| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 251 | Inconsistency and empty promises are manipulation | REMINDER 👑 | Attheatelier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Wtf is wrong with men? | MALE DEPRAVITY | Attheatelier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | This really is men when they try really hard to do anything nice for their SO | LEVEL UP BRO! | Attheatelier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm honestly fucking speechless. Men really have 0 empathy | MALE DEPRAVITY | Attheatelier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:53 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 45 | Andrea Dworkin's take on male trollsThis is honestly the best way to deal with a scrote. Delete and block, ignore if irl, don't EVER entertain them. You can tell exactly what their mentality is from the way they respond to/treat you. Never waste your precious energy on someone who's purposefully looking for the satisfaction of draining you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 36 | Even on Airplanes in business class we are not safe.Lol when I was younger and still Muslim, I pulled this move. It felt a bit rude but my family told me to not sit next to a male stranger, esp since I was travelling alone for the first time and was like 14-15 (it's a one way flight with no transits but I still had to be careful while travelling). It's actually a pretty solid move and if you're uncomfortable sitting next to a man, just say you're religious and uncomfortable sitting next to men. I don't see why they wouldn't change your seat if th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:14 AM |
| 12 | Don’t buy into indulgent couples content - especially around Valentine’s DayI feel like we should do a parks and rec move and celebrate "galentines day" instead, where we appreciate the strong and wonderful women in our lives instead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesThis should literally be the bare minimum. It's sad that "dad bods" are being normalized and gross, unkempt guys are marketed as "cute" and attractive when they're anything but that. It really doesn't take much to be well groomed and in shape when you're a man, they don't even have to put in half the effort we do to be presentable. They expect us to be hot 24/7 and have our shit together, yet they have shit stained teeth and smelly BO. Yikes.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 7 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.This is literally rape... What the actual fuck. Horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 110 | That time I walked out on a date after his first sentenceWoah, an FDS show would be extraordinary! It'd be the first TV show where women aren't depicted as sad pickmes who bend over backwards for shitty/creepy/murderuous men. I'd love to see strong women coming together to fight the patriarchy and putting little scrotes in their place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 33 | That time I walked out on a date after his first sentenceThis is some queen shit. I love how you moved on like you threw something in the trash and went about your day to play pool. This is why I love FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:51 PM |
| 133 | I wonder why he wants to date someone 10 years younger than him…BARF I am in public and had to resists audibly saying "gross! Ugh". More young women need to be told that older men are not attracted to them for anything besides wanting to fulfill their perverted fantasies and never maturing emotionally. It's utterly nauseating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 08:35 AM |
| 30 | I think he told on himselfYeah OP I'm sorry for what you're going through but in a way you did exactly what he wanted, you begged him and cried for him to come back. You became "submissive" to him instead of standing your ground. Spare all the arguing next time and just dump the loser and never look back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Getting to see men's true colors after some pictures of me were used in an advertising campaign.My God, men are pathetic... Sorry you're going through this OP! Glad to hear the photoshoot was fun and you enjoyed it, hope what's going on rn blows over soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:57 AM |
| 173 | Ladies who have dated Desi or Muslim, how did the misogyny affect how you were treated in the relationship?Honestly I come from a Muslim background and I wouldn't recommend dating men from conservative backgrounds in general. Very rarely you'll find one without baggage and internationalized misogyny. Also they're babied pretty badly and don't learn to take responsibility or own up to their mistakes. There are also the ones who swing into the other direction and end up super edgy atheists who hate religion and trash on religious ppl. Just avoid them tbh. Or on the very rare occasion that one seem okay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:38 AM |
| 336 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Lol he didn't say anything while she was shopping because he thought she'd pay for it and only got mad when he realized he has to contribute too. Pathetic! So glad the comments on the OP are all shredding him to pieces | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:37 AM |
| 49 | Scrote is trying to take his date to a storage unit to make her clean it!I can't with posts like these anymore. Like I'm glad we're highly aware of these types of men and the red flags to look out for so we can avoid them from the start but also it's genuinely depressing to me to read the kind of BS men try to pull off. It's unfathomable to me how a man can do something like this and not think it's inappropriate/wrong/offensive to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 08:40 AM |
| 77 | Tell us about the PickMe friend(s) you ditched!Ooooh boy most of the people around me are LV as fuck so I've cut off a TON of pickmes. I'd say maybe upwards of maybe 14ish friends/close friends since 2020 who were extreme pickmeishas and LV all around. I can't list each one with their individual story but I'll just give outlines of things I've noticed in common with them/what made them pickmes to me: Obviously, chasing men, fighting for their attention and validation. This bothers me SO much. Especially since they'd ditch me at the drop of a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 02:28 AM |
| 247 | The things I had to freaking hear.Girl umm why is your bf still friends with this scrote? He needs to cut him out of his life. This "friend" sounds really delusional and super creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 03:21 PM |
| 145 | This Queen nails itEven with commitment and marriage I ain't cooking and cleaning for a man full time. He should absolutely be able to do that shit himself and I shouldn't be putting in more effort into anything than him. It's completely unfair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:16 AM |
| 312 | Comments are ROASTING him for his age-gap preference - very happily surprised! Based Reddit.He feels used😭😭😭and wants to be appreciated for something other than his money? How about you start appreciating women for something other than their youth (naïveté/lack of experience at that age, makes them easier to manipulate) and looks? He's so pathetic. Lord help him lol glad people ripped him a new one for his lack of awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 7 | Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your ConfidenceThank you so much for this post! Saved. I've struggled a lot with guys who neg because I'd try to give them the benefit of the doubt (🙄) but FDS taught me there's no such thing and I need to vet hard. In general men are terrible at giving compliments but that's no excuse, many of them do it on purpose to bring down our self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:07 AM |
| 17 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayThere's so much wrong in that one post, damn. Throw the whole man out, please. Yikes. I feel like I've known so many men like him, the professor who thinks he's a hot shot and too important to be doing anything besides whatever the hell he wants. Also it's pretty obvious that he's intending to cheat on her and groom the 20yr old. And her last comment about her being young and pretty like she used to be makes me believe that this is an age gap relationship. I feel bad for her but she needs to gtf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 02:01 PM |
| 103 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"Yes, this! Usually men will either justify for the other man who hurt you or will show complete indifference because they have 0 emotional intelligence and don't know how to show empathy for others/can't even comprehend why something like the example you mentioned would upset someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 8 | I'm tired of hearing about women who take scrotes backAbsolutely agree. I can't be around anyone who would rather have a scrote in their life making them sad and miserable than put themselves first and level up from all that BS. Plus a pickme who makes her scrotie partner a priority over herself is likely one who will make him a priority over you no matter how long you've known her or how much history you have together. These types are too far gone at that point and will only snap out of it on their own once they've gotten a wake up call/things go … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 40 | “Ask her out, but you dont need to pay”Why do men think that walks are an actual date? Especially for a first date. That's sooo awkward! And so low effort. How am I supposed to get to know a person while walking around? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Thank you thank you FDSUncle Fritz😭😭 Nah this guy is a whole mess. Good on you for immediately blocking him, not breaking a sweat over it. FDS has helped me out soo much as well with making decisions like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 54 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!Absolutely. The moment you feel unsafe, do whatever it is you have to do to remove yourself from the situation. Leave and never look back. Even if it's a safe date but the red flags start showing, get up and go. If he says you need to pay, just say "no thank you" and leave. Nothing is stopping you. I know it feels hard go execute, it's easier said than done, trust me I really do know. But you have to enforce your boundaries so you don't allow these scrotes to mentally, emotionally and financiall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 67 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!Yikes, he sounds very creepy. Gives off rapey/murderous vibes from your description. Bullet dodged! Also, about the part where he got offended because you said you know you're beautiful. I fucking love that you said that! Men almost always get mad when you show them that you're confident and don't need their cheap validation about your looks. He thought that line would work and you showed him damn well that it didn't. Love that for you! Imo more women should show off their confidence, it keeps t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | I had a weak moment and caved....First off I'd like to say that you should probably not try to date during vulnerable moments in your life, e.g. When you just get out of a relationship, if you just got laid off from a job, if you're going through some personal or self esteem issues, loss of a friend or family member etc etc. Almost everytime I pursued a crush or tried to date, it was during a low point and I tried to fill that hole with a "connection" or emotional intimacy. And I was the one left hung out to dry every.single.ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:53 AM |
| 42 | Hearing about scrotes everywhere I goI come from a very poor country and even the poorest people use soap! Not once have I heard a poor person tell me they used dish soap to shower. Plus at least where I come from, dish soap is more expensive than a bar of soap(which you can get for as little as 50 cents and it'd last you months). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:27 AM |
| 26 | Hearing about scrotes everywhere I goDish soap😭😭girl I can't omg. Dish soap can actually burn your skin and I mean, what's wrong with regular soap/body wash? 😭😭😭 As for that first woman, I think she was trying to rationalize being with her socially awkward, incompetent boyfriend in some way, especially if she's been with him for a long time. She wouldn't want to feel like she's wasted so much time on him. I often hear about women describing their boyfriends' flaws as "cute" or "quirky" when it's more along the lines of annoying and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:24 AM |
| 71 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayI mean, it was in the backseat of his stuffy car. He should've already had lower expectations for how it was going to be lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 09:30 PM |
| 81 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayHe said she had no direction and wasn't going anywhere. Kept saying they talked about "basic" stuff and clearly showed he had 0 respect for her and thought very low of her, but wanted to feel a thrill of getting to know someone new anyway, despite it being very clear to him that they're incompatible from the very beginning. He says he doesn't care if she liked him and he didn't like her, yet he agreed to meet her because guys don't turn down sex, as he says Then he's mad that she wouldn't offer … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 211 | Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women.Also just want to say that women can't be incels lol. Men would fuck any women in the world if she came onto him. It doesn't work the other way around. And absolutely agreed. We choose to stay single or abstain from meaningless sex with floppy scroties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 02:36 AM |
| 55 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮I'm sorry but that's just pathetic... I want to sympathize with her but he literally told her he wouldn't want her if she was in the exact same position that he's in rn and she wants help "rationalizing" it? There's no explaining this away. Just leave. I can't believe people tolerate bullshit like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 01:46 PM |
| 120 | Nah men, women are visual creatures too.Ahh your description reminds me of all the gross, un-groomed men at my uni. I also know barely 2 men who have clean, non rusty teeth and don't take showers sporadically lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:28 AM |
| 8 | Men's ability to make everything about themselves is astounding but also the fact that the same features celebrated on men are shamed on women. Men were telling her she SHOULD get a nose job but saying her hypothetical son is a God. 😐Yikes, the amounts of likes on their replies... Glad I haven't downloaded Tiktok ever, from what I've seen it can be so toxic. I like her nose and admire tf out of her confidence. Go queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 07:42 AM |
| 17 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerLol I hate how entitled men are. Even the ones without ANY redeeming qualities expect to be with a physically attractive woman. If I'm going to invest time and money into myself and my looks, I'd want my SO to be the same way. Why do I have to work hard to look good and they can get away with barely shaving and showering once a week? Plus men can build muscle much faster and don't even have to do as much to increase muscle mass and have lower body fat percentage. So no excuses there... Just pure… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Porn is neither harmless nor fantasyI really don't understand how the fuck m*n get off to women being harmed and killed. How is that normal? How does one get horny off of shit like that? The OP in that post absolutely did the right thing. There's no logical excuse for why someone would be attracted to shit like that unless they have violent or murderous tendencies. Nothing sexy about rape, stabbings and murder. Disgusting. Also as someone who comes from a third world country where violence is very real and people get murdered by t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateOh my god... Is she a teenager? LOL her husband got her "TWO"!!!! Slices of cheesecake? Wow¡! Okay but seriously, this is so weird. And why is her husband happy that some random hot guy flirted with his WIFE?? Sounds like he cares more about men's approval of his wife than his own and is totally okay with this man thinking she's hot and flirting with her because it means he scored a hot woman lol. In a "look but don't touch" way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.Wow that's frightening! Hope you're away from him and he isn't a threat to you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.This is awful but sadly because of where I'm from, I wasn't too surprised. In my home country, some women get married off to their rapists or men who keep harassing them if they don't have "other options"..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 12 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔That's just sad and pathetic... People really need more self worth, yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 03:37 PM |
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