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LIES MEN TELLbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:50 PM
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STRATEGYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:58 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:37 AM
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RANTbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:31 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:55 PM
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How-To High Valuebiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:27 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:15 PM
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STAY WOKEbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:21 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:22 PM
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LEVEL UPbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:13 AM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:11 PM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:57 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:40 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:05 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:32 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:28 PM
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RANTbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:24 AM
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NAH, SISbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:58 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:13 PM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:03 AM
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COUCH CREATURESbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:41 AM
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Muh PENISbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:19 AM
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PICKME CULTUREbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:49 PM
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SCROTES MADbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:27 AM
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NAH, SISbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:04 AM
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Muh PENISbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:41 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:20 AM
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LIES MEN TELLbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:07 PM
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Story time ☕biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:15 AM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:21 PM
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RANTbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:24 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 11:30 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:40 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:12 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:10 AM
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SCROTATION REPORT biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:47 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:24 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:41 AM
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SCROTATION REPORT biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:58 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:42 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:49 AM
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SORRY, NOT SORRY.biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:45 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:06 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:26 PM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:37 AM
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NAH, SISbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:59 AM
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NAH, SISbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:46 AM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:19 AM
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SCROTES MADbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:55 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:05 PM
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RANTbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:38 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨biwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:18 AM
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LVM LOGICbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:58 PM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:51 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:44 PM
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RANTbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:42 PM
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#JustLVMThingsbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:15 PM
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DISCUSSIONbiwinny/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:33 AM
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Damn not even flattered or grateful or anything 🥴 they really are soulless beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:49 AM
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It's not the fact that he wants his wife to get fancy for a fancy date, or he wants to get dressed up with her when they go out. Its the fact that he's obsessed with her being beautiful as a core part of his love for her. Like her physical beauty is her most defining characteristic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:06 AM
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Needless negativity has never helped anyone but thanks. Gotta make sure you have company in misery I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:43 AM
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I think women are capable of being friends with men, but I dont think men are capable of being friends with women. Their own actual friendships are shallow. They dont usually talk about their struggles in a vulnerable way and don't turn to each other during hard times. They don't ever recommend getting help or pursuing healthy coping mechanisms. They just take them out drinking and try to pick up new women lmao. My ex was friends with his group for 6 years and didn't know any of their birthdays.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:59 PM
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I read the first one and I'm not reading any of the rest. Men never fail to disgust me. I guarantee some of these dudes are the same ones that complain men have it so hard when it comes to dating. I love how they "feel bad" but you have to be psychotic to do anything like that in the first place. You don't knowingly do awful things to people and then claim to feel bad later lmao. It wasn't an accident and you did nothing to make up for it afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:31 PM
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Congrats to the future single mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:16 PM
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He also got some weird hormone crap done to his pregnant wives because all 6 of his kid are male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:15 PM
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"Nobody cares about men's problems 😡!!" Women's problems: Men's problems:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:00 PM
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I hope she and her mother find a way to move out together and find peace without him. There are plenty of jobs she could get, even something part time would be good if she is scared to approach the work force. I hope that she eventually leaves him and experiences life as a single, free woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:56 PM
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Ew I'll never understand this. I get that everyone is at their peak in their 20s and 30s but having a child that age should maybe change your desires...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:51 PM
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No it pisses me off because you ask a man what he loves about you, and he'll sit there for ten minutes and come up with "I can be myself around you." But they can insult you constantly and effortlessly throughout the day??? No. These types of jokes get shut down in my relationships quick because I will roast them back, and I'm better at it. Now we're both mad. Honestly though, now I would just leave if the teasing got to be too much. I'm all for jokes, but nothing he says is a joke if he's not a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:25 PM
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Happy Birthday Aquarius queen ♒️ Proud of you for standing your ground! Hopefully you spend your next birthday with a guy who wants to get you something you'll love ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:58 PM
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Thanks for this, very insightful ♡ these comments are honestly bringing back memories i forgot because in highschool, I went on a couple dates with this person who was possessive and literally told me they wanted to abuse me, and the next day I saw my friend walking buddy buddy with them. I remember we fought about that. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:10 PM
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No! They do not change! They only temporarily adjust their behavior long enough for you to stay, but they will always go back to their own ways. Unless the man has gotten therapy, there is a 100% chance that he will do you dirty the same exact way he did the first time. You'd be amazed the extent they go to lie. Don't believe it. They will cry, they will beg, they will get on their KNEES for you, and still fuck you over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:50 PM
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When news came that he passed, I thought "good riddance." I can't believe how many people hold him in high regards. Its insane to me that the whole culture around playboy existed at all. Just disgusting. I can't believe men are so blind to the blatantly sexist and anti woman culture we live in. Oh well. Hopefully he's burning in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:07 AM
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Because money is quite literally all men bring to the table and they know it. Not all men though, some are broke, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:33 PM
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I would just say no and block him lmao. Men are so obsessed with these little power plays. Best way around it is to not play at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:31 PM
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Don't forget the wrinkled 30 year old sports posters with scantily clad women posing And the permanent ring in the bathtub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:21 PM
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Right and thats why the suicide statistics among single men are the way they are. My favorite thing about men is the fake reality they create in their heads, and the fact that being blatantly and easily proved wrong doesn't stop their delusions. Cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:17 PM
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They have such a talent for spinning any conversation into their favor. Obviously he was such a funny guy and she was so lame. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:02 AM
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The reasons given were they were worried the women would use them to make fires or ropes lol 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:02 AM
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"The scrusaders" 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:59 AM
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I promise any woman who ends up married to these men did not do it out of her own free will. The women aren't missing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:49 PM
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It's disgusting because this program was created to help lonely people, and of course men take it upon themselves to degrade the female AIs. Like what the fuck is wrong with them? I play a game on my phone called BitLife, and you'll see the exact same stuff on that sub. Men having multiple daughters that they name sexually degrading slurs. I hate them. They're evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:58 PM
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The way I'd take my kidney back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:52 PM
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All men, POC or otherwise, grow up in patriarchal cultures and societies. I vet them all the same, however, with white men, you are more likely to gain their families' support if he hurts you. In some poc cultures, it's more taboo to bring it up than it is to just let it continue. But it's like that a lot in white cultures too, so you can't really vet too differently between races/cultures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:49 AM
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Yes. Currently this guy I went to a movie with once last month has been messaging me memes, vids, and stuff to me daily and I've not replied once. It's just so weird that he keeps messaging. The "date" wasn't even good. It was really awkward and clear there was no chemistry. I even unfollowed him lol. I almost want to tell him to respect himself and stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:45 AM
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"I would never rape my woman but ALSO the men who do might have a good reason??? Like they wanted to? Idk think about it from our point of view. But at the very least don't make me feel bad about myself:'(("
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:37 PM
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Incel's problems stem 100% from their own insecurities and viewing of women as status symbols. I remember reading multiple males comments saying they would literally date ANY woman. Fat, ugly, old, 10 children, stupid, etc. so many of them said they would take ANYONE. Dude. Your desperation is so loud, women can smell it when you're near. You hate yourself, have no self respect, have no standards and you reflect that on the world around you. The truth is, these dudes dont just hate women. They h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:10 PM
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Yes !!! This is in my likes too:) I wish this sub would let us post vids here, wonder why they took away that feature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:23 AM
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It's crazy to me how delusional these guys are. What do they think? That young women are just flattered to be around them and given bare minimum? No. She's there for the money, just like you're there for her young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:11 PM
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Lol @ these old sagging men who truly believe young women want them for their aggressive dad bod charm, while they get to use them as a little trophy. Nope. You decided to enter into a contractual relationship. You pay her and take care of her, while she makes you feel young and important. Sorry babes, it can't be one sided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:10 PM
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Never knew this! That makes it so much worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:01 AM
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He wasn't like that at all. Just a seemingly normal dude. There's no competition or "type" of man who does these things. They are all capable of these thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:00 PM
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My parents got married when my mom was 18 and my dad was 30. She was a wild child who lied about her age to get into bars and clubs in the 90s where they met, but he still didn't leave when he found out her age so ¯\(ツ)/¯ Anyway, I just thought it was normal tbh. Most of my friends didn't have dads, period, so I also didn't get a sense of anything weird until I was older as there were no true examples of what a "normal" family looked like. I remember being 16 and my mom encouraging me to pursue …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:29 AM
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Omg This is the funniest thing I've ever read. What a fucking queen dude lmao. Dudes are always so surprised when women give them their own medicine 😂 I hope he remembers that forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:46 PM
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I'm white, but one time met up with a hispanic guy who asked if I had a fetish. Before I even got to answer he said his was Asian girls. I looked at him awkwardly like "????" And he said, "But its okay though! Its not like a NEED an Asian, I just want one eventually." Like they're just dolls, or something. I think he thought i was offended because I'm white and he was "praising" Asian girls, but really I felt immediately uncomfortable and knew this dude didn't see me as human either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:04 PM
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This shit is why i never want to have a son. I think they're just born like this. I couldn't live with myself knowing I brought such a terrorist into the world. A group-chat for SA??? Literal degenerates that I -sorry not sorry- hope rope soon. I'm glad she was able to be saved from that. I cant believe the sickness in the male brain dude. Guarantee there are scrotes reading my comment and thinking "Well not me!!! Not me!!!>:((" instead of focusing on the real problem which does in fact, make th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:59 PM
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Kids is definitely the only thing that would make me consider marriage, or like, buying land lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:50 PM
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It would be nice to live in a duplex where one side is yours and the other is your partners! Imagine how cute that would be lol. And you both have your own space to decorate and live in, plus nothing stopping you from having "sleepovers" whenever you want. For real a dream! I just dont want someone who feels some type of way about how I spend my money, or worse, have a man use his money against me. ("Well this is MY house/car/whatever" or "well I paid for this.")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:49 PM
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Even if that was considered "vanilla" why is that a bad thing? Why is regular sex considered lame? People have only been doing it since the dawn of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:05 PM
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Literally lmao. These guys want to leave their women behind to pursue sex with others but then the women are like "fine ¯_(ツ)_/¯" and end up sleeping with 10x the amount of people for little effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:54 PM
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He "settled" but his loyal, traveling, and working boss of a wife is out, and he's online looking for permission from others to cheat on her 🥴 I hope she's cheating first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:51 PM
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Yep if you're on the fence about leaving him, a quick scroll through his group chat will make you lose any attraction and feelings you ever had for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:28 AM
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I used to care about coming off rude, and men would come up to me all the fucking time. Not even necessarily to blatantly hit on me, but they would just linger around me having conversations or just being in my space despite my obvious discomfort and lame replies. Ever since I stopped trying to fight my naturally unimpressed relaxed facial expressions and unenthusiastic voice, men don't look ME in the eyes anymore lmao. I stopped being overly polite which led to me being more confident, and bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:01 AM
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I once was in a very bad place and looking to hookup with an older guy. I was 21 he was 36, he said "I love young sl*ts" and then blocked me when I got offended by being called that. Then unblocked me, apologized and offered to pay for an uber to bring me to him. Never pursued an older guy after that. Also when I was 12, i met a 16/17 year old guy online that told me he was 14. We were friends online for years, talking about school and anime, until I was 17 and he let it slip that he just had hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:50 AM
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Hi, last year I left a guy who unknowingly controlled me through that damn phone because he cheated and traumatized me to the point of checking his phone sometimes twice at night 😐 Here are some. If he has a groupchat with his friends and they send pictures of girls to each other. UGH. Gross and fucking weird. Triple or quadruple red flags if they are women you/they know irl. If he never posts pictures of you unless you ask. Same with the never interacting, like you mentioned. Its so embarrassin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:45 AM
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Literally same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:35 AM
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Ah yes, in order to feel genuine affection for us, men must need to deem our bodies worthy of their seed 🥴 Shoot me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:31 AM
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Lol this was my reason behind my post. Saw a bunch of dudes complaining about a post here, that men really have it so hard in the dating world, and women are shallow. 😂 At least one dude will see the hypocrisy, I hope. Don't see a high demand in the male community for unhygienic, boring women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:55 PM
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I personally love video games but like you said, sitting there neglecting your health while all of your energy goes into something unimportant is repulsive. Though, at least with knitting, you have something to show for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:48 PM
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This is just so.... rapey. Seriously. Rapey. I'm sorry that you & so many girls were used by men liked this. Ugh. Their entitlement and lack of compassion for others never fails 👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:45 AM
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They're literally worthless lmao I got to wonder what these men offer their gfs/wives outside of something warm to sleep next to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 11:40 PM
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For real. I'd like to know what role men play in their families outside of the ATM. Some of them aren't even good at that. Just ask any child which of their parents they prefer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:53 PM
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An ex bought me flowers only twice in our relationship. Once on Valentine's Day where he came home with an $8 bunch of flowers and told me "I was going to get you the roses, but they were expensive!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:16 PM
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"I dont know what to say"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:58 AM
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Our brains were literally designed to notice patterns for survival. There's a reason everyone, not just women, are weary of males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:35 AM
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Dude my ex was a porn addict, and seemed normal, but had creepy tendencies. We were 20 years old and his dick didn't work because he masturbated so much. He had normal pictures of girls we went to highschool with from their social medias, but cropped them to focus on their boobs or ass or whatever. It was fucking disgusting to see multiple girls I grew up with and shared childhood memories with be defiled in someone's son's phone. Ugh. They still are creeps & weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:22 AM
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Wow what a hard fucking life he has. A loving wife at home, safe and carrying their little baby, makes him meals, and wants to spend quality time with him? Oh god, I wonder how he can even cope. I can't believe how uncaring people are towards pregnant women. The other day I read an article about a man refusing to give up his seat on the bus to a VERY pregnant woman. Motherfucker thought he was Rosa Parks from how proud he was to explain why she didn't deserve the seat. The majority of the commen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:11 AM
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If you've ever genuinely sat down with women, and asked them to detail their experiences with men, you'd realize that most likely, yes. Men are rarely kind to anyone, but if they are, it's only towards other adult men. They're never on the receiving end of male entitlement and predation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:44 AM
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This is a comment i found under his tweet, but the way I found his tweet was from someone calling him out that had 86k likes, if it makes you feel any better:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:20 AM
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Thanks, and I know. My goal in life is not to find a man to settle down with, and thats not why it bothers me. Relationships are the least of my concern, I can just date a woman whenever I want to get into one. However the male gaze extends far past relationships. Its not that I can't see myself without them, its that no matter what I do I can't get them to leave me alone! Their opinions and stupid ass comments are always going to be there to ruin the fun. I guess you cant let them. Definitely n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:40 PM
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Men say women can't rule because we're too emotional, but then create the sickest and most exploitive society possible. Maybe the world would be good if people used some emotions when approaching social issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:34 PM
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Right. I thought they were emotionally repressed, turns out the only emotion they feel is anger 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:19 PM
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Thanks for this ♡ this did make me feel more confident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:44 AM
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I know we have value forever ! However thats not the way society sees it, is what I mean. But i agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:44 AM
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I posted on the venting subreddit that men are generally cruel towards women and other men enable it because they don't realize how cruel it is, and I just got shit on over and over and these men really tell me with a straight face that women do the same thing and it all makes me want to have a breakdown. Why do they refuse to see what is so blatantly obvious ?!?!?! What did women do to deserve so much hate and cruelty?!?!? They choose every day not to listen and understand the billions of women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:55 PM
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"As a girl"- 👨🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:58 PM
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You're right. Im usually not one to reply but people got me fucked up today lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:01 PM
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Ffs please stop acting like FDS is anywhere close to what incels do. It's not. You can't even make a violent joke here, they genuinely talk about their rape fantasies involving their female relatives, and FDS has "men are trash" and dating advice. 😐 its literally not cherry picking, its the truth. You can read the comments on that post and immediately call bullshit lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:52 PM
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Wow. More people need to use the term "fuck zoned" and i think men would actually understand lol. Either way, i agree. Every male friendship I've had has ended after i reject them and say "lets stay friends". They always disappear. They never stay friends. Dont ever check up on me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:47 AM
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Im just SO happy you got out of that ! He sounds awful 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:31 PM
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I got married at 19 after 1 year of dating and we separated when i was 20💀 I knew it wouldn't last and so did everyone else but kids are stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:15 PM
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To be fair though, Grimes constantly changes her hair and has had multiple different colors while with Elon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:08 PM
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I remember when I was with my ex, i told him anout a celebrity couple that broke up because of cheating and how sad it was. He goes: "When you're famous like that why would you be faithful? I mean you can literally have anyone you want. Why would you be faithful?" That should have made me leave. He said that in the second week we were dating and it stuck with me all the way until now, a year after it ended. And yes, he cheated on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 02:37 PM
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I love video games but you need to play them casually. Idk why dudes can't limit themselves. They can't just play videogames for an hour or two a day, they have to play for 8-10. Also they all play the exact same games. Overwatch, call of duty, League of Legends, like where are the dudes who just chill and play the sims lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:38 PM
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He was in bootcamp & tech school during my birthday, he told me he couldn't get me a gift because he's too busy so he sent me some money. I was understanding and fine with it. I hung out with his family all the time, came to his graduation in a different state to support him and when i finally checked his phone, I saw all the texts he sent to his ex asking her for nudes and flirting. Wanna guess which day they had their longest text conversation? My fucking birthday 🙃 Yeah that fucked me up for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:32 PM
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Yeah that was the worst part of the breakup tbh. Like he just couldn't believe I'd actually leave after a year of actively communicating my issues and having nothing change. He finally apologized for everything I wished he did when we were together. All of a sudden when I leave he "realized" that he was the problem. Too little, too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:23 PM
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True but they did Fiona so dirty in her relationship arcs. Meanwhile Debbie gets all these awesome partners and ruins the relationships 😭 hard to watch sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:16 AM
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Ughhh 🙄😂always black & white and nothing on the walls, and thank you 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:19 AM
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Fiona Gallagher and literally every man she was with. Except the guy who owned the cup business, she did him dirty. Everyone else though, trash. Fiona is beautiful, responsible, extremely hardworking, smart, loving, empathetic, resourceful, and selfless. Jimmy lied to her constantly, i mean ffs she didn't know his real name was Jimmy for 2 seasons. He would just take off and leave without notice and come back and pay for things to make up for it. He used her as a plan B anytime his life wasn't g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:48 AM
31

Tbh i dont think they give a fuck or feel guilt about watching porn at all. Even the most rough and degrading porn will have men in the comments asking "Anywhere I can find something rougher?" They don't care. They just don't want women to stop doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:38 AM
33

Not to mention plenty of people justify r@pe by saying "Well when she's wearing that, how could a man control himself." Or when they say that not r@ping women goes against their evolutionary urges. If that's true they belong in cages, then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:37 AM
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Women and children will be the ones to suffer most at the hands of the Taliban. ALSO the issue most countries have with refugees is that wherever they're accepted, there's a rape and crime epidemic. Guess who's raping and killing people? MEN. Always. So leave them there for a while, while we figure out how to get the women and their children out of literal & sexual slavery. Nobody deserves to live under that rule, but the men will be okay compared to others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:34 AM
12

All they want is attention so just don't give it to them 🤷🏻‍♀️ nothing you say can change their minds, they are the way they are through willful ignorance anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:30 AM
25

Yep lmao. Men demand the world from women and give nothing in return. I mean please, I'm so bored. Why does every man my age play the exact same videogames for 8-12 hours a day, wear the same plain colored tshirts and ill fitting jeans, put absolutely no effort into their appearance past brushing their teeth, have EDs under 30 years old from crippling porn addiction and thinks they deserve one of the millions of unique, interesting and beautiful women in the world. NO! You don't! I can't wait fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:39 PM
27

I really want children one day, but first i have to come to terms with the fact that i will most likely be a single mom since men are allowed and sometimes even encouraged to contribute absolutely nothing but money to a household. I've always wanted to adopt children but best believe I wont be adopting any males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:34 PM
63

So can someone tell me why kinkshaming is a bad thing? Like are people for real acting as if kinkshaming is more damaging than allowing men to normalize the idea of fucking children more than they already have? 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:52 PM
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Dudes with an anime obsession or dudes who fetishize asian women are almost always sick in the head. They love the idea of a domesticated woman who forever looks 15, that also wont talk back, but somehow loves their obese greasy incel ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:50 PM
80

I used to be super against guns but men have completely flipped me to the other side and im genuinely considering getting a license to conceal carry. These men are shameless and have no limits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:44 PM
89

Idk this isnt something normal people just do or expect out of others. I think its worth praise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:23 PM
3

Yes. So much is owed to parenting. I went to beauty school with a woman with a 12 year old son. She told some of us how her son said he has "hoes" thinking we would find it funny. When no one laughed she goes "ugh y'all are so sensitive he's just a kid." Uh yeah. Which means its YOUR responsibility to raise him to be a respectful and good person. Also those little girls he calls "hoes" are just children too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:53 AM
3

I love how he literally cant accept that what he said was wrong despite everyone calling him an asshole. I bet he's arguing with people in the comments too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:33 AM
4

They are so stunning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:45 PM
3

Of course :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:38 PM
5

If you put a single crab in a bucket, usually they are able to find a way to climb out. If you put multiple crabs in the same bucket, despite being even closer to the top because they're stacked on eachother, no crabs are able to get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:35 PM
1

You put this into words perfectly!!! People act like everyone into astrology can't make a decision unless they read their chart every day or literally wont associate with people if they don't like their signs. Thats not it at all. Even people in this comment section have been lowkey belittling the hobby and making snide comments at me for enjoying it. Its really frustrating because at the end of the day its for fun and self reflection. Its not a religion, and most people don't live by their birt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:30 AM
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Yeah i called it a hobby and not a belief system for a reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:20 AM
2

I tend to vibe hella with geminis:) you guys get a bad rep for no reason ! Virgos should be getting the hate instead lollll Jokes aside, you are more than your sun sign!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:18 AM
2

Ugh yes lets be friends! Your sister sounds like she has a great guy and im glad he supports her:) and you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:56 PM
2

Okay thats cool it's a hobby not a way of life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:45 PM
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Its cool, to each their own. I think Christianity is irrational too, but everyone's experiences and life influences their beliefs:) And everyone should be respectful to each other whether or not they disagree Edit: love that i got downvoted but she didn't lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:44 PM
2

Yep. Anything women enjoy will eventually become the butt of the joke. Can't do shit without men seething
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:43 PM
1

The death card is a positive card. It never actually means death, it means rebirth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:38 PM
5

Its definitely a hobby and not a way of life. Anyone that makes big and important decisions based on astrology is wack. To each their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:37 PM
18

I personally have never known anyone like that, and i agree it would be annoying. But thats fs not the majority of people in the hobby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:59 AM
15

Its so annoying that they're like this. Men swear women only like manly men eat beef and be strong and angery But men like Harry Styles, Timothee Chalamet, ezra miller, david bowie, ect are all adored by millions of women. Like feminine men are so hot. I genuinely think BØRNS is my soulmate lmao. I promise its not because of his machismo and gatekeeping "intellectual" hobbies. Its because he's poetic, emotional and beautiful. But yeah true men eat raw steak and wear skid marked cargo shorts whil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:56 AM
9

Sure:) send me a dm of your chart or birth time, date, and birth location and I'll do a basic reading for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:50 AM
54

Ugh its so sad seeing these girls i went to highschool with have kids right now. We're all 20 years old and literally none of those couples stayed together. One girl got pregnant at 17 with her first baby and had another at 19. She's now a single mom of 2 at 20 years old because her scrote husband cheated on her. Please wait to have kids until you can take care of them yourself if necessary, and when you have someone who will step up as a father. Not one or the other. Both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:17 AM
4

I think it all depends on how it makes you feel. If being called adorable makes you feel patronized, tell him. If being called adorable makes you feel good about yourself, let yourself enjoy it. I think its nice and I'd love to be called adorable, but if you dont, that's completely valid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:11 AM
3

Im so sorry for the loss of both your best friend and goddaughter. I'm also sorry for everything you've been through with that scrote. I can tell you have a caring heart, and your sister seems like such a lovely and confident person ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:53 AM
19

LMAO then they bitch about how online dating is so hard for men and stupid women have it so easy I wonder why men have such a hard time getting matches hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:49 AM
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My ex used to invite me over to his house and immediately put his headset on and play games with his friends for hours. He was shocked that this pissed me off because we were "hanging out" even though he had "stuff to do" Lol NOPE feel free to pencil me out of your busy schedule dear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:50 AM
3

Most of the time they're not even funny, just good at remembering the jokes they see on reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:47 AM
11

its so hard to leave sometimes when you think of it like an investment. Just take your losses and accept the lessons you unfortunately had to learn and be grateful that you know better for the next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:22 AM
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My life was 10 times more peaceful before I read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:20 AM
8

Shoutout to androgynous men, i love me some pretty boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:42 AM
30

You could literally be Aphrodite, goddess of love and beauty, and these audacious scrotes would still cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:17 AM
5

Ahh!! So pretty! What app did you use to make this collage??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:15 AM
4

I like how he feels the need to reiterate that he doesn't care about women being degraded and exploited multiple times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:14 AM
3

Oooo my preferences are super different actually!! (But women only like muscle chads right incels? 🙄) My dream man is: -long hair (bonus if curly and/or dark!) -Tall, but I dont care much as long as he's taller than me. (5'5") -Lean, Almost skinny -Deep smile/smirk lines -i LOVE tattoos and piercings -Long hands with groomed nails -Men who have actual style and don't just wear clothes because they fit. Im talking "eboy" style. Chains on the jeans, layered shirts, ect but i also love a good flann…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:06 AM
5

I love how they say shit like this as if women are completely helpless. Like you don't think women would band together and protect eachother from men like this?? Do you think we'd just sit around crying and letting it happen? Shut the fuck up. Men need to be humbled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:26 AM
10

I really hope any man that is truly like this is miserable their entire lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:24 AM
1

Lmao. I love these stories. Catch me dead before i ever feel sorry for one of these dumbasses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:22 AM
1

L I T E R A L L Y
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:33 PM
12

😷😷😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:29 AM
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We do all the work that goes unnoticed, and provide others with all the love/support that people need. Then we get nothing out of it ourselves, and then STILL do it. Show me a man who has done anything for a woman without expecting something in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:16 AM
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No, thankfully. he wants a daughter one day and told his dad that boys were just as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:07 AM
1

Oof.....it hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:33 AM
14

Exactly. But this walking STD is praised instead. Wonder why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:31 AM
11

Future is one of the most disgusting and openly misogynistic scrotes allowed to have a platform. This shit is influencing young boys to keep up the cycle. I don't think I could feel bad for him even if he got cancer tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:30 AM
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lol this was me before I checked my exes phone for the first time. He had been cheating on me for the whole relationship, the kicker being WE JUST GOT ENGAGED and he moved me halfway across the country literally 3 days before. I never wanted to get married but I thought he was so different and special. Lol NOPE. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:05 PM
2

This is lovely 😊 my ex never bought me flowers except once on Valentines day and he bragged about how he got it on sale and they were only $8 lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:01 PM
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For real I've actually never been with any men who are embarrassed or grossed out by tampons. But I don't doubt that they're out there and im lucky to have never come across them after middle school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:00 PM
3

I wonder if he tries to hide toilet paper too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:58 PM
73

The bit about them not harassing mgtow and incel mods is so fucking spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:57 PM
91

Its crazy how you can be the one putting in 80% of the entire effort to hold a relationship together, notice its failing and then blame yourself. Rarely do we want to put the blame on someone else but sometimes it truly is out of your hands after you do your best and leave the rest to the other person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:53 PM
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"Pickmeisha" must be the only insult you have seeing as that doesnt relate to me at all. Nice try though. Must have hurt your ego to have you grasping for straws like that. Anyway, I pity people like you and i pity myself for wasting so much time responding to you lmao. Stay bitter & fragile queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:26 AM
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Support doesn't mean shaming someone for being reluctant (not unwilling) to get help. You can give advice and still not be nasty and condescending. I put a discussion tag anyway, not a seeking advice one and yet i was still open to your unsolicited advice. Im sorry that I didn't stroke your ego by valuing your advice as if it were god's own. Good luck on being less bitter and defensive tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:09 AM
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Damn. Why are you responding so aggressively? I wasn't even being rude to you. I answered your questions honestly and didn't even brush off what you said. Maybe you need to talk to someone too. Thought this was a support sub, but i swear i get some of the most angry comments from fellow women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:29 AM
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Yeah this is true but it does feel discouraging to spend so much time and effort researching, and then not having insurance to pay so saving up, just to be let down. I know there are great therapists out there but its worrying that i can have another bad experience again after going through all that effort. Not against it, just hesitant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:42 AM
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They really went from "Ha! We'll give you rights, but only so you can see how much you'll fail without us." To then seeing women excel, feeling threatened and making subs dedicated to physical harm fantasies against women and stripping their rights. Men know they are the disposable gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:40 AM
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Yes but honestly im scared. I've had a bad experience the only time i went to a therapist when i was 16. Plus, im worried that maybe they can't help me with my serious issues and trauma non related to relationships, and telling myself "maybe ill try therapy!" Gives me hope that maybe theres help, but if i actually go and it doesn't help, then I won't even have the hope to fall back on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:33 AM
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Yes i did, when we used to live apart. It would genuinely upset me if he fell asleep before saying goodnight or woke up and didn't say good morning. Its just a reminder that the person is thinking of you. Plus, i would do it whenever i was the first to sleep/wake up. IMO nobody is ever so busy that they cant send you a 10 second message We live together now, and imagine if he didn't say anything when he rolled over to me in the morning. It would be wack. But everyone is different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:28 AM
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And he'll prob still cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:12 AM
1

Those are beautiful!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:07 AM
2

I've said it once and I'll say it again: I NEVER WANT TO HAVE A SON
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:03 AM
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Him, later: "Online dating is so hard for men!!! Women's standards are outrageous!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:55 AM
4

30 is young, sis. And marriage is a scam. If my current marriage fails for whatever reason, i will never do it again. We got married because it was either marriage or break up (military), and I didn't want to break up, BUT I stand by the fact that marriage is completely pointless. You don't need to be legally bound to someone to commit and promise eternal love to them. A certificate doesn't make your relationship any more real or fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:41 AM
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I was watching 90 day fiancé and this dude gave his new fiancé the same ring he proposed to his ex wife with, and they played it up as if she was an asshole for being upset and wanting a new ring. Ugh. That shit is supposed to be personal, and picked out for you specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:34 AM
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He...... never got you a new one???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:31 AM
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Lol these are the same men that say online dating is "so hard" for men. Nah you're just a pile of shit bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:27 AM
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The other tribes try to attack them. Seriously. I watched a documentary and a couple of men from another tribe were bitching about how "women shouldn't be allowed to have that much freedom." Luckily, they seem to fight well enough to keep themselves happy and safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:22 AM
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Literally this. Men are the aggressors, and always have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:17 AM
4

Who reads this shit and thinks "yes! This is a man i would want to date!" Men bitch and moan that online dating is so much harder for them but then make this their bio, and act so confused as to why women aren't fighting over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:51 AM
4

Men claim women aren't funny but say things like this. Anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:47 AM
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Guess what demographic most lawmakers are a part of....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:30 AM
1

Sorry for the misunderstanding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:54 PM
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Who’s fighting over a man in this story?? They both wronged me, why would I just not say anything to her? It wasn’t a fight over a scrote, it was over disrespect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:18 PM
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Shoutout to girls like this! I got cheated on with a girl I wasn’t friends with, but I knew her for a couple years. She was his ex but I never considered her as a threat because I thought if anything like that happened, she’d tell me. Nope! I confronted her, she acted dumb, even with proof of their messages. I lost my mind and threatened to kill her (heat of the moment mess) and then all of a sudden we were best friends and she only “fucked up.” And was “going to tell me”🙄 funny how she suddenly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:16 AM
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UMMMM the sentence at the bottom says he’s boasting about how much money he’ll save not paying rent. EXCUSE ME??? So let me get this straight, this guy is a slob, and sees that it’s important to “enjoy his evenings” after work, yet doesn’t care that she gets enough sleep to even go to work? He also doesn’t want to pay rent? And you’ve been together for less than a YEAR?? Who the fuck is raising these losers?!? And why are women dating them?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:08 AM
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Honestly I hate talking on the phone. I will do ANYTHING to avoid it, even when it’s a loved one, much less a stranger. That being said, just trust your gut. If you feel like you feel safer calling, ask him what time he is available and why you want to call. If he’s a good dude and knows you just need to feel safe/ want to see if there’s chemistry, he’ll do it. If not, he’s probably weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:00 AM
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But when you use the million examples of men doing this to justify the same generalizations against men, they whine about it. But this 1 example of “cheating” (it wasn’t) is acceptable to throw all women under the bus? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:56 AM
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I do, it’s just not as common place for women to be freshly 18 and aspire to be prostitutes, whereas a lot of ladies can’t wait to be 18 and turn into camgirls or get an onlyfans. I don’t think any form of sex work should be an aspiration however, I think it’s okay if a small percentage do it because I’m sure some people do genuinely have a passion for it, and sex is a market that will always have customers. It just shouldn’t be a common thing, if that makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:33 PM
1

Whatever you say, my anecdotal evidence isn’t meant to offend you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:18 PM
2

Hypercritical, think they’re smarter than everyone, acts like they’re saviors when really nobody asked for their advice lolll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:12 PM
1

Lol nahh, those titles go to Pisces. Virgos are hypercritical and tell people exactly how they think they should be living their lives and disguise it as “caring” lmao. Y’all criticize others while your lives are falling apart at the same time. I’ve literally never met a humble or non judgemental Virgo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:08 PM
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Sex work is okay I think, HOWEVER the amount of young ladies starting onlyfans is really sickening to me. Girls I went to highschool with just a couple years ago are posting pictures of their bodies and promoting it on all their social medias like it’s a flex. I think it reflects badly on women in general, because men already objectify women, and with this insane amount of girls treating themselves like a product is making it worse. Sex work isn’t evil, and if there’s a desire, go ahead and make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:57 AM
19

Virgo 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:47 AM
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There is no such thing. If women become undesirable after 40, 30, 25, why do older women still get hit on all the time? My GRANDMOTHER who is 67 gets hit on at restaurants still. My 40yo mother has young guys in her DMs all the time, and at her local gas station there’s a 26yo guy who flirts with her every time she’s there. Oh AND she’s married to a man who still think she’s beautiful. Not to mention all the gorgeous celebrities over 35. Sorry, but you’re telling me that men don’t find Angelina …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:40 AM
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Lol and society will thrive with women as leaders while the men are too busy begging their chunks of metal for affection. Sounds great to me ✌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:25 AM
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I really hope so. It’s about time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:33 PM
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YES GIRL the revenge boner I just got is... astronomical. Men need to be humbled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:15 PM
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Look it up if you care. It’s old news and I don’t feel like going through everything I read years ago just to send to you. Plus I never downvoted anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:44 PM
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I was a fucking fool when my first boyfriend still had his exes on his social medias and said they were “cordial”. Well one day I had a gut feeling and checked his phone, low and behold, ex #2 was shit talking me, saying she was the best he ever had, and he never stood up for me, but instead was asking her for nudes. Hope they both get cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:02 AM
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TL;DR: Do whatever you want! You know yourself better than anyone else, so you should live how you see fit. Not all marriage is bad, sometimes it can be beautiful! But it’s not for everyone, and that’s okay too:) I’m married. I was 19, and it was either breakup or get married because of the military. Anyway, marriage has been good so far! There are good men, but if we ever break up I will NEVER get married again. It’s essentially pointless nowadays. We have separate bank accounts and only share …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:58 AM
1

What straw man did I create, exactly? Based on an opinion that abuse, rape and anti-women subs should be banned he says “Oh so you think consensual BDSM is evil?” Which is absolutely a straw man. Me pointing that out and asking why he thinks that is not a straw man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:26 AM
3

Growing up I always thought it was mandatory to take the father’s last name since all my friends without dads still had their last names even though they weren’t in their lives (go figure).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:58 PM
15

Timothy heller has been proven wrong so many times, she kind of has a history of throwing people under the bus for her own gain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:35 PM
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I hate it because it perpetuates the idea that women are a status symbol. Like they fuckin know they don’t deserve women that are 10x hotter and smarter than them, but if they can manage to somehow “obtain” an attractive woman, they are heroes to other men. A lot of those movies will be about some crumby guy who somehow convinced a gorgeous and intelligent woman to fall for his qUiRkY male traits and she changes him for the better. Which also perpetuates the idea that men don’t need therapy or s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:33 AM
21

I think they both are average decent looking ppl. people just think he’s more attractive because she dresses more modestly and he wears gaudy expensive clothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:28 AM
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Who knows what’s really going on behind the scenes. He’s super weird and so is she, they probably have a lot in common
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:25 AM
3

Yeah lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:24 AM
19

His bowl haircut is like his signature lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:38 AM
25

Me too haha and I like them as a couple but Melanie is definitely the more attractive one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:37 AM
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Even the ones that are actually upfront are allowed to say they want a woman who stays home, takes care of the house, and depends on him for money. This is acceptable and approved. But a woman says she wants to stay home, take care of the house, and have her man support her is a lazy entitled bitch 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:48 AM
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THIS IS SO ACCURATE!! I had a guy friend in 7th-10th grade who would do this shit constantly. He’d go from “Hi how are you” to “what bra size do you wear?” In two messages. Then when I’d leave him on read he’d pull the whole “I’m such a piece of shit I push everyone away and I’m so twisted” like I was going to give him sympathy pussy or something lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:22 AM
1

Jada and Will Smith naming their kids Jaden and Willow is extremely cute and creative tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:18 AM
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What a piece of shit. But when she inevitably gets fed up with him and wants a divorce and full custody of the kid, he’ll be crying about “they’re my kid too” despite not even caring about their birth 🙄 probably demanded the baby be named after him if it’s a boy, and thats the full extent of his involvement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:14 AM
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Apparently “consensual BDSM” includes giving real rapists a place to share ideas and brag. It apparently also includes upskirt photos and revenge porn and also men posting pictures of their MOTHERS and asking what other men would do with them. I’m being completely fucking serious. There’s a sub for that. Also: “what part of ‘all these subs’ means ‘all these subs’ to you? Harharhar” Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:21 AM
2

YES it’s so cringey and boomer. Like dude YOU were probably the one who asked her out and YOU are the one who proposes, why are you going to act like it’s not what you wanted? Men literally shoot up buildings if they don’t get a girlfriend in time, so if anyone has to make those “help me” jokes about commitment it should be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:29 AM
7

Shut the entire fuck up. If this were true, I wouldn’t be going on 3 weeks without sex. It’s the primary thing my husband and I fight about and I’m so sick of seeing these bitches act like men need sex to survive. No. YOUR MAN is jsut a whiny bitch that refuses to communicate until you give him sex. Also sex isn’t a transaction?? Or a gift?? You shouldn’t “give” sex, it’s something you do together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:01 AM
25

I’m SO sorry. This is traumatic and it hurts my heart to even read this. I hope you’re in a better place now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:31 AM
23

Okay listen, I’m a super appreciative woman who does NOT ask for much and I truly am satisfied with inexpensive gifts as long as they’re thoughtful. I agree that gifts don’t have to be expensive to be appreciated. HOWEVER, if you don’t know your partner enough to know that she wouldn’t like a wedding band with no stone, perhaps you’re the issues here. I would be super upset if my husband proposed to me with that, but he didn’t, because he knows what I like. Plus it’s an engagement/wedding ring t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:24 AM
29

What he means by that is “hopefully that space can evolve to offer advice to women to tailor themselves to the liking of men around them.”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:16 AM
8

Monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:39 AM
3

Die alone if you think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:37 AM
8

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:30 AM
2

Yeah you’re right, it’s def my worst habit but at least I blocked him after I said my piece instead of arguing further ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:35 PM
2

I guess I just wanted him to see how unreasonable he was being. My mistake because some people lack self awareness. Wasn’t much of an argument because I already blocked him. Oh well 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:28 PM
172

Men feel completely entitled to second (and third, fourth, ect) chances, but the second a woman does anything that inconveniences them, like refusing to have kinky sex, or even something as temporary as gaining 20lbs, they leave or cheat with no remorse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:36 PM
13

My husband will usually just go look at stuff on his own if I’m taking a long time and he’ll still give opinions when I ask. My brother was the same way when I was a teen and he’d give me a ride to the store. I don’t get why a lot of men act like this. Like dude you’re already there, it would be quicker to give your opinions so she can narrow down her options and leave. Sitting there like an angry toddler refusing to speak only slows things down and creates tension.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:30 PM
74

He literally raised her into whatever woman he wanted her to be. She didn’t know anything besides being a wife to this man, of course the marriage lasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:07 PM
15

I think she’s beautiful, but that doesn’t excuse what he did to his wife. I’m sure his wife is beautiful too. Men are just never satisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:02 PM
30

Lol and then they call her pathetic for making money by simply being attractive when it’s their brain dead asses literally buying her BATH WATER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:01 PM
10

100% agree I’m bisexual and my husband is the first man I’ve been with. If we ever separate I am NEVER dating a man again. In my experience, dating women is so much easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:58 AM
40

Holy shit 1996?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:54 AM
13

Y E S But they will always deny it. So fucking frustrating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:54 AM
4

So sweet !! I’m super happy for you! Congratulations 🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:52 AM
133

I don’t even want to think about all the crusty ass scrotes that replied to this tweet mentioning that they’ve been cheated on by one girl before and that made him hate women and treat them like shit for the rest of his life so it’s the women’s fault they get treated badly 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:50 AM
60

Some men just think that women having high self esteem is unacceptable. I’ve literally seen tweets where men say shit like “Women were a lot better when they didn’t know how beautiful they are.” Like what the fuck?? Why bro??? Because you knew you weren’t good enough for her and one day she woke up and realized the same thing and left your dusty ass? UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:47 AM
1

So fucking sick of men “playing devil’s advocate” and asking for “FaCtS and eViDEnCE” for experience based discussions. Not to mention there’s tons of articles that talk about the negative impact on both men and women but when I refused to provide him with his precious “rEsOuRcEs” he tells me that he searched for it himself and didn’t find anything. Lmfao. Talk about information denial. It’s beyond frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:42 AM
18

My husband would literally not let me buy him a PS5 if I offered. I planned to get him a PS4 for his birthday as a surprise and he ended up buying it before I had the chance, and when I told him I wanted to get him that, he told me there was no way he would let me spend $500+ on him for a birthday gift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:27 AM
1

Lol right like believe me I LOVE when my guy is considerate like this but I would love to get some steamy texts every once in a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:41 AM
17

Men will literally say “not funny didn’t laugh” or “pee pee poo poo” as a joke and dozens of other men will like their comment and pretend like that shit is hilarious. It’s truly tragic how often I see both of these “jokes” as top comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:30 AM
42

Ugh. But I bet her man justifies this by saying “Well I pay the bills!!!” Good for you. You get to leave work when you clock out and she works all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:19 AM
25

I love women 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:42 AM
11

No lol. Anime is so popular, tons of women watch it too.
/r/askFDS30/05/20 02:51 AM
80

It was actually posted in an eating disorder sub which makes the not eating part worse, but luckily everyone is like “dump him, sis”. someone even linked this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:43 AM
10

I grew up LOVING her and I’m 20 now, but never once did I think her influence projected a romanticization of abuse or being walked on. If anything, I just felt like I could relate to the feelings of being a “put them before me” person. It made me feel understood and not like I should be that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:35 AM
2

I agree with her!! I love that I mostly grew up in a time where women made all their “bad bitch” music and movies but I don’t think that’s the ONLY kind of woman that deserves support. Meek and shy women still exist, I am one myself, but that doesn’t mean I’m a pushover. I’m passive, but not a doormat. I’m sensitive and a pleaser in relationships, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have boundaries or make me a pickme. And I think that’s exactly what Lana is saying. People think that being revolutiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:28 AM
3

Right? Lmao. I’d consult with the magic conch from spongebob before I ask a group of MEN for advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:02 AM
11

But don’t you know that out of the thousands of sexual harassment cases every year, .1% of them are from women who lied?!?!That invalidates all of the cases!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:06 AM
25

I guarantee that it’s because it’s a female dominated platform and the guys that use it are teens that were raised by the latest generation of mothers that were TIRED of men’s shit. Boys today are usually of higher quality than their fathers. Obviously plenty are still the worst but I graduated 2 years ago and I feel blessed every day that no boy had enough audacity to treat me the way they treated my mother and older sisters while they were in hs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:49 AM
27

True! That’s the thing I love about women. Instead of letting a bad experience ruin us and make us bad people, we learn, we cope, and we do better. Every bad experience is just a lesson on how the world works, and every bad relationship teaches you what you don’t want, so you can chase after what you do want ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:48 AM
20

I used to be really into kinky porn and stuff as a teen girl. Fantasized about it ALL the time. Then when I finally got into a relationship and actually started having sex, I realized that never in a million years would I want someone who claims to love me treat me like that. If my partner was capable of doing the stuff I used to like seeing in porn to me, I would think differently of him. People who love you do not want to inflict pain on you. That porn disgusts me now. That being said, a littl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:44 AM
11

Lol and in 10 years this creep is going to try and pry his way back into her life and demand partial custody of HER child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:39 AM
3

I think the more “equal” option would be to do the chores, but only YOUR chores well. Make the bed and leave his side undone. Only put the pillowcases on your pillows. Wash your clothes and not his. Only wash the dishes you used. When he gets mad say “I didn’t know how you wanted them done uwu”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:36 AM
26

My exbf and I were both 20, and he was telling me how he thought it was creepy that his friend openly talked about how hot Billie Eilish is because she’s only 18. Felt relieved and happy. Then found out he jacked off to tiktok girls doing their little high school dances 🙄 okay pedo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:31 AM
83

Yes but the thing about LVM is that they’ll never absorb any of that into their smooth brains. They’ll just blame you for letting them treat you that way and tell the next girl that you abandoned him the second there was a problem 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:24 AM
27

I just assume yellow is a female 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe I should have just said person but the point still stands. Either way Idk what makes some dudes think they’re smarter than they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:39 AM
4

Age differences matter a lot more when you’re younger. For a 15 year old, 2 years is about 15% of their entire life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:08 AM
13

Woman: wears tshirt and jeans while standing next to artwork that takes up 70% of the image. Men: “Wow titties heehee 😳😂 boobies 🤪 maybe people would value you as a human if you didn’t post nudes!! 🥴Boobies tatas hahaha 💦”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:14 AM
12

The second a man tells me to shut up he’s shut OUT. Fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:52 AM
1

Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:57 PM
8

She knows she needs to leave but is so busy and exhausted. I feel terrible for her because when people keep asking her why she’s even still with him she responds “he wasn’t always like that.” Honey, yes he was, he just hid it well until he stopped caring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:10 PM
1

Someone’s feeling fragile today
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:19 PM
3

Some people are extremely hypocritical ¯_(ツ)_/¯ , thanks for not being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:19 AM
29

It’s so funny how they’re shitting on these women in the comments but I PROMISE that they would happily take any one of these ladies on a date if they had a chance. I think it just hurts the incels feelings that even women who aren’t young, perfect, 100lbs virgins still don’t want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:17 AM
4

“Neutral community” and has someone like this as a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:24 AM
3

Hope you’re also supportive of women who refuse to date incels that dehumanize them and call them holes or foids
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:20 AM
0

Lol. I’m sure you add just as much to the world as you did to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:18 AM
4

Imagine thinking the only motive for empathizing with women-or just not be outright misogynistic-is to get them to sleep with you. Says a lot more about you than the people you criticize for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:14 AM
26

I thought this sub was supposed to be a neutral and respectful place to discuss gender issues. Seems like it’s just another sub to add fuel to the fire and tear each other down. Disappointed but not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:57 PM
30

Mm, idk about that. I agree other women have a lot to say but it’s not even comparable to how much men think about women’s sex life. They say she isn’t “wife material” if she’s had more than 1 sexual encounter, but also get mad when women don’t put out on the first date, but call them names if they do. won’t date single moms, shit on single moms, shame women for aborting the kid they abandoned, get mad that they have to pay child support because she didn’t abort the kid, ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:14 PM
2

Right. Everything is a woman’s fault lmao. They call women names for putting out on the first date and then shame women who refuse to put out on the first date. And if women are upset by anything a man does is their fault because “you should choose better men.” They just can’t be held accountable for anything. Sounds like mental instability to me luv xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:36 PM
2

It’s no problem:-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 08:45 AM
4

Just letting you know but this comment posted like 7 times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:04 AM
38

Definitely and that’s important too! But the fact that it’s disproportionately a female problem is just a fact that he isn’t willing to understand. Or see as a problem at all, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:54 PM
124

This weirdo also says in his other comments that if women don’t want to get fucked over by porn companies they should simply not do porn. Completely ignoring the fact that they catch these girls, often underage, by promising money for a “photoshoot”, and then taking them to a porn shoot. He told the person he was replying to that he knows the porn industry fucks over women and “couldn’t care less about it.” Blows my mind that people think this way. The person he replied to first made an extremel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:33 PM
2

Maybe she has an “obsession” that she ignores you for because spending time with you fucking sucks. Of course she’s going to get mad that you deleted all her progress, sounds like she had a hobby she cared about and you couldn’t stand that she was happy. Fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:14 PM
6

If men don’t get exactly what they want, when they want, with no conditions or compromise, they think they’re getting the short end of the stick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:54 PM
3

But they will demonize women for asking for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:52 PM
19

People compare this sub to incel forums all the time and it’s like??? Not even on the same level in the slightest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:33 PM
33

Yep, if he won’t do it, someone else will! Or if you don’t want someone else, you can do nice things for yourself:-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:30 PM
292

Then they pull the “I’m not a mind reader” shit as if anyone is satisfied with never receiving heartfelt messages, or notes, gifts, ect. Why do we have to tell you that we appreciate effort? Lmao. Is the “smarter” gender really that dumb? The dudes that say this are always the same ones that have girlfriends that go above and beyond to make them happy without even asking. Then call them crazy for expecting even an ounce of it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:04 PM
28

Said by someone who has clearly never experienced being a woman before, and possibly a man who has disappointed too many women by being inconsiderate. Instead of taking accountability for your actions you’d rather blame it on her being shallow. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:59 PM
4

I’m bisexual and always had a preference for women, but now I think I’ll never date a man again. They’re just awful. I like dick but fake ones are even better AND don’t stop working because they watch too much porn ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:55 AM
22

Lmfao. So true. “Maybe if you give us nice but less attractive guys a chance 🥺” a chance to what? Cheat on me and treat me badly?? Nah. You give an ugly dude a chance and he lets it get to his head that he’s attractive and cheats with someone way uglier than you lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:48 AM
3

Personally I’d wait until quarantine is over, and once you’ve spent a week or so together and you still like this, it might be time to break it off. Sometimes things are just too little, too late. It’s not your fault if you feel out of love with him and it may not even be his. But don’t stick around for something you don’t want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:39 AM
3

Fuck nowadays their fertility drops off completely at 19 because they can’t keep their hands out of their pants until their dick doesn’t work and the only thing they can shoot is blanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:31 AM
6

I don’t get why my bread winner wife is so tired and the house isn’t spotless after working her EaSy JoB for 65 hours a week while taking care of our kids full time. Why do I deserve to come home to a dirty house and be forced to take care of my own children after a hard day of doing nothing at work and contributing absolutely nothing to the household or finances?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:15 AM
3

I love how men do shit they know you won’t like and then pretend you’re an evil crazy bitch when you show that you don’t like it. I’m not saying he shouldn’t have gotten a vasectomy, but he shouldn’t expect you to stick around over a disagreement about something so important in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:51 AM
67

They never want to be good to you until it’s too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:30 AM
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