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| 1421 | What in the apron strings?! | LEVEL UP BRO! | ijustcantwithit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 08:42 PM |
| 432 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date. | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | ijustcantwithit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 06:17 AM |
| 304 | Thank you FDS. I found my voice and am getting better with boundaries and identifying lvm | LEVEL UP | ijustcantwithit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 5 | I’m slowly losing my mind. I posted this and got made fun of for finding it inconsiderate | MALE DEPRAVITY | ijustcantwithit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:11 PM |
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| 9 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Lol I dated a guy who claimed to have had sex. We got in bed and… he’d never had sex. It was cute to me but I’d prefer he hadn’t lied. I got it, it was early and he was trying to impress me but lying wasn’t necessary | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?Most of the time I hear: 3-4 and then find out later it was a lie and there were more, 1-3 and find out it was a lie and there was no one, or I heard once “I don’t count, does it matter?” Which meant a lot but also that he didn’t count. Idk. Some dude was honest and said “I slept around a lot so my number is high” and we left it. Mine is 11 or 12 and I usually prefer not to have the conversation at all outside of clearing up that I have no stds | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.That would be the word. Thank you | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 17 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.As a girl, when I say “don’t make it weird” this is about what I’m expecting. I want you to act like you did before we messed around. I want you to not act like some jealous jerk because I’m dancing with someone else or being overly sexual or ‘romantic’ (I’m sure there’s a better word for this just blanking). I just want you to act like you did before we messed around. That’s what I think she wants | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find smart (or nerdy) women?Ya, don’t stress to much. See if there are girls where you like to hangout and then worry about finding them else where if their aren’t. At the school I’m at now they have an esport room and everyone who does that, including girls go there. I think what’s really going to matter is where you are at, what kind of hangout spots there are. I know the spot to be during my undergrad was the ice cream shop down the street. Where I’m at now for my masters it’s a dance hall. You also might meet people in… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find smart (or nerdy) women?Does your school have a gaming area? Maybe there? Check the library. There isn’t one way to find these types of girls. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girlThat’s my thought to. If I’m going to approach a guy he’s definitely going to be with guy friends and not a girl who’s clearly with him in some way. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Taking girls on expensive dinner datesI don’t even know if he meant a date for his son… it might be for OPs mom and dad to go on? | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 9 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.My depressed, drowning in student debt brain says I should take it if things are as good as this lady claims or better (he cleans the home) and my loans disappear. The self respecting side of my brain says absolutely not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you bring up sex before having it with a new partner?As a girl I’ve had stuff where we did and some where we didn’t. What matters to me is the person and how comfortable we both are with each other | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 04:32 AM |
| 4 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?That’s true. I hadn’t thought at it from that perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I posted on another thread: We ask children not to hit people but use their words. We ask children not to make fun of peoples appearances (general rule being that if they can’t immediately change it then it’s not to be made fun of). So why are grown adults allowed any differently? No it’s not okay. There were ways to “defend his woman” that did not include a public spectacle or violence. The joke shouldn’t have been made and the falling out of it should have been non combative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | What in the apron strings?!Most of mine took about an hour and 1 is fully shaded. It took closer to 90min but still not that long. My smallest tool 3min and the bigger is the shaded one. I believe it didn’t take to long if they had been talking about it before hand or if she freehanded it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 02:29 PM |
| 64 | Can you be a HVW and date (reasonably) older men?I think that’s what we tend to forget. At a young age even just a few years gap is miles different. Then 30s-50s it’s not so bad but then we look at retirement, life expectancy, etc and they don’t like up once you pass that 50s threshold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 06:53 PM |
| 19 | on being told (over and over) that I have "walls up"I hate that. Your walls are up. You don’t talk enough. I don’t know as much as I should about you because you never talk. And then he proceeds to do all the talking for the next hour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 08:52 PM |
| 16 | Beards change way men look a lot more than makeup. Makeup comes off every day while you only see what men looks like if they shave. Don't trust men with beards.Beards are whatever if you like beards and are confident enough with his looks with/without a beard then go for it. I will step up on my soapbox: all beards are pubes and I don’t want to touch or have contact with face pubes. Face pubes are often unclean and no amount of beard oil will change how poorly washed a lot of them are. The trimmings if not cleaned up get everywhere. The crumbs/dandruff and lord knows what else in them is just flat nasty. In short: I will not date someone with face pube… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 29 | Beards change way men look a lot more than makeup. Makeup comes off every day while you only see what men looks like if they shave. Don't trust men with beards.Or washing hands after bathroom trips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 07:30 AM |
| 82 | Beards change way men look a lot more than makeup. Makeup comes off every day while you only see what men looks like if they shave. Don't trust men with beards.Think about how well the wash their hands and their hair/skin. My ex never washed his hands and his hair/beard/body washing was pushing soap around. His head he kinda scrubbed, his facial hair only got soap rubbed on top of it. No scrubbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Weeding out Entitled women...The profile says “drama free” or “no drama here” or any such variation about lacking drama or toxicity. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 06:58 AM |
| 186 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.Right. Like I don’t support it but I won’t condemn those that do it because I can’t know their situation and I know people in abusive enough situations that the money either helped them out of the abuse OR only happening because of abuse (see sex trafficking). But this dude seriously was bitter his friend didn’t get it… she can’t be that bad at coding if she got past the test… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 8 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?Lol my ex didn’t do terrible with gifts but he was just meh about them. I think the one that killed me the most was that we lived together. I cooked and cleaned and begged him to help me. He took the whole day off the last Valentine’s we were together. I came home to him having cleaned up his mess and vacuumed. He cleaned the kitchen up and shit the bedroom door so I wouldn’t notice he hadn’t done anything in the bedroom or bathroom. He bought 2 things of chocolate and some flowers. He was so pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 23 | Pretend you can't cookI to am vegetarian and some men in my life still find a way to get me to cook. That said, in my family home everyone helped cook so i actually do know how to cook a few meat dishes because my parents needed help cooking, I just wouldn’t eat it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 249 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsAnd then they say “you get tons of matches” but like… 90% or more of them are just dudes who swiped right on every single person… and then they say “I don’t message first, she needs to” and then everyone is miserable… so why do that if you aren’t going to be happy? “Well then I don’t get any matches”. So do you want quality matches or do you just want matches? Im confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 14 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂My ex got the pans also. I moved into a new place and he couldn’t keep all our old stuff so I got it. My cast iron skillet is just gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 305 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂And then when they break up he’ll want to take half the furniture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:35 AM |
| 7 | Sigh. Ladies, tell me what you think.No, I’m to stubborn to not get off. It’s a rule. I’m strict with it most of the time: I orgasm before he does every single time. I’ll throw guys out of my bed if they aren’t willing to follow my rule. I don’t have patience to deal with selfish men so they don’t even last long enough to finish themselves. I don’t fake orgasms. I teach the men who want to bed me that there is pleasure for them to be had in my orgasm and they accept this truth and find it. And then I’m usually happy. But it’s work … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 17 | Sigh. Ladies, tell me what you think.Sometimes I don’t care about mine. I want the intimacy of sex but don’t want the work of an orgasm. It’s not often I feel this way and I only ever feel this way in relationships where I am taken care of. My rule is me first then you because I know I won’t leave them hanging and it’s easier to chase subsequent orgasms after the first. But every now and then I just don’t have the energy for it but I want the intimacy and so I don’t care about it. So not caring is the very rare exception and not th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 40 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?All I read was “I want to cheat on you. I don’t want to be married to you or have kids but I still want the status you and the kids provide me in a social standing” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 01:58 AM |
| 30 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮BuT i LoVe HiM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 38 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmI set a slightly different rule: I cum first. I get off before there is penetration and he has to do the work. Why? Because, for me, it is easier to climax later in the session. It also means that the opportunity to be selfish doesn’t present itself to him. Plus, I get him used to the idea that my orgasm and my pleasure are sexual and a turn on for him. Once that’s accomplished, he wants to get me off as much as he can because he finds sexual pleasure in it. Once I am taken care of I take care o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 09:48 PM |
| 38 | Girl asked me to leave after we started making out when I came back from bathroomYour going to the restroom gave her time to think. It likely has nothing to do with you. I’ve gone on dates and realised half way through I couldn’t do it anymore. I finished the date but I had to end moving forward with them. I’m glad she told you before your clothes were off. Or before she led you on. It happens. It’s not about you in this case and all about her. I’m sorry this happened but I hope you can work through the feeing of inadequacy. You aren’t inadequate, you were cute enough that s… | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 7 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”I think facial hair looks like pubes so I actually don’t find no shave November to be very good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 01:24 AM |
| 3 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”It’s supposed to be both. My ex and I use to participate just to make our sex life more interesting after but not really for any good reasons. Just a challenge of self control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?Ya. Sometimes it’s just about timing. Being caught off guard. Not being well acquainted with the person. Once I said no because I panicked. I later ended up asking them but I had to get over being mortified that I panicked and said no. But it was nice that he left me alone and was cool with just being casual friends until I stored out my idiot brain. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Nothing is wrong with average. I’m saying they weren’t great. I went on the dates with them and was disappointed in their personality. Real means forever. A lot of what I’m finding right now just want to fuck around (literally) and I’m not here for that. I used to be and that’s part of my problem. I’m done dating I’m here for commitment so real being forever. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?I actually stopped using dating apps because I realised that hot guys weren’t great and average guys weren’t great. I’m looking for real and dating apps aren’t cutting it. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?26 female having issues getting a date when I didn’t have a problem before. It’s probably my own fault though. It’s the idea that something better is always out there. So we swipe swipe swipe and don’t settle. We look for above what our attractiveness level allows for. Honestly, I’m scared to date again. I need looks to be enough for sex not 10/10 because I am not 10/10 and personality enough that when looks fade I’ve found the inner beauty. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetMy ex and I split 50/50 but we made roughly the same. When I got a slightly better job he understood that I wasn’t getting extra spending money but rather prepping to buy a car. I really really needed a new one. So I saved and if I splurged on something, it was always for both of us. On the flip side. He let me take on more of our dogs medical bills for surgery because he didn’t have enough money. Why? Because he bought a super expensive desktop computer for gaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 06:32 AM |
| 7 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.My ex proposed to me after I balled my eyes out ruining sex for us. We were both drunk when it started and I got to feeling like I did with an ex who abused me. He stopped. Comforted me and then asked. I, a love sick fool, said yes. The next week we were sitting on his bed and he pulled out a ring and stuck it on my finger and made sure I still wanted him. I did. I hated the proposal though. I should have seen the flag for what it was, huge and red. He knew what my dream proposal consisted of wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 11 | Men are **farrrrr** more sensitive than womenI called my ex out. Told him he was “to aware” of everything so he constantly over analysed everything and then pushed it off on me as if I was somehow at fault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 49 | Here’s what a HVM looks like in his own words, then shared by a guy friend who I know is a HVM to his wife.I think the issue is that most men don’t meet the basic adult requirements, that’s why they are all Lv. Our complaints are: they see chores as helping, they don’t do anything without thinking of themselves, etc. These are all behaviours of children. Adults are more responsible and a responsible ADULT male will often be a HVM because he knows how to be a good partner. Lvm are all still stuck in children brain because they need a mommy to do things for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:37 PM |
| 19 | This is enough internet for me today I’m done. Porn addicted scrotes are out here getting used items mailed to them from cam girls and giving themselves yeast infections and lord knows what other diseases. (warning extremely nsfw language)Imagine what kind of infections this poor women was getting inserting weird stuff in her body. If there was sex trafficking as part of this video then I fear she was a victim because I cannot imagine inserting this s*** into my body….yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 56 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?I went on a date with a guy who seemed okay and then after only 1 date and 3 weeks of “talking” was calling me his girlfriend and then said he loved me. I shut down so fast. All this because I went on 1 date start to end and then mildly texted him but not really because he was so fragile he scared me and I wasn’t mentally ready to reject him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:53 AM |
| 17 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?For me it’s a metabolism thing. I have a high metabolism and it gets worse at night because of the whole rest and digest thing. It’s also genetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:29 PM |
| 39 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Me to…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:27 PM |
| 66 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?You will. My dad showers before bed but he turns into a furnace when he sleeps. He sleeps in boxers because of this. Stains the sheets every time. I shower before bed. I wear clothes when I sleep (shirt and pants) and still end up with a similar issue because I also turn into a furnace. Nothing I’ve ever done helps and im a clean freak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 107 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?I sweat when I sleep so my sheets kind of dull out after a while despite washing. It’s got to do with sweat and natural oils. I sleep dressed but still it happens. Men tend to get hotter at sleep in my experience so it’s probably just sweat and not actually anything they do on purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:49 PM |
| 5 | My colleague (27M) fasts almost all day so he doesn't have to cookWhen I left my ex, he had to learn to actually cook for himself. He never had to his whole life and suddenly he was having to figure it out because he lived alone for the first time ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:54 PM |
| 7 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.I dOnT knOw whY WoMen GhOst Me?! YoU ArEnT mAtUrE EnOugH fOr a ReLaTioNshIp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:51 AM |
| 15 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.Ha! I love it. I will keep that in mind. That said, I’ve lost almost all hope in men now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 26 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.I’m not on OLD any more. This sub has made me decide to never go back but in my desperate pickme days this was mr reasoning. That said: I’m sometimes way way to optimistic and I like to believe the best in everyone and then get irritated with myself when I’m proven to have made an error | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:45 PM |
| 46 | Why do so many women think they need violent sex now?Can I get real for a moment? Trigger warning I am working on getting over my desire for violent sex but it was a bandaid for other issues. My first time with anything sexual was rape. My next dozen where forced blowjobs and more rape. I was strangled when I left a guy once. Held down by one guy until I agreed to date his friend. I was degraded by that same guy. I’ve been hit and forced into a dozen situations and it messed me up. I dealt with this by “reclaiming” my body. I forced myself to have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 4 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerEwww ya… I didn’t think about that… I typically avoid OLD and I’ve known personally my last few partners. I will mind that as I start to look for a hvm going forward | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 16 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerI love that you included the STD tests. I like my partners to have tests no more than 6mo old, preferably 3mo old because of time after contracting sometimes messes with the accuracy. I have mine done yearly regardless of a new partner or not but if I’m ever asked for more resent I’ll go get tested. It’s a non issue to me to make sure my health is handled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:12 PM |
| 6 | Men believe that women exist solely for their sexual pleasure. Vet carefully - if he doesn’t appreciate women’s art/music/literature it shows what he thinks of you.My ex was like this. In fact, we listened to books all the time written by and staring women. Some of his favourite bands are either all women or led my them. That said, he has some alpha male issues which keeps him from being a good partner. He wants to fix everything and be “the strong rock for (me) to stand behind” rather than be a partner. So he’s close but no cigar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 37 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”The pandemic should have increased babies. The fact that we aren’t speaks volumes about what women expect during a relationship. Glad we aren’t settling any more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:13 PM |
| 11 | Dick does nothing for me.Girl! I feel this. It’s not painful or uncomfortable for me it just feels like nothing to me. I get the same comments about being tight but there’s is just no feeling. I get a smidge of pleasure, read not enough to seek it, when the guy is fully inside me but it comes from his body pressing against my clit not because they did something magical. I’ve stopped taking men into my bed if they can’t pleasure me. I always finish first, it’s a rule. I make them aware of my rule. I don’t finish, they do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 4 | If a person really wants to see you, they will make the time.I just meant that some of the dates I went on that was the goal the person had in mind. They had no other reason for the date, no interest to get to know me so my point is if your goal is ONLY to get girls in bed and you know that a relationship isn’t going to happen, be upfront. I want to know if this is a hookup before I go out. If it’s a true date then letting things go as they might is fine. My quote example was me not really knowing how to put that they just want a hook up or fwb type deal … | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 14 | If a person really wants to see you, they will make the time.Be open about yourself on text/calls. Ask questions that ice break the person. Make them feel comfortable talking to you and don’t force it. I don’t go on face to face dates with guys until minimum 1 week after I give my number which I don’t do until a few days after matching. If I feel pressured about my speed then I’m going to stop talking real quick and move on. Anyone who wants into my life for any reason (even if it’s for a day) needs to respect me and themselves enough to go at a reasonabl… | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 10 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t find wearing less clothes empowerment for anyone. The more revealing clothes were made for male benefit and not much will change my mind on that. Do I think women should dress like prudes? No, they should wear what they want. I just don’t believe revealing clothes are empowering when the male mind will sexualise you regardless of your intents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 22 | wow.No. I’ve learned that I need to make a list. Because I excused all the “one time things”. Now I make a list of oh it was just this and just that so I can see with clarity what’s going on. I plan to write the good stuff down to because I have a history with Lvm who aren’t bad to me but we never do anything good either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 19 | Peyronie's Disease (Permanently Bent Penis)I dated a guy with this. It bent forward. The back and tip would get hard but the middle would stay limp. It was awkward as he still felt entitled to my body | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:47 PM |
| 6 | How is this even a question??!!Girl... I’m a princess... I don’t offer to pay for dates. Not until the second one or unless we decide to do something lavish and I helped pick it out. After a time it’s my belief that the person who picks the dates should pay but I’ve not had many dates that would let me. In fact my ex (he’s sharing custody of my dog right now) still pays for her day care and takes her places and buys her things even though he knows it’s temporary. I am and will always be spoiled. Trying to force things to be s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 28 | But only if he can't go in dryI made a past partner by lube when I started anti depressants because he spit once and I felt so degraded and gross I stopped everything. I know that’s not what he meant to do but ew.... porn didn’t get that right dude, turn fake off and tune into reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:09 AM |
| 5 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.I was told the grossest thing growing up: all men watch porn and if they tell you they don’t, they are lying. Then I found my ex (who had some lvm qualities and some hvm qualities but I can’t get him there so I left) and he admitted he used to watch it and found that he lost his intimacy from it and his trauma growing up with his mom showed him that having a woman give him her attention and want to be intimate on any level they wanted was better. He didn’t look at pictures, didn’t watch porn, no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | That's on that - period.Yes! I had a LVM, 26 to my 19 at the time, decide we were in a relationship after 1 date and then got butt hurt when I went on a date with someone else. He found out when he picked me up for date 2 and called me his girlfriend and I asked when that happened. Being young and not as wise, that lasted 6mo before I wised up to his man child ways: we are talking Christmas wish list, with links including toys, collection items and robot house shoes he thought were silly. I blew a tire late at night he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Tinder Mistakes You're Probably MakingAs a girl on tinder: when I’m looking to get laid I still need to make sure I’m getting my needs met in bed. My first time accepting someone with anywhere close to this approach I had a hot guy in my bed and his dick was messed up. So now, I screen better myself. If my goal is sex I need a week and I need a date. I need him to work just a little to get me in bed and then we can have some damn good sex that way. But I’m not giving my number after 4 messages and I’m probably going to not want to b… | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 2 | What My Boyfriend Did that Made Me Chase HimMy best advice: if your looks aren’t all that, try being an actual good human being. I’ve dated guys in questionable looks and heights. The different? They had personality, they made me laugh they listened. I needed something to be physically attracted to them but when they weren’t perfect to look at they worked to be the best person I could date. The issue with this is that: it was all an act more often than not. They were not really this person who was funny and witty, they were someone else. … | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Can you date without the apps?Well that’s what it is lol I’m a solid 7 when I try to look good in my opinion. If I don’t try then it’s anywhere from like a 4-6 but I’m very hyper critical of myself | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Can you date without the apps?Yes, I found someone and, after 3.5 yes left so it’s been that long since I’ve tried but when I did that was my experience. I’ve had most guys want nudes from me. 10 seconds is an exaggeration of course, but it’s exhausting none the less especially when things are going okay talking. The men I meet when I worked jobs at restaurants/bars and coffee shops have been much more interested in learning me and only 1 had ever asked for nudes from me. So I’m not sure what it is about my online choices th… | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Can you date without the apps?As a semi attractive female who is good at getting male attention I agree. I got a nice head boost with all the men and then I looked at my messages. It shouldn’t be a ego boosts. 90% of the men I’ve talked to online are not the right men. They want nudes 10seconds after they match. Or want to call within 3 days when I’ve only spent a total of an hour talking to them. It’s too much. I have met some absolute sweet hearts on their too but were to far away for me to see or played nice until I met t… | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 07:45 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?I like going to fast food burger and then just hanging out driving or doing something like walking at a park and talking | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Girl gave an excuse before I asked her outGood luck!!! If you don’t mind my being nosy, keep us posted! | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:27 AM |
| 11 | Girl gave an excuse before I asked her outHail marry it! Just go for it. All or nothing and then you don’t waste your time on someone not interested | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How to connect with people through online dating?Hahaha I’m going to have to work on the girly thing. I’m usually 100% awkward all the time. I’m good at getting guys once they can get past that. | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How to connect with people through online dating?I get that. In w situation like that would you prefer the first where they just tried to make eye contact until you walked over or the second where they walked up to you? Ignoring for any negative reasoning that may have led up to that point. If they genuinely wanted to get to know you? | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How to connect with people through online dating?I’ve asked for guys numbers before. It seems to intimidate them a bit but I’ve had a few dates out of it. And I agree, it’s hard to get full understanding who someone is online | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | How to connect with people through online dating?As a woman thinking that one day I’ll get back to dating, I feel like in person is better than apps. As mentioned above: you match to either a) subpar people or b) people with so many options that you become subpar. I’ve 1 time, had success: the guy was very attractive on anyone’s scale and interested in a relationship. He tried to be friends with me even after I got in a relationship. I let it go because he was a bit shallow, way not good at the physical side of relationships and he stuck his t… | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 02:41 PM |
| 5 | My first cold approach today!One day I hope a guy does this for me! I think it shows guts and grit to do that!! Way to go and good luck with future attempts!!! | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | When talking to women, I feel like I'm walking on a tightrope with eggshells glued to the rope.Haha I told her and she already had 2 guys that were not available I’m mind | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | When talking to women, I feel like I'm walking on a tightrope with eggshells glued to the rope.I agree. I still need looks though. I have a hard time with a physical relationship if the attractiveness isn’t there. That said, if they are to hot then they become an air head and then I can’t handle it. I wish I had dumped my ex when the red flags started because my grandma found a really hot very smart and awkward anaesthesiologist for me to date but I wasn’t available. She’s got good taste and is great at picking men. She’s on my new find a new boyfriend committee. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | When talking to women, I feel like I'm walking on a tightrope with eggshells glued to the rope.Oh my gosh! This! So I’ve tried the dating scene a few years back, I’m usually very quick to move on and I don’t stay single for long. I’m working on that because I’m not as picky when I do this, I’m medium on the attractive scale. An objective 7 on a normal day. But the guys that I always find more fun to talk to are the ones who are real. Unless you come off as a creep asking about panties and sex partners, then usually it’s fine. I’m great at short term game but I’m hella awkward and after a … | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Skin Care For MenWorking at home it’s okay. The bloating, when I hydrate properly with electrolytes and such, is not so bad because my body doesn’t need to retain it as I exercise and keep drinking water. The unmanageable thing is that after I cross the 90oz threshold I get so hydrated that I feel dehydrated first thing isn’t he morning and I just want to keep drinking water. The needing to pee is pretty bad. I go once an hour at least as I drink 14-16ozs each hour so that’s a bit manageable. A funny story about… | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Skin Care For MenI have dry skin. I increased my water intake to nearly a gallon a day (hard when I work a desk job) but it helped immensely along with keeping my hands clean so that when I touch my face I don’t transfer any dirt or oils. As far as acne goes I just get a cooling cream face wash generically from the store. My friend with Excema has had some success with micel water and anything sent free and gentle | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 05:30 PM |
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