Because it's nice to know that there are men out there that know our worth, I'll describe my most hilarious date that was positive too.

It was in China, five years ago. I visited the city where Confucius comes from. My guide (an official guide, here as private person) took me to the hairdresser saloon for head massage. The guys were totally cute there; I really wanted to get a date with one and the only one that dared was a pink haired hairdresser, the only one that still could recall some English from school (my Mandarin was shit back then). It was a day where my money ran out and I was only able to get more the next day. It's not like I could pay any bill for myself if it was something different than the street food. I asked my hairdresser out for a coffee date. I mean, as a very young hairdresser in a small town in China, you earn approximately 200 dollar per month. I wanted to ease his expenses up. He took me to the damn upscale Western restaurant. Yes, they selled coffee. 10 dollar per cup. I tried to convince him to run away, but he was firm on buying me this coffee. That was the best coffee of my life. We've spent the rest of the evening driving thought the city on his electronic bike. I like Chinese small towns, especially the few ones that are historical. It was a peaceful, warm evening. After that, he brought me to my hotel and went home. I was in shock. That guy has spent 5% of his salary just to be in my damn presence for few hours! He stayed as a cherished memory of mine.