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| 16 | Beware of men who try to turn every discussion into an argument100%. Like, a standard in conversation is: Woman: "I like X band!" Another woman: "Ah, I do too! How cool!" Woman: "I like X band" Man: "Sooooo many women claim that but they never listened to X album" or "Theyre sooooo overrated compared to X band, which is way less popular" It's just so tedious. Of course there are many socially awkward women too, but the oppositional thing is most annoying loser guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 273 | My pre-FDS self would have gone with this. My current self unmatched him!Agreed, and it's also meant to kind of check you and scold you for even asking. If they get that pissy over asking for details then you know theyre going to be an argumentative douche for the duration of the relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:52 AM |
| 132 | My pre-FDS self would have gone with this. My current self unmatched him!Soooo lazy and entitled. Guaranteed it would have been some lame shit like walking around aimlessly and him hanging back while you buy yourself a coffee, or taking his dog to a dog park while you hang around, etc. Men like this never surprise you with a beautiful 4 course meal at a restaurant and tickets to a local play. It's always some pointless bullshit and time wasting. You dodged a major bullet OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 17 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussRightt!!!! 100%!! They want women to have visible abs which is unrealistic for 95% of women and means she has an extremely low body fat and is probably infertile, and will freak out over "her body is so tight" but then say women are too masculine... MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!! Femininity literally equals a higher amount of body fat- that's a major difference between the two genders. But men with huge man boobs want to sit around and lecture us about how we need to live up to the feminine ideal? 🙃 We l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 28 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussI actually completely agree with this. For the vast majority of women, the level of thinness women are expected to achieve in the media and by some men (the creepy ones that only will be with stick thin women) is not really good for the female body nor for fertility. Soooo many women who are very thin, thin in a way that's considered desirable by our modern day society, are told they have to gain weight when they want to have kids. This is what has always baffled me about the "it's biology!!!!" … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:26 PM |
| 8 | High value men are out there xRight... I'm like how is this being HV? Talk about the bar being in hell, if this is all it takes... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 01:17 AM |
| 37 | NYT advice column tells women to CoMmUniCateThis is why I dont trust libfem organizations. They advocate for the destruction of women but know how to cloak it in "empowerment" and woke terms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 28 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childAbsolutely BRILLIANT. We need to bring this up whenever men want 50/50 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 5 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were Exclusive1000% this is a huge part of this. And even now she's like making videos ordering her followers not to say anything against him (or some other native woman he was associated with who is now bizarrely attacking her) and blaming "white supremacists" for saying bad stuff about the guy. Like... tf? Why does she feel the need to defend this gaslighting loser/predator for literally anything? Any man who treated me that badly is not going to have me making any comments whatsoever in support of him. I b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 45 | Sad reality.It's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 312 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.Absolutely gross. Proof that a ton of these dysfunctional men come from pathetic pickme or just dysfunctional, nasty women. We cannot give other women an immediate pass or assume theyre "on our side" just because theyre also female. Plenty of them are just as degenerate and will team up against you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 66 | Dating a 24 year old is fine, but dating a 22 year old is UNACCEPTABLE, according to a man over 50.This is so funny. Men love making themselves out to be victims. He's this predatory middle aged creep and he knows it so he gaslights the situation into this "I'm the wronged party" sob story. Classic predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 3 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”Right, exactly!! It's also why they push for genres that are increasingly painful, violent, etc. They dont really want to see a woman enjoying it. They want to see her not enjoying it. And they will pretend to believe it when a pornstar is faking it but they can see through it and it (kind of rightfully) makes them lose even more respect for her. They know all porn is painful for the women in it. That's why, again, even though Mia has filmed hardly any videos, they continue to be the most popula… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 07:36 AM |
| 18 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”Yep that's what I'm saying. I've never seen any of her videos but I know that she's one of the most famous pornstars ever in spite of having only been in the industry extremely briefly with few videos. If she does look uncomfortable in all the videos, then logically, men must be turned on by that. A lot of them get turned on by women looking uncomfortable or "non consent" (aka rape) so to me this checks out perfectly I also think there's something particularly gross about the fake smiles and pic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:57 AM |
| 83 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.Why is he even asking about her coffee? Like does he just go up and interrogate random men about their coffee order? The craving for female interaction and entitlement is so strong... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.This is why I always side eye men who randomly go out of their way to mention their girlfriend/wife/fiance to me. Like... okay? No one asked. Half the time it's a kind of predatory way to either flip the tables on you (i.e. "I know youre acting distant and uninterested, but it doesnt matter because I have a girlfriend so I rejected you!") or predatorily get close to you, and as soon as you show interest, they would dump their poor GF to get with you. Or at least that's how i take it from my expe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:59 AM |
| 11 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”And yet she's probably the most popular porn star of all time despite having released maybe 5 videos? Which proves that probably the vast majority of men prefer her honesty in the scenes rather than the pickme faux enthusiasm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:28 AM |
| 6 | Heartbreaking…long con revenge plan by scroteCompletely agree. having a text is the saving grace and will, in all likelihood, prevent any arrest from happening in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:27 AM |
| 22 | Love is blind JapanThat reminds me of this video about what dating is like in China for Americans that I somehow stumbled across. This American scrote starting telling a story about how he got dumped in Costco. He said that the girl he was with wanted to take some photos in Costco (I have heard this is a thing in China, because it's like an American company or whatever) and of course our poor scrote was SOOOOOOOOOOOO embarrassed and humiliated that he would ever be asked to take a photo so he refused. Apparently s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:01 AM |
| 19 | Valentine's Field ReportThat is awesome. I agree, the most pathetic thing to see is Pickmes talking about "I hate Valentine's Day, it's so superficial". Like please. You know if you had a quality man in your life buying you amazing flowers and chocolates you would be singing a different tune! Glad you get to enjoy your lovely cake and life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:15 AM |
| 45 | Feeling Extremely Disheartened By My Mother Victim Blaming One Of Her Coworkers For Getting RapedI completely agree. How on earth your mom didn't stick with this girl once she was that drunk is beyond me. And now she's twisting the knife in deeper after this woman quit her own job just to get away from her rapist? Maybe your mother is trying to cover up the shame she feels for not helping this woman and protecting her as she should've. Anyway, I would definitely think about putting some distance between you and your mom. I am so sorry you've been raped. For your own sake, it's probably best… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:11 AM |
| 16 | This poor girl needs saving. Porn sick, limp dick... and abusive.You wanting me to stand side by side with PickMes who have put other women at risk and enabled the sexual abuse of a young woman is misogyny. You must have been really confused when you thought that this was the place to expect that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:21 AM |
| 51 | This poor girl needs saving. Porn sick, limp dick... and abusive.Right? I am baffled by these women staring this issue in the face and still being like "Huh? How do we handle this?" God, these older pickme types are so infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:59 AM |
| 86 | This poor girl needs saving. Porn sick, limp dick... and abusive.Honestly, it enrages me to see these X or boomer age women being such complete fucking dummies and failures to a young woman. Even without the verbal and emotional ABUSE going on, it is fucking traumatizing for a young woman to be in a sexual relationship with a man like this who treats her with such complete disgust and shame. And this has been going on for two years? This woman should be ashamed for being like "What do we do?????" about a situation that is so fucking obvious and is traumatizin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereYeah. I'm sure he's at major risk of that from whatever 20 year old model he's trying to lure into this shitshow.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 23 | Men are so inconsiderate.They truly are. I think it's very smart that youre avoiding living with one or trying to avoid it, because it's always men causing problems. I have lived in a variety of apartments and it's always the men getting in a bad mood and blasting Nine Inch Nails or playing their video games loud AF or smoking weed in their smoke free apartment or whatever else. Sure, women get in bad news, and maybe they'll play some sad music or something, but I have yet to see a woman with so little awareness of othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 11:21 PM |
| 31 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereOMG that is so freaking disgusting. Honestly something like that should be made clear to his employers. I bet he creeps on the young women who are unfortunate enough to work with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:07 PM |
| 49 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereAnd I also love that he specifies that they should NOT develop romantic feelings for him. Because I'm sure an early 20s, beautiful, statuesque model girl is going to absolutely fall in love with a much older, probably middle aged, degenerate and decrepit scrote that has been used and discarded for sex multiple times by both men and women. She'll have to do her absolute best to try not to catch feelings for this true prize of a Prince Charming... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:04 PM |
| 33 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereOne of the only things I kind of like about OnlyFans is that a lot of the subscribers are kind of protective/possessive of their favorite female "performers" and absolutely hate when they do scenes with another man. Belle Delphine, for example, got a ton of hate when she filmed a scene with her boyfriend. I'm not saying they have great motives for this, but it is nice that it means the girls on there have wayyyyyy less incentive to engage in degrading BDSM attempted murder sick stuff like this g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦That is SUCH a great point. I went on a date like that with a man when I was in my twenties. It was an expensive activity, not gonna say what, but he must have paid like $150 for each of us, and we spent hardly any of it talking, just doing the activity which took all our focus. All because I guess it was too hard for him to sit across from someone at a table and open up and have a conversation. I ended up going on one more date with him (cant remember what the second date was, I think another "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:35 AM |
| 15 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitHer response, which has kind of a vaguely scolding tone to it, is why it's mostly pointless to try to help pickmes. "Why did I do it? Because I wanted what was best for MY step daughter, as you can imagine." Like, girl- admit you're a sad doormat and go. You may have gaslit yourself into believing this is normal but you cant trick the rest of us. How sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:48 AM |
| 36 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.Hate when you get so stressed out that you accidentally rape someone 🤭 Oops! Just a side effect of the cortisol... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:37 AM |
| 49 | My friends “Thirst Trap Strategy”This seems like a really bad strategy and a good way to filter out HVM... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:35 AM |
| 21 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Right, it happens ALL THE TIME! Gay men know this. But men who are having sex with other men need to leave women alone. Because it hugely increases risks of STIs and disease. So they have emotionless, degrading, soulless sex with women like in the above OP but really fantasize about being with men. Happens constantly. IDGAF what they do but I know if you want to be sleeping with a man instead you better stay the hell away from my vagina | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | “I think about her as my daughter. I’m worried I might be physically attracted to her.”True, I have sympathy for the pathetic pickmes that were abused and low self esteem and stuff, but all empathy goes out the window when they destroy other girls' lives. Like this woman knows damn well that her staying with him gives him legitimacy, but she stays with him and allows him to prey on this chick through her. It makes me sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 24 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”LOL. Just a couple days after I said I consider a man who is into having butt stuff dont to him a major red flag and now this walking piece of shit wants his "prostrate massage". Seriously, I truly dont believe any genuinely straight HVM wants to be anally penetrated. Part of it is a lot of LVM have a "kink" for forcing women to do degrading/sick/gross stuff, like "face fucking" (I hate that phrase) which is incredibly painful, damaging to the throat, etc) because they get off on violence/pain/h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 116 | That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parksI started giving a cringe reaction type in public (I purposely ham out my repulsed facial expression) when I see pickmes and these sort of LV "dates"... LOL I do this too! And I will make it clear that I'm looking at the guy, not the girl, and like comically open my eyes in shock when he says something LV and roll my eyes at him and everything. The goal is to make the woman realize she deserves so much better and how embarrassing it is to be associated with a LV loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:46 AM |
| 46 | "The Tinder Swindler" on Netflix is a parade of red flags 🚩🚩🚩Yes. Lundy Bancroft talks about this. How the people who rise to the very top power positions are power hungry themselves, and they respect/understand/identify with others who are the same, no matter how predatory. That's why male and female judges will both side with abusers in family law court 9 times out of 10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 11 | Forever gfs be likeI always feel so embarrassed for the girls in these situations. Everyone knows she would say yes and it's him who doesnt want to commit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 7 | “I think about her as my daughter. I’m worried I might be physically attracted to her.”Okay but I have no sympathy for pickmes that sit by and enable abusive men. He literally tried to write a poster that says "give me a blowjob" to her and she sits by and lets it happen. Guaranteed this woman would never have even come had this been a single man, she probably thinks that because he's with a woman that the whole thing is legitimate and that the woman will protect her. This is the danger of pickmes- they have no backbone, so they enable disgusting predator men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Is it a crime to wear fake brand?TBH this is proof of what scrutiny and pressure most women are to be perfect. this is a beautiful, stunning woman that fits every beauty standard on the planet and yet she felt pressured to lie about her money/clothing. That's because nowadays the bar for women is sky high and the bar for men is so low. We put women under such immense pressure and then mock them if they fail in any way. If they choose to prosecute this that would make me sick, especially when men get away with such horrible crim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:12 AM |
| 7 | TW Abuse - Reality TV ‘star’ with criminal history turns out to be an abuser. We need to boycott trash series that enable these predatorsPretty much every man on this show (all the American men at least, and some of the foreign men too) are abusers. TLC knows this and continues to portray Big Ed's emotional abuse of women as funny and quirky! Absolutely trash show and network on every level. I cant even watch because it enrages me to watch these women treated so poorly by these disgusting men... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:18 AM |
| 20 | You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross”I know there are angry reddit scrotes who will say I'm kink shaming but for me it would be a red flag if a man I was dating wanted me to play with his ass. It's just totally gross. And add additional rapey vibes if they know you're grossed out by it (which probably 90% of women would be) and pressure you to do it anyway. The idea of touching a man's butthole is absolutely gross to me, especially cause men are just a lot dirtier than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:14 AM |
| 59 | Porn ruins menYep. I see a ton of men in the gym where I workout who have muscles but it's all covered with a layer of fat. They would allll describe themselves as fit, I'm sure. And plenty of men just say stuff like "average" to mean seriously overweight. Straight men that actually care about and do stuff to try to maintain a body that appeals to women are very rare.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 153 | Porn ruins menI'm thinking it means part time employment, but he refuses to word it that way and comes up with the absurd "50% unemployed" nonsensical statement because he's trying to make her look bad. Yeah, she's basically taking care of their kid and doing vitally important work for him and he's so ungrateful and entitled because it prevents him from being able to isolate his wife and intimidate her into anal and whatever else he wants. This is why they hate women with a strong family/social structure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:57 PM |
| 172 | Porn ruins menRight? I hate when people want to try weird stuff. 99% of the time it's the woman contorting herself into some weird, horrible position, never the man. It's like the woman putting her leg behind her back and balancing on her head and that's fun... why exactly? I'm reminded of a top porn star, Ariana Ch----- (not mentioning her full name in case lurking scrotes enjoy this) who said she had slip discs and BRAIN DAMAGE from porn. How does someone get that? from these weird, damaging positions scrot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 295 | Porn ruins menIf only you had an elevated and logical masculine brain, you would be able to understand their thinking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 180 | Porn ruins menPoint A is invalidated in scrote language by him mentioning how MIL lives with them, "nags" him (translation: hateful bitch!) and is "50% unemployed" (wtf does this even mean?). This is where they helpfully start building the narrative of golddigger towards any woman who gets ANY kind of financial contribution from them. Then everyone will pile on about how MIL is "using" him and all her valid points to him become null and void. Theyre so good at this victim playing... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 269 | Porn ruins menShe's never given me a surprise blowjob while driving 😔😔😔😔 You literally could not write a better parody. The audacity of these losers and their victim playing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:27 PM |
| 451 | Porn ruins menI love when men say stuff like "She's been WITHHOLDING anal from me since we met". Those little sentences reveal so much. As if anal sex is something he's just innately OWED from his partner for existing and her not giving him sexual access to her ass is some kind of crime. Like she's a thief who stole something from him and won't give it back or a boss who refuses to hand over the final paycheck. It's all so antagonistic, hateful, and entitled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:24 PM |
| 312 | Porn ruins menI really never trust men who say things like "I'm neither fat nor skinny". Translation: I have the body of Seth Rogen with a huge gut and love handles, but women want to have sex with him in Hollywood movies, so what's the problem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantIt's so hard to understand...it's almost like... humans dont want to be insulted? 🤔🤔🤔 But no, that's can't be it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Male degradation/shaming after sexual encountersHe slept with her DAUGHTER?!!!?!?!?! Um.... WTAF!!! This is not a LVM- this is a NVM and sick predator!!!! What the f? I am absolutely horrified, disgusted, disturbed, etc....OMG. Absolutely horrific. I hope the daughter/mom got counseling after running into that pathetic scum POS. Dear God. 😱😱😱😱😱😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 06:31 AM |
| 93 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Welcome! So glad you can join us over here :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:57 AM |
| 87 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Exactly. He literally contributes NOTHING other than stinking up the place and devaluing the items so she cant even resell them. He's such a pathetic scrote, I doubt he showers often and the couch will probably smell bad with his BO rubbing off on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:57 AM |
| 132 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂WTAF. This is why dealing with low value men is so pointless and degrading. Most of them have like no social value to lose anyway, because they look like shit and everything thinks they look odd/weird/off anyway, so they have no problem causing a scene and embarrassing their GF or wife at checkout. They have no social value to lose so they take joy in chipping away at a woman's inherent social value by acting like a pathetic clown. I'm sure he deliberately planned to make a scene at checkout so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:55 AM |
| 12 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?Definitely. He basically admits he's going to try to coerce you into doing something with your body against your will? WTF?! Take this as the major red flag it is. He is not supportive or loving to you in the way you need a life partner to be. Time to cut the losses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 111 | Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why??I second everyone here saying that men have some kind of sexual jealousy of tampons. I was just thinking today of some reddit thread from some disgusting older scrote who had his son's girlfriend visiting overnight or something and when he discovered she had thrown out a used tampon/pad in the trash he flew into a rage and told her that there were "teenage boys" in the house (??????? how that means tampons cannot exist in the same house I truly have no idea) and that it was "inappropriate". Tran… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 34 | Today I watched a scrote make a pickme pay for all the groceries and then load them into the car herselfThis is so sad and IMO a form of abuse. Like when dudes just do NOTHING and put all of it on the woman, it's just so destructive and exhausting and exploitative. It's also crazy how these women seem to all share this certainty that women are coming after their NVM. Any woman with a backbone wouldn't be jealous of some loser male squeezing every last drop of life force out of a woman, if anything we pity her and laugh at the competitiveness. Like competing for what? A literal piece of garbage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:27 AM |
| 169 | Scrote is trying to take his date to a storage unit to make her clean it!Imagine if they heard about this during the victorian era. Like instead of reading poetry and sending letters and giving gifts that they knew men would be "courting" women by expecting to clean up filthy storage rooms filled with rotting food. What would they think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 162 | Work is only okay when I (the man) benefit from seeing woman naked and abused. I’m sorry what???? Sex work is abusive towards women.These selfish men show their self centered hatred for women when they make posts like this. So, when it comes to a discussion of Walmart workers, are they going to tell the people saying what Walmart is doing is fucked up to shut up? That if you say Walmart workers shouldnt be subjected to exploitation, that you hate them? Would you prioritize the voices of the small group of extremely privileged Walmart workers who say they love it, like a girl from a wealthy family who's doing it for extra mon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 35 | Today I watched a scrote make a pickme pay for all the groceries and then load them into the car herselfThank you so much, this is so helpful!! Okay, I'm so glad I didn't post the pic then. I already received one "report of self harm" from reddit since angry scrotes cant send me messages on here. It's sad we have to be so careful but yeah... every woman posting on this forum needs to be extra careful with all the stuff we share! These LVM hate us so much. Still share, but dont post photos and try to change minor details to throw things off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:50 AM |
| 70 | Today I watched a scrote make a pickme pay for all the groceries and then load them into the car herselfRight? And I must say I was looking good. I had some important stuff going on at work today so I took extra time on makeup and it looked amazing. Hair was done, nails done, with an expensive purse. Not trying to brag or anything, but it was just such a contrast for me. Actually the check out girl was like young- teens or maybe extremely early 20s... and I felt like she was kind of checking out my purse and makeup and looked impressed. I can only hope it provided a contrast for her- you can be a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 104 | Today I watched a scrote make a pickme pay for all the groceries and then load them into the car herselfYeah. They should stop projecting their insecurity onto other women, and realize it's stemming from their intuition that their man probably IS checking out other women and WOULD cheat if they could. Like, no one is checking for 90% of these loser men. No woman is salivating over your man who has a Backstreet Boys hair flip and cant pay for food. It's HIS energy you're feeling, not women's. As far as the photo, IDK for sure cause I'm not tech savvy but someone said once if you post a photo from y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:56 AM |
| 87 | West Elm Caleb: Women Warn Each Other about LVM on TikTok, Patriarchy Immediately Freaks OutWon't you please have some compassion for the man randomly sending women dick pics without their consent? Why are you so cruel as to have no room in your heart for a serial harasser and gaslighter of women? Of course, no compassion needed for his female victims though... just ignore them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:05 AM |
| 195 | Today I watched a scrote make a pickme pay for all the groceries and then load them into the car herselfAlso, sidenote, this is what many of the pickmes bragging on facebook about how incredible their man is are up to. You could tell, from the way she was standing right next to him and kept looking over at me, that she really thought he was this amazing prize so many women are after. All to pay his groceries and do manual labor for him. The pickme pathology is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 85 | West Elm Caleb: Women Warn Each Other about LVM on TikTok, Patriarchy Immediately Freaks OutI honestly love all the pickme, scrote-enabling trash women who are being exposed for what they are. Those women have risen through the ranks to be big names in the publishing industry- why? Because the male predator type men at the top absolutely love these enablers. They know these women are weak willed, desperate for validation types and promote them through knowing they will spread/normalize pickme behavior. Taylor Lorenz is another great example of this. So is their entire staff of so calle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 29 | UPDATE: on 46 y/o coworker claiming to be 34.My guess is they probably could tell. I knew someone who lied about her age and said she was 2 years older when she was about 10 and it was fairly obvious. I kind of believed her at first cause who cares but a quick google search will reveal most people's age. With someone who is trying to shave off 15 years that is going to be pretty obvious, physically and also in terms of their vibe, cultural references, attitudes, etc. Also he's like in his late 40s claiming to be a millennial and so much ch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 49 | UPDATE: on 46 y/o coworker claiming to be 34.Then he goes on to say that he's been dealing with people overreacting about his age for years But I thought according to him that everyone thought he was so young and bought his story hook line and sinker? Now he's saying that multiple people have brought up and noticed his lying and deception? Wow, he lies about everything, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 67 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantShe literally didnt even kid, she hit a full grown adult man twice her size with an extremely light slap to the face and he rained down punches on her. It's just men who love seeing a women beat up, brutalized, and traumatized. They just love throwing out the "she hit first" defense, no matter how flimsy, to pretend like they dont brutally hate women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 107 | DAE have a visceral negative reaction to Hinge’s social media ads? Who are these meant to market to? It can’t be women.That's because these apps know that their #1 demographic is men and that's who they cater to. Men make up literally 80% of tinder's population and probably like 99% of the paying users. Men are way less intelligent than women, so as long as they have one fake porn bot messaging them a week, they're happy. Bonus points if they can strike up pen pal status and get validation from some random lonely pickme looking for attention, hence them sending lazy/rude first messages. Most men nowadays are jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 70 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantYep. Theyre always trying to come up with excuses for their mistreatment and violence towards women. "We dont want to see women getting beat up, we only upvoted it because she... she... um... attacked a child! Yeah! She attacked a kid!" It's absolutely disgusting how much they lie and gaslight even with video footage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 57 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantRightfully so. Posts like this are why I openly carry my pepper spray in hand for everyone to see when I'm walking around in public. They want to be violent towards women all the time, well theyre gonna get a fight from me at the least. It's really frightening nowadays | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 5 | How to reconcile with the fact that my brother doesn't support the FDS strategies, although he is an HVM?No offense but I really think we all have blindspots when it comes to our siblings. Like, it's nothing to even feel bad about, but just know that it's obviously your brother. You saw him when he was young and crying when he skinned his knee, youre obviously going to have a soft spot for him. Which is fine! But if he's putting down FDS strategy then he's probably not HV. HV men dont blink an eye at FDS stuff. We want to see the best in our siblings, which is great and he probably treats you diffe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 98 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantLiterally nothing in this world makes them happier! The post before that was "Men of reddit, what will it take for men to get equality?" or something like that. I mean, you couldn't make it up, it's a parody at this point. Like these reddit men are so truly delusional and low value that it's actually shocking (keep in mind I was totally logged out, just checking the general front page) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 07:26 PM |
| 104 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantSo pathetic. I actually love when they take that advice because nothing will sabotage you faster then doing MRA/PUA stuff. It's a really easy way to sort out the absolute losers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 07:05 PM |
| 197 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantBTW I also love the title... LVM love to play victim and it's one of their main tactics. That is not a "kid" it is a full grown adult man and he is basically beating the hell out of an old woman. They are always playing around with language to justify their depravity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 119 | Facts Dont Care About Feelings: Study reveals men and men alone are worse off when theyre alone or suffer from divorce/breakups. Women are unaffectedYeah they always have to couch these finding with some kind of "poor men" copout. The reality is men are doing worse because women do fucking everything for them and they have to deal with it themselves. Women do better because theyre no longer doing all the labor of every kind for another human. Extremely simple! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 03:03 AM |
| 46 | Facts Dont Care About Feelings: Study reveals men and men alone are worse off when theyre alone or suffer from divorce/breakups. Women are unaffectedThat's why I love turning that phrase back on them 🤣In the comment section of the article theyre all trying to deny it's the truth because they dont feel like it should be!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 35 | Facts Dont Care About Feelings: Study reveals men and men alone are worse off when theyre alone or suffer from divorce/breakups. Women are unaffectedThe fact is most of the time women are doing a massive amount of emotional labor and men do hardly any at all. Women tend to exhaust themselves in relationships because were highly empathetic, meanwhile men mostly give nothing. So when the relationship ends for a woman it's a relief and a health BENEFIT- for men, it's the end of free labor and a huge detriment to their lifestyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:35 AM |
| 27 | This is what people on reddit consider "heartwarming"-women doing all the emotional and physical labor for men while they have breakdownsRight now it's got 36 THOUSAND upvotes. Men really love female labor. How is this any different from the housewives in the 1950s who were expected to do everything for their man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 59 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseThis is why I truly think it would be a fate worse than hell to be married to a manbaby. They seem to, at every single turn, want to be the victim, want to be catered to, want to start arguments, want to be petty, want to see the worst in the woman theyre around. Zero empathy, zero compassion, zero even ATTEMPT to see her side of things. It's truly pathetic and revolting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 97 | This is what people on reddit consider "heartwarming"-women doing all the emotional and physical labor for men while they have breakdownsAnd these kinds of posts seem to make up the majority of these "uplifting" kinds of subreddits. Just places for LVM to go to gloat about how they found a woman to break their back for him. No concern for the toll on the woman in question, of course. I would love to see the reaction if a woman was constantly making posts about how she lazes around and does nothing while her boyfriend does everything for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:57 PM |
| 53 | This is what people on reddit consider "heartwarming"-women doing all the emotional and physical labor for men while they have breakdownsYep, they will totally look down on you. They'll totally use you for free labor under the guise of love in the meantime though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:41 PM |
| 0 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorSorry, I havent been on in awhile. Youre really the only one who had a massive issue with this, and I stand by my point that not everyone on here is high value. Most of the women who agreed with me are women I massively respect who seem to have high value and intellect. We're just gonna have to agree to disagree and acknowledge the fact that there are multiple types of people who make u FDS, including people we wouldn't respect, admire, look up to, or want to hang out with/spend time with in rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:31 PM |
| 0 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI'll agree with you that there was a total lack of quality TV in the mid 2000s, however, I am not even talking about the extreme examples of misogyny that we saw then, and instead, a more insidious kind that tends to prevent itself as empowerment. And a lot of less intelligent, IMO, women fall for it. I felt like the post got the kind of feedback I was expecting, with a lot of gullible women disagreeing and a lot of smart/older women confirming me and saying theyd observed the same thing. I thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:53 PM |
| -1 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorMaybe but it's definitely a trend overall seeing women move from their feminine energy into a kind of tomboyish look, and again, correlated with the general expectation of them not demanding any of the HVF stuff from men. So i personally think it's important and a kind of visual summation of what I'm talking about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:55 AM |
| -7 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorThat's true but I personally love how she exudes feminine energy in the earlier spiderman, including her clothes and the general "goddess on a pedestal" vibe that everyone treats her with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 0 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorOkay.... and contrast that to the 2002 film where Peter is literally in love and obsessed with Mary Jane from the day he met her. Where he will literally do anything for her and thinks of her as an angel. I am not even singling out Spiderman as the "worst" representation of women. I seized upon it as a convenient direct comparison of how relationships have been portrayed in the media in the early 2000s vs now. Early 2000s was urging men to put women on a pedestal and do anything for them, and no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 0 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorAww that's really sweet! I get that. I definitely prefer the romance films or just like dark intellectual films over action films, but I get that they can have their charms at times. Especially when you have those awesome memories with your dad! To each her own, as long as you enjoy them then it's all good with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:59 PM |
| -1 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorOkay so that seems like that makes it even worse, lol. So she's totally forgotten in the first film, and again, just proves my intuition that she's treated like a doormat in these films. And a pickme who's waiting for him to notice her. Awesome. Totally HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:57 PM |
| -1 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorNone of the HVW I know IRL watch Marvel films but I'm glad for those of you who enjoy them. Just not what I've observed from looking at the demographics. It mostly seems to be the typical video game obsessed LVM types who love them. But I'm sure there must be some HVW who enjoy them too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:18 PM |
| -3 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI'll have to take your word on that, because I havent sat through a Marvel film in years and to me theyre boring LVM entertainment. Sitting through these clips was about as much as I could take, and I unfortunately had to watch a lot of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:17 PM |
| -2 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorRight!! Thank you! Like I'm genuinely baffled by the comments being like "This is in high school!" Like... and? Dont all of the Spiderman movies begin in high school? Yeah, I actually wouldn't mind her appearance, I mean it's obviously Zendaya so she looks gorgeous regardless but i just feel like they went out of their way to like take away all her shine, personality wise and looks wise too although it's kind of hard to make Zendaya unattractive, but I feel they really tried 🤣 Basically they mad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:16 PM |
| 0 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorOkay. I'm genuinely not sure how that changes anything, lol. And she does look desperate from all the clips I saw, whether that's reciprocated or translated as a major love interest, I have no idea. But I think it would be obvious to the vast majority of people watching, unless they were exceptionally bad at reading social cues. I mean it's obviously set up that way. Anyway, you seem like a huge fan, so maybe it's better to agree to disagree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorBut it's not based on completely false grounds. I'm sorry, but I find it genuinely disingenuous to suggest that there are somehow all these other scenes that would completely alter the dynamics of all the interactions between MJ and Peter in the Spiderman films. That's just... impossible. Of course theyre going to reveal the relationship dynamics mostly in scenes between the two of them. Again, the fact that LVM LOVE this relationship should provoke some deep thinking into why that is. I get tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:56 PM |
| 3 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI knew he recognized him from somewhere! Gosh the men were so gorgeous back then. Like they really cast gorgeous guys in every role. I never appreciated it at the time but looking back now, it's crazy how many of those men are still the top sex symbols, like 20 years later! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:09 PM |
| -1 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI'm not hating on Zendaya, but I am hating on the dynamic they created in the films. She does come off as a doormat from the things I watched. The Kirsten Dunst version is hated by LVM for a reason, whereas Zendaya's is beloved by them for a reason. I think a lot of HVW will get what I'm saying in this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:07 PM |
| -2 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI dont really care about appealing to new people or haters, LOL. They;ll always be offended and we are never going to win them over, and it should never be the goal. This is mostly for philosophically minded HV women who will know exactly what I'm talking about. I did all the research I need (or cant stand to) by watching all their scenes together. I dont need to watch Marvel films beloved by LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorYes! And the astronaut is like hot AF, rich, tall, ripped. I was literally watching with a dropped jaw because I was just like- a scene like that would make men nowadays so totally enraged. Which is probably why they hate that sequel so much, like you said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:44 PM |
| -12 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorYeah but the whole point of the third film is he's taken over by some evil entity and not himself. It's literally like a villain version of himself so of course he's going to have LV behavior. A lot of people supporting the recent Spiderman films seem to say stuff like "She actively helps Peter however she can despite not having superpowers, and they look more like partners." That's what I'm talking about. It used to be men wanted to step up to give their girlfriend the world, now it's like they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:42 PM |
| -2 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorLOL. This is not me writing a college dissertation, it's making an observation of pop culture for reddit! I watched every single scene of the two of them together, which I think gives a very full perspective of their relationship. I just dont see how or believe that there's any added context that could change the sad pickme dynamics of this relationship. Women deserve way better than the sad little interactions I saw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:29 PM |
| -2 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorWell first of all, it's a FDS pop culture observation, not a term paper. I think sitting through ALL their scenes together is more than enough research and not exactly believing how other scenes without the two characters would have radically altered the dynamic that I saw. I love more diversity in casting but when it comes at the expense of the woman having dignity, respect, and power in the relationship, then that's not FDS to me. They could have easily made Zendaya have the kind of high stand… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorYessss!!! That's so true and exactly what made me start thinking about this and caused me to look up the clips of the recent Spiderman. I couldnt figure out why they hated on Kirsten's MJ SO MUCH in comment sections until I decided to look up the recent one... and it all made sense. You put it PERFECTLY, probably much better than me. With Kristen's MJ he had to really step u and even then it wasnt always good enough for her. Zendaya's MJ seems to be doing everything possible to be as least intim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:23 PM |
| -6 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI mean I'm not gonna watch the films but I can tell you guys really like them and that's totally fine. I'm sure there are some great points about the films and MJ does seem really smart, which is awesome. I more picked Spiderman as just a random example of how low effort behavior from men is enabled and encouraged in recent films and how jarring it is to watch stuff from the early 2000s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:55 PM |
| -5 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI did do the research of watching all the scenes as well as reading the comments from lots of lame youtube men about how much better this MJ was, which was what made me suspicious to watch it. I just have no patience for these marvel films, there are too many LVM obsessed with them so I just dont have the patience for them. The clips were more than enough! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:53 PM |
| -9 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorNo disrespect at all, I just have zero interest in these Marvel films except for a cultural understanding of it since sooooo many men are obsessed with them. But I really just dont get how that changes anything? I mean... I saw all the clips of them together so I really cant get how watching anything else would alter what I saw.... I mean unless some nefarious youtuber CGIed it or something, all the scenes were real and didnt need extra explanation or anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:52 PM |
| -4 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI mean... I just dont see how anyone with that kind of schedule where they literally are hanging out in detention for no reason whatsoever would seem busy or hard to get ahold of. It just doesnt check out for me. And from all the clips I saw, again, she made a lot of comments alluding to really liking him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:44 PM |
| -8 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorIn the clip I saw she literally said she has no friends and also ended up going to detention even though she wasn't actually in trouble, and she explains it with saying that she "enjoys watching sad people". And of course Peter is there. Maybe I'm missing something but that's hardly the kind of life I would describe as full and busy. She seems very witty and smart, but she also said multiple times in the clips I saw that she was the only one who noticed Peter and seemed to have memorized his sch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:35 PM |
| -7 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorOkay. You seem like a big fan of Marvel, so I'm not gonna argue with you too much cause I doubt there's a point and IDC about Marvel, just talking specifically about these films. I just think, regardless of whatever other plotlines they had to fit in, they could have made MJ as much of a busy, demanding, hard to get woman as she was in the original films. And this isn't just about Spiderman- it's something I've noticed in a ton of films, this is just an easy way to contrast films that have like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:15 PM |
| -15 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorShe's definitely not dating LVM. That dude was like a super hot astronaut who was super rich and treated her really. In the movie there was no LV behavior whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:12 PM |
| -6 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI literally have not seen any of the recent films, I just watched the MJ/Peter clips on youtube so I had no idea about all the men lusting over Aunt May, which is definitely cool (although it's also nice to see way older women who are given power/status without having to be sexual at all, ala the original Aunt May). But the whole "everyone around Spiderman helps him" thing is what I'm talking about. In the 2002 Spiderman, Peter is the one helping himself AND helping MJ all the time. Now it's fli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:12 PM |
| 0 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorThank you so much!! Yeah, it's sad. Like seeing someone as beautiful as Zendaya having to bum around in like dishevelled sweatpants for two movies is just kind of sad and needlessly degrading to me, especially when contrasted with how Kirsten was treated. I feel like there is this huge pressure against women seeming "high maintenance" nowadays and it's LVM low effort behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:08 PM |
| -6 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorOh certainly, i was never saying that in this movie MJ is encouraged to date down. Tom holland is definitely cute. But I think that, again, I'm specifically talking about the dynamic where MJ seems to have nothing else going on in her life except her relationship with Peter. Whereas the other MJ was allowed to be this extremely vibrant, busy, active woman and Peter was basically competing for her attention. I feel that dynamic never happens anymore, and again, it's encouraging PickMe stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:06 PM |
| -24 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorAnd FWIW, I'm not saying like teenagers should be dating wealthy businessmen or w/e. I'm really talking about the dynamic of MJ being this kind of desperate doormat sitting around waiting for Peter in these films. Whereas the original MJ was allowed to be demanding, somewhat flawed, and what incels would call "hypergamous" (I hate that term but it's the only one for the vibe I'm describing). The original MJ is a total "ruthless strategist", whereas this version of MJ will basically take whatever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:37 PM |
| -18 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorSo in the original spiderman film, theyre in high school as well, but again, she's still dating an extremely attractive guy, seems to be extremely confident, does what she wants, etc. Obviously I dont expect them to act like adults- theyre teens throughout the 2002 movie as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:32 PM |
| 12 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorI know. Every time there was a cool trajectory for a woman in a film all the stupid LVM complain about it, and now we get women acting like the doormats that all LVM want. There are no more HVM movies of men stepping up for wome. And the creepy Holywood execs do it all on purpose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:43 PM |
| 18 | The change in Spiderman films reveals how men have normalized and encouraged pickme and LVM behaviorRight! It's because these young guys are intimidated by any woman in her goddess/feminine energy. They can only get turned on by a woman with like low self esteem, no other options, who's desperate for them. It's so gross. And they managed to do it to a woman who looks like Zendaya, which is just... wow... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:41 PM |
| 27 | As I was reading this... I was thinking "He must be significantly older than her." But she handled it perfectly. 💅 👑🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮 What a disgusting pig. I love that the young girl totally iced him out though, instead of trying to be friendly like I would have at the age. I am living for this trend of young girls openly showing disgust to the creepy predator older men that approach them. I wish I was brave enough to do it, going to try to work on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 25 | AITA cringe age-gap but the comments are telling her to wake up, dump him, grow upIN all honesty it's so creepy but a lot of LVM treat their daughters almost like a wife or ex wife. Every woman that has the bad luck to be close to them gets roped into their emotional support needs and narcissist supply needs. It's very sick and dysfunctional. Honestly, holding hands like that in front of his obviously uncomfortable daughter makes me think he did it on purpose because he wants his daughter to be uncomfortable. Often they project qualities of the ex wife onto the daughter and f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:41 PM |
| 53 | Meagan Good and Devon Franklin Divorce. Accusations of Negging and Emotional Abuse/ Control Games on His PartOkay WTAF is that clip? I mean, seriously- what in the hell? He's pinching literally nonexistent "fat" (is there even an ounce of fat on her stomach? Looks like he literally couldnt even grab a bit of skin or anything) and meanwhile his dad bod stomach is bulging into his jean shirt and he has the audacity to say "she's getting me a new body for her birthday, lolol". What in the emotional abuse hell? You need to be the one hitting the gym, sir- she clearly has more muscle development than you an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:40 PM |
| 53 | My FDS post gets shared across another sub, and now my inbox is flooded. HELP.LOL girl dont even worry about these losers. Dont let it get to you. They are impotent and pathetic and not worth a second of your time. I've had it happen to me multiple times- these guys are stupid AF and have the attention spans of gnats. Just ignore them. They are so beneath your time. Trust me, if you could ever meet them in real life you would laugh and feel sorry for them. Look up pictures of reddit meetups if you want to see what you're dealing with (Lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 5 | OP asked for advice and naturally everyone gaslit her into thinking she was at faultLOL. And this same clown will be posting about how her husband left her in like 1 year on the same subreddit. Totally pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 07:09 AM |
| 12 | (long) fascinating Buzzfeed story about stalking and harassmentWhat a fascinating read, thanks for sharing. These disgusting, predatory, horrific men need to face bigger consequences for this. It horrifies me that this man, who has a lot of money and power, could victimize other women, especially ones without power and supportive parents like this. Like there are so many teens trafficked into sex work sex slavery and this is exactly the kind of client. It's just so horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:54 AM |
| 190 | Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies.Completely agree with you. How did "I like to choke women" become "he has a kink" instead of the rightful "This man hates women and is a serial killer." Waiting for dumb libfems to say that Ted Bundy was a misunderstood kinkster with extreme BDSM fetishes. It is so disgusting how they enable these predatory freaks. I completely agree with you that it's extremely triggering and frightening when a man puts their hand on your throat. I never had anything like what you described happen to me (so sor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 54 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himRight. It's not "I dont help with laungry" it's "I dont do laundry, dishes, cleaning." And when he's living alone, he knows damn well that if he doesnt do those things, they'll pile up. He's just lazy and entitled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:28 AM |
| 168 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himLOL. Your comment is perfect, it literally made me laugh out loud. I also love how he doesnt even attempt to come up with an excuse? He just keeps saying how he didn't/wont/cant do anything, and oh well. Like at least ATTEMPT to come up with some kind of reason for your pathetic behavior? That's how entitled he is, he doesnt even attempt to hide it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 18 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abuseOMG and now he broke up with her 🤯 Wow. He probably did this to deliberately because he knew he was about to leave her and didnt want to her to be able to get in another relationship. These "dom" men are so sick, evil, hateful, and truly disgusting. OMG. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 13 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abuseAnd I cant help but notice that she's fuller figured. So this "fun nickname" conveniently plays into a lot of the hate society/men direct towards larger women. It's so disgusting on every level. I guess it's okay to use an insult that people have known is f-ed up for decades now if you do it under the guise of being "empowered BDSM" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 02:57 PM |
| 25 | Scrotes still want us to wait on them and their friends, like we’re a restaurantTrue, not to mention CSA DOES happen. Single moms are expected (100% RIGHTFULLY) to vet, vet, vet to protect their kids from a boyfriend and not introduce them until a year in or so (I agree with this) because of the huge risk of CSA by... ding, ding, ding- men! But this dude is just inviting a bunch of random new work friends, presumably all men, to come over and chill at his house? Oh yeah, nothing risky with that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes still want us to wait on them and their friends, like we’re a restaurantA big reason this man probably doesnt want to cook for his friends is because of the perceived loss of status. This is where men benefit from women being the "underling" class- because whatever loser man who is the bottom tier of men out in the world, gets to parade around with his little female slave, having her cook/clean/wait on him when he's home. That's one of the reasons he LOVES bringing his friends over 24/7, so they can see this "master/slave" relationship up front. He wants them to see… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexSorry, just seeing this now because I havent logged in for a while. But that is truly disgusting and gross. He is so creepy. I guess you dodged a major bullet, my God what a disgusting pig he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 02:26 PM |
| 49 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexThat is so disgusting. The fact that they used pictures of a FOURTEEN YEAR OLD and presented it for men to jerk off to should be illegal. I'm sorry that happened, I cant imagine how totally violating. And the fact that he friend requested you- my God, he's really a predator. He needs to be locked up in a cell far away from teenage girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:55 AM |
| 12 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexHere you go: https://archive.ph/BVdmk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 99 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexI know. And these same men will go on and on about how women are "degenerate" because they had 3 college boyfriends, and will talk about needing a return to traditional values and morality. THIS is morality? THIS is non-degenerate? This is some of the sickest stuff I've ever read IN MY LIFE and the so-called morality brigade is out there defending it. It is horrifying how totally depraved modern LVM are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 99 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexA lot of these physically repulsive men develop this absolute hatred for women all because Sandy rejected them in 9th grade. It's pathetic. And instead of going to therapy they sexually assault and traumatize young girls. Sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 08:41 PM |
| 227 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexI presume that's why he goes after very young, barely out of high school kids. Because theyre young and naive and trusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 08:26 PM |
| 137 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postOr a good parent for that matter? Like men's dicks literally shrink in size when they gain weight, and they become less fertile as they gain weight. Women are at least supposed to be soft and curvy- men are supposed to be hard and muscular and yet they think WE'RE turned on by a morbidly obese man? Like you pointed out, they look about as far from a hunter/predator as possible, since they want to bring everything back to "caveman/evol psych" talk... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:57 PM |
| 184 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexAlso, LVM should never, ever be able to tell the lie that "we're the protectors!!!!" ever again when their reaction to the story of a bunch of teenagers being violently sexually assaulted is to laugh and mock the victims. They dont have a protective or good bone in their bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:53 PM |
| 191 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postThe other day I saw a post on some youtube video about some morbidly obese man saying "Men have a subconscious assessment of women as a mate and when we see a fat woman we know she wont be a good parent". Like... the level of lack of self awareness is just 😳 Absolutely incredible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:52 PM |
| 104 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexBtw the full article is linked here and major TW for women who have experienced sexual violence: https://archive.ph/BVdmk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:38 PM |
| 150 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Men's looks plunge rapidly in their mid 20s. If youd told me that by 25, 80% of the men I had crushes on in my freshman college year would be balding and pudgy with lots of abdominal fat and wrinkles from lack of skin care, I wouldnt have believed you. Meanwhile, a lot of the women I know, and ALL of the HVW, took care of their looks and look pretty much the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:43 AM |
| 28 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.LOL even their fantasies are so pathetically cringe. This is like a normal, random interaction that happens all the time for lots of people, and theyre jerking off to it. If they just acted like non-frightening, functional people, they could buy smoothies and have a pleasant conversation 24/7. I guarantee you the young girl in this scenario (I've been her) is just thinking, "Wow, I got a free smoothie, nice. That old grandpa was sweet" and that's about it. Theyre so pathetically socially awkward… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:42 AM |
| 606 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.Why do LVM think their antisocial personality disorder and lack of social skills is going to be endearing and cute? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:02 PM |
| 47 | Banned from r/dating?That's hilarious. I'm glad I never spend any time in those stupid male dominated and sexist "dating subreddits", I'm sure they would love to ban me and many others but they'll never have the option. What pathetic clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 07:25 PM |
| 17 | Please form the queue ladiesI love that he pretends he has these options!!! As if he can pick and choose from the thousands of women just begging from his penis!!! What a creative mind he has | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workLMAO this is INCREDIBLE. The funny thing is that the men spazzing out in the comments are surely the same ones talking about how they want a "traditional marriage". When the reality is THIS IS TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLES. The man providing, doing the work, doing the heavy lifting, the bill paying, the figuring it out, and the woman sitting back, tending to her own energy and the energy of any children they have. That's the traditional masculine/feminine dynamic, not the "woman as slave" weird shit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:32 PM |
| 29 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?To me it seems like men basically know theyre clowns and yet want to be treated like kings. Like you seriously want me to PRETEND to not be able to open a jar so you can feel strong? Um, how do you think I survive/get food 99% of the time, bro? Like this willful delusion and gaslighting that men WANT us to engage in is just such a turn off for me. It's like how short or weak men really want women to not wear heels or pretend theyre super strong. How about I dont feel like lying? How about if you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:09 PM |
| 124 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.Same. I prefer a dinner date, though I know some dont on here. But yeah, if theyre not willing to take me out to a nice spot and buy me food, to me, it says he doesnt like me that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:01 PM |
| 202 | I witnessed a man publicly threatening a woman today.So many men have so much contempt for women. They truly hate us so much and the number of members of subreddits specifically devoted to gloating and gleefully watching women being violently assaulted by men prove it. I remember in the very early days of reddit, I wasn't on reddit, but it was an article discussing the widespread misogyny on reddit and they linked to a subreddit about women being abused. This was like mid-00s I believe and the subreddit was glorifying it and laughing about it and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:08 AM |
| 76 | we hold SO Much power over men. even if you are partnered up already or not interested in a relationship at all, you can still empower women (and yourself) by spreading the fds messages.This is the best post I’ve ever seen in here. Thank you SO MUCH for summing it all up so perfectly. Now this is BASED and high level thinking!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 5 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.I didnt know that but that makes a lot of sense. I dont follow him that closely but someone posted the lyrics from Ghost to social media (AFTER I made this comment yesterday, lol) and I was like... um... hello? CLEARLY about someone who cant get over an ex. It's so funny how he pretends to be so in love with Hailey when its clearly not the case. I will never understand the thinking or behavior of LVM, it's just so stupid and crazy. I see a lot of LVM IRL doing similar stuff) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 11 | Men playing victimLOL. They are so crazy and entitled and out of control. They have zero social skills or awareness of other people and it's so pathetic... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:33 PM |
| 230 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Yep. And if you do get abused be them, you can be sure all their friends at the station will band together to protect him and royally screw you over. It's an absolute dystopian nightmare type situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:33 PM |
| 66 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Agreed! Most male lawyers I met were just douchebags that found a way to monetize it. It's a hard no for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:31 PM |
| 46 | Yep! Men are truly disgusting!I love this and completely agree! And exactly- I am probably more of an apologizer/over thanker, but I like to be that way and will continue to be that way. I used to go back and edit emojis and exclamation marks out of my texts because I know it comes off super feminine, but now I keep it. I have no desire in emulating the male way of doing things because 90% of the men I run into are selfish, incredibly myopic douchebags and the way they go through life is contemptible and also dumb. I'm alway… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:08 PM |
| 26 | Men playing victimThis makes a ton of sense. It amazes me how 90% of men's actions seem to have a manipulation/strategy reason behind it. They spend so much time being so Machiavellian with women, game and victim playing, doing mind games, when in the rest of their life theyre complete lazy slobs. I definitely felt like he was asking me to make some comment confirming how much I liked him. "Sorry I've been so busy, I love talking to you!" or something. In reality I felt my vagina seal itself right up and any prio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:45 AM |
| 6 | Men playing victimNot sure any of these apply to me or this situation since he has been actively trying to plan a meetup in person or arrange things to see me in person, and the other two seem to be about an entirely different situation. However, since I lose interest in men when they display beta victim behavior, I have zero interest in meeting up or having a real date. In this case I'm glad things progressed over text only because I was able to see this red flag without ever having to see his face in person! Wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:40 AM |
| 56 | Men playing victimThey really do it alllll the time. Like you said, they do it a lot on here with the "men have it so hard 😞, we cant even come up to random kids on the playground" schtick they love to do. Always victim playing. What gets me is their overuse of emojis? Like I love them too but tbh it gives me 13 year old girl vibes with men when theyre constantly doing them. Which- 13 year old girls are awesome, so no shade there- but I am trying to find a MAN to sleep with- not a little teenager who's feeling em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 45 | Men playing victimRight! I completely agree!! like the funny thing is, my only LVF/pick me trait is I have been gullible about believing men's sob stories in the past. Being compassionate I have been semi fooled by a boyfriend who pulled the "I'm so sad 😭" routine a few weeks into dating. But this fool couldn't resist and brought out the big guns like 6 texts into the "relationship", and it was an instant 'fuck no' from me. That's the funny thing about LVM- a lot of them are super dumb about it. Like if you had t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:28 AM |
| 64 | Men playing victimSo well said. And they want to be catered to like an emperor with his servant girl and they know the victim playing will do it. It's really manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:53 AM |
| 28 | Men playing victimThank you!!!! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:51 AM |
| 196 | Men playing victimLOL. That's kind of what I said. I was like "Yeah, I was." I'm sure he expected some long winded apology for hurting his feelings 😔🥺 Since then I've been giving basically one worded responses and I think he gets that he's being discarded. I have no desire in having sex with a LV beta loser who has an emotional meltdown when he has to wait for a few hours at a time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:33 AM |
| 129 | Men playing victim100%. Also get praised by other men. "Thank you, bro, for being so brave to speak on your feelings." It's such a pathetic circlejerk on their part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:31 AM |
| 90 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.I personally believe he's still in love with Selena and this is one of the reasons he married Hailey- a LVM way of getting her attention and getting "revenge". There are so many men that marry women that they dont give two Fs about just to get back at "the one that got away", then resent the woman they married because "she's not her." It's typical LVM stupidity and here it's on display for the world to see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 31 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with men100%. "Mental Health Awareness" for men seems to be "Please be aware that he's depressed and needs lots of support and probably sex 🥺 His love language is physical touch 👉🏻👈🏻Please dont judge him! 😭" "Mental health awareness" for women seems to be "Please be aware that none of your recollections are accurate and you should never rely on your own intuition because you are CRAZY 🛑And please apologize to everyone you've ever judged 😡". It's used, unsurprisingly, to elevate men and give them a pass … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 78 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menYep. Back in the day they called it "hysteria", now it's "she has BPD" or whatever. They know they have to throw in pseudo scientific terms now, but for centuries it was just the "she's crazy" line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 01:09 AM |
| 228 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menSo very very true. And a big part of the reason we internalize it as "I have anxiety" is because women get rewarded for that, even temporarily. "It's okay, I'm glad youre admitting it" (eanwhile they will use it against you behind your back). Meanwhile, if you actually call out these men for what they are "You make me uncomfortable because you're a violent predator" we know 1) they will go crazy and get violent 2) other men and pickmes will rally against us and oppose us, and we'll be completely… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:53 AM |
| 351 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with men"I see two toxic people" This is why I dont trust 90% of psychologists and certainly male psychologists. There's so much internalized misogyny in our culture, so many men hate women and so many women in therapy absorb that. There are some incredibly, talented, amazing, wonderful female psychologists (i love Dr Ramani on youtube) or male advocates (I really like Patrick Teahan on youtube) but there are so, so many who just are so quick to write off women. And because theyre in authority position,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 524 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menI think the worst part is that the police officers who showed up made her feel more alone. Maybe she would have felt comfortable calling the police for help, but when those cops showed up and threatened HER with jail because he had some scratches on his cheek, even though onlookers reported him pushing her, and her being upset was used as "she was mentally unstable", she felt even more trapped in the relationship and afraid to ask for help. And youre absolutely right about those police. They wer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:10 AM |
| 70 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsAbsolutely not. The day I will be paying for a man to stay at home and bond with the baby while my torn up, still bleeding uterus heals while I slave at work would be a cold day in HELL. It's actually a sick concept to me, like we're animals or something- give birth, back to work the next day. Women's bodies are healing, and we need time to sleep, to rest, as well as to bond with the baby. Additionally, I just think it's messed up if I pushed the baby out of my body but I'm also expected to shou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 751 | Imagine tolerating thisShe had such a powerful moment to say to the world "I deserve better, I deserve to be treated with love, I deserve a hot man who will respect me and treat me like a prize." Instead she stayed with him and made a whole album about all his cheating and then tried to dress that album up as empowerment. It's sad. A lot of women learned that it's okay to be a doormat from that. She could have dumped him and ended up with some gorgeously hot, sexy, also RICH businessman HVM but she stayed with him for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 73 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueOh yeah, totally agree! Too many women being too chill/relaxed about this stuff. Getting pissed and realizing it's a bad sign of entitlement early is the right course of action! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 315 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueRight, but then they will write some sad story on reddit about "My wife just abused me/screamed at me because I accidentally opened the door while she was peeing 🥺". ITA with you that there are so many men who LOVE violating boundaries, but the solution is just to dump the first time it happens. Or maybe the second time if you want to be really nice, but it's like whack a mole with LVM. They will constantly find new, bizarre opportunities to violate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:49 PM |
| 24 | Hiking aloneI've noticed they try to keep up with you too! I definitely do the "OMG, is that a bird in a tree?" trick as well, and just pause to wait for them to pass. If I feel really sketched I will take a phone call "Hey Eric- you're almost here. Okay, I'm about 10 minutes down the trail, should I walk back and meet you? Yep, by the little meadow area." Obviously it's hard to give landmarks when hiking but you list whatever you can. But yeah- it's sooooo annoying how they try to turn it into a walking co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:00 PM |
| 21 | Hiking aloneI think men know exactly what theyre doing but they do it on purpose to upset women. So many of them are just evil. Men post all day every day on here about "I'm so sad :((((( 😔 😞 😢 A woman crossed the street to avoid me 😫" which means they allllll know exactly how they feel. THey just PRETEND to be sad about on here because they know it puts a social expectation on them of being a good person and any kind of restriction annoys them, like a toddler. In the real world, they love it and get a grea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 116 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨This is soooo funny but I genuinely hate the way men derail our discussions about GENUINE male predation by creating chaos like admonishing us about word usage or whatever. Like they will do ANYTHING to keep us from holding them accountable, including trying to make women feel guilty about a random word or whatever. And then we end up defending that and not talking about the actual issue at hand. It is like page 1 of the predatory narcissist handbook and it's so fucking gross. Anyway, scrotes ke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:53 PM |
| 130 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨Not mad about a 13 year old child being sexualized, but mad about a grown male pedophile being called a name. Got it! #scrotelogic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 44 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.I think it's an excuse and a choice. If you're enabled by society that it's fine for you to stay immature forever then that's what you'll do if youre a POS. if youre a mature person, you WANT to grow and take on responsibility, and that's what all HVM do. It's the LVM that choose to spend their time doing the same stuff they did at 14, sitting around playing video games and watching sports and eating junk food. We all could stay stuck in that dysfunctional loop, it's just most women dont even ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 46 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.Yep. It's just so gross because sexualization of children is so, so damaging towards their development. The fact they are prioritizing their own sexuality over this child's literal LIFE is so disturbing to me. The sick, depraved selfishness knows no limits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:22 PM |
| 120 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.Isn't it so amazing how many grown men love to act like theyre children, like talk about playing video games all day or "not adulting" or making it a personality trait how they refuse to grow up and do chores at the age of 35? But females are sexualized and treated like adults from like 12 onward? Because sometimes when you post that a grown male scrote should grow up, you will get flamed by a bunch of pickmes and LVM with "he's just a big kid", "he's not harming one, he's basically still a kid,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 96 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.It's so disgusting to me to hear how quick men are to sexualize children. Like "all 14 year olds are sleeping around" and stuff- WTF?! When I was 13/14 I went and got my nails done and would wear semi tight outfits, but I was as innocent as possible. Sex was the LAST thing on my mind and my friends would have crushes on guys and never get so far as kissing them. This fiction that all 13/14 year olds, even ones that dress like "stacies" in fashionable outfits, are living extremely sexual lives is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 40 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the Victim1000%. And no one wants to talk about it because you'll be attacked by pickmes, libfems, and scrotes. HVM and smart women recognize and acknowledge this though.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 67 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimThe "is he usually pretty patient with you?" question from the cops enraged me. The phrasing of it implies that she's soooooo difficult to deal with, that she's the problem, that he's this sad, put upon martyr TOLERATING her craziness and drama. And that was super early in the interaction, and she's already crying and feeling super emotional and vulnerable which obviously makes it worse. It's sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 246 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?I think teenagers are easier to manipulate. I also believe SO MANY LVM scrotes are stuck in a cycle from high school. They have trauma from being rejected and disliked by girls in HS, and even though they PRETEND to grow up, they never really do. They have fantasies of doing stuff to finally win over that "high school cheerleader" that rejected them back in the day, hoping it will soothe that trauma wound, not realizing they need THERAPY (and also, your own trauma is certainly not an excuse from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 09:06 PM |
| 51 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimPathetic scrotes have the audacity to cry. "I'm so upset about all the pain and trauma I caused you! Won't you comfort me?! Poor me!" It's so predictable and so boring. Time and time again scrotes turn the other way for disgusting male violence. I just recently saw a horrible story about a serial killer in Houston who had all teenage male victims from low income families, and the families reported them missing over and over again, and the police just wouldnt take them seriously. The guy tortured… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 60 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimRight? Shouldn't they have arrested him for arrested him for attempted grand larceny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:29 PM |
| 117 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimITA. I felt the same. As soon as I saw the cop say to Gabby "My wife had anxiety-well, my ex wife, she's my wife for that reason, haha" I was like.... right, I know exactly where this is headed. This is the thing- soooooo many dudes on that police force fucking hate women and have resentment from relationships and whatnot, and come into their work with that extremely immature and petulant attitude towards women, and they basically ruin women's lives when they deal with them, because an arrest fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:06 PM |
| 77 | Men Telling on ThemselvesI completely agree! If men are going to start getting paid time off, then fine, but women should be getting double and triple whatever men get, because WE are the ones whose bodies need to recover and rebuild. It is so farcical and clownlike to compare a male's experience after baby to a woman's and yet men really have the audacity now to constantly act like "We need to talk about MALE paternity leave too" whenever women getting PTO after having a baby comes up. So annoying how LVM turn every co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 37 | NEVER 👏 STOP 👏 VETTING 👏If you look up art by serial killers there's a ton of them that do art and they all have that creepy "death cartoon" style. Like Dr Kavorkian, John Wayne Gacy, Richard Ramirez, etc. It's all the same creepy/ghoulish/cartoonish vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:45 PM |
| 78 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimTrue. I watched my June Cleaver, perfect SAHM mother be disrespected and blamed by police when reporting abuse, so truly, there is no solution other than to avoid dealing with LVM, including the police, if you can (obviously, if you're being seriously threatened or menaced, PLEASE call the police because that is 10000% necessary in the case and obviously the much better option), and creating a life far away from LVM who put your life in danger. The quicker you can identify it and remove yourself… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 110 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimThis makes so much sense. I never understood that "statistic" when we all know men commit 99% of violent crime. It also makes sense that men are happy and thrilled to actually follow through and write up a woman for DV for slamming a door, whereas if a man ever called in to report himself for DV for something as extreme as hitting a woman, the male police officer would probably pat him on the back for "growth"x, give him an "I'm proud of you, bro", and leave with no report. They are so biased ag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:32 PM |
| 221 | Men Telling on ThemselvesMen have been golddiggers, and it's so much worse because childbirth takes a HUGE toll on a woman's body. That's one of the reasons it was considered normal for the man to go out in the world and earn money, because women NEED rest and relaxation after a baby. I read something that women who had extreme sleeplessness in the year after the birth of their baby aged SEVEN YEARS faster. Women experiencing sleeplessness at other times aged nowhere near as fast. Women are SO VULNERABLE after childbirt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:51 PM |
| 212 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimI was thinking that after I posted it. Like I have seen many women stigmatized for being unemotional. I know it sucks, but I believe, as women, we HAVE to cultivate superior social skills and charisma for our own survival. So some combination of being slightly emotional, but not overly (no crying, for example), and being well spoken while still reactive. I know it's so unfair because men can be as emotional as they want, or completely emotionless, and no one cares, but we as women have to walk t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 147 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimYep. If not for how they completely bungled this and enabled him with knowing that the cops would take his side, this woman would still be alive today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 90 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimIt's so maddening. This is why I avoid the cops at all costs. Most of them are misogynists | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:58 PM |
| 178 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimI am so sorry that happened to you. Having worked in family law I know for 1000% what a lie the "cops always believe the woman about DV" line is. There is a much higher percentage of domestic abuse in the police force (and military) than in the general population. So we're sending abusers out to deal with abuse, lol. Make it make sense!!! Many of them have issues with women and believe women should be meek and docile, and if they do anything back at all, they "deserve it", and they use the DV co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 282 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the Victim10000%!!! That was what really got me. She was so quick to admit all blame to even the smallest thing. Meanwhile, he stuck to his story that he was an innocent little angel and guess who the police believed? I think as women, we are so trained that we have to be "good", that we're responsible for all the men in our lives, that we tend to over-confess for tiny things we did. Men do the opposite- they are trained to never take responsibility, to deflect, to blame. And while that can screw men over… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:43 PM |
| 46 | "If He Wanted to, He Would" The B Side DiscussionOMG yes! Thank you. This phrase bothers me for multiple reasons, one of which is that I just dont think it's honest. I have had guys roll out the red carpet for me who were predatory and gross, one of whom is in another relationship and has repeatedly contacted me with glamorous vacation offers to foreign countries and whatnot. A man showing OTT interest is not indication of being HVM. Another thing is sometimes LVM do WANT to do things for you, but cant for other reasons- being broke, being too… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:12 PM |
| 58 | NEVER 👏 STOP 👏 VETTING 👏Yep and LVM hallmarks like Rick and Morty, Fight Club, etc. I was just like WOW sooooo predictable when I saw that. Like the textbook reddit LVM interests | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:55 PM |
| 36 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Yep. It's happened so many times. The Trevor Bauer case has been haunting me lately. Seriously, it just seemed so many men today are utterly depraved, so violent, and it's normalized in a way it never was in the past. It's hard to really feel safe around men at all when this is what SO MANY of them are into. Like youre taking your life into your hands by agreeing to go on a date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | He asked to borrow moneyJust saw this, but yeah, that makes so much sense. Even if they dont do anything, just the creepy/predatory energy that so many men have is enough to make you on guard all the time, totally unable to relax. I've heard horror stories about male masseuses in particular, so yeah, I would be very tense the whole time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:27 PM |
| 91 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?See, as a single woman, this is just what makes me never want to date again. It seems like with the utter depravity of modern men, you're truly taking your life in your hands sleeping with a man. I would be TRAUMATIZED if someone slapped me during sex. Totally traumatized. And I'm sure now you couldnt even call the police or anything because it's been so normalized. It is horrific. What is the point of dating if THIS is what we get? No wonder so many women are just dropping out of the dating sys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 207 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menMy God, they've absolutely ruined men, it's genuinely sad. How totally pathetic. And matches up with many of the late 20s men I know who just seem so... lost and sad. No focus, no direction, just some pointless existence of video game playing and porn. It is horrific. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 170 | He asked to borrow moneyFemale EVERYTHING only, tbh. Whenever I decide, "eh, it's fine I'll just see this male doctor/ trainer/ vet" it always turns into a LVM clusterfuck just like this. They really are everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 12 | He asked to borrow moneyOMG, it is so hard to escape LVM. This is why I always try to get a woman to work with, no matter what it is. I'm sorry you're dealing with that though. I would tell him you dont have the money and as soon as the 6 months are up switch to a new trainer. Geez though, the audacity of these LVM. How did he ask you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 26 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.After reading this I've realized the error of my ways and changed my mind. I DO want a LVM scrote to share my life with. It seems so safe and logical. I now realize LVM scrotes will make me feel truly cherished, loved, and respected. Going to leave FDS and find me one immediately!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:35 PM |
| 18 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.I have never seen a "man on the street" interview before where the person answering gets attacked not only by the interviewer, but by others on the street. The whole point is supposed to be "give your honest opinion, no judgement" but that's just how entitled men are. They cannot FATHOM that a single woman would have a preference for penis size. It OUTRAGES them. This is the attitude whenever some man posts some, "Ladies does size matter?" post on AskReddit. They know it's like a siren song for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 07:46 PM |
| 12 | Set your account to not allow followersYeah, I did figure that part out a couple months ago which is really nice. Im sure the LV scrotes get enraged when they cant spew their little rage tantrums at us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:05 PM |
| 31 | Set your account to not allow followersThank you so much! I had 47 followers, no idea who they were, but it's really creepy. I've just turned it off and it's definitely a relief to know they've bene removed. I have had multiple hate posts made about me and OFC harassing messages but LV scrotes will not stop me. Anyway, this is so helpful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:05 PM |
| 117 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himThere is such an epidemic of women wanting to spend several hours getting ready, applying lots of money worth of makeup/perfumes, and driving to meet up with a stranger to get that sacred $4 cup of coffee. Being the logical sex, men have figured out that the over/under on that coffee only benefits scheming, golddigging women, so we have to be super vigilant about vetting for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 115 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himIdeally texting me asking me to come over for pizza to watch a movie, or watch him play his favorite game. It's such a shocking display of masculine strength to watch his manboobs jiggle as he directs a muscled anime avatar to slay dragons and imaginary characters. I love it when he ignores me or awkwardly tries to initiate sex right away, and gets angry or hostile when I turn him down. All forms of negging and insulting me just make me realize what amazingly superior social skills he has and wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.Can you tell me the name of the video? Logan Paul and how he has become some kind of "intellectual figure" for Gen Z/Millennial guys is so horrifying to me. He is so repulsive and misogynist, so I would love to see a video breaking this down in detail so I can have stuff to point to. I avoid watching his content because it's so dumb and just loathsome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 231 | Staying in a deadbedroom is not a flex. Just LEAVE.If your man is jerking it to porn and instagram models but doesnt want to have sex with you, that is SO insulting and not an issue of a low libido. These women need to get some self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 06:07 PM |
| 131 | Staying in a deadbedroom is not a flex. Just LEAVE.And one of them met when she was like 22 and he's way older... just eww. These age gap relationships never work out cause a lot of the men are basically pedos and as soon as the woman has reached real "womanly" appearance then they can no longer get excited for it. They dont want a woman, they want a child, and they'll settle for someone just a few years over the legal range, but that's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 70 | YA’LL I AM SO PISSED I just listened to the podcast on “communication” and found this post. The literal first comment has me steaming mad.Have you tried cOmMuNiCaTiNg? Once again these scrotes at it with the same pathetic defletion excuse. It's a really fantastic form of gaslighting and victim blaming. Scrotes know that theyre no longer able to ask what a woman was wearing or if she led him on, that kind of victim blaming has been rightfully called out. So now they use the "you need to communicate with him, maybe he didnt know it was bad" line to reverse it back onto the female and victim blame her in a new and "woke" way. I can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 96 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterOMG what a little sweetheart! Definitely the sweetest guy ever, trying to coerce this girl's sister into some beyond fucked up incest type relationship. What a cute little teddy bear!!! How can pickmes be this stupid... I mean seriously.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novelsDefinitely. I think knowing that and keeping an eye for it is a great thing. Not sure if it's an ADHD thing but it took me a while to learn how to turn down that drinks invite with a friend that I felt so/so about who always complained, or whatever, but I'd go anyway. I think it helps that I have so little free time now that i either really want it or I'm not doing it. But it's amazing how much my life has improved since I started out cutting people that drained me. So if that's something you st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novelsRight, that makes sense! I guess since I became so busy at work I am wayyyy more choosy with my free time and way more likely to not be willing to meet up with that loose friend I have where afterwards I feel drained. I have ADHD too and I think it's important to make those boundaries in your life, and to be choosy about who you hang around, because it can be easy just to hang out with someone out of habit, not realizing they drain you and dont really move you forward in a positive way. For me, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:36 PM |
| 28 | Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novelsPersonally I feel like I work sooooo much and so much of my time is devoted to it (I love what I do, but still) that any time I have free time, the last thing I want to do is plan it out in advance and make some plan of like "I'm going to watch x show". Like of course I have a list of things that I'd vaguely like to watch, like maybe a new episode of real housewives or whatever, but it's nice to have that day when it's just kind of open in front of you and you can watch whatever you decide. As s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:07 PM |
| 47 | My experience with Female Vets vs Male VetsAnd this is also why dogs hate men and most rescue orgs have to send women out to capture the dogs. Dogs are way smarter than we are, in many ways. They feel the vibe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:15 PM |
| 12 | My experience with Female Vets vs Male VetsOMG... a lot of these modern day LVM scrotes are just DESPERATE for conflict, obsessed with it, and will go out of their way to fight you at any chance I get. This is why I avoid dealing with men at all costs (of course sometimes theyre unavoidable) and try to get women as much as possible. Last month I had to go in to urgent care and the guy was so argumentative, as well as sexually creepy, and they LOVE putting on that condescending tone any chance they get. I.e. "It's DEFINITELY a cold, not s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:14 PM |
| 36 | Twitter finds an FDS post and scrotes are madSame. And I'm honestly amazed at how much more free time I have and how much easier it is to focus on ME when I dont do this constant free therapy for the people in my life. It's truly incredible to think of all the hours I spent just giving away my time and energy with zero payback or even appreciation- just entitlement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 177 | Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novelsI mean, I disagree. I love watching 90 Day Fiance once in a while to watch how LV disguise themselves as HV and to study their mindset. I dont have some fear that I'm suddenly going to becoming a pickme because I watched an episode of some trash TLC tv. TBH I dont watch TV that much and I dont really read romance novels anymore, but I fully believe women are capable of critically reading/viewing stuff and not suddenly taking it on. We can spend our time how we want. I'm mostly working but when I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:46 PM |
| 123 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesI would have a really hard time holding back the rage, or if I could somehow force myself into not speaking, keeping the look of utter disgust off my face. Honestly, you shouldn;t be engaging in any way with such darksided, horrific, evil guys. Whether they see you as a romantic partner or not, it's still dangerous to be on the radar of these sociopathic guys. Also I just wouldnt want to be subjected to these losers and their sick little performances. Men crave ALL women's attention, whether t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 20 | VC Andrews laying down some truths! From My Sweet Audrina (book 1)So, so accurate. VC Andrews is also an incredible writer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 10:57 AM |
| 66 | Can we make ‘Weaponized Incompetence’ a flair? A dangerous hurricane is on its way and hubby pretends he can’t do something as simple as buy nonperishables from the store for his familyI couldn't even watch this because this woman's high pitched, grating shrieking was too painful to listen to. THis is how pickmes justify their man's absolute contempt and poor treatment of them- pretending it's totally normal, hilarious, and ENDEARING. It's such a pathetic cope. And the guy doesnt even give an F. He looks totally bored of it and just kind of shrugs and ducks out of frame. Even if you believe the obvious lie that he "didnt know what he was doing" he would have realized it when… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Prime example of why opening up on the first date is never a good idea.What sticks out to me is how defensive he is. This is why conversing, or attempting to converse, with a LVM is so pointless. If you try to question them even a tiny bit, you will get this utter explosion. THEY can question you all they want, but as soon as you push back in the slightest, it's like "OMG, you are so out of line" gaslighting. Like how he basically attacked her for her marriage, and then she just politely says, "Well, we're obviously not going to have a second date" and he's like "A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 10 | Prime example of why opening up on the first date is never a good idea.He gives me southern vibes, and I'm really good at reading people. Probably has lived in new york for a few years and is now "the expert new yorker" who can lecture to everyone about whether they are a new yorker or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:45 AM |
| 25 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.Completely agree. I couldnt believe that. OFC, I'm disgusted by hooters and its gross how those women are treated and reprehensible. But to compare that to the sick abuse and assault and dehumanizing vile, traumatic horror that Lana described? These women are so fucking self centered and delusional, it's crazy. Such typical libfem behavior. "I worked in being an only fans model, which is sex work and the same as a desperate sex trafficked teenager who has to risk her life at truck stops and is r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:58 PM |
| 89 | I just had to unfriend someone on fb for sharing this. Scrotes will admit they’re only with women to use them and women will be in the comments like “🥰❤️😘” it’s so gross🙄🤢 I guess we should start telling men that unless they’re here to build us up they’re “dead weight” 🤷🏾♀️More golddigging men.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 53 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?You're so right about the tactics TRP needed to succeed. I remember reading about it back as a teen when it first came out, and being so shocked and deeply, deeply horrified. I was really sad, as well, that men seemed to view us with such contempt. I really look back on that as a pivotal moment. It alerted me very early on to male bullshit and I have never been in a relationship with a LVM, only HVM, and even with HVM I've been on the lookout for any signs of bad behavior. I never saw men with r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 67 | Block, block, block!Yes! And I love how glamorous and stunning she is. I thought according to reddit women who have FDS views are all haggard, unnattractive harpies who can never get men? 🤣 IME it's always the most beautiful women, like this lady, who have the highest standards for men, and this is exhibit A. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 100 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.Agree, also the IMMEDIATE need to bring up "ethical porn" right after Lana starts crying and talking about how horrible porn was for her. It's like a cult, where no one is allowed to speak out agains the cult leader, or porn in this case. "Please stop crying so we can assure everyone how great ethical porn is, and don't bring this up ever again." Like some Scientology shit or something where people are afraid of being excommunicated if they go against porn. Disgustingly weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:54 PM |
| 57 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.OMG. Gail Dines on Joe Rogan would be a DREAM. I doubt he would ever allow that to happen but just picturing it is giving me LIFE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:45 PM |
| 37 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.10000%. The lack of willingness to take responsibility is, I think, a huge factor in the number of angry, broke, loser LVM in the world today. If they were just capable of looking at things accurately, the world would be such a better place. But that would dent their ego, so they wont | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:44 PM |
| 74 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...100%. These guys that get off on tricking people, screwing them over, making them feel less than, stressing them out, making them agree to something and then cruelly rubbing their face in it- they do it with everyone. Not just their partner- EVERYONE, particularly anyone dependent on them like kids. This is what is reprehensible about pickme behavior- it brings kids into the world that are innocent, defenseless, and going to be scarred by a father that gets his shits and giggles from messing wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 68 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.Pornsick men are mentally, emotionally and spiritually sick. They are depraved and truly dangerous to women. This is why we just need to avoid them at all costs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:43 AM |
| 174 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.OMG I feel bad for her for having to talk to these dumb libfem chicks that are just like "Awww, dont cry!" and "If only we talked about porn to children early on" (??????????????? How the FUCK does that make sense?!) and "I love porn but it has to be ethical".... Lana is spitting facts based on her own experiences and I love that she didn't let her foot off the throttle and mentioned serial killers having a ton of violent porn in their search history. Kudos to Lana and Mia Khalifa and any woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:41 AM |
| 11 | Even the CDC is promoting 50/50 😅Completely agree with everything you said. Also that government officials in Germany LITERALLY gave children to pedophiles for years as an experiment. And I am not joking in the slightest and no it's not a conspiracy theory (a lot of the stuff that gets dismissed as conspiracy theories are not), it's documented by The New Yorker https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2021/07/26/the-german-experiment-that-placed-foster-children-with-pedophiles They "wanted to see how children would adapt to living wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Even the CDC is promoting 50/50 😅100000%. I dont trust almost any government agency. They've screwed over women so many times, in so many ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:39 AM |
| 57 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.It's amazing how many men will go on and on about how "mean" a woman was to them, usually a woman who got sick of doing emotional labor for them. Meanwhile they continue to obliviously go through life using various women and never doing a single bit of self reflection or gaining awareness. It's pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:33 AM |
| 52 | Even the plants know what’s upAnd everyone who's ever vaguely dealt with animal rescue orgs know that dogs and most animals will not respond to human men, but they will come right over to most females. A lot of times if there is a male rescuer the animal won't come and they will need to bring in a woman to get the animal to be at all receptive. Nature is smart! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:28 AM |
| 39 | Ummm...yes? And?It really is funny. They are petrified of women having access to the outside world via phones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:24 AM |
| 55 | This is probably exactly how some scrotes process mundane, everyday transactionsThis really sums up the delusional mindset of LVM. I'm sure this is based on some attractive female cashier making POLITE small talk, i.e. "Buying some new locks? Doing renovations?" and in a LVM scrote's brain they spin it into "She's secretly in love with me, she wants to have sex with, she was asking about locks because she wants to rip off my shirt and ogle my dad-bod belly". It's so pathetic. Meanwhile they will ignore the wife and child they have at home in order to live in daydream world … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:01 AM |
| 448 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...Also, any man who is nickel and diming a woman to this extent HATES her. Probably hates women in general, and gets a sick thrill out of forcing a pregnant woman to get up and grab her wallet so she can buy him ice cream. He's a misogynist who dislikes women in general and this is a form of sadism- physically running her into the ground, using her up and getting a good laugh out of him gaslighting her and not having to give anything back. Absolutely sick. Probably kids arent safe around him eithe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:28 AM |
| 33 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...A million times happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:26 AM |
| 244 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...This is EXACTLY how LVM operate. It doesnt surprise me that she's posting at age 27. In her early 20s she was willing to overlook this stuff because *being in a relationship!* *engagement!* *planning wedding!* Now she's in her late 20s and starting to get wiser, and realizing that this is going to be her life forever. this sums up so well the hell of being with LVM- they are disconnected, so selfish, so greedy, so only concerned about what benefits them. Living with them is DANGEROUS because of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:25 AM |
| 83 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Way less useful, considering he gaslights her and puts her into a major stress state. At least with a pet rock you know for sure that youre going to have to do it on your own- she seems to think that this LVM will help her, not realizing what a total POS he is, so she makes plans that involve him and then he ruins them sadistically. A pet rock would be a million times better for her mental health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 14 | Women have been shamed and bullied into staying silenct and tolerating shitty, dangerous behavior so they don't look like a "Karen". Why is there no word for men who misbehave in public, much less men who creep out women?This is what is so incredibly dangerous about the popularization of calling women "Karen" who speak up. Since The Gift of Fear, security professionals have been trying over and over to trust their judgement and intuition and learn to speak up and not be afraid of being perceived as "rude" or "mean". Now that's all been thrown away, and any woman who speaks up or is unfriendly is at danger of being labelled a Karen. It is so disgusting and so sick, and so horrible for women everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:10 AM |
| 33 | Gen Z sees prostitution as wholesome. Comments defending the video saying it's "consensual" and "enthusiastic" so what's the problem?This is so sad, depressing, and dehumanizing. A clearly desperate, possibly on drugs woman, and a man lowballing her and filming her humiliation for entertainment's sake. But it's okay, because at the end, she, being totally desensitized and probably dissociated from her body as a coping skill, makes a jokey noise along with him as he mocks her pain. It's sock and disgusting. Anyone who laughs at this is sick in the head and putrid beyond belief | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 121 | Some guy asked for my number while I was walking my dog at the park today and his first date suggestion was: "we should walk our dogs together."This explains why I am so irritated at the men in the yoga studio, or at barre class. They always RUIN the vibe completely. And it's like you can tell they are just LOVING bathing in the female energy, being the only man, meanwhile stinking the place up with their male energy. It's so beyond annoying that i just stopped going to yoga studios and do it at home where I can be assured of no scrotes being there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 91 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!It really is. In a way it should be required viewing for this sub and maybe all libfems to finally make them realize what happens in a society where women dont have rights and we go along with appeasing men. I was in shock after watching it because it is so sad, so bleak, so depressing. These poor Afghani women. It is so depressingly sad to see this life heading for them and there's no way to stop it. All because of stupid decisions by men and the women are collateral damage. Absolutely sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 09:36 AM |
| 149 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!I totally agree. I actually read that article the first time and was kind of like "they sold her? Huh?" like it didn't really register with me and I honestly couldnt comprehend the idea- like how do you sell someone? Was the daughter in law working for them professionally and they kind of tranferred her to another company or something? Why didn't she get another job- what was this situation? It sounds stupid but I literally was baffled and kind of just glazed over it mentally. But reading more a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:08 AM |
| 92 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!It annoys me that Afghan men are the ones rushing into all the airplanes and that the male soldiers are allowing it. It should be 100% WOMEN prioritized to leave, no question. And yet once again LVM act like selfish assholes and force themselves to the front of the line with zero thought for women or others. And like you said, then they go to other countries and resent and hate the women who are "whores" if theyre not dressed in burkas or covered. So sick of it. Get the women out! Let the men st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:49 AM |
| 152 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!You should be like "OMG, i hate cooking too, would you mind making one for me as well, if you're already doing it?" Watch how quickly she decides to stop doing it now that she's no longer performing for male approval. Pickmes are so bizarrely pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 470 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!OMG the footage of the airplane carriers packed with able bodied men leaving Afghanistan, meanwhile like maybe 3 women on board, because all the men rushed into the planes, leaving behind the women in their lives who will be facing things a million times worse than the men would. So disgusting and pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 356 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!I remember when Lara Logan got raped in Egypt, she was mass violated and raped by HUNDREDS of men. No man saved her. It was eventually a group of older Egyptian women off on the side who saw what happened and instantly tried to save her, risking their own lives, since theyre obviously nowhere near as strong as men, to rescue her, that probably saved her life. So yeah.... time after time women will risk their lives to save other women or children, men will not, in case after case after case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:42 AM |
| 13 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?OMG, this makes me so happy. Thank GOD. I just wish all the women (and children) there could be saved from this hell. But at least there's some sliver of good news | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 04:27 AM |
| 92 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?I am so horrified by what is happening for women in Afghanistan, children as well as the Taliban believes that, while sex between grown men is a horrific sin, that raping young male children is fine and "not gay", so lots of little boys and girls will be raped and that's just accepted. I just read a story today where the Afghanistan women's soccer team will probably be hunted down by the Taliban and "raped to death" and have it made public as punishment for them participating publicly in a sport… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Accurate.LMAO so true. Or actually much worse. I dont want to be mean but people really should google image search the phrase "reddit meetup" and feast your eyes on the kind of guys who post relationship advice on here. THAT is what we're dealing with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 37 | How are you all coping with the world?Yep. I mean I understand when like a baby boomer talks about how people left doors unlocked in the 1950s, but I'm talking about just a few years ago I felt so much safer. Circa 2010 I would regularly run in like small shorts and a tight form fitting top. Now I cover my body up in a huge men's t shirt and clutch my pepper spray. I feel like back then men just seemed so much... saner? Less angry? Now I just feel this CONTEMPT from so many of them, and it seems almost surreal that this world has go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 57 | How are you all coping with the world?I completely agree. I honestly think the world seems like it got dramatically more dangerous in the past several years? Either that or it's normal to get way more anxious as you enter your late 20s, but I never heard about that. I remember being in my teens/early 20s and running at night, feeling super safe in my apartment, just feeling so much safer. Now I really feel genuinely scared walking or running at almost any time of day, regardless of the area, and triple lock my apartment and still fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 195 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?What a dumb clown. Tell that to the women now being mass raped by the Taliban in Afghanistan. I guess their burkas that literally cover their whole bodies are too revealing as well? There is no way to escape male sexual violence, other than creating social controls and penalties for the sick freaks that carry it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 16 | He still keeps sex vids of him and his ex but going through his phone is the bigger violation of trust... 🤡Also... this stupid woman should have some compassion for this lady's boyfriend's ex as well. Like, I have never sent nudes or filmed anything because I find that stupid AF- but if I HAD and found out my ex had still saved them and was regularly watching them I would be enraged. it's such a violation. But of course it's not "cool girl" to admit you have feelings about being sexually violated, so everyone involved is forced to lie and play it off like they dont care. So sick of this libfem trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 28 | He still keeps sex vids of him and his ex but going through his phone is the bigger violation of trust... 🤡LOL I am so glad someone brought this lady up. I follow her mostly out of morbid fascination because she kept coming up on some brands I follow. First off, she doesn't have a boyfriend. I have never seen any HVM or any male whatsoever lusting after her in the comments. She has mentioned in the past that she usually "goes for" men with dad bods. She's posted at least one pic of an exboyfriend and he was... not that attractive. She has mentioned multiple times that she lost her virginity via a one… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 24 | I blocked and deleted ...I am so happy for you that youre making this step, and also sorry for the pain of this realization that youre going through. So often we as women just keep trying to make it work, over and over and over, and we give and give and give, and the men in our lives never reciprocate or figure it out. It's soooo destabilizing and such a waste of time. I went NC with one parent several years ago and about to go NC with another and it was the best choice I ever made. I think the worst aspect of having a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 30 | And men wonder why women want women-only spaces…WTAF. LVM really will take any excuse to be violent, won't they? That confirms my suspicion that rather than the "I'm so frustrated and hurt and sad that women cross the street to stay away from me at night" circle jerk that happens here on reddit, that LVM actively like when women are intimidated by them and when you pointedly ignore them they will get violent with you, even in a "small" way (hitting someone in the back of the head with a dumbell is in no way small, OMFG that could have gone so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:17 AM |
| 91 | And men wonder why women want women-only spaces…I cant stop thinking about this video and how it captures how men are just such a nuisance at the gym whether they hit on you or not. I havent been hit on that many times, but I've had a ton of the early interactions she's had in this video with some random scrote coming over into your space, pointedly drinking water while staring at you, asking you random/pointless questions, just standing around watching you, trying to pick on something to embarrass you (I.e. the "are you filming yourself ques… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:40 AM |
| 122 | And men wonder why women want women-only spaces…LMAO her response is absolutely sending me. I laughed out loud at that. Of course he throws a mantrum and talks about how he's so rich (I'm sure, working out at what appears to be a 24 Hour Fitness type of place and wearing some ratty t-shirt) But honestly, the super messed up thing is I would be terrified to answer that way and I was still scared for her after I watched this and had an immediate instinct of "I hope she got out of the gym fast after this, maybe left through a side exit". Because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:43 AM |
| 60 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Just proves LVM have no respect or empathy for women. They literally cant even imagine that we have thoughts, preferences, and feelings like a human being. They think of as objects, just like when youre little you tell stories to your dolls with no concern for how they feel. They can recognize that men are human beings with their own thoughts, so they dont pull this ish with other males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:26 AM |
| 105 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑The funny thing is if a woman did that, like invited a man on a first date and then ended up having him sit in the audience while she performed her dance routine, or had him watch while she flexed/did karate, or painted while he watched silently, she would (rightfully) be called a narcissist and absolutely RIPPED TO SHREDS by reddit. But when a dude does it, I'm sure the comments are all about "how was he supposed to know" and "damn, it's too bad she didn't appreciate your photos." Oh well. The … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 31 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Men absolutely LOVE lecturing women. They get off on it way more than sex, in many ways. It's their ultimate fantasy- some woman looking up at them with big, wide eyes, marvelling at how this man became so wise. They are so self centered it's crazy. Planning a date all around you showing off, with not even a seating area or you bothering to change your sweaty clothes, is so selfish and stupid. I love the neg at the end, texting her that "the vibe is off" to make her question her decision/self wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:59 PM |
| 12 | TW!! Did I do the right thing by cutting my friends off after they left me by myself at a night club?1000% you made the right choice!! Honestly, there are a lot of nasty LVW in the world. Especially women that may have a hard time finding friendships or feel like outcasts, they may harbor a lot of issues towards other women, including intense jealousy and other feelings. I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I think therapy is a great idea for processing that. I actually had a VERY, VERY similar scenario happen to me several years back, and, as painful as it was, it made me reassess a lot… | /r/askFDS | 13/08/21 11:15 PM |
| 10 | TW!! Did I do the right thing by cutting my friends off after they left me by myself at a night club?I completely agree with you. Of course there will be a handful of normal people scattered in these groups, but overwhelmingly it's going to be people with issues with socialization and maintaining relationships. It sucks, because it can be hard for anyone to make new friends as an adult, but meetups are where a lot of weirdos congregate, so it's better to just avoid. | /r/askFDS | 13/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 53 | Why LVM love walk/hike/coffee datesA lot of these hiking dudes are closet misogynists too.... 100000%!!!! Honestly I think that it is a strand of the same kind of male attitude that wants women to do manual labor. Like obviously in America and most of the west nowadays you cant force your wife to do farm work out in the fields, or slave away over a hot stove against her will, or be "barefoot in the kitchen"- or at least you cant do that on the first date. But a lot of these guys, instead of cherishing their women and wanting to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:36 AM |
| 151 | [deleted by user]And he knows that... that no 48 year old would put up with his nonsense. So he goes after children, because children are naiive, trusting, and easy to fool. Sicko. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 54 | Men are jealous of women's successExactly! In K-Pop it's standard for the men to use skincare and really try to have perfect skin, use light makeup, regularly dye/change their hair, have perfect fashion and stay slim. They regularly get called "pretty" and have women from all over crushing on them. If scrotes really think "pretty privelege" is so great then they can easily slap on a light sheen of lipstick and some eyeliner the way the K-pop guys do, and get a skincare routine, and lose some weight, and do everything women have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:31 PM |
| 336 | FDS was just featured in the Guardian! The article is fairly balanced and no mention of f3mcels or other such nonsense. FDS principles are becoming more mainstream 🥂 🥳Love it! As far as FDS becoming more mainstream, I am shocked at the number of times I've heard people use the terms scrote and pickme lately. Pickme has just become an accepted term that so many people use (and the funny thing is, I see it used in places that are very old school, where I know for damn sure theyre not on FDS, but the term is so self explanatory for a certain type of woman that no one has to ask what it means!). It's amazing the impact FDS has had. And I'm so glad, because it's a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡The thing is there's a huge difference between legitimate protests and just being a malcontent who wants to moan about everything all day long (saw a ton of that in Portland), and there's also a big difference between legitimate protests and angry young men with unaddressed mental issues seizing on an opportunity to be violent and cause chaos because theyre just violent people and want to burn stuff or hit women (also a ton of this in Portland). Sadly Oregon has the largest percentage of people … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 10:37 PM |
| 15 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡OMG. I dont think I ever met ONE high functioning man who is from portland. It seems to me almost all HVM (and women), if they do move to Portland, GTFO as soon as possibl. . That place is a M E S S. Full of drug addled, loser, angry burnouts. When the Portland riots happened night after night last summer I was like "Yep, only in portland." There is so much passive aggressive rage and nastiness I encountered in a ton of the scrotes from there. The women too. And truly, most of the men dont even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 12 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡1000%. Portland is full of losers, male and female. Sorry to be so blunt, but it's the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:01 PM |
| 12 | Remember how I decided to go on OLD against my better judgment? First date proposals: drinks and walks 🤡Seriously, the worst men on the planet. Absolute trash as far as the eye can see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:00 PM |
| 64 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”OMG this is so true. Especially because most men are fucking boring and socially awkward and I think the vast majority always expect to be centered in conversations. Like one time I was talking to my female coworker about periods in front of a male coworker and he got SO ANGRY and like stormed off after saying in this super passive aggressive voice, "Whelp, this is awkward" and speed walking off with this red enraged face. Like most men just expect you to cater the conversation to them- God forb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:23 AM |
| 72 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.Also a big part is young women are simply easier to manipulate. I actually looked substantially younger for a long time (still do, but I have mercifully aged out of repeatedly being confused for being in high school). For most of my 20s people would think I was in the 16 yo demographic and would have the creepiest guys, way older, come up to me. The way they would speak to me was so condescending and just... creepy and strange. I started figuring out the M.O. and would find a way to drop into th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:58 PM |
| 57 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.This is so true. And it's so disgusting and sick. Like I can remember the dudes who rejected me in high school. For some reason I was really obsessed with dudes with super curly hair, and that was 1000% my type back then. And I would fucking vomit if I ever saw a video of a man with curly hair being raped, abused, permanently disabled (in the way anal prolapse does). never in 5 BILLION YEARS would I want to see footage of that happening to ANY HUMAN BEING, male or female. And that's what's unfor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 6 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmSo very true. And then they can have this lie inside their head of like "I didn't really care anyway". It's a cope because they know they were about to be rejected. This culture of men playing video games and watching porn has really ruined men. But as you say, it just proves how valuable we are. A second of our attention and energy is something a man can fixate on for days. Our power! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 11:30 PM |
| 9 | The level of pick me that is expected of you of you if you're a black womanI love her! She's so accurate about everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 59 | The level of pick me that is expected of you of you if you're a black womanDeborrah Cooper did a video on exactly this subject yesterday... about the threats that black women face in dating, and she gave some really shocking and frightening statistics about the violence they face. She also brought up the fact that black women are expected to lie or cover up for black men to keep them out of jail and how dangerous it is. ITA. Anyone committing violence towards me needs to be CHECKED no matter who they are and it is downright sick to act like it's women's jobs to heal vi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 7 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmYeah, although I also think there are dudes who do this as a pattern. Some of them get off on the idea of disappointing a beautiful woman. Like they know they'll probably make a fool of themselves on the date anyway and get rejected, so they decide to reject first by flaking around and being weird. THere's so much messed up psychology with LVM, it's so bizarre... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 12 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmWhy do they enjoy wasting time so much? It's so baffling. Why set up all these plans over and over for the same song and dance? It's pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 46 | Getting hit on by gross old men is so bewildering to me. Do they really think I'd ever f*ck them?Their audacity is truly mind boggling. I remember a few years ago I was travelling and stubled into a gift shop while it was raining and got into what I thought was a kind of nice, harmless conversation with a man in his 50s or 60s. Keep in mind I also look young and most people guessed I was in high school or college, so I assumed there would be no misinterpretation. Cut to him asking me out at the end as he rang me up and asking to take a photo with me (?) so he could post it to his facebook. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 12:47 AM |
| 11 | Beware of shady matchmakers, ladies.And that probably is a very true. LVM LOVE seeing stories of extreme LV or NV men who get matched with beautiful women- it's like crack to them. So said matchmaker probably works extra hard pushing and pushing and pushing every undesirable man onto any pickmes he can find, guilting them into dates and "giving them a chance" over and over until someone bites. Meanwhile the HVM and HVW are probably given 5 throwaway dates and barely thought of again, because these LVM really dojnt want women to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 13 | Beware of shady matchmakers, ladies.LOL so predictable. As with almost all services, they cater to and go after the rich dude demographic. I remember when my dad forced me to go into therapy with him and the pig male therapist fully took his side because my dad is fairly wealthy and was shelling out for $350 and hour and the therapist didnt want the gravy train to end. Of course they will cater to whoever will pay them, which is usually men in matchmaking and many other services. It's disgusting- women are just the commodity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 10:11 PM |
| 16 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsI personally find it a red flag when a "friend" wants to set me up with a LVM. One of my good (former) friends was dead set on setting me up with an overweight, unattractive guy that looks nothing like anyone I've ever dated. At that time in my life I was a bit of a pushover so I was pretty open to going on a random date with almost everyone, and even I had the sense to turn him down when I saw him, that's how unattractive he is. She borderline harassed me for months about it, and kept trying to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:50 PM |
| 20 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatRight? if you were drinking alcohol for that long you'd be totally under the table. Definitely got the "sat for 5 hours drinking one soda" vibe, which is like a LVM hallmark. Every time I have spent any time with a LVM they always end up getting into embarrassing stuff like trying to steal food from a hotel buffet or trying to use a coupon or whatever else. It's like they have no awareness or empathy for restaurant workers or anyone else (or they just love humiliating women) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:21 AM |
| 41 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after that100%. I could never have the audacity to take up a table with drinks for FIVE HOURS. I'd also guess, just by this woman's vibe and that of her NVM, that they were nonalcoholic, so probably something like a coke each, with endless refills. A lot of these pickmes are very self centered and selfish themselves, which is how they see no problem with NVM behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 46 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatI hate to go on and on about this lady but her tiktok really is a fascinating glimpse into the mind of a pickme and I've had one glass of wine and fallen down the rabbit hole. She also has a post where she's "crying laughing" showing that her boyfriend picked the most deliberately unflattering photo of her for her contact photo, and another where she talks about how "I would have accepted a ring pop [for an engagement ring]" and then it pans to the boyfriend, and he shrugs and she reveals he nev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:50 PM |
| 27 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatAnd OMG... this woman is giving out dating/relationship advice and saying phrases like "If He wanted to, he would" in regards to her cheap loser LVM boyfriend ordering her a very cheap looking photo of them together from Amazon. Like OMG girl. No wonder girls get so mixed up now that we have pickmes appropriating our language and pretending to be dating experts. So disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 83 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatNo wonder that poor server was pissed. I was like "Hmm, it is kinda rude for a server to come over and demand you pay immediately and stand over you while you pay" but now it all makes sense. She probably had a sixth sense that the LVM scrote would try to pull something like that and run out on the check and was sick of their BS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:36 PM |
| 31 | This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after thatWhen the tiktok first opened up I was like "huh, I can't believe that woman would tolerate that, because she just exudes such queen energy". And then it turned out she was just doing the opening, and it cut to the PickMe who sadly has such mousy, shy, insecure vibes, and it all made sense. And it makes me sad, because she said she's been abused before, but it proved to me how much you really can tell who is residing in their HVW energy and how palpable it is, because I felt the energy shift righ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:34 PM |
| 67 | CALL 👏 PORN ADDICTS 👏 OUT👏 I was so happily surprised to see this on Zara Larson’s Instagram storyWOW. Massive respect for her on this. Okay time to stan! This is awesome.... she made a new fan! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 04:15 AM |
| 38 | Sex should never put you in hospitalI mean... how do you even break a rib? That's not something that happens from some light pressure. AFAIK the ribs are some of the larger bones, and you'd have to be pushing down immensely hard to break them. This is totally sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:05 PM |
| 16 | Sex should never put you in hospitalHorrific. The stakes are really being raised lately. I definitely have issues with pickmes but to think that the youthful mistake of trusting stupid scrotes will now lead you to have permanent physical bodily damage s horrific. This is stuff, physical and mental/emotional, that these women will have to carry around for a lifetime and it's so, so sad. My heart breaks for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:04 PM |
| 30 | PSA to HVW: You do NOT have to engage or argue with angry scrotes or LVMSo true. And nowadays they love saying that you're a "karen" if you so much as disagree with them, or filming it and saying how crazy you are. "All I did was call her a bitch and she went crazy on me, lolol". So pathetic. No reason to engage with them. Just smile or stare condescendingly at them like the losers they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:49 PM |
| 56 | PSA to HVW: You do NOT have to engage or argue with angry scrotes or LVMHaha that's so funny! I love it. I remember a few years ago when I wasn't so radicalized I accidentally cut in front of some guy in traffic, because I was going to work at literally 5:30 am and was so tired and out of it I didn't see him. Anyway, he was honking so loudly at me and I felt bad since it was technically my bad and I was in the wrong, even though no accident happened. And I was in a good mood and out of my mind with sleep deprivation, and when I saw him glaring at me from his car I t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 52 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedIt's also a delusion that pickmes have that everyone is staring at their relationship and envious/in awe. Most people have been in relationships so they know what theyre missing out on/not missing out on. The vast majority of women grew up with a man around, be it a father or brothers, and know exactly how they are to live around, which is exactly why no one is enviously salivating at the idea of living with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 03:09 AM |
| 22 | Heavy weed use and its link to schizophrenia. Don’t date a heavy weed user.I completely agree and thank you for making this thread. My ex smoked weed all the time and I got so sick of dealing with him being out of it, silent, staring into space, giggling at dumb stuff like a child would, forgetful, and just not "there". It was so, so unattractive. And when I put my foot down and broke things off with an ultimatum, while I believe he did really love me and was devastated, he simply dove into smoking more and it was like he couldnt enter into reality and do what he neede… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 02:42 AM |
| 20 | Do guys ever ghost you because you’re out of their league? Is this a thing?Definitely. Guys don't approach women theyre intimidated by, and if, by some weird chance or luck or her just being willing to take a chance, he gets on a date with a HVW, there's a good possibility that theyre both going to sense it, it's going to be awkward, and they're both getting to get the vibe that she's way out of his league. Scrotes HATE having their egos dented so they'll totally ghost as a way of getting out of the inevitable rejection. Scrote psychology 101 is that HVW annoy them bec… | /r/askFDS | 25/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 16 | Today I was told to be less professional at work...Don't worry girl. He probably wanted you to go off on him or get some big reaction. You saying "Oh okay, thanks!" with a big smile is a dismissal and proving to him he didn't get to you, which will irritate him more. This week I had to deal with a RUDE evil scrote waiter who was super nasty to me, and as he approached my table to try to chat/make up for it right before he brought the check, I made sure to laugh and smile with him. Then I tipped him zero dollars, laughed, and went on my way. I kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:32 AM |
| 52 | When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over thereGood for you. It's amazing that they actually get ANGRY at women's standards. Like if a dude was asking me a lot of questions about my life I would think he was interested and maybe I would be like "this is TMI" but the RAGE they have boiling at the surface towards women's standards is really shocking. I agree US women have lower standards. I'm from the US and I've had so many female friends ask me "How did you date a guy like that?" or "Wow, he's such a catch!" about men I've dated. It's like..… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 69 | When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over thereI love this. So disgusting the way American and other western scrotes fetishize and sexually prey on SE Asian women or Eastern European women. Kudos to any of those women who manage to take them for all their worth, get a green card, and dump these LV losers. The absolute delusion and pathetic entitlement, not to mention trying to use economic desperation to prey on women, is so repulsive in every way. I just feel bad for the women that have to deal with these men for any period of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 09:05 PM |
| 95 | This girl’s TikTok of other male students making rape jokes in class was posted to another sub. This is what the average redditor thinks.And this is why I have zero sympathy for the fact that there are more male virgins than ever before in recorded history. Suck it, you losers. You want to treat us like garbage? Cool. Then no sex for you and that's that. Congratulations, you played yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 231 | The new dating scam.But make sure you give it to the STAFF- not the scrote, because these crazy stingy scrotes might pocket the money themselves and pretend you didn't pay. Once you realize you're dealing with a LVM take every precaution you can, because they truly are CRAZY and DERANGED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 369 | The new dating scam.Another version "I was lied to and abused by a woman on a date who pretended she was into me and then ghosted me. Feeling very depressed. Reddit, what can I do to prevent being abused by women in this way again?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:14 PM |
| 30 | As she should !I feel so broken 😔that my girlfriend is upset that I called her a whore 😭 please help me try to understand 😞 I'm the victim and I need help! 😢 Subtext to reddit scrotes: I am being abused by my evil girlfriend who overreacted to my harmless joke and is now verbally abusing me by making me feel bad and doubt myself. It's so pathetic how these losers play victim. I cant even with this gaslighting fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 11:13 PM |
| 131 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?LOL and it's always dudes doing that weird stuff at the gym. I have NEVER seen a female just blasting music in a portable boombox yet I have seen multiple scrotes doing it. Even weird women would never have the audacity to behave this way in public, yet men do it without even a second thought. They really are so annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 70 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Yessss!!! I would always go into the gym so pumped to work out and then some scrote would do the most to be as annoying as possible and leave annoyed. Since quarantine I have just been working out at home but preparing mentally to go back soon. I just wish there was a scrote repellant you could spray when any LVM tried to pull this BS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 178 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?OMG is this a scrote thing? I think LVM crave attention and there was some scrote at my gym who would go and do "sprints" (usually like 30 seconds- 1 min at maybe 10mph) and then stand on the sides of the treadmill for 15-20 min (while it was still running) and swipe madly on tinder. Keep in mind at this gym there were only 3 treadmills, usually only used by the women, and him doing this prevented a ton of females from running on it. They realllllly love these stunts to try to get women to pay a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:14 PM |
| 311 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?I notice a lot when i am sitting alone in an area, that all the women will make a beeline to sit around me, or other females. And I do the same- will totally sit next to another girl, and generally we give each other a small smile and nod. It's really nice and I love when there ends up being a little group of like 8 women dispersed sitting around little tables in a shop or whatever, close together. Feels so safe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:12 PM |
| 132 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?And he's obviously seeking out these women to sit next to and get up in their space. I can't count the number of times I'm sitting alone in an empty coffee shop and of all the tables, some scrote decides to pull up right next to me at the table over. Honestly I think subconsciously they crave female energy. They think because they dont directly ask us out that we cant feel them staring at us and ogling us and generally stealing our energy. So stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 66 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?"Yesterday I had to use the fly machine at the gym next to a girl". WHYYYY do I doubt that? So many times creepy men have made a beeline to stand next to me at a gym. I've noticed they do it to other females as well- like any good looking chick in the gym will suddenly have four guys working out around her, all LOUDLY grunting and making crazy noises that are borderline shouts. 99% of the time they have no intention of actually being brave enough to go up and ask her out on a date, they just wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 95 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.That is such a perfect way to deal with narcissists. Just being like "You don't matter to me" sends them into a rage spiral like nothing else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 154 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.10000%. She is really pretty and I do believe that that was a factor in it. I am an attractive female and I believe that the presence of a very pretty woman often provokes feelings of rage in scrotes. I couldn't count the number of times I have received shockingly bad or hostile service from male service workers, or glares, or just pure nastiness, that seem so out of line with normal interactions, and I do believe a lot of it is due to looks. I think in a scrotes brain it goes something like "I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 8 | Never, ever let men sexually manipulate you100%. Also they do it as a way to undermine young girl's self esteem, because EVERYONE gets older, literally. It's not a fixed characteristic. Even something like being muscular or skinny or having a certain body type can be controlled for, but age is obviously always changing. Young girls know that, even though it may seem far off, but they know that this is a temporary category, and if that "women over 30 are all bitches" that sooner or later they will enter that category. That leads to panic … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:53 PM |
| 13 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.Exactly! LVM are so immature it actually never fails to shock/surprise me, even after all these years. They are so short sighted, like a toddler who feels smug that he ate all the cookies from the cookie jar, not even thinking about how he won't get dinner and wont get dessert for the rest of the week. Most people age out of that by about age 7, but these LVM losers are constantly giggling about the dumb, rude stuff they do to women. And then they act shocked when women dont want to date, get ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 6 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.I agree. I'm a pretty bold person and would never be able to have so little shame to beg someone for a meal over Venmo like this. LVM really are something else... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 9 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.Either no response or something like "Sorry, but this seems really manipulative and kind of vengeful since I said I wasn't into you romantically? Not interested in sending you any money nor do I remember agreeing to that. I would suggest not making those requests to women in the future as it does seem fairly creepy, disingenuous, and predatory. Spending that cash on therapy instead of dates is probably a wise idea! Best of luck!" and THEN block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:31 PM |
| 9 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meWhat really stuck out to me is the last line. "a few agree with me that she's just too impulsive." So basically he's talking shit about her to her entire friend group. This chick sounds like she has literal magic- she sounds so fun to be around and like such an overall powerful success. And meanwhile she's got this man, who's supposed to be on her side, hating on her and by his own admission talking trash about her behind her back. I've had friends talk bad about me and it really hurts so much, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:03 PM |
| 3 | More young men are living at home, not participating in the workforce, and playing more video games. What a surprise! /sAmazing comment! I think about this a lot. You should make a post about this to the sub because it's something we should definitely be talking about on here. I would make a post but I am nowhere near as educated in the details about you and just am generally aware of how the insane amount of chemicals we're exposed to is so harmful to men in particular, but it's really fantastic to hear someone break it down so specifically. This is a huge factor in the prevalence of LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:57 AM |
| 11 | Women are getting it now. Slowly but surely.Also, friendly reminder to women that we can have kids on our own if that's something you want! If you don't find a HVM man, hit up a sperm bank! Sperm is cheap and plentiful and very easy to access. Or have a short term relationship with a young, hot dude, and block him once you get pregnant. Whatever strategy you choose works. But please dont make the mistake of thinking you need a man to start a family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:41 AM |
| 17 | 'Spiritual'/hippie menCompletely agree! I am actually into all of that stuff,but it seems to me that 99% of men in that community are super predatory, gross, and just generally low value. It's the same with the "free love" movement in the 1960s, which was a cover for getting free sex from women and even things like incest and pedophilia. I'm into some of the metaphysical stuff but most of the men who are in it are absolute weirdos and degenerates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 08:55 AM |
| 20 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sI know! I was going to give a few examples of other gory things for lols, but honestly the fire and lit cigarette and brick pretty much are as bad as it gets. Like- these women need to stop pretending it's about sex, because this i just some sick, depraved, like horror movie stuff. It's actually bizarre and frankly embarrassing that anyone would even associate this stuff with sex- I mean WTAF is wrong with you. Get help!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 79 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sOMG, that is absolutely sickening. I just checked the history of the guy you were arguing with and he seems like some sick freak cloaking himself in Christianity and going around pestering everyone in Christian subreddits to try BDSM. As a Christian, it is so disgusting to say a religion which is supposed to be centered around kindness and peace would encourage hitting your wife and absolute depravity. These people are SICK to the core and hiding behind Christianity now too, I guess. There are n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 103 | Apparently all girls want to have violent sex 🙄 It's not cool enough to be vanilla /sSo they've escalated to cigarettes being burned on your skin, a brick being thrown at you, being lit on fire and a chainsaw? What can the pickmes do next to prove they're TRULY the KiNkIeSt GiRls ArOuNd? Isis style executions? There's really nothing left. The pickmes have outkinked themselves into a corner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 15 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.That makes me feel marginally better but the fact that a certain subset of LVM find this funny is so disgusting and depraved. Pure trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:11 AM |
| 32 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.Yep. And if she complains it's "What the heck!!! I was just trying to eat my pizza 🥺😞 My wife is so mean and abusive 😓" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:11 AM |
| 45 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.He's loving it. He's probably enjoying his pizza more because of her screams of pain. They hate us so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 90 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.It's a good thing this man didn't do this to me. He'd be castrated by the end of it. And I would file for divorce immediately. The sad thing is that women loose a huge, massive amount of blood and have basically a gaping wound down below from loosing the placenta, that takes months to fully heal. And this absolute pig is mocking it and posting her pain for the world to see. What kind of a sick, truly depraved failure of a person.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 12 | LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success!OMG. This actually made me tear up a bit. I remember reading about this a few years ago... maybe 2016? And just feeling so hopeless, desperate, and in despair about how much this world hates women and how there's no one who cares to stop this abuse. There are other horror stories I remember from my days when I monitored the porn scene more (I no longer do because it was too taxing for my mental health, but have SO MUCH respect for Laila and Gail Dines who are truly doing God's work by tracking t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 3 | She kicked him out of her house mid stroke lol. Don't let them use you as a fleshlight.Yeah I googled it and it said on the wikipedia that the vast majority was improvised and from what i saw of that scene it definitely didnt look like people reciting a script- that was 100% improvised and you could tell. Again I clicked out early but it's so interesting how he really went off when the woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. That was his trigger- the idea that a woman would believe she's desirable to him. He truly hates women and you can see/tell. Anyway thank you for shar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 07:10 AM |
| 6 | It's empowering!!! /sExactly. I thought it was so funny, or sad, how they showed the "audition" where the young, scared looking teenage girl was kind of awkwardly waving and standing around the pole, and cut to next scene- "You're both hired". Because it's not about dancing, it's literally any attractive female is just hired because theyre pieces of meat. It's all about the body parts and that's it. Theyre both "barely legal" and appeal to the pedo set and are pretty girls. Of course they were hired, but they make i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 07:04 AM |
| 4 | This reminds me of the slug storyAlso my fave "he's not a mind reader!!1!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️I love him!! He's so awesome and really supportive of women. Just a great guy all around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:01 AM |
| 9 | She kicked him out of her house mid stroke lol. Don't let them use you as a fleshlight.OMG... I started watching it and made it about 1 min (?) in, until he started calling her all those names as well as the C word and had to tap out. And apparently it was improvised? He is such a disgusting piece of garbage, and I had no idea it was so bad. He hates women so much. But I'm glad i know so I can start reminding people of this since Hollywood has totally brushed over this, so thank you for spreading this to people. What a piece of filth. He is truly SICK and depraved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:00 AM |
| 44 | She kicked him out of her house mid stroke lol. Don't let them use you as a fleshlight.I just read a blind item of him that someone sent in and they said 1) he had his bodyguard pick the girl out of the crowd at a club 2) he didn't say a word to her till they got to the hotel. I literally felt sick to my stomach reading that. He is so disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:20 AM |
| 106 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersYep and then in a vulnerable moment, when she's been psychologically broken down, lure her into sex. That's actually the premise of a lot of porn movies. LVM dont want women happily coming to them from attraction- they literally fantasize about desperate, crying, lost women being tricked into sex somehow, so this is the same kind of vibe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:07 AM |
| 113 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersAgreed, and she wants to desperately get in touch with the sister for why? So she can patch things up, slap an apology on it and get back to the status quo. Cut to next Christmas when the whole damn thing happens again, and then Easter, and then July 4th, so on and so forth. These LVM never change, and good for the sister for just being done with the whole thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 90 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersI was thinking that, from the "he was sulking alone the whole night" and the "she already has a new boyfriend?" question. Like... why on earth would anyone care so much or be so upset by someone getting a new romantic partner unless you're into them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:02 AM |
| 35 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersHa this whole thing is SO TRUE. I notice when I have really elaborate displays of femininity- i.e. nails done, makeup, hair on point, etc, I will get the DIRTIEST looks from men. A woman putting that much effort into her appearance proves she's feeling herself and LV men cant STAND IT. Also, the sister sounds like she's levelling up and knows her worth, since she refused to tolerate this treatment the first time it happened. Good for her. She will probably leave her dusty, sad sister behind with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:01 AM |
| 16 | This was a post asking men what boundaries they have with women. Literally the first answer scrote says he wants her to show affection when she doesn’t want to. What the actual fuck. This doesn’t answer the question, also suggests you don’t want her to have her own boundaries. LoserLVM love taking genuinely helpful psychology advice and insight that is primarily intended to help women in abusive relationships and twisting and distorting it to fit their nasty urges. It's called gaslighting, and they get a real kick out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:40 PM |
| 20 | Men with sistersI do think this is true but IMO it's a really good thing? I have a brother and he has more than one sister and IMO he's very comfortable around women, tends to view women as human beings, not just sex symbols. He will comment on a woman (like public figure) and notice her personality and not just her looks/appearance. Again, to me this is extremely HV and I consider it a green flag not a red flag. I am wary of men who cant really relate to women unless it's in a sexual or romantic way. I think t… | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | ‘No social media’ guysHonestly men are so insecure and jealous of women these days it’s embarrassing. This is what it is 100%!!! I have heard so many men say stuff like "If i could make money on only fans Id be on there every day". They are so envious of the amountof sexual desire we get and the amount of attention. They would sell their soul to have dozens of women lurking their socials masturbating to pics of them or wishing they could sleep with them. But theyre not brave enough to be honest and so they disguise i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:36 PM |
| -2 | ‘No social media’ guysI completely agree. I will add to this that men who hate selfies are a major red flag. There seems to be a big strain of men who love to go on and on about how stupid selfies are. When in reality, selfies really allow you to see deeply into someone's eyes and face, into their soul, in a sense. Anyone who is actually into someone is usually thrilled to see selfies, because you get a glimpse at their personality. But the act of taking and posting a selfie implies that you're feeling yourself and f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Saw this on Reddit a while ago and I was speechless. All the comments were saying they’d get a punch from their husbands for money…That's what they mean by wifey materials and goals... they want someone to carry and raise their kids while looking hot and being an absolute doormat who accepts their violence and mediocrity with a big ol grin and a laugh... just like the top pornstars are the ones who will take the most degrading stuff and still fake smile. Actually I think Andrea Dworkin wrote a piece about this whole thing but I'm blanking on the exact essay. But yes- the accepting abuse with a smile is a big part of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Saw this on Reddit a while ago and I was speechless. All the comments were saying they’d get a punch from their husbands for money…That would be like a dream to them. They get to get out all their manbaby rage on their partner while also getting plausible deniability "I only did it for the money! I'm not violent at all!" plus the cash. This is like #1 dream scenario! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 4 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.Haha I'm glad that was obvious! I reread my comment and was like "damn, that sounds crazy" and like you said, the lurking scrotes like to deliberately twist everything into their sick behavior. LOL all these scenarios you suggest are just making me laugh with how completely insane the meltdowns would be if the shoe was on the other foot. I can only imagine the complete rage the scrotes would be feeling if it got reversed. We need to make a commission to start posting things like "You know, I did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:58 AM |
| 14 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.And btw, to clarify, cause I realize it sounded worse than I meant- I want to tell them how attracted I am to my boyfriend's little brother or BFF, and give all kinds of nasty sexual details, and see their reaction. Not send death threats, lol, although i too would be curious how the manbabies on reddit would deal with even a fraction of the hate an average female gets on here. Everything you said is so well said. Exactly- it's fine to feel a passing attraction to someone, you cant really help… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 12:55 AM |
| 20 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.Imagine the “testeria“ if a woman said her biggest fantasy is to bang her boyfriend’s brother or her BIL or BFF’s boyfriend. OMG I can't even imagine! Such a fantastic point- you're totally right that they would probably send death threats and accuse her of abuse among other things. I know its not the healthiest reaction but now that makes me want to do that (* say I would like to sleep with a scrote's brother/friend) on some dumb reddit thread where all the men are going on about how hot their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:41 PM |
| 218 | Can we talk about this concept for a minute and why it should bother you as a woman?Almost every dude I've ever heard talk about this (in fact, every single one that I've heard talk about it) has said their love language is "physical touch", which seems to translate into "spread your legs for me right now or you're neglecting me". Gee, what an odd coincidence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:32 PM |
| 23 | What incentive or benefit does marriage provide for women?Such a fantastic point. What about the costs of her labor that he was getting for free? Because it's really expensive to hire a full time cook, nanny, tutor, driver, etc, and we all knew who was doing that work. But that doesn't get factored into the equation when it's the woman doing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:31 PM |
| 44 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.I couldn't count the number of times I have seen women pose questions on reddit or other sites like "What do you fantasize about?" to men (usually pickmes hoping for some super romantic answer) and get back "My wife's sister" or "my girlfriend's best friend". They LOVE to talk about it, love to give gory details about just how they would have sex with the sister and in what position. It's pretty sick. Low value scrotes do this stuff all the time, it's like a compulsion. So this doesn't surprise … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 99 | What incentive or benefit does marriage provide for women?So so true. My grandmother told me the same thing... she said when they were dating my grandfather was a perfect gentleman and then as soon as the ring was on, the bullshit started. She has told me many times that if she was a girl alive nowadays, like me, she would never get married, that it's way better for women to be single. And this is my grandmother, who would presumably love great-grandkids and everything! But basically marriage sucks for women, and divorce is even worse. Can you imagine … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 71 | What incentive or benefit does marriage provide for women?SO many men hide assets in divorce. SO MANY. They totally do that "move around to different bank accounts thing" and a lot of women are trusting and dont even have the time or inclination for nasty nefarious behavior like that. I agree that, for any successful woman, it's a huge risk to put that wedding ring on. It's something I really feel the same way as you about. What a sad world! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:06 PM |
| 118 | What incentive or benefit does marriage provide for women?All the comments are men laughing about him taking all her money and saying how great it is. And we're supposed to get our pussies wet and have sex with these evil little stupid scrotes who get off on women's suffering? How exactly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 198 | Billionaire Pedophile Rings are looking less and less like a conspiracy every day. Save yourself, Queen.It's actually bizarre when you look up the stats about the number of missing children. Like I knew kids went missing, obviously crime happens and people get assaulted/robbed/other violent crimes all the time. But it is WAY higher than I ever expected. Like it really doesnt make sense how many kids go missing. And of course, they love even more to go to third world countries and do this to kids that "no one will miss" or might not be reported or taken as seriously. That's why Epstein had his isla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 49 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)Yep because theyre bitter and angry because they know theyre not attractive. Literally bulging with negative energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:18 AM |
| 9 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)Every time I see him I literally want to projectile vomit 🤢 Also pretty sure he has a bigger cup size than me! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:17 AM |
| 31 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)I actually have a theory that this is the reason there are so many men lusting after very muscular instagram fitness models nowadays. Not body shaming anyone, the fitness models look fantastic. But for so much of history men have wanted a kind of "soft" looking woman, usually with a little tummy, soft arms, thighs that touch, etc. https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71GCEZppBkL._AC_SL1000_.jpg That was just the standard in "beautiful woman". Now, women are pressured into having visible muscle de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:40 PM |
| 10 | How do you clearly show a man your standards/expectations? Consistent, precise, and rapid ACTIONCompletely agree. I have learned to just ignore when they say something that selfish. You can see someone's distance on Tinder and if you live in a major city where trandsportation/travelling is an issue, like New York or LA or Chicago or literally anywhere where's there's traffic and it's a hassle to get across town, you have that conversation very early about "What neighborhood are you in?" if a man is asking you to commute one hour to him, that shows, at a minimum, that he has zero respect or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:02 PM |
| 140 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)Because this takes WORK, accountability, emotional regulation, self control, etc. All things that modern day scrotes don't have and will never have. Hence the trying to suddenly convince women that, despite the fact that the ideal of male beauty has ALWAYS been this (if you look at statues/paintings depicting beauty, the female ideal has fluctuated from being very curvy to slim, whereas the male ideal has ALWAYS been super muscular and lean), that women are attracted to pot bellies and bald spot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 66 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Oh yeah I forgot about this. Disgusting and inexplicable. She really hates young girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 06:05 AM |
| 68 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Yep they really see us as objects. It's like how irritated you get when your laptop glitches on you or your phone isn't working or whatever. Like... wtf, I bought you and paid for you and you cant do this one thing?! That's how a lot of men feel about women. For them, women speaking up about their perspective is like how you would feel if your toaster suddenly became sentient and announced they hate cooking bread. Like outrage and shock and then rage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:40 AM |
| 64 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Yeah I totally agree with you! And no worries, she does a great job of appearing woke and pro-women and "just one of you" so I dont blame anyone who doesn't realize the nasty stuff she's done in the best. She's definitely got a good PR team | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:18 AM |
| 276 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Chrissy Teigan is really trashy and previously mocked Courtney Stodden, who was a sexually groomed/trafficked 16 year old married off to a 50 year old Hollywood actor. I guess she thinks because she is married to an attractive, rich man her own age, who seems to let her do whatever she wants, that everyone is in the same dream situation. It's actually bizarre how closed minded and judgmental she is from someone who pretends to be somewhat of an ally to women. She seems to really go after the you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:44 AM |
| 38 | About Kodak BlackThis is so disgusting... this man RAPED a HIGH SCHOOLER and they are wishing he had done it to someone else so he can get off scot free? What in the fucking world is wrong with these scrotes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:12 AM |
| 459 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.And all the comments about this on the article I saw were saying how "mean" she was for doing this. You know what I think is mean? Sexually preying upon teenage girls. But once again, no one gives a single flying fuck about the girls and whatever emotions they have to deal with once this trashy Hollywood raisin is done with them. Nope, it's, once again, zero sympathy or empathy for women but constant empathizing with men and "What about the man's feelings?" Soooo sick of it But I will say, I a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:56 AM |
| 22 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!Yeah and this man had what looks like a sonicare toothbrush, which is like $150. He can afford to hire someone to clean his apartment once in a while. It would be nice to do this for a struggling single mother but of course that wouldnt yield male attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 17 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!I mean he probably does think she's crazy. What mentally sane or balanced person would do this. What mentally sane or balanced person would want to clean crud from someone's sink that theyre never going to see around for zero pay or compensation? Pickmes need to stop pretending theyre doing stuff "because they love it" and not for male approval because if that's the case they truly are mentally unwell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Men force you to speak in order to silence youThey also weaponize this as their reason to do tiny little annoying things that they KNOW you dislike and "it's your fault" if you dont feel like bringing it up. For example, the LVM in my life would send me constant text messages even after I asked them to stop. This is not someone I could cut out entirely, so I didnt block their number, which meant I was subjected to all kinds of random texts for months on end. A random photo of something they saw on their walk, "Have a good night" texts for n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Woody Allen is the REAL victim according to Dr Todd Grande and his many fan....1000%. I actually think there are some great youtube resources on narcissism but they always seem humble and strongly condemning of narcissism and uplifting to the viewers. I love Dr Ramani and "Surviving Narcissism" (the older guy on that channel is so sweet). But I always felt weird about Dr Grande so I never watched him. IMO you can tell a difference between the ones posting about narcissism because they desperately want to give help to people who need it and the ones who want attention, prai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:24 PM |
| 3 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?I found a lot of weird stuff about OP when I glanced through his history. His daughter also has a black eye? Like WTF? I mean I know accidents happen with kids but I come from a very large extended family and no kid I knew had a black eye at any point of time. Given this guy's willingness to physically menace his wife and the scared look on his daughter's face at the time, it just kind of sets off a "hmmm..." for me. He seems like a really dark character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:24 PM |
| 8 | Don’t believe what you readAnother interesting thing about this study is how different things were back then. Pretty much everyone got married, so if you were like a functional person without any severe mental or social issues, you were probably in a relationship. That probably has a lot more to do with someone's success levels at work and life in general than relationship status now. Back then it was so part of the culture that everyone had to be married that if you failed to marry, you probably had bigger issues going o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Don’t believe what you readWoowwwww thank you for look into that! I have been noticed that newsline making the rounds lately, I didnt know it was from 2016, but I think probably with the rise of FDS and the article from the NYT about sperm banks being in high demand and all that stuff, they are worried, so it makes sense they are misleadingly pushing that story right now. But thank you for clarifying. Those headlines did make me feel a little tug of worry when I first saw them, though my first thought was "Are they talkin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 34 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?Oh yeah. He was saying it condescendingly, like "I was worried I was gonna get a lot of hate for this from IDIOTS worried about my wife." A typical LVM mix of condescension and victim playing, their speciality. He was saying he was pleasantly surprised he hadn't gotten any. Even he knows how gross it is, which is saying something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:01 AM |
| 38 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?Wow, I think you're absolutely right. Light bulb moment for me. I do think mostly everything LVM do is this desperate scrabbling for status from other men. It's really kind of sad, pathetic, cringey, and embarrassing. But it explains so, so much of their behavior, esp on reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:14 AM |
| 77 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?They do this awful stuff and then act like WE'RE the bad guys when we dont find them delightful little dilettantes. I think it's a form of boundary pushing too- like they know that no one would enjoy being treated that way and that's part of the fun, forcing us to deal with their nasty behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 53 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?I know. And of course all the men upvote it to the front page of reddit and are like "Goals!" Even the LVM OP of that post said he had expected some concern for his wife, and he was surprised that the only concern shown was for the lobster. Reddit hates women so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 90 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?I'm glad you noticed it too because I debated making a post or not. I'm sure the scrotes will say I have "no sense of humor" or something, because we dont find terrorizing your wife to be a barrel of laughs. I agree with everything you said so much. It reminds me of David Dobrik. Those were exactly the kinds of jokes he made for years about any woman in the vicinity and now all this stuff came out. Its a major red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 55 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?I wouldnt even expect a kid to act that way to their mother though. If I chased my mom around with a lobster she would not have been happy with the disrespect. I really think they have contempt for the women theyre with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 28 | Guys on OLD who write “Message me first” 🤡Or the ones who complain about women giving short answers. They'll ask you "How is your day?" And when you write back "Good, what about you?" That's a CRIME and you are lazy and ENTITLED for expecting them to "do the heavy lifting of the conversation". Most men today are such utter backwards losers they really expect women to like sweep them off their feet Prince Charming style, as if the scrote is Cinderella and the belle of the ball and you're supposed to wine and dine and enchant them until t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:04 PM |
| 120 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenOr she's a pick me just trying desperately to be the "cool girl" and avoid seeming shallow, which, we all know, is the WORST THING EVER a girl can be, on par with being the dreaded "gold digger". To a pick me that's a fate worse than death | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 124 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenA study funded by men, researched by men, interviews probably conducted by men, marketed to male publications... But sure! I'm sure you got totally honest answers. That's why teenage girls have posters up on their walls of Judd Apatow and Seth Rogen and not... Justin Bieber, members of BTS, Chris Hemsworth, Timothee Chalamet, etc. But yeah, we're all sooooo attracted to fat, jiggly, hairy male stomachs. Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:57 PM |
| 25 | I'm surprised when my HV husband doesn't respond the way I expectI absolutely love this. I think this sums up so well my experience with the HVM I dated- constantly being shocked and surprised by the kindness, responsibility, and concern he had for me. It serves as such a contrast to the typical male behavior and makes you realize what youve been putting up with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 11:50 PM |
| 6 | If he wanted to he would: A very important reminderThis is true in the vast majority of cases but there are men who have fear of rejection, or trauma theyre working too, or financially not feeling ready. However, that doesn't really change it. Whether they want to text you or not, or theyre in love but are convinced theyre not good enough, whatever the issue is, that's still probably not something you want to deal with. The dude who is in love with you but too shy to actually put it out there and ask you out on a date is going to be a nightmare … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 104 | What Is Happening on Reddit Shows the Importance of Female Run SubredditsBTW, I am not even talking about specifically female focused subreddits. It's amazing that we can have these conversations here, and the importance of FDS cannot be overstated- but how much better would it be if we could have these conversations openly, on a subreddit about, say, video games, or a certain music genre, or a cooking subreddit? It doesnt even have to be deep FDS theory, but just women speaking openly with each other usually gets deleted by the mostly male moderators (overwhelmingly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 08:58 PM |
| 50 | What Is Happening on Reddit Shows the Importance of Female Run SubredditsYep! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 08:54 PM |
| 16 | The annoyingly persistent manWow. It's about violating boundaries IMO. LVM get a kick out of taking a woman's boundaries and shredding them. My experiences with LVM prove to me that to them, violating the boundary IS the fun part. Getting you the wrong cereal brand you asked for, shrugging and being like "Who cares?" when you're breathlessly and excitedly telling them a story, pushing you for sex ("Come on, it'll be fast! We haven't had sex in a week!") when you're too tired, bringing you back a regular pastry when they kno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | HVM Behavior in Male CelebritiesYeah and to clarify I never meant that in a bad way. I actually think that's pretty healthy since as women we're just, IMO... so much better than men. So of course we should be calling the shots! Every woman in my family has been that way, so maybe that colors my ideas of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:43 AM |
| 15 | The 🍵 is piping hot 🔥 this morningBut that's tied in to sexual/romantic interest. I mean... this is LVM we're talking about. Their motives are never going to be Romeo and Juliet pure love lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:41 AM |
| 30 | The 🍵 is piping hot 🔥 this morningYeah I agree. Hoping that they can reduce the woman's status by sexualizing her. Needless to say I volleyed it right back by laughing at him and telling him I would never date someone pathetic like him, so the attempt failed. But I do think they develop genuine sexual interest in women who do that since so much of their sexuality is tied up in the same motive. It really does turn them on, though they would need lots of additional therapy to get down to the various roots that cause it. I also thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:38 AM |
| 60 | The 🍵 is piping hot 🔥 this morningI'm convinced this is why I have so many creepy followers on here and random DMs from angry scrotes. They desperately want to engage with us through any means necessary. This was on another site but I remember there was some annoying misogynistic scrote and I absolutely ROASTED the hell out of him and afterwards he said he "liked that I was feisty" and asked me if I would be interested in going to dinner with him (i didn't have a photo posted and this was not a dating site). It's because men k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:19 AM |
| 17 | About the Atlanta murders; Misogyny is invisible. It never receives the same recognition and voice racism does.I completely agree. Our society is so desperate to avoid acknowledging the prevalence of misogyny that they will literally try to focus on anything else. I remember back in the 00s, it was unfortunately common for people to throw racialized names around as an insult. I.e. names that are traditionally associated with particular ethnic groups, usually used as a slur. (I dont want to give examples because duh, but people can use their imaginations). Now if you did that you would be raked over the c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 14 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesTHATTTTT is a genius idea. So like... get the guy to agree to do things through a clinic?! Why didn't I think of that? I'm sure the clinic does have this kind of thing come up occasionally and have systems in place for it. Thank you, because now that idea has made me feel a lot more at ease with that idea. And I agree that ONS can be risky and dangerous so that's definitely the last case scenario | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:30 PM |
| 19 | The last thing you should do as a woman is take “the initiative” to ask a man out and pay for dinner because you'll never take you seriously. 😷 Sis, this isn’t it.I just think whether you're male or female you can get a vibe from someone's appearance. And this lady, to me, says she's got a lot of problems. The HVM looks like she has her act together and high standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 14 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesI think about doing it with a friend or one of my exes who I still have a good relationship with. I just would make them sign an ironclad agreement where they would never try to seek custody, although I worry about how family courts would take it if they changes their minds later and wanted partial custody. Hopefully if you wrote it well enough, you'd be okay. (There's also the option of having a one night stand or short term relationship and obviously not telling the guy when you get pregnant) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:05 PM |
| 23 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesI've been thinking about that. Vincent Gallo (who is crazy and a very LVM) sells his sperm on his website for the comically priced million dollars. But I could definitely imagine a future where like male models or actors or well known dudes can bank their sperm. I feel like that would make a lot of money. And it's like- zero effort from the guys. And maybe they want to have kids or whatever but dont wanna raise them, so it would make some kind of sense to some of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 09:26 PM |
| 87 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesAs someone who is seriously considering using donor sperm one day, I love hearing that you have had a positive relationship with it. It really is being able to pick out the best of the best and I think that's such a positive thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 17 | HVM Behavior in Male CelebritiesI have definitely noticed that she 1000% wears the pants in that relationship. But I agree that seems to be typical in the kinds of relationships HVM seek out- they really want a powerful woman who kind of bosses them around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 65 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesWell hopefully the sperm banks will grow to meet the increased demand. You can still go through the banks, but I'm personally thrilled that women are not forcing themselves to marry LV scrotes, even if they do get it from facebook. They'll still get to raise the kids by themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 36 | HVM Behavior in Male CelebritiesYes! He puts effort into his appearance, health, and sexual appeal to women, which is an integral part of being a HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 165 | HVM Behavior in Male CelebritiesI like Chris Hemsworth. He's ALWAYS praising his wife (who is several years older than him, for all the lurking male scrotes that like to talk about 'the wall') and has been vocal about supporting women. I remember when he took the small role in Ghostbusters even though he was a huge name, when so many Hollywood scrotes refuse to take background roles to women. He just seems really nice, like a good husband who respects women and is loyal to his wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 95 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesYes and they add so much stress to the woman's life which totally leaches onto the kids. Many LVM on reddit today wouldn't be so LV if they hadn't grow up seeing a manbaby being waited on by their pickmeisha mom, leading to the delusional entitlement they have today. Everyone benefits when LVM are taken out of the equation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 318 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesYep! And under age 35 since sperm goes rancid early 🤢. Many of these guys are top tier men and you can pick for whatever you find attractive- so if you want blonde hair, or blue eyes, or dark skin- whatever you want, you get to choose! I just love that for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 284 | Tinder is going to start allowing its users to do background checks on potential dates and scrotes are FURIOUS.Love them calling it "supply of pussy". They really view us as nameless commodities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 8 | The last thing you should do as a woman is take “the initiative” to ask a man out and pay for dinner because you'll never take you seriously. 😷 Sis, this isn’t it.Everything is so well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 111 | The last thing you should do as a woman is take “the initiative” to ask a man out and pay for dinner because you'll never take you seriously. 😷 Sis, this isn’t it.I find it disgusting that she didn't mention pulling out the door for him and bringing flowers as well. Does she not think men deserve those things too? What an entitled selfish harpy!!! 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 69 | The last thing you should do as a woman is take “the initiative” to ask a man out and pay for dinner because you'll never take you seriously. 😷 Sis, this isn’t it.The contrast in appearance and energy between the healthy, well adjusted, vibrant, neat looking HVW and the disheveled, angry, messy, disgruntled pickmeisha really sums up so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:58 PM |
| 31 | Ladies, if a man waits until you’re engaged to tell you he gets off to farting in your face, it’s clearly YOUR fault for not making him feel more comfortable 🤡🤡🤡1000%. And the "no one gets to tell you how to feel about this, king" comments So a man feels anything and it's totally justified but a woman having serious issues with a kink that is disgusting to 99.9999% of human beings is the crazy and unreasonable and mean one. It's all so exhausting. And the fact that they couch it in faux-psychology/therapy terms makes it even worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 87 | Beware of the type of abuse of men withholding the fact that they are infertileThey know that sperm fertility is plummeting in the western world so this is a major risk for those of us who really want to start a family. I would say any woman in a relationship with a man who wants a kid should take him to have fertility testing ASAP. Or make sure he's 100% okay with her picking out from a sperm bank (and any costs associated with that) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 78 | Ladies, if a man waits until you’re engaged to tell you he gets off to farting in your face, it’s clearly YOUR fault for not making him feel more comfortable 🤡🤡🤡It always amazes me how men gaslight absolutely everything and everything. I even think they gaslight themselves, with the constant victim playing. He couldn't tell you because you're so judgmental and he was afraid of being rejected 🥺 Meanwhile if a woman does the slightest thing men don't like, even something completely normal and justified, like not being okay with a $5 ring from a vending machine, all the scrotes talk about how the man needs to dump her immediately and he dodged a bullet. Re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | What would be a healthy response?Yes and I would take it as a major red flag if a scrote sent this to me. Actually I think the question itself reeks of the kind of messages I got from LVM on OLD. Very male entitlement energy. Like I got random first opening messages asking me to go in depth about my favorite character from a book and why and it's like- dude, why would I type out the equivalent of a college english essay for you and we havent even met each other yet? It's like men want you to flay yourself and reveal every aspec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:56 AM |
| 7 | What would be a healthy response?I think this is bad advice. The most toxic scrotes will be able to handle this no problem and will probably even lie and say something like "I watched a documentary about Ruth Bader Ginsburg and I cried at her bravery" or something. The gaslight faux-feminist scrotes are the absolute most dangerous IMO and they would be able to answer this with ease. Some people, male or female, are less emotional than others. Like I cry frequently because I'm sensitive but I have family members who hardly ever … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:53 AM |
| 72 | 24 hours since joining POF. My advice? Just don’t do OLD. I didn’t include the three sick fucks who asked me to be their sugar baby (prostitute).What is it with them saying the most depraved, sick, inappropriate things all while acting really at sweet at the end and calling women "hun?" like they're your 83 year old grandmother. I guess at least theyre consistent with their gaslighting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 108 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceYeah and if they dont have a file yet this might start one. The guy might case this park and it might be escalating over time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 139 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceI am so, so sorry. Several things. First of all, know that this man spit on you because he is hideously jealous of someone radiating a bright light like you. A lot of narcissists and people with psychological issues are enraged when they see someone attractive or just seeming to exude happiness, and they want to ruin it. This is probably a pattern with him, of hating on females and being angry at the world, and they probably feel lonely and sad and pathetic at night. This is obviously not to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 14 | Tiktok is grooming young girls into thinking they trick grown wealthy men It’s absolutely terrifying because some of these women are even being *sponsored* by sites to advertise on TikTok and get people to sign up as soon as they’re 18I hope not :( That's one of the reasons I waited- I think it's entirely possible to raise your kids with a nice life on a single income, so long as you plan for that and get yourself into a high earning job or with investments before you hit, say, late 30s. Obviously you can have kids earlier if you are making money young, but I dont see why all single moms will be consigned to a life of poverty. As long as you're making a decent income, it shouldn't be an issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 43 | Tiktok is grooming young girls into thinking they trick grown wealthy men It’s absolutely terrifying because some of these women are even being *sponsored* by sites to advertise on TikTok and get people to sign up as soon as they’re 18Hard to explain but dirty old rich men carry an aura of the crypt. It's like staring into an nihilistic abyss of meaningless consumption, loveless exploitation and sexual despair. And that's when they're on best behavior. Your description is sooooo dead on!! Omg!! I had a friend similar to this, who never actually dated a billionaire or got to that level, but would hang out with like millionaire older men who would splash out on us. There is nothing as gross as being told to "come to this party!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 30 | Tiktok is grooming young girls into thinking they trick grown wealthy men It’s absolutely terrifying because some of these women are even being *sponsored* by sites to advertise on TikTok and get people to sign up as soon as they’re 18On another note, I wouldn't be surprised if alimony ceases to be a thing entirely in the coming decades. The governments of the West have pretty much realized by now that women will lie down and take anything. You can subject women to single motherhood and poverty without even a measly $300 a month and guess what? Women will take it. I think we all need to discuss less dating and more preparing for the future world in which governments are controlled by young millennial and zoomer men who grew u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 50 | Tiktok is grooming young girls into thinking they trick grown wealthy men It’s absolutely terrifying because some of these women are even being *sponsored* by sites to advertise on TikTok and get people to sign up as soon as they’re 18OMG yesssss!!! And a lot of rich men are sociopathic and narcissistic. I grew up in a wealthy background and trust me the men are all fucked up and rude and nasty and controlling of their wives. And if you don't like it- they can kick you out and find another. That's why so many rich kids grow up super messed up, and so many rich women are like crazy neurotic, super skinny, etc- because everything revolves around one crazy scrote who controls the purse strings. So is that really worth that? For … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:42 PM |
| 6 | Intuition vs fear with CPTSDYeah, so true. It's much better to listen than to ignore it! Any bad feeling I've had about someone has always turned out to be true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:45 PM |
| 42 | Woody Allen is the REAL victim according to Dr Todd Grande and his many fan....Well said. Now they're doing the same to Angelina Jolie despite the fact that the fucking FBI investigated him and he was blackout enough to drunkenly hijack a FUEL TRUCK at an airport in Minnesota. Like... WTAF? But of course, precious angel Brad would NEVER put his hands on his children or his wife because hardly any men do that and spousal abuse NEVER, EVER happens, not by men at least, and any woman who says it does is a mean bitch lying for attention. I am so sick of the misogynistic tras… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:16 AM |
| 6 | News coverage about the Atlanta murders.. no mention of the problem of violence against womenThey hate the idea of classifying misogyny as a hate crime, because they know that 95% of crimes against women by men would fall into that category. All LVM are terrified of having their hatred of women revealed for what it is, because it means a lack of supply for them. If women woke up and realized how many LVM despise us and how much of a danger men pose to women, 90% of us would probably become hermits or move into female only communities. They have one of those in Africa because the men cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:30 AM |
| 66 | Woody Allen is the REAL victim according to Dr Todd Grande and his many fan....I've always gotten a weird vibe from him. I have a very strong suspicion that many sociopathic men like to go into the psychiatry industry. I believe it was Freud who joked with someone that he couldn't go on vacation because "If I'm gone for a week, some rich woman might realize she's healthy!" Men love to go to other men for the purposes of pathologizing a "difficult" partner when a divorce is looming. Either the therapist can guilt the woman into acting right and resuming her job as a dutiful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:00 AM |
| 44 | Intuition vs fear with CPTSDSo I definitely feel this and understand what you're saying! For me, with anxiety, I can kind of feel my adrenaline kick in and my heart rate speed up. It's almost like a DROP in my stomach and then I can almost feel the cortisol kicking in. To suppress that reaction I take a lot of adaptogens like ashwagandha, l-theanine, and when I'm really stressed out, GABA (which kind of feels like taking xanax so I use it when I really need it but dont take it daily). Just holding your body back from launc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:56 AM |
| 19 | OH NO! I’ve been outed as ‘vanilla’ by some p*rn-sick scrote who says my sex life must be boring. Whatever will I do?!?!? #VanillaIsValidNice... a sociopath. I'm sure he gets upvoted frequently on this hellsite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:53 AM |
| 11 | OH NO! I’ve been outed as ‘vanilla’ by some p*rn-sick scrote who says my sex life must be boring. Whatever will I do?!?!? #VanillaIsValidDon't you realize that if a man isn't punching you in the face several times a night before he orgasms that you have a miserable life? And that violence against you magically has the power to cure depression and everything else? It's only logic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:52 AM |
| 49 | No surprise that 95% of the stories here are about men.And then occasionally the scrotes will try to make some post blaming a woman for being "scary" because they can see the disparity and it's always something like. "I was in a grocery store late at night and this really unattractive old lady came around the corner suddenly and glared at me." It's never actually legitimately scary incidences but they always try to drum up stuff against females | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:47 AM |
| 9 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPThe execs at Netflix who cast Zac Efron as his character. And then got mad at all the women who were attracted to Zac Efron and Zac Efron only. "How could you be attracted to a serial killer?! Women are crazy!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 157 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.This made me laugh so hard for some reason. I wish some woman would go in their and post it and watch the men lose their minds at having their favorite slogan thrown back at them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 47 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.She's doing the reddit equivalent of the waitress flirting with the balding, beer bellied 60 year olds. Flirting with the desperate for personal gain, just in the case of upvotes rather than actual money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 40 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.And that harsh exterior that disguises all his soft sweetness on the inside 🥺😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 176 | A great video on choice feminismChoice feminism is literally gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:17 PM |
| 30 | To hear what LV scrotes think of women and how they try to manipulate us, watch some "comedy." 100% he's not kidding. 50 years old, never been married, and this is how he treats women. High standards will save your life.It's funny to think of how much outrage there would be if the female equivalent of this scrote tried to do a comedy routine like this. Think of how many people RAGE over Amy Schumer, who happens to have an attractive face and has even dated men like Dolph Ziggler the wrestler, so clearly she's on a much higher attractiveness level than this pudgy, extremely short, balding scrote. And yet people get so enraged about Amy Schumer and are constantly name checking her for being entitled among other t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 20 | “Unplanned pregnancy” Men will trap you with a baby. Then you never finish school and end up being reliant on them. Stay vigilant queens!Oh yeah, I definitely wouldn't. Just saying, obviously I wouldn't date a LVM anyway, but unless I was 100% certain that I knew a man would make an excellent HV father, I wouldn't tell them about the pregnancy and would try to keep it on the DL as much as I could. My nightmare is splitting custody with a LV scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 57 | “Unplanned pregnancy” Men will trap you with a baby. Then you never finish school and end up being reliant on them. Stay vigilant queens!And I would also add not to tell your partner you're pregnant unless you're confident you want to split 50/50 custody with them. I cannot think of anything worse than having to send my child off to spend half his time with a LVM dangerous scrote. Of course this does not apply to HVM but there are so many horrible fathers out there who will infect children with LVM attitudes or worse- be abusive in a variety of awful ways. I know if I got accidentally pregnant with most of my exboyfriends I would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.OMG yes. That's why men push the "Golddigger" thing so hard.... because then women constantly have to prove we're not which equals more money for them! But I'm glad she has a HVW friend in you looking out for her and giving her advice. I'm sure she realizes now that she should have been listening to you a long time ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.Yeah. It happens soooo often and it's so heartbreaking. I heard of a story where this woman was going to get a big divorce settlement but she said she would give up $1 million if she just got an apology (which was most of the money). I guess to "prove" she wasn't a golddigger. Of course, he mustered up a totally insincere apology, and she lost out on a mill. Or Shannon Beador on the Real Housewives of Orange County crying when the judge increased her alimony to $40k a month (because that's what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 35 | To hear what LV scrotes think of women and how they try to manipulate us, watch some "comedy." 100% he's not kidding. 50 years old, never been married, and this is how he treats women. High standards will save your life.Of course a short, stumpy, balding, grey haired, unsuccessful/broke, pudgy neckbeard whining about women. What a shock! The amazing thing is his audacity with saying he of course wants younger women. The amount of audacity and entitlement, coming from such a mediocre nobody is really mind boggling. Literally no self awareness whatsoever, cloaking his bitterness and loneliness with “humor” that’s making fun of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.That would be amazing if she can get access to it. Unfortunately a lot of women are in marriages not thinking seriously about divorce and they may see an account and not screenshot or take a photo or email it to themselves, etc, and then it's just his word against hers, and we all know who the courts are more likely to listen to. For her sake, I really hope she did/does that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.Knowing about something and being able to prove it exists in court are two separate things. Especially with something easily hideable like crypto | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.Unfortunately I found articles about how crypto is now a primary way people hide money in divorces. It's super easy to hide. But it's good to know that if the crypto can be proven then courts will treat it like other financial assets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 13 | His reaction was scary 😳I think it's soooo interesting how the host seemed to be trying to heavily imply she should give the money to him (even saying, don't decide right away, I'll let you take your time, so she wouldn't listen to her immediate instinct) and all the guys, when they seemed to realize she was going to keep the money, started getting soooo angry and making nasty faces and starting to mouth off. LVM teaming up together as usual against women. Getting angry on behalf of each other when they realize a woman… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.I mean that's the theory but it's very different in actual legal practice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.Well, I mean it is different... it's a different form of currency. That's why I'd be interested to see how the courts have dealt with it in past family law cases. It's also way easier to hide crypto as this post proves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.Do you know if there's a precedent with crypto in particular? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 14 | Are you f$&@ing kidding me?Women are raised from birth to prioritize everyone else's emotions and be empathetic and put their own needs last. As demonstrate by the statistics and facts we have about how does the majority of the work (aka who is doing the "treating") in relationships- it's overwhelmingly female. But anyway... let the stupid reddit LVM scrotes do their victim circle jerk. They're just going to whine and moan and pat each other on the back until they hit 45 and are officially unfuckable and have a massive … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:13 PM |
| 9 | “Flowers are impractical and expensive”, my ex said. He was not a flower guy and I thought I could accept itYou can actually even get flowers for like $4. And I always get mine from Whole Foods and usually get like a $15 bouquet, but I actually love some of the cheaper bouquets because they're usually one kind of flower and I love the simplicity of it. Anyway, I'm so glad you're happy now. Never tolerate lame LVM lies and excuses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 38 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.I was wondering the same, whether crypto would be subject to different legal standards. Soooooo many men hide assets during divorce, you would be shocked. Most of them are sneaky masters at it. I would say something like 70% of men try to hide assets during legal proceedings- they are pros at looking out for themselves ONLY, with no regard for their kids either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 135 | Woman asks men who are into exploiting their wives sexually for other men (wife sharing etc) why they enjoy it, gets this response. Imagine seeing your wife as a sex toy that’ll earn you brownie points with The Boys.OMG these men are so pathetic. Can they just stop bothering women and just have sex with each other already since they obviously only crave each other's approval, emotions, etc? These LVM DESPERATE for male approval are so insidious and dangerous because they tend to use women as a form of currency. I avoid those kinds of dudes like the plague | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 86 | Reminder: they won't miss a beat in replacing you. His dying wife said go back to ex "he often talked about" Nah sisI think a ton of men do this. They usually have some dream HVW that wouldn't tolerate them because they didn't act right, that they pine over, while settling for more of a pick me or woman who will put up with them. Men need women to do emotional and physical labor, aka cleaning the house, cooking, raising kids, and all the emotional stuff as well. So when they can't have what they really want, they often settle for a very productive, workhorse type of woman who will make their lives easier, whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:29 PM |
| 20 | What are your thoughts on this? Nearly all comments say “to make sure you’re not a catfish” but I don’t buy it.Yeah. I've been messaged by a few catfish on SM and they're so easy to spot it's crazy. And the female catfish I've gotten are almost always porn star or model lookalikes. The problem is these are men trying to date wayyyyy out of their league. You dont see catfishes of like middle aged, average weight women, even attractive ones. That's what these men would be lucky to be dating, but they really want to believe that the underweight 18 year old with huge fake breasts and a face like a VS model h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 20 | What are your thoughts on this? Nearly all comments say “to make sure you’re not a catfish” but I don’t buy it.Because forcing a woman to take selfies for you is forcing her to do labor for you, which LVM love. LVM have a pathological obsession with being catered to like a widdle baby. In order to take a selfie, I personally have to find a quiet space (because I hate taking them in public with others watching), angle it correctly, plaster a big smile on my face, etc. It's not like it takes ten hours to do, but no matter what you have to stop whatever you're doing, pull out your phone, and then pose for h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 13 | Have any of you ladies actually gotten an orgasm from men?I’m like some of the other posters here in that I orgasm pretty much every time from sex. Often very quickly- like after a minute, also. Once friends started telling me about their issues having orgasms I was shocked and then googled it and realized I was actually the unusual one, not them, and I asked my gyno and she said a lot of it has to do with clit placement down there. I think mine is just situated so it gets stimulated during sex. But I also think a big part is I’m VERY selfish and direc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futureYeah I totally do this for family and friends. You really don’t realize how much mental space it takes up and man is it depressing when you kind of add it all up. But the good thing is now we can choose to have different relationships and lives, with people we not only don’t have to wait on but who actually consider/ want to help US! What a concept | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 17 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futureWow this hits so close to home... she really sums it up for us codependents. Although I think I do this even more in friendships and family relationships than romantic relationships. But this is so spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Normalize being creeped out by grown men who date childrenWow. Gotta say I’m not surprised because for years there were blind items (specifically from Ted Casablancas) about John Mayer liking to defecate on women- so not just pee, but the other stuff. He is truly so depraved and disgusting, and- as is typical for these predators- bundles it up under a disguise of “aww shucks, I’m such a bungling nice guy” act. He’s seriously as sick as it gets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:37 PM |
| 71 | Men need to stop complaining that they do not receive compliments from women.Yeah. I once smiled at a man in a store, and I guess I must have passed him earlier, because he flirtily asked me why I was following him, with a big grin. That was a lightbulb moment for me where I truly realized how men were crazy, and even the most businesslike, polite smile and nod gets turned into "please take me into the back room of the deli and have sex with me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Men fetishize and love the idea of "dad jokes" so much because it's proof of their social power/status- forcing other people to sit through uncomfortably unfunny jokes and fake laugh just to appease/not enrage the male head of household1) it's not really a meme 2) You sound just like all the other pickmes worrying about what men think and questioning "why are you making such a big deal?! It's harmless!" Anyway, this is a deep conversation that I think is out of your capacity, so I'll just stop engaging. Take care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Men fetishize and love the idea of "dad jokes" so much because it's proof of their social power/status- forcing other people to sit through uncomfortably unfunny jokes and fake laugh just to appease/not enrage the male head of householdWho said anyone is "up in arms"? As woke/aware women, it's our job to critically examine all kinds of society and patriarchy- yes that includes jokes. For years, we weren't even supposed to object to rape or "women are so dumb" jokes because it made us harpies. The fact is jokes say a lot about our societal values. IDGAF what the loser misogynists of reddit think, I'm on this sub to speak to and enlighten and learn from other intelligent and deep thinking women, so if people think I'm "crazy" or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:29 AM |
| 55 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresI know. To know so many women are living like that has really shocked me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 92 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresYeah. It's crazy. I'd love to drop some wisdom on those poor women but they keep it pretty controlled, you're not allowed to post unless you're also a mom and you get banned if you "shame" anyone in anyway, which seems to mean expressing concern about most of their appallingly shitty situations. So it's like this circle jerk of fellow women who have been really dumb about their relationship, giving each other bad advice ("Have you tried really listening to him? Maybe giving him a massage? He mig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 57 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresI really hope your documenting everything including his lack of help with the kids. Document EVERYTHING you can. You will be so glad you did when it comes time for court | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 161 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresAnyone in doubt about the huge number of women in exactly these kinds of relationships needs to visit breakingmom. The number of guys who literally add NOTHING- no income, NO household help, no cooking, no childcare, just sitting around playing video games and watching porn, is astronomical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 32 | Men fetishize and love the idea of "dad jokes" so much because it's proof of their social power/status- forcing other people to sit through uncomfortably unfunny jokes and fake laugh just to appease/not enrage the male head of householdIt also models their desired male/female dynamic- men being mediocre and adding nothing of importance, but being tolerated and even celebrated simply because of their male status | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:58 PM |
| 18 | “If he wanted to, he would”... what matters is he didn’t! Who cares! Keep doing you!!100% true. I had an ex where everyone would tell me "he didn't act right so he didn't care enough" but I knew in my soul that it wasn't true... I knew he was being dysfunctional and I knew that he was really in love with me, but just couldn't get his act together. So I would nod and be like "Yeah" but meanwhile I could never really move on because in my heart I knew he did care. After several years of this I finally GOT IT where I realized that... it truly didn't matter how much he loved me in s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Sorry this is a late response but 100% true and well said! It's like kristen stewart will get shit on for walking around with zero makeup and casual clothes, when she has flawless skin, but some older woman wearing neon pink lipstick that clashes with her natural skintone will be praised and accepted. Proof that the "makeup makes you look better" excuse is a lie. It's basically a sign of submittal to the patriarchy and that's why people like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:19 AM |
| 63 | LibFem Twitter is at it again. WTF is “Sexual Mutual Aid”? Notice how quickly the Incels jumped into the fray to spin this idea into a way to punish women who won’t have sex with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Exactly. Only a truly privileged beyond belief western clown could ever actually assert this with a straight face. Honestly, I'm sure she's the type that would go on about how people need to "check their privilege" but her level of privilege and cluelessness and selfishness is truly disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:17 AM |
| 25 | LibFem Twitter is at it again. WTF is “Sexual Mutual Aid”? Notice how quickly the Incels jumped into the fray to spin this idea into a way to punish women who won’t have sex with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️OMG what a noble and incredible concept. She can start with "providing sexual services" to all the incels on her twitter timeline, since they have been so deprived of sexual access. That morbidly obese neckbeard who lived in his mom's basement and has a 2 foot long braided beard? Go ahead and fuck him girl. After all, you're supposedly a noble and kind girl, and what's a little altruism at the end of the day? I look forward to her giving her report about all the "sexually deprived" men in her tw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:15 AM |
| 7 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Yeah... he actually put in a lot of effort relatively speaking (he'd asked me to a lot of stuff, but this was just the only one I felt comfortable with) but he was extremely LV. Unattractive, rude/entitled personality, one of those guys that thinks it's powerful/sexy to make little digs at the women around him, socially unskilled, immature, and most of all... UNATTRACTIVE. And yet he still thought he was like Brad Pitt and could get any girl he wanted including me. So many LVM are straight up DE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 62 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉I love this SM!! And LVM men for some reason HATE IT and get so triggered when a woman doesnt put any effort to please them. Back in the tme before I really became a radfem, I had this guy friend who was always flirting with me, trying to push things into a sexual place (would like scare away other guys who tried to talk with me), and kept pressuring me that we should hang out. Eventually I kind of felt I had to, but the funny thing is, when I went over to his place, to make it clear nothing wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.It might be your IUD... I have never had one so I cant say for sure. But I will say I hate the idea of these various chemicals that turn off women's reproductive abilities. I guess I just dont trust the men that are devising these hormones and I generally dont think they test/develop medicine for women very well. I have a friend who is a doula and she is just so opposed to various forms of hormonal birth control from her experiences seeing what happens to women's fertility among other things. Bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:40 AM |
| 9 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.I mean do you! If that's your "break" from sex then go for it although I will say you need no reason to take a break and I have told dudes before "i don't feel like it" and just not had sex for several days/ a week/ however long and they have to deal with it. Quality guys will be fine with it so long as you are enthusiastic about sex when it happens, and I have always told men that for me to be all in during sex I need to have it when I want, aka not having weird "duty sex" just to satisfy them … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:32 AM |
| 51 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.Very true. And this is also why I cant understand women who won't have sex during their period cause it's "gross". Like that's when I'm BY FAR the most turned on, the most ready to go, the most craving it (Also, hot tip- orgasms actually help with period cramp pain, so if the motrin isn't working, bust out that vibrator or call over your man if you're in a committed relationship). I feel so bad for women that miss out on the glory that is period sex because some disgusting scrote with a crooked … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:06 AM |
| 23 | The Real Reason He Should Pay for Dates"there is a 100% guarantee that there will be times in your life when you will physically not be able to contribute "50/50", the way our modern society sees it. Pregnancy and childbirth take a toll on the body" ITA with this statement but it's fucking insane that the actual pregnancy and giving birth isn't like 90% of that equation, because the child wouldn't even exist without that! But of course, society hates to acknowledge that because it would show how unimportant men are to the whole thing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 25 | The notion that attractive women only go for 'chads' in their 20's and settle for ambitious 'beta's' when they hit the wall is a lie. It puts the blame of bad male behavior on women and also doubles as a narrative where single women are punished for not choosing LVM (the narrators) in the 1st place.I gotta say, i did go for the attractive "chads". But that's cause that's what I'm attracted to, so why should I apologize? Why should I, even for a second, feel bad about it? No man in their right mind would be expected to date a woman he's not attracted to, so why should women? We continue having this stupid guilt trip put on us, like we have to prove we're not *gasp!* shallow... well call me shallow all f-ing day. I dont care. If I dont want to rip a guy's shirt off, we're not having sex, per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | (TW: violence against women, domestic abuse) Man beats woman in public for breaking up with him, male bystanders do nothing, only women intervene- this is why I intend to buy a gun!This is so true. I'm so sorry that happened to you, btw. Seriously so many men just do not give a shit outside what is going on in their video game or the porn they're watching | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 22 | Well OF COURSE I'd be down for a threesome with 2 randos in the midst of a pandemic!I wonder if he got pissed off that you invited him to start the conversation instead of speaking to him first, cause, ya know, modern men expect to be wooed with elaborate pick up lines (they whine a lot on r-tinder about women not speaking first) and decided to "get you back" with this insulting "offer". Anyway, another pig. It is nice when they show themselves up front rather than wasting your time and energy by pretending to be normal on dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Another day, another Pickmeisha Sex ColumnistHaha thanks for your comment, glad to know I could make someone laugh. God knows we've got to keep our senses of humor when dealing with these Pickmeisha and LVM clowns! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Bare Minimum Twitter Bragging About Men Displaying Basic Decency. iCan't.Can someone please find this man and give him a trophy? Maybe someone can contact the president and get him some kind of medal or formal recognition ceremony? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 7 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?Hostility and misogyny and entitlement directed towards women he's supposedly trying to woo into sex/a relationship. Absolute clown world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 12 | Another day, another Pickmeisha Sex ColumnistHonestly I'm not trying to be mean but she sounds super desperate. Also being brutally honest she sounds like she must be doing something really wrong in bed since everyone gets sick of having even NSA sex with her. It's almost like most people don't want to have sex with someone who clearly has weird violent/self loathing tendencies... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 12 | Another day, another Pickmeisha Sex ColumnistWTAF? I thought I heard it all but put his fingers down her THROAT? That is horrifying "So many women internalize men's hatred of the feminine and project that onto themselves and other women in their life." That is so perfectly stated. It's almost like on a deep subconscious level they can sense men's hatred for them, don't know what to do with it, on a deep, cellular level, so they try to appease/deal with that energy by directing that hate towards themselves. Sad. These women need to read som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | LMAAAOO another queen out there driving away her scrote. We support you sis. If a man is uncomfortable with this sub, he's NOT A HVM.If he doesnt like being lied to by his overly nice girlfriend by her calling him a LVM to soothe his weak little ego, he's gonna hate when she actually tells him the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:02 PM |
| 57 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedOMG, the "you poor thing who doesn't have any confidence" neg... I've gotten that one before and when I was younger it would actually work, I would be like "oh no, do I come off as not having confidence?" Now I actually think it's men's wishful thinking, them literally trying to "speak it into existence"... because they only say it to women who make THEM feel insecure, as a way to try to direct it back to them and actively make the woman feel that emotion as a way to make her more vulnerable. Go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:19 PM |
| 122 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedExactly... because "sexually confident" means "doing whatever a man wants you to do." Makes perfect sense, because that's how words work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 80 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedLOL the funny thing is he probably thought once you got the text you would feel the urge to "convince him" and would be like "Wait, please, i'm sexually confident too, come back! Let me prove it to you by letting you raw dog and giving you head for 30 minutes!" So absurd. These men are dumb as a box of rocks. Anyway, bullet dodged, HVW behavior pays off yet again! Hell yeah, OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Which one of you Queens was this?I've had random coworkers bring me coffee back that I barely knew, and I've done the same. Unless you're down to your last dollar it's really not a big deal at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 24 | Which one of you Queens was this?And now he will tell stories on reddit for karma about the "gold digger" who used him for a cup of coffee! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:59 AM |
| 4 | Never put the bar on the ground... 🤦🏽♀️So true... they'd rather argue and do destructive things rather than just stepping up. Oh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:12 AM |
| 36 | She asks them to hold each other responsible. They retaliate with garbage comments as expected, thread gets locked.It's amazing. Soooo many men have almost zero emotional regulation. They will fly into an absolute RAGE whenever a female disagrees with them in any way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 3 | I can't get over my ex and it has been about a year."He's still friends with people who bullied me and never stood up for me. He's still friend with this horrible bully who he had a crush on." I wonder if this is part of it. If he had a perceived "high social status" than you, then dating him would alleviate lots of insecurities you may have had about yourself, that a guy like him would want you. You have to realize you already have that status yourself, he didn't help you at all. Whatever is special in you existed long before he ever came along … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:07 PM |
| 16 | Pick Me Of The Decade Got Me Banned From Dating Over 30 For Putting Her In Her Place After She Came At Me & Lied About Having A Boyfriend When I advised A Recently Pumped & Dumped OP Woman To Withhold Sex Until Commitment If That Is What She Wanted-5th Similar Type Of Post On The Sub This WeekThe posters in FDS are so much more socially capable, pleasant, and intelligent than anywhere else I've seen on reddit, literally by miles. I mean there is NO comparison. Leaving FDS to go to other parts of reddit is like leaving an elegant cocktail party to hang out in a trash infested playground, with screaming children and possibly wild animal running around. It's always very jarring. Cause most reddit users genuinely dont have lives or social skills and THAT's why they spend all their time o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:21 AM |
| 13 | Pick Me Of The Decade Got Me Banned From Dating Over 30 For Putting Her In Her Place After She Came At Me & Lied About Having A Boyfriend When I advised A Recently Pumped & Dumped OP Woman To Withhold Sex Until Commitment If That Is What She Wanted-5th Similar Type Of Post On The Sub This WeekThe confidence and outspokeness of a FDS woman triggers a lot of people, both men and women, cause they can FEEL the truth of it it, as well as the power, and the authority. They hate it, because women are supposed to shut up, damn it! And be subissive and sweet. Even a lot of women have internalized that. Too bad for them we have no intention of shutting up anytime soon and theyll just have to get used to it. Oh well, too bad!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:19 AM |
| 3 | I don’t like to blame women, but can I just place this here as basic shit (LVM/NVM/LVF) related?Oops the accuracy of this post... a lot of pickmes won't like it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:26 AM |
| 72 | Does this approach ever work?That's so fucking disgusting and unappetizing. These men really are crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:05 AM |
| 8 | To anyone who still questions if porn is all that bad: Laila Mickelwait on TwitterSo horrifying. The whole industry needs to be shut down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:29 AM |
| 9 | I Cannot Fucking Believe This Pickmeisha Made Me Agree with Joe Rogan. Dr. Debra Soh claims there is "No Such Thing As Porn Addiction". How Much Does the Porn Lobby Pay for these Researchers to Pretend That Porn Has No Effect On People?I love that they had her on! More people need to be aware of the massive public health crisis that is porn. It is the single most harmful thing on our culture. Hopefully more people will become aware of it since lots of "bros" watching Joe Rogan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:23 AM |
| 5 | Don't marry the first freakin' guy who gives you attention. NSFW due to strong opinion.Well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:32 AM |
| 43 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.It's amazing these entitled men who have ZERO self reflection and all their brain thinks about is "my pee pee wants X". It's like... men have literally ONE beauty standard to achieve, and that's lean and muscular. That's been the beauty standard of men for literally FOREVER. Meanwhile women have been depicted/sexualized at all different weights, including "curvy". Women are generally supposed to be soft and curvy (I'm sayig this as a fairly skinny woman, but soft/curvy is kind of the feminine ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...Um... they have a penis? That you can suck whenever you feel like it? Yeah, I'm out. Not exactly a good bargain for females, especially when dildos exist tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:04 AM |
| 4 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...Same. I like reading romance because it's a world wherein the men are actually HV and the women arent pickmeishas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...I actually enjoy watching romantic movies and reading romance novels because to me it's like utter fantasy, but it also reminds me of what I want/ what I would settle for. Reading romance novels and then looking around at the sea of LVM in this world reminds you how LV they really are. I think that's why men hate them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:01 AM |
| 6 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...Yep. It sucks cause I love the British office and she wasnt written that way. She stonewalled Jim so many times in that version, and he ws truly working to get better to deserve her. I had a bad vibe about the American office so I didnt watch and part of the reason is that of course from what I could tell they turned Pam into a doormat girl standing by just waiting for LVM Jim to notice her. Which is the EXACT OPPOSITE of the british office. So much misogyny in America | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:00 AM |
| 10 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...So well said... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:35 AM |
| 5 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...This post has been such a mind blower for me. I keep thinking about it- I feel like the meme of the guy from It's Always Sunny standing in front of the whiteboard with all the pictures on it. But truly, this is why I read and WRITE romance novels. sometimes I've wondered if it's anti feminist to do so, but something about the anti-romance novel discourse always struck me as being off, mostly because it seems like men who never cared about feminism a day in their lives suddenly turn into Gloria S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:35 AM |
| 15 | Guy from OLD gets angry because I didn’t have sex with him after 2 weeks and 4 dates of knowing him.Love when the trash reveals itself and takes itself out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:25 AM |
| 12 | NVM comes back into pickmeisha’s life with his newfound religion. Pickmeisha bends over backwards to adapt, and gets mad when her daughter doesn’t oblige and wear a hijab. Wtf!Good for you. I'm honestly sorry your mom put you in that position, but good for you for standing up and speaking reason. It is CRAZY what men think they can get away with and some women sadly go along with it. Sorry you're having to deal with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 3 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Yes! I couldn't stand the ending! I was honestly like I would much rather see her be with the sleazy guy than get back with the selfish, tantrum throwing, judgmental manchild that was her boyfriend. Or be- gasp!- single! But that could never happen in a Hollywood movie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 40 | NVM comes back into pickmeisha’s life with his newfound religion. Pickmeisha bends over backwards to adapt, and gets mad when her daughter doesn’t oblige and wear a hijab. Wtf!Good for you!! FUuuuuuckkk these men thinking they get to call the shots simply because there's a wrinkled scrotum dangling between their legs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 13 | NVM comes back into pickmeisha’s life with his newfound religion. Pickmeisha bends over backwards to adapt, and gets mad when her daughter doesn’t oblige and wear a hijab. Wtf!Absolutely PATHETIC and repulsive on every level. And this is why Pickmeishas are so dangerous and awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Newbie question...(Yes, I read the handbook!)I personally wouldn't be okay with the lack of "I love yous". Honestly sounds more like a friend relationship than a real love one. You also dont seem that jazzed about it and none of the reasons you've given were particularly awful, and I wonder if you're just looking for an out? Because if you are, that's perfectly valid, and you dont need an excuse to leave him. Just"I'm not that attracted" or "i dont feel a spark" or "i cant see myself spending the next 40 years with this guy" is perfectly e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 20 | Just got back from a first date where the guy have some sort of eating disorder and made a whole scene about splitting the bill. So awkwardI always smile like "Definitely" and mentally make a note to delete his number. It's amazing, men know that they're not supposed to act like cheap uncivilized goons but they just cant help themselves. So gross to say that but they think because they're paying for THIS check it's okay? I'm just like... okay this guy will never be seeing me again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Just got back from a first date where the guy have some sort of eating disorder and made a whole scene about splitting the bill. So awkwardYeah I'm sure he knows it. He's probably trying to find ways to self rationalize that you were the mean one, not him, but deep down he knows how inadequate he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 8 | Just got back from a first date where the guy have some sort of eating disorder and made a whole scene about splitting the bill. So awkward100%. They know exactly what's going on a lot of the time but feign confusion for their own benefit. Most of most socially manipulative and sneaky people I've known have been men, and almost all of them regularly did the whole "Aw, shucks, can't figure this out!" routine regularly. One guy did that so much and we later found out he backstabbed pretty much the whole office. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:26 PM |
| 9 | Just got back from a first date where the guy have some sort of eating disorder and made a whole scene about splitting the bill. So awkwardThis whole thing is so brilliant that it honestly deserves it's own post on here. You summed it all up so perfectly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 95 | Once again proof that HVM behavior does not have to be expensive and also needs to be maintained over timeWhy? There are plenty of HVM out there who are sweet and want to do whatever to make their woman happy. Don't let the abundance of LVM brainwash you into forgetting that HVM exist all over the place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:57 AM |
| 31 | Men on dating apps increasingly unattractive?I completely agree. I got on tinder in like 2013? And have been off and on it for the past few years depending on dating life and whatnot. And the quality of men seems to have PLUMMETED. There used to be cute guys that you would regularly swipe right on. Now I will swipe for like 100 swipes and not see one attractive guy. It's pathetic. I do think a major cause of this is that the LVM were so angry at tinder for years because they didn't get any swipes, and they whined and complained until Tinde… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 07:02 AM |
| 4 | Reminder: He’s looking to conquer you. Be selective with who you invest your time, body, and emotions withIt's amazing how now men can openly state they hate "white women", which seems to be a stand-in for "all women" but if you put "white" in front of it it's okay... make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:20 AM |
| 19 | Okay. Let’s not talk about how men constantly make fun of things girls like such as princesses, twilight, romance films and books, pink, girl stuffy, etc."OMG, thank you Karl Lagerfeld for weighing in with your esteemed opinion on my outfit!" 😍But seriously- almost all the men I know who make fun of women's fashion have like one outfit and look like unmoisturised garbage yet they feel capable of analyzing women's fashion like they're an expert... the audacity is unbelievable.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:04 AM |
| 21 | Okay. Let’s not talk about how men constantly make fun of things girls like such as princesses, twilight, romance films and books, pink, girl stuffy, etc.Totally. I am so fucking sick of men making fun of the Real Housewives. So it's lame for me to watch a group of women argue over wine but it's somehow cool and smart and fine for you to watch a bunch of men running around a field chasing a ball?! Make it make sense! They have zero self awareness and the hate for things like Twilight, Taylor Swift, etc is 100000% rooted in misogyny and misogyny alone. My favorite thing about the Twilight hate is how dudebros who watch women get slapped around in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:59 AM |
| 31 | Okay. Let’s not talk about how men constantly make fun of things girls like such as princesses, twilight, romance films and books, pink, girl stuffy, etc.I mean that entire sub is just guys angry that they were rejected by women circle jerking about how awful women are so yeah.... the lying is pretty absurd! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:57 AM |
| 32 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupYeah it's like on 90 Day Fiance almost all the men- in fact, I'm not gonna say almost- ALL the men I've seen have been losers that cant get women in the US so they hope getting some woman from elsewhere will create a power imbalance big enough to make her put up with his bullshit. It's disgusting. I agree with you a primary motivation is the perception of those women being more vulnerable and easy to prey on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:30 AM |
| 23 | Love this!!!!!!! No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.Awww I love this so much! And the gross thing is this is probably the kind of woman the media would call a Karen- they HATE when a woman is self confident and won't tolerate bullshit! But she's right about EVERYTHING kudos to her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Just got my first place. Treat yourself, ladies, instead of waiting on someone else to do it.Nothing better than a great self care bath with a glass of wine! I usually put epsom salts in mine to clear away bad energy. But love this! Treat yourself and enjoy, you deserve it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:23 AM |
| 6 | How FDS simultaneously saved me and killed my sex drive. (Read before downvotes)Yes! my sexuality totally seems to change with my cycle... it's amazing how that works. Kudos to you for maintaining your boundaries and honoring your sexuality. I find sex is so much better and more satisfying when you do that. Amazing how sex that you WANT to have is actually incredible and satisfying, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 6 | How FDS simultaneously saved me and killed my sex drive. (Read before downvotes)Totally! That makes a lot of sense! I'm glad you've unpacked that and realized that. It's funny how those things happen and we just brush them off and then later have to unpack the trauma. I also think it's incredible how he's basically scolding you like you're a bad schoolkid, "Thank you for being calm in class today, it was a very good job." So fucking gross and condescending. It's amazing how so many men always center their own sexuality and don't even CONSIDER that we have one on our own. Ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:07 AM |
| 14 | Just watched Jerry Maguire for the first time...This is what the men in Hollywood want to indoctrinate women into. Being a pathetic pick me that begs even the lowest value man for a relationship. That is just there waiting, open arms and open legs, for whenever the LVM finally decides she's worth it. he brings nothing to the table, but she'll be thrilled for it. it's pathetic propaganda and Hollywood makes it endlessly. Because it's all men at the top | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:55 AM |
| 16 | How FDS simultaneously saved me and killed my sex drive. (Read before downvotes)I have talked to a few girls who are low or no sex drive and it's honestly amazing for them what happens when they stop giving in to their partners demands from sex. My advice has always been- stop having sex with your partner, don't have sex again until you're organically turned on. Funnily enough, they told me that once they started doing that their sex drive came back full force. This also applies for not being able to orgasm- they started being able to orgasm every time. of course, I doubt t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:52 AM |
| 3 | I vented about my awful LVM roommate on r/confessions and was stormed with hateful victim blaming commentsThe reddit rules only apply to women who have said something men don't like. You never see men calling out other men for breaking the rules or going against the vibe of the sub. It's just conveniently called in as an excuse to silence women whenever they can | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:53 AM |
| 2 | I vented about my awful LVM roommate on r/confessions and was stormed with hateful victim blaming commentsThat's because 90% of redditors ARE the creepy neckbeard roommate, and they're really fucking angry that you're aware of how inferior they are, and not dazzled by their extensive knowledge of the Marvel Comics Universe, and capable of seeing their fat potbelly and don't actually get turned on by it as if they looked like Chris Hemsworth. Seriously. Mediocre and inferior people really dont like having it pointed out. Please google "reddit meetup" so you can see pictures of the kinds of people y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:52 AM |
| 11 | “Decent sex life” and husband watches porn.And then she's going to act so shocked when her pornsick husband eventually cheats on her or doesnt want to have sex with her because she's not 18 year old Cindy from the videos he watches, and doesn't pretend to love being choked. Oh well. You can either learn the easy way or the hard way, she's picked the hard way. She'll figure it out someday- and probably come to reddit and try to find a way to blame everyone but herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:18 AM |
| 11 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themThank you!! 😎💟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 57 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themMy rates are high because I'm worth it, trust me 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Why are men bothered that they wouldn't be a woman's first choice?Yeah there are- and that's exactly what i'm referencing. Statistically speaking, men have astronomically higher rates of narcissism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 02:09 PM |
| 17 | I talked to one of those couple accounts today lolI had a few friends of mine basically ask me (in so many words) to be in threesomes with them and their ugly ass dudes and it is so violating and degrading. I think what really irks me is these are my friends, they know what kind of guys I go for and that I would never be into their gross looking man, but they throw it out there anyway because, as you said, it's an attempt to appease their lame LVM. It's a real violation and women should be ashamed if they use their female friends as bait in tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:00 PM |
| 12 | I talked to one of those couple accounts today lolThis is a great point. I think because society pushes relationships so hard that a lot of people who are in them basically think they won the lottery. Like they have this delusion that everyone else wants in and admires them just for being together. It's SO crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:57 PM |
| 146 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themIt's amazing because men are constantly complaining about women "nagging" and "wanting them to change", then admit that they loved it when it stops happening, because they were getting free therapy. It's so incredibly self centered. Like, I, as a woman, as a human being, have my own fucking issues i'm trying to work through. I am not a licensed therapist and if I was you'd have to pay me $300 per hour. If men want to start shelling out $300 every time they start some bullshit and I have to cor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:34 PM |
| 32 | I talked to one of those couple accounts today lol"Tell us more about you" I love the audacity of putting out an "we're interviewing you and you'd better impress us" vibe when those couple accounts are the pariahs of the dating world and they're lucky if they get one interested swipe. Sorry no one wants to be apart of your toxic waste dump of a pornsick couple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:07 PM |
| 72 | I have no words. It makes me so sad this shit is happening- who would assume a virgin would want rough sex for their first time!"How was he supposed to know that choking her was going to be unpleasant for her? He's not a mind reader! 😣" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:45 AM |
| 108 | I have no words. It makes me so sad this shit is happening- who would assume a virgin would want rough sex for their first time!Absolute bullshit from the start to the end. First of all, I'm enraged that this is this woman's first time and so many other women's. I'm grateful that my first time was sweet and loving, and everyone deserves that. Second of all, all women need to be aware of how much men feign incompetence to get out of being held responsible for things. This man knew damn well that he shouldn't be having sex with anyone that way, but certainly not a virgin, but he did it anyway cause it made his pee pee hard… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Why are men bothered that they wouldn't be a woman's first choice?It's because men have way higher rates of narcissism so they can't emotionally handle not being the "one and only". They have a fantasy that some woman will see their mediocre selves as the equivalent of Chris Hemsworth and get angry when women dont | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 10:12 AM |
| 40 | Every day on relationship_advice...The bar in that sub is so low it's in hell. Going to that place is the equivalent of watching a horror movie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:44 AM |
| 14 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.It's amazing how men phrase things, right? Also "abuse kink" is a really nice way of saying "I hate women and want to hurt them". It reminds me of the feminist thinkpieces I've read where they talk about how newspaper articles are written about male violence- i.e. "woman is raped" not "man rapes a woman", or "murder-suicide in New Jersey" not "Man murders his wife and kills himself in New Jersey". Amazing way of avoiding responsibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:43 AM |
| 11 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.LOL "I dont want to be the one getting abused". Right.... funny how all these males with abuse kinds only have "abuse kinks" that involve them hurting women? Never want to be on the receiving end of being choked or suffocated or beaten? Kind of like that stuff is horrifying and no human with a brain would want it done to them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:41 AM |
| 79 | Every day on relationship_advice...The other day on Breaking Mom I saw some woman unironically post "My man is perfect and AMAZING he's always open to doing chores around the house as long as I tell him what to do".... lol. The jokes write themselves 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:11 AM |
| 2 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!I saw that and love it so much :D Really glad if I inspired that in any way, that shit will teach these men QUICK 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Can someone explain why BDSM is so accepted in mainstream media??Because a lot of men physically get off on violence towards women, ESPECIALLY psychopaths/sociopaths, who are way overrepresented in the top tier of business and wealth in this country and the world. The super wealthy are able to essentially fund whatever causes they like- think of Jeff Bezos buying the Washington Post and Carlos Slim buying the NYT. Those are probably the most famous newspapers in the world but think about the countless online publications and stuff. George Soros has admitted t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:13 AM |
| 8 | A comment posted on a thread about someone's bf calling her mommy during sexI mean it's from the "red pill women" subreddit so I think you're being wayyyyyyyyyyyy too generous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:04 AM |
| 27 | I blocked a guy after there were inconsistencies in his stories, so he went back and sent this on tinder - immediately throwing a weird race card (his country of origin was never even a conversation piece between us). Yet another "good guy" lost 😂Yes, clearly a "good guy" since he's following you around and harassing you on various platforms. You deserve a HOT AS FUCK danish guy is what I believe he meant to say. Gosh what a loser this one is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:40 PM |
| 45 | Pickmeisha mad 😂Typical pickmeisha. The irony being that men are actually MORE attracted to us women who have dignity and self respect. I've never had any issues getting guys to be interested in me, never had to beg for male attention. Because men recognize a woman who has self respect and it makes them more into it than a woman who clearly has issues. Because... duh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:22 PM |
| 17 | A comment posted on a thread about someone's bf calling her mommy during sexUm... wtf! Is this woman trying to justify it? It shocks me how blase she is about it! I have worked in family law and know how hard it can be for women to get single custody even in cases of abuse, but still- you'd think she'd be horrified and desperate to protect her daughter. This is fucking disgusting. I want to vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:20 PM |
| 7 | A scrote making dehumanizing joke about women, his defenders whine for attacking his family after being told he's nasty and poorly raisedGood. Be alone and stay alone, sad LV scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:04 PM |
| 7 | The King of Scrote TownI enjoy swiping yes on these profiles and then totally ignoring them and any messages they may or may not send. I can only imagine them spiraling into a rage tantrum on the other side of the phone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:03 PM |
| 5 | breaking mom and TikToks are my birth control 😬That's horrifying, and the idea that a large mass of women would upvote it sums up everything wrong with that place. I have seriously never seen a more dysfunctional place in my life. It seems like a bunch of losers on par with the incel groups, who hate and resent other women for the most ludicrous reasons. As a thin woman myself that would scare me to be out in public, especially if I had a kid. And it's incredible that people don't just read it and are like, "Hmmm, that's a strange person" bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 12 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightOMG I am SCREAMING!!!! I love it SOOOOO MUCH! You are amazing!!! This needs to be the standard for when men ghost us or send us sexual messages!!!!! I LOVE IT!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 11 | Another man (aggressively) shocked that asking for an open relationship leads to his wife getting great sex.Love to see men just casually discussing punching a woman in the face, which could probably cause her death in most cases, given the difference in physical strength between men and women. Wow. The misogyny and hatred of women JUMPED OUT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:44 AM |
| 48 | breaking mom and TikToks are my birth control 😬Yes. OMG I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed. Also, a lot of them are just... dumb? I used to have the utmost respect for moms but reading BreakingMom they all seem like POS parents. Most of them talk and laugh about doing things like locking themselves in the bathroom to get away from the noise of their kids hysterically crying, or snapping at their child for asking the same question twice, and feeding them garbage food. And all the replies will be supportive like "It's okay mama, hardest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:43 AM |
| 23 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!The disrespect is ASTRONOMCIAL. I had a dude do something like this to me before. Seriously I'm thinking of dating women because honestly men have lost almost all interest to me at this point. I would be tempted to tell him that you guys should reschedule for tomorrow at 8pm and then not show up, but that's probably immature and petty. But seriously, what a garbage POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:34 AM |
| 5 | Don't know how to date in a city where men put no effort.Oh my gosh... that's so depressing. The English gentleman in tweed thing was a beautiful look, and it's sad that it's going down the drain. But that seems to be a trend everywhere. I'm glad at least many men here in the U.S. still wear suits. Cant believe that England is turning out to be less formal/gentlemanly than the US! Gosh that's grim... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 23 | TruthI am truly not trying to be a harpy or a mean killjoy, and i'm glad they talked and worked it out, but I honestly feel like the bar is so damn low for men. Like "She gave in to sex when she wasn't trying for a baby and felt ashamed"- this does not sound, in any way, like a positive sexual situation whatsoever. If a man didn't want to have sex with me for literally any reason whatsoever, I wouldn't pressure him into having it. I dont even think I could get off, knowing the person wasn't getting p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 16 | TruthBut see this is just mind blowing to me. Even if he thought she had a "low sex drive" he was still having sex with her enough to get her pregnant three times?? If I thought a man I was dating had a "low sex drive" I wouldn't just continue having sex with him anyway, asking him to have sex regardless of his desire for it. Like I guess the equivalent would be having a man eat you out and then going to sleep right after, and he never actually gets off. It just seems crazy and so selfish to me. Unle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:15 PM |
| 51 | TruthOMG though- he had sex with her enough times to give her three kids and never gave her an orgasm? He had to know, on some level. Imagine being with your boyfriend and he literally never orgasms but you still badger him into constant sex. How could you even be turned on, at that point? OMG, these men are so selfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Don't know how to date in a city where men put no effort.Not even to work? In many parts of the US, in major cities, it's pretty standard for American men to wear suits to work. I think it's sad if England has lost that aspect of its culture, especially because it's one of the hottest things a man can wear. But I see more and more men bumming around in flip flops and ratty t-shirts where I live, so I suppose it's happening everywhere. Men are just getting lazier and lazier in every way, and we're supposed to be turned on by it. Depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Don't know how to date in a city where men put no effort.Damn, I was hoping the British guys would do more of the "buttoned up, wearing tweed, go getter" type of dudes. Here on the west coast it's an epidemic, and in other places in the US too. It's so deeply unattractive, and made worse by legalization IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ hereLOL this made me laugh, it's so true. Men are nothing if not highly dramatic and performative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 3 | We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ hereDudes from Cali are just the worst in general. Actually in my experience guys in Texas are okay in many senses, although some of them can be too "country/ good old boy" for my taste, but they are HV in that they at least take initiative. Guys frm Cali are like the laziest men on the planet. I'm going to have a good laugh at the idea of them being in Texas, trying to date women who are used to men putting in effort, and getting repeatedly shut down. I think it's interesting to think about how few… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 4 | We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ hereI agree. Sometimes I lke to call them the fuck out, not to deeply engage, but mostly to embrass them/humiliate them / to prevent them from posting it on places like r/tinder. It's something I do more for me than for anyone else, just if I feel like telling them to kick rocks then I will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 9 | We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ hereYes 100% this. I also have noticed men seem extremely self conscious about how they started a relationship with a woman (ie..e how many profiles say things like "i wont tell your friends that we met on tinder"- who even thinks/cares about that?) and they love the idea that they can say "Well, i texted her and told her to get ready for paddle boarding in two hours... and she actually did it!" Men hate hate hate to appear like they actually put effort into a relationship or pursuing a female, beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:06 PM |
| 6 | Should I plan to have kids on my own?Personally, having kids on my own is something I absolutely plan to do if I havent found the right guy in a few years. I am looking into egg freezing tech (I have some reservations about the hormones/toll on the body, which is why i havent done it yet.) I think using a sperm donor is a fantastic, fantastic, fantastic option. You never have to worry about the guy filing for visitiation (I have worked in family law and saw what a complete and utter nightmare men can be when they are angry about cu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Help me spill out the red pill + how can i find a HVWYes, there are many LVW who say they like men who are mean to them or whatever. Usually that stems from some trauma or just stupidity on their part. The problem with picking mean partners is when the going gets tough, and you need a partner who is there for you, kind and supportive, you're going to regret picking someone who is cruel. So that will be a big life lesson for them, and as I age, I see it happening more and more to my friends who made bad decisions with men. But yes, there are many H… | /r/askFDS | 12/07/20 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Don't know how to date in a city where men put no effort.I am young woman but I did date before OLD became so ubiquitous (Tinder) and I would say that made things dramatically worse. IDK, a lot of guys are just straight up lazy AF and have zero effort towards ANYTHING in their life. In a way, how can we expect men who are too lazy to go workout and stop overeating and get into shape (this is the bare minimum of masculinity, imo- the ability to physically defend yourself and your family), to work hard and do well at their job, to cultivate a vibrant so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 5 | We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ hereLOL seriously the entitlement of men asking women to meet up within hours. Why do so many men do this? Seriously I think it's a male thing- there is a lack of regard for someone else's time, schedule, plans. It's just like "Hmm, I feel like going paddle boarding right now, and it'd be nice to go with someone but I dont have any friends- I know, I'll just ask this random lady from tinder!" Even with my best friends who I call every single day and tet random shit to, I wouldn't tell them "Get dres… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Another famous pornstar turns out to be disgusting, sick rapist. And men everywhere were masturbating to scenes of the rapes (TW: rape, sexual violence/coercion)I know. I had a hard time getting through it, and I thought I'd heard enough porn horror stories. It's seriously so sickening that this is what 99% of men watch and young, impressionable boys are exposed to it. And these are the people making it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 9 | Another famous pornstar turns out to be disgusting, sick rapist. And men everywhere were masturbating to scenes of the rapes (TW: rape, sexual violence/coercion)Can you try opening it in an incognito window? I honesty dont want to paste the text here because it's so fucking sick and disgusting that it could be triggering for some | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 24 | And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women.Thank you!! 😁❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 44 | Another famous pornstar turns out to be disgusting, sick rapist. And men everywhere were masturbating to scenes of the rapes (TW: rape, sexual violence/coercion)I know. As much as the trend of young girls joining OnlyFans scares me, I'm also kind of thrilled because AT LEAST the young girl from Oklahoma who's thinking about "joining the sex industry" will be doing it alone in her bedroom, taking pictures she has control over- not being raped by some disgusting 50 year old sadist satanic pig. I mean, obviously, not doing "sex work" is ideal, but thank God that these women now can somewhat bypass these male monsters that make up the porn industry. Cause i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 80 | And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women.OMG why is this so accurate? And so depressing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 58 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.A lot of women see female friends as like a placeholder reason for them to go out to restaurants so they can potentially meet men. They might not even like other women, but they know guys think girls who have no girlfriends are a big red flag, so now they'll pretend to be interested in friendship so they can get male approval. ANd so they have a reason to dress up and go out to a restaurant where they can meet guys, which is literally the ONLY thing they care about. Sociopathic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:09 PM |
| 29 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.OMG so true. Finally I've stopped tolerating this from female friends. I am such a "girl's girl" and advocate for other women. So it can be hard for me to cut off the girl that is being treated badly by her boyfriend, or is stressing out about some loser. But I cannot have any more discussions about the LVM who only lets her have sex but never sleep over because his roommate is noise sensitive, or the LVM who is being rude and disrespectful but really cares deep down. After I've given advice to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:07 PM |
| 135 | The males are falling apart because COVID19 is forcing them to actually parent their kids nowDudes have little to no emotional fortitude. My dad is currently trying every which way (and has since March) to get me to move back in with him, because he cannot stand being quarantined. Men are used to dumping their difficult emotions on the women in their lives, by starting fights/arguments or just relying on them for comfort. Since my dad is divorced that means he's now alone and forced to spend time by himself and he cannot stand it. The drama with him has been nonstop since March. It's ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.I guess. I'd rather be with someone who's open then giving short little answers which so many dudes around here do. I'd also rather know about someone's fringe interests so I can see if they match up with mine or are an instant next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 12:09 AM |
| 3 | The guy I have been speaking to during the Coronavirus lockdown seemed relatively okay and I was willing to meet him, and then he came out with something that completely turned me off him and I blocked without a word.Oh gosh, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. That's so horrible, what a disgusting sick pig. I hope you dont have to see him at all now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 17 | Chris D'Elia talking about how it's "always weird" when any older woman dates any younger man- keep in mind when men try to shame you for dating younger/more attractive men, what their motivation is!!Yeah he basically was, apparently! All the girls have come forward about it. I guess you have good instincts, that's awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:59 AM |
| 89 | The guy I have been speaking to during the Coronavirus lockdown seemed relatively okay and I was willing to meet him, and then he came out with something that completely turned me off him and I blocked without a word.I cant believe that anyone pretends the "daddy kink" is about anything other than pedophilia and incest. Literally, there's only one person in your life you ever call dad, and it's your father. I will NEVER understand how anyone can get turned on by it and to me it's the biggest red flag ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:29 AM |
| 29 | Chris D'Elia talking about how it's "always weird" when any older woman dates any younger man- keep in mind when men try to shame you for dating younger/more attractive men, what their motivation is!!I know, I'm so glad we can watch the panic in his eyes as the story sets in. It's just delicious to see. It's really funny how he's usually such a loudmouth and clams right up and can barely speak, and the only thing he says is "How did they find out about it?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:58 AM |
| 51 | Chris D'Elia talking about how it's "always weird" when any older woman dates any younger man- keep in mind when men try to shame you for dating younger/more attractive men, what their motivation is!!Yep.... if you rewind maybe 2 minutes before this clip you can watch him squirm when he finds out that people can record snapchats (apparently this was one of the ways he messaged the girls). It's highly enjoyable to watch IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:48 AM |
| 19 | Chris D'Elia talking about how it's "always weird" when any older woman dates any younger man- keep in mind when men try to shame you for dating younger/more attractive men, what their motivation is!!I agree but keep in mind that's behavior he himself has engaged in (he was outed for preying on underage girls) and also he went out of his way to clarify that he meant ALL relationships where the woman was older and the man younger, and clarified that he meant ones that were legal/not underage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:47 AM |
| 28 | I noticed this too. Or the trope that the only two female protagonists have to enemies or fighting for the same men. It gets tired real quick.YES! And a lot of times the "good girl" (pickme) will actually be the one who stabs the "mean girl" (aka independent) in the back! Like they'll be some scene where it's like, "No Sharpay, I know you asked me not tell Troy about your plan to become the star of the show over him, but I AM going to tell him!" and everyone is supposed to applaud. Once again teaching women to prioritize male approval over female friendships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.Actually- God does care! Chances of reproduction taking place go way up with the female orgasm. Actually, in medieval Europe people intuitively knew that and it was believed a woman had to orgasm to have pregnancy occur. So yeah... LVM stay being wrong and delusional! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 22 | Depraved pedophile wants child pornIMO this is like a form of terrorism. (Some) Men WANT women to know that they are jerking off to our pain and degradation. Like this man could have googled it, he didn't have to post this in her mentions and on her thread. It's disgusting. (Some) Men WANT us to be aware that theyre going to take pleasure in our degradation... it's a deliberate psychological tactic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:24 PM |
| 13 | I gained weight, he checked out, I blocked his ass. Listen up, ladies!Totally agree. I was worried about body shaming too, which is not my intent. I think skinny women are BEAUTIFUL and it's not their fault that these LV scrotes seem to be fetishizing their body. Of course, HVM can be attracted to skinny women too, not saying ALL men attracted to skinny women are LVM. But the difference is HVM care more about face and personality, and will be just as attracted regardless of weight gain. It sucks for skinny women that they have to deal with it on top of everything … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:21 PM |
| 46 | I gained weight, he checked out, I blocked his ass. Listen up, ladies!OMG I made almost this exact observation and it was before i read your post 😂 Completely agree that the quality of men has gone up from gaining weight. It's funny because the media wants to tell women that skinny is the only way for women to be desired but in my experience when I was really skinny it was like moths to a flame for total losers. I dont know what it is but just a few extra pounds seem to put off the weird skinny fetishists which is great, because those men are all fucking STRANGE. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:25 PM |
| 92 | I gained weight, he checked out, I blocked his ass. Listen up, ladies!I think you hit on one of the best parts of FDS- when you run into a LVM pretending to be a HVM, which does happen, you won't be as devastated when you realize what happened, because it's a lot easier to move on when you didn't sleep with him, pay for him, or let him waste your time. Sure, it still hurts- but in the end, you lost a lot less because of him, and you didn't give away access to your amazing sexuality or valuable time/money. So the loss to you is way minimized. With that being said… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:21 PM |
| 280 | like a mother!!! mad props to herNike is the most insanely misogynistic company. Never forget that they gave Mary Cain anorexia, basically gaslighted and abused her and have YET to apologize Youtube (recommended to watch this): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBwtCf2X5jw NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/11/07/opinion/nike-running-mary-cain.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Tell me again how men are "biologically attracted to fertility"?Ugh I'm jealous. The number of times I've heard lvm use the "fertility" defense to explain why they are attracted to extremely young women (even underage) and/or can only get turned on by super thin women.... if I had a dollar I'd be a rich lady! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Tell me again how men are "biologically attracted to fertility"?Dudes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 13 | A depraved warthog using physics to justify pedophilia.Yep, he looks exactly like you'd expect someone making these comments to look Keep this in mind when you're arguing with pornsick men or pickmes online, that this is probably the kind of person hiding behind that anime or Ariana Grande avatar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareOkay I will. Your motives are very transparent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareBasically implying that women have too high standards. Anyway, i wasn't speaking to you and not sure why you continue to make this thread about you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 23 | Her BF slaps her face too hard while having sex and watching porn. He invalidates her pain by making it a philosophical argument on logicI know... I cant think of anything more dehumanizing! Gosh... it actually makes a mockery of sex... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareYeah. It's amazing that someone would want to act like women having high standards is too much, and turning it into sympathy hour because she has low self esteem or whatever. Seems to be the opposite of FDS principles. We have a lot of fakers in here pretending to be women, trying to get FDS standards lowered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:54 PM |
| 5 | Her BF slaps her face too hard while having sex and watching porn. He invalidates her pain by making it a philosophical argument on logicHuh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 19 | Her BF slaps her face too hard while having sex and watching porn. He invalidates her pain by making it a philosophical argument on logicI was a philosophy major and I would personally disagree, but there are the "logical equation" types who break down everything into life into A+B = C which is basically what you learn to do in logic class, and it totally takes away the emotion from a situation (emotion because sometimes necessary when discussing an immoral situation). The annoying thing is it takes time to learn these techniques of thinking and it's sick that these LVM use it against much younger women to try to twist and justif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:56 PM |
| 55 | Her BF slaps her face too hard while having sex and watching porn. He invalidates her pain by making it a philosophical argument on logicFirst mistake is: TELLING A MAN IT'S OKAY TO HIT YOU IN THE FACE Seriously, am I drinking crazy juice? Who TF would be like "Sure you can punch me!" I mean...do these people not have a survival instinct? I get that she's been brainwashed into thinking that "it's normal, it happens all the time in porn" and "He's not gonna do it hard" but it's like... do you not have critical thinking? Why would you GIVE PERMISSION FOR SOMEONE TO COMMIT VIOLENCE AGAINST YOU? Why would you even continue dating a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:51 PM |
| 41 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beOh good, I'm so glad it's gotten 1 million views on tiktok... I would love to know these losers' names. I wish it would go viral on the internet. I hope they'll think again next time this pedo sees a teenage girl he's got the hots for out in public and thinks about making disgusting sexual comments to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:11 PM |
| 47 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beYep. He knows she's good for doing whatever he tells her to. I'm not one to wish violence on anyone but I wish he would try that with a really tough girl that would take her up on it and know how to throw a punch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:04 PM |
| 46 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beIt doesnt at all. Not to mention... um, those shorts cover her completely- they're actually high waisted. I wear jean shorts and those are a totally standard length that is perfectly modest. Not that it would matter if her ass was hanging out! But it's just so sick that these perverts are able to use whatever sad little excuse they can think of, even when it's CLEARLY untrue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:04 PM |
| 76 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beThis is disgusting. I feel so bad for these young girls that they have to live in a world where men and their pickmeisha handmaidens feel capable of abusing them so openly like this. Kudos to the girl filming because she was quick with the comebacks and you could see this pathetic duo were really upset they were being filmed. I just wish this would go viral on twitter but of course it won't because no one gives a shit about women being victimized as a class | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:02 PM |
| 8 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareOkay but what's your point? This feels like trolling... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:56 PM |
| 9 | "I didn't mean it that way" and other bold-faced liesGuys, when I told her she was ugly she burst into tears! She's clearly crazy and overly emotional. Am I being emotionally abused by this woman? Reddit, help me out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:55 PM |
| 7 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareWell... level up. Or don't, it's your choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:20 PM |
| 9 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareIt's really not... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 57 | This is what men dream of and upvote... to be utterly mediocre and have women passing up attractive men for themLots of PickMes in the comments talking about "all attractive men are so boring and horrible" and dudes creaming their pants over those statements | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:20 AM |
| 218 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareSolution: work hard and level up! It's not that hard. Get in shape, develop social skills, get a job where you can be on the road to financial freedom, stop watching porn and doing things that degrade women- it's not asking for the moon! You will be happier for it and as a side result probably have a better chance of landing a high value woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:45 AM |
| 6 | OP’s boyfriend manipulated her into thinking she had body odor, because his dad thought him how to neg womenI think a lot of men do this and they also have this idea that every woman is supposed to smell like a fresh sun-kissed strawberry at all times. I kind of like a tiny little hint of BO on a man- where you get HIS distinct scent, just a bit of it, before it goes into full fledged bad smelling BO territory. I've had a guy ask me if I wanted gum while we were making out and it made me so paranoid I asked my bluntest friend to smell my breath and breathed directly in her face, super close. She was l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 09:32 PM |
| 31 | Guys who ask to be FWBs while expecting the girl to see no one else. Be careful of these types out there ladies, especially if you’re young or working on becoming more assertive.It really does. It seems he's still in the delusional, "if I want it to be true, it will be" TRP stage before they slowly morph to the bitter reality and move to MGTOW (aka the trash pile for unwanted men) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 53 | Guys who ask to be FWBs while expecting the girl to see no one else. Be careful of these types out there ladies, especially if you’re young or working on becoming more assertive.Yep. And the trauma of dealing with a man so deeply selfish and inconsiderate. Tempting, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:51 PM |
| 61 | Guys who ask to be FWBs while expecting the girl to see no one else. Be careful of these types out there ladies, especially if you’re young or working on becoming more assertive."I'm also extremely selfish and what women call 'emotionally unavailable' simply because I can be"... um, anyone can be selfish or emotionally available, it's not like some special category a person has to earn up to. It's called being a piece of shit and it's not cute or an accomplishment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 62 | The people around you directly influence your state of mind. Dump his ass if he makes you feel inferior.And he's still dragging her name and family through the mud. He's such a piece of shit, I can't even.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:50 PM |
| 15 | Idiot at r/nicegirls tries to shame woman who called him out on his noncommittal fuckboy nonsense and he gets dragged in the comments insteadLOL what a passive aggressive douche. Even when called out he continues to talk in circles. I still have no clue what "health issues" he has even when he pretends to elaborate. Sometimes I think scrotes just go on OLD to play games, and waste time. Like, literally it's like "I could play Call of Duty... or I could go on Tinder and send random women a bunch of inconsequential messages, so I guess I'll do that". It's just a way for them to pass the time, with no intention of meeting or an actual r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:02 PM |
| 14 | The disturbing fact that he’s tweeting this like it’s a cute joke. No sir, YOU’RE the jokeThey know exactly what they're doing and they think it's hilarious. Because they're confident we're going to continue putting up with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Anyway, you're so much better off. Glad you picked up on how weird this was instead of brushing it off! You definitely dodged a MAJOR bullet with his passive aggressive display of immaturity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Sorry but I was curious so I lurked in your post history and saw you live in Portland? Guys in Portland are TRASH. Absolute trash. Maybe the most LVM in the entire country. So this doesnt surprise me one bit. It's just annoying that he seems to want you to act like his surrogate psychologist to figure out why he's so emotionally constipated about a few makeup items. I dont want to be harsh... but what a fucking loser. He sounds like the kind of guy who would freak out if a girl mentioned her per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I love finding these videos!huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:13 PM |
| 19 | I love finding these videos!Wow!!!! This is awesome... the amount of effort a man can and will put into a woman he loves is really amazing. You love to see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 09:09 PM |
| 13 | Unmatched, hard pass, NO!!!LOL the audacity of these men. "Oh, I won't see her? You're sure? Okay, be over in 5 then!" They're so delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:21 PM |
| 30 | Nominee for Pickmeisha MVPSo embarrassing for her. But I guess she thinks she's doing something sooooo special and exciting and groundbreaking.... extremely cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 125 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.This is seriously so sweet and touching. And we need this positivity! HVM do exist... this guy and others like him are proof!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:53 PM |
| 25 | It’s (almost) always the ugliest guys who think this is a good ideaIt's amazing. These guys will be looking like Gollum and being all "I dont want you to get too attached/ obsessed with marrying me so I'm gonna have to limit this to FWB." Like bitch, you should be pleased if a woman glances in your direction! FWB is the last thing that will be happening for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:10 PM |
| 10 | Boyfriend finds out woman had anal sex in the past and throws a complete fucking tantrum because she doesn’t want to do it with him. Reminder to never tell men your sexual history and drop Pickmeisha friends who “accidentally” put your business out there.Ugh. That post is a garbage fire of angry LVM and pickmes attacking OP for not wanting to have painful anal sex again. It's pathetic, the level of entitlement men have to women's bodies, and the LVW who enable it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man gets off on beating his wife until she’s unconscious? A pornsick one.Big fucking SHOCK that r/relationship_advice shut this thread down! I cant believe it! They usually love threads where men get called out for their abusive behavior! What a surprise! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexOkay cool... then stop obsessing about women online then, if they're NBD. Or why not just switch to men? Serious question, as you seem to have much more regard and interest in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Praise!100%. And the thing is even if you do get that male acceptance, you will realize so quickly how worthless it is. It adds nothing to your life- nothing. Think of all the sad playboy models who have floundered and had horrible lives. They got a whole lot of male approval and none of it translated to men actually supporting them, their careers, etc. It's just pointless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexSure they do. Thats why they spend all their time whining online about how mean women are for rejecting them and plotting and warping their personality to get more women. LOL stop projecting. Be honest with yourself for once, if you can handle it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexLOL. Since never. That's why men do everything possible to be around women. Anyway... you obviously feel deeper connections with men and perhaps it's time to be brave and explore that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexThat happens all the time and it's called FGM and is extremely common. Many men already deride it and dismiss it and compare it to circumcision, which is a completely incomparable issue from having any ability to feel sexual pleasure totally removed with a rusty razor blade. BTW, could you answer the actual question I asked? Or dont want to touch that one, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sex"Men are more interesting and fun than women" since when? You basically act like women are a bore to be around but then claim that you love women so much? LOL. The logical incompatibility of it all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexI have a question. If you knew there was a woman happily watching a video called "Teen boy cries as he gets painfully f-ed by old lady"- would you think, "Wow, that woman must really love males!!!!"? What would you think about her intentions or feeling towards men? Now imagine that it's not just one woman- in fact, tens of millions of women are watching that video and masturbating and having orgasms to it. Imagine every time there was a violent rape or rape/murder of a man, searches for the man'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Women gaslight men by pretending all we want is sexI dont understand how men can brag about going to prostitutes, say things like "what's the point of having a female friend if you can stick your dick in her", say the only reason to get married is for sex, watch extremely degrading and sick sex acts in the form of porn, use words like "hate-fuck", and then go around and try to act like "We're just innocent flowers that use sex as a way to show love!!!!" Really?! Was that love you were showing to the desperate prostitute who you knew had no desir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 10:00 AM |
| 16 | Wow, are you policing how I clean now?! Guess I cant do anything right 😞😞😞Exactly! And he should stop being such a control freak about how things have to be cleaned. Just because that's not the way HE would clean his video game console doesn't mean it's not a perfectly valid way. Perhaps he should stop whining and complaining and she would behave better! Sometimes women lose motivation when we have a ball and chain who's always trying to force us to do chores 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:34 PM |
| 39 | Wow, are you policing how I clean now?! Guess I cant do anything right 😞😞😞I think it's just that our female brains haven't evolved to be able to do these menial household chores. We evolved from ancient gatherers, so our brains are primed to do shopping and other important female stuff. But I respect men so much and their innate ability to know exactly how to clean a video game console! Their masculine brains are much more suited to household drudgery than ours, it's biological fact 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 12 | Wow, are you policing how I clean now?! Guess I cant do anything right 😞😞😞They should be so embarrassed! Also how do they reconcile it with the "men are the smarter ones and have invented civilization" argument? Y'all are so smart but can't figure out a DISHWASHER? GTFOOH.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 28 | Do I even need to say it? 😒40,000 men who are pretty much openly talking about raping women... what a fantastic world we live in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 42 | Do I even need to say it? 😒If that's how it's gonna be then we need to either stop having sex or keep pepper spray within arm's reach. Tuck it under the pillow and make sure to stay within easy grabbing distance 👍🏻 Cosmo sex tip of the day 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:28 PM |
| 27 | Do I even need to say it? 😒That makes me so mad. Losing my virginity hurt like so bad, and I cant imagine doing it with some guy who was also trying to turn it into some porn scenario with no regard for how it felt for me. I know it doesnt hurt for some women the first time, but for me it was a ten on the pain threshold and to think that a guy could overlook that and just be focused on "muh dick" the whole time makes me so angry. What a fucking pig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 81 | Wow, are you policing how I clean now?! Guess I cant do anything right 😞😞😞Good point, I will. I'm used to getting lots of "shut up, you bitch!!" DMs on here but this one got my attention, before it spectacularly fell apart and devolved into a bad fanfiction scenario. But it's amazing the lengths they will go to make us just be quiet, damnit!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:16 PM |
| 267 | Wow, are you policing how I clean now?! Guess I cant do anything right 😞😞😞I'm already getting direct messages that "someone tried to commit suicide because of me today!!!" When I asked them to point out what post of mine could possibly have caused that they said they werent sure and couldnt possibly identify which one it was but apparently the sender had to "pry away a knife from the person's throat". I asked how they knew it was because of me and they said that the person gave my reddit username in the middle of the incident. I hate to laugh about suicide but the sce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:04 PM |
| 4 | On today’s episode of why are men™If you are FORCED to deal with a man like this (because if you have the choice you should just dump and leave) then you text back. "Oh. Can you run the cycle now?" Every time they half ass a task make them go back and do it, and eventually they'll figure out it's just easier to do it themselves. Of course, just leaving these manipulative fucks is the way better option | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:12 AM |
| 4 | "Young men, for instance, were more likely than older men or young women to say that women who complained about harassment caused more problems than they solved — particularly young men who identified as very liberal."Agreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:01 AM |
| 30 | Instead of offering Covid19 rent leniency, predator landlord suggests she spend the night with him. Claims it was a "misunderstanding".I had an ex landlord try to do this to me. I dont want to get into specifics of explaining the exact situation because I dont wanna get doxxed but it happens ALL the time. The sad, loser, loner guys are the absolute worst and will project their sick fantasies onto whatever woman. Actually that was a wakeup call about how men will talk to you, pretend they see you as a person, chat with you, and meanwhile fixate on you and have these disgusting sexual intentions. Fucking gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowSo well said, and thanks for sharing all of this because I didnt know everything, although I knew he was a louse. I remember when Cassie was the "next big thing" back in the mid/early 2000s- she had Me&U which was HUGE. Then it was like she just kind of dropped off and barely released music. I really liked her song "official girl" which was about a cheating boyfriend who didnt value his girlfriend (ahem) but nothing seemed to really gain traction, which is bizarre because Diddy had soooo much po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Man is upset for his sons friends hitting on his daughter, so he bans his son from having friends over.Good, HV father. Nice to see for a change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:10 AM |
| 9 | Haven’t you been paying attention? I’m not interested!LOL. He wants to be treated like a 17th century damsel being wooed at the local ball. Too bad he doesnt realize that men have next to zero sexual market value and aint anyone going to expend a single lick of effort to be with his LVM self. Clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:45 AM |
| 29 | Haven’t you been paying attention? I’m not interested!And also BE CHARMING, which he obviously cant do. Traditional SAHM were expected to run their families social scene and go to bridge and charity luncheons and stuff, so he seriously needs to learn some basic social skills and fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:44 AM |
| 2 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowHe really does. I think he's extremely LVM. I have a friend who served him at her bar and it was really empty and he was like the only customer. He made a comment about there being no "bitches" or something and was generally pretty rude. This guy looks super positive and happy and IMO Cassie is way better off. He will never get anyone as beautiful as Cassie ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:40 AM |
| 3 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowCompletely agree. For my past, when I've known, I've known. I didn't need any extra amount of months or years, those feelings were there from the very start and only deepened, but didnt change. To each their own, but for some of us, our intuition is very much on point and we can make those decisions early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:38 AM |
| 17 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowThanks 😊❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:39 AM |
| 5 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄Damn! We are an attractive bunch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:43 AM |
| 40 | I got flamed for this on tiktok- was trying to spread the fds word in my own way😢Hahaha you hit way too close to home for these women and the men that are trying to get in their pants and take advantage of their pick-me tendencies. They cant stand that truth bomb BTW- you're gorgeous! Your skin is as clear as a bright summer day without a cloud in the sky- and just stunning bone structure in general! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:00 AM |
| 3 | On 90 Day Fiance Rose stands up for herself and calls out Big Ed for humiliating her and lying. Reminder to not take shit from men 💅So horrible beyond words. If we needed any more proof that these reality TV producers dont give a single flying fuck about the safety of women. I mean them casting Big Ed when he's clearly an abusive predator was proof enough, but this guy "dragged her bloody by her hair across the wooden floors of their home"- i mean what the actual FUCK? And this show is watched by predominantly women. I also believe they're doing this as a form of social programming- i.e. "women deserve to be treated like shi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:34 AM |
| 24 | On 90 Day Fiance Rose stands up for herself and calls out Big Ed for humiliating her and lying. Reminder to not take shit from men 💅Absolutely. If there is such a thing as an actual "negative value man" he would be it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 10 | On 90 Day Fiance Rose stands up for herself and calls out Big Ed for humiliating her and lying. Reminder to not take shit from men 💅Wow I had no idea that he was an abuser but it makes a ton of sense! I've only watched maybe 2 episodes of this season but my red flags start waving whenever you see a man really feeling sorry for himself and constantly making pitying statements. And the callous way he was discussing his new Russian girlfriend in front of his ex who still has feelings with him. Abusers often use sympathy to disguise what they're doing, and the latter shows a lack of empathy. But why does TLC cast these abusive… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:52 PM |
| 54 | On 90 Day Fiance Rose stands up for herself and calls out Big Ed for humiliating her and lying. Reminder to not take shit from men 💅28 years of solitude and having to think about his life choices and he STILL doesnt take any ownership and hasnt matured whatsoever. This is just an exhibit A for any pickmes who think they can change a man. Guaranteed LVM can stew in their bullshit for all eternity without an ounce of progress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.Yeah I've never had sex with lube and never needed it because I've always been wet AF because the dudes I've been with have always made sure I was turned on and into it and had enough foreplay. Literally libfems want the bar so low that it's actually in hell. It's funny because if you suggested trying to jam a man's dick inside you if he was soft and not in the mood you'd probably get burned at the stake by these types of people. But they essentially want women to do the equivalent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:51 AM |
| 9 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.Yeah... compared to some of the dates I've had in LA, he literally sounds extremely HVM and like a king. Man, it just shows you how low the bar is. I can appreciate gentlemen like that, even if they have interests a bit outside the bounds of my own. It's better than the rude, surly, cheap, dishonest and straight up CRAZY men I've interacted with. Like you said, authenticity is so important- a lot of men will hide their true selves until they've locked you down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Almost 100% of our cultural sexual terminology is centered around men’s pleasure and we should be outraged.Yeah, those men are so disgusting. TBH I have never been with a man who talks that way during (or before) sexy times, and thank God for that because I would so repulsed I think my vagina would just permanently sew itself up. I would and could never have sex with a guy who says shit like that, and most of the guys I've been with have been extremely reverent of my body- none of them have ever said anything derogatory about my body, and it's probably because they know I would NEVER tolerate it. I m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:07 AM |
| 55 | I would just leave the sheets and himAmazing how men act like a woman they've met on Tinder and gotten coffee with once should be willing to swallow their nasty tasting jizz yet some will freak out over menstrual blood. The audacity of the double standard just boggles my mind (btw I have dated plenty of guys who are totally okay with menstrual blood as any grown adult should be. I've been eaten out on period by multiple guys. Dont let the childish LVM ever make you feel your period or any part of your vagina- aka the source of al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Women has height preference on dating app. Man decides to shame her, tell her she is ugly, ginger, old and 'dosen't deserve a man'.I know... it's so ridiculous. Something like 4% of people are natural redheads and yet a ton of women dye their hair to be redheaded. I think it's STUNNING on women. To me his "ginger" comment is just proof that men will literally seize on ANYTHING they possibly can to try to talk negative about women and make women feel bad about themselves. Like it's also like- if you somehow hate redheads, that's on you, cause I've never heard of it being a bad thing before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 12:21 AM |
| 52 | ""WoKe""" dating advice from Male RedditorsHow is this post so absurd and yet so, SO accurate? Like they're really out here giving this exact, laughably self serving advice on every reddit thread, and the pickmes are all there thanking them for it. We live in a clown world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 12:19 AM |
| 24 | Husband stalked wife until she married him, but she had no idea... this gave me the CREEPSThat's what I was thinking. A little too many flowery details like "I remember that my stomach just felt like someone had punched me, then began painfully twisting it" that read kind of fanfiction esque to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:04 PM |
| 43 | Husband stalked wife until she married him, but she had no idea... this gave me the CREEPSVery true. The key is to take the lick and keep going. All the "worst dates" i've ever had I went on because I got stung by some other guy before. So you're more likely to avoid red flags and everything. I think the best thing is almost to spend time with yourself and give yourself space to just move on on your own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:03 PM |
| 16 | Inside the mind of a misogynistI think we're arguing the same point, which is basically that men have a level of delusion about their value to the world. I think men are enabled to be uniquely un self aware, in a way women are not. The man who wrote this article, with a totally straight face, said that because SUPERMAN got Lois Lane that meant every man would get a woman. That's insane. ALL of his examples were men accomplishing shit and THEN getting a woman... which i dont necessarily mind, men thinking they have to be their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 03:38 PM |
| 41 | Inside the mind of a misogynistI love how this dude points out all these examples of HEROES who accomplish something "getting the girl" and then saying that because of that "ALL men feel they are owed women". Well, first of all, all men arent heroes. That's the issue. All men seem to have deluded themselves into believing theyre some kind of prize who has accomplished some amazing feat, when in reality they're a lazy slob plopped in front of the TV watching video games all day. "The superhero gets the girl" in men's minds has… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts?She's gross. I actually think she's a really horrible and nasty person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:28 AM |
| 10 | Thoughts?OMG I stopped watching her because same. I dont know if its the same relationship she was at the end of last year, which is when I finally gave up, but I saw red flags galore. It's amazing how harsh she can be with female celebrities, but she was dating this man for a long time and they went on a trip to some tropical location and I guess she expected him to say "I love you" (kind of a low bar, like not even a proposal or anything) and they walked into the hotel room and it was scattered with ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:27 AM |
| 7 | All my ex boyfriends would get raging hard ons when I was upset and crying. Sudden realisation that this is SO FUCKED UP.Damn, this brings me back to when I was sobbing one time in college because I had had a fight with my boyfriend and my male "friend" chose THAT moment to try to kiss me. It was really disgutng and predatory and I literally was so confused as to what even was going on in his head or how he could have been so socially off. It really disturbed me at the time. Now seeing this thread I realize how common it is :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:27 AM |
| 12 | Women has height preference on dating app. Man decides to shame her, tell her she is ugly, ginger, old and 'dosen't deserve a man'.not to mention young and apparently NOT REDHEADED. What a delusional POS he is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:23 AM |
| 23 | I’ll just leave this here...👀🤫"Age cannot be controlled. N count can" Funny because I saw a group of men making fun of Lolo Jones for being a virgin in her late 30s, saying that NO ONE would want a virgin at that age and she was damaged goods. They just lie and lie and will say anything to justify their horrible behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:20 AM |
| 24 | Man astonished girlfriend wants to store things in her apartment; calls her fat and throws things awayHe couldn't stand for me to be happy and content about anything because he never was. This line... man so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:17 AM |
| 92 | Man astonished girlfriend wants to store things in her apartment; calls her fat and throws things awayThey always do that at r/AmItheAsshole whenever the comments start to call out men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:16 AM |
| 30 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...A lot of times when a beautiful woman gets with an ugly dude he assumes he is on her level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:56 AM |
| 96 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...that's what I was thinking. I feel bad for the women in his life who were minding their own business, probably thought of him as "safe" to be around because he was married, and the whole time he was fixating on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:45 AM |
| 21 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...IIRC men who engage in gay sex have astronomically higher rates of STDs, because of the general sluttiness of all men. So when men have the option to fuck randomly with impunity, they usually will. Because women are the superior gender, we don't have the same level of random sex, effectively keeping STD rates down. So I totally feel the same way in that I'm not interested in dating bi men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:41 AM |
| 48 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...That is AMAZING! That almost makes me want to reopen my OLD accounts so that I can do just that. If only there had been a camera on their faces when they received your message 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:37 AM |
| 26 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...Yep. And as someone who has been propositioned by the boyfriends/husbands of girls I was friends with, I feel really bad for those women. It's a really gross feeling to think someone would even think you would be open to that kind of thing, and to think that's how they saw you all along when you were trying to be nice and friendly. Males are a real danger to all women they come across | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:35 AM |
| 4 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...OMG... reading these kinds of stories from dumb clueless moids has become my kink :) I CANNOT get enough.. you love to see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Almost 100% of our cultural sexual terminology is centered around men’s pleasure and we should be outraged.Right... so well said. I hadn't thought of the "unsexy" aspect. All those words are kind of... gross, and almost shaming of women for their natural sexual functions. I wish we could just have a totally neutral term for women's sexual fluid, that's not fetishizing or objectifying. Like you said all these terms are ALWAYS created through the male gaze and they often show disgust for 1) normal female bodily functions and 2) having to pay attention to the female sexual perspective | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Almost 100% of our cultural sexual terminology is centered around men’s pleasure and we should be outraged.But they're not widely used at all, and even, for example "squirting" is referring to a specific sexual act/reaction that not all women experience. I'm talking about why isn't there a widespread term for just female sexual arousal fluid. It's absolutely mind boggling that there's not, and I think it contributes to the prioritization of male pleasure over female... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:10 PM |
| 12 | At first I hoped this is not real :/"Am I the asshole for not allowing my boyfriend to steal all the cash from my wallet constantly?" Seriously... the audacity.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:52 AM |
| 14 | That’s what happened when he watched too much pornThat is so disgusting. He sounds like a fucking psychopath. I am really happy for you that you did not end up with him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:43 AM |
| 34 | That’s what happened when he watched too much pornThat's my question 🤔 "Ewwww, vaginas!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:42 AM |
| 24 | That’s what happened when he watched too much pornThen they really need to learn to suck dick, if vaginas are so gross to them. Sorry, clearly not straight 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Almost 100% of our cultural sexual terminology is centered around men’s pleasure and we should be outraged.Yeah like they'll come up with terms that are clinical for our bodies but NO THOUGHT is given to terms describing OUR sexual experience, OUR arousal, the liquid WE form when WE'RE turned on. Because once again women's pleasure isn't prioritized and male pleasure continues to be the axis the world rotates around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:36 AM |
| 25 | Almost 100% of our cultural sexual terminology is centered around men’s pleasure and we should be outraged.Yeah and there's no term for women's sexual fluid, which I find shocking. We have to hear about men's jizz all day but literally not even a thought is given to the term for a woman's sexual discharge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, please raise your expectationsYes, well said! And still try to go around shaming women with standards. I guess so they can feel better about their poor choices 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:30 AM |
| 10 | Ladies, please raise your expectationsTotally! I agree but if a woman wants an elaborate proposal that's okay too. I know exactly what the LVM and pickmes are doing when they try to shame women who want a big ring or a nice location or a big wedding... just more trying to lower the bar for men so they can do jack shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Imagine speaking that badly of women and not even reaching 6ft.Or do a "funny" photoshoot where he props his fat food belly next to her belly full of human life, as a way of hogging the attention for himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:53 AM |
| 39 | Ladies, please raise your expectationsAnd this is exactly why there is the current trend of shaming women who want elaborate proposals and weddings. The latest thing in men's endless quest to be able to be LVM and still be able to lock down a woman. Recognize those "She was a bitch because she wanted a large engagement ring/expensive wedding dress" posts for what they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want."I am scarred from being used from sex so now I pressure women into sending me nudes" Makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Why Men Like "Difficult" WomenI don't know, it's definitely true in my case, which I think is fine. I mean, who cares if women are emotional at certain times of the month? Men get to act like nutcases 99% of the time and no one says a thing. I'm starting to think they really are crazy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Why Men Like "Difficult" WomenExactly! I think this article lays that out super well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 19 | Why Men Like "Difficult" WomenI think he was just basically saying "men are crazy" which I fully agree with, haha. I mean I get way more emotional around my period but men seem 1000% more emotional than women and I appreciate someone pointing it out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 08:04 AM |
| 164 | I’m surprised this made it to the front page of redditGod bless these women who keep telling their stories, KEEP relentlessly talking about what a bunch of sick sociopath pigs MindGeek is, over and over again knowing theyre going to get hate. Just a couple days ago I saw some lady ask where she should go watch to watch porn for the first time on twitter and a ton of responses were like "PornHub is doing charity donations for x cause" and it's just amazing how good of a job at PR PornHub has done. It's amazing to me that the truth is FINALLY coming … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:31 AM |
| 3 | This is the 'empowering' dating lifestyle lib fems are trying to push on us. Lmao. I can'tTotally. I've been around a lot of models, some very famous, and most of them are kind of bland or even strange looking. One of the most famous models I can think of, that guys list as their "ideal" was actually straight up ugly in person. It's all about being "photogenic" rather than actually beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Idle mind is indeed devil's workshopNeedless to say- dont do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:27 AM |
| 42 | This is the 'empowering' dating lifestyle lib fems are trying to push on us. Lmao. I can'tThe funny thing is the comments are all making fun of her and saying she's not attractive enough to be a model. These PickMes think that if they stand next to and date these repulsive guys that they will look more attractive, but actually the opposite happens. People start (rightfully) wondering what's wrong with her and her "league" goes way down. I bet if she was dating a hunky dude there wouldn't have been nearly as many "SHE's a model?!" type comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 07:35 AM |
| 10 | Lets talk about famous PickmeishasYeah, her relationship with Anwar seems so embarrassing to me. Also, didn't her ex cheat on her and it all came out publicly and she still stayed with him? She seems very sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:05 AM |
| 31 | A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker!Basically sounds like you have to (literally) fuck your ass up in order to get it to stop hurting. I mean, we have muscles and tightness in our anus for a reason and that's why you hear about many porn stars getting issues with going to the bathroom. That is not "losing your virginity" that is seriously damaging your body to the point where it doesnt work as it should and now you can insert objects there. Also, why the fuck does she have the arrogance to be dishing out advice when clearly her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Called the police on my housemateDefinitely. That's probably the best thing to do. No point in trying to talk sense into someone who clearly doesnt have any. You should do what's right for you and I agree that just removing yourself from the situation is that. Kudos for figuring it out quickly and decisively, and I wish you the very best of luck in finding a new place. I totally get your pain, cause I've been there and it SUCKS. Hopefully your new place will be way better anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:48 AM |
| 6 | Called the police on my housemateI'm really sorry. I have lived with women who are reckless with their own personal safety before, and it sucks so much when it ends up affecting you as well and you have your own body put at risk because of their actions. Not to mention the fear that they will be hurt also. I would definitely start looking for a new place. Could you have a talk with her about having guys over? I know my roommates and I made rules (this was a few years ago) that we all signed off on, like "no doing drugs in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 04:03 AM |
| 16 | “Touring Musician” ran away after I listed that I sang back in the day and had a few hobby instruments 🤡😂I was trying to figure out what this meant for the longest time... I was so confused I thought he was trying to be cute be saying "hello" in a funny way lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:21 AM |
| 13 | #vanlife- is that code for #nojob?Code for jobless AND homeless! Double whammy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:20 AM |
| 13 | LVM men have the nerve to cry over a woman “breaking their heart” and then turn around and do this.And he posed for this pic why? What a loser "I'm so sad about my ex so here I am posing with 3 other women to make her jealous" that is some manipulative bullshit. And degrading towards the other 3 women so just makes him look even more LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?He's cutting her down, but doing it through a veneer of "I love her so much, and here's why she sucks but I overlook it". That's basically the same thing PUAs do with their negs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?Yeah and he straight up SAID THAT in an interview. I mean, wtf?! Even if you thought that, what kind of man says that about his wife! He is so LV! Here is the interview, btw (titled: "Dax Shepard Wasn't Sure He Wanted to be with Kristen Bell") I really recommend watching it to see those LVM wheels turning in his mind and also the extremely manipulative way he phrases it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3EQfvEQSWU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:51 AM |
| 11 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?Proof that PickMes are only playing themselves. She could have had a nice, attractive, sweet man who treats her like a queen, but CONGRATS for landing this loser and begging him into staying with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:07 AM |
| 17 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?The guys in LA have reputation for being the worst for a reason. They are truly horrific | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:06 AM |
| 14 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?OMG! I have been wondering about this relationship too. I watched some interview of him where he was completely devaluing her, basically said when he was first with her he wasnt sure if he wanted to stay with her or not, and basically how she won him over. Keep in mind I remember when they started dating she was probably the most famous she's ever been, probably A- list, and he was like firmly C- and has never been really famous for anything other than dating her. And he said he was really not s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:05 AM |
| 14 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?I remember him saying that they got together when she came over to his apartment and she saw all his porno magazines laid out and she didn't mind it. Seriously so pathetic and SO disrespectful for him to tell everyone that anecdote. I'm glad Anna seems to have evolved to realize how much better she can get. Chris Pratt is trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 38 | FDS TV MOVIES & BOOKS MEGATHREADI know it's old and kind of cliched but I LOVE the movie Under The Tuscan Sun. The whole story of this woman getting cheated on by a LVM and losing everything and moving to Italy and discovering herself and then having these different relationships is an amazing one, I think. Basically the point is value your own self and your own journey, and the men will come later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 22 | I nEeD aDvIcELOL this made me laugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 12:08 AM |
| 19 | "Wow he thinks I'm hot! Maybe I should give him a chance" nah he just thinks ur a slut100%. It really doesnt have to do with sluttiness, and everything to do with men being animals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 12:06 AM |
| 26 | "Wow he thinks I'm hot! Maybe I should give him a chance" nah he just thinks ur a slutHonestly I have a reputation as a prude and have still been hit up by my male "friends" for sex. They dont care about your reputation- it's literally like- they want to stick your dick in you and that's all they can think about so they shoot their shot. I do try to frame it as a compliment, cause I am damn sure not going to allow a man to make me feel bad about myself. But I never take em up on it, cause if I wanted to date them, we'd already be dating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 34 | Remember girls: when a man beats you up, it's not abuse if he has a boner while doing it, it's a kink!🤪 s/So empowering! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 10 | More kneejerk defenses of porn and threats we’re all going to die alone unless we accept it. “Nice Guys” don’t make overt threats, they wrap it up in some concern trolling.Gaslighting score: 9.5/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 10:27 PM |
| 13 | Fighting for her queen pickmeisha status 🤢Sure you can and the cherry on top is afterwards he'll show your pics to his friends and brag about it while making fun of you. Damn girl, you got it all figured out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 18 | Well, at least he’s honest, amirite?Seriously... if I ever decided to start having random hookups (i never would but just for the sake of argument) it would be with a young and hot dude, not this washed up looking thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:59 PM |
| 34 | Well, at least he’s honest, amirite?And especially when he's demanding sex in the text right below the pic of that baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:59 PM |
| 17 | Well, at least he’s honest, amirite?Nooooo!! I want a full blown relationship and hopefully marriage with this gorgeous specimen. I mean, I GUESS if all I can hope for is casual hookups and giving him blowjobs, I'll settle for it, just to get to be near this Prince Charming. But don't ask me not to get attached! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:58 PM |
| 6 | If he calls the “the boys”, run for your lifeOMG the accuracy of this... I cant even deal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 6 | I lIKe nATurAl gULzOMG is that the guy that's always virtue signalling on twitter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 49 | A response to a thread asking why should women sleep with LVM, when they could sleep with HVM. Apparently men don’t have unattainable standards for women.I think most women, given the choice, would way prefer to be alone than with the LVM reddit scrotes who spend their days playing video games and jerking off to teen porn, all while doing absolutely zero housework. Women do all the reproductive work- all we need to create a family is a little jizz- that's it, and jizz is insanely cheap if not free. (Contrast that to the cost for a man to start a family via finding a surrogate- $100,000 easily). Basically women can have all the things we want whil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 08:00 PM |
| 14 | A observation on men and reading...True fact: Scribd had to change their rules because women, specifically female romance readers, were reading so many books that it broke their algorithm and left them unable to turn a profit. Literally like everyone else was reading like 3 books a month or less and then the romance readers were reading something crazy like 25 books a month or something insanely high like that. Because women are naturally artistic, scholarly, and very good at language processing, for the most part. Men are simp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 04:44 PM |
| 10 | Crime documentaries, and so many women wait until it's too late?Yeah, and I totally get it. It's REALLY fucking hard. Especially if you dont have a recent work history, that makes it so difficult to get a job. Add to that the stress and depression that often come with being treated like shit and it makes it monumentally hard to get yourself to pull together a good resume, making up reasons for the lack of work, and then send it out 100 times as you have to do now. I have mad respect for any woman who's done it. It's HARD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Men are funny when it comes to dick pics, nglHaha I showed you a piece of myself that is so disgusting that I know you'll be repulsed! Man, I sure showed you! I'm totally winning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:16 PM |
| 10 | Turning the tide & shout out to /r/wholesomegifsOMG that is so disgusting and depraved. Only a truly pornsick pig would say something like that.... wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:00 PM |
| 47 | Crime documentaries, and so many women wait until it's too late?I think a lot of it is financial. When the options are 1) being out on the streets, where you'll be hugely vulnerable and almost certainly face sexual assault and harassment or 2) stay with a guy you know, who gives you the creeps, but you've been trained since birth to see men as "protectors" and sympathize with them and see the best in them, then it's easy to see why 2 becomes the better option. This is why training women about achieving financial independence is so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:54 PM |
| 36 | My friend came across a Tinder profile from a guy we went to high school with. Please roast the fuck out of him.I know right? And periods are disgusting and sick and obviously never a time for sex but you really want to be up in someone's asshole? Seriously some of these men need to start being honest about their sexuality... to themselves and others... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 11:51 AM |
| 11 | Is this what hitting the wall looks like?So true and the sad thing is that that shit WORKS and probably did work in your mom's case. Like I bet she felt a lot of pressure to "settle down before she got too old". That's why men do it, cause they know it works and they want women to panic and tolerate their LVM selves. I saw the same thing with my mom. She's extremely attractive, but she would always tell me, when I suggested dating younger, that men only want to date younger. When I finally started really questioning her, she told me ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 10:53 AM |
| 20 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?I love how he acts so BAFFLED and CONFUSED and SHOCKED as to why you dont want to take his car to be detailed and then suck his dick while he plays a free movie from his netflix account. Are these clowns joking? Seriously I think they get off on the idea of finding a woman and making her behave in a pathetic way by going along with this. They'll keep fishing until they find a total doormat and then torture her with LVM behavior until she has no choice but to leave But seriously... what a fuc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Remember, FDS is against BumbleAs far as my standards go I consider this pretty horrible looking https://media.guestofaguest.com/t_article_content/gofg-media/2019/07/1/52562/65271723_1046212712243419_8898070850476419355_n_(2).jpg.jpg) but to each their own! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:52 AM |
| 81 | Remember, FDS is against BumbleYeah and the founders are kind of the definition of PickMes. The Whitney Wolfe girl is married to this horrible looking manlet and she described that she fell in love with him when he lied to her about being bad at skiing and then after she spent an hour or so teaching him or whatever he said they should try the slopes and then completely smashed her by outracing her down the mountain. (Basically kind of making fun of her for the crime of thinking he actually couldnt ski) https://www.vogue.com/a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 76 | Don’t internalize men disrespecting you as an indication of your worth!100% and so true. I remember like a year ago I ordered something online and they sent me the wrong item. It was really fantastic and I looked it up online and it was twice the price of what I ordered (it was an expensive item so we're talking like a difference of a few hundred bucks) and probably a lot better. But I WANTED the original item and called them until they agreed to pick it up and send me a replacement. No indication of the actual worth of that item, it just didn't suit my purposes. A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Am I the only one who consider Lana del Rey to be a LVW?Definitely... as a woman you kinda have to be to survive/get picked for your career to take off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who consider Lana del Rey to be a LVW?She is extremely LVW. I mean she wrote a song dreaming about Harvey Weinstein, for goodness sakes! I've actually heard a lot of talk lately about her being an industry plant- aka higher up, powerful men pushed her so long as she pushes their narrative. She basically introduced the calling men "daddy" thing which used to be SUPER niche if not unheard of. Now it's totally normal. Not every woman is your friend, and Lana is a great example of that. She's profited from selling women down the river… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:33 AM |
| 13 | FDS philosophy on blowjobs (in the context of relationships)?For me, I'll give a blowjob once in a while, but it's rare and for sure other types of sex are more common. I feel like women should be eaten out frequently because it's the easiest way for women to orgasm, and the female orgasm is notoriously elusive. And you should be having way more PIV sex than blowjobs, which should be relatively rare. It's like the food pyramid- blowjobs would be at the very top, aka "recommend to do this the least frequently" I have heard of women that don't give BJs at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 09:40 AM |
| 281 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.That's beyond morbidly obese. For Americans I checked and it's 330 pounds and he's 5'8.... I mean... how is that "a bit fat"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:35 AM |
| 10 | Another reason not to date older menIt's so true. There's something so beautiful about young love. I'm just past 30 now and seriously everyone becomes so much less exciting, because you've been there, done that. You just dont get butterflies in the same way. Women especially deserve to be treated like their partner is nervous and excited to see them. Don't give that up and waste your firsts on some old jaded guy who's had a million first kisses, first dates, first "should we be exclusive?" talks. Wait for a guy your age who's just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | A question from a short guyI think women generally find tallness in men attractive because of sexual dimorphism. Just like men are attracted, generally speaking, to large breasts, an hourglass figure, whatever else. Height is just one of those major things that ping for women. Of course you will find plenty of women that are fine with dating a shorter guy, just like there are plenty of guys that don't care about an hourglass figure. But speaking for most women it's just a turn on for us, I think because one of the major t… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 11:45 AM |
| 65 | My mom said it herself: most men don’t know what they wantMost men are straight up lazy. They love the IDEA of having a SAH wife to cater to their every whim- cook for them, clean, be ready for "on demand" blowjobs (because they think they will be owed this if she stays home)... but when it actually comes time for them to pay out the money that they should, considering this is now the woman's "job" so to speak.. then they get real resentful and angry about it. Basically they love the idea when it benefits them, but when they see that it's gonna mean th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:23 PM |
| 163 | ......It's pathetic pickmeishas proving that they're "not like other girls" because they dont cruelly judge a man on his looks... you know, the way men have done and continue to do since day 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:49 AM |
| 18 | Nothing more to say than what I said. I doubt he’s smashing anyone. Not with that shit ass personality.Noooo don't go!!!! Let me prove you wrong by sucking your dick!!!! This is no doubt the reaction he's hoping for. Pathetic loser... he needs to wander off on his own rather than announcing he's leaving to every woman he runs across | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:22 AM |
| 18 | And there are women who would reply “oh hahaha good one” and continue to talk to this person. I hate OLD culture. Tasteless. (Taken from r/tinder)Nope and the one time I met up with a guy from Tinder he was absolutely bat shit crazy, looked way different from his photos, seemed to have some kind of social disorder, and told a story about how he peed his pants at a work event. That was enough for me to delete the app permanently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 03:48 AM |
| 213 | ......What the fuck is wrong with men. The way they speak about women is like they're picking up something off a grocery store shelf and speaking aloud their internal monologue about "I really like this brand, kind of not sure about the flavor combination, but willing to give it a shot." Like... Hello?! You're not the only one who gets to decide, we're watching your crusty ass while you make disparaging and rude comments! OMG. I just cant with the absolute audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0ingThis is great advice if you want dudes to sleep with you and never call you again. And excellent advice for men in general so they can get laid without having to put in even an ounce of effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:18 PM |
| 15 | Reminder that men don't value women enough to support stopping violence against us. Be nice for what? Please keep working hard on filtering out those LVMThis comment made me laugh for a good minute or so. Very well said and true- that really is how LVM are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 33 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂What a total loser. And this is exactly the kind of clown that goes on rants about how there are "no good women" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:59 PM |
| 29 | Man (34M) lands shiny new job, is thinking of upgrading forever GF of 6 years because he now "knows he can do better", worries about his penis. THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT ON FULL DISPLAY. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!That would be fucking GENIUS. Especially if she can convince him that her name shouldn't be on the lease because it will "benefit him in case he wants to kick her to the curb" or some such selfish male nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 26 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.Probably something like that. But deep down, if he's honest with himself... he knows that he's LV, and that truth probably nags at him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:10 PM |
| 50 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.I completely agree. I used to LOVE going on dates and it was a highlight for me. I would pencil it into my calendar and plan what outfit I was going to wear, pick out what to eat from the menu ahead of time... the anticipation was half the fun. Now, I've shut down my OLD profiles. There is literally no point. To men, even though the train has gone off the rails, they dont care, cause they're perpetually playing a game of "how little effort can I give to get sex." It's like one of their lame vi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:59 PM |
| 61 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.Wow, what a piece of lazy LV trash. And honestly, he could have apologized even if he didn't mean it, just to be like a good person. But he WANTED you to feel like you were low priority for him. Honestly, these are the kinds of guys that love bringing women down and "putting them in their place", even if they do it in a sneaky way. Guaranteed if you got into the relationship it would have been this shit turned up to 11 and a cycle of him forgetting birthdays and holidays and plans and if you e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:51 PM |
| 4 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoYeah and having worked in family law, the courts wouldn't look highly on this kind of a set up. I saw plenty of clients go into their case totally confident that they would get EVERYTHING and being shocked beyond belief by how it worked out for them. So his smugness could very well be totally unfounded But I agree it shows the intention behind which is what is so scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:12 PM |
| 5 | A Word on "He's Just Not That Into You"Completely agree. ALSO I dont think the title is true. As far as men go, they're "into" a lot of things, including women they put zero effort into. A HVM will put lots of effort into a woman, but there are plenty of LVM that will be actively extremely into a woman and still do dumb, immature shit like ask her to pay for half for a date or not muster up the courage to ask her out. That's because there are plenty of stupid men, and not every man is this go-getter achiever as he describes in the bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity That's horrible and most feel so incredibly violating. It's disgusting that this is what women have to suddenly contend with... deepfakes are such a total violation, as are the men talking so nastily about these women. I'm really sorry that you have to deal with that- just disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:05 PM |
| 31 | A little convo I had with my familyBasically he should be dating men, since he obviously doesnt actually like women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 09:08 AM |
| 29 | The small things count.Good for you. A lot of men will take any opportunity to lord their power over women. They get off on it. For Harvey Weinstein that means serious sexual assault, because he had that immense level of power. For the lowly cafeteria worker, that can mean passive aggressively screwing up a woman's order or being rude to her for no reason. It's important to brush it off and not let it bother us, but also to stand up for ourselves, and not accept the bad behavior when we feel like it. No cowtowing to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 08:53 AM |
| 2 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Really well said, all of it! I agree that so many people in that industry seem like scum of the earth types. I guess that's why Hollywood is known for being fake and kind of sadistic. Thanks for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:38 AM |
| 9 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Now if you're a famous woman in any entertainment field- modeling, acting, music- there are probably lots of deep fakes out there of you engaging in horrifying, deliberately degrading porn. There is some reddit community called "What Would Do to Her?" or something where they post photos of famous women, usually wholesome, nice looking actresses or similar, and male redditors post the most vile, pornsick stuff about the different ways and positions they would have sex with her- often violent. Bei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:32 AM |
| 13 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity OMG completely agree. LVM are EVERYWHERE. I actually think if you have a HVM and move him to California, he'll turn LVM, because it's just THAT pervasive. It's crazy. Think of the fact that #MeToo was going on for YEARS in SoCal and literally no one cared until the New Yorker decided to publish the Weinstein expose. Of course there are bad men everywhere, but they're usually looked down upon. In SoCal they are celebrated. Also, nowhere else could host the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:28 AM |
| 14 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Agreed. There's a lot of bullshit women go through on the basis of being considered culturally beautiful, but no one wants to discuss it. It's like people think you're won the life lottery when the reality is you get subjected to all kinds of mean and predatory bullshit. Like the Weinstein cases | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity I think there needs to be a discussion about how specifically highly attractive women are targeted. I know no one wants to hear sob stories from super attractive or super rich people- most people think if you have that quality, especially as a woman, it's like hitting the lotto. And of course women who are considered culturally unattractive suffer too, immensely, in different ways. But being considered highly attractive as a woman subjects you to a whole hellscape of extremely, extremely predato… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?Dont be embarrassed. It's not your fault you came across a socially incompetent clown who doesnt know how to conduct himself. I've definitely stayed on dates longer than I liked. Put up with dudes being rude. Paid for a drink that a guy initially offered to buy me ("Get whatever you want"). I dont think any of that reflects badly on me- we are socialized to be overly polite, and to be agreeable- and frankly, it serves women in really good stead. It's why women are currently dominating men in b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:08 PM |
| 62 | It usually starts at home, you do not have to repeat to cycle!Yeah and I remember when "MeToo" happened and there were sooooo many older women online that were telling young women "What did you expect?" and blaming the women in it, and saying things would never change, and being sooooo hostile about it. And now of course we've seen that #MeToo has been a MASSIVE success and nobody would deny that. Sometimes you have to see the vision and look past it when older women, that have accepted bad behavior, want to give you "advice" or tell you to accept bad beha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 08:32 PM |
| 33 | Men are just disgustingWell said. I honestly feel like many of them know there's no chance and it's not reciprocated, but they want to force the girl to see them in a sexual light. Kind of like how a subway flasher doesnt expect the woman to be turned on by his dick, he just wants her to be forced to SEE IT and acknowledge his sexuality. It's the same thing. I think these men spend time with attractive women at work and, in their irrational male way, even though they know they're way older and probably deeply unattrac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 6 | Men’s Tendency To Overestimate Women’s Sexual Interest May Not Have A Direct Evolutionary Basis After AllYeah I always thought the negging thing was bizarre. I also get a good amount of attention from men and when negging first happened to me I was just like "OMG, what a rude, socially awkward pig". I dont know what on earth men think they're accomplishing. 90% of people are just going to be annoyed. I mean hello- they really think that walking up to ANYONE and insulting them is going to go over well? But, I guess we have those special submissive female brains so it will work on us. 🙄 Honestly I th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:12 AM |
| 79 | Why men really don't like single moms...Very true and well said. And it’s because, statistically speaking, it’s a MAJOR red flag. Women file for 70% of divorces. You can be pretty sure that if a man is divorced it’s because he was dumped for being a completely unsuitable partner and mooch. Contrast that to a single mom, who, statistically speaking, probably just got sick of his shit. Actually, that might be another reason they hate single moms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.Oh okay! yeah that makes sense! The neck is definitely an erogenous zone and I like to have it touched or brushed too, although mostly i prefer lips instead of fingers though. but just cant stand the hand around the neck thing- it makes me panic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.Well that's fine if that's your preference I guess but for me having my neck touched in any kind of a choking way, even resting a hand there with that kind of touch, is a huge red flag and big no. Btw I like having my neck "touched" by someone's mouth while they kiss up it, but that's completely different from placing your hand around their throat, no matter how loose or light the grip is. You can definitely stimulate the neck without a choking motion, which is a totally different thing. I hope … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone else notice the double standards certain men have concerning sexual assault/rape?This is a great point. It's like apparently a couple weeks ago I triggered some subreddit for saying that Caroline Flack should never have been smeared as a domestic abuser and lamenting her suicide. Apparently she is FOR SURE a domestic abuser, and the scenario in which her tiny self beat up her massively muscular and tall boyfriend is 100% true. And according to them it was SO offensive and SHOCKING for me to even cast doubt on that story. Contrast that to the reaction to kobe's death where's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Got shadow banned from r/blackpeopletwitterFragile men at it again. Good to know they're a misogynist haven over there. It's okay...we'll gain followers every time they ban a female for fighting back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:47 PM |
| 10 | Anyone out there who actually wants to be a SAHW/SAHM? How to make this possible without being taken advantage of?Get a GOOD prenup written up wherein you are guaranteed a certain amount of alimony and child support. It can be really detailed where the amount goes up per child or per year. If you have a HVM he should understand that you'll be taking a financial risk by giving it up to SAHM and he should be willing to make provisions to keep you safe because of it. I agree I would love to SAHM but dont have any intention to because of the high risk. However, if you've found a HVM who will be willing to do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:43 PM |
| 26 | I went on my first date in months.Amazing. I find it really interesting he grabbed the check, slapped his credit card down, handed it to the waitress, got all the credit, THEN asked you to pay him back. LVM behavior disguised as HVM. They really are sneaky. Kudos to you for saying no in the moment- IDK if I would have been strong enough to do that! You're a badass and an inspiration | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingIt's so true. Also, when people talk about choking and stuff it's always in the context of consented to "play". Well I've never in my life told anyone I want to be choked, and I know I'm not the only one this has happened to. It's clearly a male fantasy, and it's now so ubiquitous that there's almost no way for a woman to avoid encountering this. What in the fresh hell? It's literally an act of violence and murder and it's becoming standard during a supposed act of love. We live in a hellscape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:30 PM |
| 18 | YouTube suggested I watch "The Red Pill"Funny because men control so much of the wealth in the world. If they wanted to, some millionaire could easily set up a DV shelter for men. They won't though, because they know there really aren't any men with black eyes from being punched by a female, running away in fear of their lives because their wife choked them or threw them against a wall or is stalking them. It's literally just a talking point to try to get women's shelters shut down so that men can choke, throw women against walls, sta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.Thank you so much for this comment. I have realized over the past few years that I'm not as bad at it as I thought. Actually one of my best friend's is an accountant and I realized that when we're out to dinner I'm often quicker at calculating the tip than she is! I do think women are indoctrinated that we're not as "good" at math as men, and it's something we need to push back against. Gonna try to integrate that into my idea of myself. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.Yeah although from what I understand there's a misogyny problem in south America in particular. Apparently Brazil has a similar issue with the level of female murders. Catholicism plays a role, I'm sure, but it's the misogyny is much more prevalent there than in other Catholic countries, like, say, Ireland. Just the fact that that woman's murdered body was able to run in newspapers makes me so angry. I'm glad that Mexican women seem to be really speaking up and calling it out and hopefully some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:09 PM |
| 16 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedOMG I've had the date bait and switch before. It's such a clown move. And honestly, I refused to meet him at the other location (he had tried before the date, I shot it down, finally he suggested a nice bar, so I agreed to meet him there, then when I arrived- surprise, surprise- he wasn't there and was at another spot) and was in the process of texting some friends to see if anyone would come meet up with me. I told him not to come, and stopped responding, and he did show up, so I did sit down w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:01 PM |
| 11 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.Agreed, and it's horrifying. I will say for me, this is why I like a nice long makeout a few times before sex. Honestly several of them have indeed grabbed my neck in a light chokehold, or just "rested their hand there" in a kind of loose grab (why is this a thing?!) which to me is my cue to immediately take their hand off firmly and say "I dont like that" and then casually chat and then mention I forgot to leave and OMG I'm running late or something. It's definitely not foolproof and obviously … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:34 PM |
| 12 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.That's horrific. I was just reading about the major misogyny problem in Mexico. I truly hope this latest wave of protests can help fix it or make some change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.I am not great at math (to say the least), but I would really love to see someone who is adjust this for population. Because I know it would still be abysmal as far as the United States goes, and would really give us a true look about the level of misogyny in this country. It really makes me want to move to Europe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:30 PM |
| 20 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingUnfortunately they were divorcing so maybe that allowed for it. I will say having worked in family law sometimes people just get completely screwed- and it's 99% of the time the woman, especially SAHMs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 10:58 AM |
| 18 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingTotally. Even getting with him in the first place. I mean... look at her and look at him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 06:19 AM |
| 64 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingThis is exhibit A of why dating down is a bad idea and the guy will not be "grateful" for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 06:19 AM |
| 18 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingI know... I didn't want to mention it but that's what I was thinking.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 06:19 AM |
| 66 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingAnd she had two of his kids... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:22 AM |
| 28 | Than you FDS! This felt really good to do. Before FDS I would have either agreed to, or felt guilty about saying “no.”That's true I guess. It's like texting someone "I am trash"- I mean it's nice of them to let us know and be so upfront. I still find it disgusting. I've gotten a text like this before and found it extremely degrading and pornsick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 11:12 PM |
| 16 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.I know! It's so bizarre how angry men get over instagram. My theory is that many women have been able to make money from their instagram accounts, and female economic empowerment ALWAYS enrages men. Basically women getting any positive attention not from them enrages them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Woman Handles Man Who Flashed HerAbsolute hero. I was thrilled about this till hearing that no one did anything and because of that the creep got away. But she deserves a freaking medal for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 09:26 PM |
| 56 | Than you FDS! This felt really good to do. Before FDS I would have either agreed to, or felt guilty about saying “no.”What a disgusting text to send to anyone. How do men think this is acceptable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 84 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.Yeah... they usually are completely socially inept which is why posts like these dont intimidate me. Maybe pick mes cant tell, but all smart women can identify men like this easily. He THINKS no one is noticing because he's that clueless about how others perceive him. I bet all the women talk about it and he can get a call from HR soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 19 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.This is a great strategy for men who really want to be fired and have a minor scandal erupt from workplace discrimination. Sorry scrotes- it ain't 1960 anymore. Women aren't playing with this anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 09:20 PM |
| 31 | Libfems, take note. We will never be on even playing ground with someone who can easily violate us like this. Most of them are depraved and believe this behavior is normal. One of the many reasons we vet them and make them pay is that it weeds out garbage humans like this:This is so sad. It makes me so angry at the porn industry and the libfems who have normalized and PUSHED young women that they need to be hooking up and having sex with randoms to be "empowered". This is the end result. It's absolutely tragic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:19 PM |
| 11 | What is the proper response for being asked out on a low effort 'date'?In my OLD days I would just say no I cant and if pressed about why I kept turning the guy down I would say I was "too busy". Usually they would escalate into an offer for dinner or something else but in my experience if a guy is LV from the start, that's never gonna change, even if he can muster up the energy to ask you to a nice dinner. He's still LV at his core, not a gentleman, not the kind of guy worthy of me. So honestly if a guy has LV behavior, like trying to get a cheap coffee date, I wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 06:15 AM |
| 10 | I'm starting to worry about the future of this subI personally love the memes and I see that long posts often get highly upvoted too. I think it's just the nature of any subreddit that the short, concise, and easy to understand posts (so, memes are a very effect form of this) get upvoted. I personally enjoy seeing the humor brought to these things, and if you wanna dig you can get to the longer posts. I actually think this subreddit has a great balance of the thoughtful posts and the fun and uplifting ones. Thats one of the reasons I come here … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 05:58 AM |
| 48 | Pickmeshia doesn't leave at the first red flag. Raise your standards ladies!I feel bad for her because women are repeatedly indoctrinated to go Dutch and that "it's just the fair thing" and doesnt show a lack of interest or quality. In fact his behavior is already being defended on the post and SHE's being blamed for "overreacting". Women are constantly gaslighted into accepting this pathetic behavior from males and it's fucking pathetic. This is why FDS is so important, cause men are pushing HARD to have ZERO accountability and have to make ZERO effort at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 10:29 AM |
| 8 | you can do better than this.I think it is true that there are shy guys, just like there are crazy shy girls. it's just that, in order to have the shy part of a man's brain overdrive their crazy high "pursuit" drive, they have to be incredibly dysfunctional, and honestly, a loser. So it's no one you would want to be with regardless. Trash takes itself out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:20 AM |
| 10 | This woman learnt that men will date/make out with her if she asks them out *shocking*Also this comment on her post: >"I have to tell you..... any girl that says: "Do you want to get day drunk and makeout Friday at 2." after a date or two with me is going to have me so smitten that Ill be borderline obsessed. This has nothing to do with sex, its just plain hot and I would feel super valued because of it." You are a LVM, so you'd probably be smitten if any attractive woman looked at you twice. But the reality is most men will NOT be smitten, at all, and they'll recognize her a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:23 AM |
| 61 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youThere are lots of photos of Reddit meetups that have happened... i highly suggest googling it and seeing the stunners that make up the average reddit population 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 38 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youFrom what I've seen it's mostly extremely LVW or very young women. I think when you're a younger girl you're not as aware of the nature of men and that they'll tell you "you look ugly/slutty/prudish/dumb" just to make themselves feel better, because when men are attracted to a woman it provokes a weird mix of anger and lust in them. So it's older LVW (who are kind of a lost cause) and very young girls that I feel really bad for, because at that age you're way more vulnerable and the mean comment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 16 | This woman learnt that men will date/make out with her if she asks them out *shocking*OMG! You figured out the big secret girl! These guys must REALLY like you if they're willing to come over for no strings attached sex- men usually hate that! It's sad, watching these women really think they did something. I also think these things get posted because there's this implicit implication that women are the ones not being direct with their intentions so it's WOMEN'S FAULT for the current clusterfuck dating market. Newsflash: I've never gotten a text from a dude about "Hey, would y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:02 PM |
| 8 | I am finally kicking my husband to the curb this weekend and he doesn't know.This is so important. And get a shark. It really does make a difference in the divorce and you want someone who will be your best advocate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | I am finally kicking my husband to the curb this weekend and he doesn't know.So glad that you've been smart about this and done things to get the house in your name alone! My advice to you would also be- and I know this is harsh- drain the bank accounts. I saw men do it all the time in family law and most of the time there was little to no way to prove it, cause most people dont seem to keep up to date financial records. I would do it because when the man gets there and does it first, it's suppppper hard to prove and get the funds back, cause technically it's community p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 56 | Remember, most of the world is pro-FDSYeah. I'm on a 90 Day Fiancee watching spree right now and it's funny to me how the LVM that think they're getting some docile "mail order bride" type gets a RUDE awakening by how assertive, demanding, and direct women from other countries are. Many women from other countries will straight up demand cash money, insult the guy, tell him they're denying him sex because they're mad, etc. They make NO apologies. And yet hardly any of the men leave, because they know deep down that they are LVM and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:44 AM |
| 56 | you can do better than this.Definitely! It does exist, but it's enough of a personality flaw that it automatically makes him LVM and a bad dating prospect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:36 AM |
| 62 | you can do better than this.I think there are some of them who ARE too shy or scared to ask a woman out.... but think about the psychology of that. He could surely overcome the fear if he really tried, but he's clearly lazy as a personality type. Cowardly, or just socially off to the point where it would be embarassing to have him around and introduce him to your friends and fam. Take it as a blessing, if he can't muster up whatever he needs to ask you out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:35 AM |
| 18 | He wouldn't walk me to my carGod what a total loser. At least he showed his ass NOW rather than after yall had been dating for a while. I feel like there's a good chance you get another text from him referencing the whole event and being like "I hope you didn't get offended, I didn't know you had anxiety" or some such other bullshit (aka gaslighting you into thinking it was you being irrational) Seriously fuck that dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:03 AM |
| 77 | Make 👏🏼your👏🏼own👏🏼food!Ditto for talking about the historical expectation that existed in some cultures that men would protect women. When you bring up that that means men can't hit women, or CHIVALRY, or that they would have to fight for women's honor and stand up when a lady enters the room and all of that- it totally goes out the window. if men want to have the "it used to be so good back in the day" talk then let's mention those few aspects of it that actually benefitted women. Then their tune changes REAL quick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:01 AM |
| 10 | The gems on OLD. Found it on r/Tinder but couldn't crosspostImagine someone telling you about something deeply traumatic that happened to them and you laughing about it and making jokes about it, then calling them a slur. These LVM are seriously sick and sadistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:19 AM |
| 16 | this sub has opened my eyes to the lies that surround us and i just wanted to add to the pile an example that i have noticed.Wonderful point! I actually think the age range for women in Hollywood has started skewing older lately, and it's so awesome to see. A few years ago, what he was saying might have been true, but not anymore. And I think he's saying it less to motivate women, and more to try to intimidate/shame women into desperately settling cause the clock is ticking And, btw, I have seen David Spade out and about and he is like really short, way old looking in person, and, sure enough, was with some young lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:40 AM |
| 41 | What I’ve been saying!I totally think the attractiveness has a lot to do with it. I've only ever slept with guys I'm seriously attracted to and wanted to rip their clothes off. I'll go through a long dry spell because I literally cant stomach the idea of sex with someone unless I truly find them gorgeous. I think that's another thing- women are so pressured to "not be shallow" and date men they aren't physically attracted to. Well being physically turned on by someone's appearance goes a LONG way in terms of foreplay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:44 AM |
| 56 | Poor him. It must’ve been so hard for him. She should have been more understanding...The child just popped out via immaculate conception. Dwayne had no part in it except the arrival.. no sex, just the birth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 90 | What I’ve been saying!It's also super expensive and rare! I ran out of vanilla and had to run to my cornerstore to get some for a recipe and the cheapest, tiny bottle they had was $12, for like 2 ounces. Vanilla is some high quality, good shit, and you need it to make almost all deserts... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:08 AM |
| 168 | What I’ve been saying!I personally have ALWAYS had an orgasm through vaginal sex alone, which I thought was fairly normal until talking to some of my friends and seeing women talk about it online. I do think some of this is just due to like, how things are arranged down below for me (talking about clit placement, g-spot, that kind of thing). But I think another HUGE thing is that I've only ever had vanilla sex. I have NEVER allowed a guy to hit me or put his hands on me during sex. Obviously, no one can control if so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Am i the only one who cringes at r/tinder posts?A lot of men love to use the phrase "dad jokes" to justify their mediocre and unintelligent sense of humor. But we're supposed to feel obligated to laugh anyway in the same way you would give your dad a pity laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 11:29 PM |
| 6 | it depresses me that the bar is THIS LOW. literally asking for a partner that respects you and wants to please you is seen as asking for too much. smh there are too many LVMs.Wow I'm really glad the mods of r/sex took that down ASAP! That would have really polluted the vibe and IMO it's sex-shaming. Much better to have the posts about someone's BDSM kink where they can only get off by punching someone in the face. Dangerous stuff, women talking about how they deserve to have an orgasm too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:19 PM |
| 7 | it depresses me that the bar is THIS LOW. literally asking for a partner that respects you and wants to please you is seen as asking for too much. smh there are too many LVMs.I cant see what this said as the post was removed, but I'm guessing from the comments that this woman finally encountered a man who was good in bed and also considerate of her sexual pleasure and giving her an orgasm. Which explains why the moderators of r/sex had to remove it... they cannot be giving women the idea that THEIR sexuality matters as much as men's or giving men the idea that good sex is not just the man getting off and rolling over in bed and going to sleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Twin flames, soulmates, Plutonic relationships and other Pickme bs pushed by the astrological communityYeah, I have a past relationship where our Eros and Psyche were conjunct, which is supposedly the ultimate soulmate pairing, as well as a ton of other shit. I still think of him/will always care for him, but I've also accepted that we're not supposed to be together and that he is not up to my standards, despite whatever feelings I had when we met That's the thing... feelings are fleeting and not really the way to decide your life path. Like yeah, you can love someone- but if they're totally dy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Has any dude that says he “speaks sarcasm” ever turned out to be HV?You're so right... it's definitely code for "I'm an irrationally angry asshole who will take it on you under the guise of humor" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | LVMs at workYeah I totally get it. I'll leave it up to you to decide what the best response is. I kind of like calling it out and watching them squirm, then pointedly not getting anything on their birthday. Like by pointing it out they'll remember it. But whatever you think is best since you're in the situation. The point is you are awesome and thoughtful and deserve so much better! Hope you have a happy birthday regardless...you're an Aquarius so hopefully you can tap into that "I dont give a shit about yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:31 PM |
| 12 | Man completely flakes on date, so woman blocks him. He calls two hours later and leaves a psychotic voicemail. He’s big mad she didn’t wait two hours for him apparently.The amazing thing to me with this is if a woman left a VM like this on a man's phone she would immediately have to change her number because of the amount of hate she would get as soon as it was posted on SM. People would be LIVID. I bet this dude gets almost no texts/calls/harassment/death threats, whereas as a woman would be INUNDATED with them. What a trash loser he is, anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 23 | From "The Romanov Sisters" by Helen RappaportLiteral queen shit. Also, my grandmother told me the same thing. She was born in the 20s, so not getting married wasnt really an option for her. She's told me multiple times that if she was a young woman today she wouldn't get married, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:07 PM |
| 22 | Okay homie, whatever you say 🤣Or the massive corporation that owns PornHub and pretty much all major porn sites and dictates what kind of porn they push and that people view | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:04 PM |
| 26 | Am i the only one who cringes at r/tinder posts?My theory about the bizarre clusterfuck that is the Tidner subreddit is that it's like this fantasy world for men, wherein every woman is like a desperate for approval wannabe sexbot, every man can speak super disrespectfully and nastily and overtly sexually to women, and then the other part of posts are cringe women who are "too demanding" and need to be put in their place. I think they find it very relaxing. They go there are there's a ton of screenshots of like super sexual female profiles … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | 😖😖😖Totally agree. She is really smart about that! I love to see a young girl doing that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 8 | LVMs at workCan you bring it up? Like in a joking way? Like "Damn, I got yall stuff for your birthday and this is all I get! I'll remember it for the next time!" Full disclosure: I work for myself now, so not sure if this is the best strategy or not. But this is the angle I've taken when I worked with LVM in the past. Keep in mind LVM LOVE and take joy in any opportunity they have to deflate a woman, especially a high value woman. They are used to being ignored by women so when they get to "give it back t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:44 PM |
| 67 | Beware the Pathological PickmeDefinitely. I've also had a version of these Pick Mes who will befriend an attractive woman who gets male attention so they can kind of float around on the periphery and pick up the crumbs you get. Like, well I know we'll get looked out when we go out, so I'll hang out with this girl because I know men are gonna come over. It can feel extremely violating, objectifying, and like you were really used. It's a horrible feeling of betrayal, when you realize a female friend never really cared about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 06:50 AM |
| 6 | Dating Apps NOT the Best Place to Find Love, According to a New Study. Many users – particularly younger women – report being harassed or sent explicit messages on these platforms.So perfectly said. There's an instant layer of disrespect in how they approach you, across the board | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionYeah definitely... I'm still friends with this guy, but I think about ending the friendship all the time. I definitely put up barriers and mostly chat with him over the phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:28 AM |
| 11 | 😖😖😖Totally... all the Halloween costumes I've seen where the girl is dressed up as Harley Quinn give off major Pickmeisha vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:04 AM |
| 23 | 😖😖😖I know, like oh no, Margot Robbie, what an eyesore! Theyre just mad they didn't make her prance around in 6 inch heels and a bikini. The other day I saw people complaining about the same thing with Daisy Ridley in star wars, saying that she should have been made to wear the "Slave Leia" metal bikini in a scene. Not to mention that would have NOTHING to do with the plot. It's almost like it makes them even angrier to see a really beautiful woman and NOT have her sexually objectified and pornified… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:04 AM |
| 9 | Vietnamese women shutting down sexpat losers on OLDLmaoooo.... I dont know what this is from but this was fucking amazing and hysterical. I love the contrast of the guy texting the woman "You are the rudest person I've ever met in my life" and telling her she's going to end up alone (pretty rude himself) because she's pressing him about how much time he's going to spend there... meanwhile contrast that to the dozens of "Can we have sex?" messages these men are just sending out. Like they get enraged when they have to deal with even a FRACTION of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:00 AM |
| 6 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionI've even been hit on by married/in a relationship "friends"- seriously it's like the only thing men can think of when they see a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 11 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionI totally agree... most of the stuff men get together and talk about boggles my mind in it's boringness. Like sports, some business/money stuff... what else do they even talk about? I think it's funny that men actually often sit in silence when in groups- like even they get bored with their conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 27 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionI had a gay guy friend grab my breast (without my consent or any indication that he was going to do so) because he just "wanted to". Gay guys can be gross and I truly think you have to be wary around ANY male | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:36 AM |
| 10 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionAnd this is why I dont have any male friends. Literally all of them have tried to hit me up for sex in one way or another. Now I just cut it off at the knees and keep my distance The sad thing is I remember when this first happened to me I took it so personally. It happened a few times with a few different guys and I thought it meant I had a shitty personality. I thought it meant no one really liked me, everyone was pretending and the men just came forward and admitted it was for sex It was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:35 AM |
| 6 | Share songs that normalize sexual violence [below]I dont listen to him but I know a ton of Tyler the Creator songs are insanely misogynistic. And for some reason he gets treated like some sensitive artistic genius in the media? When he's rapped about raping and murdering women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:29 AM |
| 13 | Unapologetically female-only spaces are so necessaryVery true.... it's also just about the "heeheehee I'm taking over your territory and there's NOTHING you can do about it :D" attitude that men have. Like I will never get the image out of my mind of the obnoxious instagram acquaintance grinning ear to ear while this nail shop woman kneels at his nasty man feet. They get off on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:26 AM |
| 78 | Funny that he is treated like a God in Hollywood and nobody is calling him outVery true. Also they love to believe this fanfiction they've created for themselves wherein women are literally turned on and sexually stimulated by money/power. Which is convenient for them because it takes away the reality/pressure of physical appearance and age and all that. So they can honestly believe that like, if they become president of their company at age 55, that suddenly the gorgeous secretary is not going to be able to look in their direction without getting wet. And that horrible l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:41 AM |
| 356 | Funny that he is treated like a God in Hollywood and nobody is calling him outThat was so amazing. I thought it was absolutely perfect how kind of smug and like "Oh yeah, you caught me!" expression Leo was giving when Ricky Gervais first made his joke. He thought it was like the same good ol' boy ribbing, with a side of like "Good for you, you dirty dog!" And then Ricky followed it up with the Prince Andrew comparison and it was SO HARSH and so perfect. I hope he realizes now that no one finds it funny or charming, just disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:51 PM |
| 205 | Funny that he is treated like a God in Hollywood and nobody is calling him outMen are so delusional. They really think that every woman is secretly like, "OMG, Leo is so hot, I just wish that could be me!" Not realizing that we are genuinely REPULSED by him. The only reason any woman sleeps with him is for career advancement. Just like I'm sure, say, Rosie O'Donnell could pull 20 year old male models if she wanted to, because people will do what they have to do for fame and money. But the idea that any of us are sitting at home JEALOUS about the woman who has to lay und… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:48 PM |
| 9 | This is your friendly neighborhood reminderYep... it's like when all you have in your house is like some cereal and maybe some wilted kale and you manage to make a meal out of it. They truly don't give a shit. I do think men look forward to certain types of sex more, like when they do love a woman. But they'll get hungry and just stick it in whoever because it's like eating something you dont love because you're starving. theyre like dogs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Imagine thinking this is funny or even okay from your husbandSimply tragic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:42 PM |
| 66 | Sad this has to be broadcasted, here’s to hoping it wakes some people up...I'm actually shocked this was upvoted at all. Though I can only assume the members of the sub who upvoted it were thinking of the rare instances when a woman actually gets supported on AITA, like a situation so egregious that even they cant deny it, like the "My husband is asking to move his girlfriend into our studio apartment and I just gave birth a week ago" types of situations. They will continue to feel completely fine telling the woman who cooked her husband an elaborate meal and he refu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 25 | Unapologetically female-only spaces are so necessaryI went to one of these a few years ago and all the women there remarked about how we had NEVER felt safer in our lives. It was actually incredible- the weight lifted off our shoulders. I didn't realize how much constant awareness of "men are here and they could come up and attack me/rape me/fixate on me/stare at me/ hit on me/etc" that I carry around with me constantly. And I think every woman does. It's like that Margaret Atwood quote about the male gaze- to have it removed is so freeing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 10:59 PM |
| 24 | Unapologetically female-only spaces are so necessaryThis reminds me of seeing more and more men getting manicures. I dont even get manicures cause I have no patience for waiting 40 min for everything while I sit still, BUT every time I've gone it's all women and kind of this sacred, protected place. I believe it was Bad Bunny who got turned away from some nail salon like a year ago because they said it was for women only and he threw an absolute fit. Then I saw this douchebag I know IRL on his Instagram posting about how he gets a weekly pedi, wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 10:57 PM |
| 13 | How men learn to hate womenSo well said. This is why I also URGE women to consider raising a child on their own. Having worked in family law, it's disgusting how many women are forced to continue sending their child to an abusive or nasty father. Standard custody agreements are 50/50, and exceptions to that are hardly EVER made unless people agree otherwise on their own. Trust me, most men dont want the woman to have more custody than them because 1) theyre all spiteful assholes, by and large (all that testosterone) 2) if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 10:19 PM |
| 17 | This is what happens when you settle 😥I find this shit so disturbing beyond words. What upsets me most is that apparently Onision was hugely popular for years and so many people supported him and watched videos of him abusing women? And no one cared? The only time anyone cared was when Blaire White said something. But no one listened to the women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 08:03 AM |
| 10 | A guy who I briefly talked to a few years ago shared this. Funny thing is, he kissed me at a party and then went downstairs and started making out with another girl and I caught him. Now all he does is complain on social media...mostly about women.Damn, this reminds me of my ex who basically cheated on me and now years later is STILL SALTY and blames ME for breaking up with him. Still angry and still out to get me. Because I dumped him for cheating. Men are genuinely- and I mean this truly- BATSHIT CRAZY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 07:16 AM |
| 75 | Reminder that hot and ugly dudes end up treating you the same wayIME the hot guys treat you way better. Because they dont have a chip on their shoulder I have never dated an unattractive dude and never would because I need to be turned on to have sex. But in my interactions with them I've noticed a generalized resentment towards women. Aint nobody got time for that, on TOP of them being horrible to look at | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Woman (40+) gets more attention with age, notices that men her age & 50+ years old lie, present themselves as late 30s due to lack of attention from women. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men! Don't let them neg you about getting older!I know and it's awesome to see what a lie it is. I think they do it so both young and old women will be more receptive to them and more interested in settling down with them. It will be interesting to see how dating apps shape things for sure. But I wasnt talking specifically about dating apps, more about dating in general. Even before dating apps I had heard about this being a thing- that women are just more attractive in their early 20s or even teens- and it's so nice to realize over time what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 06:04 PM |
| 6 | The Oxytocin MythI think this is true. I orgasm really easily from sex, like I have a 99% success rate (I also think this has to do with me only sleeping with men I'm SUPER physically turned on by and also that I'm very selfish in bed so I only do positions that I like and that feel good for me). When I have an orgasm, I'm completely done and feel just like a man. I've definitely had that "OMG, why is this loser lying next to me, I wish he'd leave" moment. I've pulled the "I have an early morning meeting" card m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:10 AM |
| 23 | Woman (40+) gets more attention with age, notices that men her age & 50+ years old lie, present themselves as late 30s due to lack of attention from women. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men! Don't let them neg you about getting older!Thank you for posting this! Im really starting to believe this is true. I'm 31, almost 32, and I truly do feel like I continuously get more attention every year. I remember being 18 and being like "Damn, I'm probably the cutest I'll ever be" (sad that even at that age I was carrying that ageist expectation around) and then being shocked when at 22 I dated the kind of guy 18 year old me would have salivated over and literally dreamed about dating. And he was 2 years younger than me and could have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 07:42 AM |
| 9 | Pro tip: When guys are creepy, send them Chuck E. Cheese’s official bio line by line until they unmatchI think it is. I dont know why people think Tinder is just a hook up place... plenty of people are on there for relationships. Anyway, same rules of socialization and respect apply there as do in the real world, imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 09:36 AM |
| 6 | A visualisation of being a man on Tinder.Who doesn't? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 09:33 AM |
| 5 | Ghosted but still looks at insta and snap stories ?I really would bet he sneaks back into your life at some point sending you a message or something, if he's still looking at your stories. The best thing you could is block him now on social media so he gets the awareness that YOU dont want HIM. Because otherwise, next time he gets bored, he'll probably hit you up, and pathetic fuckboys like him dont mean a word of it. Hopefully this will dent his ego a bit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 12:35 AM |
| 14 | Pro tip: When guys are creepy, send them Chuck E. Cheese’s official bio line by line until they unmatchOMG I am totally using it. I figured you got the bio from them because it's such a bizarre story that totally fits in at a 90s Chuck E Cheese. But thinking to use it here was brilliant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 10:32 PM |
| 12 | A visualisation of being a man on Tinder.LMAO I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 10:27 PM |
| 41 | Pro tip: When guys are creepy, send them Chuck E. Cheese’s official bio line by line until they unmatchOMG! Did you make or think this up yourself? I am literally laughing out loud, so hard at this. Seriously brilliant. It's great because Chuck E Cheese is so iconically absurd but also pretty obscure so everyone is gonna be super confused by who Chuck and St. Marinara are.... I cant. Well done, this is hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Strategy for luring them in!I've never done it but luckily I've never had a man ask for that! I would be not pleased | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Strategy for luring them in!Definitely! I meant offering to split but if a dude had the audacity to ask me to pay for him I would laugh in his face. I mean there's no way. I actually had that happen to a friend of mine and she paid for his bill. But she's kind of an idiot and sleeps with all these dudes who never call her back. It's a really bad precedent to set, and honestly any man who would expect that is pure scum anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 04:17 PM |
| 4 | These delusional fucktards think the male wall is only about money and not looks.It's a book called "Why Beautiful People Have More Daughters" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Does it matter that I'm fat?So I have been super skinny and I've been kind of "thick". Never actually overweight, but in the higher part of the normal weight range. In my experience the most attention I get from guys is around my current weight, which is 140 and 5'5. So a BMI of something like 23%, solidly normal. It surprises me because I personally prefer to be skinner. I've been down to 99 pounds and as high as 150 (this is like over a period of 10 years so it's not as crazy a fluctuation as you would think). I person… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:38 PM |
| 10 | These delusional fucktards think the male wall is only about money and not looks.Totally! Yes women all CRAVE men in their late fifties and would totally date them over a hot 20 year old 🙄 Gosh they understand us so well!! 😂😂😂 It's actually comical... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 02:34 PM |
| 5 | These delusional fucktards think the male wall is only about money and not looks.LOL no worries. But thanks for linking this thread- I rarely check that trash dump and it sure is something to see their delusion and hatred of women in full effect. It gratifies me to know how much they're sabotaging themselves by buying into this wishful thinking and comforting fake belief, just so they don't have to admit the truth. Pathetic failed men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 02:28 PM |
| 10 | These delusional fucktards think the male wall is only about money and not looks.Oh no, I was completely agreeing with you. My point is no woman puts up a photo of Danny Devito, it's all young hot guys like the Hemsworth brothers or Shawn Mendes or Timothee Chalamet. And yeah, everything you said about men's sperm being damaged with age is true too. i think women know this on an evolutionary level, just as men may know that women's reproductive abilities decline with age, and that's why the hottest guys are all young. The funny thing is women actively work to combat the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 02:24 PM |
| 19 | These delusional fucktards think the male wall is only about money and not looks.Don't you know that women are only attracted to men with money? That's why women put up pictures of Danny Devito on their walls instead of random/broke underwear models | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Strategy for luring them in!That's good advice for people going on tinder dates. Like I said I dont do tinder dates because I really cant be bothered with meeting these random men but it's definitely a good tactic if a guy tries it on a date. I'm in the stage where I only go on dates with dudes I could see a future with so I like to kind of set that trap and see if they fall into it. So I'll gladly pay if the dude suggests it and then never speak to him again. Cheap on the first date = cheap and lame forever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Strategy for luring them in!No, I completely agree that the man should pay. I guess I want a gentleman who will pay regardless of what I do so I feel like it's a good way to weed out the ungentlemanly. Like I wanna know if you're cheap or not willing to invest because I'd rather know from the first date than into the relationship... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Strategy for luring them in!Right, I can understand that. I'm like past the point of wanting to go on multiple dates a week so I mostly go on dates with dudes who contact me from my past who I could actually see a future with. But if that's the mode you're in I totally get it. I just get so annoyed with men that I can't stand meeting multiples of them per week and having to make conversation. But I definitely did that in my early 20s, and it's definitely a learning experience and yeah- wouldn't want to pay for any of those… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Strategy for luring them in!That's what I used to do and I'm definitely totally cool with that as a technique or a method. I think all men should pay as I like chivalrous gentlemen. I guess I just worry that by insisting that he pays or setting that up, then you're kind of controlling the situation rather than seeing how he reacts naturally. At this point I'm trying to sort out the douches so I kind of wanna know how he would react if I do offer to pay, like is he gonna say yes. I live in a town with a lot of manbabies so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Strategy for luring them in!So is the move to not offer to pay? I used to never offer, but lately because it seems to be more and more expected I'll offer to get half, and if they accept then it's an instant next for me. I guess I want to know whether it's better to not offer and just expect them to do it or throw the test out there. Because it has helped me sort out some losers which I'm grateful for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 03:55 PM |
| 13 | Mythology Break Down #1: Men Telling You You'll Max Out At Thirty is Their BIGGEST CopeI fucking love this!!! Thank you!!! You are awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 10:12 AM |
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