Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂

bellixxima · 2022-01-23T04:06:05+00:00

That post is what brought me to this sub! I'm so excited to have stumbled in here!

pozerdm · 2022-01-23T04:20:38+00:00

The dude mentions “soap dispenser” as a useless item… god, even without the fact that furnishing a home well does improve your quality of life—that one bit just told me he has no intention of washing his hands after he scratches his sweaty balls—let alone clean the home.

Anonimica_X · 2022-01-23T04:18:26+00:00

Don't move in with your boyfriend....lalala....

Boys shack, men build homes --- he ain't sticking around for a serious commitment.

purasangria · 2022-01-23T03:23:34+00:00

"My girlfriend is trying to make our apartment a home, am I an asshole for not wanting to pay half of the home space I'm going to enjoy?"

Let these savages live in their poorly-furnished hovels, sexless and alone.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-23T07:35:47+00:00

I love this comment:

You ain’t shit, I swear to some deity you better not use any of that shit she bought or even look at it. Sit on the floor, buy YOUR OWN sheets for the bed and don’t use anything “you don’t need” What the fuck dude do you not use soap when you wash your hands? Why wouldn’t you need a soap dispenser???

UsedtabeaRocket · 2022-01-23T04:10:19+00:00

The way it read was he just expecting her to give him half the drawers in her dresser or…?

VanessaViews · 2022-01-23T03:58:52+00:00

That poor cashier and I'd be annoyed as if I was behind them in line

StatusPop- · 2022-01-23T06:41:31+00:00

He only took offense to splitting because he thought she would be paying for all of it. She was even considerate enough to buy HIM a dresser because if it was up to him he would keep his nasty clothes on a chair or on the floor but he didn’t object until she said to put some on his credit card. He stayed mute the whole time she was piling things into the cart which means he thought he could move into her apartment, have her pay for his things, cook, clean, submit, but also be the provider who spends $1,400 on necessities.

Those things weren’t a necessity to him because he is used to sleeping on the floor with a sheet over his mattress and a stool as a couch in his ‘bachelor pad.’

AnniaT · 2022-01-23T09:06:08+00:00

I saw this post and everyone was roasting him, men included lmao they were also roasting him for thinking that bathroom mats and soap dispensers are luxury/unnecessary 😂 Some queens also shared stories of men pulling this and when they left the scrotes they took basically every kitchen utensil and furniture except for their mattress and TV system because they had bought everything and the scrotes got mad lmao

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-23T03:07:53+00:00

I want to laugh, but we all know he’s going to end up using every single thing he professes he doesn’t need, and have some stupid excuse for why it’s okay.

throwitawayyyyyy8 · 2022-01-23T04:39:44+00:00

We all know guys like this wouldn't flinch at spending this much or more on a gaming console, sneakers, stuff for their sports car etc..

JoanHollowayWannabe · 2022-01-23T04:16:09+00:00

Bahaha this is why the courtship expectation for modern Chinese men is no house = no wife. Women are strongly discouraged from marrying unless the man owns a whole ass house for her to live in. A concept.

Efflights6 · 2022-01-23T04:29:01+00:00

She needs to tell him to pack things up and leave since he doesn't seem to want to contribute to the household. She could easily find a more considerate roommate.

Independent-Orange53 · 2022-01-23T03:05:33+00:00

I hope she had enough common sense to kick him out afterwards. He won’t even go 50/50 for basic necessities for the both of them, it will only get worse from here. She should’ve left that dead weight scrote in ikea.

aquietsword · 2022-01-23T04:12:17+00:00

He literally belongs to the streets.

On the bright side, she'll come to her senses soon and he has no claim to any of the furniture.

Attheatelier · 2022-01-23T03:37:50+00:00

Lol he didn't say anything while she was shopping because he thought she'd pay for it and only got mad when he realized he has to contribute too. Pathetic! So glad the comments on the OP are all shredding him to pieces

whiskey_and_oreos · 2022-01-23T03:11:22+00:00

You know this cheap scrote would complain if she had a bachelor pad with only a bed, couch, and Playstation like him.

I hope she kicks him out and lives happily ever after in her beautifully furnished apartment.

Bekinditsfree · 2022-01-23T04:39:30+00:00

Moral of the story: don’t let broke MFs move in with you.

Seriously, all this could have been avoided if she just got a new roommate instead of letting stingy here move in with her.

lansburysoda · 2022-01-23T03:40:34+00:00

And we’re the ones who get called “gold diggers.” Everything they say about us is projection.

Imagine thinking a soap dispenser is optional 😪

IcedHeart11 · 2022-01-23T03:47:46+00:00

I hope she realizes that this is a preview of the shit storm to come. The fact that she put up a fight gives me hope for her.

He is just using her as a bang maid for cheaper rent.

How embarrassing that he doesn’t think a bath mat was necessary.

xfelugirlx · 2022-01-23T04:44:48+00:00

And he still asks if he is the asshole? Scrote bye, you can’t have self awareness

Jandi18 · 2022-01-23T04:58:11+00:00

She needs to kick him out right now! Imagine having kids with someone like this scrote. He will shorten her lifespan.

the-worst- · 2022-01-23T06:42:10+00:00

Dude, you are complaining about her making a lovely space instead of just throwing together random furniture with no accents or anything like a frat boy.

And while I see she is his girlfriend, if you are having a woman move in then it's not a bachelor pad anymore.

Plus if he had problems with so much, why did he lie when she asked his opinion? It sounds like he said nothing until they got to the counter.

And one dresser for two people? What a stupid idea. Where will HIS clothes go if SHE has a dresser? The dredded nest bed?

And furnishing an entire space from practically nothing will always be pricey.

Plus most of this should still be had years down the line.

ETA since she paid for it all on her card, he better not expect to keep ANY of HER stuff when she moves out.

TERFSareawesome · 2022-01-23T04:55:46+00:00

WTAF. This is why dealing with low value men is so pointless and degrading. Most of them have like no social value to lose anyway, because they look like shit and everything thinks they look odd/weird/off anyway, so they have no problem causing a scene and embarrassing their GF or wife at checkout. They have no social value to lose so they take joy in chipping away at a woman's inherent social value by acting like a pathetic clown. I'm sure he deliberately planned to make a scene at checkout so she would be embarrassed into grabbing the check. Then he can act all sad like "sorry babe- guess I overreacted 😞" while having conveniently saved himself $700

frostedgemstone · 2022-01-23T12:18:05+00:00

Not saying it’s her fault at all (hence why we need FDS) but there were already signs of him being a hobosexual, he moved into her apartment so u know he already had the mindset that his girlfriend would be the provider. I doubt this was the first time he was being cheap. I wonder if he had never paid for dates either, and buys her extremely cheap gifts if any at all

SerialGeneralist · 2022-01-23T05:15:54+00:00

He can’t afford basic necessities and he thinks it’s crap? She’s trying to make the apartment feel like a home and he’s complaining and being cheap. Never let a man move in with you. I hope she dumped his ass because all I see is problems in the future for her.

freerollerskates · 2022-01-23T10:17:45+00:00

Contrast this with my bf, who offered to take me to ikea to buy some bookshelves for my house because they were too big for my car. I need one bookshelf and two DVD racks to fit the space. The DVD racks were in stock, so I bought those on my card, but the bookshelf was sold out, so I thought I'll come back next week. Without telling me he went online on his phone and signed up for an alert when they were back in stock. The alert came in at midnight that evening, but he didn't tell me. The next day he was supposed to be taking his mother for lunch, so took her to ikea (she was apparently very in to this as they were just supposed to be going to a local cafe, not a fancy restaurant or anything) and he picked up the bookshelves, paid for them, delivered them to my house, put them up for me and of course would not take any money for them. He nice man.

Even if you give this guy the benefit of the doubt and assume that she has bought loads of random tat (two trolleys full does seem like objectively a lot) he should have had the conversation before they got to the checkout.

iacint · 2022-01-23T10:18:52+00:00

How soap dispenser and bathroom rugs are not essential? And a dresser for clothes?

kolsen92 · 2022-01-23T09:46:19+00:00

She was trying to buy things we don’t need like soap, and rugs and stuff 😅

all_or_nothing_bet · 2022-01-23T04:02:10+00:00

Hope she evicts that freeloader ASAP!

spinsterchachkies · 2022-01-23T06:22:49+00:00

They won’t last. A couple more weeks of this shit and it will be over. What a tool

thowawaywookie · 2022-01-23T09:18:12+00:00

His mattress from his old cesspool nest would have gone straight into the dumpster.

Scrote criticizing all the things but guaranteed he would use them and brag about it to his friends.

yoursultana · 2022-01-23T03:37:40+00:00

He should be paying it ALL. What a bitch ass scrote. She needs to leave now or kick his ass off the lease. The fuck

Deneive · 2022-01-23T04:11:12+00:00

Wait a sec. Il the appartement was left half empty, she possess the other half, right ?

So if he moves in the appartement and split the bill.. she pays 3/4 ?????!

wondertarget · 2022-01-23T05:04:50+00:00

I once cohabitated with a man who didn't see the point of buying a mattress, let alone a bedframe, a rug, a couch, a TV, or internet (I was in my early 20's and a dummy). He was perfectly happy sleeping on a blow-up mattress and eating Chili's take-out every night, using MY silver hair-cutting scissors to trim his balls, and using ~~our~~ MY laptop to watch movies when I needed to use it for homework.

I am so proud to say that my fiancé (we don't live together because we're not married yet, and I refuse to do wife duties without it being official) not only paid for my apartment deposit in his building, but furnished it, and doesn't think he's entitled to come over because he knows how I am about my personal space.

For anyone reading: Do NOT live with a man unless you're married to him. And maybe even after 😂🥰

dingledangleboys · 2022-01-23T14:40:50+00:00

I guarantee this dude owns 1 towel, 5 in 1 shampoo & hasn’t replaced his toothbrush since he moved out of his mother’s house.

Madholley · 2022-01-23T16:30:30+00:00

What is really bothering me here is the numbers. He is moving in with her so likely saving on rent. Where I live, a studio apartment would be around $1,000 while a 2-bedroom would be $1400-$1600. So if he is already saving $200-$300 from moving in, spending $700 to furnish shouldn't be a big deal??? He will save more than that in 6 months. Why would you risk your relationship over a few hundred dollars when she is doing you a favor letting you move in???

pickadaisy · 2022-01-23T03:04:06+00:00

May the word spread far and wide!

shoesfromparis135 · 2022-01-23T15:27:04+00:00

Imagining this scene playing out in front of me makes me want to print out little cards with the FDS url on them and hand them to women in these situations.

lostmillenia · 2022-01-23T03:06:07+00:00

He's gunna watch his relationship crumble.

_laufaeson · 2022-01-23T14:37:28+00:00

Ah, the curse of IKEA strikes again. If your relationship can’t handle it, then gtfo.

BooksandEarlGreyTea · 2022-01-23T18:56:22+00:00

I know if someone tried this with my mum she would tell the cashier to cancel the whole lot and walk out, that is queen energy. You are going to be embarrassed either way, might as well save yourself financially.

23eggz · 2022-01-23T05:24:25+00:00

1400... isn't that much to furnish an apartment. I bet this is one of those guys from that particular.. male interior decor sub 🤔

WandernWondern · 2022-01-23T14:04:39+00:00

I don’t even know why she was trying to 50/50 anything at all. Like. Anything.

Kimpractical · 2022-01-23T17:34:29+00:00

The more guys post shit like this on that sub, the more women are directed to and open to FDS. These guys hate FDS but they are literally driving all the women here

Spittens · 2022-01-23T06:35:37+00:00

I spent more than $1,400 just replacing my old couch that I could never get the ex's BO smell out of ... this man is worthless. Toss him to the curb with the rest of the trash.

VelvetKnuckleduster · 2022-01-23T19:00:39+00:00

Good to see a lot of people in the comments calling out weaponised incompetence for what it is. He's trying the bumbling man act and even strangers on the internet getting the most flattering version of events aren't falling for it.

WCAttorney · 2022-01-24T00:31:45+00:00

Let me guess, even though he sleeps in it, he will refuse to make the bed because he doesn't think it's important. That's how it becomes a parent-child relationship instead of a partnership.

faultierin · 2022-01-23T17:46:23+00:00

Couldn't be me and my partner who has bought most of the furniture we have and bought better stuff even though I insisted on cheaper ones, because I didn't have much money as a student.

'Nobody needs bathroom rugs and soap dispenser' I am sorry, what?

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-01-23T20:02:51+00:00

1,400 usd for two carts of stuff from Ikea isn't bad at all.

He brought nothing except a bed to this woman's home and expects to use (and likely trash) her existing furniture. The fact she even thought she'd pay for half is out of this world. She should have paid for NONE of it as it's all stuff he should have had or had been completely willing to pay for.

Crows-and-Ravens0 · 2022-01-24T01:08:41+00:00

Wow. Kick him out 2022 anyone?

Gologic34 · 2022-01-24T15:40:32+00:00

The tragedy is that he gets to ask this and she didn’t dump him then and there (along with the second bedside table). And now that they live together, due to the sunken cost fallacy, it will be more likely she’ll just marry him because he’s there. Sad. He is truly Lowest Value Man.

leekykeeks · 2022-01-24T21:50:15+00:00

I hope he knows that she's planning her exit right now. He blew it.

I would also bet a large amount of money she will let him keep half the shit she bought when she decides to move out.

Title	Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂
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Date	January 23, 2022 2:58 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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