~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingGreat idea ladies!! I’ll bring it up to them during our next conversation. There are a few moving parts involved but I’ll speak to my manager about them. Thanks again ♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 08:57 PM |
| 42 | "b-but I'm homeless king"😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂 Shame on everyone involved 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 10 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingYou’re 100% right!! Jobs that offer less than 50k a year requiring masters degrees and 5 years of experience are the norm in this field. It’s beyond frustrating. People need to stop criticizing others for their career and degree choices. We should be able to work in fields we are passionate about and still earn a comfortable living. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 06:10 PM |
| 9 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingAwww thank you for the kind words!! Yes, it is VERY important to take care of yourself and I wouldn’t be able to do this if I didn’t. I see a therapist weekly and attend a mental health professional support group every 2 weeks. Of course sleep and diet are important for day-to-day self-care. It also helps that I have amazing coworkers I can trust and vent to and classmates that are more or less in the same situation. Also, BOUNDARIES!! I won’t let office politics push me to early-career burnout.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 45 | Thought you Queens could do with a laugh ❤️Yupp. Scrotes can take their whataboutism and get to steppin’ 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:32 PM |
| 65 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingLikely so. I was working on a stress questionnaire for one of my assignments and it turns out retirement is a major life stressor. Healthy people handle stress by doing yoga or taking up a new hobby but apparently that’s not cruel enough for some people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:48 AM |
| 43 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️OOOP. 😂😂😂😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:27 AM |
| 54 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingThat’s a great question! That would be a good idea but because of HIPAA (patient privacy laws) I’m not allowed to suggest it or tell either of them about the other. It wouldn’t be a bad idea for someone to come up with like a yellow pages or something for older women fleeing abusive exes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:21 AM |
| 73 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingOmg that’s horrific 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 03:29 AM |
| 34 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingGirl don’t do it 😭😭😭 I learned #4 the hard way i.e. outside the office | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 03:28 AM |
| 24 | RIP Lauren. 💔 Shame on the Bridgeport PD for not taking this seriously. PLEASE be safe with dates you met through OLD, ladies.Sis, you need to see the DISGUSTING comments by men trying to blame her for her death because she was dating an older man. People are literally making jokes about this young lady’s death because they think she was a “sugar baby”. They’re implying she deserved to die because she asked him for $40 to do her nails. The police let her down, the media didn’t even start reporting this until recently, and men within her OWN COMMUNITY are devaluing her life. But when I say society hates us, they say I’m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:43 AM |
| 9 | RIP Lauren. 💔 Shame on the Bridgeport PD for not taking this seriously. PLEASE be safe with dates you met through OLD, ladies.I mean 👀👀 He was 14 when she was born. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 109 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Girl I read that as adobo at first and I was wondering what food has to do with this situation 😂😂 But yeah she needs to dump his ass and eject the little one ASAP or prepare for a life full of disrespect and a sense of entitlement to her constant unpaid labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:39 AM |
| 73 | aka "'men will stop paying for dates once you sleep with them" 🧘🏻♀️In other words, the façade drops and they become their true lazy, sex-crazed, undeserving selves. Always make these clowns wait. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:29 AM |
| 20 | RIP Lauren. 💔 Shame on the Bridgeport PD for not taking this seriously. PLEASE be safe with dates you met through OLD, ladies.Paywall/TLDR - 23 year old Lauren Smith-Fields tragically passed away in the night after a Bumble date. The 37 year old man she was on a date with called the police when he noticed she was unresponsive the next morning. He claims that she fell asleep during the movie they were watching and he carried her into the bedroom and slept next to her, and that he woke up at 3 a.m. to go to the bathroom and heard her snoring. Then, at 6:30 a.m., he woke up to find her not breathing. She was pronounced de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 02:58 AM |
| 14 | When you realised that in hetero relashionships mistreatment and disrespecting the woman was the 'norm'?Imagine “buying” someone a gift with their own money 😭😭 Most couples I can think of remind me why I’m happy to be single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 215 | One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lolNot mine lol but he’s clearly threatened 👀👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:50 AM |
| 79 | another one from the online dating worldLike most guys on OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:02 AM |
| 28 | another one from the online dating worldIt’s the gaslighting for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 380 | Awww, this poor baby! Let’s guess what actually happened.I’ll start! “I don’t know the first thing about pleasing a woman and I’m too lazy to learn so I’m blaming the dissolution of my marriage on a piece of plastic with batteries.” “I recognize that I have unresolved issues, but instead of working on them to keep my marriage healthy, I’m blaming the dissolution of my marriage on a piece of plastic with batteries.” “I feel entitled to having a woman in my life whether or not I make her happy. This clearly wasn’t my fault, so I’m blaming the dissolutio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:55 PM |
| 56 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Yupp. With at least enough bedrooms for the number of kids he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 06:06 AM |
| 173 | If you needed another reason to avoid hiking with men. This older man was posting looking for a "female hiking partner," but at first seemed well-mannered and talked about mutual hobbies. Then this happened... I am assuming he's a predator luring women into the woods.I see it differently. I love it when men tell on themselves so I can stop letting them gaslight me for generally feeling unsafe around them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 06:04 AM |
| 210 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Yupp!! IKEA could stock him as a DIY project for some pickmeisha to buy for 19.99 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:41 AM |
| 52 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Yupp and now she’s stuck living with his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:40 AM |
| 175 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Moral of the story: don’t let broke MFs move in with you. Seriously, all this could have been avoided if she just got a new roommate instead of letting stingy here move in with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:39 AM |
| 46 | Male attention is inherently low-value.Right?? Cause reaching out via Instagram, Facebook, email, and my phone number wasn’t enough 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:21 AM |
| 79 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?Like other commenters have said, trust your intuition. This is your life we’re talking about here. Feeling panic due to an unplanned pregnancy is natural, but if he would try to coerce you into terminating it when don’t want to, that’s a HUGE red flag. Life throws us curveballs sometimes. If he deserved you, he would support you through it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 12:36 AM |
| 103 | Male attention is inherently low-value.I think it’s the porn. There are a lot of messed up portrayals of women “enjoying” verbal abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 89 | Male attention is inherently low-value.Girl I thought it was just me 😂😂 I almost feel bad that I take pleasure in blocking losers but it’s just so fun! 🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Lol you thought this would make us mad? Dude, we already know that this is what 99% of male lurkers are doing. You want a HVW w/standards. That’s why you’re here. That’s why you send us hate. Any interaction with us turns you on. Y’all need to stop acting like we are undesirable 😂You know what they say… empty barrels make the most noise 🤷🏾♀️ both Scrote Nasty and his Pickmeisha friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Lol you thought this would make us mad? Dude, we already know that this is what 99% of male lurkers are doing. You want a HVW w/standards. That’s why you’re here. That’s why you send us hate. Any interaction with us turns you on. Y’all need to stop acting like we are undesirable 😂SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE BROKIES IN THE BACK!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 34 | Lol you thought this would make us mad? Dude, we already know that this is what 99% of male lurkers are doing. You want a HVW w/standards. That’s why you’re here. That’s why you send us hate. Any interaction with us turns you on. Y’all need to stop acting like we are undesirable 😂Make sure you send this lovely gentleman the link to our Patreon! There’s a new “Strokes Strike Back” tier that would be perfect for him. In other words: fuck you pay me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 2 | To all the romantics out there, learn from Princess KaguyaNot exactly toxic but still a nope from me. This AMAZING show called Blindspotting had the main character dress up in a gorgeous wedding dress to propose to her forever boyfriend and baby daddy who is in prison (yikes!). I couldn’t help but cringe while she tried to convince him to marry her after they’ve been together for 12 years. I was like sis no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:52 PM |
| 19 | The Euphoria ConversationVoluntary or otherwise 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 50 | The Euphoria ConversationI’ve learned to watch out for people that idolize toxic characters. 9/10 times people will show you who they are if you know what 🚩to look for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 60 | Some of the creatures lurking on online dating sitesI haven’t had a drink in 6 months but I’m also a slob who thinks sobriety is the only major life change I need to make. Seriously, who leaves garbage in their house for 6 months? Who does that? 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 88 | Even OTHER men can sense LVM/NVM/ZVM’s red flags with women at the beginning of a relationship, such as “being too busy.”Oh and don’t forget we’re a cult of gold-diggers who won’t give the NiCe GuYs a chance 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:26 PM |
| 17 | The FDS Handbook in PDF FormS/O to Moira for putting this together! We should create an FDS Hall of Fame at this point 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 18 | Red flags are red flags. Not yellow or orange—they’re red.Because we’re taught that doing so is better than being single women with 27 cats that no one wants to date because we have standards they’re too lazy to meet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 36 | #everywoman #isthisok #notallmen #endrapeculture #womendeservebetterCuz men make d rulez durhrrr I hate it here let’s start our own women-only country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 48 | A perfect example of how casual the violence against women is in the gaming communityYes to leaving problematic chats! I had to do the same thing when some of my classmates in college made jokes about the Rwandan Genocide. Some people don’t deserve us. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 65 | A perfect example of how casual the violence against women is in the gaming communityI mean they already think we’re irrational just for trying to protect ourselves against their violence so you KNOW they would collectively lose their marbles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 8 | Congratulate yourself🥳Yay us 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 3 | How long should I see this guy to know he's the oneOh no baby what is you doing? Have you paused to ask yourself why you’re thinking someone else might be “the one” so soon after a breakup? It’s only been a month. Are you sure you’ve taken the time to heal from the trauma of being in a relationship with someone that doesn’t put you first? If so, why would you mention TWICE that this guy appeals to you because he makes you feel better about not being the priority in your previous relationship? That might be why you were missing a lot of the red f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 61 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceThis part. Dumping NVM is the skincare secret that millions of dermatologists overlook. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:46 PM |
| 175 | We owe it to our grandmothers to live out our best livesYes! The women who came before us fought for the freedom from dusties we now enjoy. But I kind of want to time travel back to Britain in the 1920s for like 3 hours just so I can throw rocks through windows and shout “votes for women”. Just for the hell of it 🤷🏾♀️😛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:55 AM |
| 49 | This 4chan story is fake AF, but if there’s even a grain of truth in it, good on the ex-gf on leveling up!Same here lol male attention is inherently low-value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:44 AM |
| 36 | Ask Amy: Your boyfriend is abusive. You should get out.Ewww who shares someone’s PHI on social media anyway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 63 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!😮 Yupp. I’m telling men nothing but lies and vague half-truths until I get to know them from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Happy Scrote-free Birthday to me!Happy belated Birthday fellow Capricorn!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Happy Scrote-free Birthday to me!Happy birthday queen! Hope yours was as peaceful and rewarding as mine!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Happy Scrote-free Birthday to me!Thanks sis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags.Girl please don’t beat yourself up. It takes a lot of time, energy and repetition to actually put these things into practice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:51 AM |
| 3 | new to Reddit, and there needs to be more feminist subs, so what happens?That tells us all we need to know about this platform. Ick 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Is this turning into a texting situationship?Golden rule right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:16 AM |
| 14 | Sometimes a woman is single BECAUSE she settled not because she was too picky.I’m bored so I’ll come up with a few comebacks for your nosy ass acquaintances’ comments: “oh he seems like a nice guy” ➡️ “So?” “he’s a good dad” ➡️ “I already have a dad, thank you.” “you’re not getting any younger” ➡️ “Neither are you. Maybe you should learn to mind your damn business before it’s too late.” “just hang out with him and see where it goes” ➡️ “No thanks, I value my time.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:05 AM |
| 29 | More men than ever single? GOOD! Women are finally getting standars and the men are screeching and seething🎻🎼🎼🎼🎻🎼🎼🎼🎻🎼🎼🎼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 5 | Hey queens! Claim the energy you’re bringing into 2022 👇Yay!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Good on you for leveling up your mind sis! I know I feel like a whole different person ever since I started therapy ✨💅🏾👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Hey queens! Claim the energy you’re bringing into 2022 👇✨✨✨ I picked that one too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:59 PM |
| 8 | Having a baby via sperm donor100% believed you too but I just had to look up the source. Sounds like OP is right about doing it alone being less work 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:59 AM |
| 11 | Reddit does hate womenIt’s not shocking to me at all. OLD attracts the most pornsick, negative value, poorly socialized, bottom-of-the-barrel, woman-hating, sex-crazed little boys who throw tantrums at the thought of putting effort into their interactions with women. I expected nothing less 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:54 AM |
| 29 | Open to interpretationWe are NOT responsible for the dysfunction of the men in our lives. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Being alone is always > than being with a person of low valueYessssss get your money sis 💰💰💰💰💰💵💵💵 Nothing makes me happier than financially secure women thriving 💅🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 11 | Trust him, he’s worth itEwww no thanks scrotie 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 15 | Being alone is always > than being with a person of low valueGirl we all have a pickme past 😂😂 I’m glad you’re choosing yourself though and had a great holiday season ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 9 | Being alone is always > than being with a person of low valueLol and they can die mad!! That right there is the greatest love you can have in this life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 03:02 PM |
| 8 | Being alone is always > than being with a person of low valueOh wow. I’m glad you vocalized this cause I’ve been thinking the same thing for a while now. I can’t think of a single relationship I would want for myself and there are quite a few of my friends relationships that I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 69 | Being alone is always > than being with a person of low valueAbsolutely! The longest relationship you will have in your life is the relationship you have with yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | 🤗💰Girl the number of times I’ve bought a gift for someone else and then kept it for myself 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Whenever I'm feeling down about a broken friendship or someone not treating me the way I should be treated, I have a little talk with myself. I remind myself that yes, I am enough, and no, I will not sacrifice my own happiness or stability for someone else's. Choose yourself every time.Yayyy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:31 AM |
| 35 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guys“Doesn’t take life too seriously” is how you end up broke, in debt, depressed and exhausted from working long shifts at a shitty dead end job with a baby to provide for and no co-parent around for miles. This is the only life I’m gonna get, so damn right I’m taking it seriously Brandon. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:11 AM |
| 725 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.This is why women need to be as selective and stingy with our wombs as possible. We have the power to let this sort of stupidity die out over the next 2-3 generations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 235 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Hallucinated 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:06 AM |
| 29 | Seriously, what a QueenYupp. Not every man deserves a legacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:03 AM |
| 192 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himThey do it cause they need to hear it from a male/stranger’s mouth in order to take it seriously. They will listen to raydoesreddit and dumbo362 on the internet before their significant others. Clowns 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:28 AM |
| 11 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.I love this for you sis!! ♥️♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:31 PM |
| 77 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.I am so sorry this happened to you. We should all be able to trust our medical providers but that’s not always the case. Fuck him and fuck his issues. If you feel so inclined, you can report him to your local department of health or the managers in the hospital. Doctors are in a position of power and it disgusts me when they abuse it 🤮🤮🙅🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 07:36 PM |
| 61 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.Yupp. There’s a LOT of trauma in these streets 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 07:32 PM |
| 78 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.Honestly this is a little manipulative but I would say act like you’re receptive to or okay with it. Maybe even casually mention watching porn yourself to see how they react. If they question it or seem uneasy, they probably don’t watch it. If they don’t or enthusiastically start telling you about all the violent, degrading shit they’re into, RUN. People are a lot more likely to show you who they really are if they think you’ll accept them for it. I always reveal the least possible information a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 07:28 PM |
| 128 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.That’s such a good point! Our brains are set up to be grossed out by it but porn has people seeking it out for pleasure? ICK. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 15 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer GarnerBen Affleck is 2021’s biggest joke at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:03 AM |
| 203 | I felt all of these on a spiritual level. Sometimes it’s cathartic knowing I’m not the only oneWow. Impressive how casually true and messy this is 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Remember that ex you so desperately wanted to marry?He wanted kids but had less emotional intelligence than a 1 week old fetus ewwwwww 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:59 AM |
| 5 | How do you handle being approached by scrotes?What if you’re in a situation where you kind of have to wait in one spot and can’t get away quickly or safely? E.g. waiting for an Uber, bus or train. Or if you notice they are following you? This actually happened to me once before and I’ve started dressing like a guy (hoodie, mask, oversized dark clothes) when I know I may be in one of those situations to be safe. What would you do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:51 AM |
| 8 | How do you handle being approached by scrotes?Scrote - (noun) Literally short for scrotum. When a person, usually a male, is so useless and insignificant that they do not deserve the tiny effort it takes to spit out a second offensive syllable; less than a scrotum. Thanks for the advice! I got a TextNow number and I’m trying to memorize it at work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 04:43 PM |
| 6 | How do you handle being approached by scrotes?😂😂😂 You’re a legend sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 28 | How often do you go on a date?Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 124 | How often do you go on a date?And useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 5 | What is the meaning of this?Okay I’m relieved to find out it’s just a joke. But still, women rewarding their partners for doing the bare minimum is cancelled. 🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 11:52 PM |
| 11 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsTragic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:47 PM |
| 48 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!YUPP. Good strategy. And when you’re done with a guy, don’t let on that you’re done until you’re safely far away from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:39 PM |
| 6 | The FDS Podcast is doing a 2021 wrap-up. Nominate your favorite Queen, Roastable Scrote, Pickme, or HVM!👸🏾- Adele turning her mediocre ex-marriage into an album that’s likely to make millions of $$ 💩 - Dave Portnoy 🤡 - Lauren Chen. Drop the cape sis, these men aren’t fighting for you. 💪🏾 - Error 404 page not found 💯 - When we hit 200K ladies!!! I think we’ve had a decent year overall 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 51 | Sitting in a Starbucks and hearing the following conversation between two womenNahh we need to get the grappling hooks for this one. FDSRescueMission 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:05 PM |
| 39 | From now on, replying with this gorgeous art by _meanmachine to everyone who calls me high-maintenance (in a derogatory way)!PERFECT response. Because people who say things like that are usually projecting their insecurities onto you. “You do too much” = I feel like I do too little. “You’re high maintenance” - I don’t have the range, bandwidth, or resources to associate with someone like you. “Ugh. Why do you like X?” - My interests are different from yours so I’m questioning myself but projecting that confusion onto you. “You’re crazy.” - I don’t have the range. Get the picture? 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 9 | I think she's serious 😂Yessss to chronic stress induced illness. This isn’t talked about enough. I know this lady in her 70s whose doctor keeps telling her to keep her stress level down. Well, this lady is being emotionally and verbally abused by her low value ex-husband she still lives with because her social security isn’t enough for her to get her own place. If I tell you I’m SO scared for this lady’s health!! Someone her age does not need all this stress 😭 That’s why I HAVE to be financially independent on my own.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 8 | I see posts like this weekly - thank god the comments unanimously say GTFO ASAP. But how heartbreaking that this woman WITH AN MBA has resorted to CAMMING and is putting up with this for some scrote she's dated for 5 WHOLE MONTHS?!?!?!??!I hate to blame the victim but sis how do you move in with someone you’ve known for 5 MONTHS? 🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Tropes I’m tired ofRight?? On the opposite end of this, I HATE when dads get praised for doing the bare minimum. They change a single diaper or take their kids to the park ONCE so mommy can rest and it’s like “oMg DaD gOaLs 😍😍😍😍” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Tropes I’m tired ofGirl I binge-watched all 8 seasons in like a month so trust me I’m a fan too but YEEESH. Dysfunctional relationships everywhere 😬😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:28 AM |
| 28 | Tropes I’m tired ofEww omg that’s horrific. Especially considering how young the audiences of most manga shows are. Some of these tropes are annoying but some are just straight up dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:49 PM |
| 26 | Tropes I’m tired ofImagine how many people are swiping right on Tinder right now thinking this will be them. 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 26 | Tropes I’m tired ofWhat rubbish 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 31 | Tropes I’m tired ofOmg that last one!!! How could I forget the Marge Simpsons, Lois Griffins, Wilma Flintstones, Betty Draper, and basically the entire cast of Desperate Housewives of the world 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:35 PM |
| 56 | Tropes I’m tired ofOMG 😭 I love the show “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend” and how well it portrays mental illness but if this isn’t the whole premise 😂 An accomplished, Ivy League-educated lawyer leaves her job in New York City to move to West Covina for a guy that dumped her in summer camp when she was 13. The show is almost entirely satirical but it really has me thinking how many movie characters leave valuable things for the chance at a relationship with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:20 PM |
| -5 | Religion is by men, for menI agree with you 100% about the Catholic Church being anti-woman, but please note that there are other religions out there: Wicca - allows flexibility in beliefs and is less “coded” than common religions e.g. Christianity and Islam. Duotheistic Wicca holds that there is a God and a Goddess, both of which are equally powerful and important. Hinduism - holds multiple beliefs about ethics, life, death, Karma, and life practices. Allows a diverse conception of the divine that includes both Gods and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 04:04 AM |
| 12 | I know a pickme had to swipe right on him. 🤮The fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Be extra careful with men who have shady habits on the road. It's linked to narcissism.People like this are why we can’t have nice things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:15 AM |
| 113 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsOff topic but sis is looking EXPENSIVE in that pearl necklace 😍😍😍 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Update: dumped him over text this morning.Yeah I feel pretty powerful haha 😆 Definitely needed to do this. Thanks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 11 | Update: dumped him over text this morning.Eyyy 🥂 Here’s to dumping musties! clink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 6 | Update: dumped him over text this morning.NOOOOOOOOOO 😭😭🤮 Girl I screamed. No. Thanks for your support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:57 AM |
| 8 | Update: dumped him over text this morning.Thanks girl!! I recognize you from the first post. Your support deffs made this easier ♥️♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:01 AM |
| 41 | Update: dumped him over text this morning.Thank you!! Takes one to know one 👑♥️ Onward and upward! 🙌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Not a wellness check 😂😂 I’m looking into support groups in my area and waiting for my insurance card to come in the mail so I can speak to a professional one-on-one. Thanks again for your advice ♥️♥️ Honestly wish I found FDS before all this, but oh well 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 07:21 PM |
| 3 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Yupp. Too bad this is something that didn’t really come up until month 3-4. That’s when I kind of knew something was off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:58 PM |
| 7 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.I don’t want it 🤮🤮🤮 That’s the whole point of this post haha I don’t think I’m cut out for all this. Yeah I’m thinking I need to end this before it makes me bitter/something I don’t want to be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:57 PM |
| 4 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Yupp. You hit the nail on the head. My mental health varies but I really do think I was better off before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Thank you!!! That’s good to hear ♥️ thanks for listening/reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:52 PM |
| 9 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.I was thinking the same thing. It really just doesn’t feel healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.I honestly didn’t know that I’m kind of new but thanks for letting me know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:51 PM |
| 5 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Thank you so much! I really appreciate your thoughts here. I’m thinking I’ll need a 2-week no contact break to evaluate whether this is good for me and then go from there. But yeah a therapist is definitely what he needs and I’m tired 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:51 PM |
| 21 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.♥️♥️♥️ I’m childfree AF but the way I screamed “NO!” at all of these 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:45 PM |
| 11 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Girl my childhood friend said the same shit to me 😂😂 I’m running 🏃🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.I do lol I just needed support 😂😂 Thanks for listening/reading! ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:43 PM |
| 138 | At this point women should just complain about going 50/50 for the sheer hilarity that'd ensueLol. If FDS is making low-value, low-budget men feel like they aren’t enough then I guess it’s doing… it’s job? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:23 AM |
| 45 | At this point women should just complain about going 50/50 for the sheer hilarity that'd ensueAt his age. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:21 AM |
| 62 | You’ll thank yourself laterAin’t no body got time for no 6-in-1 body wash using musty 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:31 PM |
| 8 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡Right?? He really could have had it all if he just worked on his damn issues instead of taking it out on the woman that loves him smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 18 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡💔 she also made a suicide attempt, apparently. Dodging LVM is a survival strategy, at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:16 PM |
| 31 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡Yeah I literally had no idea. I was listening to Proud Mary today and I just felt like looking up Tina Turner’s personal life for some reason. It was HORRIFIC and heartbreaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:39 AM |
| 97 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡The fact that he had the nerve to publish this trash in a book HE WROTE. It’s almost like he’s bragging about what he put her through 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:36 AM |
| 25 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡Basically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | REMINDER: Lock your inboxes and chat requests, ladies.Ngl this was a satisfying read haha I swear I was all smiles typing this post 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:11 AM |
| 5 | REMINDER: Lock your inboxes and chat requests, ladies.Thanks for the pointers! Just turned off those features too. 🔒🔒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:41 AM |
| 28 | REMINDER: Lock your inboxes and chat requests, ladies.For real. If they devoted half this time to improving themselves instead of crying that our standards are too high, we wouldn’t even need this sub 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:38 PM |
| 13 | REMINDER: Lock your inboxes and chat requests, ladies.Lol girl they’re so shameless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.bUt He’S SuUCh a NiCe GuY!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.Yeah it’s toxic because we don’t tolerate bullshit and actually hold men accountable for their actions 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.To be fair, Reddit is a space mostly inhabited by porn-addicted young men who struggle to find a sense of community in the real world so… I’m telling myself the crazy shit I read on here isn’t reflective of men, but I’m still gonna keep my guard up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.WOW. Yeah I had a pretty harsh reminder that Reddit is a hostile anti-woman environment today too. Needless to say my chat requests and messages will remain off from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:37 PM |
| 9 | OLD: Who needs personality when you’ve been on a boat, caught a fish that one time or go to the gym?Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:34 PM |
| 9 | I feel like this is reflective of HV people.Most definitely. Swerving sharply when I sense drama is my skincare routine 🐸 ☕️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 22 | If he has to think about why he loves you, he doesn’t love you.I can never understand doing domestic work for a man who’s perfectly capable of doing it himself. Just no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:32 PM |
| 28 | I love my friend, but she’s a pickmeisha.It’s so sad, isn’t it? Male validation is literally the most common and worthless thing in the world yes some girls are out here willing to toss out high-value female friendships for it. 👎🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 11 | I love my friend, but she’s a pickmeisha.Girl you hit the nail on the head. Mind you, she said most of these things to men and didn’t really talk to any other girls aside from me and this tall girl that she proceeded to talk trash about immediately after. I’ve been questioning her character lately and reading these comments made me realise it’s snip snip time ✂️✂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 02:55 PM |
| 41 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postEwwww thanks for the car photo lol it’s always the clappedest guys that try to talk down to women about their appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:34 PM |
| 37 | Dont mention your standardsLegit. What I just do is list some vague socially accepted qualities when people ask what I look for in a guy. “You know, I like guys that are funny, respectful, empathetic and loyal.” Then I wait and see what those guys think those qualities look like. ESPECIALLY when they think I’m not looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 57 | Dont mention your standardsIt’s sad how some women are their own worst enemies tbh. Instead of being mad at the LVM who refuses to do better, they want to be mad at us for knowing we deserve better. Sending thoughts and prayers to all the pickmes out there 🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:31 PM |
| 42 | I love my friend, but she’s a pickmeisha.They do love moving the goalposts and that’s why I never listen to them 🤷🏾♀️ haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:24 PM |
| 56 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.The fact that society has brainwashed us into accepting or even believing we want shit like this is 50 shades of fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:29 AM |
| 38 | Why Being Called "Wife Material" or "Girlfriend Material" Isn't Always a Compliment, Especially If It's Said To You By An LVM - A lot of the times, they are projecting qualities like unwarranted excessive deference, humility, obedience, bangmaid duties onto their "ideal" wife or girlfriendShe sounds Ghanaian to me! I’m Nigerian I’d know haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | FDS IS OFFICIALLY 200K STRONG!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳Eyyyy 🎉🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:15 PM |
| 36 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itNigeria just got a national sex offender registry for the first time 2 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | If they want to scrutinize your relationships, then scrutinize theirs😂It’s so weird how some people are so emotionally invested in other people’s relationships It’s almost like they’re projecting their fears of being alone and unloved forever onto you or something… Hm 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:04 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter