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Deneive/r/askFDS23/08/21 11:03 AM
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Deneive/r/askFDS06/04/21 10:54 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONDeneive/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:13 AM
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"I am no good for her, I didn't plan anything, i am a terrible boyfriend" "So excuse yourself and step up ? Make amends?" "SHE IS A BRAT EVEN THO I KNEW SHE WOULD BE PISSED OFF"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:07 AM
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I may be weird but that's the reason why I step up to learn more about cars, so I can do it myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:32 PM
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I totally agree. My "home" is more "my space " and "my hobbies" and "my future". It's not just about the place or the "outside the work time "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:37 PM
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Oh my gosh.. the candle.. it's.. the summum of looser Lvm Who does dirty jokes and want to objectify his girl.. oh daaaaaamn... At least the "cum rag" is clearly no pun in some cases for thoses loosers Who can't have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:58 PM
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I am from Europa. I don't know what a promise ring is, and it sounds child-ish. "A promise would be kept only from people Who believe in it", it sounds not like a gift but more like a manipulation tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:30 PM
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I would say: prevent family of they already saw the ex. Once, this shithead searched and reached my parents' house to "just have a little chat with me". They didn't open because I told them about the break-up. They only meet once in restaurant but this crazy did his research.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:37 PM
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Wait a sec. Il the appartement was left half empty, she possess the other half, right ? So if he moves in the appartement and split the bill.. she pays 3/4 ?????!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:11 AM
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UPDATE: we spoke about it today. I wouldn't go into a fight, so I didn't bring everythings on the table. The first point he mentioned was "he didn't wanted to waste the gold and he will not have use of it". I said that he could offer it to his sisters so the "family gold" would stay in his family. He agreed and surprisedly admitted he wanted to spare money on the ring for the next one (alliance). Thanks to your returns, I said that it will cost too much to redo a ring and that he will practicly …
/r/askFDS21/01/22 01:25 AM
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True ! However, if it's his family's ring, I feel it's.. like.. kinda creepy ? It's why I kinda prefer it melted.
/r/askFDS20/01/22 08:59 PM
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I prefer that he told me about it before i find out. Also, we talk a lot about marriage and I am not even sure that it is what I want.
/r/askFDS20/01/22 08:58 PM
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Your professional point of view is very welcome here
/r/askFDS20/01/22 08:28 PM
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I totally agree and that's why I "prefer " have the melted gold
/r/askFDS20/01/22 08:28 PM
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In Europe, some therapist perform for free through association. Maybe your country have one ? I began from this to a feminist therapist Who delay the paiement. Also, I would like to say that you are really brave to keep going and thoses bastards wouldn't have been strong enough to endure what you went throught. I admire your wisedom to push yourself up and to fight all thoses bad moment of your life.
/r/askFDS13/01/22 12:08 AM
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Exactly. Furthermore, lot of lesbian woman think bi are "trash" because they are not lesbian only and that they had experiences with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:36 PM
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The point is: if you do nothing, it will ease his way to do something to you. I am really sorry to say that: you can not resolve this alone and if the landlord is a d*ck, you will know you are totally unsafe and need to move.
/r/askFDS28/10/21 06:29 AM
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I am so glad to hear that. Keep going ! You are loved and you deserve better. You did well
/r/askFDS14/10/21 05:08 AM
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You are so strong, you need to rest first of all. You really should be proud. The previous comment said all. I would just add: is there any family or friend Who can host you ? If you have a work and he know the place, you should also inform (without saying much) the security/management. A colleague had her boyfriend coming to her work after break-up. She had a nasty reputation after that.
/r/askFDS13/10/21 02:27 AM
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You know what to do ! Let it be space for you queen
/r/askFDS06/09/21 12:47 PM
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Block, delete, move ! Congratulations, you have room to breath !
/r/askFDS06/09/21 12:45 PM
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Girl, it's not because it is higher from average guys that it is the "normal" average amount of help.. I would be the devil's advocate and say that you should talk to him more about what you expect of him to behave, and see his reaction. I truly think that there are some guys/men that want to become high-value and are on the path to it. So maybe it was just a small failure from him.
/r/askFDS06/09/21 12:11 AM
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Because thinking of a solution to help you was more effort rather than just taking you to dinner. Don't take it wrong: a Nice dinner out can calm and also be very nice to have. But not like this. This was cleary a d*ck move
/r/askFDS05/09/21 11:02 AM
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I think that it's more like "i tried to trust again and failed" . You feel guilty because in your mind, you didnt try enough. And that's bullshit. You offer him a way to be better, he didn't took the chance. Your answer should just be "okay bye" and moove on. Otherwise you will be stuck, and trust me, it's like a open buffet for them when they had cheated once. I gave my ex 4 chances. Yes. 4 chances. Well now i regret guving him so much of my time.
/r/askFDS05/09/21 04:37 AM
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And always the "i got my problems too", well, if you have a good relationship, you take care of your problems together, riiiiiight ? You propose to "fix the car" so to fix his problems even tho it's not even an issue at all lmao. What was his response to "fix your problems" ?
/r/askFDS05/09/21 04:28 AM
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Oh my.. I am so..so so so sorry for you. YOU did nothing wrong. If you feel ashamed maybe it's because you realised you were used and that you let that happend.. I had a previous similar experience like that. Honey, you didn't deserve this, you are worth the love and not this bullshit.. With alcohol it is easier to say that "he did nothing wrong" and "We agreed together". But the thing is: he did wrong, he should have waited you to be sober. The best way to feel better is looking at you in a mir…
/r/askFDS01/09/21 08:32 PM
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Thanks. Do you know how we can join after ? I hope it will not last long.
/r/askFDS01/09/21 08:04 PM
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Thank you for your answers. I feel better, and truly, most of the woman and men I know told me not to be too difficult or I'll be on my own with my computer and books.. It is not a problem, just.. I would like to know what it is to be with someone you can trust
/r/askFDS23/08/21 03:57 PM
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I can just agree with the previous answers. My family drove me also on depression about my look, my body and that i am not "a normal girl" (meaning I like machine and science..duhhh) What I'll advice you is also very difficul when it deals with depression: clean your room. It is as said in a previous answer, your oasis, your place where you decided. This place is your temple, you own it. 10 min a day, in the end of the week you'll maybe feel better as it did for me. To keep it in order may also …
/r/askFDS21/04/21 06:26 AM
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BIG red flag here.
/r/askFDS07/04/21 11:20 AM
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Yuuup fuck Brad and all thoses drama seeker ! A real friend whould bring it on table with lot of care about your feelings, not about social media and reputation
/r/askFDS07/04/21 12:11 AM
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I can not really express about the childhood and education but from what you describe it, you realised something was off, tried to find out with a therapist what it was and tried to improve yourself. You realised something: you needed to improve, something was wrong with your values. He realised something: he can manipulate and IT IS WORKING. So, why change ? Basically I don't think it's about childhood, maybe it's more about way of thinking, analyse, and stuff. All I can say is that you choosed…
/r/askFDS06/04/21 11:56 PM
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You are also right. It is really difficult because I am already "emmotionaly commited". I am affraid that even if pros are really worth it, the cons are too much. It is just that he doesn't seems to want to come as said in previous answers, and i can't blame him to want to take care of his career..
/r/askFDS06/04/21 04:10 PM
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That's what I think also. He was having interviews for jobs in my city so I thought it would work..
/r/askFDS06/04/21 04:06 PM
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Basically, he will look for jobs in my city from his parents because he doesn't want to be "a weight" for me to come search for job at my place...
/r/askFDS06/04/21 04:05 PM
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We spent 2 weeks together at my place. I already meet his Sister and parents but only by skype as i am not really confident to go to their house without more time with him. You are right, i feel like maybe he cherish to have a future or a girlfriend rather to enjoy to be with me
/r/askFDS06/04/21 02:29 PM
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It is a really good list of advices. I do mostly the same. You should also check the side door of cars you are going in (for uber for exemple) to check if the doors lock security for children is on or not.
/r/askFDS06/04/21 11:12 AM
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