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MALE DEPRAVITYPerspicaciousCat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 10:31 AM
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Model Mayhem is so awful. I’m so sorry that happened to your friends. I remember one time this female nude model reached out to me from there and basically tried to “help” me get into the industry. It was so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 01:28 AM
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Thank you so much for helping that poor girl. When I was 19 I fell for the scam of trade for print shoots and ended up doing nude and lingerie photos with extremely creepy photographers. The nude ones ended up on a revenge p@rn site and it was a horrible time trying to get them removed. Regardless the photos are out there forever and I can’t undo it. It makes me so sick that these “photographers” are preying on literal children and very very young women. Thank you to OP for making this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 01:03 AM
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No it’s not a dumb question at all. Yes, on the aid access website there’s an option when you start the consultation to say if you want the pills just in case for the future. I’m so so sorry you’re facing these laws firsthand. Auntie Network on here is a great place if you ever find yourself needing more help. I’ll be fighting for you and all women to have bodily autonomy 💕 Now more than ever is when we need to be there for each other. ETA: the aid access website has a great FAQ if you ever have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:15 PM
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Aidaccess.org is a great source
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:55 PM
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What’s scary about that though is there was a woman who was just arrested in Texas for either having a self-managed medical abortion, or just plain having a miscarriage. Even though medical abortions are incredibly safe, if you have any kind of complication or even just a natural miscarriage, that could lead to an arrest. There are lawmakers all over who want to charge women with murder. These laws are going to make women unable to even trust going to the hospital. Women are going to die. But ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:29 PM
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Thank you for devoting a post to this! I’ve noticed an increase in those kinds of posts too and it’s really icky. While no one is above criticism, basically making fun of women being treated like shit by a scrote is not funny or remotely okay. We should be putting the focus on distancing ourselves from men like this and supporting women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 02:32 AM
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It’s super confusing. How is this better than a man who stays friends with men like this..it’s condoning the behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 01:23 AM
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Yes! I literally became repulsed by him and didn’t want him touching me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 09:37 AM
82

Oh no not the tea..why did I experience the exact same thing 😭 My ex’s mom did everything for him so I guess he assumed I’d do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 09:36 AM
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Yep, this is exactly how it was when I briefly lived with my ex. He didn’t clean up after himself, “didn’t know how” to do laundry, run the dishwasher, make food, etc. It was a nightmare and one of the many reasons we broke up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 02:43 AM
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Exactly. 100% all of this. Military men are an immediate red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:40 PM
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It’s me!! Lol I cannot express how freeing it is to not have constant anxiety and horrible sleep because of a man anymore. I get to sprawl out on my bed with my cat and sleep so comfortably. I love being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 07:44 PM
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It’s wild to me how men are getting away with abusing their girlfriends/wives in plain sight just because they call it their “kink”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:04 AM
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“I feel like a kink shamer which I don’t want to be” 🤦🏻‍♀️ It’s so so sad how in every post like this women feel the need to say that. This is not a normal and healthy relationship and she shouldn’t have to explain herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:59 AM
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I laughed aloud at “sperm sprinkler” 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:42 PM
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No, there is no bar. Every day I see something worse like this that proves that 😞 To call this “sweet” is revolting and disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:54 PM
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Mine too. Bring back kink shaming and “vanilla” sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:50 AM
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That part was so fucking gross. Like she literally just said four words to this guy and he’s already disrespecting and objectifying her body like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:44 AM
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My own dad told me this when I was a teenager. 😞 Talk about scarring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:48 PM
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Omg this happens all over the selling apps and it’s horrible. There’s one selling app I use and it allows minors on it, so these creeps are literally harassing children too. Like they literally get off on harassing people who are just trying to sell clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:45 PM
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Oh wow, this sounds so much like my situation with my ex. Good for that woman for showing you the screenshots at least. I’m glad you’re out of that mess! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:40 PM
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She really thought she said something profound 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:36 PM
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I literally said “oh my god” out loud. Like imagine receiving this after asking a simple “how are you?”. I hope he keeps doing this so women know right off the bat to stay far away from this unhinged psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:33 PM
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I love the conciseness of this comment! It’s exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 10:48 PM
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Why is this so accurate 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:30 PM
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It’s absolutely for the male gaze. Why aren’t there beauty pageants for men? I think they perpetuate the idea that women should be valued for their looks first and foremost. Also notice how there aren’t beauty pageants for women past a certain age. I wish they wouldn’t exist anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:23 PM
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I read something one time that said you shouldn’t have kids with someone unless you feel 100% confident in them taking care of and raising them right if something were to happen to you. That’s always stuck with me. Like why would you have kids with someone who is more like an extra kid than a parent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 06:49 AM
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This is spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:49 PM
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Okay he should just jerk off then and leave women alone 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:04 AM
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Right like that’s fine but this is too far? None of it is okay. I agree, bring back kink shaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:40 PM
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There are just so many posts like this. I can’t believe how women have been so gaslit to question things like this. If your gut is telling you something is off, then listen to it. Also these women are putting their own children in danger at this point. I’m so tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:38 PM
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Literally used the words “I’m a nice guy.” Satire is dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 07:57 AM
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Happy birthday, queen! 🎉 Here’s to many more years of strength and knowing your worth! 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:56 PM
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Yes!! I remember being in elementary school and boys would kick me and call me names because they liked me. It made no sense and is really scary behavior that was just accepted. These tik toks are just the creepier and more extreme version of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:36 AM
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So true. I see so much rage from libfems toward women who criticize prostitution, but where is that anger for men who abuse/murder those women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:11 AM
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The caption on that one being like “there’s no way they actually like women.” So accurate! Joking about murdering someone is not something you do when you like them like??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:09 AM
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I don’t have tik tok but from what I can see from that link, there’s a video of a girl saying “congratulations on confirming why women are terrified of y’all”. Exactly. Also I see a couple of the ones from the males. That’s fucking terrifying. But yeah misogyny totally isn’t an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:48 PM
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I needed a laugh so thank you for this. 💀 It reminded me how much I don’t miss online dating! I can’t decide which one is my “favorite”. 😂 They’re all so accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:41 AM
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I’m sorry, what?? I’m horrified…how is this a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:40 AM
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The second one is literally me. It’s difficult to explain it when everything is so polarized right now. You’re either a “swerf” and supposedly hate women, or you think prostitution is “empowering”. There’s little room for in between. My reasoning for being against prostitution is 1000% different from the reasoning of republicans. I actually care about and support women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:37 AM
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Exactly. It’s sickening. No woman should be sacrificed so other women can be kept “safe”. And regardless it’s been proven time and time again to not work. These men will be violent regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:30 PM
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Words can’t describe how much I despise this lol. I’m so glad I don’t think this way anymore 😭 It’s literally just 50s housewife rhetoric repackaged and it’s amazing they don’t see that. I guess it’s because they’re all so “empowered”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:13 AM
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot. With all of the abortion bans in the US, women with wanted pregnancies are at risk too. I wonder if more women will stop having kids? I’ve never wanted them but there have to be women who are reconsidering wanting them because of these laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:07 AM
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In the 60s my grandmother married a man after her husband (my grandfather) died really young because she had six kids and needed help. I just found out two of my aunts were molested by him. My aunt told her husband that while she was dying. Just horrifying. It makes me think he only married my grandmother to have access to her kids. It also makes me wonder if my grandmother turned a blind eye to it or if she really had no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:00 AM
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This is so encouraging to see! Hopefully more and more women will continue to speak out like this. I feel like I’ve already seen a positive trend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 07:57 AM
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Exactly! It feels like a cult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 05:22 AM
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I agree with Madholley. I get where you’re coming from but there are plenty of non-straight women on this sub (I’m one of them) and this comment is genuinely homophobic. But I guess you don’t care like you said. I agree leftist men are also trash, but saying conservative men are better is really strange when they are often violently homophobic and dangerous (toward women as well). And like the other comment said, there are plenty of non-straight men who are muscular and “masculine” if that’s wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:19 AM
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Yuck. He sounds like a pathological liar. Those ones are scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:11 AM
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Sometimes I have hope for future generations and then I see shit like this. So terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:05 AM
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This is what works for me! And taking up space - standing tall, taking long strides, appearing like I’m on a mission Edit: fixed a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:33 AM
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Wow neither do I. It’s so freeing being away from that cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:32 AM
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Oh god I keep getting these ads on here. Like you said maybe we should address the actual problem instead of wasting money and time on this BS. There are people who need help with health problems that were not self-inflicted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:46 PM
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This is so so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:28 AM
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It is powerful. I used to fake orgasms all the time and I wish I could undo it all. I’ve only had one legitimate orgasm from PIV sex in my life, but I pretended otherwise because I thought that’s what I was supposed to do. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:55 AM
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Wow I’m so glad you’re away from him. What a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:20 AM
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Ugh this drives me crazy. I wish women would stop caving to the poor men’s feelings when they add those edits. It never fails that “not all men” pops up in the comments under posts like that. ETA: I used to make posts/comments on that sub back in the day but got sick of men replying to me with awful things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:36 AM
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Thank you. I couldn’t have said it better myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:31 PM
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I did too. What in the hell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:57 PM
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I just want to say how much this resonates with me. I just want to hug my younger self and tell her to demand better from the world and treat herself with respect. It’s really hard to let go of that feeling. But I do try to remember how far I’ve come and look at all the progress I’ve made. You should be so proud of yourself that you’ve gotten to this point 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:12 AM
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Ugh I’m in the same boat. Adult acne is the absolute worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:07 PM
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My ex started going down this path toward the end of our relationship and he was obsessed with the testosterone thing. He literally went out and bought like 10 different useless supplements because he heard about them from Joe Rogan/I’m assuming red pill forums. He lied constantly so I never knew what he was up to 🙄 I’m so glad he’s out of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:30 PM
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Thank you so much for saying this. It’s not always as simple as “just figure it out and go to college”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:26 AM
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As a bi woman..I hate this so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:53 AM
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Thank you. Couldn’t agree more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:51 PM
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Exactly. Thank you. I’m honestly disgusted by some of the comments on this post and by the post itself. Being assaulted is NEVER the person’s fault, and I completely agree that saying if she had “done things right” it wouldn’t have happened is ridiculous and insulting to assault victims. Sometimes I feel like there’s some serious internalized misogyny on here under the guise of “vetting”. It reminds me of people who say “well what was she wearing?” When someone is assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:36 PM
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It just kept getting worse. Also “there will be no pay” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:52 AM
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I’m sorry but this feels very victim-blamey to me. Men can assault women later down the line too even if you think you can trust them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:45 PM
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The word “aftercare” in itself is messed up. Like maybe something is wrong with what you’re doing if you’re so mentally drained after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:40 PM
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Me too. It messed me up for good I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:44 PM
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I’m so sorry..how awful and disappointing. But you should be so proud of yourself that you stuck to your guns and put yourself first. Sad how many men are like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:34 PM
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No no no I had my tonsils removed along with nose surgery last July and it is agonizing (the tonsil recovery). I absolutely needed help for days and was in so much pain I would wake up crying. It’s wayyy more painful to get your tonsils out as an adult. He’s absolutely the asshole. And no people are not “exaggerating online for attention” about the pain. It’s one of the most painful surgeries. She needed him there for her and he couldn’t even do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:07 AM
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This is such a good point. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:52 AM
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I did the same thing 💀 She’s so gorgeous too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:39 AM
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TRASH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:13 AM
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Wow I really love my sexuality being compared to p*dophilia 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:37 PM
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I’m sorry but referring to people as “pussies” is gross. I agree with the rest of your comment but I don’t think we should be using that word to describe weakness/cowardice. Men use that word all the time and it makes me cringe and it’s insulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:44 PM
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It must’ve been so satisfying to block him. He sounds extremely immature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:03 AM
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That’s what I thought omg it’s so hostile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:00 AM
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Wow. My dad got my mom a vacuum cleaner for Christmas one year and she was so insulted and hurt. They’ve been divorced for 8 years now and it was definitely another reason added to the long list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:01 AM
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Omfg is this real…this is embarrassing as hell. Not to mention completely terrifying. I was going to go run an errand this evening but decided against it because I don’t trust all the rage-filled males who might be out on the road
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:58 AM
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Exactly. Also “boys”? How old is she? (Obviously I agree that men should put in actual effort in bed)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:06 AM
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One of my exes straight up refused to brush his teeth a lot of the time. Let alone flossed. It’s disgusting. I would literally have to beg him to get out of bed and brush his teeth at night 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:49 PM
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Exactly. Like what happens when your daughter comes to you and shares that she wants to be a “sex worker” when she grows up? Is it a valid option then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:00 AM
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Jesus Christ. Men are constantly finding new lows to sink to. This poor woman..she just has no idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:40 PM
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I just think about what feminist women from decades ago fought so hard for..what would they think about this?? Because I seriously doubt they would be happy to see so many women fighting for prostitution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:53 PM
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That word makes my skin crawl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:11 AM
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Exactly what I was thinking. I mean that’s probably where he got this drivel from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:11 AM
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Can I join you? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:52 AM
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These all made me feel sick but the last one in particular is the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:45 AM
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I’m wondering the same because it’s absolutely insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:44 AM
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Simply embarrassing and I’m sorry but I don’t feel bad for her in the slightest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:43 AM
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Irrational is a better word for it! Exactly. But they’d rather keep the misogyny going and seeing women as objects. Much easier for them than quitting watching porn. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:28 PM
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Lol pathetic misogynists. I just love that they at least can’t comment on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:26 PM
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It reminds me of my ex who had tons of male friends who watched prn and followed prn actors openly on Instagram, but he then had a full on meltdown when I had a friend who had an OF. The misogyny and hypocrisy is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:13 PM
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Heartbreaking and evil. I worked at a place that provided post-mastectomy garments and breast prosthetics for women, and I encountered multiple whose husbands had left them. So many weak and selfish men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:14 AM
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“Ask a man”. No I don’t think I need to ask a man about a single thing, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:14 AM
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No I think that’s exactly what’s going on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:35 PM
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Exactly. Like now their child is going to have an awful porn sick father and a mother who tolerates it. If it’s a boy he’ll be taught to treat women like objects, and if it’s girl she’ll be taught to have no self esteem and to put up with a man just like her father. Utterly tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:31 PM
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Just depressing. And I’m sad for their child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:07 PM
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The fact that she’s tried to talk to him about this numerous times and he still doesn’t change proves that he never will. He doesn’t care about her sexual pleasure and it’s not going to get any better when their baby is born. God I don’t miss men wanting to act out what they see in porn with me. It’s depressing to see so many women still putting up with this ETA: just saw the comment that he’s also cheated on her. What a sad mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:05 PM
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That’s how I took it. So it’s one big joke to her that she’s regularly being assaulted..? There has to be some part of her that is hurting deep down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:01 AM
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I feel the exact same. I’m so much more myself and so much freer when I’m on my own. It feels great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 10:07 PM
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What a queen!! That’s how you do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:11 AM
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This is just idiotic. Predators get off on the fact that it’s non-consensual. That’s the whole point. Can’t believe this person is a therapist. Just what the hell. I’m so sick of the words “sex positive”. ETA: This yet again puts the blame and responsibility back on women. This person is saying that if at least some portion of women out there don’t want to be paid to pretend to be r*ped, then it’s women’s fault. Not to mention the women who do these things have most likely been abused in the pas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:39 PM
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Exactly. And it’s so pointless to argue with them so I don’t anymore. I’m not going to argue my and millions of women’s very real and painful experiences with men. Not to anyone and definitely not to a misogynist. If a man hasn’t done something horrible like this himself, then he’s laughed at it, ignored it, dismissed it, or otherwise condoned it. So YES ALL MEN. And seriously. I’m bi but my attraction to men has dwindled so significantly over the years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:17 PM
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You should be so proud of yourself. I’m just a stranger but I’m proud of you! Here’s to many more scrote-free years 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:39 PM
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This is why I’m happy to no longer be dating men lol Edit: one of them really just tried to reply to my comment with “not all men” lmaooo 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:05 PM
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I really do too. It’s like constantly having to carry a heavy weight on our backs. I’m so thankful for this community though. It makes me feel less alone and is definitely a comfort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:51 AM
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It really is. And I know that’s why so many women don’t even question it..they’re just used to it which is so tragic. I remember that too! Everyone made that same excuse for why there were so many r*pe scenes like the director somehow had no choice but to include those when the show is literally a fantasy land. And the fans would rabidly defend it for some twisted reason (misogyny). I refuse to watch any show/movie that visually portrays sexual violence toward women. It’s extremely triggering. E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:33 AM
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You’re completely right. Violence against women is just that normalized. It was always surprising to see how many women were obsessed with that show too. But they also see it as acceptable. I mean just look at how many male celebrities are consistently accused of r*pe. And whenever there’s an article about it on here a lot of the top comments are men making jokes about it. That would n e v e r happen if it was done to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:27 AM
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I didn’t know that website existed - thank you for sharing it. It’s really tiring that we have to worry about seeing violence against women when we just want to relax and not think about it for once. 😞 It always made me so mad how obsessed everyone was with Game of Thrones. I never watched it..like imagine if a show had multiple scenes involving r*pe but it was happening to men instead. It would never have been that popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:17 AM
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You’re absolutely correct!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:47 AM
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Elon Musk holds the key to me becoming a real woman 🙏 But seriously the way it’s just “Elon Musk” with no context kills me 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:46 AM
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I guess I’ll just slowly disappear as I am not a real woman 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:42 AM
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Okay that was my first thought too. I want that suit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:41 AM
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Yeah this photo made my stomach churn for so many reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:40 AM
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There’s just so much wrong with this..the fat shaming, the fetishization of bisexuality, the fact that he wants a live-in mother-prostitute. Just 🤮 ETA: also the “homeless soon?” in the title?! Just openly preying on women in unstable situations 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:11 PM
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Thank you so much! So am I!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:03 PM
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I’m the same height and have continuously been fetishized for the same things. I hate it..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:10 AM
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Sadly women are so brainwashed by liberal feminism that she doesn’t even know which way is up anymore. It has women ignoring their gut feelings 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:16 AM
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Dear god I had a boyfriend who did this exact thing. He wanted me to tell him my age and how “young” I was while we were having “sex” (he had ED). He also called me a whore and a slut during sex and I soon found out he had a porn addiction. He eventually tried to assault me.🙃 He was in his late 20s and I had just turned 20. Men like this are garbage and women should stay far away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:49 AM
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I’ve literally seen men say that it’s “gay” to touch their own asses…I just have no words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:54 AM
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They’re so caught up with being the “cool girlfriend” that they end up acting like a 50s housewife. It’s insane. In my pickme days I remember being with a guy who wanted just that: a woman who cooks for him and does his laundry all the time, and acts like a porn star in bed but hasn’t had sex with anyone else ever. And I completely agree..it’s such a turn off to parent your boyfriend/husband 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:49 PM
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This made me feel secondhand embarrassment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:45 PM
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Me too. I would be a wreck trying to protect them from all of this. It’s too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:12 PM
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It’s just sad to see women even joking about it. Like they just accept that’s how they’re going to live their life. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:10 AM
155

Okay so men are children…got it. What in the world is attractive about parenting your own partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:02 AM
23

Do something you’re good at or a hobby you love, treat yourself to an at home spa night, make your living space nice and clean and comforting, etc. Those are just some of the things I do and they help a lot when I’m feeling low. They also remind me that I’m a whole person by myself and my self esteem comes from within 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:31 AM
84

Me too! Right there with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:04 PM
139

That was my thought too. I feel so bad for them and hope they can heal and have wonderful lives of their own without this sad excuse for a dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:33 AM
252

This sounds like a mother speaking about her child…the bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:53 AM
114

Oh wow this is way too relatable. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:13 AM
91

Right like what?? Honestly she needs to get it together and help protect the literal child that he’s grooming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:15 AM
333

Just more deflection and excuses for why they can’t make a woman orgasm. Sigh. Edit: Lol some scrote tried to reply to my comment saying that performing oral on a woman is too tiring 🤡 Yes because bjs are a walk in the park
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:37 AM
56

Aka they probably don’t take shit and he wants someone who’s easier to push boundaries with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:43 PM
120

Oh wow this reminds me of a “friend” I used to have (in quotes because he ended up wanting to just sleep with me) who was in his early 30s and would always complain about how he couldn’t find a girlfriend who wanted to “settle down”. I asked him how old the women were he was going out with, and he said early-mid 20s 🤡 When I suggested for him to raise the age settings on his dating apps or try a more serious one, he would just change the subject. He just wanted to keep dating younger women inste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:49 PM
201

Women as a whole have got to stop enabling this behavior. It’s so weird being on the “other side” now as I call it and seeing how ridiculous it is that most women put up with this. Praising half-assed attempts from men smh. I used to do the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:59 AM
59

Those were both so shocking. Kristen’s face was so uncomfortable 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:43 AM
71

This is painful to watch. The way so many of them laugh because they’re uncomfortable/that’s what we’re taught to do as women. And some of these were so recent..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:41 AM
29

I did too. It makes me really sad to think about all of the things I did because I thought it’s what I was “supposed” to do. I’m proud to be out of that mindset but it’s hard to get over the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:02 PM
42

Such an important post. It’s shocking how many men (the majority) never get tested for STDs. Like just sleeping with anyone and everyone with no protection and not getting tested. I’ve had many lie to me and say they got tested only to find out they hadn’t. 100% you should ask to see proof before sleeping with them. I also got tested regularly when I was dating/in relationships because it’s the responsible thing to do for both my partner and myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:59 PM
22

Oh me neither. Not a chance. I’m proud of you!! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:12 AM
40

They’re so mad they can’t comment on here so they’re acting out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:46 AM
16

Perfectly said. Also I love your username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:15 AM
89

No, you can do better! You deserve a man who doesn’t watch porn. The porn industry is horrible and he’s supporting it by watching it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:20 AM
30

I’m so sorry. How horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:34 PM
79

I stayed with a guy like this for a while unfortunately. He was a porn addict and just awful. When you have low self esteem and are conditioned your whole life to go along with things like this and that this is “how men are”, it’s really hard to break out of that. I hope she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:43 PM
147

Ugh this poor woman. This give me flashbacks of also trying to be the “cool girlfriend” and how it destroyed my self esteem. It takes a while to come back from that (I’m still working through it mentally). I hope she gets out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:40 PM
10

Exactly. It’s just out of control. I’m at the oldest end of gen z (I’m 24), so Instagram wasn’t even what it is now when I was in high school. The most we did to edit photos was use colorful filters. Now girls are bombarded with Facetune and similar, and already start editing their own photos at such a young age. The makeup thing is true for me too. We wore some makeup but not the way girls do now. I wish there was a way to reach them and help them through all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:38 PM
52

Same here. It sticks out some now and I still have a hard time with it but try to remind myself it’s normal. I feel so horrible for girls growing up now with how normalized filters and photo editing have gotten. It wasn’t even this bad when I was growing up and it wasn’t terribly long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:24 AM
61

Oh that is so awful..I’m so sorry for your friend. It’s just appalling that this is so common. Is she doing better now? And I completely hear you on that. I have a chronic illness and my ex boyfriend was not understanding about it at all. I feel like we have to be extra careful with who we date. I’m bi so if I do date again I will date women, but it’s really frustrating to feel like there are so few men who would fit what I need in a partner. It’s scary out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 09:41 AM
211

I used to work in a lingerie department that also fitted women for post-mastectomy garments and prosthetics, and it was heartbreaking to see the women whose husbands offered no support or left them altogether. Going through something so traumatic and life-altering only to have your partner react that way would be devastating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 09:16 AM
227

Thank you for this. One of my exes was a porn addict and it left me with lots of mental scars. He almost SA’d me and had an extreme addiction and twisted view of what sex was supposed to be. I’ll never forget it and I’m so proud to stand with fellow women on here who are fighting against porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:29 AM
69

That’s horrifying. I can’t imagine having to experience that as part of my job 🤮 Those poor women. And yes I’ve heard of that happening more now! Good for them for standing up for their own safety and well-being. I would only see female clients too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:32 AM
72

Ummm the poor person who has to wax them (I’m assuming woman because that’s probably who they’d go to bc everything is an opportunity for them to get off)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:24 AM
150

This is terrifying. Society has failed girls 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:49 PM
59

Omg this was hilarious, thank you for sharing. What a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:40 AM
107

Oh 100%. It’s basically just the new socially acceptable way to call a woman a bitch. I’m so sick of hearing it and it’s absolutely used to silence us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:15 AM
51

Exactly. If it’s not about them they don’t want to hear it. Or they say that you’re making it up and exaggerating when the facts are right there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:11 AM
135

Also this still doesn’t really address how it hurts women. Even the ones like “relationship issues” and “sexualizing everything” are focusing on how that negatively affects the man watching porn, not on how it damages women in myriad ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:37 AM
98

I do not miss the horrible skin irritation and pain I got from my bearded ex boyfriend. But of course it’s a crisis if a woman has a little bit of leg hair that harms no one 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:13 AM
29

This is exactly what my ex was like too! He lied about literally everything..even “small” things. But he bought me amazing gifts, took me to wonderful restaurants all the time, and we went on lots of trips. It really messed me up when I realized how he had lied about every little thing while I had been completely myself with him and never lied. I’m so relieved to be away from him. There was so much gaslighting in that relationship that I’m still recovering from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:17 AM
99

It’s also important to highlight the fact that sharing someone’s nude photos/videos without their consent is illegal in most states in the US (and parts of the UK - mentioning because the article is from Cosmopolitan UK). The fact that these subreddits are allowed to exist is beyond infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:28 PM
25

I really struggle with this because I want to help other people “see the light” so to speak, but those people don’t want to hear it. It’s exhausting. Is there any way to help people understand how toxic the “sex work is work” mindset is? I’m not trying to convince men of this because I think they’re a lost cause, but I feel like it may be possible to reach women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:19 AM
356

Society holds men to such low standards compared to women. Women are literally just expected to be an above and beyond girlfriend/wife/mom/etc. and never get an ounce of praise for it. I used to praise men for the bare minimum too until I realized that no one was praising women for the same basic things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:01 AM
171

This is what I noticed straight away. It’s just sad how much she wants to believe he isn’t a bad guy. But he is. And I so regret sending nudes in the past too. It makes me livid to think about how many guys they were shared with. I’ve obviously learned my lesson. I hope she realizes this is breakup-worthy behavior and leaves him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:01 AM
185

It’s so sad to see the way she’s trying to reason with this situation. There’s no “working something out”. Her boyfriend betrayed her trust and she needs to get far away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:46 AM
191

One year my dad got my mom a vacuum cleaner for Mother’s Day…ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:02 PM
431

Ugh I used to work in a lingerie department and the number of LVM who would come in two days before Christmas/Valentine’s Day and tell me to “just pick whatever out and she can return it” was astounding. I would be horrified to find out that was how my boyfriend/husband was treating getting me a gift. ETA: completely unrelated but I just got my flare! Ah I’m so happy and so glad I found this sub 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 11:25 AM
43

You cannot be a radical feminist and be anti-choice. It goes against everything radical feminism stands for. Edit: also I saw you edited your comment that mentioned you’re religious. Religion has no place dictating what a woman does in regards to her personal healthcare decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:43 AM
178

Pregnancy is incredibly hard on the body and is life-changing. Abortion is healthcare and a woman’s right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:30 AM
120

Wow. Not everyone has an easy breezy pregnancy. Hope she got the praise she wanted /s 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:48 AM
15

You are such a talented artist and this piece is so powerful. Thank you so much for sharing 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:53 AM
25

Just wtf? Please share this with his wife if he has one! Or at least mutual friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:11 AM
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