So this guy I ended a weird undefined fwb/polyfuckery/situationship with THREE YEARS AGO just tried to connect with me on LinkedIn.

He had this irritating habit of pointing out my flaws and weaknesses and immediately deflected with “I’m just being honest” whenever I called him out on it.

So, I ghosted and blocked him - again THREE YEARS AGO - and haven’t replied to his messages or otherwise acknowledged his existence since. He sent me the typical “please stay safe xo” periodically since the start of the pandemic on the only platform I haven’t blocked him on (Facebook).🙄

He also e-mailed me multiple times when he realized I was ignoring him.

Now he wants to be LinkedIn buddies. No thanks. Hitting “ignore” was almost as satisfying as ghosting him 3 years ago.

So in case any of you queens forgot, male attention is inherently low-value. Block at the first hint of disrespect and avoid giving them too many avenues through which to contact you.