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| 2 | The Bar Is In Hell. The Audacity Is Sky High. I'm Scared For My Generation.I can’t tell you how much buying lingerie and sex toys for someone who isn’t your wife (and even then, tread carefully) is inappropriate. If your present to her is directly tied to your own pleasure, it’s not for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | I love it when these men reveal themselves right away;“Lone wolves” almost always turn out to be Joker types or mass shooters types. Why don’t men (the logical sex) understand that socializing keeps you alive? Oh, because being a socially healthy individual is feminine and beta. Got it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 03:14 AM |
| 3 | I love it when these men reveal themselves right away;So he’s saying no coffee dates or…? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | I love it when these men reveal themselves right away;I actually laughed out loud. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 03:10 AM |
| 8 | Can we stop calling them fuck boys and move forward to the simple and subhuman title of skank?I call men sluts and whores all the time. I want them to feel the same shame we do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 12:00 AM |
| 18 | Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions?Oh, no doubt. I'm sure he gave it the once over, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 51 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?"Jada is very openly bald and has spoken on this fact. The jokes are vetted." "Will said his actions were guided by God - classic narcissist behavior. People cheered him and applauded when he said he slapped someone out of love." Hearing "guided by God" is actually a dog whistle to me. It means I can do whatever I want with no consequences because of religion. "Apologizing to everyone except the person you harmed is straight out of the abuser playbook." All of this. I am so glad somebody gets it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:28 PM |
| 105 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I kind of feel sick over the whole situation and I hate the way that Reddit is treating the whole thing. I'm trying to censor a lot of subs. This is traumatizing to see as a black person and I feel some type of way about it. Anger? Disappointment? Sadness? I'm not sure yet and at who. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:33 AM |
| 21 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?If that's actually true, that's the most pathetic thing ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:28 AM |
| 23 | Any experiences with a “wolf in sheep’s clothing”, a man pretending to be a feminist…I’m currently vetting (non-romantically) one of my managers who likes to expel feminist vibes but I need to keep an eye on him because he’ll call a feminist book he just read “progressive”. Keep your guard up with guys like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 16 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidUnprovoked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:13 PM |
| 52 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidHe's trying to fill void that endless. The limit does not exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 50 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidThis isn't even about women anymore, it's about possession, control, and ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:10 PM |
| 29 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidAnd he'd still be empty inside even if he got all that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:08 PM |
| 16 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childWhen I hear stuff like this, I always think of Lena from The Joy Luck Club and how fed up she got with her cheapo depo penny-pinching good-for-nothing husband. Every woman has that breaking point. Every. Single. Woman. Never settle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:48 AM |
| 58 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a child"mUh leGaCy" when you can't even MARRY her and she takes your last name. You buy the ring with a stank attitude, have the rinky-dink wedding and honeymoon (like did they really invite work colleagues to that) but will cross the line at signing a contract...that you can literally rescind later if you want to. Divorce is easy, bro. He better not get mad if she finds someone better who wants to give her the world and leaves. What kind of circus are modern relationships??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:44 AM |
| 10 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childI left my body spiritually married. This is still his live-in girlfriend. He actually doesn't love this woman. Doesn't like her, even. He actually resents that she's so smart and clearly, if you read between the lines, says this. She's just convenient and the logically sound choice for him right now. This couple won't ever stop trying to be two steps ahead of each other and that's just so sad. I REALLY hope she's on the house title and the mortgage. Selling this house is going to be messy. Also,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:35 AM |
| 31 | Scrolling Reddit is downright depressing: women with no dignity or self-respectFind a man that loves you more than you love him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:15 PM |
| 64 | Scrolling Reddit is downright depressing: women with no dignity or self-respectI had this epiphany last week seeing a family member struggle with men. She's a bonafide martyr that let's her kids talk to her any type of way and let's men cross all sorts of boundaries. What does she lose in the process? Peace of mind, self care, self respect, etc. I just thought "You don't get extra points in life for struggling and suffering so why are you struggling and suffering?" You don't have to struggle for love, respect, peace and health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:14 PM |
| 27 | I am just so... disappointedPorn steals intimacy away from couples. You have every right to be angry at him. You did the right thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 03:09 AM |
| 5 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.Somebody needs to adapt this into an HBO mini series and win all the Emmys for best drama because, god in heaven, this is some mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 13 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.I got that same exact feeling. This feels southern. Like 'bama southern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:41 PM |
| 32 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.The amount of stress all at once. Her support system, her grip on reality, her trust in people. All shattered all at once. My god, I pray for this woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:39 PM |
| 9 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.I feel sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | The Tinder SwindlerMy jaw dropped when she admitted to using Tindr for 7 years. 7 YEARS!! At that point, it's either you or the app's fault for not finding something long-term. Tindr should never be used long-term. Use it for the ego boost and get off with a quickness. The MOMENT a man asks me for money, and if I'm lucky through text and not in person, it's an immediate block and delete. Not only would I be setting the foundation as me being a bank account for him, but I'd resent him for the rest of the time we're… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:37 AM |
| 6 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmOnce my nighttime skincare is on my face at 7 or so, I'm not going anywhere. Idc if you're my friend or lover, we'll plan for the next day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:10 AM |
| 9 | One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lolYou are a freaking godsend, mod! Holy shit this comment needs to be in the handbook asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:38 AM |
| 13 | One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lolI would like to see the usernames of the people posting these things so I can block them. Or if people posting can link their usernames in the comments of posts that would be so helpful if allowed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:11 AM |
| 120 | One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lolYa'll it's really getting scary out here in these virtual streets. Please refer to the handbook about how to cover your tracks. Women deserve a safe space to air their grievances about men all they want but the men we deal with here are way too emotional and he might retaliate. She must be new here and still vetting him. "I added her on Reddit." Of course you did, stalker. Where is this post originally from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:00 AM |
| 6 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.All this uproar about a trivial thing like height. I would consider NOT being with a guy for being too tall. I'm not that tall and it would be highly unlikely that a guy is shorter than me. I also look fairly young for my age. I don't want to look like a kid or your child standing next to you. He should have never lied about his height because the majority of women DO NOT CARE but they damn would care if a man lies to them. It also depends on the woman so he should have vetted for women who also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:04 AM |
| 54 | Y'all, they're talking about us again 😂Just because we don't let men get away with degenerate behaviors, we're toxic now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 26 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .YES!!!!! I mean vet vet vet but yes! Bankrupt these companies. Also, Bumble is the worst one out of all of them for women. Me chasing and making the first move on a man?? A pickmes favorite platform. #makemenworkforit2022 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:48 AM |
| 54 | The bar is in hell.if women want equality Not to mention that alot of men who say this dumb shit about "free meals" also tack on that if women want equality so bad then men should be able to punch them in the face....for equality. They don't want equality, they want control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:14 AM |
| 70 | A Curated Selection from OLDbecause the men were either too ugly or non-monogamous it's the "too ugly" that took me right on out. I'm dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 49 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?He would need to compensate me for emotional distress. Throw the book at him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:00 PM |
| 177 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?That's a rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 75 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacitythought it made him look better by saying he only saw them 2 days a month. My pussy clenched up just reading that. You're proud to not see your offspring but for only 2 days a month? See, not this is why the whole "the courts are against fathers" argument has no merit. I'm thoroughly convinced they don't want to be fathers, they just want to trap women. No woman I know would be proud to only see their kids twice a month. It's shameful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 46 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityBut you're a woman with a vagina and feelings and stuff. How could you not want to take care of my kid? Something must be wrong with you. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 74 | A forever girlfriend I metThis might get downvoted to hell but, I don't feel sorry for women like this anymore. I feel like Pickemeishas know that the man doesn't want them. They have to know. 10 years and no real commitment and no investment. Tragic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Cautionary tale - a man will literally take your kidney and cheat on you with no remorseThis is the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂He's going to use all of it. These boys have no shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂I hope he knows that she's planning her exit right now. He blew it. I would also bet a large amount of money she will let him keep half the shit she bought when she decides to move out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:50 PM |
| 47 | Treat yourself like a big purchase.Yes. I hope the “big purchase” analogy made sense bc some women may not know what investing looks or feels like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 12:20 AM |
| 22 | Ladies please don’t do this. You deserve your dream ring!All this for a potentially useless husband. Sounds like a 50/50 chick. Next thing you know, she's going halfsies on the ring to "speed up the process". She played herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 193 | Men wanting to have sex with you is not the compliment you think it is! Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwichYa'll really don't understand. Read this post again and again until it sinks in. Degradation and humiliation is the reason the majority of men want to have sex. Anal is degradation. Slapping is degradation. Calling you a whore in the bedroom is degradation. Men have told me this. Your body isn't a temple to them. To them, it's meant to be conquered and destroyed. This is why I'm against casual sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Men Who Block For No Reason?Girl...it's sometimes something simple like he wanted an ego boost from you. He's probably done it to other women. This is why we do not chase men or invest into them. They invest into us. Take this as a warning sign as well as a blessing and block him too. Thank whatever god that you did not waste more of your time and invest emotionally. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 24 | What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single?I'm yelling!! I can wear the comfy yoga shorts that make my ass look like perfection and have no scrotes pawing at me. My ex used to be so moody and that would alter my mood as well. No more of that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 14 | What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single?Omg I sing and dance more, too! I even laugh more. Yes, it feels like a homecoming to myself. I missed me. Also, I'm way more ruthless than I used to be so I'm nurturing that part of myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersHe's not tall or smart enough to be asking for any of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:17 PM |
| 59 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayI learn every day from posts like these that men will not work on relationships in the same way women do. If you stop being the woman they want you to be, they will drop you emotionally first and then physically. More proof that women should never EVER chase a man. EVER. He needs to do the work to get us then keep us. Not the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Insecure has a lot of examples of LVM, HVM, and the women that love them. SPOILER HEAVY, read at your own risk.I'm fuming because Lawrence created a whole ass baby with another woman (Kondola?) and didn't even want to TRY to marry her or make that work. Lawrence seriously doesn't see any consequences for his actions and STILL gets the girl e wants in the end???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Insecure has a lot of examples of LVM, HVM, and the women that love them. SPOILER HEAVY, read at your own risk.She went back to Lawrence and that was enough for me to throw the whole series away. I always knew in the back of my mind that that was the route Issa was going down, especially right after the 1st breakup, where we still continued to see Lawrence's life but I didn't want to believe it. All of it felt rushed and not earned but I guess the series creators did what they needed to do to end the series. Also, Lawrence never helped her level up and now he'll get to enjoy the fruits of her labor. I re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 06:31 AM |
| 14 | It is SO easy for women to access sexI think about this a great deal. There's so much value in being a woman and we thought it was a great idea to give our power away...for free. Men will pay to be with us or risk losing their sanity. Women will pay men to leave them alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 13 | Don't invest in online relationships with menToys have changed the dating game for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Tell me a pickme runs a page without telling me…Thank you so much! You're a gem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 10 | Tell me a pickme runs a page without telling me…Saving your comment to throw these stats at scrotes because they only understand numbers. Could you link to the source? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:26 PM |
| 4 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysOr until he can coerce her. Sensing the entitlement, from your comments about him, he might do something a little more insidious...if you catch my drift. He sounds like a controlling tornado and she's just flailing in the wind around him. Poor woman. I really don't think women can be true friends with men unless men practice humility daily. I hear way too many stories of loud-and-wrong men trying their damnedest to make women look stupid but not having that same energy with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 117 | Say “no” to breaks and open relationships!Even at my pickme-ish of days, I said no to a scrote wanting me to be his girlfriend without him being my boyfriend. Him wanting ALL of me while I have none of him? Make it make sense. This ex-scrote actually had THE balls to break up with me and then a week later, while I'm still mentally recovering from heartbreak, ask us to continue "dating" (doing sexual things) while he dates other girls. All while he couldn't stomach the thought of me dating other guys. Blocked and deleted forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:51 PM |
| 15 | Just got banned from relationship advice for my comment asking her to join us hereI suddenly like violence omg. this took me out 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:41 AM |
| 24 | When trying to learn more about a man, you can’t directly ask him for his opinion on a topic (porn, cheating, finances) because they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, bring up the topic casually, gauge his reaction and listen very carefully to what he does or does not sayMen really become bumbling idiots once they think you're THAT kind of woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:53 AM |
| 11 | When trying to learn more about a man, you can’t directly ask him for his opinion on a topic (porn, cheating, finances) because they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, bring up the topic casually, gauge his reaction and listen very carefully to what he does or does not say"Play it wholesome and snoop." Girl, what? Don't snoop. It's a waste of time. Ask the right questions. Men will tell you who they are indirectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 3 | This is why venting is a must! And also, it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship because we can straight up get murdered. Some men can’t take No. Rip to these poor souls.Things men NEVER have to worry about. A breakup could mean a death sentence with the wrong one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:36 AM |
| 99 | Being sexually desired ≠ Being respectedMadonna/Whore complex was REAL with that one. It almost makes as much sense as men saying or feeling like they finally respect women after having a daughter. Sorry to break it to you, scrote, but you still don't. T.I. is a great example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 13 | Anyone who uses porn is fucking terrible in bed, and it’s time to spread this message far and widejfc that is awful. That's truly heinous. Like hateful. Great thing he's an ex. I can't even imagine a man doing that to me and getting away with it. You deserve so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 09:37 PM |
| 8 | Anyone who uses porn is fucking terrible in bed, and it’s time to spread this message far and wideWow. This was so well written. Bravo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 09:26 PM |
| 45 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsI'm not exaggerating when I say I HATE men like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:45 AM |
| 7 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Aaron Carter is in a whole other league of crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:04 AM |
| 9 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Damn, you went in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 3 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?What are you guys talking about? They totally look like they have their lives together. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:02 AM |
| 9 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Now I'm imagining ferret fuckboys, so thanks for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:01 AM |
| 24 | Men don't care about women. They won't even engage with a book/movie/TV show if it was written by or centres a woman. They have class solidarity only with each otherIf a man calls a female character a “Mary Sue”, run. To him, you’re just suppose to look pretty, be consumable, say less and not be good at anything. If you’re naturally good at something as a woman, to him, you’re an anomaly and that’s gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:17 AM |
| 15 | DAE Hate Shonda Rimes Written RomancesI see you and I stand in solidarity! I was this close 👌🏾 to making a post about it on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 30 | DAE Hate Shonda Rimes Written RomancesI just figured this out when I watched the movie last month. I was like the pointing Leo Dicaprio meme lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Men can hate you, despise you even, and they’ll still string you along for years to get their revengeI feel sick. I wish I never read that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 103 | DAE Hate Shonda Rimes Written RomancesJulia Roberts in My Best Friends Wedding was actually the first one to say that. Grey’s lifted it. Ultimate Pick Me was Julia Rs character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.Scrote: "BUT WHAT ABOUT ME?!?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:40 AM |
| 265 | "I’m Convinced That A Lot Of Y’all Men Don’t Like Woman, Y’all Like Little Girls" | The granddaughter story actually made me gag.Also, Leonardo Dicaprio is officially disgusting to me now. An overgrown man-baby who needs to do some deep unlearning and therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 11:30 PM |
| 14 | Lets talk about COWARD MenI had to reread this several times. So many red flags. Are you ok? You just said "stop" and he stopped? Did you report him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:15 AM |
| 5 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:GOD, NO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:04 AM |
| 5 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:"In this economy?!" Sorry, that made me giggle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:03 AM |
| 7 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:Male doctors don't even feel empathy for their male patients. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 5 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:So he lacks empathy. Got it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Mom said something that really bugged meWhy are so many mothers like this? The pressuring of you to find someone is just too much and sounds like it comes from a selfish place. 4-5 guys? Guys who will likely waste your time? Guys not looking to commit? Guys with baggage? Fun where? No. You'll be better off single for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 08:00 AM |
| 63 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonPete is the type of guy you date before you enter a LTR or find your husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:49 AM |
| 10 | Never beg a man to marry youHe is either a) actively cheating or b) thinking about actively cheating. This woman lost. He'd respect her more if she dumped him out of the blue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:40 AM |
| 31 | Never beg a man to marry youCan we please talk about this more? Starter wives, trophy wives, etc. This isn't talked about enough. No woman should be a starter wife. I also bet that he gets mad at her for very small things and he starts every fight. He resents her and he clearly can't contain it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:37 AM |
| 12 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.Thank you, Madame! I'm here to help. When I read that portion of the article, when I tell you I HOLLERED! Who is this queen that sent that man right on his merry way? Sometimes these men are shamed or forced out of the scene. These men would stay there forever if they could. I'm disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 12:26 AM |
| 108 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.kept telling me that by bringing it up I was ruining it and that he had plans Manipulation and future faking at its finest. It happened to me too. Here's to better things 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:26 PM |
| 53 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.It really depends on the woman. Personally, I think a year is more than enough time to make a decision, especially if you're getting older and want to start a family. Be engaged for another year, then get married. Engagements can also be called off for any reason. Again, the timeline is different for everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:52 AM |
| 28 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorThis post better not get downvotes! A whole word! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:00 AM |
| 85 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.oh my gosh. Thank you for the callout. I actually meant lib fem but accidentally left out lib. I made the mistake of thinking "feminism" in this sub translated to "lib fem". I'll make the edit later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:59 AM |
| 56 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.Yes, it's a lot. It's a long article. You're totally right, it is them. They are the ones that need to work on themselves and I hope women can spot these types with the info provided here so they can stay FAR AWAY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 02:30 AM |
| 55 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsIt's simple math and women are so dick-whipped that they actually believe behaving like a pornstar and paying for dates makes her a "cool girl". I hate this planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 02:10 AM |
| 643 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beThat's the most fucked up thing I've ever read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 24 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit."Feculent." Let me tuck that word away for later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 22 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.Cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:59 PM |
| 8 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.Frequent watery stools aren't normal and can indicate something more serious. He needs to see a doctor but before that, leave him. If I live with a man again, I am committed to having my own bathroom. Trust me, it's a game-changer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyI have emotional connections to many Pisces (women bffs and men bfs). They are literally my opposite sign which is crazy. They are a very feminine sign. The ONLY sign that has wrecked my life emotionally. I can't even pretend to be unbothered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyI'm sorry people are ignorant to something so harmless. Just don't even bother telling people you do tarot. They won't get it and won't even try. I love doing tarot by myself in a cleansed space. It's way more spiritual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyMen feel bold enough to say this to us but get all types of offended if we even suggest that their fantasy football league, pokemon card collection, or collectible action figures are dumb. Which we never would BECAUSE WE'RE NOT SOCIOPATHS. They are scared to just come right out and say they hate women. I mentioned that I loved HP, talked about the house I was sorted in and my patronus etc. to my LVX and at least he had enough brain cells to put 2 + 2 together to buy me thoughtful gifts related t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:46 PM |
| 9 | When two people try to out-LV each otherI groaned the entire time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Men will waste your time and then waste it some more.I'm so sorry. At least the trash took itself out. This is why vetting is key. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Men will waste your time and then waste it some more.I kinda love this comment. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 07:34 PM |
| 20 | Men will waste your time and then waste it some more.You just reminded me, it gets worse. He joked about being a SAHD…it wasn’t a joke and we both knew it. That was the nail in the coffin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 10:13 AM |
| 43 | Men will waste your time and then waste it some more.may consider putting a ring on it Hate to see it. I might be old-fashioned but no woman should be asking a man to marry her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:10 AM |
| 58 | Men will waste your time and then waste it some more.Not even just common law marriage or joint accounts. Actually buying a freaking house together. He has enough money to think about that but not securing me as a wife. Ugh. At some point, you just have to realize "Oh, so this is where I stand on your list of priorities. K cool. Bye." The GALL! The NERVE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:09 AM |
| 24 | The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering.I mean, to me, all of these are dog whistles for "I won't commit to you." Men on these apps aren't looking for friends, they're looking for someone to hookup with first and then see if they want to do something exclusive with you. Stay far away from men like this. They'll make you crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 22 | The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering.What I've learned is that no one values anything that's free. Most of these OLDs are. That's why the bottom of the barrel are on there trying to catch any woman with a beating heart. I just stay off of them. In the long run, it's not worth it, especially for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:19 PM |
| 10 | Safety issues with food delivery appsThanks god for my unisex name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 08:57 PM |
| 65 | A real "Cool Girl" is one who turns down Leonardo DiCaprioThat would turn me all the way off. Ew. A grown-ass man (scrote) trying to get his lackey to convince me to sleep with him. Laughable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).RUTHLESS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 12 | When negging is made mainstream!Don't even get me started on the Netflix show "YOU". Painting a psychotic obsessed murderer as the antihero is exactly what we need right now in today's climate regarding domestic violence. Throw it all in the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 6 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."Why did I immediately think of Ben Affleck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:46 PM |
| 19 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."people value things that are expensive and not easily won That's it. Say that. People value things they have to WORK for. Men today, don't want to work for anything. They need instant gratification immediately. Whether it's porn or gaming or "conquering" a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:45 PM |
| 11 | When negging is made mainstream!How To Be An Abuser 101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 29 | How frustrating can Pickmes be ....Honestly, I'm in the same boat when it comes to standards. I spoil myself every day now and if a man can't spoil me better than I can, then what's the point? I deserve it and you deserve it (any woman deserves it really) and there's no doubt in my mind there's plenty of men who are willing to do that and more. Men secretly love a woman with boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:25 PM |
| 6 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.Throughout this whole thing, she really didn't put 2 and 2 together. Women want to pay out of fear of what? Why? Believe me, she'll either be a forever girlfriend growing to resent the man after 6 years and no ring or she'll definitely get married to a man who is going to own her and I really mean OWN her. Hope she wakes up soon. Her youth is being wasted on scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 133 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupMommy Mcbangmaid asked for more and the scrote was shooketh. Just ask for more, ladies, the scrotes will always reveal themselves. The mask will fall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of men who do live feedings for pets like large snakes, snapping turtles, etc?It is unnatural to revel in the brutality of any living thing. Regardless of what is happening, people who do are sick and you need to stay far away from them. They are walking voids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Be careful: Lyft report cites higher numbers of sexual assaultsWould you get charged for canceling? I want to try this this weekend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have become"Do you think they'd still be polyamorous if they weren't allowed to fuck any of them?" I screamed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Navigating the FDS as a WOCCan confirm, it's easier if they have friends of color AND if they don't make jokes about their race(??????) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:55 AM |
| 5 | Navigating the FDS as a WOCI learned to ever tell a man you're polylingual unless he is too, he'll treat you like a circus act and fetishize you forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:52 AM |
| 12 | What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth?Nevermind YOUR baby, he yelled at A baby to shutup. He always starts the fights and TOLD you out of his dumb mouth that he didn't like a hairstyle you did. Whew girl, the bar is in the 9th circle of hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 10:24 AM |
| 5 | Buzzfeed pushing dangerous LV shitYou learn something every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 07:23 AM |
| 13 | reminder. none of us like this. but...(if you are serious about wanting a relationship with a quality man) you HAVE to meet a lot of men 🤢. finding hvm involves luck. if you go on as many dates as possible 😢you will increase your bleak, terrible odds.Make friends and if you have a hobby, do it in a group. That's how you meet HVM men and if you don't, you're at least leveling up. Win-win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 40 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"I wonder when he gave her the cheap ass "shutup" promise ring that he told her it's definitely NOT an engagement ring. Like how embarrassing. An engagement ring IS a promise ring. It's a promise to marry you. This guy is a joke. I can't stand men like him who are, basically, afraid of marriage. They look like little weaklings to me. Something to get stepped on by bigger men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:48 PM |
| 11 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenThe cold hard truth is this right here. They’ll try and move on quickly in order to not act as both mom and dad when women HAVE to act as both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:23 AM |
| 35 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenI was scrolling just waiting to see this comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:12 PM |
| 4 | "WIFE 💍"“Wife and Mother” are not accomplishments to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | [Spoilers] "Scenes from a Marriage " is a great example of a LVW.Yes, in the original it was the man doing all this. I'll clarify I'm talking about the HBO adaption. I think it's safe to say any person would be a LVP (low value person). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | HVM Traits You've Noticed in the WildHe will pay for the entire group you’re with especially if it’s primarily single women. A gay man did this for us and I was shocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Damn, conservative women are out here with this pick of the litter. Good luck and godspeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:57 PM |
| 26 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.The visuals of the type of woman he wants have me on the floor dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:55 PM |
| 10 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.I just find it funny that pro-life, a stance that only affects womens' bodies, is his first criteria. Not to get political or anything (I mean, he started it) but I just read pro-life and R-XXX in the same paragraph and thought "oh he's definitely a r*pist at worst and at his best he'll do disgusting degrading things to you, probably traumatize you and will want you to keep the baby." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:49 PM |
| 6 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!If women can’t choose the best mate….then humanity suffers the ill fate. Hun, you said a whole word and a half! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:57 AM |
| 18 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!Yes! In the documentary, the payoff for the male doing all the courting and hard work at first is that these birds are very committed to each other and mate for life. I don't know a single species that has lazy males and those males still get rewarded. Those males die alone. They do everything possible to find a mate, even if it isn't a lifelong partnership. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:57 AM |
| 4 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!If he attracts a female and she’s interested, she shows acceptance by throwing at least some of the nesting materials out and replacing them and finishing the nest building. I love that. I imagine her being like "Throwing all this stuff out to make room for better things!" but singing while she's doing it. I wonder how often the male attracts two females at the same time. I don't really like that the females fight over the males but that can depend on the ratio of females to males I suppose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:52 AM |
| 22 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!"Male birds have more masculinity than these human clowns combined." i'm screaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | if a pacarana can lather his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfI can't look at celebrities the same who say they don't bathe. This is a rodent and it focuses on the ENTIRE body. It even gets its genitals...I just... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:44 AM |
| 25 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!I actually felt embarrassment thinking about how if the female bird could see how human females mate, she’s be laughing her ass off. She’s on her queen shit and we can barely keep it together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:36 AM |
| 7 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!Omg what kind of birds? I’d love to learn more. I’ve gotten more into bird watching lately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 43 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!Yeah, we're not here for literal nests just metaphorical ones lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Today I had to ask what is wrong with some of these men?You said a word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Meeting men via speed dating or singles eventsI actually love this idea. Instead of sitting and talking, you do something a little more intimate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 05:44 AM |
| 20 | GRIMES IS FREEThis was so damn confusing. “We’re separated but she still stays with me and the baby.” So this is open?? Why can’t she leave the house? What????? Where is her voice? Why is he the only one speaking on the relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 11 | Dating Apps = CircusThis. It’s always better to meet someone in real life and not online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 3 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”Thank you so much for the phrase "weaponized incompetence." I didn't know I needed it, but I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:41 AM |
| 19 | Pick me cultureMegan: "Defying your puritanical repressed projection of me!!" Also Megan: "Yes, Daddy." There's alot to unpack here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Hahaha what. #hobosexualMore like "Single female asking to get murdered! Need someone to take a chance hiding my body!! Will pay for the rope and ducktape and will throw in a shovel , if you're lucky!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?"Because these women need to see their value is in being naked." Also, you're delusional if you think this creep isn't fucking some of these models and then getting paid for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 13 | WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverageAs a black woman (I like to be more specific about my identity because POC or WOC is not specific enough to me), a person who is at one of the lowest totems of society, none of us get saved unless we start with the most marginalized. If we can do that, the effects start to trickle up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:04 AM |
| 15 | This was so wild I couldn’t not share🥲 Thankfully most people were advising OP to ditch him.Congrats! You're about to be an ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:40 AM |
| 7 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.This this this. You know the game. Men will, without remorse, waste 👏🏾 your 👏🏾time 👏🏾. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 3 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.She is a shell of a woman and she’s wayyy too far gone. Hopefully she’s not making the majority of the money too. Also there’s no doubt he’s going to OPENLY cheat in her…I’ll pray for her, I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 59 | *questions my entire childhood*Great example of how LVM don't even care for pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:22 AM |
| 50 | *questions my entire childhood*Of course, a male author wrote that. Lol. Nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:20 AM |
| 51 | You never really know someone…This and countless other cases are morbid reminders that what we do here at FDS means life and death. If she was just given the tools to cut this murderer out, a life could have been spared. I'm spreading the gospel about FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:49 AM |
| 117 | *questions my entire childhood*I was just thinking about Disney characters and Peter Pan popped up and I was like "Ew, he was so low value what did Tinkerbell see in him? OHMYGOD Tinkerbell was a bratty pickmeisha." Like she even tried to hurt Wendy over jealousy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:30 AM |
| 25 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesWhew, hun, don't you know it? That's funny that you mention "our accounts". It's funny bc my ex-bf brought up having a joint account and I quickly shot that tf down. That's when I began to side-eye really hard. LV non-generous men really like having a joint account that you HAVE to contribute to when they bring nothing to the table. They bring just enough for themselves and that's it. He knew he was trying to jip you. Glad you got out of that relationship. I'll say it once and I'll say it again,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:25 AM |
| 60 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?“No” is a fucking full sentence and when you mean it, it can change your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:32 PM |
| 167 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preaches50/50 is the biggest lie ever told to women and I believe it ONLY benefits men. All 50/50 did for me was cheaper rent, utilities, and groceries but it killed my romantic attraction to any former partners. It’s a death sentence waiting to happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:02 PM |
| 4 | I don’t want to do performative femininity anymoreFirst and foremost, don't do ANYTHING you don't want to do. You have agency and choice and life is too short to conform to rules that men made up to make their dick hard. What matters is if you have confidence in yourself. I find that performing feminity is a safety measure, for me at least. The only thing with this is, if you're heterosexual, at first glance, scrotes are attracted to a woman who doesn't look womanly. Even if it isn't true, it shows to them that she doesn't care about herself an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 6 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksHe definitely killed her. If you don't think so, I'll pray for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 07:48 PM |
| 6 | "Should I really vet for the rest of my life?? That seems excessive and too much work!" Yes, sis, yes you shouldVetting is now a lifestyle choice. I now vet everyone, thing, group, company, product, and service. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 38 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?Not even playing devil's advocate or anything, but I have a theory that it's because they're "forbidden fruit" and it's about control. OP already questioned whether it's p0rn as well. The programming they have through porn to see these girls as desirable is so common it's now the norm. It's no different than ince$t porn either. Really effed up stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:35 AM |
| 6 | Kicked out my LVM roommate. I feel like I can finally enjoy life again 😄Jfc, men cannot handle taking care of themselves, no wonder they die early without companionship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | He locks her out of the house, because men are literally the worst.This is what settling looks like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:02 AM |
| 13 | Don’t save his number in your phone.ok, queen, work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 7 | Don’t save his number in your phone.I name them by zodiac sign and with a little emoji. Makes it fun that way and you never really get too attached. I can always find another Leo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:40 AM |
| 33 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄She’s not even his wife why does he care? What is happening to the world? Are people delusional? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:22 PM |
| 74 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleYes! You’ve leveed up. Being a girlfriend doesn’t benefit women at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 76 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleI don’t believe in being a girlfriend. I’m either a fiance or a wife. A girlfriend should always be thought of as a transitional or temporary stage. Some men will keep you there forever and receive all the benefits of marriage. If I’m not your fiance, I’m single. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:03 PM |
| 62 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!Yeah. Actual garbage. Not even trying to be mean, but he’s going to relapse and emotionally suffocate Olivia. I don’t feel bad for her at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 169 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!He equated his ex-wife with suffering and saw this new younger prettier woman as his salvation…hm, where have I heard this before? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 95 | Stop telling these men what your idea of a HVM is, LVM/NVM love to pretend to be HV and you just gave them to blueprint what HVM is to you.Asking the RIGHT questions is an art I pride myself in. They always let you know who they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:22 AM |
| 32 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣I was just thinking about the poly dynamic today. They just come of as lost to me. Just lost people engaging romantically with other lost people, wasting each others time. Good for them. They waste their time with each other than with people looking for meaningful monogamous relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:18 AM |
| 8 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.I demand a man show me his STD testing results before he sticks anything in me. Weed em out. Peace of mind and body is worth its weight in gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:48 PM |
| 5 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.They don’t care about their own which baffles the hell out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 118 | What was your moment of clarity?Literally don’t even know you and can’t even deal with vomiting , personally, but I’d be grabbing gatorade, advil, flowers, extra trash bags, anti nausea meds and would be checking in every 30 min to at least make sure you’re alive. And that’s just what I’d do for a friend. That guy was scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:33 PM |
| 3 | He asked to borrow moneyStorytime. For my birthday, I was given a couples massage at a cool spa by my boyfriend at the time. I specifically requested a female for myself before we arrived for the appointment, like 3 days before. I didn't like men other than my boyfriend touching me, obviously. I get to the appointment and surprise, the female masseuse can't make it for whatever reason. The staff say they have a masseuse available who is male and that he can make the appointment. Not wanting to be difficult and literall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 6 | I love it when the trash takes itself outAs a former Bumble user, women look like clowns on Bumble. Only men benefit and feel like the prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 04:31 PM |
| 15 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.If his point is to instill fear, women have seen and experienced worse. Trust us. Try harder scrote then die mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 10 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.This actually made me laugh. Scrotes like this bark loud but turn out to be chihuahuas. I love that men are threatened by women. Mods, what can we do as internetizens to combat this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:03 PM |
| 2 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?That is a new level of desperate that I’ve never even seen before. JFC all women need to stop using OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Asian men have been the most generous towards me but by far the cruelest so I am very picky. That doesn’t put me off ALL Asian men though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.PREACH, PREACHER! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Huge HP fan. Can’t go a single year without binging all the movies and used to think Ron and Hermione’s relationship was so cute. All that pining. Now. Hermione…girl…you’re better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?He replaced a photo of me, his gf, on his phone's wallpaper with an Insta model's. My self esteem dropped to the floor. I still stayed until he broke up with me. Then he tried to be FWB with me while he flirted with a girl in our shared classroom. I was so lost and I'm still angry thinking about it. Boundaries are now my best mf friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 24 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.Fuck Olivia Munn...respectfully. Have fun with Mulaney, Olivia, he'll destroy you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Why you shouldn’t go back to OLD.Just ended a long-term relationship and will NEVER go back to OLD. OLD gets me absolutely nowhere each and every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 25 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡A 4 year engagement???? Some LVM are catching on to buying women "shutup rings" and then ask for them back since the marriage didn't happen. It's rough out here. If there's no date in his mind, it's literally not happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:52 PM |
| 37 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡Literally me 🤡 except 3 years. Ended it last month. FDS saved my freaking life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 14 | Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novelsI only watch my trashy guilty pleasure (Real Housewives) when I’m knitting. It’s a hobby I used to do when I was little and I’m now taking up embroidery along with it. Usually, after watching about 3 episodes or so I go outside and either go on a long walk or play tennis. I’m also looking into golf and equestrian as hobbies. It’s all about moderation and not taking those shows seriously at all. Plus I usually look at those shows as character studies especially for studying faux HVM and HVW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Scrote Translation: I’m going to wait for other men to work and erode your standards first, then swoop in and take advantage of you ;)I thought this was a woman speaking before I got to "split bills". Looked at the picture and everything made sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 24 | The Devil’s Advocate! I wish we could delete and block these men in real life situations…Whenever a man says “Let me play devil’s advocate” I mentally check out of the conversation and will forever remember him for being a waste of space. This post put it into words perfectly on why I don’t deal with men like that. Also, I’ve never encountered a woman who does this. Only men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 10 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?"Odd Behavior". These are peak survival tactics. Good on those women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:39 AM |
| 29 | This is nothing but truth.This doesn’t just apply to romantic relationships, either. Platonic and familial also count. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt.I just had flashbacks to when I went to Italy. I was 12. Probably, one of the worst moments in my entire life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt.When are men going to understand that there's a 0% success rate for pulling up to a woman on the street? Women who are married or dating don't begin with, "Well, he pulled up to me and screamed that my ass is fat and it was smooth sailing ever since." The only thing that will make a woman do is literally RUN in the other direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt.Yes this! I did the same thing when a man followed me and asked me where I lived. My flight hadn't kicked in and I had no weapons on me. Lied about living across the street. Some people pulled up and asked if I was ok and stayed with me until he left down the street. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | This is one reason female only spaces are important. There will always be men who get off on women’s traumaAs demonic as this is, this doesn't surprise me at all. Humiliating and traumatizing women are men's favorite pastime. Men will even traumatize and humiliate other men for fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | A female only gym and scrotes are comparing it to segregation and racism. Im not jokingI was in UAE. I have to admit, it's a bit more westernized than other ME countries. At no point did I believe, maybe through well thought-out marketing or the Emirate women I met, that the local women or even ex-pat women were being oppressed. There were plenty of women business owners and women in high powered positions. Now the women in service or hospitality level roles, usually from other foreign countries, are another story. You're right, it totally does depend on where you are in the ME. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 15 | A female only gym and scrotes are comparing it to segregation and racism. Im not jokingIn the Middles East, women and men are separated in almost every public space if the women want to be. They have the choice to not be in a man's presence for whatever reason. Public trains, taxis, etc. I was an expat and let me tell you, they're on to something over there. "I felt safer" is an understatement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:04 AM |
| 6 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOThose men aren't her friends. They're keeping her as a possible booty call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inAgreed. Table manners are honestly a forgotten art nowadays. I’ve been brushing up on my etiquette knowledge too, especially business etiquette. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 11 | Weird Red Flags?Huge turn off and red flag if he refers to women as females but men as men. Huge dehumanizing language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 135 | Other things he does in Bed that are Red Flags and Manipulative!My ex once threw me a dirty look because I was "taking too long" to finish during foreplay. I didn't know it then, but that's a form of negging even if non-verbal. I should've kicked him out of my house right then and there and into the snow. Never let a man rush you in bed. My kitty dried up so fast after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Everyone go follow Mina! It's already been a week since I found her channel and I can't unsee some of the shit I've seen non-providing men do. It's night and day. She gives great points on how to start doing the inner work. Simply, a goddess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.This actually enrages me. Keep doing well for yourself. He can go straight to hell. "man-child with the emotional maturity of a toaster" actually cracked me up so thank you for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:32 PM |
| 12 | Murder Red Flags: If you have experienced these, you are at higher risk of being murdered.I am so so sorry this happened to you. You deserve peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Does she wipe his ass, too?Is that cage for her? I had to watch this three times because I couldn’t believe what I was watching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:12 AM |
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