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LVM LOGICbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:23 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:17 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:45 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:59 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:28 PM
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PICKME CULTUREbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:07 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:21 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:27 AM
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LIES MEN TELLbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:56 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:34 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:55 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYbrylm92/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:15 AM
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Male "feminism" = "I'm about to gaslight you that my consumption of anal stepdaughter humiliation porn and visits to seedy strip clubs are helping to empower women. Also, serial rapists and male baby killers should be allowed to be housed with female prisoners, you BIGOT." It's a new way to hurl misogyny and hate at women whilst gaining more access to sex and somehow feeling progressive and morally superior. Vile. I'd also rather deal with a transparent MRA who wants to strip women's rights but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 09:35 AM
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Yes! I've experienced all of these. #6 especially is absolutely spot on and a huge tell. Every "compliment" has a gross, sleazy undertone that makes you feel a bit dirty. I don't want to hear "mmm, your ass looks so great in that, I'm a big fan" every damn I put on jeans that fit or some leggings to lounge around the house. Or every time after they've watched you walk to the bathroom in a restaurant. I'm not your 24/7 sex object. Plus it's pathetic and makes them seem like a horny school boy. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 01:56 AM
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In response to your eta: A couple of days ago a man (with newborn baby daughter), who'd called himself "a feminist" 30 seconds earlier, literally screamed at me that I was a narrow-minded, disgusting, revolting, shameful, despicable awful human being, before walking off still hurling rage insults, because I'd disagreed with him that prostitutes love their job 😂 (I'm a) a woman, and b) have actually spent the last 5 years researching the porn and sex industries and listening to survivors, but sur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 01:39 AM
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So weird how revenge porn can exist, and women will be shamed for it, when porn is meant to be the height of eMPoWeRmEnT 😕🤔😕🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:06 AM
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It's to protect their tiny fragile egos. They genuinely convince themselves that they felt the same way and that the rejection was mutual or his decision, too. Once I broke it off with a guy after realizing I disliked everything about him, to which he said "Noooo!" and cried some crocodile tears - 2 months later he's in my inbox asking for another date, acting like the initial decision was mutual and, in fact, implemented by him due to his pandemic stress 😂 So ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:26 PM
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Imagine finding out, on your wedding day, that your finance had been to celebrate his "last night of freedom" (vomit) by paying exploited women to grind on his lap. I'd cancel the whole wedding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:44 PM
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> Humans have been masturbating for some 300,000 years just fine without pornography. ​ WhAtAbOuT GrEeK sTaTuEs aNd cAvE DraWiNgS tHoUgH?!? ~ every idiot Reddit dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 11:49 PM
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Eeeeurgh so 50/50 is literally a guy saying "Fuck you, you're not pretty enough, be grateful for these crumbs of attention." Makes me feel so gross about all the times I happily went 50/50 and actually thought they liked me 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:03 PM
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Do you think if they got a chance with Megan Fox they would ask her out for coffee? Ask her to go halfsies? Put the burden of planning an activity on her? No. Although if they got said unfathomable chance with Megan Fox they'd sure as hell be eager to move into her place rent-free, eat all her groceries, and accuse her of gOLDdIGgInG when it all blew up. Useless men so love accusing women of using them for things they don't actually have :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:19 PM
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Yes. Language matters. I call it filmed sexual torture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:06 PM
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Translation: I watch porn and refuse to acknowledge it's seriously problematic. Even in interviews with people who have been harmed by porn or suffered the horrific abuses of the industry they feel the need to say; "But but but porn isn't necessarily bad! Nothing against people who watch porn! Yay porn!!". It is total bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:04 PM
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Karma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:58 PM
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For men scoring women is about impressing other men. Porn tricks them into believing they're an alpha who's actually fucking all these hot women and they can't resist bragging about it for BroStatus points. They do the same with hookers. Zero comprehension that using disadvantaged women and/or paying for it is both the opposite of an achievement and makes you an awful person 🙄 Society definitely needs to bring back shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:54 PM
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Hey, vegetables are unnecessary if you take a multivitamin. I have it on authority from a vegan guy 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ Personally I hate pet names like "babe", and dated a guy who kept saying it "bY AcCIdEnt", or saying it under his breath and acting like he hadn't said anything. Lost attraction to him real fast. There was another guy who ordered chips (french fries) as an addition to EVERY meal. Pizza? + chips. Noodles? + chips. Thai curry? + chips. Ramen? + chips. Bit ridiculous but I found it incredibl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:40 PM
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liberal feminism has failed in the sense that it hasn’t done enough to address rape culture. Nah, liberal feminism actively promotes rape culture. Liberal feminism: -promotes porn -promotes prostitution -promotes "self love" aka posing nude on Instagram -tells girls they need to be comfortable with hook-ups, anal, and BDSM -says asking a partner about STDs is ableist -teaches women to question or overcome their natural, innate misgivings -tells lesbians they must work through their "genital pref…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:35 PM
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I dated a leftie "feminist ally" guy who told me that my radical feminist views were "super dope" and that he admired my passion and conviction. He'd act sympathetic towards woman's struggles and say all the right things in the right places. Of course, a few weeks in it became apparent he thought they were "super dope" because it guaranteed I would not be selling my body or posing semi-nude online. When we had conversations about porn he would start spitting with rage and dismiss all the evidenc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:03 PM
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This narrative that woman can just switch sexuality on request pisses me off so much. Sort of understand it from the mind of a pornsick scrote who sees women as meer sex receptacles but I also hear it from family and friends ALL THE TIME. No, all women are NOT bisexual and being a lesbian is NOT A CHOICE. The thought of being with a woman is deeply uncomfortable to me because I am STRAIGHT, that's how the straight curse WORKS. Where are all the comments telling incels, the actual desperate ones,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:06 PM
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Yeah I agree. MGTOW has been talking about infiltrating women's spaces and taking control for years (gtow, indeed 🙄). This shit seemed to explode as backlash to #metoo and the rinse in radfem, with more women starting to speak against porn and prostitution. Sociopathic porn addicts who've grown up in incel forums are now in power; men control the media and social networks, spread libfem messages and ban female subs. Excuse my tin foil hat but it's all too convenient 😅 The original MGTOW vid has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:20 PM
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Wtf, seriously??? Libfem is so transparently a men's sexual rights movement at this stage I don't understand how any women are still buying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:32 PM
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I thought it was a criminal offence, at least with HIV. I vaguely remember a news story about a woman who was convicted for deliberately infecting several men after she'd contracted it through rape, struggling to find the story though. Let's be honest though any case with a 'standard' STD would be spun into blaming the woman, a revengeful slut who wanted it, and excusing the poor bumbling man who just forgot or didn't know he could make her infertile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:50 PM
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BiOlOgY aNd FErTiLiTy tho Girls who are barely developed, are emotionally insecure, and in an unstable period of life are totally the best choice to birth and raise a child... /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:13 PM
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Everyone I dated from 18 to 25 was only 7-10 years older than me and I now feel used by all of them. I was shy, gullible, insecure and inexperienced, and always looked 4/5 years younger than my age. I didn't know what was normal in a relationship or when/if I could say no. In hindsight all of them gave no fucks and took advantage of my naivety (yet used it as a stick to beat me with, as proof of my stupidity, when it suited). It's 100% weird and predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:08 PM
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Good god these guys are the worst. I've met two types: Smug guy who thinks he's a hot shit intellectual debater because he employs the highly impressive tactic of saying the exact opposite of everyone else, usually when literally nobody called for a debate, and his groundbreaking whatabout has been widely considered and dismissed as abhorrent or ridiculous by the majority of the population. He will get quite vicious when you make a solid argument or bring up a statistical fact he cannot argue wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:43 PM
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What exactly do you gain by that?? The illusion of power. Classic abuser behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:12 PM
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Yeah my ex pretended to be 24 @ 34 on Tinder and eventually admitted it wasn't an accident that he couldn't change as per his profile description (🙄), it was to get a look/chance at the younger girls. He was obsessed with barely legal incest porn and is probably a straight up paedophile. 34 is better than 24 but still fkin gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:59 AM
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A man that wants to be with whomever agrees to give them the time of day? Exactly, you can never be sure if they actually want to be with you because they like you or if they're so desperate they thought "she'll do!" because no one else gave him any attention. My hunch is that it's always the latter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:11 PM
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Yeah anal torture of teenagers is so wholesome, man. In that nasty post about porn being in a kid's Nintendo DS history there was a sick mini comment thread with losers trying to outdo each other with their recs for sites where you could find the most depraved porn. So funny. Such achievement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:55 PM
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Always thought he had psycho eyes. Saw him once on Graham Norton and he was sleazing all over another female guest, overly flirtatious, touching her, it was gross. Pointed it out to the pick me I was watching with and she said I should stop being so uptight 🙄🙄 Mommy, I want that one This part really gets me tbh. He's thought of women as toys he's owed since he was a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:36 PM
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"hurr durr porn joke" 4.5k upvotes, 15 awards, every time 🙄 Seriously though, can we make a female Reddit? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:27 PM
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My mum had a newborn baby in her final year of uni because the scrote father fucked off and left her. She did all nighters to make it work. And this in a time pre-internet, pre-laptop. This guy is such a low life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:14 PM
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And he even lists ALL the stuff she did for him. Yeah but he NeVEr aSkEd FoR iT 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:58 PM
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What a fucking asshole. Sorry you had to deal with his ignorance, racism and minimization of your abuse. They all act like its no big deal and then use it as a stick to beat you with when you're down. I also don't want to fabricate a huge lie around my relationships with my toxic family, so I might just settle with "we're not that close, I don't see them very often." or something to that extent. Red flag if a guy tries to push it after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:45 AM
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Totally agree, this is just an anecdotal experience of mine, and more proof that you definitely should not disclose any weaknesses or personal failures to a man however "nice" they first seem. And while an awful family situation is not my own fault and shouldn't be a weakness, they will certainly view it in that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:36 AM
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Tell a LV man your dad is an abusive asshole who treats you like shit: he'll tell you it's because you remind him of your mum, who your dad hates, and it's all her fault and your poor dad must be suffering and you shouldn't be too harsh on him. "Yeah, guarantee it's because of her." ... While knowing nothing about your parents, their previous relationship, current very healthy platonic relationship, still-married status, or having ever seen your mother. Probably a woman's fault that my ZVD is a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:42 PM
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Urghh re: "do you want my coat?" ; in my student days men would always do this while walking me home after a night out and not take no for an answer. I never wanted their fuckin coat. In the end I started taking it, dropping it on the floor and walking off 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 09:04 PM
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Hahahaha I love it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:33 PM
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Yes. I've been so desperate to give men the benefit of the doubt that I've spent hours upon hours trying to spin their contradictory stories and blatant lies into some semblance of rational truth, pleaded with them to explain the discrepancies away, gone crazy in the process. Ridiculously, I'd be so stressed I'd start having nightmares in which my worst fears (the truth I was avoiding) came true. My gut and my mind always knew. Still angry at myself for never listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:58 PM
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I went on a first date with a guy who tried to hold my hand every time I left it on the table. I would SNATCH it away every time his brushed mine but he still persisted throughout the night. Creepy. In hindsight he was 100% an incel and used many PUA tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:35 PM
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Very true. Male porn addicts are useless, dangerous people. Its appalling that men are still deemed to be more suitable for positions of power/responsibility (lawyers, doctors, politicians, teachers, judges etc) yet all of of these men are addicted to abuse images and can't even concentrate without having a wank. Sadly none of these reasons will be enough for 99.9% of them to take personal accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:30 PM
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Spot on. To add, if he's using it as a bargaining tool ("I will give up only if you have sex with me enough) you'll be worried about him using every time you need to spend 2 days apart. He'll probably also use it as a punishment, and tell you he's watched it as a fuck you every time you disagree or argue about something. And at the end, he'll throw it all in your face and tell you you're just crazy and insecure and traumatised by your pornsick ex or your rape or (insert personal issue here.) Sor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:24 AM
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Men: We have no support systems, no emotional outlets, suicide rates, poor us 😢 Also men: Don't see women as worthy of friendship and call all the bros "gay/pussys" for expressing an emotion 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:07 AM
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Looking at celebrities who've given it up (Russell Brand, Terry Crews off the top of my head), I'd say yes. However these are men who are intelligent, care deeply and sincerely about self-improvement, rich enough for support, and HV enough in another areas to not give into peer pressure or societal expectations. And they did it by themselves, because their lives were falling apart, not because a woman asked them or supported them to. For your average man, who doesn't really want to give it up mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:13 AM
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Why does he think he deserves two women he'll be unable to give any pleasure to, and will ignore for his phone screen anyway ??????? PSLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:16 PM
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I've been convinced for a while that a significant percentage of male surgeons must be psychopaths. Cosmetic plastic surgeons especially - a decade of medicine training all to grope women, critique their "flaws", and pointlessly mutilate their bodies. So many are all smug and creepy and dead behind the eyes. Weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:49 PM
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No no no, weed is a plant, it's harmless you know. Being stoned 24/7 is fine. Spending half of your income on drugs is fine. Selling weed to other scrotes is fine. It's just chill, man. So spiritual. You should start smoking copious amounts too. [INSERT IRRELEVANT SUBSTANCE] IS WAY WORSE THAN WEED SO SHUT THE FUCK UP IT'S FINE ... According to a loser I briefly dated who structured his whole life around rolling joints, and consequently did absolutely shit all, was selfish and greedy as fuck, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:42 PM
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They think we are as stupid as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:44 PM
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I never have to bring it up, it's implied that he asked me out, he's paying This is what changed my mindset. Of course if he's invited you out somewhere, he's paying. Would you invite your mum or friend out to dinner and them ask them to pay?!?! No!! Crazy how society has conditioned so many of us pickmes to not realise how ridiculous 50/50 is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:54 AM
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Love that! I'm currently watching my pickme mother have an existential crisis because she feels old and ugly and that her life is over because no men are going to want her in her mid 50s. It's so sad/frustrating and she just will not accept there is more to life, that the attention is not that great, that all the men she's been with were assholes, and someone will probably want her anyway?? The conditioning and fear of the "wall" is so deep. Glad you overcome it and are living your best, man-fre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 09:24 PM
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Woow, you just explained why I went totally off the rails in my early-mid 20s! As a late bloomer, I suddenly started getting attention from men, which made me feel good after a lifetime of appearance based insults. I forgot everything that else that made me valuable and chased the attention. Inevitably all the men and their worthless attention made me feel like shit. I only started feeling like myself again once I started ignoring men entirely and throwing myself back into my hobbies and educati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:27 PM
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I've known a guy who did this after 5. Announced his five-dates-til-sex "move" on the first date like it made him some kind of stand up gentleman. I didn't want to have sex on date five and he was an absolute sulky little shit and also had a tantrum about how its uNfaaIRrRR that I didn't want to have sex but also have a no-porn stance (which his addict ass was lying about following anyway). The entitlement 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:05 PM
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My ex wanted me to get a boob job (and vaginoplasty) to fit his porn fantasy but simultaneously did NOT want me to because: "you'd be so fucking hot, men would be all over you, everyone would want to fuck you, I'd be too jealous to date a really hot woman, blah blah blah." Guys like this are pathetic, insecure and know they have no value. They're trying to bring you down by triangulating you with an imaginary version of yourself. "You could be this, but you're not", is a fucking massive neg. Liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:02 PM
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Maybe. I've dealt with a true narcissist and I have to say he wasn't quite as bad. I did notice similar behaviours though, and he definitely had an overly high opinion of himself and enjoyed negging me. To be honest men my age are so crap it's hard to tell what's narcissism, what's side effects of porn addiction, and what's just toxic male behaviour 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:10 PM
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The night I told my ex I am a recovering bulimia he squeezed my stomach while we were spooning and fucking laughed when I said "what the fuck, don't do that??" Piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:21 PM
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I knew a guy who was obsessed with eating enough protein but simultaneously would not eat a single vegetable because he didn't need them if he took vitamins 🙄🤣🙄 wouldn't drink water either. Same guy spent ages convincing me to agree to a holiday and then said "okay, you plan it all and just let me know what we're doing and how much to pay." Of course he was a porn/video game zombie and absolutely awful in bed. Great post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:32 PM
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Eurghh that makes me angry just reading it, what a weaselly little man!! These scrotes see everything as a transaction. Even when they do something for others (less than the bare minimum) it's only to gain something for themselves. Imagine being THAT selfish and entitled, couldn't be me. Or any woman I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:27 PM
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Like an idiot, I used to go 50/50 religiously, I'd buy the first round, I'd pay for thoughtful and overly pricy gifts, I'd loan money at the end of the month if they'd failed to budget and not even ask for it back if it wasn't a lot. I have never been rich, just generous, and I never thought twice about it. All the men who received these benefits from me were stingy and kept a tally of everything they ever paid for ("when we next go out it's your turn to pay." or "I paid for this coffee and that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:14 PM
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Oh gooood years ago this absolutely repulsive figure of a scrote would not stop pestering me so I eventually lied and said I was gay (sorry), and he said "that's a shame because you have a nice body." What the fuckkkkk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:51 PM
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When I used to use dating apps I would use unfiltered, unedited photos that were good, but not my absolute best, all so I wasn't giving men unrealistically high expectations of myself and/or they'd get a pleasant surprise if we met. They'd all turn up looking worse than expected and lie about trivial things on the first date (I knew this from having a lengthy scroll through all their social media beforehand.) It's disrespectful and gross. I've given up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:06 PM
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Very good point. Internet stalking is more accurate. Either way, normalise them both, men have proved time and time again that they are untrustworthy as a class and we must take precautions. Sorry men, you want access to the inside of my body by deception but think googling your name is overstepping the mark?? Get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:18 PM
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Fucks sake NORMALISE SNOOPING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:10 PM
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Men are so desperate for sex they will PAY FOR IT. They literally invented the sex industry to circumnavigate the fact that women don't give up sex as easily and freely as they want them to. They invent movements (libfem, mra, t-ra) to get more access to sex. They'll fuck fruit, their car, plastic dolls, animals, children, their own sick mother... Achievement?! Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:33 PM
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Rule 1 of patriarchy: Women can never win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:14 PM
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ZVX once said to me, in total sincerity, that women only make an effort with their appearance to impress men. Every time we do our makeup, hair, wear nice clothes, nice underwear, do our nails, etc etc etc, it is SOLELY FOR MEN'S BENEFIT. This was so astounding to me, that I just stared at him in astonishment and decided he must be joking. Nope! I've since realised this is how most men think, as they are all plagued with narcissism, misogyny, and porn has melted their brains. They believe all wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:24 AM
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Tbh I translate it as "have you already had omicron? Are you no longer worried about catching it? Can we bang?" Could be a cynical take but eh, men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:21 AM
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Honestly even he stops the liking/commenting on all women's posts thing when you get together, having a previous habit of it is a bit ick for me. Reeks of desperation and tentacling for female attention, especially when one quick look at her profile shows they've obviously never met or had one ancient interaction. It's so lame and honestly whenever I've seen a man like this publish a relationship status I feel bad and embarrassed for the woman involved. He's still gonna be drooling over those ph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:48 PM
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Hang on, I thought all girls mAtURed FaSTeR and that's why, immediately after they turn 18, it's acceptable to date them, masturbate to them, and groom them into the porn industry?? And why, if they end up manipulated, abused, or have a horrible experience in the sex industry, they ShOUld HaVe KnOwN BetTeR?? Yet still it's "you're so mature for your age", like that's a special rarity. 🤔 Contradictory patriarchal bullshit strikes again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:51 AM
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Can you imagine a world in which women went around declaring how "nice" they are to random strangers? Or using it as the gold standard of behaviour? Or gaslighting victims - "what's that, you thought I was trying to pickpocket you? No no, I'm a nice girl." Bizarre. It's such a weird and pathetic thing to say (and also, obviously, a lie). They're also by consequence accidentally admitting that most men don't have the amazing quality of nice, yet still, it's nOt aLl mEn and we need to give them al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:15 PM
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Picking up women is all to impress other men. The 72+ women he's slept with is to impress other men. LVM hate effort, yet he's made an extortionate effort with this sleezy tactic. He could keep the "achievement" in his head, but notice he needs to publicly brag about it? Notice he's kept track of exactly how many women (and probably calls them #15, #60..)? We are status symbols to them, we are like gems in a video game to collect. He's a lvm trying to impress other anonymous Reddit lvm because h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:32 PM
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Everytime I hear a man complaining about not getting enough sex in situations like these I'm reminded of children throwing tantrums because they didn't get a video game for Xmas or aren't allowed any more chocolate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:37 PM
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And he basically cheated to achieve the so called accomplishment - manipulated, lied, deceived. Yet he's still proud?! I'd bet all my limbs he consistently refers to himself as a "gentleman" or a "good guy", too 🤢 Promiscuous men like this fuck around because they have emotional issues, and are scared of the vulnerability that comes with actually connecting with a woman. They lose themselves in short-term highs to mask the fact they are empty and miserable inside. Look at all the hot celebs who'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:46 PM
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Excessive escapism through video games, social media, dating apps, porn. Bonus points for rpgs he values more than real life. Drug use including weed and alcohol. Any extended period of unnecessary radio silence, especially when you can see he's online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:34 PM
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Briefly dated a guy who hated all pets, including my beloved rodents - the third or so time he complained about them I told him I'd rather have rats than a boyfriend and he never mentioned it again 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:21 PM
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Bet he's got narc eyes and STDs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:38 PM
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But it could also be because he prides himself on being a foodie but you are a professional chef. He loves hiking on the weekends and you have literally scaled mountains My experience: Prides himself on being "super fucking smart" then finds out you've consistently outdone him academically, are well-read, cultured, and learn languages as a hobby instead of video gaming and getting stoned all day. Yet still don't go around bragging about your "superior intellect" and acting shocked when finding o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:20 PM
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Congratulations on your upgrade 🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:21 PM
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Ahhh yes, I forgot the 5'6" goblin-lookin dude (9 years older) I also gave a chance, who was bitter that he couldn't bang as hot women as he thought he deserved. Would say things like "you're just average... Like me. I couldn't date a really hot girl, I'd get too jealous." Whenever I'd get a compliment from another person he'd pull it apart and tell me it wasn't real, it was a figure of speech, they were just being nice, whatever reason. Yet he'd get mad if I wore nice clothes or makeup when he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:17 PM
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Someone tell the scrote he doesn't need to be a attractive woman, sorry, female - he can stick a dildo up his ass and lots of perverted men would happily pay him $3 a month for a pic. It's super hot and empowering so I wouldn't want him missing out. 10 years ago my school was constantly telling us that employers and universities would reject us for being stupid in Facebook photos, ffs. People judge your actions and character in life, sorry. Also, I call bullshit. OnlyFans is a pyramid scheme so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 11:27 PM
111

❌ My hot boyfriends didn't cheat ✔️ The ugly one did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:30 PM
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Dopamine receptors shot to bits and porn-induced brain fog; they can't concentrate on anything for more than 3 minutes and only then if it makes their dick hard or results in +10xp. Oh that's a sign of depression? No shit bro your only two hobbies are either evil or soulnumbing, you exist on beige oven food, don't drink water and never see sunlight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:58 PM
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This grinds my gears. The assumption that just because we're straight (or bi) we're happy to fuck any xy, that prostitutes must love it, that we must like dick pics, that rape is less of a big deal. I may be attracted to men but I'm not attracted to 99.9% of men. Sexual encounters with a guy who is unattractive to me (and not just physically) is traumatic. Women have standards and that's actually bIoLOgY. We are not the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:12 PM
106

Hating women is a male bonding activity. That's why they share porn which each other. Their ability to build relationships doesn't seem to have developed past high school and they're still stuck trying to not look weak, "gay", "whipped" or in any way emotional. They bond over "hur-dur porn joke" and flexing their AlPhA MaLe energy - have a wife to serve me, deserve a wife, alpha for getting a wife - don't LIKE her though, she's got no power over me there, emotions are GAY. It does make them look…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:49 PM
44

Heard the same. The vagina is designed to fit a penis, tight, warm, and naturally lubricates. The anus is just a tight sphincter and then... Colon. Any lubrication that might occur there is mucus discharge - the type you get from a food intolerance or infection. Then there's the faecal bacteria. Sexy. It's NOT natural which is funny cos that's men's go-to justification for everything else that's sexually depraved or their sexual 'right'. Gay men, whatever, at least they know what's involved (eg.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:23 PM
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👏 AMEN They're so proud of themselves and their accomplishments. Dude it's not an accomplishment, anyone can do it. Games are designed to be addicting and just hard enough to be challenging but keep you motivated to keep trying. All it takes is time and a lack of guilt about wasting your life. You're being played by games companies and you're proud of sacrificing everything else that is valuable to get to level 383939, like, what?? Is that gonna go on your gravestone? Will your biggest regret on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:01 PM
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He views her as 3 disposable fuckholes (his least favourite the natural one that is actually pleasurable for her, of course) and thinks he's entitled to a woman that will pretend being treated as so is immensely pleasurable, like all his favourite porn stars. Because wOmeN iN PoRN dO It AnD lIKe IT and porn is real, you know?! Totally not full of sexually traumatised women trying to fund the alcohol and drugs required to cope with scenes, totally not plied with HHH, totally not naked in a room s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:48 PM
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"he sounds like a stand-up dude" 😂😂😂 nah trash took itself out. Men love anal because it's about domination and humiliation. It doesn't feel better than PIV. Heard it from the horse's mouth. It's a sadistic torture fetish that is painful, dehumanising and dangerous for women. HIV exploded in the porn industry due to the increase in anal (it's basically in every video); it also increases your risk of anal cancer. Anal obsession is a huge sign of a depraved NVM; drop him if he even suggests or "jo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:35 PM
17

Women need to learn to trust their instincts Yes, we need to recognise the power of them! They're almost magically in their accuracy, and men call us "crazy" when we (rightfully) suspect something and go to the ends of the earth to hide the deceit and shitty behaviour that confirms our instincts were right all along. Why do blatant liars and manipulators deserve such respect while those same men are quite happy to violate our boundaries, relationship integrity, and bodies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:43 PM
19

I've found something 10/10 times. I'm hyper alert to contradictions and clues (from trauma, probably). Even if I try to rationalise all the suspicious activity I start having constantly anxiety and nightmares about it 😂 Snooping has always confirmed my suspicions (and more) and my nightmares were always real!! Your gut knows. Trust but confirm is a good rule to follow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:36 PM
188

So SICK of snooping through someone's phone being considered an awful crime that cancels out all the other depraved shit men do. You only snoop if your gut is absolutely screaming at you that something doesn't add up, and if there wasn't dodgy shit like THIS going on he wouldn't give a shit anyway. I have never cared if someone used my phone or looked in my inbox because I never had anything to hide. This is disgusting, tributes???? You can bet if she sent her own nudes to another guy he'd kick …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:13 AM
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Also, errr, women have been essentially banned from public life for most of history due to their supposed tiny, inferior lady brains; misogynistic beliefs that women are intellectually weaker are still rife, but suddenly when he's expected to help plan the holiday and pack his own fucking bag - oh no! He's suddenly a bumbling idiot, can't expect him to remember and plan things, the poor man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:47 AM
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Wish I saw red sooner!! He was fucking gross. My mum is fuckin pickme suprême and hid it from me, still pissed. The nudes I at one point desperately sent were faceless so at least that's something 😂😂 Put me off dating apps for life at least! So glad to have found this app and all the wonderful ladies here 🎄🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 01:03 AM
28

Honestly he was the scrotiest of scotes. Full blown narcisstic who took advantage of me in a very vulverable state - used to cry and pretend he'd had dreams/visions where important dead people (in my life) had come to send him messages about how to support me?!?! I tried to support him through his porn addiction "recovery" during which he just subscribed to Premium sites on a secret ipad. Wanted anal constantly. Sulked if I wore something he didn't like/experimented with makeup when he wasn't ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:46 AM
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I said this to a guy the other day! Imagine if a grown woman had the same hobbies she had at age 9 - Tamagotchis, soft toys, hair wraps, whatever. You'd think she was pathetic. But a man can collect Pop toys and play pointless video games all day at 30 and we're not meant to judge them for being losers?!? Nah. Don't know much about JoJo Siwa but love her for being unapologetically her. And making bank from it. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:19 AM
131

My paedo ex set his Tinder age to 24 at 34 to pick up younger girls. Sadly that's where I met him. At his 34 years, he berated me CONSTANTLY for being "only 25" and therefore "fucking stupid". Every time I caught him in another lie and called him out it was "You don't know fucking shit, you're fucking 25. Everyone thinks you're fucking dumb as fuck, your dad said <this>, my brother said <this>." While I was clearly naive to get into the relationship, you can bet I was 1000% more educated, cultur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:46 PM
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Hey! Guys just mAtUrE sLoWeR, don't you know?! Men absolutely aren't capable of understanding adult responsibility until 30+. That's why they're given far more freedom as teens and then hired into positions of responsibility...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:37 PM
138

Briefly dated a guy who told me he always buys jewellery for girlfriends and he's really good at it, kept asking what kind of jewellery I liked for future reference. I told him every time I didn't want jewellery, thank you, I barely wear it, and I'm really picky (extra secret reason: he was greedy and stingy and I don't want shit cheap jewellery). Didn't listen. Told me that's all he gets for girlfriends and I will like it. Thankfully we didn't last long. Another guy bought me disgusting, childl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:45 PM
40

They've been watching porn full of "perfect" women giving them all the sexual gratification they want, on demand, every day since the age of 10. They genuinely believe they are entitled to this and are desperately searching for this fantasy 10/10 anime-looking women who will happily suck his dick and do constant anal because their brains are rotted and they think porn is both real and the natural state for women. Same reason ugly, porn-depraved guys will always be unsatisfied with a woman who is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:59 PM
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Idiot. You know what is actually lonelier than being single? Being in a relationship with a man who makes you feel alone. One who doesn't care about your humanity and expects you to stay home to play loyal maid while he goes out with the lads then comes home with lies. That's lonely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:12 PM
30

Seriously, the amount of times I've not been interested (by which I mean, found the idea of touching them genuinely repulsive) in a absolutely hideous guy and tried to make unrelated excuses why I wasn't interested to be nice and not hurt his feelings... Meanwhile they were always manipulative, always tried to pressure me into something, and negged me endlessly. Vom. Let's destroy <mediocre men's unwarranted confidence in 2022 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:17 PM
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Right?!? It's not rare at all. Women consistently outshine men in intellect, humour and wit. They have interesting hobbies. They're objectively far more attractive and then make the effort to work on their appearances. Dude literally showed his own stupidity, shat on all my sisters, and then wondered why I blocked him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:42 AM
54

But she's the evil one for kicking him to the curb and taking on the responsibility of raising his child as a single mother. Single mothers are destroying society you know /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 11:42 PM
249

"You're actually really X." Smart, creative, whatever. Fuck you, I've blatantly been more X than you since the day we met. Also "Hot AND smart?? That's super rare for a woman." (from an ugly ass gamer guy on Tinder who asked me for evidence that I have a brain and then told me that school/grades don't count for anything (????) What evidence exactly did he want??? Double fuck you and your misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 11:30 PM
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Yup, they all just look weak. They possess none of the physical traits considered objectively attractive or the sign of a man blessed with good genes. Balding/receding, weak eyebrows, poor bone structure, patchy facial hair often fashioned into a grotesque moustache, goatee or chinstrap style that always gives off Creepy Neighborhood Pervert Who Lurks Outside the Girls' School Vibes. Basically blind (no shade to the visually impaired). Often lacking social skills and unpixelated hobbies but cons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:02 PM
74

Moustache 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:21 PM
41

Last dude I was texting for a while tried desperately to get me to reveal trauma from my past and got pretty annoyed when it never worked - turned out later all his exes had serious mental health issues, a history of sexual abuse, and he loooved BDSM! Fancy that! He wanted vulnerable women who'd let him act out his sick abuse fetishes on them. He also tried to get us to bond over personality tests and starsign compatibility 😂🚩 so manipulative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:53 PM
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If he defends it he watches it - bonus points if he gets aggressive, defensive, or attempts to belittle you. If your gut's telling you he's using, he's using. Addicts will defend their poisonous 'til death and porn users have no respect for you - a woman - as a intelligent, independent human so naturally he'll dismiss any research you've done, even if you've dedicated years to it. Not to mention, he doesn't really care or want to hear it. Giving men the benefit of the doubt when it comes to porn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:18 PM
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Addicts of all kinds are selfish, self-absorbed, emotionally incompetent, compulsive liars, and often abusive. Throw porn into the mix, which is the sexual torture of women touted as "harmless" entertainment, and you're dealing with sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:02 PM
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This should be on merch so we can spot each other in the wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:20 PM
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I mean obviously his theory is dogshit, but I have poison-coloured hair and men telling me I'd be more attractive if it was xyz normal colour really motivates me to keep it that way. Same goes for my colourful makeup, which always gets me valuable compliments from women and pointless negs from ugly men. I'm not going to turn myself into a beige canvas to make men I don't care about attracted to me, thanks, Alexander. By the way I have always found hideous goatees to give off strong sex offender …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:57 AM
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😂 Tell him that too 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:31 PM
33

"I'm A nICe GuY"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:10 PM
161

In fact the columnist freaking congratulated the scrote for having a sexually generous girlfriend with a good body - "So put one in the win column for yourself on that one, buddy." Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:32 AM
45

They fart, they snore like a train, they're clingy, they steal the covers, they roll about so you're trapped in one tiny slice at the edge of the bed, and the second they wake up they want you to wake up for gross morning sex. Sharing a bed is 100% the worst part of being in a relationship for me, hate it 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:28 AM
7

The RK who locked himself in his bedroom to watch porn for 2 years, got obese, went bald, then shared the mother of his child's nudes online? Apparently he's a nice guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:16 AM
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HV Dog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:24 PM
57

Porn is the filmed torture and humiliation of women. That's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:20 PM
49

Porn is why most men are terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:18 PM
29

Also worth remembering that they slag off Megan Fox because she has slightly weird thumb, and that the Kardashian clan - walking personifications of porn culture - attract the most disgusting NV scrotes who cheat endlessly. Validation means nothing 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:36 AM
19

But but but... They spent so many years collecting gems and collating their porn libraries!! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:31 AM
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They go on and on about BiOloGY when it comes to justifying porn, cheating, and wanting to shag teenage girls. But they're totally silent on the reality that BiOlOgiCALLy one main purpose of sex is for making children and women are wired to want healthy, HV offspring with a man who can protect and provide for them. Obviously! Women can die in childbirth, child rearing is hugely expensive, why would we waste OUR resources to produce and raise a child with scrote genes that will contribute nothing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:20 AM
5

Bag of Bones, really wasn't worth the time it took to read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:59 AM
2

Bag of Bones! Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:56 AM
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"I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than put up with a man who consciously disrespects me & my boundaries, the integrity of the relationship, and women as a class" = yOuR'E InSeCuRe "The women is porn are violently abused, often trafficked, and very clearly traumatised" = yOu'Re JeALOUs Make it make sense ...oh wait, it doesn't, they're just grasping at straws to justify feeling entitled to women's bodies without sounding like the lowlifes they know themselves to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:04 AM
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Seriously. We need to start laughing at them and calling them out for being the pathetic losers they are. They literally haven't developed mentally past the age of 15 and you can see it in their hobbies. You can't go for a day without porn?? You enjoy sissy hypno crap? You think child abuse is hot? You make BDSM/rape jokes? You jerk off to anime? You are a mentally ill, worthless, fucking pathetic loser. And you know it which is why you're so mad and defensive. Sort yourself out 🗑️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:58 AM
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Logan Paul, king of scrotes, interviews pornstars and OF girls for his scrotetastic podcast and said in one something along the lines of.... "Such a shame, all the good ones are doing this, in x years there won't be any options for wifedom left who haven't done it, I want her body to be sacred and private for me." According to another disgusting germ on his scrotecast all women have a price for which they'd sell sex. (Mine, personally, is the death of all men who use porn.) Bro how about you and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:49 AM
9

I'll pm you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 11:01 PM
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I saw an interview earlier with the most popular "actress" on a porn site, she said men pissing INSIDE women's vaginas and anuses and down their throats is now the norm. That the anal they're subjected to is ruining women's bodies for life. She said one man had choked her until she threw up in a bowl, then pissed in the bowl, and forced her to drink it. She was too young and naive and obviously vulnerable (naked surrounded by grown men on a porn set) to know how to say no. A mainstream site also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 09:23 PM
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Yeah well "it's fantasy" except "I'm going to actively seek out these women and physically bring them into my monogamous agreement by jerking off to them, at the detriment off our relationship." ​ "it's acting" (when the women are in visible pain) except "the women in porn like anal/being slapped/choked unconscious/eating out of dog bowls/having their teeth pulled out so so should you!!!!" ​ "it's normal and natural" except "the women in the videos I jerk off to are disgusting, vile, unworthy of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:44 PM
128

Yeah, they're already jerking off to your friends' faecesbook/instagram photos as it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:23 PM
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Men's total lack of empathy (slightly biological, then supercharged by pornography) must make it hard to write complex, believable characters. I recently read a Stephen King book, who is clearly a good and prolific novelist, and even he felt the need to vividly describe the wife's breasts, body, and fellatio skills, about 15 times, in the chapter after she'd suddenly died and the husband was grieving. I'd rather stick with female authors ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:53 AM
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But they will go off on how UNhyGENiC it is if you don't remove every hair on your body, and how they've EVOlVeD to find hygiene attractive.... while keeping all their own BO scented underarm dreads, sleeping on an uncovered mattress surrounded by overflowing ashtrays, pizza boxes, and having a totally rusty, shit-stained bathroom suite 😂😂😂 Okay bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:16 AM
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When I went to university, I met lots of girls who were still virgins, and I'd only recently had my first sexual encounters with a boyfriend. Certainly had no interest in sleeping around with spotty, horrible "lads". It's a total fantasy, all propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:09 PM
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Yeah, had a ZVM who described his type as "amateur.. young girls" but wouldn't elaborate further and it just didn't sit right with me. He also made several comments that slightly insinuated he fantasised about children, and I physically caught him drooling over schoolgirls one too many times. I was still in denial at this point... busy double guessing my instincts and giving him (and men) the benefit of the doubt. Anyway, eventually I found his Premium pornhub account (that he used everyday even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:50 PM
11

For real, they've all been watching this shit MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY since the age of 12, max. 8, minimum. It's as addictive as heroin. Anyone who believes they're still on the vanilla shit needs a heavy dose of reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:40 PM
12

Dated a guy who knew full well my no-tolerance stance on porn and said he'd quit... called him out on his bullshit after he accidentally told on himself a few too many times (verbally, always got defensive, acted pornsick, caught him deleting his history, etc etc), and he got fucking PISSED because apparently: "You [I] don't know what you're fucking talking about!!! You're just TRAUMATISED by your exes!!! There is loads of porn where woman are being treated like queens!! They love it!! I use an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:37 PM
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You remind me, when I lost my virginity, the guy had to go to his computer and jerk off to finish. The 4th time we had sex (the fourth time I'd ever had sex) he told me I was "shit" at it :D Ah, romantic. I'm nearly 29 and I've never met a guy in my age range who hasn't been pornsick since early teens. It's awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:18 AM
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Child abusers show children porn to desensitize them, and groom them into accepting abuse. Even just showing a child pornography is considered abusive because of the psychological harm it inflicts. Children who have been abused, particularly males, have a tendency to develop sociopathic traits, lack empathy, develop their own messed up paraphilias and repeat the cycle of abuse. And now we have generations of men who have grown up essentially traumatising themselves with violent hardcore pornogra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:13 AM
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"Thin" = step daughter, incest, humilation, "barely legal" (most likely actual children). Thin, skinny, amateur, "young girl" is code for paedophlia, or soon to be. Been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:55 AM
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A seriously porn obsessed ex justified using the women in porn because "I hate them, I have no respect for them!!!" They think it's okay for them to masturbate to images of women being violently abused because they deem the women as unrespectable. The images that exist BECAUSE they enjoy masturbating to them, and fuel the demand. Oh, most of what the watched was obvious underage girls with pain in their eyes, too. Absolute fucking trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:52 AM
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a porcupine full of red flags Girl this is my new favourite expression, brilliant 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:00 PM
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I use language exchange apps regularly and the amount of scrotes on them lying about their nationality, spoken languages and/or trying to sext/get nudes/find a wife is exhausting 🤦🏻‍♀️ how desperate have you gotta be to turn literally everything into a find-a-free-prostitute platform
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:35 PM
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My brother calls himself a nice guy and while being a blatant misogynist who only likes 10s (his words). I've heard the way he and the bros talk about women. Porn, obviously. He also goes on holidays with my father to take advantage of the sex trade in those countries. It's all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:52 PM
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But beware the "smart" ones that tell you they always wait at least x amount of time and then get mad when you're not comfortable meeting their given deadline. The last guy I knew who behaved this way was seething that I both didn't accept porn or want to fuck him after 5(!) dates. In a slip of the tongue he actually called waiting 5 dates "a move that all his friends know he pulls". True incel. God I hate men and their manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:59 AM
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If you're interested you should check out Darkhorse podcast, it's by 2 evolutionary scientists (who are married and both seem HV as hell). They talk about how humans have certain desires when it comes to sex/relationships and the ways to understand and get around those, rather than use them as excuses to behave abhorrently. This interview with them actually addresses the pump 'n' dump desire (from 40:00). I found it really interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:33 AM
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Loads (see: most) men just think their opinion is highly important because of their massive ego and sense of entitlement. I constantly hear them voice their prEFerENces about makeup, hair, clothing, personality, blah blah, even when it has nothing to do with me. Bro why are you saying that? Why do I care? Why does anybody care? They fucking don't, shut up and get over yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:05 PM
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Seriously. My narc ex would quote self help garbage constantly. Sadistic, porn depraved, true narcissist, with a sexual interest in children. A true word never came out of his mouth. Never put his ✨knowledge✨into practice, just spouted quotes like an insane,delusional cult leader. As always, actions speak louder than words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:40 PM
10

"People would take you more seriously if you were less hysterical, you know" ~Some NV scrote every time I get passionate, not angry, about a topic he doesn't want to hear about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:51 PM
12

Yup. I have been in nothing but awful relationships with porn-adled, compulsive lying, sometimes transparently abusive scrotes, and my own father has told me I am mean for binning them. Fuck men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:50 PM
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Always being told to give men the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he didn't know! Maybe he didn't mean it! Maybe you misunderstood! Maybe you interpreted his words or actions wrong! Maybe he forgot! Maybe he was having a bad day! CoMmUnICaTE!!! ​ SPOLER: 9 times out of 10 he knew exactly what the fuck he was doing wrong, and did it intentionally. Over, and over, and over again. But nah, women are always told to put on their rose-tinted glasses, doubt their intuition, and keep giving their unreciproc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:26 AM
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Yup, insecure ugly scrotes always suddenly decide a woman looks better without makeup/should dress differently/get a completely awful haircut. She's not as attractive as their One True Love (porn) and basically only exists to validate them, cook dinner, and wash their underwear, so why on earth would she need or want to make an effort to look presentable to the outside world?!? 🙄 This is why you should not give unattractive guys a chance. Several years ago I used to practice makeup looks in my r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:55 PM
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They better get negged and cheated on for going through said changes and not being immediately available to masturbate into, too. You expect us to pay 50/50 for that privilege?? I don't think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:38 AM
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She is a resource to him. He is annoyed when she spends money because he sees it and her as HIS. The children, too, he feels entitled to but evidently doesn't care to look after. He doesn't care about her personality, interests, or even appearance at this stage. Honestly, I'd bet an arm he spends most of his stay at home "parenting" time ignoring his babies to watch premium porn content that SHE'S paying for. Literally what even is the point of this man. OP is it possible to message her a link t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:21 AM
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Same! NVX told me constantly all his friends and his brother thought I was crazy (literally met them briefly once), that my father thought I was stupid, manipulated my mother and brother to always take his side over mine. He'd have conversations with my mother about my private traumas and together they decided to convince me I was mentally ill and needed therapy. Knew this guy only 9 fuckin months and ironically I did come out of that relationship with some sort of PTSD 😂 It's strange that it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:52 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. That's an awful thing to have experienced and that guy was a revolting shit. I erroneously told 4 different guys about my stranger rape and every single one asked me if I enjoyed it. They're sick in the head, see sexual assault as no different from any other kind of "sex" and imagine porn scenes when you tell them. Sharing trauma with men just creates more trauma from their selfish, sociopathic responses. They have no compassion or interest in your humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:34 AM
9

Anal is in practically every single porn scene and all men expect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:50 PM
2

I'd say definitely porn sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:48 PM
10

Had this for a while with a guy who was stoned 24/7. He'd talk at me in tedious monologues and wouldn't remember a word I'd said previously. And act like it wasn't his fault that he couldn't remember shit, no big deal! Conversation was impossible. Like why am I here when you're operating on another dimension and it's impossible to build a connection, dude. Of course he thought we were "crazy compatible" too. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:27 PM
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I gave up talking to men about the sex trade. 10/10 times "yeah but what about...." means "yeah but... my dick is the most important thing here. Let me maintain my ignorance so I can continue to believe I'm a Nice Guy, or I'll get angry with you.". A man shot 6 women in a massage parlour earlier this year, and the media spun it as "Asian hate" rather than the danger of the sex trade. Tbh if you could give a man concrete stats that 100% of the women in the sex trade had been abused, he'd still ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:46 PM
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I love this comment. You are spot on. Notice there are plenty of ex prostitutes and porn performers speaking about their awful experience with their "sex positive" industry but, no no! Don't listen to those women! The true experts here are the women who rely on jerking off pornsick randos to pay their student bills!! Do they appear to be traumatised and operating with a high level of cognitive dissonance to you?? Nope, that's just empowerment you're seeing, you prude!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:16 PM
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due to the inability to have health boundaries and wanting validation and to be accepted/loved. This is such a major part!! I grew up with a sociopathic sex-buying father and a man-worshipping raging pickme of a mum, so I was desperate for some kind of validation and acceptance. (Didn't even accept my childhood was traumatic until recently, as that dynamic is considered the norm). In my early 20s I may as well have had a "Insecure! Depressed!! Mental illness! Drunk!!!" neon sign pointed at my he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:37 PM
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Thank you, sister 💜💚 It's maddening to see this insidious "sex positive" culture propagated everywhere, knowing the harm that inevitably comes from it. We're expected to dissociate from our bodies and emotions to gratify men, but that's just not possible forever. I'm glad more women are speaking up against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:35 PM
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I now realize I once used casual sex as a form of self harm (had to get disgustingly drunk to do it, though) and several years later I still get random highly traumatic flashbacks from those "empowering, hot, fun" times I let men act out porn fantasies on my body. At the time I genuinely thought I was being fun cool girl and it was no big deal. Biggest scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:09 PM
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Animals aren't going to cheat on you, demand anal, or constantly gaslight you about their porn addiction. True unconditional love. I believe most men can't understand a woman's love of her pets, because they are devoid of empathy and only have love for their own peen feelz. That or they feel jealous or threatened that having a pet (in my case, a rodent gang) is genuinely preferable to having a man around. Because ultimately having a man is like having all the responsibility of an aggressive, unn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:57 PM
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Most of the Kardashian clam have spent millions of dollars sculpting themselves into the "perfect" sex symbol and attract the shittiest, pornsick men who STILL continuously cheat in them. Beauty standards are a scam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:10 PM
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Yes!! They're weaponizing the bumbling male trope and trying to make you crazy. Ex narcissist in my life would constantly do this, and I wasted so much time trying to get him to uNDeRsTAnd blatantly obvious things and eMpAthIsE with me when he literally just didn't fucking care. Carrot on a stick comes to mind. Also, I swear to god 95% of the guys who've ever expressed an interest me with have told me they are deaf or have some kind of impartment in one ear. It's happened so often it's ridiculou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:28 PM
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How dare you ruin his ideal experience of having sex with your body!!!! Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:14 PM
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Eugh, the disgust at women with an ounce of "extra" meat is so common. I remember when Jennifer Lawrence was slated for being too chunky for Catniss Everdeen and that blue one from X-Men. Heaven forbidden a strong female character should actually look healthy, muscular and powerful. Must be unpleasant for them when a fictional woman looks like she is both way out their league and looks like she could beat them in a fight 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:20 PM
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Men just eat a shit ton more. I briefly dated a guy who wanted to take it in turns to pay for groceries - he'd eat 95% of the shop in 4 days (constantly stoned "i NeEd PrOtEiN" wannabe gymbro), whereas a basic grocery shop would last me 2-3 weeks easy. Of course he always wanted fancy desserts and treats that he wouldn't even offer to share with me, too!!!! They'll never consider NOT buying the most expensive choice if it's not their wallet, absolute leeches. Such a scam, can't believe I spent m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:50 PM
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And/or he SULKS. I had a kind of flashback and pushed an ex off me when he was trying to initiate sex - I was clearly distressed, and he didn't ask what was wrong, comfort me, or even talk to me in any way, just rolled over, ignored me, and went to sleep. Still kicking myself for not walking out for good at that point, euh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:04 AM
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I just can't watch popular TV anymore. If it's not this shit it's the libfem normalisation of kink and prostitution and endless, endless porn "jokes". Everything's ruined post my awakening. And its not just TV and movies, I see this in the art world too. Take a look at Artstation and the front page will be full of softcore porn paintings of girls with a vague fantasy skin tone, or posing proactively dripping in blood. When I was studying concept and character art I heard constantly that realism …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:30 AM
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Yeahhhh. Last LVM I briefly gave a chance to had all his exes on Facebook. (Didn't tell me, but I superslouth.) Gave me a bad feeling, because I've always thought: why would you??? When I am done with a boyfriend I have always been DONE; friendship is either impossible or unwanted and there is no point in trying later to rekindle something that you know is doomed to fail. Plus, it's unhealthy, makes it harder to move on, and is kinda disrespectful to any potential new partner. My hunch was that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:10 PM
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Fucking disgusting. My insanely porn addicted ex (narcissist + pedo) was all over Barstool sports etc and their various Instagram accounts always gave me a bad vibe. This guy told me that getting raped by a stranger (which I one day stupidly got brave enough to tell I had) was "no big deal", that it counts as sex and I had to add one to my body count. The fanboys will probably read this article and look up videos of the abuse. Young, naive girls screaming in pain and they see no problem - in fac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:36 PM
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Suss. No man stops watching porn because some woman asked him to. None. Ever. Ask him for solid reasons why exactly he is motivated to stop consuming it and if he has no reason other than his ex didn't like it, he's full of it. Porn addicts can't just stop like that. To my cynical mind it sounds like this man knows from experience that women hate porn but is trying to avoid "drama" by pretending he doesn't watch it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:24 AM
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Please do - I'm only sharing myself. The scrote rage is delicious 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:18 AM
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​ I don't think there's anything feminist about any part of the sex industry. Commercial porn is, and always will be, filmed prostitution. Reducing a woman to a fuckable object - as porn inherently promotes even in "nice" scenarios - is not good for women. Any and all women. ​ As for amateur porn - are you sure? Did she consent to be filmed? Was she manipulated into it? Did she consent for the film to be uploaded? Is it revenge porn? Did she grow up and regret it? ​ Are you sure you're not watch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:14 AM
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Ignorance, addiction, denial, male sexual entitlement, and hundreds of billions of dollars of backing :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 11:05 PM
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Girl, I hear you. I get depressed and triggered about this topic frequently. I had a hideous experience with a boyfriend who was a disgusting, abusive porn addict and have had to put up with my misogynistic father's loud porn use, sex trips, and obvious hatred of me due to my sex. Of course followed by being told to shut up about my objections and being gaslit by society into believing we women are the crazy ones with irrational "jealous and insecure" feelings. Men who don't watch porn do exist,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:50 PM
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I'm guessing that's a distinction between staring creepily (like Avery says, porn addicts absolutely have a creepy dead-behind-the-eyes leer), and interacting with eye contact like you would in a mutually respectful communication, when you're actually listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:10 PM
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Same!! Compliments from random women are the loveliest thing. They always seem genuine and make me feel good. Male compliments are 999/1000 times trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:58 PM
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In my experience, the socially awks are some of the worst of the pornsick. They think they're the nice because they're not out physically cheating or using women, but realistically that's simply because they can't, and they're bitter about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:56 PM
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That's fascinating. So porn is man's one and only true love! What a fairytale. I wish them health and happiness and lots of little manlets to carry on his wonderful legacy 🥰 oh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:09 PM
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Hahaha they're so full of it. I reckon one narcissist guy made up the bIOLoGY theory of polygamy once and its been passed from scrote to scrote without question as we all know they love any excuse to behave disgustingly and take zero accountability. We pairbond and literally exist to create valuable, high maintenance offspring so it always made sense to me that we are meant to be in monogamous relationships for at least 7 years (long enough for a child to be relatively self-sufficient in an emer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:57 PM
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What if we answer by telling him the many ways we are wonderful and would greatly improve his life and then block 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:37 AM
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They also generalize men when it works in their favour. "All men watch porn", "all men cheat", "I know what men are like/how men think" when they don't want their girlfriend getting drunk at a party of their daughter walking to the bus. Which is it, bro? Only zvm men feel offended by generalisations of male depravity, because they're part of the problem and they know it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:32 PM
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Lol an ex loved telling him he needed "me time" when I complained we literally never spoke - his "me time" involved playing video games until 6am (disturbing my sleep), sleeping through til 6pm, then immediately putting on his headset to do more raids with his bros. Every day. At one point my work rota changed so we could literally never see each other and he was totally unbothered and wanted to continue the relationship. We'd barely been together 2 months and certainly weren't in love. Utterly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:59 PM
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someone there for them to bitch to and offer emotional support when they need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:35 PM
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Looks like a way to make safer, untraceable payments. It generates card numbers that can only be used once. Seedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:11 PM
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DUH! It's natural, you know!! Men need sophisticated sex technology because blah blah cavemen! Men are just naturally polygamous! Now commit exclusively to me and do my laundry while I jerk off to toilet spycams, insecure bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:45 PM
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I did :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:26 PM
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I heard recently that there is lots of funding going around for men producing porn themed video games. Their two favourite soul sucking "hobbies" combined. With VR the experience of running around raping and murdering prostitutes will be ultra realistic and immersive!!! Great!!!!Times like these I'm genuinely glad I'll be dead one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:18 PM
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abolitionists argue that the patriarchy harms men as much as it does women. I agree to an extent and in some contexts.This would be a context in which I agree with her I also agree in some contexts but when it comes to porn I am DONE being understanding. They know what they're doing. I have had the excuse of mY aDdICTiON used against me SO many times with men unwillingly to take any responsibility for their behaviour. I've found out everything there is to know about porn, I've watched every vide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:48 AM
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Sidebar, through VR men are trying to make the porn experience of sadistic sex (rape) with thousands of random women as realistic as possible!!!! Who's excited for when this shit becomes mainstream and we're all gaslit into oblivion about how great it is?!! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:06 AM
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VR files are massive, but I'm sure he's dedicating hours and hours of his day to it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:02 AM
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he said he didn't openly lie about that: he knew I could have asked him directly by seeing the notification. he said the things were not so well-hid anyway, so he said I should have noticed them myself. This is itself is classic LVM man behaviour. An exscrote agreed to not watch porn and be transparent about any slip-ups without me asking. I noticed signs but gave him the benefit of the doubt for a while. When I finally confronted him he told me it was my fault for not asking sooner, and he'd ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:28 PM
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With no other options, "a concerned Redditor" reported me as at risk of harming myself over this 🤡 hope it made him feel better 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:54 PM
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Their taste in media is a huge tell. I went round some guys house a couple of years ago and he put on this animated cyperpunk Netflix (I think) show - the graphics were a lot like computer games. At one point the female character got full naked, and the camera followed her walking around the house up to the bedroom where there was a literal pov porn scene. Absolutely gross. Sadly I'm sure that's where all media is headed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:17 PM
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Right or wrong, that's absolutely hilarious 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:05 PM
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Well done!! I also like to mentally christen ex-scrotes with new names that remind me why we are NC (eg. BDSM bro, rape apologist, simply C***...) It really helps remove most of the temptation to get in touch even during weak moments. You got this!!! 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:53 PM
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You don't want kids??? Nah can't be true, you MUST want to play surrogate mother to both him and the random children he wanted but can't be bothered with. BiOlOgY 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:36 PM
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You're questioning some obviously suspicious circumstances and pointing out the contradictions in his story??? You're so CrAZy you're RuiNiNG EveRYthInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:31 PM
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On reflection, I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:09 PM
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Such a tease. He totally wanted it. He's just embarrassed and regrets letting me violate his house and possessions. His fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:06 PM
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I reread it and the parts about "you hating your own body" and "your partner doing all the work" deeeefinitely read like it's from a man's perspective. There are actually scientific studies that show it destroys empathy! After watching porn men showed less empathy, were less sympathetic/indifferent about SA, were more handsy with women, and took them less seriously. Its ruined society for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:43 PM
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Pick mes: 📣 CONSENT!!📣👏 but also 😡HOW DARE YOU HAVE BOUNDARIES!!😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:37 PM
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"Cheating has to involve another person" okay, so, err, the people involved in porn are not people...?? "Cheating is an emotional or sexual thing" okay, so, err, having what is essentially virtual sex with another woman is not a sexual thing...? Pickme is angry cos she knows she's talking rubbish and doesn't want to face facts that her Nigel is a disrespectful, cheating, gaslighting scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:33 PM
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My dad constantly makes snide little comments about how mean I am for "binning" my exes - the last one who he is especially in love with was an abusive, psychopathic, sadistic, porn addict, probable paedophile. Watched clearly underage stepdaughter porn galore, interspersed with brutal anal rapes of women who looked like me. Tried to make me crazy by pretending we hadn't gone to places we had, deleting comments then saying he'd never written them, etc. Pure hatred. He got my brother to gang up a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:58 PM
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100% they only want to "stay friends" as an ego trip, as a back-up option, or to look somehow successful at 'collecting' women. My ex tried this even though I'd dumped him for being a selfish, lying porn addict who made no effort and took 14+ hours to message back every time (while being visibly online). Like why should we be friends? I don't like you enough to date, I don't like you as a friend; I don't like you. You only care about porn and weed and yourself. You were a shit boyfriend and you'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:58 AM
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I mean, what else has he got going for him? Of course he's a /disgustingly unnecessary/ level of rich and spends all his money trying to fuck up other planets and make transhumanism happen. Doesn't even buy decent houses to live in. Moulds young women to his taste, impregnates them then moves on to the next. God complex. Mad scrote energy. But at least her kid will be financially sound for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:10 AM
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Oh yeah! That's... Creepy 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:54 AM
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😭😭 Nooooo 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:53 AM
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First up, congrats for building a successful business from scratch and managing to distance yourself from toxic family. Those are both huge achievements and you should be proud of yourself. I last tried dating @27, and definitely found a shift in men's expectations from my younger years. Other than the standard guys looking for a free prostitute, there were many guys wanting to commit, but I got the impression that ALL of these guys were pathetic, desperate losers, looking for a womb, ANY womb, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:29 PM
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Every time I see him I wonder how on earth she managed to have sex with him. He looks like a melted wax figure with a patchy carpet fluff beard. Yeah he's rich as hell but he's SO slimy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:43 PM
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Are you subconsciously realizing that the risk of said man turning out to be a parasitical, porn-depraved life force that saps all your joy and slowly destroys your mental health is so high that it's simply not worth it??? Honestly, embrace it. You don't need to go on dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:20 PM
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Yup, I've heard "I can get whoever I want, I've got girls queuing round the block trying to fuck me!! " He was a broke, seriously unwell methhead living in his mum's garage... 🤦🏻‍♀️ OP this guy sounds disgusting, please block him on EVERYTHING and then block all his friends and family for good measure. Replying gives them energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:29 PM
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🤮 Sorry that happened to you, good riddance to that scrote. Had a similar situation with an ex who would wince and be a lil bitch about my stubble cos apparently his dick was sooooo sensitive and it irritated him, the poor poor soul. My hair is thick and grows at the speed of light, waxing lasts 1.5 weeks MAX and takes a longer length of time to reach waxing length. And even when I WAS newly perfectly bare he was too engrossed in video games/ODd from porn that he wasn't interested. Literally wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:21 PM
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I was wondering why on earth she was with him as he gives me mad lowlife scrote vibes and she is obviously gorgeous... Makes more sense if they are bonding through gear and enabling each other's self destructive lifestyles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:38 AM
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My ex's face when I told him I masturbate all the damn time and literally never watch porn (after discovering he was lying about watching it) was an absolute picture. Killed off all his regurgitated xy pro-porn excuses and left him spluttering. Think it splintered his ego too which is a bonus 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:26 AM
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"It's NaTuRaL" "No, watching digital images of thousands of women, on the Internet, who have been filmed with cameras, having their bodies contorted and violated in depraved unnatural ways, is not natural." ........ 🧠 "but NuDe StAtUeS and CaVE dRaWinGs tho" Every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:16 AM
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Well said. I've dated men who connnstantly felt the need to tell me "I like x" "I don't like y" "I prefer xyz", without prompt, throughout the day. Cool bro, well I don't, so why are you telling me. They also try and force you to join in their tedious hobbies and change your entire personality in the process. I had one guy complain constantly about my pets - in the end I told him I'd rather have my pets than a boyfriend, and he shut the hell up. Wish I'd replied this way to all of their "suggest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:09 PM
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I had to learn the hard way that setting your status as single does not in fact signal that you are not ashamed of being alone, but does in fact attract all dusty strange men "you may know" to you like a moth to a flame 🤡 Sidebar, why do men think the whole Internet is a hook up app?? I'm on a few language exchange apps (to practice languages 🙄), and the amount of messages I have to sift through with a 😍😘🥰🌹, asking me to meet up (?) or to exchange photos is EXHAUSTING. I've blocked all the langu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:54 PM
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Most of them are too stupid to understand complex sciences of that sort Most of them are plagued by permanent brain fog and memory loss (self inflicted through porn, obviously), the fact they all consider themselves to have a Einstein level of intellect is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:36 PM
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I think they mean that they can't understand how a person can be truthful, kind, loyal, and not solely motivated by getting laid, and project that as our complexity rather than their inferiority?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:32 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 🤮 That is all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:24 PM
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Dark humour is to humour what snuff films are to entertainment. What a sick guy. Well done for handling the situation so well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:01 PM
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Experienced this. Our friends and family constantly told him he was punching and I would comfort him every time. Anyway he cheated on me with a very overweight girl who was considerably worse looking (no shade to her, just facts.) Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:21 AM
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Lots of social media accounts are registered to phone numbers, you can import contacts and check. I can usually track down someone's full name and socials quite quickly just by googling their name and a bit of info about them (college name, possible workplace, etc.) I'll search their full name on multiple search engines, and if I find some account that uses a username or email, I'll search that too. On Facebook I'll check out any linked accounts that are probably relatives or regularly interact …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:32 PM
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while they rebutted that stats aren’t accurate and women lie Ahhh, yes, my father has told me that the 97% male prison population exists ONLY because judges let women off if they have children. All rape allegations are false but all reports of false rape allegations - obviously true. Scrotetastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:10 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed a pattern with these types. They give me sociopathic cult leader vibes. The ones who chat the most bs self-help mantras are the most manipulative, and implement the ideas the least. (ex: my ex would quote self help books to everyone constantly, yet he was an abusive, sadistic, porn addicted paedophile. He turned everyone against me, and they still believe he is wonderful. At one time in our relationship, he started crying and talking about a vision in which someone dead I'd lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:22 PM
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They really don't give a shit, its one of the most misogyny filled professions around. The cop footage of Gabby screamed that she was in an abusive relationship that was taking a serious toll on her mental health, and FAR too many were giving his smug manipulative ass the benefit of the doubt and calling HER abusive for daring to react emotionally to his abuse. Different country, but at 21, very naive and inexperienced, I got into an abusive relationship with a 28 year old addict who would drink…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:33 AM
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I really struggled when I first come to the realisation, too. It felt like grief for the loss of a relationship Id always desired and thought I'd eventually have. Anyway, it's porn. Porn trains men to fantasise excessively and view all women as wank fodder. I've been in one relationship with a man who had been raised to think porn was vile and disrespectful and the difference in behaviour was PHENOMENAL compared to the men who were porn maniacs (literally all the others). It's biology to find ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:59 PM
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Wow, flashbacks. My mother and father would constantly barge into my room with knocking or asking, despite me repeatedly asking for privacy. They gave my younger brother a lock on his door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:34 PM
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There's definitely something to be said about lvm who sculpt their personalities to look soft or compassionate - buddhism, yoga, self-help, veganism, sjw, feminist etc; all. They always make me feel suss and are generally unnecessarily vocal about these aspects of their "personality", but constantly contradict their own supposed beliefs through their actions. He's proof of this of the worst kind. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:33 PM
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Yes!!!! Such a good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:07 PM
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They are the most insecure creatures on the planet. I had a guy sulk when I mentioned that I'd had a crush on an actor, 12+ years ago. They'll also immediately interpret any mention of a man and his personality or accomplishments as your sexual interest, even thought you have and expressed none. Meanwhile his enormous, growing porn collection (which includes photos of your Facebook friends), his interactions with Instagram "models", and his blatant double takes at teenage girls in public are all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:28 PM
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Spot on. I've consigned myself to the reality that having a relationship in which my commitment and respect for the other person will be reciprocated is a fantastical dream, and no longer have any interest in one. Men have been told their disrespect is BiOlOgiCaL and anyone who opposes that is InSeCurE since forever, and have no interest in questioning any bs reasoning that works entirely in their favour. Everyone's heard their horrible "it's fine to look at the menu, as long as you eat a home" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:19 PM
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Correct. They will shrug off all your insecurities and/or traumas as no big deal, but rest assured they are storing them all up to use against you at the earliest opportunity. I had a guy say the ooooonnly reason I had a problem with his repulsive porn obsession (once woke up to him wanking to it next to me in bed) was because I had been raped. The next guy told me my issue was oooonnly that the last guy had traumatized me so much. Don't tell men anything. They are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:31 PM
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Yes! Pure hypocrisy. These men are invariably very smug about their supposed superior intellect and latch onto "science" (excuses) why treating women like shit is the only option. They'll take gross incel advice from misogynist bros and role models (see: Joe Rogan) and will NEVER take accountability or engage faithfully in any disagreement. Notice pair-bonding for the purpose of rearing is a child is also biology, as is getting jealous about potential threats to your relationship. But nah, we do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:42 PM
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"it's biology"/"but cavemen" retorts are instant deal breakers for me now. Oh, cavemen prove that your porn addiction is natural, do they, bro? Do tell me more about your PhD in evolutionary biology and neanderthal history 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:01 AM
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I was freshening up my resume and this scrote looked over and pastronisly exclaimed "that's a lot of [high grades]!" about some irrelevant high school results from 10+ years earlier. I said "huh? You got similar." He said "yeah but I'M really fucking smart, I didn't realise YOU were that smart!" in bewilderment. I'd met this dude on the same university course, which I'd got a scholarship for he hadn't, and a better degree result (he knew that). It hit me then that he was an incredibly arrogant d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:38 AM
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Porn literally sorts women into categories based on body parts and physical traits to make it easy as possible for men to wank to their prEfErENcEs. Fucking degenerate hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:09 PM
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I think they hate that they're addicted and project that hatred onto all women, because their egos are so fragile they can't accept responsibility of the fact that a) their precious porn is not good, b) they're a shit, loser of a person and c) they're pathetically controlled by the stuff. Hence why they get vindicative and spit with rage if you even mildly criticize 🙃 my scrote was also a total and utter psychopath 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:01 PM
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All women are porn categories 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:58 AM
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My extremely porn addicted ex (99.9% sure it progressed to pedophilia) straight up said he HATED women in porn and had zero respect for them. That was his justification for jerking off to their violent degradation all day every day 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:55 AM
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OH but a guy I (briefly) dated said shooting pixels on Call of Duty is tooootallly a valuable skill and, anyway, men are bIoLoGiCaLLy wIReD to play video games because of CaVEMen and ComPeTitIoN 😆 I cannot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:34 AM
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I'm sorry 😆 most men are addicted to every form of escapism that exists, I swear 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:19 AM
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Also, you can bet those guys saying they like "natural" woman are jerking off to porn featuring women with a full face of make up, fake hair, filler galore, and basketball boobs 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:06 AM
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Some more, from experience: -Does he throw a tantrum when he can't get the TV or wifi to connect to play his game, immediately? -Does he insinuate that women should /expect/ verbal abuse from gamers because, well, duh, they're women? -Does he encourage you to play a game and then mansplain the entire thing to you like you're five and couldn't possible decide for yourself which pointless direction to run in? -Does he play his game all night and ignore that he's obviously disturbing you and your a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:56 AM
2

Meanwhile: "I don't trust your owl friends! Owls are only after one thing!" "I don't like you going out and getting drunk with owls around! I know how owls think!" "Mice shouldn't wear/behave like that, you know how owls are! They 100% know it's all owls when they have to be in a dangerous environment with them (eg prison showers) or are concerned about their teenage mouse daughter. (Yeah, I know the analogy falls apart here, but still 😆)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:30 PM
2

Oh, yeah! Didn't he fake a sex tape of her as a "fuck you" power move? Yet we're still meant to believe that exposing ourselves to randos is empowering, not humiliating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:18 PM
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It's just another yet societal double standard that isn't questioned because it favours men. Parents are some of the worst for upholding it. At 27, I briefly had to move back in with my mother and she would ring me screeching if I popped out and hadn't told her every little detail of where I was going and when I'd be back. My brother is 8 years younger has been allowed to go awol for days at a time since the age of 14. She tells me that boys just mature slower every time I try to have a conversa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:10 PM
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Well you can't possibly tell boys that, because being inferior to a GIRL would bruise his poor little ego, and then he might shoot up a school. Which would be our fault, because we should have known the poor little boy can't be expected to cope with his own emotions :((( Plus, we all know the sex that is a total slave to their selfish sexual urges and can't even think straight it they haven't jerked off in a minute is most suited to leadership. Obviously. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:13 PM
15

Lived this with a pornsick ex. Suffered through a year trying to support him with his supposed addiction, while he lied through his teeth and verbally/emotional abused me. Found his secret porn Ipad and pornhub account with a watching history full of DDLG and stepdaughter, and obvious underage children in visible distress. (Oh, and the occasional brutal anal rape, with women who looked like me.) All of the little comments clicked into place; "now I've stopped watching porn when I see a woman I s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:56 PM
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Funny how girls mature faster but boys are allowed more freedom and responsibility, isn't it..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:30 PM
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I once found 2 recent payments to porn sites hidden in a scrote's bank transactions. I'd believed he'd been trying to "recover from his porn addiction" and had abstained for 2 months. Nope, he started watching it on his secret Ipad and consciously signed up for more subscriptions 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:46 PM
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I've never given a shit if someone snoops through my phone or pc because I know there is nothing terrible to be found there. Men are only so passionate about this issue because they KNOW their phones are fully of dodgy porn, "friends'' nudes, and messages to their exes. Hell, secret message features and calculator password apps have been invented to help men hide their gross behaviour. I ain't sharing my body with any man who thinks his inbox is sacred and untouchable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:22 PM
14

When I listed my first degree I was pursuing in grad school (science doc), almost no one wanted to talk to me on OLD. This is very telling of the calibre of men on OLD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:07 AM
12

Had a similar experience with a dude who proclaimed himself "super fucking smart" due to some GCSEs (high school grades), discovered I'd outperformed him intellectually ever since, then proceeded to neg me forever 🙃 aren't they a delight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:04 AM
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Right! This scrote told me that people would take me more seriously if I calmed down and wasn't so aggressive every. single. time. I spoke about porn 🙄 wasn't aggressive, didn't raise my voice, just expressed genuine passion. It's a dirty, misogynistic silencing tactic. I saw the same scrote throw a damn tantrum because he couldn't work out how to turn on my TV to play his xbox. Imagine if men were up against a form of mainstream entertainment that glorified and encouraged their abuse, destroyed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:56 PM
40

I feel you! Heavily tattooed with facial piercings and a natural goth hair/skin complexion. When I was on Tinder I was forever getting superlikes from slimey kinkfriendly dudes who evidently thought I've got daddy issues and would loooove to let them use my body to play out their sick abuse fetishes. No thank you. Not to the mention the daily event of a random man feeling the need to let you know he likes your piercings/tattoos or you'd look prettier without your piercings/tattoos 🙄 And what, st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:14 PM
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I love Gail Dines. She spits solid, powerful arguments backed up by years of research and is endlessly refuted by predictable whataboutisms by disingenuous people who've clearly never looked at a statistic, and are plainly motivated by money or a desire to maintain their cognitive dissonance. It's infuriating. I showed an ex some of my "why porn is terrible" yt playlist in which she features and he dismissed her as an "angry feminist" and said he preferred the "scientific guys". Er she's a docto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:59 AM
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What would be the female equivalent of a "good/nice guy"? The thought of a woman telling someone they are a "nice person" is ridiculous and laughable (even though they more likely are *actually* nice). These men have usually deluded themselves into believing they're decent and special because they're not committing rape and murder. It's all performative and they're always gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:43 PM
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I find that they always presume that you wanting to be single = you want to fuck around! It's incomprehensible to them that no, I just do not want anything to do with men. Literally nothing. So annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:27 PM
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Do they think we'll doubt our memory of the whole situation if they reframe it in their favour?! Like ohhh I thought I gave you a chance to be nice and found you annoying, also I recall you saying "noooooo 😢!!" and shedding a few croc tears when I told you I was done?? But hey if you say I think you're great and the breakup was mutual it must be so, silly me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:03 PM
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Lol I finally dumped my last nvx due to porn use despite a serious open discussion about it early on in which he'd promised to be transparent if he ever had a "lapse". This was the final straw as tbh I was already sick of his permastoned, gaming, selfish, arrogant, prematurely balding, tedious, negging ass. One month later he crawls out of the woodwork to say: "I think we should meet up and give it another try? I think we would've worked if it wasn't for the stress of lockdown? I think you're am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:51 AM
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Also, it reminds me of the study that deeply misogynistic/sexist men are generally more attracted to large breasts. That makes sense! Misogyny and a heavy dose of pornsickness. One gross ex-military porn-adled ex very sincerely told me I needed/a boob job + cosmetic labiaplasty, told me he'd pay. I foolishly told a future ex the story - he acted appalled and then suggested I should've taken him up on the boob offer. When I shot him down and he pretended it was a joke (it wasn't) 🙄 Im a C/D cup b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:01 PM
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My terminally pornsick paedophile ex is doing this! Three years on even though he's blocked everywhere, I'm still getting emails, Facebook messages he's sent from family member Facebooks, phone calls... I recently blocked and ignored another of his threats so he sent a tirade of messages to my mother 🙃 Hes a giant narcissist, and porn addiction was his entire personality. We went out for one year!!!! Such confusing obsessive behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:20 PM
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Like 10 years ago I remember learning about the No More Page 3 campaign at school, and all the reasons having a topless model in the paper was sexist and degrading. And now we're here??? It's so bizarre
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:13 AM
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For real, they go berserk when you even criticize "men" as a collective class because they feel personally attacked. Meanwhile the world hates women, assaults on our bodies are considered entertainment, and we're meant to be okay with that 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:02 AM
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Oh I'm at a stage now where I'd consider even a suggestion aka "joke" about anal to be a dealbreaker. Makes me feel sad and crazy that this is the NORM, women are being groomed into putting up with it, girls are doing anal before normal sex and getting injuries etc. Nobody is talking about the damage in real life, its sickening 🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:28 PM
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This makes me want to scream and cry; it's not only unpleasant and degrading but SO dangerous and that's what most men want to do to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:12 PM
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I hate it the most when men tell me they're a "gentleman" 🤮 Even sounds creepy as hell, and it's always woke feminist dudes who watch porn, expect to split the bill, and ooze desperation. Eurgh. Don't ignore your instincts like I have, the Gentleman is just a NiceGuy who's aware of the NiceGuy™ bad rep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:59 PM
12

Dick overrides brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:25 PM
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Hang on was this to the thought of his dying mother? I thought masturbation=porn in the scrote brain which is why telling them not to use porn is the most outrageous thing they can imagine. Can they actually masturbate to thoughts now??? 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:20 PM
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*Men are so weak and controlled by porn that they have magnified their natural instincts tenfold and allowed sexual fantasies and urges to consume their whole life. They are unable to see any woman as anything other than a fuckable hunk of meat, a porn scene. They could chose to NOT use every female that crossed their path as masturbation fodder, but that would take effort, emotional intelligence, and a revelation women don't exist for your dick. Which woman is getting understanding for being ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:14 PM
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Just decided - I think it's about extremes, in my experience at least. Porn again. Ex1 told me he didn't care about boobs and I found out later he watched a shit ton of incest porn with undeveloped girls that looked as young as possible, no evidence but I'm 100% sure he watched cp too 🤮 he also told me I "needed" to get cosmetic surgery down there and a boob job. I once woke up to him next to me, jacking off to a pornstar with enormous fake boobs. Similar gross tells with ex 2. Mine are pure ave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:16 PM
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Eurgh! It's so objectifying, we're not individual body parts 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:07 PM
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I heard this on an Brett Weinstein podcast recently (he's an evo scientist if you don't know). It was essentially said that as humans we have the capacity for evil build into us but have it bashed out of us (rightfully) by socialisation. The power is still there to be unlocked -we've seen this on a big scale in riots, holocaust, mass rapes by militaries etc. If humans don't consciously protect ourselves by enforcing morals, reducing catalysts for violence and punishing animalistic behaviour, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:56 AM
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Yes yes yes to the "stretching" "stabbing"; any other violent porn title terminology - he literally hates women and sees them as fuck toys I've had "sorry, the primal urge to reproduce is just SO hard to resist" as an excuse for coming in 2 minutes, LOL. Same guy was bitter and would get PISSED that I have no interest in receiving his "world standard" oral (guess I'm weird here but I've never remotely enjoyed the sensation). In hindsight I think this tactic was so he had to put no effort into pi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:45 PM
11

I noped out of that show during the casual anal sex scene which I think was in the first 5 minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:23 PM
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Why are there so many stories about men being HORRIFIC during childbirth?? It must be the worst thing on earth to as a woman - already in AGONY after 9 months of inconvenience, and then any joy of the moment is tarnished by the very scrote who wanted you to sacrifice your body for his spawn. What disgusting behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:03 AM
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LOL yeah, in the last 15 years all misogynistic sexually frustrated men have had high-speed internet with instant access to 1,000,000 terabytes of porn and that's already improved society dramatically, right?? Libfems are so goddamn ignorant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:17 AM
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When I found out my ex lied about porn he said that the only problem was that my previous ex (abusive narcissist, pornsick pedo) had messed up my head and perception of men who use porn so badly. Said previous ex invalidated all my opinions on sexually boundaries because I've been raped. I'm not telling men anything traumatic ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:43 PM
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"I won't lie to you about it anymore" -> proceeds to lie to you Men like this will NEVER come fully clean to you anyway, they'll always be a little bit of truth they conveniently neglected to mention. ie "I said I didn't touch myself but maybe I did a little bit. I said I did it once but maybe it was a couple of times a week. Maybe 4. Maybe twice a day everyday and I was actually PAYING for premium on multiple sites and interacting with camgirls and hey I'm a total fucking pedo." (Actual experie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:06 PM
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Can't believe we're living in a world where the Daily Fail is the most likely one to publish articles about rape culture and effects of porn, ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:04 PM
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Yeah here I've heard it's because women get let off if they have children. A 92% difference. OK 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:33 PM
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Researched it and elsewhere (World Prison Brief) Kenya is recorded at 6.7% - not sure what's happened there. Highest in the world is Hong Kong 20.1%, Qatar 14.7% and Greenland 13.8%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:58 AM
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Yeah sure, the media definitely doesn't run hyper-focused smear campaigns against any woman who dares set a foot out of line! Never happens! Women definitely aren't painted as somewhat culpable of the crimes committed against them! Male rapists and murderers are never humanized! Heard of Carole Baskin, Jkr, that phony doc the BBC was recently pushing about the epidemic of false rape accusations? Nothing but fair, honest, neutral coverage. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:12 AM
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Could I get one, please?? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:10 PM
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Is it so much to ask that your dick shouldn't get harder at the thought of your own hand than my vagina? 🤔 💀 Is it too much to ask that you don't actively engage in simulated sex with other woman, and orgasm with them, in the sexually monogamous relationship we've both committed to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:46 PM
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Also if you have a boy with closeted NVM he'll teach him all his misogynistic pro-porn attitudes and your son will be a scrote no matter how hard you try. Imagine :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:27 PM
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I've seen a few men shed some crocodile tears when they were called out for their bs and knew it was game over. They are fully capable of crying as a manipulation tactic 🐊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:06 PM
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Sarcastic and distant is my default state, honestly 😆 emotional expression was discouraged by my father, and I've also got quite an autistic robot brain. They're pretty typically male personality traits tbh, so weird that it makes them so uncomfortable.../s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:10 PM
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AC was a mod of the lgbt sub and orchestrated the take down of all the "transphobic" actually feminist subs. I don't believe nothing weird is going on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:08 AM
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📣 L I A R S 📣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 04:15 AM
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Total envy. I've only ever had this happen from men who were arrogant about their own intellectual ability. One was quite smart but VASTLY overestimated himself (also lazy, weedzombie) and the other was a completely delusional narcissist. The first would belittle my achievements then neg another part of my life; the narc loooved to tell me not only how stupid I was but how stupid my parents, his friends, and his siblings I'd never met thought I was :D You are smart and successful and your achiev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 04:12 AM
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Ooooh scrotes have told me I'm "hard to read" and they "can't figure me out" since forever and I never had a clue what they meant or what exactly they were trying to work out! Thanks for translating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:38 AM
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My brother (who is not ugly at all but no Greek adonis either) says he'd love a girlfriend but he can't find one because he "only likes 10s". His biggest fear is getting catfished on Tinder. Lovely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:14 AM
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Hahahaha. Might have given one a chance once. Now I work in a tech and they're all basically the same 😆 P. S. Forgot to mention "worships Elon Musk"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:22 PM
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Their obsession with this is disgusting. They're quite happy to jerk off to women with a high body count and would probably fuck them if they could, too, fuckin hypocrites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:47 PM
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Yeah. I hate them. I do workouts on YouTube and there's always a "we just want an OnlyFans already" or "this was a great workout for my wrist" comment with 100s of likes. Fuck off. Gross. I recommended trying not to read them as much possible - as soon as you catch a whiff of misogyny disengage, scroll on. Don't allow them any space in your mind. Did read a good scrote comment the other day about FDS promoting male genocide, mind 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:18 PM
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!!! Yes !!! Very important message!!! Think they're hot shit because working in tech makes them sooooo much smarter than everyone else, asian fetish due to anime, follows cosplay soft porn accounts, probably on Reddit. Might be "depressed". Will mock people with a different taste in video games or music because his tastes are intellectual and that makes them and him superior. Might make good money due to being sooo superior, but will choose to rent filthy $300 student digs and spend the rest of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:53 PM
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Laziness. With a heavy dash of self-absorption. Throw in some disrespect. Not date related but my lvx of barely 3 months went onnn and onnn about how much he'd love us to go on holiday together. I had zero interest but eventually agreed to a destination . He seriously said "OK, you plan it all and just tell me what's happening and how much I owe. I'm so excited!!" The audacity 😂 that dude didn't know the meaning of the word "generosity"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:01 PM
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Exactly! So logical of them 😆 I'm guessing they use sm solely as a sleazy perv tool and/or assume we're equally as lazy and uninvested (or desperate). Nah we're over here using actual obvious logic to work out if you're a parasite but sure, you keep pretending that we're obsessed and creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:57 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 POF is a whole landfill site of trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:08 AM
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Some of them might believe they will give it up then realise "oh no! Despite marriage, I am still obviously addicted to this shit as I have been wanking to it for HOURS everyday since I was 8 years old. Nevermind, I will stay in denial and gaslight my wife into pretending it's normal instead of making any effort to keep my promises to her." Or maybe they know it's bs but use it to justify their behaviour to themselves, something like" I will eat this one kebab then go on a diet on Monday" or "I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:46 AM
12

Eww a guy I was (briefly) friends with once said he seemed to be drawn to 'girls' with a history of abuse/mental illness and at a later date casually mentioned his love for kinky goths on tiktok and love of BDSM. OK bro, those seem unrelated and not at all predatory and gross /s 🤢 Blocked him while he was trying to argue that it was not predatory and gross and totally mutually enjoyable so I dunno exactly, but a lot of his family had died and he claimed to have BPD...but if you were lacking love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:42 PM
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How many dudes on this post were outraged by her "invasion of privacy" 🤡🤡?? I fully endorse in-depth cyber research into any dude you are speaking to - even if you have literally just been talking to them for 5 minutes on Tinder. Why the hell wouldn't you?? You can find out they're pornsick, politically misaligned, still married, got divorced yesterday, has no life outside of anime, whatever, in about 5 minutes. Saves soooo much time. I've been on first dates where they've lied to me and I've kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:46 PM
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Most men actually realize that they don't have a compulsive need to masturbate every day when they quit porn. It is the brain on porn which creates this need to excessively masturbate It's wild that they don't realise that. Switch porn for alcohol, gambling, eating cheesecake - anything highly enjoyable tbh - and it's so obvious that indulging in every single impulse is just going to lead to excessive, compulsive use. You're never going to "get it out of your system" (as my ex tried to justify i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:18 PM
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A theory I have - I think it might feel like having their own personal harem of women. When men watch porn their brains pump out 5 different chemicals related to mating, plus watching porn fires mirror neurons - so essentially, to them to does actually feel like they are having sex with these women, and almost as good as reality (heard this from a man). By saving them, they have thousands of hot, available women at hand to serve them and only them, whenever they like. It's the next best thing to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:19 PM
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Let's be real, the truth in both these situations is that it is the majority of men. The majority of men watch porn and the majority of men are predators. Yep, I said it. One can't be without the other. They know this but manipulative the narrative in their favour. One frames the minority they want to be perceived to be apart of, one frames the majority to detract attention from how slimy and unacceptable their individual behaviour is. Anything to avoid any blame, introspection or growth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:30 PM
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"WhAt BuT iT's NoRmAl tHeY dO iT In PoRn" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:46 PM
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It's DARVO. Typical abuser strategy. My ex (LVM in a HV "I am empathetic and respect women and minorities blah blah" mask) pulled this shit aaaall the time and low and behold - he was entitled and gross and forever shrugging off the atrocious behaviour of vile men. Not to mention these notallmen losers will be the EXACT SAME SCROTES who cherry pick from evolutionary biology hypotheses to claim yesallmen are polygamous, watch porn, cheat, are horribly competitive, etc, in order to excuse and enab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:01 AM
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CORRECT men have mental health issues because the extend of their interactions with The Bros is dick jokes, not discussing feelings (because that would be gay). They disappear into porn, games, weed to mask it and think a girlfriend will magically solve the problem. SURPRISE it doesn't because they have the same lack of purpose and debilitating addictions, and ZERO motivation to change them. Solve your own fuckin problems, men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:16 PM
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This woman and her smug faux-positivity always pissed me off 😒 just shut up Devina
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:55 PM
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Thank you 👏 I'd like to add that I am mad because it is an attack on ALL women. If ONE man is criticised all men rise up and chant notallmen- they see it as an attack on the brokind and are hurt. However when I see MY sisters being used and abused, I'm not allowed to be mad! In fact it is now ALL men who must exploit the bodies of vulnerable women for orgasms, otherwise they will have no choice but to 'actually' rape! Shut up and accept that all the men in your life see your sisters as disposabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:01 PM
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Hahahaha what a blatant barefaced LIE. Projection strikes again. We all know they mad cos 1. They are can't post here to argue and we give them zero engagement, which bruises their egos We call out their weak, pathetic, porn habits which bruises their egos We educate other women about their manipulative tactics which makes them less effective power moves than they thought, which bruises their egos We are all women, and this is Reddit so they hate us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:27 PM
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Yeah I think she's FDS and like her in a lot of ways but found her defending porn and chanting "sex work is work" so often on her podcast I had to stop listening 🤦🏻‍♀️ this girl emailed in upset that her boyfriend had been messaging women on OnlyFans and she said the problem wasn't the OnlyFans it was the contact, and she should cOmMuNiCaTe that boundary because he might not know that wasn't okay 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:43 PM
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Other sites have - Wayne Couzens. His house isn't far from me..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:12 PM
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Sick. Took the deaths of two young women and used it for bro points. I can't even comprehend how sociopathic you'd need to be. The met are dirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:23 PM
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Saw a scrote spitting rage about this because "she didn't read all the names of women killed by women tho!!!!!1!!!!" Over 90% of all murders are committed by men. They're such manipulative gaslighting shits I just can't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:18 PM
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two police officers took selfies next to their bodies and shared it on whatsapp What in the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:05 PM
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#notallmen is trending alongside that news on Twitter 😡😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:27 PM
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Can confirm, went on a date with a scrote who said as much. He was very enthuastic about my position on not selling MY body, yet still watched "ethical porn" because "natural" and "harmless". Fuckin hypocrites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:41 PM
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They said to support them by not fuelling the demand and by donating to charities that provide desperate, vulnerable women the resources to quit sex work, right? Right???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:34 PM
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Seriously! I'm edging 30. Obviously I'm meant to be horrified about that but it just feels like a relief to be far too old for predatory pedo men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:30 PM
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Watched the R Kelly documentaries with NVX/LVX - he spent the whole 2 hours gasping and saying how abhorrent it was then said "well, at least he didn't rape anyone!" ?????? He targeted and coerced teenage girls into sex????? That's IS rape and why do you need to defend him at all?? He was pornsick, absolutely repulsed any sign of body hair and was into the scene kid look (cringe). After we broke up he added loads of girls who looked far too young for his 29yo balding NiceGuy self on Facebook. Fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:08 AM
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I have and will NEVER pretend to be having a good time when I am not. He is going to enjoy it anyway, why should I. At 27 an ex tried to mansplain to me how to have an orgasm (apparently I just need to tense at the right time?) Soooo many of his exes had told him he was the best they'd ever had. Errrr ok bro, I have actually had many orgasms before, you're just literally terrible and that's not my fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:37 PM
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This is so true. Their interests don't seem to evolve past that age either (video games, anime, excessive amounts of porn). It's so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:23 PM
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Excellent meme 🤣 I keep seeing adverts trying to normalise erectile dysfunction, meanwhile discussions about porn are silenced. It's just ridiculous that I'm expected to believe that excessive porn use is harmless and has nothing to do with a 25yo not being able to get it up. It's gaslighting on an industry scale, and I'm just not gonna accept that it's normal for an entire generation to be popping viagra because a real, unpixellated women cannot turn them on enough. That's karma for wasting yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:18 PM
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At this point I will not date a guy unless he is openly outspoken about how disgusting, predatory and contradictory to all principals of a monogamous relationship the sex industry is. If I found out he'd been to a strip club I'd dump him on the spot, idgaf if it's the day of my wedding. They probably are "visual" though - by which I mean they've burned so much porn into their retinas they are incapable of looking at a women without seeing her as a collection of fuckable parts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:27 PM
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He's right, this is an absolute epidemic that desperately needs a conversation. Guess who owns ALL the porn sites and is responsible for silencing the conversation, grooming young girls into thinking selling their body is empowering, and trafficking and raping women????? Not women (sorry, "adult girls" 🤢 ). Unbelievable. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:16 PM
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Whenever a bf feels the need to tell me he doesn't like something that brings me great joy I just bluntly and truthfully say "I'd rather have __ than a boyfriend." Wtf should I care, dude. And no, I don't want to replace all of my interests with your unbelievably tedious and generic ones, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:04 AM
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Meanwhile they are all EXACTLY THE SAME 15 year old boy, both in interests and emotional maturity, trapped in a prematurely balding grownscrote body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:53 PM
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somehow it's reasonable to dodge a sealed retail case of 2019 plastic whatevers 50 times a day. I emotionally check out every time I see or hear mentioned a Pop figure...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:50 PM
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Here's the masterpost I took it from if you fancy reading looooads of studies and statistics on how porn is all-round terrible! And thanks - I can't believe the ludicrous behaviour I used to put up with from men haha. Lessons learned :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:54 PM
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Yes! They become less satisfied and less attracted to their partners. ​ In 1982 and 1984, Dr. Dolf Zillmann and Dr. Jennings Bryant conducted an experiment with 80 male and 80 female college-age participants.101 These were divided into three subgroups, and each group was shown 4 hours and 48 minutes of media over a six-week period: (1) the “Massive Exposure Group” was shown 36 non-violent pornographic film clips; (2) the “Intermediate Exposure Group” was exposed to 18 pornographic film clips and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:40 PM
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I hate that it's called 'radical' feminism tbh, given the modern understanding of the word. Radical comes from the Latin word for root, and it's about going back to original feminist principles and looking at the root cause of women's oppression. I think the extremist connotations prevent a lot of libfems from considering what we're saying...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:54 PM
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Gold award 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:26 PM
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How are they this stupid??? 2nd response respects that older men taking advance of an 18 year old in a physical relationship sense is predatory but doesn't see how older man purchasing sex services online from an 18yo is predatory in any way??? Edit: also, policing HER sexuality?? It has nothing to do with her sexual pleasure, it's a performative act to give some creepy slimeball a boner. These women are so ignorant wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:23 AM
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Doesn't read like a nightmare though. It wasn't a horrific, terrifying affair that made him wake up in a cold sweat. He abused his daughter in his dream, continued dreaming like it was no big deal, then woke up some time later. He also says these are a regular occurrence. His subconscious has replaced the women he used to dream about sexually with his daughter, and that is NOT normal or healthy. If it is normal then I have no hope left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:09 AM
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He is lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:31 AM
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Nope, it's a cropped screenshot of a Reddit post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:03 AM
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The pornfree sub. I screenshot it a good while ago but thought it was worth a share. I can't find the original post so I guess it's been deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:07 PM
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And what what he really means is "I used her like I use the women in porn"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:35 PM
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Married men still need a sexual variety, it is normal and natural /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:28 PM
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Right?! Can't be a lack of strength and self-control. Also always BAFFLES me when men are vegan because of animal exploitation but consume porn????? I read that quote in Gail Dines book I think. She also talks about whole language of porn, how the titles and comments are mostly angry and revengeful. It all melts down to a hatred of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:16 PM
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Eww this reminds me of a guy I went on one date with who was a hippy pro-love type, had got sober from alcohol and drugs and was a vegan. I'd discussed radical feminism principles with him and he later text me saying that the porn was the one thing he'd been unsuccessful in quitting and it was because he had a deep-rooted hatred of his mother and watching it was a way to take out his anger on her 🤢 wtaf. Please write that post it'd be really interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:22 PM
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To be fair this was posted in the pornfree sub. But yeah it reads like he doesn't hold himself responsible at all. Knowing pornsickos, chances are likely he will abstain for 4 days then invent a bullshit excuse to justify his absolute depravity to himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:10 PM
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And notice his "woo be me, I feel so bad 🎻" attitude when he's caused it all HIMSELF. Says he can't stop and there's been warning signs for ages but still takes zero accountability. Fuckin gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:52 PM
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I need this framed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:08 AM
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Deffo this. I believe most women are deeply uncomfortable with porn but are unable to vocalise quite WHY, and without any support (even Google will tell you you're insecure), suppress those feelings. We need them all to wake up. It's a media that subjugates an entire demographic of society, our demographic. Our fathers, brothers, teachers, partners, doctors are eagerly participating, and we have no right to feel instinctively disgusted by their use and abuse of our sisters ?? Fuck off. Men aren'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:27 PM
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Ah yes, translation - "you made me angry, it was YOUR fault." What book are they reading, they all come out with exactly the same shit hahah. Guaranteed if he admits to doing it ONCE he's hiding another 4848493 times, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:02 AM
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Seriously!! I've been thinking about this a lot recently. Compare food to porn - would anyone want to date a man with an unhealthy obsession with food (not an ED, just greed) to the point that he was fat, spotty, lethargic, constantly drooling at food wherever you go, unable to pay attention to you because food, couldn't enjoy a real lovingly prepared meal with you because he'd already ruined his appetite....? Doubt it, and it's likely everybody would recognise that as a hugely unattractive lack…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:47 AM
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Ahhh, the romantic movie/novel comparison, they're back with this crock of shit again. Well - Romantic movies are not an immersive, interactive experience that reinforce whatever you're viewing through the power of orgasm Nobody needs to lie about, hide, deny, sneak around, have a burner mobile phone and a secret 2TB hardrive to hide their use of romantic movies from their partner. No DARVO required on discovery. . The romantic movies you watch do not reflect your moral values, preferences in me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:05 AM
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Yes 👏 and actions speak louder than words. Show you're fucking serious by dumping him the first time, NO second chances. He'll lie about it through a whole relationship then try to crawl back asking for a pat on the back for finally abstaining for a month or doing some research 3 months after yoi tell him you're done with his shit. They will put in ZERO effort unless there are consequences and excusing it only validates their sick view that its no big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:30 AM
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I've dated 2 or 3 grown ass ADULT men who tried to go directly from anal to PIV sex and didn't understand why I stared at them with horror because "they do it in porn." They fucking sulked when I told them they had to go and wash their dick because it's INCREDIBLY DANGEROUS. And this is what naive, uneducated teenage girls are groomed to accept. Makes me seethe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:28 PM
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The biggest lie we are told is that men don't always want to do the things they watch in porn, it's just a fantasy This, 100%. They wouldn't be jerking off to something they had no interest in doing themselves. This obvious lie is always their main justification, it's gaslighting, and we need to make that common knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:15 PM
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Yeah, totally. It's also why their favourite porn fantasy is the rape and humiliation of teenagers, ofc. All about taking back/punishing that power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:49 AM
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Congratulations!l! 🎉🎊🥳🎊🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:40 AM
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Heard a quote from Douglas Murray yesterday along the lines of "There is no form of legal male power equivalent to the power that an attractive women in her late teens, early twenties has to a man two to three times her age." Both male interviewers were laughing nervously and then agreed. And I thought well, that's disgusting, but if it is so we may as recognise this gift of beauty we've been granted and be grateful for it. That in itself is a power move, as you say :) Eta: If at all relevant, D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:36 AM
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I concur, liberal men are the WORST
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:00 AM
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"impulsively" but I'm going to deeply contemplate it and ask strangers on the Internet for advice beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:51 PM
21

Yup, I call bullshit on most "sex addictions". If you buy into the whole thing and try to support them through it, they'll use their 'addiction' to avoid taking responsibility for their behaviour. Justify it. Meanwhile you slowly go mad. And no form of digital or physical cheating is a compulsive action, they are conscious decisions that often require preplanning. Men are just disrespectful ego maniacs and for some reason believe this is the one area of life where self-discipline is not required…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:37 AM
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lol Your husband is superior to you, because he is a man You are trapped in this marriage, whether you like it or not You must let him do whatever he wants, whenever he wants, and never be mad about it You must wait for him to GROW and MATURE into your relationship - don't expect him to put any true effort in Remind yourself that God says so See #1 and #5 He's probably a dreadful, abusive human being, but it's up to you to look past that Fuck him, suck him, indulge him in all of his sexual fanta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:39 PM
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Yup, it's all about their perceived entitlement to women's bodies. Also could they please decide whether it is ALL MEN or NOT ALL MEN?? Forever contradicting themselves as gaslighters do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:46 PM
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They'll out themselves either way. They have verbal diarrhoea and little-to-no memory of conversation (porn, conveniently, causes brain fog :) ) My ex literally used the present tense - "Bullshit where have you got your stats, there's violent shit but that's not the stuff I watch...er...er...USED to watch" 😂😂😂 If you're regularly vocal against porn and they ever get defensive or argue against fuckin facts, they're porn users. Plenty of other little tells. As letsberealforamoment says, the best t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:22 PM
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Hahahaha! My sheer RAGE at being socialised to have an inferiority complex when men are so beyond shit usually works a treat, but I'm going to give that a go next time 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:25 PM
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Great resolution! 👏 I am going to start holding myself with the confidence of a man. Every time I worry about how strangers perceive me, feel anxious when I'm walking down the street, don't feel I don't belong somewhere, doubt my abilities or feel inclined to downplay my looks/talent etc I am going to ask myself "Would a man think/act this way? NO. He likely wouldn't." and act according. I am going to start acting like I, too, DESERVE to take up space on this planet. I've already started but I'd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:13 PM
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Human woman = "biocunt" fucking WHAT Someone needs to make an enormous batch of these sex robots that "accidentally" malfunction and macerate their dicks. Exactly what "value"do THEY add to anything except loudly proclaiming how" MAN NEED SEX, MUH DICK" because they spend all day fuelling their obsession with porn and Instagram models and OnlyFans and Reddit and bro culture and unsolicited photos and fleshlights and sex robots and 1dimensional pro-prostitution arguments. FUCK. OFF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:21 PM
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Aw. Thank you. Love this sub 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:56 PM
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Oh nooooo reading this ruined my day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:49 PM
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🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:17 AM
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I can already see their bewildered expression 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:58 PM
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Urghh their rewriting of history never fails to enrage me!! After millions of years evolution we're blessed with an absolute powerhouse of a brain, and they use it all to justify being nasty little apes 🤦🏻‍♀️ and badly, cos actually no, theoretic caveman polygamy does not make it natural to jerk off to 400000 terabytes of digital rape on the daily. And yes, you can help your tedious Call of Duty obsession even though your 'ancestors' were hunters and competition-driven. P a t h e t i c. Honestly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:45 PM
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I call this the "but caveman" argument, and instantly lose all respect for any man that pulls it on me. It is the LVMs favourite mantra because they have heard it repeated by other LVM throughout their life, know it enables them to do whatever tf they want, and believe it is irrefutable because ScIeNcE. They think they are super fucking smart and look really smug while they are regurgitating it. Ask them to expand on their knowledge of Neanderthal history and don't have a clue. I'm not well vers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:48 PM
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So currently I really hate where I live (both location and roomies), so I'm putting my sole focus on levelling up my career prospects and finances so that when the world opens up again I am in a position to escape. I expressed this to a seemingly HV friend and his take was this - that the obvious answer as a women would be to latch onto a man. Making yourself dependent on a man is obviously the worst idea ever?? Sidebar he casually mentioned his interest in BDSM and 'damaged' women more than onc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:31 PM
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Me: "I am not dating." ​ Men: "Are you gay? No? I get it, you like women." "We're not all bad, you should give some of us a chance" "But you don't have a boyfriend????" takes personal offence "But we'd be so perfect together hahahah jk" "But you are beautiful so don't be alone forever" "MOST women in your position would be desperate for a relationship" "MOST women want relationships just as much as men" 🤡 "That's a shame because you have a nice body" 🤮 Men don't respect "no" in any context 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:43 PM
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WHY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:08 PM
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Ah yes the "well I didn't lie about it!!!" and "well you should have asked me sooner!!!!" well we had an agreement you were going to be transparent without me having to ask so huh???? 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:56 PM
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Hope you are doing better now girl 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:54 PM
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Porn is literally getting sexual gratification from other women. Orgasming with other women. I don't understand how that ISN'T cheating in the context of a monogamous relationship, with agreed sexual monogamy. Plus, where's the line exactly? If porn is okay is it okay if it features someone you know? Is it okay to ask for nudes? Interact with them? Sext friends? Use cam girls? Fuck a prostitute? (they don't see them a human, after all)? I developed an ED when in a relation with a porn addict, ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:00 PM
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I find the way their sexual preferences change according to trends BIZARRE. Obviously porn and the body extremes it pushes plays a role, plus porn seeping into fashion and beauty trends (the clothing ads that get recommended to me online are literally soft porn) but how can your preference be petite emo girls one minute and plastic barbie dolls the next??? Unfathomable to me. Most of them see women as a fashion accessory and make all their choices according to what will impress their bros so may…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:35 PM
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WHY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:15 PM
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Eurgh 'nerds'. My ex proclaimed himself to be "super fucking smart" because he got some good GCSE grades (exams you take at 16) 🙄 When he saw I'd consistently far outdone him academically he said he hadn't realised I was intelligent and negged me about what I'd done since. He would also mock my language learning hobby, which I'd do near him while he was busy shouting at his Xbox and otherwise mostly ignoring me. He had a massive superiority complex and was obsessed with caveman pseudoscience gar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:06 PM
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I'm cracking up at flip flop hot dog, thank you 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:40 AM
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Hahahaha sure bro, sure. I know it's petty but pissing off LVM like this is my motivation to better myself. Every time I'm feeling lazy I think about how pissed off they'll be with my success and workout or study twice as hard. Works a treat, I got abs this year 😁 Dude you are not a prize and we do not want you... Stay bitter 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:10 AM
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Exactly. I didn't realise quite HOW men view porn for a long time. They are very much involved and imagining themselves in the man's place. So it's not a fantasy at all, it's a desire they get one step closer to living out through this virtual aid + orgasm. They WOULD LOVE to anally destroy that barely legal teen who is clearly in distress, has braces and the face of a 13 year old. Maybe this is all obvious to most but as an ex (very naive) Cool Girl who watched porn occasionally, this was a wak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:08 PM
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It's strange that they like to keep the extent of their habit under wraps, when it is so nAtUrAl and All Men do it. 🙃 I'm so happy this sub is a place for people to talk openly about this stuff. Congrats on finding one of the rare ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:56 PM
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It was a light-hearted comment about how much I enjoy watching rape sheeesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:39 AM
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Oops, myth of the 'stupid male brain' debunked again :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:50 PM
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Yep. This is also a good reason not to tell men too early (if ever) about past traumas. They will spin it and use it against you to undermine your feelings or judgement about the current situation at the first opportunity. I swear they take notes and save it up for ammunition. It's disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:42 PM
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So true. My NVM porn addict ex told me once that he despised women in porn and had no respect for them. As if that justified his right to masturbate to them?? On the plus side (kinda), I think they also all know that it is a nasty and pathetic habit, and deep down, are embarrassed by it. That's why they're so hellbent on silencing anyone who speaks against it. If they had a good argument the aggression and predictable "crazy, jealous, insecure" gaslighting wouldn't be necessary 🙃 Even the most l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:11 PM
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Yes!! I was just thinking this the other day. They also threaten to leak nudes/sex tapes as blackmail. 'Revenge' porn is called so for a reason. They all KNOW that porn (even non-violent) is degrading and humiliating. Don't listen to their faux-ignorance. They know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:42 PM
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DSC (owned by Unilever) also ran an ad campaign on Pornhub. While I believe they cut ties last year, I refuse to support any company that has offered support of any kind to this industry. Edit - forgot to mention Unilever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:32 PM
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Where the heck do I buy this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:57 PM
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"Pornsick" should be somewhere lurking in the shadows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:41 AM
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So eMpOwErInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:30 AM
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