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| 32 | If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant!He doesn't have to guess what the woman wants, he just has to suggest things, come up with things, there's no rules against being better than her expectations. Like maybe he'll have an idea, and she'll learn she likes that. It's depressing when he never comes up with anything on his own and everything is done begrudgingly after repeated "just tell me what to do" conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:45 AM |
| 8 | If only FDS existed a decade ago…The world I grew up in was so anti-FDS. Drunk hookups at parties were about the only way anyone got together, no one asked anyone on proper dates. And women were hated. Even in high school boys would run around as soon as they got a girlfriend saying "chain and bullet" while they exploited the girl for sex. The girls had to grow up and learn about birth control because it's not the guys who would act responsibly. Yet the girls were always just trying to prove themselves for validation. Boys made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 05:07 AM |
| 32 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?Why does he bring religion into it? My wife would totally be a sexual freak like me if she didn't repress it for religious reasons. Would she though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Why do you keep saying "pursed lips" and white privilege? I was under the impression that FDS was mostly black women actually, at least it's clearly inspired by and born from black women Twitter. For instance the term "pickme" to my knowledge was first used by black women on Twitter, and that's totally central to the early FDS guidebook, not to mention the word "queen" which to my knowledge again was first used that way by black people. Yes FDS goes far into the anti-pickme direction, but that's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:45 AM |
| 12 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I haven't seen King Richard, but it also rubbed me the wrong way that they make a biopic about Venus and Serena Williams and it focuses on their dad and it's called King Richard. What an odd choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:10 AM |
| 21 | Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions?He made them add that line about "making fun of my wife's medical condition". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:53 AM |
| 18 | Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions?Trash imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:19 AM |
| 15 | Major trigger warning. This is what pro kink / pro sex work activists are advocating for. They always rant about women having bodily autonomy & making their own choices, but does it look like the people who engage deeply in kink are mentally healthy? I’m sorry, but this mentality is psychotic.Maybe she just knows guys will like her for saying that stuff so she says it and gets more fans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:46 PM |
| 24 | And she’s right. Does he think he’s the first man to quit his job to avoid paying CS?He was an actor on Grey's Anatomy who was earning $6 million a year and was made to pay $40k a month in child support. He quit Grey's Anatomy to do theater now earning less than $100k a year and he's arguing he can't afford to pay the exorbitant child support anymore. He's also arguing the children don't need it because their lifestyle doesn't cost $40k a month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:40 PM |
| 36 | And she’s right. Does he think he’s the first man to quit his job to avoid paying CS?I don't understand actors who leave Grey's Anatomy. Name one other job with as little responsibility and as much vacation that pays $6 million a year. And it's basically guaranteed once you're a regular that they will always keep you on, no matter how many dead husbands, children and sisters they have to invent. I can't think of a better employer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:34 PM |
| 98 | OnlyFans ... OnlyFakeAlso a reminder to know your worth. There are men giving 700 USD to 1000 USD a day to a woman who will never meet them, never be exclusive to them and even never write them a message herself. But then these same men act entitled when in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 54 | 40 Years a NEET: Reflections of a Stay-At-Home SonHe went wrong when he had a personality issues (grandiose delusions, contempt, concern with how people perceive him, porn use), but these guys manage to get an autism diagnosis and pass it as that. I really question why doctors hand out autism diagnosis like candy to these males who use it to claim a neurological disability with protected status when these same doctors would diagnose women with personality disorders which are not considered a neurological problem but a psychological one. I also … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:36 PM |
| 18 | Very yikes. They actually do think that not being a monster entitles them to everything.What does that even mean? Why does he want to hurt specifically the women he wants to date? And how are women hurting him in the same way that he restraints himself from hurting them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women have far more freedom with their future aspirations than men doNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:25 AM |
| 7 | Women have far more freedom with their future aspirations than men doHave you tried being a woman? Because if you haven't, you don't know what we think about our financial future when making career decisions. It was never taken for granted for me that I would have less financial responsibilities in a relationship. I did better than the guys at school so I took it for granted that I would always date someone who makes less. It might have been different if I was last in the class, then it might have been statistically more likely that I would end up with a man who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 07:06 PM |
| 9 | The line between being taken advantage of and taking responsibility is really blurry with women.You're really obsessed with this one scenario of the girl who dates a dashing high status man and gets her heart broken when he dumps her. You think that's the only scenario that makes women pissed off from dating? What about all the women with 5'6 tall boyfriends with non-existent careers who are a pack of problems due to their addictions to alcohol, drugs, gambling and sending money to girls on the internet? Yes, that's absolutely a thing, you don't even see the tip of the iceberg of this. Why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 06:37 PM |
| 47 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…I think age gap relationships can be fine if the man is rich. But it's a business decision. Most people dream of finding love, not of marrying an older man for money. But some people choose to do that, and maybe it's not a bad idea given the chance. I think my mom's rich colleague got a younger wife and got her pregnant. I think maybe her situation doesn't look bad. She gets to live in the most gorgeous house I've ever seen and she probably gets to buy all the cute baby stuff she wants, even the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 03:19 AM |
| 18 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…Men are pretty confusing to be honest. They'll cheer on a woman saying she enjoys sex with older men even though she's admitting she's with him for his money. It's like everything gets erased before or after "I like sex with older men". No matter what else is going on in her head she'll be heralded a hero. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 03:12 AM |
| 13 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…Doesn't that just prove that women don't like older men, they just love their bank account? It's not a revolutionary idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 03:04 AM |
| 69 | Thoughts as I'm packing my things while he sleeps, drunk after going to bed at 7am (a normal night for him)I'm so surprised that men like this manage to have a good job and house. Just the whole substance use thing - getting drunk, smoking in the house, driving drunk - even one of these things would be a major red flag. But I can see how it must have been confusing that he was able to keep a job and house. It's bizarre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 24 | Tell me you've never actually been in a relationship, without telling me:It's not our fault if they insist on dating women 10 years younger. They could date a woman their age without paying her but then they say they'd rather pay a hot girl than date an ugly woman. At least he could have the awareness to recognize it's a choice he's making. It's pretty well established the relationship between age gap and amount spent, but you could probably make one about looks gap as well if the two people were the same age. There was a guy 12 years older than me who wanted to date… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 54 | Women&Children and Whose Life is ValuedMen are so angry about the Titanic citing it as an example of female privilege. It was an exception because usually men would just save themselves and the women didn't know how to swim. But it's very telling that men imagine traveling as a family and they wouldn't want their wife and children to survive, especially in the 1920s when dad moms weren't a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 01:27 PM |
| 5 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveI'm sorry, but this is pathetic. The guy wasn't even trying to hide the fact that he was seeing other girls. Why would he post a Tik Tok on a date with another girl if he was trying to keep it a secret? This woman is hurt that he dumped her and is trying to get Tik Tok fame out of it. I guess that's a regular day in these influencers' lives. I don't really like the way people highjack words like "informed consent", "violating my body" and "misogyny" to describe a situation like this. Willingly s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 01:07 PM |
| 15 | This is a new low. The bf is a doctor and social media famous and yet she is buying him a house 🤡To be honest she's not doing this out of the goodness of her heart. She's doing it because she hopes to get a doctor husband. It's like the people giving money to Anna Delvey or the women giving money to Simon Leviev. I'd feel more sorry for her if she did this for a hobo guy. With this guy there's a chance it will "pay off", but there's a chance he'll dump her. I guess she's counting on her charms and looks being enough to keep him bewitched. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 3 | My ex tried to follow me after I told him I was moving. Now he’s stuck in the cold mountains and I’m elsewhere 🎉Amazing lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:54 PM |
| 3 | What in the pick-me hell? Ad on Facebook for virtual mental health help.Attention-grabbing ad grabbed attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:11 PM |
| 127 | You won't give your wife the assurance/insurance she needs to know that she will not financially suffer for having a child with you but you will still TaKe CaRe Of YoUr ChILd. The audacity. 🤡Ugly white man goes to China hoping to use his whiteness to get a girlfriend, is shocked to find out girlfriend cares about money. It's interesting to see how they do it. Here you have to have a job to get maternity leave payments, over there they ask for 5 months salary from the husband directly per pregnancy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:03 PM |
| 25 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerI think their point is that there's many pediatricians like her and they aren't married to a billionaire, but that's just how it works because billionaires are rare and it's not like they can find another billionaire to date, and they have to date someone. But for some reason they'd want him to marry a model instead of a doctor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 06:32 PM |
| 13 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerReally gross how they can use wives to show off. Like "I'm not smart like this guy but my wife is prettier lol". They really can't fathom that some people are just happy finding one person and having a loving family... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 80 | A daily reminder to protect your womb from LVM scrotes. Apparently once you have a kid, you are no longer allowed to have standards.I don't think any woman is allowed to have these standards even without kids. Of course the men who do meet these standards will have no problem dating her, but the men who don't meet her standards are insulted because they feel like they should be able to do better. But men always feel they deserve better so no surprise there. Instead of criticizing her it would be fresh to see them admit she's too good-looking for them anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 24 | Middle aged men who “don’t know yet” on dating appsThese men aren't even providers. They've had a troubled employment history until late in life, and think they can make it all go away by finding a younger wife. They are too used to getting rewarded for their mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 09:14 PM |
| 179 | Middle aged men who “don’t know yet” on dating appsI hate these men who want second chances too. They didn't want kids when they were 30 so they didn't look for a girlfriend, but now that they are 40 they think a 30-year-old will have children with them? Why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 22 | She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated.I hate these negs. "Oh you don't want to date me? That shows you're a bad person." What? It must be a wild trip living in a man's head, where they think they are so holy anyone who doesn't want to be with them is somehow a bad person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:36 AM |
| 87 | Never EVER share financial information with a man. It starts with $20 now but can easily escalate to much more over the years. Come across the wrong one and they will absolutely destroy you financially.It seems even worse when the older man is less emotionally mature than the younger woman. Like a lot of men expect a mommy girlfriend, but it seems so unnatural to be asked by someone older to mommy him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 09:36 PM |
| 11 | I used to think there was something wrong with me...It's so annoying how they don't want to approach their female equivalent. If you make an amagalmation of the guys who approached me that I dated, you get a guy who is short, poor, with an unfit body, addicted to substances, bottom of the class if not dropout. This is not how I am. I'm a bit taller than average, I've grown up doing lots of sports and always kept fit, never did drugs or alcohol, had awesome grades. Men shoot their shot to anyone who is receptive. And it's about who you accept. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Queen Jess spitting sad facts todayIt's also a question of how much you let other people penetrate your boundaries and how much you tolerate their bullshit. That's not the same as saying the victim provokes or attracts the abuse, it's just that she fails to leave when the abuser trespasses boundaries and manipulates her, and she might do it again with other abusers. I know the abuser can make it extremely hard to leave, like when I wanted to leave my abuser he would send me harassing messages everywhere and when I blocked him and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:29 PM |
| 23 | Imagine there was a website that catalogued videos of men being beatenThe way women are represented is just ridiculous everywhere. I tried watching a Marvel movie and there was a scene where a bare-faced Captain America had a heart-to-heart at home with Wanda in heavy makeup - eyelashes, eyeshadow, eyeliner, lipstick. Suddenly all I could picture was how ridiculous the scene would be if you switched their makeup. He would look like an absolute clown and she would look plain and "uglified". I thought okay maybe she's the "emo" character that's why she wears that mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:53 AM |
| 9 | I have no words for men who are excited about the opportunity to pounce on Ukrainian refugees who are in a vulnerable position and having to flee their country and leave family behind. NO words.Hanging out on Discord I met many ill-adjusted inc*ls who used Passport. They gave various excuses, but it's pretty clear that they can't cut it in their own neighborhood so they seek a dating pool with an economic imbalance. They might try to say something like "you're just mad because I prefer these women who are nicer and prettier than the women in my country". But they aren't dating the women who have already arrived in their country, they need that power imbalance of being the only dude fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:11 AM |
| 96 | Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT.I hope they considered a sperm donor before thinking of putting the sister through 9 months of carrying a child she has to give up. Using a sperm donor: man jerks off once. Using a surrogate: nine months of pregnancy followed by childbirth followed by not having a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 03:52 PM |
| 441 | (TW) Her husband PEED IN HERImagine trusting someone so intimately and he does that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 03:10 PM |
| 503 | LVM are out there thinking men don't treat women like shit. Drew's response is on point as always 👑If men treated women the way women treat men... So they would just like politely refuse to have sex with us? Leave us alone and not try to get us into bed? Call us when they need a tire changed? Hold our opinion on high regard, respect or overinflate our expertise, speak quietly and make themselves small to leave us more space? Fill our bathroom with 50 different bottles because they want to look for us? Put us on a pedestal? Stick with us through disease? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 01:50 PM |
| 5 | What counts as toxic femininity in 2022Yes exactly. Toxic masculinity has to be toxic things that are encouraged because they are considered masculine. Like a guy who rapes his girlfriend because he feels it's manly to have sex with his girlfriend. Toxic feminity has to be toxic things that are encouraged because they are considered feminine. Like a girl who does nothing after her boyfriend rapes her because it's considered feminine to be nice and have empathy for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂I don't get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 09:06 AM |
| 12 | Can we talk about the difference befween Anna Delvey and The tinder swindler?This was not recognized as a "con" by the court. I think it was just being a shitty friend, but not illegal? It's like if a guy invites you to dinner, then he says he forgot his wallet and asks you to pay and says he'll pay you back, but then he never pays you back. I don't think you'd have a case to go to the police. You accepted to pay for him. I think the actual illegal stuff she did was staying in hotels and never paying, plus forging documents to obtain loans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 08:42 AM |
| -1 | Can we talk about the difference befween Anna Delvey and The tinder swindler?I haven't watched the Tinder Swindler, what did he do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 08:37 AM |
| 17 | My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym todayMen are really shameless, they really think "age is just a number", but one way only. They perpetually see themselves as a 22-year-old and they see women in their twenties and think "that would make sense for me" / "she's a beautiful woman I should try to get with her". Talking with some men, they all seem to think that there's an age where you're done growing mentally and there's no difference past that point. Everyone is just "an adult". You apparently don't gain anything from being 40, 60 or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 02:56 AM |
| 133 | Men Who Hate Women Show It When Women Are Most VulnerableThat edit makes it a lot more plausible. I doubt he'd stay to hand out with his sister and I doubt his sister would be inconsiderate enough to make him extend his trip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:28 AM |
| 421 | Using your hobby to vetMen can be very cruel even long into a relationship. One time my ex-boyfriend came to my house for a week. I treat him to beautiful meals, constant sex, anything he wants. But I had an event that weekend. He knew about it, but he decided to come crash anyway, probably expected me to cancel, but it was my exam for getting a certification to be a volunteer first responder, after months of classes, so I couldn't just say fuck it to my instructor. I go, and while I'm out of the house, I run back hom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.This is really eye opening to the amount of unpaid labor that women perform... I imagine there are a lot of women who are not free to stop having sex with their husband for a number of reasons. And then men complain when women say they should get some financial compensation out of a marriage? Of course some women are free, some women make enough money, they aren't forced to have sex. But the others? And then it's not just the money, but the guy being nice to the kids too? Really sad... It remind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:25 AM |
| 3 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.Your poor little baby 😢 Happy for the happy ending 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:14 AM |
| 4 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.If you can get a woman to have your child, you practically get a slave. She'll spend more than child support on the child AND she'll spend at her time and energy on the child. Men are only on the hook for child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:10 AM |
| 6 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.This is so horrible, so terrifying, and you just want your family to be happy. What's terrifying too is that they can play this game "explicitly" or "implicitly", like a lot of women are stuck doing the sex because that keeps him nice, otherwise he's not nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowHer job isn't really to teach people how they should live, she's just going to say whatever to be funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Valentine’s Day cringeMen look good with haircut, shaved, shirt, tie, pants, belt. I don't know what happened. It's like when I was a kid, all the adults dressed like that. Now that I'm an adult, the guys my age still dress the way they dressed when we were kids. I think adulthood has disappeared? And I think all the guys are thinking "well I'm just a special boy who dresses that way, rules don't apply to me, isn't that charming", but... it's all of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Generalization of neggingI hope the dog was okay. This is some Snoopy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:30 AM |
| 4 | 21yo woman and her 30yo 🚩 homeless boyfriend 🚩 has moved in to her home 🚩within 2 months 🚩Remember that men snore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:28 AM |
| 4 | If he can't plan a date, he isn't worth going out with in the first place.I think this can vary with age, but if you're an older adult it should be more thoughtful. Showing up with nothing is just showing he doesn't value that person, her time, and he's shallow with nothing going on below the surface. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:26 AM |
| 88 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?Gross. Can't imagine the heartbreak of terminating a pregnancy, let alone at 33. She should have taken Plan B. That being said, men will break condoms on purpose, sometimes. Or they know it's broken, but they finish inside the woman anyway? 1) They are capable of stopping sex 2) They control if they finish inside you Stay woke, men want you to believe they can't control their ejaculation, but they are actually doing it on purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:13 AM |
| 93 | Comparing the Assault of Stealthing to lying about being on Birth Control | An attempt at a Tasteless 'Gotcha' by menWhen men ask if you're on the pill, they use that information to pressure you to have sex without condom. Never forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:05 AM |
| 338 | What Kanye is doing to Kim right now is narcissistic abuse, and the whole world is feeling sympathy for him because oh poor guy has mental health problems and just wants his family back. Nah he went out and got a whole new gf and is just mentally exhausting Kim to get her back and keep torturing herSympathy for men seems to be the world's greatest supply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:32 AM |
| 33 | Love is blind JapanYeah the western version of dating is all about the feelings, you're supposed to just have feelings for a guy and to prove that your feelings for him are pure you must have sex right away and you must love him even if he has no money, no house and no way to take care of a family. That's the duty of the woman in an individualistic society that's designed to make the male individual happy. Recently I was watching a Chinese drama and a girl asked a guy out and the guy turned her down because he had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:24 AM |
| 13 | Heartbreaking…long con revenge plan by scroteThis is the stuff of nightmares. I 100% agree why she lost all trust in police. That stuff is traumatizing. And police always takes the side of the man in cases like this. See Gabby Petito. Because the man interacting with the police is calm and unemotional since he's a callous psychopath he acts the right way to manipulate police, the woman is crying and emotional because something unexpected and scary is happening that takes her by surprise, the police then sides with the man. This is made eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:34 AM |
| 17 | Better than Botox: Something I realized yesterday about HVM vs scrote influence on your looks.Same thing happened to me. NVM made me cry a lot and it aged my face a lot. Like when they say aging 10 years in 1, maybe it's because I cried way more in one year than would be normal in ten. Always making that depressed crying face makes the lines stay. You need to be happy to get the happy wrinkles, so it's another reason why NVM are bad. HVM makes you happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:14 AM |
| 184 | Dump him firstTrue, hurts their ego, even if they hate the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 25 | She found out her husband was cheating at 70 and kicked him out! Found love again are 73. Never stop vetting ladies! Do not settle for less.This is so cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:42 AM |
| 28 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀I think the 5'9 thing is a give away, he's making fun of women who want guys 6'2 and above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 278 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀Don't want to be that gal, but I think he's making fun of FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesWell I didn't say I hate depressed people or depressed men? I just said I think it's disgusting. I don't see the difference between what you said and what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:21 PM |
| 11 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesOkay, but why do you make a post ditching men for being fat then? Being fat is a serious issue, lots of people struggle with it and get told it's an easy problem to fix. Don't you find it weird that you feel empathy for depression, but not for being fat? If that's how you feel about depression, you should reconsider your post about being fat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 382 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.She beat his friend in the hiring test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:13 PM |
| 283 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.Most likely made up, however, super gross that he sent naked pictures of her to her would-be employer, and none of his business. Men always have such hatred for women who make themselves sexually available to them. It reminds me of the Muslim guy who pressured a white girl to sleep with him saying he loved her and her was liberal, only to then reveal he was lying and found her disgusting for giving herself to him before marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:10 PM |
| 5 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesYour own post said that because men have testosterone, they shouldn't be as fat as women. I'm saying that because men have testosterone, they shouldn't be as depressed as women. Why are you bothered by my comment when your post was doing the same? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 38 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesYou're a woman, women suffer from depression in higher number, and we don't have the same amount of testosterone that men have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:57 PM |
| 141 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesWhat disgusts me the most is that they claim to be depressed. They literally have testosterone coursing through their veins which is a hell of a drug that makes them feel like happy confident delusional warriors (aka. the audacity) and yet half of them still mopes around claiming they can't deal with their anxiety, lack of motivation, shyness, inferiority, etc. Imagine having a drug that gives you superwoman strength, makes you super fit and ambitious, and you still manage to accomplish nothing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:38 PM |
| 140 | for all those single dads who think I REALLY, REALLY NEEEEEED to marry again... what possible value would it bring to my life?Just goes with the general principle that men expect you to put up with things they wouldn't put up with. Ex: they are old, sick, ugly, poor, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:13 PM |
| 69 | 19 yr old kidnapped by boyfriend, captured on CCTV, he got 7.5 years in prison - she had life changing injuries and needs 24/7 care.So if there wasn't that video they would have ruled it as she just threw herself out of a moving car? And if she didn't throw herself out of the car, this guy grabbing her and putting her in a car wouldn't have been criminal? I don't understand how this stuff works. It seems men can be dangerous and violent and nothing will be done until after a woman has been seriously injured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:00 AM |
| 25 | Love it when a friend reminds me how much OLD sucks. I appreciate that he showed himself so quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:52 AM |
| 10 | Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes!Okay, but men can have kids at 80. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:55 AM |
| 7 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"My primary care physician (male) doesn't like to do gynecological exams (pap tests, screening for cancer). I fucking get it, it's awkward, but what am I supposed to do? When he sent me to a gynecologist, the gynecologist told me "I don't do pap tests, tell your primary care physician that he has to do it himself". So I'm supposed to pressure my doctor to look at my vagina after he said he doesn't like it? Me, as a woman, I respect people and don't force them to do things that makes them uncomfor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:51 PM |
| 169 | Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes!These is why men and women are not equal biologically. Men get a million second chances. They can wake up at 40 and be like I'd have to have kids and if they can convince a woman 10 years younger than them they can do it, all they have to do is come inside fertile young women, and they can convince them with money or whatever. Women get only one chance. This is why when a guy with nothing but the audacity shows up thinking he's good enough for you, you shut the door in his face hard enough to br… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 133 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?It's honestly so hard to find a guy who is just responsible. There are guys who just go to work and do what they have to do, but there's far more women than men who fit that bill, so those men get snapped up. The men who are single past a certain age, they have no savings due to YOLOing for a decade, they are in a starter position at work that should belong to a man 10 years younger, and they fail to realize that it's not even their lack of money that makes them unattractive to women, it's their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:45 AM |
| 71 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmThis is great! I remember the first time I was raped by a guy my age. He invited me to a cafe at like 7-8 PM. It was my first time ever going on a "date". He was also not intimidating at all. He was shorter than me, and a boy I knew for years, just not closely. To give you an idea of how not intimidating he appeared, he cried at the coffee shop, because he told me he flunked some exams and was redoing his last year of high school. I felt comfortable going on a date with him. But once I was there… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 15 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himMe when I break up with a guy or get broken up with: good vibes only "hey I totally understand, I fully respect your decision, thank you so much for the good times we shared, it meant a lot to me, I'll keep good memories, I have nothing but good things to say about you". Guys when they break up with me: rage quits mid-conversation because I didn't do something they wanted me to do, calls me names, blocks me on everything, incapable of telling me it's over, refuses to return my personal possessio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Not accepting text conversations is THE BEST!Yes! Also as a millennial I never got into the habit of texting. Phones weren't cheap and basically my friends and I didn't get phones until later in life. It was glorious, I only ever talked to people in person, when we spent time together doing something. My early attempts at dating were like this too. We only communicated to get together physically. Then I met a guy online who wanted to date me, but he wanted to talk to me online for a year before he'd consider meeting me. So gross! He was 40… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:51 AM |
| 43 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.Men are so gross. This happened to me with age. The guy pretended to be 30 but was 40. I asked for his age many times and he either lied or avoided the question. He never made any timed reference to the past, like never "when I did X in year YYYY", he robotically avoided any mention of dates or cultural references that could age him. It's also funny how he was careful enough to remember not to say anything that could give out his age, but unable to plan a date or say something nice. He was also … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:42 AM |
| 264 | People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡The fact that this man most likely had a mother, and he never saw her as anything other than his servant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:02 AM |
| 158 | People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡This is so gross! Phase 1: women are unintelligible sex objects that exist only for me to evaluate my worth. Phase 2: women have the same negative sides as men! It's so much easier to approach them! Phase never: women have the same positive side as men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 05:59 AM |
| 17 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.They are so gross, why do they think women use dildos and drink alcohol? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:09 PM |
| 31 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityMen have the audacity so they think rules don't apply to them. Even if you write "no something" in your profile and they see it, they'll think "I'll try anyway". Remember they apply for jobs they aren't qualified for too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Pretend you can't cookYou're kind of diminishing the definition of a wife. Not all wives cook. Not all husbands pay their wife's bills. It's not the middle ages where getting married is hiring a domestic worker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Men More Likely to Be Single, Living with Parents, Than Women (FDS CONFIRMED!)Worst part is if a woman lives with an elderly parent, she takes care of that parent, but if a man lives with an elderly parent, she takes care of that son. It's borderline parental abuse, they'd be 40 and still get their mom to cook them dinner and buy them new underwear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:52 AM |
| 67 | When they tell you to settle for the guy’s attractiveness and the moment he levels up, he dumps you.I'm no longer surprised lol. It's so rare actual good men who can love back. Can we talk about how men are the real hypergamous gender? I think we've all had men suck up to us who were fatter, poorer, older. They like me because I'm nice and I accept them. But one day I started asking if they'd feel the same if the situation was reversed. If they were rich or I was older or I was fat. They reply of course not. They couldn't make a life with a woman 10 years older than them. If they were rich the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:44 AM |
| 144 | Warning ⚠️ Some red-pill guys have started adopting FDS lingoWhat makes me sad is that FDS is morally good and red pill is not. FDS says find a man who wants the same things as you, be it love, marriage, children or even if it's just a man who has matured past the emotional literacy of a 14-year-old. FDS doesn't say find a Peter who doesn't want to mature past 14 and force him to grow up to serve your agenda. FDS says leave the LVM to be their miserable selves alone and focus your attention on a man who does want to be a mature adult. With FDS, you don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:31 AM |
| 44 | Giving up sex with men has been the best thing everYeah I didn't realize this. I had lots of low value male friends that I spent time with. I didn't realize how it looked. One time a guy invited me to an overnight party where he told people to sleep in tents in the backyard. At the end of the night he invites me to go sleep inside the house in a guestroom. I didn't feel comfortable being the only guest to go inside the house I said "oh no I'm fine, I'll just sleep in [male friend]'s tent". He looked horrified and tried to get me to go sleep in t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:12 AM |
| 71 | Giving up sex with men has been the best thing everSex is another tool they use to trap women. You don't want to end it after you've had sex because you don't want to be that girl who slept with that guy, you want to be a respectable woman who slept with her long term boyfriend. But oh boy they are not worth the trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:50 AM |
| 45 | Giving up sex with men has been the best thing everThey use sex to create false intimacy and then you feel attached to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:48 AM |
| 276 | girl whatHe's probably one of these "introverted" guys who never really gives away what he thinks, and then it comes up later down the line and you had no idea that was his personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:46 AM |
| 41 | Sometimes a woman is single BECAUSE she settled not because she was too picky.Going low can also just lead you down a road where you have no choice but to dump him after you've wasted years on a bundle of problems. Plenty of women date down and then are just riddled with their LVM's DUIs and other fuck ups, his maladive jealousy, his self-esteem issues. There are absolutely men that cannot achieve anything good no matter how much you love them. So it makes no sense when men tell women that their problem must be their high standards as if there were good men just waiting f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 03:46 AM |
| 18 | They’re “not in a relationship” but “exclusive” after 6 months of dating 🚩🤡and it turns out he’s a creep and a liarSick of men doing this. It seems like there's no reward for being an honest woman. I'm honest about my weight, my height, everything about myself, even I'm rather self-deprecating so I'm likely even better in person. But then all these men are the exact opposite, they lie and hide and end up being worse than expected. And they are just getting the good end of the stick in this because they get all that was promised in me and more while they get through the door not bringing something of equal va… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 12:14 AM |
| 102 | Having a baby via sperm donorI've met mothers who had children with a man complain that it's hard and maybe they chose the wrong man, but all the sperm-donor moms I've met have peaceful and blissful existences saying it's the best decision ever. Taking care of children is fun, dealing with LVM is not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:35 PM |
| 65 | Having a baby via sperm donorThis is the solution to declining birth rates. In countries where can choose who they have children with, it becomes very hard to find a man that you think yes, he'd bring more positive than negative in a child's life. But I think many women would like to have children and what the government should do is support single mothers by choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:32 PM |
| 42 | Be careful ladies and especially young womenThere's just no reason for age gaps. Why should men get an extra 10 years to develop themselves to a level on par with women? All these men being like 35 and being like "okay I'm finally ready to settle down with a 25 year old, I feel that age anyway and I feel like mentally I just click more with women that age". First of all, you and all other single men say exactly this. Second of all, what on earth did you do these past 10 years? Why would men be allowed more time to develop than women? It m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 07:53 AM |
| 2 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysOh God, with that age gap you can just imagine how these two became "friends". I'm guessing he thought she was pretty and he felt "young" for his age! I'm sorry that happened to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 9 | Age Gap Gross OutI'm glad that I have older brothers and they never dated someone younger. Like at least they have this basic decency, which not all men seem to have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 76 | So done with avoidant men.Yeah I've noticed they basically match the opposite of my energy. If I'm not invested yet and don't care if they come or go because I don't know them yet, that's when they're begging me to invest and commit, lecturing me about how I have to stop talking to other guys, etc. Then once I accept their demands and fully concentrate on them, they go cold and ignore me. Then they are almost like "who are you again? I didn't ask you for anything". There was a guy who, while I was still being careful, to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]This is not a new idea. We're bred since we are young to be told "you have to be pretty, and also it's cool if you don't care about the guy's looks". And every time there's a pretty girl with an ugly guy the masses cheer. There's a reason the body positivity movement is female. Because that's subversive. Saying guys can be fat is not subversive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 01:03 AM |
| 148 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑It's about time things change because when I was young we had sex, I never had orgasms, and I had to walk on eggshells bending over to make men happy while they brought nothing in exchange (not financial, not emotional, not acts of service). It was just like we like to make men happy because that's a feminine hobby to make others happy. Well I'm glad to see it doesn't have to be that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:17 PM |
| 27 | Early warning signs to spot "avoidants" and... avoid them?Had a guy like that. I swear he was unable to keep his mood level for more than a day or two. If we hung out, he was happy, nice and polite like a normal person the first one or two days, then he became irritable and despondent, inevitably unable to continue enjoying activities. He'd literally pout and demand we quit. I could not understand what was wrong because I was in a good mood the entire time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 54 | Early warning signs to spot "avoidants" and... avoid them?I've been very independent and busy, the opposite of clingy, but my level of affection was always secure and predictable no matter the distance and time apart. LVMs... they just cannot trust and be confident. They are never trying to make you feel good because that's not important to them, they are just concerned with / afraid of getting hurt themselves. As others have mentioned: No friends Never had a relationship No empathy (can't console a person who's upset) Hides on the internet No social m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:06 PM |
| 32 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Men are so gross! His hobby is... having sex? Why? I would throw up at his questions and just hate the way he uses IG. But I understand that women just think "man is giving me attention, must give attention back". It's just sad when you see the process behind it. He's completely vapid, completely devoid of substance. We want to assume the best in people and think there must be something inside their head, but there's just nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)Again, different circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:08 PM |
| 15 | Another post about Gold-digging/Sugar-babyingThere's too many men willing to pay for this, it means they still get the better end of the deal. The only way that a man doesn't get a deal grossly unbalanced in his favor is if he mans up and becomes HVM. Obviously a lot will think well I prefer to keep the deals that are grossly unbalanced in my favor, but the few who man up and become HVM will find it more worthwhile and fullfilling. They have to actually put their childish, selfish feelings aside and force themselves to bring something to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 07:39 AM |
| 10 | Accountability and Growth Tip: Buy a doll. Stick a post-it labelled 'My five-year-old self' onto it. Place it somewhere you'll see it.Is there a point where it's too late to do this? I feel like if I did this when I was a young adult it would have made sense (ie. I shouldn't have let some short hobbit-looking boyfriend repeatedly rape me when I was 18 because that's not what I would have wanted for 5-year-old me to grow up to be), but now that I'm old I feel like there's no point as I could never reconnect with a child version of myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:49 AM |
| 6 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateBizarre. New guy made a borderline inappropriate joke and the two married people took it to ridiculous proportions by spending a whole evening celebrating over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 32 | Man(27) gets 17 year old pregnant after one night stand and absolves any fault "she was drunk but she wasn't sLoPpy dRuNk"Yes, it happened to me when I was 18, with a guy who was also 18, he was my "friend" that I knew for several years, but the day he managed to get me isolated from other girls and drunk, he raped me. But at least he was 18. And I'm sure by the time he was 27 even he knew better. Why is a 27 year old pulling that off today? It's so gross. He's so old enough to know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 48 | Man(27) gets 17 year old pregnant after one night stand and absolves any fault "she was drunk but she wasn't sLoPpy dRuNk"27 is too fucking old to have one night stands, period! I don't even care how old she was, how can he be 27 and still going to bars to have sex with strangers, getting girls drunk, having unprotected sex and not calling them the next day??? If HE was 17, I could say okay, mistake of his youth, maybe he can learn, but at 27, what's the excuse? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:41 AM |
| 13 | Why you shouldn’t live together before marriage: 2 real-life examplesThat's scary. When a man asks you something, you never know it could be purely for his own benefit in the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:22 PM |
| 206 | This sh*t right here!!Very painful... Wanting to have sex with many people is not natural. Wanting to have many friends is natural. That's what humans were like for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | If women gave genuinely good relatiomship advice to men, then boys raised under single mother households would have the best dating outcomes.I never got any advice from my parents, not even not to have sex. They never told me not to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | If women gave genuinely good relatiomship advice to men, then boys raised under single mother households would have the best dating outcomes.Stating the obvious: this post is stupid. You provide no evidence that boys with single moms do worse in dating Obvious other factors at play. Single parents households will have less money resulting in boys who will be poorer men, poorer men have worse dating outcomes. Single parents households will have less time to spend with their children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)I'm sure some men just want to use their money to get hot chicks, but that's very surface level, no different from men who pay for prostitutes. It's a very basic level of "I have money, I want hot chicks". It's of course your choice if you want to live by your feelings of immediate pleasure or if there are other things you value in life. But there are all kinds of people and not everyone makes the same choices you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)Again, I don't think we exist in the same circles. My brother whose starting salary out of uni was above 6 figures married a doctor his age. He didn't go foolishly marry a hot young fast food worker just because he made an okay salary. He puts his money in the bank, puts even more money in the bank from his wife's salary, and he knows his wife is smart and his children will be smart too. Some people care about having luxuries in the future, about having an intellectual partner who won't embarras… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 58 | [deleted by user]I'm the same! I had this idea (probably gotten from TV?) that it's really bad to want to marry a rich man, that's it's better if you're kind to the poor people and don't judge a man for being poor and you try to date the poor men. So I was like I'll just be the best person I can be because that's the right thing to do. And my idea of being a good person when it comes to dating men was that I couldn't care about their looks and I had to date poor men. I guess my idea was also to let other women h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Forced Female Bonding Over Kids Though ChildfreeI think it's just what they want to talk about and it's not about you being a woman. It's just what people talk about because kids get all their attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 71 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.It's sad because what he did worked exactly how he intended. He disfigured her so that no other man could have her. And what is she supposed to do now if she wants love and marriage? It's not easy finding a man who would be okay with dating a woman who was marked like this by another man. She probably thinks with him she has a chance at "love" (if she does what he wants and doesn't cause wave with him) whereas she probably thinks she won't find it elsewhere now. So she just accepts this fate tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)Even if you want to talk about strictly financially, it's not true that ALL men don't care about a fancy job. Lots of men do care about their wife having a certain status and will only marry and have children with a woman who is a doctor, lawyer, etc. If you say "I would date a fast food worker if she was sweet", well that's you. You're a man with low standards. Not all men have low standards. The men in my family don't. In fact in my family the men have higher standards for choosing their partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 01:08 AM |
| 73 | If He Wanted To, He Would ——Singaporean man who learned Hokkien, danced to BTS for his marriage proposal wins $19,000 weddingLooks like they graduated college, traveled, got a dog and got engaged this year. High effort and he believes in love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 08:01 PM |
| 7 | When do you expect what?He has a girlfriend and doesn't want to bring her home for the holidays? It's a no from me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 01:42 AM |
| 53 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsI hate this mentality of "this guy brings a lot to the table, it's normal that sex is important for him, having the type of sex you want is so important". These commenters must be CHILDREN. Basing your relationship on some kind of sex IS shallow, it's finding a partner just for sex, period. If you look at actual adults in relationships, there are so many things that are so important and sex is not even one of them. How are they going to be with the children, how will they talk to the children, h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:03 PM |
| 10 | Finally ready to date again after getting a well paying job!Keep your standards high! Just because you have a high paying job doesn't mean the broke guys will be too ashamed to come after you. Don't let a moment of low self-esteem make you choose the loser over a better man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 92 | Compartmentalize your empathy for male family members - their troubles simply aren't the same as yours and shouldn't consume you the same way.I used to feel sad for my older brother. When I was like 9 my mom told me he was getting bullied in school and I had to be extra understanding (as if I wasn't already extra nice to him, but whatever). Our whole adolescence he was always in a shit mood and an asshole to me. I felt lots of love for him because I thought he was having a hard time and was taking it out on me. I always talked him up like he's the coolest, his games are so cool, etc. And yet he HATED me. He confirmed this as an adult … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:46 AM |
| 9 | The worst regret you will have in life is not what you did wrong, but what you did right for the wrong peopleThat's so true... There are people that you can do everything right with and then it's just like why? Even his max potential is way too low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:51 AM |
| 107 | Men that push for 50/50 still don’t realize that dating has become a ladies’ market in 2021, with Tinder being 78% male / 22% female and Bumble & Hinge being 65% male / 35% female. Men outnumber women 4-to-1 on Tinder and 3-to-1 on Bumble/Hinge.Yes I also think that it makes sense for men to pay more, not even because of differences between genders, but simply because it's a free market and there's more demand for women. If the situation was reversed and women craved men more than the opposite, women could pay. But it's not the case. Every time I was with a guy it was him who wanted to be with me more than the opposite. Yet they expected me to make sacrifices towards giving them what they want just out of the goodness of my heart? That… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Story TimeThey never do it until it's over! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | I don't know why anyone would date a single fatherI would absolutely date a single father who is a widower, I have no problem becoming a mom to any kids. I think the problem is that most single dads were probably dumped for being horrible human beings. It takes a lot for a woman to want to separate from a man, he was probably super trash. I also think for a lot of things are different when a woman and a man do it. A woman was with an abusive man? He convinced her, groomed her, forced her, lied to her, she was socialized by society to be obedien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 01:25 PM |
| 27 | Relationships are supposed to make life better and easier!My boyfriends never gave me rides, never cooked me food, never taught me anything, never paid for things, never gave me the opportunity to try more things, never helped me study, never showed up when I was injured, never planned dates, never took charge, never led conversations, plus the sex was never good and they weren't pretty to look at. Like I'm not an idiot and I didn't want to date hot guys who would be obviously fuckboys, so I dated ugly guys who didn't have game, but gosh their heads we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Friends that make questionable relationship decisions like this are LV. I don’t understand how the entire friend group KNOWS it’s disgusting and yet…no one steps up to call him out. Gross.I agree people shouldn't really date someone more than 5 years apart, except for exceptions. If really 10 years isn't such a big deal, then how would these people like to wake up tomorrow having aged 10 years? If really it makes so little difference to their looks and fitness? I'm tired of all these guys using the justification "I look young for my age". Okay, but maybe she'll look good for her age in 10 years too, or maybe she can date a guy her age who will look good for his age in 10 years to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?I know several single women with awesome jobs and healthy lifestyle who are my age and would be perfect to date. I don't know any man like this. However the women aren't lesbians. Honestly I don't even want to say "it's because I'm attracted to men". I feel I'm straight because it's the model we're fed everywhere, because patriarchy taught me to think men are cooler and specialer and fascinating even if they are objectively a bottom tier man, and finally there's the question of sex. I'm not that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:39 AM |
| 4 | My Friend's Husband is About to Ruin Her Entire Career. This is why you should always be financially independentHonestly would have been so nice if so much as one of my boyfriends ever did one thing to support me while I was studying. Instead all they did was show up before finals demanding sex, test answers, attention or whatever else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:19 AM |
| 6 | My Friend's Husband is About to Ruin Her Entire Career. This is why you should always be financially independentI relate to that. I got with boys who hindered my progress. First they were too lousy to go to good universities so I stayed back to be with them, while their bullshit took a toll on me (rape, alcoholism, using me for XYZ), then I got with a raging jealous asshole who made it super hard to continue with med school, and even when I stopped looking some older man found me and pulled exactly what you say (threaten suicide if I stopped talking to him). This was an older person and he never felt bad … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:17 AM |
| 21 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)You create a radfem subreddit and say that's your sex fantasy not a political opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:14 AM |
| 11 | How does a HVM approach a woman?I agree with someone else saying he needs to introduce himself properly. At least say his name and age and say something about himself to give you an idea. But then I do like a man who gives me his phone number and then ACTUALLY leaves it up to me. Too many men gave me their phone number and then, seeing that I didn't text them, used some other way to harass me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 27 | How do you handle being approached by scrotes?Sad to say but if you've made an effort and look nice men always flock. Or even if you're wearing rags if you're young and your face and hair is visible they'll flock. What's good to avoid men is hide your face and hair (mask, sunglasses, hat) as well as your body (long loose clothes). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 01:14 AM |
| 16 | If a man is this obsessed with slimness, he doesn’t deserve to have someone carry his child. He is also probably repulsed by pregnant women.Yeah sometimes it feels like there are men who say outrageous things and men who lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:26 AM |
| 85 | Men on saying they “want children someday”They ignore their biological clock because they aren't the ones who have to carry the baby and get the toll on their body. For them it's just ejaculate and they can do this at any age. They aren't selfless enough to think of the consequences for others - like putting their wife through painful fertility treatments or even the risk to the children. He doesn't care that it will take longer for his wife to get pregnant and that she'll get miscarriages. That's uncertainty for her and what will happe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 27 | Sex work just is not a good career option as a woman.I read this and think I got all this with regular dating. Boundaries pushed, rape, being forced to do things I didn't want to do, doxxed, stalked, harassed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:51 AM |
| 45 | Sex work just is not a good career option as a woman.I hate when they say it's easy money. YouTubers and non-sexual streamers make more money, and all the top earners in those fields are men. Yet somehow men say it's hard to earn good money on YouTube and easy to earn good money being a virtual sex worker. They just say this because they can't do it, and something's only hard if they can do it but don't 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:46 AM |
| 7 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..A poor guy can be like this too. I was dating a guy who was poorer than me and he still pulled that same thing where he forced me to spend more than I was comfortable. Plane tickets to go see him all the time, otherwise I "didn't care much about him". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 05:49 AM |
| 73 | The Realities of Age Gap RelationshipsI talked to a man who was married to a woman 10 years his junior. She was now 39 and him 49. She was cheating on him with a colleague and now there were getting divorced. He said she didn't ask for money in the divorce and they both got custody of their daughter. But he was devastated lol. He kept saying "yeah we're 10 years apart, but I'm only 49, and I'm good-looking!" and "she was always so hot, but I'm good-looking too!". He was not even a little bit good-looking. Completely ordinary ugly gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 01:55 AM |
| 65 | The Realities of Age Gap RelationshipsLove your energy at the end there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 01:47 AM |
| 40 | The First Time He Uses Your Trauma/Insecurity Against You Should Be Last TimeWhen you tell them that a man treated you badly, this becomes the bar by which men believe they have to measure to get to be with you. "Well I'm not worse than your rapist-pupppy murderer-drug addict ex so surely my lack of effort should already be a pass with flying colors?" They also only measure themselves against the worst trait of your ex, not the ways in which he was better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Why you click with LVMs: Low Distress ToleranceI actually didn't have any bad coping mechanisms initially, but I think you're right in that I had difficulty tolerating the LVM's own distress. So in a way that must mean I had low distress tolerance myself, it was just well-managed on my part, but when I came into contact with LVM, I gave in to their demands to prevent or alleviate their distress. For example, the first time I went on a "date", he was really awkward, shy, he even cried, and I was just trying to alleviate his distress. He raped… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Do you have any male friends?This is the dream, a man who is HV and acknowledges there's no chemistry between us, but I've just never met that, in my experience, the guy always feels chemistry even where there is none, and the man always ends up being in love with you. But I guess you'll see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Do you have any male friends?So annoying how their inappropriate feelings always ruin things for women, pushing women out of opportunities because the man can't control his "feelings". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Do you have any male friends?I'll echo what other people have said here. Every one of my male friends eventually confessed to being in love with me. Huge betrayal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 01:24 AM |
| 15 | Just saw this in another sub. Stupid comparison but great response!It's very telling that they think of women as something to eat/consume and not something to care for/protect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:15 AM |
| 14 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Honestly I never met a cheater, but I just didn't go for players. Players usually tell you they are a player... They brag about sleeping with many girls, how they manipulate girls into liking them, PUA, The Game, "men are the guardians of commitment", etc. Basically any guy who talks about the fact that all women are the same and you can act a certain way to get an outcome is trash imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 8 | Why you should vet harshly. Please learn from my story.I think you're great! I once joined a kung fu group and the incessant whining of my jealous boyfriend who said I was doing it "to meet guys" made me drop out. This man could not let me have any joy and eventually he drained it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:38 AM |
| 11 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileI don't know if it's because I haven't tried dating in 10 years, but receiving this quality of messages was standard when I tried online dating. It was as simple as writing a profile with good grammar and some witty humor and then guys would message you making a joke off of your jokes with something thoughtful thrown in. This was just normal. Is it now considered exceptional? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:49 AM |
| 8 | Why you should vet harshly. Please learn from my story.You sound amazing, taking care of all of this yourself, your job, your kids and jiu-jitsu! You are everything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:37 AM |
| 46 | 'Tis the Season for Max Scrotatiousness... Ho Ho Ho!A lot of guys try to make they skinny girlfriend fat. It's like some possessive move like "I know how sweet this girl is so now I'll try to make her fat so that other guys don't get to know her". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 59 | Van life with a grown up child! Any ladies jealous yet?I was going to say nothing wrong if they both enjoy this traveling nomad lifestyle, but the fact that he goes skiing and she stays in is such a lame cliché. Maybe his job is to be a pro skier and her job is to be a van life influencer, but still... Her life is to wait in the car while he goes skiing? That's taking following a man like a lost puppy to the next level! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:54 PM |
| 16 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsI think the problem is men and women often have different standards. He says "she started doing everything for the kids and she didn't have to", because if it was up to him he'd have put the kids in front of a TV with sandwich stuff in the refrigerator and dressed them in 10-pack sweatpants from Walmart. I honestly don't know what's the solution. I have the same problem in that all the men I meet don't value efforts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:30 PM |
| 91 | Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff.Yeah it's always that they are going through a bad time, but that doesn't explain why they turn it on external people who have nothing to do with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 29 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.At this point a guy like this is just psychotic and mentally ill. Nobody raised him to send messages like this. The only solution is to put him in prison. I'm all for being kind to the mentally ill, but it's just not right that mentally ill men can freely let their mental illness endanger women and diminish the life quality of women. Like why do women, collectively as a group, have to suffer receiving messages like this from dudes like this? It's not right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:58 AM |
| 2 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.How are messages like this not considered a crime? Men should go to prison for those. It's not like you can just let this guy live free and continue to send these terrifying messages to innocent women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:54 AM |
| 69 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsI didn't realize marriage was like this. I thought it was just like you find the love of your life in your twenties and you get married to be a couple for the rest of your life. This article highlights another reality which is that you are tying your standard of living to that person forever, as in you're committing to sharing the same level of lifestyle forever and if one of you is less successful than the other, you'll be responsible for maintaining their lifestyle. I guess this wasn't really … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 103 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesIncels who lack social skills and will therefore hurt your soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 8 | I'm going to sound ridiculous...I think you shouldn't be so down about it. It doesn't sound like you did much wrong. You went on a few nice dates, he paid, he stopped when you said no to sex, he didn't get angry, and you ended it when it became known that you two were incompatible. Isn't that a win? You can't always grieve over every minute you lost on dating. If your goal is to date like FDS advises to date, I think you did it right. This is what FDS advises, to let guys take you on dates and pay for the dates and just have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:16 PM |
| 92 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerI'm sorry. You sound like a catch. Be careful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:06 AM |
| -2 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingFDS literally advises ghosting (block and delete). I understand that women are at greater risk than men and therefore the block and delete is more important, but at the same time you shouldn't be mad if the guy used block and delete. I feel like in a parallel universe there's MDS who are celebrating this king for using block and delete without an explanation when the girl said something LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:01 AM |
| 20 | A man you date can only be two things: a dating potential or a husband. In your mind, he should NEVER be considered your family.The way I felt for my boyfriends was like a mother to her children or a sister to her brothers. I didn't care if they broke up with me, I just felt worried that I wouldn't be there to make sure they are happy, very much like a mom bird when the baby birds leave the nest. It was unconditional love. I didn't mind that they didn't provide anything to me. I was more like the cool mom who lets the teenagers make their own mistakes, but is always there to love them in the end. I'm trying to graduate t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:57 PM |
| -6 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingSo nobody is allowed to end a relationship ever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:45 PM |
| -5 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingJust because I disagree with you doesn't imply I'm less intelligent than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingShe didn't give him the gift. What did this guy manipulate her out of? What did he gain there? She didn't give him the gift, she didn't spend the holiday with him, what did she lose? It sounds like he just changed his mind. And she should be happy to have learned now when she still has time to make other Christmas plans. What am I missing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:09 PM |
| -12 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingIf anything you're proof that FDS doesn't work? You've been here all along and now you're heartbroken over a guy ghosting you? If you followed the handbook this shouldn't even phase you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:08 PM |
| -26 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingBut I don't see how he used her then. Aren't guys allowed to end relationships too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:14 PM |
| -23 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingWhat is it that he got or that he was waiting for? Did you sleep with him and he ghosted after that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:52 PM |
| 23 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 39 - Casual Sex, Part 1: Don‘t Do It, But if You Do, Sit On His Face) + Real Estate StalkerYeah but in that case all the men I've ever gone out with were rapists. Maybe it's because I'm a bit older, but I basically never encountered a man who wanted to have sex only if I wanted to have sex, they were all just concerned with having sex and it didn't matter how they got there. It's a sad world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.I think it's not so much that you want the alpha asshole, it's just that you want to feel special. If a guy is nice to everyone, you won't feel special. If a guy is mean to everyone except you, then you feel special. Maybe it also makes you feel secure that he won't leave you for another woman because you're the only one he has the fancy for. Like in Twilight they took a shortcut and made it so that Bella had the most delicious intoxicating smell to a vampire, plus she was the only one whose tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.I watched 50 Shades of Grey on Netflix a few years ago and I was surprised by how much of a little bitch Christian was. It's really not rapey like the manosphere made it out to be. If I remember correctly, he introduces Anastasia to his mother and calls her his girlfriend before they have sex (or right after the first time they have sex?) and he takes her on a helicopter ride on their first date. He immediately proceeds to being extremely needy and insecure with her, basically begging her to dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 8 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaThe problem with the internet and life in general is that the male perspective DOMINATES the conversation. Everything that is like "people say" it's really "men say". Most comments in this thread saying "the vast majority of people settle" >>> these are men saying these things. This thread is MEN admitting they settle. Women are much less likely to settle just because women are way more realistic. Men here regularly admit "if I could have what I want it would be a Victoria Secret model to fuck e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:45 PM |
| 18 | Found a page online where the author listed several red flags to look for, while dating and in a relationship. It would be beneficial to us, so I'm going to list them down. Once again, credit's not mine.I had an ex who specifically did this: He will pressure the woman to commit to the relationship in such a way that the woman may feel guilty or that she's ‘letting him down’ if she wants to slow down the involvement or break off the relationship. And also very much the sulking and anger over sex. For example one time we were going swimming and I had my bathing suit on and I was ready to go, but he caught the boner, so now he started undressing me to have sex right now. I gently, tactfully and lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:07 PM |
| 93 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 39 - Casual Sex, Part 1: Don‘t Do It, But if You Do, Sit On His Face) + Real Estate StalkerWow it's all too true! You tell a guy you can kiss but not have sex, he thinks "oh that means I can convince her to go further" and they use all kind of mental tricks to make you feel obligated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I mean it's never happened that I slept with a guy and he didn't want a relationship after we had sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?No, like I've never been wrong in telling if a man wanted just sex or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?It's really not. I've said it before and I'll say it again, it would make absolutely no sense for me to make up a story to talk anonymously on Reddit to strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?It's not made up lol. I mean what happened is he wanted to date me even though I didn't want to date him. This was clear on all sides. He still put in no effort. Then, reading on FDS the phrase "if he liked you, he'd put effort" made me wonder if he was lying about liking me anyway since he made no effort. But what was he doing trying to date a girl he didn't like who said she didn't want to date him? Just trying to get himself some experience on a girl he didn't think mattered? Just playing wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?You be surprised at how often women treat men not as human beings. FDS is one such example which you are part of nevertheless. Oh gosh, how clueless you are. I wouldn't be "very surprised" by anything lol. I've literally lived in the real world my whole life. FDS is a Reddit subreddit that has existed for 2 years, the fact that you cite it as an example of what is going on in the real world suggests you were born yesterday. Even your use of nevertheless is questionable. You realize FDS didn't bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?No I was very clear that I wasn't interested in dating older men. But in fact I was very clear that I wasn't interested in dating him for several reasons even before I knew his age. He was the one making a play to date me despite my resistance, and it was my birthday. For all these reasons, I thought he would make an effort. Well no I didn't think anything since I thought he would stop trying to date me. But retrospectively I was still shocked by the low effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 11:00 AM |
| 2 | My date before vs. after FDS + vettingThat is so sweet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I've said it before, but it's never happened to me that a man didn't want a relationship after sex. I think you guys aren't in touch with what men really want. It's always men who want a relationship with me. Despite what all of you are trying to tell me, I have never been wrong on this. Like it's just never happened that a man just wanted to sleep with me and then dumped me. I think men are just not the way you think they are... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Whether you attract only losers or you attract both losers and winners, you still need to know how to reject losers. I think FDS has some advice on how to improve so you don't only attract losers, but maybe the part about rejecting losers is the one that is the most controversial. Kind of like how red pill advised to make yourself more attractive, but the part it was infamous for was the PUA stuff because that had more shock value. The controversial stuff generates more traffic and interest, I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.I just didn't know women date the men who call them find diggers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.I mean surely you are not dating a guy who is calling you a gold digger lol. That makes no sense. You still misunderstand my point. I'm not saying the women being called gold diggers are doing anything wrong. My hypothesis was that the men who are calling women gold diggers are applying that qualifier to women who they cannot date. That they date low quality women, and they are calling other women that they don't have access to gold diggers. Because I didn't think a guy would date a girl that he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Everyone needs FDS. You can take what's useful. For instance it's telling you: if you're genuinely a good girl who is honest, takes care of herself, is kind, looks good, works hard, then you shouldn't date the guy who is uglier than you, poorer than you, shorter than you, who smokes weed and has no ambition, who emotionally manipulates you, who drags you down. Is that bad advice? You act like it's an evidence that good girls won't attract losers. But is there a reason why a loser would avoid app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:32 AM |
| -1 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.No, you misunderstood me. I'm not saying women who don't smoke aren't called gold diggers. I'm saying the opposite. I'm saying men who call women gold diggers date women who smoke. As in they aren't dating the women they are calling gold diggers. I think you would still disagree with what I'm saying and that's okay, but you still misread what I said as the opposite of what I was saying. Do you understand what I'm saying now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I'm confused about the man putting less efforts than others, despite being older and having less options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Well I'm talking about an older man pursuing a younger woman. I think he should put effort because he's older. I don't expect efforts from guys my age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I disagree. The women around me all treat men like human beings, but also are incredibly skilled socially, nice people, dress well, accomplished, not a bad habit, and give interesting conversations on dates. So the competition is very stiff. For men it isn't, because few men are like this, so as long as a man is a little bit nice or can put down his phone for a second, he's already way ahead of other men and very in demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:16 AM |
| -2 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.Yes, but that's my point, the men calling you a gold digger aren't dating women like you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:13 AM |
| 15 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.This is beautiful! I'm saving this comment because it made me happy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:31 PM |
| -4 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.I think the men calling out gold diggers are the ones dating women who smoke, lie and cheat. They can't understand that there's real value in dating a good woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:24 PM |
| 15 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.You make some really good points! I was one of these people who thought a $100 ring was just fine! Maybe you've begun to change my mind! The thing is, if I was a man, I would get a high paying job and treat my partner nicely, so why do I have trouble imagining men could do the same? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:22 PM |
| 38 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.Wow that's nice! I never thought about it, but it's illuminating to hear you say they actually care about family and what they are building! I think a lot of LVM don't really give much thought to anything other than their own happiness, and it's kind of a deep revelation to me right now to hear you say that some men actually care about something other than just themselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?What's wrong with being nice to men lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?There's technically no such thing as "an FDSer". They are just normal people, women, who at this point in time stumbled on that subreddit. It's not like they were raised in a special FDS nation where their lives are policed to adhere by an FDS mod post. FDS is in fact extremely new. They likely had lives before FDS. So this whole point of view of you trying to "educate" FDSers on how to "be nice to men" as if they've only ever been exposed to FDS and nothing else is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:14 PM |
| 46 | Woman posts about her LVM in 2015 . . . and then updates SIX years later about leveled up lifeImagine being a man and getting this level of support. I would love having someone taking care of the house for me while all I have to go is apply for residencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 15 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.That title is an accurate representation and makes a lot of sense lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting?I think it's partially a choice how you manage your "high sex drive" the same way that we have to manage negative emotions or destructive emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Yeah, I wasn't the one doing that, it was the man! Like he said "I like you" and I was like "sorry, I don't want a long distance relationship, we should stop talking". Then he was like "come back, I love you, if you don't marry me, I will kill myself". Then I was like "please, leave me alone, I block you now". Then he flew to my country. I understand I need to work on myself, but I'm not the one doing these things, I'm the one receiving these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Haha okay I was asking for a friend! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting?Well settling would be if he was hoping for more, but he just gives up looking and he settles for the girl who's less than what he was hoping for. Or the word is also used by outside observers who look at a woman and think she could have done better than her husband, so they say she settled. What I described was just finding the right person. Like if you meet the person who's everything you're looking for and it's a done deal, you didn't settle. You just successfully found someone who was what y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Okay, but what if: you've been talking to someone for a year online and couldn't meet because they live far away, they decide to take a trip to come meet you, it also happens to be your birthday, and they also happen to be 12 years older than you. Is it still normal that they show up having planned nothing and expect to have coffee and talk, even though they say they love you and they want to marry you, because they say you look like a cool low-maintenance girl? Is there truly no circumstance wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I don't know, I see guys being like "well I spent 4 years unable to get dates and I never get matches on apps and now there's this girl who wants to go out with me and she's not really my type but I'll try it anyway at least to get experience". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 26 | If you have a pattern of “saving” men please read this.Yeah I've been stuck in this pattern. I'm not perfect in all aspects, but the guys I dated aspired to be like me in some aspects. I don't smoke, don't do drugs, I don't lie, I don't cheat, I don't steal, I wasn't lazy, I was smart, I exercised every day, but also morally I was "good". My family is a good family too. Well all the guys I dated liked that even though they were far from that themselves. And they never just used me for sex either. They used me to try to better their life, which actua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:43 PM |
| 16 | HVW Texting PatternsOmg I feel seen. I wish I was taught this in school. The first time I dated a texter I had no idea what to do with the 200 missed messages saying "I miss u" "What r u up to" "Mmm" "..." "Whatever" "You're always ignoring me" "I bet you're having fun with your 'friends'" "You don't care about me". Definitely the communication made me feel stressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting?I don't think I described settling lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarEmotional stability have to be assessed overtime, so advice is to take a long term trip/vacation in unfamiliar environment. I just want to say I am absolutely insane, but I do amazing on long term trips/vacations in unfamiliar environment. I'm so chill and can adapt to anything and get along with any situation. Except normal life back at home. I get really sad and depressed just going to work everyday and worrying about normal life. So I don't your tip is great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting?I think people who are constantly "attracted" to people are frivolous. There are men who just pick a wife and stick with that. Like it's a one time thing and why would they worry about it after that. I'm just a woman, but I feel like I see men like this who are just normal and not trying to check out all the women in the universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 03:42 PM |
| 0 | High value men would not date a McDonald's worker just because she is hotThe problem is that nice humble people... are female. I know so many accomplished, smart, educated women who would not be ashamed to date a sandwich maker. I know it's not the norm, but in my entourage it's so many women dating down. And women encouraging other women to date down. My cousin married an African villager, another cousin dates a restaurant worker, another cousin dates a "musician", a friend dates a male babysitter. The men in my entourage... they are all dating doctors. I think ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Are women (maybe men as well?) more open sexually with a partner they are attracted to physically?No. I guess it's different for different people, but for me it's not about my sexual attraction to someone. How much I want to have sex is a function of the following things: my people pleasing ways (I'm deathly afraid of disappointing people, so I want to be the coolest girlfriend who has all the sex you could want, not like your friend's boring girlfriend, I'll just have sex all the time with as little nos as possible) my fear of sex (maybe my people pleasing ways led me to being raped the las… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Can't get "AF"/short term/fun treatment with "BB"/long term/safe priorities.This is right that people aren't equal. Some people have A+ careers, do Ironmen triathlons, and still have a lot going on and aren't tired. Other people are depressed working an easy 9 to 5 and have no energy to do anything after work, or maybe they need 100 hours a week of mind numbing video games just to get through. Just different levels of skills and energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?You look like a guy who will never leave after you've had sex! Am I wrong 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Not where I live lol. The girls aren't high maintenance here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?No, I literally never heard a man break up with a girl for being high maintenance, lol, men actually leave perfectly low maintenance women all the time thinking they can do better, but if you read my post you'd see I know the word since I used it in my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarHahaha. Appeal to authority is a fallacy like saying something someone is saying must be true because they are an authority in that field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 01:33 PM |
| 11 | HVW Texting PatternsI don't text. I second the other person saying she ignores filler texts like "good morning" and "what are you doing". I wouldn't be a good match with a man who texts like that anyway. I would get along with a man who doesn't text either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I don't think FDS advises lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?That's not really true. The model of couples living together in single family homes with one or two of them going to work outside the home is really new. Before that for millenniums there was a system where everyone in the house contributed. Check out some indigenous peoples in Africa. Yeah the man owns the farm, but ownership isn't synonymous to primary provider. He takes wives to work on the farm too. Typically men will do the herding: they go walk the animals off to the pasture, come back, pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures?More free time is a big one. Women are also most likely to cheat when they aren't working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?On that front I feel the competition is stiff because all the girls I know are super bright and interesting and dress really well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Literally never happened to me to be ghosted after sex. Or ghosted at all. Or dumped after sex. It doesn't seem very hard to tell a fuckboy from a normal guy. But I don't date above my rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?So the longer you've known someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Not all women try to get commitment from high value men. I always aimed for guys who were short, unpopular, stupid and had no other women interested in them. Maybe not stupid to the point where it feels like having sex with someone not smart enough to consent, but stupid enough to have no career prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I don't think you fool people into marriage. It's a decision people make informed, with time to think about it, usually initiated by the man, literally signed on a sheet of papers in front of their friends and family. We're a far shot from a guy pressuring a girl to have sex and her not having time to think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?No personally I'm pretty passive and just gives it to the guy who wants it most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Third option is they want to have me as their girlfriend and are saying that to get me interested. It's not always about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Yeah I guess it's like a nice form of emotional manipulation. It makes me think oh well he loves me so I should date him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 13 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Never happened to me. You just have to not go sleep with the obviously hot guy who sleeps around! Ugly unpopular guys have their load of issues, just not pump and dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:35 AM |
| 6 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Their goal wasn't to have sex with me, but to date me and have something long term. I don't find it hard to tell if a guy wants sex or a companion. I've never been wrong. I know you guys here think men only ever want sex, but there's actually men who want someone so they can stop being so alone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:32 AM |
| 6 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I've had guys say they were in love with me despite not having been on a date with me or had sex with me. But maybe it was something else. Didn't think of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?It's not really about money. I guess just spending more time with her. Or you could draw her a love card with crayons for all that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?You shouldn't "take" plates to shows. If you're paying on dates with plates, you're just a simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:05 AM |
| 14 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I feel like nobody's answering the question. The question isn't "do you like FDS women". The question is do you put more effort into a date with a girl you are super in love with versus a girl you're not really interested in but go out with just to get your number game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:04 AM |
| 7 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I think you don't see it from the female point of view that we are constantly bombarded by a lot of men doing the work. We can try to notice the man who puts no effort, but there's not enough time for every man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:02 AM |
| 2 | People can be "looking for" more than one thing at the same time.To answer your question, yes. But I find your text weird. It's women asking men what they are looking for? Because men ask that question all the time. I think it's just the most eager of the two is going to ask that question. I also find it weird that you basically want to lie to give the "right" answer to deceive women, or that you think what you're looking for is a supermodel. I am a woman and when asked what I am looking for I have never found it hard to just tell the truth. It's coming up mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Sorry to have assumed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:48 AM |
| 0 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarI am now, lol. Why would anyone have a podcast between two men with the exact same opinion just jerking each other off? I'm just saying that saying "what these two people have to say is more interesting because they have a PHD" is appeal to authority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarThey are both men? Yikes. I thought this was a conversation between a man and a woman who happen to be both evo psych idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:44 AM |
| 4 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?I'm not really thinking of serial dating apps daters. Because then you have a method and apply it to everyone. I mean more like when you meet people organically or ask someone from your friend group out. Or like if you fell in love with a girl you know from school, work or whatever, and then you had to make your feelings known to her. Edit: Also your username is NoMarriageNoKids so you're probably not falling in love with anyone ever and only using dating apps to find meaningless sex. I don't th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:40 AM |
| -2 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarI don't see how any of that "confirms" red pill or why we should listen to these two people more than anyone else. This is what I dislike about the red pill crowd, all braindead sheep using appeal to authority lol. There's like zero ability to use critical thinking in the entire community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:13 AM |
| 73 | If the genders were reversed..Don't give them ideas lol. I don't like the idea of sexually dominating a man, but enough men would be into it that they probably do have porn aimed at men that looks like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:26 AM |
| 15 | Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS systemI've spoken a bit here about going to volunteer to a third world country and dating a guy from there. (I didn't meet him through volunteering, I met him by chance and he pursued me.) He was definitely the one more interested in me than me in him, yet he was making me do all the work, by demanding things from me. Among other things, he demanded I go visit him in his country about every other month. This was no small burden on me as I was a frugal medical student and he kept asking me to spend lot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 10:17 PM |
| 29 | Even in a best case scenario with a seemingly “ok” man, age gap relationships still suckYou know what, she's blaming herself, worrying that she's shallow for thinking he looks old, she's swearing to be a good wife who'll never leave him nor cheat on him... But he would never have dated her if she was 10 years older than him. That's all there is to say about it. She can spend her life wondering if she's doing enough to be a good woman, if she's grateful enough, accepting enough, but the only truth that matters is that he would never worry about such things. Is she a fool? To him, ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 80 | Anyone Else Tired Of Sexism In The Gym/Fitness Culture?This is everywhere where men exist. You try to join a Discord server to make friends, you get DMs asking what's your name, what you look like, followed by gaslighting and harassment. You go on a trip and stay in a hostel, you get male travelers propositioning you left and right, and even the hostel owner will probably do it too if it's a man. It's everywhere. I don't think following fitness influencers is useful because it's always about looks. Even if they do it without being sexualized, it's s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 57 | Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS systemSometimes people say "oh men are so sexually motivated, they'll do anything for sex", but that's not been my experience. It's more like they'll do anything to find shortcuts and avoid having to be HVM. But really their main characteristic seems to be laziness. They would rather be lazy. In fact they would rather be lazy and get less sex than put in effort and get more sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 71 | Think twice before you get into a long distance relationshipI traveled to a third world country to volunteer and a guy from there wanted to date me haha. I was naive and saw nothing wrong with it because I saw us all as equal, but I think I was wrong. When I tried to go back to my country he was like no you can't leave me and from there on he was like controlling my life and dictating my life, forcing me to go back there because he demanded it and because he was anxious that he would lose me. He was emotionally manipulative. Despite him being the clingy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 02:10 PM |
| 27 | Stories and examples of sensitive/emotional men being abusive or manipulative?There was a man who lied to me about his age. Said he was in his 30s, was really in his 40s. When it came out and I was hurt, he completely stole the thunder and said he was the most hurt one because it was so painful for him to be rejected for his age and I was just shallow and cruel and I was just trying to hurt him. He screamed at me to never bring up his age again because I was just doing this to hurt him. Basically he never admitted to doing anything to hurt me, it was always about him bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 01:33 PM |
| -2 | Left my abuser but I want to go back? Please help me make sense of thisWould she even have you? My mom's not so bad, she has lots of money, but she wouldn't have me live in her home, because she doesn't believe in adult children living with parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 01:18 PM |
| 99 | Tinder didn't kill dating... but it didn't help eitherIt seems pretty obvious. All men like being with women Mentally healthy men can get with women It follows that any single man is mentally unfit. You can catch fit single men before they get in a relationship or to some degree in between relationships if they have good reasons for a relationship ending. It's different for a single woman because a single woman probably says no to men at least once a month. And there's also just more good women. Most women if you give them a good husband they'll st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 11:53 AM |
| 55 | Men can hate you, despise you even, and they’ll still string you along for years to get their revenge"Practically asks me out", so she didn't ask him out, he asked her out, and he did so to flatter his ego to prove he could have her, only to waste two years of her life and ruin her plans to get married by 30, all as revenge for her rejecting him when they were 24? Also men: not happy when they date down because they feel they could do better, and not happy when they date up because they don't like that the girl could do better. The only way to make them happy is the girl who dates down but has … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 11:49 AM |
| -2 | Porn is SO normalizedIn that vein, you should think that a man masturbating while thinking about another woman is cheating too. Or a man having sex with you while thinking about someone else. I would agree it's bad thoughts, but it is just not the definition of cheating. I don't know why you keep trying to make cheating something it's not. If words don't mean anything anymore we won't be able to talk about anything. What then would you call someone sleeping with someone else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Porn is SO normalizedThat's the whole point. They are not sharing themselves with anyone. No one is receiving them. I am NOT arguing watching porn is cool and I have no idea why you keep pretending I do. It's just not the word cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:33 AM |
| -1 | Porn is SO normalizedYou're just redefining the meaning of the word cheating and diluting your message. Like you don't have to label every bad thing cheating. It's okay to use other words to describe other things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:15 AM |
| 56 | Is FDS a new take on dating or just the pendulum swinging back?I find it hard because men use emotional manipulation when they aren't fit to mate and not rich enough to provide. But then these same men if you're not bringing youth and a womb for procreation they look at you like you're insane and say "why would I be interested in you". So they don't get it. They want a young woman who'll bear children, but they don't want to be judged on their genetic and financial fitness. They say it is "mean" to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 496 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.You should report him. He's in contact with students through his mentoring of people in your department. This means you aren't the first or last 20-something he's had access to. He's using his position to get access to young women. Predatory. And I'm so sorry this happened to you. We think because they're older there's no way their mind could go there, and then their mind goes there, and we're flabbergasted, and they're flabbergasted that we're flabbergasted. It's the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 11:55 PM |
| 8 | Porn is SO normalizedI'm not sure what you think I was saying, but I was saying it's never okay to watch porn, even when single. Is it okay for someone to masturbate to pictures of their ex? Imo having nudes is trashy and I wouldn't date anyone who has ever asked for nudes from their partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 11:49 PM |
| -13 | Porn is SO normalizedFor me there's a problem in the act of watching porn and it's not because it's cheating. Would it really be better if you dated a porn watcher who was "faithful" by not watching it when he's dating you? The hundreds of bodies he's observed naked and performing a show to pretend they enjoy the stuff they do on camera? It's not really cheating in my opinion because he's not with that person (she doesn't know he exists). But porn is a gross objectification and commodification of human women, like s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 43 | REMINDER: It's ok to ignore / not be friends with / get distance from a man "for no reason".Honestly I hate how angry they get at being ignored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:51 AM |
| 111 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Holy shit is this real? That is so toxic. The fact that they are using handcuffs, the fact that she's scared to say the handcuffs are too tight because she doesn't want to upset him, the fact that the only reason she felt she could ask him to stop was because she didn't want to be humiliated when other people would see her bruises. It's so sad how women erase themselves and become slaves to making sure the guy is not disappointed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:22 PM |
| 22 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Imagine being so porn sick you need a safe word because saying "stop" won't do it lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:16 PM |
| 7 | Is this a red flag?It's about your standards. No, I don't expect a gift when I host a dinner, but I bring a gift when I'm invited to someone's house for dinner. If I meet that standard I can look for men who do too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Is this a red flag?For me it's a red flag if someone doesn't bring something when invited to have dinner at someone's home and they are cooking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Acrobatic sex from his poor wife still isn’t good enough for this hypocritical idiot! (Reposting)Sometimes women legit need a doctor's note to excuse themselves from sex. It's gross. When I was 18, I didn't even want to have sex at all, but this gross dude kept forcing himself on me, and I had no idea I could say no. After he put me through much shit, I spent a few months contemplating jumping off a bridge, but instead I decided to open up to the family doctor who prescribed me oral contraceptives (due to gross dude being unable to use a condom reliably, of course). She diagnosed me with we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 09:36 AM |
| 5 | This is what we've been told sex is - and it's pretty dehumanizingI don't think receiving oral sex is the test. All the men I've been with wanted to give oral sex because they like it. I never asked for it myself. Sometimes I was forced. And they'll try to put their fingers in there and it can become just another type of penetration without consent. I seriously doubt any part of sex is about female pleasure. It seems like men wouldn't do something they don't want to do themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.I was reading something about how LVMs don't like it if you do something good because it makes them look bad and because they fear there's an expectation of reciprocity. They especially hate it if they imagine you did it to personally benefit from it even if it's not the case. I dated a guy who got so mad that I exercised regularly because he had never exercised. He was also mad that I did well in school while he was a dummy who resorted to cheating and smoking weed. He was also mad that I volun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:59 AM |
| 0 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceI'm not hypocritical. This group is made up of different people. One can be saying YAAASSS QUEEN and I can be saying it's okay to have lunch with a former colleague. We're not all the same people and nobody needs to be hypocritical. Does it ever occur to you that maybe we're all individuals using critical thinking just like you? And remember when Mike Pence said he never dines alone with a woman? If everyone thought like that, the world wouldn't be very fair for women, at least as long as men ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Lets talk about COWARD MenI think nowadays, in the 21st century, being protective has to take a different meaning. Like standing in front of you in a haunted house? What is this? We're more sophisticated animals than that. We understand, intellectually, that a haunted house isn't an actual danger. In fact a haunted house is more like a show, and if your boyfriend who's taller than you is standing in front of you, he's kind of a dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get withNah, I dated guys who liked me, but they were just such lousy people that they couldn't help being lousy people. They exhibited poor behavior that had nothing to do with me. One was a drunk who couldn't resist doing what his bipolar friend told him to do. One was a stoner with jealous mateguarding paranoia, like reading my emails, constantly saying I'm probably meeting and fucking hotter dudes, emotionally manipulating me ("if you don't do this it means you don't like me, I knew it, you're proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:29 AM |
| 2 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsI had male friends in college. They never gave me rides. If we went skiing or something we alternated who brought the car, like borrowing our parents' car every other week. I was also on a frisbee team where I carpooled with 5 guys and we alternated who borrowed a car from their parents. But I did a lot of activities one on one with a male friend and every time we each paid for ourselves, like cinema or eating out or playing squash. It's literally never happened that a guy was like "oh let me ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 05:17 AM |
| 74 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side pieceThey were colleagues though, she probably thought it was networking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:22 PM |
| 28 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.Imo that whole "the older you get, the larger the age gap is acceptable" is part of cultural misogyny. Like for every year a woman ages, a man is allowed to age 1.5. A 20 yo with a 30 yo, creepy, a 35 yo with a 45 year old, fine beccause 40 yo men can't see themselves with 40 yo women? Nah. Women live longer. It's just cultural misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 35 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)Men are DANGEROUS. You think "oh it's fine, if it doesn't work out at any point I can just tell him it's over and he'll walk away peacefully". Wrong. You have to factor in that every time you start a dialogue with a man he could be this psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:25 PM |
| -38 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these."Calling me out for it"? Girl... You're calling out your own stalkerish behavior. How sad... You must have gone back through hundreds of pages to find that comment. Surely the moderators of FDS are not responsible for policing what I say on every other subreddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 17 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.I would put her at 40 looking good for her age and him at 50 looking bad for his age. Like they might be 12 years apart, but he still looks like her dad. Like he looks like he's 70, but I don't think he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 7 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.It's a Tiktok video directed by his wife. He's doing whatever facial expression she told him to make. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:09 PM |
| 90 | All men are predators and misogynists until proven otherwise. Period.The sweet guys you meet playing games on the internet are messaging women 10-years their junior hoping to get with them. Literally every man would like to get with you and it's not flattering. There was this quote "find someone insecure enough to be flattered they were picked" and that's exactly what men hope for. Every man would love to date you because they would love to date almost any woman, they are just hoping that you are insecure enough that you are flattered that they want to be with yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:48 PM |
| 70 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.He looks like her dad lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:41 PM |
| 115 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳Probably offered a doggy bag to take the knickers home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:17 PM |
| 20 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagI've noticed that men are lower on empathy and thus less affected by the norm of reciprocity. Like if they tell me something, I naturally tell them the same, but if I tell them something, they don't feel like they owe me anything. It's like they lack that prosociality. The result is they know everything about me that I know about them, but they also know other stuff about me that I don't know about them. Here's an example. I was talking to a guy I met online (a mistake I know). He knew my age. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:12 AM |
| 6 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flagI really feel only men with good mental health should date. I don't care anymore if this is considered cold because the poor mentally ill men deserve love too, I'm just sick of women being used to better men's health. Like the argument is that men deserve love too even if they are sick, but what about preserving women's health? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:50 AM |
| 13 | 'You know a man can die from blue balls, right. It's a fact!' *side eye* Being given the opportunity of earning the gift of your grace is a privilege a man must work. Don't let scrotes lie, cheat or bully you into believing they need physical attention. Obviously they can live just fine pussy free.It's so manipulative. They exploit our empathy constantly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 47 | Perfect explanation on why you should NEVER date or marry down!I think this is giving men too much credit. "Don't date down because he'll dump you once he rises his value." Are we still worshipping men and believing that all men become successful eventually? Most losers will never amount to anything and that's why you should not date them, not because of the fear that he might leave you if he becomes successful. The best thing you can do is date a man who is a good person and who is successful. That way if he leaves you he'll give generous child support, ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 05:47 AM |
| 14 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.It's absolutely possible to use OLD safely. IMO OLD makes it easier to identify HVM because it gives you some info right away. That's not to say there are many HVM on OLD, but you can easily sort HVM profiles from LVM profiles. LVM aren't exactly smart enough to be pass as HVM on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 127 | Scrote says he’s not into casual sex while his OK Cupid answers communicate otherwise, he says “I made the profile a long time ago when my father was sick and didn’t have time for a relationship” and proceeds to show his clown nose.I don't understand why men think we want to hear "I'm extremely attracted to you and find you very sexy"!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?No it doesn't. Think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Like having an ongoing conversation that lasts a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?But how do you explain the numbers. You have 80% of men talking to 1 or 0 woman, and 100% of women are talking to at least 5 men. That's only possible if the incel theory is wrong and it's actually that all men are talking to the top 20% of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?How do you explain that one woman is having conversations with 5 guys who themselves are talking to only 1 woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?That doesn't explain why women get more attention than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | "Femininity" isn't the natural state of women and what we call "masculinity" is normal animal behavior.Good point, female animals don't have to look beautiful. It's usually the male, if any, who looks beautiful, like peacocks. And male gorillas don't complain about female gorillas being sluts. They just rely on having sex more than other males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.The material difficulty of having a private room is technically different from a consent issue - and it also exists in the West, by the way, it's just much less drastic. No it doesn't. In the West you can have sex in your bedroom with your parents in the house and they don't mind. Moreover, girls have access to contraception. It's completely different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?On these dating apps, unless you're chad you get nothing How is that causing women to get attention from more men though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.Well no, I listed things other than lack of consent that were obstacles already. Not sure why you continue in your same direction! I'll just keep listing other obstacles then? In a place like Nepal, the whole family lives in a room, and premarital sex is basically forbidden by the law. This was discussed a few years ago on a Nepal subreddit, the guys said police would raid love motels. Maybe you want to say they can have sex in the fields, but A) some people live in the city and it's crowded eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:57 AM |
| -1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?That's literally the opposite of what's happening though. It's 80% of men dating 20% of women. You have 4 times more guys on dating apps than women. Each guy struggles to find one woman to talk to, but each woman has at least 5 guys she's talking to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:39 AM |
| 2 | The modern west is the best sexual culture for young men.Well no, they explicitly tell girls that they aren't allowed to make the choice to sleep with men, so girls just go around thinking "ah no my parents don't want me to date / my parents would be so mad if I did that", and then when their parents do allow them to date, they are instructed to find a provider, not just any guy they want to sleep with. It's different in western cultures with liberal parents where the parents tell their kids they are allowed to date and have sex and it doesn't matter … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Western in-group vs Foreign out-groupWouldn't Tyrone have to be tall? I think it's a cultural thing like the people from over there grow up differently so their social skills make it super easy for them to seduce a western woman as long as they get the chance to talk to one. My cousin's husband had allegedly grown up in an orphanage in rural Africa. I don't know if it was that he was nicer, or if he was better at manipulation due to having had to struggle to survive. Could be either. When you think about it the men here where I liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:56 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Sad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 03:12 AM |
| 7 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?She hasn't won anything. I think it's an insult to be "validated" by a man who isn't top 20%. Like knowing that this man thinks she's in his league is not good for her self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 6 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?I mean wouldn't that be because there's 5 times more men on dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?I don't think that's enough to reach equilibrium haha. It's not like 1/4 of men are disappearing. It's 4 times a low enough number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 129 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.Men who have two married parents and graduate from college on time get married on time. It's not hard for them to find a wife because there's plenty of women who would make great wives. The men who stay single they always have problems like problems graduating or they are against marriage and kids because their parents divorced. My brothers aren't anything extraordinary, but it's such slim pickings for women that the fact that they had wealthy married parents and that they graduated college on t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Western in-group vs Foreign out-groupI've literally never heard the "predatory foreign woman" trope? If anything it's the Western men who are seen as predatory and gross? My experience with Westerners marrying foreigners has been Western women marrying foreign men, and usually it fits the type that the man used them for their money, playing on love for it. It's always the same story. White girl is in university studying medicine, she does an internship in a poor place to help the poor, she's open-minded and meets a guy there. My co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 02:01 AM |
| 61 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsI think it would be feminist if men and women had exactly the same power and wealth to say that men and women equally treat each other to food EXCEPT the fact will always remain that men want to date women more than vice versa. The free market should apply to dating, if men want dates with women more than women want dates with men, the men need to make dating seem more attractive to women, not less. That's what I've never understood about men complaining that they can't get matches on dating app… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:46 AM |
| 150 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorI wouldn't say it's necessarily about triangulation. I dated a brown guy who didn't have a bad thing to say about women who looked like him, but he liked me because A) it was exotic that I had white skin, blond hair, blue eyes, and B) I was a cool girl who paid for everything and committed to monogamous sex with him while failing to enforce any of my boundaries and doing no vetting of him. He was used to women from his country expecting men to provide and guarding sex, which he totally respected… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:34 AM |
| 110 | I feel like there are no good menOr how they pretend to be your friend until they can ask you out, then they literally never talk to you again when you say you value the friendship instead. Yes this! And then they say "you're not entitled to our friendship", yeah, okay, but what we don't like is the duplicity! That they pretend to be our friend while in the back of their mind they just want to use us for girlfriends. It's so dishonest. The way they joke that single mothers or struggling women deserve their circumstances because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:52 PM |
| 58 | "Do you want to hang out sometime?"It's sad to say that any time I hung out with guys I had to plan it. Even if they were the one interested in me. It's like "please I'm really interested in you, so will you plan our outings and life together?". They brought nothing. Of course they expected me to be the main breadwinner too. You know what they didn't have a problem initiating? Physical and emotional intimacy. Basically these guys would make a physical or emotional move on me (confess their love, kiss me, whatever) and then just s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.Everything you're saying is false though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.It's not the same thing. You can easily say that the prettier a husband is, the taller her husband will be. That's a simple equivalence. But for the age gap? It's actually be shown that short men marry younger partners. This is not because short men are more popular, it's because short men are less popular. Undesirable males are more likely to have a younger partner. That's just proving that having a younger partner is not the flex you think it is, it's usually because the guy is a loser, and ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.40-year-olds with abs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.They are not high value. What planet are you on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:20 AM |
| 16 | Car mechanics need to respect professional boundariesThank you for service! You are a legend for going back to confront them. They can no longer let that slide and you helped keep your community safe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.I find both these descriptions equally repulsive lol. We're not gay men. It reminds me of the field report from a 40 year old gym goer and exchanged banter with a hot gym bunny at the shakes counter. His banter, attitude and confidence were all so pathetic and repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 9 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.It sounds fake because the girl in his program saw the Reddit post and recognized her... That's too big a coincidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:34 PM |
| 10 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.My parents raised me like this, raised me to help guys and that no one would help me 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 29 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.Don't forget that men see women as utilities way more than we see men as utilities. They have no shame guilt tripping women into dating poor men, but if you ask them about it, they think she's an idiot for doing so! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.What's wrong is that it doesn't work. Men want to date younger, women don't want to date older. So what do you do? It's like a power play, do men control the dating market and force women to date older by refusing to date women their age, or do women control the dating market and force men to date their age by refusing to date older men. Obviously men would like to have the power to decide. But then your insistence on dating women who don't want to date you leads to 30% of men being sexless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | The "biology" of the age gapI have no idea what you just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?anyways, guys often pretend they want something serious until they get what they want Never happened to me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 01:19 PM |
| 9 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.Women cooperate just fine. It's more like... you can't submit to and cooperate with an idiot leading you to an oil field on fire! Of course if he was HVM with good ideas and positive leadership he'd have less problem finding women willing to follow him. But why would any woman willingly submit to him when he's untrustworthy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | How important is it for your spouse to be a virgin?For me I grew up in a liberal culture where parents and teachers encouraged young people to have safe sex and I had the expectation that nobody would be a virgin by the time they get married. I had the expectation that anyone who has a boyfriend or girlfriend would be having sex and I had the expectation that most people would maybe try one failed relationship and then find the right one. So it's not very important to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:42 PM |
| 4 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?I don't know dude, I'm a pretty ugly woman and I've encountered far more guys who wanted a relationship with me than guys who wanted to "ejaculate in my mouth". In fact I don't think I was propositioned for casual sex, or maybe just twice, whereas most guys wanted to date me. I mean of course some guys proposed neither to date me nor to have sex with me, but my point is you're not really in touch with what guys want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:31 PM |
| 23 | The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering.I disagreed with the second during a call (best vetting strategy EVER) and he shushed me. Wow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?It comes from the principle that they are already drowning in offers from men who fall in love with them. Unlike red pill which teaches men who can't get interest from women how to hopefully get some, FDS teaches women who already get too much interest how to find the best guy. It even teaches you not to get fooled by the abundance of offers because maybe none of them are good enough and you're better off staying single. Remaining single is the only way to meet a good guy. The imperatives are ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 06:54 PM |
| 9 | The "biology" of the age gapWhy, I felt the same at 24 and had never heard of this subreddit. Maybe I didn't think they were looking for a vulnerable woman, but I thought they were losers. The older guy hitting on younger women had the loser vibe of someone who failed 5 years of college and is unhappy with his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | The "biology" of the age gapOk, sorry! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 05:55 AM |
| 7 | The "biology" of the age gapEw no lol, human puberty is like 2 years difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:59 AM |
| 4 | The "biology" of the age gapBro... Do I have to teach everyone how to math? (0 + 0 + 0 + 0 + 10) / 5 = 2 (5 + 5 + 5 + 5 + 5) / 5 >= 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:27 AM |
| 4 | The "biology" of the age gapThis image is kind of interesting: https://sirtyrionlannister.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/dibujo58.jpg I think it explains why young men are sexless. It's what I suspected all along, it's just that women in their early 20s don't want to have sex with guys a couple years younger, while guys do want to have sex with younger women, so that creates the imbalance, but guys just have to hang on until the age of 26 and then they are fine. At 26 they cross the same level of desirability as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:25 AM |
| 20 | The "biology" of the age gapI find it kind of lame when an older guy says "I look young for my age". Okay, but don't I look young for my age too? And why not date a guy my age who looks young for his age? (If looking young for one's age means being healthy.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:19 AM |
| 26 | The "biology" of the age gapI mean sure you can always manipulate anyone into anything. I could be a 50-year-old woman and manipulate 18-year-old boy into falling in love with me too because young people are dumb. But I'm not dark triad like that and I don't feel comfortable trying to exploit people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever been in love before?It depends where you put the slider on love! I love a lot of people! I ended up here because red pill got on the front page of Reddit and I couldn't believe how wrong and stupid it was! Apparently websites plant controversial topics because arguing generates more traffic. I guess Reddit really got me with this! I didn't care about these topics whatsoever before seeing some of these outrageous ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:14 AM |
| 6 | The "biology" of the age gapI mean you know the data on this is actually available and actually the average age difference between married men and women is 2 years. So actually it's more like 80% of the couple you know are same-age and 20% have a 10 year age gap. If you say most of the couples you know have a 3-5 age gap "or more", you have proof that you are a bad judge of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:10 AM |
| 7 | The "biology" of the age gapThat's not real hypergamy. A woman in law school dating a man 10 years out of law school is not hypergamous, she's just dating down. Nobody is so shortsighted as to think it's worth it to date a man 10 years older because of the 10 years he's had to accumulate money. Not when you can get a loan to accomplish the exact same thing. Why take a loan on a guy instead of a loan at the bank? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Men don't value sex with women unless they pay for itThe same woman can sleep for free with guys who don't appreciate her and then go call herself an escort and have guys act like sex with her is the best thing on Earth. The latter guys are not necessarily worse looking than the first ones, the only difference is they paid! It's really naive to think that guys prefer the sex they get for free when you can haven't experienced both sides. Like obviously all the men here are going to say "actually I much prefer when I get sex for free it makes me fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?No, it's a strange belief that would make me think he's unintelligent, akin to believing in ghosts or astrology. I think someone intelligent could have his own take on the subject, but then he would be too corrupted from having been on Reddit. Imo men should be pure and not have spent time on Reddit researching how to date women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:47 AM |
| 57 | Former supermodel Paulina Porizkova talks about life as an older woman.At 40 men want to date 12 years younger, at 60 they want to date 20 years younger. It never stops. I don't understand what's in it for women. I mean if the man is much richer, I can see that he's trading his money for her youth, okay, but most men aren't that much richer than women, right, so why would a woman date older? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:17 AM |
| 27 | Violence against women in movies and TV? Oh, it's just for the realism effect!I saw a Clockwork Orange when I was a kid and I thought it was cool. I'm pretty sure that when watching movies as a kid I'd identify with men in stories instead of women because women are dehumanized. Seeing women get raped it was just like they're not even human, didn't realize that was me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 04:17 PM |
| 40 | Violence against women in movies and TV? Oh, it's just for the realism effect!You know what's sad, there's a scene in The Borgias or whatever (about the old school popes) where a man gets anally raped by another man and this was a shocking moment because we're so used to seeing women get raped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 04:13 PM |
| 30 | Violence against women in movies and TV? Oh, it's just for the realism effect!I was so mad when they wrote the rape of Sansa Stark. Like why??? She was hours away from escaping anyway, so why not make her escape before the rape? I never understood. It didn't fit her character arc at all. It's not written in the books either. There was absolutely no reason for her to get raped. The context is she is detained and forced to marry an enemy. She is planning her escape, but at the same time she knows that her husband/captor will soon visit her chamber/cell to brutally rape her.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 23 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightThis is great! I am trying to change too from the mindset of being cool with anything to thinking it's okay if a guy treats me nicely. I find it so hard to make that change in my beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:52 PM |
| 89 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?I mean, seems like a green flag that he believed you and looked it up and admitted you were right. So many men would just say "no it's Matthew Broderick" and never look it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.Then stop complaining? The world's already rigged in your favor. What more could you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 09:28 PM |
| 82 | Dont mention your standardsSome men will ask you questions about your interests and values just so they can hide the parts of themselves you wouldn't like. It's always better to keep your cards close to your chest and play dumb. I've been an open book too often and men use it to lie and manipulate. I think ideally you should say something that means nothing like tell them there's no "chemistry" and block them. Honestly for the longest time I thought blocking was rude and basically I thought men were entitled to my time if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.Okay, men built the building I live in and grew the crops I ate and drove it to my country. Is that what you mean by "women get everything they need from men"? Because they were paid to do this. Maybe unfairly paid to enrich the men who are their bosses, but paid nonetheless. They didn't go it as free labor for my benefit. Maybe they are doing it because it benefits them. Read to the end to find out why I'm saying this. When I say women take care of people, I don't just mean the school teachers,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:25 PM |
| – | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.They don't have the same authority over their bodies and innate value that women have. Sure they do. They control whatever is in their body. It's that simple. It's not about gender and abortion is not about giving authority to women. It's literally way more simple than that. It's because an embryon is inside her body connected to her circulation and you literally can't get it out without her collaboration, unless you want to cut her open or kill her. It's illegal to kill people or cut off parts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:38 PM |
| 30 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.I don't know any married couple with an age gap. Men even just a few years older have always seemed old to me. I was on a rec league at some point where the girls were 22 and the men were late 20s and they never talked to us like they could date us. It would have been weird if they did. We were fresh out of college and they had friends their own age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.If you think there's monogamy happening at colleges with women outnumbering men you be surely mistaken. You obviously read that wrong. You seem to not get all I am doing is pointing the fact how women still want men to be the breadwinner still to this day and age. No they don't. It's mostly men like you saying that and you are missing the point that this is what I'm saying. That YOU keep saying "but men are the breadwinners" because YOU're attached to this idea that men are the breadwinners. Lit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 17 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you."Women want men to be breadwinners and if they don't they will likely divorce!" That's a really easy way to shut down the women who don't want men to be breadwinners because their existence doesn't fit your masturbatory worldview. You could just admit that you, not women, want men to be breadwinners because it makes you feel cool. You're holding on to the idea that men have "responsibility without authority" because you like living with a victim complex. Let's actually examine what you're saying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:08 AM |
| 13 | Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page?Longitudinal cohort studies actually suggest that having two working parents has the best outcome for the well-being of the children, independent of the total family income. You can stay home because it's what you need or because it's your personal belief or because you find it easier like this, but to say it's better for the children is... not true. Sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 08:54 AM |
| 30 | Why do men/ LVM keep try to invite themselves into your life?Yeah a man who brings something of value will know to be selective in approaching women - he will not only only approach the woman he's interested in, but he will also only approach when he knows it is welcome. I also think that HVM approaches one woman one time whereas LVM approaches hundreds of women, so even if there were an equal amount of HVM and LVM, the LVM would be doing 99% of the approaching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 27 | Why do men/ LVM keep try to invite themselves into your life?I think it would be a mistake to think that unattractive men aren't entitled. Maybe you've only dealt with good-looking men so you think that's a trait of good-looking men, but I dealt with unattractive men and they are entitled in relationships. They aren't the life of the party and they are insecure socially, but the second a woman accepts to talk to them they see her as below them. Like basically if he has low self-esteem and he finds a woman who talks to him, he'll think there must be someth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:27 PM |
| 14 | Why do men/ LVM keep try to invite themselves into your life?I wonder if this is the same case with men. Especially if they’re attractive or popular for whatever reason. They think their presence is a gift and have no problem trying to insert themselves into your life regardless of how you feel about it. It’s super annoying. I have found that even men who were never popular, even men who never had a girlfriend, still think they are a gift and have no problem inserting themselves into a woman's life regardless of how she feels about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 15 | Men literally believe murder is a justified response to a woman leaving. Also men still think a woman who was literally murdered by her partner was just “pulling the abuse card”They made couples' Tik Toks previously? That is concerning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:56 AM |
| 21 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupRight? Girlfriend has an accident after 6 months when they are 22, he would have been GONE. She seems to have such a good heart and he not only takes it for granted, he seems to hate her because she grew up with richer parents than he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:17 AM |
| 17 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupOmg, that second page! The sheer ENTITLEMENT he feels towards the job he got, lol. "Yeah her VP uncle got me a job, but I have a business degree so it's not like I was unqualified". That's how contacts work? Like if he didn't know him he'd have hired another business grad that he would have known or if he had only strangers applying he'd have picked the best candidate in interview which we know wouldn't have been this dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:01 AM |
| 31 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).Sometimes I say I enjoy a movie because it has strong female characters. There's a subset of men who hate that buzzword and I enjoy making them worry that it's catching on unironically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”Beards are unclean, but I get some guys wear one because they are insecure. Maybe I'd do the same if I was an insecure man. And I think some wear a beard because being hairy is their only masculine trait and it makes them feel more manly. I can't really think of another reason to wear a beard. If they aren't dating women, I see little harm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?No, it's literally that height is part of attractiveness like any other body characteristic. I don't know why the fuck you insist on making it separate from other characteristics. It's a fucking physical trait like any other. "Oh that guy is average looking except he's short". He's not average looking then. It's like saying "oh a girl with an ugly face has to max out all her other stats" WELL FUCKING DUH. Being short for a man is ugly. Period. If you have one ugly characteristic it helps to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 23 | Stop giving the benefit of the doubt to rotten-minded men. They will never change their default worldview.There was this guy where every time I asked him a question he said "you answer first" and after I gave my answer he said "no way! that's my favorite too! we're so alike, it's crazy!". But more subtle than that, there was this guy who just figured I didn't smoke and didn't do drugs so he lied to me and said he didn't smoke and didn't do drugs. They are SHAMELESS. They will say anything to get sex. They will lie for years and not even feel guilty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:16 PM |
| 430 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).I think we can do better than that. Things you can say to piss off men: "no" "it would feel like dating my brother" "I don't see you in a sexual way" "you're just not my type" "I'm used to dating tall men" "I think you would make a great boyfriend [but for someone else]" "I love Ghostbusters 2016" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:06 PM |
| 15 | Had to read this in my English comp class.. immediately thought of you all ❤️❤️❤️ Mods, please delete if not allowed.It's interesting that she's essentially describing the life of an upper middle class man. They would be the ones doing graduate studies while their wife works to support them with the expectation that after his graduation he'll make enough money for her to be a housewife. It sounds like a good deal, but it also sounds like that's just a fraction of men. It also makes me think we have to be less efficient today than before as individual. Back then one individual (the upper middle-class man) was r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?He stuck his head out of a car window, the other guy was outside the car and pushed him against the window, it was very surprising yeah, they were not fighting, they were "playing" or pranking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 03:41 PM |
| 22 | Omg lol. Scrote husband spends 4 hours a day several days a week doing online therapy. More like porn/cam girls, video games, or both. The audacity. I just can’t 😂😂I don't think he loves her if he needs 4 hours a day of therapy and screams at her that he needs privacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.Ok well I don't feel sexual attraction for random guys who happen to be attractive. For me to be sexually attracted to a guy would only happen if we're already close and there's emotional attachment. But I don't believe in needing a special word for that, I think it's normal. Again, men have 10 times more testosterone than women. You may deny not experiencing attraction like they do, but the biology is there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.No. Women have 10 times less testosterone. I don't think we experience sexual attraction the way men do. And there's not the "must be able to get an erection" test. You could say I'm demisexual or whatever, but I don't believe in these neo sexual orientations. Some people joke that being demisexual is just being a woman and I wouldn't disagree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 01:37 PM |
| -1 | What if the "bad boys" women prefer are just disagreeable?I disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Sure, but it's not universally about the guy being taller than them, some women just want a tall guy, or an average guy, and 5'7 is short for a white man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.There's really no separation between men I'm attracted to and men I'm unattracted to. There's just men. I dated ugly dudes who were short and I never thought I wasn't attracted to them. I also wouldn't think I'm attracted to someone. It just is. I was agreeable and did my best to treat them like the most handsome man in the world. I wasn't thirsting after taller or more handsome dudes either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore?"Anymore" When? It seems like a super modern concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The sex life of the average man pre free love movement was much worse than todayThey didn't trade a way off the streets in exchange for sex. They traded a way off the streets for her labor. A wife would join your household and become free labor. She could work on the farm, cook the meals, make baskets and go sell stuff. Sometimes they needed children too. It's really not like "give me sex and I'll provide financially". It was way more about their labor and occasionally producing children for more free labor. How much sex would be had would probably be... not a lot! He's not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The sex life of the average man pre free love movement was much worse than todayIt didn't suck for men, but I don't think they had much sex with their wife. Their only option was to rape their wife, and while they could do that, if they wanted to keep some kind of peace in their home life, it was probably best not to. I'm just being realistic. You could rape your wife, but you needed her cooperation with raising the kids, cooking you hopefully delicious meals, and a million other things, so maybe the regular guy would choose not to rape his wife too often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The sex life of the average man pre free love movement was much worse than todayBoomers in North America were having sex as teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The sex life of the average man pre free love movement was much worse than todaySex IS supposed to be horrible for women. It always was. It's often painful and women DO NOT need to feel pleasure to get pregnant. It was probably a traumatizing thing for most. Think that men were probably not trying to make it pleasurable for women back then either. For fun sex men went to prostitutes. And the thing is, yes, a man could rape his wife, or have access to her a lot, BUT he needed to work in partnership with his wife to a degree. He needed her to cook for instance, and if he want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:36 PM |
| 1 | “Women are NOT a hive mind “, yet in any content where they Interview a group of women, their answers ALWAYS mirror each other’sInterview me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What if the "bad boys" women prefer are just disagreeable?It's really hard to find a disagreeable man who is a good person at his core. I would doubt this statement. I'm sure there are plenty of disagreeable men who are good people at their core, and that probably makes them the ideal partners. They'll get what they want, get things done, which will benefit the family, and they'll still not be doing anything bad or truly harmful. agreeable men are still the majority of men. In varying degrees. I would disagree with that too. A lot of men who are unsucc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4M How would you prefer a woman to reject you?Bring back ghosting! "I'm not interested", which is the top answer here, is taken by men as an invitation to argue. Don't take advice from men. Of course they'll you to say that because they want the chance to argue. Happens to me so much. Straight up "I'm not interested" and the men go on about how we're perfect for each other and I'm not allowed my opinion on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:10 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Low inhib can also make a guy unattractive. They were many guys in college, good looking enough in practice, but their personalities were repulsive to women, and usually they were more too low inhib rather than too high inhib, like oversharing, making lots of jokes, but they aren't funny, just seems slightly off and deranged. High inhib might not be inherently unattractive to women, he just doesn't go talk to women, so they think he's not interested. Women aren't going to go find out and perseve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:09 PM |
| -1 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?There's a thing called personality too. Even with no looks, no money, no talents, not doing anything special, some guys are just tolerable to talk to, and some others aren't. They can probably tell without talking to you too, just from your clothes, demeanor, the way you move and talk to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:57 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?It obviously happens though, to close your eyes to it and pretend like it's not happening is just madness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:55 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Why do you say that? All these lies. I'm 5'6 and when I was 18 my boyfriend was 5'5 and when I was 21 my boyfriend was 5'7. We went out in public all the time. Not on dates because they never took me on dates, but we'd be out living our lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I will always admit a 5'2 man has no chance. But a lot of my male friends were about 5'6 (like my size) and they dated and had girlfriends. Even some of the guys who were considered the most attractive were about 5'6. So a short guy with a pretty face and nice physique did a killing and a short guy with an ordinary face and physique did normal. I saw one guy who was 5'7 who did poorly and he was bald and it was his personality anyway. Like a bit of an extroverted cringe personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Most of the time though the best looking women are with the best looking short guys. It kinda just proves the bar is much higher for short men. I hate your lack of self-awareness. First of all, you're refusing to acknowledge that being short is part of being an ugly man in the same way that having an ugly face or narrow butt is part of being an ugly woman. Second of all, you're trying to tell us that the fact that good looking women pair up with good looking men is some kind of sign that it's to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:43 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?Ok, you've never seen it, but I'm 5'6 and dated a guy who was 5'5 then 5'7. Lots of guys around this height had a girlfriend too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Is porn ruining average sexual experiences for men by raising their expectations on how much sexual women should be with them?I think it's ruining sexual experiences for women. Like yes, some women do act as sexual as in porn in real life, but it's impossible to tell how much of that is genuine and how much of that is because women heard of porn. I know for myself even without watching porn I was aware of it (you see parody of it or bits in movies) so that definitely defined how I thought I was supposed to make the bedroom experience like for a boyfriend. Compare this to if I was a wife pre-TV and pre-pornography and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Narc Speak Handy Pocket GuideHow are you any better than jealous LVMs who abuse their girlfriend because she talked to another man? As someone who was abused by a jealous LVM once, I don't find it funny at all when you girls think it's cool when you do it to men. Go to therapy if you can't stop being jealous and also don't date men who cheat and you'll never have anything to worry about it. I think it's so low value this movement of "us strong girls can be jealously possessive of our fuckboy boyfriend", just no, just stop d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 03:47 AM |
| 0 | Narc Speak Handy Pocket GuideWhat does that even mean? Jealousy like this kills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 06:38 PM |
| -3 | Narc Speak Handy Pocket GuideI mean... how else are you supposed to say someone is just a friend if they really are just a friend lol? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 08:28 AM |
| 11 | What would you consider going above and beyond?I like how much initiative he showed, finding the lot and everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 07:16 AM |
| 3 | What would you consider going above and beyond?Nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 07:09 AM |
| 5 | What would you consider going above and beyond?Wow that is great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 9 | Don't settle for less 😆Take out the narration (his secret thoughts and actions) and he says all the right things and even comes off as an introverted nice guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:02 AM |
| 14 | Don't settle for less 😆Imagine a cut of You without the voice over narration. The actor actually acts so shy and sweet in his scenes like he outwardly appears like an introverted nice guy who doesn't talk much. I feel like the subtlety of his acting is a bit lost since there's constantly the super violent stream of thoughts as a voice over. Is this what the quiet guys are thinking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 36 | Seen on Facebook. No, teach your sons to stop murdering their partners.Kind of misses the point that some women have no "home" to return to. Gabby died even though she was in open communication with her family and had a place to go home to, they still couldn't see anything wrong with Brian Laundry even after they were stopped by the police for an altercation. Imagine how it is for women who are more isolated than that. For me the takeaway is ask women around you how their relationship is doing, even if you have no suspicion it's going badly. And when people tell yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 22 | Seen on Facebook. No, teach your sons to stop murdering their partners.Right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:49 AM |
| 56 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?When I was 18 I got my first boyfriend, who was short and date raped me on the worst first date ever, but it was my first time having a guy interested in me, and after a week of dating a taller guy seized his head as a joke and it broke off all his front teeth down to the bone. We brought him to the hospital and honestly, well, poor guy. But then he had no teeth no for like 6 months while his bone heeled and before they could screw in fake teeth. Just thinking about it I'm thinking it was really… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:48 AM |
| 22 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?Had a guy who swore he was incapable of leaving me alone or he would k- himself, I spent months trying to reason with him (that he should leave me alone) to no avail, he even faked his suicide and kept insisting he was planning it. One day I asked to speak to his parents. Keep in mind he was 42, but I was so far past the end of my rope and extremely exhausted from having all that weight on my shoulders with no help. I thought I'll warn his family, tell them all the info I have, then he'll be the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 11 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.The most unattractive thing about him is that I'm pretty sure he uses the word magnanimous wrong... If you're focusing on his flaws that would be the opposite of magnanimous... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 07:30 AM |
| 5 | Men who are virgins late in life are red flags.Combine a man who is physically incapable of having sex with a man who sees women as nothing but sex objects and you get a late bloomer. I talked to some in-cels online and they all turned out to have a penis deformity or micropenis. I felt like that was the whole unspoken truth of their community. The other thing is these late bloomers are usually lower effort than other men and then are shocked to get lesser results. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:39 AM |
| 31 | Buzzfeed pushing dangerous LV shitRemember when the men working at Buzzfeed had testosterone levels way below the normal zone for men. https://i.imgur.com/XHauJYy.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Woman’s date goes berserk over “National Dog Mom Day”You know when he sees this he's going to text her "these were private messages! when I text someone I have an expectation that these messages stay between us". Guess how do I know this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:44 PM |
| 15 | Why do south asian girls settle for averageI don't know, the white women around me also date down. For me I concluded that it's because women outnumber men in college. Men like to give the example of women who marry rich businessmen or something, but where I live the women are more ambitious than the men, so you mostly see women who are doctors and super nice and active pairing up with just ordinary guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:34 PM |
| 261 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesYeah I hate when they do that. "Hey, excuse me! Excuse me!" They say this with the urgency of trying to warn someone to get off the train tracks when a train's coming. They do this so that if you're naïve you'll be like "oh what, does he need urgent help, did I just step on a kitten, I should ask what's going on" and then they have your attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?1st grade! In kindergarten we didn't have assigned seats, but then the whole of primary school we had these desks put together in desk islands and they'd always pair me with a problematic boy because I was so calm and a good student. They literally expose us to bad influences so that the problematic boys can be exposed to good influences. This principle was engrained in me and my whole school life I volunteered to help struggling boys. The irony of seeing men today complain that women didn't do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 5 | He cheated because he “liked me too much” 🥺🥺🥺🥺Same for the guy who threatened to off himself if I didn't date him. He said "I've never loved anyone as much as I love you". I've always said with friends like this you don't need enemies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!This cat thing has done way too far. There are reasons to dislike cats that have nothing to do with the fact that you must earn a cat's trust. First of all some people who have dogs are very caring and take good care of their dogs. I can think of many reasons not to like cats: They all look the same, unlike dogs who have a variety of sizes and looks They kill birds They carry diseases They smell and make your house smell like cat Dogs are more sporty, as in you can bring your dogs along to do sp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 09:51 PM |
| 27 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩My ex was only happy when he was horny / during sex. I engaged in a lot of sex because it was a shitty time if he wasn't happy. It's not even like we had a stressful life. We didn't live together, we didn't share any responsibilities, we didn't have anything to argue about, we were just hanging out on vacation. But he was a super shy introverted gamer who medicated with weed. Big contrast to me who never did drugs... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 09:39 PM |
| -6 | Because women go through it, you can't ask for respect for your male bodyOk, but the women saying "now you know how women feel" aren't commenting on his body? | /r/MensRights | 16/10/21 09:25 PM |
| 0 | “Make women feel safe”Roughly 26% (1/4) of men's suicides are linked to domestic violence and psychological abuse (which women are more likely to perpetrate). Bro, you can't even read the study! I had a whole answer prepared, but then I clicked one of your links and saw that you misread it so I'm not going to bother with what I was planning to say. I assume you didn't find these arguments yourself so you probably got them from this sub so I hope you'll tell your fellow members that you are blindly following media man… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/21 09:22 PM |
| -3 | “Make women feel safe”Basically what's going on is that male-on-male crime already gets all the ressources (police, justice system). That's just the default in society, that we invest tons of ressources into protecting men from other men. What gets ignored is violence against women, that's why people try to raise awareness for it. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/21 10:56 PM |
| 32 | According to one study, 43% of women who are murdered by their intimate partners had been strangled by them in the past year. Once a woman has been strangled by her partner, the likelihood that he will strangle her again rises tenfold. The likelihood that he will murder her rises nearly eightfold.When I turned 21 and my older brother was almost 25, we were visiting my parents' house, I complained about something, my brother went for my neck, he strangled me against the wall, pushing up so that I couldn't move away. He said he hates me so much and he wants to kill me, that I have a face that he wants to punch, then he pretended like he was going to punch me in the face to scare me, then he let go. He doesn't remember this happening and everybody says it's impossible, even though that's ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:57 PM |
| 147 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"For me it's a red flag if the guy didn't think about having kids until he was 40, then is hit with a case of the regrets, and thinks he can fix it by using the reproductive ressources of a younger woman. Especially if he knows nothing about having kids, doesn't have a house, and feels he will just "pick it up along the way". These men are just delusional. If you're dad material, you're dad material, you won't somehow transform yourself over 40. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:07 PM |
| -2 | “Make women feel safe”I think you're confusing where this advice comes from. People tell you that women like to feel safe and protected when dating. Why? Because you'll get more girlfriends that way. Nobody is telling anyone to make the random women they aren't dating "feel safe". If you mean to complain about the fact that femicide sometimes gets media attention even though more men are killed overall, well that's because femicide is specifically a case of intimate partner violence. It's not just that women get kill… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 54 | No words. Rest in beautiful peace, AgnesMen so often stopping women's stories to prioritize their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:09 AM |
| 6 | Objective vs Subjective: Make sure he meets your needs, not just your standards.Both my needs and my standards are too low. I've been raised to do charity dating: be rich, intelligent, fit, classy but date men who are broke, short, unfit, uneducated... It's hard to shake off because I'm genuinely happy with ugly, poor, mean guys... I'm just naturally happy and it's hard to stop me from having a good time! My boyfriends were bad in bed and rude to me yet I wasn't bothered. I was just like no problem! But I want to start believing I deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I guess kissing is also done "because it turns people on to give pleasure" then 😂 But hey, if guys found it a chore to go down on you, okay I just know that I dislike receiving oral sex yet guys would beg me to go down on me. It's certainly not something I would ever ask them to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:54 AM |
| 16 | A joint Facebook account won’t stop him from cheatingWell if he's had a lot of girlfriends, cheated before, is someone who slept around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 10:30 PM |
| 14 | A joint Facebook account won’t stop him from cheatingJust date normal guys who aren't trying to cheat... I don't know if that counts as a strategy, but I find it pretty easy to tell which guys look like they're not going to cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?men don't get physical pleasure from giving head Except they do? Obviously some men don't like it and you shouldn't force those men to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 08:45 PM |
| 27 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I too enjoy making a partner happy, but that's not really a good thing. Giving a lot of blowjobs is hard to maintain. Jaw pain, mouth corners breaking and then not healing. It's the cool girl trap. You hear guys complaining about women only giving blowjobs on birthdays so you think "I'll be cool and give blowjobs all the time even if it's an ordinary day". But for what? Would he do romantic things for you even if it's an ordinary day? Or would he do the bare minimum to keep a relationship going?… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Isn't that the definition of a pickme though? You enjoy doing things not to make yourself feel good, but because you feel good being impressive to men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 47 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Sounds like a keeper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 11 | blocked and deleted a scrote for switching up on me after 2nd dateLove it. I wish I knew about FDS when I was in my early 20s. I would have blocked and deleted guys who sent messages at night, and it would have left me with... no boys, as it should have been! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 44 | What are your best tips for letting go of the IDEA you have a person?Sometimes they lie to you about who they are, so you get feelings before you get the full picture, which would not have happened if they had given you the full picture. This isn't your fault. They played with your feelings. I would say get busy and meet new people (not romantic). Hopefully you will meet much better people than him. Even if it's not romantic, it will make you feel that you can't go back to boring people like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Catch me if you can 🏃🏽♀️I dated a guy who was actually from a developing country. He was still unable to crack it in a developing country, unwilling and uninterested in visiting other developing countries, and just generally so prejudiced against people from developing countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:51 AM |
| 102 | Talk to your ex’s exTo be honest all my exes were short incels so they never had another partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:45 AM |
| 21 | University of Delaware is still trying to cover this up.I like that protect women sign. I want it on a t-shirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:35 AM |
| 23 | HV relationships, age difference, and poll.My parents are the same age, they were in the same year in medical school, though they mostly met through friends. My brothers married women who are their age too. It's all going strong... But for myself I've noticed that I only get offers from guys who have poorer social networks and relationships than me. Maybe that's normal, but then these guys should bring something "masculine" to the table. They usually don't. They usually show up with poorer social connections, less money, lesser looks, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 22 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenI saw a man who vowed that he would never let a divorce happen to him because "anything could worked through", but he gave off the vibe of a man who would murder his children if his wife left him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 56 | Gabby Petite’s cause of death has been released as strangulation. Does anyone else think Laundries team will try to use sex as a defense?No, I don't think so. That could only be said if he immediately reported the incident to the police. It has to be criminal to say you left dead body after unintentionally causing their death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:11 PM |
| 21 | Offline FDS StrategiesI think it would help if people with good partners were honest about how they got them. It's not just "oh I got so lucky I met my husband". It should be something like "I made myself unavailable to poor and problematic men by nipping in the bud any of their attempts to get near me, I was only friendly and open with men who met my standards (good degree and good character, smart, competent, pleasant), that's how I met my husband". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | This post will probably be removed.This is still Reddit, people will have different ideas, and the content will reflect what the users feel like posting. It's also possible that any community devolves into memes because people like to be entertained. I think when people link to other internet content it's mostly to make fun of how low the bar is for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 02:48 PM |
| 7 | A Coward Move Many Men Make and I Just Don’t UnderstandI get the frustration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 20 | A Coward Move Many Men Make and I Just Don’t UnderstandWhat are you talking about, sis? I can't read after this: If you get annoyed and tell them to go away. It could be a serious year long relationship and they’ll be like- Ok. She told me to go away. There’s nothing I can do. Like so fucking weak and childlike. Telling a man to go away is not an invitation to try harder! Too many think it is and that's why it's so hard to get rid of them. Don't play games, sis. If you want a man to fix things, tell him so. If you tell a man to go away, be glad he r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 8 | Don't let a man colonize your life if he doesn't respect its value AND add to it.Great advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:56 AM |
| 7 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.I'm kind of surprised he can be a doctor and have such poor emotional intelligence, but I guess some med schools are less selective than others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Ummm. What?Imagine using women to make babies like this :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:24 AM |
| 31 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This man must have observed his fair share of male assholes to empirically arrive at the correct conclusion that women have a shorter distance there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:57 AM |
| 53 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This has probably been said already, but that is the gayest shit I've ever read. The ano-genital distance is literally a measure of how feminine or masculine a person is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 8 | My HV bf drove 4 hours round-trip to pick me up because I *might* be uncomfortableNice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 8 | Racist scrote had it comingYou can't make that shit up. Works as a diversity consultant and has a "race" kink? Just shows his principles were fake! Good thing his employer was warned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:46 PM |
| 10 | Cause of death: the audacity 😉 Share a story of a time a scrote either mansplained something you’re an expert in or made a hilarious statement like below. I’ll go first in comments!I met a man online. He described himself as having gotten "a bit of an office layer lately", but he insisted he could go running with me and beat me at a 10k. I laughed it off thinking he was just joking around, but he insisted his mental strength would not let him lose. He was convinced of this. It made no sense as I had beaten men at their physical peak, but I wasn't there to argue with him, so I was just like yeah okay :))). I met him in person and he was actually really heavy. We had video c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:16 PM |
| 28 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh together1 inch shorter than me Slower than me Cried in my arms that his mom said I was too pretty/smart/rich/talented for him and that I would never stay with him - guilt tripping me into envisioning marrying him Drunk-crashed multiple cars despite not having a car himself Beta shy personality Got fatter every month, while I kept exercising and remained the same size Followed his friends like a sheep into the stupidest situations, including: drinking and dashing for hundreds of dollars, shitting in stra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 76 | What in the FUCK did I just readI already have a big girl why would I want another They literally see women as objects :O | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenYou're so dumb lol. I'm literally giving you actual statistics of how many people use cannabis when it's legal and you refuse to make the intellectual effort to process the information! Instead you hold on to this completely useless stat lol: Pew Research says that over 90% of people support legalization. You can support legalization and not use cannabis LOL. Omg I hope someone's seeing this and laughing at how stupid you are. I think we're done here, there's no use talking with someone as profo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenNo, I literally took the percentage from where it's legal. In Canada, where weed is legal in all the country, it's 50% of people 20-25 who have used weed in the past 12 months. Get educated, it wouldn't kill you to read statistics lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 08:08 AM |
| 31 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.I am honestly angry at the sex education I received. They taught us it was normal to have sex at 14 and over. But it was just boys who wanted to have sex. All the girls were instructed that they had to because sex is so normal and everyone is having it and basically hurry and have it already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:10 PM |
| 23 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsLetting guys ask you out is a good filter in the sense that he has to want to be with you enough to take the risk of getting humiliating by a rejection. It's still not perfect obviously because some men have no shame, are delusional, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 7 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsThey spoke as if the goal is to get commitment from a man, but a lot of the time that man is worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 14 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsYes, I'm so tired of hearing men saying "you're not going to get commitment like this". Broooo, we don't even need to have the guy like us for us to get commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 40 | Scrote father goes to dinner with his daughter, enjoys insinuation that he’s dating her 🤮My cousin told me when she was about 16 that she liked holding her dad's hand in public, but her dad had recently told her she couldn't do it anymore because they would look like they are dating. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but I think I finally understood what he meant the other day. I was out with my parents getting ice cream and there was this duo of a woman looking in her twenties and a man looking my dad's age, but there was something off about their behavior, they spoke more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 23 | HVM Traits You've Noticed in the WildKind of a college example, but my friend's boyfriend didn't like partying, so when there were university parties he didn't go, but my friend herself never missed a party, and her boyfriend always gave her rides to and from the party if she wanted one. She could drink and she didn't have to worry about parking or walking. She didn't have to wait until the end of the party for someone else to give her a ride either. She could just leave whenever she was tired. He would also give me a ride if I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:47 PM |
| 28 | Ghosting is the only way of dumping. Saying goodbye always opens you to being gaslighted, manipulated and places the burden of explaining what went wrong on you. Just disappear. Or slowly fade. Or run.Bring back ghosting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:24 PM |
| 43 | Ghosting is the only way of dumping. Saying goodbye always opens you to being gaslighted, manipulated and places the burden of explaining what went wrong on you. Just disappear. Or slowly fade. Or run.Men have made it this new culture where like ghosting is "so rude" and apparently the worst thing a person can do. They've done this because they want the chance to argue, gaslight, guilt trip. Realistically, if they aren't trying to change the girl's mind, ghosting or not leads to the same outcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:23 PM |
| 18 | Trying to find a female subreddit directed towards Latinas but can only find porn…He gave sexually/BDSM charged one-liners to an underage Liz Gillies (who subsequently was groomed and married one of the older men in charge of that tv show). Omg yes. Some grown adult man was working as a music producer on Disney shows, spending years working with teenage actors, and he got a wife out of it. So gross! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 18 | Trying to find a female subreddit directed towards Latinas but can only find porn…Reddit is overridden by porn though. Back in the day I search for a subreddit for gingers (red hair, freckles and pale skin) and it was porn of women with red hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenMe and the 50% better half of the population under 25. Above 25 it's more like 80% who don't use weed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenLook up statistics, it wouldn't kill you. People with degrees are less likely to smoke weed, and incidence of self-reported weed consumption is inversely proportional to self-reported mental health. Yes, people who use weed are quite literally losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenI mean, imagine your dating pool being so shitty that you prefer a girl who "pops weed gummies for her anxiety" (whatever that is) over an alcoholic who takes trips to Vegas. What bottom of the barrel do you find these girls, lol. Women are less likely to be alcoholics and weed users than men. You truly have no excuse for seeking out the most fucked up women you can find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenIt's like 50% of people under 25 who use weed where it's legal. It's your choice if you want to hang out with the bottom 50%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenGood luck finding some teetotaller educated and attractive woman in this country. That's such bullshit lol. Literally all my friends I grew up with and my relatives and the girls I met in university are educated fit women who never used weed. It's not being a teetotaller, lol, only people with addiction problems would use that word. For normal people it's called just not having been interested in drugs. And we are completely liberal, not religious and no boarding schools. People who do drugs are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenA chick who eats a gummy every day for her anxiety lol. Why do you have to aim for addicts? There are plenty of women who don't drink alcohol and don't consume weed. It's like smoking cigarettes. It's a waste of money and it's dirty and only stupid people do it or mentally ill people. But I guess you can only sleep with addicts. Cool. Kind of unethical, but I guess that's what you like to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:34 AM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenI mean in any given place, even where weed is legal, you'll have classy women who don't smoke weed, and then low class women who do smoke weed. But then again you must smoke weed yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Remember gentlemen: women don’t want your used up peenWomen only have sex with you if you don't open your mouth, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:46 PM |
| 14 | Remember gentlemen: women don’t want your used up peenOh wow it's almost as if this meme was constructed to show that it makes no sense to say that penises stretch vaginas because when you flip it around and say vagina pressure causes penises to shrink you can see it's not logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Jestermax these sluts 🧢No my point is if a show is more watched by females, it gets more ratings from females. Imdb ratings overrepresent men due to men not being able to refrain sharing their opinion about everything as if everyone is dying to hear it, but not to the point of doubling or tripling the ratio. When you have a ratio of 23:7, that's a show that is more watched by men than by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Jestermax these sluts 🧢If you look at the ratings for Grey's Anatomy, it's more females than males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Just be nazi theoryWell exchanges that don't stop at "lol yeah right we should totally fuck lol". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Jestermax these sluts 🧢The Office on imdb was rated by 233 191 males compared to 70 252 females, but sure, women are the ones responsible for ubiquitous "The Office jokes" 🙄 Actually I don't know if we should take this moment to realize that when trying to name something lame about women, you came up with something that is about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:47 PM |
| 154 | I'm so sad for my sweet friend.The med school where I live had about 70% female students 10+ years ago, they had to change and tell interviewers to boost the boys' marks because men didn't have good enough grades to get in. I think something like this happened in Japan too (where they tried to falsify applications to make it easier for boys to get in). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksLol no. It's that men do 90% of the approaching, that's why it looks like women are pickier if you compare men who get approached by women versus women who get approached by men. But the reason is not that women are pickier, it's that culturally women do less approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:13 PM |
| -2 | Just be nazi theoryThe girls' messages are ALL jokes lol. He doesn't have ONE message of a girl actually meeting with him. Notice how all his screenshot stop before they detail how they'll meet? Because they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:07 PM |
| -1 | Just be nazi theoryI'm just socially aware to know what's up. He has 0 messages of women coming to his place or him going to a woman's place. Like no "here's my address, I'll be there at 6, I'm here, where do I park, how do I ring". All he has to show is girls joking about his swastika, showing that women do in fact have a sense of humor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:05 PM |
| -4 | Just be nazi theoryI mean, if you've never gotten laid I guess you don't know what it looks like, but this just look like they are joking around. Like the girl says "where do you live" because that's the normal follow up, but watch as she stops replying when he actually asks her to come over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:03 PM |
| -5 | Jestermax these sluts 🧢I can entertain males, why can't you entertain females? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Funny how women on PPD insist that unattractive men demand models but never post evidence, while r/WAATGM consistently posts overweight women demanding tall, fit men.I was just making a funny joke, I don't see why that's the one that makes everyone so angry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:14 PM |
| -5 | Just be nazi theoryYou guys are brain dead. These are his 5 best messages and notice how none of them are actually sealing the deal (giving a place, address, showing they are on their way, etc.). There's only one message that comes close to saying they'll meet (the one who says "mine" for a place) and even that one cuts before any continuation. These women were just joking with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Whether you are pro vax or not this is funnyWell I get the joke and it is hilarious, but the joke is based on the fact that this man pays on dates. Why does he? Men who don't pay on dates... don't complain that dating is expensive. Are you following me? It's like he's trying to be a boss like "I ain't paying for no dates" except... he doesn't have to? He just tells on himself that he chose to pay on dates. If he wants to make Tik Toks about not paying on dates, he could just... not pay on dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:07 PM |
| -1 | Funny how women on PPD insist that unattractive men demand models but never post evidence, while r/WAATGM consistently posts overweight women demanding tall, fit men.I'm glad you thought it was funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 0 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialProbably because she knows he's a red pill guy and she thought he was his intention was to mock her. The whole post is stupid like guy who usually is a red pill troll says something he doesn't mean as a troll and when the girl takes it as a troll he says it's proof that his red pill theories are correct. There's too many layers of assuming what the other thinks. She's offended because she thinks he means in an offending way and he thinks that's proof of something, but it isn't. It's just proof t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialYeah but you can read from the context that he thinks she took is as a negative. I mean that's what his post is saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Funny how women on PPD insist that unattractive men demand models but never post evidence, while r/WAATGM consistently posts overweight women demanding tall, fit men.It's not good. There's no mathematical reason for it to be easier to find a good male mate than a good female. The desperate men have to be shit partners who offer a shit deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Funny how women on PPD insist that unattractive men demand models but never post evidence, while r/WAATGM consistently posts overweight women demanding tall, fit men.Also, these people have a different idea of "fit and handsome". Many "curvy" women (ie. obese American women) will say they are fit because they do exercise and go on hikes even at their size. The "fit and handsome" man she is looking for is probably a "dad bod" guy (ie. obese American man). What's so wrong if a fat woman wants to call her fat lumberjack boyfriend fit and handsome? The amount of obese men who describe themselves as fit is high because some people in the US are active at the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Funny how women on PPD insist that unattractive men demand models but never post evidence, while r/WAATGM consistently posts overweight women demanding tall, fit men.A man can walk into a room with 100 age appropriate women and easily think, "I'm attracted to 74 of these people" A man can also walk into a room with 100 age inappropriate women and think that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:05 PM |
| -1 | Funny how women on PPD insist that unattractive men demand models but never post evidence, while r/WAATGM consistently posts overweight women demanding tall, fit men.Because women don't take creepy photos of strangers in public places! Women also don't throw their friends under the bus by posting a picture of their boyfriend online to roast them. Women are just classier, but we see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:04 PM |
| 0 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Also, I thought incels were angry because everyone kept telling them they are incels because of their personality, not their looks, and the incels long fought to prove that it's their looks the problem. Now you're trying to argue that it's not your looks, it's your personality? Make it make sense. Literally no one said it was your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 9 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Being incel is simply having a disconnect between what woman you think you should get and what you can actually get. It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Nobody says that, we say you're an incel because of you terrible antisocial personality, disdain of women, refusal to approach women who would actually date you, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:59 PM |
| -3 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialNo, it was pretty clear from the context of the post that OP was implying that her friend thought relationship material = ugly. It's not my opinion, but I can read context and intent. Here OP's intent was to say it's a "proof" that relationship material means less attractive guy. It's definitely not my opinion and I also wouldn't have thought that's what OP's friend had meant unless OP made a point of making this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksThen I guess you were not hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksIt's just way more likely that you are bad at estimating guy's looks. I know that I studied with ugly dudes - nerds who didn't do sports, were overweight or short, untrimmed beards and metal band t-shirts, and if they were tall and skinny they were skinny fat with bad posture and horrible shirtless look, I saw very well what girls they are into. Not a single overweight girl for them, despite a lot of them being overweight. They were literally grossed out by a girl having the slightest fat on her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 74 | FDS is and will always remain a dating sub first and foremost. Any suggestions to rename the sub or redirect its focus will be removed and offending users bannedThey may already be among us. I think usually the best way to tell someone is a woman is - unfortunately - if she has horror stories of being treated poorly by men. Men, for all their creative writing skills, don't want to admit that men do bad things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksLike I said, the only men who date down in looks will be the very most attractive men, because there are no women more attractive than them and they still have to date SOMEONE. But they'll date the most attractive women, duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksIn all probability, you are probably shit at assessing look percentiles. Men only date above their looksmatch. That's like the only solid truth in dating. Men will rather attribute less points to other traits to put all their chips on the girl's looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenWomen statistically don't like weed as much as men. What dumpster hole do you hang out in where women smoke weed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 3 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenWhy, the lot of us who are ugly certainly had to evolve to be better people while going through school and seeing every day we couldn't get men to cooperate like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenalso i am insecure now that my gf will leave with a guy who is an inch or two taller She should! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:11 PM |
| -7 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialWell you have red pill views so she can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksBy the basic concept of a looks match that means that 80% of those women getting attention are actually matches for 80% of men. And what I'm saying is they get attention only for men below their looksmatch. That's why the bottom 20% of women don't get attention, because they don't have men below their looksmatch to think they're hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksSex pests are a predatory case of their own. Mentally healthy women don't have casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksNo, women would be accepting of dating further below their looksmatch. What you're confused about is that men do the approaching. So women are not asking out all the men they would accept to date, but they would accept to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are not less picky when it comes to looksYes, a looksmatch is the woman who is more attractive than 50% of WOMEN would be looksmatched with a man who is more attractive than 50% of MEN. Men are not attracted to their looksmatch. Men who are more attractive than 30% of men will go after women who are more attractive than 60% of women, and so on. When a man gets with his looksmatch after 25+ years of inceldom hoping to get with hotter women, he is disappointed and ambivalent. I've seen it over and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:03 PM |
| 11 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.Yes! EVERYONE attracts LVM, the difference is some women know how to reject them immediately. If you don't reject LVM, there's no room for HVM to approach you, and so you start thinking "I only attract LVM". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | You can only pick one: either some skinny women date short guys and some fat women refuse to date short guys, making you boil with outrage, or things are perfectly divided where skinny women only date tall guys and short guys only date fat women. Which do you prefer?Maybe you can find a skinny girl and give her protein bars like in Mean Girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Whether you are pro vax or not this is funnyI don't understand this advice because other men manage to go to clubs and restaurants with girls without having to pay for her. Like maybe just don't subscribe to gender roles of the past? Nobody is forcing you to date hot girls and nobody is forcing you to pay for them. You choose to do this because you would rather spend money to make it easier to be with hot girls. You're not a slave of this system, you create and enable this system. Take a very honest look at yourself: would you be willing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | My meme onslaught mighy be getting out of handThey are all the same age. Seems to be pick your path. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:01 PM |
| -2 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialWell she knows you're a sex pest, so she assumed you were calling her boyfriend ugly. Maybe you were genuine in this particular case, but she knows you well enough to assume you were mocking relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:57 PM |
| -3 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialShe probably can tell you hang out on purplepilldebate and hold these views. Someone who isn't red pill wouldn't think this conversation proves relationship material is negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Keep dropping memes slutsSo you'd be okay with girls who aren't fat only dating guys above 6'0? Didn't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | American Women Correctly Analyzed by Chinese OfficialSick burn it's true we don't eat a lot of hot pot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 01:12 PM |
| 137 | We don't compete against other women & we don't chase menI have legitimately never competed with another woman for one man's affection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:09 PM |
| 5 | The most painful part of heartbreak is realizing that he’s never truly loved you. He might’ve even hated you. How to cope with it?What sucks is that even if men are possessive and needy and always ask things of you, they might still hate you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 38 | Moved into my dream apartment, a two-week vacation next week!Wow, I never heard of landlords hiring cleaning services. I actually moved into an apartment that was occupied by a male too and it's way filthier than anything I've ever inhabited. I don't know how they do it, I'm not someone who cleans a lot, but even if I went a long time between cleaning, my old apartment never got visibly filthy. The other thing is when I left my previous apartment, I cleaned it thoroughly to make sure I was leaving it like new. The male who lived in this new apartment didn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:13 PM |
| 18 | Excuse me?Unfortunately we can't put men in prison for things like that because there's already too many of them in prison. There should be another system like when a man does something like that he gets a non-dating card that disqualifies him from ever dating women again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:27 AM |
| 15 | Perfect example of a lovebomb - Dr WendyI don't think that's what she was doing. Obviously what she means is there are rich men in rich areas of Seoul who are trying to buy sex from hot foreigner women. Different environments will have different cultures. Like the story of this post is about rich LA dudes trying to woo hot LA girls with luxury gifts. It doesn't happen everywhere. In other environments love bombing will be purely free just based on emotions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:19 AM |
| 28 | The most requested item at the Afghan refugee camps are condoms! As an Afghan American this disgusts me. So these men that already have 4+ kids while their wives are probably exhausted with no real home of their own and he’s just thinking about his penis. Not surprised.That's horrible. They probably get pregnant because when they are surrounded by so many single men they get harassed to the point that their only choice is to let one of them have sex with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:43 PM |
| 98 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌I just hate this sort of empty messaging. She knows her audience, she knows the men of Reddit will give an upvote, she will feel good and loved, but at the end of the day, she's not dating 3000 short men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 76 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌That is such a pick me message and hypocritical too. "I prefer a short nice guy over a tall jerk." Okay, but does she prefer a tall nice guy over a short nice guy? You should always isolate the parameter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsThe king of Norway yeah he married a single mom. Also Edward IV, but that's more old school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 8 | Suicidal threats and threatening self harm, and staying because you are worried about your partner doing the unthinkable.Not a partner, but I fell down that hole because of Reddit. I was invited by a woman to join a Discord server, which I did because I was so excited to see another woman on Reddit. Then a man befriended me, who seemed to be "not one of the cels", but when I told him I was leaving Discord and I didn't want to dox my identity, he said he was in love with me, he begged me to keep talking to him to see where things go, and he said if I didn't work things out with him he would just k-himself. Be caref… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:06 AM |
| 90 | Saw this on insta today. How cool is this? I've never taken Bcp's for the same reason that they fuck around with your hormones. Same for the morning after pill.Hormonal birth control is barbaric... Like it works, but we all know men wouldn't put themselves through it... And the idea was like "hey we'll render all women temporarily infertile so that everyone can have sex all the time", but they never stopped to ask if we really want to be having all that sex... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsWell the bad immutable traits in men are also only detrimental in getting the women all the other men want so you're not making any sense there. The amount that men care about getting the same women that all the other men want is far greater than how much women care about any guy. See how women get rich off onlyfans. That's because men are literally only interested in women who are not their looksmatch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 07:07 AM |
| 177 | Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.Yes, it's so hard to say no to men, I hate it. "Oh what you don't like me? This is hurting me so much! Come on, it's not even a big deal! You can at least try it, yeah? Please reconsider. It would mean so much to me! I just want to make you happy! Wow, I can't believe you can't do this for me. I've been a fool!" They will literally say and do anything except "okay cool you can go home I'm not salty". And I really think there's this inequality like the girl is thinking "how far can I go to be a c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 4 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsThere are a number of things you cannot change as a woman, things that are arguably more important than body count or number of kids. There are literal kings who married broke single moms. What's important is beauty and face for a woman, and age plays a big part in that, because you have more beauty and a prettier face at a younger age. You're not really making any sense saying face matters for men and not for women. There are also a number of physical characteristics that women cannot change ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 05:23 AM |
| 12 | Why you should NEVER react to a man's mind games/shit testsIt's most likely fiction... but let's suppose there's truth behind it. This is still his interpretation of her feelings, and we know men are always wrong about how they imagine the woman is feeling during dates and sexual encounters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:32 AM |
| 55 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manYeah I'm tired of this. It's pretty obvious that women anticipate other people's needs and give men what they need emotionally without them having to ask for it. There's just a lot that goes into it that men won't notice where women will give them space or encouragement just thanks to being trained in being perceptive. Women have to be perceptive and act first because that's how they have always survived around dangerous, violent, volatile males. And then men congratulate themselves on being so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:54 AM |
| 14 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsI was reading the small crimes section of an online news site, the stuff that nobody cares about, but you know what? It's all male perpetrators. Stuff like the murders of women, sexual aggressions of minors, kidnapping of children, missing people, stalking and harassing. Every story had a male perpetrator or suspect. And they tell us we shouldn't care about those stories, that it's other people's private lives, that we shouldn't lynch people on social media because it can hurt an innocent man, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:49 AM |
| 106 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Men know which women they are interested in and which women they aren't interested in. The fact that a girl asks them out won't change their mind about her. It's also what they do on dating apps. They complain that 100 women aren't answering their messages, but they don't want to go out with the girl who does message them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:27 AM |
| 217 | “My love language is PhYSiCal TouCh”Lots of women get turned off of physical touch only because they know if the man touches them, he gets an erection and starts to try poking it into them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:02 AM |
| 16 | I told her she sounds like a forever girlfriend and asked how after 7 years, they've discussed what he will end their relationship over but not what their future and commitment will look like. Other scrotes trashing her for "making him" give up his dream school.The thing that young women don't realize is that it's hard for men to find a woman, it's not hard for women to find a man. She should do whatever she wants and not care about him. If he cares about her, he'll find a way to make it work, because for him it's hard to find another woman like this. But for her, everywhere she goes there will be more men and better men interested in her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.I'm pretty sure the comment is supposed to be a joke, like he talks about it as if we should be expecting a scam, and the punch line is "marriage is the scam, high five boys". But you can still see that he uses humor to cover up how inferior he feels to his brother. This probably goes back way before his sister in law entered the picture. You can just imagine that growing up his brother was just better at everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:45 AM |
| 2 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?It really grinds my gears when people say women "prefer" abusive men. First of all, you don't know how many single guys would be abusive if they had a girlfriend. You're not defaulted to being a nice guy just because you've never had a girlfriend. What if women are actually good at spotting abusive men and that's why the single guys are single? Give women more credit. The fact that SOME abusive men find girlfriends while SOME good guys are single isn't proof that abusive men are more popular. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?This is SUCH a weird take when talking about your friend who's happily raising two children with the love of her life and who just has this one little nag that she's trying to get him to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Apparently your friend still rather choose this over not having this man and their children. Your "advice" is the terrible one. You advice that your friend should have walked away and be miserable single and childless because as she pouts over marriage being "really important" to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?You advice makes no sense because clearly she would rather be with this man who doesn't want to get married than find a different man who wants to get married. The advice, deriving from your example, should really be "be with the man you really want to be with even if he doesn't want to get married". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?No, sorry, I don't understand what you're saying. Clearly she would rather be with this man unmarried than be with another married. Your advice to leave men who don't want to marry combined with your example of your friend makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Did she want to be engaged before giving birth more than she wanted to raise a kid with this specific man? It's a fair compromise if being with him is more important than being married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?from gibs to commitment to sex. Commitment from a man is not worth more than commitment from a woman. Unless the man has many options and is hard to pin down. But most men are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?You could get married because it's romantic even if you don't want children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:43 AM |
| 12 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?I mean if they have a second kid on the way it looks like it's moving in the right direction. Marriage can't be her main objective, otherwise she wouldn't be there having a second child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Why? I have a friend, her boyfriend said he didn't want to get married because of his parents' divorce. It's a bit sad, but my friend accepted it. They met in college, graduated, traveled together, got jobs together, and started having kids as they neared 30. Maybe there's a higher chance they'll separate, but given their ages they probably have similar stats to married couples? Would he have married a woman he was "more in love" with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Women's biggest fear? To be a forever girlfriend, you need to find a man you would actually want to marry, and then he refuses to marry you. I personally think it's hard to find a man you'd like to marry, and one you're involved with who refused to marry you, probably rare. You guys are acting like all men are catches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Hey, I'm trying to avoid having sex with men, not put myself in a position where I owe sex to TWO men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | When a Tall/Rich/Highly Educated Woman says: "Men don't like to date us" that means, Men who are: "taller than them, richer than them, more educationally qualified than them". They don't see Men who are lesser qualified than them anywhere near.No, the problem is that if you are a 5'7 girl who is rich and educated, it's hard to get a man of the same level of height, money and education. Reality: Testosterone-puberty gives men 5 inches on women. A 5'7 woman is like a 6'0 man. Height is desired in both men and women that's a fact. But the man who is 6'0 and has the same amount of money and education as her might prefer to trade in his money and height for a hotter woman. For instance if a man is 6'0 and is a 5/10 in looks, maybe he's fat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?What are you offering to pay with when you say you want to buy their product? Are you trying to pay for sex, and the prostitutes turn you down until they are old? Who is saying you're a bad person for refusing to buy sex from old prostitutes? Are you sure they aren't just girls telling you you're a bad person for expecting free sex from girls out of your league? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?I don't feel rejected by Neutrogena because they don't hire me to advertise their facewash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?And beautiful women with expertly curated Instagram accounts get offered brand contracts, does that mean that should be the expected experience of every woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?A very small minority and a specific slutty circle. To give you an idea, I'm a woman living in a liberal part of Canada (no slut shaming and no religious upbringing) and none of my friends have had sex outside of with a boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:24 AM |
| 29 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?It's not 95% of women sleeping with 5% of men. It's most women staying far away from dating apps. As someone else said, women don't want casual sex. This shouldn't be a shocker since this is why prostitution has always existed. The women who do have casual sex will do so with friends they trust. These men are not more attractive than others, they are simply there and emotionally close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:01 AM |
| 400 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴This has to be satire. What childless woman would drive a minivan? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations?Basically these traits usually go together: anti-vaxxer blue lives matter women are the true domestic abusers listening to Ben Shapiro believing men save women when boats sink You know what I'm saying? I'm sure Ben Shapiro isn't an anti-vaxxer, but he definitely knows his listeners are anti-vaxxers. He's at least an anti-masker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations?No. I think anti-vaxxer and blue lives matter would have the most overlap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD,who are against more than 5 years of age-gap in relationships in general, are they willing to have enthusiastic relationship with men less than 5 inches, or better still less than 5 cm, taller?I am 5'6 and have dated men 5'5 and 5'7 who were the same age as me. Normies date people in their group of friends or go online to look for someone their age. When you've been socialized around people your age your entire life, that's what you're used to. If you're an isolated weirdo who learns about love from Reddit, then you might go and date younger. This also goes for men who failed their 20s and want to start their life later on, then it's easier for them for find younger women who are not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD,who are against more than 5 years of age-gap in relationships in general, are they willing to have enthusiastic relationship with men less than 5 inches, or better still less than 5 cm, taller?Then why are you shaming women for liking tall men, but not shaming old men for liking young women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD,who are against more than 5 years of age-gap in relationships in general, are they willing to have enthusiastic relationship with men less than 5 inches, or better still less than 5 cm, taller?You're so biased. Why is a man and a woman one inch apart "fair" and "good"? Surely what would be fair and good would be an average height difference? Last time I checked, men grow up with testosterone that makes them 5 inches taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD,who are against more than 5 years of age-gap in relationships in general, are they willing to have enthusiastic relationship with men less than 5 inches, or better still less than 5 cm, taller?Noboby is measuring themselves with their shoes on, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD,who are against more than 5 years of age-gap in relationships in general, are they willing to have enthusiastic relationship with men less than 5 inches, or better still less than 5 cm, taller?Men want women only 7 cm shorter than them (2.75 inches) wheras women want men a whopping 25 cm taller. (9.84 inches) Basically a head taller, woman's mouth comes to a man's chest The average difference in height in this sample of 100,000 then becomes 19cm when a couple is formed Obligatory pointing out you're a biased idiot for this. I hope you'll take the time to hear me out even though I've already insulted you. You're essentially saying "see! women prefer tall men more strongly than men pref… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations?Or so the news / police says. I don't trust anything they say. If a girl was in the shooting line in front of a boy, they just wouldn't report it as "girlfriend gives up her life to protect boyfriend". We all know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Would women be okay sleeping with guys if they had the prior knowledge that guys (other than husbands,fiancees) won't (wouldn't want to) protect them in violent or dangerous situations?Protect from what lol? I'd take my chances facing a gang alone and wouldn't assume any male can offer superior protection. We're not going to overpower someone who decided to attack us and the man I'm with can outrun me, I think I have a better chance trying to talk the gang down if I'm alone as I'm non threatening and probably have better social skills than the man I'm with. It's actually never happened that a male protected me. My older brothers, for instance, would 100% gleefully watch me get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | If he cares, he CARESThat's great. I wish you a happy future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.I think about my own situation with a controlling boy. It's not that he was cool and that I liked his dangerous side, on the contrary he was insecure and I pitied him more than anything. Before long I couldn't leave him because he was guilt-tripping me. At some point we went on a hiking trip and he pulled some scenes. There was no physical altercation because I stayed in a good/calm mood, but he was in a bad mood because he didn't like hiking. Retrospectively though I think his anger was control… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:44 PM |
| 10 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimYeah the system is broken. They were debating whether to charge her for domestic assault because she slapped him in the face while he was driving. They never even questioned whether she was safe. Legit when he tells her "I'm going to ask you a very important question now, how you answer it determines what happens next", I was expecting him to ask "do you fear for your safety", instead he asks her "did you hit him with the intention to harm him". What kind of bullshit is this? That's a question s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Yes means YesI continued a yes after not even choosing the have sex to begin with. It was one of these situations where the boy ambushed me. He invited me to a coffee shop, but as soon as I got there he changed the plan to hanging out at his mom's house with his friends, all boys and his mom wasn't there. They were drinking and they even made me pitch in to buy alcohol, so I drank too. Then I was stuck there with no way to get home. He creeped out on me while he was drunk and I was asleep. So I never got to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:59 PM |
| 8 | Yes means YesI legit couldn't look my boyfriend in the eye the entire time we were together and despite having sex every time we met I never had an orgasm in 2 years. I'm so fed up with this. And men would have us believe we're the bad ones because it's so mean to think our boyfriend is ugly... Excuse me but I never forced him to have sex with me. He did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:50 PM |
| 13 | Yes means YesIt's very likely that you will be sexually abused if you put yourself out there in the world socially. But even beside that, the culture from the 70s to the 2000s was rotten. I was just a kid and movies were stuff like American Pie, where a bunch of guys talk for 2 hours about how much they want sex and how the coolest girls will give them sex. Pretty much all the media was horrible with the trope of the sexy woman and the male protagonists who do everything to bang her. Thankfully the world is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:46 PM |
| 4 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Yes, that's the absolute dream, but I don't think there are any men in my city rich enough for that situation. You probably need to go to an elite school to meet them, and even if you go to an elite school, being the girl who comes from a normal family in a small state and who got there because of her grades probably isn't going to cut it. I imagine you need to be just as extraordinary as these men. I don't think it's just being hot. Being hot might be one way to meet one of these men, but accor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 05:41 AM |
| 18 | Don’t be fooled by pickmes who seem to attract a bunch of menI just think there's two things that are conflated together that actually do not need to be attached together. People say a pickme is a girl who bends over backwards to please men. People also say a pickme is a girl who puts down other women to get picked. But I don't think those two things always exist together. Lots of women do the first behavior without doing the second behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:09 PM |
| 26 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersThey say that but all the rich people I've met have been far happier than the poor people I've met. I'm passionate about mountain climbing and I can't do it without money. There's other things too like having a dog and giving it the best care (pet care is not subsidized). And like you say living in a safe neighborhood is huge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 40 | If a man is willing to sleep with me too soon then I stop finding him attractive.A woman who sleeps with a guy might be making a wrong decision, but at least in doesn't come from an evil place, the guy is likely pressuring her to have sex and in her heart she wants to make him happy and give him a good time. A man who sleeps with a woman is just a selfish prick. His sex is usually not wanted by anyone, he has to actively work to trick or convince women to sleep with him, he's motivated solely by the fact that he wants sex. There are cases where a woman forces a man to have s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 10:04 PM |
| 4 | "All ages considered!"Ever since I had career trouble I did the only logical thing and never tried to date. Even if I met men I always told them I don't want to date. But they still find you somehow. There are men who just want to break a woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:25 AM |
| 155 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Once Upon a Time in Hollywood was such a pile of crap. I don't know how men and pickmes can still pretend Tarantino has talent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:18 AM |
| 3 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Still dangerous. That 13 year old is near girls at this school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Reminder that most nurses are women and that women are less likely to leave a partner who gets ill compared to men. This whole "they kick us when we are ill" is proof that they are completely delusional. It's very dangerous when they INVENT ways in which women are slighting them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?Yes they are either staying single or dating down, which is exactly what I said in my original comment. That's what happens when there's not enough for everyone. Even dating down, not all can find one, because people with and without college degrees don't have much opportunities to meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?You link a study saying they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?Women don't go on Tinder because you get harassed by sex addicts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Why did Disney and society at large lie to us about the true nature of most men?Too many kids movies where they marry the first man they meet as if rejecting men was not an important part of a happy life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:48 AM |
| 15 | I love it when the trash takes itself outThis is literally so many men today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:46 AM |
| 101 | Misogynist slob (with maybe wife & daughter in tow) harasses young women for wearing --get this-- bathing suits at the beach.Grown men should not go talk to teenage girls they don't know. Have some dignity. The amount of clothes we wear is entirely cultural and nothing to do with sex. The fact that he's making is about sex is degenerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?Well no. Obviously the consequences of it being hard to find a partner is that those who do find someone are dating down and then some others don't find anyone. Even dating down, there's not enough for everyone. You just don't meet a ton of men because usually people without degrees and with degrees don't meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 06:28 AM |
| 7 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?It's already affected the dating market. I've been saying it for years. It's extremely hard for women with a college degree Millenial or younger to find a partner. People with and without college degrees typically don't mix. This means there's a big oversupply of women among people with college degrees. This makes it so it's extremely easy for men with some college education to find a wife, but very hard for women to do. I've seen it around me for the past 10 years, almost all the women are dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 19 | I don't want any relationship after the argument I overheard from my bedroom windowI wouldn't date anyone who uses the word "retard" or makes sexually derogatory comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 08:09 AM |
| 10 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?They don't want to compete fairly. You show them where to run and when to start, the ones who know they can't win try to cheat. In this case it's trying to meet women without going through the official channel, because they are hoping to chance on the undecisive woman before she actually meets the men who are interested in her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Male business clients - How to set boundaries?The world's not fair for women. If you're unmarried, you'll always have men hitting on you, making you feel comfortable, and getting angry at you for not dating them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 06:35 AM |
| 15 | Of course the grown husband is taking notes on how to clean along with the kids 🚩More like geriatric husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 06:29 AM |
| -18 | 100%The tradition is that the activities are kept secret. Do I really need to explain this? Can't you read? I didn't say going to a strip club is tradition, I said the tradition is that the best man plans the party without telling the groom what it will be so that it's a surprise. It doesn't have to be a strip club. It could be a fake kidnapping followed by a game of paintball. But if it's a strip club, it's not the groom's fault, except that he has idiot friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 07:05 AM |
| 5 | Another scrote exploiting a teenager.I remember feeling exactly like this when I was 18, except my boyfriend was 18. The thing is 18-year-old girls are going to be 18-year-old girls and they're going to try to please their boyfriend and they're not going to think that they are allowed to dump their boyfriend for being an insensitive pervert. That's because 18-year-old girls are sensitive and not very assertive, they "don't want to hurt their boyfriend", even if their boyfriend clearly doesn't care about hurting them. But now the fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 05:19 AM |
| 24 | Watch this scrote get roasted for his views. Hands up if you’ve encountered an angry short guy with a complex like this 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️So this man is saying that "feminism" is what caused men to pay on dates, not the history-old tradition of men wanting the attention of beautiful women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 05:08 AM |
| -18 | 100%No, for many the tradition is that the best man will organize the party, without telling the groom about it, so that it's a surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 12:59 AM |
| 16 | 100%It's all relative. If he obviously doesn't like going to the strip club and is only doing it because his friends think it's funny, I'd suggest he finds more intellectual friends. If he is someone who visits strip clubs when single, I wouldn't go a mile near him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:23 PM |
| 16 | Scrote keeps gf as bangmaid, grossed out by her wanting future with him?This girl doesn't seem that attached to him at all. She'll probably forget about him and find someone else when they spend a year apart, unless he keeps guilt-tripping her the entire time to prevent her from moving on, which I'm sure he's capable of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to disclose their relationship status to a man they are cheating with.What? Lol. Guys would do it even if it didn't work. Construction workers whistled at women passing in the street even though that never got them laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Age Gap Relationships Discussion ThreadI mean at this point it's only the fame/money. What young girl would fuck Hugh Jackman's non-famous clone? It's not about their age or their looks, you could be a 200-year-old corpse and if you had millions you'd find girls to cosy up with you. Same would be true of a rich young guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:45 AM |
| 6 | Age Gap Relationships Discussion ThreadI mean it's pretty clear. The more men and women are equal, the more it's going to be equal pairing. Obviously men and women cannot be fully equal as long as one has testosterone and the other bears children, and as long as one is much more likely to rape the other, but by equality I mean access to jobs and money. The ONLY reason for older men to date younger women was not "biology", it was that back in the day you needed to PURCHASE a woman, so the older men had accumulated enough money to PURC… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:38 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?Seems like you got exactly what's fair. You wouldn't around them if they didn't bend over backwards to pretend to like something gross, and they wouldn't be around you if you weren't the only man willing to talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?EXTREMELY EASY. I'm not even that ugly by American standards, I'm skinny, athletic, with red hair and green eyes. But just because my face was covered in freckles and I had millimeters of bones off here and there, I was considered a dog by any above average guy. I had zero belief in my worth because all I heard growing up was that my freckles were a big shameful abomination and that I should be grateful I was even allowed to exist and go about my day. I felt like I was actively bothering people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:24 AM |
| 26 | Having unrealistically high standards is an LVM/NVM trait, not a HVM trait.This is why dating an older man is a scam: He expects you to earn as much money or more than him, even if he’s older than you He expects you to go to his house on the first date, because he doesn't care about women’s safety He expects you to do all the talking for him, whether on a first date or when you’re already in a relationship The entire relationship is conducted entirely on his terms He is showing no interest in courting or impressing you The older you get, the more confident you get and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:19 PM |
| 149 | The time a date wanted me to wait 4 hoursThis reminds me of my first boyfriend. He was my age, but he was always blowing me off anyway. Like this time we got tickets for a concert in a venue downtown and we agreed to have dinner downtown before the concert. I get dolled up and get downtown and he's not showing up. I call him and he tells me he's with his guy friends in another part of town and they're going to eat at Subway's there. He tells me I can come join them, but I don't have time to take the bus all the way there and back in ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:29 PM |
| -11 | Left-wing men are just as misogynistic as right-wing menI like this sub, but I sometimes wonder if any of you have actually met a leftwing man. This definition of leftwing where like leftwing = loves to buy sex is a weird definition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:22 AM |
| 8 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationCounterargument: Nothing stops women from getting a roommate. If women choose to be in a couple instead of getting a roommate, it must mean that the brainwashing goes deeper than housing costs. I dated guys without ever cohabitating with one. To be fair I was in a position where I didn't need financial help at that point. But my point is that despite not needing anything from them and not getting anything from them, I was still a complete pickme. It wasn't out of neediness, for me it was because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:45 AM |
| 8 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.You should just leave if he cheats or flirts with other girls in a way that makes you feel disrespected. It doesn't go both ways because you don't have to stay and feel jealous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 7 | A very serious warning: keep your eyes wide open with men that seem to work too much.I would add: never trust men. Like seriously. My "boyfriend" told me he didn't smoke or do drugs. He did hid the fact that he smoked and did drugs every day from me for over a year. We were long distance, so he just didn't smoke when he was with me. Eventually he got tired of not smoking when he was with me, so he started surreptitiously smoking weed in the bathroom while I was in the next room, and I soon heard him coughing in the bathroom like an idiot, and I had to put two and two together. A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:03 PM |
| 5 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.Jealousy in men or women in negative value behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.Okay I have less muscles than you. I'm about as lean as you if we take our genders into account. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.I've been around enough men of equal looks to mine to know what it's like for men. It's way easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.I think you lost track of what was being said. I originally said that incels didn't put any of the work I put in socially, pointing to things like going to parties every weekend, talking to friends for hours every day, organizing fun things, inviting people to things I organized, helping out in clubs, etc. You then replied that unattractive males do not get the chance to socialize like this because doors are closed for unattractive men. I replied that it is a fact that being unattractive is wors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.I call you lazy because of your behavior on Reddit. You are a lazy Reddit contributor who doesn't take the time to read what others have posted and make sure you have something unique and informed to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 43 | Man chooses to propose to his forever GF of 18 years finally, on live TV, after her participation at the Tokyo Olympics. Overshadowing her literal moment in the spotlight.Omg, yes, this is so embarrassing. She's going to be seen on TV (for her athletic accomplishments) and he puts his stamp of possessiveness on her so that other dudes know she's taken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 04:54 PM |
| 61 | Being a Cool Girl is a trapCool girls will worship guys and do everything for their approval even if the guys in their group of friends are objectively low value. And they can't really see it if all they know is their social scene. I remember being young and being so nervous about being accepted or liked by guys, and these guys were like... short, not athletic, not nice, not ambitious, not disciplined, not hot, not talented. They were just guys negatively influencing each other and others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.Even today I've never been fat a day of my life and I'm 1000% sure I'm leaner and with more muscles than you. I'm so sick and tired of the lazy comeback "you must be a fat female". It's not my fault that you never went out, never tried talking to people, never gained any experience of the world, and that you still think "women just need to lose weight". I'm sick of explaining the same thing over and over. As usual, you never put it the same amount of work that women do. The women here have taken… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.You're a literal tool. I was a high school athlete, not an ounce of fat, toned muscles, still considered one of the ugliest girls in school. Maybe get out of your fat circle and stop saying crap like "women just need to lose weight". I have talked to so many 30-year-old incels at this point and I know for a fact that they didn't put in any of the work I put in socially. I'm tired that you guys are so lazy and then blaming external factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 01:00 PM |
| 12 | This is What LVM consider “great dating” and gaslight us into believing is acceptable. Hope the PickMe Woman Who Settled for these Low Effort Dates Wakes Up...Makes me sick to think about it. I had a boyfriend like this, his idea of spending time together was doing nothing at home. Him on his computer, occasionally watching TV and ordering food, sex whenever his dick got hard. So many men think this is "ideal" and a girl that's "easy to get along with". I was a pickme so I wanted to be cool, and men say girls who enjoy that are cool, and I just really wanted to be a cool girl who agrees with whatever guys like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.Lol. Nice try. I'm an ugly woman. That's a million times harder than being an ugly man. Your comment is so self-centered, as usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 10:47 AM |
| 75 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒I find it sick that men have detached the act of having sex from reproduction entirely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:05 AM |
| 10 | You Can Learn Lot From Their Behavior at the GymI find it irritating how men are so entitled at the gym. They occupy so much space leaving their stuff all over, pacing between sets while still occupying the unused machine, putting their music really loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:53 PM |
| 23 | POV: Date with a LVM 😂This is literally what guys are like, and they think we enjoy it, they think we like the male body so much we're attracted even in ugly clothes and a cheap car, they fail to understand that women are just too nice and polite not to play along with what the guy does. The only thing they get right is that taking the lead works, yet I don't think it's necessarily because women are attracted to leaders, I think it's because most humans follow leaders, and women especially aren't going to fight it. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:58 PM |
| 38 | Ohio man charged in 'Incel' plot to kill women in OSU campus mass shooting. (Funny that this sub is often labeled misandrist, yet when has a woman ever decided to wipe out 3,000 men because she was unhappy with her sex life?)Why are these spineless dudes lashing out at the unequal distribution of female attention, and not at the unequal distribution of everything else in life, like wealth, intelligence and talent. Could it be, perhaps, because it's the only thing controlled, so to speak, by women, whereas wealth is controlled by fellow men, whom they respect? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 30 | Easy Vetting Hack : Are you proud?This is such a good point. My first boyfriend was so ugly that if we ran into someone I would get viscerally embarrassed. I obviously didn't mind his appearance since I was with him. I could date a pile of garbage to be honest because I never cared about looks. But the fact that I was embarrassed in public should have been a sign. He wasn't just ugly, but there was also nothing good about him to be proud about, he wasn't clever, wasn't rich, didn't have good habits, wasn't good at sports, he was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:04 PM |
| 30 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.On one hand they say women are worthless over 35. On the other hand they complain if women don't stay with them forever. Make it make sense. Do you like women or not? It seriously look like they just don't want women to leave them, but they would like to leave a woman if a younger woman was interested. It's like when they invented divorce and tried to make it so only men could get a divorce and women couldn't. They are allergic to rejection even if they don't like the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 11 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.Agreed, way too many men hate us, and the men who don't hate women are great, but they are so few in between it makes finding a mate very hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 48 | If women can go through the discomfort of being pregnant for 9 months, then men can go through the “discomfort” of not getting sex for the first 3months+ of the relationship.The biggest scam is men convincing us that their discomfort of not having sex is greater than our discomfort of having sex we don't want to have. So many times it seemed like the guy was going to die if he didn't have [insert sex he wanted here] and it just seemed easier to think well it's not a big deal for me to do it even if I don't like it. They made zero effort to be attractive and make me want to have sex of my own volition. It's like "forever alone" guys who are like "now I'll never be wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 09:06 AM |
| 29 | Wife and mother is "starting to feel taken advantage of" by "exceptionally smart" husbandIt's so sad that she still feels the need to let us know how much she respects his intelligence. Women are raised to feel inferior to their male counterparts even when it's uncalled for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 11:00 AM |
| 41 | Use a privacy screen on your devicesOn a flight, a guy gave me his name and told me to add him on Facebook. I always take the name and then toss it out, never actually adds them. But this guy added me on Facebook a few days later, I asked how he got my name since I didn't give it to him, he said he looked at my custom declaration - the paper they made us fill before landing. I didn't think anything of it because back then I knew nothing about having my boundaries and about the danger of men. I didn't know back then that when a man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Well yes, exactly. You know you're not paying for the ugly fat girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Men should only pay for women who are more in demand than themselves. If she has more people willing to date her than you have people willing to date you, that's your answer. That's really not rocket science. Do you think a Chad who has lots of women aggressively trying to go out with him needs to pay for dates with unpopular women? He would probably find himself in a situation where women who are less in demand than him are willing to pay him to go out with him. Yet it's very likely that this C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.It does but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.It's DEMAND and SUPPLY. Nothing to do with gender roles. Women can start paying for men when there's more women on dating apps than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:58 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Why are men "confused" when a girl doesn't like them? So many men are like "the conversation went well, I can't imagine why she wouldn't fancy me". Like why would she date you? There's probably other guys she likes more, your personality probably wasn't to her liking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:53 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.It's not about sexism, it's about supply and demand. Not enough young hot women for all the men who want to be with one, so the men need to make it sweeter. It doesn't have to have anything to do with gender roles. It's like a hot gay guy who is very in demand could be someone who never pays on dates. It just depends on how much demand there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.I never minded paying for dates with men who made less money than me. We also didn't go on dates, we just hung out at home. But I don't think it's really about doing the just thing. The reality is that you have to balance things out. As it is, men have trouble getting women to go out and date. You need to pay to make it an incentive. Not just you personally, but overall you have to make dating more fun for women. If dating is more fun for men than for women, you get this unbalanced situation whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:41 AM |
| 2 | BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist.It was bizarre, surely he's aware of when/if professionals are supposed to pitch in with personal stories and this was his choice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 9 | BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist.I told a therapist about having been sexually abused and his response was "we can't just believe you because you say so, you could be making it up, like it happened to me at my job at the university, I'm a professor there and one time one of my female students falsely accused me of sexual harassment, it was really awful". It was my first time telling a therapist about having been sexually abused and it definitely discouraged me from ever telling another therapist. The dude is being paid handsome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:27 AM |
| 59 | Coercive Control: an "almost invisible set of behaviors that don’t fit within the widespread but misinformed view that domestic violence requires bruises and black eyes"I've seen guys purposefully use the argument that their behavior is not illegal. Some really know what would be against the law and stay clear of that, but find ways to engage in low level forms of stalking. It's "gotcha even if you go to the police they won't do anything". So annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | A woman relaxing and gaining 50% of her BW after marriage is equivalent to a man relaxing and taking an easier job with a 50% pay cut after marriage.Lol, most households are dual income, and beside, the expectancy is that salary goes up and looks depreciate. A salary going down isn't "the same" as looks depreciating with age. Age is, well, unavoidable. And look I'm not fat and I perfectly understand that not everyone gets fat, but like 50% of Americans are obese and it's strongly correlated with age. Salary declines are not corelated with age. And lastly no one cares about looks in marriage. If you cared about looks you wouldn't get married.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 08:29 AM |
| 10 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...Even if she loves him, she should ask herself if he would love her if she was 65. They can say yes as much as they want, the fact remains that the first thing that made him attracted to her was her youthful character and wrinkle free face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:37 PM |
| 13 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...I will stop judging age gap relationships when it's equally older woman - younger man as older man - younger woman because then that would prove that it's just loving a person no matter their age instead of just proving that men don't love women no matter their age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 8 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meHe saw her being that way and it didn't disuade him from trying to get with her (probably because she's hot so he disregarded her "less desirable" traits), but now that he's with her he wants advice on how to dim her shine and transform her into a shell of herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:16 PM |
| 130 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡If the crowd was women they would go "awww oh no poor sweetie". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:27 PM |
| 43 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡What the heck? "Male humor" everyone. It's like their brains are wired much differently. Zero empathy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:26 PM |
| 147 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meI'm starting to think men are never happy for women. They want things that add value to their life not hers so that she can't leave them or if she does he's well off. I know "not all men", but the fact is that men are less attracted to women who are smart and apparently the psychology behind it is that a smart woman has more options to support herself and leave him. They want women to be dependent on them so that they have the power to decide if a relationship continues or stops and she will nev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 16 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meYou don't just get into grad school "on a whim" lol. Sounds like she's a hard-working person who is decisive and takes the proper actions to get what she wants. She probably thinks about that stuff before doing, she just doesn't tell him because he's a loser and a drag who would talk her out of it. She uses her energy well and that's why things work out for her. If she spent her energy being made insecure by this jealous boyfriend it would make her depressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.You think he's doing it even if his intention wasn't primarily to spoil her with expensive stuff? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.It's not using him for money if he's 45 and she's 18. It's exactly what he's in it for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 5 | My most unexpected hilariously positive dateSounds like a good guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 14 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.It's actually sad that young men can't do the bare minimum of being affectionate - cuddling with her, caring about her pleasure, holding her hand in public - so when an old man does it she's so impressed. She seems like a sweet girl, but I can't fathom how a much older man can be attracted to her. Hopefully she uses him for all the money she can and she dumps him when she's bored, but I bet she would make more money being an actual escort instead of being dependent on his gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:59 AM |
| 54 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyIt's not just that. There are clips where the dog and the baby hit on beautiful women and lie to have sex with them. These beautiful women always only exist as the object. They are young and beautiful and they exist solely for men to hit on them. There's also jokes where like Peter dresses as a shark in a pool to remove women's bathing suit tops and laughs saying "boobies". He's a 40-something married man. How is that not terrifying? Again these women are just random hot women who just exist to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 121 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyNo men who are into horror and violent movies. Also none of these "adult cartoons". I accidentally watched a clip of Family Guy on YouTube and it can't go a minute without being misogynistic and violent. I'm just sad that I myself was raised on this. I watched it when I was 13 and I had no idea it was projecting all these terrible assumptions about women. I just absorbed it like it was normal. It's no wonder I was a pickme idolizing men. The boys growing up watching stuff like that must feel lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 65 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyID and house tour should be standard. You can't date someone without knowing them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 169 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyAlways ID a guy anyway unless you went to school / work with him for years and therefore know who he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Depending on social circles to for dating sucks because the risk/reward ratio is super skewedThen that to the other guy. The pill itself has more risks than the condom and that's not even including all the other risks of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 01:26 AM |
| -1 | What do women gain from being married in this day and age?LOVE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Depending on social circles to for dating sucks because the risk/reward ratio is super skewedThink about it yourself big guy. Try to use your brain and come up with reasons why the pill doesn't make risks equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Depending on social circles to for dating sucks because the risk/reward ratio is super skewedI can't with you. You seriously lack imagination, critical thinking skills and intelligence. Too bored to explain... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 10:53 PM |
| -1 | Depending on social circles to for dating sucks because the risk/reward ratio is super skewedIf the risk/reward ratio of dating was lower for women than for men, then it'd be women harassing men for dates, not the other way around. Seriously, the IQs on this sub... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Depending on social circles to for dating sucks because the risk/reward ratio is super skewedAs bad as you think the risk/reward ratio is for you, it is worse for women, thus why men are the ones harassing women for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.No one cares. You probably live in the US where simply not being morbidly obese is an incredible achievement that makes you instantly the hottest kid in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 03:52 AM |
| 0 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.Lol bullshit. There were no fat girls at my school and the ugly girls who were shut out were not fatter than the others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 02:02 AM |
| 172 | He is rightThis is what I did with my boyfriend's homework in university. Did I ever get paid for the grades I got him? Did I get a thank you? It came to a climatic end on the eve of our solid state physics final. He came to my place that night and confessed he hadn't done his half of the homework (which was due at the same time as the exam, the next morning). I did his half of the homework while he studied. He was still there at 2 AM asking me to explain stuff to him. I remember after explaining something… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 04:39 PM |
| -1 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.Except young men want to party REGARDLESS of smashing girls / talking to girls. They like to drink and hang out with their boys. They drive the social scene by being the ones who want to party, they invite all the other boys, and then one of them manages to go ask the hot girl to come with her friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.You literally don't know what you're talking about. My high school functioned the exact opposite way. Ugly guys were invited to parties, if not by the girls then by their male friends. It was ugly girls who were kept out of the social scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:17 PM |
| -5 | "Ugly" men are just not putting enough effort while having very high expectations.It's not just looks. "Ugly" men have done nothing to increase their social skills and status. I always tell them that I, as a woman, spent my high school and college years socializing constantly, going to parties, inviting people on activities, at the same time as I was involved in a several jobs, clubs, sports teams. Then these "ugly" men from ForeverAlone are angry that they have less success than me even though they did nothing to grow or be interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | I firmly believe I could get most women if they let me take them on dates and allowed me to get to know them for just a monthAnd any man who goes on a few dates with me and spends one month getting to know me would love me, but men are not asking for my phone number so they'll never find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Japanese artist Jasushi Takahashi made the biggest GPS drawing by crossing 7162 km in order to propose to his girlfriend.This is beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 01:44 PM |
| 17 | FDS's stance on dating outside of your social classSame! Dating men from lower classes, it was always me introducing them to things and I never learned anything from them. It's just tiring when every conversation you have he learns something and you learn nothing. I don't even mean just education, but general knowledge. Also, I took them on nicer vacations, we could go to my parents' vacation home, use my parents' cars (when I was young and living at home), etc. I never got any benefit from dating them. Actually what I "learned" from them was th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 8 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.She had custody already, but it was shared custody, so she was not allowed to refuse his turn to pick up the kids, even when she knew something was off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 11:55 PM |
| – | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsYou guys have zero game or you're leaving the truth out. My friend is 31, obese, unkept hair and beard. He works a similar job to pest control. No money, no house. He is juggling several women who are in love with him and have sex with him, but he cannot find a woman who is up to his standards. He says the exact same things that you say, that he's so sad he doesn't have a girlfriend, that it's too tough for men to date, that he's too fat and women only want attractive guys, etc. You guys are all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Men: what is your perfect waifu like?I didn't dump them though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 09:38 PM |
| 356 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.In my city there was a mother who was worried about her children, she and some of the children's teachers placed calls with the CPS, but they were told they had to wait until after they got their court date to contest the custody agreement. The dad killed the two children before the hearing. Imagine the horrifying desperation of this mom who tried to fight the system, but the system wouldn't let her keep her children safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PRSame for outdoors work like mowing the land, raking leaves or shoveling snow. A nice workout and makes you feel in touch with nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.The internet is male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.It's liberal, I just mean we don't have 400lbs people who need a scooter to shop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.He's obese but outdoorsy. He's not American. The women he dates are definitely not obese though. He just seems a bit sleazy to me and normally I would say it's not my place to say as someone who knows him as a "friend" (not that close), but there's just something really sleazy about the way he admits that he sleeps with girls he doesn't love just because he gives in to the temptation. The girls he sleeps with must have mental problems to accept such treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.I personally was from a rich family and I was slim, athletic and successful, and I dated guys who were short, poor and unintelligent. Sure the the rich handsome guys get girlfriends too, but all guys get girlfriends. Today I know many women who are still single, but no men. The only men who are still single are either men who want to be single and go to bdsm parties or the obese guy who complains that he can't find a girlfriend at the same time as he's sleeping with two women that he finds unsui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What is a weekend worth?Woman. No. I see them 2 weekends out of 4. I would have a 50% chance of gaining a third weekend per month, but they would lose their college fund and have to take out loans. I don't think it's fair for me to take that money away from them. I think they would rather have the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.No personality on a diet of TV I can confirm that western media pushes us to date poor guys. And it's exactly what I did. I came from a wealthy family, but all the examples on TV are basically that girls who care about money are bad and villainous, and that romance is going for the poor broken guy who needs help. Asian TV is different, but I didn't have that as a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Design your dream partner here:I'll go along with the billionaire who loves me no matter what, and if we do divorce he gives me lots of billions just because he loves me. He finances my trips to go climb all the mountains I want. He gets me that apartment I want. Meeting him was simple because he asked me out and he told me he liked me, which was true and is still true. We easily get along because we think similarly and we get what the other means naturally. We work for charities and we adopt or sponsor lots of children or do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How much casual sex are the women that you know are having?None. My friends never did casual sex. They just got a boyfriend and stayed with him. Or they broke up with their boyfriend and are now single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of.No, I was raised by TV and still never liked the type of Chads that play romantic leads on TV. I agree that media has a big impact, but not the way you think. TV definitely taught me that the good girl is the pretty girl who gives the loser guy a chance. Western TV is full of examples of good intelligent beautiful girl going for struggling broke guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Men: what is your perfect waifu like?Why are you saying this? Literally every time I committed to a man it was a huge inconvenience to me. The last time I had a boyfriend, I was in medical school in my western home and he lived in a shit hole third world country. He was an ugly loser who smoked weed all day and lied through his teeth. I met him when I went to do a volunteering internship in his country. I didn't want to date him, but he wanted to date me and I didn't know how to say no. I didn't want to keep dating him when I went … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:45 PM |
| 67 | The behavior exhibited on dating apps can be profoundly demoralising to women and it affects our lives offline. Yet another reason to get off the apps! Link to full article in comment.Therapist need to arm themselves to deal with men who continue to pursue women online after they said no. This is a relatively new development, but it's perfect for men to continue to disrespect women's consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 30 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮They are evolving! It used to be just "hey", now they've learned to use copy-paste and say "you seem really interesting". I'm scared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 44 | Love the message this lady added into her postI've noticed that when admitting weaknesses to a man, it's give an inch and he takes a mile. So for instance if the guy has been awful, I'll start by admitting my own faults, but then the guy just takes this as a victory and he doesn't admit his faults and he just feels even more confident that he can blame me because I was humble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 07:29 AM |
| 19 | Let’s normalize walking awayNormalize looking at guys and deciding "no I wouldn't date him" and sticking to it no matter the pressures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 07:23 AM |
| 66 | So Manipulative and Creepy!!!That's a good idea to use a dog to help reject men. "My dog would be too nervous if I let you in the house." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 07:18 AM |
| 15 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.You admit on this very post that you posted on GC yourself, so surely you can imagine that just because these other people were participating on these other subs doesn't mean they were the ones disagreeing with FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 10 | HOW TO TEXT LIKE A QUEEN 📱👑See I do this naturally (as in it's not a concerted effort, this is just the way I am), but the problem is that then men think I'm not interested. This is not meant to diminish this post, just discussing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:14 AM |
| 4 | My grandma "I don't understand why women would even bother dating today! I wouldn't, I would just get a dog."My grandfather went to university and worked hard so that he could propose to my grandmother and be worthy of her love. He didn't ask her to sleep with him before marriage and he didn't propose before he had enough money and status to offer her a good life. Men today have no shame. And before they try to say "but women today aren't upholding their end of the bargain", I would like to say that my grandfather paid for nurses, nannies and maids to do the housework, childcare and elderly care in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:11 AM |
| 12 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sI literally want feathers, violins, flowers and hot chocolate with funmallows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:15 PM |
| 9 | Reminder: Don't get transitioned into being the *forever girlfriend* if your goal is to find a life partner. It's counterproductive to allow a man to 'try on the relationship' for multiple years with no commitment.I would advice my younger self against dating men who are not marriage material. I didn't have the heart to reject a guy who seemed to like me, and it seemed like marriage was so far away that it would all work out if it was "meant to be". If it ever came to marriage though I would have probably not been able to marry them because they were not hot enough, too low status, and not good people enough. If I could go back in time I would make someone ask me: but do you want him to be your husband th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:50 AM |
| 19 | Much love to FDS, always ❤️The problem with MGTOW is that they don't have any example of the women doing anything wrong. At best they're complaining that a woman left them for being an abusive husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 03:42 AM |
| 74 | A friendship CAN RUIN you. So read this before you decide it’s not so unnecessary to ruthlessly vet your friends.Strangely my biggest regret socially is not having been a snob. In my effort to do everything perfectly I had good grades, a healthy lifestyle, I was honest, etc. But I also integrated that to be perfect I had to have non-existent standards for my friends. Like a good person would be humble and hang out with screw ups. So I hung out with screw ups. It's fine except like you say they get you into unsafe situations and you can end up harmed. I wish I had been able to be a snob who only accepted hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 37 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADIt makes way more sense to do that stupid stuff for money than for immaterial male validation, men love that dumb stuff and will pay money for it, that's just a fact, but unfortunately the message gets spread and people can see it without the money part and think this is actually what women like to do. Especially young people will internalize that this is what women are like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:33 AM |
| 315 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I wish there was a female-only subreddit that was neither focused on dating strategies nor avoiding discussion of dating. Something like life strategies for women in having to deal with all kinds of situations and men, including but not limited to dating. I just can't trust other subreddits where a certain type of men is the dominant voice. I don't like their taste in anything and I'm sick of hearing them talk about how they don't care about a woman's personality and they just want youth and bea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:27 AM |
| 16 | Be careful if you join TelegramThe same happened to me! And of course I was made to join at the insistence of a guy. Only LVMs with things to hide like that app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:01 AM |
| 30 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.That is so creepy that they had access to younger girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 17 | Reminder: You do not have to "play act" through shitty sex. Get up and leave.I wish I was told about how we're socialized to negate our own feelings to please men's ego. I wish I was told: "it's okay to leave because he's ugly and the sex is not good, it's okay to hurt his feelings and his ego, you are worth just as much as him". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I would rather get raped by a woman than a man. Heck, if I was "raped" and I wasn't penetrated, I wouldn't even call it rape. Fact of the matter if a woman tried to rape me I could just roudhouse kick her. Have you ever tried being a woman and wrestling a guy? Guys have more quick fibres, you can't even move. Yeah, I know it's misandrist to say a man can fight off a woman, so I won't say that, I'll just say I personally would rather get raped by a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Pregnant feminist who makes way less than bf will "pay for herself" in the name of equalityI think people have it the wrong way. Paying for half the dates but marrying a rich man will probably leave you with more money in your pockets than if you marry a poor man who pays on dates. This whole "I don't need him to pay on dates (but he makes more than me though)" isn't fooling me. If she wanted to show that she doesn't care about money, she could try having a kid with a poor, low-status man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.This is totally unrelated to the fact that a high status rapist is still high status. Unless a rape trial makes him lose his job and he loses every friend he had, he's still high status. But since you want to be an insensitive jerk and make jokes about rape, I'll answer your comment honestly. Getting raped sucks, but it's worse when he's short and low status. If I got raped by a tall and high status man, I WOULD say I am lucky I even got to sleep with such a man. Same if my abusive ex was hot I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Both assortative mating and female hypergamy are real phenomena.I'm not attached at the hips with FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Both assortative mating and female hypergamy are real phenomena.What about the women in the Philippines who would rather date a German man than a man from the Philippines? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:11 AM |
| 50 | Basically sounds like what most men can offerEvery man I've talked to one of the first things they tell me is that I'm not allowed to date other guys. So yeah, they are obsessed with getting commitment. They are very afraid that other men will steal their girlfriend. I've not been afraid that someone would steal my boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Both assortative mating and female hypergamy are real phenomena.Maybe I should move to Germany. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:13 AM |
| 31 | What a scumbag. I hope his kids never talk to him again for treating them and their mother this way.He was probably planning this for years. It was his last child support payment when his daughter turned 18! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Both assortative mating and female hypergamy are real phenomena.Western college-educated women can only date down, and far down at that, because women from the entire world are trying to date western men with college degrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a purely casual relationship with a hot high status man, or a loving faithful relationship with an average man, and why?How so, if low status men of below average looks already don't treat me with love and respect? It's not one or the other you know. It's not either the guy is hot and treats you poorly or the guy is ugly and treats you well. You can be treated poorly by a poor, ugly guy too. There's of everything on earth. And there are worse treatments than to be ignored and rejected. Many women are abused by ugly, low status men and they would trade their situation for either sex with a hot guy or love with an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.No, by low status I mean objective low status as we usually mean it when we talk about this hypergamy stuff. Men of all status can rape. Like if Donald Trump raped somebody, he wouldn't suddenly be low status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | If a woman's past body count is "irrelevant" (past is past), a guy having seen a prostitute in the past is "irrelevant." Either both are, or neither are.I'm sure all men lie about having visited a prostitute lol. Both lies are equally bad. But although both lies are equally bad, I think buying sex once is worse than having consensual sex a million times. If she had sex with a lot of guys, she was a nice girl who gave men what they wanted; if he paid for sex, he was a loser who couldn't get sex. The guy who visited a prostitute did so to satisfy a selfish desire. If his goal was to make the prostitute happy, he'd give her his money without asking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have a purely casual relationship with a hot high status man, or a loving faithful relationship with an average man, and why?Bold of you to assume either of these choices are on the table. I get a low status man of below average looks who does not treat me with respect and I'm the only thing going on in his life. Dating is not as good as you think, and this is not because I'm fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Both assortative mating and female hypergamy are real phenomena.Women fuck up and date down. Women don't date up, that is impossible unless you are in a niche where there are more men than women. But any woman who went to college and dates in the college-graduate pool is forced to date down and marry down because there are more women graduating college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 7 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?You have to say no to all guys and then say yes to him. Yet he is a perfectly mediocre man, so you are expected to have said no to all the better men who were interested in you, and to only say yes for this mediocre man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I know that short low status men can rape because I was raped by one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 44 | What a scumbag. I hope his kids never talk to him again for treating them and their mother this way.He had plenty of times to think it through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 28 | 9/10 girls experience sexual harassment and sexism at school, but it’s not all men, right? 🤡This is proof that men and women are not equal even in our western society where women have the same "rights" as men. You are not equal if one gender is constantly harassing the other. Schools are downright dangerous for girls and boys don't have to deal with that stuff. Even as an adult, I found it extremely hard to deal with men who don't take no for an answer, who create alternate accounts to message you after you block them, who continue to pressure you, bombard you and manipulate you. I can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | "Am I the most beautiful woman in the world?"I am also fed up with men who pride themselves on being unable to tell you you're the most beautiful woman in the world because "they can't lie" and "their word will be more valuable if they are honest". No, it won't be. What's more valuable is a man who cares enough to be nice to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:09 AM |
| 12 | Yes, by all means, walk 20 feet ahead of your wife and children, you asshole.You can kind of see the devolution. You see young couples that are near 30 with their first child and they are all cute holding hands and pushing the stroller together and I think wow I wish I was her. Then 10 years down the line it's that scenario with the mom ringing multiple kids of varied ages with a huge purse that contains everyone's stuff and the dad is 20 feet ahead with just his pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:27 AM |
| 70 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseThis is amazing! This is exactly the rhetoric incels use today :O | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 07:48 AM |
| 191 | I found my underwear in my brothers room, I am seriously paranoid & starting to think the worst. Just Why. Perversion needs to stop invading my life.We know we have to be careful of fathers and uncles but brothers too? Fuck I hate this. It's barely talked about since people want to protect young aggressors, but brothers are the most likely family members to commit sexual abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:41 AM |
| 122 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeYes same. My first boyfriend was a low-grade loser. I didn't live with him so I didn't see the harm. But it's the small things like you say. He came over when I had to study. He forced me into sex. He introduced me to useless hobbies. He couldn't pass his classes so I denied leaving for another university. I denied taking jobs elsewhere so I could spend my summers in town with him. I was levelling down my life to fit him into it. On his own time he would do drugs, get drunk, break things, get in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 6 | It's the edit for me ~~~Men are so manipulative, it's sad. It seems most of them never do anything out of love, but always with some calculated ulterior motive, like this guy considering maybe buying his wife a ring, but only because she makes more and her money will be his. And this poor woman is genuinely in love with him. She'll be helping him when he has cancer out of some delusion of love, he'll drop her like hot cake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 28 | In case you had any remaining doubts about the male ability to devastate women for their own convenience and pleasureThis is why "just date a guy" is not safe. Men think it's safe for us to just date a guy, but it's not. They think "oh just pick one that's nice and leave if he ever starts raping you", but it's not that simple. Even strong women can end up in that situation. You don't really see men ending up in that situation though. There's something (probably the evilness of men let's be honest) that makes it more dangerous for women to date. If you look at people in abusive relationships, the women report f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 25 | Scrotes are literally cancer. Always get the Pap smear.I am so terrified of this because I had sex in the past and men can't be trusted. Doesn't matter if I haven't been with anyone is years, I think the cancer could take some years to develop anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 160 | Beware of the Men Who Want to 'Find Their Pam,' This Could Be Your Future.I think she decided she wasn't good enough and she ran back to Jim to get married and forget about being an artist. I don't know why male writers like this story line so much, there was the same in How I Met Your Mother. It's almost like they are trying to warn women against chasing their dreams. Maybe it's just meant to represent real life, but then how come it doesn't happen to the male characters? What man was shown trying to pursue his dream and then realizing he can't do it and he better co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:57 AM |
| 4 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsThis is all too true! They get mad that you might prefer the better-looking guy because how dare a woman be shallow, but then when you point out that the better-looking guy happens to have a much better personality and treats you better they just rage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:59 AM |
| 5 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Thanks for the laugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:25 PM |
| 19 | Woman on Tik Tok reminds us that LVM neg confident women, and that patriarchy relies on women hating themselvesThey'll tear you down because then they have a better shot at getting with you. 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Being the object of visceral lust is the only way to have a truly satisfying sexual relationshipI am not sexually attracted to men and I don't want to have sex with men for the sake of finding it hot. I am sexually attracted to when men find me sexually attractive and I want to have sex with a man because I like to make him feel special, happy, content. Maybe that makes me an evil 🐍 I guarantee you men don't see the difference and don't care about the difference. The end result is they have a woman who is eager to have lots of sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 01:21 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Being the object of visceral lust is the only way to have a truly satisfying sexual relationshipI think you're too far gone into the falseness of porn. I am telling you I feel the same for an ugly guy or a handsome guy. I might "like" the beautiful men more through halo effect like we're apparently wired to favor the handsome and think their personality is better, but that's not sexual. It's more like how Disney draws the heroes beautiful and the villains ugly. Or even how kids prefer the good-looking doll over the ugly doll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 03:48 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Being the object of visceral lust is the only way to have a truly satisfying sexual relationshipIf you want visceral lust, date men. Personally I don't get "visceral lust" at all. Edit: Sounds like you believe that porn is a faithful representation of the way women would behave if they were "truly" attracted to a guy. But porn is fake. They make women act like kinky men. In reality I don't think we have a different sexuality for Chad versus ugly men. What happens is that if you're dating Chad you like him more than the lower value guy, so you make more efforts with Chad. Making more effort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 39 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.I get "how to get my wife to start smoking" and "how to get my husband to stop smoking weed". Women are officially better people. I also get "how to get my husband to leave his mistress" and "how to get my wife to loosen up in bed" lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 34 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.Sis, the "community" of men online is all those porn subreddits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneMaybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 09:38 AM |
| 13 | The little girl from “Matilda”, as well as a female child star from “The Never Ending Story”, BOTH had to quit acting, because GROWN MEN stalked them, and offered them MARRIAGE PROPOSALSThis is revolting. And imagine people having to tell them "that's just what men do, men will be men, we can't stop them, just gotta learn to ignore them". Little girls have to learn to behave themselves because grown men cannot learn to control themselves. The rethoric always goes "you can't stop all men, there will always be some men" yet women manage to behave just fine? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:17 PM |
| -2 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄I actually agree with the person saying "don't blame women for what men do to women". Are we really going to blame sex workers for encouraging men to be into depraved shit? They are not these men's mothers. There's millions of searches for illegal sex stuff and it's not women doing these searches. Even between a sex worker and a man men are never the victim and they are always the ones driving the interaction and pushing other people's boundaries. Only Fans is probably the best form of sex work … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:10 PM |
| 70 | Man recreates the patriarchy with catsHe lives in one of those third world countries that are overridden with stray cats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 6 | True crime and age gapsI think it's true that age gaps are not just about looks, it's often that the man feels like his age peers have passed him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 233 | Man recreates the patriarchy with catsAnd he doesn't care because they won't bring kittens home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:17 AM |
| 282 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.If men could comment they'd be like "but teenage girls are the scariest thing on earth because they can laugh at you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOSometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:55 PM |
| 102 | Let’s Discuss How Sex Workers Can Support Civilian WomenI would say that the best way they can support civilian women is don't play a role. Don't pretend like you find these men hot, enjoy sex with them, or would date them without the money. Too many men go to prostitutes and then expect other women to act like that for free. It should be made clear that they are repulsive and the sex with them is so horrible that it needs compensation, and that a man would need to have his shit together for you to even consider seeing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 26 | To counteract liberal feminists and beta males trying to manipulate us into thinking "dad bod" is the hottest male form, we will be instituting one day a week to post photos of actual hotties! Let us know what we should call it!Should be Thirst Thursday or Thirstday for short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Oh, that was a little much for your personality? Is that an acceptable response when you can't back up your own post after getting called on the BS? 🤡We are taught how to treat men. When we are just babies adults tell us "be nice" and we listen. Boys are told "be nice but oh well boys will be boys lol he'll grow out of it eventually". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 53 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineI don't understand why she went for the most conventional womanly look. It's like she's saying her green hair was her emo teenage phase and now that she's an adult she instantly turns to the most average female fashion. It sends a weird message like individuality dies overnight when you put on the mantle of "woman". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 09:15 AM |
| 22 | A HV example for everyone.They exist. Some men are happy to work, provide, fund vacations, do romantic stuff, and won't even ask the woman they love to cook or clean. Because they love her and enjoy life with her. Some other men are b*tching from day 1 and can't seem to do a positive thing. Get a man who can, run away with vigor from men who can't. They will try to trap you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 0 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureI don't care if men get pleasure, I care that they exploit caricatures of the female form for it. I wish men would: 1) masturbate without using images of women, 2) have sex with other men. It's not gay and stop claiming you are "visual" when really you just like to exploit the female gender. It's all gross caricature of the female. Imagine if instead of gender it was race. If instead of getting turned on by caricatures of the female and females in the position of servicing you sexually, you got … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 05:51 AM |
| 12 | CMV: In regards to the bottom 90% of people, women are the gatekeepers of both casual sex and relationshipsNo, it depends way more on who has the boss mentality. We've all seen bottom 20% men who were the gatekeepers of their relationships. He just has to be confident. Also, what's with every man's "hypothesis" that women are born wanting to date the top 10% of men and that women have to "learn" that it's not going to happen? Projection much? Literally every late bloomer virgin male I've talked to has told me a story to the effect of "I thought I would get with Stacy, but then I had to realize it was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 05:33 AM |
| 30 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.Growing up I was not into makeup, fashion, face creams, exchanging hair styling tips, dieting, or looking for a rich husband. I just wasn't into any of these things, and my female friends were not either, but it did seem to make other people uncomfortable. I've always preferred to just slip on a t-shirt and go build a shack in the woods even though I was not a tomboy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:09 PM |
| 81 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳I once got in a small accident and got face surgery. My 5'5 fat boyfriend never came to the hospital, never came to my house during my convalescence, literally disappeared until my face was healed. The irony is that a year prior to that I was with him when he got into a stupid accident while drunk that made him loose all his front teeth. I let him fuck me for 6 months while he had no teeth because his bones needed to heal before he could get implants. I never got so much as a thank you. He was g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 46 | I love it when I see FDS ideologies on other social media platforms🥰In my relationships I was high effort and low maintenance, so I put in high effort and dated strictly low effort men. The guys loved it. They continued to be low effort and even asking more. The only times it would create conflict is that I was high effort in other areas of my life (jobs, hobbies, volunteering). If what I was doing was too cool and too awesome then it would run them mad with jealousy like they just wanted to do nothing and strong-arm me into doing nothing too. I think if I ever … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 41 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOI studied in a program that was all guys except 2 or 3 girls. I started out teaming up with this girl who dropped out after the first semester, so after that I was flying solo and all my friends were men. There was one girl that I went to parties with and played sports with, but she didn't really hang out with the group. (This girl was an early FDS queen, she took one look and understood that the guys in our program were all ugly, so she went looking elsewhere for HVM, and she found him. He was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 20 | And you can be a whole Dragon Queen and end up with a JackassIt's such a sinister fable now that I think about it. The only reason why she falls in love with Shrek is because he accepts her in her ogre form that she's insecure about, but the only reason why Shrek accepts her in her ogre form is because Shrek is 10 times more ogre! Couldn't get yourself in the gym last night? Date a man who never exercises! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | And you can be a whole Dragon Queen and end up with a JackassI never though about that :O I thought it was just that she's under an ogre curse and she finds someone who accepts her, but now you're making me think that if she fell in love with a human she might have stayed human :O | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:53 AM |
| 79 | More food for thought <333What everyone needs to realize is the cost of this. Women and men don't exist equally if women have to spend money on beauty products that men don't have to buy, not to mention the time spent on it every day. It's not a "choice", it's not that women just "like" to spend an extra hour every day to do their hair, it all comes down from the fact that society values women on their looks. To look the part, many women would have to spend lots of money on products, and then for some you'd have to blow … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 6 | LVM Use Their Depression as a Guilt-tripWhy is this so classic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 9 | LVM Use Their Depression as a Guilt-tripWomen with depression aren't thinking about dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 20 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"Right? Lots of women want to have careers so it might not happen, but every man should at least be aiming for this because they want to give her the best and that includes giving her the choice. Happy wife happy life is not a joke. Men get happier and healthier if they are married, and the best way to stay married is strive to make their wife happy. This has trickle down for the whole family because if he reduces her stress she'll have a better relationship with her children, more sex with him a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:52 AM |
| 6 | The real reason you shouldn’t date “frugal” (cheap) menI'm embarrassed to say there was a man in bloody Peru who made me fly to his country to go out with him. Repeatedly. I was paying almost $1000 out of pocket just to go see him. I don't know if I should share this tale with FDS some day, but I belong on the pickme hall of shame. The only reason I went was because I was too polite to say no. I was never the one to initiate a trip, it was always him messaging me like "hey come to Peru". He would pester me about it and guilt trip me by telling me "y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 7 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateBeing a single woman is so dangerous because men see you like a piece of meat on a stick that they just feel belongs to them and they can't imagine an available, single woman telling them no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:57 AM |
| 41 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜Men approach dating without emotion. They don't accept the first offer they get, they calculate in their head what's the best they think they deserve and only go for that. It's the same way when they apply for jobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:23 AM |
| 29 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!They think just the fact that they want to date someone is a gift to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:14 PM |
| 40 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Happy for the opportunity to go back to his place and hookup? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 73 | I got my coworkers to tell on themselves; a translation of the male mindThey know how we feel, they just don't care. Inscribe this on my tombstone. I think that's a very important difference. We tend to care what another person feels whenever we can tell what they are feeling. Men have the ability to just know exactly how a woman is feeling about something and just disregard it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:14 AM |
| 14 | 🙄What to do when he texts you but the texts have turned boring and/or too low effort?🥱I agree don't respond and if he's HVM he'll step it up. LVMs will either stop messaging or continue to message with low effort without getting mad. He thinks "well I might as well continue this low effort strategy and maybe some girl will respond at some, it's not costing me much effort anyway". That's LVM (or ZVM). NVM, on the other hand, will eventually get mad. I've seen that happen so many times. You don't respond, you're out living your best life for a few days and you forget he exists, the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:02 AM |
| 29 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!They get very angry if an able woman doesn't participate in the great war effort of providing sex and love to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Sexual dimorphism is FAR more important than being "good-looking"I am slender, never got any attention. Not even a little bit. I changed on the soccer field in front of a team full of guys, invisible. Went swimming in bikinis with guys my entire youth, invisible. One time (okay more than once) I lost my bikini diving, invisible. Shorts, skirts, whatever. Invisible. Oh another thing is with my friends we would often get in our underwear and run outside in the snow. I did it in college too in a STEM faculty full of guys. Invisible. It was great though, I never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Serious answer though: male sexuality and female sexuality isn't the same. Men are required to be hard for sex to be possible, women are not required to be "wet". Humans have evolved so that women do not need to be aroused to have sex, and women do not need to have an orgasm to get pregnant. Humans have literally evolved so that women's arousal is irrelevant in reproduction. Think about that. You know what helps a woman get pregnant? Ovulation, which is NOT TIED TO AROUSAL. The ovulation comes w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 11:19 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)More like because the men are sexual selectors. If a woman doesn't make their dick go hard, they don't go for her. So then if the dick doesn't get hard, it suggests that something's off. Dry vaginas are the norm, women sleep with men they aren't attracted to all the time. It almost always has to be worked on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 11:09 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Because they are the hornier one lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Sexual dimorphism is FAR more important than being "good-looking"Exactly, I see overweight women who look good all the time when they've got a cute dress on or something. Meanwhile I could walk around naked and no one would have any sexual thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 11:03 AM |
| 80 | Assholes are good at sex ..."Being good at sex" is such a nonsense. 1) It's not rocket science, it's the most basic thing humans can do. 2) It doesn't take much for a guy to think he is good at sex. I've seen men brag about the prostitute enjoying it. 3) Guys who describe themselves as "kinky" are automatically bad at sex. This doesn't even need to be tested, you just know from the feeling you get reading their profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneNo, for instance the incredibly meek and soft-spoken guy was a guy I picked out of a speed-dating event, talked to him after and gave him my number, but he didn't call until 7 years later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneYes that's such a good point, gregarious and able to make people comfortable would make more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneOkay I guess I used the wrong word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneYeah I need to retrain my feelings to react to something like hotness and confidence instead of pity and weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneIt just pales in comparison to the lonely men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 09:08 AM |
| 6 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional onePretty sure that's a sub created by lonely men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:50 AM |
| 3 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneI think women are well aware, that's why they don't struggle with dating. But your point applies to men. Men are bad at awareness and that's why there's an epidemic of men who say they can't find a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a loser?Childless women. That's it. People think having a kid young or several baby daddies is bad. But you know what's worse? Not even finding a way to have a child. At some point you realize that the women who had kids and got divorced are still winning more than you. They got at least kids out of it, sometimes money. How does that compare to the woman who got nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneNo, I didn't meet him on a dating site. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneIf you must know everything about my life, John Doe, I was a normie until the age of 25, then I became very shy. All the times I went on dates or had boyfriends was before I became mental ill with shyness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneI don't remember doing that. Why is everyone like this here? I wrote a pretty straightforward post about the role of emotions in making an emotional decision to like a guy. Nobody seems able to interact with the content of my post. You apparently clicked my name and checked the annals of my post history. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:06 AM |
| 7 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneThis sub has a sexism problem. Whenever a man makes a post, the first replies agree with him. Whenever a woman makes a post, the replies tell her she's not desirable enough. It's like no matter what I write men will interpret it as me asking them if they think I'm dateable. It's not what I asked here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneIt's very easy to avoid men who want hookups. Even when I went on dates with men who were fit, smart, kind and rich thanks to the dating site forcing me to pick good matches, not one of them wanted a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneDoesn't really matter, you can replace it with "has purple sneakers" and it doesn't change the content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: How do you treat your friends who are cheaters, if you have any?I don't have friends who cheat. Closest thing was my friend was dating a guy who was cheating on his girlfriend. She was the other woman. I didn't understand why she did that, but I thought the guy was the one in the wrong anyway. I've also had at least one male acquaintance who was sleeping with married women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Online dating causes women to make a rational decision rather than an emotional oneDeep, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.No, I'm unattracted to guys who take shirtless pics. It's like they think they are women, they think women want to eye them. I don't. If a guy is fit and keeps his shirt on and acts normal, I'm good. I would find it very attractive if he can DO impressive feats of physical fitness like run super fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Sexual dimorphism is FAR more important than being "good-looking"What? I hate tall men. Never been attracted to one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:43 AM |
| 10 | Sexual dimorphism is FAR more important than being "good-looking"This is what I keep saying! Men are like "but why do women care about height, it's not fair, I can't change it, they just have to be skinny!". Height is one element of sexual dimorphism. The males are 5 inches taller. That's a fact. It's no different from women's round pelvises, fatty butts, sucked in waists, cute faces, dense long hair. I can't change the effect of my sex hormones on my puberty either. It didn't give me a cute feminine face. I'm tired of men saying "women just have to not be fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 03:04 AM |
| 12 | Empower the women in your life by introducing FDS to them! (A template)Maybe I should share it to people around me. The concept of men paying on dates is unheard of where I live so it would be revolutionary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:46 PM |
| 186 | Nothing newI legitimately never understood why men get angry when a woman doesn't want to be with them. For me if I even get the faintest impression that a man doesn't want to be with me, I immediately get zero feelings for this man, because I see him as a person and I'm not attracted without him being attracted to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueYou left this thread: If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueWashed up party girls. My skull is like 1 cm too wide and it was enough to make all decent men want nothing to do with me. I had to date gamer stoners even though I didn't do drugs. That's a type of gamer who isn't good at school so they do drugs and nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueI never wanted to be with the guy, usually he was using emotional manipulation and I felt forced to sleep with him, but I thought I could exit at some point or he'd lose interest. Like you think "well it's easier to sleep with him because he's crying and demanding it, but he will probably move on after he gets what he wants or he realizes I'm going to do other stuff, right?". But then they didn't lose interest, they clung to me no matter how I nicely tried to slip away. And you just get more and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueWell women who might be in a lower league: ugly, promiscuous, unfaithful, trashy, gold-digging women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueI mean maybe that's what would happen if I tried to get with better men, that they would sleep with me and then dump me, then I would know that I've found where "above my league" is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:37 AM |
| -20 | As seen on a law school subreddit: "Accepted at every school I applied but waitlisted at the school in the same city as my husband. It’s an easy decision"I kind of understand what she means though. Her husband will make more money than her. She can indeed reapply next year. I wouldn't say to do this if she was dating a bum boyfriend, but she's already married to a guy who seems like a good one. They could do long distance though if they aren't having kids until she's finished school. But I understand that reapplying in a year is not the end of the world if she thinks she'll get in. We don't know their situation, maybe they have a house there, fam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueA league is the caliber of people where they would be as likely to reject you as you would be to reject them. If in all of your relationships you are the one being rejected, then you are aiming out of your league. If you get rejected and reject in equal amounts, you are aiming in your league. If you are always the one doing the rejecting, you are aiming below your league. Simple enough, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships?That's not true. I literally only date and fuck men that I've seen cry. I can't count the amount of times a man cried, and it always made me feel only more desire to stay with him. I don't think it's healthy, but it is what it is. Men have used tears to manipulate me into a bunch of stuff, including sex, dates, relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships?No, I actually only got in relationship with men I saw cry. Emotional manipulation plays a big role for me. If I'm not emotionally manipulated, I don't care. So I always care about the guys who display some sort of weakness. Crying, being really shy and trembling, getting bullied, victim complex. That's what attracts me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueI am not oblivious. I keep hammering that fact out. My point is: you know you're not aiming out of your league when every person you talk to is interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueBut like I said I was talking to men below my league. I don't think men above my league want to date me. I just haven't tested where my league ends because I never tried hitting on better men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueIt is really that surprising that the males are a bit resentful of that? No? It's probably a lot harder to raise a child than to wash your own ass. Like you said, both had their challenges. The single mom had to go through the heartache of breaking up with the baby daddy, sometimes go to court, therapy, deal with people, put others first. The virgin man had to deal with the heartbreak of losing to a 12-year-old in Fortnite, being alone all the time, and putting himself first every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueYou systematically aim out of your league. If you went for women below your league, you'd have them saying yes all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueYour league is the caliber of people where you'd be as likely to reject them as they'd be to reject you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueYour league is the caliber of people where you'd be as likely to reject them as they'd be to reject you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueBy "want to date me" I mean monogamous LTR. It ain't hard getting that from men. The guys I talk to all want a monogamous LTR with me. If I was talking to guys out of my league, at least some wouldn't want that from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 07:30 AM |
| 0 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueSounds like she was lucky. I was a thin athletic woman who was considered kind and easygoing by her peers, and I dated only guys who were short, poor, unathletic and struggled with their personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueYou know I can't answer the looks question. What I can say is height, I'm 5'6, first boyfriend was 5'5 and second boyfriend was 5'7. They didn't have money at all. They came from poorer families than mine, they were not heading for lucrative careers, and they never paid for a date. What I can also say is that I was fit, I exercised every day and I had a lean body. They were somewhere between dad bod and fatass. To give you an idea, I could outrun them. They really sucked in every way. They weren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 07:01 AM |
| 7 | Typical LVM: breaks up with girlfriend of 4 years because a medication decreased her sex drive, is now looking for advice on how to find hornier women 🙄 (bonus: commenter who suggests low sex drive means the ex-gf was “using” OP)What I don't understand is: if a woman is not attracted to him, what is she using him for? He never mentioned a transfer of money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 3 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.This is not true of all women. Maybe this woman enjoys and seeks validation for her appearance. Meanwhile I know many women who never posted a sexy picture on social media and just lived life the same as boys. If you look at statistics, women have lower self-esteem than men, so "extremely high ego" isn't a correct perception of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueFirst come first serve and I didn't care to look elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueI didn't say everyone wants to date me lol. I said every guy I talk to ends up wanting to date me. So I talk to guys below my league. If I went to talk to guys who are out of my league, no doubt they wouldn't want to date me. I just don't go there. If I wanted to "find" my league I could try messaging seemingly more desirable men until I get rejected, but I've not been curious. Edit: In fact I probably avoid talking to men who seem out of my league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:12 AM |
| 0 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueI always dated down, and there was no money involved. The guys were: shorter, poorer, dumber, less fit, less accomplished, poorer parents, and more shy than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:09 AM |
| 0 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueYour league is the spot where you're as likely to be rejected as to reject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueI didn't say "leagues" has to be about some simplistic parameters like looks or salary. I think "leagues" is just how many people would want to date this person and would they date someone like you. For instance if you take a super pretty girl with a nice personality who makes other people feel comfortable and doesn't have massive downsides, and then you take a lineup of ugly/unremarkable neckbeards who struggle to approach women, and you ask them if they would like to date this girl, and they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueI didn't say it's just about looks. It can be any factor the dating group cares about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:54 AM |
| -1 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueNo, I've never been pumped and dumped and all the guys I talk to end up wanting to date me. So it seems I don't talk to guys out of my league. If you didn't talk to women out of your league, you would have interest too. It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueIf almost every fatass and old man would say yes to dating them then they are dating below their league. This is how I see leagues: take one person. Then take 100 people of the same caliber and same gender as this person. If 100% of these people would easily agree to date you, then this person is below your league. But if 99% of these people would immediately reject you, then this person is above your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Thanks, friends have been good, can't recall a friend pressuring me. It's basically just when guys are "interested". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:35 AM |
| 7 | Men who can't get sex and women who get pumped and dumped are aiming out of their leagueCall it "hitting on people who would never be interested in dating you" then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Yeah sorry I added that I wasn't talking about pump and dump. Pump and dump hasn't happened to me. Pump and cling is what happened to me. I wasn't having sex to try to get the guy to stay with me, I was just having sex because I got pressured into it and thought maybe he'd leave me alone after it. But then they didn't. Like they just cling... Which I guess makes sense if I keep doing what they want... But it's not my intention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Yeah I know it's a flaw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Well I've been raped too, but most of the time it was simply social pressure to comply because he wants it a lot, or because he's using emotional blackmail. Easy to say now, but I had no idea this is what was going on when it happened. I actually wouldn't consider being pumped and dumped harmful because at least the guy is out of your life. What I'm describing is when the guy pressures you and continues to pressure you for... ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:56 AM |
| 10 | Billie speaking facts!Testosterone is literally drugging them into overconfidence. They should try being a woman for one minute and they would die from the self-doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.This is stupid because there are ways to regret having sex even if you didn't "use sex to get in a relationship". I've had men beg me for sex, put on a sob story, cry rageful tears, all intended to make me feel bad and erode my resolve to hold my boundaries. It was never because I wanted a relationship with them. It was always because they wanted a relationship with me and they thought if they could get me to sleep with them, they'd already have their foot in and some ownership over me. To test … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.This, but about virgin men. Women who don't aim out of their league don't get fuckzoned, cheated on, dumped, "just want to have fun", etc. But men who don't aim out of their league aren't virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoI don't know how guys get places so dirt because even if I don't clean it doesn't look like that. Like I remember moving from a place that I didn't clean but that still looked like the clean picture to a place that the previous tenant left dirty and thinking how? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:18 AM |
| 11 | The only HVM in this situation is her dadMy exes were like this. I didn't come from as much money as this girl, but I dated guys who were poorer than me and I happened to do very well in school and in most things. Guys would hate me for performing well, they would even mock me for having a good heart, they would say things like "the reason you're so nice is because you're privileged and you haven't experienced struggles, you've had such an easy life that you see people with rose-colored glasses". That's an actual thing that a guy told … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:58 AM |
| 8 | The reasons behind the myth of short men having a “hard time” dating is other men, their own insecurities and how vicious they are to a taller woman who dares to show any interest.I'm 5'6. I dated a guy who 1 inch shorter than me, no issue there, then a guy 1 inch taller, still no issue, this guy thought he was a gift from God and apparently no one ever made him feel bad for being short, unlike what the manosphere is saying. Then I dated a guy a few inches taller. As soon as I put on heels (couldn't have been more than 2-3 inches heels) he was compulsively checking his height against mine in the mirror saying "oh no, you're so tall now, too tall, you're taller than me now… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Hollywood Pushes Male Actors to the Brink of Organ Failure for Shirtless PicsI knew several guys from 18-22 who had perfect otter bodies despite eating like shit and not working out, while many other guys were skinny fat fucks or dad bodding in adolescence. If you had good male genes, you would have had a good body with 1/10th of the discipline. Stop coping. For women it's even more determined by genetics. I've always been fit and toned, but I've never had a hot female body. My body is just shaped too male (short legs, no fat on the butt, very wide shoulders, muscular to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Hollywood Pushes Male Actors to the Brink of Organ Failure for Shirtless PicsOh come on, even I get visible abs if I drink a bit less water, and I'm a woman. You guys are just lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think?The bar is non existent because there are at least some men who get laid while being short, ugly, fat, poor, homeless, drunk. There is no bar, only which women you choose to approach. If there are men somewhere who get laid while being short, ugly, poor, and without taking women on dates, simply by sliding in women's DMs and crying until one feels bad enough, then that is the bar. If you think you're better than that and you don't get laid, it's because you only approach women with higher standa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?I could be as vile as you and say that unless you're shaped like a little runt with vast amounts of underdeveloped muscles, you have nothing to worry about. You do remember that only a small proportion of men will be smaller and lighter than an average woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 10:05 AM |
| 13 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit ManosphereThey're going to be like "we don't claim him", but all future murderers are probably on Reddit right now with their comments getting upvoted by the manosphere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:02 AM |
| 6 | How were periods talked about when you were growing up?We didn't talk about it, but it was fine for me. Actually school told us about periods exactly once, a woman came, took the girls apart, explained how to install a pad or tampon and how to dispose of it, then she gave us a package with pads and deodorant so we'd have some for when puberty happened. Bless the public school system. Although one detail escaped this presentation. Like another commenter said, the first trace of blood was brown not red, and nobody said it could look like that, so I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:53 AM |
| 30 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenI have this problem too. Fat men liking the fact that I'm not fat and I'm supposed to be the nice one who doesn't care about looks. I honestly don't care if a guy is fat, but I started to realize that just because I don't care about looks shouldn't mean I give men a free pass to be entitled. Like I used to not care if the man was short, ugly, fat, poor, etc. I was like I don't care, so why not date those guys? Somebody needs to love them, so why not me, who doesn't mind? But I wasn't short, ugly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 74 | They fought to the death for our rights, died in childbirth, survived domestic violence, outlawed divorce rape, got us our own bank accounts just to VOLUNTARILY tie yourself to a lvm? Our ancestors made these sacrifices so that future generations could be different. Break generational curses/trauma!I'm pretty sure both of my grandmothers' success boiled down to marrying HVM. They were born a bit too soon to have a career of their own and if they had married the first LVM who wanted them, their lives would have sucked. Somehow both grandmothers held on and married rich men who treated them like queens. They lived easy lives having many children, luxuries, traveling, maids, beautiful houses, clothes, and they were loved by everyone. My grandfathers both died right after they retired, but my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?You understand women. I personally didn't mind dating a guy who was 1 inch shorter than me and who weighted 50 lbs more than me. (I'm an average sized woman.) But sometimes I see guys who are both shorter than me AND tinier than me as in they have a very petite frame and that might make me feel fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?Lol nice try. It's not about actual strength, no one cares if you're short and you lift heavy. It's about good looks, tall and handsome. We're not actually under physical attacks in this society, we're actually most likely to be physically attacked by our partner. Having a "strong" partner does nothing to protect you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Some things I've learned in trying to find HV people (friendships and romantic relationships)This list seems pretty random. I know HV people who gossip. I dislike gossip as much as you do, but I've seen people who just liked to gossip and it was harmless, perhaps it was even helping with social cohesion, as in they took an interest in people and spread some information that could help people. My siblings and I looked down on my mom because she liked to gossip, and in retrospect I think we were misogynistic. Because women care more about people, they might ask how are your friends doing,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:39 AM |
| 29 | Men Are Visual BSThey just feel entitled to the attention of any woman they are attracted to. Just see them rage when a woman doesn't give them the attention they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:46 AM |
| 12 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?To be honest having a bathroom is one of the top number reasons to have a home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 13 | LVM thrive in stagnation. Save your tears.I think she's just saying LVM was the thing making her depressed. She put him in the trash and didn't need antidepressants anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:28 AM |
| 8 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I think the main problem is that women aren't heartless enough to call their partner "not a full 5". Men on the other hand have been perfectly fine calling their partner "a 7 to me but a 6 objectively" which is just a callous way to say they fantasize about other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:15 AM |
| 2 | When you achieve something like climbing to the top of a mountain or you travel to a destination with a guy, make sure to get photos of YOU alone.I agree! I lost my photos of me traveling alone and I'm sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:58 AM |
| 18 | Your Masturbation Fantasies Cannot Be Self-Degrading, Abusive or Rapey Because You Are Conditioning Yourself for Getting Off Of Abuse, You Are Teaching Yourself That You Deserve to Be AbusedWhat I hate the most is when men use this to justify treating women poorly or to say that women deserve to be treated badly. I hate that so much. Like they see a weakness in someone (low self-esteem making a woman accept poor treatment) and they immediately think of exploiting this for their own gain instead of uplifting their fellow humans by refusing to treat women badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:12 AM |
| 27 | Boy Meets World - Let Me Touch Something!!! I’m actually disgusted...Did nobody see anything wrong with this?!? It’s crazy watching this under a different lense. Women don’t owe men sex . If we never wanted to have sex ever, we have a right to that. Men are not entitled to sex, no matter how long."Are you just getting married so you can have sex?" "Me and a billion other men." Kind of cute that they are pretending all women refuse to have sex without being married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:07 PM |
| 89 | Timeline Discussion: When to kiss, come over their place, sex, etc.I feel like the biggest trap is caring about their expectations. "Oh he wants sex so I have to have sex". If you're dating without marriage in sight you should use it as an exercise in denying male expectations. They can't always get what they want and that's just life. They have to deal with it. You need to make sure you're always having fun. If you're ever made to feel bad or cry, leave. Don't ever let them bullshit you about why you're the problem for being upset or how you being upset is "ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 33 | Starting over at 36...or "The Tiktok That Broke The Camel's Back"Good for you Queen. I'm tired of men saying there's nothing wrong with them having the same emotional and intellectual complexity as younger women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.We literally never use sex to get what we want. Sex is what the guy wants and he uses pressure techniques to get it. We just give it because he keeps asking for it and we don't want to be mean. It's not "to get something". It's just to be nice to him because he says he wants sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 4 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.And then men wonder why women don't initiate! Men who don't like the burden of initiating keep telling us to initiate more, but meanwhile men describe a woman who initiates sex as "trying to leverage sex" and "manipulate you". Just despicable. As for me personally, 100% of the time I had sex it was the man trying to manipulate me and trap me, never the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 05:23 AM |
| 3 | I have to laugh at this, but I worry for the PickMes who will fear that their value might decrease (hint: it won’t).A man who earns a lot of money is a gem, but most men don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:39 PM |
| 10 | I have to laugh at this, but I worry for the PickMes who will fear that their value might decrease (hint: it won’t).We are not trading our beauty for their money. Why do they keep thinking that? What we offer is someone to love you and care about you. Just look at the epidemic of loneliness. Men are the first ones to benefit from companionship as it is shown to improve their happiness and life expectancy, and even success and motivation. Could they stop pretending they don't want this? If really they are a misanthrope who can't imagine meeting someone they like, then they should stay far out of the dating poo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 12 | Working on Leveling up and I’m on my financial goals right now. This woman has been a huge help and I cannot express how great it is to see women reaching their goals and sharing their success secrets with other women. Share and grow together and one day we will rule the world;)I don't know if financial security really protects against LVMs. I grew up in a pretty wealthy family with my mom making a big salary and I thought I would make a good salary too (or at least I never thought of counting on a man to supplement my salary) and the result for me was that I dated poor LVMs who brought nothing to the table (no money and no inspiring energy either). I just need FDS because it's different. It's telling me: what if I could actually expect men to inspire me and not just b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 5 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MENI thought the thing to do was fall in love with the first guy was demanded sex from me. I would tell girls: don't fall in love, you will leave him in the dust and everyone knows it, but make it painless by not feeling empathy and pity for these guys. He's not your son. These boys treat you like a complaint counter where if they get upset and resent you they should get comfort and sex in return. Opt out. Just wait and maybe some day you will find someone who cherishes you and values you and wants… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Another control freak father trying to control his ex with their child... And the law.I hope the comments roasted him. He picks up his kid only one day a week and he accepts to work late on that day? The woman is being so reasonable saying she'll bring the kid and he can come pick him up over there. It's just disgusting how he calls his work so important yet expects her to cancel hers because he couldn't respect the agreement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Never let a scrote derail your life!👑✨I wish my parents had told me not to date until later in life and to only date a worthy guy. Sadly my parents are liberal and of the opinion that girls should suffer to give boys a good time. I always dated so far down. When I was trying to decide of my professional future, I was tied to an ugly guy, shorter than me, with no talent for school or anything else, so he was guaranteed not to go anywhere, and I limited my options to take him into consideration. Same thing every step of the way. When … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Is not asking for a ‘got home safe’ text a bad sign?You choose what's important to you. Personally I don't think it's a rational concern to want to make sure that nothing bad happened to them because the chances are infinitesimal. But if you do it for emotional reasons, you can make it a must. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.Men are really not honorable. They will dig in their bag of tricks and say literally anything to get nudes ("I promise I won't save them, I promise I'll delete them, I can't believe you don't trust me, it really hurts my feelings that you don't trust me, you know I would never do that") and in the same swoop they will turn around and share/save/send these pictures. They do not mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:33 PM |
| 62 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.Gen X was already like this... If anything there's now a fight back movement, like FDS and those tiktoks. This stuff wasn't even questioned when Gen X were that age. We actually thought it was gentlemanly if a guy came before midnight or paid for Plan B. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.These are so true though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 78 | You Idolize the Joker character in the movie, sympathize with his actions because of all the abuse he went through and applaud his violence when he cracks- yet you roast FDS in the same breath. I call that extreme double standards!Men have so much empathy for weak men who get pushed around and mocked. It's because they have been through that themselves. They can't relate to anything they haven't personally been through. I was reading this post from a woman who was asking Reddit for tips on "how to stop her husband from having sex with her". Because society didn't equip her to be respected and heard. So if she tells her husband the sex is painful, he has sex with her anyway, or he pouts and throws tantrums. A man wouldn't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 17 | Do not tell men you are on birth controlI made this mistake. A guy asked me if I was on birth control and I naively said yes. Then he started whining that sex with a condom was so bad and he was dying to have sex without condom and it was so hard for him to not have it that it was causing him emotional pain and he was going to cry and get mad and all that stuff. They will stop at nothing to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 9 | PSA about hormones and hormonal birth control when dating and selectingIt's time we rebel against hormonal birth control. If nothing else, it shouldn't be normalized to medicate HEALTHY individuals. People worry about overmedicating the children, antidepressants, antibiotics, but giving hormones to women is fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | In my experience, most men who call themselves “good guys,” are just comparing themselves to the predatory men they keep in their friend group. and they’ll call themselves the “good guy” in comparison, but they very obviously aren’t because they’re still hanging out with their predatory friendsIt's like "I'm a good guy because I wouldn't rape a woman"... But what else are they doing? They just compare themselves to the worst qualities of another, instead of trying to be better in all categories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:52 AM |
| 56 | Never settle for less. If he really loves you, he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Stop giving your energy to guys who are just going to leave you in read for two weeksTo be fair that's not a guarantee that the guy is a good one. I met a guy when I went on a trip to volunteer and explore, learn about others, do what I love. This guy was the most closed-minded individual, he hated traveling, volunteering, exploring, he was not curious about other cultures in the slightest, he was lazy and expected me to make all the sacrifices, he just really liked me because I was hot and nice to him. People who travel are open-minded, adaptable and nice, but if you meet someo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Never settle for less. If he really loves you, he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Stop giving your energy to guys who are just going to leave you in read for two weeksI wanted this to be made into a movie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 140 | Scientific evidence: Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with herWomen who have unprotected sex with their partners and are regularly exposed to semen experience more significant depression on breaking up than those who were having sex with condoms. This makes some men's insistence on having unprotected sex even scarier! "But it feels better" and also they want to mark their territory, sully her and control her brain. Semen should be a forbidden fluid. They wouldn't want to touch menstrual blood, yet semen carries diseases and causes pregnancies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 51 | One more reason to avoid anxious men.Men with mental illnesses are on dating apps and approaching women like that's okay. They want women to love them broken. Women with mental illnesses are off the dating apps I think, and not looking, but of course if men can find them they'll go there. Some men specifically look for women with mental illnesses and some seem to want her mental illness to play off his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:18 AM |
| 7 | Never date men who use their shyness/ reserved personality as an excuse to be low effortThis is too true. I too grew up with / had shy "introverted" guy friends. Like all men, they too are under the impression that they are a catch and every girl wants them. If they are interested in a girl, they absolutely approach her. There's no such thing as a guy who likes a girl and is too shy to tell her. There is however a lot of shy guys who don't like any of the girls they meet and stay silent. If you approach them or make it too easy for them to get with you, they will get with you just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:01 AM |
| 4 | I don't have words for thisLet's take a moment to appreciate that ALL THE UPVOTED COMMENTS are about the sad situation of the client, none about, I don't know, running into a fellow prostitute who was clearly a victim of human traffic or who was being abused and exploited by a vicious client. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:27 AM |
| 57 | Why are so many of them OBSESSED with heightI was told that even undesirable dudes deserve a chance and that led me to date abusive guys I feel that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 09:33 AM |
| 336 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.We need better sex education. Teaching women more ways to say no and shedding light on male manipulation. "I won't be able to ___ with a condom" is manipulation. It comes from the fact that men feel entitled to assuming whatever they wish should be fulfilled. They need to be sent home without an explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:20 AM |
| 14 | Ya’ll, please tell me I did not just read what I read? After seeing that I went and made a donation to FDS. It was the only way I could calm down. Is this a thing?!?!?!?!Literally nothing is forcing them to act on it. The correct decision would be to not hire an adult actor to enact the fantasy and just not indulge every destructive pulsion you get? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:11 AM |
| 23 | Today, I broke up with my boyfriend.I totally get what you mean. I struggle with guilt too. I tried rejecting someone with the excuse "you're a decade older" too and he actually argued with me and called my reason invalid! Not even facts can stop manipulators. He said age wasn't real past 25 and he said he was as immature as a 20-something anyway. I didn't even start talking to him knowing he was a decade older, he hid his age until he had absolutely no choice but to reveal it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:55 AM |
| 32 | 'When a man in our culture days no, it's the end of the discussion. When a woman in our culture says no, it's the beginning of a negotiation.' Just bought the gift of fear and was giving praises just 3 pages in.This is so true, and it's one of these things where people might not notice it and they might think misogyny isn't around anymore, but it's absolutely there and manifesting in ways like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:49 AM |
| 13 | Love that the chosen picture has #GirlBoss energy too. My GirlBoss phase was also the worst at being "liberated", as I had no idea about how meritocracy is a scamTo be fair, I don't think libfems use the phrase "I'm not like those other feminists", and the irony is that this meme is saying "I'm not like these other feminists". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex?Tell us how it is when you're an old twink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex?It says unattractive men don't want to be with their value match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex?Men are hypergamous. How much they pay to get with (or watch) people who are higher on the SVM says it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 12:50 AM |
| 40 | Forcing men to invest in us will force them to be pickyI still find it hard to expect more of men. I find it easy to expect good behaviour from women, for instance I wouldn't dream of asking a man out unless I had my entire life in order and unless I could provide him with everything he wants, but for some reason I feel mean expecting the same from men. They've put it in my head that poor men are suffering so much so they need clemency and understanding. But I know I'm not ready. In reality, they just don't feel shame and so they ask out anyone to p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:48 PM |
| 16 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮50 year old men are highly desired... by 50 year old women. It's just men who are weird for preferring 18-year-olds no matter their age. Like I get that they are pretty and have cute personalities, but like you're not looking for an object, you're looking for a partner and best friend... But I read the other day that women are most likely to answer a message from a man 10 years younger and it's a steady downward slope until there's about 0% chance they'll answer a message from a man 10 years old… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:12 PM |
| 150 | From that thread about sex workers' most emotional experiences. Such a sweet, poor lonely old companion ready to pay to use your body 💖💖💖 the cognitive dissonanceYikes! When men pay women for their company, they tell on themselves that they see women as commodities. Also, if he was such a sweet man he could have: A) hired a paid companion that he didn't have sex with B) befriended someone who wasn't a young hot woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 64 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsOh my god yes. Exes never mentioned my academic successes. I got prizes and got into difficult programs and they would just stare in the distance like dead fish as they kept failing classes and having no talent. Also my ex was severely annoyed that I had an interest in exercise and traveling. I swear they just hate when you do anything that's not directly serving them and even more if it exposes how shitty they are in comparison. And like you said I wasn't mentioning it. I was lightheartedly inv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Nice Girls" are worse for society than "Nice guys" and there are alot more of them.But you realize that every time I comment here I have like 10 men saying "women rate 80% of men as below average". I can't spend my time explaining this to every curious young man on the internet. Maybe I'll make a post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 12:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Nice Girls" are worse for society than "Nice guys" and there are alot more of them.Since women claim 80% of men to be below average They don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Nice Girls" are worse for society than "Nice guys" and there are alot more of them.No it gets good after the start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 9 | Found out he watches porn, kicked him out at 1:30amAmazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:59 AM |
| 8 | CMV: "Nice Girls" are worse for society than "Nice guys" and there are alot more of them.Lol. "What is this? Men overestimate themselves says who?" Are you telling me you never read anything in your entire life? https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/05/the-confidence-gap/359815/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | CMV: "Nice Girls" are worse for society than "Nice guys" and there are alot more of them.This is nonsensical. Women don't rate 80% of men as below average. Women rate men a 2 out of 5 on average. This doesn't mean that women don't rate themselves a 2 out of 5 on average too, and it doesn't mean that the average woman wouldn't date a man she rates as 2 out of 5. You guys are really stupid in interpreting that survey. One thing is sure, men are much more likely to overestimate themselves. So if anyone has unrealistic expectations and an inflated sense of entitlement, it's men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 12:04 AM |
| 11 | Has a man ever shamed you for your orgasms?My ex was insulted that I needed to use lube during sex. Something I did so that he could keep getting constant sex even if my vagina couldn't handle it. I wish I had tried breaking out a vibrator because he would have lost his mind. Men are never grateful. Like they could be grateful that there's this woman who is spending with them, loyal to them, gets naked in front of them, is willing to have sex with them, but no, they get insulted by some tiny details. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?That's not facts, you're just lazy and stupid. Women in Norway earn 20% less than men. The difference in salary is usually explained by the fact that women work less hours and take less demanding jobs, exactly for the reasons I explained, because couples usually agree that the woman will work less to shuffle the kids, clean the house and cook, while the man will work more. In fact, in 2021 in Norway, 35% of women work part-time, compared to 15% of men. In addition, women in their 20s in Norway e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 5 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.Do you have any idea how entitled, narrow minded, selfish and spoiled the average woman is? Yes, and one consistent result is that it's less than the average man. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/05/the-confidence-gap/359815/ Think about how entitled and confident you feel, and realize that a woman equal to you feels less entitled and confident than you. Probably you are single because you constantly overestimate what kind of woman you should be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 09:25 AM |
| 2 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.There was zero shaming lol, I said it's not the same. And you could enjoy a romantic life without initiating sex. You're obviously one of the very few men for whom dating is impossibly hard. You're not the norm. And who said women don't have to lift a finger? A woman who doesn't lift a finger is as single as you. And who said dating was enjoyable for women? Maybe it's only enjoyable for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Single ladies in our twenties are truly the independent women of societyThey can split rent and utility 50-50. I have never heard of a boyfriend supporting his girlfriend financially at a young age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Single ladies in our twenties are truly the independent women of societyif a very young woman is living with a boyfriend, it's often likely there is some financial support going on What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?When the cost of child rearing isn't born by the parents to such a degree, and thus eliminates the economic incentive of marriage You know that's not a thing. Someone still needs to pick up the kids from daycare and clean the house and cook meals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 06:58 AM |
| 10 | Single ladies in our twenties are truly the independent women of societyI’m well educated and have a diverse friend/acquaintance group but still have to think really hard to identify other females in my age range who are truly financially independent and haven’t relied on a significant other at some point. Most have floated through this formative decade on the wings on a man in some fashion. I'm offended! I'm not even that well educated and I don't know any woman who relied financially on a significant other in her 20s. Do I know women who dated? Yes. But they didn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?Returning to work years later doesn't yield the same salary, and someone still needs to shuffle the kids and clean the house, this is what leads couples to agreeing that the woman will work less hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.Thankfully I don't meet a lot of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage.This is the type of sex education I received in school. It's a great sign that he trusts you enough to share his kinks with you Men are known for mentioning their kinks too soon to strangers who didn't want to know them! You could play with him even if it does nothing for you So I guess we're back to having sex with men just for them even if it does nothing for us. Or maybe we never left? The only difference is there's more things men can expect now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 03:48 AM |
| 6 | CMV: "Nice Girls" are worse for society than "Nice guys" and there are alot more of them.If women keep telling you "any woman would want to date you" without wanting to date you themselves, it's your own fault for talking to women who are out of your league. If you found women who were below your league, they would want to date you. Yet you keep going to women who are out of your league. Your fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:19 AM |
| 3 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?You're not answering the question. Are men marrying women who make less, or are they marrying women from a lower social class? You can't just compare married people to unmarried people anyway because when a man and a woman marry they usually agree to split their time as a team. That's why unmarried women make more than married women and married men make more than unmarried men. Because somehow when a man and a woman feel like they are together in a serious manner, they usually agree that the man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 0 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.It's not a means to an end. I'm not initiating sex thinking that will make the man date me. I'd rather we continue as is without anyone initiating sex. But sometimes he initiates sex. And that causes me to have to make a decision on something I did not initiate myself. I'm actually a shy person and I hate making men feel rejected or awkward. In the moment I usually sleep the boy just because that's easier than upsetting him and I can't bring myself to make him feel rejected and awkward. I defini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?Entitlement is a male trait https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/05/the-confidence-gap/359815/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:00 AM |
| 2 | There is no implied social contract. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t expect anything in return.Women don't initiate asking men to dinner. It's men who invite women to dinner and it's men who take the initiative to pay. There's no point during a date where a woman slides her hand in his pocket, takes out the dollar bills, tells him "mmm I want you to pay" and hands over the money to the waitress as the guy politely tries to resist "but only because he's afraid of looking like a hoe". Sex on the other hand is initiated by men. They make the move, pressure and manipulate women into it. How c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 02:27 AM |
| 16 | Female socialization makes women especially vulnerable to sexual coercionI always had the impression that sex was the price to pay for the privilege of a boy's company. It was about being nice to the boy and making it worth his time. The thought of not having sex seemed evil. Like the fact that a girl might not feel comfortable having sex was portrayed as her being mean to the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:53 AM |
| 32 | Sexual coercion is SEXUAL ASSAULT. Not all sexual assaults are violent and it often happens in relationshipsThanks, that's so kind, I hope you get peace too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:33 PM |
| 146 | Sexual coercion is SEXUAL ASSAULT. Not all sexual assaults are violent and it often happens in relationshipsMy last boyfriend was such a sexual predator. I really wasn't raising any problem about sex and I had sex with him pretty much every day that I spent with him, yet he still managed to push my boundaries and be an asshole. He found out I was on the contraceptive pill and immediately started bitching about the condom "not working" during sex. I showed kindness and patience like I would say "oh I'm really sorry, take your time, we can kiss, it's perfectly fine if we don't finish". He escalated to g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:09 PM |
| 20 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?Pretty shocked to realize that I expected so much less from men than I expected from women and myself, and that this is just not challenged anywhere else. My male friends were almost universally trash. They were negative leaders. They would push alcool, drugs, slacking off, degeneracy, mean jokes, stupid actions. They didn't respect people's boundaries. My female friends were outright angels in comparison. When I hung out with my female friends, there was no alcohol or drugs, no risk of getting … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:30 AM |
| 9 | What we're NOT gonna do is spread the "age is just a number" pedophile agenda by using feminist hashtags. The example pictures were cherry picked celebrity women with younger husbands. "Age is just a number" ONLY benefits men who want someone way too young for them. I can't believe it's normalized.If age is just a number, why are men not dating older women? I think what they mean is they don't care about her age, only about her looks, fertility, inexperience, perkiness, which I guess they don't realize are all tied to her age? Like I've heard a man say he wouldn't mind dating a woman his age, but the problem is that women his age are too jaded. And this always comes from the most jaded men of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:07 AM |
| 3 | What we're NOT gonna do is spread the "age is just a number" pedophile agenda by using feminist hashtags. The example pictures were cherry picked celebrity women with younger husbands. "Age is just a number" ONLY benefits men who want someone way too young for them. I can't believe it's normalized.No, it's normal to have a camaraderie with people your age. These are the types of people you spend most of your time around since childhood, school and friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:54 AM |
| 12 | Oh no, men’s porn addiction is our fault apparentlythey would like to have a sexual relationship And I would like to have a pet tiger, but I don't get one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleWow! This is literally men calling dibs, or "just be first", and teaching girls they should accept the FIRST guy who shows interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 20 | Men falling over themselves to prove that they’ve never come across a sex offender. Just look at all that logic, evidence and sound reasoning 🤡We may have sex offenders in our ranks, but at least we don't have any ugly woman in our ranks. Am I right, gentlemen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 06:12 PM |
| 9 | Reproductive StrategyThis should be what they teach in sex education. For me it was that whole tired bullshit of "you don't need condoms if you have a stable boyfriend". Fuck that! Are you married and trying to have kids? He needs to wear a condom. You have your own birth control method that you never tell him about, he has his own birth control method. This is because if you tell him about your birth control method, he will absolutely pressure you to not use condoms, unashamedly putting the burden of contraception … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:36 AM |
| 71 | People were so mean to Stephanie Buttermore for the crime of gaining weight while female. Her boyfriend, Jeff Nippard, is a good example of what it means to be a high value partner.I can lose my period if I don't weight enough. Guys don't realize that there are different body types. If you look at indigenous tribes around the world, some are pretty stocky despite getting plenty of exercise, it's not all the tiny waifish figure that's so popular in actresses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:37 AM |
| 18 | When your whole country is run by LVM....Male overconfidence is legit documented. They think they are a gift. Doesn't matter if you confront them with the reality that there are so many better dudes you can get right now, they still think they are a gift. The survival of their genetic lineage depends on their blind audacity. If they think they are a gift, they might trick a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 721 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveReddit in a nutshell: "Dating is impossible for ugly men" "Why don't you date ugly women" "Huh no, attraction is important for me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 01:22 AM |
| 38 | PSA: it's not just women's lifestyles that matter when trying to get pregnantI really don't understand why men can't be more excellent. Just don't drink alcohol, don't smoke, don't do drugs, exercise every day, eat a balanced diet, recycle, reduce, reuse, take the stairs, don't use your car if you don't need to. Those are the basic things you learn in primary school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 52 | Recognizing a predator’s behavior: how older men will initially try to trick into age gaps relationships/hook ups.What disgusts me is that these men just try to go as young as they can. The 40-year-old who hits on the 29-year-old? He has his age limit set to 25. He would go there if he could. You could be 35 matching with a 35-year-old man, but what you don't know is that this man has his lower age limit set to 22 and you just happen to be the only woman he got an answer from. It's scary because men are so desperate these days you never know what's really going on. I think the only way to be safe is to date… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 132 | A warning about older men!"He's not more mature, he's just more aware of how to manipulate you" 😮 If I understand this correctly, it means he has the knowledge to manipulate you, but he doesn't have the maturity to not do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 10 | A lot of men need to hear this. They wonder why they have dead bedrooms but dont even tryIt's a key point that if the woman has a headache or something, the man shouldn't react with anger over the "rejection", he should react with love and offer something to make her feel better. It's part of intimacy and ultimately getting more sex... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:39 PM |
| 7 | “Flowers are impractical and expensive”, my ex said. He was not a flower guy and I thought I could accept itThe right to be happy and enjoy myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 3 | 💯% true for me.Yeah it sucks most male friendships are ruined because of their feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 16 | A man who only values you for your fertility and beauty is no HVM: never give up studying, advancing your career or your financial security for a manHere's the thing: a woman can make as much money as a man, at least in theory. So how can it be a good strategy to say try to attract the affection of a man who makes a decent salary instead of trying to make a decent salary yourself? This man has just as much chances as you do to make a decent salary, but you add the extra risk that it's not you earning the salary. He can leave, he can stop working, he can die. Kudos to women who manage to be successful golddigger, but it doesn't seem like a se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 0 | Women over 30: I know you think "the wall" is silly and therefore not worth talking about. But please remember you aren't the target of that propaganda. It's not meant to hurt you. It's meant to hurt us (women under 30).Huh what? I didn't think about being 30 when I was 22. I thought 30-year-old men were ancient and weird. I never thought I had power as a young person because I wasn't competing with 30-year-old women, I was just interacting with other young people, and when everyone is young, there's no power in being young. Do you think a 22-year-old woman has power over a 22-year-old man? No. They think they are equal. The power only exists if you're dating older guys who are scared to miss out on younger wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Men engage in violence with other men in a whole different way than with women. With men, it's a "battle of the equals" where the other man is given a heads-up of what is about to happen. Women don't get a warning because men really don't see us as equals.Yes, they are so manipulative about it, perhaps even self-deluded. I'm actually not scared of men because they just bullshit so much about how much they are trustworthy, and even if they do something wrong, they deny doing anything wrong, and I believe them. It's a big mind game. We're probably designed so that women believe men's lies otherwise the species would die out. But then they act all insulted if you are cautious around them, being like "obviously you risk nothing with me". Do they not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:22 PM |
| 7 | Men that will not complay with the easiest of request to accommodate youMy boyfriend was a disgusting smoker. I always thought I would never date a smoker, but he lied about being a smoker for literal months before he got comfortable enough to show me the extent of his depravity. By that time I had cockholm syndrome (thanks Vice for that expression). He couldn't stop smoking even for the time I spent at his home so we would just be in separate rooms with doors shut. I went well my way over there just for this 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:18 PM |
| 23 | Men be like: Don't sleep with drunk girls. Not because they aren't able to give their consent freely, instead it's to avoid a "false rape allegation".I guess it's still better than when men didn't fear [true] rape accusations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 257 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂Men: "I'm alone because society dictates that men do the approaching, I would totally have a girlfriend if the roles were reversed" If the roles were reversed: cue obese woman severely below their league pressuring them to go out It's not the line of suitable suitors lining up like they imagine. Every man shoots above his league until he either lucks out or end up lowering his aim a bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 34 | Women are attracted to money...What I don't understand is that I would never try to date unless I'm a good party, someone with a good job, good appearance, life in order, good personality, lots to offer. Why are male slobs all over trying to date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:29 PM |
| 43 | Promising Young Woman has been nominated for 5 oscars!! Including a nomination for Best Picture!I agree! Her plan of going to men's places pretending to be drunk only to not sleep with them is pointless. Where's the danger for men? Feeds into the narrative that a man's greatest fear is that a girl won't sleep with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:21 PM |
| 10 | "Only dogs and women are loved unconditionally" "Men are loved for what they can do"A 40-year-old man can "love" a younger woman and demand that she loves him unconditionally despite his flaws, lack of resources, appearance, etc. But then you ask him if he would love her if she was too old to have children and you get a simple no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:14 PM |
| 36 | Men cause 100% of unwanted pregnancies. Unwanted pregnancies happen when men orgasm irresponsibly."Here are the downsides and side effects of hormonal contraceptives" Men: "Can you do it though because all the burden only affects you and it makes sex better for me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:49 AM |
| 328 | Men cause 100% of unwanted pregnancies. Unwanted pregnancies happen when men orgasm irresponsibly.I still can't get over the fact that women are expected to have a baseline of artificial hormones in their system at all times with side effects so that men can get those few minutes of increased pleasure. How much time do they spend in the act of penetration versus how much time do women spend with those hormones running in their system? It's like we seek the very best for men, while we let women suffer. Men need to pay in every sense of the word. The other thing is that men have the audacity t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 4 | The trauma of growing up as the only female in a sibling group.I had two older brothers, no sister. They were horrible to me, just boys testing the limits of how cruel they can be, how much they can dominate and humiliate. It's not just in our heads. I read about sibling abuse recently, and the pair with the most abuse is older brother abusing younger sister. It's the combination of males having lower empathy, and older siblings having more power. Parents let that fly because "boys will be boys" and "my older brother was awful to me too". Abuse is also wors… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 70 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)I would add be aware of the techniques they will use to grind down your boundaries such as isolating you with no exit. For me my boyfriend wanted to go to the beach. But then I was kind of stuck there with him with nothing else to do. He started complaining that sex with condoms was no good, he went the whole man baby tantrum, like he was so oppressed because he was horny and a condom didn't feel good in his pepe, and how could I be so cruel as to let him suffer like that. Using a combination of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?I never liked the taste of alcohol, I only drank because it's what everyone did at parties, and I didn't understand that it was designed to help people hook up / make bad decisions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 10 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?Honestly quitting alcohol is the big one! That stuff is designed to make people hook up. I think every time I got a LVM boyfriend there was alcohol involved. Things happened and then I was stuck with the guy! The other thing is go out / hang out with only a respectable trustworthy group - female friends and men who are in serious relationships only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:16 PM |
| 83 | Advice from a divorce lawyer - on Love, Marriage and FeminismMen think in alternatives! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 28 | I thought I knew the full extent of pornsick men's hatred of women and inability to see us as real people. They managed to surprise me!They only care about how a man would feel if there were deepfakes of his girlfriend or daughter. Amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Found on fb. This just seems like “things a decent spouse should do,” hardly worth a 4 page essay.Sis doesn't get it. It's like she's telling other women "stop complaining that you don't get flowers and chocolates because I get trips and phone calls and the groceries unloaded for me". She just sounds entitled. For years she didn't see what her husband did for her. That's on her. But meanwhile there are a lot of women whose partner doesn't take them on trips, doesn't call them after work and doesn't unload the groceries for them. Maybe those are the women saying they would like some flowers. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 65 | 6pm curfew for men suggested by Green Party, views?It would protect men too. They are always the ones saying "but why care about femicide when men are more likely to get killed". They would be protected if they stayed home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:32 AM |
| 3 | How to date when you have everything? To date or not to date?For an honest answer I would say romance, sex, companionship, eye candy, looking cute in matching outfits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Men never wanna talk about that though 😂I would clean if he bought the house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:26 AM |
| 11 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteCome on, who reads that rag journalism. FDS is accessible to all on the internet, you don't need to read about it on another website to make up your mind about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:20 AM |
| 322 | On why hot women end up with “finance bros”I think what she's saying applies on different levels. We're not all living in big cities where finance bros take fashionable girls out, but the core of the message remains. Guys find pretty girls, put in not even the minimum, then complain that it doesn't work out. Meanwhile that pretty girl is getting actual offers from other men who would do anything to impress her. The no-effort guys don't realize this and aren't willing to do more anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:15 AM |
| 14 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenThat's actually a good endorsement of FDS lol. I mean take the sentence "forced vasectomies are good, pornography and sex work are bad". Then flip it and you have what society thinks "forced vasectomies are bad, pornography and sex work are good". So it's basically just accepted when it's women forced into shitty stuff, but to suggest the opposite is unthinkable? In the US 60% of women of reproductive age are on hormonal birth control. How is this not mass sterilization? And you don't think that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title.There's always those PhD dudes, former incels, roaming around undergraduate girls. Yeah the age difference is societally acceptable, but it's just so obvious that they are huge losers who try to use their experience of university social life and academic knowledge to appear better than they are. Imagine being so unimpressive that you need to have done a few more classes to masquerade as someone with something to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:33 AM |
| 23 | What happens socially to a woman upon entering a relationship?I think people lose respect for the woman. Other men always start thinking "so she's getting fucked by this loser lol". It's just never seen as winning for the woman. Every instance of men having sex is seen as a win and women having sex is seen as a loss. He got her to lower her defenses and do something stupid. She could do better, but she's given her commitment and youth foolishly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:00 PM |
| 11 | Love this! Yes we are angry! ✊🏼This is so true. Men are so entitled. They really do assume women will be on birth control and let them insert their penis. It's just expected that women bend over backwards to cater to men. Try to stay small and apologize and conciliate and stay pretty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:06 AM |
| 30 | Things men do we should start copying (alternative title: What hanging out with boys taught me)I also noticed that in a group of boys even the scapegoat one that all the other boys bullied as a joke was wildly overconfident in his abilities and generally liked himself. The same goes for the unpopular boys who get bullied at school still being really arrogant. There's like nothing that makes men think they aren't smart and awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:48 AM |
| 61 | I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this.Being pregnant isn't "being fat" 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:18 AM |
| 18 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.They are so shameless I want to cry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 10:43 PM |
| 11 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.There's no reason for a good man to defend other men if they see stuff like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 9 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckThis only works if it's a good man with a good job. Any wife's life is easier if your husband is a good man with a good job. From that point on it doesn't matter what kind of wife you are as long as you are compatible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:34 AM |
| 9 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckThe transferable skills is a good point! Other men won't want to marry you more because of your experience as a wife, quite the opposite! Scary stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:26 AM |
| 66 | I'm tired of hearing men complain about how they're expected to "perform" in the bedroom.Bring dry humping back. If teens are going to have sex "no matter what" why does it need to be the kind that causes STIs and pregnancies? Women can have orgasm from dry humping or vibrators above clothes. There's no need to get the dick wet and in fact screw the males if they don't have an orgasm most of the time. It's what it's like for women. I'm kind of memeing but sex is all wrong. We have a system of casual sex that's dangerous to women and usually results in guaranteed male orgasm and rare… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:05 AM |
| 3 | I'm done being polite to accommodate men's egosThis is so true! Too often we would feel like saying "oh I'm sorry I'm a teacher here too haha no problem it happens". But ignoring him is so much better. If he's mad that you're ignoring him and he raises a fuss he's the asshole because you knew what you were doing all along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 20 | You have value. And you are not a "gold digger".I've come to realize that men have no shame about seeking out women out of their league. Yet they want to turn around and shame women who want a certain type of man. Most (all?) men readily admit that they would be golddiggers without hesitation if they were women. They all say that of course it's better to date a rich man if they put themselves in a woman's shoes. They just don't want women to want rich men because it goes against their self-interest. So just remember that when we don't want to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 31 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:I think paying is also an ego thing. We don't want to have someone else pay for us. But men don't like it when women have an ego. They would much rather date the naive girl who is happy to have stuff paid for her and who doesn't even think she could pay. They don't like strong independent women. They want weak women without agency. They love that stuff when a woman is useless and needs them in a way that's easy. I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but paying might be useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:07 PM |
| 13 | I wish I could invoice my abuser.There should be a breakup fee, for time wasted and emotional damage. Otherwise this whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing is a rip off. You suffer socially from associating your name publicly to a man, and if it breaks off it was all for nothing. Meanwhile men get a social boost from having a girlfriend, not to mention the health benefits they get from having a girlfriend. The science is clear that men need girlfriends to be happier and healthier, whereas women don't need boyfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:37 AM |
| 6 | Girl Game, what's your move when you're around HVM?Hide. I lack the drive to try to social climb and get HVM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."Dating strong fighter men is a low IQ strategy. Red pill love this theory and they point out to the women who use this strategy, but it's just low IQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 4 | My current bf surprised me by taking a 6 month long course in photography and editing on top of working 90 hour weeks!You have such queen energy, don't let anything dim your shine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:41 AM |
| 22 | My current bf surprised me by taking a 6 month long course in photography and editing on top of working 90 hour weeks!LVM 3 years down the line "I almost took that photography course for you". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:40 AM |
| 38 | Radfems In The Wild 💯Hidden camera show captures a HVW protecting a young girl from a creepy old scroteOkay yeah this show is messed up. Look at the emotional distress they are causing the women here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dH3v-2JtW2U&ab_channel=ABCNews But it reminds me that my parents never told me anything about not trusting men or helping my friends not trust men. Not a word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 24 | Radfems In The Wild 💯Hidden camera show captures a HVW protecting a young girl from a creepy old scroteThese videos make me cry. Even though we know it's fake, you can imagine what the woman who doesn't know is fake is feeling. Hard to watch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:21 PM |
| -4 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesMust you really bring your pro-gun agenda into this? I'm Canadian and I agree with the concept that carrying weapons should be illegal. MOST rapes are not violent attacks by strangers in a back alley. Most rapes are perpetrated by a person you know and trust. But I agree with the general idea that rapists won't be prosecuted unless it's some high profile boogeyman rapist. And I wouldn't be against allowing WOMEN to carry weapons, but the problem is that men would steal their weapons and do usual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:45 PM |
| 7 | I guarantee the girlfriend is leagues more attractive than him. Remember, a lot of men see us as objects. A lot of men only see value in your appearance and they compare you to retouched images of models.A cautionary tale about dating the ugly duckling. They seriously see women as objects. "She wants to try new things and I really like that." Most humans like to try new things, why does he have to talk like he taught his dog a trick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:27 PM |
| 2 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itFor the love of God educate yourself before you use words like ludicrous. What are you, a 19-year-old child hoping to get a college degree despite being unable to type something in google and look up the first result? Pathetic. https://www.pnas.org/content/109/33/13220 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:22 AM |
| 57 | Where to start...Imagine loving an obese man and he's pining over the girl he could have when he wasn't obese. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 08:13 AM |
| 50 | Chinese dad makes beautiful dresses for daughter; the dad is adorable, the daughter is adorable, and the dresses are adorable! From the South China Morning Post YouTube channelHas time to make dresses and hit the gym. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itThe men renting room for free are doing it in exchange for sex and housework from a younger prettier woman. Women would love to rent a room for free to a woman who cleans, but that's illegal. You have to pay domestic workers minimum wage and deduct a small boarding fee. Same for live-in nannies or carers. So the men renting rooms for free on Craigslist are actually trying to cheat the domestic worker laws and get unpaid sex work where sex work is a very area. I mean if that was legal we'd all im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itIn my opinion it's more cultural than dating up or down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 04:27 AM |
| 3 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itWhat? Men saving women on sinking ships has literally been debunked in naval history. Women giving their life in war? You mean the war men started to kill and rape women? Women have literally zero leverage in relationships because like in business they are nicer and more selfless than men. You'll always lose when dealing with a more selfish person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 2 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itImagine how hard it is for women, they also have to learn to be confident and they are working with a 3:2 gender ratio against them, and also women are less confident than men on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itBut in the dating world degree differences still exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itNo that's for students overall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itHow does that change the gender ratio lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 60 | Patriarchy is basically just racketeering, a scheme in which men offer solutions for the problems that they have createdThat's like when men say "aren't you glad male police officers protect you"... from the danger of men... Also women who consent to sex because it's better than getting raped or dealing with the emotional blackmail that might follow a rejection... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 14 | “Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.”I hate that I got all the wrong role model from my older brother. At 16 he was having sex with his girlfriend like animals in our family home and I could hear her scream when I was trying to play with my friends and my dolls. Like full on scream porn sounds. This is what I was told was normal to give to men. Of course it worked out for my brother because he dated a girl. So she went to med school and after 12 years of dating they got married. Yeah they got married at 28 and she makes good money … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 0 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itBecause there's 3 women for 2 men in college. And people with college degrees tend to date other people with college degrees. It doesn't take a detective to conclude that it's really easy for college educated men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | The reason why some women claim looks don't matter that much is because they subconsciously characterize certain physiological traits as a man's personality rather than a part of his looks.I don't remember how fast it happened, I was a bit younger and not super aware of these things, but it was within a couple of years. I don't know why they never had children. Maybe they started having problems before they even got to conceiving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itIt's not the college guys. If a college guy isn't having sex, it's because he doesn't want sex. They are literally rolling in a field of easy free quality women. But some prefer staying home on their computer. No shame in that. College men are extremely picky and a lot of college incel types think they are better than other people. So it's more like is he complaining that he can't have sex, or is he complaining that he can't have sex from the specific type of girl he would like. Because surprise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:36 PM |
| 0 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itColleges have 3 women for every 2 men. If you say you haven't noticed things are severely tipped in favor of men, you're a liar. Any college educated man who pretends things aren't super easy for him is a liar or some sort of Reddit incel so far out the norm he doesn't even have the self-awareness to see how far out of the norm he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:25 PM |
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