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Whenever we split food, he gives me the bigger half of something, or if we’re eating, idk, skittles or something, and he knows I like a flavor, he’ll eat around them and collect them for me. I think it’s the small things in life that matter a lot, not just these big sweeping moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:39 PM
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“Oh wow, you just learned that now? Good for you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:03 AM
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Turns out being a useless scrote is an oppressed minority unlike being female 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:05 PM
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Also men who buy prostitutes have been found to be MORE violent, not less because it strengthens their warped mindset of women and makes them view us as less human. I’m not even going to unpack how toxic the mentality of “let men abuse a subsection of women to spare the rest” because it’s factually wrong. Studies show pornography and use of prostitution INCREASES violent attitudes against women rather than serving as some “catharsis”. Honestly, it makes zero sense. We don’t use this catharsis ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:29 PM
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I think you do subtly change your facial expression or project a different vibe depending on your internal thoughts. I used to be approachable and now I’m not. But in the past I used to think random fuckos hitting on me was a compliment, and now I take it as an insult that they have the audacity to interrupt my day and think I’m on their level. Somehow that energy projects outwards I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 11:09 PM
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“I wish women complimented me more” = “I wish women were genuinely and extremely sexually interested in me without having to put in any effort or change my lifestyle” People compliment men all the time. When a woman does it though, they equate it as sexual interest, and that’s what they actually want. You never see them wishing their bros complimented their outfits more lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:29 AM
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The true friend zone: you realize he is unstable af and has extremely toxic ideas about women, so you try to strike a perfect balance between too nice (leading him on in his delusional mind) and too cold (making him angry and potentially triggering incel violence). When you leave town for work or school, you never talk to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:02 PM
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I on the other hand am a good test taker and had the best grade in my 100 person CS class, and still no males wanted to pair with me, so I paired with the other woman for group projects If you have good grades they’ll say grades mean nothing and you have no practical ability, and if you have bad grades, they hold them up as proof that women can’t code. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:22 AM
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Side note is this murder or not? Like on one hand I totally stabbed him in the heart, but on the other hand, when he said “no don’t do it!“ I really respected his wishes and didn’t stab him in the balls. Oh yeah, he’s dead now, but I don’t see how that’s relevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:01 AM
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Then all of sudden they’re backpedaling on “sex work is work”. It’s work if it helps them get laid, but it isn’t work if it counts as a dangerous workplace for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:09 PM
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Especially when update 1 is 2 years later, which implies his wife got married 2 years after he divorced him… wow, moving at lighting pace sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:28 AM
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In one breath, they’ll say a woman who was murdered by her abuser should have left earlier, so she brought it upon herself, and then in the next breath, they’ll say the man was forced to murder his wife because she was mean to him or something… like why couldn’t he just leave if she was oh so evil?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:02 PM
139

Imagine a robot rice cooker just killing some woman’s abusive husband, I wanna watch that movie lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:34 PM
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You just know he’s not looking for 40+ yo doctors or finance women either. I bet he thinks he’s entitled to date a doctor in her 20s… like bruh she doesn’t need to pretend to be into you for money, so she’s going to busy dating hot, interesting men her own age. Again, another reason why women need to prioritize leveling up their career and finances above all else. Dodge these entitled, old, balding scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:20 PM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if they also don’t want a woman who is looking for casual sex only. A lot of them have hypocritical views when it comes to casual sex, so they probably would think she was too “slutty”, but love the idea of pumping and dumping some earnest girl who is actually looking for love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:05 AM
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At heart, stoicism is about controlling your response to events because the one thing in this world that you have the most control over is yourself. That being said, stoicism was largely applied to uncontrollable life events. I have control of the block button. Why shouldn’t I use it? Even if I’m not bothered by the scrote, it’s frankly annoying getting notifications about shit I don’t care to read. Is turning off notifications to protect my peace allowed, but blocking isn’t? Also, the thing abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:38 AM
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If it’s actual polyamory shouldn’t she also be going on his family trips… somehow I doubt that’s happening lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:51 PM
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Known as the 1 penis policy. Sounds exactly like what it is. It’s just a man’s harem fantasy because he’ll throw a fit if any of the girls date another man, but it’s okay if they date each other because lesbian relationships are sexualized/not seen as a threat. A nice one-two punch of misogyny and homophobia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:50 PM
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Yeah, somehow they’re less excited if a ginormous beefy man slaps their ass. Of course, then they always make the argument, “it’s different because I’m not into men” as if the woman being harassed experiences a single iota attraction to the balding scrotes bothering her. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:51 AM
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It’s also so transparent because if you ever say something like “hey maybe men are just genetically less intelligent which is why they’re doing poorly in school nowadays compared to women, just playing the devil’s advocate hun”, suddenly it’s not okay to say that, and it’s not a fun thought exercise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:13 AM
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If sex work is legalized, then rape becomes wage theft. Sexual harassment in the workplace becomes a matter of improper assignment of job duties (i.e. your boss should have been more clear that he expects blow jobs when hiring and he should increase your salary to compensate for the additional “work”). It’s all so fucked up once sexual consent is purchasable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:20 AM
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Let’s talk about pretty privilege. A study looked at how university professors graded students based on their appearance. IIRC they were given the same exam with different attached photos. They found that appearance had no bearing on the grades men received. For women, attractive women were graded EQUAL to the men. Unattractive women were graded BELOW the other three groups. To me, I believe there is no real pretty privilege in society, what we are seeing is just punishment of unattractive women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:08 AM
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I’m so sorry, it sucks. It really does. Can’t have shit on reddit as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:04 PM
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There were some large radical feminist ones, but they were banned by reddit as “hate speech”. Attempts to create similar ones similarly get shut down. Any type of subreddit dedicated to addressing how women are oppressed based on their sex or biology gets removed as exclusionary. For a while even subreddits dedicated to PCOS or periods were on thin ice. That’s the general climate on reddit, as well as the mainstream internet as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:48 AM
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There is Ovarit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:44 AM
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I got banned from AskFeminists for “not being a feminist”. Nice to be mansplained by a male mod what feminism is. 💀 Truly clown town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:04 AM
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Financially Literate Ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:01 PM
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He’s not competing with other men, he’s competing with the peace and happiness you’ve developed on your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 01:57 PM
130

My mentor who is an absolute boss with a meteoric rise in her career has to fucking keep on publishing under her ex-husband’s name because a lot of her foundational work was done when she was married to him. And they even hyphenated! But now she’s got to drag around her ex-husband’s last name hyphenated to hers whenever she publishes another paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:25 AM
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You just know that if a guy was effectively in a relationship with a girl, been dating for months, even maybe moving in together, but they haven’t officially had “the exclusivity talk”, these scrotes would completely justify him banging girls on the side and go “what did you expect if you didn’t CoMmUnIcAtE your need for exclusivity?” if the woman gets upset. Meanwhile 1 tinder date for a woman means she’s tied to the man for life???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:51 AM
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Basically the age old sexist adage: “when feminists are pointing out misogyny, they’re actually creating it into existence and if they didn’t highlight it, no one would have noticed and everything would be equal and pleasant”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:57 PM
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I think it’s because men are considered respectable even when single as long as they are able to get laid, whereas people consider a single woman a failure. So women have a lot more social pressure to get into a relationship despite their trauma. Also, like everyone else is saying, the men could just be lying and want an excuse to hook up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I agree that it’s good advice overall, more just sad that I can absolutely see a man turning violent or rapist if you don’t let him orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:46 PM
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This is so true but a part of me worries about the safety of women who are going to try this. Which is in a way a good vetting process, but it’s also tremendously sad that I have to worry about women being raped by their boyfriends if they don’t let them orgasm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:53 PM
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Yeah, I feel like all cultures are wildly misogynistic, just in different ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:47 AM
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Also was banned for being “not a real feminist” in a popular “feminism” subreddit by a male mod.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:14 AM
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Exactly, a HVM will put in effort even without the minor changes in your appearance, and a LVM will not to put in any effort no matter what happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 01:57 PM
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I was about to comment that I knew a guy like this! It’s so pathetic. To be such a coward and desperate social ladder climber. Society calls a girl superficial if she buys a bag solely to impress her friends, but at least the bag isn’t a real human being with emotions who gets hit by collateral damage. Like don’t fuck over some fat girl’s life just because you’re a pathetic status chaser. Ugh, they turn my stomach. Outside crazy egregious things (like being a rapist), a guy like this is at the b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 01:51 PM
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Men will support each other for leaving a girl stranded in the middle of fucking no where if she’s giving them attitude, yet it’s asshole behavior to do it to a guy? One, the hypocrisy, but also two, guys do NOT face the same risks for sexual assault or kidnapping. And three, I can’t see the post but I assume she left him in a public place and not like on the side of a highway at night like these men did (and still got celebrated for it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 01:36 PM
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Guys would rate girls zero for not sleeping with them or sending nudes, or they might even rate a girl zero if they like her because they want to lower her rating to keep her from being able to date other men. Women might rate more honesty, so it would work out poorly for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:51 PM
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Their ego needs believe the woman is sleeping with them because they find him sooooo attractive, and some men don’t have the delusion thick enough to believe that sex workers are doing it out of love for them. Other men though, absolutely do think that even when they’re buying sex workers. You’ll see a lot of them complain when a sex worker seems unenthusiastic “as if she’s just into it for the money”. Bro… what did you think she was into it for? You?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:57 AM
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I agree. Also an additional myth is that captains go down with their ship. Apparently the captain and crew actually have the highest rate of survival from shipwrecks. The Titanic propaganda seems to amount to LVMs co-opting a HVM’s behavior and pretending they all do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:35 PM
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Actually in other shipwrecks, women have a much lower survival rate. Titanic only went differently because the ship captain had a gun and threatened to shoot any man who did not let the children and women go to safety first. From this article: https://slate.com/technology/2012/08/chivalry-is-a-myth-in-shipwrecks-its-every-man-for-himself.amp The Titanic has been so extensively studied, and it confirmed the myth [of chivalry at sea]. There was little empirical evidence against it. Lucy Delap of C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:49 PM
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Exactly! “Women and children first” during the Titanic is an unusual exception. Women and children have an awful survival rate in all other shipwrecks and other such disasters. The only reason the Titanic went down differently was because the ship captain was based and had a gun and threatened to shoot any man who tried to get onto life boats prematurely. Of course, because we live in a woman-hating culture, somehow this wild exception became held up as propaganda that men are so so chivalrous a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:48 PM
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Honestly, the popularity of kpop in the west has kind of helped dispel the myth in a way. Compare average men to the pretty boys of kpop and that’s almost on par with the expectation women live with in terms of aging. Blemishless, lineless, porcelain skin. If you held men to that standard, they’d be aged out at like 18 since many start getting crows feet already. The only difference is that men are simply allowed to age and women are expected to freeze at age 18, so of course it’s impossible for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:19 AM
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Also what about the shit that people say how they are actually more moved when a man cries because it must be really serious, whereas when a woman cries, they don’t really care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:30 PM
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Grade 4 for me. On the plus side, he wasn’t a bully like I originally thought, but just kind of a disaster. Did stand up for me once against bullies, so I’ll give him that. Would still have much preferred to sit with my friends and not directly front and center where the teacher could also watch him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:11 AM
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Same, like ultimately this is a dating advice subreddit. Obviously, certain pro-women stances are expected because you should advocate for the people you are trying to help, but beyond that, politics should be put aside. I do think some of this is partially a byproduct of reddit censorship of any female political opinions that differ from the liberal party line. Some women have taken to FDS to try to express those beliefs because there is no where else on reddit where they can express them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:26 AM
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Right wing, left wing, the whole bird hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:20 AM
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I think there’s a big difference between criticizing a conservative woman’s viewpoint versus canceling/trying to deplatform liberal women (aka the FDS podcast hosts) for the crime of talking to a conservative woman. That being said, I have not been reading the other thread in depth, so I don’t know if the OP is exaggerating the negative reaction or if people are genuinely advocating to ban FDS for the episode. Funny enough, I’ve observed that conservative women don’t even get that much criticism…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:11 AM
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Also… “play with”??? Tell me you’re pornsick without telling me you’re pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:05 PM
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Yeah, that sounds like an extremely valid reason to stop dating someone. Imagine if you told a man he had to date a woman who he didn’t want to fuck. He would be so offended—yet apparently that’s okay for women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:38 PM
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He probably gets off on telling women, POC, and gay people that they’re bigots and insufficinently woke unlike him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:37 PM
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Yeah, what’s worse, someone who thinks you’re lesser because of your race, or a scrote who thinks you’re lesser because of your race AND is stroking his dick as he tells you that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:36 PM
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Yeah, cute thought to have, but dedicating a post to it makes him a shallow karma-seeking scrote. It’s cringe how males on this website will weep Mountain Dew over “karmawhores” if a woman posts next to an artwork that she painted, yet they’ll salivate over obvious and low effort pandering like this post coming from a male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:00 PM
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“Do you know what men do when we get our feelings hurt? We get over it.” Then proceeds to write an actual essay filled with man tears. Bro… have you considered… it’s not that serious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:51 AM
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I agree, I think some men are forever incapable of forming this level of relationship with any woman. She could be the most perfect, clever, gorgeous woman, and scrotes would still mistreat her because they fundamentally don’t have respect for women. They can’t see her as a partner because they don’t see her as a human being. Maybe reddit is skewing my radar, but my impression is that most men are sexists who don’t respect women, so already more than half of the dating pool is fucking out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:41 AM
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Absolutely not, otherwise he’d know that it’s not hard or impressive to do hip thrusts. I weigh like 110lbs and I can hip thrust over 200lbs pretty easily, and I’m not a heavy or intense lifter in any shape or form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:59 AM
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Sometimes it’s a slam fucking dunk too. Some incel goes on a shooting spree and literally leaves a note saying “I hate women, so I’m going to murder and commit crimes due to my hate of women now” and the police and judges are like “welp, guess this doesn’t count as a hate crime, wonder what his motive was?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:59 AM
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I’m glad you touched on this because “consent is sexy” is such a gross mantra if you look at it closely. For one, it doesn’t even imply that consent is necessary or absolutely 100% required, just that it would sExY if she consents. Then of course it’s framed from a male gaze perspective as well. Who cares if consent is necessary for the woman’s physical and emotional health? It’s only important because it’s sExY and makes the pee-pee hard. I don’t want people respecting my consent because it’s s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:08 PM
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The only poly relationship I would accept is a one-sided open relationship where the woman can explore if she wants but the man stays monogamous. Honestly, even that isn’t worth much because if it’s casual, the sex will be almost guaranteed to suck, and if it’s a full on extra relationship, that’s another guy to vet who might be leeching off of you for emotional and/or financial support. It’s hard enough to find one HVM, and exposure to LVM actually detract from your overall happiness so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:07 AM
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It’s a subtle difference. Instead of working towards some “ideal” self that is unattainable, I prefer to reframe as “everyday I’m getting better”. That way, I can look back and be proud of how far I’ve come, and also look forward and feel motivated and excited to continue developing and maturing like a good wine. My peak self will be the moment before I die because I’m going to strive to keep on improving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:19 AM
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Exactly what I’m thinking! If it’s sooo important for them to feel desirable, why aren’t they out here putting in even the slightest effort to make themselves desirable???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:22 PM
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It’s their way of saying “women’s fundamental evolutionary role is to be a whore. All women’s roots are whoredom.” I wish it was called out for the flagrant misogyny that it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:13 PM
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Because it’s probably a fetish post written by a dude who also has exhibitionism kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:44 AM
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It was never destigmatized in the first place; teenage girls were just groomed into it by disgusting scrotes and pickmes who will support anything that makes a man’s dick hard, but society will still fire you from your job or treat you like dirt if god forbid a single nude pic of you is found (only if you’re female of course).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:11 AM
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Yeah, where my dad is from, the men all eat first, and then the children, and finally the women eat the leftovers. And of course they’re the ones making the food too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:50 PM
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Studies have shown men literally do not acknowledge or recognize the existence of women who don’t look like Victoria Secret models. These men assume every single woman is a 10/10 hot blonde and then build their assumptions about the world around that “fact”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:18 AM
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Nah, I can absolutely see a LVM pressuring his gf into anal, and then looking down on her after she gives in because she’s tainted herself even if he finds it hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:32 PM
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I’m kind of embarrassed for him just reading this. He really thinks he’s doing something, huh? The only way he’s going to hurt FDS women is through sheer cringe from secondhand embarrassment before the mods delete his “emotional abuse to validate his ego”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:28 AM
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Men never ask for help from a woman unless they have ulterior motives. Apparently a lot of predators will ask women for help or for directions and capitalize on women trying to be nice, but if you think about it critically, most men are sexist and don’t respect women, so why would they seek out help from them when they could ask a capable male instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:06 AM
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Women are emotionally intelligent. Men are emotionally dysregulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:47 PM
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It comes off as so fake because this scrote wanted to be the hero in like 3 different fanfiction plots at once. He wanted his revenge fantasy where the medical school childhood crush who thinks she’s too good for him gets brought down low in a brothel, but then he also wants to be a rescuing hero who helps her find away out of her destitute situation—let’s just ignore that he literally just took advantage of that very situation to score points off of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:42 AM
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Working at Walmart, you are selling your labor, which is the work your body produces. In sex work, you are selling your actual body. The difference is clear once you realize that a very experienced worker at Walmart will be paid more. However, virgins or inexperienced prostitutes cost more than “used up ones”. This difference between the Walmart worker and prostitute is because the Walmart worker is selling labor, and the prostitute is selling her actual body. In this sense, sex work work is clo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:41 AM
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Yeah, I thought it was a 3D animation movie at first 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah, and not to mention the commonplace sadists out there who choke and physically assault the girl while ignoring her clit. Imagine if that was even on the table for men at all? How many would put up with a woman who only wanted to beat the shit out of them while not touching their dick once, and then call that sex? That’s not even on their radar because of course they feel entitled to pleasure and aren’t pressured to hurt themselves for other people’s kinks. God it reminds me of how much I ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:42 PM
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I thought it meant that he did want salt, pepper, and garlic, but no other spices beyond those 3, and he didn’t want the use of recipes for whatever reason. Like, it made him feel like a big man if his wife was cooking from scratch and without any guidance. Tbh this whole “document” demonstrates so little common sense that either option could be plausible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:38 PM
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My grandma wasn’t the kindest parent to my mother, but one thing she absolutely did right was if her daughters had any objection to the man she was dating, no matter how minor, she would drop him immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:08 PM
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Yes, there is absolutely lookism in general which punishes unattractive women (also disproportionately more than unattractive men), but being either attractive or unattractive does not protect you from scrotes and male depravity. Interestingly, I saw a study that evaluated university grading based on attractiveness and sex, and apparently males are graded the same regardless of appearance, attractive females were graded about equal to the males, and unattractive females were graded harsher. It m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:17 PM
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Yes, the problem is no men truly believe any woman is “out of their league”. They feel entitled to a woman just because they find the woman attractive—who gives a shit what the woman thinks about them? So every trash scrote out there will harass attractive women. Attractive women have to vet or they could easily land a NVM. Unfortunately, unattractive women have their own struggles regarding vetting. At first glance, you’d think being unattractive would filter out men who are shallow and attract…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:18 PM
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And he doesn’t even biologically need his gaming controllers. This is closer to his girlfriend hiding all his toilet paper because he’s not giving her orgasms, and then storming out when he’s like “I need toilet paper tho”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:00 PM
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Yeah, white men are out there calling black women Karen at this point. It doesn’t mean anything except a socially acceptable way to call a woman a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:04 PM
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