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| 5 | Made a mistake and fell backwards. Devastated and need help with feeling grounded back into the real world. “If he wanted to, he would.” has never hurt so bad.He said you're only with him because you were...using him for advanced age? What? Delusional. I love though that the only things he could say positively about himself are being old and tall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:17 PM |
| 57 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?My shittiest ex called me on Valentines Day weeks after we broke up saying he had planned to propose that day. I was so annoyed, like fool, I hate that holiday which he knew well, and as if I'd have said yes. 100% too it was pure manipulation and not a real plan he had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 02:21 PM |
| 8 | Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴Imagine realizing at the last minute that your partner is so disinterested that you need to tell him to start preparing/educating himself. And then having to gather the resources yourself too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 18 | Don’t buy into indulgent couples content - especially around Valentine’s DayYou can definitely tell who is in the unstable relationships when they love bomb their own social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:23 PM |
| 16 | [deleted by user]OMG same! He's a fantastic guy but I wouldn't want anyone I know irl to read my comments and posts- I don't even know a single friend's username and will happily keep it that way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:00 PM |
| 8 | Comments are ROASTING him for his age-gap preference - very happily surprised! Based Reddit.If I agreed to go on a date with a nasty old fart, he better be bringing a lot of something else to the table. What the heck is this idiot thinking?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:58 AM |
| 41 | How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into youMy thoughts are: being consistent (not hot and cold), gives you appropriate space and isn't all up in your business trying to get your attention 24/7, and the nice gestures are suited to you (e.g. buys you a coffee from your favourite spot vs big gestures for any random person) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:14 PM |
| 314 | “Merry Christmas from me and my family, whom I hate!”First of all I can't even imagine a loving partner asking this of their wife, but on top of that seeing him put duct tape on his daughter's face and thinking "this is fine." How incredibly depressing for the wives, their daughters, and the type of men these boys will grow up to be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 597 | Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuineHis reply feels like assessing a patient mid manic episode. What the heck traps was he avoiding?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:41 AM |
| 30 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTF"They don't know what ladies want." Seriously? Does it take any brain power to guess a partner wants some reciprocation if you aren't total trash? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 01:13 PM |
| 83 | yes. yes I am here because of the Hair Towel :D - share you're favourite LVM stories if they fit the rules of my post, as told in the main body.My first boyfriend used to make fun of how I cut my toenails. He believed they need to be cut as far as you can go down so no white was showing. Guess who got a raging ingrown big toenail...and still didn't believe me!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 48 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.perpetuating these unreasonable beauty standards /s. Though on that note my eyes are so dry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 112 | Christmas is around the corner 🎄 Here's some queen shit to get you in the holiday spirit! 🎅 | A.K.A. How one woman on TikTok dealt with a LVM who tried to dump her before Christmas"It was exhilarating" - killed me. What a queen. Love everything about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:02 AM |
| 179 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.She needs to move fast and divorce him now, while he is in school and can't afford the better lawyer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:27 PM |
| 46 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)omg I thought it was!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 02:53 PM |
| 34 | When a man uses jargon without explanation 🚩If you can't explain a topic in layman's terms, you don't truly know what you're talking about. Dude sounds like a fool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:24 PM |
| 20 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Opinions on TV shows and movies with strong female leads is one of my favourites | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 26 | FDS is BACK!What was the tweet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 02:02 PM |
| 18 | I'm done with men shorter than meI had a lot of issues dating shorter guys and how weird they acted/this odd inferiority complex. I'm lucky the guy I'm dating now is so relaxed/able to make positive jokes about being shorter than me. I recently sent him a snapchat of new super high heeled boots I just bought, and all his comments were complementing the boots, and general excitement for going on a date while I wear them (in a good way not a creepy way). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:23 PM |
| 179 | SOS girl wherever you are please come find us 😔✊ugh and she might get that engagement ring but it will never end how she wants it to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Need advice: how to have more grace for myself?Yes! That is the exact energy I was picturing! Way to go <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Need advice: how to have more grace for myself?Personally I say find something that brings you peace/tranquility and add it to the part of the day you feel lowest/start to ruminate on bad thoughts. Use this time to appreciate the fact you are on your own with no interruptions. It can be anything from inspecting each houseplant, playing with your pets, lighting candles, to meditation/yoga. Even better if it is something you would have been shamed for by your ex e.g. your ex hated your plant collection so this is time you inspect every leaf on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 167 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.I straight up told men when I was dating I wasn't on birth control (even though I have an IUD) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:05 PM |
| 170 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmOmg that age gap!!! My boyfriend is the same age as him and keeps accidentally calling people in their young 20s at work "kids" because that age gap!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:23 PM |
| 18 | "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft has a whole section describing the abuse tactics of softbois (Mr. Sensitive in the book)Omg I was going to comment this sounds like Sad Boy Loser Greg! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | This 29F is scared to ask a guy to be exclusive but also is willing to move countries to be with him??I feel so bad for her tiptoeing around a conversation by blaming the topic not the man. These talks are definitely not difficult to navigate with a good partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:06 PM |
| 18 | Dear scrotes, this was a discussion about how women in their early 20s DON’T want you, stop approaching us or this will be your future. Raise your hand if you’re in your early 20s and have NEVER been attracted to an old scrote, I’ll go first 🙋🏻♀️I was having a chat with a male friend and we were talking about dating. He casually mentioned the "truth" of men "peaking later" and after a firm telling off, I had to end our phone call early to re-evaluate this friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:01 PM |
| 7 | I posted a video criticizing scrotes believing women hit a wall and got this comment, with a picture of him to match ☺️Brave words from a man who peaked in the womb where it was too dark to see his face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:01 PM |
| 88 | Disney lied to us. The original little mermaid movie was made in 1975 and was made to teach girls to avoid being a pickme/give up everything for a man because you’ll just be used as a placeholder until his dream girl comes along. Ending is very dark.In the original Hans Christian Anderson story I was upset she chose not to kill the prince and instead turned into sea foam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 8 | Men and skincareAny suggestions on this having this conversation? The guy I'm seeing has good hygiene overall but a good skincare routine would definitely be a plus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Men are most attractive in their 20sI online dated for a week this month and at first was disappointed to have no matches...and then remembered I'd swiped left on everyone haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Men are most attractive in their 20sI (32, F, bi), briefly ventured back on to online dating with an age range of now people in their 30s. At first I only filtered for women and everything looked pretty normal, but when I began seeing the men in their 30s I was blown away. I was shocked at what years of no working out, poor hygiene, and a lack of grooming did when they no longer had youth on their side. I see it at work, but just assumed that on a dating profile they would make some effort, not nope! I ended up deleting the app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 38 | Sorry but no, withholding sex isn’t a real thing because nobody’s entitled to your body under any circumstances. In her BIO she calls herself a psychologist. 🤡There is no such thing as "withholding sex." If you don't want to have sex with your partner for any reason at all, or even no reason at all, that isn't abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:37 PM |
| 22 | Sorry but no, withholding sex isn’t a real thing because nobody’s entitled to your body under any circumstances. In her BIO she calls herself a psychologist. 🤡If both partners aren't giving enthusiastic consent, the sex should not be happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 39 | I had no idea this was even a thing?!Back before reddit childfree went downhill, it was full of stories of women attempting more permanent birth control where they were denied either because their partner or hypothetical future partner may want kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 63 | The other "female" subreddits are disingenuous.Or a "yes now pat me on the back" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:37 PM |
| 29 | The other "female" subreddits are disingenuous.Reddit Pole Dancing runs a surprisingly woman-centric community and keeps the sketchos out well. It always makes me happy to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 18 | Woman makes a whole presentation to convince a guy to promote her to girlfriend..and this is how low he thinks of her. I'm in utter disbelief.I had to google it! It seems like it's the method of "getting distracted on purpose" by your phone. She'll be telling him something and he'll suddenly get a thing on his phone he needs to check, and respond to, and then something else while she waits awkwardly and the conversation dies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:54 AM |
| 176 | You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here.What annoys me the most is it would take the average internet user 30 seconds to open reddit, go to FDS, and scan the front page for the actual content before making a misinformed judgement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inIs it worth trying to date when you're still working on yourself? My closest friends and family are in a neighbouring city and I have a high risk job. I'm trying to build a local network/new winter hobbies but darn it's lonely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...Every thing she listed that he buys, she buys something more expensive or complicated. No thank you. Dinner is a bigger purchase than lunch. Snacks are the most expensive parts of movies. A whole nice suit for one pair of shoes?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:53 AM |
| 21 | The contempt some of these men have for their wives is EVIL.I'm trying to imagine being a mother watching someone treat my daughter this way. If I was dating someone and they did this, my mom would be in the car already coming to get me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 16 | What’s the most important thing you’ve learned since discovering FDS?The first one has been an absolute game changer. All 3 are excellent though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 53 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerA sketchy age gap and wanting to "beat her ass..and put that bitch in the dirt" doesn't feel like queen energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:45 PM |
| 166 | Remember to subtract 5 inches from a man’s height 😂So true! I'm 5'8 and have had this conversation more than I'd like to admit. One guy tried so hard to lie to himself he kept trying to put his arm over my shoulder, but could barely reach it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | For anyone considering a sex toyMy campus health centre links it as a preferred safe vendor! Just put an order in :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:12 AM |
| 30 | I hate when men bring up men's issues when you talk about women's issuesLast week I thought a woman was following me and got nervous so started the usual walk fast/cross the road routine. She called out to me that she was sorry and walking loops on the block to warm up waiting for an appointment. We kept our distance, both laughed, and it was a pleasant ending. I've never had a man do this when they realize they're making me nervous, if they ever do. It's either silence or a sarcastic/angry response which really doesn't help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 11 | Can we talk about the sexism in medicine??The female mice not being used in studies because of hormones makes me so mad. Like, if female hormones make a pill less effective or less safe, that seems like even more reason to test on female mice before prescribing it to female women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:56 PM |
| 10 | Can we talk about the sexism in medicine??I'm a nurse and it always killed me when I'd go into a room with a younger male student nurse and they'd just assume he was their doctor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about the sexism in medicine??The classic "I see your odd lab values, out of control vital signs, and severe symptoms...must be anxiety!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:48 PM |
| 16 | Men "In the middle of a divorce"I (30F) remember going on a date with a girl once who was giving me a lot of shit for being bi and dating mostly men in my past. Found out she was still living with her ex-boyfriend. Like, what?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:43 AM |
| 23 | Man tricked his wife into thinking the PS5 was an air purifier. She sells it to someone else.A trail of Cheetos dust wafting around him like Peanut's PigPen I'm assuming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:57 PM |
| 14 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/k4f2ft/my_26m_wife_24f_just_packed_up_and_left_because/ I ended up googling the title because I was so curious!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 44 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?I would be mortified trying to explain to my parents that my partner and all his friends peed in their hot tub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:43 PM |
| 58 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?If he had just peed in the hot tub and then later after hearing her side gave a very sincere apology + found a way to make up for it + cleaned the heck out of the tub, I wouldn't have. With everything he did instead, definitely divorce, no coming back from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or there’s something off with this post? It gives me major pickme vibes. Like how can you feel this way about a guy you’ve known for two seconds??I remember feeling this way about a couple of folk when I just started online dating. That feeling went away real fast haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:13 PM |
| 29 | Negative reviews of FDS on YouTubeJust because a dude is "traditional" and pays for dates, I wouldn't assume he is automatically a HVM. If anything "traditional" has its own set of major issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:03 AM |
| 35 | I don’t even know what to say.Or the relationship posts where "other than this terrible thing he did, and this history of worse things, he is like the sweetest best guy ever" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:35 PM |
| 8 | So he needed a daughter to figure out that men do not give us even basic respect. Dude, go outside and grow up.There is a whole discussion on that subreddit right now about the "now I have a daughter phenomenon" and there's this one idiot in the comments who keeps commenting on every post saying "well isn't it a good thing they got it eventually hur hur hur" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 18 | This amazing woman is creating a series of comics based on shit men said to women on dates.On a first date a guy told me he was glad I had blonde hair not dark like his exes because it won't look as bad on the shower floor. It felt very unsettling coming from a stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:46 PM |
| 30 | This amazing woman is creating a series of comics based on shit men said to women on dates.I went on a hiking second date once and he told me about how he was being investigated by the military for 2 separate accounts of sexual assault/harassment. I learned a real lesson that day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:45 PM |
| 28 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.I will never choose a man over my cat. One is my heart, the other is easily replaceable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 10 | Just some Sunday motivation.Day 2 of not drinking at home, this was a nice boost to my baby steps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 7 | My LVM father, ladies and gentlemen.On top of being super shitty to begin with, this logic is so bad! I imagine his sons would be called out less for being bigots by dating a redneck white girl than anyone who has experienced racism personally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 30 | The Defining Difference Between a HVM & LVMAfter my 3rd date with my current bf, he brought me a full homemade meal before my set of night shifts. He knew I was bored of my meal preps and wanted to share something new he cooked with me. I get stressed in my pre-work rush out the door so he came by just long enough to give me the dinner, meet my cat, and then make plans for a next date on my days off. After a string of bad relationships and dates it was eye opening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:44 PM |
| 10 | LVM's greatest fear are Cat Ladies. Here's why:My first boyfriend was the absolute worst and friends/family tried to warn me but I didn't listen. The first/only time he came with me to my parents house, he was so mean to my beloved family cat (just rude to my best boy, didn't hurt him). That was what snapped me out of it and made me realize he was a waste of my time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 6 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsReading your post, you're 31, you are so young! You're in your best years/still have so many best years ahead and honestly your bf doesn't sound worth wasting another day on. You have time to grow and thrive and meet someone who will treat you with love and respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:22 PM |
| 4 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsMy parents have quite the age gap and I was talking to my mom about it. In her words "the age gap starts big and then grows smaller...and then becomes much much larger again" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!gross. I'm already resentful of the 5 seconds he wasted of my life reading that profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Hangman!Thank goodness for this sub. Last year my fool heart would add his middle and last name before applying this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:13 AM |
| 3 | "So I'm like... what's the point? He doesn't cook, he doesn't clean, he doesn't provide money for you, obviously he's not providing emotional support 'cause he's bouncing all over the place. What good is he?!"I am just in love with this video...and reexamining my own reading materials. Have I read any good books lately with a good female lead? Though also have I read anything recently that wasn't a textbook lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 05:23 PM |
| 76 | Women can't be high maintenance but then he says this.Why is this little man so angry at Irish women - is he worried they'll steal his pot of gold? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 11:15 PM |
| 206 | Women are waking up 👏👏I absolutely love how savage "I hope he texts you back" feels in that sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 02:33 AM |
| 30 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.30 and wouldn't go near that for all the money in the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I've been dating a new guy for about a month and overall he checks all the boxes - kind, funny, lives in a tidy well kept apartment on his own, good job and education. He's also treated me better so far than any other man I've dated and seems to really like me. He appearance-wise isn't my usual type though and I'm not feeling a lot of chemistry. The only time we've had sex so far it was...not great. Should I keep going with the relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:01 PM |
| 8 | Hey Mods, This anti-FDS troll has recently entered our lair, and has been commenting on our sub. Thought she just hated my last post, but turns out she hates us all and thinks FDS is the female version of PUA. 🤣I usually stick to male-sounding internet names because it saves lots of hassle. I've just been lurking here, but it has been really helpful reading the posts on this subreddit to get my head on right after so many bad dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:04 PM |
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