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I saw someone in the thread say something similar. I have never seen Captain Marvel. Can someone explain to me why it's a LV movie? If you guys don't mind. P.S I barely know anything about Marvel or DC comics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 04:50 AM
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I am so sorry you went through that. I am sending you love and healing. I’m glad he’s an ex now and I definitely think drugs are LV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:23 AM
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This this this. Everything you’ve said is 100%%% true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:48 PM
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I’ve heard many guys who want to use a “safe word” get away with rape because their partner isn’t saying no or stop. They’re using the safe word. BDSM and kink are definitely LV and pathetically gross. If I’m in love with someone and want to be intimate with them, then I don’t need them to beat me up. This is coming from someone who has tried hair-pulling and my butt getting slapped so hard that it turned red. Some people might not consider these acts as BDSM, but I certainly do because they’re …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:43 PM
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I feel like even though weed and LSD are labeled as less harmful and addictive that they can still become addictive substances to people. You can absolutely get addicted to anything including weed. I thought I should share this as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:31 PM
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Personally, I have never done any drugs in my life. I have never smoked weed and when I tell people that they think I’m lying. The worst “drug” I’ve had is alcohol, and the last time I had that was when my family forced me to take shots for my 21st. Before that, I tried sips of stuff here and there, but around 16~ish I stopped. I’ve never been drunk or high. I don’t even know how people attain drugs like LSD and shrooms besides going on the Dark Web. It all seems to risky and too LV for my taste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:27 PM
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Don’t victim blame here. He’s the gross man preying after a person who is still basically still the age of a college student. These men know how to go after young, vulnerable, and naive women. Plenty of us have experienced it ourselves. OP, don’t pay any mind this commentor. The only takeaway from this comment and the lesson I’ve learned as well is to date men only a year or two older than you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:02 PM
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Exactly. I hate when older men (30+) go after girls in their early 20s. It’s creepy. Their predatory and or predators. I’ve gone through a similar experience myself when I was 20. Not even old enough to drink (in the US) and 5 years away from my brain being fully developed. These men can feed off low self-esteem, naïveté, and vulnerability like nobody’s business. I’m happy she got out! Plus, I agree with others. If the new women exists, then he can’t be treating her any better. It’s not her faul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 10:55 PM
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Ah, I see where the confusion came from now. I was upset because he cam in the same condom twice. I should’ve specified that more so that was on me. No problem at all. Glad I was able to clear things up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:13 PM
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No problem at all. You’re not supposed to cum in the same condom twice. Condoms are meant to be once and done! I shouldn’t have hooked up with him in the first place, but it’s really bad to keep reusing condoms since they can break or slip off during sex the more you ejaculate in it. You’re really supposed to change them after each time you ejaculate. I had no idea he was cumming in the condoms multiple times since I couldn’t feel it until he told me. I believe it’s almost as bad as taking the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:08 PM
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I didn’t mean you can’t say no at all. You’re right that you can say no! My point was I did say no and I was coerced and sexually assaulted. Most assaulters will want to turn your no into a yes after pushing you and pushing you to say “yes.” No isn’t always a yes and a yes isn’t always a no. Sorry for the confusion. I was mainly talking about how men like to use sexual coercion for sexual assault tactics Edit: Sometimes you feel like you have no choice other than your body to react to what’s hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:05 PM
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Also, my heartbreaks for this young girl. My assaulter also tried getting me to drink as well, but I declined (I’m not a drinker. I didn’t even think much of it until I looked into assaults). However, men will push you and push you until you can’t say no even without the drinking or drugs. They love coercing women and sadly drugging them as well. Unfortunately for me, I was in a private space and he had a gun as well so I was scared shitless. No time to fight back. There was only time for my bod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:10 AM
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100%. It’s definitely not safe especially if you don’t take the right precautions. I still think it’s not safe in general, but that’s my opinion. I think online dating is WAYYYY more dangerous for women. For example, I wasn’t online dating, but I met a “friend” online in person and he coerced, assaulted, and groomed me. I was 20 and he was 32. Predator alert. I also hooked up with a guy who cam in the condom TWICE without my consent and or knowledge. I spoke to him about my concern, and he told …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:55 AM
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Because a lot of 19 year olds are more naive and these predators know how to take advantage of their vulnerability. They don’t have resources like FDS to help them. When I was 20, a 32 year old guy coerced and SAed me. I knew we couldn’t date due to the age gap so I hung out with him as a “friend” and he took advantage of me when I hung out with him. Predators know how to take advantage of these young girls. They can practically smell their hurt, naïveté, and vulnerability on them. I wouldn’t bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:14 PM
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I’m surprised so many women are okay with erotica on here. I think it can just be as harmful as porn even if no one is getting sex-trafficked or abused. I’m saying this because erotica is just another form of pornography and honestly I feel like most of the subjects being discussed in erotica can still be inherently misogynistic and degrading. It’s also still a form of pornography as stated earlier so I’d advise to stay away from it at all costs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:42 AM
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I totally get why women aren’t expressing this opinion. I got so many comments that weren’t allowed to be on here saying “No WONdER You’RE sINGLE” “Don’t Lie No guy would willingly sleep with you,” etc etc. It only makes it easier for me to weed incels like this out of my life. I have boundaries, respect for myself, and they clearly have problems with that. These scrotes can stay mad :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:10 PM
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I’m sorry you went through that! No worries. I went through it too in my early sexual years, but I’ve decided NO MORE haha. I’m so glad your HV husband knows that’s nasty. It proves these men know exactly how depraved they are in this day and age. I also heard other FDSers compare it to how guys would never go down us during our periods because they know it’s unhygienic so why can’t the same be said with their nasty sperm? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:16 AM
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Yep. 100%. I will never let a guy cum in my mouth or on my body if I do ever become sexually intimate again. It’s too disgusting and too pornified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:06 AM
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I barfed at that part and couldn’t read the rest! I don’t even let guys cum in my mouth (I tried it once and it tasted so NASTY) or anywhere on me because I feel too degraded and disrespected…so usually whenever I was sexually intimate in the past the guy would cum anywhere else, but never on my body because I don’t want to be degrading and disrespectful towards my body like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:02 AM
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Thank you so much. It’s totally alright. Yes, he definitely was a predator in my case. He took advantage of me and manipulated me. I was very inexperienced in the world due to my age at the time, but this certainly is a walking red flag so I’m glad you pointed it out as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:58 AM
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I recommend not meeting men on OLD, but not meeting men in person off of social media either. I made a recent post about this, but I met two men off of Reddit (horrible mistake since a majority guys on Reddit are horrible, but I was young and naive, and taken advantage of for obvious reasons) and one SAed me. He was a predator (I was 20 and he was 32) so I assume there a lot of predators on social media sites like Reddit and dating apps like OLD and the other guy used me as an easy fuck as well …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:55 AM
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THIS. If he’s 30+ and you’re 18-20. STAY AWAY. PREDATOR ALERT. I’m so glad this was addressed in the video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:34 AM
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Not too surprised. Guys are crusty. I was talking to this one guy a long time ago that I was in a situationship with at the time (never again) and he told me he missed sleeping with me. That I was the sexiest girl he slept with at the time. He never said he misses me or that he misses spending time with me. He only missed having sex with me and I called him out on that. He was trying to deny it, but you can’t deny something you clearly said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:06 PM
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Does this apply to women as well? I consumed porn for a long time, but I don’t consume it anymore for several reasons (mainly after learning about the corrupt industry and how porn is abusive towards fellow women). Where has it been stated that porn causes permanent damage? Is that in a study? Personally, I’ve always heard that your brain can be rewired if you stop consuming porn and I feel like that’s been true even for me. I no longer seek porn. Porn is not a need and I’m certainly not porn-si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:50 PM
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I will drop someone IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE if they suggest bringing porn in my bedroom, porn in our relationship, or threesomes. Threesomes and porn are dealbreakers from me as I am strictly monogamous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:31 PM
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Yep. I’m pretty young and my sexual assault happened at 20 by a 3 fucking 2 year old predatory man. I made a post on my experiences to warn young women on here as well. I’m glad more women are speaking up about mens’ predatory behavior. It’s not normal for 30+ men to chase women freshly out of high school and or women in their first or second year of uni
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:47 AM
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I was just thinking about making a post if other women find it creepy that older men are physically and sexually attracted to anime characters. I understand finding a character of age good looking or aesthetically pleasing, but I feel like some guys and even gals get too extreme with getting obsessive over characters. I feel like the problem starts when they start calling characters hot. I wish I was joking. But for example, it makes me extremely uncomfortable when people are like h/she’s SO hOt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:16 PM
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I definitely agree with you about snooping. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. If your partner gets mad you’re going through their phone, then they’re hiding something from you. I agree that partners should always be able to look at each other’s phones and share passwords. I read through some of the comments on Reddit and no surprise toxic comments left and right. I don’t agree that OP is being “dismissive” of her husband like some comments stated and I don’t agree that she needs to “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:57 AM
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Trust me. I definitely agree with you about 30 year olds being predators if they go after girls in uni (especially early 20s). My assaulter was 32 and I was 20. He had a career. I was in college. Back then, I was told that I looked younger than my age as well. He was definitely a predator by all means looking back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 10:26 PM
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I shall send it again for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:58 PM
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I know this is really late to be commenting on your post. But can you be my friend? I feel like a lot of people don’t understand my values either. I don’t consume alcohol, weed, or heavier drugs. I’m anti-porn, kink, and BDSM. It’s really hard for me to find friends of the same values. I’m extremely introverted and I get tired out by family parties. The only college party I ever went to was one with my ex and I locked myself in the bathroom crying because I felt so alone and misunderstood haha. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:32 PM
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Yeah. I agree with you guys on here. No offense to the other ladies, but it doesn’t make sense to me that people are saying she doesn’t need therapy. She hired a sex worker for words of affirmation which a therapist could do for her. I do agree that she needs a better support system, but to stoop so low to pay a sex worker to cuddle you and say nice things. It gave me the ick vibe from the start since the guy is being paid to do that. He doesn’t really mean any of it plus she probably would bene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:21 PM
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I also love how I said it’s misogynistic in the comments and people are trying to say it’s not misogynistic. “I like my women like I like my coffee. In the kitchen until I need them,” and that’s NOT misogynistic but stereotypical? People on TikTok are either impressionable kids or so stupid. No in between
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:57 PM
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Indeed. It’s really horrific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:53 PM
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Right? I don’t even consider them jokes either. If you’re making a racist joke, it’s racist. NOT A JOKE. If you’re making a misogynistic joke, it’s misogyny. AGAIN. NOT A JOKE Thank you for your comment by the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:46 AM
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Trigger warning by the way. Some of this content is really insensitive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:54 PM
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Yes, people can be groomed at any age. I do agree with that. But I’m trying to say that young women in high school and college should be careful around older men since they are more likely to get preyed on by these predators due to their lack of life experiences and naïveté. However, I do agree with your comment but that wasn’t the problem I was trying to address. I’m also sorry to hear about those experiences you went through. I wish you nothing but the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:06 AM
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Thank you so much. That is really great advice to only date someone within similar terms of age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 12:24 AM
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Agreed. A man in his 30s dating someone fresh out of high school (18-21) is definitely not a HVM man and these type of men are predators
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:58 PM
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This this this!!! Preach it. I think it is important to give people this perspective as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:57 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with you that this can also apply to older more inexperienced women as well. Definitely agree that groomers/sexual predators are attracted to low self-esteem and naïveté
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:44 PM
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Agreed! Good point that you’ve brought up. Fuck those sick monsters and I’m really sorry you’ve experienced that as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:19 PM
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Me as well. I only count PIV so my “high body count” is 2 and I only orgasmed from one of them once during PIV LMAO. I also don’t count the time I was sexually coerced and assaulted because it was without my consent so I am the same as you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 09:40 PM
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THIS THIS THIS. I know I’m late but I need to share this out to other women to protect them. I was groomed and assaulted at 20 by a fucking 32 year old man. That’s a 12 year age gap. Creepy, I know. I was never attracted to him like at all. I found him to be really creepy and off-putting. I know I was groomed because he used nice words, paid for gifts, made me turn others against me, etc. I went to see him twice and the first time we were together he was talking about giving me head in his car a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:24 AM
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Personally, I think it’s an easy way to vet out men if you’re first talking and going on dates. If you’re invested in the relationship, then I can see snooping being a better option. I don’t think that question necessarily puts you in the hoe category considering how normalized porn is, and if a man thinks you’re a whore for asking that then drop him. I hope that helped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:17 PM
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So so so true. I cannot express this enough. Men love LOVE to L I E. Men will especially lie about things like porn. Best advice I’ve heard is to ask men, “What kind of porn do you watch?” not “What are your feelings on porn?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:01 AM
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Hard agree. I’m 20 for reference so I’m grateful to have people help me no longer waste my time on this. Def going to block and delete in the future without any explanations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:20 PM
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Yeah. Now I know for the future. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 08:05 PM
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Yes. Lesson has been learned for next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:09 PM
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Yeah. I’m very very selective with anime these days. I’ve steered more towards cartoons than anime because they’re more family friendly but still very narrative driven. Things like Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Owl House, Over the Garden Wall, She-Ra, The Dragon Prince, etc. I’ve never heard of that anime but that is so horrific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 02:37 PM
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Me too. I think that’s another reason why I kept talking to this scrote instead of blocking and deleting after hearing his disgusting, vile comments. Hopefully in the future, we can both block and delete and not put up with any of that BS anymore. Saves us loads of time and energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:30 PM
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For sure. I enjoy Animal Crossing and some nice anime too like Fruits Basket or Sangatsu no Lion but you rarely ever see LVM into those type of games or really nice, niche anime. It’s always some perverted anime like Food Wars or some competitive FPS game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:51 PM
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Oh okay! Thank you so much. That’s really good advice and it makes A LOT of sense. I will not use any of the FDS words IRL because I don’t want these guys knowing my safe space. I do feel lighter. Thank you again :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:48 PM
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Yep. He literally used that word before too. It’s not funny. It’s not jokes. It’s misogynistic comments! I wish they could get that through their thick skulls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:46 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:42 PM
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I’m glad you dropped her! I’m sorry you’ve been having this issue too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:42 PM
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I know right? We truly do live in a patriarchal society and anyone who denies that is ignorant. It’s really disgusting that he thought I would just tolerate and reward his behavior when he couldn’t even respect my boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:42 PM
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Hey ladies, I know a lot of you have said I should have blocked and deleted after I found out his true colors and after his message. I will do so in the future if I ever find out a guy is a misogynist or pornsick. No explanation. Nothing. Just block and delete. I really appreciate all of your advice and I’m glad I can keep growing in the future thanks to it. Really grateful for everyone’s thoughts on this situation. PS: I never asked him to change? He just kinda said he wasn’t gonna change LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:40 PM
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Yeah. You’re right. I got lucky on this one. I already knew who he was deep down. Next time I’ll just block and delete after I see a man’s true colors other than trying to talk to them about it and having them possibly lie to me about it. Thank you for the advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:38 PM
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The saddest part I think he really is emotionally abusive. I was the only person close to him IRL. He literally has NO ONE besides his grandma. All these gaming buddies are random dudes he has never met, but he worships every single one of them like he actually knows them. It’s crazy to me to see that he’d rather hang out with misogynistic dudes that he doesn’t even know over someone who has been nothing but supportive towards him in person up until this point. Also, there was a few other times …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:36 PM
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Do you mind me asking why I shouldn’t use that word? But I agree with everyone saying I should have blocked and deleted. I’ll do that the next time I find out a guy is indeed a misogynist or p0rnsick. I won’t tell them anything. I’ll block and delete next time. I’m glad you guys all have helped me with that stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:29 PM
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Yeah. I know a lot of people were saying I was asking him to change, but that really wasn’t the case in this last conversation. I already knew he was going to keep saying the same misogynistic comments but it was more like “Are you really serious right now dude?” Anyway, I agree I should have blocked and deleted and not wasted my energy at least now I will know in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:28 PM
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Off topic but I love your Taylor Swift PFP. That is so iconic! Back on topic, that really made me see things from a new perspective. I really do think he was waiting for me to change my mind and enable his behavior after I called him sexist how many times LMAO. I swear these guys don’t think like what would make him think I was really gonna stay? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:36 AM
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Yep. He’s out of my life for good! Thank God. He was mad because I wasn’t enabling his sexist behavior like WTF. Stay mad then scrote haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:32 AM
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Girl. I don’t even blame you. The final straw for me was when his friend started talking about the hot tub section on Twitch on his stream. HOT TUB. I had no idea that was a thing. His friend referred to the one girl as a “big tiddy redhead gf.” No way should I keep enabling this type of behavior and I don’t accept him or his behavior. His friends reflect him, and they’re all a bunch of misogynists including him as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:30 AM
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Thank you so much! I really appreciate it 💜 I also want to mention that I do not condone his behavior. I know I said I “accepted” him in the one message but I don’t accept him or his behavior. Even later on I did tell him I don’t accept him and I’m not going to reward his behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:19 AM
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I never thought about it like that! OMG. This is a gold analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:56 AM
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OMG girl! Not at all. I need the tough love besides the less time someone like this takes up the better and less of headache is always nice as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:54 AM
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Thanks. You’re right. I shouldn’t have put in all that effort. Now I know to just block and delete and no need to explain myself but at least now I know :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:46 AM
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Yeah! They are definitely red flags for me now thanks to this scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:38 AM
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For real! I had to make anime and video games deal breakers because after two LV men I met (him included) who adore that stuff (all he does is stream everyday) always end up being the most misogynistic incels. They always play and support the worst, toxic games or watch the worst anime too. For example, he would always play Valorant and it is very toxic and misogynistic game towards women not because of the game itself but because of the type of men who play it. Imagine a world where only women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:30 AM
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Yeah haha. It’s like alright I’ll accept that you’re a misogynist but that doesn’t mean I’ll reward you for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:16 AM
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Thank you so much. I really appreciate your kind words. It means a lot!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:15 AM
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Thank you so much for this comment! I’m really sorry you experienced a similar situation. He is blocked on everything. I definitely was not planning to reward his misogynistic and pornsick behaviors disguised as “jokes”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:11 AM
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That is the best description of him that I can describe! I’m sorry that this peaked your anxiety. Every time I had a conversation with him my blood pressure would go up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:02 AM
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For context: He would always say really misogynistic shit with his friends on his Twitch streams. A bunch of p0rn and beating women comments disguised as “jokes.” He also made a comment about his friend hooking up with a girl and how he hooked up with her because he “put it in,” which made me feel like he was referring to her as a human sex doll. He talked about railing a video game character who looked like a p0rn star. ALL THE RED FLAGS. Games and anime are now deal breakers for me thanks to h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 02:59 AM
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I 100% agree with you! I am proud of you for vetting these men out who have terrible friends. I truly believe men are who they surround themselves with and their mask will wear off eventually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:30 PM
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Yep. I cut off a guy because his friends were misogynistic gamer bros. He turned the situation around into me being a controlling person, and he said I was making it TheM or ME. But the truth is those friends are a reflection of him, and he is willing to support and tolerate people who are misogynistic. Ladies be safe and keep vetting men out. Who cares if they think you are making it between their friends or you and if they try to make you the bad guy. You are not controlling. You are allowed t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:00 PM
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Right? It felt like such a backhanded compliment 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:04 AM
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Fucking legos and fifteen year old friends. This dude has not reached emotional maturity for his age. Poor girl. I hope she dumps his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:59 PM
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Also why I barely trust men who play video games especially loads of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:30 PM
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Flashbacks here we go!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:49 PM
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Under 3 dollars? Please 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:34 AM
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Literally! They are exposing kids poor minds to porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:37 AM
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Thank you! I’ll check this out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:34 PM
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So happy my dad WANTED a girl and I was born!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:14 AM
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Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:12 AM
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It was an ad before the Christian video! I hope that makes sense but it was still disgusting nonetheless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:37 AM
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We stan Melman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:28 PM
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Yo! I love Gordon and that’s such ashame I always block and report them too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:43 PM
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Thank you! I’m a Christian and I felt really hurt and repulsed by the advertisement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:58 PM
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I’m a Christian. The title of the YT video has nothing to do with the ad. It’s a separate video. I have no idea about the scummy company either! Hope this clears things up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:45 PM
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We don’t need any man’s validation 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:12 PM
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Sure thing! As you can see below under the video that it was a sex toy ad. The point of the sex toy is that you can control it through a mobile phone. Some guy is controlling the phone and she has a vibrator (the sex toy) inside of her throughout the whole advertisement. I seriously felt like I was watching a porn clip. Disgusting and repulsive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:53 PM
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Crap! I have IOS. Hopefully someone can recommend me something for IOS but thank you nonetheless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:16 PM
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Thank you! I am going to download that. I didn’t know there was a version with no ads on Mobile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:15 PM
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If make up is a waste of money then so are video games And that’s coming from a girl who doesn’t wear make up haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:37 AM
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Yikes....reminds me of when my first ex made me give all the gifts he gave me back to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:53 AM
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Deal breakers for me: asmr (it’s just weird), porn, and watches ethots of any kind including: Twitch/Tiktok/cosplay girls. I don’t care. I can’t stand them. The hardcore gamer enthusiasts, Jordan Peterson stans, huge anime fans (those guys are yikes because they fetishize young characters as a whole...), poor hygiene and or is a man child. I’m not your mother. I’m not going to clean up after you or take care of you. I also need someone on the same/similar sleeping schedule as me. I attend colleg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:03 AM
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Personally, I never considered it cheating either and I still do not consider it cheating. However, I realized that porn is just horrible to consume in general. People craving the dopamine spikes and wanting harder and harder content. Guys not being able to get up for women (erectile dysfunction). The false body image and not teaching children proper sex ed. Women and children getting trafficked into porn. Women getting abused in porn. Women's rapes getting posted for coomers to consume. Overall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:47 PM
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I totally understand. I never really took her advice seriously until after shitty relationships and finding the FDS sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:53 PM
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Thank you! Much appreciated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:51 PM
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My mom is a HVW. She always told me to focus on my education before settling down. Buy my own house. If a guy comes along and he’s a LVM then I can kick him out because it’s my house. She has always prioritized my education before anything else. She always said that I don’t need a boyfriend or a husband. I’ve told her that I can find happiness on my own and she wholeheartedly agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:30 AM
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I wish this wasn’t deleted so I could upvote it 100 times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:05 PM
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I’m almost 20 and I still refuse to wear make up I see it as a waste of money People always see my real face. No false expectations or beauty standards I see it as a waste of time to get up every morning and put it on especially when I’m not trying to impress anyone I don’t want to buy into beauty standards. I’m happy with my natural looking face LET ME CLARIFY: Make up isn’t inherently bad or anything. Both men and women look really good with make up but for me I’ve never been good at applying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:03 PM
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https://youtu.be/x5uYR6_qYmM This one is pretty good as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:31 AM
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Wait...he’s 41 and you’re 28....glad you ran queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:28 AM
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Eh...I don’t want men to care for me when I already have my beautiful self to take care of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:47 PM
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Totally......don’t treat me nice and don’t take me out on any dates. Don’t even get to try to know me because all I want is THAT DICK.... Gross.....get this guy away from me. I get total “MAH PENIS” vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:55 PM
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HVW!!!! QUEEN!!!! I aspire to be this strong and if not even more ✨💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:45 PM
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Exactly what happened to me. My ex told me he’s still in love me. He said he’ll always fight for me. I’m the first girl he’s loved and I’m going to be the last. He starts addressing couple’s therapy. I tell him I’ll think about what we can do. I was uncomfortable but I wanted a second opinion before saying yes or no so I asked my friends and family. They all said no so I told him no and that I’m not going to go to couple’s therapy with him nor going to be pursuing a romantic relationship with hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:19 PM
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I just want to say thank you everyone for commenting and upvoting! It means the world to me and thank you all for the well wishes and being proud of me for leaving this guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:10 AM
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But wouldn’t he have known she was sick? If he knew in the first place then he shouldn’t have asked. It’s quite repulsive to want to have sex with someone who feels ill. He’s the disgusting pig as previous commenters stated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:46 AM
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It worked!!!! Thank you so much again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:38 PM
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Thank you sooooo much!!!! It means a lot!!!! Looking forward to a year focused on worrying about only me and loving myself! I hope you have a Happy New Year as well! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:22 PM
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Thank you so much!!!! I’ll definitely read it for sure :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:22 PM
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That’s so scary! I’m sorry to hear you also had to deal with his inexcusable behavior but I’m so proud of you for leaving him! You can DM me anytime! :) I’d love to hear your story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:58 PM
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It’s the constant being full of themselves, superiority complex for me ✨ but in all seriousness, I have no idea. I knew he was just mad that he didn’t get his way which was to be with me and he’s probably going to regret what he said later down the line which sounds like all him problems anyway 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:46 PM
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Thank you for telling me this! I told my whole family and friends about this and they all said no. I’m glad I decided to put my foot down and end any form of our relationship before it went down this path. I felt uncomfortable with the idea of couple’s therapy because I knew my ex would do exactly what your friend’s boyfriend did to her. I was tired of him blaming me for one or two occasions that happened a few months ago which he claims I was “abusive”. I apologized for what I did and I changed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:41 PM
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Right? He acted like I ran back to him when he was the one who reached out to me after breaking up with me. He told me we needed to start “couple’s therapy” because of the “abuse” from me and I told him I’m already going to therapy to better myself and that I cannot see myself pursuing a relationship with him anymore after he said that we needed to go to therapy together and then he came back with this...and I never replied. He also asked if he could come to my therapist with me. It made me unco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:20 PM
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Ah! I don’t want to mislead anyone because I blocked him but the message still went through because the block hadn’t gone entirely through at the time so I just ignored his message and never replied and he is still blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:17 PM
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Preach it girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:24 PM
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The rub one out comment disturbed the FUCK OUT of me....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:47 AM
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Very well said. Before I was super involved in this subreddit my ex dragged out our break up. He kept making me hold onto hope until the very end. He ended up breaking up with me over the phone in a little bit under five minutes. He was a LVM and I should’ve dumped his ass in person beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:22 PM
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I hate HATE when guys say “I can’t even tease you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:44 PM
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It sucks you went through that. The worst is also when they play games while texting or calling you. Am I really that boring to talk to these days?....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:37 PM
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Animal Crossing FTW! It is such a cute and endearing game. It keeps me company. Playing online is optional :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:54 PM
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You brought back so many flashbacks. My ex was a gamer and he told me a similar story about this one girl he had a crush on. He said that his whole friend group including his cousin had a crush on her. They were all trying to win her like a damn prize. He also told me about how they basically all were obsessed with Twitch and Instagram girls. I never want to date a gamer guy ever again. I loved being neglected for a video game. I loved being in an argument and my ex uses his stupid video game as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:50 PM
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For real...it feels super awkward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:01 PM
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My solution is to stay single because I’m happier by myself than being gaslighted, manipulated, and abused whilst getting told that I’m the abuser...I’m so happy my ex broke up with me. I’m free and in a much safer place now 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:50 PM
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I know how you feel. I’m the same age as you. All the guys I’ve been with....wanted me to act like a pornstar. They wanted me to do 69, put my breasts between their dick, sucking on my knees, dirty talk,” etc. Unfortunately, I caved into doing all of these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:33 PM
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She literally is a HVW queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:33 AM
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Ugh...I have flashbacks of when I used to be a pickme and my one crush from college drove only like 40 minutes. I later gave him presents for gas money 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:46 AM
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I cannot express this enough....usually confused guys don’t want to settle for a relationship and are afraid of commitment. They will end up using you and taking advantage of you. Settle for more ladies...not less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:16 PM
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I didn’t even know people considered walking a real date....I’m done with these effortless scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:13 PM
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I had no idea that scent soaps even existed....probably why my ex “hated” and “disliked the taste/smell” of eating me out hence why I was feeling insecure for any other male to touch me down there now....but thanks for the booster 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:41 AM
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I believe I found r/FemaleDatingStrategy through r/pornfreerelationships when it was still open
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:34 PM
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I agree so much a 5 ft 0 tall woman! My partner in high school was a lanky 6 ft 1 kid and it felt awkward. My last partner in college was around 5 ft 7 or 8 and I felt so much more comfortable standing next to him. Being side by side with him made me feel more safe and protected at the time. I don’t really know how to describe it other than a closer height to my height felt right at the time so I’m not really seeking men 6 ft 0 and over, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:23 PM
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