| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | "I know a spot I can take you..." | FDS HUMOR | ALysistrataType | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:07 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 26 | I don't think there can ever be too many reminders that: if he wanted to, he would.Walk dates, coffee dates, and what do you bring to the table got these LVM's in a chokehold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Christmas is around the corner 🎄 Here's some queen shit to get you in the holiday spirit! 🎅 | A.K.A. How one woman on TikTok dealt with a LVM who tried to dump her before ChristmasI thought this was Viola Davis from the still which made this even funnier. Good for her not waiting to leave. She had her sister there to help her pack her things and leave his ass with his bare home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:07 PM |
| 3 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.I was with a man casually who had the same look as him and reading your comment is not at all a surprise. The fit, heavily tattooed, good looking, bachelor🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:56 PM |
| 77 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.I just like looking at Michele Marone. But his character treats women as though they're disposable ( the flight attendant he got oral sex from, the sex slave) but then he screams, "I've loved you since the first time I saw you!" She is under his control all day. He takes her shopping but has no qualms about restraining her. He kidnapped her but that's fine they went on a designer Italian shopping spree! I watched that movie confused at shit. Hands down best sex scene when they were on the boat b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.Daaaaaaaaaaaamn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:20 PM |
| 34 | Recommendations on where to get background checks done on someone?If you're in America all you need is a real name and birthday. Start with their first and last name in Google with their city/zip code. "John Smith 34578" or "John Smith Miami" you'll find previous addresses, current address, partial emails, and relatives on a few sites. Next you want to try their county and surrounding counties Clerk of Court websites. Go to civil court cases to find out if they're married, fed for divorce, or going through custody battles, speeding tickets/vehicle infractions.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Message for side plate pick me’s. You’ll never win by disrespecting yourself & other women."Lose 'em how you got " em " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Rarely known and used Safety DeviceThey also have apartment friendly wireless door bells. You don't have to wire it or drill holes in the walls because you can buy a holder for it. The holder locks the wireless doorbell in a box and it's then mounted onto your door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 13 | Ummm. What?Look at pervy Mr. Humbert over here. WTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:16 PM |
| 23 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.This is what happens when you're afraid to be single and alone. That's the quality of relationship you'll be willing to invest in. Fucking pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 27 | This was so wild I couldn’t not share🥲 Thankfully most people were advising OP to ditch him.🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 21 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksThis is so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:54 PM |
| 6 | There's our answer ladies.Girl this thread just popped up on my feed and someone screen shorted a quote by Marilyn Frye. And sure enough they did what she said they'd do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:16 PM |
| 50 | They will stay mad for 7 years and never changeI completely forgot the title of your post once I started reading it. 🤣 7 years later and he's still pissed a out this woman? He's upset he missed his meal ticket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | FDS approved fiction?Pretty sure anything by Gail Dines is approved. I love listening to her on YouTube. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueSame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueSpeaking from personal experience. This happened to me at his place. He has two bathrooms. I told him I was going to use it. He walks in. There was no one else on his home so there really is no reason to lock the door, and the assumption is that the other person in the house isn't a narcissist creep who will just walk in on you while they know you're using the restroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueEvery time someone posts something in this sub it's on the list of "Weird Shit My Casual Fling Did" On night ONE he just walked into the bathroom while I was using it. At first I just thought he was feral but nope. Just another 🚩. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you not desire love when you have independently accomplished everything else you have wanted in life?... then you build that. You take the advice in regard to weeding out all the LVM/NVM and you build the family/relationship you want. I think most of us in this sub are single and taking a step back from dating because we see the pee in the dating pool and we want to filter it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | FDS in action at Whole FoodsThey have chins? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Don’t save his number in your phone.The psychology behind this is great. I briefly dated this guy 3 years ago or so and he forced himself on me so I blocked him and never spoke to him again. I found all my blocked messages on my phone and I had noticed that I had added a question mark to his name when I added him as a contact. I had done it subconsciously but I somehow NEVER noticed that I had did that. My mind told me right then and there how I felt about this man but I didn't even notice it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | He stood her up, left unhinged VMs, then his mom joins in (part 2)Bradley's mom reminds me of my ex's mom. She was a southern gal who never made it passed 8th grade and she could talk your ear off and never let you get a word in. You could set the phone down and disappear for 30 minutes and she'd never know. Women like that are ripe for picking unfortunately and Bradley's behavior is an absolute reflection on the relationship he has with his parents and them with each other. They need therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | A Text from an Ex. Have a field day, Queens.:::Insert Future looking down and texting on his phone::: meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.This almost reminds me of the Win A Date With A Red Pill Douchebag video lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 8 | The bar is in hell and I am so tired of itAnd everyday I'm thankful for this sub and watching my comments go to automod because when I venture to other subs it's just a misogynistic cesspool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:00 AM |
| 17 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.I don't even know where to begin with this. How does someone look at a man like that and have the perfect victim in mind? I want to scream for you. She noticed you were "depressed" and felt a man who can barely function is an acceptable match? People truly believe that women would rather be miserable with a man than be single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:51 AM |
| 18 | Avoid using OLD to meet menI had a terrible experience the last time I did the whole OLD thing. I immediately deleted the app and never looked back. It's more like a cesspool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Kicked out my LVM roommate. I feel like I can finally enjoy life again 😄He drugged you?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄They're not even married lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | He locks her out of the house, because men are literally the worst.What the fuck did I just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Man Stands her up, lies about it, then floods her inboxShe's a radio show host. He thought she'd put it on TikTok and didnt think she'd do it on her radio show. Ha. She's gonna air the last VM sent to her from HIS MOTHER tomorrow morning on her radio show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 03:14 AM |
| 19 | How do you deal with rejection?What you're doing is typical but incredibly harmful to your self esteem and psyche. First things first, you need to unfriend and block him on every platform including your contacts list. You don't need to see what he's doing. He's very clearly made his choice. He literally "Younger modeled" you. Trust me. Long term you don't want a man like that because he's always going to be open and looking for something younger. C'mon now. It sucks that it didn't work out between you two but giving him any e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Can't even shop in peaceBoy moms lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on SMBC? (single mother by choice or some form of co-parenting with a male friend)There's a legal way to go about this and that's a request for them sign away their legal right as a father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:31 AM |
| 5 | Men Who live With Parents or RoommatesWhen they're trying to have sex with you in their car 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Men Who live With Parents or RoommatesI'd rather not date either of the two. The pandemic did hit everyone on their ass but to be quite frank, I want a man with the same values. I value independence the most whether it be me or my partners. If I can manage to come out on the other end of this pandemic independently the man most suitable for me should be able to too. I assure you, I'm by no means living a glamorous lifestyle but the moment I lost my job I had to figure out quickly how to sustain myself. I want someone who is as resou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | There is a huge percentage of the unvaccinated population who are women being kept from getting it by their male partner.This is very true. I think one of the most fascinating things I've learned recently is that plenty of women literally give up their autonomy when they get married. Their husbands even tell them who to vote for. A neighbor of mine is divorced with 3 kids. His wife remarried one of those super "patriotic" right wing chauvinists and he made sure his wife and HER children did not get vaccinated. Until of course two of their friends died from Covid and they were scrambling to schedule 2 of the 3 chil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:17 AM |
| 12 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”They're not out-of-yowner's. They're local but need you to understand that you're not going to see them after they get what they want from you because they're going, "back home". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 03:36 AM |
| 1 | FDS in real life (link didn’t post last time)😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Nicki Minaj's Husband Pleads Guilty for Failing to Register as a Sex OffenderI really wish she would just drop this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Ladies how do you feel about mother’s who pick out girlfriends for their sons?Outside of cultural norms, I think that's weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:33 AM |
| 1 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areThe profiles in my area are all the same. Everyone has been to Peru or Colombia. Everyone works in tech or sales. Everyones favorite show is Game of Thrones or The Office. They speak fluent sarcasm, and try to lure you with dogs and kids who aren't their own. Oh! And their favorite food is tacos. Just ugh... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 19 | I love it when the trash takes itself outI had an ex who claimed to be 6'3 online and as time went on he made it down to 6'1". He said to me, "they said to add 2-3 inches on your dating profile. " Like who the fuck is, " they". This a LVM dating profile tactic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 7 | Where is the lie?Yeah this is basically how it goes. He still got off and you're angry as fuck and he does not give a fuck and swears you don't know what you're talking about. Relatable and I'm disgusted lol. It's the, "still piped" that just really gets ya. And her mentioning the low bar 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 08:12 PM |
| 122 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.The irony here is that this is the same message that Hitler sent to his followers. He would say Jews were beneath everyone else, but at the same time say that they are so powerful because they control the world around everyone. It's a perfect way to make yourself a victim while trying to subjugate another group of people. Edit: spelling/word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:06 PM |
| 50 | He asked to borrow moneyWhat would possess him to ask a client for money??? He thinks because you paid so far in advance that you can give him money and not miss it, I suppose. Broke with the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...Its just so trivial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 50 | The most important quote/post/thread you read on FDS"Twitch is just OnlyFans for men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 15 | Cry me a riverWhat a weirdo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 4 | I’m really curious to know..I'd tell myself that there will never be a shortage of men and to focus on school. I'd tell myself to choose an entirely different career and give her a list of men who will enter her life whom she must at all costs avoid lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:11 PM |
| 19 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.The fact that OP is in her 30's and Wills daughter is 25. Whew boy. Okay. All I can say is good for her for leaving. It's one thing when your partner picks on you but to involve the kids in harassing, undermining, and disrespecting you is messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Looking for Impactful Volunteer Opportunities to Support and Empower WomenOn Thanksgiving one year the retail company I worked for hosted a volunteer event at Women in Distress. Try to find a chapter in your county and see if you can volunteer. Also a lot of welfare programs are gender neutral but the majority of people seek and accept the assistance are women so try to see if your local church(es) has a hand in social programs. I was often homeless as a kid and I lived in transitional housing that was funded between the state, county, and the church. They had a compo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:03 AM |
| 151 | Saw This Story. First red flag was coffee date and the rest are in the post. Glad someone was looking out for her!I think there was an AskReddit post where the OP asked bisexual redditors which was harder to date, men or women, and hands down, without question men were the hardest to date as a bisexual person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:42 PM |
| 252 | Saw This Story. First red flag was coffee date and the rest are in the post. Glad someone was looking out for her!The hold Kevin Samuels has on a certain demographic of men is deplorable. Like the guy who lurks and loiters at the gas station thinks he's a HVM now. I can't stand it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 40 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.I wonder what the husband was slinging that Rose decided that she was going to upend her current life to move next door 😂. Everytime I see stories like this I think about the "Cool Girl" monologue from Gone Girl. Being 'bout it gets a woman nowhere. Just an incredible pick me stupid move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:38 PM |
| 3 | In a post asking reddit to ban incel subs after an incel shooting in the UK, comments that FDS needs to be banned"Yet. Give them time." Has me screaming 😂😂😂😂😂 Omg the material writes itself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:40 AM |
| 42 | "Activity dates are best for first dates because they enable you to get to know each other better and in a lower-stress manner": solid dating advice or liable to make women lower their standards?We're in a spot where men don't want to even invest in breaking bread with women so I'm on the fence about activity dates. Activity dates sound great! Well after the first date though. Seeing how he treats wait staff, plans a date, dresses for a date, communicates with you and others, you can actually do all of that at a restaurant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:38 AM |
| 11 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.All this reads is, "I've tried several way to manipulate women but they're smarter than I thought. Didn't see that coming." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:22 PM |
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