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59

The third one made me sick to my stomach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:27 AM
26

Oh, it absolutely is. I’m trying to approach this with compassion and understanding because he got to her while she was dealing with trauma, and I don’t think it helps to blame her or criticize what she did wrong at the moment. Maybe when she’s healed and is able to process it, she’ll be ready for “tough love”, but I think it’s best to be gentle and compassionate with her right now. Not that you’re being anything else. I just used this comment as an opportunity to put out some more thoughts I ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 06:37 PM
71

I’ve been following this situation closely, and it seems like he manipulated her so well. She’s still defending him against certain accusations, and it seems to me like she’s hesitant to get the test because it would reflect negatively on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 02:47 PM
95

Honestly. A while ago, I got way too inebriated with a group of my friends and was sick half the night. My friends held my hair back, got me water, and helped me clean up. The last thing they wanted to do was assault me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:03 PM
11

Okay, my dad is a NVM piece of shit in pretty much every way imaginable, but he at least can be sent to the store without calling my mom every two minutes. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:50 PM
60

“He’s an alpha male” ok humans aren’t wolves, so write that down, and even if we were, an actual alpha doesn’t have to announce it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:56 PM
91

I don’t even get up that early to do my skincare routine. There’s no way in hell I’m getting up then to have mediocre car sex with an unfaithful NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:05 AM
14

That is disgusting. I ran into my college prep teacher from my senior year of high school at the grocery store a few months ago. He asked if my family and I were well, and if I was doing well academically. I mentioned a paper I was having a difficult time with, and he offered to look over it for me (he graded harder than any teacher I’d ever had and I figured his input would help). I emailed him the paper, he gave me advice, and all of the conversations we’ve had since then have been appropriate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:02 AM
27

“Haha we sexualized a woman together how romantic!” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:15 AM
23

Honestly, why don’t they get this? My parents explained what sex was when I was 8 because I came home and asked, and they were very matter-of-fact and honest. If I had any questions about sex from then on, they’d answer them. However, when I was 14, they found out that I’d been watching porn. They were rightfully horrified, and we had a long discussion about the things that were wrong with porn. And then they took my phone and heavily monitored my internet access. If 14 was too young to be watch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:25 PM
72

Me: laying in bed with freshly washed sheets, a face mask on, drinking hot green tea, snacking on some fruit and cheese, reading a book, and listening to soft jazz with a lavender candle burning i am suffering so bad right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:46 AM
11

“My wife has severe brain damage and it makes me sad… the only thing that will make me feel better is paying to rape a woman”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:40 PM
30

Even so, what self-respecting woman goes on national television to play PickMeisha Extreme?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:09 AM
36

The only reason you wouldn’t need a soap dispenser is if you’re financially stable enough to only buy fancy, good smelling hand soaps from Bath and body Works… Honestly that’s my financial goal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:46 AM
35

I really thought that I had successfully buried that somewhere deep in the recesses of my mind. Thanks for the reminder 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:57 AM
16

How would you have had her respond? “Oh, honey, you’re absolutely right it’s my house so I should clean”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 07:57 PM
101

The way I sang that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:44 PM
99

As a child of “oh my God please get divorced” parents, I can confirm I would’ve rather not known my dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:32 AM
6

I’m sorry that you went through that, and thank you for your response. I hope that you’re doing better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:29 PM
-1

I mean this as a genuine question, not a slight, but if you’re not interested in dating, why are you on this sub? I guess what I’m asking is what do you get out of it that women who are dating might not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:06 PM
65

I was out to dinner with a few of my friends, and they’d brought some other friends along. One of my friends and I were talking about feminism and sexism, and one of the men that had tagged along piped up to say, “Well, I think men are more discriminated against” with that shit-eating, Devil’s advocate grin. I just said “okay” and turned back to my conversation. Watching his face fall as he realized I wasn’t taking the bait was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:36 PM
58

OP is in my DMs mad that her husband is being dragged when “we don’t know the whole story”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:08 PM
8

I feel like the only acceptable reason to not be fond of cats is because of how small they are. I’ve only ever had big (120+ lbs) dogs, so I’m kind of afraid of my friends cats because I’m scared I’ll hurt them accidentally. I don’t hate them at all, but I don’t know that I’d ever own one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:07 PM
-10

You fell prey to one of the classic blunders; giving a man the benefit of the doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:51 AM
22

Alan Rickman buys a beautiful, expensive necklace for his secretary, which his wife finds in his coat pocket. She thinks it’s for her, but on Christmas, he instead gives her a Joanie Mitchell album and the necklace is nowhere to be seen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:32 PM
17

Why do I have a feeling the ring isn’t even for her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:30 PM
14

At the risk of sounding like a PickMe, I don’t look for a specific dollar amount and instead prefer something that shows effort and attention. A designer bag or expensive jewelry is nice, but it doesn’t necessarily represent effort. I want something that shows he pays attention to what I like and would love to receive. If it happens to have a low dollar amount, that’s okay, as long as it’s obvious a lot of thought went into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 03:06 AM
22

What is an “indigo child”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:17 PM
113

Everyone I’ve met that describes as an empath is someone who needs to make someone else’s pain about them. “Oh, your sadness is making me sad!” I’m a very empathetic person and feel deeply for other people, but I keep that to myself. Self-identified empaths need you to know that they are also feeling your feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:17 PM
36

I wonder if it’s for her protection. So that this guy can’t find something she says and turn it into a libel case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:44 AM
29

My narc dad does this all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:49 PM
22

What’s SW?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:58 PM
177

Bold of you to assume he grooms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:27 AM
316

Meanwhile they are a short thumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:20 AM
75

I’m actually looking for new book series to read, and I’d love to support a fellow woman. If you feel comfortable, would you PM me the title?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:58 AM
86

I don’t think that’s right. Furniture is useful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:15 AM
8

I wish I was you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:04 AM
66

Personally, I don’t think the video is romanticizing enmeshment. It seems to me like it’s showing how unhealthy an age-gap relationship is. I like that she threw in the new “I’ll get older but your lovers will stay my age” lyric because she’s calling him out for being a creep and a groomer. Someone has to call out these scrotes, and who better than a woman who was victimized?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:28 AM
17

Clipping his toenails? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:37 PM
59

This isn’t at you, but I feel like we need to stop calling it choking. It’s not choking. It’s strangulation. Choking is when something blocks your airway from inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:17 PM
22

He looks so fucking smug here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:32 AM
54

So she wrote the book, then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:42 PM
2

Or get a giant, overprotective mastiff that won’t let him anywhere near you unless he respects her boundaries and earns her trust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:51 PM
5

I have to disagree with his idea that female dogs are “more obedient”. I have two mastiffs, one male and one female. The male was easy to train and eager to please, and overall just more laid back. The female took longer to train and is extremely protective of me. Female dogs tend to be more protective and aggressive in my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:51 PM
19

He didn’t even offer to take her to this field he knows about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:36 AM
22

I have never seen anything that I care about less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:24 PM
109

Of course he is 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:16 AM
26

That sounds incredible. I wish I had a fraction of your costume closet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:34 PM
22

I almost downvoted you on instinct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:03 PM
33

I’ve had older men say it to me, but not men my age (I’m 20)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:11 PM
53

That’s disgusting. I’m so sorry that you went through that. Your mother failed you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:23 PM
14

Is the man Dan Schneider? He’s why Jeanette McCurdy isn’t on the iCarly reboot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:27 PM
91

Choking isn’t accurate either. Choking is when something is stuck in your trachea. The best name for this is strangling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:14 PM
51

They make a living off telling people (mostly women) that their bodies are wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:43 AM
12

The “it’s a fad” thing is something I’ve never understood. Why does it matter? They don’t eat that food. End of story. Why is it something that personally offends you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:17 PM
12

The best way to test this—at least in my experience—is when you’re making plans. Decline their first suggestion and suggest another restaurant instead. If they flip out or seem irritated, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:27 AM
106

I always thought the love languages thing was a way to know what way is your favorite method of giving and receiving love while also being fluent in the others because they’re just as important. I don’t like the idea that you can have one love language and the rest don’t matter. I’m very physically affectionate, but I still want someone to do something nice for me or tell me that they’re proud of me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:35 AM
71

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:32 PM
32

If I remember correctly, Val Kilmer looks the way he does because he had throat cancer. Which is a pretty good reason to hit the wall to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:20 PM
12

The only one I can think of is Bonnie Nettles from Heaven’s Gate, but she started the cult with a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:47 PM
25

I feel like it’s more about the fact that a fucking rabbit doesn’t need breasts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:49 AM
8

You fool, don’t you know that their penis makes the world revolve around them? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:51 PM
62

I wonder if we could use something like Bumble BFF or Hey! Vina (a woman-only friendship app that requires you to verify your identity with photo ID) and put code words in our profiles... hell, maybe even just “active in FDS”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:34 AM
7

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:15 PM
25

Dumb question: what’s main character syndrome and what does it look like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:16 PM
12

Why do I feel like he’s the same guy that points out how creepy Joe Biden is for “smelling” people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:51 AM
22

This is literally the steps that a pedophile follows while grooming their victim. Non-sexual touches to get them used to being touched by the predator that escalate into increasingly inappropriate contact. It’s like they read a fucking grooming PSA and thought “oh, brilliant!” Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:50 AM
15

This is such a long way for these men to admit that they’re rapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:46 AM
51

He looks like fucking Skeletor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:41 AM
35

My personal favorite is “jokes are supposed to be funny”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:18 PM
127

Yes! One of my coworkers told me that I have beautiful eyes, and I was so flattered. A man has said the same thing, and it made me so much more uncomfortable. It’s because men don’t compliment people they don’t want to sleep with. Compliments from another woman come without ulterior motives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:05 PM
38

20% is a little too generous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:56 AM
171

I almost downvoted reflexively
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:23 PM
5

Yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:00 AM
98

A true crime podcast I listened to had the motto “be weird, be rude, stay alive”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:54 AM
6

It’s a euphemism for something exclusive and expensive. Chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:32 AM
14

But if a woman shows any interest in his money, she’s a gold digging (insert slur) who doesn’t deserve him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:24 AM
5

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:57 PM
7

What podcast?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:08 PM
30

I feel like there comes a certain point where, as an adult, it becomes a little concerning to be part of a fandom, especially one aimed at children. Of course we all have interests, and it’s not wrong to be interested in something. As someone who used to participate heavily in fandoms, there’s an element of obsession that isn’t healthy in an adult. Personally, I’d consider it to be a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:21 AM
2

Kings and Queens—Ava Max I’ll Fight—Jennifer Hudson Nightmare—Halsey Therefore I Am—Billie Eilish Not Your Barbie Girl—Ava Max
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:13 PM
25

Don’t forget the copious amounts of fast food! Those are important for that grease-fried glow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:01 PM
41

The grooming standards women are held to are an obligation now, and it’s impossible to tell whether we really want to do something (makeup, heels, shaving) or if we feel like we have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:37 PM
24

Can you imagine a world where that was the consequence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:40 AM
7

Omg PM please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:52 AM
21

What brand is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:29 AM
6

“Womb-er” sorry I’ll let myself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:54 PM
27

This is gonna end up on AHS. I can feel it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:18 AM
15

It happened in black mirror. We need to figure out the tech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:29 AM
31

Don’t you miss when men would go to war and die?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:43 PM
39

Sometimes I wonder if it’s exhausting to have no personality outside of who you’re dating/interested in and to constantly have to change from one person to the next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:33 AM
104

It’s not pathetic at all. Women, especially woc, are taught to be accommodating and agreeable at all times, even if it costs them something. Of course you would feel powerful when you realized it was okay to say “no”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:30 AM
165

Men are the LoGiCAL gender, obviously /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:28 AM
2

I’m not OP, thank God, but you are absolutely right. I’m in the process of cutting out my own father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:00 PM
112

If someone could explain to me how the fuck cleaning your shoes with your girlfriend’s toothbrush is an “accident”, that would be great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:54 PM
10

What else would we do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:15 AM
35

Men: BioLoGy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:15 AM
8

Sorry for absolutely nothing 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:03 AM
9

Yes, but the sooner the better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:04 PM
16

Any time someone describes sex as a “need”, I get so angry. You will not die without sex, Craig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:24 AM
16

Joking about someone dead mother being weak is not social ignorance. That’s straight up sociopathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:54 AM
16

Women tend to use less gruesome methods—which also end up being less lethal as a consequence—because they think of the people that will find them. A drug overdose is easier to see than a gunshot wound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:49 PM
14

Any man who proudly claims that he’s a feminist is automatically suspicious to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:47 AM
2

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:43 PM
11

I almost downvoted you reflexively
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:36 AM
6

Sorry if this is a dumb question, but what is pair bonding? I see it a lot but I don’t know what it’s referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:35 AM
24

This isn’t goofy, sis. This is feigned helplessness and ineptitude because he resents being asked to actually do something for his own child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:49 AM
16

Males at any age are horrific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:46 AM
47

They want on-demand sex and a maid service. Their “boys” won’t do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:32 AM
14

Yeah but only like once a day... the other 17 times are “sensual” /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:17 PM
7

I’d argue that you should never tell your partner to shut the fuck up, unless maybe it’s said in a teasing manner when you both are joking around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:41 AM
6

You’re already one step closer. You loved yourself enough to break it off. Make sure he’s blocked on everything , and keep him that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:38 AM
11

Oh, that’s what he was in? Could’ve sworn he was in Deliverance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:52 AM
14

From what I’ve seen, women tend to chose less violent—which are, consequently, less effective—because they think about the people that will find them. They don’t want their S.O, parents, children, or friends to find them with a gunshot wound or something else messy and traumatic. Men don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:57 AM
11

And if the mother was the one that left, she’s vilified, and the man’s abuse is justified because “raising a kid all alone isn’t easy and the stress was too much”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:54 AM
59

And even if we could, WHY THE FUCK WOULD WE WANT TO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:17 PM
29

You gotta block him, babe. He doesn’t deserve the chance to try and come back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:36 PM
21

Unbridled narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:11 AM
19

Onlyfans, probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:31 AM
9

I’m sorry, the what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:28 PM
24

She’s honestly the best dog I’ve ever owned. She can and will rip out a man’s throat in 2 seconds, but she loves to cuddle and give kisses. But I can see why you want a Ridgeback or a Vizsla 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:02 PM
39

Consider a Boerboel. They’re fiercely protective South African mastiffs that were bred to protect live stock from lions. That’s what I have, and she’s 150 pounds of pure muscle. They’re pretty much immune to pain and have no fear. Most men won’t even come within six feet of me if I have her with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:25 PM
35

And men only “care” about it when they want to shut women up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:21 PM
11

Yeah, I definitely agree with that, but I wonder if he’d have done some of the disgusting sexual shit without porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:53 PM
17

I feel like it really did influence him and that it is a true admission, but he wouldn’t have said anything about it without Dr. Dobson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:41 PM
24

The comment I replied to said “it can be empowering”. It isn’t empowering, and it can’t be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:29 PM
56

It’s not empowering. It still serves men’s sexual interests
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:27 PM
2

I’m so angry for you. I am so sorry that they did this to you. They’re inhuman scum. My hope for you is that you will be able to heal and find peace in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:53 AM
1

If I had a son and his girlfriend called me to come get him because of his behavior, I’d be so fucking ashamed that I raised that. I’d go get him out of her hair and apologize profusely, and my POS son would suddenly go missing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:50 AM
3

My younger brother spends all fucking day doing this, and I’ve gotten to the point where I yell at him to shut the fuck up. It’s beyond annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:48 AM
5

Capitalist lies???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:32 AM
7

Honestly! I was diagnosed with anxiety at 16, and it was especially crippling in social situations. Did I sit there and lament over all the attractive boys I’d never have a chance with or the interesting women I’d never be able to talk to? No. I went to therapy and took medication to help. I forced myself out of my comfort zone and made myself into a functioning adult. If he really wanted to stop “being the creepy kid”, he could. But it takes work, and he just wants to bitch about women not cate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:05 PM
1

Of course. I would highly recommend reading Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft because it explains this perfectly, but I’ll do my best. Abusive men are master manipulators and will often manipulate their therapists to validate their abusiveness, especially in couples’ therapy. Often, therapy gives them new, official sounding words and diagnoses to twist to their advantage, which will often make it worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:25 AM
2

Unless he’s in a program specifically for abusers, it will backfire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:02 AM
5

Do you have a plan to leave him? If he’s emotionally abusing you and coercing you into sex, it’s an unhealthy situation, and I hope you can find something better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:06 AM
22

“...make you think that there is pain when there’s not...” Ok, thanks, Dr. Dickhead. How do I fix it? The pain feels pretty fuckin’ real to me. Refer me to someone who can treat whatever you’re making up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:26 AM
8

I’m not bitter. We know that all men aren’t low value. But we don’t say “not all men” here because it’s too similar to the shit we hear from MRAs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:25 PM
20

Honey, we don’t do not all men here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:23 PM
77

That’s such a fancy way for her to say “someone needs to be the recipient of men’s violent tendencies, and it should be someone that I personally see as less valuable/less human”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:21 AM
33

She’s probably a gold medalist in mental gymnastics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:19 AM
4

Probably their Pickmeisha mothers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:06 AM
11

They do this because they KNOW that Dworkin will sway these women. The only time people are forbidden from accessing certain books, news, etc. are when those contain information that goes against the cult’s brainwashing. And yes, I believe lib feminism is similar to a cult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:05 AM
29

I see what you’re saying, but the question I have is how much of this “highly sexual” behavior is a real choice? How much of it is socialization? If a woman has been inundated with these messages for a significant portion of her life, is it a real choice when she decided to “be a slut”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:54 AM
8

Tbh, this is the first thing that popped into my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:40 AM
6

I’ve browsed that sub a few times, and out all the posts on there, I think I’ve seen one where a woman was being rude to someone who rejected her. But her cussing him out and insulting him isn’t on the same level as the shit these losers pull on the niceguys sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:57 AM
4

Might?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:21 PM
12

An attractive woman can look at him for two seconds, and his (sad little shrimp) dick is out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:17 PM
16

I’m fairly certain the first one actually happened 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:24 AM
121

“Slowly wearing down any objections...” okay, rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:34 PM
12

You’re right. I still don’t get it, though. You look like that and have an absolutely abhorrent personality, and still think women owe you something? Bro, you have no redeeming qualities???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:29 PM
34

Literally how are you going be that ugly and busted, and still have the confidence to lambaste women for not wanting to touch your ugly, smell ass. God, if I had a fraction of the confidence of an ugly, smelly white guy, I’s be unstoppable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:45 PM
47

Pickme’s just don’t ever stop, do they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:42 AM
9

Yeah, but Bundy was a liar who was blaming porn as a way to get out of the death penalty. He was working with an anti-porn pastor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:52 PM
7

Carla Homolka shouldn’t be their poster child for “harmless rape fantasies”. I mean, if you’re gonna defend something that shitty, at least be smart enough not to have a child murderer as your figurehead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:38 PM
13

I’m so happy for you, Queen! You’ve done amazing things for yourself and really leveled up. 💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:28 AM
95

Great job blocking him, but I wouldn’t have argued with or insulted him. Just blocked and moved on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:47 PM
8

Even if a man does do that, I am not calling him Daddy. I’d literally rather die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:21 PM
16

Please tell me you’re kidding about the fucking his mom part 🤢🤢 I want to think you are, but men are fucking disgusting so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:11 AM
43

Stereotypes about women are just men projecting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:23 PM
2

“Just need a good dick” yeah okay. Let me know if you find one, because I’m pretty sure they aren’t out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:16 PM
22

Oh, wow, you’re so cool and eNLigHteNeD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:27 AM
30

If I am pinned down, I go feral. Even if it’s “a joke” and they don’t plan on hurting me, I lose it. If a man tried to pin me down and fart of my head, he’d walk away from the encounter covered in scratches and bruises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:15 PM
32

Why? No one’s gonna visit him anyway 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:59 AM
86

When I hear that, I’m like “oh, it’s because you’re bad at it, huh?” Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:56 PM
21

I think that’s what makes them so toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:52 PM
3

This asshole is a fucking psychopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:47 AM
3

It could, but it won’t 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:13 AM
28

I feel like the “girls are all jealous of me” women don’t have female friends not because other women are jealous but because of the way they treat other women. I’m not going to hang around a woman who endangers me and puts me down for male attention. But rather than reflecting on their own behavior and recognizing their internalized misogyny, they chalk it up to other women being “jealous”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:54 AM
4

That’s my favorite movie!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:38 AM
17

This reads like a horrible fan fiction written by a 12 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:50 PM
26

It’s in hell, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:57 AM
8

Lot of audacity from a sentient chode in a coat that barely fits him. He looks like a fucking sausage in that thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:04 AM
3

I’d literally rather die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:19 AM
7

I saw the age gap, and my eyes practically bugged out of my head. 26 years between them? Hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:31 PM
5

30 seconds? That’s generous 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:24 PM
14

God, how did he not feel like shit all the time? Last time I went on vacation, I ate so much unhealthy crap, and by the time it was over, my body was begging me for a salad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:30 PM
26

“Obviously, bro. If you aren’t drinking a beer, you might as well have a dick in your mouth”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:26 PM
7

I don’t even give flowers to my female friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:17 PM
11

I feel like it would have been faster for him to just write “I hate women”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:30 PM
4

The tea is scalding today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:30 PM
43

I miss the days when men would go off to war and die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:58 AM
1

If only
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:41 AM
2

I understand. But from past experience, when I would try to explain someone to my friends and emphasize all the good things they did, it made me feel bad about being unhappy. Maybe I’m just projecting, but I don’t want you to stay because “well, there’s good things, too”, like I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:48 PM
4

Sweetheart, leave while you still can. His behavior is disrespectful, and even if he isn’t sexually attracted to or already sleeping with this woman (he probably is), it’s unacceptable for him to treat you this way. I’ve seen some of your comments trying to justify his behavior, and I understand your reluctance, but you have to stop. This is a major red flag. Get out while you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:27 PM
40

I am so fucking tired of this dumb ass pickmeisha. She acts like she’s superior to other women because she’s a fucking doormat. Girl, get some self-respect and stop shitting on women who are what you wish you were
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:31 PM
27

I once let out a pterodactyl shriek of displeasure when a guy catcalled me from his truck, and he drove away real quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:31 PM
2

It was long distance, so she wasn’t able to smell him right of the bat, I’m assuming. Though if he smells that bad, maybe it would permeate through the phone. Who knows?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:28 PM
1

I’m going to chose to believe that this is satire for my own mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:23 PM
5

People like him are the reason we’re seen as bad and unfaithful. He’s really just adding fuel to the biphobia fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:23 PM
6

I’m tiny and don’t want to be, so me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:41 PM
9

Never in a million years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:59 PM
12

That has the same energy as your mom giving you a $10 and telling you to have fun at the store with your friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:40 PM
14

I’m studying forensic psychology, and women almost never kill for sexual reasons. Men are the ones that get off on murder and torture. Women who kill are motivated by either revenge or money most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:18 AM
2

Dick is mosquitoes. Inconvenient and there when no one wants it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:55 AM
18

The bodyguard grabbing her arm to keep her from going after him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:53 AM
7

I was the second parent because my sperm donor checked out of everything except discipline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:29 PM
9

I get what you’re saying, but parents shouldn’t be expecting their kids to raise the other children. If you can’t handle raising children, don’t have them. I’m the oldest of three, and I’ve been “second mom” for almost my entire life. My brother is asked to watch my sister occasionally, but responsibilities that should fall to my parents fall to me. It’s exhausting. No child should have to raise their siblings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:28 PM
27

This man is a fucking monster, and I hope his dick shrivels and falls off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:08 PM
9

I’m sorry, but slapping her hard enough that she falls over is a completely disproportionate reaction to having a drink poured on you. Should she have poured her drink on him? No. But that doesn’t mean he’s entitled to slap her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:20 PM
25

I know this is probably really mean, but I have to say it. I am so fucking tired of sloppy, badly-dressed women with dirty, tangled hair acting like they’re somehow superior to other women. If that’s how you want to be, then by all means, go ahead. But don’t start acting like you’re better than those of us who care about our appearances. You aren’t low-maintenance, you’re gross, and you apparently have no respect for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:46 AM
9

Yeah, you’re all “handsome in your own way” or whatever, but don’t expect me to be attracted to you. That’s where the problem arises. And that’s the difference between women and men. I don’t care if a man is unattractive. I just don’t date him. But men see a woman who isn’t conventionally attractive and get so offended that she isn’t putting in effort to be fuckable to them; so offended, in fact, that they tear her down over every little thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:19 AM
7

For your own safety, end the relationship. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:14 AM
17

If I remember correctly, I think that’s called covert incest/emotional incest. You dodged a fucking train, babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:29 AM
117

A bit of advice: get really good at oral. If you make her orgasm before anything has even happened with you, she won’t come away from the experience feeling quite as cheated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:50 AM
19

Literally how?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:31 PM
7

I got that out of it, too, at least at the start. But as the book went on, the layers were peeled back to reveal the aforementioned simpering piece of wet lettuce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:44 AM
16

I read Pride and Prejudice before I saw the movie, and McFayden’s Darcy was closer to the book for me... which, honestly, was a bit of a simpering piece of wet lettuce. I think it was intentional on Austen’s part. Her books centered entirely on women, and the men were honestly just plot devices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:18 AM
18

Look, I love Colin Firth as much as the next gal, but no other Darcy can compare to the 2005 one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:36 PM
7

Yes, Queen! Don’t forget this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:35 PM
9

They don’t have the ability to care about other people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:18 AM
69

I’M the upgrade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:15 AM
9

Pony by Ginuwine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:28 AM
49

K loser. Go talk to the “other girls” and leave her alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:44 AM
19

We already have those, babe. Vibrators are a woman’s best friend, and they don’t look like a veiny, unsightly dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:49 AM
10

It hardly seems appropriate to hold another woman responsible for a man’s actions. It isn’t her responsibility to police your man, just like it isn’t your responsibility either. And using derogatory language really isn’t a great look, either. It teaches men that it’s okay for them to cal us that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:08 PM
3

I know there are many things wrong here, but it’s not “draw good”, it’s “draw well”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:31 PM
11

Someone who decidedly is not handsome and charming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:28 PM
1

“Burrito Steve” I’m dead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:12 PM
54

Entitlement to a fantasy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:41 AM
23

I’ve always seen Cinderella in a different light than many of my peers. My father is an emotionally abusive narcissist, much like Lady Tremaine, and while I wasn’t the scapegoat all the time (like Cinderella), I still identified with her. To me, Cinderella was a young woman who wanted a night of freedom from the abuse, who eventually escaped that situation. Instead of letting her abusive upbringing make her nasty and abusive as well, she chose to break the cycle and remain kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:54 PM
13

Legally Blonde is my favorite movie, and my entire goal in life is to be Elle in her “Fuck men, I’m getting a law degree” phase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:48 PM
21

Not sure what you’re being downvoted for. It’s not like you said “C”NC was a good idea until he ignored the safe word; you were mentioning ways that she could use BDSM speak against him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:43 PM
18

Seeking Arrangement is a “dating” websites that set you up with sugar daddies (and occasionally mommies)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:01 AM
62

Unless she has some elaborate revenge scheme?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:27 PM
9

Go with the smile and exaggerate it until you look borderline insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:56 AM
31

I’d have vomited on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:59 AM
7

Hell, even if he isn’t childfree. Vasectomies are reversible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:48 AM
23

And coconuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:26 PM
8

12 is too old to behave like that when you don’t get your way. I expect this from my 1st graders, not a 12 year old, and certainly not from a grown man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:41 PM
9

Yeah, but some women who are being abused or recently escaped abuse (or at least the ones I’ve spoken to), shy away from the word ‘rape’. They’ll shut you down if you use it because ‘rape is something violent that only a stranger will do’. Personally, I think it’s easier for them to deal with the abuse if they don’t label it that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:12 AM
20

The Cool Girl monologue immediately comes to mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:12 PM
11

Black people are in more danger of being murdered by police, and many people have opted out of calling the police on a black man unless he is actively trying to murder them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:34 AM
7

Only time I accept “devil’s advocate” is in a college classroom, when we’re both trying to get participation points
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:46 PM
4

Dude’s a dick. My cousin sold him a motorcycle, and he treated her, as well as everyone else who worked there, like they were beneath him. Not a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:15 PM
91

Honestly! My love language actually is touch. If I care about someone, I’m very touchy. But men have 100% ruined it. If I mention that, people automatically assume I’m always down for sex. It’s awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:05 AM
77

Oh, I thought it was Juicy J’s other smash hit, I Have A Small Dick and Heavily Overcompensate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:22 AM
50

Okay, the 7 year age gap is a huge red flag to me, on top of him telling you to behave. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:49 PM
14

My dog is the opposite. She hates everyone equally so I can’t use her as a vetting tool 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:00 AM
201

That’s an abuse tactic. My narcissist dad does the exact same thing when you call him on his bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:26 AM
32

I wouldn’t even buy him anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:41 AM
3

I’m a very blunt person. If you ask me something, I won’t lie to you. Hell, my family’s motto is that you don’t want to know something, you shouldn’t ask me. However, I don’t walk around, proudly telling everyone how blunt and brutally honest I am, and when I have to be “brutally honest”, I find the nicest way to put it. If you can’t do that (AKA refuse to do it because you revel in being nasty), you’re an immature asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:31 PM
40

People who are “brutally honest” like the brutality part, not the honesty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:27 PM
37

Jesus. If you have to drug a man into hanging out with you, you’ve crossed from a Pickmeisha into Straight Up Crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:43 PM
4

Do men just think they’re the only ones who know about Google?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:54 PM
2

Sounds like a total dickhead. Glad he’s your ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:54 AM
29

Only way I can even fathom splitting rent and utilities with a man is if he’s actually doing half the housework. Not his version half. Literally 50%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:11 AM
27

Do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:03 PM
2

A 5-star rating system, and a new FDS rule is if he has less than 4 stars, move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:31 AM
43

I wish there was a way for women to label shitty men so that every woman who saw him would know to steer clear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:55 AM
42

In my experience, orgasms help with cramps. Sex itself doesn’t; it’s the end result. You can get the same result by just masturbating. Faster, easier, and cleaner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:36 AM
9

The only thing that means a woman wants to have sex with you is if she explicitly says that she wants to have sex with you. Jesus. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:15 AM
41

Trusting men gets you one of two places: broke and miserable, or in an early grave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:10 AM
24

Only time I accept last minute plans is when my best friend texts me because she has a craving for Dairy Queen and will come pick me up if I want some too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:42 PM
6

The bar is so low. Hell, the bar is on the ground, and these chucklefucks have brought shovels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:39 AM
22

There is no way this was an accident. The fact that she told him not to TWICE and the way he reacted makes it obvious that this was on purpose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:22 AM
9

A true crime podcast I listen to stated it as “law enforcement treats them like they’re less dead.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:15 AM
2

I have... no fucking words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:02 AM
59

That’s grounds for expulsion. Falsely accusing someone, aside from ruining their life, takes away the credibility of people who have been assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:01 AM
28

I’m a pasty Irish American who burns instead of tans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:01 PM
18

I can’t see any reasons why jokes about beating you would be “harmless fun”. Any normal person does not find intimate partner violence funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:19 PM
10

“One blessed wife” if you mean blessed with enough self-esteem, critical thinking skills, and commitment to your standards to not settle for a useless idiot who wants a bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:41 AM
15

Lol I’m not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:17 PM
21

God, the way people, men especially, have treated Greta makes me fucking sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:39 PM
15

PickmeishaDatingStrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:38 AM
15

The shades, the fur coat, the look of utter disdain... this woman is my idol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:01 AM
367

“What should I do?” Fucking leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:13 AM
18

“Don’t you have viagra to pick up?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:16 AM
84

A lot of people have, including myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:52 AM
19

I’m sorry to tell you it’s full on ear sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:18 PM
40

That’s not a LVM. That’s a NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:06 AM
15

I’m not being judgmental or shady, but I am genuinely curious about why you want to try anal? It doesn’t even sound remotely appealing to me, so I’m just wondering what sounds pleasant about it to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:57 AM
85

Well, there’s already ear-fucking hentai. Dumped my last boyfriend because I found it on his computer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:52 AM
35

Woman, who has repeated herself at least 50 times: loses patience NO WHAT I’M TRYING TO SAY IS THIS Man: oh my God why are you acting so crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:12 AM
22

You can have some of mine. They’re cumbersome and irritating, and every time I have a conversation with a man, he spends at least 40% of it staring at my chest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:31 PM
12

I’ve been told by multiple men I’ve known that I’m “intimidating”. When I was younger and a hardcore Pickmeisha, I kept trying to identify what made me intimidating and make it less so. I started asking these men what about me was so intimidating, and (this is gonna sound like a humble brag, sorry) the answer was that I’m intelligent and I know it, I’m outspoken, I refuse to take any shit, and I am better at xyz than the man I’m speaking to. And that’s when I realized. They’re not intimidated by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:23 AM
9

When I was “not like other girls”, it was a defense mechanism. I had nerdy interests, was a chubby emo kid, and had no social skills. I convinced myself that “other girls” (the ones that I secretly thought were prettier, funnier, more popular than me) were one dimensional and stupid. It gave me a sense of superiority that protected me from acknowledging that, deep down, underneath all the projection, I felt inferior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:17 AM
23

My response is always somewhere along the lines of “dude, I am an amalgamation of every single girl I’ve ever thought was cool in my entire life.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:13 AM
22

What
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:48 AM
33

Making trauma, more like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:48 AM
2

Good luck to you too!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:18 AM
6

I love my determination. I’ve wanted to be a doctor since I was 16, and nothing and no one can discourage me. I love that I’m independent and have taught myself to do all sorts of things so I won’t have to rely on a man. I love that I’ve grown out of my Not Like Other Girls Pickmeisha phase through a lot of introspection and now support my fellow women as much as I can. I love my ability to connect with the children I work with and make them feel safe and heard. I love that I’m fiercely protecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:12 PM
10

I’m so glad you were able to make the healthy decision and that you’re doing better! You’ve come to a community of supportive women who only want to the best for you. Welcome, Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:55 PM
187

“I need your nudes so I can trust you” —> “if you ever upset me, even a little bit, I’m gonna post your nudes for everyone to see”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:11 PM
76

Men who can afford gold diggers love them. Men who can’t are the ones that complain about them. My most recent boyfriend worked part time at a fast food restaurant (we’re both in college, so I didn’t think his job was a red flag) and would call me a gold digger if I didn’t have my wallet out, ready to pay at least half, when the check hit the table. The guy before him had gone straight from high school into a trade and made decent money, and he adamantly refused to let me pay for anything we did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:29 PM
13

Jesus Christ they’ve dropped the euphemisms and have come right out and said we’re objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:38 AM
33

I’ll take the job. Of course, they’ll probably fire me when they realize I’m taking everything down...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:52 PM
42

A waste of time and space?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:44 AM
8

“I’m wondering what the hell is wrong with me...” well, you’re a man, so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:53 PM
13

I’m 19 now and have been openly bi since I was 14, and I can honestly say that dating males is so different from dating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:10 AM
27

Because his problems are his own damn fault, and we have spent far too much time trying to fix problems that men created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:06 AM
12

Is it a red flag if a guy doesn’t have social media? It seems weird to me, given that pretty much everyone (at least everyone my age) has at least one platform that they’re active on Edit: to clarify, I know it isn’t what she said. It’s a question I had that her point about social media made me wonder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:10 AM
13

If I make the meal, my ass is eating FIRST... unless I have kids, in which case the order goes kids, me, husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:34 PM
28

Literally when we were training my dog to be obedient and understand that she wasn’t in charge, we did this. She would watch us eat our dinner, and then we would feed her. That’s animal kingdom shit. The alpha eats first. This makes me feel so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:32 PM
240

You have my undying admiration for answering that with “I hate men”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 07:24 PM
84

If I have to hold a man’s hand and walk him through dating me, he’s not fucking worth it. I don’t want someone who’s that socially inept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:33 AM
70

You have to have sex to get an STD, and I’m willing to bet all the money in my bank account that he made this shit up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:39 AM
20

Oh my God. Vaginas aren’t supposed to smell like flowers or tropical fruit or whatever the fuck. Vaginas 👏🏻are 👏🏻supposed👏🏻to👏🏻smell👏🏻like👏🏻vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:18 PM
36

There’s a reason golden girls was so popular
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:58 PM
52

Have you ever been anywhere near a man in public that isn’t on a date? At least 80% smell like B.O. and whatever nasty ass bullshit they ate for lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:56 AM
10

I’ve always wanted a man to make me a chicken nugget bouquet and tie a ring to it when he proposes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:37 PM
8

If a man tried to propose to be with that, I would probably laugh for a good minute before walking out and ghosting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:35 PM
23

Go fuck yourself, Kevin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:54 PM
37

A true crime podcast I listen to has the motto, “Be weird. Be rude. Stay alive,” and I really feel like more women need to be taught this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:11 PM
144

If a man asks for a threesome, say “sure”, and then suggest a few men that you could invite. See how fast he changes his tune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:30 AM
10

Once you get off crack, you can still stay tf away from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:25 AM
15

Okay, somebody introduce me to him as his new girlfriend, and as soon as he gives you the $25K, I dump him and we run off to split the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:32 PM
27

I really really hope this is sarcastic. There’s no way any of that is a problem, unless you’re an entitled man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:22 PM
25

I can remember one movie where this happened. One. Spy with Melissa McCarthy, and honestly, that was just for comedic purposes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:15 PM
11

Well, dude, maybe if you washed your hair and got a bare minimum skin care routine, cut back on the Doritos and Mountain Dew in favor of a balanced diet that involved actual vegetables, and did more physical activity than walking to the fridge, you just might get somewhere. Of course, once women don’t find you physically gross, you’ll have to work on the whole misogynistic gamer incel that lives in mommy’s basement thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:03 PM
51

The bar is literally on the ground, and these chucklefucks have brought shovels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:46 PM
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