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Honey, I'm so sorry but your post needs a R and SA warning at the top. It was nauseating to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:44 AM
5

Oh that is not good design.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:00 PM
49

I block people who comment on my comments on other subs and mention that I'm a member of FDS and try to use that as a put down. They don't need to see anything about my account after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:13 PM
61

Listen to yourself. If you're hesitating, there is a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:36 AM
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You should block and delete everything regarding him, but if you want one last hurrah, create a fake account, send her a link to this sub, and then make sure to block her and stop looking at her stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:00 AM
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In my OLD days I went on a few dates with couples because I have a fluid sexuality and I thought that I would get attention from two people and it would be great. Not once did it go beyond the first date because it was clear that there wasn't a single couple that was looking for a third because the woman wanted a girlfriend. Every single one the guy was pressuring his girlfriend for a threesome and the woman was being a pick me. It always became clear within the first few minutes of the date tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:33 PM
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Maybe it is a front to steal kidneys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:51 AM
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It wasn't. I got banned from the Feminism subreddit for making a fairly normal bland comment with this account. No real explanation. I had thought it was likely because of my participation in FDS, and now you have confirmed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:27 PM
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Lol this plus you having a nice meal while the guy waited outside? You were throwing down some serious Queen energy and these guys didn't even know how to deal with it. What kind of man waits outside a restaurant while his dates eats by herself? Absolute clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:50 AM
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Oh a guy did this to me on a coffee date! (Back in the day of my OLD and no FDS) I arrived and he was already there with his drink, and he repeatedly told me I could go get my own and he would wait. He was downright anxious about it. Really off putting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:55 PM
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Sure, but it isn't nutritious or good. Liking something doesn't make it good for you or of quality. Loads of people like porn too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:57 PM
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I don't think you can consider McDonalds nutritious in any form of the word. When you grow or raise food in a nutrient empty environment the body of the animal or vegetable doesn't have much nutrition in it. For a salient example, eat a home grown tomato from a community/backyard garden vs a perfect looking gmo tomato from the super market that was grown from stripped dirt loaded with chemicals. The flavor, and the nutritional content, are so far different in spectrum it is amazing. On one hand …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:47 PM
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I love the way she puts it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:12 AM
14

Thank you. Frankly, I didn't find the 'ugly guy' ugly at all, with the exception of him living in his parent's basement and being a loser by catfishing women. There was nothing wrong with his physical appearance, it was just what he had to offer a relationship that made him incredibly ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:25 AM
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I didn't make it very far into this movie. Super glad I didn't reading your comment and realizing she apologized about doing her literal job by writing about being cat fished. Absolutely ridiculous. Very glad I didn't make it that far in the movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:23 AM
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I have always loved Friday the 13th and you have just given me so many more reasons to adore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 05:35 AM
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Just fyi, I love kdrama but I haven't seen one with a real HVM, so it might be good to get her to talk about how the male leads are behaving and pick them apart with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:13 AM
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As a person who worked IT support for years and years... no, they haven't. Most people who call into tech support absolutely have not tried turning it off and back on again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:10 PM
10

Microexpressions are small twitches the face makes to display the truth of what a person is emotionally experiencing. They are very very difficult to stop, and only last for a fraction of a second. For example, contempt looks like a small twitch of one side of the lip upward towards the nose. These expressions are still displayed by people who are good at lying. This guy is the leading person who has researched this / has training on it: https://www.paulekman.com/resources/micro-expressions/ The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:03 AM
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I had a guy once make fun of me for trusting him once I was in a situation I couldn't get away from him. He made such a big deal about how I barely knew him and what an idiot I was for trusting him. I thought we had been friends for months and he'd known my other friends for a few years. I'd been hanging out with him in group settings for quite some time. He'd helped me on multiple occasions with small things, like helping me take care of a friend who showed up at a camping event without the rig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:24 PM
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As a note, smiling is a normal panic reaction to assault. I had a guy drag me over a yard by my hair and when he let go I smiled at him. Couldn't stop myself. He hung around for a while trying to get my number and I smiled at him the whole time. It is a natural self preservation tactic. Pretend you aren't frightened or angry to be disarming to the attacker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:09 PM
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Plus injury is likely being pushed into a pool unexpectedly. A woman named Rachelle Friedman Chapman's neck was broken when her friend pushed her into a pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:06 PM
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Frankly I flip flop on happiness on it. Part of me wishes my partner was more romantic and was falling all over himself to marry me. At the same time, I've been in so many bad relationships that I'm happy with a man who does more than his fair share of household chores and is generous in bed vs a man who can't wait to legally tie me down. Having a child is a whole nother thing I didn't understand until I did it. Child bearing can absolutely wreak you. It is much, much, much, much harder for the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:17 PM
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That bride and her entire bridal party are horrible people. The girl was a virgin. She wasn't going to consent to drunk bathroom sex at a wedding as her first time. I'm sorry but no. There is too much built upon virginity in culture (that I don't agree with) for someone to be chill about having their first time being a hookup with a stranger at a wedding. Those people are shit for not grabbing that guy and calling the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:37 AM
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This this this. The little lift of one side of the lip up towards the nose is contempt. If you EVER see contempt from a person, block and delete. Don't allow ANYONE in your life that feels contempt for you in the slightest bit whatsoever. Someone who feels contempt for you WILL hurt you without a second thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:44 AM
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Ah thank you for this one. You just got a big smile out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:21 AM
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Omg this was my Dad. He was always so proud of it and my hands wouldn't work very well in the winter as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:40 AM
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Then you would have been invited back to his apartment for drinks on an empty stomach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:37 PM
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Okay, so I went from having a vibrant social life filled with creative magical adventures to having a toddler in the middle of a pandemic. Kids are a brutal, brutal change in lifestyle. If you're just kind of flubbing through life I can see it being a really minor change, but if you're an adventure animal who thrives off of creativity and passionate express of art then having a kid is like ripping your heart out of your chest, beating it with a hammer, and sticking it back in there with Frankens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:23 AM
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You just made this so much better with that comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:24 AM
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Ugh, just the thought of a man raping a trafficked woman for the sake of experience and expecting the woman he wants to marry to not have any experience with healthy consensual sex is repulsive. Utterly repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:22 AM
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If he is an intern, you should write to his supervisor and let them know that this idiot was trying to argue that prostitution was empowering and that you needed to be more sexually open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:20 AM
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Time to block and delete that fake guy friend. You remaining friends with him sends a signal to other women that he is decent enough to be your friend, he might be ok to date, and he is clearly a NVM. Don't try to explain things to him. Just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:55 PM
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Definitely. In general I think the FDS standard of no marriage no babies is a very smart thing, especially with how brutal pregnancy is. If my partner hadn't been committed and had left during pregnancy or the first year or so, I would have taken a serious hit because I was not physically capable of handling our child and also getting back to my career without a solid partner. Having a baby made me a staunch supporter of abortion, because no one should have to do that unless they absolutely want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:15 AM
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So I'm not married, have a kid. First reason, I have a lot more money than my partner and due to family circumstances, will likely always have a lot more money. My partner when I met him had very little, but spent every bit he could on wooing me (he paid for all of our dates and presents and the like). I've never really felt like I needed a man with a good income and focused instead on finding a man who was good with kids and capable of being an equal or more partner in household stuff and child…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:44 AM
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Fun thing I like to do is to keep a yearly journal. Every New Years I open it up. For that year I write how the best person that I can be behaves, how she treats herself, and the boundaries that she sets for treatment from others. I read all my past entries and feel good about the changes I've made and I write a new entry to include anything else that I've learned. It is one of my favorite personal traditions and my life changed pretty drastically when I started doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:42 AM
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I met my partner when I was in a state and couldn't mask. I was blunt af, no up beat attitude, and ditched him and my friends who were trying to introduce us because I needed alone time. It's been the healthiest and longest lasting relationship I've ever been in. He says he loves me because he never has to guess. Be yourself. There are people out there who are attracted to the blunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:49 AM
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Ok, I needed to come back to this one now that I'm at episode 7. He cheats in season 2 and episode 7. No only does he literally pounce on a woman who is in a desperate situation and can't say no, but then later he yells at his wife and tells her she is stupid because she wants to prioritize her daughter over the man who is inheriting her money. Lord Grantham did nothing to try to figure out making Mary his heir despite everyone else wanting that, dismissed them all, told Matthew he was the son h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:43 AM
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I just finished season one and am midway through two and he has not cheated on Cora.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:59 AM
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Thank you for that. I watched a lot of that show primarily for Christina. Now that I think back on it, I stopped watching when she left the show. Really amazing character. She knows what she wants and even though she has a deeply emotional life, she isn't willing to give up her dreams for men who aren't willing to give up their dreams for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:26 AM
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My 2 year old screams "No! Stop Hugging!" and will run in between us and push us apart quite regularly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:03 AM
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Yup. Me too. This is why I got the degree and then went in a totally different direction. I did not want to work surrounded by the same kind of men I went to school with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:12 AM
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Unless she had a female teacher in a different tech class who she could talk to about it who would raise absolute hell with the rest of the faculty until all the teachers got together, wrote a long email out that all the students had to read and then discuss in various classes in a respectful manner. You don't need to ask me how I know as that should be pretty clear. Having female faculty in STEM departments is really, really necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:11 AM
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Oh how horrible. He is a terrible person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:37 AM
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oh her body language in that... she is trying to climb over the chair to get away from him. What terrible behavior on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:28 AM
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I once had a guy who had been flirting up a storm ask me to come over to his place. I was at an event a five minute drive from his place but I had a lot of gear I needed to haul to my car late at night a good distance from the event, so I told him I'd come over if he came and helped me carry all my shit down the dark public streets to my car. He said nope and told me he'd leave the door unlocked and I could just come in and crawl into bed with him. Yeah.... no. I went straight home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:15 PM
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Well, considering that most abusers will say that a woman is being abusive when she doesn't respond to his abuse with anything besides submission I wish I had understood this a long time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:39 AM
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That makes me feel sick. How horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:43 PM
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If you want to read it, here it is: https://digital.library.upenn.edu/women/sultana/dream/dream.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:18 PM
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I'm under the impression that pre-nups signed under duress don't hold up in court at all. So if she does cave and sign it, then later divorces his worthless ass, the pre-nup shouldn't hold. In any case, it is still terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:00 PM
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I did do OLD initially but it was terrible. Most people I met at events.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:59 AM
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I went on a really nice date once years ago with a guy who was absolutely lovely. I posted a picture of us on our date on FB and a woman I didn't know messaged me and warned me that he had acted really inappropriate with her and had gotten extremely aggressive and scared her. He invited me to a weekend getaway as a second date and I told him I didn't feel comfortable because I had gotten a message that he had treated another woman poorly, and I wanted to wait and go on more dates before I consid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:38 AM
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Does anyone have a good tactic for dealing with #6? It is the primary communication tool my dad uses which is why I'm asking for a tactic rather than block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:01 PM
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Did it get any better or was it more of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:37 AM
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I got past that very first scene and immediately turned it off and felt sick to my stomach. That was so horrible. I couldn't watch the rest of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:50 AM
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I'm so sorry to read this. The checklist is basically a recipe for extremely abusive relationships. I've dated plenty of losers but "The Losers" as described by this list are hard core abusive people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:26 AM
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I wrote this post around halfway through watching it and they did get better near the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:54 PM
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One of my favorite people on this planet taught me that the best response to someone muttering 'show off' to you is to say loudly: 'THAT IS THE POINT.' If you put in all that effort to learn a skill, develop a look, learn how to move in a cool way - the point is to share it with others! Showing off is a good thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:17 AM
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So I make a comfortable income writing self publishing romance. I got an invite to a writer's group of high income self published romance authors. Out of the male writers, only one writes under a male name, and he caters to male readers. The rest exclusively write under female pen names. In any case, if the woman orgasms from having her nipples focused on and nothing else, or there is a long passage dedicated to the woman's oversexualized appearance, then the writer is usually a man. From what I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:38 AM
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So I avoided a liaison with a fellow I was seeing. He was being pretty aggressive about it, and it was 2am in the morning and I was not willing to take our relationship to the next level under those circumstances. The very next night I saw him at another party with another woman who he was clearly already banging. I told him I was really glad I didn't sleep with him because that would hurt me. It wasn't okay to use me like that. He sent me some manipulative messages back and that was the end of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:36 AM
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So I wish I had found FDS a long time ago. After over a decade of terrible dating experiences and bad relationships, I realized that I didn't have the ability to recognize red flags on my own. I had an issue reading facial expressions and identifying when people were being deceptive and I was rather gullible. Once I realized what was the issue, I developed a three part strategy to help me break out of my cycle. 0) They needed visible abs. 1) Wait for sex and make them come my side of town. No go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:23 AM
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Yeah, so one of my male teachers in high school was known for his "jokes". When I got into his class his jokes included stories such as walking in on a nun masturbating with a cucumber. He was also continuously demeaning towards the attractive female students in the class. I didn't tell my parents because it was embarrassing and since I had heard he was a "jokester". I think you should keep a record and encourage that new teacher to also keep a record of his behavior so that you can have it avai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:28 AM
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Oh, so, another way to go about this in case the renovations will make your life more comfortable, is to sign a contract loaning him the money with interest, with the house being the assurance for the loan. The idea is that if he doesn't pay it back, when the house eventually sells your loan gets paid back out of the proceeds. It means you own that part of the house you put the money into. Just an fyi in case you want to spend the money for sake of your own personal comfort or well being but are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:43 PM
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I've found with guys that if they are dedicated to their physical health, they have a higher chance at being dedicated towards working on their brain as well. They understand that they can make improvements because they have done it to their body. Healthy body means a higher (not guaranteed) chance of a healthy brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:48 PM
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When I was 15 I started talking to a 20 year old guy online through a text base role playing game. Things were starting to get heated and then he suddenly asked me what age I was. When I told him, the conversation immediately skidded to a halt and he wouldn't continue any form of sexual communication at all. At the time I was a disappointed, as I had a huge crush on him and it was the first time anyone had ever said anything sexy to me at all, but now I look back on it differently and I apprecia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:13 AM
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I think you're missing the main point. At 17, she doesn't have to love with them at all. Police won't force a teenager to go live with a parent they don't want to live with when they are in a loving home. At 17, a judge would laugh this out of court if the father tried to take it there. The point is, YOU are not legally required to physically force a teenager to get in a car and go to an abusive environment. She can live with you full time. Back up your daughter, just like you've been doing, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:23 AM
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I was told that girls don't do that, I didn't need to take that math class because girls didn't need it for college, that I would change my mind or fail out of my major because girls didn't do that. My freshman year a guy in the friend group told me that computer science would be too hard for me and I would fail. At my graduation, when he congratulated me, I reminded him what he said to me my freshman year. The look of horror on his face was amazing. I've never had such a satisfying apology in m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:42 AM
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This is so satisfying to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:26 PM
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