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100% agree, that part of the video was not it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 04:20 AM
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"Girl" 🚩🚩 He's baiting you and playing dumb, this could be very dangerous for you. Never reveal your picture, voice, info etc to any man knowing you're on FDS. you'll be in danger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:06 PM
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Lol I’d say BYE ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:24 PM
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I make my own money, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:32 PM
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Can’t even manage to stick to his own to do list on his own, but this guy is gonna be some big tech CEO and run his own company? Dude, you need self discipline to run a business, if you can’t even do something so basic you ain’t ever gonna make it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:08 AM
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Dear god, we need to rescue that woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:11 AM
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OMG 💀 queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:21 PM
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Literally overheard my neighbor yelling at her bf about how when she moved in, he didn’t even own a vacuum 😩 sis needs to escape….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:18 PM
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Men who say "chicks" = 🚩🚩🚩 Obviously misogynist man wonders why women don't like him 🙄 doesn't take a genious to figure out, mate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:58 PM
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Hahaha I love this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:48 PM
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Hahaha perfect 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:24 AM
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I'm having a hard time deciphering the end, when she asks if he has his own money, does he respond with, "no, imma use your card"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:24 AM
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😂😂 what can I say, I'm an honest lady
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:19 AM
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Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:08 AM
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Yess, happy for you, sis! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:46 AM
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Noooo 🤦🏼‍♀️ absolutely not, I'll guarantee he was doing that on purpose to get you to do the labor for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:38 AM
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That's exactly what they want. Weaponized incompetence 🔪 then they never have to go again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:32 AM
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Just the upvote to downvote ratio. It's getting downvoted real hard lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:41 PM
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The men are SO offended by this post. I'm sitting here refreshing watching the upvotes go up a few, down a few, up a few, down a few. I'm dying 💀 it's so entertaining They know women are waking up. This is satire ... but is it really? There's always an element of truth in satire This Tik Tok is pretty true though, women spend ridiculous amounts of money on their hair. Some of my salon visits have cost $300+ Why can't they put in the same level of effort and money into keeping themselves attracti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:05 PM
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Men are the ones who created those industries and developed targeted marketing campaigns to destroy women's self-esteem so that we would buy these things and make them money. Just look at how terrible ads for makeup were back in the 50s. Basically said no one would ever love them unless they used it, which was a real threat back when women couldn’t even open a bank account or credit card without a man It’s unfortunately become so common in this era now that if you DON'T use these things, you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:42 PM
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I came across these ladies on Tik Tok and I'm obsessed. They started a series making fun of the awful things men say about women on their podcasts and have flipped the script, and I’m living for it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:29 PM
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It's the worst, isn't it? I had to live with my ex for almost a year and a half after the first time I tried to end it. This is because I did it right before Covid hit, so no one was letting you view places, then when I finally could look at places the ones I found were all sketchy and fell through, combine that with the ridiculous rental market I couldn’t find a place that I could afford on my own for a long time. What an absolute nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:33 PM
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Welcome, sis! So happy you've found us! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:27 PM
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HERE FOR IT HAHAHA Though I do think the price should be higher
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:55 PM
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One of my biggest mindset shifts from FDS: Stop thinking about if he likes you Start thinking about whether YOU like HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:44 AM
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Beautiful 🤌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:17 AM
49

This is the sweetest thing 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:18 AM
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Scrotalese Sis, when I tell you I choked 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:55 PM
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Yes please!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:33 PM
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Just when you think it's slipped deep into FDS lore 😅 here it is again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:14 AM
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I thought men were the providers, why are they not providing for their woman and children first? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:00 PM
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For real. I hate late stage capitalism yet I still work a full time job. These men are just lazy, entitled leaches. I've watched my friends deal with them not working while they foot the entire bills for rent, food, etc. These types of men are just gold diggers but their behavior is excused for some reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:43 PM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:38 PM
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A lot of parents ignore it. A lot of times, it's the parents who cause it to begin with Not everyone has model parents. Many parents are abusive and not fit to raise children, and the children grow up in a crap environment. This is the result, the reality that many people face, and very real implications for mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:53 PM
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Yeah her brother wrote them, she was definitely used by these men Given her conservative style choices, lyrics that you can tell she herself wouldn't write, and now speaking out about porn ... I honestly believe this woman was likely abused growing up. Even before getting into the industry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:50 PM
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I'd never actually seen the lyrics before .... What the actual f. I'm thoroughly disgusted that this was published when she was a minor. And written by her brother? Who has a girlfriend that looks very similar to Billie? Just look at his pictures, you can tell he's deeply pornsick The fact Billie always wore oversized clothes so people didn't sexualize her? It's all starting to make sense now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:25 PM
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That's exactly what's happening 😉 they're so threatened its hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:12 PM
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I've been a doctor who fan for 15 years, and the male leads were always my role model. How come young boys and men can't have female role models? And how come I, as a women, very rarely saw positive female role models growing up? How do people think this affected women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:40 PM
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Nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:01 AM
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I hate to say this, but the fact he thinks his groomsmen might "surprise" him with strippers 100% means they're probably already planning it. They know, he knows. They asked you to test the waters to see how much of a secret they had to keep it Like others have said, birds of a feather Be thankful you're seeing this now, and not after you're legally bound to him. This isn't a small incident, it's a larger indicator of what his personality and values really are I won't say what you should do, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:01 PM
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The most important thing I ever learned from FDS is that men are not socialized to ask women for help They will ALWAYS ask another man if it's legitimate, because of patriarchy and misogyny, 99% of the time he won't want to hurt his ego by having to ask a woman for help If a man asks you for help, that is super sus You may have potentially saved your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:03 PM
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The current Doctor on Doctor Who (played by Jodi Whittaker)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:49 AM
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First thing I thought of when I heard it was strangulation, was how much do you want to bet Laundries was into BDSM and "kink"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:17 AM
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How have I never seen this before??? Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:12 AM
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Can't turn a ho into a husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:13 PM
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Same. I don't care what others choose to do, but that's just my personal preference. I let my hair grow out during quarantine just to see how I felt about it and I couldn't stand it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:29 PM
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Ugh I HATE excessive body hair I really wish men shaved their armpits, I really can't handle the long hairs that get coated in deodorant grime and lock in smells from sweat. It's so nasty to me. Can we start a campaign that makes men want to shave the same way they did to us back in the day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:02 PM
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Don't play dumb. You're not dumb. You know exactly what's going on here, and it's time to block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:00 AM
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This is how men learn to step up their game When there's actual consequences This is how we make them level up, ladies 💃 No more low effort men He says she was the best he's ever matched with, but it still stands.... If he wanted to, he would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:28 PM
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Gail Dines reference, I see you 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:21 AM
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I had to do a double take. I think that's why it made me so mad tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:36 PM
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Notice "I apologize for making you feel harassed" Instead of "I apologize for harassing you" Language matters. He's still not admitting fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:43 PM
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EXACTLY, I was so frustrated with the way he was framing things in this article. He's probably so far removed because he's absolutely rotted his brain with violent porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:28 PM
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You ladies are at the forefront of a revolution, leading us all I am so HERE for it 🙌 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:30 AM
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I love this song!! I had it on repeat a few months ago after leaving my ex. I first found the cover version by Halocene and Lauren Babic, had no idea there was a video for the original, thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:14 PM
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Porn has been shown to destroy cross-sex empathy. It's why they can't see us as human, because so many of them started watching it in their formative years It's designed that way because destroying cross-sex empathy is ESSENTIAL to upholding the patriarchy, so men can keep their power Its an insidious capitalistic industry controlled much deeper than we think. The violent, degrading material is created on purpose Men who watch porn are undateable, ladies. They will never fully respect you or see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:17 AM
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That is the most beautiful thing I have ever heard 🥺 thank you so much for giving me hope that there can be a happy ending after all 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:45 AM
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The sad thing is I'd actually love a partner who was into the van life. I'm starting a business on the side of working my office job to make it happen, so I can go fully remote and travel while running it. I'd be over the moon if I could find someone who was doing the same, but all the men I've seen who are into the "lifestyle" are just broke hippie types with no ambition and no job and I ain't about that. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:46 PM
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Thanks Queens!! I was gonna make something like this myself so this is perfect 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:43 PM
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Wtf did you expect? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:41 PM
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LETS GOOOOO 🔥 I'm considering making flyers and putting them in bathroom stalls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:17 PM
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NO WAY, that's the sub that was banned?? Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:44 PM
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29, single, childfree. Feeling absolutely amazing about my life after seeing this, thank you 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:54 PM
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I'll be a 5th if you ladies want to form a group 🥺 I ended an 8 year relationship in March (not married, actually thankful I was the forever girlfriend) and not a single friend bothered to check in with me. Every time they have a man in their life, they disappear I have no idea where to meet other HVW. I wanted to join the Discord, but because of other groups I'm in there, I have my picture as my pfp so don't want my face associated with FDS for safety reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:54 AM
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I used to feel bad about myself watching my friends get married young and find their "true love" Then I learned their partners had never even been grocery shopping because their mommies had always done it, and now expected their wife to Then I was like, nah, I'm good 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:54 PM
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NO ONE should be enlisted in the draft Not men, not women Everyone has the right to bodily autonomy, and I believe forcing someone into combat and quite possibly death goes against your basic human rights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:13 AM
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My ex only used it when he was horny, so I associate it with being sexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:31 AM
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Not just gen Alpha, but the babies of the next generation that aren't even born yet 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:19 PM
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The nest is basically FDS canon at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:59 PM
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Y tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:31 PM
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Glad you liked it! I LOVE the second outfit. She is my Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:49 AM
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Just as I had forgotten this awful imagine 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:55 PM
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Awesome, so glad you liked it!! She is amazing and has lots of great work out there 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:16 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it!! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:47 AM
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Thanks so much for this in depth analysis, Queen! This is awesome 👑 appreciate you taking the time to search all this and share it with us! I love the way Alissa changed it and flipped the script. It's subtle, but powerful. And that Powerwolf was willing to work with her and re-release the track. I really hope to see more of this kinda stuff in the future. If you're interested in more of Alissa's stuff, I really like the song/lyrics of The Eagle Flies Alone, with her band Arch Enemy. She used to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:47 AM
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Listening to the pod I kept hearing one of our lovely mods talk about how she was into men fighting each other, and it reminded me of this video so I thought I'd share Alissa White-Gluz is the front woman of Arch Enemy and an absolute Queen. She's an activist and has always brought a strong message of empowerment into her lyrics. I've grown up with her music and it's helped having role models like her to listen to. I know metal isn't everyone's cup of tea, especially since this one is a bit sacr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:04 PM
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Welcome! ❤️ Glad you're here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:44 PM
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Really? That's so interesting. I wonder if it has to do with different demographics of the regions we live in I guess the takeaway is men are gonna men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:13 PM
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I can give my perspective as someone who's lost 100 pounds. I've found it actually has a lot more to do with how you dress and present yourself than it does your weight. I only get attention when I dress up and look presentable. If I go out in casual clothes and don't do hair/makeup I don't get attention. So it's been nice, but there could be a lot that factors into that, such as where I live It's kind of funny actually, I've played with it and I get the most looks when I wear high waisted pants…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:35 PM
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For some reason, I've actually always been attracted to men around my height or a bit shorter, never been attracted to tall men. I'm 5'7". But I've had short guys tell me there's no way they'd date a woman who was taller than them (not directly to me, but in conversation). So they complain that women only date taller men, but they themselves have a height preference for dating shorter women? Please lmao, the double standard is ridiculous. Funny how only woman are called out having height prefere…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:20 PM
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No problem!! This is one of the biggest epiphanies I had from FDS. When you think about it, who is the entertainment industry mostly run by? Men. And predatory men at that. Most of the shows we watched growing up were likely written by men. All the female characters were written by men, men who probably don't even like woman and only see us as objects, that's why we could never relate and were groomed into certain ways of thinking. Even the entertainment industry, WAP is a good example. Liberal …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:32 PM
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I never enjoyed watching TV shows or movies, and I realized as an adult this is why. I couldn't relate to the characters and everything seemed to pander to the male gaze. The only show I watched growing up was Doctor Who because I liked the strong female characters who travelled with the Doctor since their relationship wasn't romantic in most cases (in the newer series). I feel much better being an adult and not having to watch this stuff, when I lived at home I had to and I think it didn't real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:49 PM
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Haha yep. First thing I thought of when I read that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:53 AM
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I'm a diamond in the rough, a shiny piece of coal Tryna reach my goal my power of speech, unimpeachable 💃🏼 🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:08 AM
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4 months single and I'm starting a business on top of working my regular job, have great friends, living my best life for the first time in years. I don't even have any desire to entire another relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:06 PM
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100% he's in a relationship and has no picture/info so no one finds out he's trying to cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:47 PM
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They'll enter a relationship with you and string you along for the girlfriend benefits without ever having the intention of marrying, because you're not "the one" but they know they can't get someone else otherwise It's honestly worse than some guy just trying to have a one night stand Ladies, this is why if you're a couple years into a relationship and a man is still hesitant to propose to you, you're the forever girlfriend If you're past the vetting stage and he's not excited about the idea of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:03 PM
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Hahaha this is incredible 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:51 AM
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I've been considering cutting my long, natural hair and getting a pink pixie cut Knowing that it will filter out the red pillers and predators that I'm trying to avoid is just pushing me even further to just do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:00 AM
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I've literally been thinking of getting a pink pixie 🥺 I'm so scared to do it though. Plus Ive always had a widows peak so I don't know if it would look right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:41 PM
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I have a copy on my Google drive still I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:12 PM
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Was it maybe written by Lilith? I think she deleted her account and posts but I'm not sure if this was one of hers. I know she had a lot of integral posts on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:11 PM
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Men's jobs are so easy. I took a mechanics course and couldn't believe how straightforward it was (they make it seem like the trades are so complicated). It's just basic machinery and once you know how it works, it's simple Even handywork and stuff around the house that needs to be fixed can be learned so easily I'm not saying the physical labor is easy, it's still hard on the body, but mentally it's straightforward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:04 PM
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Is it really their biology to sleep with everything that moves, though? Has anyone studied anthropology here that would know? Because I thought since human babies are so underdeveloped when they're born, in the past both parents bond and stay together in order to provide resources for the child. If that's not true, what is, historically speaking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:02 PM
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Same with the metal community, I went to a show once and a guy asked me who I lived with within 5 minutes of meeting him. Seriously, bud? Another thought a great way to start a conversation was to come up behind me and hit me on the arm. I was so cold to him he cowered back within seconds lmao. Rule #1: don't touch me, ever While I'm at it, at another show a guy literally put his arm around me and dragged me out of the pit and told me to "be careful." Then he stalked me around the venue until I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:34 PM
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I found myself on feminist tiktok and girl trust me, you want to be there. The men are getting ROASTED 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:24 AM
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Wait what is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:07 PM
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This post convinced me I need to join the patreon, listening to the episode now and it's gold already 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:18 PM
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Great post, the link isn't working for me though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:15 PM
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I love you for sharing this 😂 "I took you for a dickless," I can't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:01 AM
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I feel this so much. I ended an 8-year relationship in March and none of my "friends" have checked in with me yet. It really hurts, and I'm in a city by myself now several hours from family. The sad thing is we were great friends, went through university together and were really tight. But as soon as they got boyfriends they dropped out of my life, and even when I've tried to talk to them it's like they only respond out of courtesy, unlike before when we used to have deep conversations. I've tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:19 AM
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OFF WITH HIS "HEAD"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:52 PM
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🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:00 PM
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PickMe Dollars, I'm here for it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:00 PM
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Thank you kind stranger, I will do my best to make you proud! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:28 PM
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Oh my goodness ... I never even thought about this The fact he still owes me over $1,000 in just borrowed money... The money I spent visiting him? Paying gas anywhere we went? Paying for trips? Nights out? Me being pickme coolgirl supreme because he didn't work and played games all day and I wanted to sUpPoRt him Lost wages and career opportunities because I was too emotionally damaged to take on more work? And still am? (I'm very slowly healing and getting there...) Not to mention losing my 20s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:13 PM
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YES, SIS! PREACH 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:24 PM
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I am so disgusted I don't even know what to say. I am absolutely livid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:12 PM
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The only boy I'd clean up after ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:07 PM
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That would be amazing! I think this is so important ♥️ thank you for taking the time to do this, I think it will be really helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:15 PM
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Yep, 100%. I've started to think it's the male socialization that makes it this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:24 AM
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YES QUEEN, LEVEL UP!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:07 PM
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This is amazing, thanks so much for all your hard work!! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:44 PM
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This is incredible, and the first time I've heard of someone recovering this way .... do you mind me asking where you started when you were first discovering radical feminism? I'm a personal trainer and focus solely on women, and have been trying to bring the things I've learned in radical feminism into my dialogue. It's so upsetting to see how liberal feminism and our culture has destroyed women's self esteem. I'm always looking for new ways to help my fellow ladies, and what you said really st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:01 PM
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Baby Scrote doo doo doo doo doo doo 🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:27 PM
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I'm going to assume it's a piece of plastic you put over your drink when you're not drinking it so that nobody can slip anything in when you're not looking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:53 AM
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Omg you got me 😂😂 this is the laugh I needed today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:08 PM
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For my Canadian ladies, TextNow is a great alternative :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:13 AM
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Thank you for this .... I think I just realized this is where a lot of my difficulties come from. I hit almost every one of those and have been really struggling lately after ending an 8 year relationship that I stayed in for way too long. Not to mention things in my past and childhood ... This will be really helpful for me to learn how to heal properly. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:50 AM
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That's the libfem logic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:10 AM
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That's the problem with this kind of empowerment, it's a FEELING. That's all it is. There is no actual power or progress gained in society. It's all wishful thinking. FEELING empowered and BEING empowered are two very different things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:53 AM
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Sex work is just another way for the patriarchy to keep women out of the workforce and out of positions of power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:21 PM
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I thought they were ducks.... His ducks In a row 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:13 AM
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Euf.... Same. Do you know if they ever started something else elsewhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:04 AM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:21 PM
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Is Bumble BFF a separate part of the Bumble app, or is it a separate app? I tried to look it up but can only find Bumble itself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:19 PM
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The consumption. Men who watch porn are complicit in the violence, abuse, trafficking and exploitation of women and children. I personally do not trust men who consume porn or believe that a porn user will stop. They're more likely to say they'll stop, but do it sneakily behind your back so you don't find out Edit: just saw your flair and realized you're asking OP a specific question, I was replying as if someone was asking it as a general curiosity around FDS principles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:13 AM
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It doesn't project enough to give the PPs optimal hardness 🤷🏼‍♀️ oh no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:38 AM
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Absolutely not. If a man spent his 20s chasing and sleeping with women, he's damaged goods and I wouldn't date him. I'd only date someone who has experience with long term, monogamous relationships. I value that and hold myself to that standard, and I deserve a man who has done the same. If I don't find it, I'd rather be alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:33 PM
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This is a really interesting article, but can I say that I really hate when when sex is referred to as a women being "fucked." That language is so dehumanizing and pornified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:19 PM
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Are all these guys ugly or am I a lesbian? Like almost all of them are still in their twenties and have pornsick eyes and creepy vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:37 PM
27

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:02 PM
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To the men reading: WE DO NOT WANT TO BE APPROACHED IN PUBLIC We know men who approach strangers in public are desperate and usually creepy So don't complain if we scoff and act standoffish when you approach us, because it's weird and so dangerous for us to trust random men we meet on the street It's been drilled into our head from a young age not to trust male strangers, you can't expect us to be flattered by being randomly approached
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:32 PM
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I've watched over 100,000 people join since I first subbed here. Warms my heart ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:18 PM
8

In your nest 😂😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:09 PM
13

For real! If a guy does that for his women, great. But the only one I fully trust to do all this, who will have my back no matter what, is ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:19 PM
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Omg. That's amazing, I love it ❤️ Come to think of it now, I'd probably be the coffee aunt, not the water aunt lol ☕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:00 AM
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Yeah I'm the water aunt lmao 😂 I'm fun at parties (heh)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:58 AM
13

I think I've realized I'm only attracted to men with long hair. Euf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:40 PM
20

I haven't been attracted to any of the men posted yet until this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:40 PM
18

Right? My thoughts exactly 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:38 PM
11

I see, sorry if it sounded like a stupid question, I thought you meant something along the lines of the way the physical space/machines in the gym is designed or something along those lines, such as machines/equipment being built for the size of male bodies. I misunderstood. I definitely understand where you're coming from with dealing with men at the gym, I've attended a woman's only gym for years because of that, I do not feel in any way comfortable being in a male space at the gym. I work wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:30 PM
9

Curious, how do gyms cater mostly to men? I'm in the fitness space but never thought about this, now you've got me thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:55 PM
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Oh my goodness. I'm sorry about your custom driftwood, that sounds like it would have been beautiful! Off the top of my head mine are a brand new computer desk (not even 24hrs old, smashed with his head), my electric razor, lamp, a couple posters...and lots more I'm sure. Structural damage included holes in doors, walls, smashed light switch casing, closet doors punched off the tracks. If I had more time to think I'm sure this list would be a lot longer Is it bad that it took 8 years and FDS to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:08 AM
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100%. My ex has nothing because I paid for everything that made our apartment. I did leave a couple things like a cabinet, because he broke it in a fit of rage. And some things I just didn't want. But if it weren't for that, he wouldn't have a single thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:45 AM
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Thanks very much for your reply! I appreciate hearing your experience. You mention his symptoms resolved, that's something I've been confused about, do you know if an HPV infection resolves after a certain time and is no longer transmissable? Or will there always be a risk? I've heard a lot of conflicting information about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:32 PM
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What is FDS's opinion on dating someone with HPV? I've heard that around 80% of people get it at some point in their life and everything I've read online downplays it and says not to worry. I just got my first vaccine for it today (in my late 20s ... I never got it as a teen) but I'm still paranoid about it now that I'm single for the first time in 8 years. Should you avoid people who know they have had it? Or is it so common it's impossible to avoid? I don't want to narrow down an already extre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:28 PM
19

I love this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:24 AM
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You'd think if it's the woman's special day, the man would go out of his way to plan everything and make it easy for her so she can feel amazing the day of 🤔 But nah, the bride has to plan everything, even though it's "her day"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:56 PM
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He only cares now because he's scared he'll have to raise the kids and do the work on his own If she recovers, he'll just go back to how he was before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:23 PM
20

PREACH 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:07 PM
10

Great for abusers, maybe ... who would want to listen in on someone's personal life? Why would Google even make this a thing??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:16 PM
9

That's terrifying. I knew it passively listened but didn't realize you could just listen in using the device email ... I'm so glad Ive never had one now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:10 PM
19

Wait, what?? Home records all the time? You mean someone could just go into your account and start listening to it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:32 PM
18

Thirsty Thursday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:26 PM
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This should be in the handbook if it isn't already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:05 AM
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It does! It's exactly what I was looking for 🙂 I tested it out and my friend got it no problem. I was able to get a number with an area code on the opposite side of the country, so it's perfect for not sharing where I'm located (gonna use it mostly for business)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:42 PM
9

That's for the Text Now recommendation! Google Voice isn't available where I live so I've been looking for an alternative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:20 PM
8

Is there anything that can be done in adulthood regarding this, or is it specifically for growing bones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:02 PM
6

Oh my GOD 😂😂 This is the laugh I needed today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:28 PM
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Thanks love ❤️ I'm okay, just hearing how little they care gets to me. And how terrified that woman must have been. It can be a bit much seeing these things some times, but it's important to do so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:26 PM
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I'm literally crying right now over this. I'm so fucking sick of men's depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:51 PM
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I've been having this thought lately too. I don't think a lot of these guys would be incels if they held themselves to the same level of hygiene and personal development most women do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:55 PM
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Congrats, sis!! I moved into my new apartment 2 months ago now, left an 8 year relationship. I'll admit it's been rocky and lonely, and I've cried quite a lot, but I'm working through it and know it's for the best. I bought myself flowers today because he never did, and I always would have loved to get flowers. Learning to love myself has been a journey, but it's been so worth it ❤️ Best of luck to you in your new place! I wish you all the best 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:19 AM
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We wouldn't have met, because he didn't pay for the transportation (met online, long distance) But alas, it lasted 8 years, and a ton of my money gone 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:10 PM
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No. They absolutely don't think about their partner. That's the problem with pornsick men, they don't care. They only see you as a means to an end, you're there to serve their pleasure and needs. YOU as a person doesn't matter. Growing intimacy in a relationship doesn't matter. That's why I think porn use is one of the most important things to vet. If he uses porn, I don't care what else might be "good" about him, I'm out It fries their brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:11 PM
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Hahahaha.. I love seeing this kind of man get what they deserve Maybe if he laid off the porn for a while he wouldn't have such gross "fantasies" My ex told me once that he wanted to experience sleeping with other women (because I was the only one he had been with). It absolutely destroyed me, but I was in my pickme days and thought I should try and uNdErStAnD where he was coming from I should have dumped him then and there. But I stayed for years, and I'm still really messed up from it (among a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:55 PM
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FACTS It was because of this I used to have the "I'm not like other girls" mentality I've realized that I AM just like other girls, but all the presentations of feminity I saw growing up were created by men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:36 PM
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He's my favorite 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:45 PM
3

It's funny how since I moved out on my own, not once has the garbage overflowed, the recycling piled over, or the dishes accumulated in the sink I knew I was doing the majority of the labor in the apartment, but I didn't realize just HOW much I was doing For some reason I didn't realize just how much of the ratio of trash and dishes were his, but it makes sense since he didn't work, stayed at home and played video games all day Of course I worked all day and still came home to a destroyed kitche…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:12 PM
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