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Yet we as a society are like “oh well” when it comes to this addition in young men. Yet, drugs, cigs, alcohol, etc - all the attention in the world. This will be society’s downfall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 12:41 AM
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Well … damnit lol. There goes that hope 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 03:01 PM
1

“Love scenes in books” do you mean you are writing stories? I can work on that too as I write a lot of articles, maybe we can trade?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:31 AM
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This is a very good post - thank you. It’s all so complicated - mentally and physically- but we throw it under a rug. Trying to get ahead of it is hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:28 AM
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Wonder if there are men reading these comments like damnnnnn these women do not care lol. I hope so. HI FELLAS 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 07:39 PM
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I totally get that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 07:37 PM
15

Tbh I am kind of impressed with all of the comments from women who are so nonchalant about years going by! I want to be them! Because deep down, I know they are right about sex being overrated in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 07:36 PM
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“Sex is overrated” man, isn’t that the truth? Especially now with the menu of services we’re supposed to provide, sheesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 06:16 PM
20

I love this!! Omg do I even KNOW how to flirt??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 05:15 PM
104

A massage is a great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:41 PM
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This is really good advice, thank you. Absolutely I should start treating myself just a fantastically as I treated all of the men in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:41 PM
8

Lol!!! I did the same (pool and trampoline) hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:39 PM
14

I love it! Cheers, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:39 PM
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Right? I question that too - like humans “need” love, right? But truly have I ever actually been fully loved properly by a man? I mean I’m 48 and I haven’t died so maybe romantic love isn’t even a need?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:38 PM
71

I hear Savannah’s voice “dirty peeggssss” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:36 PM
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That’s funny about the kids because mine are the same. As much as they didn’t like their step dad and don’t really like their bio dad, they still think I should date and be with a man, lol. It’s weird! But honestly, I was the same with my mom after she divorced my dad so I get it, I guess? Now I’m wondering why I ever worried about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:33 PM
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Yes! This. As someone else mentioned, it’s probably just that I’ve been conditioned as well. Conditioned to basically only feel “normal” if I’m pursuing a relationship. I’ll be abnormal now, I guess :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:27 PM
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Definitely don’t feel like a loser! Being a single mom is soooo hard, especially with a toddler. You will find time to care about your appearance when he gets older - do not get down on yourself, be proud of all you do! Looking attractive AINT all it’s cracked up to be anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 03:11 PM
71

Username checks 😂 I’m also hoping menopause kicks in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 12:42 PM
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My ex husband would say stuff like this to me all the time, because he wanted me to send him nudes and I refused. I’m older and shy about my body. He constantly tried to insist that taking nudes would make me feel hot and sexy. Ummm, sir, I am TELLING YOU it will not. But I’m a girl so I don’t know my own thoughts, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 11:48 AM
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Oh you were married to my ex husband too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 11:45 AM
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My new theory about men demanding shaved pussies is that they hate women so much they actually prefer the feeling of stubble when they go down on us lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 11:37 AM
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My best friend and her husband wanted to remain child free for life. They tried in vain to get either a vasectomy or tubal ligation but no doc would do it because they didn’t have kids. And then she got pregnant and had to have an abortion. I have two kids and I’ve been pregnant 3 times - one miscarriage at 15 weeks. What NO ONE talks about is the fact that your body was just pregnant - aka, flooded with hormones, making way for a new life - and it completely fucks with you. Recovery from an abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 01:37 PM
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Might be crazy, but she can sell her house and move. Especially in the US the way the market is now - she would get top dollar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:49 AM
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In my OLD days I had “no picky eaters” right in my profile (of COURSE they all thought it was a sex thing). I cannot with a picky eater. I love to travel. Nothing makes travel suck more than someone complaining about the food the whole time or co-opting the whole experience because they have to find a McDonalds. Or worse, someone who is rude and says stuff like “ewww how can you eat that?” It’s just bad manners. And it comes off as childish. It’s compatibility, really. I’m incompatible with some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 12:53 PM
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I wrote an article about this topic because of Ready Player One. Basically the scrote loser hero of the novel/movie has a crush on a girl character who has a port wine stain. SHE is the one all nervous to meet him because she is so “ugly” when not a single thought is given to the fact that he’s a personality-less ham face. I always wonder how it happened with humans that the female of the species is the one that has to attract the male visually. Yet it’s the total opposite in every other species…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 12:40 PM
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Yes! It’s terrible that the unnecessary “reminders” of unattractiveness can even come from family. A chubby kid knows! The whole world is a reminder lol. I’m sorry you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 12:31 PM
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Thanks! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 12:27 PM
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I love this!! So much of my post also had to do with the underlying “supposed to’s” of heteronormative life - get married, have kids, be slave to them and husband, if that one doesn’t work out, date like crazy to find another or be a weirdo and when you do find another, you better marry him because having a “boyfriend” at 40 is a bad look - ahhhh “supposed to” the worst phrase in the English dictionary. I like your suggestions! I’m moving out of my small Midwest town in a month or so and moving …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 12:27 PM
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“Next level content” - that’s the vibe I’m going for! Probably my biggest thing to cover in therapy is reconciling my sexless life with with feeling ugly and undesirable. I do have to work on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 07:45 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:23 PM
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Yes, thank you! This 100%! My biggest issue is that I am just so fucking hopeful. Even when I was young, I remember going to the high school dances and coming home in tears because no one asked me to dance. Yet the next month I would get all dolled up and go again, just to repeat the tears. My mom would get mad and say “I don’t know why you keep going if it ends like this!” But I had hope and I knew I had more of a chance of getting asked to dance AT the dance than I did sitting in my bedroom. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:29 PM
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You’re right. Thanks for the reminder. I’m always still being nice! It’s stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:21 PM
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Right - when you are taught as a young girl that looks are all that matter…and then constantly reminded that you don’t meet the standard - by adults - it’s rough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:56 PM
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And men only send nudes so they get nudes back soooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:10 PM
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Omg though…. Men send unsolicited dick pics because “wow you are so hot look you made my peepee hard, here is proof”?!?!? This is why?? HAHAHHAHA omg I did not know! I thought it was them showing off their sad goods. Not that this is better, but at least it makes more sense. Ah Christ these phones with cameras - what a bad invention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:31 AM
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I mean I sort of get where she tries to go, like “awww, maybe he has brain issues or unresolved trauma that is stopping him” and my answer to that is…why am I supposed to care, exactly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:23 PM
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It’s in every porn! Lol they think that milfs and babes just fall from heaven and accidentally fall on dicks 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 05:47 PM
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Porn has taught men that even their step sisters will bang them if they just lie in bed, jerking off with their bedroom door slightly ajar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 03:01 PM
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He probably doesn’t think unattractive women get treated like shit because men don’t even see them Ask any fat/older woman and they will say they are completely invisible to society. So when a door doesn’t get held open for them - it’s not because men are being rude, they don’t even know they’re there. Men only see what interests them - games, porn, food. They don’t see old women, laundry, dishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:03 PM
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I’m ngl…I tend to do these things and I am 48, in a leadership role in my company and I work with all women Why? The women I work with are assholes and bullies. Not all of them - but enough. I have realized that I do it though and I’ve been slowly stopping. Thanks for pointing it out - this is a good post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:16 PM
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OMFGA LEAVE HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:08 PM
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I live in the Midwest and I get soooo excited when I get to visit a big city like Chicago or NYC because I will have a chance to maybe see a nice looking man in a suit, rather than a tub of lard in a hockey jersey and cargo shorts standing in the middle of a snow bank (if you know, you know)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:06 PM
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Most men are Opposite Jason Bourne and claim to “not see the mess” - more visual lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:02 PM
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Why is it “hard” for men?? Ime - it’s WAYYY harder for women! Men are trying to fuck us constantly! Where’s my award 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:58 PM
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I’ll probably get roasted for this but I have no interest in being a grandma at ALL. My kids are 19 and 18 and they know. Maybe I will be interested in 10 years? But honestly doubtful. I do not like babies or kids under 7 for the most part. Whoops. *moves to China
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:51 PM
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“Ain’t no more grandmas” took me out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:49 PM
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Sorry to bust the bubble but it’s really not a great way to vet. I mean, if they are living in filth, don’t date them at ALL, true. But my 2 husbands both lived decently alone but the whole reason they got a wife was so they wouldn’t have to do housework any more. I swear they are taught this from birth. Soooo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:46 PM
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Yeah I totally didn’t think she was glamorizing it - I think she was calling it out as the bs it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:40 PM
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As the breadwinner in 2 marriages - DO NOT sign up for it, ladies, ever. Why? Because a man will never be a “wife”. He won’t be the support, the planner, the housekeeper, the shopper, the childcare hahahaha he will never. A SAHD is literally having a good time. Wakes up every day just as freshly hatched as the kids. Also, much like this woman, you feel guilty and put all the money into the house so you never get to enjoy your hard earned money. And like this man, your lifestyle will be driven do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 05:04 PM
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What I don’t get is how she wouldn’t have the money to buy her own house…but could buy his??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:57 AM
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Soooo…between my first and second marriages I had sex with more men that I know the number of and/or their names. Every once in a while, a scene will float up from my memory and I’ll be like omg yeah that guy lol. Why? Because I could. I met my first husband when I was 20 and I had slept with 11 people by then. Probably a lot by today’s standard (or any standard, I guess) but I never felt any shame around it. It was all my choice aside from one date rape. I was married to my first husband for 10…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:22 PM
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Yes! That’s why they get a WIFE. We all know they supposedly don’t want one…the old “ball and chain” and all that. But then why do they all do it? It’s certainly not because of “societal norms” or because they actually want a family to support lol. It’s because they know that “wife” makes life wayyyy easier. Wife means no chores! Wife means no planning! Wife means no more work for Husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:45 PM
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I was just saying this to my friend last night! When did women become so desperate to have men? Wait let me walk that back…WHY are women - women who can support themselves - in any relationship with any man that causes any pain at all? I was with my friend yesterday consoling her because her husband got day drunk on a Wednesday and drove off to go golf with his friend but literally never ever does anything with her. They don’t even have sex and they just got married a year ago. Then she’s tellin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:37 PM
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This might be rude but SAHDs weird me out. I think maybe because I’ve never met a man in my life who can clean. Now, I’m not saying all WOMEN can clean but NO MEN can clean. So, the SAHDs I know basically get to just keep their kids alive all day every day. They aren’t making healthy food and breastfeeding and teaching the kid stuff. The kid is in the bouncy seat while the dad is doing whatever. The kid is always kinda dumpy and still in jammies all day unless mom got him dressed before she left…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:31 PM
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100% this. They would always be looking for the actual wife who was supposed to do all those tasks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:24 PM
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I’ve been this. I’m a high earner and my ex had a job too - but, he was in outside sales and “worked” maybe 15-20 hours a week. Oh he said he would “take care of things” or “I got you” but that devolved into “make me a list” and “I don’t see the mess like you do” and “How about you ask me like this: if you want something done, maybe a few days before you start hinting like ‘Baby, I really think the front door would look pretty if it was painted red, don’t you?’ And then I can surprise you.” Thes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:21 PM
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Omg did that happen? Christ the delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:24 AM
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Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:08 PM
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I agree on the watermarking! That would be smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:04 PM
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I remember discovering my dad’s playboy stash too, but omg is that world’s away from just walking around with live action videos in your pocket! I mean - to me - we are letting kids have crack and nicotine and alcohol and just ignoring it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:34 PM
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SAME BRO SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 05:45 PM
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I’m 48 and honestly I think this attitude has a lot do do with culture or where you live. I’m in the Midwest and most all of the parents my age are kinda chubby, minimal makeup, comfortable shoes. Even in the ritzier areas, it shows up in fitness and skin care / Botox. 40-60 is a big stretch. Gen X women in their 40s are not sleeping with makeup on or getting up early to look nice for their husbands, that was more something our mothers did. But I will say that for my generation the message was d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:53 PM
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Yes! Exactly. And believe me - if all they have to do is breathe and work? That is all they will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:19 PM
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Soooo…I have some feelings. I split with my first husband when our kids were 6 and 5. He was literally terrible - oh not like you think, he didn’t cheat or beat me - but he did nothing. Never smiled at me, never did a single chore, never quite literally ever complimented me, planned dates, etc etc. Told me “the wife keeps the social calendar” - that type of thing. He also left skid marks on the sheets. Anyway. We weren’t officially divorced by Christmas and he wanted to wake up “as a family” and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:47 PM
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“But why would I pay for a woman I just met? I don’t even know her” lol but he’s more than willing to put his dick in her 2 hours later, risking paying for their child for 18 years 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:33 PM
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Men offer “protection” the same way the mafia does. Protection….or else lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:26 PM
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I’m 48 and I’ve been married and divorced twice. I remember the pain - it was actual pain - of waiting for my first husband to propose. It was torture because I really wanted to get on with my life! And I wanted to have kids and everyone around us was getting married and omggggg it was terrible. I absolutely hated and resented the notion that my life was in someone else’s hands. And tbh, it never truly stops being that way (unless you find a HVM and you are truly compatible). I find after being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:06 PM
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I don’t get it at all. These men also offer only “walk dates” so what do they think, women should just be starving on the streets? But not expecting to get fed by a man because she’s then a “gold digger”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:00 PM
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I called off a wedding 6 weeks before when I was very young. It sucks and is miserable BUT it’s temporary and beats the alternative 100%. I’ve been divorced 2x now as well lol and you definitely don’t want to be there, especially if you have kids. Ultimately - it’s YOUR life. These other people truly don’t actually give a shit, even if they love you. They might say some things and have dumb opinions but it will blow over. YOU are the one living the day to day and if you are making more money and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:43 AM
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Yeah it was a HUGE deal back in the day because he is - objectively - ugly. And she was a top model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:43 PM
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YES! I’ve been saying this forever now. When you were a perv in a trench coat at the XXX theater in the 80’s …. You were exactly that, a perv in a trench coat who couldn’t get a real woman. Now that you are in your house and you can’t even afford a trench coat, you are no less of a perv and a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:08 PM
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“I don’t want to reduce my life to facilitating the lives of others” So much this. I had 2 babies back to back and I stayed at home for 3.5 years. It was - hands down - the worst time of my life. I know, as a woman, I’m not supposed to admit such things be c’est la vie. I thought my brain was eating itself. I never slept. I was bored beyond measure. I cried all the time. You know who stays home with babies? Monkeys. MONKEYS can do the job of a SAHM. It’s like pulling weeds. Now, many people say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:20 PM
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THIS. I never ever took back an ex. Except once. Why? Because he rescued me from a party where I got myself into a bad situation. How did he rescue me? Because he was stalking me that night. But I felt so traumatized about getting myself in a bad situation that I started sobbing because I knew I had to choose him, that I had to be stuck with him because he was the only person who would save me from myself. I know, I know. That’s how twisted my thoughts were. We got married. We were together 7 ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:36 PM
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LinkedIn has become FB, Nextdoor and a dating site, apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:39 PM
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Damn, I didn’t know I was “emotionally attached” to my vibrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 01:01 PM
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Being overly picky in general. I do NOT want a man who has to coat the world in ranch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:13 PM
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Me, a doctor, hearing this: “oh hey listen babe how about for our 2nd time meeting in life you take the subway in a storm over to my place? Pick up a nice pinot on the way too, I find it pairs nicely with sloppy joes”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:15 PM
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This is what I don’t get with these men. How is it not ONE of them thinks to himself “Wait, what?? I can’t cum unless I’m staring at a screen?? What did my ANCESTORS DO???” Like …self reflect for a minute jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:35 PM
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Regular soap is “gay”. Too smooth and slippery and moisturizing. Men need skin like sandpaper. Cracking and bleeding is a plus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:07 PM
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I’m 47 and I can tell you - this is facts. I wrote about it a couple years ago: https://link.medium.com/1v1HnCu7Fmb Didn’t know there was ACTUAL science behind it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:51 PM
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This. My mom and dad got divorced when I was 14. I’m 47 now. My mom dated ONE man for about a year in the time since then. He gave her genital warts. That fully sealed the deal and she has been alone since. She will say “if it’s meant to be god will send me a man” but I can tell she hopes like hell she doesn’t 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:59 PM
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German/Russian shows and movies are great in that regard as well - so many normal, average looking women that it’s almost shocking at first! And same with me and SM - I quit everything about 5 years ago now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:47 PM
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Omg I’m so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:50 PM
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Yes. 100% can confirm. I am 47 and I have been married twice now and the second time was a mistake. Not a life-threatening mistake, but just stupid. I don’t regret it though because I learned a lot. I make plenty of money and my kids are mostly grown…I will never ever ever marry or live with a man again. I will move in with one of my kids first if I can’t be alone lol. Do not, under any circumstances, get married if you 1) are fine alone financially or 2) don’t want kids. Unless you found a unic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:33 PM
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Yes, omg, exactly. It should be a Ted Talk. I’ve been married twice now and every single paragraph was yes, yes, omg that, yes, EXACTLY. I’ve been saying for a while “can we please talk about how much men need to NAP??” because every man I know is one sleepy motherfucker. They have zero energy. And the “greedy touch” …wow that was heartbreaking to read. I mean yes, I know it’s true, it’s been my experience my entire life! But to acknowledge that it’s truly a “thing”? Ughhhhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:10 PM
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This omg this. I write a lot of articles on relationships/sex and the male comments - damn. They have maybe 10-12 patented responses, I swear. I could make a coffee table book. They must all have a secret meeting where they pledge to repeat the same phrases till they die. I really don’t get it. I don’t get why they still supposedly want women but canNOT process any of the reasons we don’t want them and then subsequently make changes. Personally, I’m 100% good with never hearing any male “thought…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:07 PM
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“Dude, you had ONE job” So much this. Every year, my ex husband and I would go to Mexico. This trip I paid for with my bonus. I planned it. I picked the place, booked the flights and the car, booked all the restaurants, etc. I have a very stressful job and the lead in to taking time off is always a nightmare for me but I still managed to get all my stuff together. His only job was to pack and find his passport. Last year, the night before our flight, at 9pm, he’s frantically searching the house …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:10 PM
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What’s so shocking to me is that men can’t grasp this on their own. I mean FUCKING DUH. Duh, Steve, XXX porn theaters used to be for losers in trenchcoats. Who taught you that? Your DAD. The back room of the video store was for perverts who couldn’t get a girl. Your MOM taught you that when you wondered what was in that room. Now?? You aren’t a gross pervert and loser because it’s on your phone?? Hahah! Just because you don’t have to publicly put yourself to get your fix changes nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:57 PM
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This, unfortunately. I have been writing about this topic for a while now and man, NO ONE cares what a 40-something woman has to say on this topic. I think about speaking publicly about it and man, I would have to look like a goddess to be taken seriously other wise I would be torn apart as being old, fat, dried up, can’t get a man, jealous, on and on and on - is that lambasting worth it to ANY woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:54 PM
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My NVX is in therapy right now. Same male therapist we saw together as a couple. My ex is an extremely charming narcissist and the therapist is enraptured by him. And I can tell that my ex loveeesss going to the therapist each week because he is paying for a dedicated audience who hangs on his every word and maybe challenges him slightly with some suggestions for self improvement which is still enticing to him because it’s all about him. Does that make sense? NVX is very funny (that’s what got m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:36 AM
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“Deliberately unattractive” lol that got me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:25 AM
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THIS. When I got divorced omgggg the freedom and joy of coming home to a house that was exactly how I LEFT IT - not full of a thousand new messes for me to clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:12 PM
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This happens in marriages too - when I was with my ex husband I would tell him all the time that I just felt like a hole because he would never talk to me or treat me nicely or literally do anything and then sometimes he wanted a hole rather than his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:56 PM
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Years ago I got a pearly panther at a sex toy party and when I was in between marriages, I threw it in the trash because I knew the knobby pink wonder was ruining me for all actual men. Now it looks like I need to shell out another $100.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:48 PM
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I wrote an article about sex robots…pre FDS but read it to the end :) https://link.medium.com/27SUkU2dlmb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:43 PM
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Well, yeah! Men get a wife because having a wife makes his life 100% easier. What does he have to care whether he “loves” her for real or not, men aren’t even supposed to have “feelings” anyway lol /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:12 PM
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Poor thing, really. I feel for her. The fact that she even thinks she could be TA…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:39 PM
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The egg doesn’t swim to the sperm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:55 PM
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Oh! Easy! Men only care about what other people can see. They care about being visible and getting credit for any and all acts of kindness or service. That’s it. If they cannot be seen/appreciated/paid/glorified for it - they do NOT give a shit. I’ve been married twice. I cannot tell you the countless times I’ve been left behind to deal with the house and children alone while the husband goes to help a friend move or cut a tree or put a boat in the water or butcher a deer or literally anything. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:31 PM
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My ex husband thought I must be a lesbian because I never wanted sex. Couldn’t have been his dingleberries and the skid marks on the sheets no siree bob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:19 AM
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This is so depressing. What happened to SHAME?? We used to call the guys in the trench coats going into the XXX theater “perverts”. We used to know the guys going into the back room of the video store were losers who couldn’t get laid. Now?? Oh yeah, man, I jerk off at school, at work, at home, at the mall, in a gas station. I am always looking at porn on my phone, it’s awesome, I love it, choking girls is hot, slapping and spitting on stepsisters is great. Whooottt!! I hate it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:55 PM
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So true about not even wanting family/friends over. They don’t want to buy Christmas presents or plan vacations or date nights. They don’t want to do stuff with the kids or around the house…wtf are they even on the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:41 PM
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Omg! Not only are they comfortable they love it and crave it! Why do you think men only do the outdoor chores? Because people will see him doing it. They will see the great looking lawn. They will see the shiny car. They will get notice and praise. The fact that their wife gives other men boners is the highest form of compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:10 PM
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I felt this way for 2 or 3 days in my 30s. I must have been going through some hormonal changes because I felt a weird veil of horniness fall across me. It was like my eyes were foggy with it. Sex was all I could think about. And I thought then, holy shit this is what guys feel like?? I couldn’t think straight or concentrate on anything. And I looked around at all the men I worked with like, “Omg, these motherfuckers are dealing with THIS sensation all the time and they think they should be in C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:29 PM
14

Sister <hugs>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:05 PM
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My ex husband literally left skid marks on the sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:04 PM
56

Oh I like this take. Also, it’s not just looks - it’s the fact that they are lazy pieces of shit who don’t lift a finger in the house with kids or chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:14 PM
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In reality - you don’t want a man to be a “provider” anyway. Before I got married - the first time - my ex told me he wanted to have a SAHM when we had kids. We were super young at the time but I have always been proud of myself for the one rule I set (I can’t believe my 20 year old self had the foresight and the gumption). I said, “I will stay at home, sure. But I will NOT stay at home poor. I will not clip coupons. I know how to work, I’ve been working since I was 12 (true story). You need to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:33 PM
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