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Having a child is not a LV thing to do, ever. Having a child with that fuckwit is a very LV thing to do. Rhianna is proof that no amount of talent and money can innoculate you from doing stupid shit that might get you killed by a LVM with fame and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:17 PM
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I'm one of those women that felt compelled to see what the 'man hating harpies' were on about, upon seeing a dude shitting on us in a subreddit. DO NOT WORRY. This is par for the course. And any woman that is meant for us, will come to us. ​ We can't beat them at their game, so lets make our own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:11 AM
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Source, for real. Lets get real with our emotional reactions and back them up with studies. Lots of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:35 AM
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WOW OK, I'm 100% against age-gap relationships for every reason you can imagine. But...BUT you've just said it in a way that will forever frame how I respond to scrotes from now on. TY!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:36 PM
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They really are. Complete waste of time, and I'm yet to find an exception in my 2.5 years of being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:42 AM
93

'OMG you're so not healthy mentally, do you even think you should be having relationships if you can't handle a man abusing you verbally online? OMG grow up, mature a bit and see it for what it is...you being a weak ass bitch' /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:43 PM
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These poor kids. Blocking is the most amazing tool we have online. It is our way of curating the type of interactions we have. We wouldn't let 99% of the people we interact with online into our own personal space...let alone the psycho that calls us derogatory names or w/e. BLOCK, DELETE. Mental gymnastics is right...imagine feeling like you can't block for your own peace, just n case THEY think you're too invested. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:40 PM
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100% this! I recently had my tubes removed too, so I could not give a monkeys about my fertility. That brought a great freedom for me personally, too. I have kids, so I am very lucky as some can't have them even if they want them - but there's a huge power in removing oneself from the race to reproduce when the time is right. The so-called personality my ex had didn't exist - he faked it. You're just so right. Thanks for the support sis, good luck to you on your adventures!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:14 PM
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Exactly. The alternative to aging is death - so aging is just fine haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:12 PM
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I'm so so sorry you've been through the loss of a loved one like that. You sound like a woman I'd be friends with. I'm so proud of you, and I've never met you. I want my kids with me when I die, in a perfect world...not some man. It's crazy how not dying alone is even the reason to be in a relationship for so many. I said in a reply above - being truly alone has a power not a lot can yield.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:10 PM
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It's crazy...I'm a gamer and a full-on nerd, so all the men I might even slightly share an interest with are basement dwelling weirdos with pillow-wives. It's very scary. I like to say when I left my STBxH, I lost 85kg in weight...his dead weight haha! You keep being a fucking Queen - I love hearing from ladies here. Just makes my day x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:08 PM
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Its so good to hear a fellow Queen happy with how she's aging. I've a few wrinkles, and definite loss of plumpness in my cheeks - but I'm loving how I look, and feel! I'm told all the time I look younger than my age, and I feel a little infantalised when I'm told that by a man. No dude, I'm a fucking almost 40yo woman, respect is due haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:06 PM
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haha ikr, it's actually crazy that 90% of them were able to self-locomote there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:04 PM
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I wish you feel the love I do for myself as you age. At 27 I was a crippled mess due to men. At 39 I'm a shining light to my kids, and for myself. Life is good, and it really does get better with age! I'm wishing you all the love my sis! You should always remember that being alone has a power not many can yield. Thrive alone and no one can ever hurt you irreparably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:04 PM
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WE have a child the same age! I am blessed, as you are, but it was so hard right? I was tormented by a man that had me babytrapped - and here I am now living the best life. Good luck to you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:02 PM
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Thank you! I can't wait for my 40th birthday! Me and my kids, and my dogs. Such a great week it will be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:00 PM
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5 foot lady here haha! It's so awesome to see men realise I'm an absolute force to be reckoned with, especially at my height :P You sound like someone I'd like to be friends with RL. Good luck sis, keep being you and enjoying your own skin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:59 PM
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I'm so happy that you found FDS before your 30's! I married an abusive POS that is still trying to maintain control even after I left him 2.5 years ago. If I'd have met FDS at your age, I would never have married him. Here's to your future, health and fabulous graceful aging!!!!! We've all got this x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:58 PM
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Maturity is beautiful. Instead of pretending we can't see we're aging, as we get older a lot of us embrace it, and find such beauty in it. Here's to life sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:57 PM
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I've been done with strait male friendships for years, and I am 2.5 years separated having not one date since. I can't imagine not being repulsed enough to go on one! Not currently anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:56 PM
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This is pretty much the number one reason I LOVE aging - I can see patterns, and I know what I'm worth. It can take literal years to even realise we've all been gaslighted into submission. Aging is magical :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:55 PM
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I am better than ever so I don't see any issue stating it. Every time I go to the bank, the doctor, the hospital or have to renew some paperwork, I'm having to recount my age. I could not go through life forgetting how old I am. It's also very important from a health perspective - we have different issues and barriers as we age. It partially dictates how I train, how I plan my life etc. ​ While I 100% agree that age shouldn't be the focus, I don't agree that it's a goals mindset to attain the le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:54 PM
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Lets get comfortable not fulfilling even HVM fantasies, if we are not OK with them. fuck this shit. Not one woman alive needs to fulfill anyone's fantasy, let alone a LVM one. But even a HVM doesn't have any right to us doing anything, at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:03 AM
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Seriously, I almost died reading a comment on the sterilization sub. A woman asked about post-salpingectomy (fallopian tube removal, I recently had the procedure done) experiences with sex, and the TOP FUCKING COMMENT was from a man...giving his wife's experience. And so many replies agreeing with him were women. No one called him out, and I just didn't even know where to start. I about died laughing, then had to put Reddit away for the night. Fuck that dude, fuck them all frankly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:03 PM
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I own my car. I own my house. I'm educated and work in healthcare. I have 3 kids (recovering from a bisalp which is a party for one), and they're fucking amazing. I'm well-read, have lots of hobbies and compete in my chosen sport. Please tell me WHY I should put up with anything but diamonds, praise and home-cooked food from any man? My STBXH didn't get far with me, so why would any man think this shot would fly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:05 AM
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Joining in your 30's isn't 'late'. The term late requires some expiration date or finality of sorts. We don't have an expiration date - we're human beings worthy of respect at any age. Don't be worried about aging, the only other option is death. So yea...aging is amazing! And as women we literally get better with age...not the same can be said for crusty scrotes xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:44 PM
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The audacity we have! Imagine wanting to gain benefits in a relationship!? I mean, we're sooooo entitled to want a man to be financially or mentally stable...come on ladies, maybe we should rethink our stance and take on LVM that are unstable, so they can destabilise us...right?! /s Flip off DM, omg. But it is amazing that more women will see us! I see women on Reddit all the time that found us via the hate we get. Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:59 PM
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This woman is stunning. This man is well...I can smell his beard through my screen. Ugh sis, please give that beautiful smile to a deserving man...not this unwashed ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:34 PM
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Spot on! Loyalty isn't a personality trait, it's a measurable behaviour that's based on the onlookers definition of loyalty, and not how the actual person is feeling/acting. Subjective rather than objective. Asshole. Gosh I frikkin hate these men. Why are they again? I forgot and can't seem to be bothered to remind myself WHY they even are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:30 PM
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If I had an award to give you, I would. 'The father-centered family is welfare for men (at the expense of women and kids).' is the most spot-on sentence Ive read in my entire life. Edited for spelling and clarity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:03 PM
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This happened to my daughter's friend. Her dad left her mom when she developed Fibromyalgia, and he found himself a younger woman in the process. They were a very financially successful couple, they co-owned half of a very large British city and multiple spots in different countries. She couldn't deal with her health issues and divorce, so she settled for a measly buy-out that I'm still shocked ANY Judge would have allowed. I'm divorcing at the moment, and I keep hearing over and over how a Judg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:01 PM
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'In some direct way'... Instructions on how to sound vaguely specific all in one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 10:48 PM
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Haha! Such a shame it's not a 1:1 analogy, or they'd be more attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:14 PM
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This honestly made me want to vomit. When a man goes to these lengths to 'explain' how prostitution isn't the selling of one's body, its absolutely because he's had a mini mental crisis and needed to rationalize it to himself. This dude needed to justify the women he's bought and used. Very obviously. I hope he feels our collective disgust deeply his soul as we all read his absolutely horrible comment. If he really feels like this, he should go 'rent' his body out then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:12 PM
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Yea....he's dirty, smelly, and horrible. I don't want a man with any fixation, let alone an oral one. Fucking weirdo OMG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:27 PM
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This all frikkin day!!!! So so so well said. It's my experience too...the happiest women I know are single, cat ladies. The most miserable, with no rights or freedoms, are married to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:41 PM
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I am almost 40 and 'alone'. And I'm honestly having the time of my life. I am present with my kids, working, studying, looking fucking better than I ever have, and enjoying my life the way I want to live it. I did the whole marriage thing, and it ended in me being severely abused. Alone at 40 is the best thing that's ever happened to me. I feel genuine happiness, contentment and joy. And it doesn't hang on the approval of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:36 PM
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What a great catch. Apart from the obvious 'hot girl' reference, he's also assuming that writing a blog is somehow of lower standard than other forms of writing, because it's 'for fun'. At least that's what I'm taking from this. Scrotes be damned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:28 PM
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This was the exact dynamic in my marriage. Thank goodness I'm divorcing him. He did everything he could to spit on my boundaries, make me unsafe and physically/mentally hurt me. And then when I'd lash out he'd scream 'SeE YoU'Re MeNtAl'. I am SOSOSO glad to see this dynamic being talked about openly now. Because it's insidious and it's hard to come back from as a woman, when you're beaten daily by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:53 AM
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--That men cleverly uphold the patriarchy and lift each other in putting down women. Holy crap. So well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:18 PM
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That chasing a 'forever mine HVM' is the wrong way to look at life. Sexual relationships should never be viewed as 'forever', and we need to get comfortable with the fact that sexual (and to be fair other relationship types too) should be viewed as important, but never ever permanent at the cost of our well-being and happiness - always be vetting! Men come and go, as they should, and it's amazing being without one. Being 'alone' is such a weird social construct that needs dismantling. And it's p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:11 PM
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Almost every day I'm asked by some other woman (pickmeshas everywhere omg) when I'm going to start dating again (left my abusive stbEXH 2 years ago). My only answer is: 'dating, marriage and any interactions with a man rarely benefit a woman. Show me a man that can add to my life, and I'll consider a date. Not someone that can 'protect me' or do some diy that I'd do better anyway, I want actual benefits and additions to my life without being forced to wash his clothes, make him food or take time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:40 PM
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My soon-to-be Ex Husband to a tee. Thing is, he did this with Wifey number one, and he's also waiting for his parents to die so he can have their home. He's living back with them and often discussed during our marriage how he'd remodel their house once they passed. What a fucking loser. I can sometimes still smell his nastiness and porn sickness even with over 2 years away from his abusive ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:19 PM
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Honestly, all he has to do is loudly proclaim 'make me a sammich' with a mouthful of chips, over the mic on Discord as I'm speaking raid tactics in the game we're playing with our group. (I'm a gamer, you've no idea how much it's happened to me over the mic on Discord or Skype.) I drop my knickers for any man that says it, I mean....I can smell his BO and ass through the mic, so why wouldn't I go make him his sandwich, and then fuck him how he likes it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:33 PM
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Just carried out your google suggestion and WOW. I'm shocked. Over 50 hits on one site alone for escorts/prostitutes in my tiny town. Fuck this shit honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:36 PM
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I'm tattooed, I have a sleeve and love it. It's amazing how men have told me directly that my tattoo means they'd have an easy time of getting into my pants. One of these 'gentlemen' wasn't too happy when I told him I'd rather skin myself of the tattoo than get within 5 feet of him. Thing is, it isn't the tattoos, it really isn't. Men will use anything, and I mean anything to degrade us. Tattoo's are just super visible and an easy target. They often depict a part of our personality so they're th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:42 PM
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You absolute Queen! I am so so so sorry he did that, and that you're now having to go through a break-up because of this dude - but I'm so proud of you and I don't even know you! You're everything I hope I can be when the time comes. Not if, but when. All my love and wishes xx it's hard when everything is great, and yet they just can't behave like a decent person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:36 PM
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Replace the word sheet with child (as you intended haha, well played), and you've got my situation to a T!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:35 AM
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The manosphere should be legislated against as a potential terrorist group, or subset of groups. I don't care how difficult that is for governments, and all the red-tape they'd need to bypass...it needs to be done preemptively before we see attacks on women and children like this become 'normal'. I'm honestly scared for the future. You are so correct when you say the manosphere is dangerous. I truly believe it has the potential to cause a new wave of terrorism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:28 PM
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BINGO! So so well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:40 PM
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Welcome to your new set of female friends! Dang I loved reading your post. I know you feel shit right now...I had a head mashing experience recently that forced me to rethink so many of my values too - working on it in therapy. I'm a gamer too, and it's been so refreshing to cut ties with the men I used to game with, and enjoy finding single-player story-driven indie titles (Hades OMG) that I can explore MY gaming needs, wants and enjoyment without male intervention. Even in the games I played I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:55 AM
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Must not scratch balls and sniff when he thinks you're not looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:45 PM
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If I'd have known this, I wouldn't be wife number 2 that needed to get a RO. Divorce is also nasty with these men. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:45 PM
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Am I really reading this right? This scrote is really SO self-involved that he can't see how she's got life handled, and it's him that needs to re-evaluate his shit? Even after writing it down, and presumably proof-reading it....he still didn't see? Wowsa. And here scrote dude, just because YOU didn't see her train the dog, doesn't mean she didn't. Does he think everything that happens, happens around him? Same goes for her business and academic skills. What a dick. Imagine being sick a dick tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:36 PM
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I've reported the video. We all need to do the same. This kind of content really does spark violence and harm. Thank you for posting this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:41 PM
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So much love and hugs to you right now. What a man! What a man. I'm so sorry...dementia is horrible. Thank you for sharing your story, your Grandpa's love and giving us all something to truly remember the next time we don't get what we ALL deserve. Happy Birthday Queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:28 PM
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'I'd rather bang a doorknob' literally has me in stitches. I love it! That's going to be my next refusal line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:35 PM
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You...you met my soon-to-be ex husband?!?! Tell him I said, well, 'fuck you'. Haha, on a serious note, that's horrible and I'm very very glad you got away from him too - even if you weren't dating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:09 PM
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She has met the love of her life. It's her. She is the love of her life. I am SO giddy to hear such a fabulous woman say that she chose herself - but there is just one more step here! To realize that we are our own greatest love is the gift of a lifetime. Someone link her to FDS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:59 PM
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Can we stop calling women 'female' please. But I love this with my whole heart. I've a whole other opinion on porn, but at a minimum it should be age-gated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:25 PM
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Literally everything they say and do is predicated on their innate assumption that we're inferior and they're entitled. They resent even having to try and become friends to get into our pants. Hence shaming us for putting them in the 'friendzone'. Fuck off dude, just fuck off. I have zero time for men that don't want to treat women as beings worthy of respect, with rich inner lives. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:19 PM
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It's almost like when we say it, it doesn't matter...right?! In all seriousness, you've hit the nail on the head (haha) here. It takes a MAN to experience it before it's realized. Damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:12 PM
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I'm living this every second of the day! Ugh it's's a killer! I've recently reconnected with a guy I've known for years, he's cute, tall and had an amazing accent. All I want to do is ravish him, but I refuse because I just won't give myself like that. It's killing me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:09 PM
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Best comment ever. Made my night 😂😂😂😂☠️☠️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:13 PM
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Real talk. Mine did this with wife number 1, and now I'm in and out of court for a RO and he's screwing me through child visitations and ordering expensive reports via said courts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:59 PM
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Exactly. My almost ex husband, even after I told him exactly what I wanted for my birthday AND I told him that I wouldn't accept a shitty gift like every other year since we got serious...put a packet of Reece's in a card, and told me he wasn't any good at buying gifts - and that he didn't know what to get. Bullshit. He wanted to hurt me. I left him less than a month later and I'm gone over a year now. Single is the way ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:16 PM
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We don't make excuses for men. If a man wants to get a woman a gift he finds a way. She's lowered her standard to fit his life. She's literally the easiest person to buy for too. She has very unique interests that would make for great gifts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:41 PM
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What a waste of tasty cookies. I mean, they're only good enough for the trash after touching this scrotes unwashed ass. Ugh. I love my stretch marks, and it took me a long time to get to that love with NO tha ks to scrotes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:53 PM
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Single is the way ladies. Until that HVM actually adds something to our lives. It's just too true. I can't think of one woman I know that's husband/bf or whatever is good enough for her. I helped a friend buy her husband a secret Xmas gift last week from my Amazon account. Had it delivered to my address, she gave me cash and I bought it, so it would be a complete surprise. It was some robot making stuff, very expensive and looked awesome. I said that he was a lucky man and asked her what she wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:41 PM
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I'm just over a year out and share a child with my soon to be ex Husband. It's so hard. You absolutely can go no contact, in a way...only responding to stuff about the child and ignoring everything else. It's hard I know. My ex was violent and I've a RO against him. I've more hearings coming up and it's terrifying. If you ever need a chat feel free to dm me. It's hard but doable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:53 PM
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I know right, yet we hear the nOt AlL mEn defence when men don't like the truth about their proportionally larger deviant brothers. But yea...let's keep telling women they aren't telling the truth based on a tiny fraction of expected liers in any group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:30 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. Talk about traumatic. Not only had you been victimized, you had to work damned hard for medical attention, and then were told you'd be charged if you're lying. I hope you're doing ok ❤️ I don't think I'll ever get over my own assaults. Therapy is my friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:28 PM
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My heart swelled ❤️ such a good mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:48 PM
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Ikr, we need to chip in and send her flowers ❤️ hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:08 AM
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I couldn't have said it better myself. I'm thinking of getting back into dating after a divorce. I've never even had a dating profile. This shit scares me. I will try joining groups that interest me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:16 PM
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I remember hearing this song the first time in a local bar - some small band covering it. I said to the group I was with that it was pretty creepy, and I was told by my at-the-time bestie that I didn't have a romantic bone in my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:30 AM
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Did you see the rest of the thread? Absolutely priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:27 PM
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The absolute ickiness of their use of language. The way that some dudes describe this stuff makes me want to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:00 PM
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My stbx husband would tell me off whenever I sat to knit. I love knitting, it gives me peace. I knitted him a sweater with the instructions of 'don't roll the sleeves up your arms as this yarn won't spring back onto shape'. So guess what he did within a half hour of wearing it the first time. And it ruined it. I spent a whole month working on it. And the stupid idiot I am unknit the sleeves, reknit them to fix, then he did it again within a day. He'd tell me if I'd spend as much time on his busi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:55 PM
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I'm currently divorcing a dangerous man that would choke me during sex. He became violent in other ways outside sex, but the choking came first. If I'd have known then when I know now about how choking a woman is one of the most reliable indicators of a man having the potential to murder her....well, I wouldn't be in and out of court getting restraining orders and living my life in fear. I'd have left there and then the first time and never looked back. And I'd have prosecuted his ass so hard. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:36 PM
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Im so sorry that happened to you. The reframing is great, and it's serving me well while I'm going through divorce. Like, why the hell should I care so much when he clearly never did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:27 PM
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This! Being female is close to the most uninteresting and common thing about me. We have names. It's incredible when you think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:18 PM
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