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| 1 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.Ok explain the orgasm gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot.Ok explain the orgasm gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.Damn reddit-men are salty about this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketAnd the system still works. In the few countries where it's almost voluntary to stay single (almost because social pressure is still there and often women need to choose between their wishes or their entire family) women mostly stay single and the only ones complaining are men. Never have i ever seen a headline stating women are single against their will but i see that exact headline about men monthly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketIf anything of what you said was true, men would not make systems to force and keep women in marriages against their will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketMen admit to hating women for asking them out either because it makes them think of the women as desperate or pathethic or because they hate themselves and peoject that hate onto people who appreciate them. Either way women learn the hard way how asking men out leads to traumatic experiences so they stop doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketHow do you explain women initiating most divorces and men getting better health from marriage though? Here's a full explanation using all popular studies done and if you deny this you'd better have a good explanation as to why men remarry more often while women stay unmarried and why women have more free time and friends while unmarried/single while men have less free time and are less satisfied about their social network while single: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Value is determined by the marketMen will say yes to anyone generally because they just want to use women for sex. It's a terrible idea to ask men out because it almost guarantees dating someone who hates you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketSource? Also women don't want to date men who can't even ask women out. You're beyond saving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketOr because they're raped every day. You know if you're lonely you can date men as well. Same deal. Women rarely find the men they date attractive so it's gonna be the exact same baseline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketYes because every source i've ever read on male vs female dating experience finds this to be the complete opposite. The fact that every dating site is filled to rhe brim with men and only have a small percentage women users is one of many proofs that you have no idea what you're talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketSource? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketMen get better lives and longer lives from marriages which is why they force women to stay in marriages with men but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Value is determined by the marketOk so you missed the point. Re-read OP and maybe you'll get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Value is determined by the marketMore likely to be happy single* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketLMAO source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 8 | Value is determined by the marketWomen aren't as desperate as men in general and so there's no "inevitable" end for them. What would that inevitable end be? Being happily single or unhappily in a relationship that she sooner or later will leave if she knows what's best for her. Worst case is her accepting her fate and doing her best forgetting her life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Value is determined by the marketMen wouldn't want to commit to the world's best woman. Men want to have the cake and eat it too and that's why they lie about commitment hoping they can basically steal because no pay is better than some pay no matter the reward for bad men. It's like saying men wouldn't steal if there's good enough products in the store. They still do lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Value is determined by the marketThanks for this lmao. The guy commenting saying "no, i'm not in another market, but if i went back to the old market i would have even MORE MARKET VALUE!!!!" as if he almost understood what value according to different markets means. Love it when people state simple straight forward facts and men lose their brain immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 0 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Men die in specific situations where they do guard themselves because the odds for them being killed is the same as the odds for a woman being killed while being with men. Men who are killed by men are mainly doing crimes, staying in prisons, on the street being homeless etc and these men do fear for their life and rightfully so. Women aren't dumb and they know their odds. They're just so used to being in constant danger that they by default let their rapists and abusers do whatever they please … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 0 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?No we haven't. Men kill women more than war kill men. It's a global threat and women are forced to stay in relationships to be raped because of it. The proof of this is among everything else the fact that the more liberated women become, the more women leave relationships and marriages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:54 PM |
| 0 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Ok then stick to the second part of my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:03 AM |
| 0 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Depends on the arranged marriage but in most if not all cases there's pressure from family, sometimes the choice is between being killed by your father or maybe surviving the everyday rape of your new husband. Child brides is a good example on a pretty common deal still besides the fact that the children sometimes die from internal bleeding after the rape. Mostly for adults it's a matter of either being homeless or raped. The situation OP describes is a threat of "if you leave i will be angry/da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:02 AM |
| 0 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?You cannot give consent under pressure. That's part of the definition of consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?It's not the problem. The problem is men make entire systems in order to rape women and girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Men rape their wives to death my man. Every day. And then they remarry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 08:09 AM |
| 6 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?And lots of men take the opportunity to rape their wife. It's not at all OK. Marry your rapist laws are still present as well. Arranged marriages were invented for the sole purpose of giving men women and girls to rape as they please. The only arranged marriages that are OK are the ones where the woman is free to leave at any point and those are seldom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:37 PM |
| 0 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?She gets raped and he gets bored. Not really a fair or ok deal at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?It didn't stop men from raping their wives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 3 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?What's described here is actually rape. Not many realize it but it is abusive. It's not like they don't realize you don't enjoy yourself or them. They know and that's why they try to stop you from leaving by giving you the clear impression that you need a reason for doing so. Stop "settling". Stop living in hell for no damn reason at all. Stop pretending like rape is no big deal so long as it's not violent or angry. Your body keeps count and it's not doing anything positive to your life. Relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionThey probably sense that you're bad news because of your general vibe and attitude, especially since you're waiting for them to contact you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 33 | War on Women vs War on MenYes i'm sorry but i can't stop crylaughing over the fact that men think not having sex is the same as being in war, this is WILD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 11:49 AM |
| 4 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and NeggingThis is typical for dumb people. Red flag, block delete when this happens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 07:18 PM |
| 35 | Is he an asshole or is it Aspergers?I find people with aspergers to be great at learning whatever they set their mind to, including social skills, so it's really no excuse. They're just scrotes who are unskilled at hiding their bad personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 07:12 PM |
| 4 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.8th of march was awkward for me. We had a group form a group at the end of the women's march which had different sections in it, standing for "inclusiveness". They were funded by the bdsm club, sex work associates club and the poly club. All three hurt women and we know it, from statistics and interviews and common sense, yet so many people and especially people i knew thought it'd be a great idea to promote sex work/porn on international women's day. One woman in my group, the literal radfem-li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How many more hours would a man have to work to balance the effort/stress in a relationship?I'm thinking on average if both do everything equal, the man would still have to do about 10hours+ more/weak to make up for the work the woman needs to do just because she's female, like dealing with her body and pregnancy and the consequences of this etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 10:12 AM |
| 6 | How many more hours would a man have to work to balance the effort/stress in a relationship?If a man canbot stay faithful then he should admit to this. No man is entitled to sex nor is he dependent on it. The mother and child needs a father more than a man needs his dick wet yet men are famous for leaving their family because he they can't handle not having sex while the mother is risking her life for the child. If men were honest we would have no problems like these. Don't have babies if you can't go a year without sex for example, let alone if you can't handle one week without sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 10:10 AM |
| 11 | I don't know if I did the right thing.You're right, but by offering him the closure he may pay you back by leaving you alone! God knows how many times he'd try to reach out if you ignored him if he saw it as a challenge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 10:00 AM |
| 3 | "Most of television and film is men making stuff for other men" - Netflix documentary called THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING shows the under- and mis-representation of women in mediaBro. I was actually thinking "oh damn now it's gonna be a rape scene" but it never happened any of the times and this explains why. I was so pleasantly surprised. I love that show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 08:55 AM |
| 5 | tw: rape. the comment section is *full* of angry scrotes blaming her, telling her she didn’t get raped, not to ruin the guy’s life because it’s her fault she was drunk.Leaving a victim like that is basically like admitting to the rape, too. He did get punished right?? Right???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 08:53 AM |
| 6 | tw: rape. the comment section is *full* of angry scrotes blaming her, telling her she didn’t get raped, not to ruin the guy’s life because it’s her fault she was drunk.This. Every time someone says a man went to jail for rape and then the woman "admit that it wasn't rape after all" some time after, as proof that women falsely accuse, i can't think of it as something else than her being negged or guilted into rationalizing it afterwards. It makes 0 sense to me otherwise. In what world would he be punished without any evidence? And in what world would a woman falsely accuse and then simply retract it after? I think the woman needs to be traumatized to do such a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 08:51 AM |
| 6 | tw: rape. the comment section is *full* of angry scrotes blaming her, telling her she didn’t get raped, not to ruin the guy’s life because it’s her fault she was drunk.Most likely yes. Sex require a lot of energy and men who pretend like rape is people actively happily having sex like alive and awake people, only for the one part to regret it the day after, are rapists who paint a fake picture for people to look at so that they won't imagine what everyone deep down knows happened; an awake and energic person abusing a limp person, limp from either fear, shock, sleep deprivation or drugs. That is the truth and the truth is ugly so no wonder they try their best … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 08:42 AM |
| 18 | Can a man that has done anal be a HVM?Remember some men can't even handle the fact that women masturbate. Maybe you would let go of a otherwise ok man, but it'd be in your right entirely and it would probably be the right thing to do no matter how HV he is because this bugs you and it will decrease the value he provides for you and your quality of life, which is how we define HV anyways. You might be scared because you know HV men are rare but it's better to be single than to be confused. Give it some time if you want to, even if ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 08:15 AM |
| 110 | Can a man that has done anal be a HVM?While you're right he's actually not wrong about this either. The clitoris is no small thing and it is easily stimulated from anal, which is why some women like to stimulate from there, even if they don't approve of anal sex with men. There are women who genuinely do enjoy anal but it's impossible to know who says so because they're being chronic pickmeishas and who's honest about it, and even if it's enjoyable for a woman it's still risky to date a man who would partake in it because as many he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 08:07 AM |
| 38 | on being told (over and over) that I have "walls up"I would never mention this to someone unless i got past the walls first. I notice the walls and respect them, it's no reason to mention them. Like do they expect you'll go "oh damn sorry about that! Let me dismantle them real quick"? Damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:51 PM |
| 15 | "I appreciate modesty in a woman" - says the man who watches porn.Ouch the men don't even have to take care of thr women though so when will that one standard be respected? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 07:29 AM |
| 8 | Even a "pet peeve" like refusing to go to the doc for regular check-ups can be lethal. Be ruthless when setting boundaries and standards!This guy seemed to have an ongoing infection so bad that they did drain him as well though, and it seems she had told him to get tested before. When there's cysts or whatever it's way more infectious, and he had them on his hands! It's a no brainer to get that fixed since those same hands may scratch her skin and infect effectively | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 07:03 AM |
| 123 | Even a "pet peeve" like refusing to go to the doc for regular check-ups can be lethal. Be ruthless when setting boundaries and standards!I never can understand why these women don't say "condom or no sex". Condoms should be expected anyways, hormonal contraception for women for the sake of not having babies (and not for health reasons) is outdated and barbaric anyways in my opinion so if it's possible to say no to sex in a culture, condoms should also be the default in that culture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:59 AM |
| 7 | Never EVER share financial information with a man. It starts with $20 now but can easily escalate to much more over the years. Come across the wrong one and they will absolutely destroy you financially.The red flag here is taking 0 (zero) responsibility for her getting hurt when he essentially did a crime | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 09:02 AM |
| 5 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itYou're admitting to creating the very problem you whine about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 12:00 PM |
| 6 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itIs it not possible for you to tell women straight up how you feel BEFORE sticking your dick in her or inviting her for second dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 2 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itIt becomes a default for women. Men frequently snitch on women as well. Men deny women work after men tell men about women's sexuality, sexual history or for example ties to onlyfans or other sexual activities or work environments. Why should a woman tell you anything? She risks her status and gains nothing back, not to mention how it's inhumane to expect a person you've played with the feelings of to willingly share info they know or suspect will make you leave them. How about men stop playing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:58 AM |
| 6 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itIf women's worth, respect and possibility for living, breathing and cotnributing in society through for example getting jobs didn't rely on their sexual history, they wouldn't lie about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:36 AM |
| 12 | Ladies fire away. I actually know this person because we went to school together. This type of man is not to be taken seriously or even be considered to date. He doesn’t deserve children, sex, affection, etc. He deserves nothing. He wants his life to be easy which is why he’s making a PSA.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:28 AM |
| 73 | Safe spaces for women CANNOT have men! If men are included it ceases to be a safe space for women.In men's spaces, women are harassed and killed for trying to participate. The least we can do when men try to "participate" in our spaces is to tell them to fuck off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 16 | Be careful posting elsewhereSame, i told them to add it to the rule book but alas. Turns out they don't want to admit to their covardly rules | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenWhat makes you believe i haven't done this myself? Women's standards are on the floor and they only require basic respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenPoint still stands that it's the bad men who are the problem and women rejecting them is good. All is how it should be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenWay toa void the issue at hand huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenSo they should get better and do better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 12:15 PM |
| 0 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenNot according to the statistics i've read in for example "why does he do that?" By lundy bancroft. I'm willing to guess you're lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:47 AM |
| 2 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenSomeone who undeniably increases their partner's value of life. The reason men never break up unless they found someone better is because a woman never decreases his quality of life. Simple as that. The statistics proving this is the ones showing how single women are the happiest demographic, second to married men, and bottom of the barrel in terms of quality of life is single men. It's very obvious how men in general according to these statistics, and among other similar statistics, don't strug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:42 AM |
| 0 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenCan't find a single source providing facts or proof on your assumptions. You're projecting your tunnel vision onto someone who read more diverse research than you ever will, or so it seems because you sound like you've never read a single paper on societal matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:31 AM |
| 0 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenMaybe read a book sometime if you don't understand basics like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:29 AM |
| 0 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenYep, that google search proves my assumption that those statistics is a result of women being the victims AND the carriers of the most mental illnesses. Therefore it proves nothing in accordance to whether ill MEN are more or less violent than non-ill men. The question was if men were more violent tha certain other men, we already know that men are more violent than women. Insecurity in men is dangerous, period. If a man shows insecurity, he may be less dangerous than a man hiding it better, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:18 AM |
| 0 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenMen struggling to find decent women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:11 AM |
| 0 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenSure, i have yet to find a single source on this though. There's only self-provided anecdotes of this but if you have sound statistics and perhaps a book about it, feel free to share. However men usually just lie about this to undermine women's struggles by saying "men, too" even when it makes zero sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenSource? The only thing women would have to take into consideration is how men are much more likely to do violence than women, and especially towards women they live with. Your statement would be true just because women suffer from more documented mental illness than men and men are the most violent, but if we only took into consideration men vs mentally ill men, i think we'd see a pattern of men suffering personality disorders and anxiety, and especially stress disorders like ptsd, doing the mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:50 AM |
| -6 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenIt's not rocket science to treat women with respect and to understand basic human norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:46 AM |
| -1 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenWhat you fail to realize is that the first quote reads as the second quote in most men's heads. Because it's rare and anyways biologically and societally illogical of women to ask out men. It doesn't make sense for women to ask because they're almost always the ones working the hardest in relationships, for example by creating humans. It will always sound like begging because what they're indirectly asking is "please let me sacrifice my body for you and your offspring" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:45 AM |
| -5 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenYep. Go to therapy dude. Women die because they date mentally ill men, they're right for trying to avoid that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:53 AM |
| -3 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenThis is because men are impolite or dangerous when asking for dates. Any time a man asks in a charming manner, so that she doesn't feel threathened for her life or well being, the woman is very appreciative and will talk about it gleefully. The problem is only the way men ask them out; while they're alone with no eyewitnesses and without knowing each other, while standing over her, while holding her/trapping her in one place, while being angry or irritated, and while pushing it and not taking no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:51 AM |
| -3 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenMen often see women asking them out as the same as them throwing themselves at them. Pick one dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | "If he really wanted you, he'd ask you out" is really bad dating advice for womenIt's not. Men will say yes to any woman asking in general, only a few men will reject a woman even if he isn't single. Women struggle the most with dating bad men, cheating men, men who take them for granted and me who hate them. Women don't struggle with difficulty FINDING a willing man, but they struggle with finding a compatible man. Asking men out will make it even harder to ensure he isn't just using her and waiting for a woman he actually likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleWomwn literally change their name either temporary, online or for good irl to more masculine names or gender neutral names and experience a massive shift in respect where they suddenly gey heard, respected and treated better including by getting jobs and getting less harassment. The men who aren't heard are either cases you describe where men are the minority by large or they do everything they can to stay invisible by never opening their mouth anyways. This is proven by all kinds of studies and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:33 AM |
| 19 | Video of chained woman in China goes viral. Who is she? Was she trafficked? : Goats and Soda : NPRThe price cap thing is the nail in the coffin honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 08:51 AM |
| 4 | This. Is. Horrifying. Husband thinks it’s okay her sister was physically abused and went to the hospital by her boyfriend. Wife hasn’t mentioned leaving him in either post (that I’ve seen)How tf did she not run when he said that Hope she escapes safely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 78 | Video of chained woman in China goes viral. Who is she? Was she trafficked? : Goats and Soda : NPRIt says trafficking went from being punished with up to life sentence to maximum 3 years. They practically legalized trafficking of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 11:29 PM |
| 441 | Men want me to back down even when I am rightHonestly the only right action to take here would be to quietly let them have their win and safely leave, block and delete them. This is something only abusers do and it's a red flag that's dangerous to ignore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Quite hilarious...So sorry you have to deal with this, it's such a difficult situation. I would probably talk about nutrition until they threw me out of their lives (seeing as she thinks destroying the microbiome and inducing diarrhea is a good idea for the sake of weight loss) and lose part of my family. You're strong for your nieces and nephews! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Recounting Tonight's L's from a Hotel BathtubDamn. In this situation, the ideal way to deal with it would be to call the police since this guy was 100% a rapist. However we know the police don't care for rapists and would be more likely to punish you for trying to punish a rapist. So good on you for doing the safest route, even though i am endlessly angry that there's no official way to stop these guys besides literally paying them off or fooling them. Thanks for sharing and reminding us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 07:09 AM |
| 8 | Quite hilarious...I'm still gonna sell the idea of fermenting sourdough and ginger beer and kombucha for free >:) Also this made me 💀 Louise have no chill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:06 PM |
| 19 | This kinda chaos is what happens when people believe to live in a dream-world where sex means nothing and men don't cheat (emotionally or sexually)Like i thought she admitted to it being over when she said he ignored her and refused to show her what he was doing on the phone. That's straight out being dumped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 60 | This kinda chaos is what happens when people believe to live in a dream-world where sex means nothing and men don't cheat (emotionally or sexually)Dunno if i'd blame her, this is a fairly common thing that happens regardless of who is "the hot one". The point is men easily get excited by anyone new, because they are often promiscious and take women for granted. The classic story is that the man leaves his partner for the threesome-woman before dumping his new toy as well because it turns out he was just in love with the fact that she was someone else than his current partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:58 PM |
| 8 | dumped a lvm and got asked out by someone much betterReally happy for you. As the ladies on here are saying, this is just the start of the vetting peocess, but don't forget to have fun while vetting! Dating is about learnig and pleasure and it's easy to fall into paranoid or naive ways of thinking because of the fear of getting hurt. Neither is necessary when you're confident. Whichever way this goes, you'll gain fun dates and some love from it if you let it and you follow the handbook, and in the end you will always have your own back. Good luck … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:00 AM |
| 49 | S/ she requires no conversation🥰 no effort❤️🔥I get to game while having a girlfriend who reads instead of having a relationship w her😽It isn't even about what she does for him, it's what she doesn't even ask of him. This is the one true male preference i've heard yet and it's tragic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | He showed up at my door last nightMy mother specifically mentioned this behavior as her #1 least favorite kind of attitude from people and told me not to ever trust someone who does that kinda thing. It's so bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:25 AM |
| 73 | Good Luck"Oh my god i am so sorry sir, let's meet up the way you said i feel like such a fool now" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 08:10 AM |
| 22 | Good LuckHow men are even allowed to brag this hard about being community dick i will never understand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 08:09 AM |
| 16 | My friends “Thirst Trap Strategy”It doesn't make sense for women to pretty themselves up tbh since men don't have standards for looks in general and the only thing it does is attract pornsick men. Dogbirding should be the default | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:34 AM |
| 19 | Female Political Strategy Podcast: EP 10 - The Media & Black Lives Matter Orgs Don't Want to Talk About Black FemicideOuch this one about the prisons i hadn't even thought about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:05 PM |
| 41 | Female Political Strategy Podcast: EP 10 - The Media & Black Lives Matter Orgs Don't Want to Talk About Black FemicideSomeone asked me why i relate everything to sexism, and asked why i for example rately speak of racism instead. This episode explains why; everything is rooted in sexism. Men hate women for having the biological power of gatekeeper and the result is to be seen in how for example evem black men consider black women a more crucial enemy than white supremacy. It made me think about why it is like this and the answer is very simple; in races of animals where the individuals are free to physically le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:52 AM |
| 8 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Either way it' a bad strat to say this because the men who would play you will definitely also play for the long game because that's part of the fun for some of them. Men are easily manipulated through competition or other gamifications and setting a timeline like that sounds like a challenge and what kind of player would let that down? If he's HVM it's gonna be alright anyways but it certainly won't filter out LVM. It will perhaps even attract them. I'm a bit sadistic myself and i'm almost wate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:52 AM |
| 30 | Man After Breakup: A StudyIt's anxiety of connection. Men have insane amounts of entitlement so maybe that makes that kind of insecurity worse; they expect more and are angrier, and they are famous for being avoidant attaching because this is the easiest attachment type to have (and the one that hurts others the most). This is the perfect recipe for letting oneself be in permanent self indulgent "misery" (a comfortable form of self vicimization which majority of men love). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 32 | Man After Breakup: A StudyThis is such a good list. It made me realize some opposite behaviours that make it more obvious that you're not just a rebound; He gets stuff only for you, such as foods you like and keep them in his place of living He makes space for you at home and in his schedule without being asked He asks you about long term future things, although this may be to cope so it should be combined with other green flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:40 AM |
| 6 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?"Depends; what do you mean when you say "feminist"? Most people describe "libfem" ways of things. That is a good opportunity to ask them if they don't think it's strange how that kind of feminism benefit men while hurting women, as well as mentioning that you're a feminist as in someone who supports whatever benefits women. A fine way to spread the simplicity of what feminism really is to try and stop people from believing feminism is about being a pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:29 AM |
| 19 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”Do a twirl and say "thanks for noticing! I think it suits me well, don't you?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:26 AM |
| 9 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.LMAOOO then he has a free maid when he does a 180, and waits for you to do all the divorce works. Worse deal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:21 AM |
| 33 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.My naive theory is men get turned on by women in pain due to porn consumption. The truth may be way more grusome, perhaps they are biologically wired to get an increase of want towards abusing women who are already sad but there are studies that have been done showing that men shouldn't react like this. However after porn usage this is ofcourse overwritten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:55 PM |
| 47 | Reminder that this is the common behavior of husbands. Vetting is lethal and so is depending on someone other than your romantic partnerIf only that was her first thought! Thanks for the laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | “Relationships are a mirror” - BS 🤡If this was true we'd be selling and buying clit soothing creams from the amount of oral sex we'd be receiving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:24 AM |
| 35 | Classic RedditI found out i have abnormally high amounts of testesterone and i have yet to assault anyone so i don't get how people keep bragging about the hormonal influences. Men with abnormally or even lethally low testesterone are also the same so when are they gonna admit it's the patriarchy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:00 AM |
| 40 | Classic RedditSome of them are telling him to confess so that she may let him to it more, because apparently women are turned on and flattered by confessions of having assaulted them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:57 AM |
| 7 | A Professor Wasted Her Time Interviewing 46 Men About Why They CheatWomen are famous for getting their needs ignored yet we never even hear those words uttered by women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:29 AM |
| 26 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves""Oh no this religion made me out to be the leader of the household and i couldn't bear it!!!! I'd rather have you control everything and let me keep the power tho" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:10 AM |
| 19 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Yeah exactly! But "foreplay" isn't enjoyable for men who dislike their sexual partner hence why they make it seem optional and often exclude it alltogether. Men in general don't want sex but to masturbate into women and the proof lies in the language and women's poor experiences with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:09 AM |
| 25 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”So sorry we had to deal with that. It makes me feel more right about being infinitely angry about porn and its focus on women being asexual cooperative assault victims happy to be of use though, it really helps men see women as dead sex toys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 19 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Tbh i have no idea where to add TW sometimes because i feel like the entire male depravity flair and probably most of rhe other flairs as well should be considered TW. I understand how TW is often for certain types of posts but they all break a part of me honestly. Like this entire sub besides lvl up posts should be having warnings because my heart is broken to pieces and back glued together every day i read a post on here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 38 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”My pornsick ex wasn't even an asshole but he stopped having sex alltogether because it was "too much effort". Way better than having low quality sex with me but he basically gave up on romantic relationships because porn was easier and it says a lot about how lazy porn addicts get, and most men combine that laziness with selfishness which is the perfect recipe for lethal abuse and, like you say, becoming apathethic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:41 AM |
| 120 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”After care is a super scary word i see more frequently too. After care is something people do after having pretended to rape someone. It should not at all be normalized just like foreplay shouldn't have been normalized as a word. Right now it seems sex is only for men whereof women should be grateful if they get "foreplay" (to not be too dry for the penis) and maybe even after-care (so that she won't develop vaginismus as fast, so that the penis may enter next time too) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:35 AM |
| 99 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Every time i even see a picture or comic or painting or whatever of a woman gleefully watching a man being in sexual ecstasy, i always itch with frustration and worries about her part of the deal. I always assume that after pegging a guy or "dominating" him or blowing him or even kicking or strangling him or whatever he likes, she'll be left orgasmless and "content" about having pleasured him because i barely ever really see mainstream media in any way or form where her sexual pleasure is mentio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:32 AM |
| 46 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”I get angry even if my partner tries their best and fails a little, i cannot even imagine getting out of a situation where i ask for an orgasm after having served someone selflessly for more than 10min and being rejected, without ending up in jail as the punchline. Men say women live on easy mode yet they get away with shit like this i swear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:23 AM |
| 2 | It's too late, the Porn Industry won, the children are corrupted. Todays young people think rape is good and the people who think its bad are the problem. How do we protect kids, teens and young adults from being indoctrinated into Porn and LibFem culture?We didn't really lose, the coomers just spend more time online. Or, we did lose in terms of men refusing a ban on porn globally but all mentality and moral is yet to be lost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?Tbh i thought we did this for other women? There is a female gaze. It's amazing and i think altough people may disagree with me, i see it even in doja cat's videos despite some of the pickme parts and disgusting men she let join in on some of her videos. I see it in character designs women do, i see it in dorohedoro and studio killers. Men rarely if ever see me; women do. Men onlt notice the shape and size of my ass and it's fairly obvious. Women comment on it only when it's equipped with the ri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 37 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"What got me is the way he basically describes the exact pattern FDS has described with men: they settle for women they dislike because they don't wanna pay for escorts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:33 PM |
| 4 | The tinder swindler documentary 2022 on netflix: sex pozzy culture needs to end because it only hurts womenThe clothes were ugly af the way he put them together. Screams "i desperately wish for the clothes to do fashion for me" in a way that makes them more obviously unfashionable than if they went with bland cheap clothes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 09:35 PM |
| 22 | The tinder swindler documentary 2022 on netflix: sex pozzy culture needs to end because it only hurts womenIf i was gonna victim blame i'd call the women out for accepting: That chin His taste in glasses His terrible photography skills His insane obsession with brands and still looking like shit fashion-wise His height (together with the other traits, the odds for being abusive due to insecurity is too high) His love-bombing and clinginess His dead eyes Never accept any of these. Every each and one of these traits should be red flags in itself even if good men sometimes fall "victim" to some of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 43 | The tinder swindler documentary 2022 on netflix: sex pozzy culture needs to end because it only hurts womenI absolutely loved this dokumentary. Not only did it tell an insane story, the guy actually brought the lesson that mindset is everything as long as you're willing to pay with anything and everything of your pride, self respect, morals and so on. When he "lost" at the end, he still stuck to the last victim that ended up scamming him back and seemed almost like he was bragging about being on the streets and eating at "1 star" restaurants/hostels. He called himself "the homeless king" and it crack… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 04:04 PM |
| 9 | The darker underside of the “cool girl”I'm kind of careful even to give other people genuine tips on natural lubes such as shea butter because it's easily translated to "look at me i do anal/(any kind of sexual act really) and i worship men especially when it costs me". It's the easiest way to awake predators to single you out and start preying on you and i doubt she's entirely ignorant of this. I suspect this is a classic self-sabotaging strategy and in itself a cry for help. Tragic note: Also really insecure about making jokes that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 15 | No words…I suspect he wanted to see her suffer so he'd demand children until she broke down, and when she didn't fall for that he went for plan B which was genius. Do men have an addiction to abuse? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:35 PM |
| 19 | I love herImagine actually confessing to someone else that a comment like that hurt you to the point of irrepairable damage, telling your brother who in turn says "i don't wanna be your friend unless you make her apologize" and still believing that men are shamed for expressing emotions LMAO This man went to cry in the bathroom over a comment like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:20 AM |
| 10 | Lurkers Stay Mad: Reported For Posting Violent ContentIt turns out chinese medicine has loads of easy things to consider trying for different issues like pms and pcos before considering BC but no, the doc give sout BC like candy while demonizing the use of herbs that have scientific research behind it proving real effect and no side effects compared to what BC does. And it's easier for men to take responsibility for pregnancy and stds yet here we are. Nothing makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 11:09 AM |
| 43 | Can someone tell me when will women’s trauma stop being used as entertainment?I come to think about berserk. It's a beautifully drawn manga where the male protagonist is raped as a child. It's one of the few works i know of where men actually agree that it's dark and painful to read. They rarely say the same for any other similar manga where women experience the same or where noone is raped but endure the same kind of struggles beside rape. They know how terrible it is, that's exactly why they love it when it happens to people they hate. Like women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 33 | Can someone tell me when will women’s trauma stop being used as entertainment?Lmao that's exactly it! When watching tv we want to be dumb sometimes. Yet the dumb kind of shows are still the ultimate trigger for most women. I've been struggling to explain to doctors why my back is stiff as a brick wall but maybe being constantly abused and triggered by everything from males in family to males in show biz has something to do with it. The only breather we get is when we dodge mainstream anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:55 AM |
| 6 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬Ok but imagine being ripped and and taking on an offer like this and straight out just clean as you would anyways in your own home and threathen him whenever he talks to you or says he wants to throw you out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:52 AM |
| 14 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.God i hate how even good shows have tge dynamic of fat and unattractive husband and hot wife. It's not funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:46 PM |
| 19 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.Next up: saw! But first, unfortunately some blood in relation to women... don't worry! We're careful to censor any disturbing details! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:44 PM |
| 20 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.I feel 10 times more perverted uttering any female related words like vagina, flicking bean, breasts, womb, ovaries or period than i feel when using words like penis, balls, blowjob etc. Women are genuinely cleaner than men in every possible aspect yet we see them as dirtier. I make up for it by bragging that period blood smells like certain types of amazing foods (i will die on this hill) and mentioning how different kinds of cheese, doughs and batters smell like cum and it makes people more di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 84 | I think he told on himselfWhat hurt me was he actually had intuition about her needs, something that's strange to find in partners already and then a simple silly thing like this had him drop the mask. I'd be in serious shock too if i was OP. There's nothing strange about her reaction but her courage to share this is. Massive crown energy from OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:35 PM |
| 82 | I think he told on himselfI'm confused because at first i thought yeah, he's correct - most men just want submissive women. But from the way things turned out i guess he didn't see anything wrong with the fact and maybe as you said yourself he was even speaking based on his own feelings and not his assumptions on other men. I'm so sorry you had to experience this but we may find solace in you having dodged an incompatible man or even NV scrote before spending more time on him. It's genuinely weird to me how you even hit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:33 PM |
| 86 | Why are women hated so much by men?A tiny bit off topic but I genuinely dislike people saying as a personal trait that they don't buy pre-owned anything. It's screams ignorance, elitism, shallowness, having been coddled, and insecurity. This is what they admit to even if they genuinely talk about cars and not women. When they compare women to cars, they admit in addition to being misogynistic. Thank them for telling on themselves so well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:12 AM |
| 64 | Why are women hated so much by men?Consider posting this as a separate post or having it added to the handbook! (Maybe with resources if you have any in mind as well?) I feel this explanation should be known by all and is the perfect explanation on why women should value themselves over men; our oppression is based on superiority even though this is ironic. It's essential to keep this in mind, or else women feel like they're in the wrong for expecting more than they'd ever offer a man - even though they would do this rightfully s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:55 AM |
| 8 | In your face misogyny is terrible, but subtle sexism is just as bad: A look into celebrated mediaI need to actively search for some inner misogyny to find the humor in those scenes and they're almost always there. They just can't help themselves. You're not alone, you're just one of the few who wants to call misogyny for what it is, which is painful to do. It's much easier to join the misogyny train and avoid being bullied directly. I rarely watch popular shows because i assume there will be loads of rape scenes and other misogynistic bullshit in there such as with game of thrones. It's tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:43 AM |
| 22 | "I claim that rape exists any time sexual intercourse occurs when it has not been initiated by the woman, out of her own genuine affection and desire." - Robin Morgan, 1974I think the point was that at the time in the system where women were literal property of men, they cannot consent. So the only way to consent would be to be the initiator. It was and is true for those situations but in western current systems where women are independent but still brainwashed it's actually more likely that women initiate when they don't even want it. The new quote would perhaps be "if she isn't enjoying it, it's rape" and although it sounds harsh, that's exactly what the body th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:02 AM |
| 62 | "I claim that rape exists any time sexual intercourse occurs when it has not been initiated by the woman, out of her own genuine affection and desire." - Robin Morgan, 1974People call me crazy when i say i hate watching rape scenes in movies or shows because they think it's consensual as long as they don't say "no". They don't say yes either and they're looking depressed and sometimes crying, people need to understand the enthusiastic part of consent instead of calling everything consent when the woman knows that saying "no" would only make the rape more violent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:58 AM |
| 151 | Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and pornIf men gave even the tiniest of shits about women, porn would be illegalized right after it started taking off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:50 AM |
| 77 | Facial expressions- can't control them. Help.Pornsick or otherwise misogynistic men can't read facial expressions on women so this can also be used as an active vetting strategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:49 AM |
| 316 | In your face misogyny is terrible, but subtle sexism is just as bad: A look into celebrated mediaThe fact that the show or movie is good just makes the small parts where they bully women that much worse. It's like interrupting women's laughter and entertainment to remind them that they're worthless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:38 AM |
| 13 | the politics of porn throwback news clip w Andrea Dworkin and Catharine MacKinnon 1984The comments on the video makes me insanely angry "Porn doesn't hurt women. If it does, call the police" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:34 AM |
| 46 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmSo sorry this happened, and proud that you're strong enough to process and even share the experience. It's a good example on how failing to suspect the evil in a simple invitation is an easy introduction to a living hell of a difficult situation. It's a reminder to assume the worst and prioritize our very best interests in complete disregard of men's "feelings"/ego; something as innocent as this cafe date could lead to something this horrible. Just to note; not at all blaming you or anyone falli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 26 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmThis made me 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:04 AM |
| 32 | help me find a post debunking the myth that family court favors mothersThey seriously need to remove the cases where the men refuse to thave any custody from the custody "loss" statistics. Women per definition win more custody cases just becsuse they count giving away custody as losing it - if this wasn't the case, it'd be very clear women are the ones severely oppressed in court. Wonder if this is part of maintaining patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Women in a nutshellThere's exactly 0 men doing this shit with decent intentions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 09:51 AM |
| 81 | Another porn scrote horror storyHonestly just so proud of you. Standing up for yourself is standing up for all women, so thank you in every possible regard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women.Or they're saying men need women in a way women don't need men and so there's 0 reason for the woman to pay seeing as the one who asks the other out is the one that should pay, which is just common sense and decency. Men may feel free to not ask women out and see if women will ask them out instead and with that make the dating market more 50/50 but i don't see men doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 02:11 PM |
| 117 | ‘Men rarely get compliments, women do’, ‘Men have no emotional support unlike women’ 🤡🤡Men's complaints are daily proof of their extraordinary privilege | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:57 AM |
| 16 | You might've seen the article on men creating AI girlfriends and verbally abusing them. I was curious after that news came out and decided to download Replika (where these incidents occured). This is the program that they were abusing.So she's a pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 8 | Never having casual sex again (WLW edition)God damn it really just goes to show how men influence the places they are at. Or so i want to assume since gay men are known to be the most promiscious group of them all and it makes zero sense for women to follow this trend unless they're being gaslit into thinking it's the norm and women are unfortunately often a victim of adapting to what they believe to be "gay culture" or any other "culture" when in reality it's just "male culture" or "toxic masculinity" as you mentioned. All i've heard fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 02:07 PM |
| 329 | Indian scrotes threatening to boycott marriage if marital rape is criminalized in India"Not all men are rapists" Also men when rape is threathened: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 09:07 AM |
| 16 | Never having casual sex again (WLW edition)Calling it voluntary celibacy sounds so much more serious than it need to be even if it's the right mindset. In reality it's maybe a year or two between partners for most, and for me it sounds insane to have sex with people without being committed to them. Proud of everyone realizing this though, i'm so sad when i hear something the lines of "sex with someone you love really is different" as if it was the abnormal situation for people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 01:32 AM |
| 4 | FDS changed me and gave me a heal-gasm.That's so true actually damn. Nothing angers me more than having to dump people i love, and when family and friends treat me like shit i fail to realize that i'd probably wish for them to do so when breaking them free from my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 26 | Casual Sex ConfusionI feel like it's a gambling or self sabotaging deal. Hard to quit cause humans love that shit. But it's easy if you find positives in a changed way of things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 08:17 AM |
| 39 | Casual Sex ConfusionEasy solution really. Consider the waiting a sexual act in itself. There's a lot of excitement and built up temptation in purposefully waiting and it's often more enjoyable than actually having sex early on. Masturbation feels better when you're crushing on someone for example, or maybe when you feel wanted. It's the best sexual thing you can do in this situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 08:15 AM |
| 17 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?He lost me at triple emoji, punched the cringe further into my heart with the "whatcha say??" And finally he proved to be insane when admitting to not being an artist and still asking about crayons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 111 | FDS changed me and gave me a heal-gasm.Well preached. It's taken me 26 years to accept my own emotions and i'm not even all the way there yet. When men say women somehow has a pass for emotions that they don't have i laugh my ass off. So proud of you and so happy for the reminder that our gut feel is always right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:29 AM |
| 93 | This Queen nails itWomen's work is all too invisible because if they don't do it, it seems more like a living hell of a society crisis than it looks like an absence of work done, and men take the opportunity to blame not the fact that the women suddenly stopped providing services, but rather that the INTEGRITY of women failed and so the entirety of society collapses, without ever admitting to this being a proof of women's importance. Rather they say this is proof of women's relation to doom and whatever hell is to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 08:33 AM |
| 37 | This Queen nails itFunny how this is true in every aspect of life. I immediately know i'm playing against men on online games when they do nothing AND complain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 08:31 AM |
| 68 | I’m still confused as to why some guys still expect us to put out on the first date or do casual hookups. This is why we don’t. Shit like this isn’t fun for usNormalizr chewing on their dick and saying "you should've told me you're not into teeth play!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:05 AM |
| 178 | Women Who Say Their Single Mother is All That's Wrong With ThemPeople love to pretend like men have more than 50% responsibility in family court when he asks for custody and 0% anytime else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:02 AM |
| 32 | Please, for your own sake: Find out if he was a loser before.So sorry you had to endure that! It also makes me realize that men probably project revenge intentions onto women who reject them which explains part of why they get so angry. They can only see themselves rejecting someone based on revenge so they assume it's ill intentioned. It also makes perfect sense; since they see women are a hive mind they genuinely believe that hurting some innocent woman IS telling their ex "fuck you". If women thought of men like this, men would be walking on thin fucki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 08:18 AM |
| 103 | FDS: thank you for helping me to open my heart to womenI find that women are hostile in some environments, but it's 100% an evil circle that easily breaks when women come to the same realization as yours. Girls hated me (and probably each other, and themselves) all the way until highschool for me probably because that's when they realize they're individual people with individual power and they're free to do more as they like. Women are only hostile when they believe they have to be, sort of like social poverty. If we have each others' backs, there's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:58 PM |
| 146 | Please, for your own sake: Find out if he was a loser before.Great post, thank you so much! I like "nerdy" people a lot and i think it makes my dating life a bit tricky. I've been very lucky (or been alright with keeping boundaries) but there's certain traits about lonesome, nerdy people that has caused me so much stress i should've probably stayed single if it wasn't for all the lessons i learn through the relationships. They're more prone to being avoidant, which is a big issue for me and many others who feel the slightest insecure about emotions (read:… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 78 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔Everyone feels like that, i promise you. That's also why some men like it. It's not as if applying cum on the face actually stimulate any physical pleasure for any of them. It's agreed upon that it's power play with degradation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 12:47 PM |
| 67 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔So funny how all my downvotes and comments on the thread are all men claiming that i can't possibly know that her husband suffers from porn addiction and that i don't understand how women think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 12:31 PM |
| 114 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔I dropped the porn addiction clue in the comments actually since it's so obvious. I'm anxious for her as i was stuck with a pornsick scrote once and it ruined me in physical ways through all the stress it generated. I saw her posting history and she seems like such the queen lvling up in health and food and she even discussed fixing her gut - i'm willing to guess her gut is complaining because of a certain someone making her subconsciously stress most of the time. That was the case for me and i … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:26 AM |
| 185 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔Yet some people were angry at me for calling this shit out. It's apparently OK for men to be sexually absent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:05 AM |
| 14 | When Talk Show Hosts Make Celebrities Uncomfortable (how gross. it's of course mostly women)She made him look like such an idiot, i'm inspired | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:54 AM |
| 507 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔"You smeared my face with cum? Omg you must love me so much!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:41 AM |
| 72 | girl whatYeah it's insane. And it's not at all weird when realizing that it does not at all "go both ways", scrotes love to pretend like women go through the entire process of getting marrie and then divorcing them just to spite them even when she loses money and resources in the process though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 02:03 PM |
| 145 | girl whatAnd despite all of this, men still claim that "it goes both ways" 💀⚰ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 12:49 PM |
| 59 | Interested in helping fight for roe vs Wade? Without Us Strike is plannning protests for abortion rights Feb 11-14thHonestly a global sex strike or refusal to have sex without condoms would be in place as well. Wish i could do more for you from Norway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 12:39 PM |
| 521 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayWhy isn't this considered cheating or at least as bad as cheating? Neglecting your spouse like this should be considered the same if not worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Men can't handle women being confident. And that's exactly why you're working on that and becoming the most confident queen ever.Notice how the men's subs need this rule | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:51 AM |
| 17 | Trauma Bond vs. Authentic Love: yearning for the intensity of toxic dynamics? (see comments for text post)Emotionally phobic but highly sexual is the exact label for me lmao. I thought it was ok to be like that but it's probably stressing me out. Many trauma bond symptoms seem like individual traits like any other but they're still worth removing for the sake of health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:14 AM |
| 2 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realI've read in depth about this through expensive books with throughout research as part of the resources. I don't need more proof than that. Even when some of those victims can feel some sexual pleasure, they do so in the same way as men would after their penis has been removed. It's possible but it's not the same and it's also deadly. Cutting off some foreskin would be the same as snipping the labia a little. Not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same waySorry i don't do those extreme games, i keep to phasmophobia haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:28 AM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realBreaking news; women cannot have sex without the clitoris. Any sex after removing it will feel like rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 06:27 AM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realIt's basic anatomy. Google it and see for yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 06:26 AM |
| 2 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realDebunked by Lundy Bancroft in "Why does he do that" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 10:52 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realEverything you've stated is either debunked or is a proof that you don't understand what women go through. I'm only going to mention one point because they're all equally absurd: you think male genital mutilation is more of a problem than female genital mutilation because it happens more often, when in reality the equivalent of female genital mutilation form men would be to chop the entire dick right off, when he's a teen, and pray to god he doesn't bleed to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueCongrats on describing normal human relationships. If you want to masturbate into women then say that, don't fool women into believing you give a shit about them as people. Choose one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | "Sex Playlist": How the music you find sexy can be a vetting strategyLMAOOOO I IMAGINE THEIR FACE WHEN THEY WAKE UP AND REALIZE THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:05 AM |
| 3 | "Sex Playlist": How the music you find sexy can be a vetting strategyThis is such a great post, thank you so much! I also love nine inch nails and i've replayed that song in particular, and it awakes all my feelings and associations to insecurities, inabilities to have healthy emotional connection, inability to be vulnerable, that kind of vibe. Having someone describe it as a sexy song makes me think they're either plain stupid or a willful sociopath, or both. I wish they were joking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | This is what I am working towards ladies!I didn't like myself until i realized this is exactly who i am to myself. Was taking myself for granted for a while smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | On dying alone:Also no matter what bluepilled manbabies tell themselves, we all must die alone and by ourselves. Family may even hold our hand but ultimately, spiritually/mentally, death is something we face by ourselves. When i imagine death i feel so comfy and happy. When i imagine death "alone", i imagine being in a silent room by myself with 0 thoughts - that's scary. However that's not the case if you're used to thinking and having an inner voice or even dialogue. Dying alone is scary for dumb people or p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:47 AM |
| 2 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasureLet's go dutch this time After all the pleasure's mine Sike you really thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 3 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasureYou sleep in a nest You think that wiping is gay You are a clown fest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:36 AM |
| 2 | R*pe by deception is seen as normal by men in the comments."Not all men" Also men: (looking at the upvote dowvote result on these kind of comments) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women.Yall this was recently posted in one of the incel subs because they thought it was a tumblr post making fun of fds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:28 AM |
| 54 | While I try to support our sisters, this… idk how I feel about this…. Like why can’t we protest woman’s rights.Some women are apparently so confused by delusions and lies from the majority of the people around them that they end up in situations where they go commando in public riding bikes so that men who initiated the idea can upload it to porn sites. I feel like we're being forced into being literal clowns and yet it's apparently hard for "most people" to see this. Our society tries to beat our heads into chronic concussions from birth to deathbed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 258 | Flip the scriptI get legit offended by the fact that men have such a low chance of getting response on dating apps and this is how they respond when they finally get in contact with someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:48 AM |
| 100 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayI just played a horror game and reading this gave me more chills than that. I thought it was satire honestly, imagine being this lady and he drives you to a park in the middle of the night where it's no witnesses and no light and the car has barely any oxygen and when you finally escape this guy comes running out trying to fetch you again. I'm at a loss of words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:41 AM |
| -2 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewIf you don't want to pay for dinner then don't ask people out for dates. It's common sense to pay for the date that you initiate, end of discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 12:53 AM |
| 0 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewWomen wouldn't be offended by this if the men weren't rude and/or dangerous and have a famous reputation for killing and raping women they approach, so this is also something only men can fix | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:49 PM |
| -3 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewThe first three points are invalid tbh because they don't hurt men. Point #1 is bullshit also, unless you think dinner = sex in which case you're wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:42 PM |
| 19 | Have no doubt about it. This STILL happens in academia.Sometimes facts like these makes me realize humans only understand violence since that's honestly the only thing women lack and i bet that's how men get away with blatant theft like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 4 | just realized I don't introject, can't be coerced, and am super strong... but at what a priceRemember that sometimes excessive strength is actually insecurities being covered up for. Trusting requires vulnerability for example and it's way easier to be distant/resisting, although people mistake resisting for being strong when it's opposite in some situations. I found out my insanely busy schedule was not so much a strength in organizing and being skilled in many fields as much as it really was the easiest way to avoid my traumas and having to look myself in the eye on a daily basis. May… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 129 | Low Energy Men - How men steal women's energy"Just ask" 🔫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?It doesn't make any sense though. A woman can be fit or lean and weight pretty much anything so you're admitting to being ignorant and petty by doing so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierThe reason is because men are dependent on women whereof women are not dependent on men. Ergo, the assumption that there are more single men than women is false. The fact is men whine about being single more than women. Simple as that. Men need to deal with their issues and stop blaming women for being content by themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierYeah like how men have to install apps and buy illegal tools and carry their keys in between their fingers on dates so that when they're assaulted they can at least argue they tried to defend themselves, then hope they don't get more punishment for carrying pepper spray than their assaulter gets for assaulting them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:46 PM |
| 3 | 8 Signs of a Low Value ManThe comment section is filled with illiterate men whining and asking for "studies on people who grew up being bullied or raised by bad parents" These studies are everywhere ffs. They admit to being blind, deaf, unable to intake the same info they even ask for. Too bad LV men can't be helped once they're stuck in the lazy cognitive dissonance loop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 01:20 PM |
| 28 | So done with avoidant men.In my experience they can be silent and extremely smart but it doesn't make them deep thinkers let alone decwnt conversationalists. They'd be a great partner as a colleague but not as a friend or romantical partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Early warning signs to spot "avoidants" and... avoid them?The ugly truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?Didn't you know? Feminism is all about pleasing men! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 01:09 PM |
| 5 | Self-aware guy realizes he doesn't take debate seriously when he perceives the person to be a woman.And men swear up and down that when we change our genders online to be heard we're wrong and that men supposedly get treated the same or worse than women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 12:50 PM |
| 21 | Women in a nutshellThese men are the same men who send assault videos and other harassment to women on the SA survivor spaces. Women's loneliness won't be cured by dating rapey men, rapists, slutty men who use women for sex or whatever else bottom of the barrel dirt exists within the group of men who spam women on reddit with dms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:44 PM |
| 45 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑Why should women have sex with men if said men don't know how to have sex is the basic question i keep asking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 86 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑It's such a weird argument, too. If we all are, then why would women ever have sex with men? And if they say this, they can't ever complain that women don't fuck them either. It's just a lost argument from the start | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:43 PM |
| 103 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WHY DID THIS GET REMOVED ON DATING ADVICE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 19 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsYour and OPs problem is that since it lies close to your very own life, heart, experiences and possibly traumas, it's unfair for you to be discussing this with people who couldn't care less about it anyways or doesn't have any emotions connected to the case. Even i feel slightly disadvantaged in discussions regarding the industry because unlike many i discuss with, i have empathy for the women we discuss. This inevitably leads to us spending more energy and emotional resources in a discussion wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:11 PM |
| 25 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsWomen tell me they feel disgusted with the power dynamic thinking about hiring a prostitute for themselves. Women don't buy sex because they're generally not rapists by nature unlike men. A woman recently told me that prostitution is always sugar coated with a theatre of pretending to love, as if the sex was not a transaction but in fact a feelings driven situation, and that it only confirms that everyone realize damn well how prostitution is wrong and that's the way to pretend like it's anythin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:03 PM |
| 9 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfems"Yeah but why do women do it then lmao 😏 check mate" Thanks so much for some interesting references and the summary, it's insane how people don't see the scam in this. If feminists are known for freeing the nipple in a world where they should be freeing girls from arranged mutilations and rapings and unemployedness, what are the odds that said feminists are willfully ignoring said issues vs the odds that said feminists were somehow gaslighted and threathened and forced by men to focus on the one… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:59 PM |
| 21 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsI hate how i'm made to feel like a flat earth theorist for being anti porn when my sources is every undeniable fact i've learned throughout my life and adding 2 and 2 together from the statistics, and their only source is their own mathematics without comparison to the real world like "i think women love porn because some of them earn a lot :) " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:49 PM |
| 21 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsThis was my wake up tbh. Men speak of red pill but women read "why does he do that" and realize our entire planet is run by a literal abusive strategy by men against women. Men think echoing ideas by misogynistic rich people thousands of years ago is red pill lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:46 PM |
| 25 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsMy strategy in 2022 will be to say things in the same manner they do; as if i was 100% right and any inquiries will be met with confusion as if they're refusing facts that everyone already knows. "Oh i don't like porn because it's horrible in every way especially in the way it influences the world" " [Insert libfem or man literally changing the subject doing mental gymnastics] " "Allllright if that's what you think. [Change the theme for real] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 54 | For the angered men lurkingFriendly reminder that scrotes can't read, and that they don't deserve your efforts, thought let alone a stand alone post for them. If they could read or listen or otherwise understand us, they wouldn't be so severely ignorant. The men who doesn't need to hear this already know and the ones who need to hear it won't hear it - the clue is in the way we DO everything. Scrotes will for example understand being rejected from universities because women increased the standard and filled up the classes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:58 PM |
| 138 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭"hypothetically speaking, if i and all other men found you unattractive.. Just think about it like it was possible.. Ok thanks for coming to my TED talk" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:20 AM |
| 42 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthWhen i in my teen years felt alienated by my fellow girls i also went under cover and analyzed them fromfor example online profiles with different genders and identities to observe interactions with different biases. It requires actually listening to them without inserting yourself as far as possible. Imagine if men did this, like for real? Listening to someone without making it about themselves with the sole intent to learn something? They sometimes pretend to, but they rarely ever do. The ones… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:54 PM |
| 66 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthJesus christ you're right. I thought women were easy to spot through text because they're different. It's partly true; it's mainly because men are intentionally identical (at least in the way they communicate and express themselves online and often also irl) Holy shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 35 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouth"Every accusation by a narcissist is a confession" ECHO THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 3 | From all of us at FDS, we wish you happy holidays and have a wonderful new year!Thanks so much! Honestly the titles are very telling, and i personally loved the ones about candida at first because it was like a soothing hug after several doctors told me to fuck off with my hysteria regarding my candida infection (common medicine don't really believe in candida infection yet unless it's fungemia) but if i had to guess, these should be your first go tos as i believe they actually helped me the most regarding IBS (assumed it was crohns myself for a while): 6-9, 12-13, 18-19, 2… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:09 PM |
| 43 | is it just me or does this comment scream Stockholm syndrome? I’m sorry; but why all the excuses for a pos because it’s his kink? it wasn’t about shaming OP, we are trying to protect you when we say his behavior is not okay. Update to one of my most recent post.Correct. Anytime someone says "i'm too strong to-" it's peobably a deflection. Strong how? Strong doesn't make sense in itself. Physically? Mentally? What kind of strength? The reason we say strong instead of what it really is, is because we'd realize our lie when doing it. "I'm too on top of this situation and critical of my partner to be manipulated" would make her realize she's not being completely honest with herself, especially since the illusion that one is immune to manipulation is the so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 97 | is it just me or does this comment scream Stockholm syndrome? I’m sorry; but why all the excuses for a pos because it’s his kink? it wasn’t about shaming OP, we are trying to protect you when we say his behavior is not okay. Update to one of my most recent post.No wonder she's stuck, her way of saying "i'm too strong to be manipulated" is a scream of help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 124 | Paying off someone else’s debt?First off it's cringe because of the insane advantage men have economically compared to women. Secondly it's risky since men have a pattern of leaving their partner in correlation to their increase in status and money It's like a super cheeky slap to their own face with only a small reward of temporary distraction and a risk of further damage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Beware: don't respond to Holiday / New years Texts from New numbersAlso although it may be strategic, it's a hard reminder of how lonely and LV they are seeing as they can't maintain friendships and family relation to even have company during the holidays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:43 PM |
| 178 | Men will marry women who they don‘t love, find attractive or even hate. How does one even vet for this?This is the problem with mods being male by a disturbing majority | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:29 PM |
| 21 | If you found yourself starting to NAG your man - LEAVE.They're per definition abusers as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:27 PM |
| 30 | If you found yourself starting to NAG your man - LEAVE.It has, time and time again, but it's always met with mass rape and murder and torture and jail, as it is still today every day a woman tries to protest. It's the worst deal to work against. It's no wonder why women often choose enslavement over dying so feminist movements takes thousands of years to move an inch and even if they do, the progress is likely to move back several inches the second the pressure is decreased. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | From all of us at FDS, we wish you happy holidays and have a wonderful new year!First of all, FDS has made my year a party compared to wht it would have been. The mot important lesson fds remind me of every week is that i'm deserving of the best. This includes being in good health and the best part of 2021 for me has been starting the year with a gut health so bad i was planning to write my will, and ending it with enough knowledge about the body that i could do a better job at diagnosing certain problems than any doc i've visited. Finally the healthiest i've ever been, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:05 PM |
| 63 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)This is one of many proofs that "all men" really are rapists, they just don't consider coercion rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:48 AM |
| 135 | I just waited around to protect my lash technician from a creepy client.This. I get enraged beyond words whenever dads complain that women act paranoid around them when the reason is the fact that children is the most common victim of criminal acts by the hands of heterosexual men. I'm thinking maybe turn the anger towards the men making women forced to make sure children are safe whenever they're alone with men? They always refuse though and the pickmes also blame the women giving a shit about the children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 11:39 PM |
| 7 | Very interesting video on two myths associated with the concept of virginity in women, a concept that has been and continues to be used to control and manipulate women worldwide.In "rage becomes her" there's scientific sources being discussed where women legitimately hate their own bodies to the point where they diassociate from it and can't feel it anymore. And this is usual in "modern" societies, they didn't just check women in the most musogynistic countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:46 AM |
| 13 | Very interesting video on two myths associated with the concept of virginity in women, a concept that has been and continues to be used to control and manipulate women worldwide.Men take pride in being rational right until science proves them wrong about women, then they move governments and entire societal systems to follow anti-science just to hurt women. There's no reason why girls should undergo genital analysis when getting medicine/contraceptives yet they are penetrated and degraded for this as well, everywhere in america. It's fairly obvious how forcily penetrating women with often infectious fingers or hurtful items is meant to scare them away from getting help,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 79 | Meghan Trainor's new song, "Title" - for women not into FWBsIt is perfect! "Stop cool-girling me", "you better shave your legs and get buff to even try compete for me", "2 mistakes and it's block delete/bye boy", and the man looking happy when he wins rather than resentful that he had to try. Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:07 AM |
| 4 | Would you date someone who doesn’t understand misogyny?I struggle a bit honestly. I read a lot. And i'm more educated on societal issues than most, especially men, so i hate it when men say "yeah but it's not relevant or s relevant in our society", because they obviously then admit that they think misogyny is an isolated issue or not as critical as i think it is. Some say "yeah but change takes time, we've come a long way". They're entirely wrong and entirely right depending on perspective, but in all they make it seem like i'm just overreacting or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual?I think women's libido is highly fluid and based on circumstance. I thought i was asexual and aromantic but it just turns out i hadn't met one decent male my entire life until i turned 17 and this guy was even pornsick so the standard was not high. He just had good hygiene and a basic set of morals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 04:32 AM |
| 16 | Visited an interior design subreddit dedicated for men, and the results were atrocious.Just the more reason to work hard to avoid these low income scrotes in said comment sections | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | This is not how you ask about financial healthThanks that's a great summary! I think i have a good overview now. Locally the averagr pay for people in my field, age group and with the same experience is around 60 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenSo misogyny then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:22 PM |
| 10 | This is not how you ask about financial healthQuick question; i'm in tech and make the same kind of money as this scrote, why is this always expressed as bad pay? Am i brainwashed from being born into a fucked up economy? In scandinavia the average pay for women between 40 and 60 is around 50k, so i thought for example being 20-30 and earning 60k was good. Is 60k bad pay or is it bad pay when being older than early thirties? Is it normal for people in, i assume, america to be paid over 100k? I ofcourse google this but i only find that the e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:02 PM |
| 108 | NEVER EVER assume that you’re the exception to the rule.Quick everyone print this list and hang it up in your bathroom so you never forget | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 12:05 PM |
| -2 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenScientifically i'm right and you're apparently living under a rock without access to news. Marry your rapist law is still in practise even if it just recently got officially banned from most countries for example. That and all possible news sources should be enough proof. Did you see the comment mentioning how 90% of prostitutes want out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:56 AM |
| -7 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenIt is rape. Scientifically, sex that women orally consent to without wanting it, is experienced as rape. This is why you cannot legally give consent to certain things. Prostitutes are forced. Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenYou truly live in a fantasy world. Women date the most disgusting men. There's a norm for small girls being forced to fuck old fat pedophiles. Not so much for boys. I strongly suggest you wake the fuck up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 0 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenNot being raped is better than money yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenStrange how women hate prostitutes more than men yet it's only ever men who kill prostitutes, and they kill them by a shocking number as well. How do you explain this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:12 AM |
| 0 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenMales consent to paying for sex but women do not consent to being prostitutes. Males don't die from lack of sex but women die from murder, lack of food/resources and trafficking against their will. It's almost like you pretend to not know what prostitution really is. Protip: having to choose between death or something else makes it legally impossible to "consent" to anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenAh yes the millions and trillions of men who got exploited, raped and killed as a result of hookup culture truly is shocking and should definitely be encouraged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:07 AM |
| 47 | Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff.This. Only the predators would get mad about this. Every man getting angry over things like this are mad because they're predators, too, and they realize we want to discriminate against predators as if what they're doing is wrong - which they themselves don't believe. I've never felt more uncomfortable with my male doctors compared to my female doctors and it's probably because they were strictly professional. When i think back on their behavior while reading the stories in the comment section, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:12 PM |
| 119 | Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff.This is the exact thinking "all men" hide behind hence why lobotomies were done to women. If a woman reacts negatively to torture, they're being inconvenient | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:53 AM |
| 39 | Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff.I recently saw a comment on a forum regarding an illness that "the healing process makes me really angry and unstable, how do i make people around me aware that i'm not myself/ it's not me being awful these next weeks?" Never been more sure about an anonymous comment being man made. Told him to consider treating people nicely despite feeling like shit and it's like it's new to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 25 | Do not let this mentality make you more susceptible to manipulation, gaslighting, and other forms of abuse. You do NOT need to ‘see things from his perspective’. All you need is block & delete!Agree! Empathy is a choice, whether people like it or not. Selfishness is a choice. Ignorance is a choice. They're doing it on purpose. Basic proof of this is how women autists are generalized to be socially skilled to the point where it's abnormal - they learn to camouflage or mask in social settings and spend loads of effort, time and energy on learning what they were not born with an understanding of. Meanwhile men are out there pretending they don't know how women think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:12 PM |
| 18 | Should I still go out with this man tomorrow?Block and delete. The way he treats you is legitimately how i'd treat someone i'm angry with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:44 AM |
| 6 | Grace Millane - Murdered by her Tinder date - This is why we vet ruthlessly71 but the entire thing is relevant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:26 AM |
| 72 | Do not let this mentality make you more susceptible to manipulation, gaslighting, and other forms of abuse. You do NOT need to ‘see things from his perspective’. All you need is block & delete!I'm too good at empathy as a result of an abusive upbringing. The only thing i see when looking from most men's perspective is a lack of empathy, massive amounts of selfishness, often a willful ignorance that noone can help but himself, and there's no way to find a "middle way" with them because they're obsessed with "winning" any "debate", argument, fight, discussion, anything really. This sounds harsh but this is noticeable with regular friendly men in my life as well, they just seem more eage… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:06 AM |
| 83 | Grace Millane - Murdered by her Tinder date - This is why we vet ruthlesslyThis. Saying "he's not a real man", "he's a monster", "he's an animal" are just lies that translate to "not all men" even though every possible proof we've ever gathered sings "yes, all men" Most men admit to wanting to rape, or having raped, so long as you don't use the word "rape" "A marriage licence is a rape licence", men literally create entire societies based on laws that make sure male depravity happens. But "Not all men" am i right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:59 AM |
| 6 | It takes men a lifetime to view women as complete human beings.This man hates women still. I know small boys who respect girls and women. It all comes from taught misogyny or anti-misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:01 AM |
| 8 | UK considering making it criminal to cat call women. (My take: gee, you couldn’t holler at another minority and everyone say it’s ok…)Sorry i must have been unclear; i meant "we" as a society don't see women as human yet, and they legally aren't (for real) so what i'm saying is by illegalizing sexism against women, women get the same kind of legal social status as POC in at least one sense. (I don't imply that POC have it easier than women as a group, but i'm saying misogyny is not at all as taboo as racism at the moment, so sorry for my cluttery writing.) It's not a lot, but it's a light shift in thinking. I'll try to explain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 06:15 PM |
| 9 | I realized something funny : movies & tv series versus fan fictionUndertale with literal 2d character design was a breath of fresh air to me. All the characters men as women were completely unique and relatable in each their own way. It's sad to see how one kid creating an entire game and its characters almost by themselves manage to create better characters than trillion dollar teams. They do it on purpose to appease idiotic male audicence probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:51 PM |
| 23 | I realized something funny : movies & tv series versus fan fictionThis fucking hurts me. No wonder yaoi and homoerotic fanfiction is the almost sole type of interesting fanfic there is. Women are wooden planks in most media. I just watched catch me if you can and the love interest and the women in general there gave me the chills by just how pathethic they were and how badly they were treated in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:47 PM |
| 32 | UK considering making it criminal to cat call women. (My take: gee, you couldn’t holler at another minority and everyone say it’s ok…)By just pretending for a moment that women are human. When someone says "hey bitch-" imagine it the same way as if they yelled the n-word towards a POC, when they yell "wanna do xyz with me?" Consider it a threat, as it is. When for a moment disregaring the lies about catcalling being anything but oppression, harassment and threatening of a minority, a way to renind them who's in charge, entitled, and capable of hurting said minority, it's pretty simple to imagine how we enforce this. Witnesses … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 53 | somebody called these men hobosexuals 💀💀✋I'm starting to see a pattern here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Roe will likely be overturned.No, sis; thank you for the temper ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Roe will likely be overturned.😩👌 PERFECT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:48 AM |
| 86 | LmfaoOh sorry i forgot to scream in caps "WHERE IS WOMEN'S HEALTH MONTH?" every single day to pay back for men's identical support on women's day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:38 AM |
| 6 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?I think the deal with men being that emotionally incompetent is a brutal lie we all just comfortably enjoy. Men have no problem raping people, the proof is how they're used to, trained to, and have a global reputation of, nagging women for sex. They may call it being persistent, determined, mad with love, but it is plain simple coercion - which is legally considered rape in societies where rape is frowned upon at least to some degree. Men may forget it's rape? Convince themdelves it's not rape? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Dog bites man because girl is screaming during sex and his reaction makes him a “keeper”?Yeah they know. They can smell what's happening. She probably was genuinely stressed and in pain as it happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Men puts more thought into a high-school sweetheart proposal than the "proposal" to his current wife. Of course the onus gets put on the woman and she gets told to cOmUNicatE.Honestly let it be a rule to say no when this happens. He could always try to propose again. And again. Until block delete or he magically turns into someone else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:19 AM |
| 10 | Men puts more thought into a high-school sweetheart proposal than the "proposal" to his current wife. Of course the onus gets put on the woman and she gets told to cOmUNicatE.Not to mention, even if my mom died yesterday, i would still have to own up to it if my partner told me i've been disrespecting them. There is no excuses here. I choose to consider my own stress above my partner's well being, and that need to be admitted to. Not some "boohoo but i'm in a bad place so can we just forget i did that". And in this case, like all other cases obviously, it's always "some trauma long ago" or "stress over time" that should have been communicated on before it became a pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:16 AM |
| 9 | What is the general rule or idea of gift giving during the holidays, birthday, or anniversaries?I've thought about this a lot. I recently bought my partner a game to be delivered digitally on christmas morning but i only accepted it in the end because i also really want to play the game and it's possible for us to share it. When it becomes a shared thing it's ok, if it's something that would further separate you, is it really a gift? Seems more like a "fuck off" message, like with a gaming console | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:53 AM |
| 10 | What is the general rule or idea of gift giving during the holidays, birthday, or anniversaries?Damn straight. I basically did a scrote move and gave my partner a day trip for two on an alpaca farm where i also bought us a pair of alpaca gloves. It was probably more interesting for me than for him but that's how we should roll at least early in the relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:50 AM |
| 15 | help me heal the last of my pickme tendenciesThis is so important. My friends often tell me "we could never do what you do, you just get away with it because you're you". Who am i? Simple; someone who reads ques. Consent shouldn't be hard at all, consent to conversation, consent to being complimented, hugged, hand-shaked, referred to, asked - we're animals, and so we have a pretty sturdy social system but people and especially men love to pretend that they're really not part of the species. They pretend to be rocks or something, unable to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:26 AM |
| 23 | help me heal the last of my pickme tendenciesYou've got a good eye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:20 AM |
| 28 | help me heal the last of my pickme tendenciesFrom what i've gathered, men who randomly chat up women have no standards whatsoever and all they see is a woman, and then they calculate how easily dominated, harassed or woed she could be depending on what outcome they wish for. Some want sex, others legit just want a reaction, perhaps preferably one of disgust and anger. So not being randomly chatted up is a very good sign that you don't give off weak vibes. The situations where men talk to me is often because the context is fitting. During a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:16 AM |
| 78 | If any of you have made an account on ThePinkPill.co I highly suggest you reconsider itAnd why the fuck do we ever even think about letting men into female only spaces that are direct female copies of already existing male spaces? It makes zero sense. "Hey i know we have gyms but as a man i would really appreciate if i could attend the female only gym" "oh yeah of course why not" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:04 AM |
| 82 | If any of you have made an account on ThePinkPill.co I highly suggest you reconsider itPushover emo boys, slutty boys, pickme boys, attention seeking mommy and daddy issue boys, not like the other boys boys, all the most obnoxious suffocating boys will be storming in while actual mentally healthy men stay out of it while probably attending real life events and going to the gym rather than begging for female approval online | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:01 AM |
| 32 | Sitting in a Starbucks and hearing the following conversation between two womenI think the important part is to follow the FDS way as described on the podcast; change their mind solely by improving their self esteem. "Excuse me but i couldn't stop myself from hearing some of your story and you just seem so accomplished/smart/successful/hard working, you deserve the best" would certainly not be met with hostility. Imagine how insane it feels to not protect the very same man you just admitted to sacrificing yourself for? It would make your self worth seem like nothing, being… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 59 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.Ah this makes me so happy to be Norwegian. Talking to strangers is about as embarrassing as shitting in public here and so only very old people do it since they have no fucks left to give and it's often a good thing when they do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:41 AM |
| 42 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?Every time i read a dead bedroom post by a man it's so obvious how they pretend to believe the wife's lies about just being a headache or tired moment away from consensual sex. I refuse to believe that they don't understand how to fix the fact that they're terrible partners, they'd just rather be a coersive rapist than not be lazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 14 | I have no wordsMy neck tensed in "my abuser senses are screaming" way the entire time i read this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:51 AM |
| 31 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?Yeah and he'd be left naked, bruised and completely robbed by the end of the day if he was lucky to survive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 23 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?This one hits bad. Not only are we shamed for crying the very same way men complain they are being shamed; we're on top of this accused of being abusive when doing so. What the fuck. I always wonder why and how men can believe women have any more right than anyone else to cry. We are killed for crying. It's harder for women to kill men for doing so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 22 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?And - if men WANT custody, they have a much larger chance at winning it, especially if they're abusive and way too often this includes sexual abusive towards both the mother and children. Imagine that - pedophiles are more trusted around their children than their mothers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 31 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?Yes it's especially important to let women know that this is abusiveness talking since so many pickmes keep supporting this bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 04:28 PM |
| 73 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?If the genders wwre reversed, the interviewer would openly only ask about their body while hand gesturing down to, and looking at, the cleavage without anyone losing their minds unless women complained and they'd have to tell them how hysterical they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:31 PM |
| 75 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?How the fuck do so many men refuse to listen to women to learn an ounce of empathy tho. It should be humanly impossible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:29 PM |
| 173 | Question: have you experienced men saying, "If the genders were reversed..." and you were deadpan because it in fact occurs reversed and often?This gets me so frustrated i try to forget or ignore it tbh. "Imagine if women were beaten? Imagine if women attempted suicide? Imagine if women were being treated unfairly in family court? Imagine if women weren't allowed to show emotion?" All of these aspects are proven time and time again to be female dominated problems, all statistics say the same, unless you really hate women and you cherry pick numbers out of context. Men do this on purpose and because they're "the victim" abusive type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 13 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?Cause it's a lie. Men are just slutty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Disappointed by my date todaySounds like a sure way to get block deleted no matter how one rationalizes it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:41 PM |
| 11 | Disappointed by my date todaySomeone kept mentioning how good my ass looks and i was like "yeah i know it's nice" and they kept mentioning it while saying "i hope you don't mind me saying". For some reason it makes it even worse, i just want to brush it off but it forces me to either say "actually i do mind it" followed by some explanation probably or silently comply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:39 PM |
| 8 | Which one of you is this aboutYou killed me with this explanation 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Which one of you is this aboutYeah this is fake, no woman who received 2 orgasms would deny the helper of said orgasms release unless it was a consented upon kink of theirs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 02:33 AM |
| 19 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!I thought you were writing satire but i'm slowly coming to terms with the belief that this is real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 02:13 AM |
| 25 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I was legit beat up and bullied for being a lesbian at 13-15 years old, called a whore for some reason as well, all because i didn't have a crush until i fell in love at 17 (with a boy so i didn't even get the benefits of being gay, only the punishment) Not having crushes as a girl is as frowned upon as being for example gay depending on your culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Healing the Abandonment WoundThanks for this. I'm so used to being shamed for my humor i almost forget there's a good reason behind it - and it's good humour. Please anyone reading; don't let them take away your laughter especially when it's aimed at your pain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:31 AM |
| 20 | Men know very well the horrors of non-consensual penetration and this is proof. Don't give them the benefit of the doubtReminds me of how men gladly watch assault-porn but gets furious and whiny the second they stumble across cheating-porn (where the woman cheats) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:47 AM |
| 20 | Religion is by men, for menIn buddhism women are said to be too emotional, irrational and stupid to reach the intelligence and peace necessary for reaching nirava, let alone have any kind of important role considering they can't help others. Buddha didn't even want women in the temples but his aunt supposedly made him allow them, but he made it super hard for women to be there and any failure resulted in a perma-ban. Women are not welcome in religion so why keep asking us to join in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:45 AM |
| 7 | Men know very well the horrors of non-consensual penetration and this is proof. Don't give them the benefit of the doubtAgreed, never even heard about this in my country so i guess people are quickly removed once they do this shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:44 AM |
| 126 | Religion is by men, for menIt's so ironic how men literally get hand-held to church by women and the second they step into the church they shit-talk said women. Men are masters at shooting themselves in the knees | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:35 AM |
| 22 | Religion is by men, for menThis is the worst part of living in this world to me. Everything is drenched in religion, literally every cultural aspect, story, myth, legend, all the hollywood shit we see is partly stolen from religious stories. Then you realize religion is as misogynistic as anything comes. Even the good religions turned out to be misogynistic down the line because men dominate everything that holds power and ruins it. Even Buddha couldn't help himself, saying everything you need to know about how this all g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:33 AM |
| 12 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsIf women want equality they should in reality refuse their partner orgasms until a 50/50 orgasm count is met, and refuse to do chores until 50/50 is met there as well etc. The last thing we should be considering is taking away things from our already raided plate. It's so simple when said plainly yet we keep pretending as if relationships are equal outside of pay - probably because we don't think we deserve love and respect. You deserve love and respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:01 PM |
| 73 | Homicide is a top cause of maternal death in the United States: Black women have up to nearly three-fold higher risk of dying by homicide than those who are not pregnant. This is why you have to stay EXTREMELY vigilant when vetting men!"Pregnant women kill their partner just as often!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 10:44 AM |
| 13 | Never Help Men With Their Woman-Seeking MotivesThe only advice i give is usually reminders that dirty nails and lack of effort gets you nowhere, and these reminders is something everyone could use. Any more complicated than this and men shut their ears anyways, might just stick to insulting them/theie hygiene and laziness since that's the only thing that gets to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 08:30 AM |
| 12 | If he tells you to swallow his cum, tell him to swallow your period blood :)Honestly since period blood and semen is basically exactly the same in terms of what it represents and level of disgust i didn't mind at all, it's weird to me how semen everywhere id normalized but period blood is considered worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 08:12 AM |
| 10 | I'm so tired of seeing 'demisexual' tossed around like it's some sort of aberrant practice when really, it's just HEALTHY to want trust & a connection with intimate partners.I was bullied by both my girl- and boy peers as a child because i didn't have casual crushes that seemed to be based on anything but personality and established connection, i didn't fall in love until i turned 17 and i think perhaps the girls at the time were being dishonest to fit into a man-made patriarchal system where men define women to be as "slutty" as themselves, and if they aren't, they're labeled freaks. It's just men forcing women to be as desperate for sex and attention as themselves… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 07:59 AM |
| 64 | One of the biggest lies sold to women is the importance of upholding the relationship at any costIt only makes sense tho, why the fuck do we need to explain to people how abuse trigger negative emotion and reaction in people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 07:32 AM |
| 9 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beThis didn't surprise me at all. Men are so frequently masturbating to women's pain, it's impossible for women to talk about their trauma in public or online without being stalked, jerked off to and worst case killed as a result of men obsessing over them in a sexual way. It's a problem so common it actually is "all men" standing behind it seeing as i don't see any men working on reducing the phenomena and comments like in this post is awarded by other men to signal to keep it up. The rest of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:05 AM |
| 9 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beThis sounds ridiculous until you imagine a woman writing something like in this post and then it makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:02 AM |
| 3 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beDon't worry, his introduction is a trigger warning itself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:01 AM |
| 33 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beThise subs are traps set up by male mods who hate women, i wish women had a safe space to vent and talk about those things but reddit shouldn't be it unless it's has harshly moderated as this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:00 AM |
| 5 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beWhen men say "not all men" what they really mean is if they're not the perpetrator, they're this guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:59 AM |
| 8 | Am I codependent or do I have a strong intuition?ENTP here, i specifically spot and catch INFJs whenever i can and "put them in my collection" not only because they're amazing people, but because they have the psychic powers i so badly lack. I can see patterns like nobody else but i stay blind to whatever's right in front of me compared to what INFJs observe. NTs constantly neg people like you because they don't understand the level you're on. If there's someone who should listen to their gut without any questions, it's you! I think OP has the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 9 | Am I codependent or do I have a strong intuition?I'm thinking he was cheated on as a result of being emotionally unavailable while also not being an abuser, since then the pickme he was dating before was probably scared to dump him because of the thought of not being able to find another non-abusive man. Then he uses the cheating as an excuse even though it was there all along. He may not be abusive but he is weak. Being cheated on shouldn't be an excuse to be emotionally unavailable while inside a relationship; he already choose to be availab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:24 AM |
| 176 | When two people try to out-LV each otherI hate how they keep mentioning that she cheated yet they fail to realize how he did as well, several times. Going to the strip club, wasting money while married with a baby, all against the will of your spouse, is at least as much cheating as flirting with and having sex with someone. We're talking frequent emotional, sexual and financial cheating vs emotional and sexual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:58 AM |
| 7 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.This is a wonderful prank and experiment and proof of the phenomena and i'm thankful she did it for science but i just cannot imagine how she or anyone else manages to have sex while this is happening. How is it even possible not to hate your partner while in this situation? Obviously dump block delete is the solution that should have been used from step 1 but i keep thinking about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 7 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?I love her for her sleepover song where she basically sings about having sex with "your girlfriend" because it's one of the few sassy sexual songs i know of that sounds like consensual and enjoyable sex, rather than rape or abuse. She probably needs to stay sexualized to stay relevant so i respect that entirely as it's basically a requirement for women artists to stay afloat. And i love her style. But the sexualized part is misunderstood as feminism when it's really a result of patriarchy. It's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 136 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedAbusers are a protected group because majority of men have abusive traits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:10 AM |
| 62 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.How is it not difficult to be submissive and cooperative? How come men fail to be this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | The "biology" of the age gapWomen are attracted to men based on very personal criterias. It's been proven again and again that money and societal status are only bonuses, it won't win her attraction. Women tend to like charismatic, generous and smart men, yet it's rarely if ever mentioned for some reason. Meanwhile men for different reasons tend to be attracted to women based on their lack of control; kind, self-sacrificial, small, young, physically weak. There's edge-cases but this is the main pattern and it needs to be c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:08 PM |
| 18 | The reason why men call for men's rights is malicious whereas the reason women fight for women's rights is to be able to be independent and have mutual emotionally fulfilling relationships.These are simple truths yet men lose their shit if you mention it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:00 PM |
| 33 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyThis is why i'm embarassed to the point of blushing whenever i speak nicely of philosophy books and wonderful indie movies. Men ruined it to the point where you're basically assumed to be an idiot posing as a pretentious asshole if you share those interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:34 AM |
| 159 | Is it a red flag if he kisses you on the first date without asking first?Asking for a kiss shouldn't necessarily need to be asked verbally, there's so many ways to ask with body language. So if he kisses you and it seems sudden, unexpected, but most importantly; uncomfortable, then it means he's low on empathy or respect or both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:24 AM |
| 30 | Please don’t try to pick up people at their jobsSometimes i wonder how they manage to believe that they are the choosers/gatekeepers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:22 AM |
| 12 | Have you ever noticed that older women NEVER manipulate younger guys for personal gain? While men do it daily...People say it's a double standard to allow older women to date younger men while being unaccepting of the other way around as if there's no difference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:36 AM |
| 9 | Help. I just got banned from other subreddits if you participate in this one. My comment was not offensive at all nor was I applying FDS strategies. I call bullshit but I guess I'll make a throwaway.In the end it's only gonna make it so not only 80%, but 100% of the members are male lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:35 AM |
| 16 | Help. I just got banned from other subreddits if you participate in this one. My comment was not offensive at all nor was I applying FDS strategies. I call bullshit but I guess I'll make a throwaway.Or stop frequenting misogynistic subs run by misogynists, i'm so much happier not being in a sub where women are bullied even tho the title of the sub is pro-women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:34 AM |
| 149 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyThis is too damn accurate. Most of the time if a guy mentions some smartass indie movie to sound unique and i know of it, he won't discuss it. It's painfully obvious they don't even like the movie or they only know of the details around it but hates talking about the movie itself. We may need to bully men for their hobbies more often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 11:54 PM |
| 51 | What are the red flags that it’s emotional abuse?In Lundy's "why does he do that" this is explained as the abuser's step by step guide to emotional abuse. He's an abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:30 AM |
| 149 | Apologizing for or sympathizing with "cancelled" woman-abusers is big time Pick Me behaviour - From Vanity Fair: 'Dakota Johnson Calls Cancel Culture "Such a Downer"She did learn, unfortunately with 3+ generations of abuse all a woman is left with is the lesson that she is deserving of abuse. That's our survival pattern in action and majority of women are born with this issue to fix. It's hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 10 | A litmus test for toxic masculinity: check if he gets upset and thinks you’re less if you can tell the difference between two close coloursIt all makes sense! All this time my art style has been highly feminine and i didn't even know it (no depth, all color) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:49 AM |
| 6 | A litmus test for toxic masculinity: check if he gets upset and thinks you’re less if you can tell the difference between two close coloursA weird but oddly positive trait about my partner is how he gets excited if i say a fancy word before a color, though it's probably because he has a shoe addiction. However bad or good this is, it certainly matches his lack of toxic masculinity and i think this pattern is pretty bullet proof considering how most, if not all cultures for some reason associate color with women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | How to make it clear you will NOT go on a drinks date?Is it weird to ask "what's your dream/ideal date?" Early as a convo starter? I feel like this is great to also place the spotlight on them before they get to know you so they can mirror you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:38 AM |
| 14 | !!If you're in the UK please be aware!!! There's online sellers of date rape drugs out there and they're selling them for cheap and in bulk. Reports show there has been an increase in spiking in September and October. Stay safe out there!Tbh bodycams won't work in a system where women are blamed. It's perhaps even better to have no proof so that no men can watch footage of women being attacked and go "she probably made weird faces or refused to sleep with him, i'd do the same. She's guilty of provoking it and if she's pregnant she's charged for endangering her child" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:30 AM |
| 6 | !!If you're in the UK please be aware!!! There's online sellers of date rape drugs out there and they're selling them for cheap and in bulk. Reports show there has been an increase in spiking in September and October. Stay safe out there!This was such a great read, i almost wish it was in the handbook but i don't know if self defence fits in there? If so we need to add in these strats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:25 AM |
| 21 | !!If you're in the UK please be aware!!! There's online sellers of date rape drugs out there and they're selling them for cheap and in bulk. Reports show there has been an increase in spiking in September and October. Stay safe out there!To be fair, women should be a lot more like men regarding the laws. Men don't care about the law as long as they can get away with it. What women need to respond with is maybe one time use pepper sprays that ensures max damage and no traces back to the user so that you can pepperspray someone quick and get away with it just as easily as rapists are getting away with illegal drug possession, poisoning and rape. It's possible but we tend not to spend as much time, effort and money on systemically … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:21 AM |
| 41 | Pickme Argues with Man to Pay the BillI'm actually glad she did it; she die give him several chances to explain himself but rather than saying for example how ridiculously gorgeous she is and that paying would be the least he could do to make up for a fraction of her efforts, alongside with stating that due to supply and demand it doesn't make sense for women to pay, he said "shut up for once" and "I want to be a gentleman", two sentences outing him for being ignorant, selfish and misogynistic (or at least apparently not liking it w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 230 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightWell done! The reason block delete is the only right way to deal with lvm is because they don't listen to us anyways. It's like literally talking to the trash before throwing it out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?Being bad at sex is a choice or a serious health issue which is also either a choice to keep having untreated or keep lying about. Either he has to be obviously willing and eager to get better, or he's unempathethic and of low value. All my partners were pretty bad the first time because of little experience but would make sure to do better, and the only time i choose to break up was when something even the snallest of bad habits or bad skills were ignored and not improved, especially sexually, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:19 PM |
| 11 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?Is it weird to lose a boner while for example giving oral sex or other things where his penis isn't touched for many minutes tho? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:15 PM |
| 50 | Do you guys know how or why our posts here would show up on this site? Y'all be careful, I legit just stumbled across this while searching my own reddit username out of curiosity. *Sorry in advance if this violates any rule and has to be removed.You don't know? I bet majority of our readers are men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Good thing red pill theories about women is illogical and untrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you?I frequent women's forums everywhere and i have yet to see a serious statement saying mentally ill men are disgusting or bad. I do however frequently see those kind of statements about men being willfully sick by inflicting damage upon himself and others in the process. For example; there's a big difference between someone with OCD who keeps it under control without hurting anyone, and someone with a porn addiction. I would say nice try, but you're not alone in making up lies about women to make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 11:57 PM |
| 29 | Observations from my first post-pandemic partyI was in the city at a big bar with several dancing floors and the men there, and some of the obvious pickmes, made me realize why "average people" are so unhappy especially when trying to date. Just observering them made me depressed and anxious, i can't even imagine what it's like to interact with the kind of men who frequent bars/clubs/parties (and can't even dress up for the theme or hold a conversation). At one recent job party (there's only 2 women in my company) a guy very obviously appro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you?Why is it unempathethic to not want to date someone based on certain mental health criteria? Would you date a mordbidly obese woman or man? Why or why not? Does empathy have anything to do with it? Or do you want to admit that you just feel irrationally entitled to women's attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you?Online women are either male trolls or real women just like in real life. The truth shines even brighter online when it comes to people expressing their preferences because they won't be punished for it. Why do you care if some women won't date some people no matter the criteria? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you?He's undatable for some, and not for others. You know that peope aren't a hive-mind and that they differ in preference. But you probably just seek validation when you god damn well know that it won't help unless it comes from yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 10:20 PM |
| 4 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.And yet men can't shut up about how men are "discriminated against" on dating apps like tinder where casual sex is the standard, because the women are either few or generally uninterested because hookups means torture for them. The entitlement and forced ignorance is never-ending | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:38 AM |
| 10 | A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it.This is spot on. I especially remember the time i said enough is enough and i raised my voice only to be met with violence while being told i was crazy and out of my mind. In the moment it's impossible to clearly see the injustice in even such a situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 11:06 PM |
| 506 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?"If he wanted to, he would" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 10:17 PM |
| 19 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually."Been given pity fucks" I'm so excited for the mental gymnastics behind that one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there really a "sex recession"?If you watch the statistics for how many actually serves time for hurting or killing women, and literally any other gendered statistic, like the wage gap, you will see that women are not the dominating class. But you probably know that, you're just coping with your misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Is there really a "sex recession"?Really? All i see is mgtow and incels killing women because that' mostly what they represent and noone seems to give a fuck. When did anyone ever complain about the men keeping their distance from women romantically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Is there really a "sex recession"?Try it and see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Is there really a "sex recession"?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Is there really a "sex recession"?So they don't get screened out, there's always a taker. Hence why women can only be voluntarily celibate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Is there really a "sex recession"?Women generally want men to stop trying to date them without trying to reach any standards. The problem is men won't stop bothering women, if they did, this would probably be less of a problem. We'd all love for men to focus on improving themselves for themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:38 PM |
| -2 | Is there really a "sex recession"?Women don't get screened out. Men will date a pillow if they have to. You're involuntarily celibate whereas women are voluntarily celibate, but nice try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Is there really a "sex recession"?The article is takling about women who give up on men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 11:50 AM |
| 3 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupFor 4 years, he couldve easily started saving 3k/year from the second she told him marriage was important to her. Noone is worth saving 3k/year for? When having a full time job? That they handed you? Man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 99 | Thoughts on the queer community being saturated with kink and poly?Being a woman is anti queer community ffs. Lesbians for example have been bullied harshly at all times, even now, because they're not men and men dominate wheverer they so well please through the means of crying and threathening violence. This makes it no wonder why "kinksters" also dominate the queer community. Being a misfit in the queer community basically means being a woman or being anti patriarchy. It's the abnormal yet logical stance to have given how queer people gain less by kissing the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:47 AM |
| 46 | Dinner with the gals (part 2)The prince frog story is the biggest cope there is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:43 AM |
| 99 | read those micro-expressions, they tell everythingThis. The "glossing over you" part is what gets me every time. It's impossible for me to think about it directly as it happens, but i will instantly get the feeling that i'm seen as a mere silhouette and after the conversation i'll think "why", and their eye movements will be the only clue i can think of. The small smirk as well is so god damn awful i actually do consciously recognise it tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 08:58 PM |
| 14 | One of the most bittersweet, but ultimately helpful realisations of my dating life: For a LVM, it isn't about you. Make sure that it is about you for the guy you're dating.Excellent reminder on how true HV behavior requires being willing to filter out the peole around you to match with your unique qualities even if it means reducing the amount of possible matches regarding every kind of relation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 08:51 PM |
| 7 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?Lmao my abuser threathened to call the cops on me, he called and the police was basically laughing him in the face from what i heard from people he was crying and whining to about it. Sometimes if you ignore them for long enough, scrotes will call the cops on themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:50 AM |
| 24 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?Good reminder never to be "nice" (self sacrificial) to men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 08:43 AM |
| 30 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?What i don't quite get is how desperate men in general are to date women yet they're still this quick to leave. It's a special kind of entitlement to leave a woman then become a ticking bomb waiting to hurt or kill people if they stay single for longer than they'd like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 08:32 AM |
| 22 | What dating is like in a small townHad to replay because her dog was so god damn adorable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 08:29 AM |
| 90 | Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…Believing that women can shut down men is hard cope. The only way women are free to shut down men is by learning juijutsu or something to a better degree than any police officer is expected to learn whatever they're learning, or by working out so god damn much they actually exceed the average male body muscle mass + explosive energy the male muscle contain. We expect women to work out/train 10-20 hours/week when women don't even have time for themselves since they're also expected to do free lab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 08:23 AM |
| 24 | My little garden - some musingsScrotes in the dms: "DON'T FORCE MEN TO TOUCH PLANTS WHEN IT WOULD MAKE THEM INSTANTLY GAY" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 08:49 AM |
| 19 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.It was the wrong thing to say BUT i bet it actually leaves him frustrated believing that if he just changed his mind he could've prevented losing you. He'll probably beat himself up a little bit more because he thinks the breakup was his decision. So if anything, he'll hurt a little more because of it which is nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 08:43 AM |
| 11 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.This is textbook addict reaction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Relationships and effortI remember feeling guilty over my first relationship going to shit and then i realized; how much time did he spend researching anything for us? I had bought 4 books about relationships and read them all. All he did was cry and tell me i deserved better. Yeah congrats he was right about one thing yet he could take matters into his own hands and actually make himself worthy instead of talking while sitting on his ass. If i get the impression that my partner hasn't spent at least those 4 books wort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?I feel like laughing because it's the most careful way of confessing to having no self esteem whatsoever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Men always knowOr they lie about it and they have all the empathy in the world but lack the sympathy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Men always knowI find it baffling how it's even considered anything but sexist to assume men to be dumber than women in general. Maybe they are but come the fuck on; they don't stay ignorant against their own will. The average man is able to do research on whatever he wants to know. After all, men dominate in hacking and stocks and that requires the ability to learn new things fast. If he wanted to, he would - this goes for google searching or empathizing as well. Men don't have an average IQ score of 70 - the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:20 PM |
| 9 | Men's complaints about womenMakes me laugh imagining the mental gymnastics or lack of it to believe that a child should cost 0 dollars | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Men's complaints about womenI know men who actually struggle with dating because of differing career paths, values, dreams, emotional patterns, lack of common ground - these men exist but for some reason they're the minority. Shocker, they always end up in healthy happy relationships even if they don't last forever. They might grow apart, because they're both human beings etc. It's not hard to view women as people and have actual human relations with them. But i believe 1) the complaining comes from misogynists, only. And … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:11 PM |
| 37 | Surviving assaultsMy mom got a team of 5 bikers to beat up her abusive ex with a bat and he could do nothing about it. We should have a service like this for women; police neglect cases like these anyways so it's not even gonna be hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:59 PM |
| 50 | Men who are virgins late in life are red flags.For me even if it's the norm, it still means he might be so used to masturbation and porn that he won't be sexually available to me. It might not be a red flag 100% of the rime but it sure is a reason to snoop 100% of the time to try and see if he has a porn addiction since they rarely admit to this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:08 AM |
| 7 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:Yeah i actually read it as "stay single! Become successful!" But i had to read it slowly while pretending to be a pickme to understand the message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:24 AM |
| 21 | So close to my home… notice the age gap.By following the handbook the chances for being killed by your own partner is gonna be noticeably reduced at least | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:22 AM |
| 140 | Everyone please be aware! They're not only spiking drinks but now they're using needles to spike women! It seems to be happening very frequently in the UK so stay safe if you're from there.No problem! Start spiking men with bleach or something so they get sick or die as well et voila; suddenly security will give a shit. Oor normalize women only bars and clubs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 09:11 PM |
| 20 | Iriza Shlesinger bit about men picking less educated, helpless women because they’re easy targetsExcellent comedian | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 09:06 PM |
| 7 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:At first i didn't understand what you meant at all. Then i remembered that "regular people " consider single to be a bad word lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 20 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!Great point! My first sexual partner initiated with firmly asking me to tell him if something was uncomfortable right away, that should be the bare minimum. They know and if they want to, they will make sure you're comfortable at all times and especially comfortable about communicating. I think a good indicator of a man not being the right one is whenever you feel afraid or uncomfortable about telling him about boundaries or you being uncomfortable during for example sex. Follow your gut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 38 | Flip the scriptI was contemplating writing a post about this since it's relevant in literally all our interactions with men (and sometimes women of course) but you wrote it perfectly. A situation i often think about is whenever men disrespect me out from the blue. For example when strangers walk up to my face while i'm eating, reading, chilling outside alone clearly enjoying myself and they start talking to me, kissing my hand, going in for hugs - it happens and it always seem like i'm the strange one when it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 10:09 AM |
| 26 | Husbands consent to being there for their wife in sickness and in health when they marry, yet they're statistically shown to fail at this even when it's the bare minimum. Strategy: see how he reacts to you falling sick and block + delete if he in any way seems unsympathethic💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | I witnessed a man publicly threatening a woman today.I'm sorry to hear the misogyny is so rampant even in such a otherwise wonderful culture, it makes sense how it's called going dutch as you say. Men really want to have the cake and eat it too and they make it work through the rampant terrorism against women somehow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | I witnessed a man publicly threatening a woman today.I love pretty much every person coming here from the Netherlands so i bet the culture is very similar in terms of progressiveness or something like that, at least the ones paying the effort to travel here are very open minded and we like that. But there are some aspects i do wonder about, such as the willingness to have legal prostitution even though it increases te rate of slavery/trafficking and as you mention, racism being at all present. No culture is perfect! Lots of congratulations and goo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?Great question! Continuously working on myself. I was deeply sad, angry and hurt pretty much constantly and being in a state of constant stress deactivates your frontal brain activity related to for example social interaction, empathy, etc. I like many others used humour as my main tool to cope and it works wonders for many situations such as being bullied (instead of shooting up the school, for example. Men should learn to take a joke every once in a while instead of pulling the trigger right a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 06:19 AM |
| 31 | I witnessed a man publicly threatening a woman today.When men stay silent in those situations, it's not out of fear. It's out of pleasure. Men enjoy showing off and playing hero, that's also why they scream the loudest in every possible situation they care a little bit about. Always remember this. In scandinavia, people are known to be pretty shy and anti-confrontation in general. In my personal experience, you don't get away with anything without always women, and often men, interfering and saying "that's not ok" whenever racism or sexism happen … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 06:01 AM |
| 28 | I don't know who needs to read this, but you don't have to put up with struggle love.Women and girls are sometimes proud of how miserable their partner makes them. This is because they're taught that women's suffering is good. Simple as that. If you want to endure something painful for the sake of becoming stronger, dump your abusive partner/friend(s) and go to the gym instead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:50 PM |
| 13 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?Yeah i was tryna think what men fear from showing emotion. Let me think.. 1) Getting beat up (hint: this happens to girls and women as well, if not even more frequently, just from showing emotion) 2) Getting killed (hint: this happens to women, if not more than men as well) 3) Getting their feelings hurt (hint: you guessed it) Soo yeah are we just accepting that men are pretending to be mentally disabled? I don't get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 36 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?Good point. I was emotionally repressed to a certain degree and it actually lead me to do everything in my power to train my EQ - that's usually the result of being punished for reacting "in the wrong ways", it only makes sense since that's the only way to survive repressive parents/people/other kids during upbringing. Logic is right there. Proof is all around. Still people love to lie with bullshit cope like original video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:40 PM |
| 43 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?If you're a woman and you show any kind of emotion in the face of abuse, you will go to jail for alleged abuse after your abuser finally calls the police, or you do, and the police trusts the "rational, calm man" over the "hysterical, stressed woman". Showing emotion isn't just "risky" for women, it's practically illegal. I don't understand where these people live that think men have any less right than women to "show emotion" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 70 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?This is the blue pill side of reality. The truth is: women are punished more than men for showing emotion AND for having sex. Men are more often than not rewarded both for showing emotion in the form of anger and for having sex. It's not like women are rewarded for their mainly falsely assigned emotion: sadness. The reason the stereotypical hetero marriage problem she describes happens is because those men only date women for sex and treat her badly. End of story. The edge cases, a.k.a. whatever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 01:40 PM |
| 71 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩This. No matter how good the intention, it's as insulting as someone trying to tie your shoes for you without anuone asking for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 346 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩So this tells me they now understand we have standards and they have to lie about meeting them and making all kinds of efforts to maintain the lies rather than just.. doing what they know they're expected to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 01:22 PM |
| 32 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornAmazingly put. I just love to imagine counter-asking a guy to watch porn together and play only videos of men being violated and worse, in the same manner as women are in regular porn, and see how he reacts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:26 AM |
| 25 | This is why you don’t tell men you enjoy cooking 🤦♀️This makes me wonder if women really just lie about rheir ability to cook to keep men away since so many scrotes are crying non stop about women no longer knowing how to cook, that's hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:21 AM |
| 196 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?Funny thing is; this is exactly what marriage was supposed to do as well which is why marital violence is highly legal and just recently started becoming formally (but not always practically) illegal because we can't force women to marry as much as before. Women and girls are intentionally "given" as a free punching bag to boys and men to protect boys and men. It's horrible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:08 AM |
| 67 | Thanks for keeping us awareIt's not at all weird to say no to a man asking you for help since men generally think, and brag about, women being weak and incompetent. Why would they ever ask us for help over a man when they're the same people who have been denying us human rights for being assumed too incompetent for anything? Makes no sense unless it is to fuck with us. In principle we should deny men help as a kind of protest until we reach equality even if it won't happennin our lifetime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:02 AM |
| 10 | No words. Rest in beautiful peace, AgnesHow about just look out the window lmao i can't list even one country where this hasn't happened rather frequently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:51 AM |
| 9 | No words. Rest in beautiful peace, AgnesShe obviously just has poor judgement, anyone would be able to spot a murderer when they saw one. Women just have bad taste is all /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:50 AM |
| 19 | No words. Rest in beautiful peace, AgnesYet people keep denying there's a war against women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:48 AM |
| 4 | What are your best tips for letting go of the IDEA you have a person?Stoic app is both so ironic yet perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 08:41 PM |
| 3 | What are your best tips for letting go of the IDEA you have a person?I just read this, found on kindle, it's neat! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 16 | Gabby Petite’s cause of death has been released as strangulation. Does anyone else think Laundries team will try to use sex as a defense?They know the truth, they just hate women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:42 AM |
| 19 | Gabby Petite’s cause of death has been released as strangulation. Does anyone else think Laundries team will try to use sex as a defense?Yet i doubt anyone would get away with strangling and concussing a guy and claiming for it to be the alcohol, even (or especially?) without the rape part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:41 AM |
| 4 | Gabby Petite’s cause of death has been released as strangulation. Does anyone else think Laundries team will try to use sex as a defense?If he raped her or her dead body then he might actually get less punishment than if he didn't because he can claim for it to be "sex" :) Luckily in this case i doubt he did it, and so i'm afraid since rape was not involved, he won't get as much sympathy from the jury. Crazy how that works. He will however probably get less punishment than your usual murderer because he killed his girlfriend which for most men is seen as something they're entitled to do, BUT the case has blown up and everyone's w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:37 AM |
| 50 | What are your best tips for letting go of the IDEA you have a person?This is essentially hoarding. Epictetus has some great sayings about hoarding or rather why you should not do it, and it's the best part of stoic philosophy in my opinion. I've de-cluttered my life a lot by getting rid of materialistics but also mental attacfhments. I recently grew intolerant to my favorite foods which reminds me of childhood and i'm currently trying to let those things go - it feels a lot like a mental breakup or similar to giving up on people/ideas of people. My only specific … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:28 AM |
| 3 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isResponse should be "they can keep him", always! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:43 AM |
| 6 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isThat part is scarily true and i recently thought about how all socities teach men to be pushy and women to be accomodating resulting in a global rape culture where for example women give in for no reason other than to follow their indoctrination and be a good obedient and well liked person. It's a way of men claiming back power over the gatekeepers since they hate how women have the natural upper hand and i hope everyone will see it for what it is at some point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 30 | FDS is BACK!Imagine being vegan and spending your day writing about how a subreddit about meat dishes is down and being scared that it banned you 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 08:44 PM |
| 14 | FDS is BACK!They didn't really think we were plotting anything. They just didn't want to spellout the words "it hurts that FDS is not up, it's the only thing i care about lately" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 08:43 PM |
| 6 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isOf course, personally i just found that the asexual aspect of it made me comfortably demotivated to seek relationships. For me that makes a lot of sense but i realize people also may be going into relationships for the pure sense of belonging or in the belief that they won't be lonely, i have yet to understand this fully though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:36 PM |
| 15 | Mod appreciation postPeople keep saying elle said redpill stuff etcetcetc and that's why they're angry, but they obviously glossed over the part where she stated that she did that when she was younger and more ignorant and the hosts laughed of it as a past clown mistake. The only thing she said that was conservative was "individual over the better for everyone" and that's ok. We have many examples on how massive systems eventully screw people over individually, and so even though i'm a scandinavian and per default s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/21 10:38 PM |
| 33 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isYeah i think it's more about the asexual aspect and less about "preference" which people tend to mention here. People fail to understand what asexuality feels like or at least it's hard to understand each other correctly on the topic. It's not always fun being demi even though it sure is an excellent guard against LVM because there's no temptations before some vetting has already occured (and in my case the vetting period required is a minimal of 1 month) The fact that so many find it hard to fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/21 10:19 PM |
| 14 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isExcellent point even though i don't personally think the majority of women are demi, if they are then they're for real out there hooking up while being turned off from start to finish and that scares me indefinitely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/21 10:10 PM |
| 36 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isThe way i see it, what differ demisexuals from others is the fact that they cannot get turned on without being sexually interested in someone. To awake their sexuality, they need to feel connection, and so either i guess they could bond with fictional characters and maybe use fictional porn or something but in my personal experience, i went a whole 5 years of my early life masturbating for experimentation while thinking about nothing at all. It was such a mind blown when i finally fell in love a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/21 10:05 PM |
| 28 | Come dine with me:1 show, 2 LVM or how LVM are sore losersLMAOOOOOOO IMAGINE THINKING YOU'RE NOT SOUNDING LIKE A COMPLETE CLOWN WHILE HAVING A TANTRUM AS WELL I can't imagine having that level of blissful ignorance, the lack of scolding boys experience in their upbringing for being mean is unfathomable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 8 | From Lundy Bancroft, "Why does he do that?". Re-reading and came across one of my favourite section of the book. It helped me recognise that "sorry" doesn't mean shit from men. If he wanted to, he would.This exact part made me realize the audacity behind "forgive me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 46 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsThe fact that you probably explained perfectly well why and how porn is misogynistic and he still suggested you being brainwashed by religion tells me he actively closed his ears every time you spoke. This is a nice piece of proof on why men needs to be blocked, deleted and ignored: they literally do not hear us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 07:58 AM |
| 25 | Men’s Childhood Never EndsThis is actually so painfully true and i first hand realized it when noone would be my friend because i was deemed childish for drawing, watching cartoons (even south park and other shows that are legitimately even better as adults), playing games and making jokes (often gross jokes at that). Girls were so obsessed with growing up they were done being children at 7 years old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 83 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeIt's easier for men since all political parties are somewhat against women, they wouldn't be too happy with each other if one of the political parties suggested legalization of executing men for having sex without a condom for example. Or for forcing vasectomies. But women have been brainwashed into hating each other so it is important to stay united indeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:07 PM |
| -26 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeIf i remember correctly, i think she was ashamed of that and had grown away from it. Wasn't that the part where they said the circus is a part of life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyI place him in hot water with a little vinegar every night after a long day's use before i rub him with a rust-fighting sponge and oil him up for the night so that he may rise as a new tool the next day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 32 | FDS Works. It's best just to ghost men with no explanation when they do something shitty particularly in the early stages of dating. See link for why.Man i hate how men pretend like the invented the wheel when they just re-iterate what women have been saying always. He says it like it's some grand theory just because, ofcourse, the same goes for business (monkey brain go BRRRR when BUSINESS !!!! mentioned!! Business good, listen activate-), but it's not at all a difficult or new concept. The only difference is when this buff guy says it, men will likely think it's more worth to gain his indirect validation than the temporary pleasure of haras… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 13 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowNot really. Men torture and kill women unarmed just fine so when they are armed, they usually intend to kill themselves after their rampage. There are no consequences, only results going according to their plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:42 AM |
| 12 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowNah. We literally invented witch hunts just to kill women with money and property to steal it. We implemented all kinds of rules so that women are unprotected from any justice system. Only difference now from before is men are more frequently turning to terrorism because less women are being killed and tortured in private because of marriage. In a way that makes the world more dangerous to women than it was perhaps 100 years ago? But the danger has just changed its shape; before it was more abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:22 PM |
| 68 | After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a wasteIf that isn't rape i don't know what is. The pain can only be comparable with a situation where a wife would peg her husband frequently directly after surgery in his anus, while threathening him. And this has never happened so how come we accept it when the genders are reversed and he doesn't go to jail? Horrifying. Which is why women need equal or better opportunities to be independent and have control over her own life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:45 PM |
| 2 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:Ooofff i love sauce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:03 PM |
| 247 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowI mean why would men be adviced to not hurt women if it's not punishable? No consequences baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 21 | I just watched "Element of Doubt" from 1998. You should too.It is itching to me how people love to refuse that everything, especially misogyny and femicide, are economical matters. It makes sense yet people pretend like "they didn't know any better". They knew. They know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 28 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!What bothers me is men say that as if they ever removes sex from the table themselves, if they're unhappy they're free to leave? So leave her lmao but they never do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 16 | Men playing victimI think you're wrong about men ever not playing the victim. Men make everything including menses about themselves and punish women for it. It is a common narcissist trait to play the victim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:55 AM |
| 29 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesI always ask my partners what they like about me and i never thought much of it but thinking about it now makes me realize that the quality of their answers to this exact question directlty reflected the quality of the relationship as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:26 AM |
| 22 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:35 PM |
| 20 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?Oh no now that i realize i deserve good things in life i suddenly hate all men and get the urge to go to the closest gym and shoot as many men there as possible until police get to me /s That's totally how "fEmCeLdOm" works. Also a woman created the term incel for fellow women who didn't find compatible partners so why tf don't they say mascels? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best!This is great satire if you just fool yourself into believing it's ironic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Surprise Visit to Her Boyfriend in College - Thousands of TikTok Users Found it Suspicious and Found Both the BF's Reaction as well as the Reactions of Female Friends "Off" - What Do Y'all Think?Lmao one of the guys even laugh because he gets what the fuck is happening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:54 AM |
| 4 | Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.Everyone knows it's rape, we just apparently want rape to be legal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.This is basically the same as a group of guys holding a woman and continuously stabbing her everywhere then leaving her to hopefully die but i bet they aren't even punished | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:43 AM |
| 11 | It's really sad because pickmes are saying that he's such a catch in the comments and congratulating her. 🤦♀️This would make sense if constantly giving paper rings wasn't an insulting token of not giving a fuck. This isn't even crafty, it's childs' play and doing this will inevitably undermine the day he does propose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:32 AM |
| 21 | Why women disliking men is not the same as men disliking womenWhat i would give for men to hate us like women hate men. If they distanced themselves from us, we would finally be free to walk anywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"If a man says he doesn't have luck with women because of his height, he's admitting to being an abuser. Instant block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:38 AM |
| 22 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 30 - Gabby Petito: What Women Can Learn From the Police FootageThey know the signs. They're doing it on purpose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:24 AM |
| 10 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 30 - Gabby Petito: What Women Can Learn From the Police FootageEpisode is fire as always! I just can't get over the fact that police walks such great lengths to hurt women. Anyone in the situation knew that Gabby was a victim of abuse. It was a textbook case. Even after this case police will continue to giggle and neglect their female citizens while gladly take on much more consuming murder cases as a result. They enjoy it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:23 AM |
| 21 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women."Hah like, i just don't feel aroused by women tied up and punched to death then fucked 😅 am i weird?" Start saying shit like "Hah like, i just don't feel aroused by the thought of stabbing men in the stomach and ripping their entire inside out or cutting their dick up like a fruit to serve him on a plate 😅 am i weird?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:18 AM |
| 63 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manEvery time i talk about misogyny i'm threathened so i get why noone talks about it. I recently commented somewhere outside fds that it is extremely cruel to knock a woman up if you're gonna leave her right after. Men were screaming and crying about it calling me sexist. Something as simple as that, yet they are allowed to call me whatever and say whatevet about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:12 AM |
| 52 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manI read the book about epictetus and it gave great insight. The only thing i find unrealistic for women regarding stoicism is that it tells you to welcome death so that noone can oppress you. That's ofcourse true but if women en mass stopped caring about being murdered, i believe 90% of women would be killed. And when men realize that's not a good idea for their peepees they would probably enslave women as they already do and force them through labour. That's a kind of torture i don't think any s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:06 AM |
| 42 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manWhen men say they're stoic and continues acting lile your average man, i'm reminded on why every religion is corrupted by perverse cherry picking lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:03 AM |
| 118 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manExactly, why the fuck does anyone ever assume we had more pity than boys? In fact, when my older brother was dumped for the first time, our mother treated him like he was hospitalized and fed him and ran around getting everything he wanted, for several days. When i was heartbroken some time after i spent 3 long years going through my massive load of emotional trauma on my own and i'm still fixing my body from what it did to my digestive system. When men tell me they struggle with emotions becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:00 AM |
| 35 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manStoic as in "i don't have to give a fuck about anything cause my mommywife does everything for me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Case Study: A brief conversation with a LVMI wonder if men will ever translate our messages his well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Just scrotey thingsWould you like... Piece of meat, sauce and broccoli Or... Grilled tofu in spicy tomatosauce with a side of rice and maybe a salad? I legitimate got some mayor digestive issues because i only ate bread/pasta and veggies and i don't deal with it well, having to turn to meat is such a let down to me. Vegetarian food is superior. I just need to start cooking much more advanced veggie food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:35 AM |
| 90 | Women going to college is creating violence in men! There isn’t quality in Uni so men aren’t going! We have a mating crisis!!Wait until the paygap is reversed as well and men figure the paygap is no longer just a myth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:21 AM |
| 45 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.It is his body his choice! HE CAN CHOOSE TO SAY NO TO SEX But they forget that part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:30 AM |
| 43 | Yeesh girl, no 😬 Sorry, but the guy is right here, he knows.This made me realize men probably see women asking out, and/our offering to pay for dates as slutty? Like "if she's this willing to date then surely she's been around alot by the time she asked me out" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 289 | Women going to college is creating violence in men! There isn’t quality in Uni so men aren’t going! We have a mating crisis!!This is such a fucking joke. They literally blame women for not wanting to fuck idiotic, abusive, ignorant, lazy assholes. Read that again and remember it. Be proud of being "the problem". We're on the right track. Oh, and please consider learning some self defense real quick because these losers will make an uproar for it and we won't be protected by the police. I'm taking a few brazilian juijutsu courses myself and it's fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:15 AM |
| 185 | Men are terrified of being alone and will project that on youReally makes me realize men only hate women because their happiness and well-being is dependent on women. They probably feel enslaved by it and returns the favor by literally enslaving us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 07:26 PM |
| 73 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyNb:it's 100% a scrote behind that keyboard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 06:05 PM |
| 101 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyYeah honestly i do get which physical aspects the man usually dominates in during sex but any woman knows what massive amount of mental and emotional work it requires on her part, besides obviously the physical strength it may require depending on what kind of sex is happening. Only rapist men believe women per default dissasociate, oh sorry i mean pretend to be a dead fish, during sex. This man pretending to be a woman is 100% a sex-offender | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 06:03 PM |
| 141 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyYeah no woman needs to say "sincerely, a woman". It's so often said by scrotes because they know they sound like scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 58 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyNoone thinks wanking isn't ok? Some people just think porn isn't ok. Unfortunately men tend to be dependent on porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 8 | So…the bare minimum is your standard?I don't think this is a pickme tbh, i think it's like a middle between woman obviously seeking suitors (a bit pickme) and woman seeking other women to pay attention and maybe validate the wishlist? I imagine men will be more offended by this post than women for example | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Pay 👏 attention 👏 to your bodily reactions 👏 Anytime I've been consciously or subconsciously stressed & suspicious about a guy/relationship, I'd get MAD BREAKOUTS which immediately cleared EVERY TIME upon breaking up.Great point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:54 AM |
| 29 | Just gonna leave this here.I do tell them this but they say it's not the same since they're not gay. I wish they were being ironic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 12 | Pay 👏 attention 👏 to your bodily reactions 👏 Anytime I've been consciously or subconsciously stressed & suspicious about a guy/relationship, I'd get MAD BREAKOUTS which immediately cleared EVERY TIME upon breaking up.My partner actually commented on how my skin was a lot better a few months of dating him after leaving a previous relationship, i hadn't really changed much besides partners. Who would know being treated better would make you literally glow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 43 | Pickmeisha is not like the other girls, so she’ll only befriend men when they only want to be her friend so they can fuck herMe trying to befriend this woman: oops she hates women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 16 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.Makes me wonder how good the dick must be to suffer through all of that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:06 PM |
| 124 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.I would require this to be satire just because it's so well written and the story checks almost all possible hellish boxes on how to kill the spirit of a woman, but sadly this is the most typical kind of marriage according to stereotypes amongst heteros | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 47 | This was so wild I couldn’t not share🥲 Thankfully most people were advising OP to ditch him.I don't even wanna read it past the title, the title itself is so sad it has me laugh in pain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 83 | Men's rightsConsidering how men have abused their rights for this long, this is such a mood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:54 PM |
| 105 | I hate talking about my abuse to my friends with boyfriends because it makes them look goodI compare every second, i think we all do. Hearing about shitty male behavior does make it harder to keep standards high even if we think it doesn't. It makes me wonder; in what setting would it be all safe and ok to tell a friend about abuse? I think we just need to remind ourselves that abuse doesn't belong in- and should not be compared to relationships. They're separate matters just like sex and assault. Bottom line; maybe lure some fds knowledge or the podcast onto your friends and hope tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:53 PM |
| 63 | I hate talking about my abuse to my friends with boyfriends because it makes them look goodThe more people like to excuse their partner or say "well at least-" anything about them, the less satisfied they are. That's also why we say "at least-" about days we hate. They know, they just don't want to confront it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:48 PM |
| 12 | WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverageFunny thing is this is quite literal as well. This exact situation happens so often: abusive man gets confronted by abusive male police officers who charge the woman abude victim and later inevitably has her killed. If it reached the news every time this exact scenario happened, the news wouldn't be anything else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 45 | WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverageFunny thing is this is quite literal as well. This exact situation happens so often: abusive man gets confronted by abusive male police officers who charge the woman abude victim and later inevitably has her killed. If it reached the news every time this exact scenario happened, the news wouldn't be anything else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 43 | WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverageThe way the media (note: the white men controlling the media) implements this pattern is classic divide and conquer strategy to keep women in the dirt. Even if WOC achieved the same status and privilege as white women, they'd still be second class citizens. I don't want that for any woman. I want every woman to be more than twice as powerful and privileged as the most powerful and privileged of us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:24 PM |
| 86 | I am not even surprised anymore 😒Anywhere is a dating scene if you're desperate enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:00 PM |
| 31 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???Ok this guy is lying through his teeth. If he weren't focusing on people he would never even notice them avoiding him. He's a creep. Also when are they gonna blame men for how women have to act as if every man is a predator to keep safe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 08:57 PM |
| 24 | Recent discontent with (potentially LVM) bf - need insightWell said. learned how to manage my life/priorities when i was 17 and realized time is what you make it. If he's more than 25 and has yet to learn this, he's being ignorant and incapable on purpose. Either that or he never really worked before in his life which is a red flag anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 08:54 PM |
| 41 | Recent discontent with (potentially LVM) bf - need insightIf you can write a list like this, it means he's bad. Also, if you have to make excuses for him, he's bad. Also, like you indirectly said yourself; if he wanted to, he would. You either settle with the fact that you come secondary to everything else in his life, and the fact that sex might become a monthly endeavor sooner than you'd think, or you do your future (and perhaps current self) a big favor and raise your standards and dump him to find someone who don't under-prioritize you. It sounds l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 08:50 PM |
| 77 | What's everyone's MBTI type?Those god damn s types are too busy touching grass to be here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:55 PM |
| 28 | 911 Call Released - Witness saw Gabby Petito being "hit" and "slapped" by Brian on August 12thMen: have the scariest fucking stratistics behind them regarding misogynistic violence Also men: she probably started it and she has nothing to fear right my guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 21 | How do you date man while knowing their depravityI date men only because i hold some standards that ensures that they won't get away with hurting me. Thinking about the boiling frog anslogy i try my best to say quits the second i'm mistreated, and that makes it pretty safe considering most abusers don't get the time to get addicted to torturing you if you leave at first offence, and by first offence i mean not answering you frequently enough or looking at depraved porn or refusing you something you think is fair. There are good men, you just n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 7 | The Madness of LoveDon't worry about the downvotes it's probably male lurkers or fresh fds soon-to-be queens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:41 AM |
| 40 | The Madness of LoveThis message is dangerous though because women tend to follow it while men reap the fruits from it. Ultimately, men should focus on giving and women on taking. It would maybe even out some of the inequality we see in heterosexual relationships. And even when men think they are the giver, they might be wrong. So this message is beautiful and wise - for men. For women it is way too common to be fooled by focusing on generosity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 14 | I would have never started smoking if I had found FDS earlierRemember ladies; although you should never run and hide from your problems, there's nobody stopping you from enjoying a cup of tea as if it waa a cigarette. Take your tea breaks or even breathing breaks. Everyone deserves a break and it would do us all some good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 28 | How I made a whole bar of scrotes triggered ,shook,furious and obsessed with me...I love your description of it all. It also makes a lot of sense. I've hated people nost my life and especially guys, and i remember clearly that even though i was bullied, particularly guys would be trying to talk to me when nobody was looking. They would send me emails as pranks often, but it was clearly a scream for attention from the girl who stonefaced them the most. They would send me messages telling me they liked me but not to tell anyone, i didn't really care or react or even respond bes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:57 PM |
| 3 | so.. I let my feelings get ahead of my logic and did something idioticKnow that at least by admitting to your fault out loud you not only helped someone like me tremendously since i just got tons of great insight from the comments regarding how to deal with my own anxiety, you also ignited a process within you that will make recovery and renewing that much faster and better for yourself. Thanks for your strength | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨Can you not read a all women's sub please? Honestly this kind of thing is literally only found in isolated spaces not meant for men. And they stilø complain. Meanwhile women are bullied for reacting to misogyny in ads everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 07:25 AM |
| 35 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menThis is only a hot take amongst people who deny science. All science and evidence and personal experiences point to the fact that the therapist will help the abuser, which only makes sense in a patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 07:04 AM |
| 107 | You make me laugh. All because I said men should please leave a relationship with a woman if they can’t handle her choice to grow out her natural body hair and NOT just withhold intimacy (emotional abuse in this instance). Also sir your active communities says it all ... Reminder to block DMs! 🤦🏻♀️When you say it like this i actually feel so depressed. This is really what inequality is like, the world is a clown fest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:05 AM |
| 31 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueIt's just abuse which is why men defend it. Most men are abusers and they want it to be normalized. My own brother got insanely angry from me simply block delete ignoring him from my life after years of hard abuse. It's almost like it physically hurts them not to be able to torture a woman. They walk all the extra miles to be able to hurt women. And it's so rare to see them abuse other men so there's that. Have zero tolerance for any boundary toying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 09:58 AM |
| 4 | Yes means YesIn the end, if i really just did it for maintenance but i wasn't really mentally in the mood, i'll get really depressed after. It's hard to explain but is says something about how much the mind matters in all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:22 PM |
| 18 | Yes means YesFor real sometimes i think i want sex and i either masturbate or engage in sex with someone else and i feel depressed and anxious after even if i legitimately thought i was into it - it's so easy to fall prey to "maintenance" sex that in the end was experienced as rape. Even when it's masturbation for gods sake. People undervalue how important it is for women to be into it because we've as societies been raping women for centuries and filled them up with every anti-suicidal drug there is to pret… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 43 | Yes means Yes"but it would be sooo awkward asking for consent! It completely ruins the mood! This one time, i asked a girl if i could kiss her and she laughed at me!!! She was like just do it why would you ask, and that's just how women are! We can't even look at women anymore without anyone screaming rape!!! /s" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 11:58 AM |
| 34 | Yes means YesPeople fail to understand me when i talk about this kind of "rape" because we have no word for it - probably because women aren't the ones creating our language. Women are silenced and so all the different kinds of rape does not have a word to them, at least not in the languages i know of. In television for example, it's super common to portray "bad sex" whereof the woman is clearly experiencing pseudo-consensual "sex" and it feels almost traumatizing to watch it. I've had to go with the term "b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 11:54 AM |
| 94 | “Coersion isn’t Consent”He manipulated me into sleeping with him by dating me and leading me on🚩 This. Normalize admitting that this is really what's happening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:37 AM |
| 184 | “Coersion isn’t Consent”As women apparenly we don't need anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:35 AM |
| 100 | “Coersion isn’t Consent”When you mention it like that, i can't remember even once when a woman bothered me into tears while i can remember a thousand times+ men who have nagged me into anger, sadness and then apathy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:34 AM |
| 149 | “Coersion isn’t Consent”Reading this was like reading every man's guide to getting laid i've ever seen. These are the exact steps men consciously take and i'm tired of pretending that men in general aren't rapists because they sure do promote it alot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:32 AM |
| 7 | Boomer pickmeisha blames women and feminism for men being "pushed out" of academiaWhat do they suggest we do? Not attend? Seriously how are they able to make this a women's issue? They should create a damn man's movement regarding self improvement already and stop trying to make men's shortcomings a feninist issue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | This woman I reached out to on a sub wants your thoughts and opinions on her situation.Oh my god the undeserved mercy your friend is offering piece of shit cheating scrotes is even more unbelievable than any jesus story i've ever been served | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 43 | Female octopuses throw things at males that want to mate with them and harass them 🤣. This is such a mood.This is honestly the hardest proof there is to how rule #1 in patriarchy is violence is legal against women while self defense against men as women is illegal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:02 PM |
| 7 | NEVER 👏 STOP 👏 VETTING 👏As someone who also draws alot of violent shit i second this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | In every interaction with a man, you should be asking yourself "what do I get out of this?"I realize part of the reason why i've been nervous among women before is because they rarely ask themselves this and even if they do it's even more rare for them to tell you if they get nothing out of a situation. Women need to set themselves first and for anyone that's not an abuser, it's gonna be a huge relief knowing that she's not potentially letting herself be tortured in a situation without others knowing it. Being selfish is a huge favor to do not only to yourself but to others as well in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Ok but if men are allowed to be abusive then women are allowed to be financially disloyal. People thinking it's wrong of women to do this probably believe 100% of abusers are women or that abusers are non existent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 8 | She made a PowerPoint about strippingChoosy choice in action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 28 - Spotting Narcissistic Abusers (w/ Dr. Annie Kaszina) + The Bikini ThiefI fully agree but i loved the "born happy, unlearn to become happy again" rule of thumb as sort of an analogy. I myself was born angry, i rarely smiled and it makes sense since i had just been in the body of a woman with raging ptsd and all kinds of stresses during childbearing. But i see how people with downs syndrome tend to see the fun and beauty in the things they value, and i think it is all about focus, much like they discussed directly after saying we are born happy; if you cannot shift y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 19 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 28 - Spotting Narcissistic Abusers (w/ Dr. Annie Kaszina) + The Bikini ThiefI felt relieved when Kaszina mentioned the mirror method for healing. I have on occasion, without having heard about it before regarding therapy, tried to tell myself reassuring things in the mirror probably inspired by humorous sketches, but i've never succeeded to talk to myself as if i was a friend. I always stop and cry and i realize even when i feel healthy, it's hard to confront yourself like that. "Talk to yourself as a friend, not like how your narcissistic parents talked to you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 11:07 PM |
| 80 | Remember ladies, it's not misogyny if it makes your peepee hard! Can't believe I'm an anti misogyny sub people are still spewing this bullshitMod is probably a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | They’re telling her it’s “just a game”"I was gonna let him rape me but i'm afraid he might also hurt me now that i understand that he fantasize about raping me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 07:53 AM |
| 36 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?If they seriously believed this, they wouldn't drink drinks that had been unsupervised and they wouldn't be walking alone at night. They're mocking us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 10 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Abusers protect abusers nothing new here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:48 AM |
| 3 | FDS is not the place for you if you’re not willing to examine your own attitudes, beliefs and behavioursSome men have been trying to complain that fds "bashes women" Like if i don't own a bedframe, i don't shower daily or floss my teeth, i don't work out at all, i only eat junk food and i jerk off to child pornography i would hate anyone who knew all of this and didn't speak up. Like how tf is giving someone a heads up abusive or even mean? Tell me i'm lost or how tf else am i gonns find the way? I am ever grateful for the way members on fds take no shit and tell each other what standard we should… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 6 | What should you do when you can't trust your own intuition?Self care, focus on you, respect and love yourself, and understand that your intuition is the cynic in you. I at least emotionally dislike 80% of the men i see per default, if not more, even if i enjoy their company or interactions. I still know that even though we hang out fine right now, being friends or partners would be hell. Most people are not compatible. Your intuition should be the most strict voice in your head and you should follow that one for the dating scene. Short: i think you mist… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 44 | "70% of things couples argue about are unresolvable problems" - woman advises women to compromiseC o p e | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 17 | Bisexual queens - what does FDS mean for you?In short; my first love was a girl and she made me realize how much of an unhealthy view i had of myself and women in general where i saw myself as having zero worth and women as superhuman beings. FDS helps me see that women are real humans, and that i'm no less worth than the rest. Relationships with men has been relatively easy for me in the sense that i saw them as sub-human (like i saw myself), but after constant growth and with a big help of FDS it's much easier to set standards and feel m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:16 AM |
| 15 | Unfortunate Date AnalysisMy bet is he's as insecure as you think and he wants to know if he can feel like the better or stronger person relatively to you as to make up for feeling like a loser. Men tend to use women to feel better about themselves hence why they refuse women any opportunity to grow so it's no surprise to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 17 | Unfortunate Date AnalysisEven if i was to be a leech i would at least bake the questions into sneaky packages of asking about interests where these facts eventually pop up. He's not only a creep, he's rude as fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:49 PM |
| 14 | Unfortunate Date AnalysisThis is one of those things that sounds insane but makes 100% sense once you understand how people work and how dating works. That makes it all so much more important for you to write it out for us to remember so that we won't let us be gaslit about it in the future by our pickme inner voice saying "he probably just wants to know..." and blaming ourselves for feeling oddly angry, sad or bad about his comments. We could write a dictionary and attach it to the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:47 PM |
| 34 | [A LOVE LETTER] Thank you all for helping me escape my batterer.I'm so happy for you, and proud! Well done! Also, we don't hate men, we hate abusers and we know that most of them are to be found amongst men, so it's only natural and logical to be highly critical of, and sceptical of men. Being cautious and setting standards is NOT hate and don't we ever let the abusers tell us it is. It is self respect and self love and you deserve all of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:43 PM |
| 14 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me."Degenerate femcel rips the only thing her man has to remind him of his childhood from his arms and pretends to be sick so that he will do her chores" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:34 PM |
| 41 | Can we make '#YouToo' a flair? As in, "Wow, I thought you were a good guy, but you're actually horrible just like the others?"Like the one time a guy i know and thought to be pretty smart told me there's less women in chess because they have less logical intelligence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 54 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.I wonder what title our superfans are gonna assign to this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 09:55 PM |
| 132 | Hotels in Turkey are banning men from staying without women because "they're harassing girls to try and hook up with"Of course. Men's addiction to hurting women never fails to impress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 344 | Hotels in Turkey are banning men from staying without women because "they're harassing girls to try and hook up with"Finally, that wasn't so difficult now was it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 04:15 PM |
| 23 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'Yeah i legit saw a drawing of this but i'm scared of suggesting it because people will tell me i'm making shit up and i will have to show them the drawing every single time, so happy someone else knows about this haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 518 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'Men should be forced to wear a simulator sending them mockup birth pain during labor tbh. We all know they can only handle a percentage of the real deal but then they'd understand that birth is a little bit harder than taking a shit or being kicked in the nuts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 49 | I can't get over how society shames women for expecting men to pay for dates but they never shame men for using women for sex.There's a reason theft is more punishable than sexual violence. Hint: misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.I thought about this too but i was laughing about it for an entire 5 minutes because Men: hate on tall guys for having it easy Men: hate on women for suggesting that some tall men are bad men No matter who sent the hate messages it's equally baffling. Are these the tall scrotes that happened to read the post? There's no other option really. My guess is it's tall men hating. Also i don't think it's a hard truth to swallow; people come in all features and mixes! That's what makes us so beautiful a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:28 AM |
| 29 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.If he wasn't abusive he likely wouldn't be so defensive regarding his comment as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 27 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.Bruh who the fuck would protest against this post? If anyone reading this thinks they'd love to have a boyfriend who constantly uses unoriginal porny words for you, only sees your qualities in the lense of how it makes THEM look better compared to you (??????), and is cheating so much on porn they probably don't function in bed - you're very welcome to make that choice but i gotta ask WHY? And why blame anyone for suggesting that maybe that's a bad choice to make? If you know for sure your choic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 23 | Four years for choking her during sex. This is not okay.If in the eyes of the law women cannot say no to sex and violence against women is considered sex, anything goes! In a system like that, women always give consent according to the law. My greatest sympathies for having to have experienced the injustice firsthand, i hope you will be healthier and happier than ever in the time to come | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:08 PM |
| 76 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 27 - Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Take on Porn Culture + Culture Reframed Virtual Conference!When you finally mentioned how we don't actually feel insecure about things before the women's magazines mention them, i felt such great relief. I've been angry at women/girls all my life for giving in to the scam where businesses mention something, anything, as a proclaimed bad feature, it could be anything. Too big lips, too small lips, thick thighs, thin thighs. It especially makes me want to explode when people say "don't care about your XYZ, you're still beautiful!" like can you imagine a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:49 AM |
| 161 | Four years for choking her during sex. This is not okay.Even if she was alive to tell her story, noone would listen in court. Difference is; he gets 4 years for murder whereof he would get 0 days for rape without anyone dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 26 | What's your relationship status?Love it when our "fans" think they're the genius detective when they say "something something fds bad because the members are single and bitter" yet most of us are here BECAUSE we expect more from men, which is a pretty hopeful stance to have, while being in actual relationships and working to not fuck them up. Imagine if men were as keen on discussing relationships to help prevent the decay of their own? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 95 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.It's so telling when the only thing women "do to men" is 1) call them out on their abuse and 2) leave them and yet they want to revenge that? How about men then 1) call women out on their abuse and 2) leave them? Leave us the fuck alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?This is explained in rule #2 of misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:20 AM |
| 20 | My mother’s analogy on BDSMAs a woman, you apparently can consent to being murdered so long as sex is involved according to the murderer, even if the claim is made after she is dead and unable to speak against him, because it would matter just as much as if she was alive after the failed attempted murder and spoke - since women are not to be believed. But in any other case, consent to murder or assault is strictly not possible. The only excuses are made to hurt women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:25 PM |
| 53 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.Best part is whenever i see men arguing that everyone is responsible for their own orgasm, they also mention how women are vile, evil, disgusting and selfish when even suggesting that men do anything for them. Like why the fuck would a woman sleep with you then? Luckily for them, they can't hear themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:59 PM |
| 36 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.Literally every lurking scrote after seeing this comment: 👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 29 | The amount of guys who think the clit and orgasms are made up is... scary.They're literally 1 google search away, that tells you that he knows, he just doesn't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 26 - The 16 Rules of Misogyny - Part 1I agree but that's also why i love them for baiting in people to their patreon by doing things like this. Their lowest monthly subscription is super cheap and pretty much anyone can afford it - in turn FDS will be able to grow tremendously and hopefully reach a lot more women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:48 AM |
| 65 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.Even mothers should block and delete their sons at some point from what i've personally seen men doing to their mothers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:24 AM |
| 46 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.Laughing rn, i can't fathom how people will still blame the person leaving when their partner literally did everything in their power to fulfill the requirements to end the relationship. Monogamy? They cheat - they in theory ended the deal already. Still the one breaking up is to blame (if it's a woman) Promise not to use drugs? They use drugs - in theory they ended the relationship. Still the partner leaving is blamed (if it's a woman) Misogyny is so heavily ingrained | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:23 AM |
| 44 | What Experts Know About Men Who RapeThese are all no-brainers. We all know this. I promise you. We know that rapists will rape more if the blame is on the victim. We know rapists can be anyone. That is exactly WHY people echo "it's the victim's fault" and "not all men". People would not protect rapists if it didn't work - and we all know. Some people just believe that by pushing other victims under the bus, even though it creates more victims than if they didn't, they falsely believe that they may be protected. People believe that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 117 | Don’t end up like me. Scrote Waste my timeWe should remember the basic rule of "can i join?" in response to you mentioning showering is instant block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 48 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsLMAØOOOOOOAOOOOOOOOOO thanks for the entertainment omfg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 05:00 PM |
| 135 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subs" ? why would you link me to this sub? I see no point in respecting myself. Frankly i find it insulting how you expect me to set my preferences before everyone else's; dating isn't about my pleasure after all. Thanks anyways.." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 23 | What did I just read? Glad she kind of wised up, sad she did it way too late. A forever girlfriend with his baby, self admitted mommy #2, he's an "entrepreneur". Basically a walking pickme & NVM stereotype all in one post.The fact that men complain the most about being dumped while also obviously not being the one who's actually in love, compared to their partner who is forced to break up DESPITE being in love, says everything you need to know about the unfair distribution of comfort a heterosexual relationship has | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Comments say a man standing on his toes is fair because the women he is talking to is wearing heels 🤡 Thoughts?This has to be a joke. Listen; we don't want to deal with people who would be deceived by either heels or standing on the tippy toes. Or someone who would be deceived through make-up if that's even a thing. If a man stands on his toes to make up for a woman's heels, then good; he just admitted to being overly selv conscious and insecure about his height and that's great so that we can avoid him. There's nothing else to discuss here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Admitting to using you for personal therapy lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 10:10 AM |
| 8 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?Honestly i don't think it's possible for them to think of something "new". They have been using the same tactics for several thousand years. Either it will continue to work in waves, through pickmes trying to do the opposite of what "other women" do, or men will have to either evolve into kind, high value people, or harsh dictators refusing women their rights again. The first option would be better for a world that doesn't focus on war. I don't personally think war will ever be in fashion again … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 49 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...Purely trying to see through a man's eyes, i guess if a woman had her tubes tied (and he paid for half of the procedure), and she's obviously not about to have children with him etc, then 50/50 could maybe make sense (to him). But these men are looking at the person who carried and birthed their child and thinking 50/50 means 50/50 so long as the resources are distributed evenly. Even if the man is mentally retarded and/or has never in his life read about female anatomy, simply carrying some kil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:22 AM |
| 17 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.Imagine thinking grieving relationship for 3 years is a flex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:25 PM |
| 23 | 🙄looks at every patriarchal society in the world - 🧐 Hmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 16 | Would you be dating someone like this? Before he turned out to be a LVM (later part of the movie)Tbh this has been my attitudd since i was born and i've been super lucky about my partners so it's probably not a bad strat. I do treat everyone with respect until they make themselves worthy of disrespect through action though which is probably also important when being this judgemental | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:14 PM |
| 104 | "Do you want to hang out?" Vs "Can I take you out on a date?This is such an eye opening detail to keep in mind. In a way, i always feel respect and awe for people who frame an invitation as them wanting me to be there rather than suggesting i can come if i want to. It's because it's a confident way to invite someone, and when i think about it, i sometimes specifically ask or order my friends to come on a "xyz DATE" with me, as to make it sound special and exclusive. If i do this to my friends subconsciously, men should be able to do it to their partners … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:06 PM |
| 2 | “Men Age Like Fine Wine”Small exception MY BOY JASON STATHAM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Dropping truth bombs....I love this woman 👑Echoing messages isn't a bad thing so i agree! Of course it's cringy when people pretend to have come up with the statements themselves but it's more important to spread the message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 15 | Dropping truth bombs....I love this woman 👑Honestly you can tell by the way she speaks. It's exactly the tone people do when repeating a quote they heard or read somewhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:23 AM |
| 73 | It's not him being turned off, it's meYou know, it's only ever men who complain about me using "big words" as well. I wonder why /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 69 | It's not him being turned off, it's me"Yeah she kept saying "touch me here" and "touch me there" it fried my brain and i lost my boner tbh" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:51 PM |
| 14 | I thought this exchange was funny. LVM gets triggered over a gif.Ok so stay single? I personally choose to rely a little on people for happiness (as in, i trade happiness with people as social animals do) but anyone can stay single and without relying on anyone. But i know this guy would be the first to cry and threathen harm if he was to be left all by himself like he claims would be ideal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 11 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugTrue, it would be entertaining though. But we need to be clever with how we spend our time indeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:28 PM |
| 10 | New flair idea? “SO close”Yeah when you mention it, it's scary how much freetime the LVM predatory reddit mods have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 6 | My Sexual Requirements In a Man🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:23 PM |
| 19 | Why do men love using this excuse when they f*** up?Bro it literally means "i have no excuses and i have no intention of saying sorry" It's the most entitled response anyone could muster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 38 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?I've never been raped, you know why? Because apparently i won the fucking lottery (Jk ex once thought i was awake when i was not, apparently) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | A Little Comedy from the Next Generation of FDSersLoving the combo of the comments and the fact mods had to remove it in case of triggered reddit mods in case of banning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:11 PM |
| 120 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugSomeone legit contacted me on an add where i sold my bra (no judge pls i will never stop selling bras for little to nothing so that women won't be ripped off for every purchase) This isn't at all new, usually 10 men harass me before finally a woman contacts me to buy. This time however it was a man asking me for nudes, and when i said no, he sent me a few more messages along with his number saying "call me if you change your mind 😜" I googled his number, found his full name, found him on fb imme… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:37 PM |
| 45 | I need help finding an article that was posted on this sub.I will never forget the entire article. Next time just google "news reporters had to bring their kids to work" and it will probably pop up because that's honestly the most hilarious part of the description | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 19 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?All men have options if they really want to try. Incels are genuinely afraid of any kind of intimacy and they hate women so that's really why they keep digging themselves down the dirt. Cheating men find ways to cheat - all kind of men cheat. They can be morbidly obese or an obvious psychopath and still cheat. Non-cheating men isn't the myth LVM want you to believe they are. They just project their self hatred | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 07:29 AM |
| 60 | New flair idea? “SO close”Even when fds wasn't half as big as it is now, they spent close to a week on unbanning me when i started since i had ben caught up in the auto filter for commenting in disturbing subs. I genuinely thought they were just ignoring me which would be understandable but it actually took a week for them to get through all the work they need to do to finally get to me, says a lot about what it requires to keep abusers out from a female-themed sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 07:25 AM |
| 18 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Curious; which FDSpost reached the front page? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 09:17 PM |
| 114 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!‘[It was] the sort of experience that you have with your girlfriend when she doesn’t really want a shag, but when you pester her into it.’ So they do know what rape is. And that they rape their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 09:15 PM |
| 88 | Men will say crap like “Marriage is something serious and needs to be done after more time has passed”…Men will say a relationship is something serious and need to be established after doing some test-drives (read: having sex) first ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 29 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have itI honestly can say that at the time when i was isolated from other girls as a result of a very misogynistic culture keeping girls competing against each other (think school up to like highschool), i genuinely did not feel like one of the girls or even one of the humans. No norms applied to me directly and that's just truth; pro side was the freedom and the con side was close to zero sustained friends. Feeling like an alien was hurtful enough so being free to feel like women's/girl's issues wasn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:46 PM |
| 20 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have itThe choosy choice is the lazy oppression victim's solution for quick, yet false, relief | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 191 | Mutilating childrens bodies so men won't be attracted to themWe've been blaming and "fixing" women in alleged attempt to protect them from men for several thousand years and it hasn't worked once so i'm sure it's just one of millions of fun ways to torture women for fun's and oppression's sake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:30 PM |
| 100 | Mutilating childrens bodies so men won't be attracted to themToday's (not) news: it's illegal to be a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 37 | Currently getting some downvotes on a FEMINIST subreddit for saying her "friend" probably objectifies women, so that's why he got defensive and is trying to shame her. 🤗I can't tell you all the times i literally just say some shit like "no, chasing men makes men view you as less" or "no, domestic violence is a women's issue" or "no, having sex on the first date isn't a good idea for you especially when you do it our of obligation" and i feel like a bratty red pill kid hitting send because I KNOW i'll be perma banned for it. And it never fails. If you don't suck dick in the "feminist" subs then you're out, period. Feminism on reddit is supposed to be about men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:08 AM |
| 32 | Currently getting some downvotes on a FEMINIST subreddit for saying her "friend" probably objectifies women, so that's why he got defensive and is trying to shame her. 🤗Yeah they want the feminist perspectives so they perma ban all the feminists, genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:04 AM |
| -3 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I actually know 2 men who used to be active fuckboys either for the sake of healing a broken heart or/and for the excitement of it. They both randomly found their perfect match and have been in a relationship with them for the past 6 years or so and they seem like their relationships only get better for each year. It's possible, but they gotta find the right one and their reasoning for being a fuckboy probably has to be something besides their fear or dislike of commitment, or they'll have to fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Another reason why coffee dates are a waste of timeAgreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyBoo hoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:41 AM |
| 68 | Boundaries in bedWhat he did was highly abusive and a red flag so you are 100% right about what it means. In my experience the only times my sexual partner got demotivated is because he either felt bad for a second, maybe because i sound harsh when criricizing some things, or he was just lazy straight out. Any sane and proper sexual partner will feel joy from being communicated with during sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:30 AM |
| 34 | Excellent thread on why sex work will never be empowering, no matter how much libfems want it to be. It’s a man’s game.We don't date anyone who pays for sex in any way or watches porn. Men will have to choose a life of being single and miserable, or ditching porn and sex work and stay happy and maybe able to reproduce. This is probably the modt efficient thing we could do besides obviously demanding for better rights for girls and women so that they're not easily trafficked. Less girls will be trafficked as a result of the user group disappearing, also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:25 AM |
| 72 | This sub is the only place I have ever experienced true empowerment.Totally agree with how others seem to use male attention as a source of power rather than focusing on literally anything else. I use my main account for fds and as a result, i'm banned from posting in nost other "feminist" or "women" related subs since they're modded by NVM anyways. Worth it! Welcome and thanks so much for your support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:17 AM |
| 5 | Another reason why coffee dates are a waste of timeI think a proper date would cost tops 100, more realistically it'd cost maybe 50 for two for an ok date depending on where you live. A few hundred dollars saved for things lile that is good to have, easy to do if you constistently save some money, and it would be enough for at least 4 dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:11 AM |
| 15 | Other FDS-friendly podcasts?Enjoy! It honestly made my life. Can't wait for every new episode. They also make like bonus episodes on patreon, which are really neat! Even with those my hunger isn't satiated but i'm hoping for more content in the future | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 15 | Why do I get angry when someone says 'You need to Calm down' - Show this to your partners, doctors, and others if they say this phrasePretty sure this is also explained in "why does he do thay" as an intentional and effective abuse strategy to actively hurt and dominate someone. There's just no other way to understand it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:35 PM |
| 38 | Another reason why coffee dates are a waste of timeThere exists cheap dinner places that don't suck, or even a picnic could work for some people. Or climbing at a studio. Most university students probably find someone through activities anyways so they have a much better clue about who they might want to date before asking, so it shouldn't be too much to ask of a student to make sure to have a few hundred dollars handy in case they want to ask someone out for a romantic date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:31 PM |
| 21 | Other FDS-friendly podcasts?They have! Search it up on Spotify | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:26 PM |
| 31 | A fascinating deep dive of pickup culture - I love Illuminaughtii!She honestly mentions "pick up artists" (read: rape instructors) that i had NEVER heard about before and i would never believe something like what she exposes here could be legal. At all. She mentions a company selling courses on for example, quote, "overpowering drunk girls". Imagine if women had paid workshops on robbing men at knife or gun point. It'd be exactly like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 38 | You should NEVER give ugly men a chanceHonestly attraction is a mindset anyways. Never date a guy who either you OR he believes to be unattractive. I know beautiful men who are bitter about their looks and, in turn, stay involuntarily single because their mindset is obviously toxic. My partner even calls me out on this; if i joke about my looks, that's not considered funny as much as it's considered toxic within a relationship. It taints it with the assumption that either one or both has bad taste and/or settles for little because of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:14 PM |
| 108 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnFor people reading this thinking no porn boundary might seem extreme; I imagine there exists men who maybe look at something weekly like erotic comics or shows or even some porn videos without being brainwashed by it. It may be possible. The eye-opening thing though is how men who tend to watch the more degrading stuff do so as a result of having watched way too much porn already. If someone's most frequented webpage is a porn site, the odds of them NOT watching gross degrading misogynistic shit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.Very truem. I found a quote by muhammad saying the best thing a man could do was to respect his wife. There's quotes lile this in christianity as well, saying that it doesn't matter how loyal you are to your religion if you don't respect your wife, yet these are only to be found qhen googling or reading the books yourself since men obviously conveniently forget them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:23 PM |
| 47 | Men have no ability to emotionally regulate because society has been coddling their feelings from the moment they were bornExactly. I per default don't relate to statements regarding "people" because more often than not, it means "men". Women don't have a rep for living in their mothers' basement because they're not coddled the same way. How men probably even realize this and yet don't strive as a group to eradicate the pattern is mind boggling to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:27 PM |
| 778 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.People who claim there's no war on women globally should see this and wake up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:08 PM |
| 30 | Happy to see this posted on another subOk but who gonna nourish me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:02 AM |
| 88 | Men have no ability to emotionally regulate because society has been coddling their feelings from the moment they were bornSorry, i mean there's a big pattern going on, always has been going on, where men miss their childhood way too much. It's natural to have some nostalgia etc but men tend to get suicide-ready depressed when they realize how good they had it as a child. Meanwhile for girls, childhood is often not as spotless because girls are held to standards, girls are bullied for being girls, and girls are blamed for what the boys do to them. Girls more often live through hell before they turn into a bigger per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:22 AM |
| 27 | What changed when you started giving back the same energy you got?I got respected tbh. I used to treat others better than i treat myself in all regards. Once i stopped, or at least reduced this toxic mindset, people started seeing me as a person. If you're too considerate or generous, people just don't respect you. There's of course a balance to be met - just never be -too- considerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:15 AM |
| 36 | I don't know what to honestly say at this point.Just your average ususal reaction to realizing your friend is a rapist. I got a clear bingo: 1) my friend, the rapist, doesn't understand body language 2) just say no, even though that costs the life of women and sometimes being raped is so shocking that you can't do anything let alone speak up My friend is innocent because i bet he would stop if she just said the verbal word "no" even though you were probably shaking in fear, anger or sadness while he violated her 4) crying this is so fucked up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:07 AM |
| 10 | guys quizzing you on datesSome men can't give up a chance to stroke their own ego. I personally just return the favor right away and ask really idiotic detailed questions about shit that's only slightly related to whatever he said or something i don't even know, like the 3 best titles from xyz and make the conversation unbearable. This way you also get instant proof on whether he does the quizzing because he loves it or if he does it because he's a narc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:46 AM |
| 118 | Men have no ability to emotionally regulate because society has been coddling their feelings from the moment they were bornEvery time a man says he longs back to his childhood i make fun of him for even having a childhood. Imagine being coddled to the point where childhood was the easiest part of life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:32 AM |
| 23 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.Loving how we just assume and treat as a fact how men will take any chance to cheat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 372 | Had to share this 😩Men truly face the worst fears 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Saw this on tiktok and had to post it hereTotally agree tho. A man once told me "men gave women their rights!!!" Bro define "give" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 100 | Saw this on tiktok and had to post it hereValid points, but i do believe the oppressor HAS to give in to stop the oppression. Without male allies, who i personally label feminists today, women would have yet to gain their basic human rights in most societies. We see that clearly in how some countries still treat women as slaves while other countries don't, the main difference being how willing men are to give up their privileges. But thinking about this, i do agree they should only be able to be labeled as allies. My gut feeling tells m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 11:22 PM |
| 118 | I often find myself using notallmen anytime I try to talk about LV behaviourPretty much sums it up. Also men only freak tf out about this because they struggle with not putting every single person into the same box, associatively. This is exactly why they genuinely believe "women" means "all women" and i mean every single one of them, and they act surprised when any woman is any different from the rest. They think if we know one man is bad, we'll think every single man is bad as well since that's the exact way they like to think to keep it simple and to avoid doing empa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 11:13 PM |
| 12 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sI can't imagine not ugly cry laughing if this happened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:50 AM |
| 5 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sImagine wanting to feel like a baby I even feel weird having my parents fixing my plate after the age of like 15, after that it's kind of patrionizing even if it's not intended to be. So how come men allow their wife to do it for them? It should feel disrespectful as fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:49 AM |
| 55 | Pick-me glorifies female oppression & slavery in the third world under the guise of protection of women.I wonder if she think rape is a made up concept that just doesn't exist. Or forced pregnancy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 83 | TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!!"Rage becomes her" saved my emotional life, probably. I'm scandinavian and privileged and even I had been surpressing anger in ways i never would've imagined, even though i'm self-conscious and have studied psychology. The stress and discord i've been carrying as a result of not accepting my anger is insane and it likely would've killed me early. "Rage becomes her" should be obligatory reading for everyone, as well as "Why does he do that". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:30 AM |
| 51 | TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!!LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO This is also the exact reason why the shit in Afghanistan is happening. Not shocking at all; let the entire military be male, refuse women to join or rape them if they get to enter, wait for shit to happen, only fight for what benefit men. Male military asks other male military if they'd either fight for their social slaves to be freed, or to give up straight away and let them convert their social slaves into practical and legal slaves. Is this even a choice? Of course … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:26 AM |
| 32 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.We have a very simple way of fixing this. Refuse all male refugees and work actively to fetch the women who wants to flee. The women won't be working to ruin the country they enter, like the misogynistic men do, nd they actually need to flee. Having less women is also a big problem for any nation especially one that wants war | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 7 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?At least it works as an excellent repellent! I know an introvert when i see one and i know what these kind of men feel. At least for me i get the thought that "they seem like they won't like me", and that's ok with me - it makes me less nervous because then i know they're not pretending to like me. If that makes sense. For entitled people, like most men, not being liked feels like an insult. It's that easy. But you don't want an entitled man, you want a man who respect the fact that not everyone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:50 PM |
| 27 | Women need to know never to ask Reddit for advice. This woman was violated and berated DURING SEX – her husband covered her mouth, accused her of being an attention-seeking slut and now has zero remorse. All the top comments are about how he needs mental help, might be trying sexy talk or a new kinkShe should shove a pencil into his dick while he orgasms and tell him to quit squirting to impress women and to stop lying about it, and then sleep the second after like nothing happened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 24 | Biggest conspiracy: Women are the weaker speciesWeird how when men say women are just dumber, there's no evidence, and when they say we're good leaders and busier thinkers, it's actually backed up by real experiments and statistics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 12 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮Define easy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:21 PM |
| 69 | Keep The Same EnergyAbsolutely shocking how well he manages to play both roles lmao! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:02 AM |
| 61 | Scrote who said "women aren't real" roasted by large youtuber w/ majority-male audienceImagine spending this much time and effort on mental gymnastics when he could just wash his face and go to therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:58 AM |
| 193 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outSo they admit the only way women will be respected is if they raise their standards, nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:36 AM |
| 86 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outHe admits that he emotionally abuse women for the sake of ego boost. This is why we block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:34 AM |
| 28 | All the Plymouth shooter apologists right now100% this is the root to all oppression of women. Scientifically proven and impossible to refute. Saying women are to blame is scientifically as banal as claiming the earth is shaped as a donut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 13 | What are ways that we actively advocate against misogynistic terrorists groups and make meaningful change?""A lot of convenient reporting, to play into partisan politics, and I'm disappointed that's where it's gone," he said. "But I'm more than happy to get back to work and concentrate on what matters, not wasting everyone's time on this." Lmao this idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:55 PM |
| 42 | The narcissistic LVM stare. Has anyone else noticed this while vetting in person?I actually always interpreted that as him zoning out and not listening to me while plotting what to say next, or converting everything i say into some bullshit in-between-the-lines smartassery that clearly doesn't work. I think that's at least part of the reason why they do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 26 | All the Plymouth shooter apologists right nowAnd learned what exactly? That no matter what we do we always end up terrorized by men? Ok thanks but we know. Women have tried being underneath slaves and they have tried claiming respect and both results in dead women so wheres the math behind this according to these men, i wonder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 133 | The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂This is satire but if you google around you'll find men claiming that women: Cannot get pregnant from rape Bleeds, pees and births out of the same hole Choose when to have periods Store period in their bladder Can cum or orgasm, two different climaxes whereof an orgasm is so rare it's practically impossible or at least super time consuming to reach And keep in mind; politicians are some of the sources for these claims. Meaning men who rule over women's bodies don't know how they work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:12 PM |
| 34 | The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂Yet too close to reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 75 | Inside the 'battery cage': Prostitution in Germany where brothels are legal.Sex costs the same as i'm willing to pay for a fancy dessert How is this possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | FDS position on lube?Not at all my point. I guess my bad for being unclear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | An athem directed at the male lurkersThe message is for anyone privileged. I can relate a lot to the woman in the video as well seeing as i'm norwegian and i find it weird for me to be sad about my situation because of that. I try to be aware of my privilege, and so should men. I feel this song especially fits for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 9 | This is simply vile. How they went from "not all men" to "not all pedos". There is so much to unpack, and there are at least 398 pedos who agree. Absolutely disgusting.His post made me realize we should also ban rape porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Every woman should read the book Why Does He Do That by Lundy BancroftCorrection: If you've ever learned how to read, you should read it. It's great for everyone and anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 10:35 AM |
| -11 | FDS position on lube?For me, lube sounds a lot like women's viagra. If something is wrong in their body, like hormonal imbalances, lube can fix the dryness but it doesn't mean we should ignore the fact that there's dryness to begin with. If a woman isn't into it, and/or she just wants a kick-start, lube works but it doesn't mean we should ignore the reason behind her dryness - she just needs to be sexually prioritized. I wouldn't feel good about men always popping a viagra before sex. It sounds a lot like rape and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 10:21 AM |
| 35 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)They should probably read a history book lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:50 AM |
| 182 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)Even when they act like it, it doesn't reduce misogyny in their community. It increases it. Which this guy probably knows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:58 AM |
| 16 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Makes sense, though i hate how this is a thing. I recently found a video titled "the anatomy of anger", literally just a guy cutting himself while the sentences "you will never feel loved, you will never feel wanted, you will never go out" etc was showcased and it just screamed of white male ignorance until the very end - the sentence "you will never feel like you did as a child". My immediate reaction was relief. That's also when i realized; most men genuinely had a childhood. As a girl i was s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:52 AM |
| 263 | This is what reproducing with a LVM looks like. She says she paid for everything her last pregnancy (getting by on her savings) and that he won't let her be a SAHM even though her whole salary goes towards childcare.I mean this is literally 50/50 because it apparently only counts economically. 50/50 in practicality would be him paying her on top of paying for all medicals, to make up for her carrying and birthing the offspring. But they stay blind to that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:44 AM |
| 130 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑I think someone on here explained how this exact delusion is a cause of nostalgia where men associate earlier relationships with easier times, since men 1) tend to have a better childhood/youthood than women and 2) men tend to be lazy as a strategy so to speak. It amazes me how depressed men tend to get by growing up while women more often flourish because they finally escape from the inhumane conditions they're forced into before becoming an adult with some authority, finally. Boo-hoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 50 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑It really is that simple to calculate the factors of the date. Good riddance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 149 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑It amazes me how even when they find someone they really like, they still risk it all with some half effort idea with no critical thinking or risk calculation, the odds of this date working out was like maybe 1/10 if i'm being generous. It's not even entirely men's fault as individuals. The standard is just set so low and when criticising it, misogynists will be the loudest and give the impression that dates shouldn't be good, period. It's no wonder how he fell into his own trap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Had to unfollow a friend todayI found your ruthlessness so humorous in a way Like it seems like an innocent meme but taking into consideration what pickme culture is, it's important to shut it down, and it's such a new thing to do this. Thanks for a good laugh and for reminding us where our standards should be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:56 PM |
| 105 | NVM Religious Men forgetting Matthew 18:9They also forget all the sayings about respecting women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 46 | i must’ve subbed to this ‘dating coach’ back in my pickmeisha days... No, he hasn’t responded yet 😆 *mods pls delete if not allowed"It's not that simple" Spoilers: It really is that simple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 37 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄"We" 🙄 Just say "I" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 152 | Broke up with my bfHaters say FDS is a bitter incel forum, yet you are one of countless examples of women who just got the clue you needed to realize that the treatment you recieved within your relationship was unacceptable, making it easier to start anew on new, better terms for yourself. We are not involunatirly celibate, we are unknowingly mistreated and it's not gonna last for long. Thanks for sharing your situation and know that you'll love yourself for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:28 PM |
| 37 | This was shared by a pickme who is currently the target of a NVM I and my friend group recently cut off due to his gf finally breaking up with him and sharing all the messed up stuff he did to her. This type of thinking will lead u right into the arms of an abuser. Save your best for yourself.I thought this had to be irony at first lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Hair colorIt's assuming women ever only do things for external validation, which heavily refer to the belief that women's value is dependent on how everyone else see them (read: how much of value the patriarchy assign them) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:37 AM |
| 4 | They also have amnesia about the recent part of history where men prevented women from gaining financial security on their own because they wanted women to be forced into marriages through survival.Blocked deleted and he tried reaching me forcefully through the legal system and i kindly told them that i will block their number as well and that he's a danger for my health and therefore not to ever mention him to me again, he also believes i live on the wrong address etc. We gotta be careful out here! Thanks for your sympathy, i also hope whoever can relate will find solitude in that it's possible to escape, even though it's technically impossible at first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:35 AM |
| 12 | They also have amnesia about the recent part of history where men prevented women from gaining financial security on their own because they wanted women to be forced into marriages through survival.My mother let us live by ourselves rent free but i had to earn money myself.. it's hard to explain why this came to be, but since my mom was poor i was already paying for myself. She would send 200 bucks each month for food and my brother would be so angry if he didn't get to buy candy with it, but then he would also eat the actual food i bought with my own money. The audacity men can achieve is insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:17 PM |
| 32 | What's a Killer Supposed to Look Like? Matthew Taylor Coleman confessed to murdering his two children, and, of course, reports of the crime have to insist he was an otherwise good guyYet he said he felt sorry that i had such a worthless relationship with my dad. Oh no my dad understands personal space and social norms regarding sexuality and predators, what a tragedy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:14 PM |
| 21 | BDSM Apologist Slams Gail Dines, Claims it's Not Violent to WomenOk but why do we listen to men regarding women being wrong about their perception on their own experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 75 | I don't even know how to describe this, why are men the way they are"Yeah she was complaining the entire time we made sweet love and she didn't do anything and sometimes tried to push me off because she didn't know shit, that doesn't mean i raped her. Some women are just shit lays, get a clue" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 59 | They also have amnesia about the recent part of history where men prevented women from gaining financial security on their own because they wanted women to be forced into marriages through survival.I was stuck with my big brother when i was 16 and he was 19, and it lasted for over a year before i had to threathen police to get him out. He was unemployed, ate my food, changed the internet password whenever i didn't do the chores he told me to, like doing his dishes, and he would get physically violent with me for fun. Meanwhile i was working/studying from 7 to 7 every day and had to provide for us both. I almost died of misery or so it felt, and i realize that exact dynamic is way too frequ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 128 | I don't even know how to describe this, why are men the way they areMen's worst sex stories is about being the rapist, women's worst "sex" stories is about being raped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 122 | What's a Killer Supposed to Look Like? Matthew Taylor Coleman confessed to murdering his two children, and, of course, reports of the crime have to insist he was an otherwise good guyLately i've seen several single fathers saying the most misogynistic shit, either directly or indirectly, often with the excuse that they just hate women because they have it so much easier since they can follow their teenage daughters into the changing room without getting glances and shocked reactions from people in the stores etc (an actual conversation i haf with a guy btw where he was so angry about not being able to help his 14 year olds pick bathing suits..) They get away with it. People … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 141 | What's a Killer Supposed to Look Like? Matthew Taylor Coleman confessed to murdering his two children, and, of course, reports of the crime have to insist he was an otherwise good guyOk now imagine for one minute a woman killing her children and getting the same kinda sympathy from the reporters. I'm cracking tf up just trying to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 13 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)Another episode of men hating men or at least having a very poor perspective and standard for men. "Ye ok i would be fat if not for the rule of relativity which only makes me average compared to the average man lmao men are such lazy fat ppl amirite guys" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 81 | They also have amnesia about the recent part of history where men prevented women from gaining financial security on their own because they wanted women to be forced into marriages through survival.Being blamed for your own oppression ain't nothing new | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:12 PM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 23 - Examining Communication Dynamics between Men & WomenIf we all contribute on patreon they'll probably provide even more content for us. They could probably make specific workshops for us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 21 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 23 - Examining Communication Dynamics between Men & WomenThis! It sounds weird but this is something i learned in school thanks to ruthless teachers. I would be highly insecure like any other kid but i quickly understood what the silent treatment or even false negative feedback meant. It brings out the most primal and blinding reactions in us. You'd have to be an idiot not to realize this - so this is an excellent filter method for pretty much any screening of humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:07 PM |
| 24 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 23 - Examining Communication Dynamics between Men & WomenI find it so funny how everything boils down to "women fear men will hurt them, men fear women will ignore them" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 49 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)Even if that wasn't a factor, it would have the weird vanilla reference in it where he admits she calls him disgusting when he suggests the things he wants. There's so much wrong here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:40 PM |
| 30 | Female pick up artists? Pfffft don’t flatter yourself men. Women have been vetting, weeding out men and voicing their concerns since forever! Don’t act brand new.No they're right, we should totally be planning and strategizing on how to prey on men in the most intimidating and hurtful way possible without getting caught by the authorities. We should all come up with the most hurtful trauma-inducing pickup-lines to say to strange men and learn which shallow qualities about them can relate to which possible insecurities to poke at for maximum effect. We should all make a workshop by women for men named "how to be a man" and just tell them straight to their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 7 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Yep, maintaining a reproductive system is work. Risking childbearing when not wanting to have children is high risk, and emotional work. Having to abort a baby is basically work-related injury and would usually be greatly compensated for in a good environment. Finally, actually producing and pushing out a full human being is one of the riskiest and hurtful jobs there is and yet women more often than not PAY for this to the point where they enter life time debt - when in any other circumstance, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:37 PM |
| 19 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Even though, this just sounds like letting him rape you which is a lot more expensive than whatever the fuck this ring is. Maybe the equivalent is passing him a glance when he masturbates, without laughing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 20 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Wait what's the point? I mean if they're going 50/50 they might as well buy each other rings thewn at least? Let me just propose, buy my own ring, hold my own ceremony and masturbate in peace before beating myself up over the dishes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!Really makes you think what's the backend for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!!!!UPDATE!!! Some crote sent me a DM saying "to get the 1% you need to be the 1%, too bad you're not well educated for a well educated man :) Get exercise and a PhD" What a odd way to roast someone who goes to the gym 3x/week and has a robotics' degree that makes me so privileged it's honestly insane, along with having a partner who's on his way to get his masters (which is basically as valuable as a PhD if you want to be actually hands-on in our field). It basically translates to him congratula… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!Yeah i bet the men not realizing the data is broken will be feeling punched in the gut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!I mean their real criteria is really 1. Has a vagina But they like to make believe, and ofc to bully their partner for not being like this after committing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!Oof. They didn't think that through. They basically lied about their data tho; they actually just used the entire world instead of the US which completely breaks all value of any data since heigh and income varies by country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 11 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!There's a reason math-related careers were dominated by women before it actually paid money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:46 PM |
| 11 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!"You're fucking delusional if you think you gonna bag a single man" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:45 PM |
| 23 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginityThey say women are ruthless yet this woman that op knows legitimately let her bf talk her into letting him cheap on her with their friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:26 AM |
| 87 | The excuses men (and pick me women) make in order to justify covert infidelity and female objectification."But in 2011, a lap dance is about as intimate as a flossing one’s teeth" Ok so men are obviously proud of being slutty. So when are they going to stop slutshaming? Kind of not relevant to the article but it's insane how much men use promiscuity as the excuse to say women just overeact to infidelity, yet they hate promiscious women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:19 AM |
| 71 | “…he’s choked me unconscious before. I didn’t really mind…” UM WHAT.This got me too, alongside with the wonder if she ever cum from sex. Sounds like a free prostitute and therapist, that would usually cost almost a grand/hour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Leveled up, but feeling alone: everyone I meet seems to be a LVM or LVWI was honestly shocked by the fact that i have been blissfully ignorant about the quality of your average citizen in everyday life. I spent 5 years in university. Intelligent, humorous, skilled people everywhere. A blessing i took for granted, which i didn't realize until i started going to the gym outside of study studios, working full-time (at least people at work is similar-minded but male dominated fields has their downsides), and i felt like a bitter old drugged asshole thinking that rick n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:08 AM |
| 39 | “Not all men” brigaders…smhI wish they would start backing up their assumptions with facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:57 AM |
| 35 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!In all fairness; the percentage of non-obese americans is shockingly low even though it seems to improve. This is the doing of many scams done by the capitalist system alongside with expensive education, so bear in mind that this fact alongside with the calculation probably being false, pretty much means the odds should be higher in reality. But - i'd say the odds for finding your hvm would be somewhere between 0,5 and 10 percent. I'd expect to go on at least 10 dates before finding someone prom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:47 AM |
| 3 | How a scrote just replied to me on a discussion re: sexual harassment & objectificationYeah which is why tigers aren't allowed amongst most humans, and they're in cages. So when are we finally locking up the sexual predators, or according to him, all men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Thought Experiments OR ALSO How I sometimes amuse and challenge myself XDPatriarchy only works where war is important and oppressing women to be used as incubators is more important than anything to have soldiers for the war. The war on drugs literally only happens because of the very same priority; people more often become anti war or unable to go to war because of drugs. This is perfectly explained on netflix' short documentary on shrooms, something along the title of "the amazing life of shrooms". We had basically gotten close to finding the cure for alzheimer, ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:44 AM |
| 41 | This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.The example with her overweight friend suddenly finding a boyfriend after setting basic standards says it all and is really all the proof we ever need | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | What do you ladies think of this?Everything he said is generally true, even though of course there's people who aren't like what he describes. What he talks about is general patterns we see (and which are so obvious, our culture make jokes about them, such as how women tend to switch partners rather than being unfaithful just for the heck of it). I especially love the simple example he used to prove how men aren't at all less emotional than women; they just care about sex more than love. Denying these patterns to be true would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Was permanently banned from another subreddit for linking FDS to a poor woman who seemed to need it. Apparently we are anti-men. We're not, we're just navigating dating and weeding out the shitty ones. 🤡 I'd argue it's anti-woman to not let women help each other.I've just accepted that my main and only account will be banned from the entirety of reddit's dating related subs in turn for being a member here lmao. Only downside is having to see pickmes being helped by misogynistic abusers without getting to do anything for them, beside maybe linking them the sub in their DMs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Facts. Straight up facts.The numbers themselves ought to come from somewhere, like a study or estimation or calculation. Edit: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/post/the-orgasm-gap-facts-behind-male-vs-female-orgasm-sexual-solutions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 10:04 AM |
| -3 | Facts. Straight up facts.I believe these numbers to be unrefutable but i would love if anyone could find a source we could link to whenever someone doubts us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!Can't tell if she's joking or not ngl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:03 AM |
| 1137 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”This is new meta advanced insecurity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Ugh, expect?Women: carefully explains how sexual objectification hurts them and that it's wrong Men: so what you're saying is i won't get my dick wet because you fucked a cucumber once during puberty? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:21 AM |
| 33 | This is enough internet for me today I’m done. Porn addicted scrotes are out here getting used items mailed to them from cam girls and giving themselves yeast infections and lord knows what other diseases. (warning extremely nsfw language)This cracks me up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:06 AM |
| 20 | This is enough internet for me today I’m done. Porn addicted scrotes are out here getting used items mailed to them from cam girls and giving themselves yeast infections and lord knows what other diseases. (warning extremely nsfw language)It's not scamming people? It's literally been in her ass and genitals. I hope this happened to more than a few men so that they finally realize what women have to deal with since men apparently rarely or never feel symptoms of infections (hence why so many are careless about anal sex and switching holes) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:05 AM |
| 120 | Came across while scrolling through IG recentlyThey even admit it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 05:31 AM |
| 25 | Man of deadbedroom is amazed that it takes effort to have a great marriageWhat exactly is a married couples' date then? What the fuck do he think married couples should do? I'm so confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 500 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…TLDR how do i tell my husband he shouldn't be raping me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 3 | LOL. This one clearly has never been with an actual woman, to the point that he's convinced himself he needs to "pick out the red flags" to spot FDS members. What besides "trying to manipulate women into sex" would he be avoiding, with these "red flags"?And they say we're the indirect ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 29 | Why do the manosphere and pickmes hate men so much?Misogynists and especially anti-FDSers hate men to the degree where i get genuinely depressed just thinking about how they view the world. I thought i was the cynic; these misandrists genuinely believe less than a percent of men are capable of being kind, ambitious and respectful. I would be this delusional if all the men i met were found at incel forums, too, but there is a whole world out there as well they keep forgetting about. They're saying treating men like adults and not grown babies is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:29 AM |
| 459 | LOL. This one clearly has never been with an actual woman, to the point that he's convinced himself he needs to "pick out the red flags" to spot FDS members. What besides "trying to manipulate women into sex" would he be avoiding, with these "red flags"?What cracks me up is they think they have to avoid women as if women are harassing them or trying to ask them out without knowing them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Young Gen Z women have been conditioned by porn culture to accept brutality during sexual experiences. We desperately need to reach these poor young womenSolaray! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:15 AM |
| 33 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!Can confess to having had weird fantasies about being eaten alive (vore, though this started in a non sexual way as a child) and murdered or kidnapped and isolated and bound up - all of which are easily developed into sexual fetishes - when i was still suffering from a lot of self hatred. As my mental health improved, these thoughts vanished, and i think it would be the harder but healthier road for most people to at least consider not endulging in all of their fantasies without at least trying … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:17 AM |
| 79 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!This is the only valid response. You shouldn't cook for others either if you can't make a pure vanilla dessert taste good - same principle. The basics need to be in place before even thinking about spicing it up. People need to be good at vanilla to be performing safe let alone "good" bdsm if such a thing can be achieved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:12 AM |
| 199 | Young Gen Z women have been conditioned by porn culture to accept brutality during sexual experiences. We desperately need to reach these poor young womenSo basically; undeniable proof most girls who are sexually active are being raped. Can people honestly deny this problem any further? Most boys would be able to rape someone just because they don't think their abuse counts when they do it. "Whh does he do that" alongside with Gail Dines' books should be obligatory reading for everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 50 | Bumble wants to make 🍆📸illegalHow is this not yet a rule for all dating apps honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:07 AM |
| 18 | ExAcTlY tHe sAmENo other way to express it honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:06 AM |
| 51 | I hate it when LVM approach me in publicScrotes love to pretend they have no control over their looks. Your wrists size and height isn't the problem, just saying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 10:57 AM |
| 32 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡Also it's more likely they start to understand our reality better in the process of doing all of that, than them successfully fooling us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:13 AM |
| 21 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡This is peobably how it would go down Undercover scrote: "I hate ugly men and-" "Sis you shouldn't let them live rent-free in your mind. Lvl up your mentality and focus on yourself" Undercover scrote: these women want you to pay just for thinking about you !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:11 AM |
| 375 | Scrotes Rushing into every thread about r/MGTOW being banned to bring up Female Dating StrategyThere's so many parody subs for us rn and all of the posts are somehow misunderstanding everything we say. Someone genuinely thought our post about mutual pleasure during sex was misandrist - it's not at all surprising that they consider us hateful incels if every possible claim that women should be treated with kindness and respect is considered misandrist lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:01 AM |
| 12 | im so sick of men saying they're viewed as "success objects" and comparing it to how women are viewed as sex objects.A man just recently told me that the fine the norwegian sports players had to pay for wearing shorts instead of bikini bottoms was the same as whenever a successful male sports player has a more active sex life than men who aren't successful sports players. He said it was a sexual objectification of male sports players but that noone cares because they're men. Men complain about... success? In the face of women complaining about oppression, for example by having to choose to give up their sports… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:29 AM |
| 24 | Scrote makes up an obviously fake story to make fds look bad, convenient army of comments referencing FDS and "toxic femininity"Excellent way to explain it! Men love to claim they must have it worse since they rage or cry more but honestly it seems like it's just a refusal of self-growth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:22 AM |
| 336 | The truth about the "honey moon phase"Yeah i always found this strange. Especially since my first honeymoon phase lasted for approx 4 years and the second lasted 4 months. Normalize continually working on relationships and not being taken for granted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 12:20 AM |
| 62 | Liberal feminism will be the death of womenBeing drugged like this is attempted murder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 09:38 PM |
| 15 | Liberal feminism will be the death of womenImagine if the genders were reversed. Misogyny is running too deep and we should stop pretending it's ok in these situations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 09:36 PM |
| 24 | Why are there so many more homeless men than women?The homeless women can't be out and about as much. They choose for example rape for free rent, or they seek shelters, because they would be destroyed if they were to be outside with the homeless men. Men like to point to this statistic to prove female privilege but it only goes to show how women don't even have the privilege of being on the street. They risk so much more if they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:43 AM |
| 751 | Don't accept shitty behaviour just because "every man does it"!!!If "every man does it", just stay single. Luckily it's not even true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:40 AM |
| 17 | Pick me vs. treat others how you want to be treated?You don't want dating to be a game but you need to realize something quite terrifying but logical; romance is the least unconditional kind of love there is. A good, healthy relationship has to be a steady stream of reciprocative services in order to work, especially since humans need stimulus and we get easily bored. When i own a pet, i know how to act and set boundaries for our relationship to work. This sounds surreal but i see so many similarities between the bond of a pet and a romantic rela… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | “Cat Person” - A short NVM horror story.Very well written. If every man took his time to read a story like this, they wouldn't be able to stay ignorant to women's dating experiences. I especially love the detail where, to see the situation for what it is without making excuses along, she summarize what's happening in her head as if saying it to another person, which is a great way to make light of horrible situations that aren't easily digestable. Every time Robert feels hurt by something small, i cringe. That's probably intentional; … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:45 AM |
| 3 | This is an old Rebecca Solnit article, but she's so brilliant! ❤️🧠Instantly posted it to fb, thanks so much for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:17 AM |
| 101 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Legit i cover my body in COCOA BUTTER before bed and my sheets are white for the entire week before laundry day so this means they're oilier than that + they don't wash their sheets each week. Both is unforgivable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 29 | Am I overreacting?You're right to feel angry about this. I would honestly block and delete at least after the second message. It honestly screams "silly you don't know what you're saying", at least in my ears | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Can't Tell If New Partner Is HVM After Having Been With Too Many LVMMy curiosity can't help but say "where are his male friends?" Since he's so great towards everyone as you quote. As someone who really is a generally extroverted person, i find it both men and women respond nicely to kindness and i easily catch friends of both genders in the end, even as a men-critical person. A man with healthy relationships with other men says a lot about his mental health as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 133 | Glorifying toxic codependent pick-me relationships under the disguise of "Twin Flames"Bruh my narcissistic brother who has gotten several restraining orders could not shut up about twin flames. He always calls a crush a twin flame and when she finally escapes and blocks his ass from everywhere he makes up stories about telepathy and shapeshifting. Label it whatever they want, it's just good old scrotely abuse. Seen it before, nothing new here but branding. Also thanks so much for pointing this out! Edit: never have i ever felt this anxious and relaxed at the same time listening t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:53 AM |
| 12 | Can't Tell If New Partner Is HVM After Having Been With Too Many LVMOk first of all, if the genders were reversed, men would say there are massive red flags, so you're not crazy. Secondly, as a person who very much adores women to the degree where my partner points it out as weird, i can honestly say that your partner's obsession or love for women is next level even for me. I highly doubt his fav music group would be BTS if it wasn't for the fact that the fanbase is almost only women and girls. This guy sounds amazing in many ways, but i suspect he has a massive… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Team Edward or Team Jacob: How Love Triangles Primed a Generation of Women for LVM (intro)I thought i was in the wrong for hating all the romance stories that affected me as i grew up but now i'm super relieved that i did, because i still do, and because of posts like yours i realize it was for the better. They weren't good stories, and they certainly didn't portray good characters with healthy relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 09:17 PM |
| 4 | This is what happens when you marry a Scrote and do the 50/50 thingThis is honestly horrifying. Is he gonna take on half the pregnancy and birth and post birth symptoms, as well? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-I’mThis is truly the mindset where they believe all men want is easy sex no matter what. For the most part, that's entirely true, but there are HVM (and even LVM) who want a genuine relationship, and isn't that something most women want as well? It makes zero sense for women to have the attitude where you should have sex as fast as possible to catch a man since that usually increases the chance to catch a cheating fuckboy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 11:22 AM |
| 9 | I feel like a lot of outsiders say we do not care about Mental health.This is the only subreddit that cares about mental health. Change my mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 10:29 PM |
| 94 | Just a FDS appreciate post. Thank you mods for doing an amazing job creating a safe space for women on reddit. Every other female centric sub is crawling with losers playing whataboutisms like this guy here. Looked through his post history, he follows degrading holes, r*pe fantasies, and worst.When men "switch the roles".... Often, if not always, they just describe reality as it is. One guy was like "if a woman hits on a man it's ok but if a man does the same they call the cops!!!" As if men don't already do that? Where the fuck are the cops? Or when they say the same about rape pretending like rape is as rare as rapists being held accountable, as if no rapist ever got away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 10:27 PM |
| 29 | A majority of the time, sex is NOT a mutual benefit.Sooo spending time together having dinner isn't a mutual benefit? Then i would rather not meet up at all. The audacity of men saying this shit is impressive. They tend to forget half the date expenses were for themselves and it wouldn't be half as fun doing it alone, at least not for most | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 10:20 PM |
| 20 | Anyone else absolutely hate posts like these? There's just so much to unpack here.I didn't think much of it but yeah; the men who are first to say "suck it up" is also the ones who qre first to complain about mental health awareness for men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 10 | LVM’s idea of a first date is going to her residence, expect a home cooked meal and most likely sex.How do they even fall for this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:16 PM |
| 17 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!Leaving a fetus alone means aborting it so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:42 AM |
| 28 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!Pro life literally means denying women bodily autonomy. You have to choose one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:41 AM |
| 5 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..I'm so happy that you all contributed to the different sides of this theory. It's a very interesting topic and i rarely get good discussions on this! So proud of this community. I agree on your explanation as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:35 AM |
| 3 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..I dont think it's so easy and i hope noone else thinks so either. If a mother is to be with her child 24/7, that leads to unhealthy attachment as well. There's rarely an ideal kind of attachment and even when there is, the brain structure of the child in question will be a very important factor to take into consideration. World's best mother could be seen as the monster who destroyed the mind of a child when in fact their brain was structured to welcome trauma more easily, something that could b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:30 AM |
| 5 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..It's really noone to blame but nature and the structure of our society. I am also traumatized like most people, not because my mother didn't do her best, but because any moment away from mother is similar to going cold turkey from heroin or the likes. Babies (and mothers, in many ways) are so attached they are essentially addicted to each other, and there's no way a mom will be glued to her baby the entire time the baby would like. It's completely natural to be disturbed also because fresh moms … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:20 AM |
| 129 | “She’s stressing me out”This is a classic example on men who women struggle to be mad at because he can blame his weed consumption on his laziness and since he's just being timid and laughs whenever confronted, it seems as if beating a handicapped child when calling him out. This happens far more often than we realize at first. Never let a man off the hook just because he's a grown baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:52 AM |
| 32 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..In the book "it didn't start with you", the author argues that psychopaths, and in turn narcissists and abusers have a big correlation with having suffered trauma from being separated from their mother in the very earliest stages of their lives. Ergo, the abusive men will likely protect their greatest fear unto women by claiming they will be alone. Makes perfect sense, no non-abusive man i've ever met has been talking about dying alone let alone used loneliness as an insult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 11:17 PM |
| 10 | Why do people pretend that pegging is a two-way-equally-pleasurable-street? Am i crazy? Women love to be generous and state that pegging is for both but i honestly fail to see how this is a gift for anyone but himselfThis is the only equivalent gift I can imagine, well done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:39 PM |
| 46 | This need to be sharedEinstein was honestly a hero from the books i read about him as a kid. Before i realized that women weren't animals with 50% of men's intelligence (honestly i'm surprised i wasn't a flaming misogynist after what they taught in history and religion), i didn't find it strange that his wife was never mentioned to do anything besides just existing and cooking. A little bit later on i realized i relate to Einstein on a emotional level because we're probably both on the spectrum and he's known to be t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:25 AM |
| 56 | This need to be sharedImagine all the women (and i mean probably literally all women) who contributed and was never mentioned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 30 | This need to be sharedThe reason so many men don't want to fight for women is exactly this; they lose nothing short-term by being passive but they legitimately have to for example threathen to NOT be honoured for their work if they take action. The patriarchal system makes it hard to progress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:16 AM |
| 10 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.Reminding men that women act as they do because they're women's number 1 danger isn't pickme behavior, but wasting time on NVM is certainly a waste of time and we all deserve better time management than that. Realizing that interacting with men regarding women's safety is a complete waste of time and instead spending some time informing/reminding other women about this is queen shit. Be thankful - loads of women need to know this and they need to be reminded since we have a bad pattern of mistak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 97 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.In a show made in Norway, one of the more anti-misogynistic cultures even, there was a scene where the woman told the guy very politely why the date didn't work out, she did it the ideal way according to these men. Still the man wouldn't stop bothering her about it and would increasingly say disgusting shit to her, following her, and whenever they were at the same place he would approach her in a seeminlgy "polite" manner and ask again why it couldn't work as if she hadn't explained it already. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:21 AM |
| 75 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.Men LOVE to pretend to be stupid. It's honestly sexist (read: actually misandrist) how dumb they want us to believe they are. They god damn know, and they know perfectly well. A common strategy of any addict, and/or abuser is to claim to be completely retarded. They pretend they're 3 years old mentally, sometimes literally, to avoid facing issues that would possibly lose them any privilege or pleasure. I've seen it happen in real life and i see it happen every single day in comment sections. Jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:09 AM |
| 2 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being high maintenance.That's a really interesting experience, thanks! I think i'll just jump right into it and hope for the best, if something like that would ruin a relationship it's really not much to lose anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being high maintenance.The situation is; he sometimes pays, sometimes don't, and he thinks that switching between who pays is the optimal way so that in the end it will be basically 50/50 or so without paying too much attention to what the eventual cost difference is. This is a very common norwegian standard, but i think (maybe also because of fds?) that because men ARE in the end the ones who biologically are meant to do the courting, it's supposed to be unbalanced in effort, for example maybe 3/4 or more depending o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.I always tell the cowards to state clearly in their rules that users of FDS is not allowed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 11:18 PM |
| 9 | Emotional Memory Management: Positive Control Over Your MemoryThis is so refreshing to see. I've been lurking on men's subs before and every time they try to "improve" themselves it's based on some bullshit theory about women having a walnut for a brain and them needing to play accordingly, meanwhile on this wonderful women's sub we are blessed with the hard fruitful facts. Understanding how trauma is made is honestly the first step to recoverding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:03 PM |
| 16 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.Imagine if men would storm in and say "that's unacceptable of men", rather than storming in and banning, removing and silencing women every time they call men out on shit. Really makes you realize it really is "all men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:26 PM |
| 58 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.Don't you know? Feminism is about accepting men and letting them be themselves!!! Apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.It's probably also so he can jerk off to it later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:06 AM |
| 10 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.Explains so much tbh. Their explanation for permabanning me was condescending and gave scrote vibes (hint: it was because i partake here as i'm sure more of you have experienced the same reason for being banned the second you comment on any "feminist" subs on reddit that isn't FDS) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:02 AM |
| 4 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being high maintenance.That's truly inspiring! Well done! I'm kind of high maintenance myself but in my regard it's more about treating myself to food experiences. There's a certain situation that's been eating at me; my partner of almost a year invited me to his for take-away and a movie, and he only paid for his food and not mine. We live in scandinavia where the genders are a lot more equal and has been more equal for longer than many other cultures so it's not usual to expect for the man to pay, but it did hurt me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:42 AM |
| 216 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.This should be remembered every time someone accuses you of misandry. When we can't get men to understand us, that inevitably means we have to push against men to liberate women. For example; when men can't fathom why women should have bodily autonomy, we have to demand it, meaning men will have to feel oppressed whenever a woman aborts an embryo with part of his DNA. When men can't fathom why women want economic independence, we have to demand it and let men feel oppressed when their free maid … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:04 PM |
| 150 | Exhausted from men at the gymThis is why female only gyms are necessary. Gyms are sometimes male only as a result of harassment, so then both have the option to go mixed or separated. Regarding how to deal with it: be unlikable and mean. It won't even guarantee for it to be solved but it's the best thing to do. It's not easy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 99 | Potent.And they still pretend they're not predators | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:38 AM |
| 37 | Potent.Wtf do they mean "what was the spark"??? Maybe women's right to own money and maybe get a job? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:36 AM |
| 7 | So true. I may not be where I want to be at 31. But I am wayyy happier.Women DO hit the wall in their 30's - in the eyes of abusers. The wall being the time a potential abuse victim becomes a lot more difficult to claim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How not to OLD with a scrote. I played the pickmeisha because this guy was so obnoxious. I added comments to each screenshot and more in comments.I feel like if i was in this guy's position and I woke up one day and realized how I was actually being pranked in this way i would turn into a literal pit of rainwater out of devastating embarrassment I hope that day comes for this guy lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Lingerie is NOT a giftGreen flag is only if he buys himself a vibrator as an indirect gift for both of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:32 PM |
| 3 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSHonestly the way everyone on here criticize each other or even men is so wholesome, supportive and just NICE even when people say sorry for being harsh. You queens somehow manage to out men on not wiping their ass without sounding unecessarily mean. I don't even get how that's possible. If anyone feel hurt by the kind of criticism found on this forum, it's likely rooted in deep insecurities that should be considered and carefully handled. Insecurities are made to be solved, that's a struggle we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:26 PM |
| 0 | How not to OLD with a scrote. I played the pickmeisha because this guy was so obnoxious. I added comments to each screenshot and more in comments.Man i hate these kind of bad manipulators. They make my genuine compliments sound made up Also your acting made me lmao Edit: people downvoting obviously never felt the dread of telling someone they know they have beautiful eyes because it'd immediately sound like a god damn parody because of the kind of guys OP just trolled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:52 PM |
| 14 | Eye-OpeneningYeah same. The last subreddit i was instantly banned from without reason the second i commented (they really should mention fds as one of their rules, the god damn cowards) was SPECIFICALLY about making fun of fragile male ego. The irony. Also, how come she wasn't perma banned from the ask feminists sub when i was lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:22 AM |
| 72 | Eye-OpeneningIt's a real kick to the gut when we realize that women simply preaching to be kind to themselves and not tolerate abuse is considered incel shit by the majority of reddit. I'm getting banned from most sub-reddits because i'm active on here and it angers me - women are not allowed to stand up for themselves because that's considered hate-speech against men. Somehow. I'm proud of you for stepping in and reflecting, it's the first and sometimes toughest step towards a happier lifestyle! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:44 AM |
| 15 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!Me hoping they get picked soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 19 | Is the transitioning stage always this hard?For me, i imagine every time my mom put herself before me as i grew older. Every time it hurt me deeply because i felt entitled to her and her time and efforts. That entitlement, met with a surprising decrease of received resource, will always be met with a negative emotion. Some people, and especially the ones who suffer from entitlement, will express that emotion in a destructive manner because they're inherently selfish and abusive (even without knowing it themselves). It makes perfect sense … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:05 PM |
| 35 | WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴These women always brag about lack of makup so where tf are all the compliments in between women about their lack of makeup? Let me see em irl or didn't happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 09:49 PM |
| 111 | Shoutout to the libfem clownsI would die if the pictures went: Wig is being taken off Make-up is starting to be removed Wig is put back on Finished clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:26 PM |
| 82 | Cry me a river.LVM talking about feelings: there's a darkness inside me controlling my every move and i'm powerless and i can't so anything about it Women talking about feelings: there's a sleeping rage inside that, if i let it, will crush this entire city so that's why i tame it frequently with therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 12:54 PM |
| 19 | Cry me a river.I hate how this is my exact thought process every time i hit my toe into something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 12:51 PM |
| 4 | It isn’t that bad…I stopped with the pill since it was killing me slowly and started using pearly cycles (temp check) instead along with condoms and caution on fertile days. I think i wojld rather tie my tubes before using birth control again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:30 AM |
| 5 | I finished my bachelors degree with First class honours and I would like to give a shout out to FDSSo proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 130 | The Red Flag Song!This is honestly so fitting with the latest podcast episode i was beginning to wonder if it was our doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:05 AM |
| 12 | Truly embarrassingTook me a while to understand wtf was being said and now i don't know if i regret understanding it or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Don’t give wifey energy to someone who isn’t your husbandAh no sorry, cooking is certainly his deal as well but we have different tastes in what we like to cook which i find wonderful. He's for example super at creme brulee and slow cooked meat dishes while i'm super at cakes and saucy food. I'm having a hard time making myself clear sometimes sorry. Also regarding the chore part; we find that he thinks omelettes are 0 effort while i find sauces to be 0 effort, which is the reason i think everyone should cook a little - we quikly find that we spend mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 5 | My most unexpected hilariously positive dateThis is like pettiness but positive? Love that vibe. "Oh you want coffee? Probably because it's cheap but technically you didn't say that out loud. So we gonna get the most expensive coffee there is" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:20 AM |
| 8 | one day…This is funny because it's so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:53 AM |
| 97 | Ladies please be careful while dating! Men like this still exist!They say notallmen yet a scary amount of them even admit to hating it if their sexual partner doesn't cry in pain during the act | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:47 AM |
| 26 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.He wouldn't undress unless he knew it was recorded and important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:44 AM |
| 305 | ' sEx wOrK iS EmpoWeRiNg 'Super long but contains every point i can think of for when people lie about sexual slavery being anything but terrible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:40 AM |
| 4 | Don’t give wifey energy to someone who isn’t your husbandOuch, i actually bake cookies a lot and i made my partner his favorite ones after losing a bet, which sounds real pickme in the aftermath. What i would like input on is this; is it ok as long as he cooks equally as much for you? As in learning about your favorite foods, making them for you even if it's not his kind of deal and doing it on his own initiative, or is it too dangerous considering men tend to "put you in a box" as you mention? In scandinavia it's a lot more common that women and men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 14 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyHe has to be willing to visit me at the same rate as i visit him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:32 PM |
| 19 | I don't know where else to ask this without getting harassed by scrotes, but how can you actually tell if a guy has a big dick?My experience with this is actually very mixed. I have a friend who's got a realy tiny dick according to both himself and his ex, meanwhile someone i've dated was humorously explaining (once, never as a pure joke or reoccuring joke, which is important to note!) about how he would become braindead and dizzy from erections because of it requiring so much blood, which was kind of true (it sure looked like it) The most secure way to tell is to see if he thinks bad penis jokes are funny. That's a big… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 13 | They don’t listen, they just deflect, lie and make it all about them 🙄Proof of this is how every god damn time you answer up to 3 times they start talking about your sex life or even lack of sex life to get you to explain in detail how much sex you have and preferably how, when and how often. For example; i've been posting a daily quote by "Why does he do that?" In a fb group containing a majority of misogynistic pickmes and scrotes (hint: an NT mbti group, shocking right?) And this one guy would always comment something wannabe smartass in the start, but as time … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 25 | They don’t listen, they just deflect, lie and make it all about them 🙄Yeah then you google "violence against men correlation to feminism" and all the suggested articles are about how feminism is the only movement even discussing men's issues, completely ruining his point since apparently feminists are the only ones who try to end violence period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:04 PM |
| 3 | The Porn Paradox | Megan Johnson | TEDxGreenvilleYeah in that sense! I imagine shooting cum in someone's face is the ultimate degradation but so is doing it to their mouth and i bet it's more pleasurable in a way so my guess is what you're summarizing; death grip lead to facial, probably. The harder it is for men to orgasm in general the more violent and degrading the porn gets and in turn the more misogynistic our culture becomes despite all new regulations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 161 | For folks you ended up dating the hvm, how did you guys meet. I don’t want to get into OLD - had the worst experience last year.All my healthy relationships were found simply "by chance", through a friend of a friend or something like that. It should be mentioned i've always met them through people who attend higher education in scandinavia which means they are a safer fit already since we have more common ground on things culturally and morally/ethically. Starting off at a common ground that you find important, such as through an outdoor activity, through a certain type of work or education etc, could be an advantage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 06:02 AM |
| 6 | The Porn Paradox | Megan Johnson | TEDxGreenvilleEasily googleable, sorry. The best discussions on this is on reddit and i can't help you there since fds is not allowed to brigade. Curious though; what did you think you knew before? We've known about the heavy porn use side effects for a while? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:46 AM |
| 31 | The Porn Paradox | Megan Johnson | TEDxGreenvilleThis is only slightly relevant if at all but just recently i saw a discussion where it was made clear that the reason so many men love to end a blowjob in finishing themselves over her face is, not so surprisingly, because they simply cannot finish without death-gripping. It was so common it was a given for these guys. Not even mentioning the degrading part of doing that to someone's face though. Porn is poison in all possible ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 09:56 PM |
| 15 | People are finally waking upI completely understand what you mean and this is exactly how women in all kinds of situations are being silenced and reduced; by the fear that if they speak up they will be punished | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Have a great new day!Thanks for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:34 PM |
| 8 | This is uncomfortable on so many levelsHe wouldn't even walk away i promise you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:33 PM |
| 7 | This is uncomfortable on so many levelsLook around, see if there's other available seats, if yes, say no. If not, say "sure", when they sit down say "sorry you can't sit here". "Why" is so easily countered with passive aggressive bullshit in my experience. "Why not?" "Because" or the likes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 7 | This is uncomfortable on so many levelsOne of the comments saying the solution to being harassed by men is to approach them first. This is why men shouldn't be refused any say on women's politics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 243 | People are finally waking upMy story; in elementary school i noticed guys were generally loved and respected and treated well, unlike me. I created a male user on online social platforms and games. Suddenly i was complimented on my intelligence, humor, skills, and people befriended me like crazy alongside with girls falling head over heels in love with me by large numbers, sometimes resulting in hurt friendships between them. The exact same personality on my female user? Pretty much the same as irl; noone liked me. I was d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 21 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!History doesn’t repeat but it sure as hell rhymes. Unless you’re a woman then history is a record stuck repeating on the needle. This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:14 PM |
| 14 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!Makes perfect sense to me. All kinds of stress can lead to pretty much all kinds of illness, or so it seems. People (like me) do yoga for purely physical reasons and wonder where some of their chronic pains went, and suddenly feel like they don't need medicines they relied on that their doctors claimed they would need for the rest of their lives. I had serious ptsd symptoms that disappeared along with my acne and exema that disappeared once i attended yoga frequently and i thought it was hormona… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 116 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!Wonder why 99% of the people i meet in yoga and meditation classes (the two proven medicines for dealing with trauma related illnesses) are women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 226 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!Worst part is he was correct to begin with and let himself be defeated by his customers due to how capitalism and his profession works. Basically all he did was call people out on what the fuck was up and abusers responded "We know, do not tell them. If you do, we can't continue our abuse" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 01:19 PM |
| 7 | Dr. Jess just out there spewing straight facts as usual.But when we are catious we're the problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.If anything, being able to so easily just refuse custody with the comfortable knowledge that a woman is going to take care of it for you is the greatest privilege anyone could ask for. The 80+% of custody cases women "win" by being entirely given full custody by an unwilling father is not a win. It's his win. If we only counted women who actually struggle to get custody and then gets it, less than 10% of cases in amerika is won by the woman. 50/50 custody is a lose when the children are hurt by … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.It would be if it wasn't so hard to believe. It also needs to be mentioned that we are norwegian and we don't face this much injustice regarding custody cases here since we're very strict about parental quality, so it's normal to be a bit ignorant regarding the state of amerika even though it does influence us in a cultural sense. It would be a proper red flag if we lived in amerika and he was still ignorant about it though. I do wanna tell him to trust me more regarding these thingq since i rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:20 PM |
| 9 | The idea that family courts are biased against men is a dangerous LIE. Evidence shows Family courts are biased against WOMEN.The courts always start with the idea that 50/50 is best, EVEN though all statistical evidence suggests that children in general have it worse in every sense possible whenever a man gets 50/50 custody despite the mother's wishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:06 PM |
| 7 | The idea that family courts are biased against men is a dangerous LIE. Evidence shows Family courts are biased against WOMEN.That would make sense but fact is they know this and they still trust men over women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:05 PM |
| 91 | A woman got sued by her Tinder match for not hooking up with himBest part? Some judges would probably let him win just to further push the point to teach women a lesson | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:25 AM |
| 44 | A woman got sued by her Tinder match for not hooking up with himI mean... Isn't sexual consent even by law something you can retract at any point? Also, when men make up shit on fake women's accounts or by parodying us on FDS, they literally cannot come up with something more horrible than "i am unattractive, i am a single mother with 0 income, and i expect men to pay for dates with me" meanwhile this is the reality for women. It's truly something we couldn't have made up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:24 AM |
| 5 | "Only after a person has fulfilled the basic reproductive responsibilities, such as having two children, should he or she have the right to use contraceptive products." - China's policy for declining childbearing age womenWe should spread the info about tracking fertility through temperature devices. Still doesn't fix every other issue women fix with hormonal treatment but it's at least a way to avoid children for the women who have regular periods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 10:35 AM |
| 45 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.I told my partner that in MAJORITY of custody cases, the man wins or gets his way, and he immediately didn't believe it since the first statistics that pop up is 80+% of custody cases being registered is simply the man saying "i don't want anything to do with my children" and the woman gets custody. Then comes the small percentage (around 10% or less) where the court is forced into the equation, and majority of these is when the man is an abuser such as in this case and he wants to hurt the woma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 07:41 AM |
| 9 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.This would almost be ok if all children and women were allowed to self-defense with a gun no questions asked and if the dad died it'd be an automatic indicator of him being in the wrong and the shooter would be given free voluntary therapy. It'd still be an idiotic solution. As it is right now, you are allowed by the very quote of this judge (that specifically said the child should take responsibility of saying to her friends that they're not safe, not as if they coud ever defend themselves anyw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 07:36 AM |
| 30 | Blood in the water: a custom made tacticThis is honestly groundbreaking since it proves that it's not in your head, it's a strategically observed and picked strategy abusers use and they pick their theme according to the info you give. People love to say it's your fault for being insecure since that means your perception gets biased but the fact that this strategy works put all of those bullshit excuses in the grave for good. Thanks so much for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Finally met my HVM 🥰I got the joke first sentence because of your triple smiley and i have to say bravo, i haven't seen such a masterful bully post for the sloppy members until now. 10/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | From me, to all you ladiesI love all of you, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 30 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 16 - Walk Dates are For Dogs - (feat. Viral Tik Tok Star @Kokobeaute)That's horrible, i hope you're doing good. Sending virtual hugs your way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:19 PM |
| 41 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 16 - Walk Dates are For Dogs - (feat. Viral Tik Tok Star @Kokobeaute)The entire time during this episode, i kept thinking; it's totally ok to say women are sluts because they're the biological gatekeepers and so they should be more skeptical about who they sleep with, while men are biologically designed to try to fuck as many women as possible jada jada. It is not ok, however, for the gatekeepers to actually gatekeep through asserting standards. These opinions belong to the very same people. Men assign women only the worst of both worlds: reminding them to keep h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Beware of Male PostersJust love love love how they realize nothing we ever post is wrong, uneccessary mean or against the rules so they try to infiltrate and post themselves in hopes that their lies about us becomes truth. Not to mention how insulting it is that these men think women's greatest concern is men's looks. Bro, that's men's primary concern towards women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:02 AM |
| 63 | The emotional labor of being hurtExcept the fact that IT IS HIS RESPONSIBILITY Tell'em to fuck right off the second they don't fulfill their duties, that's what most men do to women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Much love to FDS, always ❤️Yeah i get what you're saying 100%. I sure hope all women will come to realize not all male validation is good validation - that is the pattern we see atm that ruin men more for each day! Brighter days are probably awaiting us for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.I'm so grateful for how strict you are on here. Every time i comment on another sub, i'm reminded of how much monkey throwing poo vibes there is outside of FDS. I recently saw a post by a woman i thought had to be fake, about her being the forever gf of a guy that hadn't initiated sex the last 5 years of their 6 year long relationship, she had ditched her antidepressants to be more aroused to get rid of their dead bedroom situation, and yet all he did was get viagra and sometimes consent to sex.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | How to get over fear of men?Men are simple. People actually in general are quite simple but due to insane amounts of peivilege over women and also due to their distracting hormonal nature (men more often experience disturbing rushes of dopamine and foggy arousal to the point where they feel momentarily braindead), they are a lot easier to predict than women. If you observe men and take note on the patterns, you will feel a lot more in control. If you trust your gut, you will feel a lot more in control. Abusive men all foll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Don’t Date Insecure Men! I LIVE For This Goddess’ Channel.Speaking as a woman trying to catch myself in self sabotaging habits and actions that grew from insecurity; this is so spot on. I can't imagine an insecure man not taking an opportunity to try to ruin his relationship because it's just too automatic. It will happen unless he stops being insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Much love to FDS, always ❤️I think you're somewhat right but then again we have all those nude subreddits where pickmeishas model for cringy comments and dm spam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Refinery29 Article: I Earn Much Less Than My Partner, But We Split Costs Evenly. How Do I Stop Resenting Him?He says he wants to feel like we're a team 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Happy to be here !Great points - also the point about "waiting for shame language": i can feel it all over my body when someone does this. It makes me anxious, even angry sometimes, and i feel like i'm under an investigation when this happens because that's really what it is. This makes me say incoherent shit and may get me to leave alltogether because the fear of hurting the person isn't worth staying. It's hurtful for everyone - especially one's own judgement! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Happy to be here !I simply follow my gut. Great stuff and requires no thought process regarding judgement whatsoever in the moment, then you can go home and think about the details after the date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.hence size doesn't matter imo, as long as it isn't micro because knowing myself I do like PIV and prefer real dick over dildos. So size does matter to some people and that's totally fine, too, everyone's very different. It's not even as simple as "size doesn't matter", it's more like "what matters is entirely subjective" and the spectrum of possible features that matters is very wide. It's hard to explain for me, sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 05:50 AM |
| 62 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.Thing is, there's many factors to sex and people keep pretending it's all black and white. Smaller dick or bigger dick has no correlation what so ever with a person's interest and motivation to be a good sex partner. I've had sex with what can be unpleasantly big ones but since they were attached to generous lovers it was amazing, meanwhile people keep saying "oh if he's big he just won't do anything cause he thinks that's it" or "if he's small he will make up for it" I think all sizes can be am… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.The absolute clownery when they say size doesn't matter but also that they dislike big dicks. Same energy as when women bodyshame slim women after saying all sizes are valid. How do they get away with this bullshit. The only reason i can think of is that only small dick men ever read those posts and that's also why they downvote the honest ones. The men who don't relate aren't there. They're super self-indulgent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:51 PM |
| 33 | Men who say "What do you want me to do, say no?" when they take sexual advantage of women need to be stopped.What gets me is when women say "poor me" it's literally a story about rape and when men say "poor me" it's like... They literally handed all the responsibility and thought process over to the woman and if you call him out on it like "what about NOt fucking people you don't like and/or using a condom?" and the response is always "men can't think for themselves you know that's just how we men are, women should do xyz-" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:19 AM |
| 24 | Men who say "What do you want me to do, say no?" when they take sexual advantage of women need to be stopped.The things i remember the most about men i love is whenever they say "no" to stuff that LVM claim "no man could ever turn down". I simply don't date men who don't say "no" when it's appropriate to do so, period. It's not hard, and if he wanted to he would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:15 AM |
| 10 | Celibacy > LVMs, by farThe only way for me to not think about this fact with anxiety and fear about what men will do about this, is by putting that god damn soundtrack in the background of it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Reminder for my Queens ❤❤Laughing with abandin = caring 0 about staying for the sake of others, the way i read it. A woman who doesn't do what men expect of her, basically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:33 AM |
| 3 | The HypocrisyYes sorry i meant more to point out just how insane homophobia is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | The HypocrisyWouldn't be the same since no group of women has ever gotten a reputation of raping and killing men they catcall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:39 AM |
| 0 | The HypocrisySo if things were fair, women would be rounding up and exterminating men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Mommy Fwiend - Penelope ScottPREACH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:33 AM |
| 9 | Patreon podcast: Roasting Cosmo's Advice on Emotional LaborPretty much any advice saying the woman should do more emotional labour is bullshit, full stop. The part about the pickmeisha whisperer gave me sore muscles from laughing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:25 AM |
| 5 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️What if he glows up post breakup? I even joked to my ex about me probably being toxic and having to leave him before i do lasting harm and he actually did glow up - but is this because men fail to pay effort until they see real consequences? I'm prettt sure it's just that but i'm curious about other perspectives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️Cortisol levels is no joke and i realized most women's frequent problems is caused by it. Women literally gain acne, weight, digestive problems, lose sleep and then lose their healthy looks because of men in their life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 07:42 AM |
| 11 | “Porn is healthy.”There is good sex to be found out there, and i think FDS is a good tool for doing so! I've probably been lucky but i've also treated men with suspicion all my life and my experience has been only partners who value and prioritize me in bed, even my first boyfriend who i later lost to porn addiction. The most important parts i think was to hang around at least a few months before engaging in intimacy, and having them only pleasure you the first few times before they get any reciprocation. Nothing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 07:33 AM |
| 6 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sTrøst! Norwegian. I think the best translation is comfort/comforting, but i love that we have a word independent from "komfort/comfort" just for the situation of being hurt and being supported | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:14 AM |
| 12 | Don't teach girls how to speak, dress or act. Teach boys some basic human decency.Gail Dines quoted her son saying something along the lines of "if my body was to partake in a hurtful action towards a woman, i wouldn't be able to live in it anymore", and that's what our moral system is: what you think is wrong, you would not be able to do and still live with yourself. Majority of men don't think rape is wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:13 PM |
| 62 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sSo sorry, the deal with relationships is that "aftercare" should be provided any time you want as "affection" rather than post pain maintenance. It's expected and you should never settle for less! My partner recently told me i am worthy of emotional support (we have a word for this for when you're speficially sad and someone makes it better, dunno how to translate it) no matter what the reason to my low mood is and it felt like such a big realization to me. We are deserving of love. Also it shou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 30 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sYou just wrote a full on rap lyrics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Got a 🍤🤏 pic once due to my activity here, but today I woke up to my first hate-spewing PM.I love that, it's like saying "go to therapy" before block + delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:53 AM |
| 25 | Much love to FDS, always ❤️Just realized how women will spend all their energy defending the men who hate FDS without ever having read here. Scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:48 AM |
| 12 | dating strategies are different for men vs womenA guy told me womens tinder matches was a direct proof of their privilege. I told him it would be a privilege IF IT BENEFIT WOMEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:14 AM |
| 20 | dating strategies are different for men vs womenThey always tell me it's the same for them so they think we're just hysterical and paranoid. Yes, everyone has a chance of being robbed. But how the fuck do we get them to understand how that one guy who asked to give them a blowjob that obe time is not at all the same as those 150 men who catcalled you, asked you out while threathening you, tried to enter your car, punched you, tried to undress you, maybe even did assault you, just these past 5 years? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:04 AM |
| 9 | Why do other women get so angry at us? Because patriarchy is a religion, and we are heretics.Thanks so much for this. I haven't been able to put this into words but this is what i've been dying to explain every time "not like the other girls" memes arise. I was never like the other girls, just like how so many girls felt as well, because guess what - all girls were constantly policing and/or being policed by each other. It's hard to feel like you belong amongst the very people who constantly tough-love you from what is assumed to be a superior standpoint. Under patriarchy, women and gir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:44 AM |
| 24 | Got a 🍤🤏 pic once due to my activity here, but today I woke up to my first hate-spewing PM.Remember to never respond to them, it'd make their day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:26 AM |
| 17 | Stop using the excuse that 'boys mature slower than girls' for bad behaviourThis is the first ingredient to making abusers and people fail to realize how serious it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:03 AM |
| 5 | Why do you think some women are attracted to felons? I know they are pickmes, but I want to understand... why.This makes sense! It also resonates with me since i've never really liked abuse (sounds weird but like you say, we're taught to for example want the relationships we see in disney which is often just abuse plain and simple) and i've always been idealizing whatever i thought was vanilla instead because that really is the only other option. Vanilla in the sense i imagined as younger wasn't even particularily more healthy than the abusive variant either because they're both exeggerated af. Luckily … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:09 PM |
| 11 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itSide-note as a fun fact: the result is the women left in china being able to demand everything in the world to agree to marry now. Men are expected to have at least one apartment in the city, a degree, a certain income, a car and a certain height etc or they can't marry, basically. That was surprising and refreshing for me to hear about at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:23 AM |
| 13 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itWhen "women hate men", they arrange movements such as anti-porn ones that benefit men greatly and men actually comment on how it saves their quality of life, it gives men more sex since we remove shame from sex, it gives men more room to vent because it opens for emotional space etc. When men hate women they enslave, torture and kill them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:19 AM |
| 8 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itI get why they hide themselves behind sunglasses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:18 AM |
| 4 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itOk but when are they gonna leave us alone? They say "steer away" and we have nothing against that. Problem is THEY DON'T. Women would probably promote misogyny if it actually meant being left alone purely romantically, by men who hate women. BUT THEY NEVER DO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 3 | On porn and sex workLmao they literally say they're feminist to argue for porn and 50/50 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:08 AM |
| 14 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Eilish is the last woman i would imagine to be a pickme but here we are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:39 PM |
| 22 | To my NVX's ex - I am so sorry. I was a raging pickme, and you were a Queen all along.Even if she doesn't read this, a lot of women on here in a similar situation will read it. And it means the world to us all. Queens unite! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 15 | This is one reason female only spaces are important. There will always be men who get off on women’s traumaThey say noone gives a shit about male rape victims but what the fuck is this? Is being jerked off to and harassed better? God damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 22 | Sobering read on the impact of COVID on women - most domestic violence was (surprise surprise) at the hand of intimate partners - Another reminder for why IF you choose a male partner, you must choose wisely to protect yourselfAnd this is why women don't dominate in society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:54 PM |
| 3 | HA! StinkyI only ever smell my vagina because air from between my legs will travel up through my clothes and hit my nose perfectly from that angle. If someone put their nose by the opening of my tshirt, under my chin, and i sat down while they kept their nose exactly there the whole time - they would also be able to smell it. But it's so faint, it's impossible to smell it from a normal bodily distance unless your underwear is so drenched you just smell like, well, dirt? And that would smell like sweat and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:50 PM |
| 12 | So true. 😍 👑Oh my god 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | He called me a princessThis. It's s god damn coffee date. Just about anyone can fill in a coffee date in the middle of work by taking an hour long lunch break and making up for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:10 PM |
| 45 | yeah, accurate. All I need is a coven.I feel like so many of the stories we wer told as kids were like a bittersweet prank. It's probably unintended, but when we grow up we understand "the villain" was right all along. Their quotes are so on point. Usula saying Ariel's voice isn't gonna do her any favors anyways if all she wants is the attention of men/a man. Cruella de Vil asking why in the hell a woman choose to throw away her career for a man. They want it to seem like they're just jealous, but we quickly realize there's nothing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, I’m a failureWe're not failures for being hurt by losing someone we love. We're just not psychopaths, truthfully. Why do you think men so often let us do the hard work of breaking up? It's exhausting. It's hard. And it's even worse for women since they typically actually see their partner as a beloved one and not just a convenient sex doll they keep around even though they dislike them. Sending you all the strength, please have your back on this one. You're under so much pressure and you just being alive day… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 23 | Since our amazing Queens had Gail Dines invited on the podcast, here's a CHILLING video edit of one of her lectures about porn grooming in today's cultureI thought it was a joke and now that i understand it isn't, i've given up on her temporarily. Maybe she gets back some day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:13 PM |
| 16 | The nerdboy syndrome is just as toxic as the f*ckboyBeing a nerd with symptoms of female ADHD makes me the perfect "assumed viewer" of BBT but i felt weird, just like when i watched other idiot shows like beverly hills or friends or whatever, and i thought the characters acted way too similar to school-bullies considering they are supposed to be literal autists. Even worse is when they would have a line that actually did fit the academia nerdy stereotype, i would feel like "yeah that makes sense, that's super interesting" and they would immediate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:10 PM |
| 6 | It’s quiet ain’t no talk backI feel like when women make these kind of answers directed at men, they intend to also answer women in a giving way. Even if not intended, that's what happens in effect. Of course men aren't listening, we know this. We're the ones reposting this and bathing in the energy. Answer ALL these useless questions for all women to see and understand their worth and their sisters' determination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 5 | It’s quiet ain’t no talk backIt always gets me how the people with the least privilege turns out to completely slam dunk other groups of people in terms of hard work and success once they get a crumb of opportunity. It says a lot about how hard some people work under lethal pressure all the time wjile being gaslit. Suddenly you make an application or an exam anonymous, or you allow all kinds of people to enter a specific role, and wouldn't you know - women, and black women in particular apparently, starts dominating. This i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 13 | When the mask comes offI wish it was possible to simply step into each other's shoes for a month. He has to go down on her 4/5 of the times they get frisky without getting his dick touched (to make him understand what not expecting reciprocating means), alongside with them both switching all tasks. I bet you my LIFE in at least 99/100 cases, men would be regretting ever insulting their SAHMs after this trial. Edit: yeah also giving birth cannot really be simulated so while she's working on that, at least for 6 months … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:57 PM |
| 61 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineI'm also curious BUT Gail said she got an email, didn't know who they were, and choose to accept the request | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 72 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineI just recently made a joke to my roomies about how free speech is not free for some people, like if you disagree in any way - but particularily it's not free for feminists. I only ever see bans on pro-feminist opinions and this episode explains exactly why. You do not understand what's happening unless you see the economical ties to porn and in turn their ties to the people - after all, it really is economy moving the heads of everything else. The part about the women raising up and saying "i'm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 5 | How assault is unfair between the sexes (TW: mentions of sexual assault)Last sentence needs to be tattooed into everyone's brains honestly. They make women sound like absolute sociopaths the way they try to paint the picture "what if she just regrets having sex even tho she loved it just to put him in jail for the fun of it?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:42 AM |
| 4 | How assault is unfair between the sexes (TW: mentions of sexual assault)Yeah generally speaking, also according to professional therapists, male survivors of abuse and assault will have a better understanding and therefore more empathy towards female survivors of abuse and assault which only makes sense. The irony here is the men who claim to treat women badly as a result of being treated badly earlier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:40 AM |
| 140 | I have no wordsYeah i almost forgot. He knows. He just wants her to sacrifice her entire body for his peepee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:00 PM |
| 15 | I have no wordsDo we have any stories of these women bleeding on his things? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 50 | Remember, abuse starts slowly and grows.Well done on leaving! A HVM will go so far as to stop YOU in your tracks when you insult yourself. Never settle, never forgive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:51 PM |
| 57 | Remember, abuse starts slowly and grows.I loved that example. He specifically described a theoretical date where the guy screams at you, throws a glass into the wall so that it crushes, and you saying "i'm gonna marry this guy" or something along those lines. Cracked me up and got the point across | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 36 | Remember, abuse starts slowly and grows.It's so easy to justify just about anything, especially when nwe're trained to justify abuse towards ourselves. FDS being as strict as it is really helps women see cruelty for what it is, rather than coincidental mistakes done by unknowing men, which is a grand step in the right direction for many | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:48 PM |
| 28 | Women protect women from harm. Men protect other men's ability to lie, cheat, and knowingly harm womenSounds like they gang-raped a woman and changed the story into one of those youtube videos where paid actresses pretend to go down on guys for losing a magic trick on the street or whatever. Never have i ever heard a woman's perspective on a cold approach street situation that worked, it's a good reason they were several men approaching at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | On being pedanticDo you (or anyone else) have any bullet proof responses for when men do this, by the way? I have a very bad habit of sounding 3x as aggressive than i mean to because of unlucky choice of wording so something that's not "google it" or "if you have to ask, you should consider doing your overdue research" would be greatly appreciated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:16 PM |
| 33 | On being pedanticI tried explaining on a women's fb group how women should be a lot more critical to hookup culture and even left them an article explaining every to and from and they still hit me with the "you just think all men are shit, this is the equivalent of saying women should dress better to prevent rape, i actually love casual sex so speak for yourself" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:58 PM |
| 14 | On being pedanticThanks so much for this. I was beginning to think i was simply going insane or something because men keep asking me to over-explain and defend every single point i make. They can trust me on my word, google the difficult parts themselves or shut up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 12 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")I feel you on the hurt whenever getting banned from this sub, it's happened to me several times and i realize that's just a bi-effect of the truly amazing work the mods here do to make absolutely sure non of the garbage from reddit gets inside here. I took a look at the FDS-parody sub the incels made and the amount of no-brainer comments there reminded me what a complete wasteland it is outside of this sub. Congrats on your new job and thanks so much for having the bravery to tell us! I've been … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:21 AM |
| 78 | Beijing is doing everything to pressure it’s female citizens to have more children, except actually making it materially easier to be a mom. There’s already a gender imbalance and a soon to be crisis in elder care. Chinese Women are telling them to get bent. 😆Uhhh or more like "Ok but dont force me to abort it if it's a girl " Men: never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:27 PM |
| 13 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneI'm so sorry. You can only do what you can to make sure everyone knows he was the one who ended the marriage by disrespecting the vows. You shouldn't be suffering any more consequences what so ever considering he one sidedly broke the marriage. After the divorce, it's also going to be hard. You just lost your entire life, i know how that feels. Everything resets. It's not easy, but at least you will have a chance at a new and better life. Suicide seems real comfy, but it's going to feel like a b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:56 AM |
| 10 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?Not to mention.. when he removes it, she owes him the sum of the pain of both the removal AND insertion procedure seeing as she has to replace it. He would die from that pain alone, seeing as how weak men are in the face of pain. He was causing her pain that would kill him or at least put him out for a month. I seriously hope she left running or "accidentally" dropped a piano on him from 3 floors up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 130 | Chrystul Kizer, sex trafficking victim accused of killing alleged 34 year old abuser when she was 17, wins appealI feel like this entire case is just to spite women and tell them to stay in their place. The fact it's even possible to be this much of a helpless victim and still suffer consequences for choosing their own life over an attacker's is just so hurtful. She should've been given a fortune week 1 and set free | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂I mean treating us like humans does require them to change so i get why they're angry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 10 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂Sis i literally just saw a post there of a woman throwing out the trash and the bag of garbage had the texts "coomers" and "limpies" on it. They're making fun of us by posting shit that sometimes even we would post pretending that not dating porn addicts is rude lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 12 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂Oh my god the only ones falling for it are men as well. The. Rational. Gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:06 PM |
| 10 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.If only she used their energy to record a video of the things she does for herself, huh. Just replace every "him" with "myself" and we're good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 17 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂Can't be banned now. The website is up, we just need to keep on increasing to make sure the website won't die as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:00 PM |
| 22 | Support Corner: We have ALL made mistakes in the past which brought us here! Embrace your errors, forgive yourself, and CELEBRATE the fact that you're changing little by little.My first boyfriend (which lasted about 6 years) told me i was low maintenance and i was pleasantly surprised by it because i saw myself as such a burden even though i obviously carried 90% of the relationship's weight. At the time, i thought craving love and attention was a bad thing and that requesting it would be abusive 🤡 Where the fuck is the sad clown emoji at | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:52 AM |
| 5 | If you’re into spirituality, be careful. Men will think you’re stupid.That's a wonderful and also common perspective! Being toxic is seen as a masculine and cool trait by many men which is probably why they keep saying masculinity is toxic and that by reducing men's actual toxic behavior is misandrist, etc. Good riddance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:55 AM |
| 7 | How To STOP Being Afraid Of RECEIVING🤲This hits hard. Breath was stressed and worked up by the time she was done explaining the first things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:29 PM |
| 18 | If you’re into spirituality, be careful. Men will think you’re stupid.I mean the TEST itself is just a taste of the deal or a commercial if you will, what really helps is reading about the functions, understanding them, and relying on a pattern to understand why some ways of being and doing will lead to, or be influenced by, different factors related to cognitive patterns. One important thing i learned is why i can or cannot relate to certain people, how to better spot those different kinds of people, and better understand them. This has worked wonderful for me be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:54 PM |
| 36 | If you’re into spirituality, be careful. Men will think you’re stupid.Men hate it because it makes women talk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:33 PM |
| 24 | If you’re into spirituality, be careful. Men will think you’re stupid.My god my partner shits on both mbti and astrology and i try to explain how mbti is really useful for understanding the brain anyways but he's too used to making fun of people like you explain; who will love mbti but hate astrology. It's fair in a way since i really do see how most people who swear by mbti aren't all that clever but rather used the shallow stereotypes as proper guidelines for everything. I hate how we can't have nice things lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 188 | She kicked him out of her house mid stroke lol. Don't let them use you as a fleshlight.The way she describes it sounds like the guy she kicked out was actually using her to masturbate, well done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:28 PM |
| 32 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMYeah what i got from the guest is that ESPECIALLY since boys are eager to please others, it's important to show them the ropes constantly. I did notice this myself as a kid and whenever i was beaten up they found all possible kind of excuses for the boy whereof if i did any harm back no matter how small, even yelling, i would be sent home. Luckily my mother didn't take their side; i would probably have been a pickme TODAY if that was the case. We honestly actively teach boys that violence agains… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 2 | I have no wordsImagine if she had made fun of him falling balls first onto a fence and was crying for mom. Yeah. I bet we're imagining the same thing and thinking this guy is a god damn hypocrite. Yeah also - he just cried mom just for being disagreed with. Wouldn't she be able to make all the fun in the world of him now? How will he react? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:39 AM |
| 17 | My new tank just came in! "Know your worth, then add tax"Great slogan! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:55 AM |
| 2 | The FWB Myth: Why Friends With Benefits Only Cause Women PainWritten by a man, in a surprisingly witty way, easy to read - yet there's at least one point he's wrong about; he says men don't gather to conspire against us. That's literally what men has been doing since culture started. They gather, they talk shit about women, make up rules as to how to hurt them the most (or they "sugare coat" it by saying it's for the best for women if they are beaten daily, isolated, trapped and enslaved), and it ends up as the very structure of our society. Nowadays amon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 11 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSThank YOU for standing up for us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:36 PM |
| 16 | Controlling Behavior Re: Chores & MoneyThese are all strategies of abuse. The only goal is to make you dependent on him so he can continue to r*pe you (yes, pressuring into sex is really what that is), bully you and even start to physically beat you without facing consequence. It's never getting better, not unless he just wakes up one day and decides to stop being an abuser. You asked for experiences with this, the only thing i can think of is my own family which i get constant flashbacks to when i read "Why does he do that?", a very… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Controlling Behavior Re: Chores & MoneyNot gonna lie, all of your points besides the last one are my pet peeves as well, they make me irritated. This is also how i know that 1) there's never a good reason for abuse and 2) there are fun and healthy ways to go about petty things like these, and if that's not possible, we're welcome to leave. These guys complain like hell but do they ever leave? Congrats so much on your dead weight loss and realization on who's really to blame. In the future, if he wants something done right, he can do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:40 AM |
| 24 | Suble Translation - Find a b*ngmaid who loves you enough to unfold 3x her own baggage on herself with the hidden slice of P*** addiction 🤡💩 LMAO what they gonna do when they can't find?? 🤣 Sis go 🧱🗑️This fucker of an artist really thibk the childhood trauma that could be any vile kind of nightmare is just a 1kg baggage compared to the mountain this guy has of mental trauma and all these symptoms which she of course would never have as a result of said trauma, like stress? Ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:22 AM |
| 26 | Rules of misogyny (taken from “feminist agenda” on Facebook)I wish this wasn't so bone breakingly spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:19 AM |
| 51 | It's only okay when males practice seperatism bit lord forbid FDS is females only (2 slides)It gives off the wrong vibe to me. Sometimes women just want to wnjoy themselves and eaxh other's company, if we call it safe space we only focus on not being in pain or the fact that men are dangerous. It's better for everyone, also the women thinking of entering the space, as just a woman's space. At least for me, i would not enter a safe space becausr i would feel victimized in a way or i would think someone else deserves it more etc. but yes you're right; it is safe spaces when women enjoy s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:15 AM |
| 132 | It's only okay when males practice seperatism bit lord forbid FDS is females only (2 slides)I say we use this as excyses to do separatism actively. Women unlike men need separatism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:01 AM |
| 10 | Disaster Patriatchy: fight back against a system that allows women to be sacrificed, erased and violated.I hate that every time i mention this, people laugh it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 118 | My gf needs space after i convinced her to let me pretend to rape her bc we're sooo kinky but she didnt say "banana" so I didnt stop, why is she upset???🤢🤡Also he says this was her idea lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 08:19 AM |
| 7 | How FDS helped me recover from an abusive relationshipWHich again is why some/most men who ask for anal only to realize she enjoys it will never ask for it again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:47 AM |
| 52 | How FDS helped me recover from an abusive relationshipImagine that; women are UNABLE to talk about their abuse because men are in a grand majority abuser apologists. The only way we could ever talk about this and hear OPs story without it being removed, is to completely ban men from the conversation. Thanks for sharing and good luck on your recovery! We love you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Apparently food can affect one's masculinityI judge people based on what they drink and it's very easy to see when someone drinks beer for the sake of ego rather than taste. Men who are either ignorant to the stereotypes or doesn't care because he's not insecure will drink different kinds of beers or at least have a preference for a kind of beer that isn't necessarily the cheapest or most common beer amongst a certain group. Drinking ONLY beer is possibly a red flag because of what you described. It's so obvious when they desperately comm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 11:07 PM |
| 36 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymNumber one reason this is a good test to do no matter what; men will feel safe and comfortable in this environment and if they are prone to mansplaining, which mostly misogynistic men do, it will certainly happen at the gym. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common argumentsIt's only the same men who demand sex on a date that hates women for demanding her date to pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Basically All of Reddit vs FDS"Luckily" it's so bad now even libfems are fleeing the porn industry now and are warning other women of it. So that's a tiny positive symptom i guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Yeah i was wondering what the difference is between what OP says vs what FDS says about being HV and setting proper standards. There's probably a faulty interpretation from my side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 11 | Basically All of Reddit vs FDSI mean i know this but when you say it like this it just makes it so chillingly obvious how people really do see us as objects with less emotional and cognitive value than dogs Also i saw a video of a womam being peppered with a paintball gun until she was bleeding and asking them to stop and imagine if we had a video of a dog being shot to bleed and then admitting to jerking off to it? Maybe the beastiality is the taboo rather than the abuse. Still horrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:29 AM |
| 22 | Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING.Firstly: bravo! Thanks so much for this. It really fills me with all kinds of joy. I just realized that liberal feminism was just misogyny masked or dressed up as feminism, and the way you put it makes it make sense to me. The first time i started suspecting it was when a friend of me said i sounded like a radical feminist. My immediate taste for that word was a bit bitter and scary so i googled it. I was like "really? THIS is "radical?" Wanting to not be abused?", turns out i've been a radfem t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:17 AM |
| 11 | The guys who get the most mad about "generalizing men" are the ones where the generalization 100% applies to them 😂I know the feeling of being called out by surprise even though it rarely happens. The immediate recation is defense; my thoughts will go "how come those two laugh as if it's common sense/knowledge? Is that bad? They're probably joking, it's not that bad. Maybe i'm like that because of another context or reason-" but my external response will be "why do you think that is?" Rather than "your opinion is useless and hurtful because i relate so you can't be saying that". Why? Because abusive behavior… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 10:02 AM |
| 54 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Clues can be given but yes - never hold a man's hand into improvement. Nothing good ever came out from that. With friends i personally observe how much more they flourish if i support them subtly rather than carrying them, too. Self improvement relies on the self! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Quick input; i actually believe it's good to be like this even with HVM who already has a great life. Especially since men has a reputation of taking things for granted, they need to be reminded of the standards that are set. Let him know he's replaceable and let him be reminded of what's important in life. This doesn't mean we should ever tutor men for free, but we should keep these aspects in mind and value them, and if he'a HV he'll get the clue by himself. I imagine the opposite would be giv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 09:37 AM |
| 30 | An oldie but a goodieWhat gets me is.. We usually do surgery on women when we forcefully steilize/castrate people of certain groups seen unfit to reproduce. It's a fucked up regulation to begin with, but i only ever hear about the women undergoing forced surgery when it's a lot more complicated for them. Why is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:07 AM |
| 16 | "NOT ALL MEN" sure, lolLmao a guy in the comments saying you can aknowledge "not all men" AND the fact that you need to be careful around men. Do they ever shut up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:20 PM |
| 13 | There is no limit to male depravityMy god lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Can we take a sec to acknowledge how fucked up it is that the word "incel" has been turned around on women? The incel movement is responsible for mass violence against women. It would be like calling a Jewish person a Nazi.First off, a woman invented the term. There is incels, and there is malecels. Second; men somehow got confused and stole the term making it into a terrorist term. Naming women femcels means they're female female people who can't find compatible partners and responds by killing women. There exists no such woman. Firstly because a female female doesn't make much sense anf secondly because women don't kill women for being lonely; at least not in numbers that make it label-worthy. Men makes their be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.Anyone else finding it disturbing that he somehow feels better a about a live woman having to endure what can only be processed by her brain as rape, rather than watching the real deal where at least the victim in question cannot be present and experience the degradation? Porn is always degrading, but imagining having to pretend to be dead while shooting it... It makes me so deeply sad. And imagining watching it without breaking mentally? This guy admits to having already burnt all his empatheth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 32 | In the late 1970s, orchestras were composed of 5% females. By 2000, it had increased to 30%.. all because of blind auditions. When you don't see gender + are forced to make a decision on skill alone, there is very little bias.When women don't win in something, we make the system more fair. When men don't win in something, we directly increase the standard for women and decrease the standard for men like how we see in certain school systems rn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 12 | Vetting for rapistsNow that you mention it; i've always had my partners pleasure me with their hands and not returned the favor before engaging in something more and it probably was a great way of both vetting and getting comfortable with them. I don't feel like i can trust someone enough to have intercourse with them before starting small like that. Do recommend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Even scrotes' top 3 arguments on why they're oppressed is proven wrong again and againThis sounds harsh but my immediate thought is always "why the fuck does he feel entitled to anything? He can meet his children when they're 18, this is the price he should pay for not doing any of the pregnancy" but alas equality really means men have just as much power over the children even though he paid a fraction or nothing to get them into this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:36 PM |
| 64 | I loved what Tracer Ellis Ross had to say about settling downThis particular scam is so insane. I always hated every baby doll given to me by family on my birthdays and on christmas, i honestly can think of only 1 present i got before the age of 6 that i actually liked, and i wouldn't be nice about this either. My brother would get a nintento. I would get a realistic doll. I would cry and throw it away and bite its ugly face and my grand-parents still got me baby dolls. Then, probably because of the constant suggestive comments from family, i had a burnin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Why You Must Vet Men Carefully & ContinuouslyYeah you've got a good eye! Currently working on calming down the advocate when talking about my emotions with the people in my life. I find myself joking even when demanding love and attention which is probably toxic. Heads up for all NTs to work on their emotional perception! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond when men ask questions or make comments about your intelligence?I usually joke about it. But i take it as a "free for all" que that now that he's gone there, i can joke about anything i want. I'll find his deepest insequrity one way or another. Soon enough i'll figure out if he's insecure and negging me, or if he's just a very rude humorist. For people who don't appreciate humor that mean in their everyday life (i understand you well) i'd suggest just walking away/block&delete. Usual scenario; he gets hurt, tries to blame me for his own emotions, i make fun … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 19 | Even scrotes' top 3 arguments on why they're oppressed is proven wrong again and againI struggle to find the logic. He could've literally removed all child privileges from your ex and made him pay half his salary in support and said the same thing to him: that he should have kept his legs closed. Yet... why not just admit to hating women and that point. Also so sorry to hear, i hate the justice system as is and i hope it gets the revolution it needs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:23 PM |
| 24 | Even scrotes' top 3 arguments on why they're oppressed is proven wrong again and againAh but women have it so easy in court! 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:20 PM |
| 14 | Even scrotes' top 3 arguments on why they're oppressed is proven wrong again and againIt's also my weak spot because of the hypocrisy in hating facts while calling other people stupid AND constantly stating false facts as if they had researched the topic and knew it well. I feel like a flat-earther amongst just all around normal people because of this phenomena. "Actually, women have it harder in this and that area according to every possible source of info and statistics i can find" "well where did you find it? Google? You know on google it also says aliens are real so shut the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | My dad is an anti-feminist"Well people are never going to be happy then" Damn right, we're coming for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Why You Must Vet Men Carefully & ContinuouslyNot proud about it but i'm a natural devil's advocate, as in, i will automatically find a perspective and a response that questions EVEN MY OWN thoughts, and therefore also other people's point of views, when in direct dialogue because it happens ubconsciously and fast. The pro side of this is; it's hard to align yourself with me if you try. He says he's pro-choice? "What about if it's like 2 months before due date?" He's anti porn? "What? You never even tried?" He's liberal? "Is tax fair?" Ques… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:06 PM |
| 22 | Selena Quintanilla is a queen way ahead of her time. I love the message she says. Women supporting women"When you're hurting, i'm hurting" Everyone says i should shut my eyes and ears because my hurting sisters are "only in china/afghanistan/Saudi arabia/india/the whole rest of the world". Firstly, they say that in all countries, so it's not even true. And - when it is true, for example how genital mutilation is not legal for my country, I STILL HURT. It doesn't help all that much to know women are being tortured somewhere else x amount of miles away from me. When you hurt, i hurt. Also the irony … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 10:30 PM |
| 15 | Post title says this queen asked for a proper date, but his description then labels the request as a demand. Why is this man outing himself as low effort?"I invited someone to a date without intent of paying because i'm a feminist" The shame and guilt i as a WOMAN would feel for not paying for a date I myself initiated. That's not even a gender role - a gender role is paying for her even if she asks you out for a date, which is even fair because of the gender differences still. I once asked an interesting woman from class at the university to join me for a coffee and if i had asked her to pay for herself, what the fuck would that even be? How do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 74 | Abortion and MenThis makes so much sense as to how scrotes will make everything about themselves - even abortion, pregnancy and periods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 130 | "bUt imAgINe bEiNg KiCKeD in tHe BallS" they saidKEEP IT ON | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 28 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 12 - How FDS Can Help Autistic Queens Navigate RelationshipsThe way the women in this podcast talks fills me with so much love. Then sometimes, they'll say they've gotten bad feedback on the way they communicate for being too (insert literally any positive but socially seen as masculine trait here), and it makes me scream inside. I can only imagine the energy women everywhere would have if only scrotes weren't giving their useless input on their being. I seriously fall in love with everyone on this podcast, i feel undeserving of all of this great content… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 37 | Even scrotes' top 3 arguments on why they're oppressed is proven wrong again and againThis is from that book as well! It's amazing how much info Lundy manages to push into one book alone. It's what an actual red pill would be like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 35 | I love her so much!!!!This made my day, thank you so much. I will probably have the image in my head until i die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 29 | I love her so much!!!!The BEST part of this is; he was only doing it to be "nice", in his head, quaranteed. Well, the intention doesn't matter - if he did this to another man, there would be at least a 50/50 chance the man would punch him. This is why they rarely do random "nicely intended" harassing actions towards men. When women start reacting like this, also to actions that women unfortunately KNOW are "probably meant in a nice way", it creates the reputation that if you disrespect a woman, even if the intention … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 41 | Keep Slaying"Why do you think women so rarely win in anything compared to men!? Women are DUMB" The hosts of any god damn contest ever: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Unpaid Labor Mega ThreadCorrect. In the same way, we see women dying and hurting themselves in their war against their enslavers right now, like they've done for many hudreds of years, but especially today now that there's more humane work to be found. Women are fighting and losing their lives to be able to do real labour rather than being enslaved, hence also why we see so many women partaking in higher education compared to men whenever possible. Women also choose wage-slaving over marriage-slaving because there's us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Unpaid Labor Mega ThreadIf your job only barely provides for a place to sleep and eat, it is indeed slavery. Being forced to work to survive is not being paid; it is being essentially provided for in the same way slaves were. Many slaves had better conditions than some of the jobs we have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The loneliness of leveling up.I did my cleanup when i was around 15 years old and i was absolutely heartbroken. I had noone to share it with either and it was terribly painful for me since i also lack family. I was depressed and angry and used all my emotions to create art and study all day, and it probably made me level up in several areas as a person compared to how the comfortable way would do, with friends and a social life. It's like a breakup. And it's hard. You're gonna be angry, you should be angry if anything, and y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 8 | “Women nowadays base majority of their feminism on their desire to be like men”Last sentence is chef's kiss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | What is femininity?I think we entirely misunderstand each other, or at least you misunderstand me. Sorry if i'm unclear but i won't even try to figure where we lost each other | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | What is femininity?It isn't hard to find a niche you like and work within that or be as experimental as you like. It is. It's not hard for me to draw a pop-art portrait of you, either - it will take me approx 10 minutes to sketch it up and up to 30 minutes to finish it with nice details. This is hard or sometimes impossible for other people to do if they don't have any interests in drawing or art at all, which is why we don't pressure or force every human into doing it since it makes no sense to force hobbies onto… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | 'Russian Woman' Eurovision Entry offends men to the point where they want to ban the songSaying that the average woman's experience is misandrist is actually SO close to getting the point. If you feel like the woman's average life paints men as bad, then perhaps... There's a pattern of men influencing women in a negative way? If only they let down their ego for one sec they'd be like "ooooooh so that's why women want women-only spaces and the right to live away from men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 6 | What is femininity?Simple answer as to why these are toxic feminine traits: it all revolves around looking beautiful in regards to whatever the current fashion trend is. It's an extreme hobby some people can find interest in, but it should not be something half the population is pressured into | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 11:52 AM |
| 10 | What is femininity?I could never be feminine because that means being quiet, agreeable, considerate without condition, small (in every sense), wearing make-up, shaved, having long hair, and wearing small shoes and thin clothing. Just having short hair and being loud means i'm already considered a lesbian. Being rude, unagreeable, assertive and humorous means i'm practically a man. There's some disturbing deal with this. The second you feel like an actual person rather than a servant, you're a man. But, it is possi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Unpaid Labor Mega ThreadDid you consider the fact that women tend to be less happy about marriage than men when making that assumption? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Unpaid Labor Mega ThreadOften, they are. Either she dies on the streets or she marries. Choosing between death or marriage is the same as being held at gunpoint. And it doesn't make slavery any less bad just because we fool or pressure people into entering it, if we're not forcing them. It's still a violation of human rights. It would be ok if she's fully educated on the choice and is free to leave the agreement at any time without suffering consequence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 7 | Unpaid Labor Mega ThreadCoercion is not consent, and most wives can for several reasons not leave. Especially when they have no work and has children to care for. So no, the problem with wifely slavery is also that it's impossible to leave which is why slavery isn't a good thing. A solution could be to either pay them for their work so that they have the finances to leave if they want, or let her take on a job so accuire the same there while chores at home is done by everyone in said home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Irritating Difference in Treatment of Female Anger v Male AngerPlease read "Anger becomes her" It is such a good book and you're writing exactly the essence of it. Thanks so much for this post, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Unpaid Labor Mega ThreadThat's the definition of slavery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 01:55 AM |
| 51 | 'Russian Woman' Eurovision Entry offends men to the point where they want to ban the song"not consenting to me beating you to death is abusive and oppressive to me!!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 27 | 'Russian Woman' Eurovision Entry offends men to the point where they want to ban the songJesus how long was she forced to stay outside? Men It's time men find their rightful place: in jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 18 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail""You're promoting abusive relationships towards men" I'm shaking from confused contained laughter. Not only is this parody-like, it's also the purest form of turning things upside down or inverting it, like explained in "why does he do that?", the book about abusers and their techniques. At this point i wonder if they're subconsciously bullying themselves by digging themselves under layers of irony and outputting it like sarcasm that they consciously believe to be serious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 14 | No quarter for coomersJust recently i was surprised that my partner would get a boner from cuddling but then i was like "that's how i feel, too, though". I had gotten so used to my ex of 6 years who i think had a porn addiction problem, who would struggle to get and maintain arousal let alone boners, that natural boners are now seeming like a surprise to me rather than something i'd expect. Getting boners rarely might be a red flag about porn use? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:19 PM |
| 167 | 'Russian Woman' Eurovision Entry offends men to the point where they want to ban the song"It's illegal to mention that you're being domestically abused!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:22 PM |
| 193 | The men in the audience were not ready for this absolute savageryI saw like 2 men laughing, one man looking for the reaction of the other men cause he was unsure whether to take offence, and the rest were MOLDING It's so telling that 100% of the women will scream and applaud and still there's men pouting. That's just the proof of men lacking self-awareness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 35 | Libfem sexual culture is a curseWhen people mock anything "vanilla" i kindly remind them vanilla is undoubtedly the best spice there is, and i'm not willing to discuss it. So long as we use "vanilla" to describe anything, that anything should be pretty damn good. If you want to insult missionary, you better put it under some other label like banana or something. Bragging about hardcore violent sex is like bragging about drinking over-brewed turkish espresso just for the sake of seeing stars after getting punched in the face by… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Womankind has come a long way from the days of us having no rights at all... We still have a long way to go, but I'm proud of the world-wide empowering sisterhood that more of us are waking up to, by the day!! 🥳I didn't realize i was being abused before several men in my life would have a meltdown when i said "fine, if i bother you so much i'll remove myself from the equation". It would be specifically relatives who would cry and scream and threathen suicide when moments earlier they were claiming they were so god damn tired of "helping" my useless ass. Way to blow their cover | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do men LIE like this? REALLY? You've NEVER heard of any sex based slurs for women? "Scrotes" is BY FAR THE WORST? This is why I cannot take Redditor critics of FDS seriously.Calling us vags would be better than the current names we have; pussies, cunts, roasties | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 59 | Libfem sexual culture is a curseTHIS IS SO HARD TO MAKE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND! And you put it so well. I feel conflicted about Hijabs because of this. I feel bad and nervous whenever i see hijabs because i can't know if they were forced on or not, even subconsciously. They look great, they make some women look empowered because they wear it with so much pride, but to me it's not a feminist choice to wear one until every or most women in the area they live in is not at all pressured into wearing it. But saying this immediately labe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:48 AM |
| 16 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterThis doesn't surprise me, makes perfect sense.. Unfortunately. Thanks for putting in the effort to share your insight! Everyone should know this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Scrotes briefly got this video removed for “adult nudity and sexual activity” but it showed up on my FYP anyways. We should all approach OLD profiles with this attitude, it’s hilariousES being butt pics makes me so happy, it's like all the stereoypes are just truth lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 6 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021The only reason for his big following is the part of him you nicely described as a mumbling teenager. Stupid people understand him and thinks it makes them smart - which is why you notice so many horrible fans of his. It's sad that this is a thing but remember how men would unironically brag about "understanding" rick and morty? This is why we need to be merciless lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 66 | FDS Mods checking out our subscriber growth every time the RedditCels mass upvote a rage post about how horrible we areMen: Roasties ruin their mental and physical health by having consensual sex with men. Personally i find it hilarious that they keep having sex when they can't even orgasm LMAO it's all a myth they made alongside the lie about menstruation so they can get more vacation days in a year and skip gym since all women are lazy af. Women truly are the scum of the earth Women: Men have big pockets to fit all their audacity Men: OMG HOW CAN THEY KEEP SAYING THIS SHIT?! I SWEAR I'M GONNA OFF MYSELF LIKE A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:55 AM |
| 46 | FDS Mods checking out our subscriber growth every time the RedditCels mass upvote a rage post about how horrible we areMakes me want to plan my next post specifically to ruffle some scrotes. Maybe i'll just post another quote from the "why does he do that?" book | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Numbers risingI'm still male on literally any possible online space until i either have to, or gain something by, admitting to being a woman. The over-all treatment i get as a woman is hard to describe to pickmes and men who choose to stay ignorant on the subject, but it reaches my core emotions FAST. It's like being constantly insulted without even knowing HOW. The tiktok'er someone posted here, Ameliasamson, made a joke about men giving you back-handed compliments. All of those is compliments i regularily g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 7 | Numbers risingSomeone PLEASE TELL ME WHY THESE SUBREDDITS ARE NOT BANNED? They're at this point just brigade-subs. Not that i hate it because look at us now. But HOW AND WHY? AND HOW? AND WHY? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:42 AM |
| 23 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterPart of the reason might be that men tend to snore more often as well. It's like the sexes and genders were constructed specifically to make women suffer as much as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:40 AM |
| 22 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021Stoicism works for women because their purpose for life isn't to abuse, generally. When men read stoicism it could very likely be because he understood it could be used as an excuse to be self absorbed and abusive, in a way. The good men who read stoicism likely has a varied mix of philosophy which is good. The bad men will have stoicism 1, 2, 3 and follows some incel guru or something. It's found in their intentions to read certain media. I'm reading the Epicteus book right now but my bookshelf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:11 AM |
| 23 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021He says so many things that makes sense yet pretends like social hierarchy doesn't exist. He thinks women's inequality is a big fat lie told by womem because they just can't handle life like men or because they've been spoiled or something. He makes sense - but then his super ignorant view on privilege, because he has them all and would like to not lose them, will shine like a light through all his points. He legit says schoolshooters is a proof that men are suffering. Where the fuck are the bla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Scrotes briefly got this video removed for “adult nudity and sexual activity” but it showed up on my FYP anyways. We should all approach OLD profiles with this attitude, it’s hilariousSo true. And the pickmeisha-percentage ??? How is it so high!? I'm wasting time trying to push their buttons sometimes writing snarky posts in NT groups but they're just loving the pickme life so much nothing bothers them. Imply men are trash? "So? One man's trash is another man's treasure" imply they are misogynistic? "That's ridiculous. We all know women are dumber by nature, it's not hatred to aknowledge that. It'd be misogynistic not to" I swear the only reason all these toxic people are fou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:44 AM |
| 8 | Scrotes briefly got this video removed for “adult nudity and sexual activity” but it showed up on my FYP anyways. We should all approach OLD profiles with this attitude, it’s hilariousMakes sense. "Women get so mad when i say mysogynistic shit. It's because we NTs can't relate to feefees" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 8 | ~Anyone anywhere bringing up women's issues~ Men and pickmes: bUt WhAt aBoUt MeN? wHaT aBoUt MuH pEnIs?The male equivalent of female genital mutilation would effevtively be cutting off the entire dick. Imagine the rage if women talked about the mains of for example expensive tampons or something on a case regarding forced teenage dick amputations sometimes leading to death and always leading to a horrible painful life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Scrotes briefly got this video removed for “adult nudity and sexual activity” but it showed up on my FYP anyways. We should all approach OLD profiles with this attitude, it’s hilariousCan relate, which makes any self labeling sketchy for many seeing as they would rather be someone else. When taking the test i will get INTJ because of wishful thinking (??? Even though intjs tend to be obnoxious af the test paints them as gods) and probably a bloated ego when in the zone. In reality any psychology-interested person would rightfully type me as entp. I was a lot more gleeful when i first thought i was intj, that is before i read about all the functions in depth and fell into the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Scrotes briefly got this video removed for “adult nudity and sexual activity” but it showed up on my FYP anyways. We should all approach OLD profiles with this attitude, it’s hilariousWhen you mention it like that it makes sense. I'm the most stereotypical ENTP there is and just blatantly introducing yourself as ENTP to people would be like throwing in the punchline of a poor joke before it even started. Then again ENTP is just nerd for "clown" so maybe they're just toxic ENTPS - I'd steer away from any guys proudly stating that they're NT anyways. NT is the "i fucking love the joker" in any type, for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 55 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterPROSTITUTION SHOULD NOT BE A BAND-AID FOR THE FAILURES OF CAPITALISM Also.. "There's almost no homeless women! Men obviously are underprivileged" Yeah women "choose" to get paid for being raped seeing as the counter-option is getting raped without pay, big shock. As if it wasn't obvious: the reason we don't see homeless women as much is because it's super dangerous to be a woman on the street let alone being a woman CONSTANTLY on the streets without anyone reliable to protect them, especially wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | It’s 11:50pm, I’m trying to sleep but can hear my neighbor sobbing and her lvm partner probably gaslighting herOnce i heard sobbing from the stall besides me i actually pushed a small cupcake to their side by the floor and left and i hope they took it the same way as you did to the note, i dunno if it was just disgusting or at least a little heartfelt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Rant about a subreddit :/Every time i see a beautiful woman's selfie and i see the comments clearly filled with "dm?" I immediately feel so bad for her. Yet they continue to post the same kind of pics in those same kind of subs so is even shitty attention good attention? I imagine they have to shut off their inbox | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:48 PM |
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