| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 524 | I take my own breath away 👑 | MOOD FOR LIFE | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 93 | Ladies, regret sucks. Big time. Read The Handbook and stick to it! | LESSON LEARNED | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 26 | Men know very quickly whether or not you’re the one | REMINDER 👑 | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Just got ditched by a pickme friend | LESSON LEARNED | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | 2021 mood | STAY WOKE | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Men know very quickly whether or not you’re the one | REMINDER 👑 | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Male entitlement explained | MOOD FOR LIFE | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Hippo 🥴 Found this on Instagram | THINGS SCROTES SAY | The_Moon_Piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:16 PM |
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| 92 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.Men are cowards and parasitical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 03:05 AM |
| 22 | After watching this doc I’m shocked that POS sexual predator Marilyn Manson hasn’t been arrested yet!This documentary affected me deeply. I was a huge Manson fan in the 90s, and he reminds me a little bit of my most abusive ex, physically and in the things he said to her. I 100% believe Evan Rachel Wood and I stand with her. Trent Reznor, who discovered Marilyn Manson, and other artists have all refuse to work with him because of how toxic he is. Last I ever saw him was when he was opening for Slipknot in Vegas in 2017 I think, or 2018, and I got free tickets. He couldn’t sing the songs, he was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:27 AM |
| 20 | What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them?Sending thirst traps is pick-me behavior and attracts/enables LVM. HVM don't follow models. Personally, I'd block and delete, and read the handbook cover to back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 02:17 AM |
| 42 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..JAR JAR SHITS!!! 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Midlife crisis is reconciling your youth and impending death…another one bites the dust 🙄I'm in marketing and I can NOT stand Gary Vee. He's a hack. All my low value Joe-Roganesque coworkers worship him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 112 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.I waited until marriage and sex was super traumatic for me. We fooled around before, but our first PIV experience together was on our wedding night. He had fooled around with his ex but had never had actual sex. I was pretty experienced, and I personally thought our first time was awkward but not bad. He got weird immediately afterwards and refused to have sex again. It developed into him acting very repulsed by sex for the rest of our marriage. We had a lot of issues, but this was one of the th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 02:55 AM |
| 40 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.I think I saw a post recently from a guy who sounded exactly like his side would. He was dating someone who wanted to wait to have sex until they were exclusive, but I think he didn’t like her body or something and just completely disconnected. I was gutted reading it, because like this one it sounded like the woman really did vet the guy. I’m with you, this is scary, but I do see some great comments here that are super insightful and I agree she shouldn’t have told him what her benchmark was. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 02:27 AM |
| 47 | The bar is in hell.“Creepto”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 16 | The bar is in hell.I’m so tired of these dumbass male gold diggers, I just default to assuming they’re struggling financially and imply they shouldn’t be dating if they can’t afford to be gentlemen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 33 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityWhy do men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:46 PM |
| 42 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEThey spend that much and more on gaming gear or other stuff for their hobbies, but symbolic jewelry that his wife is going to wear for the rest of her life is too much? Negative value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 128 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrotePickmes really out there going “my husband is a child predator, I don’t know what to do 👩🦯👩🦯👩🦯👩🦯” and just sit on it for TWO WEEKS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:39 AM |
| 187 | Basically just discovered a new fetish for myselfThese are the same men who claim women don’t have hobbies, while they spend most of their time being a spectator to other people having sex. Humans speak about what is in their mind the most, and that’s how limited men can be. The world is full of wonder, being alive is such a miracle, and yet they spend most of their time obsessed with sex. It not only makes them boring, but also pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 08:12 PM |
| 7 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?Yeah that was the one for me. This is such a red flag. Men who insinuate that you do stuff for them or get him stuff are not kidding. They do see you through the lens of what they can use you for, and they’ll sneak this into conversation to test how willing you are to provide or perform for them. He literally admitted to purposefully testing her boundaries, disgusting. Men know exactly what they’re doing, this is all deliberate to test but also to train women into pickmeishaness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 03:06 AM |
| 5 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?✋ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Genteeee, é um pavor né? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 8 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Same! Totally agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 29 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Omg I literally laughed out loud. Men are so absurd, it’s hilarious 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How to reconcile with the fact that my brother doesn't support the FDS strategies, although he is an HVM?He does not sound HV at all. My advice would be to read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 68 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.When I was dating my NVX and we were about to move in together, I found out he had a fantasy to try prostitutes. He denied he would ever do it, said it was just a fantasy. It gutted me, we were just talking about marriage, and he had told me countless times he knew I was “the one”. I wanted to believe he was never going to cheat, and that it was truly just a fantasy. I was a “cool girl”, so I pushed down my feelings and insecurities about what I had just discovered, and we kept going. Well, gues… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 26 | How do you find out a guy’s dick size without sleeping with them?It's all in the fingers. When fetuses are in utero, the amount of testosterone they're exposed to influences penis size and 2nd/4th finger ratio. Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3739592/ Also: https://healthland.time.com/2011/07/06/penis-size-it-may-be-written-in-the-length-of-his-fingers/ https://www.menshealth.com/health/a38123633/index-finger-penis-size-ratio-tiktok/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 03:37 AM |
| 7 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsI love this sub. Excellent post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:25 AM |
| 27 | Should I still go out with this man tomorrow?This reeks of LVM. “Shoot for” is a red flag by itself. Sounds non-committal and low effort. A HVM values your time and his own and would show decisiveness. He stated his available time and didn’t follow up with a question? I examine the reason why people to choose to say what they say as much as what they actually choose to say. A HVM wouldn’t just state his availability and expect you to fill the void. A man who’s into you is eager to take you out and would not leave things so.. unspoken. Okay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:33 AM |
| 6 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?Same!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 06:23 AM |
| 24 | Roe will likely be overturned.Numbers 5:11-31. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:18 AM |
| 36 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?He hit on me once in front of his kids and my NVX at the time, in the Calabasas Erewhon. He is trashy and definitely NV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:40 PM |
| 48 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?I’m embarrassed to say that’s my type. I hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:06 PM |
| 4 | He found me.Queen, that’s how they operate. These scrotes are perpetually unhappy because of themselves, and they use women to fill the void they know they have. They will abuse you for their own self affirmation. He hasn’t moved onto happiness, he moved onto his next supply. No wonder he’s “gotten over you” so quickly. You are choosing the path of healing and it’s never the easiest path. That’s why we have so many unhealed people out there hurting other people! But don’t let your eyes deceive you, they are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 44 | Never beg a man to marry youGnarly flashbacks reading this. My NVX wanted to marry me and insisted on us having a wedding party, but as soon as we got married he completely changed. One of the things that really fucked with my head was his refusal to share our wedding on social media, or even the fact that he had gotten married. He ended up deleting Facebook instead. One of countless red flags. Sigh. Never beg a man for bare minimum, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.Yup. I totally agree with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 66 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsThis, ladies. At minimum, this is the behavior we want. Anything less than this is not good enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 12:17 AM |
| 36 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsI had this exact interaction with one of my NVXs when we were together. We were about to sign a lease into a place together (I was a pickme) when he went to his buddy’s bachelor party. I told him beforehand that I was not okay with strip clubs and he assured me they weren’t going. He lied, they did go. He trickled down the truth in parts, but in the end he confessed he not only got a lap dance, he actually fucked the SW without a condom. And so did all his friends, including the groom. It turns … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 12:13 AM |
| 159 | This is why you don’t tell men you enjoy cooking 🤦♀️“wOmEn jUsT wAnT tO uSe Us!!!!1” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:57 AM |
| 6 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.He’s ordering a product. Women are not people to these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:02 PM |
| 17 | Gabby's Friend Speaks paints a different picture of Brian- the controlling behavior and abuse started early!This is gut wrenching. She described the malignant narcissist to a T, they lure you in with charisma and charm then they break your soul and sense of self. And clearly it’s hereditary in this case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:17 AM |
| 30 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.I’m tired, guys. I saw myself in Gabby Petito and her abuse and murder brought up so many memories I had dissociated from. Seeing the internet defend her murderer and position her reactive abuse as her being the abuser just broke me today. The 911 call. OMG. I feel so many feelings right now. It’s exhausting being a woman in this society and I am pretty hopeless. Sending love and peace to all my sisters 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 08:36 PM |
| 328 | Gabby PetitoI bawled watching that footage, it was extremely triggering and will haunt me forever. I’ve experienced abuse from multiple men in varying degrees, with one culminating with an arrest and restraining order. This man lovebombed me, isolated me, picked fights for stupid shit and became increasingly physical. If we weren’t within earshot of neighbors who heard me scream for police to be called, he most likely would’ve killed me. The bruises on my neck and torso lasted for almost 2 months. I feel re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:55 AM |
| 16 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Lots of reports about these noise-cancelling headphones, there are numerous blind items supposedly about him and that mention this. I said this in another comment, but I really don’t think he likes women, I think he’s like “Hollywood closeted” just dating for PR. And I really believe he was abused as a child on set too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 22 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Yup, he most definitely was raped by industry pedophiles. This footage is from a documentary called An Open Secret that shows a lot of the horrific stuff that goes on with kids in entertainment. I personally believe Leonard is actually gay and his public romantic relationships exist solely for PR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:42 PM |
| 140 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?On Tinder there’s a choice to show people of the same orientation first, and I’ve seen lotssss of men who chose “bisexual” to see bisexual women first, but then because they don’t want to seem like they’re bisexual men they switch their gender to “female”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 50 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.A t-shirt of their favorite diner and a gift card to Sephora. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:08 PM |
| 11 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Lol. “iT,S fiNe’ jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe!!!1 🤡” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 11 | The narcissistic LVM stare. Has anyone else noticed this while vetting in person?Yes, my worst NVX was a full blown narc and one of the things he did that worked like a spell on me the day we met was this stare, which I called “staring into my soul”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️Saaaame!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️Imagine if roles were reversed, and they were a childfree man with a single mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:38 PM |
| 15 | Yes I’m sure he “deleted” the video 🤡38 and same! Never sent one, never trusted anyone enough to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:36 AM |
| 42 | Yes I’m sure he “deleted” the video 🤡Women are objects to men, just another thing for them to show off and compare. Like a car, or a house. Makes me sick to my stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:35 AM |
| 12 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankI just want to drop here that there’s a company called Dossier that makes low cost versions of expensive design perfume! I love it, cause fragrance 100% makes me feel more “put together”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Your preference of not dating single fathers, is valid.Same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:18 AM |
| 27 | Eye-OpeneningYes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:52 AM |
| 42 | Eye-OpeneningSame! To a T. Welcome, I’m so glad you’re here, and the sub resonates with you. Life gets so much better from here on. You’ll learn a lot and most of it will be painful, but FDS will steer you towards self actualization. The principles here are not only about dating, it’s a mindset shift that will guide you through improving all aspects of your life. Sending love 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:51 AM |
| 40 | HVM plans the best date ever, surprises me with it, and I am still over the moon.One of my exes flew us first class to SF to see my favorite band after dating for a month, proposed in 6 months, and showed all signs of being a HVM. Fast forward 1 year, I put him in jail for escalating an argument to physical. Never stop vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:37 AM |
| 5 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meHoly shit. She sounds awesome, he thinks she’s property lol. Hope she drops this loser in an impulse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.To me this also validates that it’s not really about money. He was already not that into her before this situation. She was just considered not enough for him to make an effort. When you set your standards right upfront, it helps weed out men who don’t value you enough to make an effort. If this woman had not accepted to pay her way throughout these 2 years with this man, he most likely would’ve bounced sooner and not wasted her time. She allowed him to make no effort. I hate to victim-blame, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:53 PM |
| 68 | 'Spiritual'/hippie menI dated one. Thought we were going to end up married one day. I was prettier, more educated, made more money, but wE LiKe aLL tHe sAmE tHiNgS! We were seriously inseparable, I thought we were best friends. He was all about light and love, he was a yoga teacher, had sacred geometry tattoos all over himself. I thought he was so different from all the abusers I’d dated. Things got more serious and we started looking at places to move in together, and we found one. The weekend before we were suppose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 12 | “Build with him”wOmEn aRe gOLd diGgErs!!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 08:12 PM |
| 25 | Husband eats all of the food in the house leaving his wife and children hungry. Gets mad at wife for not giving him more food when she replaces what he ate that night.Holy shit what a narcissist piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Audacity of FathersWhen I got engaged to my ex, my dad’s side of the family had some celebration I can’t remember and my dad got drunk. My mom had passed away a few years back, so I drove him. On the way back to his place, he started telling me that I should never have kids because I had ruined my mother’s body and she couldn’t please him anymore. My mom was the ultimate pickme, and she did so much for this man. He had the audacity to talk about her that way. Fuck him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Dating a woman and ignoring the men who want me has been the best dating decision I’ve ever made.I’m pan but I had internalized misogyny, however ever since I started working on it, I’ve been much more interested in women than men. Like, pretty much 100%. Your post makes me happy, thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 5 | The silver lining of bad relationshipsSame! Was just thinking that. Weekend plans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:24 AM |
| 3 | The last time I dated anyone who wasn't my husband was 16 years ago, a man come over from spain (I'm mexican) just to see me and we didn't had sex, and now men think you don't need dates? Ok...He looks and sounds like he’s in high school 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 34 | Please no more pampering menI was such a spoiler 🤢 I once booked an entire vacation to go to a festival across the country for my NVX’s birthday; flew us, paid for a luxury rental car, did all the driving, paid for a whole week at a 4 star hotel, paid for our food, made sure he didn’t have to spend a dime. He threw a tantrum mid-flight over something stupid and refused to go to the damn festival. I went by myself on the first day, and had a great time. Came back to the hotel and he acted like nothing happened. And I apolog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:22 AM |
| 8 | I think I miss being singleTo me it sounds like a codependent relationship, and codependency is the opposite of FDS. This requires childhood stuff sort of work, and this kind of leveling up requires more than reading the FDS Handbook, this takes therapy and/or self help (through books and/or groups like CoDA.org). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:12 AM |
| 17 | This PostSecret shook me, I think most women can relate to this.I sobbed when I read this. I feel it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:31 AM |
| 28 | Hell to the NOMen out here thinking women are unpaid interns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:02 AM |
| 36 | You deserve to be cherished! If he wanted to, be would.I feel like such a fool for having fallen for that one in my last relationship 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 8 | "New in town"Literally all of Los Angeles on OLD. It’s just so low effort, this is their excuse to sit back and get women to make all the plans. OLD in general just screams low effort to me. FDS got me all repulsed by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:54 PM |
| 31 | Found an old photo of a “gift” my LVM ex gave me :)))))) this was a 35 year old man with enough savings to buy a house in cash.Looks like my last boyfriend’s birthday gift to me. For his birthday 3 months prior I’d given him $250 running shoes 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Why dating costs money (for them)I lol’d. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Imagine being told to hush while in labour. I’m actually speechless!I thought the article was about this post that was recently on Relationship Advice. Nope. That’s another LVM. Thankfully she dumped him too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 3 | LVM behaviours displayed on 1st dateGood work. Loved reading about it. Keep it up, and keep sharing your journey with us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | “That’s crazy”Like dating Chad from Saturday Night Live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬Haha I thought of this episode as I read the post title. The audacity these men have is laughable. Perfect reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:29 PM |
| 5 | One of my favorite scenes from this series: Elizabeth Bennet rejecting Mr DarcyI love Macfadyen. Most ardently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:45 AM |
| 14 | I haven’t used OLD in forever, and this was literally my first experience. “I’m an empath so I feel things more than you” is a massive red flag. What I hear is “I can be as insensitive to you as I please, but don’t you DARE have feelings around me because only my feefees are important”.Holy shit. Spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:32 AM |
| 6 | A (male) professor admitted he never had any intention of learning his wife's first tongueMy NVM ex-husband learned as much of my native language as he could while we were dating and engaged, then stopped completed as soon as we got married. It is 100% about effort. Spot on post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:12 PM |
| 43 | This just happened to me...feeling stupid but now on high alert SMHtilting it away from you Oh boy this one is such a red flag. It’s subtle enough that scrotes will try to gaslight you saying they’re not doing it. Don’t let him. Just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Watch out for those yogabros ladies ;pA mix of Nag Champa, B.O., weed and dust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:12 AM |
| 9 | HVW in movies, TV shows or other mediaI love her so much in Sex Education. Her haircut, clothes, demeanor, everything about her in that role exuded the vibe of woman in control, and she consistently prioritized herself and her freedom over a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 4 | NYC woman finds love on OkCupid - confirms what we already know about OnlineDating (OLD). OLD is one of the most effective tools you have in your "2020 dating toolbox". It WORKS, ladies. Be selective, be RUTHLESS, be persistent, and TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN, WHO ARE A PENNY A DOZEN ON OLD APPS.Is this the post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:24 AM |
| 24 | Watch out for those yogabros ladies ;pOMG this is a hybrid of 2 of my exes, one of whom literally said he knew we were the reincarnation of Isis and Osiris. Too funny and scary accurate, I know soooo many men like this. Makes me think of this article: This Is The Toughest Kind Of Narcissist To Spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 23 | Stay awareThat’s what The D.E.N.N.I.S. System is, in pop culture. Sociopaths/narcissists are insidious but after you’ve cracked their code they are ridiculously predictable, it’s like they all read the same manual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 18 | My experience as a 33 old woman on Tinder - The wall is a lieI am 38 and I can attest the wall is a lie. It is cultural negging on women. Our insecurities benefit men and capitalism tremendously, and most advertising geared towards women reflects that. Fuck that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, regret sucks. Big time. Read The Handbook and stick to it!I did! And I believe you are right, they are not just friends. Sigh.. LVM will LVM, he’s her trash to deal with now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, regret sucks. Big time. Read The Handbook and stick to it!Haha I didn’t realize I’d left a cliff hanger! Thank you for your support, sis! I applaud you for walking out of your LV trap too. I’m glad that you are here with us in the FDS community, and that you are invested in never repeating the same mistakes! As for me, yes! He’s blocked and out of my life! I’m never looking back. Here’s to us! Cheers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:01 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, regret sucks. Big time. Read The Handbook and stick to it!YES!!! \o/ In the past I would’ve tried to wORk tHrOuGh iT, but now he’s dumped, blocked and ignored. I feel sad for the almost 2 years of my late-30s life I wasted, but I’m thankful that it ended before I allowed myself to get scammed out of more time and emotional labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:56 PM |
| 32 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!This is called Hoovering. Super manipulative. Block him for your own good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if he’s serious when starting a relationship long distance?If he wanted to see you, he'd be making plans. He doesn't have to bring you to meet his family, but if he's going somewhere close to you, it's not unreasonable to expect him to want to see you. I would guess based on the information you provided so far that he's not that into you, and/or he's planning to see someone else. Sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:51 PM |
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