| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 286 | Men don't and can't rescue us. | SHOWER THOUGHT | Anonimica_X | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 06:40 AM |
| 214 | Setting Mental Boundaries - Part 1 | STRATEGY | Anonimica_X | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 06:40 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 373 | Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is "Horrible Advice"This is next level gaslighting. I sincerely wish the author years of therapy and deprogramming from the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/22 10:49 AM |
| 101 | Dealing with being purposefully celibateCelibate here since.....ummmm.....forever. Lol, with all that i know about the orgasm gap and male depravity, i truly don't feel like I'm missing anything. I'm very much involved in levelling up mentally, psychologically and financially, so got no time for a bad lay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 01:38 PM |
| 100 | Dear newbie, nothing's happening? GET UP AND GET OUT.Thank you for this post. We can't afford to remain stuck in old and destructive patterns and then expect HVM to materialise out of thin air. There has to be some strategy to approach and manuever dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 02:00 AM |
| 127 | Thoughts On This “Men Paying On Dates For Them To Look Out For Entitled Women” article??Lol....this is the Matthew Hussey advice regurgitated. Nothing original, just the same old negging women to not be "entitled". 🥱🥱🥱🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 03:24 PM |
| 201 | Self sabotage.It's perfectly awesome to not be in a relationship. I've never been in one and seriously don't feel like I'm missing anything. I think most levelled-up women around the world are experiencing this. Sadly, until the men decide to do some spring cleaning and figure out their issues, not much we can do about their species. Only men can fix and advise men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Gross how pornsick men can infiltrate non sexual parts of the internet (my yoga video disaster)You can turn off the comments section 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | I caught my father watching porn. How should I address this?Tell your mom, and tell her that she deserves better than this. Tell her that you will support her if she chooses to walk away from her marriage. It's upto her after that. Start grey rocking your father and identifying your blindspots in relationships. All of us who have grown up in LVM families have them and they impact our lives badly unless addressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:48 AM |
| 316 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Don't move in with your boyfriend....lalala.... Boys shack, men build homes --- he ain't sticking around for a serious commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:18 AM |
| 10 | How to reconcile with the fact that my brother doesn't support the FDS strategies, although he is an HVM?This 👆🏻 Right here is what I came to say. How can someone be HVM and keep their girlfriend around without a ring? Also, the girlfriend is not HVW either if she's putting up with it. Rule of thumb ---- if someone has an issue with you doing and demanding better from life, they don't have your best interests at heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 05:41 PM |
| 13 | Why is there so many "crazy" mother-in-laws? (Let's discuss from the perspective of FDS)I really like Chloe_ videos. She's the only hypergamous coach who explains things from a progressive viewpoint (atleast 99% of the times). I love how she has called out manosphere idiots on her channel and advices women not to date them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 16 | How much of an issue are "leagues" in dating?Well there a few things to consider here when dating hypergamously--- Your vetting game will have to be extremely robust and then some. Because money has an annoying habit of blinding people to some glaring faults. It happens almost unconsciously. You will have to actively make sure that you're not putting the guy on a pedestal. In essence, you can never entertain the headspace that the guy is out of your league, because then you've lost. It is a HVM's job to spoil you and make sure you're well … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 04:57 PM |
| 66 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!This👆🏻👆🏻Right here!!! We cannot keep ignoring red flags and then pretend that it's gonna be alright. Yellow Flag --> Red Flag --> Then you're out. No exceptions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Advice on finances?Never ever reveal your exact financial status to a man, any man. Try to round it down to slightly above average income and keep it in the ballpark. An HVM should not ask you where you live in the first few dates, and even if someone does, give the closest middle class/lower class area from your home. He should also never ask you how much you earn in dates Never reveal the actual area, giving anything outside 5-10 miles is ok. The only time you should reveal your financial status to a guy is when… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 06:54 AM |
| 9 | How soon is too soon to go to a man's homeI'm not dating currently, but if I have seen 0 red flags and there is genuine connection without sex; I would consider 3-6 months. Obviously, you should be roster dating and being mindful of your privacy and security. I would also consider asking for a surprise virtual tour of his house during one of the video calls. It will give you an idea of his habitat and habits without giving him a chance to prep. Edit 1 - Watching a movie at home, absolute no-no in the first 6-8 months of dating as per my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:34 AM |
| 43 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?Please blur out the girl's face in the convo. This community sees a lot of lurkers who hate us. The timing of these texts is a red flag. It starts from Friday night until Saturday morning. It shows too much availability on the girl's side and potential issues on the guy's side. When in doubt, I always refer to The Rules guidelines on texting a guy back. That book has some issues, but they got a lot right. There is too much engagement from the girl's side. Even jokingly, he is getting his ego mas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 07:11 AM |
| 8 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsHe ( your fiancé ) will use the same reasoning when he cheats on you and/or when he watches porn. It's not that difficult to have a classy night out with friends which doesn't involve strippers. Your fiancé also has a strong case of trying to fit in with his dysfunctional counterparts. Beware of these men, because when push comes to shove, they won't have your back and will throw to the wolves simply because the tribe thinks it's the right thing to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:54 AM |
| 3 | FDS is featured on JezebelI think they couldn't comprehend FDS and decided to copy paste the Bread-Pill women's party line. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Female level up strategyShade Zahrai for professional level up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Men don't and can't rescue us.That's an excellent point about the "savior complex". I think the same can be extended into sleeping with virgins or not dating sexual assault survivors. I feel all the three above serves only to feed the ego and is not rooted in viewing women as a fellow human in need of assistance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 6 | What abusers believeIt's worth noticing the parallels between this and the Bread-Pill and Sad-wife ideology. Same entitlement, gaslighting, not being allowed to call out abuse etc. is uncanny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:12 PM |
| 19 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.Oh geez, the strip club reasoning is seriously messed up. This is not pick-me behaviour, this is some Bread-Pill women level shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Setting Mental Boundaries - Part 1This! 💯 It's like they won't embezzle money from their companies, or won't give into their instinct to pick a fight with a man; but they'll make an excuse when it comes to attacking women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 11:55 AM |
| 42 | No more friends in abusive relationshipsThis! 👌🏻I have had to enforce a similar boundary. Otherwise it's triggering and irritating to watch someone go through life as a servant, constantly gaslighting themselves to believe this is the best they can do. One of the hardest things I had to realise in my therapy was that you can't save everybody. Some people are left behind and need to find their own way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | OF COURSE women initiate 80% of divorces.Preach sister! It's like the loss of the bangmaids and mommies suddenly wakes them with a sense of urgency to cry wolf. They just want the benefits of a wife without doing any work in the marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 8 | 5 tips on how to spot a pick up artistLoving the videos!!! 🤗🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Easy vetting strategyThis is one I haven't tried yet, but I want to once I start dating again. What's your favourite movie --- Gone Girl. The reaction says it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 11:30 AM |
| 14 | FDS & Anxiety / NeurodivergenceI had to develop my emotional intelligence and recover my suppressed emotional states by doing exercises like emotional literacy, grieving and flashback management. Once I had a stable baseline emotional state established, my anxiety felt unnatural and I could see that it was a sign that something in my present was triggering my past survival mechanism. The key here is to understand that if you are triggered, it is due to a very good reason( especially in case of men ). Unless your triggers are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What an absolutely vile person!Uh oh .. emotional incest alert. Honey, you ain't a therapist/ your dad's buddy. That's the polite answer. The creepy scary answer is grooming and indicative of narcissism and/or sociopathy; especially if he's going seamlessly between these 2 sides of Jekyll and Mr Hyde. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSNew life goal added :: Get a 🐈. Actually make that two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 02:13 PM |
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