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I answered your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:01 PM
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Hypergamy has never been seen as immoral. Promiscuity has been seen as immoral because promiscuity is irresponsibility. Men cause 100% of unwanted pregnancies and fatherless children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:34 PM
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Yes, men’s desire to use women solely for sexual gratification is CRUDE and should be shamed and discouraged because women are people, women don’t exist for men’s sexual gratification. In fact, men exist to produce sperm so women can procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:32 PM
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I’m getting sober and am thus on a journey of self-discovery and am not having sex. In fact, it’s recommended by AA that you don’t start a new relationship in the first year of your sobriety so that’s why I recently turned a man down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:10 PM
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Yep, it’s Ted alright
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:08 PM
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YOU are my favourite user on this sub. Hands down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:07 PM
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I just said it recently to a man who told me he usually satisfies his sexual urges with casual sex. I told him “I don’t do casual sex.” I don’t know why men believe this doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:07 PM
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Alcoholism isn’t a conscious choice. Alcohol is cunning, baffling, powerful. Read the Big Book of AA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:01 PM
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Men have historically always raised kids that aren’t theirs. Your argument is meaningless. This whole obsession with not wanting to be a stepdad is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:00 PM
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You can’t find someone guilty of a crime because they did it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:57 PM
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The post didn’t say she was waiting for marriage, just for a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:54 PM
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I just did this to a man. I told him “I don’t do casual sex.” It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:53 PM
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But she said she’s still having sex, just not outside a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:53 PM
0

What about the Married Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:51 AM
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No, I’m serious. Women want commitment. Men are the ones who bitch and complain about it even though marriage mostly benefits them. Men are the ones who like promiscuity and if men weren’t cheap, easy, whores, women would not end up having multiple sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:45 AM
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How many cocks does it take to make a cock carousel? There wouldn’t be a cock carousel if men just closed their legs and didn’t put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:44 AM
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It sounds to me like you see women as interchangeable, and that you have lost the ability to pair bond from all your sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:42 AM
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No. I mean Billy Beta is spending his 20s and 30s trying to sleep around and failing, and refusing to commit to the women who will have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:36 AM
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Women are currently better than men morally so we don’t have to improve. You’re the ones who are lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:50 PM
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If a man watches porn, he is shit. Porn is exploitation of women and violence against women. What percentage of men watch porn? That’s the percentage that is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:49 PM
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That means men follow trends too and right now selfish individualism and hedonistic lifestyles are trending among men, which is why women aren’t happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:48 PM
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Most of us WOULD be capable of being a brain surgeon. You don’t have to be super smart to function as a physician, the only reason people believe that is because lots of people want to become physicians so competition is high and you win that competition with good grades, which is correlated with intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:46 PM
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Most men don’t try to make themselves sexually attractive. I love myself a man with good hygiene and superb style.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:44 PM
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It’s not us making the man miserable. It’s the men who are making women miserable. I personally don’t date. I haven’t in nine years and that’s nine years I haven’t had to deal with a man being jealous of my athletic abilities and intelligence, of trying to sabotage me and gaslight me, I just come on this sub to practice turning the other cheek in the face of virulent misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:43 PM
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What do men want other than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:09 PM
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Criminals aren’t ALL bad. There are different types of criminals—most aren’t psychopaths or sociopaths—and people do legitimately change. You are only one or several stressful situations away from becoming a criminal yourself. Get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:08 PM
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Nothing wrong with Amber Heard. Most domestic abuse victims fight back like she did. I expected better of you, Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:06 PM
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Male victims are taken seriously. How are men unequal under the law? How is masculinity a sacrifice versus femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:32 PM
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These young men forget that they are under no obligation to disclose the fact they’re a virgin. Other people only find out because they tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:30 PM
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No it’s not. It’s exploitation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:05 PM
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Hahahaha! No!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:57 PM
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Women do want those things. There are simply few men that offer all that. Being sober also means no porn watchers too. You’ve just been radicalized by the manosphere to hate women and you can’t get a date so you’ve latched onto the “women like bad boys” myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:41 PM
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But everyone is vastly different personality-wise. I like people a lot and NO ONE bores me because of that. I find everyone interesting because everyone is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:36 PM
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Possibly. The biggest dick I’ve ever seen was on a guy who was 5’5 AND he could really use it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:35 PM
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I’d be with an Adam if we were in synch with each other, if he treated me well, if I felt good when I was with him, if he really liked me for me and didn’t watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:34 PM
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I’ll agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:33 PM
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True. I’m really attracted to a man right and am ignoring some toxic parts of him. However, I won’t let myself get involved with him because the toxic parts but I do flirt with him for fun and enjoy his company when I have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:18 PM
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After 10 dates I’d think you’d be in the realm of being exclusive with each other so how can you say you get nothing out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:56 PM
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Men having to pay for a date is not toxic masculinity. How is men paying for a date toxic to women? It isn’t! Therefore it is not toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:55 PM
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Phone out, calculating down to the cent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:54 PM
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I still don’t understand why you felt ripped off. I don’t pretend to offer to pay either. I just make sure I say a nice thank you. I don’t think I, or any woman, should have to go through the ritual of offering to pay. I’m actually NOT okay with paying for dates and if he took me up on the offer I’d assume he didn’t really like me and I wouldn’t go out with him again. I’d also be bitter that I had to pay when men have more opportunities to acquire wealth and get paid more. In fact, I use the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:54 PM
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He abused her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:43 PM
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I don’t trust women who take Johnny Depp’s side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:10 PM
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You know exactly why feminists are against prostitution. The whole point of your post is so you can have fun playing devil’s advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:59 PM
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Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:55 PM
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Why do you feel ripped off when you pay for a woman’s dinner on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:54 PM
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Men paying for dates isn’t toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity is when men believe they get to own women like you own a car or another object and that they get to tell you what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:51 PM
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Cheating isn’t illegal but you don’t have to tolerate it. That means you can break up with her if she cheats on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:49 PM
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Enormous muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:47 PM
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That means women need to be manipulative with all men except Chads. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:27 PM
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Men are assholes to women who outrank them because they feel emasculated. Women DO want men who outrank them because we know men who don’t outrank us will treat us like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:24 PM
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Criminal men don’t always treat women badly. There are lots of types of criminals. However sociopaths and psychopaths can usually be pretty charming at first. They hook a woman with their fake, charming persona and after she’s hooked he does an about face and shows his true self. At that point she’s already had sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:22 PM
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I just had a man treat me badly so I dumped him. Then I told EVERYONE that we mutually know how much of an asshole he was and now there’s a pile of women who won’t even acknowledge his existence, and the men who know him have lost respect for him and think he’s fucked up. When men have treated me badly in the past I have also enjoyed calling 911 to get them expelled from my home, even if they’re just using words. That way they become “known to police.” I also once stabbed a man who treated me re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:19 PM
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No one should drink alcohol. It’s not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:12 PM
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A man using porn while in a relationship is wrong and it’s cheating. Actually, porn is exploitation of women so it’s always wrong to watch porn. Men who watch porn are less committed to their partners than men who don’t. Studies show that over and over and over again. I definitely wouldn’t want to be with a guy who’d have sex with a woman behind my back but if he did, I’d rather that he actually view her as a person and like her than see her as a “warm hole”. Definitely wouldn’t want to be with …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:11 PM
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Women DO NOT like “bad boys”. This post was written by a man, it’s not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:57 PM
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Moods are contagious. She’s not mirroring you, you’re putting her in a bad mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:54 PM
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With that attitude of yours, I’d definitely pay for my own dinner but I’d rather eat alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:53 PM
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I’ve reached the same conclusion!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:52 PM
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She’s not an outlier. Most women aren’t naturally submissive. I know I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:51 PM
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I completely agree with you. The thing is that he was SUCH an asshole to me that I assumed he was doing it as a way of rejecting me. I was surprised to learn he thought he could just act how he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:51 PM
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That’s not what happens. Men bring their damaged selves into relationships and treat women like shit, so women respond badly. That’s not women damaging men. The onus is on men for them to undamage themselves, it’s not our job to walk on eggshells around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:49 PM
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Depends on the type of relationship but the strongest and purest form of love is the love a woman has for her biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:48 PM
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No. Women of all races want to date white men because white men are much less misogynistic than men of other races so they’re often much happier than if they date in their own race. There’s also the fact that white skin is fetishized by people of colour regardless of their sex. Blonde hair and blue and green eyes are often fetishized too. Some women of other races also use white men to gain residency and citizenship in countries where white people are indigenous (Europe) and in other countries w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:46 PM
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I should add that on dating forums Asian women will warn white women not to date you due to your high levels of misogyny and the fact you see white women as disposable sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:41 PM
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White men are the least misogynistic men on the planet. They’re also the least racists. Asian men are well-known to be misogynists, and Asian men are well-known to try to use white women for sex but would never marry one. I don’t know why Asian men are so obsessed with propagating whichever Asian ethnicity they come from. You should have the answer to that as an Asian man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:38 PM
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You’re not entitled to white women. I judge men on their appearance and their personality. Some of it is nature, and some is nurture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:35 PM
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No, feminists do not say those things. I know that as I am one. Feminism is non-violent. Men aren’t entitled to second chances. You act like men don’t know when they’re being assholes but they do and then they say “I screwed up, my mistake, I’ll do better next time” when it wasn’t a mistake at all, that what they did was on purpose and they figured “it’s easier to ask for forgiveness than ask for permission.” I honestly can’t think of one instance where a man screwed over a woman and didn’t know…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:33 PM
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Women outnumber men at universities and colleges so of course women hold more student debt. Prove to me that humanities degrees are useless. Prove to me that women get humanities degrees in order to feel entitled to educated men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:27 PM
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Not blowing smoke up your ass! I’m serious!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:25 PM
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What you said in your comment. It’s a great comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:25 PM
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It’s men who tell each other to man up and who shun weak men socially, it’s not women. It’s also not our job to take care of men’s mental health or your emotional health. Go take up this issue with the Chads, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:16 PM
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You chose the job you’re doing. You could have picked a different career. No one is holding a gun to your head forcing you to do this work. You CHOOSE to put yourself at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:15 PM
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What does that have to do with how people answer questions differently depending on the medium through which it’s asked? We’re also not talking about being attracted to “things”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:12 PM
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If you can use Reddit, you are capable of using Google or another search engine to find said statistics yourself. I don’t believe you’ve served time. I think you’re just saying that because you don’t want to be outdone by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:10 PM
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Just want to say that I laugh at all the sexless men out there who can’t get a woman. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Have fun being miserable. I know I enjoy it because I DO like seeing men suffer just as much as you like seeing women suffer, probably even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:04 PM
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Your wife could have died in pregnancy, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:01 PM
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Men need to socialize me to do that. Why are t you out doing that instead of complaining that women aren’t doing it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:57 PM
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Men need to make it happen then. Women don’t decide what constitutes masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:55 PM
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Why aren’t you giving empathy to these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:52 PM
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This isn’t a forum for men, though. Men don’t own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:50 PM
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Agree with you. I would only get in a relationship with a man who wanted a woman in a support role and could provide me with the kind of lifestyle I wanted plus great sex. He’d have to be brilliant and worth my contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:45 PM
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So true. Men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:43 PM
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I agree with you. That’s why I don’t want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:42 PM
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Holy shit…you have helped me so much today LoomingCrimson. You’ve given me words to describe what I do in relationships, I subjugate myself to a power dynamic for the sake of efficiency. I was JUST about to do this with a man I’m really attracted to. I need to now curl up in the foetal position and block him everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:39 PM
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Uh, if you’re thinking about communication in a relationship in terms of a debate you are missing the point. But i agree with point number 3. Usually it’s the man who believes the woman is above him and he acts out due to being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:35 PM
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No woman looking for a quality husband will be attracted to a guy who calls himself Lil Baby either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:02 PM
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I’m a suburban mom and I don’t want to be like Kylie and Kim, with the exception of having all their money. Most other suburban moms I know are too busy and educated to bother with celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:01 PM
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SMILE! I completely fell for a man a couple of months ago because of his beautiful smile 😍. He stopped smiling at me once he found out I was more educated than him and owned my home but I enjoyed the attention while it lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:57 PM
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Destroy them. Ban them. Make them illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:56 PM
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The womem’s World Cup finals gets more views than the men’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:56 PM
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Ask men that question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:55 PM
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Are you kidding? After a child learns to walk they still have to be potty trained and trained not to touch dangerous stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:54 PM
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No we didn’t specialize. You’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:52 PM
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Your mom did not deserve poverty for cheating on your dad. No one deserves to live in poverty. Your dad also left you to live in poverty too, meaning he doesn’t love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:51 PM
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Almost all women lose their looks after having a child so no woman can trust a man. If I marry, my man will have to wear a chastity belt for me to believe he doesn’t cheat in these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:50 PM
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What she said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:48 PM
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Because boys learn bad behaviour from popular culture and observing men and boys around them. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:47 PM
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You mean “was the kid raised well?” Grammar, young man, grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:46 PM
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I want to be. I just want him to want me to be dependent on him. My mother is dependent on my father for money but he doesn’t resent her, he serves her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:45 PM
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My mom told me there’s more to choosing a man than his looks and nodded pointedly at my father, who makes a lot of money. My brothers—even the gay one—had no problems getting women even with my mom’s advice to love women. My son is severely autistic. I’d never lie to him and say he’s going to get a wife as he wouldn’t understand, and he’s also never going to get a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:43 PM
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Right you are. The men on this sub certainly lack intellectual prowess, don’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:41 PM
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Women actually get more time in jail than men for crimes despite men being more dangerous to society and more likely to reoffend. I am a criminal, btw, I know more about this than you. I bet you haven’t even been arrested, been in jail or had a bail hearing. Bet you have never had to retain a lawyer. I bet you couldn’t stab someone if you had to either, even to save your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:39 PM
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We pay the bills via having babies. You can’t have babies, you’re incapable of the God-like feat of human life creation so you have NO CHOICE but to pay bills. Be a man and suck it up. Man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:36 PM
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My aunt and uncle are 70 and have been together since 23 and they have never married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:33 PM
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Oh my god, 17milestoempty, I LOVE your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:32 PM
2

And???? I don’t see the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:30 PM
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It doesn’t. The men my age who want women in their 20s are usually losers in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:29 PM
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This is the best comment I’ve ever read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:28 PM
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No, I don’t. I feel sorry for them because the world is so much worse for women now than in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:26 PM
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Okay. I don’t see why you want me to try to convince you to date an AF/BB woman. I don’t think one would want you and I don’t think you’d be compatible with her even if she did, which is why I think she wouldn’t want you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:54 PM
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Hell no. He pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:52 PM
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An Iranian girl has the highest IQ ever recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:51 PM
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That’s not true. Men will let it out when they feel comfortable testing you to see how much abuse you’ll take, and they usually do that when they feel they have your interest locked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:47 PM
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It’s not our job to help you succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:31 PM
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What’s wrong with wanting to ensure we’re with a man who makes us feel good about ourselves and about being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:29 PM
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I recently told a man exactly why I soured on him and his response was “never contact me again, you have nothing to say that I want to hear” and he insulted my appearance. This is why we don’t tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:27 PM
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There aren’t any undamaged men because all men watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:20 PM
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Men don’t love women at all. They only love the perceived personal benefits they get from having a woman devoted to them, and then pretend it’s real love in order to gaslight us into having relationships with them. Men don’t experience feelings the same way women do, you are stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:18 PM
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It’s normal for people to want to date within their ethnicity and race. If wanting to be with a white man makes me a white supremacist, I really don’t give a fuck. You aren’t entitled to white women. Go find an Asian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:16 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:13 PM
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Never done it, don’t know anyone who has done it, don’t know anyone who would do it. I don’t know where you’re hearing this from but whomever it is is making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:11 PM
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That’s right. Femininity isn’t natural, it’s a social construct. Gender is entirely made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:42 PM
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Men are lazy, porn-addicted, riddled with student debt and useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:41 PM
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Wrong. Modern feminism is about female emancipation, same as it has always been. Men like you just like to make up lies about feminism as an excuse to be misogynists. I don’t support non-white men anymore in their anti-racism endeavours because it doesn’t benefit me if non-white men gain power but continue to treat women like shit. I will, however, support non-white women, white women and white men in gaining more power and money but not MOC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:40 PM
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You’re blaming a woman for not returning a text you sent two weeks after getting her number because you were stoned? Suggestion 1. Get off the pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:37 PM
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Tell the woman up front you aren’t paying then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:34 PM
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Maybe she’s just smiling at you because she thinks you’re a good guy? You’re only skeptical of her motives because you’re not a good guy. I can’t believe you sit through dates SEETHING that you’re paying for her meal. How can that possibly lead to good times or a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:32 PM
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Emotional labour is really administrative labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:27 PM
2

Great comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:22 PM
0

When men provide 50% of reproductive labour, childcare, house care and administrative work and never watch porn AND don’t pay us less, we can discuss 50-50. Right now you should be more concerned with how much cleaning y’all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:21 PM
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No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:10 PM
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Yes, I care. I don’t want to be with a man who has had ONS or FWB because it shows he doesn’t care about women’s emotions or sexual pleasure. I also wouldn’t be with a man who has had threesomes or other group sex, has had anal sex or engaged in BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:09 PM
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But you said the shift of responsibility for EVERYTHING is to the man. You don’t mean EVERYTHING, you mean the second most important set of jobs, which are the only ones men can do, the male jobs. The most important jobs are beyond male capabilities. Acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:18 PM
1

Yes, we want a man who makes us feel good. That is the number one requirement.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/22 01:16 AM
1

Are you saying women don’t benefit at all from red pilled OR blue pilled men? What kind of men are left after we eliminate those?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:05 AM
1

So you think it would be a bad idea for a woman to have a relationship with a red pilled guy? I can see the benefits to blue pilled men, so can most women, that’s why they get snapped up and husbanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:02 AM
1

Childbirth and childcare is the biggest hardship and responsibility in any marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:00 AM
1

What pill are the men who right in the middle? Not too boring but not super exciting? That’s really my cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:59 AM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:57 AM
1

Men don’t need to announce they’re red pill, you can tell by their behaviour, if they try to get you to chase them , how much they invest in you up front, their other political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:57 AM
2

I was of the understanding that red pill claims women don’t know what we really want and that we’re happier when men act like Alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:51 AM
8

I don’t want the kind of man who can have side bitches. I don’t want a man who uses the word bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:48 PM
3

Not true. A man was super nice to me for the first two months I knew him. Then one day he was such an asshole that I broke it off. He was an Olympic level asshole. I think he thought I might want to finally sleep with him after that because I hadn’t asked him after he had been nice. Really, I had been waiting for him to ask me. You sure you had been nice or had you just been passive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:47 PM
2

You forgot “scary”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:41 PM
8

They’ll be too lazy for that. They’ll use a sex chatbot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:22 PM
10

A single mom with four nights free, meaning no childcare, a month, is about right. The rest of the time you’d have to bring date night to her. Make her and her children dinner, watch a movie with them or shows, all go for a walk, then you can have some alone time after the kids go to bed. If you hate that single moms have so little time to go out on the town with you, I suggest you start getting on the case of single dads to get off their lazy asses and contribute, to stop being a misogynist and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:21 PM
4

It’s not all men but it’s ALWAYS men. ALWAYS the men. Women have good reason to be concerned about their safety when they’re around men, and no man deserves the benefit of the doubt. When a violent crime happens, 99% of the time, the perpetrator is a man. Who gives a shit what race he is? A male is a male is a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:09 PM
1

How would a woman know the difference? You tell me! That’s what I’m trying to find out!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:03 PM
2

Can’t men be like that and not be red-pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:01 PM
0

I don’t believe in either the blue pill or the red pill. I believe it ALL matters. I think looks, status and income need to be factored in but I think personality plays an enormous role. There’s no reason a blue-pilled man can’t be attractive, well-off or successful. Nor is there any reason why a red-pilled guy can’t have a charming personality and be fun to be with. I’m talking about in terms of how red pilled versus blue pilled men function in relationships, what they expect their role to enta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:59 PM
2

Give me specifics!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:52 PM
3

Why would women be more attracted to red pill guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:51 PM
7

Red pill isn’t the same as traditional values though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:50 PM
9

What about red pill could possibly be good if women don’t get anything they want in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:49 PM
2

I don’t see any problem with substituting race for biological sex in this context. However, you need to understand that while Black people DO commit more violent crimes per capita in the US, that stat only exists because Black MEN are committing those crimes, not “Black people” it’s “Black men.” When you say “Black people” it gives the impression that Black women are also committing a lot of violent crimes and that isn’t true. White men commit far far far more violent crimes than Black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:32 PM
1

You understand what I’m asking! Do you think red pill would be the best way to keep your family together?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:17 PM
2

But what about the men who apply red pill to their marriages? It’s not just a sexual strategy anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:12 PM
1

Red-pilled men disagree with you, though. They believe the red pill leads to better marriages, more secure relationships and better harmony between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:03 PM
10

Are you saying that being with a red-pilled man requires less effort and commitment on the women’s end? Does that mean I don’t have to put as much effort into my appearance or have sex as often, or do as much housework? Does it mean I have more time for my own friends, hobbies and career? Does it mean he won’t expect me to put his career first or move if he gets a promotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:59 PM
1

It’s to get the most benefits out of women for the least amount of financial investment, investment in time and least amount of kindness for the purposes of having a long term or short term relationship that is built on the man dealing with the women in bad faith. By that, I mean, he doesn’t care how she feels, doesn’t care about her personality, doesn’t care how he affects her life, he sees her as a tool to manipulate and control in order to satisfy his own needs rather than as a person who des…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:36 PM
2

Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:31 PM
1

Women don’t terrorize men. Domestic violence is also known as “coercive control” and that’s something men solely do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:30 PM
1

Red pill DOES say to terrorize women. Terrorism isn’t solely violence. The term “domestic abuse” doesn’t mean just violence. Do you understand that? You seem to have the belief that all behaviour is justified, excusable, legal and moral if it’s not physically harming a woman when that couldn’t be further from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:29 PM
1

Yes, I know red pill attracts misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:26 PM
2

I understand their perspective. Red pill men have bad personalities, no morals and no character, they can’t get a woman to like them because they have no merit so they resort to psychological abuse and justify it with their mistaken beliefs of male superiority and male entitlement. Red pill men are radicalized terrorists no different than Jihadis, no different than social justic warriors who believe they have to berate you into wokeness. They believe their cause is righteous and they turn to fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:25 PM
1

It’s the men who try red pill stuff with me who end up crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:22 PM
1

Why would I be relieved to learn that red pill men want to use me for sex? It’s a huge insult to any woman if a red pill man wants anything to do with her. I want red pill men to see me and be able to tell that their games wouldn’t work on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:18 PM
0

Men know women feel like shit when being subjected to red pill bullshit. That should be enough for them never to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:09 PM
2

I don’t know what he means. I want to know why he sees women like objects. Men also aren’t entitled to variety. I don’t know why you think you’re so amazing you deserve multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:08 PM
2

Women don’t see men the way you suggest we do. We don’t see men as wallets. We also don’t want to experiment with men with different levels of wealth. I want every man I’m involved with to be financially solvent and generous with what he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:06 PM
1

Misandry doesn’t exist. You also don’t know what the expression “high horse” means based on your incorrect usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:04 PM
4

Group complicity? What’s that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:03 PM
2

So men see women as objects and possessions? You see us all as being some sort of “model” of woman rather than as individuals? What constitutes low mileage? For example, I played a hell of a lot of sports as a young woman and surely covered a lot of ground distance wise. Does that mean I was “low mileage”? I’m 5’5 with natural auburn hair. What “model” am I? Why shouldn’t I just hold out for a man who sees me as a human rather than a model of car he wants to try out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:43 PM
1

I like how you think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:46 AM
2

You’re right JupiterJazzX. I’m a woman and I agree with you. You should always take another person’s feelings into account before imparting personal information about yourself to them, and you should do it in a way that’s not just honest, but is a good way to create rapport. Some life events make more suitable choices to be open about versus others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:44 AM
1

I don’t think you’re really an AidsVictim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:38 AM
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Decimated means to reduce by 10%. Where does she say she wishes to do that? It would sure be nice to have them eliminated, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:36 AM
5

Give me a traditionalist over a modernist. “Equal” doesn’t mean giving men the benefit of the doubt when they commit most of the violent crimes against both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:26 AM
5

So women are like cars, not like people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:24 AM
1

Do men really feel that way about other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:19 AM
1

A man’s existence is invalid if a woman doesn’t approve of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:18 AM
2

I hear you. If I can leave a situation I do, but that’s not always possible and I don’t usually taunt them but I am doing it to this one guy because he really screwed me over. I also do really want to tell his wife. I go back and forth on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:17 AM
1

You’re a virulent, raging, close-minded misogynistic. That’s why you don’t believe a word I say. There’s also nothing feminist about what I wrote. Feminine, yes. Feminist, no. How many cocks in a carousel, btw. You haven’t answered that. Also, what’s wrong with me actually wanting to like the personality of, and have an emotional connection with, the man whose dick I’m going to ride? How is that feminist? You need to contact a program called Project ReSet. You’re hugely radicalized and I really …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:15 AM
2

Yeah women don’t do shorter guys because men always have complexes about that. They ask you not to wear heels and they develop this king of the castle attitude and try to “put you in your place” as a woman. I was just recently into a guy who was about 5’8, I’m 5’5, and he ended up completely being like that. I’m so disappointed. Did you know it’s actually easier to have sex with a shorter man than a tall one? Best sex I’ve ever had was with a man who was 5’6. Worst sex was with a man who was 6’2…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:09 AM
2

Guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:02 AM
1

So you ARE looking for a wife but you tell women you just want sex so they have low expectations? Am I understanding you correctly? That’s shitty too. By doing that you’re going to miss out on getting to know a lot of women because most women just aren’t down for sex. How about just telling the woman “sorry, but I’m not feeling it anymore” when you’ve decided to downgrade her to just a sexual relationship and cut it off? It’s okay to lose feelings for a woman or not see her as marriage material,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:02 AM
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Women leave men who are disrespectful, emotionally neglectful, don’t do housework or childcare and watch porn. At least 50% of divorces happen today because the man watches porn. I personally wouldn’t stay in a relationship with a habitual porn user. In fact, I wouldn’t even start a relationship with a habitual porn user. Women DO NOT leave a good guy because another man comes along who is hotter or because we crave a different penis size. We leave men who are assholes to us. The only reason you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:55 AM
0

I like to fuck with men like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:59 PM
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You’re absolutely right. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I’m personally pretty vengeful so when I meet a man I try to get something on him that I can pull out afterwards to humiliate him or bring him down if he tries to play “fuck around and find out” with me. However, I’ll be super sweet and nice and non-threatening prior so they NEVER see it coming. Right now I have one man by the BALLS. I hold his marriage and his relationship with his kids in my hands and it feels GOOD to remind him …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:53 PM
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You’re just repeating shit you’ve read online. I’m an actual woman who has lived through my 20s and known lots of hot women in their 20s and I don’t know any woman who has wanted to ride the cock carousel. Also, how many cocks constitute a carousel? Do you know what’s more important than a cock? It’s the man attached to it. Dicks aren’t interchangeable like you seem to think they are. I know you see vaginas as all the same, as interchangeable, but women don’t see men that way. A man recently, on…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:49 PM
1

The hot sexy women they sleep with are hoping for relationships. They’re hoping they’ll give him such mind blowing sex that he’ll want a relationship. They think this way because so many hot women are only given attention for their looks so they come to believe that being hot and giving up sex early is the only way to get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:38 PM
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I do. I have seen women have ONS in an attempt to get a relationship and have FWB to get a relationship. These women believe they need to get their foot in the door via casual sex or FWB because they have such low self-esteem they can’t imagine a man would meet them and see them as relationship material right off the bat. That’s usually because they’ve been tricked into having sex in the past by a man, or men, who said they wanted relationships. The best thing a woman can do is make a man wait f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:36 PM
2

I don’t know any woman like that either. Every woman I know is hoping for a relationship and the ones who agree to FWB or one-night stands simply have low self-esteem and believe no man would ever want them for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:33 PM
2

Hahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:31 PM
4

Lying by omission is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:30 PM
0

That’s true. How about you just not use women? Then that wouldn’t happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:29 PM
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Friends have emotional attachments to each other. Friends with benefits means you have the emotional attachment that you would with a friend but you have sex. It’s not “zero emotional attachment.” I can’t have sex without emotional attachment. Wouldn’t want to either. I’m better than that and it’s emotionally unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:27 PM
1

Strategic Ambiguity is rape. You can’t get real consent for sex when you use it so you’re saying men should be able to be ambiguous in order to get consent for sex. That means lying, and lying to get sex is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:25 PM
1

That only works if the man is dealing with the woman in good faith. Most men don’t deal with women in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:23 PM
1

Are you the man or the woman? Also, if fighting has been going on for a long time you can’t expect one repair attempt to fix it. You have to make living amends meaning you have to be on your best behaviour for the rest of your life to rebuild trust. If you’re the woman, just dump him, get as much money from him as possible and I know it’s very likely his fault and you aren’t being respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:22 PM
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It depends. Depends on the couple. Depends also on whether the man watches porn. Men who watch porn lose attraction to their partners and become less committed to their relationships because porn is simply cheating. If a man has porn as a sexual outlet he won’t have as much incentive to stay on good terms with or be attractive for his old lady. He’ll also use porn as a coping message to get a dopamine fix when they have a bad day together and he’ll become addicted. That’s more likely if he drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:20 PM
1

There shouldn’t be “fighting” just “discussing.” All disagreements should be civilly discussed without ego or entitlement. Some people have learned and do believe that couples are meant to fight and bicker and thus they do it in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:16 PM
1

It’s usually because the man is a misogynist and feels entitled to certain things from a woman because he’s “the man.” My advice for men on this is to “stop believing you’re entitled to anything and see women as human and just as entitled as you.” And my advice for women in this situation is “dump him, get a divorce, move on, he won’t change, you’re powerless in this scenario.” Now if it’s because of addiction in either party my advice is “break up, divorce, etc.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:15 PM
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The OP did suggest a way of qualifying and vetting a woman—talking to her and getting to know her. All he’s suggesting is that you have normal conversations with her rather than interrogating her with “what do you bring to the table?” I think you’re deliberately missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:13 PM
3

They DO smoke a LOT of weed. My senior citizen Muslim neighbours from Iran smoke weed. So do their kids and entire extended family that they have over all the time. I REALLY like them a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:06 PM
2

Thinking in absolutes is one of your problems, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:04 PM
8

As a woman, this man sounds totally normal to me and like someone I’d want to be with, based on this post and his responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:03 PM
3

What do you expect to be a list of women’s offerings?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:02 PM
8

It shows the woman isn’t going to put up with asshole men. Meets a guy, sleeps with him, he turns out to be an asshole so she dumps him. What you mean is that women with a higher number of sex partners are less likely to put up with long-term male bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:02 PM
6

No you don’t. Stop lying. Most men don’t get the opportunity for variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:00 PM
2

Great post! You’re going to find it hard to talk sense to red pill men. They think they know it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:53 PM
2

You’re gaslighting her. Women still do more housework. Boomer men do more housework than Gen Z men or millennial men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:49 PM
3

He ABSOLUTELY just changed his mind. Glad you called that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:47 PM
2

Yikes. So much to unpack here that I don’t know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:47 PM
-1

Men get baggage as they age. Holy hell do they ever. Who wants to be with a man who is better about his ex getting the kids and the house? I’d rather be dead than listen to that sort of whining, I don’t care how much money the motherfucker has. If a man can’t bring peace to a relationship he is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:44 PM
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Yo buddy. No one is requiring you to have relationships with women. If you don’t think you’ll get anything out of it stick to your male friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:41 PM
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Did you make that video? It’s long but I’m curious but I’d prefer a rundown of the strategy. As a woman, it’s so easy to know which men like you. The ones who do will smile and/or raise their eyebrows. I haven’t been to a club for years but all you do is look around, if a man likes how you look, chances are he’s already seen you so he’ll notice when you look at him and smile. Smile back, look away quickly and look back. Wait for him to approach. If he doesn’t approach you know he’s not actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:29 PM
11

You are radicalized. Seek help with Project Reset
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:09 PM
-1

Or they could become nice people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:04 PM
1

Oh my god….you are so mentally healthy MonkeIsLoveLife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:02 PM
3

Oh my God. I feel the same way about this sub but I come here to practice controlling my temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:01 PM
-4

Men care more about status than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:16 PM
4

Men produce a lot of sperm because you don’t do a good job at it. Most have two tails or can’t swim properly, etc., only like 1/a billion is good. You don’t produce a lot of sperm because you’re meant to spread your seed everywhere, you produce a lot because you’re bad at making good sperm. The quality control at the factory is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:15 PM
1

No it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:12 PM
11

They mean a woman with visible pores or a slight bump on her nose. Maybe she has split ends or she’s wearing glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:10 PM
21

You’re wrong. Women LOVE getting positive attention. It’s just that “hey baby I want to cum in your ass” is not positive attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:08 PM
2

LTRs are vastly superior. If you can’t get a women to stick around it means you’re a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:07 PM
6

That’s not true. Men can ruin attraction by saying or doing something stupid, racist, ignorant or sexist and many men DO ruin attraction that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:06 PM
3

We sure can control our urges. I’m insanely attracted to a man right now but I am not in a position to date anyone at the moment because I have a complicated life. I DO control my urges around him but I don’t want to. I make sure I’m not alone with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:04 PM
-3

I wouldn’t even think about it. If he got FOMO, I’d simply divorce rape him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:05 AM
3

Uh…no. It was such an awkward experience I try not to think about it. Besides, men pair bond with hundreds of thousands of porn stars, the brain doesn’t see masturbating to porn any different than having real sex so it’s actually men who are the ones incapable of pair bonding. Why would I bother getting attached to a man who is just going to cheat on me with porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:04 AM
2

You’d get more pleasure from heroin in the eye than penis in the vagina, that is a guarantee. Heroin, I understand, is a WONDERFUL experience. That’s why it’s so addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:32 PM
2

Right? I’m on the same page as you. I’m in my 40s, I’m sober, I don’t have sex and I don’t date. I’m not opposed to it but I’m not going to go out and have sex just for the sake of it. If a porn-free, suitable man came along, I’d consider it after screening him for several months if we formed an emotional bond and were entering into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:31 PM
2

I prefer masturbation to men because I’ll always orgasm, and it’s less effort and risk than finding and screening a man. The only reason for me to have sex with an actual human male is if I have an emotional connection with him and want to use sex as a bonding experience. Haven’t had sex in nine years and I’m not sure if I will again. I have yet to find a man who doesn’t watch porn. Really, why would I want a man dripping sweat and cum on me when he’d most likely just be using me as a hole and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:27 PM
1

Relationships usually end because of the man’s behaviour. After the relationship ends, he’ll either realize he fucked up and change OR he’ll be bitter and misogynistic. Both mean it’s harder for him to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:19 PM
1

I’m an asshole of a woman and so I like asshole men. We understand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:17 PM
1

Mutual respect and mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:16 PM
1

You’ll lose female friends over it because you’re saying something derogatory about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:15 PM
1

And why would you lose friends for having that attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:14 PM
1

A man’s height is not comparable to a woman’s virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:13 PM
3

Sex isn’t a resource. No one wants a partner who sees their genitals as a resource rather than seeing them as a whole person:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:12 PM
0

No, it’s not hypocritical. How is a woman’s history of partners and a man’s lack of history of partners remotely comparable? Not the same thing at all. Lots of partners=Good social skills No partners=Bad social skills unless remaining a virgin on purpose So you say men can judge women for having good social skills if women judge men for having bad social skills. Nope. Your logic doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:11 PM
2

So true. Men are more attractive in person than on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:08 PM
7

Seems like men are losing interest in having sex and prefer watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:06 PM
3

You’re too judgmental. You can’t expect women to be mind-readers. Personally, I judge men by what they masturbate to. If any of the women are sluts and appear in porn, I say these men are for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:05 PM
2

That’s bullshit. I’m so interested in this man now but I didn’t notice him for like the first four weeks I knew him. You do not know how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:46 PM
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It felt AMAZING to feel desired again. So yeah, it was AMAZING. Got me out of that terrible relationship I was in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:45 PM
1

You’re not ugly. You’ve got good facial symmetry, a nicely shaped head, you’re attractive. I think you lack confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:39 PM
2

Wait until a woman is interested in you and THEN approach her. Don’t approach women who aren’t interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:37 PM
1

This is bullshit. Women LOVE men who pay attention to them and make them feel like queens. If a woman doesn’t appreciate you treating her well, simply next her and find one who does. Treating a woman with indifference is a sure way for her to stop giving you any attention. Healthy people like people who like them. Also, men: SMILE MORE. There’s nothing I like more than to see a well-groomed man smile at me. SMILE.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:36 PM
0

You forgot TALENTED.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:30 PM
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“Tall” is often a dog whistle for “white”. It’s not but so what if it were to be? It’s 100% okay to be racist when dating. I only date white men and I am white, and I absolutely don’t owe anyone an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:30 PM
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Don’t look for women on OLD apps. What women—and men—like on apps is very different to what we like in real life. On an app, I’d definitely only swipe on the tallest, best looking men with the best careers but IRL you can meet a guy in person who is shorter, less educated, not six figures in salary and think “hey this guy is pretty damn sexy and amazing.” Get off the Internet, get outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:26 PM
0

I just want to drop in to say I really like your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:20 PM
1

You don’t have to be fat to have sleep apnea. I have it because I have a genetic disease that makes my connective tissue weaker and my airway collapse when I’m sleeping and I inherited it from my father. I understand that many people who have sleep apnea are fat but often people are not tested for sleep apnea until you they’re older and fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:19 PM
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I love fishing so I agree with you. I have an ex who was an avid fly fisherman and like me, he also loved camping, canoeing, hiking. However, would you swipe right on a woman showing off her huge fish?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:53 PM
1

Being non-binary or a trans man is offensive? If she pretended to be trans she could easily get sterilized, no questions asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:11 PM
1

I was just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:10 PM
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If a woman is single at 30 it’s probably because she was in an LTR in her 20s that didn’t end up working out. Your assumption that a 30-year-old single woman spent her 20s being pumped and dumped is just stupid. If a woman was single at 30 and didn’t have an LTR in her 20s, chances are it’s because she’s shy and/or socially awkward. Again, most women do not sleep around that much. Also, if a woman has been jaded by other men I honestly couldn’t see how it would affect you so long as you don’t fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:09 PM
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As a woman, yes it is. I’m one of the reasons why. I’m one of those annoying women who changed her mind later on about having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:04 PM
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I agree but I was just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:03 PM
1

Looking for a life partner would turn men off?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:03 PM
1

Yeah, if you want biological children of course you have to get with a pre-menopausal woman. However, if a man is 50, hasn’t had kids, I think he needs to accept he’s missed the boat on kids rather than get with a 20-something or 30-something to use her as a broodmare. That’s because at that point there’s such a large age gap that it’s exploitative and also because a man who is much older than a woman cannot offer her the true companionship of growing old together and thus having a life together…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:59 PM
1

Just basing it on the men I know who are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:52 PM
1

Then The Wall doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:51 PM
1

No, that’s men who did that. Men pressure women to give up virginity and have casual sex in the name of sexual liberation and say “you have to do it or you’re not a feminist.” However, one thing modern feminism has done is remove the stigma of having premarital sex, and has also removed the notion that losing your virginity fundamentally changes a woman or makes us lesser than a virgin—it doesn’t. You are mistaken if you believe that to be the case. Men have weaponised feminism and unfortunately…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:50 PM
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No, western women did. Women literally created every single human being in the West. The Pope was created by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:20 PM
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I could but I come here to practice controlling my temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:19 PM
1

I’m here to practice controlling my anger when faced with virulent misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:19 PM
1

You don’t? I’ve been searching for a man IRL who doesn’t watch porn and I haven’t found one. Why don’t you watch porn? What is it that makes you steer clear of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:18 PM
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Sorry, I assumed you were one of the guys who couldn’t tell the difference. I’ve been the woman in this scenario, where I’ve wanted someone I work with, been more than workplace friendly but he wasn’t interested, AND he retained my admiration afterwards. He retained my admiration because I genuinely admired him as a person. Being rejected does suck as a woman but for me, being rejected isn’t going to make me become hostile towards a man I like or result in me disliking him, not unless he laughed…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:14 PM
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Likewise! Also, I don’t know about you but I’m just not physically attracted to enough men to be a Ho. Very occasionally a man will give me the tingles when I first meet him, but more often than not, the tingles develop as I get to know a man and by the time we do sleep together the relationship is anything but casual. I guess men walk around in public thinking “oh my god, I’d sleep with her! And her! And her! Oh God and Her! Her! Her! And her! She’s a little old but I’d do her too! Same with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:00 PM
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No, they’re not. All men watch porn, even in relationships so there’s zero point to women having romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:28 AM
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No, it’s about men wanting to own women and not wanting to be compared to other men. It’s 100% misogynistic and selfish. No decent man uses the word “pussy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:27 AM
1

The women you believe admire you probably aren’t admiring you they’re just being friendly because it’s a workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:26 AM
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Yep! GO AND DON’T COME BACK. Western women literally created Western civilization and want don’t want you ungrateful bastards here!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:23 AM
1

I would love to see this sub disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:22 AM
1

That’s a question for men, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:10 AM
1

They used you as a dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:12 PM
1

Sounds like he’s lying and the fact he says late 30s is old sounds like a neg to me. MAGA Latino obviously didn’t have a good male role model growing up. I bet his dad was a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:11 PM
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Why are you encouraging pedophilia? You shouldn’t be going after girls at all, let alone young ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:10 PM
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“Men are simple.” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 “Men don’t have baggage.” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:06 PM
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No, you encouraged men to use older women as sex objects and you dehumanized older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:05 PM
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Having sex with one older woman is not “killing it with older woman.” I can tell you that my panties are very dry after encountering your comments and I haven’t even hit menopause yet. You’re so unappealing reading your comments may have destroyed my ability to naturally lubricate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:04 PM
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“Just use older women.” “Just prey on older women.” Fuck you MAGA Latino. As an older woman I don’t want younger men, especially for casual sex because I don’t want casual sex. Also, if I did it wouldn’t be with an ugly, poor and immature younger man who watches porn when there are plenty of attractive, financially secure men my age and up to 10 years old who also watch porn BUT learned to have sex and pleasure a woman before Internet porn became widely available. Younger guys who can’t get laid…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:00 PM
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Men aren’t different than women when it comes to sex. Men are just greedy and entitled. Porn is definitely cheating. I don’t have sex anymore because I haven’t found a man who doesn’t watch porn in over 10 years and I don’t want to have sex with a porn user. Porn makes me more misogynistic so they become more likely to rape, which is one reason why I don’t have sex anymore. I also have a really high libido and would want sex everyday, maybe even more than that however every porn-watching man I’v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:40 PM
2

But a woman’s sex drive is higher in her 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:55 PM
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“Dating” for women means looking for a relationship so yes it’s different when women date multiple men at once because we’re looking for a suitable life partner to commit to. By contrast, men see “dating” as having casual sex so yes it’s worse when men conceal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:53 PM
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Having a Ho phase is not empowering. That’s just a line men say to try to trick women into sleeping around so the men get more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:51 PM
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A “hoe” is a gardening and farming tool. I’d say on average women get into gardening and plants more often than men and at an earlier age but gardening is often popular with senior men who are in good physical condition. I think you mean “Ho.” Most women don’t have a “Ho” phase. I avoid men who believe this and I avoid men who are hos. Men who have a Ho phase later in life are having a mental health problem called a “mid-life crisis” and also should be avoided in favour of men whose mid-life cri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:49 PM
5

That’s not true. Women are far hornier at 30 than at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:42 PM
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It’s just a thing men made up as an excuse to be assholes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:38 PM
2

Why don’t you pretend to be a trans man or non-binary so you can easily get a hysterectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:38 PM
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Everyone ages, both women and men. However, mature adults who are emotionally and sexually healthy and developmentally normal are attracted to people within their age range and seek relationships with people in their age range so “The Wall” really only exists for pedophiles, and emotionally and sexually aberrant older men who want to exert sexual power over a younger woman. “The Wall” really is a misogynistic construct designed to give women anxiety and fear about aging to get us to settle for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:36 PM
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🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:22 PM
1

Men who are secure in their masculinity don’t believe in the concept of a “slut” because they’re emotionally mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:16 PM
2

So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:16 PM
1

It doesn’t mean it’s appropriate for them to pursue younger women. We don’t get everything we want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:15 PM
2

That’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:13 PM
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My father is a fit, healthy doctor. Sadly he found he was most desirable to women he was in his 20s. He just didn’t experience that supposed surge in female attention in his 30s, 40s or 50s. Neither have my successful brothers. However, one of them who is very, very fit, triathlete fit, told me the most female attention he ever attracted was in his late 20s as a chemistry grad student when he was very buff with visible abs and low body fat. He also went bald early too. Get a hot bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:14 PM
1

Become an alcoholic and then go to AA. You’ll meet tons of people. Alcoholics are social people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:08 PM
1

Did your dad successfully date as a teen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:07 PM
1

I’d be fine with it. A lot of kids don’t date in high school. In fact, I think teens spend too much time worrying about dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:06 PM
1

I don’t find men UGLY UGLY unless they have poor hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:05 PM
1

No. You should be leveraging real life contacts to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:04 PM
1

I don’t know and I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:03 PM
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Older men who date younger women aren’t usually inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:03 PM
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So true. Most men who approach me with sexual interest are completely appropriate, and that’s because they learn to read the room .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:02 PM
4

What do you mean by being emotional? Do you mean angry? Learn to be stoic. We all have to do it, even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:01 PM
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If a male is deprived of social opportunities in adolescence it’s his own fault unless he has overbearing parents of a developmental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:00 PM
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Don’t watch porn. Get a good haircut. Learn how to read and use body language to your advantage Dump her if you aren’t feeling it and don’t string any woman along Sex in a long-term relationship is better than one night stands Get a job and pay for good dates. Date for a combo of good looks + good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:58 PM
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That’s because there’s a familiar for every witch 🧙‍♀️ 🐈‍⬛
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:56 PM
1

Well, I look like 80s popstar Tiffany crossed with Madonna. That’s not my assessment, but the assessment of another. I have been in long term relationships as an adult and had two kids but just never married as I have never wanted to become a man’s “property”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:55 PM
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Doesn’t really bother me. If they want to fuck me, the nicer they’ll be to me and the more allies and opportunities I’ll have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:51 PM
1

NOT ALL MEN. Gay men don’t feel that way. Neither do asexual men or men who are secure in their masculinity. You can’t generalize an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:50 AM
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No they’re actually happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:49 AM
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Evolutionary psychology is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:49 AM
6

You’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:48 AM
1

You seem obtuse and emotionally stunted. I think you are determined to miss the point. You will not convince me to have sex with men on their timetable. I’m way too old to fall for this BS. I haven’t had sex with a man in almost ten years and I can’t imagine letting down my guard to have sex with a man again. I came close a few years ago. Think of all the poor sexless men 10 to 15 years older than me who I could be relieving of their PAIN! (That’s because men my age obviously go for women in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:43 PM
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What’s the risk? The risk is pregnancy, STDs, being raped, beaten, not having an orgasm because sex with virtual strangers is not fun, it creates false intimacy and post-sex attachment, and if the man becomes attached to you and you don’t want more he could stalk you AND other men will brand you a slut and not want a relationship with you. Most women don’t feel good about themselves about one night stands so why do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:25 PM
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Then you wouldn’t demand a woman sleep with you as quickly as she slept with someone with whom she had casual sex. You’d understand that she wanted intimacy to develop naturally and not be artificially rushed by rushing into intercourse. Having intercourse too early will result in a false intimacy between a man and a woman and that false intimacy is why men have post-but clarity. They realize it was just a sexual urge they were acting on, not a true emotional bond, and they realize they don’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:23 PM
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Why do you assume a woman will do that in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:12 PM
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u/crookedsummer2019, just take a second to laugh at this guy calling sex “the most intimate thing”, then showing entitlement to casual sex and saying women are treating men badly if they only want sex inside committed relationships. What a piece of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:11 PM
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“The most intimate thing”. 😂 Do you really expect me to believe that men view sexual intercourse as “the most intimate thing” in the world? 😂 Holy shit, thanks for the laugh. A man who actually does view sexual imtercourse as “the most intimate thing” would respect a woman’s desire to wait to do “the most intimate thing.” Further, this kind of man would never watch porn, let alone masturbate to it. He definitely would not have one night stands or friends with benefits, the only sex he’d have wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:06 PM
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Women don’t develop feelings for a man overnight. Also, if a man cares about a woman he won’t mind waiting, and he certainly wouldn’t pull the “Well you slept with Tim after knowing him for a week but it’s been a month and you won’t sleep with me until you’re sure I have real feelings for you and am not just using you for sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:58 PM
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Most men don’t believe that they’re being treated better by a woman if she uses them for casual sex versus wanting a relationship with them. I don’t know where you get your info but it isn’t from life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:52 PM
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No, that’s not a good analogy. A better analogy would be if he makes you wait six months for the two of you to form a strong bond and a solid relationship before financially investing in you. I’d be fine with it. I’d see it as him being younger back then and learning from his past mistake of coming on too strong and investing too early in a relationship that didn’t end up working out, or trying to buy a woman’s love. Maybe he was irresponsible with money back then too. People change, priorities …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:18 PM
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No, I mean I would never have sex with a man who believed that engaging in casual sex was treating men well while having sex in a committed relationship was treating a man poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:56 PM
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Women have always wanted a guarantee. Don’t you want a guarantee you won’t be dumped for Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:47 PM
2

Sounds like you’re saying women are better off single with sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:44 PM
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Why do men think they get a say in how long they have to wait for a woman to want to sleep with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:28 PM
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So: -woman having sex with a man casually = good treatment woman having sex with man only in a committed relationship = bad treatment Yikes. It seems to me like all you want from women is sex. I would never in a million years have sex or a relationship with a man with your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:27 PM
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I have a few ideas: Say “I bet you think you’re so edgy for responding to me like that. Look at that smug smirk on your face.” Then I’d take a photo of him and say “I’m going to post this online and tell every single woman I know what you said to me so they’ll avoid you.” I’d laugh and say “oh I wasn’t asking you on a date! I have a boyfriend, I just thought you might be good for my friend Sarah and wanted to talk to you about meeting her but never mind that now.” Pull up my shirt and massage my…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:48 PM
1

He said she was too ugly for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:31 PM
2

My complaints about women is that they rely too much on group consensus and don’t think for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:19 PM
1

Men are more open-minded. Men are also more compassionate and less judgmental than women. But women have more empathy. However, compassion is better than empathy. The kindest most compassionate men are criminal lawyers and I am not kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:55 PM
1

No it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:53 PM
3

Good leadership qualities and strength =/= daddy vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:52 PM
1

Well, I don’t want to get married and I’m controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:50 PM
1

Guys should be genuinely confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:48 PM
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Really, how would you know if she treated that other guy better? You’re making assumptions based on zero evidence. When you assume you make an ass of u and me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:41 PM
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Why would you assume a woman would treat her “husband material” guy worse than the boyfriend she had a threesome with years earlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:22 PM
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And your expectations are unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:50 PM
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No, I don’t see how that can affect his self-esteem. You ought to be mature enough to realize that every relationship is different, that both women and men change as they age, and that if a woman doesn’t want to do a sexual act with you it’s because she finds it degrading, doesn’t think she’d enjoy it or tried it in the past and didn’t enjoy it. Would you really want your girlfriend to have anal sex with you because she tried it five years earlier with some other guy and hated it? Why would you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:49 PM
0

There’s no data to back up your assertions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:37 PM
1

I’ve had two geriatric pregnancies. That means I’m more likely to live to 100 than women who can’t get pregnant after 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:36 PM
1

YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:33 PM
1

Both are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:33 PM
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It’s not impossible. That’s the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:33 PM
1

Right now I’d feel comfortable dating ten years younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:32 PM
2

Why is her sex life all he needs to know about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:31 PM
1

Congratulations on your success! Wouldn’t you be glad to find out they make less money than you? Then you don’t have to waste your time. We know men who have lower salaries than their female partners get bitter, are more likely to cheat and be abusive. One of my exes became abusive after I started making more money than he did and he started expecting me to foot the bill for almost everything so of course I left him. Some men seek higher earning women to sponge off too They quit their jobs, say …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:30 PM
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No, you’re wrong. Group dynamics matter very much in interpersonal relationships. 1/3 of men abuse women they have relationships with, the vast majority of domestic violence is perpetrated by men against women and when it comes to coercive control, that is solely something men do to women. The reason men abuse women is because they believe they have the right to do it because they are a man and their wife or girlfriend is a woman. Domestic abusers rely very much on their feelings of masculinity …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:17 PM
1

Age does give you power over younger people because you can use the knowledge and experience you’ve acquired over the years against them to manipulate them. Men, if they understand female socialisation, can also use that to manipulate us. Women are raised to be compliant, agreeable and nice so it’s easy for men of all ages to take advantage and walk over us. Many women don’t get a backbone until they’ve been screwed around and thus women tend to become more confident and likely to say no and sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:06 PM
2

She wasn’t rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:57 PM
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But is it logical to equate your number of casual flings, or the number of women who have thrown themselves at you with how valuable you are? I know men in our culture are taught by other men that their ability to attract women is THE most important thing but if you examine that idea logically, you know damn well it isn’t. I can understand the fantasy of having a woman approach you and say “you are just so good looking, I have to have you NOW” is very appealing but real life isn’t like porn and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:57 PM
0

No we get heartbreak. We don’t get real intimacy for short term relationships either. We get feigned intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:27 PM
1

It’s meaningless to you because you don’t care if a man is broke, you’d happily pay all the bills and support him so long as he loved you. Well, I’m not like that. I want to know that a man isn’t going to do that to me. Also, I AM impressed by high salaries. It means he’s intelligent, he’s worked hard to get where he is and is thus likely conscientious, organized, makes good decisions AND if he tells me his salary hoping I’ll be impressed it means he wants my approval, which would mean he likes …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:26 PM
1

Tinder and OLD are unnatural and antisocial ways of meeting people. That’s why it doesn’t work for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:39 PM
1

You have to assess every guy as a potential threat. I had a great track record weeding out assholes until I turned 32. Then I misjudged one guy and he ended up practically holding me captive and the police weren’t much help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:38 PM
2

They swipe on every woman online. They don’t realize they’re less likely to get rejected if they meet a woman in person and actually talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:35 PM
1

Absolutely fair. Men aren’t being asked to do anything differently that their fathers weren’t asked to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:33 PM
1

THIS! My son is non-verbal and will never live independently and he’s going to go deaf. The autists on here are lucky their symptom set is mild.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:32 PM
1

Perhaps the term “geriatric pregnancy” is problematic and misleading. It was, after all, made up by a man. Men’s sperm lowers in quality as they age. Men over 35 who impregnate women are “geriatric fathers.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:29 PM
1

Women don’t really carry a candle for the “one who got away.” That’s something men do. Women are usually like “I’m glad that asshole is out of my life.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:19 PM
1

Why? It’s because they found they weren’t happy in the relationships they had with men when they had lower standards, so they raise them to ensure their next relationship is happier and with a more compatible mate. It’s called “learning from experience.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:17 PM
1

Tolerance has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:15 PM
1

I LOVE broad shoulders in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:10 PM
1

I don’t find it off-putting. It’s nice to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:09 PM
1

I’d drop her. You should never explain your standards to someone. You keep them to yourself, assess the other person and make a choice. It’s also weird that you asked her what she brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:08 PM
6

You’re viewing women as objects who exist to provide sex to men as a public service. And further, you have unrealistic demands and expectations of women. It is unrealistic and misogynistic to expect a woman to treat every single man EXACTLY the same way. We have ZERO obligation to do so, neither legal or moral. Those expectations don’t allow for us to be human, live freely and dictate the terms under which we will have sex. It doesn’t allow for women to make mistakes, it doesn’t allow for women …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:06 PM
-2

That’s because men get jealous when their wife earns more and they cheat and/or become abusive to try to assert dominance because they feel that as a man they should have the upper hand, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:42 PM
-1

Yes it is. It means she likes your personality, thinks you’re a good person, respects you and wants to mix your dna with hers to create new human beings, and wants you to be her exclusive sexual partner and companion for life. It means she wants to team up with you. It means she could see herself falling in love with you. That’s a much bigger compliment than just being wanted for a couple of hours of fooling around and for his oral sex skills. I don’t understand how you can think marriage and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:41 PM
-1

Have you considered how married life and adult life are different from teenaged life and college student life? Both of you have full time jobs, you have kids, you have lots of responsibilities, you’re exhausted. In most cases now, dead bedrooms happen because men watch porn and they don’t take their time to be good lovers with their wives, they treat her like a living fleshlight, and almost all women become intensely insecure when their partners watch porn because almost all women do not look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:32 PM
3

Women don’t benefit from short term flings. We almost always want them to turn into a relationship and we end up heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:23 PM
-7

Why do you think a woman’s sex life defines who she is? Why also is having an active sex life a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:21 PM
2

They will if they’re lonely, or if they feel they need a girlfriend to prove to others they can get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:19 PM
-4

The way you spoke to poppy_blu is unacceptable. “Think before you comment.” It sounds to me like you don’t have much respect for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:17 PM
4

They’re ultimately jealous of really hot, charismatic, well-off men who seem to have it all and they project their anger about it onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:16 PM
3

Women don’t get “run through”. That’s a male fallacy rooted in misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:15 PM
0

What’s wrong with a woman realizing her mating strategy hasn’t been successful, that she’s been responding to the wrong type of guys and changing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:14 PM
4

Women are human beings. We have no obligation to treat every man EXACTLY the same way. We are NOT a public service, we do not have to abide by human rights laws. We own our vaginas and get to decide who gets access to them AND we can use whatever criteria we want and use different criteria for different men. Really, you sound like you believe men should get to have sex with whichever women they want and with little to no effort. Why do you think that way? What is your reasoning for it? Also, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:07 PM
-3

Uh no. Age gap relationships are exploitative when men are older because men have systemic power in this society, and the older they get the more they are able to realize this power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:20 PM
7

Absolutely disagree and you are objectively wrong. Females in media undergo far more artifical cosmetic enhancements than men which proves your theory wrong. I am also probably old enough to be your mother and I remember the pre Internet porn era where men were happy enough to give me oral despite bushy pubic hair and didn’t ask me to remove it. Since 2008, the men I’ve been involved with have all had unrealistic expectations of how I should look whereas that didn’t happen in the 90s or early no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:18 PM
10

As a woman, looks are the number one thing I consider in a man for relationships and sex. I don’t have sex outside relationships so relationships and sex are one and the same for me. If I’m not attracted to someone I would not consider a relationship with them, even if they had all the other criteria I’m looking for. I find as I age that looks remain the number one factor in my attraction to men and so does youth. While younger I may have entertained bigger age gaps but if I were to do that now …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:10 PM
25

I find men who like vanilla sex have higher libidos because they aren’t pornsick. Vanilla sex is also more enjoyable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:13 PM
12

If this is true I guess I’d rather be single than be with most men. Vanilla sex is far far far more enjoyable for women than pornified sex so it’s really actually a compliment if a woman only wants vanilla sex with you. A woman’s past sex life is also not a man’s business.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:12 PM
4

Depends on the severity of the autism. My son is non-verbal so he is doomed in the dating world. I wish I could give him puberty blockers so he never experiences sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:47 PM
1

You’ve friendzoned yourself by not asking them oui to dinner. Ask them oui then bring out the intellectual chops on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:46 PM
2

Women have always been in the workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:44 PM
1

You can’t think of a single hindrance to someone losing weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:56 PM
1

Yes it does. You obviously don’t know what submission means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:49 PM
1

Why? Because men’s standards correlate with surgically altered and enhanced bodies seen in porn and in other media. Women suffer from mental illness predominantly due to stress from misogynistic abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:48 PM
1

Mediocre women don’t feel that way. That’s just manosphere hate propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:46 PM
1

I haven’t seen women anywhere say that. Sex is important, it’s just not so important that men should be able to have multiple partners simultaneously as well as unfettered access to sex whenever he wants and it from whomever he wants it. I personally LOVE sex. I definitely wouldn’t have a sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:42 PM
2

I have done more for autistic males than you ever have. Autistic males are also highly likely to be raped by men too, especially non-verbal ones. As for male suicides, 50% of male suicides are committed by men with learning impairments. How much do you advocate for autistic people in your spare time? I’ve been in the news for my autism advocacy work. Politicians literally fear me. The average lifespan of an autistic person is 32 years old because the top cause of death for autists is preventable…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:38 PM
1

No I don’t like made up facts because I’m a journalist. I’m also not a male. I don’t just make things up because it conveniences me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:32 PM
1

US will soon be a country with no birth control or abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:43 PM
-2

Autistic females are highly likely to be raped. You’re okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:42 PM
1

That’s hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:41 PM
9

Why do you feel entitled to mediocre girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:10 PM
1

I don’t believe in God and I despise patriarchal religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:35 PM
1

You’re not entitled to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:26 AM
2

No one has crow’s feet at 30. Crow’s feet appear in late 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:22 AM
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So you don’t think you should have to cook and clean because her previous boyfriends didn’t do it? That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. I get the impression you don’t actually like your girlfriend. I get the impression you believe women are interchangeable. You also don’t believe she actually cares for you or likes you either given you believe she’s only with you for your salary. I can tell you her life is certainly better because you’re a good boyfriend and if you weren’t a good boyfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:14 AM
1

No. I don’t need comparison to know if I’m aroused. If I’m aroused, I’m aroused. If I’m not, I’m not. Why on earth do you think women wouldn’t know what being aroused felt like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:37 PM
1

It doesn’t prevent you from getting into shape, it just makes it a hell of a lot harder. Vastly harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:58 PM
1

Really? Then why is that a man who exercises the same amount as I do sees more ROI from exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:53 PM
1

Then Is it fear of ultimately being rejected after she gets to know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:50 PM
9

I have never encountered a man with that attitude IRL and never back in the 90s and noughties. Modern men are entitled men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:14 PM
19

I knew so many men like you. I had a friend in uni, Herman, he was always forming crushes on women he’d see at one of the cafes on campus where our group hung out in between classes. He’d always end up introducing himself with team and then surprisingly lose interest once they liked him back. I watched him do this for three years meanwhile complaining that he didn’t meet anyone. He didn’t have sex until he was 25 because of that….that’s when he finally got over his fear of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:12 PM
7

Likewise. We’re both obviously in the top 0.1% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:09 PM
2

Yes, that’s what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:07 PM
1

Do you have an MD and decades of medical practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:03 PM
1

No. You’re factually wrong. Ask a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:02 PM
1

You said you like women who “make men treat them well.” You can’t make a man do that. That’s a choice he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:03 PM
1

My doctor says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:01 PM
1

Well, yes. There’s that minor issue of pregnancy, STDs and slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:01 PM
1

Exactly. Why would I want a man who didn’t pay attention to—and respond to—my non-verbal signals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:00 PM
1

I just know overweight and fat people who don’t overindulge and aren’t sedentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:50 PM
2

Expecting submission because you pay the bills IS financial abuse. Call any domestic violence hotline and ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:42 PM
1

I’m always that!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:41 PM
1

Well, I don’t eat fast food—I was eating one meal a day—and I exercise, and my weight gain occurred when my hypothyroidism worsened and was out of control for over a year. I eat a low glycemic index diet, I don’t put sugar in my tea, I don’t eat candy or chocolate or cookies or chips or ice cream, I now eat two meals a day, breakfast and dinner, I have two carb servings at each meal and my dinner is usually two starch carbs with lean meat and broccoli. As it is, I am not obese, just overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:40 PM
1

Probably not but it would depend on the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:21 PM
3

I don’t think you know much about psychiatric drugs, how they work or the effects they have on people. They’re not as mind-altering as you think. Perhaps women wouldn’t need antidepressants if men weren’t so awful and misogynistic. I’ve been clinically depressed due to misogyny since childhood. I wouldn’t be depressed if misogyny disappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:59 PM
1

Psychiatric medication doesn’t actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:56 PM
3

There is no amount of money that can buy respect and submission. Why do you think you’re entitled to have a woman submit to you? It’s financial abuse to expect a woman to submit to you because you have more money. Why do you want to be an abuser?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:55 PM
16

Submission isn’t good for anyone. I am not at all submissive, not in any aspect of life. I like to be an active participant in my life and I don’t want men dictating how I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:53 PM
-1

Yes I do provided he’s healthy and of size to take on the perpetrator. I wouldn’t expect my 80 year old father to chase down a purse snatcher, nor would I expect a 5’4 male friend to chase after a 6’2 purse snatcher but a healthy 5’10 male friend who was in good shape with a similarly sized purse snatcher? Yes I would expect him to chase. I’d probably chase him myself too, even though I’m only 5’5. Then it would be two on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:51 PM
0

She fought back against him. How is that weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:32 PM
0

Johnny Depp is a typical abuser, Amber Heard is a typical victim. All women fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:30 PM
3

Very much. I really notice men who are in synch with me emotionally. Also, I like it when a man notices I’m attracted to him and makes the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:29 PM
3

Weight can’t be changed that easily for many people. A lot of it is genetic, it’s not just lifestyle. For example, many women have hypothyroidism which makes them fat, then because they’re fat they get diabetes. It’s super hard to lose weight under those conditions. Both conditions cause fatigue too, making it hard to exercise and losing weight with hypothyroidism requires much more exercise. I literally only know one woman who has become fat due to eating like a pig and being sedentary—everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:20 PM
197

How does calling a man “bald” make him feel sexualised and obligated to perform sexual acts or behave in a sexual way? Sure, pointing out someone’s physical features to them is rude but sexual harassment it is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/22 06:03 PM
1

There’s nothing wrong with any of those women. They’re all attractive. Don’t worry about FDS. You aren’t required to date women who follow FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:06 PM
1

No, having better looks wouldn’t have mattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:56 PM
8

Why can’t you just treat women well of your own volition?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:49 PM
3

Birth control is horrible to take. We aren’t obligated to take it. I personally hate it and only use condoms but that’s not why I’m picky, I’m picky because most men are misogynistic, watch porn and have unrealistic expectations of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:45 PM
28

Women are pickier because we actually want to like the personalities of the men we sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:43 PM
2

That tracks with my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:32 PM
2

Red pill men are getting older and are thinking about marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:30 PM
1

That doesn’t mean women control the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:43 PM
1

That doesn’t mean women run the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:45 PM
1

Ooh you think you’re so smart and that I’m just a dumb woman. Just because women make most of the purchasing decisions on behalf of households simply means women are making most household purchases, it doesn’t mean women run the economy. I’m sure the amount Jeff Bezos spent on his enormous yacht—a household purchase—vastly exceeds the amount of money women have access to for household purchases. Do you know why women make most of the household purchases? It’s because the burden of running a hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:19 PM
2

Men’s bodies aren’t affected by pregnancy. Men don’t have to risk their lives and health. Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:39 AM
2

It’s because it’s all they do and they shirk their responsibilities and ignore their families and their partners to do it. How could you not figure that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:37 AM
1

YES
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:36 AM
1

Women aren’t dominating the economy. You really need to do your research.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:36 AM
3

Men’s dating strategy is largely to deceive and abuse women into having sex with them as such, I don’t give a fuck. I don’t care that men are failing to adequately manipulate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:45 PM
5

Then your girlfriend picker is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:41 PM
2

We need both, emotional connection and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:41 PM
2

No woman enjoys cooking or cleaning for other people. That’s totally normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:41 PM
6

Demisexuality isn’t a trait. It’s normal not to want to sleep with someone until you have an emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:39 PM
5

I know a woman who became pregnant with an IUD. The IUD lodged in the foetus, impacted development of some of his organs and his spine. He nearly died. I can’t imagine IUDS remaining legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:01 AM
2

The Americans are going to outlaw contraceptives too and probably premarital sex eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:38 PM
2

If you consider marrying your girlfriend to be a chore like dishes, why are you in a relationship with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:07 PM
1

You’re not likely to get to your fantasy fulfilled. You know that so why even think about it? You know you’ll never propose so you ought to tell her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:02 PM
1

I don’t understand why you’re in this relationship. Just tell her you don’t see a future with her, that you won’t be proposing and end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:58 PM
3

I’d like to know if a man is a domestic abuser long before we’re at the stage of buying a house together or opening a joint bank account. I also don’t agree with banks being privy to people’s criminal records and being the stewards of such information. These records should be government-administered and maintained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:27 PM
26

I would love to find another single mom or a couple of other single moms, get a big, beautiful Victorian mansion and raise our kids together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:21 PM
12

Wow! What an asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:36 PM
9

That’s not remotely 50-50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:31 PM
71

That’s so stressful. I hope your friend and her kids are safe and that you don’t get dragged into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:16 PM
33

The man was future faking you when he said he wanted to marry you, he was probably future faking you when he said he wanted kids and now he’s using you to cook him meals. I noticed the only times he made an effort to talk to you is when he wanted sandwiches for him and his buddy, and when he wanted you to cook dinner. He wants to keep you on the hook so he can get meals and sex but he doesn’t see you as a true girlfriend or a potential spouse. Also, even though you were right to say no to the lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:05 PM
1

Dating =/= Having casual sex Dating means going on dates to get to know someone with the intent of it moving towards an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:42 PM
2

Yep. It’s a neurodevelopmental disorder, said the psychiatrist who diagnosed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:41 PM
1

Capitalism didn’t create it. We created capitalism. If you want someone to like you or love you, be in a relationship or be in a friendship with you, you have to fulfill the needs they have for that type of relationship, you have to contribute, you can’t just expect to show up on the scene, and have a woman realize how wonderful you are by just passively existing, you have to show her how wonderful you are. It’s altruism, and humans have always been altruistic, you’re simply mistaking altruistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:40 PM
1

If they can’t figure out on their own how women spend their time, then they don’t really have the mind for a job in technology. I don’t spend any time with men at this point in time and I have a good idea as to what they do in their spare time. Not to mention that men and women aren’t THAT different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:35 PM
2

Affection, partnership, superior intelligence, her skillset, her personality, her social and business connections and most of all, her time and commitment. You won’t get the same level of all that from a friendship, and if none of that appeals to you or seems valuable to you then you simply don’t like and respect women. Maybe you’re actually gay if you only see women as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:30 PM
1

I’m not attacking him. I’m speaking truth. Source: Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:25 PM
-1

Didn’t say it was the solution but it’s important in general, not just in dating, to know how to read body language and display body language that matches your emotions and intentions, and to respect the signals other people give off. It’s rude and intrusive to ignore body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:24 PM
1

To NOt Too. Reddit isn’t letting my Edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:20 PM
3

Never had a man grumble about holding my purse when I’ve needed them too. It’s such a petty thing to grumble about, there is absolutely no good reason for a man to refuse to hold their wife or girlfriend’s purse. I watched my father carry my mother’s purse around my entire life, and not once did anyone question his masculinity, not that he would have given a fuck if they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:19 PM
-1

There are definitely universal signals. I do them when I’m around a man I’m attracted to, i can’t help it, it’s exceedingly hard to control and I’ve been in many a situation where I had to mask my lust. Men also display universal signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:15 PM
1

Will Smith’s wife is also an A-list Hollywood celeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:16 PM
7

Why wouldn’t you ask a man to hold your bag? So let’s say you have a big ass diaper bag with diapers, changes of clothes for the baby, snacks, water, formula/pumped breast milk, you would be okay with him refusing to ever hold such a heavy bag for you because it makes him look less masculine? Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:13 PM
5

What’s wrong with asking a man to hold your bag while you do something? If a man was so insecure in his masculinity that he wouldn’t hold my bag for me when he was fully capable of doing so, I would consider it a red flag and dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:10 PM
1

Interest/affection and lust are always tied in together for me. I don’t feel affection for men unless I’m sexually attracted to them but I can definitely find men interesting without being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:09 PM
1

Yes they do and it makes them unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:07 PM
3

What this person says.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:04 PM
-2

Men who are successful in approaching women are successful because they can read body language and can recognize when a woman finds them attractive. You can’t just barrel around hitting on women that don’t give you signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:02 PM
2

No they shouldn’t because that violates human decency and the rights of women. You saying that is like me saying “All Brown and Black men have to work anyway so they might as well just pick cotton for me.” I treat racialized men like racialized men treat women. I am NOT an ally in the fight against racism, I’m all about ensuring the most sexist men have the least power and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:36 AM
6

The only men who get nothing out of relationships with women other than sex are men who hate women. I don’t think you’re ever going to have a successful relationship so if I were you I’d plan to get a bunch of different flashlights and just spend the rest of your life hanging with your bros because you will never find a woman you will ever see as a partner in crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:33 AM
2

How do men get tricked into ejaculating into a vagina? Men don’t get tricked. Men just whine like little bratty broke babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:29 AM
3

All relationships are transactional. What do you expect some woman to meet you and just love you instantly without you making any improvements to her life or doing anything for her? You’re simple-minded and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:27 AM
1

For an LTR? No we don’t. Dating means LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:25 AM
6

You sound Basic AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:22 AM
1

Get used to it. Sexlessness seems like your fate because you’re so disdainful of women. Imagine if I said “what do black people even do when while people aren’t around? What do they do for fun?” Basically, you are racist towards women and that’s why none of us will ever let your penis near us. I’d scream in horror if you came near me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:20 AM
1

No it’s because you were being an abusive asshole. I see you 👀 and your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:17 AM
11

You’re not doing any of those hobbies you just listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:15 AM
12

He didn’t want a literal answer, he just wanted to belittle women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:13 AM
-3

ADHD isn’t a psychiatric disorder .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:11 AM
1

Yes there is. It’s called freedom of choice, freedom of association and personal bodily autonomy. Similarly, I could say it’s unfair that white people used to get black slaves but now we don’t and if that black men served whites women for free hundreds of years ago, they should do it now too. Why should I accept a black man who won’t do all my manual labour and sleep in a shack?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:21 AM
6

“The chuckle”! I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:10 AM
23

He has self-control. He just gave himself permission to attack him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:25 AM
13

I don’t believe they’re trapped. I believe they impregnated those women on purpose and then trapped them so they could go around and claim to be baby trapped “woe is me, those damn single moms”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:47 PM
3

I’d disagree. Women have more temptation and opportunities than men and are more discerning so a woman with a high n-count still has to practice more restraint and self-control than a man. Women will never exceed men’s n-counts though because men watch porn and the brain perceives watching porn as having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:16 PM
39

I have an ex who acted like a trophy husband. To me, he was pretending to look for a job, and just as I was at my wit’s end, I saw he left his Facebook messenger open so I read everything and discovered him bragging about me paying everything and him having a white woman pay his way. I had wanted him to leave for ages and he wouldn’t. He threatened me and harassed me and blackmailed me if I wouldn’t let him in my house and I was openly hostile to him. He didn’t care, he just made me fund his lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:06 AM
1

That’s amazing. My son is that age and severely disabled, and I’m consistently amazed by what intelligent, neurotypical humans can learn to do by such a young age. I know this sounds a little off but my son is the only child I have seen grow and develop since infancy so I often forget WHY he’s considered so disabled, then I’m reminded of all the complex tasks other kids his age can do, and the superiority of their social skills. I have a lot of family who grew up poor, left school at 13, started…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:56 PM
62

My life. Now I take my mother’s side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:31 PM
1

I’m still living this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:27 PM
2

Yeah women don’t cheat for purely physical reasons, it’s emotional. I “cheated” on someone because he treated me like shit and ignored me, refused to accept my breaking up with him. In the end I cheated with three different guys and he still wanted to be with me to the point where restraining orders happened and so did charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:22 AM
1

I don’t care how it would make him feel. He shouldn’t have had sex with me if he thought I’d be unfaithful. Any man who demands a paternity test is abusive. He just does it to try to humiliate the mother and to try to take ownership of the child when children belong to the mother. Any child I create would get my last name too. No man is getting any credit for a child I create especially if he’s going around calling me a cheating slut. Women should just leave men off all birth certificates. Men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:53 PM
1

No it’s not. Sexism only happens to women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:12 AM
-2

Men only like women to be chaste because you view us as slaves to possess rather than people ergo what men like is utterly illegitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:11 AM
0

Not reading all that. Men aren’t oppressed by women. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:10 AM
0

Yes it is. I left my child’s father off the birth certificate. If a man accused me of cheating and said he suspected the child wasn’t his, I would just say “yep, it’s not yours,” regardless of the truth, leave his name off the birth certificate and move where he couldn’t find me or the child. Wouldn’t want a man like that in my life or my child’s life. Then he’d be free—no responsibilities and no child support—to find a woman he doesn’t believe is a cheating slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:26 AM
0

No such thing as misandry. Men expecting women to be chaste is an underpinning of all major male-dominated religions that oppress women including Christianity, Judaism and Islam. There have never been, and there doesn’t exist, any matriarchal public institutions that oppress men for being virgins. The comparison you make is insultingly simplistic and ignores thousands upon thousands of years of male on female oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:21 AM
1

I don’t bring anything to the table. I can’t honestly think of anything I can bring to a relationship that the other party can’t bring on their own or that can’t be provided by someone else. I’m not a prize, I’m a punishment, thus I do not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:08 AM
1

More like 5 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:38 PM
1

Not true. Do you actually know any white middle class women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:35 PM
1

My son isn’t going to be allowed to be sexually active but my daughters will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:33 PM
2

Neither men nor women gain anything from having relationships with each other. We should all stay single, live alone, be abstinent and work on our jobs and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:33 PM
8

That’s stupid. Why does a woman have to treat every man EXACTLY the same. I kicked my last boyfriend in the balls five times in a row when he was high on cocaine and freaking out on me and wouldn’t leave my home. That means I now must kick every man I go out with in the balls five times in a row, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:36 PM
-1

Men expecting women to be chaste is textbook misogyny. Even discussing it in this sub is a violation of Reddit’s TOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:31 PM
0

I’d just take the child and tell the man to fuck off. If any man asked me for a paternity test, I’d just keep their name off the birth certificate and ban them from having access to the child. Then if he came at me to try to get a paternity test, I’d deny ever having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:28 PM
16

Even then there’s no guarantee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:35 PM
31

No, older women don’t resent younger women or feel jealous of them. We feel protective over them. Also, we don’t want to sell our bodies and we don’t care if men don’t want us. Not wanting young women to sell their bodies and sexualize themselves is NOT re-enacting misogyny and patriarchy, it’s trying to safeguard young women from being exploited, and also to teach them their value isn’t correlated with their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:03 PM
37

FWB is all about power for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:04 AM
33

Kanye needs to be arrested and charged with criminal harassment or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 10:28 PM
0

No, statistically it’s probable that the fault lies with men because men oppress women, don’t see women as equals, are the top cause of death and injury to women and men use coercive control tactics on women while women do not do that to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:51 PM
3

I think it’s obvious that if a man is fit, friendly and cooperative himself, he is far more likely to appeal to a fit, friendly and cooperative woman. It seems like you’re implying that average men, even when they improve themselves, still can’t get supermodels so what’s the point? I’m also not putting all the onus on men. My saying “men need to improve” does not mean “women get to make zero effort in relationships.” Men as a group do oppress women and it’s men who see women as objects, not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:49 PM
2

I have a theory that you devalue the women who like you. The whole, you wouldn’t want to be part of a club that would have you as a member.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:16 PM
3

Self-improvement would work. Men just don’t want to change. For example, male porn watching accounts for 50% of divorces. Men could stop watching porn. It would save 50% of marriages and result in men being better lovers. Men could also do more housework and childcare, another big reason for divorce. Further, the male belief that you’re owed women and that we’re lesser than you is the root cause of domestic violence including coercive control. Men could stop believing that and end domestic viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:07 PM
1

How did women make men play video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:03 PM
2

Whether we were married or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:01 PM
1

That’s why men have to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:00 PM
6

In the 30s and 40s, my grandmother worked in a factory and she was the manager of a bakery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:58 PM
5

It’s because women suffer more in unhappy relationships than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:56 PM
1

Are you a communist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:23 PM
6

No. It would be conversion therapy and that’s illegal in many countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:22 PM
29

He’s dependent on her financially , he knows she’ll dump him if he watches porn and they’ll thus lose the deposit, but he does it anyway. I bet she paid the deposit and the money he wasted was all hers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:56 PM
2

I’ve seen his type too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:27 AM
96

And she apologizes afterwards for making typos…she’s being badly abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:19 AM
1

A true life love story if I’ve ever heard one! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:48 PM
12

How depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:35 AM
3

It’s never failed for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:38 PM
3

Yeah, there’s a certain kind of woman who acts like but #NotAllWomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:28 PM
1

He’s facially attractive. That doesn’t mean women would want to sleep with him or have a relationship with him. Too much potential for danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:20 PM
3

I much prefer civility and intelligence. I’m afraid of men who are bossy, boisterous, mean, overly masculine and who don’t smile a lot. I like intelligent men who know they’re intelligent, and who are also calm, compassionate, loving, kind and generous preferably with a unique style. Must have excellent hygiene. Men just tell themselves women like jerks because you want an excuse to be a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:45 PM
3

Women were told that too, turns out we were also lied to, and we’re pissed off as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:41 PM
3

I know lots of 6 ft who make 6 figures but none have 6 packs. Doesn’t mean their bodies are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:37 PM
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Half of my family are doctors and they all married women who were between 2 and 5 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:36 PM
3

Yeah, that’s not just a red pill idea. Conversations aren’t meant to be had via text. Who has time to text constantly all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:34 PM
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Impulse control is super important, which is a really good reason not to date men who watch porn. They have no impulse control. They expect their sexual wants to be immediately satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:33 PM
12

Every post on this sub is a bad faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:31 PM
2

Stop policing the way women speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:28 PM
2

Women are going against it. Women are hugely going against it, we’re just being censored.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:17 PM
6

They’re happy as hell. They travel, have great careers, are much happier than married women post-40. You sound afraid of childless post-40 unmarried women. It’s really disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:44 PM
1

I don’t see men being trafficked and raped to make romance novels. I personally hate both romance novels and porn. Men who believe romance novels are the same as pornography are too stupid to bother with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:39 PM
0

Being faithful isn’t enough to sustain a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:37 PM
1

You aren’t required to participate in pick up culture. Don’t like it? Don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:34 PM
24

When a man derails a convo about women’s issues to men’s issues, I tell them I’d be happy to participate in any men’s issues convos they organize in the future but that right now, we are talking women’s issues. They never follow up on my offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:32 PM
0

Af/BB isn’t true. It just rhymes so it’s catchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:57 AM
1014

I’m so sorry but you won’t regret this. I’ve been with a PA and I’m still scarred from it. No live woman can compete with a man’s addiction, whether it’s porn, alcohol, cocaine….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:23 PM
-1

I purposely left the name of the father of my child’s birth certificate. The police would have to break my door down and shoot me before I’d consent to a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:19 PM
39

She doesn’t want the abortion and is mourning the impending death of her child. She can’t fathom that he doesn’t see it that way. Yes, I’ve had an abortion, and I have kids too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:58 AM
1

They want to conquer a strong woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:07 PM
0

No. Why would such a woman exist? Such a woman should not exist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:06 PM
0

You don’t understand what empathy means if you believe it involves sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:24 PM
4

Yes women need muscle mass. I don’t know why you would think it’s not advantageous to our health to be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:03 PM
5

It’s actually much more difficult for women to achieve nice bodies than men. Women have to work a lot harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:32 PM
23

Just end it. Block and delete. That’s what FDS says. He knows how you feel or he wouldn’t have apologized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:51 PM
1

All human lives are valuable. Our society is not a meritocracy and ideas about who is “deserving” vary from individual to individual. One’s success in the dating market does not correlate to one’s value as a human being. We all have different looks, personalities, strengths, beliefs and opportunities, single people, virgins, lifelong virgins, bachelors, spinsters, all are equally valuable to romantically coupled people. Being bad at romantic relationships does not mean you’re a crap person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:53 PM
1

Women not sleeping with you doesn’t mean they aren’t empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:39 PM
2

I want the government involved in my marriage because the government protects my interests in the case of the dissolution of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:30 PM
123

Younger women have drank more of the look-aid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:16 PM
5

Lessons here are that: - When someone tells them they won’t change for you, believe them - Don’t move in with a man before marriage & - Move out at the first sign of disrespect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:18 PM
3

Men will literally dump a woman for not having his preferred eye colour and he makes this claim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:07 PM
14

Next up: Women EI recipients can be forced into sex work or they lose their benefits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:23 PM
16

So he’s looking for women to make porn and he isn’t going to pay them. Someone tell his boss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:22 PM
924

I really don’t think she was trying to make him jealous, I think she’s actually in a headspace where she can’t fathom that he’d be jealous because he’s already turned her down for a relationship. This is what he wanted, I don’t see why he’s upset. I also don’t understand why he’s assuming she was trying to make him jealous. I’d just assume she was showing him she was cool with them being non-exclusive by not hanging off him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:18 PM
14

She needs to kick him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:04 PM
94

He’s jealous that she has a horse and horseback riding. Don’t want your girlfriend to have a horse, don’t date a woman with a horse. Why do men keep picking women they’re not compatible with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:55 PM
2

Same if men are choosing to pursue women who don’t want to fuck them. They should just intrinsically know how to choose the women who will fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:08 AM
1

No, a man’s bank account only equals sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:55 AM
11

Goes to show how much men respect their mothers in general. Remember this when you’re raising boys. Don’t let them treat you with disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:41 PM
8

I was just about to post that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:40 PM
10

chronically late no gifts or efforts to celebrate birthdays and holidays watches porn doesn’t stand up for me has a misogynistic friend(s) yells at me or anyone else comments on my appearance that aren’t compliments any disrespect doesn’t cook and clean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:24 PM
2

I could care less if ED is a medical issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:16 PM
3

And if the sex is shitty you’ll be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:16 PM
1

Absolutely I would leave them depending on how much I prioritized sex at that point in our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:15 PM
16

Being single and focusing on oneself is way more fulfilling than giving most of your emotional energy to another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:13 PM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:11 PM
21

That’s because all men don’t do their fair share of unpaid labour. Once you give a man an inch, he’ll take a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:11 PM
1

Gen X weren’t expected to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:09 PM
22

Single women are happier than straight women because most men are drains on a woman’s time, resources and sanity, and they don’t pick up after themselves. Plus all men watch porn and most women feel like shit about it. Plus, men are really bad at sex these days and demand depraved acts like cumming on a woman’s face, anal, choking, slapping, etc. I am so much happier single. I have more money, I don’t have to do as much cooking and cleaning, I don’t have to deal with a man insulting and humiliat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:09 PM
-4

Men can wear platforms. Why not? Don’t lie and say your height is 6’4 if you’re only 6’1. That’s just…..pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:35 PM
1

I think everyone who comes to this sub has to have a masochistic streak. It’s just insult after insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:22 PM
1

No. That’s not how it works. If a man’s bank account=a woman’s vagina, and rich men=hot women then I should be able to buy access to a rich man’s bank account for an hour and do what I want with the money. Men on this sub always say this is how it is but now you’re screaming UNFAIR when the analogy benefits women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:47 PM
1

No. I don’t want to be a prostitute, I’d rather die. What I want is to pay $300/hour to use a rich man’s bank account similar to how a man can pay $300 to use a hot woman’s body for an hour. It’s my understanding that men on this sub like you view women as assets that depreciate every time we have sex so the $300 a man pays to fuck a woman prostitute for an hour DOES affect her SMV and RMV for the rest of her life and we all know that a woman’s SMV & RMV = a man’s bank account? Or does that anal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:44 PM
3

That’s a sour attitude. No wonder you can’t get a girlfriend or sex when you approach the world with “all women are unimpressive, undeserving and boring” attitude. A mentally healthy person is able to see the positives even in people they don’t like, let alone are neutral towards. I’m sorry you don’t feel you’re special or unique in any way but you don’t have to project that on others. There’s nothing more unattractive than when a man adopts a punitive attitude towards women and declares she isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:37 PM
2

No we don’t. Men make up the lion’s share of the military, men make up the lion’s share of corporate welfare recipients.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:22 PM
1

A condom doesn’t protect a woman’s bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:23 PM
3

Why would a woman who has a busy and normal life not be girlfriend material?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:16 PM
10

So “hot girl summering” is a woman just living her life? A bigger problem is all the Chads and red pillers who are “hot boy summering”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:15 PM
4

You are so very ignorant of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:13 PM
5

Men already go out of their way to make women unhappy and now you’re going to shit on the men who are actually nice people? That’s just going to make women hate men even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:11 PM
6

Just say you don’t understand history and hate women. You don’t need to type so many characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:07 PM
2

If men can pay a pittance to get access to a hot woman’s body, I should be be able to pay a pittance to get full access to a man’s bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:06 PM
2

Man who gives me attention when I throw my charms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:03 PM
1

That’s true. I don’t think casinos should be allowed to sell drinks either. Frankly, I’m not even sure I’m on board with the idea of casinos in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:23 PM
1

I know it’s thin. I didn’t think he was man enough to take something bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:18 PM
0

No, it’s not a myth. That really happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:17 PM
2

Great post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:48 PM
1

Technology and civilization aren’t patriarchal creations. This post offends me a lot. I hate it when men assume all innovation comes from men. Similarly, I don’t understand why non-white people hate white people. We created industry and manufacturing. We’re responsible for all the innovations that have brought humans out of destitution. Why are non-white people using electricity and phones when they hate white people? Why are Muslims screaming about the immorality of Western women but still comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:53 PM
-4

You’re not considering the fact that consent can be revoked at any time and that these men are forcing unwanted sexual acts on the woman that she’s actively saying no to while being drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:44 PM
0

Where’s HIS responsibility? Why is all the onus put on her? If you’re drunk and you hit on me, that means I can rail your ass, right? It’s my kink. If a man hits on me drunk he has to be aware that I’m going to respond the way a woman would. That means I’m getting him to give me lots of money and I’m pounding him in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:43 PM
1

It’s still rape. Pre-consent doesn’t exist. You can’t pre-consent to sex, consent occurs in the moment and can be revoked at any time. Rape still happens in relationships, it’s illegal for men to force sex on their significant others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:40 PM
-5

The onus is on you to say no. You can recognize when a woman is drunk. You know the law. You have free will. You have self-control. Just say no. What do you do if a 15-year-old girl hits on you? If you’re drunk and passed out, does that mean I can shove a dildo up your ass? Or could a man fuck you in the ass? I mean, you got drunk, right. It’s your responsibility not to get drunk if you don’t want to wake up in the morning with 10 anal creampies and a 10.5 inch dildo with a girth of 2.5 inches i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:37 PM
1

Yep, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:31 PM
-10

Does gambling cause pregnancy and STDs and affect another person’s bodily autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:29 PM
4

Alcohol impairs people and makes them pass out if they have too much. This law exists to punish Brock Turner-like crimes. A man is not going to get convicted if he and his same-age girlfriend split a bottle of wine and have sex, and she isn’t pass out drunk. You forget that rape is barely reported and that hardly anyone gets convicted of it even in cases, such as Brock Turner, when the evidence is indisputable. Just don’t rape and you won’t get reported for or charged with rape. Don’t have sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:27 PM
0

Your analogy doesn’t take gender inequality into account
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:22 PM
2

It’s probably her facial expressions. Not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:20 PM
-1

Dark triad men are not the only men who abuse. Most domestic abusers are not mentally ill and don’t have dark triad traits. Sources : Why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft and Coercive Control by Evan Stark
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:20 PM
2

That’s what this sub does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:17 PM
5

You think men are more logical than women? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:15 PM
0

I’m too old for such juvenile labels. I identify as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:14 PM
14

There was no tuition for university back in the 60s when my parents attended. I can’t believe Britain has become a student loan country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:06 PM
4

I’d love to hear what a judge would have to say about a man claiming abuse because he didn’t get anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:57 PM
2

Road head! ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:55 PM
3

She also won’t surprise him randomly with a blow job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:54 PM
29

Being nice never got me anywhere with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:37 PM
9

That happened to me in my last relationship. I bet everyone around her is gaslighting her, telling her that her husband is a great guy. I bet this is the only way she’s allowed explaining the situation to other people or she gets in trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:24 PM
10

This is my experience 100%, including with the brother who was jealous of my athleticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:02 PM
9

The Queen served in the military in the war. She took the king of Saudi Arabia on a drive through the English country side at top speed back when he thought women shouldn’t be allowed to drive, and he asked her to slow down multiple times through a translator and she didn’t. She’s not a girl next door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:02 PM
0

Yes he does. It’s otherwise sexual assault. And if he wasn’t arrested and prosecuted, I’d run him down with my car.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:38 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:36 PM
2

Getting off the Internet won’t make a difference. I’m faced with the same level of misogyny IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:20 PM
1

You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:54 AM
3

Men do that all the time. Since when do men care about women’s egos?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:35 AM
2

So women aren’t allowed to learn from past mistakes? Why would you expect a woman to have sex with you at exactly the same point in your relationship that she did with other guys? That’s a hugely unrealistic expectation and I don’t know how you came to believe it’s appropriate. It’s absolutely inappropriate, unrealistic and no woman has any obligation to do this. You have zero right to have a woman treat you the same as she did her other boyfriends or husbands, and it’s also utterly illogical fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:19 AM
2

That’s going to narrow your prospects a lot. You might be able to pull it off if you go for women with low self-esteem, play monogamous for awhile then try to open it up. Keep in mind though that the relationship will end because what will happen is she will end up getting far, far more action than you, which will bolster her self-esteem and she’ll leave you for a man who wants to be monogamous with her. The other outcome is that you shatter her and she dumps you. Do you really want to do that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:40 AM
2

Hey, do trans women lose value as they age too? What about trans women of colour? Or is it just Cis women who lose value as we age?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:27 AM
4

Women don’t lose value and the more I read this on here, the more radicalized I am becoming and the more likely I am to do something in retaliation to a man IRL. I think this time I’m going to share the dating profile of a cheating man with his adult daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:21 AM
1

That’s so misogynistic that it’s hate speech. What can a man offer a woman aside from dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:18 AM
1

Power balances are only natural when women are the ones running the show. We’re Queens and men are Helper Bees.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:16 AM
2

What was the smallest tunnel you had to crawl through?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:03 AM
2

You’d die of the black lung, you wouldn’t survive to see him grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:03 AM
1

You should be happy you have as much sexual access as you do. Men hardly have any sexual access in Muslim countries. In fact, Western men have never had as much access to sex as they do now. Young men are just risk averse and prefer porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:58 AM
6

You must be community dick if you only know women who ride the carousel. Choose better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:55 AM
-6

Nah. You’re just a misogynist who is bad in bed so you feel threatened by a woman’s prior partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:52 AM
0

Show me the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:48 AM
-5

I would never let a man cum on my face. I’d call the police and charge him with assault if he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:44 AM
-5

So you’re okay with your girlfriend having mental flings with other men? I’ll cheat on any man who watches porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:42 AM
-1

There’s no trend of women shunning their looksmatches. Where on earth are you getting that data?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:39 AM
1

How do I make my vagina produce codfish smelling yeast? Didn’t you know it’s a cure for Covid? I could make a fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:38 AM
6

That’s ludicrous. Top tier men aren’t trafficked, raped, humiliated, degraded and shamed the same way women in porn are. Porn is also not a realistic depiction of heterosexual sex practices. I would happily eschew fucking top tier guys in exchange for the banning of pornography. Women also only fuck top tier guys occasionally, maybe we’ll get one or two in a lifetime, some never get any at all, while men masturbate to 100 different pornstars a day. That means men’s ability to pair bond is destro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:36 AM
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It’s a non-issue because politicians would have to tackle the real reasons why women aren’t having more children—low wages, high cost of housing, high cost of daycare, gender pay gap correlated with women having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:25 AM
1

The studies on single moms you are talking about didn’t adjust for income. Once you adjust for income, it shows that kids of single moms performance is in line with their performance of kids from two-parent households that are in the same income-bracket. Source is Lundy Bancroft. The solution is to eradicate poverty. Re: Inept fathers…so inept fathers on fictional sit-coms are the only role models for men? Come on! That’s weak. It’s fiction, they’re actors. Re: the men in your family. So you DO …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:45 PM
-1

It SHOULD be that easy but it isn’t for a lot of women due to socialization and the social narrative about how men behave in relationships. In Western society, women are taught that men don’t want relationships, that men find them burdensome, so the only way to get a relationship is to let him control the pace and not expect or ask for anything from him. Women are taught that men need space in relationships, don’t want to be bothered by texts and phone calls, and want to control the pace at whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:58 PM
0

No. Anger is an emotion in its own right. Men are the emotional ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:52 PM
-1

What you say about single mothers is just misogyny. Studies show that boys don’t need dads, the boys turn out is dependent on their family’s income, doesn’t matter if they are raised by one parent or two parents. Re: “spineless” fathers. Not sure what you mean by that but I’m guessing you mean men who don’t beat, or aren’t otherwise cruel, to their wives. If so, once again you’re wrong because studies show that boys raised by domineering fathers are more likely to have mental health problems. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:51 PM
0

The number one cause of male suicide is job/career dissatisfaction. Men are NOT committing suicide because they have to plan dates, ask women out and sometimes, or even repeatedly, get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:37 PM
0

That’s a load of misogynistic bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:31 PM
2

You have a choice between continuous improvement or stagnation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:07 AM
1

The fact you call women “subjects” shows you have an attitude problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:04 AM
1

So you’re saying women are people and men fail to understand that female human nature is simply human nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:01 AM
-2

You can’t find any older men worthy of respect and emulation? That sounds like a problem with male culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:00 AM
1

I would absolutely approach men I found attractive for casual sex if I had a guarantee of good sex, especially of receiving good oral sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:54 AM
2

Except anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:12 AM
7

Oh those miscarriages are sooooo hard on men. So now this guy hates women for something that happened to his ex-girlfriend that was beyond her control and was much worse for her? Totally illogical. She was the one who had the miscarriage, she was the one who was bleeding and in pain. She’s the one whose going to feel like a defective woman, who has to go to the hospital. I would be livid if my ex used MY stillbirth as an excuse for depression and hatred of women. I was the one who nearly died. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:07 AM
3

Positive reinforcement and praise results in better mental health and we want all women to live good quality lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:01 AM
2

My theory is that they don’t believe ugly women deserve to live good quality lives. They want ugly women to be depressed and unhappy because they aren’t pleasing to the penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:59 AM
2

Catering to emotions not logic makes sense in this circumstance because it prevents mental illness. Anyone who is consistently verbally insulted and doesn’t receive any praise ever will hate themselves and be at a greater risk of anxiety and depression, which will give them a lower quality of life. Just say you believe ugly women don’t deserve to have good quality lives or be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:57 AM
1

That doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:53 AM
6

People with low self-esteem are high maintenance, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:42 AM
3

Why though? Is it because you find men’s sexuality to be gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:30 AM
5

Bisexual women aren’t sluts by default and bisexual women don’t exist to give men threesomes. If you want a threesome, ask a straight woman. They’re more suited for it because there’s no possibility they’d get attached to the female third. I’m assuming you want FFM not FMM. I’ve never had a threesome and I never would because I also don’t like to share. Bisexual=/=polyamorous. Contrary to your beliefs, bisexual women can fall in love and do desire monogamous relationships like most normal people…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:26 AM
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If it’s not hard then explain how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:07 PM
235

I can’t believe this man has the audacity to call a Sugar Baby “entitled”. Sugar Babies function as a prostitute and actress to provide a girlfriend experience in exchange for gifts, money and respectful treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:07 PM
2

If a man doesn’t want me he isn’t the kind of man I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:36 PM
2

But why does FDS have to cover that aspect of dating? Why can’t FDS be about another aspect of dating? Why would you assume FDSers don’t care about being good partners simply because “how to please a man” isn’t a topic of discussion in the sub? It’s beyond the scope of the sub. There are so many places to get advise on how to please men but not many places for women to get advise on how to vet men. You seem offended by the idea that a woman would enter a relationship for any reason other than pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:30 PM
1

I live in a western country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:24 PM
4

What do you mean by “spark a woman’s attraction”? Do you mean “how to get any woman in the world to be attracted to me including women way out of my league”? or do you mean “how to get the woman in my league to like me”? Or do you mean “how to get a woman to want to fuck me without me having to trick her into thinking I want a relationship”? There is no universal way of sparking a woman’s attraction because women are individuals and men are individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:23 PM
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Exactly. Men already focus on what pleases themselves. So why shouldn’t women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:51 PM
1

FDS doesn’t say to lie about your intentions. It’s okay for women to refuse to disclose or lie about past sexual history because we have the legal right to do so. No one—man or woman—has the right to know about the sex life their partner had before they were together. Are you going to give your girlfriends and future wife a detailed account of your sexual history? That would include disclosing ALL the things to which you masturbated. FDS also doesn’t say to lie about seeing other men if you are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:46 PM
0

So give older women the power and money older men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:35 PM
1

My life was going great too, then I told the wrong person….that was years ago, now I don’t disclose IRL. Why complaining about women if your life is going great?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:33 PM
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It’s the same old insults and threats of violence. I don’t see what’s so insulting about an ice cream and pretzel bar. I guess it’s a fat joke but why ice cream and pretzels?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:23 PM
1

I’m confident “Alpha Fucks Beta Buxx” is a slogan that was created simply because it rhymes and sounds catchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:21 PM
2

This is your problem, don’t tell women about your depression until after you’ve vetted them. 50% of people, both men and women, admit they see mental illness negatively. Don’t bring it up. This advice isn’t just for you, it’s good advice for everyone to follow. Sometimes even the people you suspect will be the harshest. Especially don’t ever tell bosses or co-workers. Women with depression are treated the same way. Be careful with whom you disclose and when because much worse things can happen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:17 PM
2

Do what FDS advises, a “blood in the water” test. Divulge something personal that you aren’t vulnerable about but pretend to be vulnerable about it and then see how she reacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:03 PM
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Total projection on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:45 PM
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But that’s not the point of the sub. Why do you assume FDSers need instruction in that area? Why should women focus on what pleases men instead of ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:45 PM
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Then give us all the power and money first. Then I’ll court a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:43 PM
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How does FDS advise women to deceive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:42 PM
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So you hate FDS because it isn’t focused on pleasing men? Show me one male sub that talks about making yourself into what women want, how to be better at oral sex, how to give good gifts, how to make her feel special, understanding pregnancy’s toll on a woman’s body, etc.? From my standpoint, all male dating subs are about how to manipulate, coerce and control women. FDS isn’t that. It’s just how to pick a man that won’t be a misogynist pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:42 PM
2

Models aren’t on Reddit. They’re too busy appraising their gifts from Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:15 PM
1

Divorced men are more likely to remarry never married women than divorced women are to remarry a never married man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:49 PM
1

Your experiences with men are like mine. We aren’t all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:38 PM
1

She’ll divorce rape him if he cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:35 PM
1

Men want women who are desired by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:34 PM
1

Why shouldn’t it be? If a man can do it, so can we.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:25 PM
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Women don’t want that in relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:25 PM
3

I find it offensive that women are expected to be humble when men aren’t. Men use humility as a weapon to denigrate our achievements and talents. “Yeah you’re good at that but you’re not humble so fuck you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:24 PM
2

This makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:22 PM
1

Women will cheat if you watch porn. I know I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:20 PM
1

Average white collar job….what’s his education level and intelligence? Does he excel at anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:20 PM
4

Because men like porn and TV is trying to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:19 PM
8

Uh….no. Have you read the handbook? Age gaps are a no because life experience gap gives older man a huge advantage. Men know this, they seek younger women to mould to their pleasures. You can’t determine if a man is high value from one date, his education, his resume and some niceness. High-value means “of good character” not “high-earning. You need to observe his behaviour over a long period of time before you can tell if he’s high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:00 PM
1

Women DON’T allow access to our bodies indiscriminately so your whole argument falls apart. That argument is also based on the false premise that a woman is damaged by having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:22 PM
1

It’s not a troll account. It’s my main account. Men didn’t build society. Men wrote women out of history and then try to minimise all the contributions women have made. Go tell your mom she didn’t make you. I’d honestly disinherit any ungrateful son like you who believes men singlehandedly built civilisation with zero involvement from women. That’s a massive insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:21 PM
1

Men call for the subjugation of women and distribution of women as resources and that’s illegal. Why are men allowed to suggest courses of action that involve committing violent crimes but women aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:19 PM
1

Then how does the gender ratio of more men to women result in men becoming violent? Why don’t the Chads just eliminate the incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:18 PM
5

Porn use prevents pair bonding, men prefer porn to real women, studies prove it. Video games make men lazy and takes up too much time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:02 PM
6

Never heard a Western man say he hated Western women, just Muslim men. If there are any “western” men who say that they are aberrations. Still opposing Muslim immigration to Western countries. We shouldn’t let in misogynists and antisemites and homophobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:02 PM
1

The « quotes » made me think you’re French!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:59 PM
0

Prostitution is not something women enjoy, and it puts the women who do it at a significant disadvantage and women who get into it are usually poor, desperate and drug addicted or disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:58 PM
2

What happens when two days a week becomes three days, then four days, then every day? Entertaining your kinks with masturbation just reinforces them as kinks. You could get rid of them by stopping, focus more on better sex with your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:55 PM
2

You’re being being very condescending. Calling me sweetheart is misogyny and harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:48 PM
2

The big deal is that women who do it are most often trafficked and it causes ptsd. I know two women who have been trafficked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:13 AM
1

Aren’t you putting your patients in danger by exposing yourself to STDs from hookers? I wouldn’t want a doctor who saw hookers. You shouldn’t be able to practice medicine with your lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:12 AM
0

Why do men deserve a life free from all rejection? Why should men have on-demand access to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:10 AM
2

Why should it be easy for men to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:09 AM
1

I’d leave a man if he got fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:07 AM
0

You think men are busier than women? That’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:05 AM
1

How do you think we should stop kids from accessing porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:04 AM
2

And that’s a scientific fact. That’s why I don’t bother with men. I know I’m not hot enough to sustain a man’s interest for a span of an LTR or a marriage. At most, men like the validation from my enthusiasm and my athleticism—I only sleep with men that really turn me on just by looking at them—but no man would ever make me their main source of sex. Well, men did until he high-speed Internet became widely affordable and available (this was years ago). My then partner seemed to abruptly lose inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:02 AM
2

It’s not that they find women difficult, it’s just that they’re only attracted to the type of women they see in porn. Their wives and girlfriends look like gross aberrations of womanhood to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:16 AM
1

You’re absolutely right. Men prefer porn, they just want to have wives and girlfriends for social support and structure at home, not for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:15 AM
1

Men watch porn because they aren’t attracted to their girlfriends and wives because their brain and dick are broken, and he’s selfish and greedy. No man who loves his SO would diminish her self-worth by watching porn. When a man watches porn his brain thinks he’s really having sex so porn watching is 100% cheating and men are huge whoring sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:13 AM
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Yeah because watching porn, playing video games makes men “marriage material.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:08 AM
3

Men ranting about Western women is why I don’t support Muslim immigration to Europe or North America. I’m rude to a male migrant every time I see hate towards Western women as if Liberal Western women haven’t been huge supporters of immigration. Now I see my support hasn’t been appreciated so I say “Fuck you, stay in your hellhole theocracies and get your hands chopped off. Why should I care if some males in a culture that hates Western women are being bombed by our government? Good riddance.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:06 AM
4

So you’d waste a woman’s time, is what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:02 AM
0

This whole post is hate speech. Literally caring about a woman’s n-count is discrimination on the basis of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:01 AM
1

Absolutely yes. Not possible for me to fully trust a male in any circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:57 AM
0

That’s not autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:42 AM
2

That means you’re single for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:38 AM
-1

Yes it would. Why don’t you support that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:35 AM
-1

Also if society is like a terminator then why don’t the Incels go after the Chads? You know, eliminate the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:32 AM
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Men didn’t build society. Women did. We built every human and we do the majority of the world’s work. Look up the stats and stop with the stolen valour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:31 AM
-2

Are you French?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:29 AM
4

What about creepy old men? They’re not viewed as immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:42 PM
1

I don’t hate men. I LOVE emasculating a strong, powerful man. Gives me the tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:33 PM
0

That wasn’t the norm for common folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:31 PM
2

I can confidently say that your description of women versus men is wrong and rooted in negative stereotypes of women. As a result, it is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:01 PM
3

I wouldn’t be okay with a male or female partner who had 50 prior partners by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:55 AM
6

I agree with you. They’re turning to statistics to try to gain the illusion of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:53 AM
2

You can only catch ass burgers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:51 AM
0

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:02 AM
0

Pat? Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:02 AM
2

This is one of the most misogynistic things I have read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:53 AM
1

It’s not that women don’t have a huge variation in personality, it’s just that you seem to only go for one type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:50 AM
1

What if the man isn’t hot himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:43 AM
1

People with low self-esteem will date down because they hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:43 AM
1

There aren’t any overweight plain Jane CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:41 AM
1

I’ve never seen a piss bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:35 AM
1

So the goal of red pill is getting a woman to provide for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:34 AM
1

Never again. They can’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:15 AM
1

Or “the wallet.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:14 AM
4

Oh my God. I’m so sorry he happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:55 AM
3

That’s what I do too. I pretend I’m under their thumb and see what they do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:50 AM
2

That would be me! I have an emasculation kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:01 PM
-1

Looking at history it has NEVER been common for old men to marry teenagers, not in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:16 PM
2

You’re funny if you think that constitutes baggage. You really have no idea….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:33 PM
5

That’s a lot of cynical bullshit right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:21 PM
8

Neither did my last ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:13 PM
10

I was with a porn-addicted alcoholic cokehead once and the porn addiction was the one that affected me most when I found out about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:05 PM
2

They can tell you just want to use them for sex and that you lack a sincere interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:25 PM
1

That’s so true. One of my friends paid C$10,000 for a premium dating service and then men she was matched with were all financially well-off but much older and/or socially inept. My friend was/is an attractive, successful woman and decent men always approach her so I don’t know why she needed the dating service in the first place or why she even bothered with OLD before and after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:21 PM
2

Interesting. I’ve only tried OLD twice just to see what it was like and it’s true, I didn’t swipe on many profiles and I actually took the time to read them. I could maybe stand looking at ten profiles each time I swiped, it was all I had the energy for, after awhile all the men just look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:15 PM
1

Had no idea. Don’t apps also offer you the option to pay to have your profile shown to more women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:12 PM
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I’m going to advise you to tread carefully with this man. Given that he’s 34, is smart, has good credentials, I would think if he were serious about marriage and kids that he’d make an effort to return to the corporate world for a steady paycheck and put his entrepreneurialism on hold. No doubt with his experience and degrees and having a penis, he could eventually earn six figures. I worry a lot that he says he wants to become the main breadwinner. I worry that means he will refuse to do childc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:33 PM
10

China DELIBERATELY lowered its population and enacted a one-child policy for decades. The government did it, not women. Then couples started aborting female foetuses to have males. China’s population reduction program was a success and now they’re whining that it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:31 PM
13

We didn’t have a system decades ago where women didn’t work. That was just in the UMC. My ancestors have all worked, I’ve traced my family back hundreds of years and not one housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:29 PM
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We know why women aren’t having as many kids. We don’t have enough money, we don’t get job security with maternity leave, and we face a pay cut after we have kids, plus we don’t have full bodily autonomy and can get arrested for having miscarriages and denied abortion in an unviable, life threatening pregnancy like I was in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:28 PM
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Women have always worked outside the home. I propose we take away male rights and give all the money to women so we can afford to have more children, plus we get our pick of the sperm we want. Men will be relegated to construction, aka “building civilization” jobs because lifting heavy stuff is the only thing they bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:26 PM
11

I had a stillbirth and not long afterwards my now-ex told me the baby died because she didn’t want me as a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:22 PM
3

He’s not lying. I’ve lived it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:54 PM
5

Is that because they get poked in the ass on the construction sites? I thought men took pride in “building civilization.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:54 PM
1

No. And lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:14 AM
1

But why should older women put younger women first, though? Why can’t women of all ages prioritize themselves the same way men of all ages prioritize themselves? Why should older women be the only ones to make sacrifices? What’s in it for us? Education gets women jobs, jobs get women money, money gets women independence, it doesn’t matter if men don’t value a woman’s education. Why should women live life for men rather than for ourselves? Yes, there are some 70 somethings with 20 something girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:07 AM
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Men make up the majority of OLD users so I fail to see how any responsibility can be attributed to women especially when women use them properly. Men try to cheat the system by swiping on every woman but women actually read the profiles and swipe on men who seem compatible based on their profile. Women also aren’t ones sexually harassing men and getting mad over rejection, nor are they the ones lying and saying they want relationships when they just want sex. I honestly don’t know what you expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:42 PM
1

Men make it personal on this sub all the time and I don’t see them getting reprimanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:25 PM
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It’s sexual assault but it’s not rape. Rape is defined as a penis forcefully penetrating a vagina. Saying rape can be committed with a vagina is like saying a knife can be the weapon of choice in a shooting, or that women can get kicked in the balls or that there’s a male equivalent to childbirth. There are some experiences women have for which there are no male equivalents, and there are some experiences men have for which there no female equivalents. Men desperately want the definition of rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:23 PM
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I don’t need sources because I’m presenting established facts. I’m also speaking from experience. Did you read the two books on domestic violence I suggested? They’re both written by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:14 PM
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It always comes down to them not wanting to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:12 PM
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Rape has to be committed with a penis. Thus women cannot rape men. Women can sodomize men, adult women can groom male teenagers and sexually assault them but they cannot rape. I did not come up with the term “rape”, I did not decide upon its definition. Most violence committed by women is done for good reasons. There’s a logical explanation behind it. Yep, there will be a few cases here and there that deviate from that norm but by and large if a woman is violent towards a man it’s because he sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:53 PM
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Also want to mention that I nearly died in childbirth twice so I acutely understand the dangers of pregnancy. A male cannot get pregnant via being sodomized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:13 PM
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I am not full of bias and I haven’t pulled my info out of nowhere. Also not out of touch with reality. The reason radical feminists will tell you the same thing I do is because the facts on these subjects have already been settled. I’m a trained journalist and I know how to research and interview. I’m also a domestic violence victim who has participated in counseling for victims I’m also a convicted criminal who has also had charges dropped because I was defending myself against men I have a son…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:10 PM
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Re: crime and sentencing Women get lighter sentences than men for the same crimes because women are less dangerous criminals than men, women also commit crimes for different reasons than men. Most criminal cases don’t go to trial, there’s instead a negotiation with the defence lawyer and prosecutor. Judges consider a whole pile of factors before deciding upon a sentence. Often a pre-sentencing report sort of thing is conducted to measure the perpetrator’s risk to society and risk of reoffending.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:51 PM
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Your entire post is based on an incorrect assumption that older women are actually preventing women in their 20s from getting together with men in their 30s, which is simply not true. However, if it were true, expecting older women to opt out of the dating market to give young women a chance with older men is both sexist and ageist. Fortunately, women in their 20s don’t really like men in their 30s as there are huge gaps in maturity, age, life stage, not to mention that men who seek out younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:14 PM
1

I thought you were an angry MRA who got divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:57 PM
5

It’s not miserable to be alone. It’s miserable to be with someone you settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:36 PM
1

I got pregnant intentionally before leaving my ex because I didn’t want to be with him as he was an asshole and I didn’t want to pay for a sperm donor. I also didn’t want to parent with a man or have a relationship with a man again. He has no idea and he’s better off for it. So are we. I’m proof women do this to hot, smart men. I’m entitled to sperm, shouldn’t have to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:06 AM
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Men didn’t build civilization, you just wrote women out of history. You were literally grown by a woman’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:39 PM
1

Men have bad manners. Why can’t I have bad manners?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:37 PM
1

You don’t own women in your country. There is no “our women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:36 PM
2

So you agree with what I’m saying, that male behaviour has destroyed online dating? Doesn’t matter if it’s a minority of men or a majority of men, it’s still MEN who are causing the problems. Women aren’t behaving in the same way so it’s purely a male problem and the reason those males behave that way is because other males have given them permission to do so by not policing other men’s behaviour. The behaviour of men on online dating apps is not new male behaviour either, btw there has always b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:08 PM
1

According to Pee Research, about half of mothers parents were once married, and 35% are cohabiting. That means only roughly 15% of single moms weren’t in a relationship with the child’s father. That doesn’t mean they weren’t in a relationship when they were impregnated. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2018/04/25/the-changing-profile-of-unmarried-parents/ Why should women have to get married to have children? I don’t want to be enslaved to a man. It’s also illegal to discriminate agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:30 PM
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So you’re saying that all single dads are unstable? For every single mom there is a single dad. For example, Elon Musk is a single dad. Grimes is a single mom. Kylie Jenner is the first woman billionaire and is a single mom. Travis Scott is a single dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:07 PM
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I’ll answer one of your questions for now. Why is it illegal to discriminate against women based on the number of sex partners she has had? It’s because that’s a traditional way men have persecuted women. Men aren’t persecuted for having lots of sex partners but women are. A woman having lots of sex partners doesn’t affect anyone rights and freedoms either but harping on a woman for being promiscuous is a traditional form of harassment and persecution. It’s a traditional way women have been excl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:03 PM
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Why do you find it repulsive though? Do you find penises repulsive? Do you find sexual intercourse repulsive? Do you find it repulsive to see a woman in the throes of sexual ecstasy? Let me guess though, you are pro-prostitution. It’s okay if THOSE women take a lot of dick, right? Did you know that human vaginas are self-cleaning and that no residual DNA (Ejaculate) from another man’s penis stays in a woman’s vagina for more than five days? So unless you fuck a woman within five days of her fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:55 PM
1

The men on this sub have already made up their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:46 PM
1

12 what? Do you mean the number of sex partners I’ve had in my over 26 years of being sexually active? That doesn’t make me promiscuous. I turn down most offers of sex. I’m lucky I get to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:44 PM
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What a dickhead. I’m going to email him to express my disapproval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:59 PM
3

Wow…you really see women as stereotypes don’t you. You don’t know shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:48 PM
0

That is the stupidest opinion I have ever read. Just popped in to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:06 PM
1

Why not just say “women are people, just like men”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:05 PM
3

I was 25 and had a relationship with a 33 year old man. Looking at old photos of us, he looks like an old man versus me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:01 PM
1

Dating young girls is pedophilia and illegal. That’s because it’s psychologically and physically damaging for young girls to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:59 PM
8

Cleaning cat litter and hairballs is definitely preferable to living with some man who thinks he owns all your stuff and can boss you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:58 PM
7

What’s wrong with a woman having a lot of sex? How does a woman’s former partners affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:56 PM
2

Yes it as you are factually wrong about all your claims. If not, I want to see your sources that prove single moms are sleeping with multiple men simultaneously when they get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:55 PM
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Most single moms aren’t promiscuous and it’s discrimination against women to make that accusation. It’s also illegal to discriminate against women based on how many sex partners she has had. Who cares if single moms receive benefits from the taxpayer to help keep them out of destitution? Do you really want mothers and little kids to die? Just because a child isn’t related to you doesn’t mean they don’t have value as human beings. A woman who has sex out of wedlock or a who leaves a man after hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:53 PM
4

Why do you assume single mothers are promiscuous? I had two kids with the same man with whom I was in a committed relationship. However, he anally raped me so I left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:40 PM
2

I’m interacting with you now. How does my n-count affect you? What are you feeling at this moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:37 PM
3

Finally a logical man on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:36 PM
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N-count. Men rejecting women who have good sexual skills and enjoy sex is one of the worst mating strategies out there. I find it especially funny that this opinion comes from men who support male-centric evolutionary biology that claims men are supposed to be wired to msximize their opportunities to create offspring….well….high n-count women are more likely to have babies because they are more likely to have sex. AND these women usually continue to have tons of suitors all of whom will help her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:33 PM
4

Why is that hilarious? It’s logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:34 PM
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Online dating can’t be fixed until men change their culture to become better people who don’t look down on women and see us as objects and potential servants. That means online dating cannot be fixed. Meet men at work like 25% of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:22 PM
5

My son is severely disabled and mentally a toddler. I fear for what will happen to him when he eventually enters a home for developmentally disabled adults. Wish I had the means to hire a caregiver to help me at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 10:35 PM
2

Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 10:27 PM
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I thought I’d already read some really stupid opinions on this sub but this is literally the most illogical misogynistic bullshit I have ever heard. A woman’s past =/= a man’s future. Men think they have the right to scrutinize women’s sexual histories but you don’t. It’s illegal for men to pry into a woman’s life like that. You can’t legally investigate your partner’s sexual history or demand it be disclosed. That’s abuse and is a criminal offense in some countries like the UK where coercive co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:19 AM
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I see what you mean about anal. I can’t take a man’s love seriously unless he lets me peg him with a strap-on and I definitely won’t let him in my ass until he first lets me in his. If he expects blow-jobs, I also expect him to eat cum from my pussy or suck it out the condom. A man who won’t take it in the ass or eat his own cum is an unfuckable hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:52 AM
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It’s always been like this in the West. Do you really believe peasants married noblewomen back in the day? Not sure why you’d believe you’d get better genetics from a woman in a third world country. That’s a really racist thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:54 AM
1

That’s how I select for mates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:40 AM
2

Women’s rise in power has resulted in an improvement in relationships between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:30 AM
0

Men peak at 21. That’s when you’re at your hottest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:27 AM
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Women could save men if we were given more power and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:26 AM
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For what reason do you think that’s virtue signalling? Also, it would be really bad for men’s mental health to take away their hope. Didn’t you know that men are more likely to successfully complete a suicide than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:23 AM
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So what? Men do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:17 AM
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If men can pay $100 to get access to a woman’s body for an hour, women should be able to pay $100 to get unlimited access to a man’s bank account for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:12 AM
1

Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:09 AM
12

Why would a 33 year old woman be attracted to a 45 year old fart?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:04 AM
4

40 year old men DO NOT have the pick of the litter. From where are you getting this nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:03 AM
23

One of my exes told me he didn’t want me to lose weight because then I’d be too hot for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:16 PM
31

Are you serious? He sounds crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:14 PM
17

One of mine did the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:14 PM
1

Yeah I guess I’m not a fun date. I don’t want be a prop or sex toy in someone else’s masturbation fantasy. Kink is selfish, it’s never about intimacy and mutual pleasure. It seems like kinky people don’t really have any standards for their sex partners either other than “willing” so the sex they have has nothing to do with love and affection for their partner. They also walk away from healthy relationships and good, supportive LTRs and marriages simply because they cannot function without their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:33 PM
0

Why would doggystyle be aberrant? It’s a very pleasurable position for both women and men and it’s not maladaptive, it’s natural. It doesn’t require either party to degrade themselves, wear unnecessary costumes, or relinquish additional amounts of power. To answer your other question about what constitutes aberrant sexual behaviour, I would say it’s any maladaptive sexual behaviour that serves no physical pleasure purpose but rather changes the power dynamics and degrade as well as any sexual be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:53 PM
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They’re not “sex positive”. They’re “sex aberrant” and they should be shamed because it’s unhealthy and men who have kinks are more likely to commit sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:15 AM
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I’ve had a man eat my ass and I felt I was dominating him because I interpreted it as him degrading himself and submitting to me. I don’t like unequal sexual encounters so I lose respect for men when they eat ass. I mean, I’d never eat ass. If a man wants me to dominate him, I am not the woman for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:13 AM
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All of them. I like natural, healthy sexuality, I don’t want to be beaten, dominated, controlled, insulted, penetrated in holes not meant for penis, nor do I want to be choked, slapped, spanked or have to dress up as someone other than myself. Kinks are booring, they get in the way of enjoying the physical and sensory sensation of sex and replace it with contrived narrative that is neither natural nor instinctive. All kinks involve dominance and most kinks in heterosexual relationships whether h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:10 AM
0

You’re the one acting dumb. You’re acting like women aren’t predominantly judged based on our attractiveness, that there’s no pressure on women to look attractive all the time, and that attractive people don’t receive better treatment and more opportunities, and are approached more for both romantic relationships and friendship. You’re also playing dumb pretending that many women have internalized beauty standards so much and are so dissatisfied with their natural appearance that they only feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:21 AM
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I can’t answer your question because it’s based on the incorrect assumption that women only try to look attractive and only conform to societal beauty standards for the purpose of sexually exciting men. I don’t believe you’re a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:36 AM
2

THAT’S EXACTLY HOW WOMEN FEEL!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:23 PM
1

What did you expect? You compared the communication skills and intellect of adult women to toddlers. That’s a pretty stupid, illogical thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:22 PM
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It doesn’t make any sense that you’d feel like you’re talking to a toddler when you’re talking to an adult woman. It’s not logical unless you’re talking to women with significant developmental delays in which case you’d be a sexual predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:32 PM
4

I have never felt entitled to dates and I won’t start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:55 PM
6

Oh no! Did I inadvertently turn you on? It wasn’t intentional…was it the taking his money part?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:54 PM
1

Why? Because women are taught by society that we have to look hot all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:39 PM
1

No way in hell. Not letting my significant other pimp me out so he can masturbate. I’d leave any man who asked and take as much of his money with me as possible, tell his boss and his mom what he asked of me. Edited your say this is honestly a really stupid and insulting question to ask and I hope you’re just a dumb kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:35 PM
1

Yes. I am the only female of all my siblings and I felt pressure to have kids for that reason. I
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:19 PM
0

I regret being born in this era for one reason—porn. But I like that I have the choice to be single rather than be forced to date and/or marry a man who uses porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:18 PM
1

This is off topic but how geriatric are you? Do you have Viagra?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:15 PM
5

I care about face and intelligence more than body. A man’s eyes and lips 👄 are what draw me in. British & Canadian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:12 PM
1

What planet are you living on? Women have been asked or forced to settle since the beginning of time and that’s still happening. FYI, your hatred of promiscuous women is utterly irrational, not based in logic or reason. Why would you assume a promiscuous woman loved her previous partners more than she loves you? All your hang-ups about promiscuous women are in your head. Also, why do you think you get to interfere with women’s freedom to choose how many lovers we have in our lifetimes? You have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:07 PM
3

That’s what white men DO say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:49 PM
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Autism doesn’t mean lack of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:22 AM
2

I would agree, and it’s not a bad thing. It means women as a group have outgrown patriarchal ideals of what a woman and wife are supposed to be. I’m not marriage material myself, and I have never strove to be. Growing up I saw for myself what a sham mariage was and how traditional marriage only benefited men. It’s good that only 20% of women are still submissive enough to tolerate the horror of marriage. Congratulations to the other 80% who exceeded men enough in their brilliance and success to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:15 AM
2

Hell no. High IQ men only for me, I don’t care HOW hot he is, he will resent my intelligence if he isn’t as smart as me. I only date men whose intellects exceed mine. As a woman, having a relationship with a man, especially a marriage, means being able to trust he has good judgment. Men always end up having the final say because of misogyny and patriarchal structures within heterosexual relationships so the ONLY kind of man I could fall for has to be able to best me in a debate as well as demons…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:05 AM
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We’re more capable. Married women have an adult male dragging them down and thinking he’s in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:55 AM
1

Yes, I didn’t know he was redpilled, don’t think he was when we started the relationship. Things changed, his behaviour changed. He started trying to control me by triangulating me with other women when I didn’t do what he wanted, tried controlling me with his attention. It backfired on him because I had a higher SMV and RMV and far, far more options and I also didn’t want to be with someone like that, someone who valued masculine dominance over mutual partnership, mental health and emotional se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:53 AM
0

I knew my ex was red pilled because I saw what he was reading online and his behaviour matched up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:14 AM
2

What do you mean? Dread game and negging make me horny. So does being referred to as a “plate.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:02 AM
3

I have an autistic child and it’s hard to find opportunities to get them to socialize with other kids. The opportunities that exist for inclusion aren’t enough and aren’t of the right sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:37 PM
2

Don’t be a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:33 PM
3

Expecting women to put up with porn use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:32 PM
8

Older women don’t have problems finding sex or love. Older women actively avoid sex and love because men stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:57 PM
1

Women don’t have much agency in relationships. That’s why women are never guilty of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:55 PM
1

Men don’t own children. If a woman has a child, it’s HER child. This is why I got pregnant and left, didn’t tell him about it, didn’t want a man to think he owned my children. If my sperm donor ever called my child “his”, I’d make him sorry. Why should I commit to a man when he wants me to do all the reproductive labour but expects to own the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:52 PM
-2

Women can offer what you say you offer. Soooo….what do you have to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:48 PM
-6

So women who are 3s can fix their dating problems by going after 7s and 8s? How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:41 PM
1

Bezos is sooo tiny…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:13 PM
2

He was a firefighter before he was an actor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:12 PM
1

Ha! He’s so ugly but if he’s funny his ugliness doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:12 PM
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Yes, I would leave if marriage was something I wanted. It’s why I ultimately left my partner from my 20s. He didn’t want marriage after four years together so I called it quits. Marriage isn’t just a piece of paper, it’s a contract, it gives each party financial protection in case of a split, provides compensation to whichever parent gave up their career or put their career on the back burner to raise kids and do domestic chores. Married couples also get other benefits unmarried couples don’t. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:09 PM
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That’s exactly why success or failure in online dating doesn’t accurately reflect how appealing you are in the real world. I can’t tell if I’m going to be sexually attracted to a man or a woman—I’m bisexual—based on his photos, even objectively good looking men and women with objectively great bodies who are great on paper before all else I want someone who is intelligent and whose personality and sense of humour click with mine. Society would be better off if online dating were eliminated. Both…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:02 PM
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Circumcised penises have become the norm in the US so that’s why American women like them, they like what they know. It’s my understanding too that boys who are circumcised usually have circumcised fathers so it’s not the women who are driving this trend. As a single mother, I chose not to have my son circumcised as I do believe it’s mutilation and it isn’t done in my family or culture. Before I had my son I asked a variety of men I know about their opinions on circumcision before I made a final…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:54 PM
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She’s not hated. I love her posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:44 PM
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The education system was created for boys and is still run the same as it was back when girls and boys had segregated classrooms. Men and boys now see being good at school as feminine so you don’t try at school because you don’t want to be girly. Don’t blame that on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:41 PM
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You must be from a low socioeconomic group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:39 PM
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There has always been a lot of single mothers in our society. In eras past it was mostly due to men dying in war or on the job but there was still A LOT of children born out of wedlock. Single motherhood isn’t a problem either. It’s income-level and socioeconomic class. Kids of single moms will do just as well as kids from two-parent households from the same income bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:35 PM
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Gender roles are still traditional here despite women having had some of our natural rights restored, one of those natural rights is the right to refuse and choose sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:30 PM
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I can see why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:26 PM
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Or on the toilet as I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:18 PM
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I’m here to practice not becoming murderously enraged over misogyny to the point where I want to blow things up so I want to practice my diplomacy skills and practice controlling my temper. The sub also reminds me I have a really normal outlook on relationships so it bolsters my self-esteem. Plus, this sub is fascinating from a sociological and psychological standpoint. Really want to understand the segment of men who are obsessed with making women private property in order to get access to sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:17 PM
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Just an observation but I notice that men on this sub get really riled up over the terms “scrote” and anything referring to dislike for small penises, yet you accuse women of being “stuck up on mean language.” What would you prefer I say “I prefer men with larger than average penises” or “ain’t not going to fuck me some shrimp-dicked housework-dodgin’ salad-dodgin’, draft dish in’, porn-watchin’ scrote.” How is it acceptable to phrase my preference for big dicks? (I know EXACTLY my favourite siz…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:40 PM
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I’ve had short boyfriends and tall ones. If men see me with short guys does that mean they think I’ve settled for a short guy cause I can’t attract a taller one? Would tall guys be put off knowing I’d gone short in the past? My last partner was your height. I’m an inch shorter. He had a beautiful face and a ripped body, was a great runner, smart, great at languages. We had two kids. I dumped him because he started using cocaine, became porn-obsessed and stopped working, expected me to pay for ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:24 PM
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The problem with male “preferences” is that they put women at a disadvantage, they place us in a subordinate position. If you don’t see why that’s a problem, please give me a non-white male slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:14 PM
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I think about it ALL the time, ever since a man was convicted of assaulting and stalking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:08 PM
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If you called me a cunt to my face you would be in an ambulance right now. You can’t handle that I’m smarter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:22 AM
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Forced sterilization continues to happen in the US whether it’s legal or not. For example, illegal migrants have been forcefully sterilized in the past few years, there’s been a public outcry about it. No one is going to legislate forced sterilization, it’s just going to happen covertly but on a larger scale than it already does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:21 AM
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Have you ever bothered researching whether men loved to pay child support before abortion was legal? Men have had to pay child support for centuries and centuries but it used to be the churches that would investigate paternity in the case of an unwed mother and go after the father for money for her. Our society has always needed child support collectors because men have always shirked their responsibilities. Your position makes no logical sense either. Many women who have abortions do so because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:18 AM
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Have you ever been through a pregnancy? Pregnancy is life threatening you know, it’s painful, it causes incontinence in nearly 40% of women and chronic pain in even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:16 AM
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So your problem is that women get to decide how to use their bodies. You’re okay with child support, you’re just not okay with women controlling when they do and do not continue a pregnancy. You want men to be the ones who decide when and if a baby is born. Men already have that choice. It’s called “don’t Ejaculate in a vagina.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:33 PM
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Women will die because of an abortion ban. Does that mean we get to execute a certain number of men for CONGRUENCE. Like if you impregnate me, anc I need an abortion because of a complication and can’t get one and die, you should be executed for congruence. I did almost die in pregnancy twice. One time I needed an abortion and couldn’t get one. It’s just luck that I survived. Also, if a man impregnates a woman, she wants an abortion and can’t get one, he should have to face physical and emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:29 PM
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Child support enforcement won’t become more strict, what will happen is there will be huge increase in single moms as well as female poverty and child poverty. I suspect though that forced sterilization will become a thing for men who create too many single moms and don’t pay child support. I also suspect women who have too many kids out of wedlock will be forcibly sterilized and that it’s going to disproportionately happen to marginalized women. Babies will also be stolen again from young unmar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:21 PM
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I want men to pay for dates and lifestyle UNTIL we get equal pay and until men do as much childcare and housekeeping as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:16 PM
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I’d be fascinated to see these profiles. I mean, I believe you and your results but I enjoy social media experimentation. I just don’t understand why it’s so surprising that hot women prefer hot men. Hot men prefer hot women. How is it possible that your generation grew up not knowing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:56 PM
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I’m a misandrist. I genuinely despise men as a group and I don’t need any of those insults. I prefer devising my own custom insults based on a man’s appearance and personality. I also like to custom insult their fathers and tell them how I think their fathers would look with my strap-on in their ass. Imagine your dad biting a pillow while i rail him from behind for the sins of males. I don’t like slurs, i rather prefer providing graphic statements about the ways I want to degrade male bodies as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:31 PM
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Entitlement is best exemplified by men who believe they have the right to pornography and the right to orgasm in a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:16 PM
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I think you have it backwards. Tell me, as a young man, how are you being shamed into being a perfect partner for young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:15 PM
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I liked being taller than my last boyfriend. I felt it gave me all the authority in the relationship. I also made more money too and the scrote had to be harangued to clean and he couldn’t cook. It’s more important to me that a man cook and clean than be tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:49 PM
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Women are goddesses who create life. We create men so it is our birthright to rule over you. I think we should start doing penis-ectomies on 50% male babies so they won’t grow up with the same kind of strange beliefs you have about your birthright. Use the penisless for hard labour and the bepenised for breeding. A Penis is not a magic wand that means you can do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:46 AM
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Why not have sex with other men and hug your male friends? Men can surely suck dick better than women can. A warm hole is a warm hole. It’s in men’s best interests to be practicing bisexuals or pansexuals to eliminate the loneliness problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:33 AM
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I feel the same way but about men. I punish men IRL emotionally for how awful other men are on Reddit and online in general, and I also punish men on Reddit emotionally in retaliation for how awful men are IRL. We all need to express our rage, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:23 AM
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Just like how the Muslim ass is meant to serve the pleasures of the white man’s dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:07 AM
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And complaining about white women isn’t both racist and misogynistic? I’m also not “white”. “White” is a term for people of mixed ethnicities who happen to have pale skin and come from a Christian family background. My ancestors come from one place—the UK—I am British, not “white”. I’m not the same as a Russian or a German or a Spaniard or a Frenchwoman and they wouldn’t want to be considered the same as any of the British ethnic groups. I’m also not progressive, not in the sense that it means “…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:07 PM
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Tell me you’ve never had sex without saying you haven’t had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:33 PM
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At least we’re not completely bereft of human decency like Muslim and Indian men. Plus we smell better. Your countries can’t even get personal hygiene right. What I want Muslim men for is servitude. G-d visited me and told me Muhammad and his minions were meant to serve the white, Western woman. We’re better than you, smarter than you and you know it. You come from an uncivilized and backwards part of the world, from an unevolved culture. I have so much pride that I am all for Europeans, especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:39 PM
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Women don’t cause male suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:29 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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