny how him and the men replying were talking about how “she probably was genuine with her upbeat personality. You can’t fake that”. It’s her job. These men are delusional. And who suffers from them thinking this prostitute’s attitude is her genui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:31 PM
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Because we’re not getting paid to deal with their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:28 PM
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Oh my, any man she dates after him is going to seem like a dream for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:32 PM
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“She’s an old soul”. You know who else has an “old soul”? Many women your own age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:12 AM
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I do this to a lot of guys. I ignore their messages (usually because they’re gross or can’t take no for an answer) but I accidentally watch their stories. I’m too lazy to delete them though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:36 AM
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It’s kind of annoying that he strung so many women along that were models etc but married the human rights lawyer. The others were just “fun” but this is the serious girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:03 AM
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I’m so sick of men having multiple wives in America, a developed country! There’s absolutely no purpose for this other than devaluing women. And it’s sad because a lot of these women grew up watching a similar family unit and so they’ve been brainwashed into believing this is okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:45 AM
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This. And also remember how much flack Angelina Jolie got for brad pitt’s affair? She was villainised when he was the one who actually broke his vows from his wife. And somehow he walked away from that still having his image untouched
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:41 AM
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Wow she’s going to judge a woman for “letting” this happen but willingly dates the man who did “let” it happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:44 PM
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Exactly. I think the reason why so many redditors agree with this is because a lot of them fall in this category. That’s why “barely legal” and “teen” porn is so popular. They normalise it and say it’s ok if the 18 year old looks 15. They know exactly what they’re doing and they’re feeding those urges with it just because it’s legal. But it’s definitely not moral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:37 AM
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And she has to live the fact that that awful man is the father of her child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:21 AM
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What a horrible horrible man. He doesn’t even look after the kids he wanted and seems to blame her for them not being taken care of by them. And then has the audacity to complain about a job he doesn’t enjoy but earns more with. Yeah, it’s almost like children are a huge responsibility that shouldn’t fall on a woman’s shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:01 AM
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Yeah, he's pretty awkward around girls. 99% sure he's a virgin. He's quite attractive so it's a little unexpected.
/r/seduction16/09/18 01:18 PM
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Where exactly do I touch him first?
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:11 AM
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What if I'm a 6 though?
/r/seduction16/09/18 10:48 AM
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I think the guy I like is a virgin. He's a good-looking and cool guy but just a little awkward with girls. I'm sort of having trouble getting past small talk with him. There's been a few times where he starts teasing me and we get a little close but then he chickens out. His friends said he's been like that since high school. I also don't have much experience with guys but I'm not looking for a boyfriend. I just want to have some fun and I find him really cute. I've realised I have to make the f…
/r/seduction16/09/18 08:55 AM
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Wow, this is amazing.
/r/seduction16/09/18 06:25 AM
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