Comments are ROASTING him for his age-gap preference - very happily surprised! Based Reddit.

Attheatelier · 2022-01-17T21:58:31+00:00

He feels used😭😭😭and wants to be appreciated for something other than his money? How about you start appreciating women for something other than their youth (naïveté/lack of experience at that age, makes them easier to manipulate) and looks? He's so pathetic. Lord help him lol glad people ripped him a new one for his lack of awareness.

browngirlsays · 2022-01-17T22:04:18+00:00

Why men’s first thought while dating is always “Am I being used for money?”

lemonasia · 2022-01-17T21:55:44+00:00

He expects to not be used for his money, yet he is only interested in dating women 15 to 20 years younger than him? It goes without saying that women are not naturally attracted to older men, they’re attracted to the money.

Why doesn’t he just date women his own age and then he will not have to worry about this? Why would a young woman be interested in him if it weren’t for the transactional dynamic of the relationship?

Let me guess he thinks he’s too good for women his own age… but he also is frustrated that the women that he’s pursuing who are younger only want his money?

The audacity and entitlement is laughable here..

lansburysoda · 2022-01-17T21:31:35+00:00

When a man enters a transactional relationship dynamic and then is shocked that he has to uphold his end of the transaction 🙄 the delusion & entitlement are off the charts.

If it was only about physical attraction, most women would choose to date men in their 20s. Sorry not sorry

No_Sprinkles_6078 · 2022-01-17T21:52:15+00:00

Sir, 26 year old women have no interest in your 43 year old ass! Do you think that she wants to come over out of the kindness of her heart? No! You think she wants to even go over to your house? No! Take that woman out on a proper date! Like come on, incentivize it for her to at least have a small amount of interest!

These males out here really expect someone 17 years younger than them to ride a possibly unsafe subway in the middle of a snow storm over to their house, when they could send an Uber for them? He deserves to be alone forever.

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-01-17T21:55:05+00:00

Dude if you set up a low quality date, don’t expect her to bring a nice wine 💀

saint-jezebel · 2022-01-17T22:34:04+00:00

I saw this post and was happy the comments roasted him. Like, he’s intentionally going after these women. One younger than the first. But then you’re mad that they are doing exactly what they’re supposed to do? Make it make sense. You have to pay for a sugar baby and you have to pay for the girlfriend experience too.

It seems to me he is intentionally targeting younger women because he believes they’re naive and thinks he’s smart enough to get the upper hand as if a way to teach them how to act. Last I remember, men get into relationships not expecting anyone to change, so why is he upset they aren’t.

The_Rae_ · 2022-01-17T21:40:13+00:00

Age gaps should be stigmatized

Cala6794 · 2022-01-17T21:32:26+00:00

Look you vampiric motherfucker. Time can not be reclaimed, youth can not be reclaimed, but money can be earned. You are looking to suck a woman's youthful years from her body in order to distract you from the fact that you have one foot in the grave, and all she wants in return is money. She is getting screwed here, but you are still complaining. wow

Lost_Kale90 · 2022-01-17T21:50:32+00:00

Love the comments on that post!

FlockAroundtheClock · 2022-01-17T22:53:22+00:00

"I want to feel desired and appreciated for more than my money."

Then, don't be a toad.

Don't date younger women who are out of your league.

Imagine how they feel. I'm sure they'd like to be appreciated for more than looks or youth.

whatsausername1000 · 2022-01-17T23:01:01+00:00

he’s literally referring to them as sugarbabies. sugarbabies are not your “girlfriends” and they usually have more than one sugardaddy. they didn’t enter the relationship for anything other than $$ and material things. how stupid is he?? not only that but why does he think a 26 year old would date an old ass man for anything other than $$$?

biwinny · 2022-01-17T23:10:01+00:00

Lol @ these old sagging men who truly believe young women want them for their aggressive dad bod charm, while they get to use them as a little trophy. Nope. You decided to enter into a contractual relationship. You pay her and take care of her, while she makes you feel young and important. Sorry babes, it can't be one sided.

FancyCocktailOlive · 2022-01-17T22:07:06+00:00

I can’t believe this man has the audacity to call a Sugar Baby “entitled”.

Sugar Babies function as a prostitute and actress to provide a girlfriend experience in exchange for gifts, money and respectful treatment.

scorchedsouI · 2022-01-17T21:59:49+00:00

This guy is 43, and judging by the men I've met that are of similar age, he probably looks entirely uninteresting, and a little gross. I'm younger than 25, and men older than 30 look non-sexual to me. I'm always shocked and offended when they approach me with sexual intentions. In my eyes, they fall under the category of furniture more so than that of "men", because they lack any sex appeal in my eyes.

Perhaps if he took better care of himself, cut back on the whining and went after women from his age range, he'd be more appreciated for who he is rather than what he offers.

thefutureisXX · 2022-01-17T22:16:38+00:00

She’s already risking getting assaulted by going to his place alone on a second date. Now he wants her to ride the subway, at night, TWICE! And increase chances of her being harmed even more. For a cheap crappy plate of pasta. Scrotes in full swing out hurr! 😳🙄

Alarmed-Seat-4664 · 2022-01-17T22:12:34+00:00

Nyc guys are gross. If it’s always normal to always take the subway then explain why there’s always cars parked on the side of the road and why finding parking is so difficult? Why are there parking garages all over the place?? If nobody drove then there’d be no problem for parking.

mypetchickens · 2022-01-17T22:52:43+00:00

From OP, is he a doctor also trying to date other doctors?

As a medical student, I think a lot of female MD/DOs or MD/DO trainees have high expectations for men, and won't go for this kind of stuff. If he's a physician making good money, I expect to go on a nice date. Like, I do have lower standards (money-wise) if I go out with another medical student...because loans, I get it. But if he has the money, it looks stingy to refuse to go to a restaurant.

CriticismBudget · 2022-01-17T21:57:25+00:00

I am proud to be one of those above comments. The original post was appalling.

Platipus6 · 2022-01-17T23:23:57+00:00

Man with nothing desirable about him, and nothing appreciating but the forest of hair in his ears, doesn't even give a shit about her safety or well-being in the snow, and wants her to pay for her own subjugation with a bottle of wine... only brings money to the table... and doesn't want to pay.

So logical. So rational. No emotions here.

Hope he posted on choosingbeggars 😂

frogchickenhorse · 2022-01-17T21:53:07+00:00

xfelugirlx · 2022-01-17T22:00:02+00:00

They are giving you time, for sure you are disgusting the only reason they are there is money. As well the only reason you like them is because of the youth and beauty, stfu .

bleda_princezna · 2022-01-17T22:26:54+00:00

Why is he shocked? What does he think a 26 year old could possible see in him? He's 43, he's old enough to be her dad. He's got nothing to offer besides money, entertainment. And he knows it. Yet he gets pissed and "oh poor me, everyone uses me." Well, mister, you're using the woman... Hello?

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2022-01-18T00:11:27+00:00

Is he really getting in his feelings over $30 for his date’s Uber? 😂

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2022-01-17T22:25:41+00:00

What else was he expecting? He chose this.

princesspolkadottie · 2022-01-17T21:25:10+00:00

Jesus God forbid a woman wants to be treated nicely by her date.

mandoa_sky · 2022-01-17T23:48:23+00:00

and he thinks making someone travel across town, use the subway, in the snow is reasonable????

hexriot2001 · 2022-01-17T21:20:00+00:00

good.

MySonderStory · 2022-01-17T23:14:58+00:00

“Mind you, objectively, the cost doesn’t matter to me. I am doing well. I’m generous with my friends.”

These guys always tell on themselves. It’s pretty clear but a direct translation is basically, ‘I make good money and will spend it freely and unlimited on myself and people important to me like friends but nEvEr ever on a woman, even if I want sex and asked her to trek her way across the city in the snow instead of find a place convenient for us both, doesn’t matter if she may have potential to become my wife, cause they’re gold diggers’.

aquietsword · 2022-01-18T00:28:47+00:00

If you're sucking the life out of a woman like this scrote, you should pay double. That's literally the only thing you bring to the table, what do you expect? Mommy telling you that you're special doesn't actually mean shit, Christopher.

Hyperborea_or_bust · 2022-01-17T21:48:08+00:00

Mind you

Ew whiny grandpa lingo

slayeroftruth · 2022-01-17T22:41:24+00:00

The whole point to sugar baby is you pay and compensate them very well, so they pretend they are not disgusted at the site of you. Men are so entitled. They expect women to go against biological urge to be with washed up male no one wants for cheap and or free. Ridiculous. He is buying human being and calls them entitled. The male "logic" is yet to be found.

ceramicunicorn · 2022-01-18T00:45:49+00:00

As if he desires and appreciates her for something more than ego boosting and sexual services rendered and even sees her as a person. We all want a good bargain on things we don’t value, man, I hear ya, don’t cry about it.

AnonymousRooster · 2022-01-18T00:58:29+00:00

If I agreed to go on a date with a nasty old fart, he better be bringing a lot of something else to the table. What the heck is this idiot thinking?!

HolaHulaHola · 2022-01-18T00:17:31+00:00

I live in his region. Yes, we all take the subway in NYC. But covid has changed how people look at the subway. I make sure I am masked up, with hand sanitizer and gloves, because the subway is just nasty right now.

I bet the only reason he asked her out was because she was 26, young, pretty, and had a job that he felt was non-threatening to his masculinity. I bet he flashed his money and high paying job to her and is now surprised that she's asking for a black car. I can imagine what he'd say if she came to his apartment in big old snow boots because she had to take the subway. He'd probably complain that she's dragging snow into his apartment, and where were her date night shoes?

And for the ladies here in this sub, NYC men are the worst. They think they're hot shit and have the biggest entitlement issues. The finance types and lawyers are are so full of themselves. They judge other men on how much they earn and physical appearance, and evaluate women strictly on their looks.

I'm old enough to remember seeing these grungy, unshaved, unkempt men wearing rumpled, casual clothes on a Saturday evening while their date was dressed in Prada. Women had to look hot while men could look as if they just rolled out of bed, yet it was all good. One asshole even tried flashing his Rolex to me in the subway and when I told him to please stop yelling, he screamed into my ear and said that this is yelling.

I see they still haven't changed (I'm married to a European gentleman, I pay them no mind). Good to know.

catsuramen · 2022-01-18T01:49:48+00:00

Her: yeah, not a sugar daddy. More like a Splenda daddy.

JulyParade · 2022-01-18T01:39:43+00:00

The last time a man made me dinner I brought drinks. I liked him so I got a case of what I liked expecting more to be there when I came back for another date. And that's how I found out these men are ALCOHOLICS! He's out of booze because he drank it. That's why he's cocktails only now. No more OLD booze and pussy hounds for me!

MsWriteNow07 · 2022-01-18T01:52:09+00:00

Man! I went over to the original post just to be nosy and watch this man being dragged. I didn’t respond to him at all and I still got banned just for being part of FDS. I love it. Subs that give out abusive advice are afraid of us and I’m proud to be part of that

Keepers12345 · 2022-01-18T06:45:53+00:00

Nothing in his long spiel has any information that supports his opinion that he's some sugar daddy.

In NY, a black car is an UBER.

An UBER. He can't even pay for her UBER? What does he expect her to do, put on some sneakers, her winter coat, mittens, gloves, hat, earmuffs, and trek to his place and then leave after an hour so that she won't be taking the subway at an even more risky hour?

So ridiculous.

And if she's coming to his place, then what's the benefit for her? He wants her to buy him alcohol so he can take advantage of that liquid courage?

Reading this kind of stuff makes me wish that I had a magic wand. I just want to poof guys like this into real women and introduce them to themselves. They should live in women's bodies for at least one year, experience menstrual cycles with no breaks. They'd know who they are, aware that their bodies were swapped, but no one else would know.

The sad thing is that I think that most men wouldn't decide to change their behavior once they return to their male bodies.

Does anyone else have that fantasy of wishing you could turn a guy into a woman for a day so he could get what you're talking about?

Donttellmehow2feel · 2022-01-18T06:56:02+00:00

When I was in my stupid 20s, I would not go to the place of a 24-year old muscular guy that I was "dating" to be his late night booty call. Even then I could see the lack of consideration and respect. Why do it for a 40-year old scrote?

relationship_reddit · 2022-01-18T02:36:01+00:00

Why can't hot, inappropriately younger women just love me for my moobs and receding hairliiiiiiine?!😫

Title	Comments are ROASTING him for his age-gap preference - very happily surprised! Based Reddit.
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Date	January 17, 2022 9:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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