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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 11:07 AM
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HAHA 😂 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:06 PM
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Oh, I am so glad you brought this up. I've dealt with this. I'm dealing with this. It's terrible. I can weigh in with my experience. So, my ex speaks to our kids like they are his worst enemy. I mean that. There is no way to adequately convey how much of an asshole this man is. He curses and yells at them (”Wtf is wrong with you fucking retard”. “Sit the fuck down fucker” speaks to them like they are less than dogs, never, ever, has a patient or loving tone. Refuses their affection, punishes the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:33 PM
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Omfg. Just reading this made my hands sweat and leg shake. This poor saint of a woman. Do you think he'd go quietly sit with her and brush her hair, rub her back to try to help her let down? You know, act like he appreciates the miracle this woman gave him. 😩😭 No no no. Not this tOtAl AlPhA MaLe. No, he decides to repeatedly make her job infinitely more difficult than what it has to be by criticizing and pestering her. There are more ways to bond than just feeding. He's jealous of her bond with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:43 PM
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It's 50% now? Wow. That's depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:09 PM
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The entire article was one big gaslight and Redbook is a woman's magazine. It was also terribly condescending as well: “I can just hear you now. Oh, no, you're thinking. Not my Jason! Not my Brian! My Charles doesn't watch that filthy stuff! And maybe you're right. Maybe your Charles doesn't watch pornography. Maybe your Charles doesn't like it. Maybe he doesn't indulge in the fetid pleasures of the self at all. Or maybe, if he does, all your Charles needs as an erotic aide is a photograph of yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 02:27 PM
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I love it so much when you share memories of your Jack 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:19 PM
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👏👏👏👏 YES!! I've noticed this myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:58 PM
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Facts 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:01 PM
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This is good advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:47 PM
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It's time for this abuser to face some justice. I hope he is finally held to account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:13 PM
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Privacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:08 PM
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You are da bomb gf 😍 ty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:57 PM
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Yes. Any rational human could understand that. (ty for clarifying that btw. You explained it better than I ever could) They don't allow for women to understand themselves intimately in some ways while at the same time covertly hypersexualixing them. Women are brainwashed from birth it's terrible. This is his childrens normal. 😩😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:51 AM
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Yes. It's considered a terrible sin and the woman's fault if a man that is not her husband even takes a look at her. If you give a man a boner by just existing you are at fault. There is NO RAPE according to them. If you are assaulted it's your fault, God allowed it to happen or is punishing you because inside you have “a Jezebel spirit” or you secretly wanted it. Many women are raped and say nothing for fear of reprimand. They will ask if your body lubricated itself (and other deeply personal a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:00 PM
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I hope you don't mind but I followed you. I'm considering writing an article series about that lifestyle shortly. I'd love to get input from other women who have been there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:45 PM
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Oooo very interesting. I'm going to try to find it and listen to it as I work tonight. Do you happen to have a link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:13 PM
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I bet you have stories for days. I came from a very similar religious cult. It's a hard life for women and even harder to escape. I'm glad to hear you're free. I too hope he's put away for the max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:10 PM
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Former reality TV star Josh Duggar was convicted Thursday of downloading and possessing child sex abuse images on his work computer. A federal jury in Fayetteville, Arkansas, found the 33-year-old Duggar guilty on one count each of receiving and possessing child pornography. He faces up to 20 years in prison and fines of up to $250,000 for each count when he’s sentenced at a later date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:16 PM
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Yep. The stuff he was viewing was violent and extremely disturbing. The evidence makes it clear, his parents and his wife have known about this situation for many years. Who's protecting his daughters? Heinous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:15 PM
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Nothing but truth 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:10 PM
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😳 I love this. I wrote it in my journal 😍❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:32 PM
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😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:50 PM
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I just loved how clearly Trapstar illustrated her boundary 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:07 PM
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Privacy edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:52 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I too had a similar experience in my first marriage. Reading comments like yours helps to keep me optimistic. I'm curious when you found your second husband did you know right away he was the one or did it take a bit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:11 AM
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Yes!! Idk how she could possibly have a quality orgasm with him. I'd be so turned off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:28 AM
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😱 yikes. I agree with you. My Grandmother told me (paraphrasing) that men take care to keep ahold of what was hard for them to obtain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:05 PM
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I dig your energy so much. I have no doubt you are going to get exactly what you want. Let them shame and ridicule you for your high standards all they want but you'll be the Lady laughing in the end with her D Flawless from her dream guy. All financially secure and happy and stuff 😂😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:30 PM
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Laugh. Out. Loud. His rig and setup is trash. 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:46 PM
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You're not the problem. One of the hallmark signs of NPD abuse is the ability to get you so wrapped up and confused by their BS that in the end, you become fully convinced that it must be you. I've been there. You have realized that something is amiss. That is HUGE. Give yourself credit for that because it's so difficult in the beginning. It's normal for victims of abuse to have a lot of confusion and doubt. I say that because it took a very long time for me to accept that what I was experiencin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:55 PM
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100% I'm not dating but I am looking for a future spouse. Anything less is not meant to be mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:30 PM
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I just bought it now. Ty for your wisdom. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:41 PM
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This is why I'm here ❤️. You are so right. As I see it I've made these enormous strides. I feel all happy and accomplished but my sense of normal has been so shifted that I don't see the situation for what it is. It makes me so sad and defeated. 😢 I really want to know what real and healthy adult love feels like. I'm not getting younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:02 AM
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👏👏👏🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:20 AM
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This!!!! There are a significant amount of wealthy men who are seeking a woman who would be a good SAH/spouse for these very reasons. There are so many positives when done properly. I don’t feel like a woman should be shamed for seeking that type of life for herself. It’s legitimate lifestyle choice that should be respected. Modern SAH can even secure their financial situations legally in many different ways. A woman can be many things simultaneously. Just because she’s a SAH doesn’t mean she lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 01:50 AM
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👏🤝 username checks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:36 PM
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This is one of the most difficult things to explain to someone who hasn’t been through it. It is horrible. It is debilitating. You really cannot see it until you are removed from it for a bit. Even when I started to really realize that I wasn’t the problem I still found it difficult to deal with and accept my reality . I had a complete lack of trust in my own perception. I would find myself second guessing everything. Sacrificing more, becoming smaller and quieter until I was just a shell runnin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:33 PM
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Oh my…yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:45 PM
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LOLOLOL 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:31 PM
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She is me and I am her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 04:53 PM
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It is so endearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:55 PM
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It’s a risky search but here I go Edit.: Don’t do it. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:01 PM
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I mean you can ask. Who knows if he’s going to tell the truth though. IMO it’s better to watch him. Vett him. See if what he says lines up with what he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:22 PM
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😡 I dropped a few nuggets of wisdom in the comments. This kind of aggressive approach is more common than some might imagine. At least in my area anyway. They will not accept a “no” sometimes. Most recently I had a guy come hmu in a diner where I was taking a break. There I am minding my own and this guy does a similar pitch to this video scrote. This guy picks up my check and goes and pays for my lunch and sits back down at my table. 👀👀👀 uninvited and (in any reasonable persons mind) made it cl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:46 PM
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💀💀💀😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:35 AM
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Interesting 🤔 It fascinates me that they spend soooo much time and effort learning to be sneaky and corrupt to the point there are entire subcultures dedicated to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:22 PM
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I really like it. I enjoy giving and I like having control over his body and pleasure. If he pulls my hair or tries to have any control over me at all when I am at it I will stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:11 PM
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Nice. I’m definitely partial to Dworkin. She definitely has been a major influence on my feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 08:12 AM
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Oh now I did not know that!! I’m going to have to do some research now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 08:07 AM
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Lol right? I’m filing this away…. “Here’s my monthly 20% off coupon to Bed, Bath and Beyond. Go with God homie ✌🏻”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:43 PM
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I feel like there is so much wisdom in your post (and the response). I normally avoid this topic because it’s so divisive. Conservative women are women too. IMO ALL women should matter here. If a topic comes up then we debate the topic. I’m not here to judge women but to learn and exchange knowledge with women. Perhaps this could be a good neutral ground where women of otherwise wildly opposing viewpoints can sit and hear each other out? I don’t understand why conservative women wouldn’t be welc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:19 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:24 PM
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Oh honey. Big internet hugs. 🤗 if there is anyway I can help please dm me. You’re not alone. The ride or die card. The “you made a vow to your families and God” was his power move. Or when I backed him into a corner with a logical and calm slightly detached reason. (careful not to fall into emotional traps he’d set) he’d play the (paraphrasing) lol you have nowhere to go and You don’t own shit card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:53 PM
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I’m so glad you brought this up OP. It starts with the little incompetence stuff. Before you know it they have you under their boot. They can be sooo abusive without touching you. My personal favorite was his consistent response of “I know you’ve told me 80x that XYZ needs to be fixed or handled. I’m going to do it tomorrow.” Usually followed with, “Why are you being so nasty and unreasonable” He knows exactly what he’s doing. When you blow up or draw the line they are able to manipulate their v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:58 PM
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A therapist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:23 PM
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Fair point. Also, we have to care for our health. Nobody wants to put the town bike in her mouth. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:02 PM
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“Emotionally wounded community penis”. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:16 PM
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Underrated comment. 💕 I have so much empathy for her. Btw. Username checks out 🤗😊💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:44 PM
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Yeah. It has nothing to do with being stupid. ☹️ I’m really disappointed to see some of the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:36 PM
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I hope that I’m vetting the evil ones out wellllllll before the sex stage but you ladies are right. You never know. We have to be careful. The stakes are high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:13 PM
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🙌🙌🙌😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:04 PM
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It’s wild to me that there was a time when I felt like creeping on a mans social media and the like was weird and stalkerish. 🤡 I realize now that it’s life threatening not to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:46 PM
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Haha. Yikes. I appreciate men who are good with their hands too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:23 PM
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Aww. What a sweetheart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:49 PM
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Ooooooo. The little blue bag 😍💜💜💜 Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:22 PM
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What an inspiration. Watch it twice 😉I’m saving this 🙌🤗💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:02 PM
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💀💀💀🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:02 PM
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Ty for posting. I’ll listen to it as I work today 💜💜 I love Gail Dines myself. More and more women are waking up to the lies of liberal feminism and IMO it has a lot to do with the dedication of women like Ms.Dines and similar women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:54 PM
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So many great responses. Put a high price on your attention, your affection and your exclusivity. You are worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:47 PM
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😂😂😂😂I’m howling😂😂😂 Fk I love you ladies 💜💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:27 PM
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“She isn’t an escort “…😂😂😂 who wants to tell him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:58 PM
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This is an excellent work around for the legal issue. I know of a women’s outreach and this has been a problem for them. Do you have to disclose the third party is on the line at any point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:13 PM
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This is one of the things my xhusband got into. His porn addiction progressed to this and the cherry on top is when he admitted visiting a Transexual prostitute. He then tried to get me to believe nothing happened. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:29 PM
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🙌 This is so true. Most European men that I’ve known or dated have been very well groomed compared to our American men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:20 PM
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😳 Holy fkn shit. Utterly brutal. Savage. 💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:37 PM
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Lol. The “good and decent” men he’s talking about is not sitting on FB messenger getting all up in my DMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 09:19 AM
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You made a really great point about always being expected to preform like a porn star. Sex isn’t a performance piece but they sure expect you to behave like it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:14 PM
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Ty for sharing your story. I too dealt with a PA in my marriage. It destroyed me for sooo long. You are right. You are never good enough for them. I’m so glad this is being discussed. So many women have been damaged by their partners shitty addiction but still blam themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:47 PM
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Awwww. That’s the kind of love I’m waiting for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:14 PM
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I really needed to read this 💜 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:00 PM
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Yech. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:55 PM
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Geez. Poor Gabby. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:53 PM
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Welcome home 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:19 PM
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This is hilarious. The flaccid male symbol has me dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:01 PM
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🙌🔥 Amen sister. Take this silver. I wish I had gold. We have to invest in ourselves and wait (and watch and vet and…. 😂).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:15 AM
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Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:07 PM
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I just wanted to add Inner Integration to the good YT list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:57 PM
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This is so true. They are absolutely awful but once you figure it out how they work it’s easier to protect yourself from their very predictable, very awful behavior. It sounds like he is employing a lot of DARVO tactics (please google). When he does this try to remember not to JADE. The very best way to fight them is to not fight them. Drop the rope and grey rock him. It’s so tough because they train us to not only accept this but to respond. I know it’s awful. I hope this info helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:47 AM
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This is so true. I experienced this in my pickme days. He would be just awful and lazy. When I pulled away or became frustrated he would ask me “Whats wrong” over and over. No matter how many times I repeated exactly what was wrong he would act like he was innocent/ignorant and gaslight me. If I was really at my wits end he’d acknowledge the problem and maybe try to pretend to change. It was never genuine. It was just a sneaky game that really messed with my head. All it took was for me to get c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:25 PM
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I just want to say that if I had to choose one thing that would be an instant black flag/deal breaker it would be this. No matter how HV or wonderful the man. This comes from personal experience. Just don’t even do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:26 PM
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Scrub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:51 PM
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“He was only trying to help her” JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:25 PM
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Just think how many of these types are walking around amongst us right now. They are decepticons. Wearing a mask of sanity while being a hateful monster underneath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:27 PM
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Congrats on your engagement. The ring is beautiful 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:01 PM
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I’m 💀. Done. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:33 PM
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But can we still shake our bon bons?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:00 PM
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Repulsive is exactly it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:46 PM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:44 PM
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Dignity and character are important traits that seem to be present in almost all hvm .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:54 AM
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“Dead soulless eyes” Absolutely. It’s easiest to see (for me anyway) very early on in meeting a man. It’s something in the eyes. Like a little sparkle or something. If I don’t see this it sets off my radar. (When I do see it though it’s a nice green light) Outside of that usually the porn sick ones weed themselves out by being low effort and impatient or trying to initiate sex right away. They aren’t willing to wait or pursue you. Women are sex objects to them. They don’t need or want to put eff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:19 PM
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I’m not surprised one bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:24 AM
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I came out of the religious right as well. It is truly bizarre how much focus and control they put on the sexuality of women and girls. Lots of really creepy projection. Instead of teaching boys how to have respect and self control they shift the responsibility onto the girls. At the same time they made it very clear that my body was shameful and that it was not mine to control but my Father and Husbands. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:56 PM
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I have children and it's exhausting in that I cannot let my guard down even a little. Never, ever, have they been left alone with a man. Not even family because statistically it's family that are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:43 PM
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This is utterly brilliant. It made me uncomfortable because it really hit home for me. This was my marriage and I've realized that if I'm not careful I'm going to be doomed to repeat these same patterns. I'm a very,very, maternal and nurturing type of woman. On one hand I find it very rewarding to attend to or care for others. I love being a Mother to my children. On the other hand that makes me susceptible to entitled, manipulative, man tots. Ive found that these types are unable to truly appre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:34 AM
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" Not today Satan! Not today!" I'm cackling with my coffee over here. I dig your energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:39 PM
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This is something I really need to work on. As a matter of fact I'm going to try to put this into practice. Usually I try to avoid eye contact completely. That stems from having been physically attacked a few times. I've found it easier to just act like they don't exist at all rather than get into a possible confrontation. As I'm healing and continuously leveling I'm finding I'm more able to confidently stand my ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:36 PM
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I'm very certain that these scrotes are getting off on saying this shit in front of her and making her uncomfortable. I feel horrible for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:51 AM
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Awesome. Let's hope it sticks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:47 AM
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This is a good point. I don't chase. Ever. If he's not interested enough to pursue in the beginning it's actually a blessing. I'm worth it and it's a good way to figure out if he feels like I'm worth it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:42 AM
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