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Lol, so the two men I dated pretending to care about me and wanting the same things I wanted before revealing themselves as an abusive sack of shit and a lying serial cheater is somehow my fault for seeking "pleasure"? The only lack of self-respect I showed was giving men a chance in the first place. Go cry on your MRA forums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/22 02:13 AM
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I'm a bisexual woman who avoided dating men until my twenties, and have now gone back to exclusively dating women. I badly wish I'd never dated men at all. I've been lucky enough to have a couple genuine HVM in my life, but overall the trauma and damage and the sheer toll the LVM have taken on me have outweighed the good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/22 11:40 PM
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What really fucks with and angers me is that there's no synonymous word for women, because a woman's default state is assumed to be humiliated and lesser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 01:18 AM
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fr. I remember seeing this meme post once of "who you think is posting about their poly relationships/having threesomes on Reddit vs who is ACTUALLY posting about their poly relationships/having threesomes on Reddit" and the top square is a drawing of this hot suave James Bond looking guy with a lingerie model hanging off of him and the bottom square is a drawing of this overweight, slovenly, poorly-dressed neckbeard cat ears couple making that openmouthed grimacing smile face at the camera on t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:35 PM
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🤢 I don't know why I'm surprised this is a thing (because it seems so sleazy and pathetic, because it is) but of course this is a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:31 PM
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Left my ex because he was cheating on me with prostitutes, he immediately proceeded to marry the next woman who came along so he could lock down a mommy bangmaid and then spent the next three years trying to contact me behind his wife's back. He's blocked on everything, but recently showed up in a video on a friend's social media and has gained a solid 60lbs over quarantine. Is it small and petty? Yes. Does it still feel good? Also yes. According to gossip, he is also (surprise!) now cheating on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:12 AM
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Remember how back in the day it was common for kids to just find random stashes of porn in the woods, because the men who bought it were so ashamed of it that they would find places to hide it far away from their homes? Wonder how we got from there to here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:14 AM
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Truth. There are ways to be honest with someone while sparing their feelings and being truthful in ways that are both fair and constructive. Anyone who brags about their "brutal honesty" just wants a pass to emotionally abuse people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:56 PM
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I can't tell you how badly I wish I figured this out sooner. "Well, clearly he can't be doing (Shitty Thing), because what reasonable human being would do (Shitty Thing)? I would never do (Shitty Thing) to someone I cared about, so why would he?" So much time wasted gaslighting myself when my instincts were screaming at me to run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:59 PM
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Whenever I see women posting on social media "bragging" about anal sex I always cringe inwardly for them. Why are you giving men ammo to mock you behind your back with and use as an excuse to treat you like trash? Why are you normalizing the idea that women are okay with or even enjoy being sexually degraded and hurt? 🤦 Even though men will try to nag, coerce or outright force women into doing anal, they will still lose tons of respect for them for actually doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:27 PM
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Ah yes, the old "let's fill this post-apocalyptic storyline where the MCs are scrounging for food, medicine and weapons with loads of rape, misogyny and sexual abuse because it's rEaLiStIc -- but the women all have perfectly styled blown-out hair and full faces of makeup and smooth shaved legs and plucked eyebrows because to portray them otherwise would be disgusting and offensive"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:48 PM
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I was actually recently talking to a friend of mine about how I can't really watch almost any movie made before 1970, because virtually any woman character onscreen isn't really even a character; she's just there as set dressing or a plot device, just there to look fuckable and act confused or coy or helpless and further the male protagonist's story with no agency or desires of her own. It's also rare to see movies from that era where there's a single female character onscreen who isn't this con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:38 PM
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I especially love the cries of "they're worse than the incels!" Despite the fact that incels openly promote rape, pedophilia, slavery, torture, murder, say women shouldn't have legal rights, say they should be able to own women, talk about women as though we were objects, state that they see us as subhuman and have actually gone on multiple killing sprees out of their hatred for us. So we mock shitty men, sure. Because they're shitty, not because they're men. Go to almost any reddit thread off o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:40 AM
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I'm in my early 30s and men 40+ are basically invisible to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:06 AM
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The “no man will ever date you” insult grows weaker every day, because women truly don’t need men to be happy, healthy, fulfilled, and successful. Like you said, repelling the majority of men is a good thing. Quite the opposite of needing them -- dating men has overwhelmingly made most of our lives far worse. It's not worth it unless they can prove they're HV over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:28 PM
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Is it just me, or is making loads of fake accounts and enragedly stalking subs you don't like almost exclusively a male thing? If a sub is absolutely horrible (like the multiple abusive p0rn subs) I just report it and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:58 PM
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I joined a couple years ago -- showed both my sisters and all my close female friends and we've all found it life-changing. May the good word spread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:55 PM
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As a bisexual woman, I would very much like to see data like this for same -sex relationships. I'm in my early 30s and would love to date a woman 10 or so years older than me, though I've honestly lost most of my attraction to men at this point just due to all the bullshit I've endured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:46 AM
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I'm not "old" yet by any means (coming up on 31) but I can't tell you how badly I wish I had had this knowledge ten years ago. I'm glad that younger women will avoid some or all of the misery, pain, horror and bullshit a lot of us had to go through at the hands of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:36 PM
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Re: Armie Hammer -- there were a lot of very believable rumors circulating that he was targeting girls as young as 15. One of the young women he abused confirmed it in her instagram stories. It's all a power/control thing. And, in his case, wanting to hurt/defile someone vulnerable and take their innocence from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:47 PM
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I would actually wholeheartedly recommend every woman on this sub read The Game just to get an idea of how these losers think the world works and what bullshit they'll try. Even in the book, the author points out at the end that PUA doesn't really work and twists the men who try to use it into insecure, manipulative, shitty and miserable clones of each other who only care about adding to their scoreboard as opposed to actually bonding with women they like. But obviously, that's not the part scro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 10:36 PM
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Bit on-topic -- apparently Ted Bundy had the smallest penis the guard assigned to him in prison had ever seen. The Golden State Killer had an extremely small penis as well. It's actually apparently a common thing in extremely violent men. Some men overcompensate with flashy cars, others just torture objects of their sexual desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:07 PM
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I think the difference between men who hate women and women who hate men is that when women hate men, they hate a specific man who has done great harm to them or their loved ones. I've admittedly had this type of torture fantasy about a deeply sociopathic man who horrifically abused a close friend of mine, but I'm sane enough to realize that men are individual people and not a hive mind. Men who hate women seem to want to punish all women as a blanket demographic for little more than extremely p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:03 PM
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lol, it reads like American Psycho fanfiction from some overweight guy writing it through angry tears who unironically thinks the Joker is JuSt LiKe HiM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:51 PM
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if you enable me to send you messages, I can DM it to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:04 PM
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He has a thread on the Forums for New Zealand Agriculture due to what a tool he is. A lot of people chiming in there. Dude was a chubby awkward teenager who got where he is due to nepotism and only got attractive after he started hitting the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:39 PM
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lmao i'm pretty sure I know exactly who you're talking about and he's heavily rumoured to be an insecure fuckboy who makes a game of trying to see how many women he can get to sleep with him in a week. pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:58 PM
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I think it was Chris Rock who said this quote, who is himself a LVM. This is shitty logic that low value men use to tell themselves that it's okay to cheat. Good men with principles won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:29 AM
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"Teach a man to fish and he'll turn around and try to teach you to fish like he invented it and you're a fucking idiot."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:52 PM
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lol, LVM would point and shriek "Simp! Cuck! SIiiiIIiiIiiiiiImP!1!!!11" with their heads thrown back like in Invasion Of The Body Snatchers. Scrotes have a crab-bucket mentality that keeps them all down at the same level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:12 PM
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Most women don't want to do it and find it painful and humiliating, that's why. They want to degrade women so they can go running straight to their shitty friends and brag about how she "let" him degrade her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:09 PM
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An ex I broke up with for cheating on me a few years ago (who has since married) kept trying to contact me earlier this year by getting around my social media blocks with new accounts, which I then instantly blocked. He's since gotten the message and stopped, but it baffles me how they think this shit will work. His poor wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:22 PM
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Beware anyone who calls themselves an "empath". In my experience these people are usually some kind of cluster B disordered nightmare. Similar to men who insist they are "nice guys".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:49 PM
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Eugh. I'm sorry to hear you went through the same thing. I know that not all men are this selfish and lacking in empathy, but why are so many of them like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:09 AM
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Whenever I see these posts it always reminds me of my beloved elderly cat who I happily spent thousands in vet bills on and did round the clock care for at the end of her life, because I loved her so much and would do anything for her. I was shocked and enraged at how many people (mostly men) would act annoyed if I mentioned it and dismissively say "why do all that? Just get a new cat."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:31 PM
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Ugh, same. I moved to a new city when I was 21 and in our social circle there was a (not very attractive) 34-ish guy who started asking my friends if I was seeing anyone and I just felt grossed out by the AUDACITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:31 AM
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I would love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:22 PM
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I could barely string sentences together and had trouble forming thoughts because I had been so conditioned to expect everything I said to be met with mockery or sneering disrespect/invalidation. Really does a number on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:35 AM
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I used to think this before I wound up in an abusive relationship. The answer is that she's spent so long being gaslit and having her feelings and experiences invalidated by this piece of shit that she doesn't even know what's real anymore. If she manages to get away from him, months and years later she'll do what I did, look back at this shit and think "what the fuck? How did I not see that for what it was?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:52 AM
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Sorry, guess I wasn't super clear in the wording: we were sleeping together on and off for around a year or a little less while we were both between relationships, and maybe a month AFTER the last time we slept together he decided he was bi and downloaded the apps. He told me about it straight away so I could make my own decisions, he never hid anything. We've had zero sexual contact since he started sleeping with men, and we won't again. We were pretty good friends for years prior to that, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:12 PM
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I could be misremembering the exact numbers, but I recall reading a scientific study once that stated that men who have sex with men make up something like 5% of the total population but over 60% of all new diagnosed STD cases, which I absolutely believe. As much as women not wanting to date bisexual men just gets written off as "biphobia", there are extremely valid reasons for that based in hard, cold reality. A male FWB of mine came out as bi about a year after we started sleeping together, do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:05 PM
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Hey now, Aragorn was both hot af and a HVM. These scrotes could never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:00 PM
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He looks amazing for 62, too! One of those incredibly rare men who actually did age like a fine wine. Seems like a HVM through and through as well. I think there definitely is something to the theory that people with innate goodness just have it shine out of them as they age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:52 PM
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Even the older ones I actually found attractive my brain still filed neatly into the box of "not for me". I recall watching Lord Of The Rings as a teenager and thinking Viggo Mortensen was a ridiculously attractive man, but there was zero real sexual interest there because he was the same age as my uncle. Hell, I'm 30 now and 40-year-old Viggo Mortensen still fits in that same box of "hot, but too old for me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:04 PM
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lol. Reminds me of that meme: "you're stupid. I like that in a man."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:49 PM
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Drunk girls in club bathrooms really are some of the best people in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:51 PM
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I'm going to wholeheartedly recommend against this because it will likely get the sub banned. There was a sub called r/menofthewall a while ago that got nuked for "bullying".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:45 PM
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What irritates the shit out of me is men complaining that nobody gives THEM compliments, and it's like... compliment your guy friends then? If we compliment men we don't already know very well, they just automatically assume there's a chance they'll get to sleep with us and it all goes off the rails. Every single minor hell they're in is entirely of their own making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:42 AM
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I hate those dumbass overgrown frat boys so much. They added SO MANY rapes into the show that were never in the original story, even when it made zero sense in the context of the story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:12 AM
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Honestly, grave digging doesn't sound half bad. It's outside, involves exercise and you don't have to talk to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:01 PM
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I mean, he's a billionaire. He's the billionaire. Chances are that whatever magical life-extending technology exists that none of us even know about, he's getting it. For all we know Silicon Valley's top brass has an underground farm full of college athletes that they harvest fresh blood from. Dude's 65, which might be old, yes, but he could theoretically live another 30 years. Albert Hoffman lived to be 102 and was still conducting experiments right up until he died, it kept his mind active and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:29 PM
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I had a FWB who was shorter than me who had a small penis and looked like a bald Jack Black. Dude ate pussy like his life depended on it and was a genuinely kind, hilarious person. It really isn't hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:32 PM
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It's really sad. So many things in my past I knew were wrong or red flags, but I'd been so brainwashed by society into thinking my needs were me being irrational and my feelings weren't relevant that I was constantly gaslighting myself just like this poor woman. Having this community is a lifesaver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:46 PM
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In my last LVM relationship I was drinking waaaay more than normal to cope with how stressed out and annoyed I was all the time and as soon as I left I just... Stopped. I didn't need to anymore. Being with anything other than a HVM is basically just willingly attaching yourself to a 180lb parasite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:42 PM
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Yeah, there's no saving that situation on your end. Like, I could easily send screenshots to his now-wife, but what's that going to accomplish? She's completely dependent on him financially and socially at this point and is just going to get angry at me and tie herself in knots trying to make up reasons why he isn't the giant ball of red flags he is, chances are it will likely just do more damage to me than either of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:01 AM
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I left a man who was cheating on me three years ago who almost instantaneously married the next girl who came along, just because he was almost 30 and didn't want to be alone. I met her once and she seems nice, though I can say objectively that I am more conventionally attractive than her and in his mind he likely thinks he downgraded because he's a shallow asshole. He's recently started trying to get around my blocks on social media to contact me again, despite the fact that it has been literal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:41 PM
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Yeah, if you have something you need to discuss or get support for regarding your personal life it really is best to make a throwaway account. They could go through all three years of comments on my primary account and literally all they would learn about me is my (almost) age, city and ethnicity. Good luck doing anything with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:52 AM
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Same. We have to even be careful with these types of comments, which is unfortunate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:47 AM
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I literally just use my main account to talk about pop culture and argue with men who say really dumb misogynistic shit. They go angrily combing through my comment history to look for weak points to attack me on, and it's just me bullshitting about books and movies and TV shows and making fun of other idiots like them, which makes them even angrier. Highly recommended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:21 PM
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Absolutely beautiful hair and skin, healthy and in shape, and he even chose a light blue shirt to bring out those gorgeous eyes. I wish straight men would put in 10% of the effort into their appearance that gay men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:05 PM
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She better not take him back. As someone with a senior cat of my own I would do anything for, this made me so angry to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:25 PM
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This might be one of my all-time favourite posts. Brava. I never knew this about their relationship, but it doesn't surprise me in the slightest and now I'm just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:51 AM
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RoK is an exceptionally vile "dating advice" site, even though they're all varying flavours of misogynist trash. Hilariously (and unsurprisingly), Roosh V, the founder, has been banned from multiple countries due to what a piece of trash he is and was last reported to live in his mother's literal basement, because of course he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:37 AM
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Right? They're so pathetic. A lot of them think that by flashing their cash we'll automatically be smitten, like that's somehow going to cover up their receding hairline, paunch, awful rubbery never-used-sunscreen skin and repugnant personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:55 AM
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Honestly, even throughout my twenties these 'nice men' were so rare they were basically unicorns. And even the shitty misogynists often find someone desperate or naive enough to marry them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:54 AM
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Just reading r/relationships or r/aita is enough to convince me that men's entitlement and awfulness is an epidemic. Who on earth would willingly choose a life of misery and servitude to a giant man-child who only drains you, belittles you at every turn and adds nothing of value?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:50 AM
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I just hit 30 and I still get old middle aged men hitting on me; I would have figured they'd leave me alone by now. When I was your age my friends and I used to make fun of all the gross 35+ dudes trying to pick us up and give them little nicknames we'd refer to them by as an inside joke. They just don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:45 AM
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I'm a bisexual woman and I will never again use apps to meet men, only women. Meeting women as a woman in real life is difficult, and I've had several very nice conversations and a couple dates with women off of them that were mutually respectful and enjoyable. All of the men on them, however, are absolutely atrocious. LV losers addicted to porn who start negging and jumping to inappropriate sexual questions right out of the gate. Not a single one was worth my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:35 AM
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It's specifically because they want to humiliate and degrade women and they get off on making them uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:55 PM
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Two years? TWO YEARS? He should have figured this out after a few months, tops. This man is bafflingly stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:53 AM
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Mine looked like a cross between Steve Buscemi and a stick insect. Horrible little man, extremely emotionally abusive. Meanwhile, all the big handsome jock type dudes I've dated have been very sweet, total teddy bears. Wonder why? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:12 AM
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It gets brought up here a lot, but it blows me away how ugly men are generally MORE likely to treat you like shit because they know you're out of their league and their insecure asses want to neg you until your self esteem is too low to leave them. Happened to me. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:22 PM
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Grimes isn't perfect, but being trapped in what is CLEARLY an abusive relationship wih an extremely powerful cokehead narcissist with a god complex and the emotional maturity of a teenage boy after you've just had his baby he coerced you into getting pregnant with in the first place is an absolute nightmare situation I would not wish on anyone. I don't think she was very smart to begin with, but hopefully she takes that kid and runs soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:24 AM
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That was one of my favourite things the internet's ever produced. Azealia is volatile as hell, but she's razor sharp and she suffers no fools. She read them both to filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:28 AM
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Similar situation in my post history. Dated a successful, well-off man who showered me with gifts, but he was demanding, childish and tried to be controlling and I left him after I found out he was cheating on me. Hell, look at Elon Musk. Dude's one of the richest men on the planet and a total fucking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:45 AM
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Azealia Banks is a certified loon, but she's a lot smarter than she gets credit for and she had Musk's number from day 1. Watching her still bash him on instagram is hysterical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:18 AM
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She's 31 and she's done a lot of dumb things in her past, so I don't know if she can still just be called naive. I don't think she's playing with a full deck, personally, and she's had a lot of self-esteem, eating disorder, self-harm and drug issues in the past. Perfect for a bullying narcissist to snag his hooks in because he thinks dating an eccentric young artist makes him look cool. That's all she is to him, a social accessory and a pet. He doesn't love her and never did. I don't care how mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:30 AM
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He didn't want kids, neither did I. What he did want was a mommy, bangmaid and personal cheerleader willing to give up her own ambitions to devote herself entirely to him. You're absolutely right that he went for someone too naive to see through his bullshit, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:51 PM
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He would have absolutely married me if I let him, but I made it clear I wanted to be more established in my career before I thought about it. I could also just tell something was off, though I guess I didn't want to admit it to myself. This was before I knew about FDS. Either way, I'm glad it wasn't me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:01 PM
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My last bf made 300k+ a year. Started out wonderful, started subtly becoming more and more controlling and disrespectful. I put him in his place every single time and never gave in an inch to any bullshit, but he still kept at it. Kept bringing up marriage while trying to convince me to give up my (dream) job and be his housewife. Dumped his ass two years in after I found out he was cheating on me with a literal prostitute. He cried and tried to convince me that it was a perfectly acceptable arr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:05 AM
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He literally peaked in his early twenties, looks wise. He was very pretty and baby faced, but has aged like sour milk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:16 AM
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Done. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:15 AM
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Should've responded with "if you're looking for a meaningless hookup, I suggest downloading grindr."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:10 PM
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Honestly WV is a piece of shit who preys on underage girls. LVM. Demi is the winner here, though she shouldn't have had to lose six years of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:28 AM
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I honestly love the fans being all "OMG he can stalk me anyday" and Penn Badgely literally being like "he is the absolute worst please hate him"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 06:11 AM
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Can confirm, uncle was a pilot and cheated on his wife constantly for the 20+ years they were married while leaving her to raise his kids and keep a home for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:57 PM
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If they're specifically targeting teens or women barely into their twenties, then yes, it is always a massive red flag. That ten-year gap is still significant between a 35 and a 45 year old, but you've both been around the block enough to have the life experience to set boundaries and steer clear of horseshit. He's likely counting on you not knowing how much better you could do than him. Get rid of him, stat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:00 AM
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Men on reddit love to advise women to put up with degrading, gross or painful sex acts that you have no interest in just to appease your boyfriends. Anal, facials, choking, that kind of shit. NEVER do this. If you really, really want to and you're the one who initiates it, sure. If you're even the slightest bit grossed out by or hesitant to do it, firmly put your foot down and tell him it's not up for discussion. If he keeps whining for it, he doesn't respect you or see you as an equal. Walk, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 12:13 AM
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Especially after he's stated that his past is far worse/more promiscuous than hers. The hypocrisy is stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:13 PM
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