Basically, my mom told me that she was happy that I went intelligent rather than beautiful because it was the best way in life. Ugh thanks mom..

Can't we do both ? Like be beautiful AND intelligent womens ?

Mens juge your worth on beauty, womens (pick me most of the time) juge also on beauty and looks. I feel like even if I am intelligent, I am not worthy. I KNOW i am fat, and i try to improve myself and be a worthy woman who can have high standard. But sometimes, I feel like it's worthless and it's to play the game of mens..