I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.

brylm92 · 2022-01-11T22:16:37+00:00

Why does he think he deserves two women he'll be unable to give any pleasure to, and will ignore for his phone screen anyway ???????

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kolsen92 · 2022-01-11T20:42:05+00:00

Funny when men treat their nasty sex issues as a woman’s job to fulfil. Sorry you can’t cum and you’re in your 20s: that’s a you issue

oscine23 · 2022-01-11T20:57:59+00:00

This makes me sad. I hate the idea that my daughter will one day feel pressure like this.

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-01-11T19:25:17+00:00

What's the point of sex with a porn sick man anyways? They can't cum they can't keep it up they will sure as he'll never touch you right, they're so useless. I used to be open to porn use but after so many experiences with guys damaged by porn and finally connecting the dots, it's just such an easy boundary to draw. I hope she wakes up and finds this sub!!!

Men not being able to keep erections isn't nerves, they've damaged their dicks!

PerspicaciousCat · 2022-01-11T21:40:42+00:00

Ugh this poor woman. This give me flashbacks of also trying to be the “cool girlfriend” and how it destroyed my self esteem. It takes a while to come back from that (I’m still working through it mentally). I hope she gets out.

scorchedsouI · 2022-01-11T19:51:27+00:00

Who tf pays these women to be the "cool girlfriend"???

cryptohobo · 2022-01-12T01:45:54+00:00

One time a scrote told me he thought it would be hot if he peed on me. I said sure so long as I pee on him too! I kid you not he got all confused and asked me why on earth I’d ever want to do that. They really forget we’re human 😂

ello-motto · 2022-01-11T19:14:16+00:00

Just the other day, there was a trending post of a guy laughing at his 11 year old little brother's porn history that he found on his Nintendo 3DS.

Top comments were all other dudes just laughing, telling him he shouldn't have exposed his porn history and that he should have kept it quiet and be a good big brother and tell him about the better porn sites out there.

It was only from sorting by controversial comments, you saw a few comments saying it's worrying his little brother was already trying to watch porn at such a young age.

I'm sure this 23M was also like that 11 year old kid once, just hoovering up porn and sickening fetishes. They're all boiling frogs, laughing at anyone that wants to actually save them.

IDontAgreeSorry · 2022-01-11T20:15:08+00:00

Lmfao women need to drop this scrote propaganda of being a cOoL gIrLfrIenD. Awwww you want to watch porn? Have a threesome? Sure baby! You do that, not with me though goodbye! Seriously stop dating degenerate porn addicts wtf have some self respect. Why would you even entertain that low value scrote idea..?

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-01-11T23:35:30+00:00

I would break up with any guy who asked for a threesome or anal sex. I hope this girl will cut her losses and dump this jackass. Who needs shit like this?

sleutherino · 2022-01-11T20:25:46+00:00

"Oh you know, I just really wanted to have a threesome some day, it's on my bucket list" = "If you don't do this for me, I'll eventually cheat and find women who will"

"It's okay if you don't want to though, I guess I don't really need to be happy 😢" = Emotional manipulation, making you feel like the bad guy for having reasonable boundaries.

bleda_princezna · 2022-01-11T19:09:03+00:00

This poor woman! She's so young and already has to deal with so much shit. I hope she realizes she deserves better than some pathetic coomer. Ew

ApprehensiveGiftBox · 2022-01-12T02:45:17+00:00

"The only way for him to come from oral is adrenaline". Punch him in the balls.

xpressurself111 · 2022-01-11T19:50:11+00:00

I was imagining what every aspect of culture world be like if there was no porn during my commute this morning. I had to stop because I realized we are so deep in porn culture, it made me feel pretty messed up.

The_Moon_Piece · 2022-01-12T00:40:09+00:00

When I was dating my NVX and we were about to move in together, I found out he had a fantasy to try prostitutes. He denied he would ever do it, said it was just a fantasy. It gutted me, we were just talking about marriage, and he had told me countless times he knew I was “the one”. I wanted to believe he was never going to cheat, and that it was truly just a fantasy. I was a “cool girl”, so I pushed down my feelings and insecurities about what I had just discovered, and we kept going. Well, guess what? In the very next time the opportunity to fuck a prostitute present itself to him, he went and did it.

honeybadgerattitude · 2022-01-11T18:56:39+00:00

If he wasn't pornsick in the first place he wouldn't need the adrenaline to cum.

StrawberryMoon3 · 2022-01-12T03:59:33+00:00

A porn addiction and ED in his twenties? She needs to drop him. I bet she never even got an orgasm from him, let alone basic respect.

bookworm1896 · 2022-01-11T20:12:07+00:00

Why is she still with him?

FluffandRainclouds · 2022-01-12T01:40:53+00:00

This is literally why a sexual relationship with a man is so unappealing in today's culture. Imagine having to spend the rest of your life engaging in unfulfilling, exploitative, depressing sex to fulfill your man's sexual script/"fantasies." "Making love" seems not to be a thing to so many of these men.

Apparently just being wildly attracted to a person (looks and personality) and enjoying them is boring and vanilla 🤡 Apparently it is healthier to rot in front of a screen and openly lust after other women more than your partner🤡 🙄🙄🙄

pinkmailboxes · 2022-01-11T22:31:55+00:00

I will drop someone IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE if they suggest bringing porn in my bedroom, porn in our relationship, or threesomes. Threesomes and porn are dealbreakers from me as I am strictly monogamous

NeurologyDivergent · 2022-01-11T20:33:36+00:00

In my OLD days I went on a few dates with couples because I have a fluid sexuality and I thought that I would get attention from two people and it would be great. Not once did it go beyond the first date because it was clear that there wasn't a single couple that was looking for a third because the woman wanted a girlfriend.

Every single one the guy was pressuring his girlfriend for a threesome and the woman was being a pick me. It always became clear within the first few minutes of the date that the guy was just gross and the woman didn't want to lose him. None of these women showed any real interest in me at all other than a support prop for their relationship.

engineergorl · 2022-01-12T00:48:53+00:00

If it was me, I’d find a hotter, taller, fitter guy and take scrote at his word. He said threesome, but he didn’t specify it had to be the two women, one man variety.

cryptohobo · 2022-01-12T01:37:09+00:00

She should tell him she’s down so long as he and a buddy of his fulfill her double penetration fantasy. $100 he’ll scrunch his nose, say that’s gross and break up with her because he can’t look at her the same way anymore LOL.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2022-01-12T11:05:43+00:00

You want adrenaline? Enjoy the pain and confusion of me disappearing from your life forever without a word.

12thwizard · 2022-01-12T00:03:50+00:00

Lets get comfortable not fulfilling even HVM fantasies, if we are not OK with them. fuck this shit.
Not one woman alive needs to fulfill anyone's fantasy, let alone a LVM one. But even a HVM doesn't have any right to us doing anything, at all.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-01-12T11:50:41+00:00

I've seen 18 year old women on tinder looking for a young woman (a unicorn,?🤣) for a threesome.

It's usually women's profiles because men can't be arsed to procure their own. So they need their gf to lure in unsuspecting victims.

All the men that wasn't threesomes do so only for themselves. They don't give a f about their partner. It's usually the partner having doubts about the relationship and being coerced into a threesome because they threaten they'll break up if they don't comply.

Usually, many break up after the threesome.

Gambit12345 · 2022-01-12T16:25:58+00:00

He wants to watch porn during sex? Ok how bout you choose porn with hot muscular men with huge dicks? And he wants a threesome? Ok, suggest mmf, but the third is his hot friend. lol jk, discard the man

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Title	I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.
Author	Thestral-glow6
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Date	January 11, 2022 6:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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