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I live in one of the cities with teams in the Super Bowl, I have been hearing scrotes shouting from the rooftops about how their families are basically dead to them during the game. Rearranging visits with kids, canceling appointments, etc. I’m really at a loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:29 PM
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I came here for this exact comment lol. But I’m staying for your perfect username ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:24 PM
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I hope someone reached out to her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:43 PM
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Especially the one who preys on you with such a damn age gap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:10 PM
8

Imagine is every woman treated her scrote partner this way. What a wonderful world it would be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:35 AM
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I agree. so hilarious especially if this man is always talking about how great his wife is, why would a friend do this? so hilarious Of course I also have a gut feeling that every one of these men were lying. And I will make no hesitation in turning over any evidence I have of a man cheating to their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:31 PM
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I enjoyed this very much hahah. Flip the script and see how insane it sounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:53 PM
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A college acquaintance was dating a man she met online. I saw his profile status as “online,” but it was a year and some change into their relationship. I took a screenshot and sent it to her. She panicked. He said it was “to read their old messages.” Yes. She married him. A coworker showed up on a dating app, but the man who famous for adoring his wife. I sent screenshots and she said, “He said his friend was pranking him.” A man I worked with said he was moving in with a friend he has sex with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:42 PM
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One guy did say he knew he was going to die alone based on how much of a scrote he had been. I don’t believe him. But I wish they all accepted their fate like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:34 PM
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You’re a Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:15 PM
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I’m not kidding, I was interacting with a couple today…the husband said his wife hates snakes. His brother bought a python, didn’t tell her, and invited her to clean his home (he did pay her). She stumbled upon it (as well as other reptiles she didn’t know about) while cleaning. The husband “thought it was funny.” WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FAWK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:38 PM
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Sucks to be in Norway…hopefully the women wise up and stop dating the LV men who insist on 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:36 PM
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I imagine this daily. Just a billboard that says “r/FemaleDatingStrategy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:33 PM
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This is amazing! I AM CHANNELING YOUR ENERGY, QUEEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:33 PM
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Your post is amazing. This exactly !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:23 PM
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I’ll be at a lesbian bachelorette party cruise for the whole weekend. It sounds fake, but I am glad to be essentially away from the world for Valentine’s Day and the Super Bowl haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:18 PM
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As you should have! I hate everything about this story, and I feel like the watch had more significance for some reason than being an heirloom. It’s his only token to continue trying to control her as well. At least she blocked him!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:23 AM
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Before I met him, she would tell me how amazing he was and I really wanted to believe her. I’ve mentioned FDS, but I think she feels like she’s hit the jack pot coming from her past relationships. I’m going to keep a note in my phone of all the shady stuff he does so I don’t forget it should she come to me in the future for advice.
/r/askFDS30/01/22 02:16 AM
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Before she got married, she hated beer. Now they have a whole beer fridge and did like one of those “Unity beers” at their wedding. You’re on to something. Sigh - how disappointing.
/r/askFDS30/01/22 02:14 AM
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She blacked out too, but v much a red flag. Both of their families were drinking but then they were given too many shots. Not defending either of them, just giving context.
/r/askFDS29/01/22 03:20 AM
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:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:19 PM
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He was too drunk to remember unfortunately
/r/askFDS28/01/22 08:48 PM
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Yes. After ignoring us almost all day, including making any eye contact- which was so weird, he says that. He doesn’t remember it because he ended up blacking out. Also he’s rude to me, under the guise of humor. Huge gamer and Redditor. Which the more I align my views with FDS, I realize are LV traits. He treats my friend like she is a puppy that needs constant correction and guidance. At first I thought it was nice to have someone keep her on track because she is spacey (I say this endearingly)…
/r/askFDS28/01/22 08:47 PM
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That’s a shame. I wish they did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:46 PM
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Also whoa, the term one-itis really reminds me of my RP obsessed ex, I had forgotten about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:43 PM
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He dated both of them in high school. His now wife first, then the forever Gf, then he saw his now wife was single and was making a big life change so he decided to shoot his shot. I agree, I don’t get it. High school was a blur of laughter with friends and extracurricular activities. I am in no way interested in remaining in a high school mindset, I hardly remember the people I dated then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:42 PM
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Way to be an absolute QUEEN!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:21 PM
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True! My newlywed coworker proposed after 10 months of dating and got married after a 6 months engagement. He simply said that he knew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:54 AM
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My bro did this to a really great woman, dated her for ten years - then she finally had enough, dumped him, and he married a woman he dated in high school after reconnecting for just a few weeks. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:51 AM
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“Hurr hurr….so CAN I WATCH???” Straight men are a disease… Edit: I am so glad I get to see angry scrotes comments in my email before they get deleted. Die mad, fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:28 AM
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1000000000000000% this. I hate that group of men so much. My ex devoutly followed it and ffs it was terrible being with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:26 AM
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I wrote a paper in college about treatments for pedophiles, I found like one doctor who can prescribe one medication to help these people. But the worst part, besides the medication being extraordinarily expensive, was the people who called her for help were often male pediatricians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:26 PM
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I’m so grateful for this sub. Your entire post radiates the kind of confidence and Queen energy we are here for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:15 PM
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“I work in the film industry.” Idk this seems like a creepy red flag to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:04 PM
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This dude is a complete clown. But I know she will come to her senses one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:02 PM
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Hahah I finally was able to crack a smile when he said TWO huge rugs. The rest of it I was angry. This man doesn’t deserve a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:24 PM
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It’s for sure not about the woman they’re having sex with, over their sexual pleasure and “scoring.” I asked my ex why he cheated on me and he said, “I don’t know, I just wanted to see if I could.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:40 AM
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Tbis is also why women get their tubes tied and men refuse vasectomies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:36 AM
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I am imagining they would say women will filter water or something super dire that makes them using their anatomy for a sinister advantage. As if.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:30 AM
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Reading that made me feel sick. Omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:28 AM
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Literally doing the lords work out here. I pray the women who get referred to FDS from us cling to it for their lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:48 PM
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This made me chuckle lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:46 AM
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Blake is such a fucking goddess, I cannot speak poorly of her. Ryan on the other hand is a fuckin clown. He had potential but he has just blown it over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:33 AM
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“BuT tHe aGe of COnsEnt is 16 heRe!!!!!” Is what I usually get from scrotes defending pedophiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:29 AM
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He’s trying to cut costs on the ring and telling you about it? SMH. Your intuition is right here. The man can’t even be generous when it comes to buying you a ring that’s yours. You want a man that’s generous because he loves you, not because the gold is there and it “saves him money to buy a bigger diamond.” He should have not said anything or just lovingly put money into the bigger diamond anyway. Idk it feels awkward and tight fisted to me. No need to skimp on the ring he wants you to wear fo…
/r/askFDS20/01/22 03:44 PM
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A friend of mine married a man who had a girlfriend prior to them getting together, this girlfriend had his baby and because of the distance between them, he convinced the girlfriend to do an LDR and married my friend. This woman had no idea. When my friend found out and divorced him, he moved to be with his child and proposed to the mother. She had no idea, and believes her now husband is a great man. I wish I were making it up but it still blows my mind when I think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:57 AM
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I wish my user flair was “slut fuck monkey whore?” Or whatever he said. These scrotes are wild asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:08 AM
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I once read a meme that said, “there are thousands of edible plants but y’all keep eating the same 3 dead animals.” It woke me up. And made me laugh! So many flavors to explore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:00 AM
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My mom used to work for a psychologist and he told her to keep a journal (mainly of her marriage) so she could look back and see if things were a net positive or negative. Also Ted Mosby (yikes) always made a list of reasons why things didn’t work out when a relationship ended. I like the idea. It’s a track record. You can decide when you review: Is this person my person? Do they make me feel special often? Do we share responsibility for things we have together? Am I getting what I need? Am I ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 05:49 PM
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Damn that is not I wanted your story to end. Hopefully it doesn’t end up happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:09 PM
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I feel like this needs a warning because OH MY GOSH WHAT THE HELL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:59 AM
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This. If he cared about YOU, you wouldn’t have any reason to doubt it. If he loved YOU, his ex would have no appeal !!
/r/askFDS12/01/22 02:49 AM
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Your edit is mind boggling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:43 AM
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Girl I have a young son and I have drilled into him about wiping. I bring it up to other moms if we discuss potty training or whatever. They all get wide eyed and say “my son struggles with that too!” Then they lean in and whisper before laughing, “And so does my husband haha!” I give them the most mortified look. I can’t count on two hands how often this same conversation occurs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:11 PM
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I was imagining what every aspect of culture world be like if there was no porn during my commute this morning. I had to stop because I realized we are so deep in porn culture, it made me feel pretty messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:50 PM
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Let them cook, I say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:48 PM
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They claimed it was to be “cleaner,” but I know they meant “so my husband wouldn’t be grossed out to look at while I birth his child.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:16 PM
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I was in a fb group for moms a few years ago, so many of them talked about getting fully waxed before birth, and not allowing photos in their hospital delivery room until they had their make up done (professionally - in this particular discussion, so they could have a photographer capture the first moments). Sadly there was more agreement than even questioning this, it really sucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:31 PM
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That was soggy by the time she finished the driveway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:35 AM
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I haven’t seen it but my mind went to the idea that she felt unsafe having her car out of commission in a weird place. And we only know his side of the story, he could have been creepy as hell and she was just trying to get away without getting killed for saying no to sex ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:30 AM
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I’m so glad the degenerate comment was posted. Ffs. Shame these rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:50 PM
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Ladies: the biggest steps to not being financially dependent on anyone are getting a snapshot of your net worth, spending habits, and goals. The next step is aggressively paying off debts. Max all tax advantages accounts you can for retirement and always take advantage of company matches for these accounts. Then grow your nest egg/save for house down payment. A debt free women with her next 3-6 months of expenses in the bank has many fewer reasons to stay in any position that doesn’t benefit it.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:47 PM
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When my ex cheated on me, I asked him if he at least used a condom (we had still been sexually involved before I discovered this) and he said, “No.” I said, “Okay what about getting an STI?” And he said, “Who cares?” Me bitch. I care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:43 PM
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I feel so sick reading this comment. The age gaps are so damn predatory. I pray FDS principles spread like wild fire, more than herpes, because holy shit. Men that “prefer younger women” are the last people to have any relationships with women period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:42 PM
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I get enraged thinking about Dr. Seuss doing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:39 PM
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Yesssssss. My ex once bought me an energy drink to be “nice,” and not one for himself, so he could be “healthier.” One can had 53G of sugar! He clearly wasn’t giving a single fuck about my health… (I opened it, took one sip to be petty, and left it out for an hour before dumping it) By the way, a size 8? Absolutely gorgeous! Glad he’s an ex! What a fool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:22 AM
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If anyone is wondering: most of the time I do this, the woman replies, “Thanks I’ll check it out.” I don’t follow up or say any more than that. I just leave it there and hope she does check it out. I haven’t had a negative response yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:19 AM
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I love the translation! Call it like it is - I hate that women dance around the manosphere, hoping for a shred of validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:38 PM
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It’s one I desperately wish would find and cling to FDS for dear life!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:49 PM
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As a young girl watching Disney movies, I always wondered why women rushed into marrying a man if he was going to turn out to be like the male role models in my life? What value did the man bring, if he was anything like the men in my life? I think it kind of ruined my ability to “plan my fairy tale wedding,” and that probably saved me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:48 PM
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The last line makes my eyes roll like all the way back. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:02 AM
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Rightfully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:02 AM
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Okay fair enough! Thanks. I enjoy camping (well, my son and I pitch a tent in the backyard for the experience) but if I am going on vacation, I’m not going somewhere and sleeping in a tent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:39 PM
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Then again… anything could happen, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:37 PM
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I wanna cry thinking of how common this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:36 PM
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I was dating a guy for about a year, things were okay. Not great. He cheated a few months in, but lied about the extent so with the information I had and the level of treatment I was willing to tolerate, I tried to let it go. I tried, but could never trust him. He was super into TRP, Reddit, his ex Gf ‘was a $lut,’ video games, weed, and Joe Rogan/Jordan Peterson/Elon Musk etc. you know the type. I grew up with men like this, so I wasn’t really phased. He always accused me of cheating or not tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:32 PM
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My cheating ex but a tracking app on his side chicks phone. He told me because he was devastated she was sleeping with someone else. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:09 PM
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I wondered this, too, I felt almost, behind in life ? Because I wasn’t into extreme sports and stuff. But I think you’re right, there’s just an abundance of them and it isn’t a representation of men as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:07 PM
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That would be the dream! Edit: “hey bro, wanna bang in my live in van?” “Bro I thought you’d never ask 🥲.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:05 PM
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Totally curious and deeply respectful that you don’t like camping, would an RV/camper still count as camping in your opinion? I can never decide, and then I heard the term “glamping,” and I think that fits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:05 PM
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The last part, I know the difference in my married friends who are like this. The ‘superiority’ of having a man vs “this is my husband,” and it’s almost always the latter having spouses who are HV. The other way is almost like semi mutual ownership of each other but your are treated property, not a human. And they defend these LVM for the sake of having a man to defend. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:58 PM
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Oh my gosh. You wrote “showing charity by marrying them.” I think that’s it. And that makes my skin crawl. I see the brainwashing there. YIKES. I keep thinking that men in the church feel entitled to a wife when they of course, are not entitled to anything, and they perpetuate it by telling the women to date “men from the church.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:55 PM
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Also, waking up to feed a grateful family where you’re cherished and respected and the food/your efforts are appreciated and you want to is much different than what I think this is. I’m glad she got their grades turned around (one less video game scrote would make the future better) but damn it just isn’t what this should be like for her. The man took advantage of her and her church/community made her think she was finally “making it in life!” Ugh. Sorry for the rambling. I’m sorry this is the r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:16 PM
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I think it’s that middle sentence. She thought it made her a little better, that she might be seen as the heroine. As a life long church attendee, I never allow people to go unchecked when they say, “Give him a chance, he is just awkward,” or, “He is going through a divorce, his kids need someone.” Though, I realize this is not the norm. I hope it’s coming though, the (Christian) church has a horrifying reputation because of this kind of shit. Your last paragraph made me sad. We know it’s not to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:14 PM
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Agreed! My brother has a “music room” where he plays his electric guitar while wearing headphones so he doesn’t disturb his sleeping baby or his wife when she goes to bed early. An exception, of course, because most man caves I have seen have photos of naked women somewhere, and are generally disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:47 PM
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I could not agree more. It’s almost like well you shouldn’t have worn that outfit if you didn’t want men looking at you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:45 PM
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I believe this sub and the branches from it are helping change things for us. I really do. A year ago, it helped me see how much of a pickme I was and now I am adamantly telling other women about it. Outside of my experience, there are just a lot of women coming around and I know it is not working as quickly as I want it to, change is happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:43 PM
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Whoa. I’m sorry this is your experience. I hope you and your residence stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:41 PM
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I am…low key jealous as a software engineer to know I missed out on a lot of growth in computing. Not that it isn’t better now, but it would be nice to have been involved during these changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:40 PM
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It’s about money and publicity. Not the safety, well-being, and education of their students 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:38 PM
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Sis I can feel that seething rage. I feel it. Imagine looking at a man 20 years older than you, thinking he’s fuckable, and then actually doing it. I pray the next generation has far fewer stories like this horror. I’m sorry your friend was brainwashed. But deep down, she knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:33 PM
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Then to top it off, the gift comes still in the shopping bag from the store
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:18 PM
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I know you’re being downvoted but the handbook says 3 months is the standard. And also I think the proper response to him would be “block and delete” anyway, 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:19 PM
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Thinking about how passionately he quoted this “friend” I shudder realizing how he really sees women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:17 PM
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Very very true. He was a giant lesson learned. I have a feeling pretty much every “opinion” of his “friends” was his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:14 PM
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That’s an extra level. Wow!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:35 AM
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I saw this as a girl in my hometown - we have a street just for festivals and such downtown. There was a women wearing this same get up and a sign that said, “Walk Me.” Everyone was looking at her like she was insane. Now I see that kind of stuff all over. It’s so damn degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:34 AM
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My ex told me he had a “college friend who was obsessed with finding a virgin.” But when we broke up, he told me it was actually him that was desperate to take someone’s virginity. I just can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:27 AM
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Yes that’s it! His name kept coming to mind but I couldn’t get the rest of the way there. Thanks. What a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:53 AM
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Well, with the way men fantasize about their step daughters and degrade their step sons, I see their fear. But I think waiting until they’re adults is far too long. Edit: I say that because I feel like someone posted about a man who raised and then had a baby with his step daughter eventually? My sister in law was a pediatric surgical tech and said the abuse cases requiring surgery were almost always because of the boyfriend abusing them. Including sexual @ssault. Anyway, not saying the men you’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:18 PM
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Consider yourself lucky though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:15 PM
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I love to see it! The women in my life can count on me to show up within minutes of them telling me “We just broke up, I need help.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:15 PM
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Oh. Oh my gosh. That’s a thing? I guess why wouldn’t it be? Yikes. Thanks. Very “American Horror Story” type women IRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:49 PM
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I did the same thing for a while. Block and delete isn’t easy. It’s not painless. But I am proud of you, don’t let this man live rent free in your head any more, or your Spotify. Good luck on your journey, friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:48 PM
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If you use TikTok, watch her videos, they’re all this fun 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:51 AM
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Any time I see someone say they’ve left their LVex as a result of finding this sub, I celebrate. I am so happy for you! And I see you used the term “plate” which lets me know that you really made the right choice since the dude was obviously into the r*d pill and hates you for existing regardless 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:41 AM
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What is that? I have not seen the term hybristophilia before!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:34 AM
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These are both horrifyingly atrocious circumstances. The audacity!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:23 AM
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I have a feeling the ring isn’t actually for her? He bought it for someone else and thinks she found it so he now hides it in his work backpack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:16 AM
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When you put it that way, I feel more awake and still grossed out. Thank you for this perspective. It’s the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:11 PM
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I once asked my Scrote ex if he wanted to get a couples massage and he said he could only get a massage if it was performed by a woman…because a dude touching him was “g@y” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:47 PM
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Damn I wish I could see their rage sometimes on posts like these. They really hate us huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:19 PM
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This happened to my best friends childhood best friend. She began dating another man and her ex shot both of them and then shot himself. I have no words. Knee jerk says, “No more significant others while I’m with my friends,” but that feels isolating, I feel lost, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:00 PM
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I found a few subs dedicated to getting subs like this banned. It was very encouraging to know there are some very active groups reporting stuff. I tried to report some content I found (obviously terrible porn) and Reddit says it doesn’t violate their policies ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:55 PM
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Not always true. My cheating ex was estranged from his cheating father and was still a serial cheater. He despised his father for cheating … and yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:05 AM
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SAME with my ex!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:05 AM
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This is so sad. The comments were on point but she’s been gas lighting herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:13 PM
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Story time: my ex-step-father went on classmates.com, messaged 75 women from his class, with a few grades up and down, and my mother responded. She thought she was special he remembered her after all this time. They got married and divorced and his body count is over 100. What the fxxx.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:03 PM
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Saw a creepy ass TikTok about a dude who invites women over then massages them enough that they feel relaxed and “safe.” Then gaslights them into sleeping with him. He said, “It works every time.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:58 AM
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This is exactly how the situation should be handled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:05 AM
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This is the way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:25 AM
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I LOVE IT ALL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:05 AM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:50 AM
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Cringe. Omfg. ;(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:50 AM
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This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:48 PM
2

Literally made me smile massively. I’m so glad. Scrote free - from now on. Enjoy the holiday, your way. Enjoy trips, that you plan, and enjoy cherishing yourself the way he did not. I wish you the best and I am very proud of you!
/r/askFDS09/12/21 02:46 PM
13

Hahah yes. This. The scrote who sees his kids once a month. And the mother is a “crazy bxxxx”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:59 PM
35

I cringe and almost started to shed a tear. What the actual hell is going on with men 😰😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:43 PM
17

Preach it sis !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:40 PM
3

Apt name for him. I like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:39 PM
10

MiSaNdRIsT!!!!! >;(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:38 PM
21

How does he even have the AUDACITY to write this down????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:07 PM
1

I live for the day when women block and delete everywhere, so these Scrotes have no way of wasting any woman’s time, past or present.
/r/askFDS08/12/21 10:53 AM
2

I gotta say, your username and this comment do not check out :)
/r/askFDS08/12/21 10:51 AM
1

OP, just checking in. How are you?
/r/askFDS08/12/21 10:49 AM
25

My ex: “I need to see if you have house wife skills.” (I lived on my own, he did not) A coworker: “I just don’t know if she’s the one (while physically avoiding the conversation) - I told him that after so many years and having kids with her, she’s the one you keep choosing so…haven’t you already decided? “Ahh…” he married her about 5 YEARS later. After he began seriously balding and saw he probably had no better prospects. Shameful man. Or my favorite: “But… She doesn’t want to get married!!” S…
/r/askFDS08/12/21 10:45 AM
53

This edit: I can hear it in my head now, “awe just give him a chance!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:38 PM
1

I WISH a scrote would say something like this. I’d frame it. I’d put it on my desk. I’d show guests. It would be my profile picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:07 PM
46

I read the article yesterday, I haven’t went back to look but there were 50 men and 9 women in the room. The men all left without trying to help or anything. Don’t read the article. It basically defends the shooter and those men by explaining their “upbringing.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:03 PM
5

My ex: religiously washed his penis. Never washed his ass. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:27 AM
14

OMGosh what the FUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:08 AM
25

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:13 AM
104

True. She is definitely getting what she signed up for with who she signed up for it with. That being said, I hope she leaves him. She’s too young and he’s wasted enough of her time but has no problem wasting more of it for sure. I think I owe it to more women to tell them about FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:34 PM
3

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:46 PM
6

I wish I had printed and bound copies of the handbook for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:22 AM
21

If you admit you’ve been s3xually @ssaulted and your partner responds with anything slimy or asks “were you drinking?” “Were you two flirting?” “Did you take any of your clothes off?” “Did you go home alone with him?” “Why didn’t you tell someone right away?” (The last one can be valid, but only as intended to give you more of a chance to discuss it if you’d like to) in that accusatory tone, drop that man from your life. I mean real time, mid sentence ice out. They will say anything but internal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:42 PM
2

You’re exactly right, I am proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:49 PM
54

I once raced my father in Mario Kart. He usually wins. I won 3 races in a row and he WALKED OUT OF MY HOUSE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:37 PM
17

Let me tell you one of the most beautiful women in my life EVER has eyelashes right next to her tear ducts, and I think they are fantastic. I compliment them sometimes just so she knows that she’s beautiful with them. And to not let the words from Scrotes say a damn thing against them. Ladies, your imperfections are endearing AS FUCK to the right people. This includes friends, family, and romantic partners. Forget all of the noise. Block the noise. Delete the noise. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:49 PM
20

I’ve been to China, the most amazing women live there. Truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 01:17 PM
38

I’d leave him. I would never want to be with someone who makes me feel this way. Even if it’s a “you” problem, it is something I think you should consider dealing with single.
/r/askFDS14/11/21 12:52 AM
121

Whenever I read a post like this, I always reply with “what the fuck” on it. With whatever account I’m using.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:45 AM
10

My neighbor and I once swiped through her tinder for about 25 minutes. She swiped right on two people and one of them was a woman. All of the rest were immediate “oh hell no” kind of people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:03 PM
2

I’m in the US: I dropped out of college and then joined the US military. I spent a few years there. When I finished my contract, I felt ready to finish college. Had I stayed in college and not taken a break, I would have dropped out and taken a bad path I think.
/r/askFDS05/11/21 12:16 AM
9

That sums up how I now look at it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:28 PM
124

My ex was cheating on me and I later found out he was tracking his side chicks phone and was then “devastated” that she was talking to other people… and then this poor pick me found the tracking app and didn’t leave him. I’m glad I found FDS. Then I learned the importance of Block and Delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:29 AM
68

My father told me he married my mother to have a “trophy wife.” What the fuck 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:06 AM
2

I air dropped the handbook to my neighbor with no contact once haha. I’m not sure, OP, keep bringing it up, something will stick. Even if it’s FDS memes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:30 AM
19

LOL “oh my gosh, why are you sending me a photo of a child’s penis?!!! I am reporting this…”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:24 AM
54

Stop answering the door. Record any interaction you have with him. Always keep shades closed. Use the top lock or install some other kind of lock.
/r/askFDS27/10/21 05:38 PM
68

“Hey I’m just calling you so you have mine, too.” 😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:17 PM
9

Right…she has acne but does this scrote even wash his ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:12 PM
103

I read an article where his family/friends were trying to paint Gabby as “unstable” and how Brian really “put up with a lot from her.” I was disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:00 PM
24

Your dad is next level asshole, my goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:42 PM
2

Her in the first episode of What If really let’s her show off. She’s awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:51 PM
2

I know. That viral TikTok talking about Applebees made me cringe. Especially when the dad said he now has a partnership with them haha. The dance is cute, perpetuating men believing Applebees is acceptable past your college years…No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:45 PM
3

Street rat 😄😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:44 PM
3

I also want to tack on to that, “what does a successful life look like to you?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:42 PM
6

Yes. My LV ex told me he didn’t have a best friend. Then went on to say he didn’t have ANY friends 😳. tf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:41 PM
47

The last three sentences: men do not care. Stop letting them waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:40 AM
38

Dude I didn’t even make it 5 minutes into the move before I had to shut it off. Dead ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:40 PM
3

Navy enlisted vet-chiming in to say, I agree with this ranking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:31 PM
13

Yes. Every lock every time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 11:10 AM
14

Kinda off topic but my aunt was a drug addict who made her money/acquired prescriptions that weren’t prescribed to her by pr*stituting herself to disabled men. She eventually overdosed. These men are helping women kill themselves for the chance to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 11:09 AM
59

Terrible thought but excellent idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:17 PM
14

Yo the snot rocket thing everywhere is unacceptable. I was walking into a coffee shop the other day and the man walking directly in front of me snot rocket-Ed into our walking path like it was NBD. TF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:01 PM
18

I am American, I have never heard of this. Thanks. Yeah that guy is a loser for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:26 PM
16

They willingly sitting and putting their faces on the floor. TikTok is a cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:25 PM
11

Yep!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:11 PM
36

And what’s a 2:2?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:06 PM
25

Yes their age difference alone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:01 PM
1

If only it was a glaring red flag to me then though…I am so glad that wasn’t the relationship that “worked out.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:43 AM
2

Agreed. We all can be pretty confident he’s a dead beat scrote dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:55 AM
21

Absolutely. The half ass cleaning of equipment afterward too is so arrogant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:54 AM
132

As a veteran myself, this X 1000000. Stay away!!! Please!!! Also, having been in a medical unit, these men will do anything to avoid condemns and it shows……
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:47 PM
19

I feel like he would say, “I wear ear plugs because I have a long work schedule/different sleeping hours.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:45 PM
27

I shudder to think they aren’t the only thing he wears too long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:43 PM
136

I forgot my headphones at the gym once, I will never do it again. The noises men make are vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:41 PM
3

OMG that is so sickening !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:58 AM
6

To put him on the spot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:58 AM
13

I recently began calling people out in my life for this, they say, “Sorry, I meant to, I just didn’t have time for ____(insert basic shit here.” I say, “No you had time, you just didn’t value our agreement/my time/keep your word.” Say it like it is. If you don’t like their response, drop them. Protect your peace. But anyway. OP-I would have left, too, and I am sorry you put yourself out there and then they wasted your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:24 AM
14

I am devastated reading this ;(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:18 AM
25

I asked my LVX out of frustration once and he said some bs and then said, “Don’t ask me what I like about you again, it isn’t fair.” I stayed for almost a year. Don’t be me 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:16 AM
10

Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:15 AM
77

Oh yes. PS. If you see a scrote in the wild wearing sandals, DO NOT LOOK DOWN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:10 AM
26

Ladies, if this isn’t your reality yet, you can still experience the convenience! I discovered the Philips smart bulb setting that illuminates my home when my phone connects to WiFi after being away. Of course, a HVM doing this is lovely, and OP, I am so happy for you ❤️🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:03 PM
3

Wow. This is a shithole? I’d hate to see the rest of Reddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:45 PM
3

Oh my gosh. I feel embarrassed for her reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:33 PM
233

Oh … They don’t understand the part that says “leave me alone.” But you seem to be Muslim so he of course was allowed to waste your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:31 AM
35

Yes! I’m a lesbian and grateful. I’ll take the h8 from a straight male forever before I settle into a relationship with one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:36 PM
116

I am also recalling all of the women in my family/life who have to cover vegetables with bacon/butter/etc just to get their husbands to touch vegetables. I have a feeling it goes along the same lines of telling their wives “don’t touch my butt, that’s gay.” And hitting toys “made for girls” out of their young sons hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:15 PM
63

Whoa whoa whoa do you realize you are asking for the bare minimum to even survive from a man? Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:13 PM
2

Hahahaha ah that makes my heart hurt. I am so so so glad I found FDS. My head gratefully immediately goes to my favorite FDS truth: dick is abundant and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:11 PM
18

One of the best memes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:09 PM
106

Not a mod, but I feel this is very appropriate! I usually process the word in my head, I’m so used to hearing “girls.” Now I cringe at it a little!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:19 AM
6

An eleven year age difference makes me feel sick. Hopefully she gets out of that, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:58 PM
20

Oh and I’d like to add that she’s much much younger than he is, even her parents have essentially give up on the idea that she will leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:25 AM
24

Yes definitely so, we can’t help them all. No offense taken, just in case there are new FDSers around since Gabby, I wanted to make the connection between terrible men being worthless all around. You drove the point home very well. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:57 PM
33

He has tried, several times, to casually discuss his sex life with me. I tell him to get lost and he acts like I am unreasonable. Scrotes don’t care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:18 PM
35

Yeah now I see him as a complete scrote, my gosh. Definitely not how daughters want to think of their father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:18 PM
15

I give him as little as possible, I even moved hundred of miles away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:17 PM
8

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:22 PM
73

So true. I hate the idea but it’s true. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:50 PM
111

He will always try to show me some shitty political Facebook meme and a message from the group will pop up and he will say embarrassed that he “wishes his friends weren’t like this.” Meanwhile when I asked to use his phone (this is the first and last time I did it) he gave me it to me with no hesitation despite having open porn tabs in his browser. fml
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:50 PM
249

Ffs I just cannot even try with men anymore. I’m already gay but I don’t even like looking at men in public knowing my peers have chat groups like this. My own father has chat groups like this. Why. Just why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:24 PM
23

Hahah I always laugh when I get to say the word scrote aloud but raggedy ass men is equally humorous. And depressing honestly because there are billions of them. But anyway. Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:22 PM
21

Woman D:
/r/askFDS27/09/21 07:13 PM
6

What the actual hell. Men…smdh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:45 PM
23

"College is becoming the domain of women and not men," he said.——and this doesn’t bother me at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:19 AM
50

I was thinking, he will soon say, “I tRiEd telling her I only make $10/hr working part time but she still doesn’t get it. I want to pay less for pu$$y now….”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:41 PM
88

That whole sub makes me want to cry. Scrotes ruin women. Having children with a scrote will ruin you as long as you’re with him. Ugh my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 12:34 PM
6

I feel like it’s a bunch of handsy dudes at the dive bar kind of town. I feel creeped out. I laughed out loud. Hillbilly drug den…but a city. I’m so glad you left!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:06 AM
12

Pajama pants to dinner? What the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:58 PM
20

I’m a Christian but I laughed so much. Yikes. I am glad I’m a lesbian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:57 PM
2

Your username 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:25 AM
6

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:36 AM
5

Tbh I guarantee he has considered you unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:52 AM
4

So much damage is done but hopefully it’s not too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:51 AM
9

Helllllllll no
/r/askFDS23/09/21 05:35 PM
17

I think my jaw just hit the floor. The caption is the only appropriate thing to say to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:26 PM
2

Why stop there, send his ass packing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:20 PM
23

This makes me cry. I am recalling the most boring and unwanted sexual encounter I’ve had, now imagine that is my every day with different men, and if I don’t do it, I don’t have an income. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:44 PM
21

Me too. What a Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:41 PM
56

I’m cringing SO hard at this. It’s so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:40 PM
1

Nope. It doesn’t matter. I have heard guys with forever girlfriends say, “Well, what if I marry her and someone else comes along?” I tell them, “Don’t entertain personal conversations with women you’re sexually attracted to that aren’t your partner…” one ear and out the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:39 PM
146

The last part, I just want to see ONE MAN look at his partner and treat her respectfully. FUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:54 PM
9

She’s RARELY without him unfortunately. I thought she was kind of shy at first but I think she’s in fear honestly. I try to but never seem to catch her to at least introduce myself. We all recently moved into this building so it’s small and hopefully there’s a chance to get to know her. But yes. Anytime before FDS that ANYONE told me to leave a scrote, I thought they were dead ass wrong about him haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:12 PM
30

I’m currently listening to my downstairs neighbor get berated by her “perfect fiancé” praying she doesn’t end up like Gabby. I need to introduce her to this sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:57 PM
145

I shaved my head and now just wear mascara but otherwise dress pretty masculine presenting. I love pink and don’t shy away from dresses and feminine clothing, but I am tired of trying to get caught by the male gaze. I’m tired of my value being determined by my conventional beauty. I shave my legs and armpits for no one, not even when I was a maid of honor in a wedding recently. Life is too short. Be who and what you want, starting right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:57 PM
5

Congrats Queen, enjoy your new place, you deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:56 AM
2

👆👆👆
/r/askFDS19/05/21 01:54 AM
9

When those kids grow up and out, you will have much more freedom. Plan fun things to look forward to like this! (That’s what I am doing as mom anyway haha) I think “as soon as my child goes off to college/military/moves out and is stable, I….” And keep that list in my phone notes app. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:25 PM
6

Your username gives me life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:23 PM
23

Yes! The antenna is a nice touch for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:49 PM
59

Mine does not, I’m unmarried and estranged from the father so it was pretty expected. I cannot imagine my son having a last name that isn’t mine. I hope this becomes normalized, taking the mothers last name!
/r/askFDS09/05/21 09:43 PM
8

This. This thisss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:12 AM
45

My ex used to exfoliate like a maniac, his face would be peeling. I have a skin care routine so I would suggest anything from toner to alcohol free moisturizers. He said, “Nah I prefer the scorched earth approach to acne.” As he rubs his face vigorously with a terry cloth towel. I’m shuddering but hopefully that audacity makes you laugh/cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:10 AM
11

Very specific but honestly. All of these!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:08 AM
10

Yes! This is how I finely got over a man I thought was HV for years, he told me I was digging myself into a hole…for…not preferring a John Mayer album! Ha! Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:07 AM
13

If you can, share it please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:20 PM
38

Just wanted to say the words LYING LIARS WHO LIE made my night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:30 AM
5

Well hopefully you’ll be on your way to better soon:)
/r/askFDS25/04/21 03:14 AM
31

It doesn’t sound like he treasures you. And makes sure he compliments everything else to show you. Like a gentle manipulation, even negging, you know? You should never feel like y have to complete for compliments, particularly with cats and drawings.
/r/askFDS24/04/21 06:19 PM
17

The veggies thing is so real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:13 PM
26

I love this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:25 PM
1

💕I absolutely want to be friends with you. I saw you’re active in some lady focused ADHD subs and I want you to know, me too, me too on my main lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:01 PM
3

I could not agree more, my friend. Truly a monster in human skin. I mourn the loss of the years OP gave that NegativeVM.
/r/askFDS22/04/21 05:59 PM
3

I haven’t seen NegativeVM used before but this is the perfect time to label one. Leave safely OP, update us when it’s safe sis.
/r/askFDS22/04/21 02:01 PM
2

Hiiiiiii 🙂🙂🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:57 PM
100

Pregnant (and dumped by scrote baby daddy) me read a Facebook moms group thread and most of them said they at least shaved. I tried to cut my pubic hair with scissors but couldn’t see over my stomach, nipping my clitoral hood made me nearly see Jesus. I am gonna just own it: that was a disturbingly big Pickmeisha moment for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:11 AM
12

Tell me why I got on a conference call on my phone (audio only) to drive and give my LVex gas when he ran out on the side of busy ass highway- while driving his mothers car. I had a gas can full at my house because I’m a responsible adult. (And if I showed him how much value I added, he would finally just commit right?? 🤡) He was on his way to work to see his side piece at the time. Don’t be me 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:06 AM
15

Daaaaamn sis you are giving me all kinds of motivation to get back to studying for the night! I LOVE your energy and how you have fought for the life you and your child deserve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:59 AM
9

Good for you, Queen! I can only imagine how lovely the next 8 years and 10 months will be and how insignificant he will continue to become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:56 AM
19

Yessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:54 AM
5

This made me wanna tear up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:46 AM
3

Awww yisssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:45 AM
49

My kindergarten son and I do the same! We get lots of cars yelling “Thank you!!!!” When they pass and he loves it so much. It started during our states stay at home order, but we live right next to a park and we’re desperate for some outside time :) edit: grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:39 AM
2

I went there and suggested FDS and they said they don’t promote hate subs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:07 AM
235

Ha! I think we the equivalent of a group of women, floating on a pool with a drink in hand, completely unbothered by the world when I am in this sub. We thrive together. We handle our failed relationships and won’t tolerate the failures we had relations with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:46 AM
172

Both...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:10 PM
13

The last two paragraphs really resonate, but I appreciate all of your thoughts and ideas.
/r/askFDS18/04/21 02:04 PM
33

The bold and all caps butthole is necessary. And hilarious. Great list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:27 AM
6

This.... you only get one life, I’m not letting a single scrote waste a single moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:58 AM
3

The 19 year old part...so true. SmDh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:31 PM
30

I earned $20K than my cheating ex scrote and he said that was why I should pay for things. You’re not the prize, you’re human garbage. But yes-nothing feels better than paying for something for you, no strings attached, you earned it, wanted it, and made it happen. You’re a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:07 PM
10

THIS RIGHT HERE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:13 AM
19

Dead. Best comment I’ve seen today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:08 AM
54

For every scrote blocked, a queen gets her crown. We are on the cusp of a revolution, and we will fight tirelessly for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:28 PM
28

Yes! Please do! Mail it to the woman who made this video, she would love it! (I don’t know her, but I imagine she’d like that mic drop on a pillow!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:35 AM
23

I have huge heart eyes for this post. I love it. We are here to love ourselves and explore the world on our terms and learn and define what makes us content...and block+delete every life wasting scrote that tries to interrupt us. And if a man bikes across half of his world to get to mine, I will consider opening the door!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:35 PM
12

This, 100%. Which weekly chores are so arduous that he can’t do them? Why can’t he cook one or two meals a week? The flags he’s putting out are red. You’re not his maid or a roommate, that’s for sure, don’t act like one, for your own sake! You were paying for groceries before? Are you paying rent to live in his apartment?
/r/askFDS06/04/21 01:48 AM
31

Go on, Queen! Stand your ground!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:52 PM
48

Hahah, I used to cling to this hope for YEARS in prior relationships. NEVER again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:47 PM
15

I had 1 hook up in my life. At the end he smacked my butt and said, “your orgasm next time, eh?” And then negged me until he finally walked out of the door. Not worth it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:56 AM
39

LOVE this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:53 PM
22

If it makes you smile in the slightest, when my son was born, I made sure his last name was mine. Not that I want my LV dad’s last name either but I sure didn’t want the LVM birth fathers last name attached to my child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:23 PM
15

So he wants access to a penis head? Lol he needs to leave women alone then :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:10 PM
17

My mom worked in the surgery recovery of her small hospital, and she said men used to come in with entire beer bottles up their ass (also, hamsters, toy cars, ketchup bottles, and just straight up sex toys) and they have said, “I fell off a chair and on to it,” or “I slipped in the shower.” You slipped off a chair naked and it happened to land so perfectly that an entire object went up your butt! The excuses and their shamelessness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:06 PM
11

I’d like that, then we would have an easy visual scrote filtering system (then again...plastic surgery)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:42 PM
12

What is he even saying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:37 PM
2

Agreed. We do not let LVMs waste our time around here. ETA: good on you sis, cheering for you and your new position!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:19 PM
7

Yes. Patiently waiting for her to lose this dead weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:46 PM
3

With female birth control shots :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:43 PM
35

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:30 PM
6

So true. So so so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:48 AM
4

Block and delete! Be gone scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:48 PM
5

This comment deserves gold. If it didn’t give Reddit money I would give you an award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:43 PM
402

Exactly. The post flair is what came out of my mouth instantly. Nah, sis. What the f*ck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:07 PM
95

Same. Except myself, NOW! If only it hasn’t taken me so long to see how awesome and available I was...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:44 AM
34

It’s been a few months since my breakup, but I found FDS very shortly after and following this put me soooo far above where I ever imagined I would be. Ladies, if you’re experiencing a breakup: follow this word for word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:42 AM
5

I didn’t know the severity of how large of a red flag this was until I found FDS: My ex was a proud misogynistic, AWALT redpiller...I was a proud PickMe at the time so I read into it. I hated the whole idea, until I found a Christian subsection. I kept trying to make it make sense, I’m a Christian, this should speak to me right?? It was not the community I needed. Huge yikes. I searched ‘dating advice women’ on Reddit after my breakup, with no intention of dating any time soon since I was healin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:40 AM
34

What the fuck is wrong with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:55 PM
6

Hahahah I love these... what a 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:45 PM
3

What an amazing woman. I love this overview - it would have been an amazing movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:19 PM
16

Your grandmother is such a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:59 PM
5

inhales “Fuck off, scrote.” Whew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:46 PM
20

I suggested to a woman looking for advice on consoling a broke-hearted friend to have her read the FDS wiki and the mod said “we do not promote racist of sexist subs.” LOL. Ok. Quit your job then amiga.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:16 AM
22

That checking account balance is what they save by going 50/50 🙄😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:14 AM
10

This made me smile big time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:09 AM
13

I hope he wailed for real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:09 AM
3

FFS if only she knew about FDS ;(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:05 AM
8

Once a month - to $ave soap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:04 AM
28

I spit out my drink. Holy fuck you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:54 AM
26

Hell yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:54 AM
6

Agreeeeeeeed. It makes so much sense now, and I am grateful that more of my male coworkers have been really kind...at least to my face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:09 PM
78

Where do I even begin? Well, I will share one: my mom was staying at my home - I put a bed in the dining room (widely unused at the time) and it was openly connected to the living room. I was an on my period and this man refused to have period sex...so we had been spooning on the couch and then he decided to put his dick in my mouth- 5 feet away from my sleeping mother for a BJ... Even writing this...gosh I wish it hadn’t taken months of dating him and him cheating for me to finally find FDS and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:43 AM
60

WOW I HATE HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:39 AM
66

Me toooooo!!! In every way...I absolutely thrive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:01 AM
58

Yes! Any time my cheating ex would take his phone to the bathroom or not come to bed when I did, I felt terrible. I wish I had found FDS before I got deep into PickMe territory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:01 AM
25

Right? What the actual? This man is such a coward I actually clutched my chest when I read this. That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:37 PM
16

Right, I’m sure his ass crack was hanging out when he tripped coming out of the window. Edit: that he hasn’t fully washed in years - because touching his butt is gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:33 PM
6

I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:30 PM
16

Read this, male lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:27 PM
61

I have heard many of my married mom friends tell me this. As a single mother, I felt a little offended but now I feel way more blessed that I don’t also have a LV husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:26 PM
17

This comment deserves an award 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:19 PM
130

In the military, men would use the one female stall as their pooping stall. Despite women working with them on the same shift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:18 PM
14

It took me a moment but once I got it... 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:15 PM
6

Oh yeah, they’re divorced. If you ask my dad, my mom gave up and wanted to date other guys or something. If you ask my mom, she finally got away from an abusive drug addict. My mom definitely came out better. Went to college and finally went after her dream job, without my father breathing down her neck saying she wasn’t allowed to :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:12 AM
18

This was my first clue my ex was cheating, I started doing all the work, and he didn’t allow positions that were face to face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:05 AM
1

I know a bunch of guys at my church use CovenantEyes - it takes blurred screenshots every minute or so and then sends a summary to their accountability partners. If there is explicit content, the AI detects it. They can’t access the internet without being logging in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:02 AM
7

Leaving a tip, is my thought, instead of “well I only have a $20, and she wasn’t THAT great,” which is a direct quote from my father who just then leaves no tip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:11 PM
11

I always like to remember that when Jesus was resurrected, he chose to reveal himself to women, not even his disciples. He didn’t have to, but I like to think it’s because they were more capable of handling the event and actually going into action letting people know rather than sitting there, paralyzed with fear like most men today who watch modern horror movies...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:06 PM
9

Yes, I can only imagine how he will blame her over it. Heck, he can blame me for it, I just want it to happen lol. He should not reproduce or have a partner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:57 AM
2

Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:55 AM
10

That last sentence is fantastic! The whole post, but especially the last sentence, what a lovely world!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:54 AM
3

These comments are giving me liiiiiiiiiife 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:29 PM
2

Oh yes. My father, after my mother finally left him, asked me once to bring nail clippers when I went to see him, so I did and he said it was because his nails were cutting into his shoes. I’m sorry you just read that honestly, but I totally agree, most men have no groom habits in general but the feet...sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:25 PM
49

What the actual hell. Men are terrifying. I’m so glad there is a decade between you and that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:31 AM
35

When he led with “let me see your toes” I did a double take not sure where he was taking that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:17 AM
32

I had a random account message me to tell me my name was on one I posted. Like a male lurker. Not happy about it except that I definitely changed my name on my account and deleted the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:44 AM
1

Absolutely fantastic. How are you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:16 PM
1

Free college and travel. Had no idea about the culture or how the men behaved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:35 AM
1

We were both in the military
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:07 AM
13

It took me about 2 months after the break up (well, after I discovered his cheating and breaking up) before FDS finally sank in. I felt empowered to block him. I kind of expected him to find some way to contact me but he hasn’t as far as I know. I haven’t checked my voicemails yet - it’s been about a month. I hope there’s nothing because he hurt me, and it hurt for about 6ish weeks. I continued to process and better myself. I think I read on here once, feel, deal, heal, and I believe in that. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:25 AM
21

Maybe I should just start recommending it. I’ll take the down votes, if it means changing lives in the way it has changed mine haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:18 AM
5

When we met I was 20, and he was 24...but lied about also being married with a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:48 PM
16

Right? Where do we start with these red flags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:37 PM
70

Just wanna stop by and say that blocking my NVM ex was the best thing I did in 2021, but certainly one of many, many, many amazing things I will do, and do for myself this year 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:34 PM
5

He was 4 years older than me, so at the time, I thought it was “so cool that an older guy wanted me,” but now I shudder at that age difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:08 PM
9

Girl let me be more forthcoming, this LVM is my child’s father who lives on the other side of the country. We went to visit when my son was a baby, and I paid. While he was working full time and I was a university student. He pays me no child support, and is not on the birth certificate. My son is almost 6, and we have seen him maybe 5 times since he was born. Meanwhile he has an ex wife and son on our side of the country, but lives with his girlfriend and her kids 2000 miles away. I’m not sure …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:01 PM
11

The whole house was carpeted. I asked him why he didn’t have one and he said he couldn’t afford it. I’m at a loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:36 PM
1

Maybe try this question on the AskFDS sub :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:27 AM
5

Pretend you don’t see it. Or look him straight in the eyes then look at it hahah. I don’t know. I would personally do the first. But thank him for the meal when he does pay it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:26 AM
7

This made me smile <3 it is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:10 AM
9

I think I love you and OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:26 AM
37

A friend of mine said a guy she hooked up only had one pillow....so he gave her a balled up hoodie to use as her pillow... just...wow, I can’t imagine how well that man is doing these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:24 AM
36

My ex....didn’t even own a vacuum ..... ;(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:22 AM
28

“How am I supposed to know if we are compatible unless we have sex/live together before we get married?????”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:20 AM
8

Laughing so hard at this. The Jim and Pam thing is so overdone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:18 AM
231

Love the lava cake reference. I pray the other woman has no idea of his background, but finds out and dumps his stupid ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:16 AM
19

You are amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:26 AM
90

I feel sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:22 AM
13

I literally just talked to my mom about this same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:40 AM
2

“‘Cause finding a good man, girl, is like finding a needle in a haystack.” 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:27 AM
6

Yes, please stick around. Once you’re in, you won’t be able to go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:13 AM
7

Alllll of this 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:12 AM
8

Fear la chancla!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:49 AM
2

Good looking out sis, when things are new it can be hard to overlook things. And I am glad it’s working out and you’re still vetting, valkyriegoll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:18 AM
2

Couldn’t agree more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:12 AM
1

I am crying laughing, welllll done sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:45 AM
2

...my ex had just banged his now girlfriend (a teen...) and had the audacity to come to my house and ask if we were still on for his family Christmas at his parents house. After we broke up. Block and delete time. The gall. The audacity. Scrotes will never stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:56 AM
47

If it’s not a hell yeah, it’s a hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:46 AM
98

From the bottom of my heart, I hope you decide to move on and make your life your own. Exactly how you want it, because I know you don’t want a life being treated like this. Happy Valentine’s Day my sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:45 AM
2

Besides the wedding, your ex sounds a hell of a lot like mine. Big yikes. I’m glad I am beyond that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:38 AM
1

Absolutely sad but so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:30 AM
1

This is perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:48 AM
1

I’m so glad for you, you’re taking the best next step. Now go live your live, exactly as you want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:07 AM
2

second this!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 04:26 PM
4

My mom has always told me "You look best how God made you, enhance that."
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 04:13 PM
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