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Sadly, with others, it is physical too, and before red pill stuff. Elliot Rodgers, for instance, commented often about not liking his ethnic look, and wasn't even fully Asian. I think he sadly internalized bad stuff he heard around him .
/r/ExRedPill25/12/25 11:33 AM
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I guess I have just been lucky. Sex can definitely be a workout physically. I am glad my guy works out and enjoys his workouts. I understand not all men are like that. Sex can be tough for certain men, physically and mentally. Which is why sexual and mental compatibility is important. I work with a guy who was telling me, his girlfriend and him have been fighting about having less sex. He wants to have less sex, but more quality sex, he likes to have a longer length with more pleasure in the enc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:28 PM
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Yep , I seen a video this past week where an old man that looked to be in his 60's was ranting about his country making laws against female child brides. He was so angry and felt so entitled to that. It was the creepiest thing I have seen in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:23 AM
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Some of them truly seem to not understand that some men prefer seeing and experiencing women being turned on, and receiving pleasure from a man, and that it is also what turns him on. I think they can't fathom that , or they tell themselves that women should be turned on by what they imagine they should be, which is delusional. Which is why I spell it out pretty clearly so they can't claim to be lost. It usually goes further and lasts longest and is the absolute best with men that are enthusiast…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:20 AM
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I totally agree with talking about all of this beforehand. I talk about all of it before there is any sexual activity. I flat out say ALL the stuff I am not into and that are turn offs as well. Which is why when things have gone south, and I get met with questions while breaking it off, I refer to the conversation/s that were had where he was well informed of the things I didn't like, did like a lot and that he should have paid close attention. I will not be the only one giving while not receivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:13 AM
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Yes , this is the experience of many women. If the relationship even starts steering to the point where I feel like I have to ask for my pleasure , that it is being ignored for his, I break things off. One asked before why I was breaking things off, he acted as if he didn't understand that I don't ask for things that should be given freely and because he should be concerned about my pleasure in every sexual encounter. There is no compromise here for me. I was angry that I even had to spell that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:07 AM
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Exactly and this is so important. I love that my guy has very good hygiene . That is definitely a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:57 AM
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Yes, they are that nasty, and also delusional. Then wonder why they are getting left.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:56 AM
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They can't understand how this can be possible. Yet it is often advice given to people with obsessive leaning behaviors. Just step back, don't overly focus on certain specific things and drive yourself mad, practice being calmer and not going into a negative feedback loop in your head etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:46 AM
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Yeah, it is clear you didn't understand . That is to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:02 AM
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The thing about that is, SOME men might listen, then there are others that want to get a woman in a vulnerable position and just push what they want, even though they KNEW beforehand what the plan was. Then, act scary and angry if the woman were to say stop several times and ask him to leave . Many men believe that "once their foot is in the door" they can "negotiate" and or try to push their will on women, often because of the physical power imbalance and the fear they know women have regarding…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:11 PM
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This is why for me, it is important that the guy is turned on by WANTING to see me have pleasure. Because if he was so caught up in thinking about it being so much effort , and not actually enjoying it, unless he just got to do what he wanted to focus on for his pleasure, it would not be enjoyable. I see I have been lucky in that regard. I would much rather not have anything happen at all, if a man viewed it as "work" that he didn't enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:14 AM
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🎯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:38 AM
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They have the same problem they have with "women not wanting them". It usually is just not the women that would have them, those women they don't want, therefore "no women want them". Just like they are also ungrateful for clean water and the benefits of that as a collective society , they are also not grateful for what they can achieve. They all want to be "kings". Sadly they also care more about showing off women and material things to other men to provoke envy, than an actual peaceful, ordina…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:28 PM
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I remember people being confused when I brought up that these nerdy unattractive men were like Judd Apatow (sp?) Were promoting themselves and made sure that the women were "hot" , while they got male leads who looked like them. I seen pics of Adam Sandler younger, he looked handsome to me. However he did have older movies that promoted immature unattractive behavior, and he did dress bad it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:12 PM
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The Bible even has stories of women being forced to marry their rapist. So stuff like women not having much of a choice historically is accurate. It may not have happened in every scenario throughout time. But it happened enough to where it was common. I listened to a podcast where a woman was describing this scenario about her grandmother. She was a gen x woman. She said it was known that her grandmother was a very beautiful young girl in the town and people talked about how she was married qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:05 PM
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Because most people cringe at situations with sex, where one is enthusiastic about being able to buy and use a human for their own sexual gratification while ignoring that the lack of that may be there for the seller, while the seller may be doing it because the lack of jobs ,education or economic opportunity is not present in her life to where she would not be selling herself to someone she is not attracted to or connected to if she had better options....Livelihood is crucial for survival in ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:30 PM
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This video was so sadly familiar to me, it gave me the chills. I would say even if the roles were also reversed here, there is no way the person in this video that is being shown doesn't creep out most people when they are being like this because they feel a one sided romantic interest. This is a horrible awkward feeling when you are on the receiving end of it....I really don't know what to tell people, because people want to be delusional and behave certain ways and then get very sensitive abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:10 PM
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I think this is the answer. I think women have to worry so much about living in a world that abuses and ignores them and their suffering. Being victimized and or abused and ignored and having nowhere to turn can make a person spiral..I think it is scary to also know you may not be able in most cases to physically defend yourself against men , who are increasingly becoming more outwardly angry and vitriolic at women, and wondering if this will harm you as well, is very depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:51 AM
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They don't want to admit this. They are projecting how they feel about a woman needing to be very physically attractive with how they think men are viewed by women. They also condition themselves to looking at specific women (usually the type they would need to pay, to have sex with) for arousal and who they get off to. If you try to tell them otherwise, they will argue pointless gibberish to get around what you are trying to tell them is working against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:50 AM
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It seems like you flipped a few things. Women did and some still marry with wants of protection, stability and things like that. If a woman wants children, that should be a focus. I would also not fault a man for marying a woman with resources with it in mind if anything were to happen to him, the children would be provided for by the other parents resources. However, the flipped thing is that men are often not the emotionally attached true love romantics that you claim. That is not how women ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:54 PM
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He had women willing to date him . He thinks he is above them. The issue here is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:23 AM
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Yeah, it can suck to work hard and not get what you feel you "deserve" . Many men and women struggle with this. Many men are not aware of how much some women do to maintain or get to their appearance either. This can make some women picky too, although I have not seen it as much as with men. This particular cousin is not very much into putting into his appearance. He never works out with our other male family members despite being offered to, he will never play any family sports. He is okay bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:37 PM
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Yeah, I was so annoyed, because every time the family gets together he makes comments about how he can't find a woman. This woman was childless, same age as him (30yrs) and she had no type of bad reputation or problems in her life that would signal any trouble. With him, it was just because she was not a 7 or up in his rankings. He also has gained even more weight since the last time we saw him and he would be so sensitive if anyone brought it up. One of our in shape male family members made a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:29 PM
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I wish this was true, because I could have been much more successful as a "matchmaker" amongst my friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:24 PM
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Right...I can't take people seriously who don't admit that many men have a narrow definition of what they see as attractive with women. I am constantly around men , in and out of work, I also have many men in my extended family. Men are very judgemental on women's looks and attractiveness. Just the other weekend, an average male in my extended family turned down a date with my cousin's friend who is also average looking. When they left he actually tried to call her unattractive and was annoyed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:22 PM
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Yes , you did well. The ugly ones are not better than chad. They are not saints, and they always want to paint chad as a "player and abuser" because they project what THEY would be if they had Chad's looks and charm .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:43 AM
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He sounds very immature .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:27 AM
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Yeah, I don't feel automatically sexually charged around attractive men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:45 AM
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🙊 Scary !
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:42 AM
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True. Mostly, men in my family gave all the warnings, told us girls to not be alone with men, and even named specific men they found suspicious. They seemed to love when women or girls told men and boys "no", when they were being a nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:40 AM
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I had a male coworker have to go outside of a bar we were all at once to reflect on this. There was a gay man laying it on thick about how attractive this guy was, what he wanted to do to him sexually etc. Even after several polite dismissals. The coworker was like "Is this what we make you women feel like sometimes?" I nodded. He was like, "That is so sad." Sometimes it has to be experienced more directly to get a fuller understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:36 AM
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This is a perfect way to describe what happens and what is often felt by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:03 AM
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I don't like seeing either sex displaying sexuality too openly in public spaces . I think there are appropriate times and circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:58 AM
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Holding hands in public is two men consenting to displays of affection for one another. That is not usually a problem that harms anyone. Or threatens anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:54 AM
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No, they can go be sexual in private. No one has a problem with that. Displaying it inappropriately , or sharing it without consent or interest from someone else, is the problem .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:52 AM
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Men also believe women they find unattractive should not be sexually expressive in any way , including not wearing inappropriate "sexually revealing" clothing around them or anywhere they may look. I work with men only most times, and they really get going when they encounter this. The disgust is blatant and potent lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:41 AM
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This is what I have seen too. I also noticed that all his examples are focusing on women and them saying 4b and less on men and young incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:09 PM
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I have never approached men. I won't ever, no matter how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:16 PM
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The definition of being attractive is literally being able to attract and pull people towards you. If you are not attractive, than you just won't do that. It is very simple to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:06 PM
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The connection to what you were saying, is understanding that "men and dating" is a broad category that doesn't filter for who is and isn't attractive. Which will usually be the factor determining if you have options in the first place for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:00 PM
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If you truly believe that, then okay. It often seems to me like some men want to believe that only women can be unattractive. This is not the case at all. Men can also be unattractive and to understand this, men need to think of it in the same way they think about how they would see unattractive women, and the way they would respond to and treat women they don't find attractive is the same feeling women have about men that they don't find attractive. Instead of accepting that , it seems like men…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:57 AM
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Lots of women are not enjoying sex like men believe and how men view enjoyable sex for themselves as far as I understand. Women just don't talk about it as much. Both of my millennial divorced aunts said sex in their marriages was lack luster, then went on to be bad. They then said both ex husbands had ED issues. They said it was hard to even talk about these subjects, and eventually, they just decided to stop trying to "fix everything " and just let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:50 PM
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This is another example of how far gone some of them are. If a dude had any weird feelings about paying for ☕️ coffee, me, and any sane woman would run away fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:03 PM
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They are delusional. Sadly , many are beyond help. I like to come here and read the commenter's that make sense. The other angry , seething comments and views, for me, just help me further understand the extent to which many have become so far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:59 PM
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I would say that most of those things are outsourced to landscapers . Landscapers are much more prevalent in working and middle class areas and routinely go to the same homes . More prevalent than actual housekeepers and maids it would seem. I know many people with routine landscapers . I know very few with routine maids that do house chores .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:00 AM
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Do you find that men are always talking about how attractive average or below average women are? Because I think listening to males talk constantly about most things as I work around men only most of the time, it would seem men don't think the average woman is that attractive either . The only women they talk about as being desirable is above average top 10 percent of women. I don't understand why men won't be honest about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:49 PM
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Would you guys think that women who can't easily date and don't have boyfriends or many options deserve them even if many males didn't find her attractive. Or even the males that she thinks should, didn't find her attractive and friend zoned her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:43 PM
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Do you see undesirable women as potential partners and do you always remember they have vaginas even though you don't want them? If you feel that feeling of not wanting to be with them as normal and it being because you are not attracted to them, why is that bothering you when someone feels like that towards you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:40 PM
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Why is it that you guys seem to understand that women that are not attractive will be friend zoned and turned down for sex and relationships ,but some how for men it is "average guys" and not unattractive guys in your minds. You guys are just detached from the reality that unattractive men exist and people feel just as disgusted in them as you all feel about unattractive women. They are just being polite so as not to hurt male feelings. Unattractive men seem to have a hard time dealing with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:36 PM
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The number of men under 6feet who are having sex, married and or in LTR's says that isn't true. Most guys are consuming porn under 6 feet and are being rejected by some women because of watching porn. Not their height. Also the women who have these stipulations also have experienced relationships with men who had problems with porn that don't align with what you are saying as far as it it just a fantasy. Do you believe that consuming it and staring at it as a means for sexual gratification doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:49 PM
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I don't believe in shaming men for crying , but I also don't believe I am wrong for not liking a man who cries too much . It doesn't go well with my personality at all. That also goes for women who cry too much. I am not a fan of crying easily over everything, and I do believe that can be a sign of mental illness or problems that I don't want to deal with, and also would not try to place on someone to deal with. So I guess I also don't believe in shaming men for not crying "enough" as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:35 AM
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Most of the porn men are looking at most likely doesn't reflect what the "average" woman looks like either. So I am going to be devil's advocate here and ask men "why should women invest in men who like looking at women that don't look like or resemble them sexually and that have trained their dicks to sexually be satisfied by those images?"....I would also ask if men are getting very insecure, angry and heart broken over the thought that women may prefer bigger penises, and taller height, than …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:53 PM
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It isn't standard. They don't want to accept this. It is privileged treatment. Which, many of the most attractive women also receive very different privileged treatment than the women men categorize as average or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:37 PM
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Selective service for women are those who sign up to birth humanity. Like those who sign up to defend or protect humanity in wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:01 AM
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This type of sensitivity is what is always going to be the problem. Being obsessed with the fact that someone is 2percent better than you , will ENSURE you will never be happy. Sometimes the "best you can" will not afford you what you want or what you think you deserve. Instead, learn humility and humbleness, that will serve you and others much better in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:57 PM
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Damn, I wish I had a fun friend who was also a cheese monger. I mean , I have fun friends, but that cheese monger status would just be the icing on the cake lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:52 PM
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A guy being funny definitely doesn't have to do with being physically attractive. There are way too many ugly male comedians for this to even be considered as truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:50 PM
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Most people are gonna see a man who can't pay for a date, or won't as a "boy". You can't control how others see you. So, just be less sensitive about being seen that way. If you really believe there is nothing wrong with that , then stick by your beliefs. As long as no one is getting violent with you behind that specifically, they have a right, and also may have good points in why they feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:42 PM
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That is why I can't take many of these arguments seriously. They lack context often and always lack nuance. You can hear the bitterness of the fact that they have simply decided something is true and try to state it as fact , because they are annoyed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:17 PM
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Yeah, I read your flair, which is also why I was a little confused as well at first. You obviously seem to believe in staying fit if you have that in your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:27 PM
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Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:43 PM
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I feel like my comment is following up on what I commented first. Your comment was unclear. You said why do it? But then clarified to follow conventional attractiveness standards. Which is what my comment could mean as well. Because again, if you want to have sex and have people view you as attractive, wouldn't you want to work at that to get what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:40 PM
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So what exactly should they bring to the table IYO? Fun, peace and support is a minimum, then what should come after that to make it above the minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:22 AM
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I am on the spectrum , and I am currently in a relationship where I don't want to move in together. I like having my own space. I think he likes his too , but as far as I know he is a neurotypical. So I wonder if this will change for him. I hope it doesn't. I wonder if neurodivergent women are more likely to want separate living spaces in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:19 AM
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I have not been married. However I had one experience where I made it clear that I wanted a certain thing and didn't want another thing. It was ignored and when the same thing was tried again the next sexual encounter, I stopped it abruptly and ended it all. Of course the guy acted surprised. I don't and won't repeat stuff to men who are hell bent on not hearing what I said the first time . Both of my Aunts were much more patient than I would have been. Bless their hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:58 AM
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"The least to offer" is what ? For young women? I am curious to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:55 AM
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Western men and women are largely overweight or obese. So lots of obese men are repulsed by most women. Your comment pretty much says that this is true. That means a large portion of women are repulsive to men, at least in the west. Or the USA to be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:53 AM
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It is definitely wise to become as attractive as you can to the most amount of people , if you are looking for someone to enjoy a sex life with . This does give you more options .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:49 AM
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If a person is ignoring your pleasure, but still getting it themselves. Then they are clearly the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:48 AM
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The west is obese largely. Maybe the obese and overweight men should not have a standard they don't meet either. From what I have seen, the obese out of shape men are always the ones loudest about wanting fit women .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:40 AM
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I think they find most women repulsive as well. They keep lying about this. I don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:35 AM
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I have heard from women older than me and divorced women that sex was seen as a chore by them, because the ex husbands were not concerned with their pleasure. When they stopped having "chore sex" they said the marriage started to decline fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:18 AM
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If someone wants sex so much, why not work on looking good for the person they want to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:15 AM
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So the men in the current dating market are not men with narrow ideas of women's beauty and worth like the men before them? They love a wide variety of diverse women of different shapes, sizes and ages? These men have created a culture to where they can openly admit and even embrace that amongst other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:30 AM
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I have lots of explanations on exactly why women should be picky. Women are not men , and have different considerations. It doesn't matter if you don't understand that. It doesn't matter if it makes you mad. It is simply reality. Your lies , are that women no matter how they are "recieve validation". That is a weird belief you tell yourself for many reasons that cannot be explained in a few paragraphs. FDS gave very good advice to women on how not to be used , abused and unhappy. I 100 percent s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:20 AM
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This cannot be true in the west, where most women AKA the majority are considered fat and the average size is a 16/18. I don't ever see men openly admitting to finding these women attractive. They definitely do not prefer these women . Actually, I have only heard average and below average men talk very badly and insult women who are the average weight in the western world. So I don't understand where this belief comes from. It has only been in secret that I have had guy friends or work colleague…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:09 AM
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All I have seen is grannies getting scammed online. They also scam grandpa if they can .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:14 PM
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So you have it like most average to below average people. Women in that camp don't recieve validation, attention and intimacy online from what I understand. I do see very attractive women recieve this, as well and very attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:11 PM
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Absolutely this. They show their tortured mentalities with posts like these. They can't fathom a world where they don't have these obsessive thoughts dominating their own self worth. Sometimes it is overly inflated narcissistic self identity and other times it is unhealthy low self worth. Both of those leave them feeling tortured in an "unjust world" they help create for themselves and those like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:48 PM
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When you start reading their laments with posts like these, you often start to understand why they have so many problems with dating , and also most likely have problems with people .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:40 PM
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I keep saying this on this sub and others. Women need to really listen to how males talk about this subject of pregnancy and childbirth. They should not be pregnant , nor have kids with men like this. They don't deserve it whatsoever, and they are trying to cheapen and trivialize the hardship women face to birth humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:17 PM
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Also, I look down only on the hateful, angry incels. Peaceful and unlucky incels, who are not misogynistic and who are having a hard time, I have empathy for, male or female. I work with primarily men, as I have said here many times. I found PPD by looking into what incels were , as I had a few guys that identified as incels that I worked with. It definitely caused me to go down a rabbit hole for a while now. The incels that I had worked with were very angry and very misogynistic. They seemed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:10 PM
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I was actually never a femcel. I have had 3 relationships that I would call serious relationships, with men that have met my standards. One of those I am currently in now. I am very happy in it . I can't relate to the frustration of what many incels say they are going through, as relationships and options have thankfully been readily available for me . I have been blessed in that regard. I also still understand that any relationship can be lost at any time, and for any reason . I accept that , a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:58 PM
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Not helpless, just hopefully looking out for themselves .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:25 PM
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If they are reproducing from their own free will, then they have decided the standard and situation in which they are doing that. Once again, no matter what you want to feel about it, labor and child birth, and pregnancy is a literal sacrifice from a woman's mind and body. Pointing out how many times it is done or not done or any other thing that you want because you can't relate or experience it yourself , or obviously respect it, doesn't change anything. Anything at all about the objective, ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:28 PM
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I am in a relationship with a great man that meets very good standards that I have. So there is no way I can be a femcel. However, I have seen lots of women that lower their standards go through horrible stuff. You can be mad all you want, but FDS was shedding light on that, and how women can raise their standards and not deal with those issues. If that makes you mad , then you were probably the kind of man that the ladies were being warned about😬.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:24 PM
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The assessment of what the person who takes the risk has, is a personal choice for her. If the risk was yours with pregnancy, than you should also be picky and whatever standards you have should be your own personal standards. Doesn't matter what those who don't have the same risk say. It doesn't factor at all. They are not risking, sacrificing or laboring what the person getting pregnant and having to birth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:06 PM
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Emotion is a weird concept here, since pregnancy is mostly a physical hardship , once again one sided for women and also childbirth. Your weird "arguments" are not even really arguments at all. There is no comparison, there is no "argument" . It is a one sided sacrifice . You can say absolutely nothing that would change that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:03 PM
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Yep. Women need to just stop having kids until the conditions for doing so are optimal, and society appreciates the sacrifices more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:40 PM
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You can say anything. It won't change the reality of pregnancy, it's personal risk to the woman , and what she alone has to sacrifice between her and any man. It is definitely one sided. You will never have to consider what a woman would in this situation. So women , again, should be very picky and have whatever standards she wants. Doesn't matter how long it has been happening, or if it happens often. The point is that it is a big risk, a big sacrifice and a big consideration. Trying to minimiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:38 PM
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If a woman has to risk pregnancy with a male, she should have any standards she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:13 PM
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Usually, they want freedom to abuse. They want women to feel and think they are beneath them. You can clearly see this by the way they talk. All this bad stuff to say, but really it is just anger that a woman they feel is beneath them (often while they are unattractive and undesirable themselves) won't let them gain access to use for unsatisfying sex (for the woman) and to put up with their horrible personalities. They feel like just being them is good enough, and they are angry that they don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:08 PM
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Yep, he told on himself 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:00 PM
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So , not listening to that means it was time to fight fire with fire . Now, men like this can feel what they have been doing on a personal level. Of course, you are going to be mad about it..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:50 PM
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The stats I have read, the stuff I have seen with my own eyes also don't add up with what you wrote. You most likely are who I am talking about in the previous comment .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:22 AM
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They never said that they couldn't help themselves. They just said that they had a hard time with their sexual drives . Many believed that was just their lot as men. I heard it so much, I don't know what to make of it , other than that is definitely the perspective and self report of some men. I know that some unsavory characters try to take it several steps further and claim that they "can't control it" . Which is definitely a cop out and they don't speak for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:31 PM
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Sounds like you two know what you want, and are practicing what is good for the both of you. If you are staying together romantically, I believe that is the most special part of any relationship, and it is much more rare to find that person. May you both stay happy together well past old age .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:27 PM
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Multiple men have told me this from their perspective. As far as I know, none of them were offenders of SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:44 PM
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I don't understand it. It is like they feel offended because they struggle with either wanting to abuse women or have been violent and abusive to women. Or maybe just needlessly violent to everyone around them. They could not get so offended if it didn't apply , they could also take it as women feel positive and safer around men who are not violent to women. That is a good thing. Also , I am not judgemental of men who defend themselves from violence of other violent men either. I just think ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:28 PM
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Normal people are who have high sex drives. These particular men were from what I understand, not talking about the control aspect, they were talking about the strength and drive itself, being something hard to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:55 PM
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Not the chemical of rape (I also added an accompanying "something going haywire in their brains") , but many men have themselves explained to me all my life about how women don't understand how it is to have their sex drives and their sexual impulses due to having so much more of it than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:25 PM
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Yep. Their imaginary gold is often nowhere to be found to "dig" either. Just pitiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:22 PM
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I used specific language for a reason . There are a portion causing issues amongst the collective group of men. Racism and other stuff about "gays" you tried to conflate with the issue I was speaking on was pointless. That doesn't apply to my comments. My comments as previously stated were addressing issues with incels/ incel adjacent men and their talking points and how the changing of definitions are being used to deflect the big issue I was discussing . Your response is common in that you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:21 PM
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I was speaking of INCEL, SEXUALLY INEXPERIENCED LEGAL MALES. You KNEW that as I used MEN and not boys. Women are also not as likely to be attracted to children as your group. Like FAR LESS likely . Deflection, Deflection, Deflection is the usual disruptive nature of far too many of you. You think by disrupting serious conversations with all sorts of anecdotes about "the other way around" will drown out the truth about a certain group being the bigger perpetrators and that upsets you more than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:42 PM
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So hopefully women take heed here, because now what you guys are attempting here, will most likely end up repelling women even more towards , let's say sexually inexperienced men who "won't know if they are being raped" if a woman were to suggest or try to "teach" him ways of pleasing women. While men scream that they can't read minds. Women will often not want men who seem scared or sexually inexperienced and don't want to "coerce" such men into having sex, since we know women don't really try …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:40 PM
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I work around many men , I have not heard any of them ever talk about being in fear of women SA. I have heard maybe 2 gay ones talk about SA from men though. Even though you guys are trying really hard to make women out to be what certain males have been towards women, since like forever , it really isn't the way you wish it was. No one will blindly accept that the group with something like 20 times lower levels of testosterone will be the group hunting the other for prey when something goes hay…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:07 PM
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They say all this stuff to deflect. Males have hunted and stalked women like prey. I wonder if there are "female equivalents" of hunting males and then SA before murdering them. I know there are multiple of men. There also are ones that were caught hunting women online to prey upon and murder. I wonder what percentage of women have the pathology to do something like that? I don't think there is a comparison here. But they keep trying anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:00 PM
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They always say this. There are simply not many men doing back breaking physical labor . I have seen the small percentage that do. I respect them. However these ones who have never done a hard's day work in their lives will take credit for that. Also a way larger percentage of women will give birth than men who do back breaking work. I think even a higher number of women will suffer painful menstruations monthly to even have the ability to birth kids, more than most of these "soft life" men will…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:55 PM
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Absolutely this. I know they want to slam women any chance they get. They also just don't want to accept that women have to worry about being physically overpowered and it is a big thing to be able to trust being in close proximity to someone who could do this easily on average. Also, men are more likely to suffer from drug addiction and abuse substances than women. So adding that layer on , also makes it scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:49 PM
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This is so true. Many times I wish I didn't have to talk so firmly to some men. I want to be nice about it. I have to actually change my whole demeanor and look very serious when saying something, even then, sometimes, the message seems to not be getting through clearly enough. I have also seen men using the "everything and every situation is a funny joke" to push boundaries and to facilitate them pursuing something that has been a barrier. They think if they keep trying when they were told no, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:21 PM
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I really like that you brought this to the discussion. I think people don't really consider the impact that modern technology and the way we use it has had on us. We definitely as a society have become more afraid of other people, as you stated. We also miss the whole aspect of conversations with things like body language and even the way people say certain things in a conversation that cannot be shown with texting and messages. I have certainly seen many people seem very different in the way th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:07 PM
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"Wanting better" is often wanting to not be trapped in a space with someone who is not cooperative and is making your life a living hell. Both of my Aunt's who divorced after about 15 years of marriage, tried hard, did counseling and all that stuff. However, it doesn't work on or with the party in the relationship that doesn't acknowledge what is wrong in the relationship. Both of their ex husbands thought my aunts were the problem and not themselves. They are both about 2 or 3 years post divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:39 PM
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I have about 4 male teachers amongst my close family and friends. I have not heard them talk about cliquishness with their female coworkers. This can be that they just lucked out. Many work places sadly have cliques for a myriad of reasons and I feel for anyone who has to deal with them. It can definitely make work life tough. I would love to hear some details from male teachers that did experience this, to better understand what their experiences were concerning this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:27 PM
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Yes, absolutely. I am committed in the sense that I am definitely monogamous and always have been in any relationship. My current man and relationship is definitely the focus of my love interest, and I am not "looking for better or different options" while being with my current man or any other relationship I have been in. So, the separate living situation also seems to help with avoiding conflict about the little annoying stuff that tends to wear on relationships like sharing living and sleepin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:22 PM
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Committed, but open relationship? Is this a multiple polyamory type situation? No checklist seems pretty flexible, in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:11 PM
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Yeah, I am not a Christian myself, but I have known people who have been helped by Christianity a lot. Some changed so much for the better that I am so happy they found it. Other things were not working for them, and they now seem genuinely in a much more peaceful and stable state than before. So I totally believe you and find no reason to roll my eyes personally. I am glad it worked for you, and I have seen it make a positive impact .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:35 PM
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Are you more of a traditional relationship leading to marriage type of person? Are you super selective and every box needs to be checked by your potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:16 PM
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I am also factoring in the state of the world as well. Sadly, we live in a world and society where things seem increasingly destabilized. It could cause problems and has caused problems for most that are not exceptional . While I am doing better than some, I am not nearly in the top 2percent of wealthy people, nor the top 2 percent of intelligence and other exceptional statuses. I have thought of a bunch of things that can go wrong and cause an ugly divorce , or ugly break up , and I don't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:11 PM
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I would still say the devil's in the details. The details are what adds the information that would definitely make a behavior creepy or not IMO. There will always be people that may see any behavior differently than the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:25 AM
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I try to be realistic. I may have stayed with him, or maybe he would have pushed to stay with me had he not left my area. I also know he was actually way more intelligent than I am. To be honest, I have not met someone like him since. He was definitely "the one that got away" . Now, I am seeing someone, and I like him. However, I don't want to take the relationship to the next level, or move in together or anything like that. I also would like to add that I do try not to compare people. Everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:22 AM
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I think men starting a culture of hanging out together and being supportive of each other , that would be good. The men I am around at work often are starting to talk about how now concerts and sports events that used to be more accessible to a greater number of men of working class means , are now for men of higher means. I think that is bad, and I hope there can be a solution for that. However, people want to blame everyone else when greedy men are at the helm of this ugly situation and many o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:29 AM
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Shouldn't they just be alone if they are not attracted to their looksmatch? That is what I say about unattractive men. Just be happy being alone. Plenty of women or men will use low self esteem people who are unattractive. People can use many things to look better, of you consider that "hiding" , that is you. If those women are getting results and or not and are just happy, then good or them either way. Same with unattractive dudes, if they are unattractive to me, but they are showering and hidi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:21 AM
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I watches several long form content segments on that guy. It never stated in any of them that "dozens of women" lined up for him. He was on the "party scene" and people who party like he was and the other people at the places they would party , go home with each other pretty easily. I know men and women like this . It is a common behavior, so common that most have done it and never come across a serial killer while doing those things. Wade happened to be a serial killer , just like church going …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:05 AM
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Who are those dudes? I have only ever seen passport bros and anime nerds do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:00 AM
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I have never seen the "white knight" phrase being used, except from women hating males online and even sometimes in real life. In real life, they were often the ones that never kept a girlfriend because they could not put on an act long enough, and their true colors came out . Seen 2 cases like that , where word got around enough and no woman would touch them. They ended up moving a city over and within a year we were exchanging messages with news headlines of them committing crimes that landed …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:55 AM
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They said this in a myriad of ways, and some say it outright. The motives are also trying to get others to say women should just become attracted to them or else insert incel SA fantasy regime. Most of the arguments eventually get there . This is their game, and ironically they can't see that this makes them insufferable, and also that people can smell their ultimate conclusion despite the tired back and forth they intitiate to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:51 AM
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Yep, a dude put children into Karla Homolka and Casey Anthony.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:06 AM
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Most of the attention would most likely be from abusers and scammers. So not a win. More of a nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:05 AM
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To you they are not high. The reality is , you want women attractive enough to have better options . You have options , you just don't like them. Lots of people have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:03 AM
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They do by and and large, people told you it was a small subset of women, just like those serial killers are a specific subset of men. You still are saying "women claim to blah blah blah". No. Not women. A particular subset of women. Not "women".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:59 AM
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Most definitely, and they know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:45 AM
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Now, why would I do that ? So you can pull the neckbeard special of "Margot Robbie is mid" 🤣. Nah, you were asked first. Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:45 AM
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Lots of things definitely can, and sometimes are. Like most things the devil is in the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:43 AM
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Unfortunately, he was definitely way too good for me and had lucrative job offers that took him to other parts of the world. He was extremely intelligent and he would do well in those places, where as I felt like I would hold him back if he took me with him. So we split up on great terms. I still message him from time to time and wish him well. He found a lovely wife I heard , and I am happy for him. Happy for her too lol. Because I know the man she has will treat her very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:41 AM
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At least you are examining your thinking. Most just don't and have those beliefs and biases and think there is nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:35 AM
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Absolutely all of this. If a fat female character was as vile as Peter Griffin's character, all of a sudden it wouldn't be funny either. People would hate her and place all kinds of moral judgements on her. Her disgustingness and open and constant display of sexuality wouldn't be funny either , it would also be considered vile and hated. But males LOVE Peter Griffin's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:37 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:36 AM
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It may work, or maybe not. Sometimes evil people make it their business to try and sniff out those they feel are vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:01 AM
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Your focus here is what I can't wrap my head around. Women are with all kinds of men they view as attractive. Trying to spin a narrative of women "being attracted to criminals and felons" is you placing that in that context because you have a "passionate" or obsessive preoccupation with it. It is not something that is really even on my radar as I have not even seen it enough to make a connection. So I extended it to maybe include "felons and criminals" that commit "crimes" that can be any and ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:23 PM
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Wow, thought provoking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:38 PM
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They are weirdos as well. Women are right to speak out about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:37 PM
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Yep. I don't know any males that have done something like this in a workplace. This guy is definitely a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:36 PM
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In that case true. This guy's case is something else. For not that reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:35 PM
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I agree she should not have told him at all. I also agree he is being weird. You cannot give weirdos any ammunition to shoot you with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:32 PM
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I think that is wonderful. I appreciated receiving that treatment so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:29 PM
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Yes, it definitely is not all women. I am happy for the women that don't experience this. I am also deeply empathetic to the women that do. I don't have PMDD . I do have lots of menstrual cycles issues though including horrendous periods and ugly symptoms leading up to my periods. Doctors ignore these symptoms when convenient for women like me. They also seem to apply them to women that seek help for other medical issues when they are not applicable there. It is a horrible situation for women on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:28 PM
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I agree , this is very appropriate and loving in the context of any man living with a woman and witnessing what she may be going through. Menstrual cycles are a spectrum of things going on and some women have a hard time , while others are blessed to not have such a hard time. It is greatly appreciated by women like me who have a very hard time , when our intimate partners caringly and lovingly are aware and helpful during this time. Now, doing it in another setting is a very different topic , a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:23 PM
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Fair enough, as long as both actions are being judged based on bad behavior that is harming others during these "fluctuations" . Asking to reasonably be left alone while you deal with the personal issue of these things should be respected . Although flu like symptoms are common for menstrual cycles, and people in general are going to have low tolerance for many things when experiencing these symptoms. That should be respected .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:17 PM
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I also want to add , with the intent to be loving and caring, keeping track of menstrual cycles for a partner you love can be demonstrated with this behavior. If this is not an intimate partner. This is strange, and can be perceived as creepy and misogynistic. Intent and appropriate circumstances apply .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:13 PM
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I had a boyfriend like this. He was very aware of my menstrual cycle and I liked that he felt involved in helping me around that time , as sometime it was a very unbearable period no pun intended. He also was not ever insulting about it, or grossed out about it. He acted very caring about it. He gave massages, back rubs, tummy rubs and bought me supplies that were needed and useful around that time .I appreciated that so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:07 PM
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Okay, I still think bringing up single mothers was a way for you to foist negative views on them because a negative view you felt was placed upon you. These were different things. I think the scenarios are different and single mothers are often tricked by men "hiding their smell of aggressiveness" which is essentially what the guy was saying you should do. Hide or eliminate that insecurity so others can't smell it. Women don't smell it when it is hidden, but when they do start to "smell the aggr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:10 PM
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I said bye already Mr Lazy. No one cares about who Mr. LAZY thinks is stupid. Now if one of the hard working men I work with called me lazy, I would feel very bad. You..not so much Mr Lazy. Good bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:59 PM
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I said Bye already Mr. Lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:57 PM
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Mocking and jokes are often seen as being the same. Exclusions are usually things that follow jokes or insulting Mocking jokes. Just like the ones you did here about single mothers. Many of them feel excluded and mocked, but you still felt like it was casually okay to bring that up as well in a "joking" way. If you were not ill intentioned, then maybe others are not also towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:56 PM
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But the evidence of us being here now , when women had hairy bodies and consistently getting pregnant disproves this. It just simply does. It didn't stop procreation in mass numbers. So I will have to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:52 PM
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Did I ask you that question? The discussion was the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:49 PM
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If it is a normal and standard way, then you would not take jokes about your height to heart then, right? All of it is just jokes. All just have different preferences and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:47 PM
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Some are saying this. Others are angry and saying the other thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:44 PM
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They were doing it enough to where laws had to come into place to mitigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:43 PM
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I can't wait to read the trivialization of this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:41 PM
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There seems to be a lot of women posting on reddit about men hiding conservative views, conservative political identities, men switching up during relationships, to conservative leaning, and it is causing break ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:40 PM
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Imagine these weird men marrying their female children off to abusers and sickos who smile in public and claim to be "religious and wholesome". I literally want to vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:32 PM
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You see, this is exactly what the other woman was talking about. It is ultimately about this to them. You may not be a rapey dude. But many in these kinds of spaces are and / or will advocate or be apologists for the men that are . Women are right to identify this and I think all people , not just women should keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:30 PM
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You are viewing it from a view of a portion of men with this problem. They are sad , depressed and want to find a way to survive without having what they desire. But there are others who turn to anger and sick fantasies that they want to act out and argue for. They sadly represent the group more to people due to their sick arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:26 PM
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Yeah, okay chief, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:22 PM
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Oh okay, so you are just leagues ahead of everyone, and you just laugh at stuff , and say small little "one liners and lol's" and we are supposed to accept your superior ridicule? massive faceplam Yeah , okay, keep with the quips and one liners about "single mothers" if it makes you feel better. You are clearly the most superior and worthy of ridiculing others. They should just never do it to you with little jokes and one liners because of your height. Yeah...got it...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:18 PM
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Not at all. We have paragraphs proving you are emotional. Men viewing sex as a need tend to be like that. Like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:14 PM
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I could never be as lazy as you . You are lazy, you don't want to get up off your ass to make money. So you are obsessed with the soft jobs being easier access to you . Me and you are not the same. You are mad about being physically lazy. It's not my problem. Get a job. A physical one, preferably.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:13 PM
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If you don't want to use a physical advantage you have over women, maybe you are not only stupid but lazy, which is worse. Bye now, Mr. Lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:09 PM
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Or what men see, conditions, and affects them and their sexual responses?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:07 PM
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So now you can't even remember your insults. Okay....moving on...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:06 PM
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Your situation was not indicative of the largest number of people . But a small subset of people. Who have always existed as well. Your response was emotional. Mine was more to the point and lacking emotional word use. You also are trying to hide your emotional ranting here by acting like you are begging for "dialogue". You are not, you find disagreements with your weird paragraphs frustrating, and then proceed to try and tell people what they wanted or didn't want when they didn't agree with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:05 PM
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Yes, so powerful men (a small niche group) often control the narrative, what is seen and not seen, what is heard and what is silenced, what is pushed out and normalized, to socially engineer people towards their predilections. I know men were impregnating and chasing women way before razors were a thing. We would not be here if they were not , in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:56 PM
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You laughed at his input, then tried to denigrate single mothers. But we get it, you think you deserve to be "first pick" while being who you are. Side note , I am not a single mother, nor was my own mom, but it doesn't mean I should denigrate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:52 PM
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Nope. There were endearing terms for big guys like "teddy bears" "gentle giants" and stores like big and tall and the dudes were overweight in all of these stores . The "teddy bears" were fat dudes, and no one argued that their weight was ugly. Fat dudes also used to be talked about as bullies by the small framed and skinny dudes . I would openly see skinny dudes be shamed far more than fat males. Fat males in school and work places would ALWAYS talk about how they could "beat up" or overpower t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:44 PM
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No one has noticed a drop in attractiveness in women in media. Just him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:39 PM
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Name the "whole lot less attractive women in media" result. Name movies , actresses, and the shows. So we all can laugh so hard at the blatantly lying ridiculousness 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:38 PM
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So you laugh at his experience and view as a man under 5'8. But somehow, yours shouldn't be laughed at? You guys are often the exact people you accuse others of being. Then cry that the world is unfair. Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:35 PM
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I think the most powerful men , pushed certain things on women and girls. I think now and throughout history many of them were pedos or pedo adjacent. Which would color their views and make their weird preferences make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:31 PM
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Can you explain how they liked body hair and eagerly procreated with women before razors, but now men largely view body hair as "unattractive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:27 PM
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Yes, then I gave some explanations on the what the general idea usually is to reach that goal. Not sure what you took from that. But OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:02 PM
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Thanks for the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:52 AM
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I agree with this. Personally, if a man is not into that, it is a big turn off , and I usually end things before they have a chance to truly start. I want only to entertain men that are enthusiastic about that. Luckily, enough still are, or I have just been lucky lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:28 AM
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Absolutely this! He has to tell himself "women are ugly" because he thinks this about himself and has probably felt this about himself because a few women made him feel unworthy. So he is very bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:47 AM
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Many family members ex and current military. Work with lots of guys that are ex military as well. I know women who have mothers that live with them. I am not kidding when I say I know no women living with mom at 30 though. Sorry that offends you. I am not saying it doesn't exist, but I have seen it so seldom, that I truly understand where the stereotype of the male that does comes from, because I have seen that too many times to count. Just being honest. I try to make it a point to never be mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:43 AM
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Attraction is a thing that happens without moral implications. Good thing, too. Because incels and unattractive men would be angry if a woman said "I wanna date and marry you because you are nice and weak, so I feel like you shouldn't be lonely, but I am not going to have sex with you because you are not attractive sexually". So I think if women have relationships with men they are attracted to , and they don't experience abuse or bad behavior , then they should do what they wish in that regard.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:09 AM
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A male teacher told me that women and girls were locked out of education at a time where males designated it was protocol to put hands on boys with physical punishments . The men ran all the institutions and made all the rules. So he said people concluded (men running things) that boys needed to be physically disciplined to get the required results . He told me he didn't understand the arguments about men or boys being "held back" by current education culture. Side note , I do believe that boys …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:00 AM
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What did you presume that I meant? What did I say that I want? Dialogue being easy it basically what you are appearing not to want, by your questions and conclusions to the answers several have given you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:57 AM
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What are the expose's or statistics or studies and findings on "cooking grades for girls or women" ? Is this a widely proven occurance? Or more of a suspicion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:50 AM
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That is going to be a personal choice for women with many variables, depending on the woman's location, support systems , and ways she knows how to spot problems or red flags. Most women I know who have not experienced SA , or did and chose men differently afterwards and didn't deal with that happening again, or didn't experience it, have told me that they vet men through mainly seeing how patient they are . Which is also going to be different time frames of how patient she wants the guy to be ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:47 AM
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That sounds awesome, I have a cousin who is going to be a female engineer very soon. I will ask her to look into this field . If I were an engineer , I would definitely want to do that kind of work. I have a female friend who is a diesel mechanic, and I think that that is also pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:34 AM
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I think it is dangerous to believe this for women. Almost any man can put on an act, and still become a sexual attacker in an instant where the woman wouldn't be able to defend herself .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:32 AM
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A small percentage of men, and more women will birth and carry children than men will do any type of manual labor in and out of the military. Most men today have not even developed muscle that looks like they have engaged in yard work. The guys I work with say this all the time. Lots of them do manual labor. They often can't even find males suitable enough to try and give a chance to do the job they do , because of laziness and lack of work ethic. So yeah, a small percentage. Women seem cool wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:30 AM
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No, you want to claim criminals have high "fertility" rates. What criminals and what crimes. Crimes also have all kinds of different avenues. So you can focus on one spot if you would like, but a criminal and felon breaks laws decided on by sneaky immoral males who also make weaker punishments all over justice systems for weak type offenders who harm women and children all the time . A criminal and felon are men who break laws and those can be a wide array of laws and crimes as well anyway. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:21 AM
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Maybe men do want sex more readily and easier than women do. This had been my experience anyway. Of course, some men are low libido and some women high libido as well. Women controlling sex is frustrating, but it is also frustrating to worry about birth control, pregnancy , and safety with sex with men. So there is definitely frustration on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:06 AM
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So what specific programs catered to women, or did women work to qualify for the programs and do the work of securing a degree and credentials to become teachers? Also if men have physical strength advantage over women, why are men not taking advantage of physical work that would make them money?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:02 AM
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Are oil rigs physical manual labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:59 AM
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That could be true as well. I do understand that it is not easy for men or women to understand what is going on with the other group collectively. This is why I think understanding what you want in a partner from either side is the better focus. You have to take an individual approach and mindset to it. You have to mentally prepare to run into stereotypes of men or women, and then move on from problematic partners, or would be partners , until you find compatibility. Another thing is being able …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:49 PM
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So qualified women should be skipped over for unqualified males? I thought that was wrong to do for women? Why would it be okay to do for men who don't qualify?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:43 PM
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Depending on who you ask, freedom fighters, those that oppose injustice and unjust laws are considered criminals . Weak presenting and behaving males are often also criminals who don't get caught as easily. They are often doing soft crimes that may be trickier to catch. So there is no point in arguing this about criminals. Criminal actions are morally wrong depending on what the crime was, who was affected , and what factors were involved. So on a case by case individual basis. Being weak is una…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:41 PM
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Are you aware of the historical discrimination of women and girls even being formally educated? Are you aware of the effects of that momentum being felt still ? If you are claiming that boys are feeling this momentum, then surely you can not deny the momentum that occurred to lock women and girls out of opportunities and education given the historical practice of denying women and girls education, and the need to combat that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:34 PM
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Understanding the whole story would take effort , and time. It also cannot be explained shortly on social media . You can look for information on the whole story if you care to truly understand it. The context here is you understanding the clarification that short form information doesn't tell a whole or complete story . Context (as in using information to clarify, or explain an event , occurrence, or subject) is being explained by telling you that more information and greater context is needed …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:28 PM
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Do you have any representation of this anywhere in studies , or even media? I have never seen this. Feminine men often have women as wives and girlfriends. What masculine women have been shown to have partners ? Or to be sought after ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:12 PM
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So they accepted the women and not the men while both had the same qualifications?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:10 PM
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You extrapolated a lot from social media posts. Those posts are limited to small "bulletpoint" presentation of a subject. To understand most things an in-depth examination is often required. The things presented in short fashion are not the whole of the story .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:08 PM
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Yeah, they are so out of touch with historical realities. They are mad that we won't forget what our grandmother's anf great grandmothers went through .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:22 AM
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Absolutely this. I like the notion that men should help boys and men, and take it seriously. Because if they don't, I think the bad men running everything will just make sure to make slaves out of them in some kind of cage (prison system) where they are exploited for labor . Those bad men are much more of a threat to their whole being than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:14 AM
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Accept for Jordan Peterson often said women were more agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:09 AM
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The problem that men have with science themselves is they think it is a settled thing, when often many scientific information are theories. Science is an evolving thing truthfully, and never "settled" unless men in positions of power of the narrative say it is and others agree and then most other things are thrown out, or not allowed to be considered because of rigid thinking in lots of gatekeeping men. We have seen this in history. The "colonial" thinking someone brought up had said some weird …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:06 AM
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Yes, I was very annoyed there was someone that held office of congressman and or senator who believed that pregnancy could not happen from SA because the woman's body "rejected" the conception, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:00 AM
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This. I have many family members who work in education. Both the men and women say boys are falling behind because they constantly observe bad behavior, constantly have to be told stuff over and over and don't listen. Lots of boys needing IEP's that take up time and resources. They also say that the boy moms are rabid in protecting them from repercussions in their bad behavior as well. I don't know how they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:54 AM
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I don't understand why people think that about those jobs. I have the utmost respect for manual laborers, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:37 AM
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I feel bad for all the people I know with student loan debt. I think student loan debt is ridiculous and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:36 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:35 AM
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What had been implemented to improve educational opportunities for women? Is this just accepting women to spaces where they use to ban them entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:10 AM
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I think it was pretty cool that the matrix never tried to place blame on women not thinking certain men were unattractive as the problem. Good film.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:16 PM
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Any man can be a physical harm at the very least to any woman. Especially in an intimate or closed off space away from others. Women will take precautions of all sorts, sometimes they work, sometimes they fail . This is the reality . Men can be a threat to women, and women often learn this from the men in their family warning them about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:01 PM
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Sometimes media posts touch small pieces of a bigger picture. I thought most knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:57 PM
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Also, yes, I have many flaws. I have tried to work very hard since childhood to work on them. They have often been a barrier to certain things I want as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:55 PM
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No children by thugs .No children at all. I am enjoying my life right now. I may elect to freeze my eggs while they are still young and healthy . We will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:18 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/LAoP2FFHB4c?si=Qa99IaU9RsgMnQ_U
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:14 PM
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You can try, humans often use media to try and influence others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:51 PM
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We get it ....https://youtube.com/shorts/LAoP2FFHB4c?si=Qa99IaU9RsgMnQ_U
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:44 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/LAoP2FFHB4c?si=Qa99IaU9RsgMnQ_U
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:25 PM
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People who have social problems and are on the spectrum may have challenges with "doing the things People say" . Including applying nuance to specific issues affecting themselves and figuring out how to tackle those. Some of this has been discussed over and over here. Which is why my first comment stated that many with these problems will be problems they can't fix , because of what is going on in their heads. Some people will never be able to figure it out, and they will always blame external f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:09 PM
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Projection is a talking point taken largely from women's spaces. I can't be projecting anything I am talking about here. These things are not personally applicable in my life or to me. This stuff is simple to understand. It just hurts the feelings and triggers those who feel affected by it. In which I would say, seek therapy and take control of your emotional health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:01 PM
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A man not being attractive is not a moral issue. Not wanting to procreate with unattractive men is not a moral issue. You also will never be able to prove that the criminal men were attractive BECAUSE of their criminality. Pedos also make laws that punish criminal offenses like drug use harsher than child molesters and abusers. Lawmakers are also criminals by strict moral definitions. Lawmakers also don't decipher what warrants violence. I will most definitely take a man who committed violence p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:45 PM
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Sure , women have flaws . The topic at hand , and also your comment and reaction, have more to do with the sensitivity of the specific men with the markers I listed. I expect sensitivity to being perceived as unattractive. However, one can work on becoming less unattractive, but that is up to the person. Becoming angry with the people that don't find you attractive and trying to argue that they should , or that it is the flaws of others instead, is just a way to become more ridiculous. Now , if …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:49 PM
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Well , that can be many things for you, lack of availability options in your area, and a more objective view of what your current qualities are or aren't. You may or may not be self aware, I don't know you well enough to say. However, I have often seen many men and people in general who are not self aware and will not be able to fix a problem they have because they simply can't or won't see it, won't even look for it, but are willing to blame external factors only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:33 PM
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You can argue with and hate the fact that antisocial, weak presenting , scared presenting , or boring presenting , or autistic presenting behaviors should be attractive all you want. It will not change how they are perceived by those who decide your attractiveness , or rather or not other humans want to engage with you. You can try to decieve as well, but that would take work, and the above mentioned traits also usually accompany inability to effectively decieve , so you are back at square one. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:29 PM
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That is not how it works. You can feel that way all you want. It may happen that you find someone that accepts you "as is" . However if you are having trouble and have gotten feedback that you are unattractive or have the self awareness to understand that, you can work to change it. Or don't. It is you that has to accept the outcome either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:22 PM
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Giving them sex, is their own self diagnosed solution. Society doesn't designate sex be "given" to anyone. Rather it attempts to set up optimal conditions for sex and procreation to occur naturally, as it will when humans select for procreation or the act that it entails, by usually being attractive. Mental health , physical health, and unlearning behaviors that make one unattractive is the goal. Facilitating possible success for a healthy sex life after tackling the actual issues that make them…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:09 PM
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Being believed to be "hated" is not accurate. Unattractive, and not easily chosen, is more like it. This doesn't mean "hate". Certain behaviors and traits will make certain goals/things unattainable for some humans, unless they can change them, which often takes hard work and ambition. Even then, there are no guarantees. So either get busy changing , or get busy accepting your limitations and learning to live with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:02 PM
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It is common sense to go for the healthiest outcome for the greatest number of people. The human condition is often full of things that will greatly impact marginalized groups in some specific way. The healthier and more successful a greater number in society is, the sooner the marginalized minority problems can be worked on. Even still, as nature also teaches us, some will not survive even when given extra accommodations. That also applies to the human condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:52 PM
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The aim , is to be "healthy". Whatever gets closer to that aim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:27 PM
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Absolutely this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:26 PM
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Exactly this. Everyone knows this, women often understand and know that their own character will be overlooked for beauty , but they believe that women are supposed to be the focus here , for not choosing unattractive socially inept men , that also may be weak and cowardly, and even lazy. They also don't know that many "felons" have mental health issues just like them. They just present them differently, and are more likely to be punished for them because they include ACTIVE antisocial behavior …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:24 PM
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There is no point to posts like these. It is just very unattractive men trying to shame women for not liking the things like awkward, antisocial autistic features of men. They just can't accept that they are not attractive , and are trying to make it a moral issue. They can't understand nuance, they need things constantly spelled out for them. Even then, they still try not to get it. There is no "cure" for what they have going on in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:11 PM
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As long as you are reading the signs right, I don't see a woman having an issue with you approaching her. I think what ruins it a lot for men , are the delusional men who have no self awareness and approach with surprise, and or approaching women way out of their age group, and sorry to say "league". Not all men are like this of course. Some are self aware. However the bad ones really can leave a bad taste in women's mouth. They seem to be the loudest about feeling "slighted" for being turned do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:58 PM
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I think of most interactions in PPD to involve this. Including being on the spectrum myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:12 PM
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Not so much an assertion as an observable mark of a healthy functioning society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:58 PM
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Society should guarantee physical safety to women as far as being targets of wayward men who have a physical advantage . I don't see how society is guaranteeing much of anything else, because really it doesn't even guarantee the physical safety and women have to worry about that while going about daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:32 PM
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Society owes environments where people are not harassing others with verbal or physical language or actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:27 PM
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Then maybe being successful with women is not something they should want so much without accepting the criteria women place on it. Or work hard to find the exceptions. There are women who want different things . Childbirth and pregnancy has also not changed significantly for women either. It is still a big sacrifice on the mind , body and life, that has not changed. Men are actually lucky that they don't have to worry about that and never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:25 PM
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That first paragraph was spot on! I don't understand how men believe they are being pressured to be masculine like old times. They are not whatsoever. They are loving the soft era they are living in where military service is not required , nor manual labor. They are fine with video games and easily accessible porn to take up their time. They are complaining that they don't reap benefits of doing other things with their time and what physical strength testosterone affords them. They really hate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:20 PM
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Wouldn't you have social circles where friends or friends of friends help facilitate interactions with the opposite sex? It seems like that is what I have experienced. I have even mentioned that a girl friend was attracted to a guy or vice versa (with consent to mention it) and then introduced them to each other, or brought one over to the other while at a party or casual get together. They then exchange numbers , social media etc, after talking for a while. This has also happened with me being …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:45 AM
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Yeah, this is unfortunately very true about "bad boys". When I was 16 I had a boyfriend that became abusive. I broke things off. He was livid. Kept trying to scare me into being with him again. One day a guy that many would say was a "bad boy" as he had been in many fist fights and never lost any of them, asked me out. I said yes. Word got back to my ex boyfriend, and he called me with a completely different tone, apologizing, and even asking me if I was going to tell the new guy about him conta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:26 AM
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This is very problematic and even uncomfortable. Not saying all men do this, but I have seen a few situations where there will be a couple of men in a group who do this to a barely of age woman in a workplace for example or at a workplace event. The woman looks visibly uncomfortable or embarrassed. The woman will say something like "no thank you , or I have a boyfriend", then the men will still continue with saying inappropriate things in the following days. When asked to stop , or people have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:02 AM
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A man taking his shirt off slowly with a chiseled body underneath the shirt , is depicted often as something "sexy" a male does in media (movies, shows etc) .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:50 AM
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This response was very well written, it covered a lot. Thank you for sharing this response on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:37 AM
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A man can be kind , considerate, and not good in bed because he is asexual as well. That would just mean he makes a good friend and not a good husband . It would not make him a bad person, he just would be better in a friend category. There are asexual women perhaps or very low libido women perhaps that would be a better match for that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:55 AM
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Or nature made women the deciders of who to select to satisfy their sexual needs wich also comes with being able to pass on their male partners genes. Being a good husband does not mean that you get to forgo being a good and compatable sexual partner. If a man wants to tell himself that, then he is welcome to feel that way. It most likely won't get him anywhere with women who want satisfying sex. For me, and many women that is more important than merely being able to become pregnant. It actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:51 AM
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Women who desire sex , usually want a man who can fulfill their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:35 PM
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Women can choose to get rid of men that don't do this. This is why some men seem to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:34 PM
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Usually, men who actually pay attention to details would understand their woman's sexual wants and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:24 AM
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If she has to work as well, has to do everything close to 50/50 , then "good in bed" is most likely an important need that needs to be met. Her husband would not stay with her if she moved out of the bedroom and remained 50/50 in everything and "nice and kind" but just didn't want sex anymore. You cannot expect women to want to stay with men who don't/ can't handle their wife's sexual needs. Most women will not expect men to do that. A person who you have to fake "good or okay" sex with because …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:15 AM
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I got the Ned Flanders likeness in your answer immediately, and lol'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:08 AM
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Okay. I also admit I have not heard much from the perspective of men and boys who come from cultures or have cultural influence that would demonize their sexuality and coax others to react with disgust and humiliation , bully, and describe them with disgusting words. That definitely can cause damage to females and males. I am sorry for your experience with this. I hope you can come to have a positive view of yourself , and I hope you are able to distance yourself from what has affected you negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:40 AM
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I think more women may be just willing to pass on a man who lacks things that make her interested in him. Usually, women won't want to have sex with a man she is not interested in personality wise. whereas men may still try to get sex out of the woman despite there not being much interest outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:31 AM
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This is so strange to read for me. It has been observed by me and a few others who care to talk about it , that historically and even now women's sexuality has been demonized and women's bodies viewed with disgust, women's menstrual cycles, bodies during and after pregnancy picked apart and mentioned as disgusting objects. Women's vaginal discharge and secretions are rarely talked about and when they are, it seems that they are talked about with disgust and foul words as descriptors. Add in porn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:13 PM
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Yeah, they will skip right over that part EVERY time🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:07 PM
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Her personal opinion, may be strongly worded. People often have strong feelings surrounding their feelings about their sexual preferences. I understand that it may not be comfortable to know about. I think I feel like as long as she isn't calling for human rights violations against men she isn't attracted to , it is okay for an opinion to be voiced truthfully. I don't think she would want anything inhumane to happen against these men for not being her preference. Also, as women , we often see ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:44 PM
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I took this whole discussion of this subject to include laying out and explaining attraction, and entitlement and how they tie into arguments from both sides. Most arguments, while not directly saying entitlement or attraction are discussing areas where those things are apparent in their views on the discussion . If you were being very specific about something else, then maybe that was not picked up by me. My point is that those 2 things (attraction and entitlement) are important in this discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:28 PM
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Yes, there are definitely some women that don't see gay sex as not masculine. This is to be expected as well. Some women even write male on male gay romance and sex stories and are very aroused by that genre. There is a spectrum of things and ways people are aroused and how those things are expressed. I knew a couple of women that loved that genre, and would most definitely view men who were romantic or sexual with other men as potential sexual partners . Those women definitely exist too. They a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:56 PM
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I think it diminishes their attractiveness to straight women because many straight women can recognize them as human beings with rights to pursue their sexual attractions. They are not entitled to straight women who view their sexual behavior as attractive. The reasons they don't view them as sexually attractive are not going to be reasons these bisexual men are happy with and / or that they agree with, and that is okay . It won't change the women's attraction for straight men who are not partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:51 PM
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The LGBTQ community are the minority community. So there will be some straight people that view that deviation from straight majority to have elements of a sexual nature that are not relatable to them at all. I think this is normal. What is bigoted is to try and deny the LGBTQ community of human rights like jobs, livelihood, and to harrass or bully them in society. This is not okay. This is what I believe most straight people feel about the LGBTQ community. They don't have to view sexual attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:41 PM
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I agree with her , in that women who don't date bisexual men , do believe this. This is to be taken as her personal view and the view maybe of some or most women who are straight and view men as sexual potential partners, they will have parameters as to what they consider masculine and sexually attractive. I don't think she meant everyone views it that way. They obviously don't. Also, the men who are bisexual don't view it that way. Which is more important for them to maintain their own self ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:34 PM
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That is, I think, the point. The act itself (gay male sex) forfeits masculinity, no matter how masculine actions and appearances look outside of that. The performance of that act , renders anything outside of that , as useless in an attempt to seem masculine, in women's eyes , who are attracted to masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:24 PM
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Maybe because males have genitals that penetrate. They can cause tearing and damage to male anus and also female genitals and anus. Also, males have historically been known to go on r@pe frenzies in times of war, usually targeting any human weaker than them physically, so this includes women, children, and weaker men. I think if women had historically done stuff like this, and also were physically more strong than men, they may have a similar reputation with humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:14 PM
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This whole comment is crucial to really understand story or example number 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:09 AM
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Great comment in response to this post. Because wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:08 AM
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I would think that women who are older and more accomplished at life , would welcome potential partners in men with decent backgrounds but not necessarily rich, if those men were attractive and had good characters. Most women contribute to household income. It has been that way for a while. As far as value for women being as close to virgins as possible, is often an internal problem with how you view women vs men. I would say with so many women working and getting education , they are actually w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:53 PM
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I am failing to see so many women dating older men. Usually, young women find old men creepy. I do feel bad for women who were born into poverty and desperate situations that basically have to sell themselves to old creeps for quality of life, or survival. That is a sad nightmare scenario for most women to see or think about at any age I would think. As far as 40 year old women, my Aunts are pretty awesome. They both divorced and are dating younger themselves. They said their experiences with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:31 PM
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This is usually what they want, lol, for women to shut up and let them enjoy their delusions, desperate accusations, and fantasies in peace . They become extremely attached to their fantasies , and as always, project that women are detached from reality, and really, they think that because they know how much their fantasy worlds impact them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:06 PM
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Negligent fathers who have abandoned their kids seem to be a dating experience that puts many women off. I have read stories about it often .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:06 PM
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I am sure when I reach the age these guys are, I would not be attracted to them if they are displaying the creepy behaviors many women have experienced from them. The jealousy about it all seems to be a convenient fantasy to downplay what women have seen going on . Not all age gaps with men being older are bad. However, there have been too many bad experiences that women have had that have nothing to do with jealousy. The jealousy claim is rightly seen as a way to justify age shaming of older wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:04 PM
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Fuckbois do come in all ages, and the behaviors can be similar . However, people often do expect people to mature and be better and more mature at older ages. So the old fuckbois are going to be seen by most as more pathetic and ridiculous by people. Also, age is still a hindrance to the older fuckboi, so he may have added layers of bad behavior to manipulate and meet his goals that is observed and can really creep people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:58 PM
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They are blinded by the visual of the beautiful young woman and the old man in their head. They won't consider the woman's point of view because they have already decided that they like the visual. Single moms in their 30's are a visual they don't like, so they automatically have stories about the negative aspects of that , and have no problem going into why that is what is wrong with the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:53 PM
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Yep, at 16 a 40 year old at my first job tried endlessly to pressure me into drinking a big drink he made himself at a work party. I would not drink it, and he was talking crap about me later because of that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:49 PM
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Exactly. Most young women have stories about this . Older men trying to date very young have sadly earned the status of creep due to their behavior, and as much as men want to ignore women's experiences with those behaviors, it won't stop women from talking about, sharing and comparing notes. I personally have about 5 stories off the top of my head about creepy older men and my experience with them. I absolutely was not attracted to any of these men in any way , shape or form. It didn't stop the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:47 PM
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The culture has always been accepting of older men dating younger women. The culture of being allowed to voice opinions is what has changed. Bill Belicheck would not be able to be commented upon in the same ways he is now in the internet age, and also would not have been so visible in the past. Now, people and, more specifically, women can make commentary about it, and those comments can be seen by more people ..Also people can see what Bill Bilicheck has also commented about his age gap relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:39 PM
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Nuanced means that they most likely are attracted to a lot of different things coming together to create attraction. That is very nuanced . If you are used to simplifying things for your own convenience, that is not understanding something, it is deciding that you want to ignore nuance and decide what you think nuance means. What are women lying about being attracted to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:05 PM
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Crime scene analysis is very applicable here🤣. Love that interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:43 PM
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What do women lie about? Maybe you don't understand the nuance of the answers women give? This seems to be a problem for many men. You want something to be black or white and most things are more complex than that. Most things have several different things going on at once , to be what they are. Not understanding something can be frustrating. It doesn't mean that the answer to something is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:34 PM
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The problem seems to be that many men on PPD believe that women should not have preferences. You all would defend , agree on , and happily assert that men can have any preference they want, resent even being asked about why you have that or those preferences, and then turn around and absolutely hate that women have any preference at all. I wonder do you guys understand that this is where many women deduce that you only see yourselves as human, you want (not you personally) women to be punished f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:47 AM
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Yep, they do insist that Chad is worse than unattractive men, and incel and incel-adjacent men. It is a wild claim. I never seen an angry woman hating Chad in my life. I have seen average to below average men being very outwardly misogynistic though. Not all, of course, but far too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:44 AM
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I think many things can be going on at the same time. If some women have repeated experiences with men that is relatable to the reality of the violence we see with men, the way lots of women talk about being groomed at minor ages of their lives and a spectrum of experiences with SA , they can be happy with being single, or content with being single and still talking about their observations, the statistics on violence and femcide, the state of the world in general and how income inequality has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:31 AM
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There have been many women that have shared similar stories as yours and similar sentiments. Many men ignore these experiences of women and some even continue to be verbally abusive when women are being vulnerable about this. I often tell the men on PPD that this is what led women to even start participating in body positivity, because of the toll it was taking on women's mental health . They get angry when you tell them that and insist that body positivity was about them in actuality and trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:31 AM
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It seems to me that the sheer numbers are not being correctly measured. I think women are not denying that men are lonely and that women often explain why they think many men are lonely. It seems to be men who fail to even see the women with their same issue because they focus on the women they deem highly attractive and desirable. So that becomes all women to them. They also defend men having "standards" that would completely cut these women from being considered for relationships. So they igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:08 PM
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Absolutely do. If the work is valuable than the pay should reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:03 PM
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I feel like it is more about how they think OTHER MEN percieve their status in life and society. They love to fawn over men who have the "best looking" women, or they hate them with a passion there seems to be no in between to these often potent feelings they have.. The hating women comes later when they have to deal with rejection ( most people deal with this) from the women they think will give them that status that they want other men to see that they have. They say women dress for other wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:45 PM
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Thank you for this comment. Men on PPD seem to think that the experience of most women is how they imagine the women deemed most desirable are treated, with lavish lifestyles , endless male attention from "chad" and never any type of hardships, job insecurity, judgement on looks, intelligence, and social prowess. They think women who don't register as ones they think want to have sex with on sight are not even human with human experiences that are sad , lonely and challenging. When you tell them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:20 PM
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I think women know by and large than porn conditions and consumes men's sexual appetites. Which is why now many women are screening for porn use in dating. Most men I have heard argue about it being "normal" and not wanting to agree with the fact that is does condition them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:02 PM
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It was not about getting men to accept shit. Men who are attracted to fat women or thin women will be no matter what anyone says . It seems to be you that downstairs comprehend that. Body positivity never proclaimed it was for anything other than shared experiences of women with more common bodies and their own personal self esteem being discussed. The only thing it did proclaim is that it didn't care about male approval like yours. That is what triggers you. That is why you are arguing about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:20 PM
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Many women will also not be cared for, considered, respected , coddled or given resources for simply existing . Many women also have to deal with being devalued by humans for not being "genetically gifted" . This is a human thing. It is something women are told they are delusional for thinking should just come to them for simply existing. There are lots of women that can have 100 men not think they are worth effort, support, or consideration. Women are told from girlhood that their worth relies …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:44 PM
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I love this very logical and well written take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:22 PM
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I agree that giving up on dating is happening for both parties. However, lots of different reasons. The one that is most common, is , in the west, life is expensive, work is not rewarding or even stable, and there is no hope for the future . Financially, most in the west have scary futures to look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:36 PM
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If dating the unattractive dudes also means , bad sex , going 50/50 and in some cases footing the bill, and disturbing peace and having to cater your life around a man that thinks he settled for a woman in his own league anyway. Then it will be a no for lots of women these days. Perhaps more than before . Because why put yourself through worrying about birth control, risk of pregnancy, only to have to work as hard as the man, someone in your space, the emotion labor of dealing with many insecure…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:33 PM
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No the body positivity movement was not. It was about feeling better about your own body as a personal matter. No one said that any subpar male with social problems needs to find fat women desirable. No one cared if they did or not. Last time I checked many many fat women were just as pregnant as other women , and that makes you mad. Not me.. I said obesity is unattractive to most people, so what are you talking about? I didn't say it was controversial. That other nonsense about character is sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:41 PM
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He analyzed your post. Very well, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:57 AM
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How would you know what they think of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:56 AM
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It is not awful to be cautious about what many you literally risk getting pregnant by, killed by, given an STD to more easily, or attacked by as a woman. This is self preservation , not inflated self worth. Also , good self worth is a great thing for any would be mother or mother to human children to have anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:43 AM
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Great response to that nonsense post. Ones on PPD who post these types of arguments, are ones that reek of frustration, and projecting their own frustrated feelings on to women they desperately need to try and devalue because they feel so non important sexually to the women they wish they can have , and can't .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:28 AM
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Obese PEOPLE are generally seen as unattractive by most of society, with some cultures especially, not liking them at all. No one cares to force men to like obese women. Also, men need to fully understand that obese men are also not attractive to many women. Men with bad bodies, in general, are not attractive to many women. There are many physical things that make men very unattractive to women . However, that will never be a moral issue , and it doesn't mean the guys are bad or abusive, just no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 11:20 AM
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Yes, it is definitely tricky. It does take strong emotional intelligence, and empathy. However , women have seen and experienced when this was weaponized against them. So it can become hard to truly trust again for some women. I knew a couple where the guy really loved a woman who had some horrible stuff done to her by men in her past to where it left her very traumatized. It took her husband a long time to gain her trust. He did and he felt very happy about it. Some men may choose to see that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:59 PM
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Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:46 PM
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Absolutely all of this. They love rules and standards for everyone else, including women and Chads especially, but never themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:45 PM
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So , I like that it is spelled out plainly here , that many men will compare a body type to actual moral failings like abuse and abandoning your own children to a cruel world. Appreciate the honesty, you can't make stuff like this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:43 PM
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Again, your genetics don't stop you from becoming rich, richer or having more money than others. It is a WILL POWER problem. Not genetics .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:41 PM
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So, it most likely just made many men believe that women could be attracted to those types in larger numbers than what was actually realistic. Also, it didn't work as intended since many women still won't find those men as their preference . PPD men say they don't want to be "settled for" . You won't produce natural attraction no matter how much you try to condition women or girls. Not very good, since many men on PPD have expressed that they don't like being lied to about what women find visual…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:40 PM
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Progressive ideology is NOT personal preference and attraction. If men don't want masculine butch women and are either conservative or liberal, that doesn't meant that they are bad people, the issue is when they want the masculine butch woman to be assaulted, harmed, financially oppressed because that isn't their preference sexually. I am pretty sure that a progressive attitude politically is more about equality or not infringing on the rights of others just living their lives . A woman who happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:39 PM
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Most women may not. But in groups at social gatherings I have seen a woman call a guy over , she may be with her friends but she will call a guy she thinks is attractive over to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:50 PM
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What a GREAT analogy!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:48 PM
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This happens still, and especially at places like concerts, I have also seen groups of 3 or 4 guys approach groups of 3 -5 women and introduce themselves and ask stuff like "where are you ladies from, if you don't mind me asking?" Then they kind of just let each woman say a little something and then the guys respond , seems like usually everyone is smiling from both groups, even if it is sometimes nervous smiles from each group with certain members that may be a little more nervous than other me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:47 PM
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Friends often "cater to each other" .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:37 PM
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This had been tried with constant media aimed at "beauty loving the beast" and revenge of the nerd movies that they push on to the public. Movies and media with fat , big gut having men and slim wives . That was all trying to shape opinions and "normalize" otherwise not conventionally attractive men to be seen as equal to strikingly handsome Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:34 PM
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Obesity and ability to hold on to weight or lose it , is genetic as well. Your ability to get rich and impress women also is a "will power" problem. Because that is not something influenced by genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:32 PM
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So let me get this straight, women who are not your preference in weight, are equivalent to males who run out on their kids and beat women? 🤦🏽‍♀️ You can't make this stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:30 PM
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They will give themselves all kinds of nuances , excuses and explanations but their judgemental attitudes towards women and lack of nuance and grace means they just have "standards" , which of course women are not allowed to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:26 PM
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Yeah, they never want to bring up their lazy behaviors that contribute to this, anti social behavior that they practice at this age and keep the behaviors into adulthood. It is always because women have not invited them to be in their space whenever one they deem hot enough to approach crosses their path. It seems also the rise of spectrum behaviors and disorders and actually dismissing them as those men with them needing to be constantly forgiven and coddled because they "don't know any better"…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:59 PM
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I am sure that some men definitely have this problem. Especially ones that have parents footing most of their costs of living . I have seen that plenty while living in certain towns. I guess I am surrounded by men I work with and I work a lot also , so I know how grueling it can be. Especially depending on your work environment, which many can be soul crushing. Also I am always deeply disgusted that business and corporations are not required by law to give PTO /Vacations to working people . It j…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:57 AM
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Pre-judged and accusations are to be met seriously , yes. They are personal. That can be understood. If you are personally being attacked for things you didn't do , than yes, you have a right to draw the line. However, when enough of a certain group are doing things that have been observed as harmful , humans tend to become suspicious of that entire group. Is it wrong? It can be depending on the motives. The analogy of not knowing what glass has poison and all of the glasses look the same on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:07 PM
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Your arguments are what is making distinctions. You want it to seem that way. Your arguments and the way you are glossing over victims affected by it are taken the way you are expressing them. So if you are okay with that, then yep, nothing more to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:55 PM
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100 percent. It isn't a great way to live , and it is only a matter of time before the consequences of living this way starts to have the most horrible outcomes in larger numbers. I really hope that more men see this, because that affects them more greatly than they can seem to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:53 PM
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This seems to be the problem, many don't bother with changing the name they use at 14. Why bother changing anything else amirite? Not saying that you particularly feel this way about women and dating. But do you understand many men see love and lust and dating the same way they did at 14 years old also? Never growing, never maturing , many men do wanna be stuck acting like entitled 14 year olds and wanna present themselves this way, and want women to pretend they are stupid and don't notice the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:45 PM
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So is this admitting feminists are right? They say this (men would win if there were a competition to exploit) and you guys deny that it happened historically and still deny now that this is your ultimate goal. You think threatening your way into women's lives and panties is the way. Feminists warn women about this from what I have read and heard. You guys often say feminism is a problem, however you keep proving that you are often a threat to women and it is in how you think and feel about wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:33 PM
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Lots of men particularly seem to not be making the connection between how we live in the USA, for example. Many people are wage slaves to a system here that barely keeps us with normal everyday stability. The long-term stability is out of the question now. All the laws and the system itself is designed to make you a slave to it , so that you don't develop quality relationships, and if you do , it presses, squeezes and stresses you out with the instability of housing , job attainment and or keepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:23 PM
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I hope this comment is read over and over so the extent of how FAR GONE most of you are is on display. Because labeling yourself "traditional" and then seriously feeling this way about 10 dollars. This means that you most likely will be alone , and hopefully, you like being alone. That seems like it would be best for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:04 PM
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A person who would name themselves "psychotyrant" trying to shame women for preferring who she wants to have a relationship with or give her body to, is insane . Whatever is an imperfection or deal-breaker to whatever women is their preference. Why do you all think that you are the only humans with preferences? You don't even risk getting pregnant by women . Why do you think women can't have preferences and you try so HARD to play victim ? The victim narrative you guys keep pushing , is also ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:57 PM
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I think women are just very very tired of men not willing to admit that there are some men and way too many in that "some men" who are causing problems. It is sad that when 2 foods look the same on the outside and 1 of them is known to be deadly and poisonous , that someone would become offended that others will act cautiously to both and have a very hard time determining which is safe. It isn't something that women want to deal with either. Women often wish we knew right away. I think she was m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:16 PM
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So do you think your attitude about the discussion of why rape culture is problematic? Do you think someone asking you to honestly consider that you may know rapists and not be aware of them ? Then ask yourself if you are not aware because they hide so well that they can even fool you into believing they don't even exist, imagine what women are dealing with. Imagine one hiding in plain sight , then when opportunity happens and he has gained access to a woman what he is capable of. He fooled you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:36 PM
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Why not seek to understand where the women who have had crimes committed against them are coming from? Why is that hard to understand? You can have empathy and not relate to bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:22 PM
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I really like that you included here the part about how generally women are not naturally physically equipped to deal with defending themselves against male physical violence. I really hate how this is often glossed over in these discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:14 PM
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I really like this response. Also , I think men need to advocate to other men that acknowledging that there are many men who are the problem doesn't mean you have to default to relating to being THOSE men. It is important for you to have that distinction within and work out why you may be feeling guilty as a man for what actual men who commit atrocities are guilty of. There is no reason to relate to those kinds of men, and to be aware of other men telling men with empathy for female victims and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:05 PM
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Collectively, I don't think men are blamed . However, it does seem to be hard for some men to accept that there are problems that are overwhelmingly caused by men, and people can't just ignore that the way some men behave becomes attributed to men because the crimes committed are by them. It is also a thing that many men are imprisoned by protecting women in their families. That affects men too. I don't see many men bringing this up. Why don't we have laws that allow men to protect not only them…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:55 AM
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Men like this, don't buy into the morality of decent empathy for abused women you mean , right? Because if you genuinely felt it, it would be that feeling and understanding instead of trying to protect your feelings of relating to the actual guilty men committing the atrocities, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:40 AM
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The one thing I will say, is that I have seen men more apt to believe in the types of punishments that I wish would happen to male abusers of children, and to violent rapists. However, I did come to understand why some advocate for not wanting this as protocol, when I heard a woman argue that corrupt men in power would just justify doing this to wrongly accused men , usually of poorer backgrounds and lower social standing , but not necessarily violent or of low character. They would use those pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:18 AM
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Yes , they don't give a fuck at all. They trivialize any and everything that women do. They pretend that women don't have a tough time with ANY aspect of being a woman or girl and dealing with men. The reason I don't even consider their rhetoric, is because they have their own self interest as what is paramount in anything. They view being male as most important, so yes, they are more apt to argue with women rape victims , and women who have been abused by men. They are more apt to deny women's …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:01 AM
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One thing they will do every time is claim to speak for all men. They will get angry and triggered when other men don't agree with them, and they also try to police other men's penises. It always struck me as them projecting so hard that they became lost , or that they cared so much because they wanted all the (especially younger, attractive) men for themselves or something. It is so bizarre to claim all men or even most men have your exact preference, when also usually , no one asked them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:50 AM
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Yep, and they all have dated "multiple younger women" and so have their friends 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:40 AM
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Or it would become a price fixing thing, what if most of the women who would sell drive the price up, and not sell for a lower price?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:42 PM
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Oh, absolutely, I am never discounting the ones that will put effort and work into a relationship. I believe those men will definitely be able to keep a relationship and receive reciprocal love , affection, and stability .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:54 PM
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Oh okay, just enough of a certain type of guy who wants marriage and long term relationships. I guess that makes sense. But I do think those numbers will be more like 10 percent in this modern climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:00 PM
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The fake nails was an example. What you are talking about doesn't seem to fit any particular group of women. What women are saying that they want commitment from men? Maybe random women of random ages that want the trad-wife life? Lots of women are getting educated , and working more than ever. They understand that the men who even measure up to anything they want to deal with as far as looks, financial stability and personalities ALREADY have competition , those men always have. So what is left…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:30 PM
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This is the biggest thing being ignored. Women are getting college educations, and men are complaining that women are married to their jobs now. Most people are not doing well financially , women are concerned with lessening stress and not adding more. Men thinking they will ignore many women who are already ignoring them sounds like a fantasy to me. Women are more effectively "going their own way" and some men think they can or will shame women into putting up with their demands when their dema…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:21 AM
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I think men have already tried this, hence the body positivity movements so many men seem to hate so much. Women these days have more work in and out of the home than ever. I think women just don't care as much as men want them to in this modern age about what men think about attractive looks. I seen many men on social media and while back saying fake nails are gross and other stuff, it hasn't seem to stop the sale of fake nails at all . I think women just do what they like with their appearance…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:10 AM
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How would it put women in check if nobody viewed it as a crime anymore? Wouldn't it inflate the cost of sex ? Pretty much all women could put a price on themselves, then right? What if it became like a movement of collective bargaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:53 AM
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I don't avoid men whatsoever. I in fact have worked with all men crews for a while now, which has tuned me in to what separates the kind of men who frequent PPD from the various men I work with and observe on a daily basis. One of the glaring similarities is the way certain types spout rhetoric saying "men will do this or that, or think this or that" because they desperately want to belong to the groups of men that hold various levels of power be it socially , financialy , sexually among women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:19 AM
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Your sense of entitlement is being denied. Which is why many of you have issues with self imposed suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:35 PM
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Your problem seems to be that you feel entitled to protection from women. Only certain kinds of men feel entitled to this. I clearly said weak men are not expected to protect women. I don't expect it , and I know it doesn't happen. Yes, men have taught me through their writings and observations that weakness is a vice for men. It doesn't matter if weak men try to deflect that by saying "what about weak women" . Men have convinced me that women are more agreeable, like Jordan Peterson said, also …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:59 PM
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That is all it ever is on here. Which is why they turn their wayward abusive personalities , energy, and focus on women and hating women. They won't dare challenge or hate men, that is not what weaklings do. Weaklings who are bad on the inside will target who they feel they have easiest access to hurt and who they feel they could hurt with the least punishment coming back on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:28 PM
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I personally have seen and fully understand that the weakest men absolutely won't protect men and especially won't protect women. Lots of people know this. The problem seems to be weaker and undesirable men focusing on why they can't have privileges that others do . They can't live with the fact that life isn't fair and that some will have privilege, some won't, some people can work to make life better , some won't, some will work hard only to have their lives cut short before their goals are me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:20 PM
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Have you heard of teenage girls battering their father's? Do men often need to worry that their teen daughters will be physically harming them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:03 PM
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He said it several times. Lots of you here lie so easily and right on public forums where your lies can be checked in front of everyone 🤦🏽‍♀️. Then in the next breath, claim to be these "good guys that do the right things and people hate us for it" . So after seeing how lying and denying reality comes so easy to you, we are supposed to take your comments seriously and trust they are truthful when you make claims? Many of you here need to seek mental help , at all costs, try to find it . Make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:51 PM
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Men and women are both subject to systems that oppress humanity. Women have been observed to have behaviors that are more "agreeable" by male psychologists like Jordan Peterson who said that as he has extensively studied both male and female behavior . Under oppressive systems both male and female will suffer . But agreeable people in general won't often suffer more extreme punishments since they are not as likely to act out violently .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:29 PM
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Okay, so the fat woman won't find a millionaire and the fat dude won't find an average or above average woman to have sex with . He can have sex with below average. He could be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:24 PM
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Obviously not in the west where most people are obese. The undesirable men especially claim they are not attracted to overweight and / or obese women. Often, while being obese themselves. So I wonder why they are lying if what you say is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:12 AM
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Women want to feel validated and men want to feel validated as well. I think women may also come across as being worried about their own looks in sex and stuff because in society women's looks are the focus for everyone. So it kind of breeds a mentality that women should think of themselves as super sexy and hot to become available for sex , since she has been taught to focus on every aspect of her own looks and worry about it being attractive to the male gaze. Some women may even seem to be thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:39 PM
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Men definitely have not been taught to please women sexually. Most misogynistic ideas actually try to get men to think , be, and feel as selfish and entitled as possible when it comes to sex . Many men were even fed lies like orally pleasing women is "gay" . I couldn't believe that men were being told these types of things by other men. It seemed sick, controlling and actually designed by men to get other men to be not liked by women. I guess it would be a "clever" way to keep competition low, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:59 PM
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Right, porn usually showing males looking satisfied and lusted after is gay male porn. The males in regular porn , the woman's looks and sounds are the focus it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:51 PM
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There are people in general that will do that to another person. One reason myself and others realized how some self professed red pill spokespeople are bad intentioned and bad character folks is how they try to TEACH men to do what that woman did to you , and to do it proudly and unapologetically. No one with decency and empathy would think that is okay. They would not think it was okay to be done to you . However the same people that would be hurt by that being done to them are often the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:37 PM
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You are right in your observations if you ask me. I think a lot of this stuff that they are complaining about, has to do with a very stifling weakness towards life and not being able to deal with rejection and not getting your way. Lots of people have to deal with rejection, we usually learn this from a young age as children. We don't always get what we want. We learn to be grateful for what we do have sometimes because of not always getting what we want. We usually learn to move on, and we lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:14 PM
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I bet you will not get a reply to this by the OP lol. Either way, this was spot on , and very well explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:27 PM
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So then, if she is talking to you at the moment , that is your answer. What does it matter if she has reasons for doing it to the other guy? If she said no to you, that means she doesn't consent to doing it with you, doesn't want to do it with you. If I was told something like this, then I would accept it and realize we were not compatible. If I even let something like this bother me at all, I would just not talk to that person anymore, and welcome the next candidate. I wouldn't spend the energy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:05 PM
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Thanks for the philosophical angle , as that is something I hand not considered framing philosophy as. When explained, it did make sense and is definitely applicable there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:42 AM
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Using power for good or evil will usually be very different things that inspire attraction in women. Sure, mentally unusual women would pervert this into being attracted to power , not taking into account if that power is good or bad. I think they are such outliers though that I have never come across any women who have said that Richard Ramirez, Ted Bundy etc were "crushes" or men like them love interests. I knew one woman like this I went to school with that had an abusive boyfriend who ended …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:40 AM
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Circular arguments or circular reasoning in this case , or explained better as to what I was referring to, is a tactic abusers use against someone they usually know has good intentions, so will hear them out. Usually, this is when they use the circular argument/reasoning strategy . At this time is when they start to realize that the person they are trying to abuse is making a move to assert a boundary , or has come to a decision about something that they feel makes them lose control. So they wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:33 AM
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I think the point you are missing is that the few women attracted to the famous serial killers like Richard Ramirez (who is unquestionably guilty) for instance are mentally disturbed. That is a very small amount. The others are not attracted because the man is a killer, they often are seen and heard to say they believe the men are "innocent" or have been "set up" or some type of narrative that these manipulative, psychopathic men give them and them being mentally disturbed desperately want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:11 PM
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Many women are. Why do you think that is the case? Why do you think so many men have a problem with this ? Wondering what your opinion is on this. The vitriol for this seems to be unhinged . Why do you think a portion of men are so angry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:27 PM
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Circular arguments is a strategy used by abusers. It usually escalates to something worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:21 PM
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What and who decided that mental healthline wasn't a reliable mental health source of information? Especially for things not very complex intellectually? How is that determined?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:20 PM
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Absolutely this. Many posts here also seem to love victim blaming even while claiming not to. They focus on the victim rather than the abuser. They also ignore the knowledge that should be common at this point , that the most dangerous time for women with an abusive partner is when they try to leave. There are too many true stories out there of this ending in death for the woman. Then, the notion that it is "easy" to leave such situations seems like maybe a child could have wrote this. The reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:07 PM
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Exactly this . Then they claim women like serial killers but never mention the men who willingly dated and had kids with Casey Anthony. They think of her as hot, and that is all it takes. But women are the only ones who behave like this according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:39 PM
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Exactly this, they would hate to be approached by unattractive women. They would most likely be insulted and act rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:59 PM
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The biggest problem is the attitude you or others who agree with you have behind dismissing possible things that may help you. No one is guaranteed anything, including waking up the next morning. This stuff is apparent to everyone who understands that trying is the only thing in life that will get you closer to the results you want. But nothing is truly guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:07 PM
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She also was the one to labor and birth the children in the relationship. Raw deal for the women, especially if this scenario ever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:54 AM
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Undesirable, unsuccessful men seem to have never accepted that the following statement applies to them. "Stop playing hard to get, when you are already hard to want". Deep down they feel like it is over already. Which is why they come up with strange stuff to believe to shield the emotions about believing it will not happen for them. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:51 PM
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This is exactly what it is. They have concluded from their emotions that dealing with rejection is so bad for them, that they can never put forth any effort ever again. The women (who will be non existent) will have to "come to them". It is hilariously ridiculous, as it most likely will never happen. It is strange to even be talking about it. I am sure it most likely has some type of element of feeling like they have figured something out , to deal with the pain of rejection for something they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:45 PM
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Pretty sure it sucks to be as wrong as you , and to have general knowledge be otherwise, even from men themselves, usually being fathers cautioning their daughters . But go off queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:26 PM
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Men largely talk about how sex is paramount to their lives, and interests. So you seem to be speaking for yourself and a minority amongst men. I am sure some like this exist. However I am gonna go ahead and believe the majority of what I have been told by men and have read by men that says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:23 PM
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I find this to be true , but also for very bad bodied , obese men as well. They also get laid left and right. I don't find that pressure to be true for men. It seems most stuff centered for making a person more attractive seems to target women way more. Most men and boys seemed to not even care what they look like, will often not even get hair cuts, or keep their faces clean shaven unless maybe they are active military. Also, gruff looking sparsely haired thin beards growing aimlessly on lots of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:44 PM
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Then why do the men here always say that overweight women are so unattractive? At least in the west, the average size is 16, and men here believe that to be the size of a "landwhale" . So are most men lying about who they find attractive? Because if that is true, I don't often see men arguing with them and insisting that so many men like overweight women and are attracted to them, and consider them attractive. It is hard to figure out exactly what you all believe to be largely true. What I usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:39 PM
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That is all it really is. They all want to drive the most expensive car, but since they can't afford it, and it isn't accessible to them, they all of a sudden don't have any options other than the dealership that is meant for the millionaires. So now they don't want the cars that they can access and afford. If they do decide to settle for those cars. They will treat the cars horribly, neglect them, and abuse the car. Then when it stops working for them, they will scream it was because it wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:53 PM
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If men are visually attracted to women that are larger, they are still going to pursue them for sex and usually sex is what keeps a man's interest. Men are visually attracted to different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:48 PM
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Pretty sure "life and safety" are things women have to be concerned with much more , when they consider what men they cohabitate, date or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:29 PM
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Delusional take🤣 there are obese badly built men everywhere🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:29 AM
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Collectively in the hands of the ones with the body part known to hold life until it is suitable to be birthed into the world. The labor and sacrifice is on one side of the 2, and not optional to forego in order to continue the human species.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:27 PM
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Yes 100 percent continuity of humanity through labor and sacrifice. A human truth .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:45 PM
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I actually wish there were things focused more on the male body. I am attracted to the male body and like watching and looking at the male form. It is what gets my attention, holds my attention and focus. I am not sure about clothing being able to be sexualized for men in the same ways it expresses itself for women and gay men. But features on men definitely provide lust for me. Things I notice are men's voices, their hands or feet , their legs , their shoulders, their necks , their chests and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:16 PM
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I am definitely attracted to the male body , male sex characteristics physically. However, watching them having sex turns me off and definitely does not provide lust in me , but the opposite. Kinda like how I like ice cream, smear hot sauce all over it , I know ice cream is still under there and I love ice cream but adding the hot sauce has now made it non edible to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:09 PM
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Pretty sure that anyone I have ever been attracted to is a man. However gay men are definitely not the type of men I am attracted to whatsoever .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:04 PM
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Men tend to act differently to friends vs sexual interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:53 AM
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You should ask yourself why your wallet is so important to you. Could it be because you put your time and labor into what constitutes your "wallet"? So your wallet is allowed to have value and the sacrifice you make to aquire what is in your wallet, but that can't be applied to the labor , sacrifice and contribution we are speaking of here? Why would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:31 AM
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It has nothing to do with anything you wrote here. It is about labor, sacrifice and incubating life . Many of you who write comments like this keep trying to gloss over that part. It is very different from "wiping your own ass" . It is nothing even closely comparable to that whatsoever. If you were honest you would just admit that. Instead you write strange angry comments trying to trivialize a very important contribution to the continuity of humanity itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:27 AM
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That is not how it works. Pregnancy , labor and birthing are a big contribution. A one sided one. Women should be very aware of any man that attempts to trivialize such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:58 AM
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This comment was a very well written one and very in touch with the world and state we are in . Very glad to see this contribution to this conversation here. Thank you .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:54 PM
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Men are just as fat and this seems to be a delusional take that they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:00 AM
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The conversation will never be honest until they can admit how their fantasies on screen are making them become removed from reality and that they cannot separate those fantasies from reality. They help condition themselves by constant viewing of unrealistic things, but then scream that women want "disney movie" stuff in real life .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:58 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:56 AM
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I love reading comments like his and how truthful these admissions are. Women, I think, are understanding this more and more and staying away from them. Many comments can be found about them liking video games and porn as well , much more than they like to even be around the average woman. These comments are not specifically saying that about porn and video games, but I have seen ones like these and others saying exactly that. I really like the honesty, and I really think they are giving out val…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:53 AM
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I have seen this video before. Many many different conclusions can be reached from this video lol. Rankings often have something to do with the emotional feelings about a thing, from BOTH sides, and not just the one side that "incredulous" people may think, as in this case lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:03 PM
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Nah, women can most definitely tell the difference. You said nothing here yourself but "no you".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:28 AM
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Whenever people have commentary on their preferences, they lose all logic in the argument. They resort to emotionally driven fantasies about women being jealous of the attention they falsely believe that grown up women want from them, which is usually not the case whatsoever, but used to make themselves feel wanted instead of invoking disgust in grown up women that can spot these types , and to shift blame, and turn attention away from themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:37 PM
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Fat is not masculine . Thin is not feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:28 PM
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Pretty sure women are capable of assessing when a female looks young and underage. As far as the fantasy many of you have about other of consent age women being "jealous and feeling ugly" is a projection of you all feeling "ugly and broke", and because you believe that about yourselves you think we believe that about young girls. More likely to be the motherly instinct in us if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:25 PM
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Exactly 💯, I have also seen some men grow angry at women like you as well. They believe they are the only ones that can like and lust after younger and "better" and more "desirable" bodies. They never want to admit that it is jealousy, but are quick to say that older women are jealous, or any women they say is undesirable is jealous.. They also think it justified for them to be angry , repulsed and jealous about Chad. But then say that women are evil and jealous because they (the average and bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:07 PM
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Explain how porn being seen as damaging is "pseudoscience". Also , if porn isn't damaging, then why are men self reporting that it is adding to problems that got better once they stopped using it? Explain why there is a rise in male impotence and inability to sustain erections at younger ages with the use of porn? Or will you defend the use of this "drug" , as if it doesn't cause problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:58 AM
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Excellent comment, and I thought while reading the OP's comment that it sounded entitled to try and call women cruel for having a preference, and also he is so out of touch for saying for him sex is a "chill and low stake thing". You were absolutely right that he definitely can't fathom the burden of bearing children, nor being judged by body count. He says women are cruel for selectivity, but also then says he seems to think men's preferences are not as "cruel" and in fact, perhaps ,"natural". …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:53 AM
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Define the female sexuality. What exactly is directly repulsive about it to you? Also, give an example of a woman being repulsed by male sexuality , then give an example of you being repulsed about female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:41 AM
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I'm pretty sure the conclusion of "nice guy" was reached after the experience of giving the "nice guy" a chance and him demonstrating the behavior that was not what he proclaimed . Usually, women have reported that the guy, in fact, was not nice and started comparing notes. Conclusions are usually reached once a scenario has played out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:29 PM
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The sad thing about the sex part, is that they want sex performed for them, with only their pleasure in mind. Which makes it even more bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:10 AM
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Right about reading. Usually talking to people who are well read, makes for good conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:06 AM
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Just laugh at yourself, or even cringe a little and don't let it live in your head too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:01 AM
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This was so funny lol. Also, very good straightforward advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:00 AM
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I don't think you understand what circular logic means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:57 PM
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It is also definitely lost on them that they mention women not wanting to settle. Women who won't, usually learn to be content with the dreaded "cats and dogs" they use to make fun of women with. These women are also made fun of, laughed at for being socially awkward and they feel pain at the reality that women men place above them in looks usually have more options and are treated better and given more surface kindness and attention than them. Those women usually seem to understand this and I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:56 PM
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Yeah, that is why I included the images they are inundated with through media that permeates their minds eye, hot, fun, interesting. This definitely goes against claims of "even landwhales have high standards" . They believe themselves to be above that, while also being the male versions and often worse , that that can't possibly be all that is available when they have fantasies that are different. They simply say the "any woman with a pulse" stuff to shutdown conversations digging at what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:47 PM
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They never want to admit that they want specific things that many women view as degrading and too much, especially for low effort men who think they are deserving of fantasy lives. I think them being exposed to so much visual sex acts from their youth through media has them applying weird fantasy driven standards to women that sound insane to women, that repel women and that they have become so delusional about that they cannot separate fantasy from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:36 PM
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The sad thing about this is, that rejection of someone based on their personality which is the essence of who they are, is a very not shallow thing to reject someone for. Many of the types you mentioned don't understand this at all. Which makes the point even stronger. They can not truly take in and reflect on the importance of a person's personality. They become delusional and won't accept that their personality and the way they come across to people are lacking . This is why they will deny tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:24 PM
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I have always been curious about this. As a woman, I have never been able to relate to being turned on by 2 men having sex . There is a genre of erotica that often has women writers that always center 2 males in sexual or romantic stories. It was so fascinating to find out that women authored these stories and that the fandom consisted of many women as well. I always wondered why I could not relate to that very well and always wondered when women discovered that this was a turn-on for them. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:11 AM
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Nah, the first time I ever heard about circumcision was the ancient Egyptians practicing it for hygienic reasons . Circumcision had always been brought up as both hygienic and religious practice . They intertwine both of these when discussing them often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:03 PM
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It doesn't drastically reduce pleasure for every man. Some websites say that it increases sensitivity . Maybe it was practiced historically because men more easily pass STD's to women than the other way around. https://rightasrain.uwmedicine.org/life/sex/women-STIs Female genitalia and bodies already risk being wrecked in childbirth and some most definitely are. Many men here like to gloss over that fact as well and claim women are privedged in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:23 PM
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The website pretty much talks about how there are no health benefits to FGM and that it is a horrible practice. https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/female-genital-mutilation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:13 PM
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Since the whole reason for removing the clitoris in FGM is to remove desire and ability to orgasm and is practiced by religious cult type culture, that is the purpose. No story of a survivor of FGM has said only the hood was cut. The entire clitoris is cut off. The religious practice of male circumcision reasons had to do with hygiene historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:02 PM
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They understand the man wants them for their good looks and not much else. Someone wanting good looks and a trophy object, cannot expect that they are getting authentic love , when they themselves are shallow and can only love the outer shell of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:59 AM
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Men have to stop being delusional about what they are offering. If they are offering money and nothing else, then they will attract women after only money. Especially if they themselves want to shoot for women way out of their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:57 AM
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I don't know why they think they are slick . Some are also just bewildered that women won't agree or go along with their "explanations" about why they hold these views. Women have got wise to it. So they default to basically "you should let ME mistreat you and have you at the lowest possible discount in the "sexual market" because you would give Chad a discount". They pretend it is lost on them to acknowledge the question "would they do any of this for an ugly woman or sugar baby?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:17 AM
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Absolutely this. They believe any man who has what they want is an asshole. They also believe that men who don't have their hang ups and who don't have their obsessive, weird, and toxic views as assholes. Furthermore, some of these types also believe that they should be able to harrass and control others and when men react aggressively to these types of men, they say that women just love aggressive assholes. They think no rules or standards appy to them, all standards and rules are for others, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:07 PM
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This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:00 PM
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I also clearly said dating and referenced early stages of relationships. You were the one talking about established relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:11 AM
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I clearly stated that men also do this. Be sure to include that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:04 AM
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Throughout reddit I have seen several comments expressing disgust and outright degrading language towards unattractive "landwhales" who show interests. Some of the guys are venting about how unfortunate they are to be hit on by these women. So it definitely goes both ways . People don't like unwanted attention to people they have no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:02 PM
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Women are taking it to heart, which is why there is so much not fucking on the first date or first few going on. Only now there is anger over it. Women will feel less used and better leaving a situation where she didn't have most likely unsatisfied sexual encounters with a mediocre man. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:47 PM
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I never heard STD's mentioned when discussing this particular subject generally or with dating the available options. It could be something they left out. However, when STD's are discussed, far too many have basically admitted to risking them to bareback a woman they find hot enough, or to perform oral on women they find hot enough. So, only special circumstances are where the STD's are brought up at all. Or they imagine and will say without knowledge or proof , that some woman not that attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:41 PM
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If what people think matters, then it should matter that people think ill of those who can't accept boundaries or understand consent. Or do you only see yourself as "people"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:30 PM
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Or it makes me non consensual to them and their behavior. Which legally and socially needs to be respected. If not, there are bad consequences. Which is why courts and prisons have to be set up for people who don't understand other people's boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:28 PM
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Even if she desires him on the spot , desired and consent are the key words here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:25 PM
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They understand this and love when a hot woman tell some other guy to back off, as long as they have claimed said hot woman as "theirs". Then, it's okay and even rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:21 PM
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Here, many men can't accept women's opinions, and their anger shows HERE. Women often experience anger from men they have to reject. So they would rather be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:18 PM
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Shouldn't men see sexual interest as "slut activities"? Men are usually willing to work harder or wait longer for sex if the woman is "hot" enough. They are more demanding about fast sex to women who they feel are not hot enough to be "holding out on them".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:16 PM
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Some men have to accept they will NEVER be so hot as to inspire women to fantasize about them touching her within minutes of meeting them or encountering them in person. I work around men, and they also talk about how they only do this fantasizing in their heads about only the hottest women. This means, usually sex isn't going to be fast or immediate. Usually, you may have to date a while to see where things go. Men also do this, they go on multiple dates to see if the woman is "worth the effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:12 PM
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I have heard that some women do prefer soft bodies , or pudgy men. Some women have a type they like. Some women have also said they don't like oral sex for themselves. I can't relate to any of those things with what I like in men. However, I guess that is true for some women. It is a mixed bag with different preferences depending on what women you ask or who talk about what they like . I have definitely seen many comments about men being selfish in bed, in many spaces on reddit. I tend to believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:22 PM
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Not once they do more exposure studies on degraded sperm contributing to birth defects and less healthy babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:51 PM
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Are you equating femininity with a child like existence? Preserved? Like virginity? This is so weird. Lots of you come here and give perfect examples of how many men default to not seeing women as human. Now living life , and having adult experiences is not preserving femininity? Very weird .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:49 PM
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Shots were fired FIRST by misogynist. There is no playing "fair" after that. You guys most definitely can live with it. Just brush it off and think of it as "stupid" like you did with the "inferior" comments towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:23 PM
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Usually, women don't. Mostly men here want to bring up age, but then become delusional about how age affects them. They want the focus to be on women aging. They want to remain delusional about what it does to them. Women usually try to be polite and not insult men in this way, but men insist on the topic being brought up, then get angry when it starts to be pointed at what happens to them with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:21 PM
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Dad bods, obese bodied men, and those with ED as older men are often not performing oral sex on women. Probably not all, but a good portion, my aunts friends often talk about themselves and women in their age group having trouble with men their age having ED but also still trying to not get good at or perform oral sex. The divorced ones that date a bit younger men, however, say this isn't a problem for them at all. Those men don't have ED , they have stronger erections and are not as selfish wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:13 PM
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I think many men try to say "inferior product" but then cry about themselves often being "undesirable, and the inferior product". It is projection. Men also project what they like on to other men. Men always get annoyed if another man doesn't agree on what makes his twig rise. He thinks that is the most important thing. So men obsessed with youth in women will insist that all men must be . When it comes to attraction physically. The truth is manipulation of younger , insecure people is easier fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:51 PM
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It is the "wanting them passionately and enthusiastically " that is weird. They tell women that we are lucky that men want to sex us at all. When we talk about unenthusiastic one sided sex, they claim that all women should shut up because atleast they can be "touched" . They claim any kind of touch should do from the most unattractive men that they want to deem "average" . Women should just be happy about that. So if they are not happy about the pity sex, they are sick hypocrites who believe in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:29 AM
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Yep. They are always angry that any woman dares to have standards . Only they are allowed to be picky and have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:19 AM
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They are not the women they desire. The women they desire have better and more desirable options than what they can offer. So they are mad that they cannot talk these desirable women into lowering their standards so that they get to have access to them. It doesn't work that way. They want it to work that way and will seethe in anger and frustration trying to change something that most people understand from both sides and still go on with their lives and learn to be happy with the options availa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:19 PM
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Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:46 PM
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Absolutely this, also people don't take into consideration that sex is most likely also happening with drug use, alcohol use as "numbing agents" that many prostitutes also frequently talk about using to disassociate from committing acts that would be more disgusting if they were stone cold sober and not numb to the reality of what they are doing. The difference is that people in somewhat "polite society" won't talk about using these "tools" while they do acts that produce heirs for very rich and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:59 AM
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Yeah, the amount of delusional denials here , and specifically about this subject are very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:32 AM
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No, they most certainly did not accept Lizzo. Look at her comment section at her biggest and look at a singer like Jelly roll at his biggest and count the comments attacking, harassing and degraded Lizzo, especially by men. Jelly roll, I could not find ANY comments like that. I saw absolutely no women who wanted to take time out of their day to tell him how fat and disgusting he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:41 AM
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This is true. A man can look physically decent and not be ugly at all , but it doesn't mean many women will just be automatically attracted to him. Being pregnant and the cost of pregnancy and birthing is very big indeed. It makes sense to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:06 PM
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It seems like they never let this sink in. They think that calling women names, degrading women and making up special little ugly designations for the women on their own looks level (because often they are delusional about their own looks) makes them appear as superior as they believe themselves to be in their minds. This reinforces their other delusions about not having to work on themselves or how they socialize to meet or have success in dating and eventually being in a long term relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:04 PM
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Yes, very likely to be abusive. I noticed this at a young age as well. But they swear Chad is the only abusive male. Since Chad has better access to what they feel is being denied them, they believe themselves to be morally superior and deem all or most Chads as the abusive ones instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:27 PM
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Yep. They get very angry at women they deem unattractive or ones that also have good self esteem and or the self esteem to not be interested in being a sex toilet for a socially awkward, badly built, hard to get along with, entitled male. They think women should not have any opinion on what they want for their own lives or bodies and that they should want to be "settled for" by unattractive men. But since they deem themselves humans with entitlement, they believe if a woman settles for them , th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:23 PM
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Men who seem obsessed with coining terms like landwhales, are ironically more hurt by their own attractiveness being equal or lower to the landwhales they dislike. Why be mad about someone you deem unattractive? The landwhales are not stopping unattractive men from getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:54 AM
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"An inheret human disgust for predators" is a wonderfully descriptive way to say what many of us are thinking, and it is most definitely very disgusting to even read OP's rant about equating that feeling with jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:55 AM
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"Used pussy" is a common weird take you guys have . Then wonder why feminists dare to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:48 AM
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Yeah reading that was sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:34 AM
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I have seen this happen as well. It is crazy to me that people on PPD think men are such saints that they won't say or do these types of things and that women have it so easy and people roll out the red carpet for women wherever they go..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:18 PM
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Plenty of guys do feel very uncomfortable with that. Not only that, but they will show open disgust and act very immature about it. Women in my observations have seemed to have more mental stability dealing with rejection. Because I have seen this happen to women often. Women may cry alone or with other women to get over rejections and situations like this. But men in general take a very cold and unfeeling approach to them rejecting women they find not attractive. It is why many many women often…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:16 PM
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She was being approached by an unknown man doing kissy gestures at her. That isn't "paranoia".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:02 AM
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Good for her. She lost when she tried to say something positive for a group that already had their minds made up anyway. So she learned that and acted on it. She should not waste one more minute simping for a group that will hate themselves, shame themselves and feel sorry for themselves and view anyone trying to uplift them suspiciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:54 AM
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They acknowledged their pain. They also love how they feel when given a toxic prescription to further dehumanize what they cannot easily sleep with. I think many women see it for what it all truly is. It is hard to empathize with what I described in my previous comment. I think the ones that are actually empathetic and can demonstrate that empathy in their character with their interactions with women do recieve some empathy and support from women. But that is going to be rare. Rare, because most…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:25 PM
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I think the problem here is, men often have absolutely no compassionate feelings for women or girls that are bullied by the mean girl 10's who most men want and obsess over. They don't care at all that the nerdy, average less attractive women counterparts get to see unattractive dudes they would give a chance to, being attracted to these mean girls they consider to have bad character and often may know about how bad it is from being in the girl/woman group. So once again it becomes a hypocritica…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:11 PM
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They are in denial about bad sperm and degraded sperm. I personally know 4 "career women" that these types would absolutely hate , who have kids at 45, 47 and 52 by men in their mid 20's. Completely healthy thriving babies. Sperm was never the subject of scrutiny because males possessed it and historically they always tried to blame women for anything involving healthy babies or lack of them. Then they say with a straight face that they are the logical and rational ones lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:48 PM
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No degraded sperm after 35 is correct. More information will be available soon , that was suppressed before, about faulty , degraded sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:30 PM
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They have degraded sperm after a certain age. More information is finally becoming available about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:14 PM
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They have a hard time understanding. Most women don't want old man sperm, and won't pick old man sperm from fertility clinics. That should say plenty about healthier sperm. They are obsessed with thinking women have trouble having kids, but everyone knows women in 30's and 40's having babies. But they think since Robert De Niro has a new baby at 90 years old lol, that they will be able to do that 😄.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:12 PM
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I say this all the time. I explain this all the time. They are actually the hysterical ones equating that which simply can't be equated. It is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:15 AM
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The first paragraph was not reality at all. Women are not to be blamed for not knowing what guy is an active criminal scumbag. Someone can appear normal until they don't. Put on an act until they don't. Seasoned criminals are often experts at this. They even fool men sometimes in appearing a certain way and then committing criminal acts within a company as well. Most of the time they passed background checks and everything only to go on and harm other men in a company with criminal acts. Women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:03 PM
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Yep, we are very glad to have the stories told of women who met horrible ends due to the unhinged animals that brought them there. You thinking it's a complex or that women are stupid is irrelevant to the actual reasons women may watch that content.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:48 PM
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Many PPD men think women are "too much" for talking about seeing these types online and in real life, taking them serious and knowing that they are dangerous and unhinged. I really hope these men keep posting stuff like the comment you responded to with "who hurt you?" women need to read it and come to understand what is lurking out there and not only online..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:35 PM
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They are literally confusing active sexual act behavior with simply dressing in what they consider "sexy" clothing, going out with friends for drinks or posting Instagram pictures which is and always will be a personal personality display. It is very different from sleeping with various men, jumping on the laps of men and kissing men and sleeping with them in a "party setting" . In almost all party settings there are usually single people, people in relationships and or married people . Usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:19 PM
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True, however , more than men who proclaim they dig fat women or even older women, there are men that have to proclaim that "men are repulsed by fat women" or "men will always find younger women more attractive" . They never want to even fathom that other men don't share their preferences. Also, working with only men, I see them get real excited to try and berate another man about his taste in women being different than his, or him finding something attractive and another man doesn't. I find tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:12 PM
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This! Men also speak for all or most men when they say what their preferences are and what they are absolutely repulsed by when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:10 AM
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Yes, this is part of them dismissing women and trivializing what women go through including the barbaric act of childbirth. They OFTEN minimize that, so this usually acts as a litmus test for the rest of the stuff they trivialize and dismiss for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:41 PM
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They do this with their attractiveness as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:27 PM
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I think men have emotional freedom as far as anger as an emotion goes, because we can argue that women get unfairly stereotyped as being an "angry hag" when they respond to something negative that happens to them that isn't considered "ladylike". Then, women are also stereotyped for being "neurotic or emotionally unstable" if they are displaying crying, complaining of their circumstances and or depression or anxiety, even if they are not acting out violently towards others or even harming others…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:15 PM
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He really said "unconditionally" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:22 AM
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Why don't men not become fat. I see far too many fat men for you all to be constantly trying to talk about attraction and weight. Many of you repulse women with your fatness and lack of male looking attributes and have a likeness to "fat women" when you gain weight. So why keep trying to talk about women's weight? You guys are just as fat and sloppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:17 AM
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Which is why most savvy men AND women know that these men are ripe for the taking in these countries🤣 they foolishly believe that these women can't learn to lie to them with an accent 🤣. They are so delusional. I saw one woman tell a man he was fat and ugly and laughed in his face, but it was okay because he was in her country. For some reason, it went down "easier " because it wasn't a "western woman." I really hope they go to those places with their delusions, or even bring them here with thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:39 AM
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This is a very good standard and I have the same standard. The men have to be attractive to me and show attraction to me as well and any selfishness in bed or otherwise is not tolerated at all. I can usually tell by how they talk . So I have turned down many who probably wondered why I did. But were not aware that I could already see that they were selfish and I would not entertain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:25 PM
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Another component to this that I have heard from several men , is the type of sex they will have with more attractive women and women not so attractive. I overheard many group discussions about this. Especially when it comes to oral sex. They want it from all women, but if she is hot , they say they will let her get away with not doing it. But if she is a casual not attractive woman they will "get theirs and then leave, or say they have to get up early for work" or something like that, and will …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:17 PM
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I am sure that many women have come to the conclusion that men have behaviors antagonistic to relationships with women. Once the full story is fleshed out and all or most things considered, I find that to be the most accurate conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:16 PM
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Also, women dealing with women in your assessment still seems to point to you believing that women possess these antagonistic desires in relationships in general. Therefore, it seems like you reached this conclusion by applying it to how you believe women to be in all relationships dynamics and why. Also, I don't feel bad at all about that statistic, and maybe you are the one "feeling" something here. I just think it weird to frame this the way you are trying to , with women as antagonists to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:32 PM
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I was responding to the headline that women's desires are antagonistic to a relationship. Which framing it that way , is very simplistic and reaching of a conclusion that has little truth in the statement itself. Black and White thinking , seen in males more primarily will latch on to this kind of thing and ignore all else. Which is why I found it problematic and commented on it. You did give an explanation below it. Which is a little more fair than that headline.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:23 PM
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He simply needs a reason to further his dislike of women and girls. He wants empathy to be what he wants it to be. When shown by girls, he is going to think it was wrong and bad because he has convinced himself that women and girls should not be praised and boys and men should not have to hear about it and should argue against it. Funny how some of the ones I have heard stuff like this post from , will lament how a young girl or a few young girls were "truthful" about them being ugly or not liki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:20 PM
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This post comes across like saying "this guy is more likely to cut off your limb." But not explaining that the guy is a surgeon and why he would need to cut the limb off, explaining that the limb has gangrene or a flesh eating virus and would need to be cut off to save the rest of the body. Only that this man is just cutting off limbs. Women will end marriages that they feel imprisoned in sooner than men will end a marriage that benefits him singularly. Usually, marriages benefit men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:09 PM
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They are such liars and hypocrites. I wish lightening struck them for lying about believing virtue, being a virgin, honesty, and even piety (amongst the religious male hypocrites) means anything in a woman to them🤣. They don't like nice girls. They like hot preferences that are porn stars for them and chaste when it comes to other men always🤣 , and feeling superior to other men, because they understand many many men share their feelings about hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:27 PM
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I love this example too! Do you see how he had no problem calling the "undesirable" virgins "fat and grandma's" , but let someone and especially a woman say men are fat, balding grandpa's with bad hairlines , small penises, pot bellies , no musculature, or short incels or virgins , then ALL hell breaks loose🤣 . Then it's MISANDRY and women have unrealistic standards 🤣. I LOVE reading the hypocrisy and gathering info on just how dishonest, hypocritical and delusional their whining is. I bet he di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:17 PM
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Because she is supposed to be hot, they can't even recognize her as bad 🤣. Now I bet if she was a fat woman who did even half of what they seen in them movies they would recognize her as a bad charcater.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:58 PM
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More than likely if she still wants to be sexually active, many men her age probably have erectile dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:57 PM
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Nah, grandma ain't getting that many messages. She may still get some. But definitely not as much as a very attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:56 PM
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If it isn't a choice , then why do men blame women for wanting to sleep with men they are attracted to? Why do men not blame themselves and other men this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:54 PM
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They won't answer honestly because like they accuse women, they are themselves responsible for the same bad behavior, they have word salads to excuse it. I have a guy I work with. His girl is what they all consider a 10 maybe even an 11. She has cheated on him multiple times, she has substance abuse issues, she often leaves home and will tell him on a whim to find a babysitter for their kid, so that she can go out to cheat and hang out with her friends. She keeps all of her money while he pays f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:44 PM
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I am mostly around men in my everyday life. Have seen many come and go over the years in my workplace. It is a male dominated place. So I feel like I have seen it all and heard it all from men. Of course some things have become patterns I can recognize. But men definitely don't go defending women who are considered not attractive. I have seen few do that. I have lots of women in my family , they are very much outspoken as well. Never have I heard any of them comment negatively on men's height or…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:43 AM
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Also, I would like to ask if you see men saying horrible stuff to or about the equivalent of male incel/undesirable in a female , do you still say "chill". Sadly, I have not seen this much from even the "good ones" amongst men. When I have, it has surprisingly been from some really good looking men. It shocked me , because you would think the ugly men would be more empathetic . But I guess observing this taught me that women should not give extra consideration and chances to a man for being unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:43 PM
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I agree men should be made aware of standards for looks and especially learn how to be on the losing end of that with healthy coping mechanisms and not becoming destructive behind the disappointment. As far as bullying, bullying is something entirely different than consequences for when you hurt or harm someone. Those consequences need to be enacted and that is what accountability should mean. Bullying someone for no reason is of course something most people don't agree with including myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:36 PM
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Men being angry at their options will always be a big issue for them. We all know the complaints and anger at your actual realistic options are what is making many men become so loud about their unhappiness and sexless lives. But most people understand that you will almost never get to live out your fantasies in real life. We all prefer the option to be a millionaire or billionaire. But most of us will never get that option, even with lots of hard work and hope. So coping in healthy ways with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:56 PM
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Do you have any examples of what therapies are harmful or hostile to men in particular? Not asking for proof or anything, but just what therapies and what may support you thinking this about those therapies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:44 PM
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Well, it isn't so much my outlook about life. It is observations and realities that many women face from childhood in what is expected of them. Which the burden to be beautiful is put on female children almost right away. We are not shielded in most cases from understanding that your looks relate to your value as a female in almost every culture. That is reality and something many women can't really get away from and have not been able to since we were children. I think people fear young boys an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:04 PM
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Maybe women have gotten to a point where they accept that fucking a desirable man that actually pleases them sexually is better than bad sex with an undesirable , unattractive man that still has entitlement and delusional standards himself. Why would a woman want to sign up long term for that? If both men are going to be emotionally detached (which most men are anyway) , maybe women are getting to a point where being alone suits them better than settling. It also helps these other incel types wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:17 PM
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This is exactly what incel and incel adjacent men sound like , except for the happy being single part. You guys have a problem with that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:00 PM
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Men have always had delusional standards , including expecting women to be the weight of a literal child before and after having children, expecting women not to age, and being told they are lucky to find a "catch" in a man. Women had to suffer ill treatment while being basically enslaved in society by those marriages and cultural expectations. Now that men even have to hear or see women have preferences, men are inconsolable. If women can deal with what we have dealt with historically and find …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:58 PM
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They will always become entitled sociopaths when discussing women's sacrifice of gestation and birthing all of humanity. They will always try to make women the sacrificial lambs so that they can continue to assert entitlement when it comes to any of life's problems or responsibilities. They should always have standards lowered for them. They feel women need to be enslaved to give them privileges and many options in life. Very disturbing. Then they get mad when women observe that they don't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:46 PM
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The paragraph you are responding to kind of laid out why this question you are asking makes no sense. But my statement about "small dick energy" will be... Small dick energy and phrases like that came around after women were being harassed, tormented and denigrated for their looks and not meeting a beauty standard that was narrow and very rigid for as long as anyone can remember. Now that men are hearing body shaming aimed at them it is "two wrongs don't make it right", and "we should be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:24 PM
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It really isn't. I heard this a lot by many insecure males. But when I actually asked men who had a variety of vaginas they were actually in, this correlation to being 90pounds and being "tighter" was never said by those men at all. They always said you wouldn't know or be able to tell which women were "tighter or looser" . So this is so weird lol. I think there is a deep insecurity by some men of the fact that you can easily tell from the outside if a penis is big or small . They think they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:39 PM
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That first paragraph was 🎯spot on. Yeah, I keep on these forums to keep finding proof of how unreasonable most of them are. You simply cannot talk them out of their mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:59 AM
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Also usually men are vilified for preferences when they are loud and obnoxious about them, while wanting everyone including women to excuse them for being overweight and no muscle definition, short, have a small penis , and being broke and even sometimes living in parent's basement. Usually, that is what make someone vilify men's preferences being that high, when they themselves don't meet high standards. Which is why especially on PPD most men with preferences will lie and say they "are million…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:01 AM
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Yep, just like men give passes to women they find very hot and want to attempt to fck or continue fcking, or to be their girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:55 AM
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Great points. Many don't get that this is why most don't feel sorry for them, and also want to tell them harsh things. They set themselves up for this by clinging to doing all the things here you mentioned not doing. Also, by playing the victim while being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:52 AM
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It sadly is a talking point that lots of incl-adjacent or self confessed incls get around to. I have seen it many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:49 AM
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It is so crazy how many of them defend a man's "right to get hard for hot women" and protect their feelings about lusting over women out of their league, but get mad if women defend other women about not dating short, fat or ugly dudes. Or dudes with no money and little penises. Then, all of a sudden, preferences should not be had, and women are evil and misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:29 AM
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Literally this. They get delusional arguing about this too. One told me on PPD that basically "nothing can be done about an ugly guy's looks match not getting him hard" . They want people to hear them be and act delusional because they watch porn and condition themselves with their jerk-off activities , so now if they don't get the jerk-off fantasy in real life, everyone should shame women for not giving them what they want. They can remain ugly and lament , threaten violence against a "society …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:25 AM
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If it is that simple, then you need to explain this to all the delusional ugly males that continue to get "hard dicks" and wonder why they can't have attractive women 🤣. There is nothing that is going to fix that nor the entitled anger ones like you show in spaces like these. Furthermore, what is sick and disturbing as well, is most ugly men cannot accept the fact that they are ugly and will keep complaining and annoying everyone with their entitlement. Also, genius, my statement was about how l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:13 AM
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It seems they get told this over and over. They can't fathom that women will never want to date or give attention to men who are not attractive. Instead of becoming more attractive they will work their words and type stuff, as if that will change anything. Women want to be attracted to sexual partners and boyfriends and husbands..Just like they want to be attracted to women they want to marry, have sex with or have as a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:08 AM
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It is so crazy that this type of thing has to be explained to an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:58 PM
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The sick and disturbing part about it, is that they think they are too good for these women. Only the top small percentage of attractive women or ones they want to deem "average" that are still way out of their league and who would not entertain them , are the ones they want people to greenlight them to sniff after creepily. They don't want to be told it is creepy either. They want to walk right past the unattractive, socially awkward, lonely women that are on their level to be creepy towards wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:31 AM
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Psychology today and scientific American are not peer reviewed . Also pubmed is sketchy and mixed as far as peer reviewed goes. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:13 PM
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Every average to below average man on here seems to think he is "fairly attractive". It doesn't make sense whatsoever. Ironically they are also the ones seething mad about body positivity with women. They don't want all the women being body positive and thinking they are attractive. But for some reason not looking directly like a troll or swamp creature should mean they are "fairly attractive" in their own minds. It has never worked that way for any human male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:49 AM
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Yep , exactly! Lol, high standards should only not apply to them. Even though they are not the sex that risks their lives and labor in childbirth. It is them that should be graded very generously and given the ultimate value, because they deserve it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:38 AM
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Yes, what I hope is that men like you who see what the problem is, can identify it, will have breakthroughs with the few that will actually be saved. I can see that you see the problem, and can understand the suffering it can cause over a lifetime. When someone is loved and can love , they often can see this too. I knew things were going to get bad when several men started popping up with the doom and gloom propaganda that keeps many of them programmed to self destruct, but giving their money an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:32 AM
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They falsely believe that women can't see how they don't really like women, and are angry at the world. They are often delusional in thinking they are also way more attractive than the women they are rating with these numbers. They also are very very concerned with what other MALES think of them. They don't want happiness. They think they have won if they can have the kind of life where other men look at them with the same rotten jealousy they have for those men now. They simply want to switch p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:51 PM
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Most of these men here are very delusional. They really think they people cannot tell that they inflate their physical looks. They judge women harshly in looks and give themselves a pass and claim they look much better than they do, so this makes them believe they deserve the top 5-10 percent of women. Then project that on women. It can't be them that are delusional, even though they have horrendous social issues most of the time and are arrogant but also timid , anxious, and not well emotionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:46 PM
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I am so glad you had the patience to explain the lies being put out about women being the same level and numbers as male rapists. It is so disguting that these men keep lying about this, and using it to deflect the problem that everyone has known about for what has to be centuries now. Women and men may both commit horrendous crimes, but rape is not an area where they are "just the same".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:36 PM
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Do you feel that men take accountability for how they treat or view unattractive women? Or do you feel like the only valid discussion is why unattractive men should be heard and catered to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:16 PM
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It is refreshing to see this being written by a man. It seems like so many can't even see or understand this scenario that so many women went through especially in older times before women had rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:23 PM
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After circumcision males can orgasm . FGM makes that impossible for women to after this happens. Stop with the cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:09 AM
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Absolutely this. I have seen objectively hot guys have all the women in a place turned off by their personality and annoying behavior. The women would talk about the guy as if he disgusted them , because he did .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:59 AM
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Yep, I know and work with a guy just like this. He doesn't really talk to women. He wants to be in a long term relationship. He is easily above average, but often doesn't want to dress well and get a good haircut because he says they are too expensive. He shuns and gets irritated with advice to change these things to get dates. A very attractive guy at the job even said that the guy is wasting his height and nice blue eyes because he is stubborn and often seems annoyed and standoffish .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:58 AM
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It definitely isn't total BS. We all see what the ideal is for men through the media what is sold to them. It is never realistic looking "average or below" women. It is usually the ideal. Men get fixated on that and will always insist they are "visual creatures". Men want the ideal and feel robbed when they can't get that. Then they want to get a bargain deal on an "average or below" woman that they are mad about , because those women are not desperate for them and see no point in being with a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:22 AM
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If you cut off the tips of the male penis. Then it could be compared with FGM..But it isn't the same, and you know it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:54 AM
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Yeah, he definitely talks exactly like a bad looking or mediocre looking guy trying hard . There is no way he is this invested in how "ugly guys" are seen "compared to him" without being one of them. There is no way to prove it, of course, because people lie online a lot. But I don't buy it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:55 PM
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This is so refreshing to read. You more than many know that this takes hard work, especially when you actually had an abusive childhood and an abusive mother. So you started from a very hard place. Even still, you put in the work , you accepted that it wasn't easy, and it still may not always be easy in the future . However, it may get a bit easier as you grow through your hard work , and reap the benefits that you once thought were so far out of your reach . Many many men on here and in real li…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:48 PM
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These PPB are very angry that this stigma is attached to them because of situations and mindsets like this, that people observe over and over. They still think they are somehow both victims and "winners" .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:14 AM
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Notice how they are not delusional for trying to have put of their league. But American women with "high standards" are the unattractive delusional ones. Never the overweight PPB🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:02 AM
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Also, men on PPD and other RP adjacent places rate women as 3's all the time that I can't see being a 3 . But if that is what they see as a 3, I don't see other men arguing with them, and I can also see how that would make women suspicious of them . Now as far as you saying that if they didn't find them personally attractive and calling those women 3's women would get extremely mad and insult them. I understand that because most of the time these same men are whining and acting as if they are ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:18 AM
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My point is that a guy can be considered a 7/8 to a lot of women , which would make him attractive by many metrics. He still would be a 3 for me because I don't find sexual interest in his kind of attractiveness. But I already said I am not going to argue with anyone that rates him a 7/8 because I can still understand that by most metrics he would be considered that attractive. As far as insulting. That part was a response to you saying that women on here would "call you an incel misogynist" for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:53 AM
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The point is , I am not attracted to him , nor find his looks particularly attractive. So for me he is a 3. But I also said I wouldn't argue with women who see him as a 7/8. I can see he is good looking. But his looks don't turn me on whatsoever. Multiple things can be true at the same time. I am definitely a 3 to some dudes. Doesn't bother me. I am also some dudes 7/8/ or 9/10. As far as incels thinking 98percent of women are 3's. That would be how they differ so greatly from many men. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:57 PM
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I have a few athletic male cousins of a similar physical description of your friend who go through similar things. They do get annoyed with it, mainly in relationships. However, crazily enough , men often get jealous about this , even when some of those women are older, and or not up to their "Standards". I always wondered why. Why not ignore those women if they are not who you want? Why insult them and call them whores? That is the part I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:26 PM
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I would rate his attractiveness for me, vs his attractiveness for other women . Which would be a 3 for me. But definitely lots of women's 7/8.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:19 PM
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So you actually believe single men are not single because they are selfish, single minded and in pursuit of their own selfish desires? You actually believe single women are , but not single men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:16 AM
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So the men here don't have a "the only thing that matters is my desires and wants" attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:42 AM
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This is a great comment. Lots of these guys won't admit that the women they are attracted to are also the top 20 percent. They simply don't count the other women in the bottom 80 percent as options. The same way some guy said here "those women don't see you as a man", when he was talking about being short, they don't see a large percentage of women as women . I think women know this about them, so the women are not going to come begging them for relationships or hookups. They would rather just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:38 AM
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Also, because the unsightly girl may still not be as hungry for sex as an equally unsightly man or below, she might not initiate it. But maybe there will be a handful that would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:31 AM
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That specific guy has a specific "type" of woman/women that go for his type . That is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:23 AM
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The bitter incels are also narcissistic. They just don't want to admit it. It is also more apparent with them, since they also lack charm and true self confidence. Then they are bitter because they don't have the power and privilege to get away with being so ugly on the inside. So every woman that didn't treat them like Chad is the scum of the earth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:10 AM
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Not all women think West Elm Caleb is attractive. We may think he can be attractive to some women, and that is great. But personally, I don't find him to be my type of attractive. Even though I can still understand how other women might find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:56 AM
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I bet they have also suppressed studies and evidence of what it does to the brain of particularly males. They can't go against stuff that is so widely accepted and addicting from young developing boys to grown up prominent men who hold responsible roles in society. Where there is addiction , you often see strong and sometimes aggressive arguing about that thing or substance being threatened with removal. Those same people are the ones swearing they are not addicts and swearing that addiction to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:47 AM
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His comment was how you began to understand how other men knew they could become filthy rich . These men create these fantasies for them, to where they will argue with women about reality , so invested in their fantasies that they think they are real and attainable. They knew the psychology behind hooking them, manipulating their brains, impulses, and emotions and that it would damage most of them (beyond repair in some cases) . Sad that they unleashed this on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:35 AM
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As far as society failing men. With some of the things you wrote, while I understand your investment in that and concern , you also should be able to understand women's investment in their own issues and society failing them as well. Especially when you see that women have higher poverty rates than men, are more likely to be in poverty later in life, and more women are in what is considered extreme poverty than men. I know many of you don't want to hear that women have our own problems, but we d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:21 AM
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Well, I wouldn't go so far as to say that men don't tell women being unattractive is a personal failing. I think women are doing that, I think some of the educated women and influential women writing books breaking down that subject is why women are slowly starting to not view it as a personal failing. As far as men taking it as a personal failing for themselves, I think they misinterpret people telling them it isn't a moral failing, but they have to accept that if they are not willing to become…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:59 PM
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I have not ever seen a woman become angry that an unattractive man turned her down for her past. I have seen a woman be kinda bummed when an attractive man turned her down because one of her exes was a troublesome guy, and the attractive guy was a guy that didn't want to go down that road. I have never seen a woman with a "past" even go after an unattractive man and get turned down. I have heard women laugh at unattractive men who think anyone cares about what they think of a woman's past or her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:27 AM
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So , in what ways has society failed men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:05 AM
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It sounds like you believe most men are ugly . Because that is what YOU keep wanting me to say. The truth is much more complicated , no matter how simple you want it to be. The compliments may also be withheld for various reasons by women that you may not want to acknowledge because you are not a woman , or because you have already made up your mind about women thinking most men are ugly. Women may think a man is hot, but still won't compliment the man. A woman may think a man is ugly and won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:44 PM
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Weak-dangerous , selfish and abusive people can die off as far as I am concerned. I personally don't have a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:08 AM
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It is so hilarious that they don't see that their inability to provide nuance in their thinking makes many things hard for them to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:00 AM
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It is seriously very close to child like thinking. Why is it a shock to them (who should be able to relate the most) that attraction is important?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:55 AM
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Those scenarios happen. It doesn't seem to be that these women are being exploited here in these scenarios. There may be other scenarios in which the women their same ages can be targeted for exploitation because of their age and naivety. Like many things , lots of things are judged on several factors and a case by case basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:23 AM
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Exactly, shark attacks are also a small percentage. It doesn't mean not to take precautions against the threat of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:10 AM
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Why would he say this if he was attracted enough to try and date the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:08 AM
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Very sick comments here who are trying to tell women to do stuff to incite violence against themselves! Funny how they want women to tell men these things but all this tough talk behind their keyboards about Chad, they would never say any of that stuff to his face🤣. They are scared of violent acts by "toxic assholes" but want women to try an escalate violent scenarios with unhinged toxic men who have a horrible time with rejection🤦🏽‍♀️. You can't make this stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:03 AM
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Why would women pay for sperm? Do you not understand the labor aspect of carrying a baby to term and birthing a child? Do you not see how these 2 things are different?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:09 AM
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I said Men don't compliment unnatractive women. So why should women compliment men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:51 PM
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Incel is definitely an insult. Because with all the meaning behind it now, I can see how calling someone it would be insulting. The problem, I think is being careful to not be so angry that you start thinking like an incel because things are not working out for you. It is very normal for men and women to feel sad about not having a meaningful relationship or even friendship. I would try to be careful in how I came across in this regard. Angry people say hurtful things and can become hard hearted…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:45 PM
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That is too much work for them. Easier to sit back and blame women. Easier to pass the buck , and say this woman won't let me have access and desire me because insert nonsensical tale . An endless echo chamber of toxic and defeatist rhetoric . Then will turn around and say "men are about action" , "men get things done unlike women". The sheer ridiculousness .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:37 PM
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Absolutely this. Well-rounded people can mentally understand this. It has several factors , variables, and nuance working to understand relationships. Many people around the world make that work for them in a myriad of ways in order to be in relationships and to find people compatible with themselves. Lots of these men in places like this are often socially handicapped, combative, hold hard views on political subjects, hold hard views on women, some even go as far as to have hateful views of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:32 PM
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You are clearly in need of mental help. This discussion is about 2 consenting adults . No one anywhere was talking about SA. Seek mental help fast. You don't sound well mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:17 PM
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Sorry , read your last comment again. I can see how you were staying those tirades become justifiable in their minds because they were told they deserve misery and to suffer. Do you see examples of them not being hateful, rude, and insulting to women and them getting responses that tell them they deserve to suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:24 PM
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Yes. Also it ends up being painful to watch someone with potential to live a better, more fulfilling life , go down that path. It becomes draining sharing that misery or always having it pop up . I remain hopeful for those that fight this. They try to keep themselves improving , focusing on improvement to their own reasonable standards , taking time to self reflect. It sounds cliché, but having strength to change the things they can and accepting to let go of the things that can't be changed and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:18 PM
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Sadly, the world is full of seemingly undeserving people who get things or aquire things on very easy terms, or are handed things on a silver platter. At a certain point, making the anger towards that an obsession and personality trait that keeps popping up when around others either romantically or non romantically or potentially romantically or non romantically, it becomes something that turns many people off. They tend to put distance between themselves and people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:32 PM
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If a woman knows this and can confirm , that is a different story than a deceptive abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:22 PM
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No, you placed your penis inside without a condom and ejaculated WILLINGLY . You are to be held accountable. That is 100 percent within your control. This forcibly extracting seed scenario in your head sounds insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:59 PM
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Fair enough on REPEATED patterns of behavior in how a man treats multiple women and becomes an absentee father in the lives of those women and children. However , most incels or incel adjacent sexless men do not see this scenario. They see a man who may be picked sooner than him , or more consistently over time than him for a myriad of reasons , and lament that all those men are exactly like what you described here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:58 PM
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This is what it comes down to. They are obsessed with the fact that they have undesirable things about them in either appearance or personality. So they think trying to shame and blame women will redeem them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:40 PM
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They keep going with this narrative to excuse themselves from competing with Chad, to cope with feeling useless compared to Chad ,and to try and shame women that won't give them access to them on lazy nonsensical terms that no woman wants and would rather be alone instead of accept. Chad, and the women that generally find him attractive are the enemy. If they do get a chance, they will deploy their true angry, cringey, resentful, abusive , hard to be around and definitely to live with tendencies…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:38 PM
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Their hatred of women allows them to be big simps for other men. Their rule is , they can't be simps for women. But simping for men? They love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:21 PM
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Not wearing a condom is consenting to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:18 PM
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The only "scumbags" according to many of you are very attractive men right? That is most of the men on here's criteria for scumbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:06 PM
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What makes a woman know they are dangerous?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:04 PM
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What makes a deadbeat? How can women spot out these deadbeats and know that they will be deadbeats? Please list some things that can enlighten women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:03 PM
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I believe this and wish things were like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:05 PM
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I love that you are telling the truth here. Sad thing is , other men get extra hateful about women who try to avoid this kind of thing. Here you are telling the truth , men will applaud you for that usually, and really have lots of vitriol for the woman in this scenario you laid out. Hopefully, we have more men willing to reveal these types of things outright. Women need to read them. The honesty is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:09 PM
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Most women just warn the women that are 20 about predators . That's it. Guys can be attracted all they want to 20 year Olds. Most won't be sleeping with them or dating them unless they have money or resources, or if they are extremely attractive. Maybe men don't like women having an opinion on this because they see it as something that can be a hindrance to them obtaining access to these young women. So they get mad that women will speak up about predatory behavior in males who are older, seekin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:02 AM
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Same with men. Very unfuckable, has bad skin an acne, also broke, and fat. So now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:56 AM
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The guys that are ready to settle down are also undesirable fat dudes that attractive women don't want. What you experience, women also experience. Women with standards don't want that either. But you guys get mad when women talk about how ugly and fat dudes are, or that dudes can't be bothered to maintain healthy weight or look decent. I see no dudes attacked you , or told you you were delusional for refusing to be with women you are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:03 AM
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I am very glad that they put stuff like this out there for everyone to see. But especially for women to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:01 AM
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They never have answers for stuff like this🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:22 PM
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Yeah, we know this absolutely can happen. Especially since it is usually very loud in clubs with people laughing while drinking or drunk, the music is so loud in most I have been to , that you have to literally talk into people's ears . It is easy to not notice many things happening in an environment like that. In many clubs I have been to, the bouncers are at the door outside the club and are only called in to assist people that work in the club .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:02 PM
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Men don't compliment women that they find ugly. So why should women have to? Doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:53 AM
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I have been seeing this more and more. It really is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:59 PM
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Wait, how do we know that women underrate men? So women don't know who they find attractive or not? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:09 AM
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They want a welfare program catered to them, but they want women to be judged by strict standards that "keep them in line and humble them". They want rules for women that they themselves cannot be subjected to , or they feel sensitive, aggressive, suicidal and destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:03 AM
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Men are the ones with the problems not being alone. Whining about not being able to afford something you think you deserve is not going to garner sympathy. Especially when you are told to either work on getting that thing by sacrifice and hard work to afford it. If your answer is "well society should just make an allowance for me to have it because I want it , and I am already good enough and the money I have is good enough". That is very delusional 😂. Just because you want women's value to be "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:57 AM
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They will never admit , that despite many of them being delusional about themselves not being physically attractive on top of being broke and not having the best personalities, that they are not all after the same 5 to 10 percent of women . They think they are in the "same league" as these women and they get very angry when good looking men can date or get into relationships with these women😂. The difference is that women are more okay being alone and don't end up wanting to destroy society beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:38 AM
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If you have a personality to make up for being ugly , than you shouldn't have too much of a problem, especially with a woman who has your same attractiveness level .
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 10:01 PM
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If a human reality such as age devalues women , then maybe your perception is off. Age has similar drawbacks for each sex at any age. Economic advantages also cause slower "decline" for each sex . Resources boost quality of life, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:55 PM
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Because you are ugly.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 09:50 PM
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Good. Lots of people in general, but I have heard from many men that they devalue women for age amongst other things. Social media, media in general, causes many people to become fantasy driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:43 PM
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I was discussing the original post. But you, yes if you are ugly, you definitely should date "ugly chicks".
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 09:40 PM
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Do you think that men have a realistic view on what the average woman looks like? Or do you not hear men saying that women in the old days were "more attractive"? Do you think men can be trusted to see the average woman as attractive? I often hear men say that women have an unrealistic view of men being unattractive, but I think that men don't want to admit that they feel entitled to and above the average or below average women that they have options with. Which leads to them telling the truth i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:07 AM
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In general, do you think men feel any genuine, caring and empathetic feelings towards women? Have you ever even heard any male you know say something about having empathy for a poor, below average, economically disadvantaged woman? An older one? Any adult woman they didn't want to have sex with? Do you often only ask yourself or feel that it is women who should have empathy for men? Do you think men should have empathy for women in their same boat? Or do you deny that exists? Do you think men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:50 AM
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This is the real answer. No matter how they fill their time procrastinating, it will never change their situation. Most simply want the answer to be something other than the truth that they know, but don't want to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:22 AM
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Maybe these women see his comments as surface level misogyny. Which lots of women and people excuse in each other. They may think it isn't deep enough in that man or person to be a big problem. For instance, the guy may say stuff like this, but firmly be against harming women, hitting women and be for enthusiastic consent in women. While the quiet "nice guy" can be aware he has misogynistic thoughts that he doesn't often voice. Or he may be indifferent to women being hit by men and say something…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 08:47 AM
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Many men who fell for red pill need to examine how to think through angry emotions and confirmation bias that exists in their heads while they jump to ignoring real life testimonies and experiences of women who actually date or end up in relationships with certain men. These confirmations in their minds make little sense because they don't experience it from the other side. Therefore, can't really understand what they think they know. Fortunately the other side is expressed quite often. But the …
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 03:29 PM
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I really want to know what "openly displayed racism" means here.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/24 02:41 AM
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Anything that involves consistent effort on their part enrages them. Then, when they are told they speak from entitled attitudes that people can clearly see, they get mad , try to justify it, and then end up angrier than before, having learned nothing. They have no intention of changing or understanding. They want to argue to justify the same thinking over and over lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:17 PM
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How do so many of you "know" there are tons of options that are "reliable" and good, while looking so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:58 PM
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Yeah, sounds like he is trying to take out his frustration with women on his own niece . He probably came across as angry and awkward and doesn't realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:55 PM
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You did a very decent and awesome thing by stating that this affects women, too. Many men who have loneliness problems don't want to acknowledge that. I hope that woman found something that helped her prevent suicide. I wish her happiness in her future. I also wish you happiness in your future. You seem like a decent person
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 06:52 AM
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That last sentence is a MONUMENTAL question. One that he seems to think he can get around.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 06:46 AM
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Great comment.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 06:40 AM
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Exactly. Also what is strange is that they don't seem to pay attention to the stories out there about how red pill , incel, and other pills full of psychopathic and sociopathic rhetoric and teachings have gotten some men in serious trouble with the law especially, or that sabatoged them while they were in relationships too.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 06:39 AM
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Yep. I work with mostly men. Several overweight and unattractive men who seem to always be the ones with the most unrealistic standards and who "rank" women the harshest. They are very delusional and often lament how they can't find anyone. I have said this before on this sub, but seeing this become a pattern and repeated thing where I work and amongst average to below average male acquaintances and co-workers and how I would hear them complaining but also being picky and delusional about how th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:00 AM
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I think men decide what they think "good" means, and it really isn't very good. Or it is the equivalent of being a "nice guy", which upon further examination you can clearly see that the guy isn't actually "nice", the guy may just be controlling himself for fear of consequences for bad actions from powerful men or people around him. Dark triad traits are often described as narcissistic behaviors, psychopathy, callousness, manipulation, grandiosity, exhibitionism, dishonesty, impulsivity, risk ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:01 AM
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And when women say they don't like giving the "average or below" guy a chance , they don't understand why. These guys are resentful to begin with. They will be and often are very abusive and hard to be around once they "settle" with a woman they resent for being average or below like they are. They are just very angry that the average and below average women can peacefully bow out of the mating and marriage thing without needing to fantasize about enslaving and subjugating men so that the very g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:35 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:43 AM
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Yep. I know many like this as well. Especially the slacker parts. The slacker males are not attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:42 AM
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Yep, they hate Chad, they hate Stacy, they hate virgins , they hate sluts, they hate ugly women, they hate pretty women🤣. It never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:32 AM
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But why have sex when there is nothing in it for you? Would men have sex if the only thing they could do is perform oral sex on a woman? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:28 AM
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The sooner more people are stopped from telling the truth about something being wrong with them, the sooner precautions can be taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:07 AM
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Yeah, it was weird. I started to think he was maybe just picking at anything to make her feel old. Low cut blouses should have nothing to do with age coming from a pastor if the concern is modesty .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:54 AM
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Why not take their anger out on the systems oppressing people? Like debt, unaffordable housing, ridiculous car payments and government corruption? All heavily created and participated in by men. Why is it always women's fault? Why not call out the illogical nature of that. The weakness of that. Women and men are struggling in this climate. Right now in America I know of both men and women in horrible financial situations. This adds to lack of quality of life as well. Why is it always that they m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:28 AM
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Lots of men try to say that it is for women. That women hit the wall at 25 and all sorts of crazy things. My cousin recently told me her pastor told her that she was dressing to young and trying to look too young at just 30 years old. He said she should not being wearing low cut blouses and parting her hair on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:52 AM
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Same. I have seen and known many women having perfectly healthy children in their thirties and forties. Seen it as a kid as well. I don't understand why they are always trying to scare women about "geriatric pregnancies" . Pregnancy is a risk at any age anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:49 AM
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What info was given that she has been pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:45 AM
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I love how they expose their thinking by admitting that other unhinged men feel actual anger and get riled up about a random woman posting that she is happy about her life or herself .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:44 AM
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They know that they can get away with doing it to unattractive women, or anything that will be blown up as an unattractive characteristic in a woman like weight ,older age, certain body types. They know that it is women who bear the brunt of paying for the sins of anything physically undesirable. They find it easy to attack what they feel should be undervalued. Then if they ever gain knowledge of women with any undesirable traits having sex with a man they get more unhinged because that should n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:35 AM
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Would you not sleep with very hot, attractive women if they gave you the chance? Most men would. Why is it a problem that women find hot men hot? It isn't a problem when men find hot women hot, or prefer to have sex with them over unattractive women. Even of you told men that it was wrong they will listen to their sexual desires over what unattractive women think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:29 AM
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Thin attractive women at the gym? So not your average overweight American woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:22 AM
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Were the women in the top 5percent of looks that all men want and are thirsting after? Where the women your average American woman? Like a size 16 or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:21 AM
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Me neither . Another thing I don't see is old, fat and unattractive women vocalizing the loudest about men being ugly, fat, short, or having a small penis. But it always seems to be no shortage of balding , fat, and unattractive men that are the most bold and vocal in talking about women with undesirable physical characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:19 AM
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I wonder why they don't understand that acting out and making women feel that you might be unhinged would make women want to stay away from you (not you personally but men who think or behave like this). Maybe they think they are hiding it well. But they don't see themselves the way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:16 AM
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Any woman will do. That is how hate functions. It is very irrational. They perseverate over it being all women once one bad experience happens to them (not all of course) . Which is why if they had a bad mother it becomes all women's fault. Psychology studies in the past linked that all the time. It was something many predators and offenders brought up, just being fueled with hate for all women and harming women that triggered the hate they had for their mothers. I see this being backtracked now…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:12 AM
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Yep it is never their fault. All the information out there on the victims of men due to violence and predatory behavior, they will pretend they can't read and that they never heard of such a thing. They will deny history of women having to fight for rights to not even be considered property of their husbands. They will make up a gigantic fairy tale about men actually being the ones that were the property of their wives (by law), that women were beating their husbands historically and that they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:52 AM
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Yep. Women are trained to give disclaimers, give the benefit of the doubt, protect abusers feelings , protect abusers reputations etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:47 AM
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They hate that women can educate others on their behaviors, they hate that women can warn other women and compare notes about the abuse many of them inflict and that makes it harder to gaslight and mentally abuse women. They hate that women will engage in these conversations and get mentally stronger and more healthy and start to deny them attention, service, sex and emotional labor which many of them still feel entitled to without any standards for themselves except but to be male.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:45 AM
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That video was full of comments coddling incels and incel adjacent men. The comments painting radicalized incels as these innocent victims that someone is advocating for that "deserve happiness" got thousands of likes🤣. Many comments like that. Those are the comments that I see get thousands of likes. Not to mention that particular pick me that made the video had millions of subscribers. She who is DEFENDING male loneliness epidemic is the one with that many subscribers. That is basically a demo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:41 AM
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Yeah, my first thought , especially with that name, is that this person is male lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:16 AM
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First guy. I am dating a guy like this now. I like him a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:59 PM
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I think the views you all have on when women "lose youth and beauty" and the amount of boomer women and older witnessing and living through men having these deeply ingrained thoughts brought about the feminist fight in ways you guys are having a hard time fathoming these days. No longer are women having to rely on men's opinions about what women looks young enough or attractive enough to be validated by some man who is average , below average and ugly and or old for quality of life. This is why …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:16 PM
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Girl, this was a wonderful read. You said everything I wanted to say, but better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:01 AM
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You are not victims in the same ways and have a higher chance at having a fair fight in many aspects due to your biology. You guys do this "all lives matter" crap to try and turn the attention away from the reality that male violence towards women is something different than the violence between males, which is usually mutual combat. As a matter of fact, the most violent ones amongst males always say women are just easier targets and they easily subdue women once they have stalked and planned ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:47 AM
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I understand that as well. I respect that you also responded without angry insults and accusations and were more able to make me understand your personal point of view. That was really awesome. I am also happy to hear that you would treat your preferred woman well of you end up finding her. Lots of beautiful women will appreciate being treated well . They have had a wide array of experiences too. Pretty privilege is real, but I have seen many beautiful women saying they really want good treatmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:03 PM
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Absolutely. Whatever you want to pursue or not to pursue is fine. It should hopefully make you happy. If it doesn't, though, and you become angry and bitter , then that is a problem. Those are usually the people that start attacking people or trying to stop others from enjoying what they have with other people. I think that as long as you are not witnessing someone abusing someone financially, mentally , sexually or physically than why not be happy for them? Even if those people are not your per…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:50 PM
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Maybe that is because you have healthier self esteem. This is what I was kind of pointing to. Men can say things about appearances of women, sometimes they can be honest opinions and just voicing preferences. But sometimes certain men do this and feel very strongly about it because they have low self esteem, insecurities and hate and or jealous of women because they despise women's easier access to sex. You can usually tell when it is one or the other. Usually a man who is very very angry and in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:43 PM
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Yes , sadly, being beautiful sometimes makes you a target. Just like how being rich makes you a target. You are protected from many things being beautiful, good looking , or wealthy, but also have people willing to do horrible things to you as well. People suck. I understand fearing aging, many men and women do. Hopefully it doesn't harm you, but helps you maintain a better quality of health as you age . Which will put you far ahead of many people. No one beats it, we all have to get older if we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:25 PM
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I am just saying women may also only want to focus on hot men and that might be their target. But look at how mad everyone gets when women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:42 PM
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I think FDS was just many women telling stories of their experiences with men. I think many had horrible experiences and needed a place to discuss the harm done to them. I don't think women think they are 10/10 very often. But even if they are not, they should not put up with abusive or disrespect from men . Also, men give other men a pass to look worse and claim women look bad when they don't. I think that is actually because many men are fragile about the way they look as well and cannot deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:40 PM
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Those sound like health conscious practices. Good for you to be practicing them. However you do know you are not the majority of men right? Most don't practice these things and are doing things that will cause bad aging, ED and a host of other physical and mental problems. So I am just saying that you cannot act like that is the norm. It isn't at all. As far as being treated like Sophia Vergara, I personally won't sleep with any man that doesn't act enthusiasticly attracted to me. As far as beau…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:35 PM
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Not bragging, I just don't understand why men would want to act as if their individual opinion about how women look should matter. It needs to be countered or responded to with the truth and other opinions. It seems to always be men pointing out and comparing women with others . So it is relevant to do the same to men. Making comments like that set the baseline. So I just think it makes sense to also give an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:24 PM
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I have no problem with women of different sizes than me receiving male attention. It doesn't bother me at all. Why do plus size , or whatever size women bother you if they are modeling and people like their looks? Why does it bother you if you are successful getting non average women? Why feel the need to call women names at all, then get upset when that same energy is returned? I will usually not comment on men's looks until I start reading comments like yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:15 PM
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You are replying in a public forum right? I didn't even read your name, I reply to the comment itself. Also I am talking about real life. Not your fantasy you keep bringing up about beautiful Sophia Vergara , which most men will never even get close enough to even talk to. It shows the fantasy/delusional type world many on this sub live in. I care about talking about real life. In real life men with erectile dysfunction just fantasize about Sophia Vergara. Please note, I am not sure your age or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:05 PM
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Female dating strategy was a good sub. But I didn't need it at all for dating advice. It touched on options like male depravity , which is a growing problem still. Also, I obviously from now until I get old, I will have options to have sex if that is what I want. Incel stuff is usually men's problems. I don't have a problem with having sex at all. As a matter of fact I advise women to insist on getting orgasms as well for any sexual encounter with men as I do. I also try to listen to older women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:57 PM
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I feel like women that age look fine. My point is if women think they look great, and can have sex with men with a fully erect penis having younger man, what do women care about a limp penis older man thinking about women not looking like Sophia Vergara?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:48 PM
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I am watching women my Aunt's ages 40's and 50's getting out of marriages to badly built and apparently non working penis men, who had lots of opinions about women's looks their own age. These women are financially better off, having fun and going out all the time now. Doesn't sound like the "lonely with cats" narrative they tried to feed to all of us. Their exes are struggling it seems. Lonely and depressed. But took their marriages for granted and thought they could upgrade. None so far have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:23 PM
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Oh this answered my previous question! Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:19 PM
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Why does he hate women when he isn't even into women? Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:18 PM
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They are not pedastalizing older women. Many can't even tell what age many women are. Men that want sex just see woman that doesn't look 90 years old and will gladly want sex. My aunts and their friends newly divorced had so many options for flings and sex with young men to older men. Which they were fine with as they viewed their marriages as prison sentences they were glad to be out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:15 PM
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But erectile dysfunction still won't hinder women like it will men .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:11 PM
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So, then why would women think they can get a fulfilling relationship to a group that wants sex with vacuum cleaners and farm animals? I think most women are getting wise to the reality of that as well. Men are also behaving badly to attractive women in relationships and marriages as well. Usually, the only men that can afford to keep their true desired woman is the top 2 percent of men with money and resources. Otherwise men with no money usually do have to take what they can get. Most people i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:09 PM
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I wouldn't think young or old women want to marry crusty , broke , fat dudes having problems with erections at younger ages now than ever before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:02 PM
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I have heard that men can jerk off without a fully erect penis. Which is fine and beneficial for men. But realistically is very unattractive for women interested in sex. Women just try not to hurt men's feelings. I listen to my aunts in their 40's and 50's talking about how them and their friends can't tell men how unattractive it is that they can't get erect. They never have this problem with younger men though. I am sure it makes older men feel better about this to try and point out how younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:58 PM
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They can't get it up because aging and clogged arteries, bad health etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:53 PM
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Lots of men on here say that they are actually fit and taking care of themselves. Who knows if you personally are telling the truth. The reactions to comments like yours I think, are because the audacity men have to act like women don't have eyes. We see the men out in the world, many don't look good, are fat themselves but seem to focus on some weird notion that "most women don't take care of themselves". Women just don't voice their opinions as readily as men. Even the few that do have men shr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:51 PM
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This is definitely true. They try to use "the wall" to scare women and make them feel less valuble. But if a woman were to behave like men , which they say they hate as well, if and when they only want no strings attached sex , then having and getting sex is very easy for most women they say have hit the wall. It is an obfuscation tactic. It is also jealousy of women possessing something that they don't and cannot control. So they try to devalue it and get it at a huge discount by creating an im…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:38 PM
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I have 3 aunts that always tell stories of the men in their 40's and 50's having ED. They also tell stories about the women they work with who are often recently divorced , that had this problem. They say it is very common in that age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:47 PM
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Another rational comment lol. They also ignore women, when women say they can read their contempt and dislike of women, and that factors into their lack of success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:22 AM
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Yes , he is basically saying that they are damaged beyond repair. Women often believe this but know not to say too much about it , because it is considered being "negative" and then some of these types of men start talking about punishing society on their way out. Which is why I think women and men who have experience within decent relationships try one last time to point out how sick and alarming that type of thinking is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:19 AM
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Oh, and my gay male friends are the ONLY ones when in the company of women , who openly , and unapologetically talk about the looks of men, their partners looks, their own looks as men, will brag about "pulling a hottie" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:10 PM
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They project EVERYTHING they actually feel and what many OTHER men actually teach them through their actions and behaviors and try to put that on all women, random women, and women that don't even understand what they are talking about🤣. I have never and I mean NEVER heard a woman bragging about something in her mate that another woman agreed with on a physical level🤣. The only thing I have seen women high five other women about are caring gestures from a mate or husband , or usually something r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:07 PM
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Yep, I personally find that some tall and short, and also some big and thinner guys can all be physically attractive. I love muscles , not extreme muscles , but I love muscles and still would not only say that muscular men are the only attractive men. Lots of men (not all) seem to be very picky and will usually have very narrow definitions of what they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:54 PM
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Yes. It is crazy how some men think a more physically attractive man (than many others) getting rejected is just women having very high standards. Physical attraction has to be present for women , however, so many men here don't understand that lack of social skills, lack of a good personality or moral code, lack of conversation skills and a bunch of other stuff can be very unattractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:47 PM
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They only want validation from the 5 percent of women almost every other man wants. There are definitely lots of them that ignore most of the female population, especially if older than 30, has kids , is the common size or weight for women in the western world. They usually only want the types of women other men would high five them about , or that they think would cause other men to envy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:33 PM
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Because socially awkward , unattractive men are not known to have enough sexual skills to please almost any and every woman. Even the unattractive counterparts. I have seen women hooking up with unattractive dudes. Usually, what is said is those dudes are eager to please and are skilled in sex , so they don't want for sexual attention. This is not to say that they still will not be turned down more often by shooting for women that most guys deem the most attractive. They will be able to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:18 PM
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Do you feel a certain way about men not even being able to be birthed without a woman providing that for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:36 PM
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Exactly this. This is seriously why I think women of all ages should have a focus on having rights as human beings and freedom to live peacefully in ways that are good for their overall health at any age as well. Many of these men are indeed showing women what far too many males think of women once they are past youth. They insist women that are older are to be mocked, denigrated and talked down upon. They are showing younger women where ALL women end up in their minds eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:29 PM
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Yep. I think more women are just admitting that they are attracted to women than ever before , without stigma .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:18 AM
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Maybe you are paying attention to the femme lesbians and have a hard time thinking that they actually like women? Maybe because you find them attractive? I work around mainly men. Usually, the men only get mad when "butch" women seem flirtatious or come at them in a perceived "masculine" way that the men don't find attractive. Usually, when they see femmes that are lesbians they are also angry because it often is those types that seem to ignore the men outright. I never found out it was an "act"…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:12 AM
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Yeah, I think women these days are more open to just admitting their preferences as well. It seems like younger women in the early twenties especially are just not afraid to say they like women or like women too. Lots of women say they are attracted to other women , or find women to be more attractive to them than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:03 AM
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An extra drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:10 AM
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EDIT: holy shit your participation in Female Dating Strategy is…on brand What a drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:36 AM
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Nope wrong. They are visible on the OUTSIDE , so that and the dick can both be critiqued.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:35 AM
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Well, physical standards that women have seem to be what hurt men very much. Women always know men have physical standards only . Almost anything else can be forgiven by men if the woman is hot enough. I rarely hear men say ,she just has to be clean and groomed. I hear women say this all the time. But men, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:08 PM
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There are also no memes about asymmetrical balls either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:05 PM
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What is girl game ? Never heard that before from a man. I am intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:04 PM
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It may not be ALL but far too many. It makes you wonder how there are so many delusional ones . What is going on in society and culture that breeds this attitude that so many have? I think many of us know, however we don't like the answers to this question. Sadly it will take women and men serious about changing it, to make a difference. I acknowledge both men and women play a role. But neither wants to acknowledge the ways they play into the behavior and mentality of men like this. I see many k…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:08 PM
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Sadly, only in their own minds are they the elitist types. They usually are very badly built, living paycheck to paycheck, they get excited at the chance to demean their looksmatch and will do it in their social circles , or amongst family and family friends. I was shocked to see this behavior. As some of the things they were openly talking about with the appearance of women, they literally have women like this in their own families. I have heard a few even laugh about the women in their familie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:19 PM
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When it comes to looks ,women will often overlook baldness, short men, beer bellies and won't even comment on those things. Even when amongst only women. Men, however, will vocalize any and every flaw they see in a woman. Even if a few try to not do this, there is always a few more who will point out , "hey she is 10 pounds overweight, she has small boobs , she is not that pretty, her friend looks way better" , or other comments like this. I have yet to be around any women group like this. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:11 PM
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Absolutely this. So many women let very unattractive men get away with so much. Men with beer bellies and bad bodies and even faces in general. I don't understand it personally. I think it is because women have lower self esteem in general and that despite what many males claim here, history supports that society has always placed women as 2nd class citizens and those always have fewer options, power and prestige. Maybe this is why most women think they have to put up with ugly males that are lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:06 PM
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Excellent comment. Very good explanation of what is often hard to explain about long term partnerships and marriage.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 02:44 PM
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I think there definitely are options for lots of men. But if your criteria is unrealistic, then you will feel like "you don't have options". Many men and women want the best options when it comes down to partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:23 AM
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BOTH attractive and UGLY males can be and often are bad people when their behavior is the same. Attractive people have more options in general. They just do. It is social currency, alot like actual currency. The ones that have it wealth/attractiveness usually have MORE everything than everyone else, namely money/options/easier life . Immature and emotionally fragile people often have a hard time accepting this. Some even resort to anger, jealousy and destructive behavior as a result. It is bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:29 PM
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So if you don't go after women with little to no options, why should women go after men with little to no options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:23 PM
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Well, I definitely never "go after" any man. I wait for men to approach or show interest. That is my personal taste. Do you go after women with minimal to no options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:04 PM
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I really really wish this was the case. Society would be better. But sadly with the things you mentioned in another comment, porn, video games, insta baddies and lots of other women males gawk at , lust over and wish they had access to, makes them very unappreciative of their actual options. Even if they can fake it for a little bit, they usually start looking at what they can't have again, grow resentful, and start treating their options that they secured badly. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:05 PM
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If men want to use women as cum dumpsters hot or not actually makes them bad. But not to you, only the women that have sex with males they are attracted to are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:00 PM
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This is spot on😆
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:50 PM
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ALL of this is true. You sound mad that unattractive males also have bad acting skills that don't last long. They will and do eventually show that they are indeed bad people and men that women don't want. You can't be unattractive AND bad in all other ways. Just be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:48 PM
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Also, no one is going to feel bad for males who only are lamenting that they don't get to PUMP AND DUMP like attractive ,sexy chad. Do you think pumping and dumping is bad? If not than why should anyone feel sorry for you because you don't get to do it too? While being unnatractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:38 PM
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Women also think thr juice isn't worth the squeeze. Why be with a man that feels entitled ? Surely these poor lonely men are not going to treat mediocre women just like them well. They will be lazy, they will feel entitled to have an average or mediocre woman to feel desperate for them, and glad she got "picked" while she does most of the housework , work full time, get lackluster sex or be used for a sperm dumpster (most likely in sexual encounters not with her pleasure in mind) . Why would a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:35 PM
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Nah, ugly men treat women bad too. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:14 PM
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Maybe she felt like she didn't know you well, so spending more time would have perhaps sent the message that she was giving the greenlight for things to go further even if she only wanted it to be friendship. Since it started as initially a potential romantic possibility if you were mutually attracted to each other. I think she probably thought it wouldn't be a good idea to go further with time, because then it could be interpreted as leading you on if she did open up more in the encounter with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:38 AM
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Well they are subpar , so it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:45 AM
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Absolutely this. I know many women with your same experiences who travel. American men just don't want to accept that they need to work on themselves. They don't want American women because they feel American women ask for too much. I don't understand how asking someone to have a good personality, good hygiene and social skills , and emotional intelligence and ability to connect is asking too much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:03 PM
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If more men want to go for disadvantaged , poor women with few options and see that as a win, then that is very sad. I feel bad for those women. I have seen that scenario not end well. Because if and when those women get more freedom, they usually don't want to be kept in a cage. Also, the men usually have to pay for the woman's family's financial security, which is also getting harder for the average man. I have seen those women leave once those payments stop or become less. This is easy becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:00 PM
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Have you ever thought that if a man wanted those things enough, he would actually work hard on being the type of man that could aquire those things through a woman seeing him as valuable and worthwhile? The men that want those things usually get them because they do the work to become a man that women would want, trust and be happy to be married to and have children with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:52 PM
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You would be surprised at how many women are coerced in those places to get pregnant against their will. Be it due to not having much control over stopping it physically, no birth control, not much prosecution of rape, social pressure and familial obligation through cultural constructs to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:48 PM
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Yep, and there are probably thousands of stories of suffering , the misery of poverty and all the problems that come with it. Suffering should not be something children are born into. It's sad that poor people have the most children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:45 PM
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No, you deserve your equal who exists like you, socially awkward, fat, living in their mom's house. The fact that you feel entitled to anything else is delusional , entitled, fantasy thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:13 PM
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Same, you can play victim Olympics all you want as well, if you are a victim of an actual assault, then seek justice. It doesn't erase women being the bigger victims today and throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:19 AM
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I would say some women like that the man is the one that is more charming, funny, or with a larger than life personality. She may still find him very sexually satisfying and may still desire him. Not all women of course, but I think many more than people realize. The good thing, is that I think attractiveness is largely subjective, and so are preferences in looks. People prefer and like different looks for a variety of reasons.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:15 AM
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That is not being "forgiving", men tend to think women in general are more beautiful because they have higher sex drives. Which means they find them attractive and beautiful without having to "forgive" anything. Kind of like a person who has a wide variety of tastes in food. They are not going to be "forgiving" of certain foods, the foods still taste good to them. Others who are picky will almost not find anything but a narrow amount of foods that taste good to them. They are unable to enjoy the…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 09:13 PM
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Sadly, there are many that are still invested in degeneracy of being with BM. This usually will cause harm to their lives despite their education and employment levels . The exceptions that are as extreme as I am in being completely removed from all BM are definitely in the minority. You are right about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:06 PM
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The butt and hip weight you guys gain I think is because higher levels of estrogen and oestrogen than other groups of men. Maybe not you particularly, but lots that look like you as every other phenotype you posses. So that is genetic I believe. The black community had many obese men that have bodies that mimic women's bodies. Fat creates even more estrogen in the body than what many BM are already predisposed to. It would do them better to keep their weight in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:03 PM
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I can't relate. I can only see what happened to all the BW from my extended family that had kids with BM and or made the mistake of marrying one😬 All of them except for 1 have a horrible life, raised kids alone, and are very unhappy. The ones that didn't and did what my grandmother's did are happy, healthy, own homes, live in nice areas, have stable families and are with non BM who are excellent fathers. The problem is pretty self explanatory at this point. Sadly many BW are fatally attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:59 PM
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They will learn from the women that don't have these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:01 PM
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Yeah you guys would look better if you lost weight in the butt and hips. My body weight is fine. Looks nice and normal.. I have none of the problems you speak on. Life is good , and every man I have ever been with loves my body, including the one now. Life is good for me. So your opinions may hurt the women that prefer your demographic which sadly is lots of BW, which is sad because it will raise their cortisol levels that would surely end up making them unhealthy and contributing to obesity. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:59 PM
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Even you can't possibly believe the amount of lies you spew .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:53 PM
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The stats say that when we marry out , the lowest divorce rate belongs to us and all other men besides you. Problem solved. The stats are opposite with your demographic which have the highest divorce rates when you marry out. The common denominator is you. You absolutely do abandon families here and in England where my Aunt did social work, your demographic has filled the orphanages with children that were given up fathered by your demographic but the mothers are from other communities. Sad. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:52 PM
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No BW didn't surpass you, a delusional lie. You have the same hair as the women of your phenotype.You also are the most obese males, that look like women when overweight with giant butts and hips. I am not actually your phenotype nor do I like your phenotype in men so those insults mean nothing here. Women who don't want to be the things you stated should stay far away from your phenotype as I am happy my mother and grandmother did. Nor would I ever reproduce anything in a community that you ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:37 PM
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Okay, cool. I am just stating the most logical behavior that would come after all the reasons why it seems to suck .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:32 PM
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Your demographic also is not contributing to tax dollars. I think the stat was you cost the economy billions a year due to unemployment and crime .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:19 PM
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Nope, I don't deal with males from your community. The only hindrance to women of my kind is birthing and mating with your kind. Responsible for the majority of violence in the communities you terrorize. I will never procreate with your kind nor contribute to the most derelict and unemployed males on the planet, also the most violent and abusive. Never had a problem since outside of the communities you terrorize there are not these problems in mass. No one believes the lies told by your demograp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:17 PM
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Because what they really want and feel entitled to is to abuse and insult women who don't fit their preferences. It is a form of deep hatred for women. They cannot be satisfied with just having their preference and being happy. They want others to know what isn't their preference, they want others harassed and mocked and shamed for not having their same preferences as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:10 PM
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You should seek help for whatever abuse YOU suffered from the woman that did it. It doesn't reflect the norm. If your situation was abuse and violence, then you should seek justice for that. In this instance that isn't and doesn't apply to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:16 PM
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Definitely, a loud minority are complaining. The ones I see leading the charge are usually from places and families where their mother did it all and acted as mother and father. So they expect to be taken care of like they believe privileged wealthy women are. You can find many of these loud minorities are usually raised around what produces hip hop culture. They get the lingo and talking points from those dysfunctional males as well. Most men who grow up with a functional family understand and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:14 PM
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Maybe there is not help for some who feel that their responsibilities are too much. Medicines help some people, while they do nothing for others. Maybe men will get together and find a way to help other men handle their responsibilities better in a way that feels appropriate for them. What other men usually tell me is that it is tough love and no nonesense talk that gets through to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:10 PM
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Cool story, and I'm not "finna" debate nor answer back again to someone that writes in a way that suggests that wherever you came from , was a very bad culture where intelligent conversations don't really exist. Where men more than likely leave their families and abuse women, where males talk exactly like you are here and then cry about women since they are the only ones left to take care of the families that the males abandon. Misogyny is rife where you come from for sure. Seek help for that. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:06 PM
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No big number of women are abusing nor oppressing men, you in particular amongst many feel oppressed and like you need to compete with women for some victimhood that isn't there. The proof of that is that usually when history of oppression lasts for as long as it did for women, the oppression doesn't stop overnight like you are trying to insert here. The remains of it still causes problems for a long time after. You are very uneducated and uninterested in the truth about women's oppression world…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:59 PM
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Yep. If she isn't at least an 8 , 9 or 10 Stacy, then she doesn't even exist for many of them. If she does exist as a 7 or below and wants to not do 50/50 and will just not have easy casual sex with them, she is a demon from hell sent here to make them victims. Who does she think she is being a "not stacy" and not wanting to go 50/50 and or not pay entirely and then not want to desperately have sex with them? Yeah this makes "all women bad" to them. When really, lots of women just don't view it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:22 AM
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They will always argue for women to put their guard down, to accept that MEN are the REAL victims 🤦🏽‍♀️. It really is crazy. Women need to be more vigilant than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:14 AM
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Why are there so many stories that have overlap in behavior? I think many men get angry about the behavior of so many men being discussed at all. Women need to be aware of the bad behavior, to better protect themselves and other women and girls from these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:12 AM
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So then mental health services are widely more accessible for women? Because that is not what I have seen at all, except for maybe the top privileged rich women only. Also, I don't understand why the more homicidal sex would also not be the most successful suicidal sex?Men are more apt to be violent and use violence in life to deal with problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:10 AM
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It seems like with all the historical knowledge of what women have been through all around the world and how abuse and 2nd class citizenship was and is still a thing in many cultures still (for women and girls) and also historically, you are the one gaslighting here. It sounds like you want to paint men as victims to women, when historically and even now , that is just not the case. More and more men these days think that having a victim claim/complex validates them. But it doesn't , history and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:02 AM
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It is hilarious how they act as if they are not low effort themselves. They don't want to have the burden of starting conversations, planning dates, paying, but they would definitely do all of these things for "stacy", gladly and enthusiastic about it as well . They think women don't know this. Lots of the attitudes from them are because in general they just don't like women. Which is why average women won't do. They want Stacy. But then are mad when they can't get Stacy and blame all other wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:39 AM
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Women will just opt out of dating. Many have. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:28 AM
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It obviously isn't enjoyable. So just don't date. If women don't want 50/50 then they just won't go on a date with a 50/50 man. If you don't like the idea of paying, don't like the idea of planning a date, of rejection, then just don't date . Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:27 AM
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Nah, without direct provocation, just casually being brought up, again, never happens. Women try to be nice, usually are socially pressured to be nice, and DON'T do that. Also, if a dude is lazy and doesn't want to work and function like a normal adult, EVERYONE will talk about a lazy bum who doesn't want to work. Including some men. So "talking about money" if brought up in the context of a serious conversation about functioning as an adult is perfectly normal. Women and men alike usually don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:10 AM
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Oh, they were just "fuxxing around at work"? So were the fictional women you made up in the rest of your paragraph 🤣. Your whole paragraph failed to make sense, nor was a relevant response to anything specific that was written.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:33 AM
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I literally have never heard women say anything even remotely similar to this in any group of people, or even just one on one talking. Women simply don't dehumanize men or boys that they find "ugly". Most of the time, they will never state that they find them ugly even if asked directly. Women are often blamed for having any opinion on men's appearance no matter how polite she states it so as not to offend those outside of her preference. However, males will always be found giving unasked for op…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:12 PM
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I really like that show. At work, there were so many men talking about how ugly Ellie is. She didn't deserve the part they said, they said she was hideous and joked that they wouldn't save a "female that ugly". They were also the most unattractive males at the job. I can't stand the lying and virtue signaling that men are so forgiving, and great while women aren't. It is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:01 AM
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What was attractive at all about this person to you? Serious question. Now the personality this person has sounds very hard to get along with. However I am just wondering what was attractive at all about them to you, that would make you consider dating them? If they could maintain eye contact, was less afraid, had better conversation would definitely make things easier but what about the appearance, for instance, is appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:27 AM
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The same way you are disgusted at the ugliness of being fat with women , is the disgust they feel for you. You should understand this perfectly. It isn't healthy to be with someone who disgusts you right? You won't be, so it is good if you don't expect a woman to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:19 AM
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I am sadly not surprised. I have seen some crazy commentary and definitely have got some ridiculous responses as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:31 AM
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Everything you said here is what men have been feeling and thinking about women and acting on it. Even had the law on their side for good portion of history to live out these feelings. It is only when they have been punished have men changed their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:04 AM
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Exactly. They think it's normal for women to deal with insults and disgust towards their looks. They are only angry and emotional when they get a taste of what women see go on everyday since forever .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:54 AM
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So you don't think he was bold and comfortable enough to go on there with someone like this girl? Why not go on there with his looksmatch? Would he have even accepted that invitation? Before I feel sorry for Dilly , I need to know how he feels about women that looks similar to him . Lots of ugly men sign up for this kind of thing and will still high-five each other for still getting to kiss a hot chic like her that they worship. After all , she clearly has an advantage here because she is lots o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:17 AM
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People can have subjective views of what is and isn't beautiful. You will never stop that .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:54 AM
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Actually, they should be able to have any positive movement they want..That is freedom. We should shame males who think their sexual and visual preferences should lead to shaming and harassing big , fat or overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:52 AM
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Fresh and Fit are pure 🗑. Also that short black dude that is the rapist promoter is Charleston White.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 09:46 PM
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Absolutely everyone is lying , every time, but him. He ALWAYS tells the truth just like the women friends are ALWAYS jealous 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:06 PM
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He said "have bruises on their wrists". That is when I knew for sure he was lying his ass off🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:02 PM
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Yeah, this is true. I think you can find many women that don't prioritize sex as something they just can't do without. As the world gets crazier , and also just as things have always been , I think men don't understand the risks women have to weigh to even have sex. I can see how , especially if the woman has seen many bad outcomes for other women, or have repeated bad experiences , or close calls , they may just choose to not deal with relationships and sex altogether . Maybe just focus on plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:37 AM
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So many do this on this sub. It is so hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:04 AM
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Right. They are so delusional about being in "good shape." They think Dad bods are being in shape, and mom bods are "out of shape." But when a woman decides she doesn't want their Dad bod and considers them out of shape, "the standards are unrealistic. "
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:58 AM
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Also, rejecting an unnatractive woman is much easier for men than rejecting an unattractive man. Most of those have threatening underlying issues and will become obsessed with trying to "humble" or get "revenge" on the woman that dismissed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:00 PM
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This! Just overheard an angry conversation some men were having after hours (work) about some lesbians being so ugly and them being mad that they have to see them at all. Lol, they literally were getting mad that lesbians who don't want them at all were existing and not being attractive for men like them. These mind you were not even the "ambiguous" looking ones. They were just women with alternative styles, colorful hair, and some were even just nude or minimal make up dressed normally. It is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:55 PM
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This comment is so awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:24 AM
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Can you explain this scenario? I have not heard of this happening. Being told no about what? Was there some kind of major thing that happened, and then she went to "suck a stranger" ? Was there a complete breakdown in communication? Was the guy ignoring and causing emotional turmoil in some way to the woman? Were things that bad, to where maybe she decided to do this on her way out to hurt the man? Did it cause a break up soon after?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:27 AM
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Yes I agree, I assumed most people thought this was common courtesy , self respect, and consideration for the person you are having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:08 AM
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I just seen a bunch of videos about women that had encounters with men who obviously did not know how to wipe themselves. I have seen a lot and heard a lot third party . However I am so grateful I have not seen skid marks, I have not had a man sit in white sheets and leave a brown streak like these women were reporting. It was crazy seeing those videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:25 AM
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I seen mainly women in carer and home health aide jobs where old men with alzheimers blasted human feces on walls, played in it and smeared it everywhere for days on end. The only employees were women who had to clean the surrounding areas, the old man, and got feces smeared on themselves as well as the old men trying to beat them up for doing their job. Lots of times these types of jobs are just ignored by everyone because women talking about how disguting and hard they are to do is not polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:08 PM
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This is the important takeaway from most posts of this nature. Women need to keep being aware and vigilant of the current climate. I am happy so many of a certain types of male are putting their dangerous mindsets on display. Women will be wise to take heed and share the knowledge .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:09 AM
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Okay. If that is a deal breaker in every way, then I guess you just have to be able to be alone until you find someone that you are compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:00 PM
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That seems reasonable. I think you have a better chance at finding a compatible partner both long or short term than many men these days. The picky people usually have to train themselves to go without. Because being picky greatly limits your available options. Also , I was just explaining that women also have the same repulsion to unattractive men , same repulsion to fat men that you have for fat women. Women often do try like you did and realize that they made a big mistake and can not do that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:50 PM
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Yeah, it is more about dealing with reality. If women being "promiscuous" bothers so many of them , then they will always have a problem and need to get used to being alone. Because for them, promiscuous women would be more likely to give them the sex they want. They seem to have a hard time understanding that they have a problem that can't be fixed. Women will experience sex and more than likely explore sex in their own terms. They might perceive this as promiscuous and get caught up with being…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:44 PM
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Well , you do have standards. If you can not go through that and cannot even do it again, then why do you think women want fat males with fupas and smelly parts? If anything, women should learn from your so called "mistake" . They should also note that you are almost assuredly below average and talking about being disgusted in a below average woman because of her weight. Not surprising, but realize the same disgust you feel is what we feel when looking at unattractive males and even entertaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:44 PM
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Because they are never going to get what they want. They don't measure up to the standards, so they re going to have to make adjustments and stop talking and having fantasies of relationships and dating that won't happen because they don't like that women get to have sex, be beautiful or attractive to most men. They will keep being angry and not having ANY options. The only other option is to stay alone, embrace it, and deal with the reality . Lots of women also tell them to stay alone if they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:34 PM
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At least your friend takes some kind of action and can accept rejection. This is way more than the mad , toxic, and delusional kinds of men you find in subs like these saying weird stuff and having delusional standards while assuredly being 1's and 3's, but insisting they are "average" and being seething angry at women for being considered beautiful when they are not their exact preference and are thought to be attractive. When you tell them to develop good social skills and have a good personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:27 PM
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Nah , the men on here and most subs like this just lie about women's looks. The male leads look as attractive as the women in hallmark movies. But of course, you just wish that the threshold was really low for what males look like because you want males to be able to be actually ugly and called average. Doesn't work that way, never will, and it is amusing and desperate that your types will come here to say weird stuff like this . No one believes it because you actually don't know what you are ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:13 PM
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They think Jonah Hill and Margo Robbie are even in looks. It explains a lot of their delusional thinking and conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:53 AM
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The women in Hallmark movies are not average with the men being handsome. They are usually well matched in looks. What a delusional comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:51 AM
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Yeah , read the whole thing , then was like, "No way this guy is a doctor" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:35 AM
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So, what is the logic here? How many women out of even 100 would date Chris Brown or a known serial killer? Seriously, this doesn't make sense and is not the norm. Most women don't want to date abusers and serial killers. This would be like saying because Richard Ramirez and BTK and Ted Bundy were serial killers, ALL men , or most men, must be serial killers too. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:39 AM
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She was talking about the privilege of not working in a marriage out of necessity to contribute to the household income! Did you not understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:36 PM
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So I like Taylor Swift and I like astrology lol. That being said. There are men into astrology too. I have had some very enlightening conversations with them. Those that have a more in depth understanding that is. But I have ran into way more men that are so ridiculously adverse to it in attitude and they can not even theoretically entertain it and that speaks volumes. There are so many things we do not understand. Even in science. Which is always evolving and never truly "settled" either. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:50 PM
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"Barely any guys are doing unattractive stuff" and then "barely interacting with women" , insert facepalm ....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:57 PM
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Yeah, many here are good at denying everyone else's perceptions and experience. Most times, when you read enough of their thoughts and words, you realize they are actively sabotaging themselves through their mentalities .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:02 PM
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Women also don't listen to what men like the ones on here are saying or typing vs what they are DOING. Which is more than likely behaviors that many women have laid out as socially awkward and unattractive. But whoever continues to do them after being told that they are unattractive and a recipe for loneliness , are only gaslighting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:59 PM
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They never will. Because they WANT to believe the worst is true. They don't want the responsibility of doing anything to improve either. Their minds are made up. If they are in the autism spectrum, this increases several fold. They really do usually get stuck in their ways. If their parents didn't work diligently when they were kids to get them to develop social skills, then I hate to say that regular people without these problems have a hard time understanding that it will likely never change f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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If people are more concerned with talking themselves out of even trying, they will surely not get better at anything .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:55 PM
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Yeah, I mean, it's not like predators are good at what they do, right? Like not being seen until it's too late and they have trapped their prey. I am sure that predators usually say "hey I'm a predator and wish to devour you as prey", then the prey says, "That sounds great, I thought you would never ask!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:45 PM
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Yep. All of this women are seeing daily. However, it is women's fault somehow that they are unattractive, undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:46 AM
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Doubled down on being wrong . Contribution literally means to supply something or to GIVE something. It has nothing to do with being common nor rare. It is SUPPLYING something. Not to mention supplying it with sacrifice to well-being at that in regards to this particular discussion. It doesn't matter how much the low effort and frustrated men cry about having no value nor use, nor try to ignore actual contributions to life and humanity that women make, it will not make you matter more than women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:42 PM
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Yeah , they really wonder why they are so unattractive, unwanted , and destined to be alone . They want to be the princesses in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:25 PM
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The reason that this is such blatant bullsh*t is because women have children too much. Most of you will be extremely broke with no resources to even really provide the value exchange for a woman carrying and then birthing children for you. Most women want children . So yeah, they want a man that can provide. Men need to be useful and valuable to a woman because she risks her life to carry and birth children . Some women don't see it this way, they will go 50/50. Look for those. But it will never…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:23 PM
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You are smart. These miserable dudes want everyone as miserable as they are. If they can't have what they want, then dammit no else should.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:11 PM
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They will always lose. Women, for one need to advocate for stronger self defense rights for women. It bothers them so much that women who are considered of lower value (to them) and also are not their personal preference can be the preference of another man that is better than they are. They want "solidarity" because they are the losers who have to go without what they desire. They are even more angry that others are getting what they desire . It would be cool if they could be "in solidarity" wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:05 PM
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They CAN improve. But do they want to do the work? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:32 PM
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They also believe that bearing children and birthing them is "no work at all" . It takes no effort as well. Very delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:12 PM
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They just decide that everything you said is too much work for them. They think "why should I do all that?" Then get mad and say that wanting to have an attractive, stable, healthy minded , non bitter and non abusive man is what they already are lol. They ignore their own faults and shortcomings because they really don't want to do any work or have any self reflection. They see that some males get to abuse women and that is where they want to set the bar at. "Why can't I just abuse women too?" "…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:03 PM
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You are "observing this" after a relationship has already been established. At the onset of the relationship, these abusers were not forthcoming about their eventual trash behavior towards women. This is why you hardly see any women even in online anonymous places say that Andrew Tate is good-looking even though he works out and can be said to be physically attractive by a large number of women by looks only. The truth is , he repells women who know who and what he is. Who hear what he says and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:35 PM
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Yep. Because that is the laziest and easiest thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:27 PM
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There are definitely many people that don't see the great potential in others . It is just a thing. Some people don't have the energy or interest to motivate others into reaching that level. This is why if a man finds a friend that does this , I can see that as a win in and of itself. It is important to talk about why it is a win. Because even if you only remain friends for a time or for the rest of your lives, you gained a great ally that was instrumental in your self improvement, which then be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:32 PM
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It is understandable that a friend or the in the context of friendship a person can provide motivation and or encouragement. But then the question becomes what does the "friendzoned" man expect from the person giving them that encouragement. If the man can then self improve without becoming attached to the woman friend/romantic possible interest to a degree where he shuts down , or loses motivation without her in the picture then I would say, that would be okay. He could then use the new found g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:58 PM
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Okay, well that is a start. If you are not the kind to bring this up constantly, then it doesn't apply to you. The comments and posts about this specific thing seem to be a cornerstone of cope for so many insecure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:28 AM
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Raging? More projection I see. You are obsessing over something here, which is standard behavior for many of you. You don't have "authority" to tell me what to move along to. I will continue to point out the ridiculousness of the obsessions many of you have with women and how that shows in your commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:11 PM
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Okay, so then that usually is what we know is the issue. The behavior of men keeps showing that when they feel unnatractive, they will try to make women feel the way they feel. Usually, the responses women give to this are going to sound hurtful. We usually try to ignore them. We often wonder why some males feel the need to be destructive towards women when they are hurt. We are learning more and more that it is a projection of the inner negative feelings that many men don't want to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:07 PM
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So, in short , your obsessions with trying to bring this up constantly has nothing to do with "reality" . No one is looking towards insecure , jaded , unsuccessful men that most women don't want to have sex with , live with, or commit to to talk about "reality" . Focus on your own reality. Absolutely no one wants to hear your narrow focus of "reality" for women , when you need to be focusing on your own reality as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:43 PM
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The problem many of you have is , you need to be concerned with your OWN dwindling attractiveness and not getting erectile dysfunction. That should occupy your thoughts more than what age a woman may or may not become attractive or should or should not feel attractive. That should be a psychological and physical reality that you should be facing. Keep going over the same point about biological realities that you all obsess over and KEEP bringing up. It only needs to be met with telling you that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:36 PM
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Exactly. Because those feeling are so strong and relatable to many of these types, it is a strong cope narrative. Getting therapy would be much more beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:18 PM
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Also, it can be perceived as "threatening" because of the power imbalance, lack of experience and history of women not having rights and bodily autonomy. But threatening in the sense that they want any average or below average aged unattractive male that isn't Chris Evans is a ridiculous notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:57 PM
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If a guy wants to date a younger woman with a large age gap, some may think it is because he has insecurities that influence this kind of preference. They are usually not wrong . It could be because they found a compatible partner . But usually it isn't that. People use their observations and experience as to why something may be problematic. I am glad that women are voicing concern and having a discussion about it. It keeps women thinking . As it should. But most will think about it and quietly…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:54 PM
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Can you accept that women with high self esteem will be comfortable with their looks and feel attractive and sexy at any age they are able to still have sex? The issue here is how CONCERNED you all seem to be with bringing up older age with women as a death sentence to being attractive. Healthy men physically, usually find a wide array of adult women attractive. The ones that don't usually have many problems and insecurities that influence their narrow preferences. Which narrows their options do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:48 PM
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Older men often look ugly to all ages of women. It is usually their growth in mentality and maturity that makes up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:43 PM
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I think they get mad because people know WHY they have these preferences. Also that knowing the why makes people think they are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:41 PM
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I think you guys get frustrated when people can see through your mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:40 PM
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Many of you are using older women as a scapegoat for your clearly seen insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:39 PM
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Younger women are against it too. If anything older women are against it because of experience. Nothing you guys can say to diminish that. Wisdom from older women that younger women can relate to as women will always be valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:38 PM
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This post is a delusional attempt to "rile women up" with pitting women against each other for the "approval" of unwanted males . It doesn't even make sense, really. Reason being, males this delusional usually are not very successful in life anyway. They are usually very unnatractive and that is also what brings about these cope delusions. They want someone to "pay" for how undesirable they felt their whole lives, so they project. They are scared of being the ugly , old, jaded "hags" that they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:33 PM
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No one is getting triggered. These older women are not triggered. Most of you who would even post here are not attractive. You also won't be rich, so who cares about what you "want". You won't get it anyway. Most are too lazy to even workout🤣. You guys like to project your weird stuff onto women . You say women think 80percent of you are ugly anyway. So, if that is true , why would women be jealous of what ugly men want anyway? Most women think you are even more ugly when you get older. Yes even…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:22 PM
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They learned that solipsistic word from an angry red piller who thought he was so intelligent 🤣. Now they all think they can use it, and misspell it constantly. It is so corny and amusing at the same time🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:57 PM
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Most normal women don't like pickmeisha's. I would never disrespect older women to gain points with men who will also dislike you when you are older. That weird pickmeisha deserved to be told all kinds of sobering things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:52 PM
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I think the ones who think women are aroused and having orgasms in porn are going to be a REAL problem now and definitely in the future. I think there will hardly be any men left to choose from. Because many are delusional and really don't believe the women are acting 🤦🏽‍♀️. That alone should mess up porn for them when they find out. But they will delude themselves anyway. But your whole list was good..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:54 PM
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When something is rare compared to the other more common thing. It becomes asinine to try and act like the rare thing that is usually the exception to the rule is what a person is dealing with. Lots of males these days have trouble with a lot of male problems being exposed. So they use rare instances of women doing something that men usually do to take attention away from a problematic issue that men mainly perpetuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:01 PM
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Oh yes absolutely. I think she knew exactly how big that video would be in the climate we are in. For some people even negative attention is attention nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:53 AM
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Everyone always sees this. But males these days are calling Margot Robbie "mid" . It's okay for them to look like Jonah Hill. But Margot Robbie is mid. Seriously, the delusions are many. I hope more women keep reading these types of views and comments from men so that they can make informed decisions. Which I think many already are and choosing to stay uncommitted and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:15 AM
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Same with men. They often will accept all kinds of things from a very beautiful woman that they won't accept from a plain Jane or below average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:04 AM
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Men can't get in relationships with women they are very attracted to either. They also settle. Which is why you see men who gain wealth/success leave their wife for the women they were attracted to in their youth. Or cheat on them with those types of women. Because now they have access..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:03 AM
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The cheesecake video was fake. The woman who made it is some kind of "therapist and actress". It was made to rile people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:55 AM
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No, men harrass the comment sections of stars like Lizzo, meanwhile, jellyroll the very fat singer has zero women talking about his looks, calling him a cow , a whale, and talking about how much he eats and how bad and fat his body looks. This was before the allegations of Lizzo being a bad "boss" to her employees . Her comment section was FULL of males who had to chime in about her looks. Hmm, wonder why they felt so comfortable doing that? Could it be because society is absolutely more accepti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:43 PM
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I think the biggest issue people have with pedos not being stopped is how they get slaps on the wrists and can be let out to reoffend. The punishments are not harsh enough. This makes people think that the lawmakers are not very serious about stopping or deterring pedos and sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:47 AM
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You guys keep saying this. Female sexual predators are rare compared to men. They just are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:42 AM
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Exactly, I know exactly one guy who found out later his real dad was not his bio dad. But the stepfather even knew beforehand and went with the lie that the mother wanted to tell her son. He was so disturbed to find out the truth when he was in high school. He suspected it because he ended up being a carbon copy of the man who was his biological father. People started talking because they literally looked like old and young versions of each other, same voice and mannerisms and everything. That i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:41 AM
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It's the fact that the thought to do the test was in his head to begin with. Most likely knawing obsessively about it , even if he only stated it one time. Usually, this does shake a foundation of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:31 AM
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There are so many stories like this . I suspect it was even worse when they didn't even collect data on this subject.. I think males shy away from this topic altogether in general. The only few that do talk about it talk about despising pedos. I have often wondered if the ones silent when this stuff is discussed is because they don't believe it happens and want to be dismissive, or they feel guilty because they know many men do commit these crimes .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:27 AM
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Exactly. This is a devastating and vile thing to believe casually that all women are capable of. To be obsessed with testing to "ensure". They see this as perfectly fine. Just because some men trusted women and they did that, all women and mothers should be subject to scrutiny according to them. But if a woman were to say , I just want to make sure you are not capable of SA of your own children because many men have been and the mother trusted these men, all of a sudden they should not be subjec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:19 AM
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The maggot tier of mankind are the males who SA kids. Not the women who understand that it happens way more than the males on this sub think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:12 AM
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Sadly, men committing SA is super common too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:04 AM
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Yes , I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:43 AM
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That last sentence needs to be stated again and again, because it is so true. Some of them view women as literal competition for other men, who some of them are really attracted to .
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 04:34 AM
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And men also depicted as princes. They also can be hideous beasts and be loved for their inner self .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:42 PM
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Yeah, I can see hard life experiences being a reason to become interested in physical development. The best hope is that emotional healing comes with it .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:39 PM
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I advocate for separating women and even other vulnerable individuals from dangerous behaviors by mentally ill men. Whenever that becomes apparent , separation is the best immediate protection. Because as demonstrated by some depressed males they will not only suicide, but murder suicide. Women are also separated from their children when they become dangerous to them due to mental illness. People are even now advocating for separation of them and their children if they become dangerous to the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:23 PM
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Men who live that lifestyle alone are usually happy right? I can see why women don't want a lazy, gamer type loser. But I will admit that I find it cringe when women don't like men who go to the gym and workout . As long as the guy is not using steroids and being abusive, I think women with good mental health see it as discipline and a positive thing for a man to work on himself in this way. But if he is saying weird misogynistic stuff while doing it, if it becomes clear that he is angry and con…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:34 PM
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Old Crone representations of women being called "witches and evil" are not condemned either. Why should Disney act like some males are not pigs when women can be depicted as evil witches?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:07 PM
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I think the attitude should be that men don't need to blame their own behavioral problems on women, and think that women should be held responsible for problems that often stem from porn addiction, gaming addiction and lack of ambition for males. Especially when the addicts don't want to give up those addictions when they have been told over and over that they are unhealthy. I think that women are doing their jobs in calling out the problems of porn addiction, gaming addictions and refusal to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:02 PM
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I agree ! These people are so ridiculous that they think women should be held responsible for not caring that they didn't want to put the effort in to live. They also are the types (most likely) that had a problem for every solution that was given to them. That was also women's fault. I would and do stay far away from males who talk like this even a little bit. It is cringe . It is absolutely not women's job to save men collectively. Communities can try to help men with mental health issues . Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:47 PM
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Yes , the arguments are nothing but attention seeking, victim complex antics if you ask me. Once again, it makes it easier to see how they are coping with the shame of being alone. Or the Shame of knowing they will end up alone due to their weird thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:25 PM
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Once again, very cold, hard truths you are giving. But much needed and very based in reality. The escapism and whining will never move them forward. As a woman, if we say things like this to them, they get very triggered. They will start saying all kinds of weird and unhinged stuff to deflect. They will often do the same to men. But I do feel like hearing things from men hits different for them. Doesn't matter if I like that or not. It just seems to be the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:14 PM
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Yes. These are once again all very great points . It is just very hard to get this across to some of them. I really think many have further mental issues that they won't admit to , or have dodged diagnosis for , but that prevent them from absorbing the information. They are actually very emotionally fragile, lacking self-regulation, and they perseverate on things that feed anger and resentment instead of taking action and any accountability for their situations. Hopefully, something clicks for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:06 PM
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Well said. It is like this for most people , most of the time. Some men have it on "easy mode" or make it look easy, sure. Same with women. Some women luck out. Very few , but some do. But most other things acquired are hard work that fantasy driven people can't see and won't see. It is a steady effort that they have to keep at, even with no real promise of getting their exact fantasy. But they continue nonetheless. Motivation, discipline and self reflection, and assessment are just present in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:38 PM
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You explained it all very well for them. But no one can really tell these men anything..They want to be coddled and want to either be like women or children . When you tell them that is unnatractive, they start talking about "younger women" that they also cannot really secure either but want. It starts to become plain to see why so many of them will end up struggling at best or alone at worst. But like many , you tried to reason with them. But there is really no reasoning with most of them. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:08 AM
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"Honesty sounds like a bro who doesn't want to do shit with his life" This is spot on.. the men here really don't like to hear that. But it is exactly what women see as a red flag and don't want to deal with. Being good at providing strengths that help out with getting through life together in other aspects, as you mentioned often do make up for a lack of being an "emotional cuddle dude" as you put it. Most women can deal with that, and are very satisfied in relationships with men that provide a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:58 AM
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The government and good men/people hold people committing crimes accountable for them. So when a bad man makes the terrible decision to commit violence or abuse, he will be held accountable according to society and laws. This happens whether or not you feel red flags were ignored or not , or whether you believe women ignore "red flags" when a man is hot. Most women will tell you that hot men are not abusive to women and remain hot to a woman. Violence towards women is considered unnatractive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:44 AM
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This is the important thing. I think most women accept that men may get aroused by women and how they walk, talk, physically appear, etc. However, it is foisting unwanted attention or sexual acts, becoming angry and starting to harrass when the interest is not returned, feeling entitled to reciprocation of that sexual interest or attention is where the problems are at. The most healthy men are the ones who realize that they may be drawn to look, become aroused etc, but it is their actions and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:29 AM
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Absolutely. Delusional and hyper focused on those delusions should definitely make women see red flags. They should trust their feelings of being scared and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:14 PM
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I agree with this. You put it very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:12 PM
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Lol trying to respond with stuff usually said to RP and incels lmao! Yeah sounds like you definitely have a shower problem. Which is why you noted what these types of males get told. You identify. What a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:52 PM
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I think it was actually Jordan Peterson who said "Women want civilized but dangerous men". I make no apologies for this for myself or other women. It is the weak ones who try to pretend to be moral that have a problem with this. Because really they want the opportunity to be abusive to women victims and not have to deal with a man being physically violent to them. All of a sudden, they sound like pacifists and pretend to be anti violent. But really, it is because they think the "violent men" tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:50 PM
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Martial arts instructors I knew , also men I knew that were into martial arts were often very disciplined men. They actually could cause harm due to skill, but didn't. Funny how self discipline works this way .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:23 PM
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Women don't "choose" males who show clear signs of being abusive or violent towards them. The only ones that may do something like that have extremely rare fetishes for this type of thing. You want this to be what you think in your head, that women "choose" violent men. Most people go out and buy things that break or become worthless when they looked perfectly fine on the outside .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:11 PM
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Exactly this! Imagine being offended that someone is taking precautions about being harmed or killed? The rhetoric is 🤡💩.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:05 PM
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I have seen men slap other men on the ass more than I have seen women do that to men lol. Never ever heard a guy whine it was sexual assault when a man did that to another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:51 AM
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Then fight the men about it. Direct your anger towards them. Stop trying to act like women are your biggest predator because they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:33 AM
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Exactly this. They would rather whine, though. Then curse at and insult women from their screens. Then cry about them being thought of as pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:28 AM
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Yes . I have said this as well. Lots of jealousy towards women . It gives women the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:01 AM
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This one seems like he is seething in hatred for women. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:22 AM
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Yes exactly. I have turned down a few very attractive dudes because they approached with overt sexual words and energy. I didn't know them at all. But I just told them no thank you , and to have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:55 AM
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No. I have not .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:51 AM
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One time, I tried to be nice about it. I would see this guy at a coffee shop . I was generally nice to everyone in there. Tried to smile and be pleasant. He struck up a conversation with me one day. I spoke to him like I would speak to anyone , eye contact, and being nice. I thought nothing of it. Then one day he followed me home. Waited until I was putting my key in the door and then surprised me with a big smile on his face in the dark. My reaction was so very blatantly that I was terrified. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:45 AM
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You were told multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:51 AM
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You need a womb to birth life. Otherwise sperm is empty fertilizer that is useless. Women's eggs are more valuable to sell than a male's sperm. Since you wanted to go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:40 AM
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Yeah. I was surprised that a nurse said that and verified that it was true and a known thing amongst them. Being in these subs let me know that the fragility of lots of males and their feelings are why we don't really get to see true numbers and why studies are often hidden. The findings are hidden because it really harms the feelings of some males to face the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:23 PM
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You need a woman's womb to birth life. So what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:46 PM
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You were told over and over, you seem to not be able to read or something. Don't troll. You keep focusing on physical strength as if you don't understand that physical strength is not the only thing that would make a person or thing more superior to another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:14 PM
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Also elderly men are indeed weaker than younger men , they themselves will even tell you this . I don't know how you came to the delusion that elderly men are as strong as men in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:12 PM
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Your question has been answered over and over. You simply just think you are right. When you clearly aren't. People even said here that males were stronger in brute strength , then you tried to minimize women's worth and contributions. You are the type that tries to minimize the importance of the water over the sun, when both are needed to sustain life, but present and operate their skills differently .When presented with information about water being important and all it's contributions, you wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:11 PM
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Yes, most women feel that fear. Is this news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:04 AM
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From what I have read female babies are stronger than male babies . Male babies have higher mortality rate, was what a NICU nurse told me .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:38 AM
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So then when men lose their strength in old age, and most younger men are stronger than them , should they then not be considered human?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:37 AM
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Being physically weaker isn't "less".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:33 AM
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Physically, in lots of measures of brute physical strength, men tend to be much stronger. Yes. Women have strength in different ways. But not brute strength like men. There is nothing wrong with that. Men also can not bear children. Women and men have differences. That is okay. It should not be something used to devalue women, nor women's contributions to life , the human experience, human existence, and society .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:16 AM
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You can ignore the damage or rot to the brain if you want to. Your choice. No one can make you think logically about it. People make the choice to do illogical and self destructive things everyday. No one needs to argue with people like this. So of course keep at it. But again , the information about what it does to the brain and how it influences behavior is there for you or anyone else to take in . If you want to continue to argue against it, and furthermore, if you want to continue the behavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:24 PM
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Damaging your brain is the problem. If you want to make that worse, don't blame external factors for your choices to willingly rot your brain. It will be very reliable in doing just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:22 PM
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This is exactly what I wanted to say. The teachers amongst my family and friends keep saying that screen addictions are a big thing they are fighting with as teachers. Also that too many boys in particular seem to have no attention span whatsoever these days. Which wasn't the problem in older times where things were arguably more "patriarchal". Another big thing that I have heard from teacher family and friends is that mothers of these problematic boys are the worst to deal with. They coddle the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:34 AM
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Now they are going to really be triggered with this comment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:19 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:55 AM
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Not so much jealous whatsoever, especially when the man is not desirable. However , whatever that porn can be doing to damage your brain and having you act out in society eventually when you find out that porn isn't giving you the dopamine hit it once was , is what is concerning people. Rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:59 PM
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"Science is only just beginning to reveal the neurological repercussions of porn consumption. But it is already clear that the mental health and sex lives of its widespread audience are suffering catastrophic effects. From depression to erectile dysfunction, porn appears to be hijacking our neural wiring with dire consequences." "Porn use has been correlated with erosion of the prefrontal cortex — the region of the brain that houses executive functions like morality, willpower and impulse contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:56 PM
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Yes. This is true. Or I think women often are socialized to get into "competition mode" with men around. It becomes about acceptance from men . When women are around each other , without men, when women are with each other it seems to be more about being comfortable and happy and not so much about competition. I think women are starting to notice this more. I see more content popping up about decentering men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:29 PM
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Yes, this also happens. But many here never get to that stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:04 PM
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Maybe you didn't get the point. Some women definitely have kinks or whatever. Maybe "being used" is one of them. But for many women, this isn't the case. It is literally about feeling things that you like being done to your body so that you can become aroused, stay aroused, and climax as a woman. It is usually a process. So the point here is there is no validation , no arousal , and no reward for the kind of sex lots of men would want to have where he is "using" a woman's body as a sex doll. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:15 AM
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Seek a therapist and a financial advisor. My life is great. I don't need a better job, sex life, or body . I am doing great as I am now for the most part. All things in my control , I have perfect control of lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:58 PM
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Lol, but they are both equal. So lose lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:48 PM
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Neither to be honest. Disgust and being touched without feeling aroused is a no go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:48 PM
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When your deficit is pointed out, because you felt you succeeded at one and failed at the other, you will make excuses. You will claim that something is easy for almost everyone when lots of info points to it being much more complicated and a much wider discussion . But you are so knowledgeable and so "convinced" (in your own mind) that you are right you simplify something to suit your emotions . Nothing rational at all with your assumptions and beliefs. But emotionally triggered you are. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:47 PM
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Yes it does. It is a description of a sexual scenario that doesn't benefit you, nor arouses you. It is paramount in making you fully understand. You can pretend to not understand. But I know you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:40 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:45 PM
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Women don't recieve being a tool that a man engages with for his own pleasure and not hers as "physical intimacy and validation" . I assure you , if it was only about sex , you could also bend over for males that would have sex with you, but for you it would only be a degrading act, because you recieve nothing from the act , than the man bending you over and ejaculating from the use of your body. Some foul mouthed man at my old job had said to a co worker jokingly, "your the kind of man that dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:43 PM
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"There's a disturbing truth that is emerging from the science of obesity. After years of study, it's becoming apparent that it's nearly impossible to permanently lose weight. As incredible as it sounds, that's what the evidence is showing. For psychologist Traci Mann, who has spent 20 years running an eating lab at the University of Minnesota, the evidence is clear. "It couldn't be easier to see," she says. "Long-term weight loss happens to only the smallest minority of people." https://www.cbc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:56 PM
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"Your body is designed to hold onto as much fat as possible to store for times when food may be scarce. That makes losing weight difficult for most people. Factors at play include genetics, age, race and ethnicity, diet, physical activity, hormones, and social factors. If you struggle with weight loss, you know that there are no shortcuts. One key strategy to losing weight is to burn more calories than you eat. As easy as that sounds, it usually isn't. It's not just about finding time to exercis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:39 PM
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This is a lie. There are also people who work hard on their weight and are not thin. Give them a pass also and stop with these lies. This is something you can change. Doesn't matter about all the excuses. People born poor become wealthy. They change it. It has nothing to do with genetics. You want to make becoming wealthy something that can't be changed. But you are saying that because it would make your value go down . So you are arguing. But it is in your control PERIOD. You just wish it was e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:35 PM
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"The “calories in, calories out” formula for weight loss success is a myth because it oversimplifies the complex process of calculating energy intake and expenditure. More importantly, it fails to consider the mechanisms our bodies trigger to counteract a reduction in energy intake." https://www.sydney.edu.au/news-opinion/news/2023/07/05/its-time-to-bust-the-calories-in-calories-out-weight-loss-myth.html#:~:text=The%20%E2%80%9Ccalories%20in%2C%20calories%20out%E2%80%9D%20formula%20for%20weight%2…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:30 PM
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You can't judge a person's health on weight only. Those numbers can be different for any and everyone. There will be overweight people who will assuredly outlive many under their own weight. Stop with the simple and basic one size fits all BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:26 PM
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There are many factors to weight, environmental, genetic , hormonal , etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:25 PM
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Exactly. They often see a woman as a status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:33 AM
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Nothing wrong with preferences. However, the shaming is a problem. If you are not doing that, then no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:29 AM
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Exactly. It is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:27 AM
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Usually, it is that the women are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:26 AM
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Yep, same way women settle for broke men with beer guts, under 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:23 AM
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Just like women prefer wealthy men. But they settle for mediocre and poor men. Same thing. Everyone has to settle to have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:21 AM
1

Same discipline and planning needed to break cycles of generational poverty or building wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:20 AM
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Lack of awareness on how to manage money, playing video games instead of working more hours and gaining more education. Bad work ethic and low discipline. Every penny counts like every calorie does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:15 AM
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No it isn't. Most people are fat due to choices right? Same with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:12 AM
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Yes , just as easy. Takes discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:10 AM
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You can try to overly simplify it. But ultimately your income level and wealth are things you can control too. They take certain behaviors to master . Like weight control and maintenance of that healthy weight .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:09 AM
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So is being broke with no resources. But women make exceptions. So have your preferences. Women should have theirs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:08 AM
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Knew a few gym bro Chads that seemed to like bigger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:06 AM
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Read studies on work for women, the history of discrimination against women and unpaid labor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:03 AM
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You can control your income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:02 AM
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Working hard and being disciplined to an extreme and investing money can make you wealthy. It takes patience and hard work , and not making excuses and falling off . Or you fall back. Like with strict diets, starvation and exercise. May need extreme behaviors, but ultimately, it is in your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:01 AM
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Just like you see obesity as laziness. Being lazy often results in less money for men .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:59 AM
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Yes being rich can be controlled. You are angry that it isn't easy. But it can be controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:58 AM
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Get hair transplants. Face surgery. Make money to do this. Not easy. But it can be controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:56 AM
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Yes it does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:52 AM
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Right. They just say have basic respect. Which is too much for miserable people. They have to insult people. Then be sensitive when they are insulted or not someone's preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:52 AM
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Yep, it is that simple .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:50 AM
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I never heard obese women saying you need to find them attractive. But more like back off of the insults if you don't find them attractive, also stop harassing and shaming the men that want them. Women don't shame women for wanting short or bald men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:48 AM
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Hair transplants , hair loss medicine and limb lengthening surgery. Make it happen . Try hard , fight the genetics with surgeries and medical protocols. Most aren't even trying when they can be. It is as easy as losing weight or being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:46 AM
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They KNOW it is a flat out lie lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:44 AM
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Or men without money. They can control that. But then all of a sudden there are all these "considerations" for something completely in their control, like they say for women about being hot, thin and low body counts lol. If anything is really hard they all of a sudden believe it is "out of their control".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:42 AM
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These things can only be treated, they cannot be cured. You are simply lying about it being treated and it going away. The treatments often pile on side effects sometimes as bad as the disease itself. These things are not in the person's control, so stop with the cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:36 AM
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Yep. I believe women should do this to them regardless of size. Because it really boils down to them hating a woman for having any preferences. Because they also hate when thin women have preferences in the physical appearances of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:32 AM
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Yeah , I know a poor woman who looked fine slightly chubby. She was beautiful and had nice dating options. However, she was teased by some weirdo about being "fat". So she lost weight and people say now she looks very flat and her face has aged. She follows a diet and never goes off of it. I still think she looks fine. But now, people are saying she looks older and she doesn't get carded for her ID anymore. People think she is her sisters mom now. I feel bad for her because she is not happy now …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:41 AM
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I don't know percentages of people who do this. But the average person is not fit. The average person does not do all of those things. Most eat pizza several times a week and drink alcohol. Some gain weight from doing this. Others just remain slim or not obese to the eye but are "skinny fat" and soggy . Hardly anyone lifts weights . They may here or there but make the choice not to most of the time. Hardworking individuals who sacrifice a lot , are ambitious and are intelligent with their money …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:41 AM
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If being fit didn't require much effort , everyone would be fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:19 AM
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Men have more muscle and, therefore, have fewer excuses to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:27 PM
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I just don't understand their obsession with "Chad" . If they can never be Chad, they need to let that go. They need to deal with being themselves and stop lying that Chad gets everything. You can still live life and not be Chad .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:27 PM
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The numbers I have read say otherwise. I'm not sure where you are getting your info , but it is not what I see in real life, or with the numbers. So I disagree. I will agree that women's bodies may have a propensity for needed fat, and women's bodies are designed that way due to being the sex that carries children . As far as I know, they even adjust for that in those numbers . Most men I know, especially at your age have beer guts and double chins, heavy chests and man boobs. My Dad said he wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:22 PM
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I just think it is pathetic to keep being worried about women who would never give you the time of day and who find you unattractive. I would not be worried about them and whining about them. If I really hated the men that were attracted to me, I would not complain about it. I turn men down all the time and don't mention it. I am not mean about it, I just say "no thanks" nicely. The ones I do like and want I have said yes to. Simple. But I won't be angry and hating them. My observations are ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:15 PM
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Morbidly obese in an of itself are low numbers. We are talking about obese . Semi functioning obese adults. You are dismissing obese males as not being as obese as obese women when I think they are even more numbers of obese men than women. Lots of women still don't feel comfortable working out at gyms with men and women. All women's workout groups or gyms have plenty of women in them usually .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:03 PM
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Also set up a few fat stubby men with women who were obese like them . But they were delusional and thought they were not obese and the women were. Even at work they were told they were more obese than the women by several co workers including me , and they got these blank stares. They couldn't process the fact that they could even be considered obese when there was an obese woman they thought they could point the finger at. I have since stopped trying to set them up. Because they are in denial …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:55 PM
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You simply don't want to accept they are obese because your eyes are wanting to see women with extra fat as obese. Even though the men are just as obese, obese as in fat, sloppy and no sculpted lean muscle. It is simply judging women harshly. This is why women need to do the same to men. Because many men have become delusional to where they can only tell if a woman is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:40 PM
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Yep, look at Lizzo's comment section and then look at a male singer called literally "Jellyroll" , I have not heard or seen anyone be disgusted in him. Online I have never read a single negative comment about his appearance. He also has a "hot" wife , and no one has a problem with it. Now if it was the other way around....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:38 PM
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Fat men are also repulsive and ugly. Men who are attractive and nerds get laid, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:35 PM
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This is really what most of them posting here mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:22 PM
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You can find people that eat tons of calories and gain nothing, and people that hold on to weight and eat reasonably. No one said it will be easy. You have to want it bad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:17 PM
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Then all men have to do is not seek what is between a woman's legs. What is the problem? Women seem to be okay with that. Women are not worried about men who are not attractive to them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:10 PM
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It is suspicious to blame the market when you can't afford to buy anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:09 PM
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So it is absolutely your choice to do that. No one can force you to do otherwise. But those whining about it are annoying and want to blame women. The women they cannot get, and the women they won't settle for. Moving on with life would be the best move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:04 PM
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You are the exception here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:58 PM
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You can , this is true. You can also be more wealthy by not being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:57 PM
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Yes it is something you can control . Some are fat and get thin. Others are poor and get rich. It is in your control. What are you willing to sacrifice and be disciplined enough to get in both scenarios to achieve your goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:56 PM
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I literally saw a video not that long ago of an obese passport bro crying to this Asian woman he was trying to be with about her calling him "fat and ugly." He was crying and she told him "yeah I say you FAT and you UGLY soooooooo." Guess what? He still was trying to be with her🤣. So much for all the "submissive , feminine , friendly " women once they got those passports. I know IRL of like 5 different dudes who got straight scammed by foreign women. But they want us to believe they go there and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:51 PM
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I have seen many obese passport bros. But you probably tried not to consider then "obese" because you are not really looking at their bodies and gaging their weight. Men are AS OBESE as women in the west. No getting around it🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:45 PM
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Bingo! They will never admit this. They don't want the women that want them. But then blame all the attractive women for not wanting them, and insist they are more attractive than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:43 PM
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So you think most men complaining about these things "eat healthy" and are fit and in shape? Most men these days are as OBESE as women . So why are they complaining when they can't even be healthy and fit themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:41 PM
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They can have standards, but often don't meet standards that are even lower . They are not attractive themselves as men. But then want attractive women that don't want them. They all claim here that they are "fit and decent looking" but can't get anyone. I think they are most likely delusional and are giving themselves way more points than women will give them. Which is being delusional. You can think you are beautiful as a woman, but if most men think you are not, you can not go on and on all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:40 PM
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Or talk about it, and get told about your whining. Then be angrier and still not being able to sleep with attractive women that are not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:32 PM
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Men can control their personality, their job and education choices, their social lives, their intelligence. Their ability to be rich and gain muscles. What is stopping them? They can control all of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:30 PM
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I think males are angry largely because they think women owe them a certain look, when they themselves don't look that way, and could not be bothered to look that way through diet and exercise. There are so many that have trouble even getting haircuts, taking showers often enough, and buying suitable well fitted clothes. They most definitely are not going to work out and eat right. I have tried to help some fat male co workers date women that were also fat and they all thought they were too good…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:25 PM
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They are definitely not starving themselves as males, not eating kale , not committing to gym routines , not forgoing beer nor the beer guts . Women need to not be worried about what they think. Let them stay alone, let them think every woman above a size 5 is "obese". Let them lie to themselves and be delusional. But if you are naturally a woman that gains weight easily or finds that you would have to be extremely deprived of all the small joys in life , so that one of these equally or more obe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:30 PM
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Exactly 💯, these males are extremely delusional. They are also obese, lacking muscle tone and have terrible social skills. But think they should be picky and not just get used to being alone🤣. Women are okay being alone most of the time. They dont like what they see, they rarely talk about it ,they get on with their lives, they just get hobbies and live peacefully alone. Even in real life, it is always a single , old, unnatractive male himself that is complaining about women not being hot for hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:22 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 I thought the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:47 AM
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Why would a man want a "provider and protector" in a woman? Would those men be willing to date a humongous body building woman that doesn't have periods anymore, that works construction or something? There is nothing wrong with that if that is what you want. But is this what you are talking about? Usually, women don't want to be "protectors and providers" like mothers to men. Do men like this feel like children? Do these men have trouble making a way out in the world? Usually, this is what most …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:54 PM
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Stressing a woman out can kill her sex drive completely. Being a lazy partner that puts stress on a woman can lower her libido. But men often don't listen until she has truly become done and disgusted in him. Men don't want to accept that women view sex differently than they do more often than not. Many men don't communicate or read between the lines and women get tired of holding their hands it seems. Many men are really just too lazy to have the kind of sex that would keep their wives or girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:43 PM
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This has been a thing historically that women were subject to. It feels icky and is still going on in parts of the world. Men could just decide that enough sex wasn't being given to him and he could kick her out or put her out. Which is why the feminists many of you hate so much fight for income equality, wage equality and discrimination against women in society to end. Because even reading lots if things here in PPD you began to prove many old feminism points as valid. There is a vested interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:34 PM
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Yep. Attraction can "strike" at any time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:56 PM
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Eh, not sure. Some women will fight over a man who is rich and make sure to compete for him. This sometimes makes these men seem very attractive to other women and they get lots of attention. Including sexing these rich men in competition with one another. Seems like the rich men are in a very favorable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:35 PM
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Yes. I believe they are. You can tell by the arguing against what people are explaining to them about the behavior. Obsession with their view being repeated over and over when the explanation is what they should be focusing on. But they are convinced they are right. This is why many people think many males on the spectrum are beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:27 PM
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Exactly, it also gives you an icky feeling when a guy knows this but chooses to go with approaching in a weird place where there are not people close enough to witness. Makes you think why is he the type of guy that wants to do this instead of the other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:23 PM
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So if she had a guy with her that could have been her brother or friend , do you think he still would have approached? Why not? Every man with a woman is not her partner. Maybe because he would feel more uncomfortable. So he would not do it. But why not shoot your shot in that situation? Because men all of a sudden can "control" their attractions and not want to "disrespect" another man. Disrespecting and scaring a woman alone though, Yeah, that is much more comfortable for him. Also to not risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:16 PM
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I think that many also do this in more "private" and off guard places because they don't want to risk feeling embarrassed of being turned down in public .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:12 PM
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Because they believe all that matters was their "right" to tell a woman they thought she was hot and should go out with them. That trumps all debate to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:09 PM
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Thank you. The weird dismissive takes on this are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:08 PM
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Yep , let the women reading this crap, take it as an example of the gaslighting males like to partake in. Ultimately, what THEY feel is more important than the truth women have to live with 🙄. I listen to , relate to , and understand women on this topic. Males interested in deflecting, minimizing, and gaslighting should be ignored by women. Stay vigilant ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:07 PM
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Because it was dealing with the topic at hand which was women fearing being assaulted sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:03 PM
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Also, you considered his feelings about her appearance flattering. She obviously didn't feel flattered but afraid instead. So you side with the man and are arguing with women about "unfounded fears." We live as women every day. You can argue all you want. It won't change us being afraid, and the savvy ones will stay vigilant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:02 PM
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So the man's feelings are more valid than a woman's fear of being sexually assaulted by a stranger that is physically stronger than her and that she doesn't know? Yeah that sounds right and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:59 PM
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Also to add, I have heard the military is a place where many rapes of men by other men are happening. It has been that way for a while. I would genuinely like to know what other places and in what circumstances grown up men are getting targeted or being raped by other men , or by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:29 PM
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This is because men are doing these crimes to other males. Women are not doing them. Maybe that is why you are not crying about it. Males are also given more physical strength in their biological make up to fight another man when they are both grown ups. So it is not the same. As women, we will never accept you men trying to dismiss these things that make a big difference in how we navigate life. We all know men rape and murder other men. But how many men are getting raped and murdered compared …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:12 PM
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No it isn't, because of it is in my body it is my property. Just like anything else on or in any person's body. You are angry that biology didn't ensure that was your decision because you don't have the uterus. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:48 PM
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Doesn't apply. Since the deposit was left in a person's body . Your part was the deposit. You don't get to decide what happens in someone apart from your body's choice after that. Hard to accept , but true nonetheless. No judge would grant you money you deposited in a place knowing they may keep it or not depending on their mood. If you went forth and deposited it anyway, the judge would tell you you are owed nothing as you knew beforehand that after the deposit was made , your control over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:23 PM
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All that to dismiss the fact that he knows his sperm can create a life, but then decides to deposit it into a vagina. Then, claim to have no "choice" . LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:56 AM
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It is different between man and woman. One decides through sex the other decides through her body being where the deposit is made. Which is up to her if she keeps it or not. Since it is her body. But neither can demand the sex without it being rape. So for males the sex itself is the choice. It just stops at that due to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:48 PM
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The sex IS the choice in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:26 AM
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This is exactly where you find the cliche "midlife crisis" that so many males go through lol. It is a cliche precisely because it happens so much. Beta Bux are not the poor , dumb exploited people they try to say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:16 PM
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"Until 60 or 70" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:38 PM
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My perspective is that I think sex work for women is exploitative and often not very lucrative for most women. I would hate that they had to use something like sex which should be pleasurable and meaningful with an intimate partner or person who cares for your well being. I hate that they would have to instead have the experience of selling sex to survive.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 06:25 PM
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Why did you use the word female? Explain yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:29 AM
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