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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 23 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂I guarantee this dude owns 1 towel, 5 in 1 shampoo & hasn’t replaced his toothbrush since he moved out of his mother’s house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 13 | Men inherently know to protect women from other men.It’s so insane that men don’t realize the reality of the unsafeness of being a woman until it directly affects them (in a really not direct way). It typically has to be someone they know personally, daughter, close friend, significant other a like for them to realize that it’s an issue. Why does it have to hit close to home for them to realize the thing we’ve been screaming at you is an issue? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:07 AM |
| 14 | Men inherently know to protect women from other men.To clarify, some of my old “friend” group would tell me to do those things for my ex because it would show him I’m sexy & into him or whatever. I was a lot younger & honestly a huge pickme at the time, so I was somewhat inclined to believe it to be true. I have since grown a lot more & completely ditched those dudes & have much better friends now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 29 | Men inherently know to protect women from other men.That’s what I meant when I said I don’t rely solely on them to protect me. I’ve been burned multiple times by men I thought were my “friends” & were actually just wolves in sheep’s clothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 06:02 PM |
| 143 | The F*ck boy hotline. See? Men know what they’re doing.“King.” Lol good on him for calling out men who love to call each other “King” like being an unwashed, lazy child who refuses to be a respectful human is the same as women calling other women “Queen” for doing boss business & taking no shit. LVM always have to take from others to feel valid instead of…just doing their part. “King”?? You’re the court jester, dude. Figure it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:45 AM |
| 88 | I am chillin.I work in a kitchen, so I know a little Spanish. “Oh Lo siento, no hablo inglés. No quiero hablar con usted!” & if they’re feeling froggy, I’ll whip out the German. “Ich will nicht mit dir reden, hurensohn.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 07:32 AM |
| 21 | YEP👏🏼This in particular is why I can’t begin to understand why people call us “female incels” or think that we’re a group of misandrists. Our goal is very clearly being treated with the dignity & respect that we deserve & if a man or really any person can’t do that, we don’t have the time for them nor should we be expected to give them it. To feel like a victim because FDS doesn’t accept what you’re willing to (not) offer isn’t persecution, it’s just having standards to not accept the lowest effort a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:02 AM |
| 7 | ‘Delete it right now’: TikToker confronts ‘creep’ who took photo of her working out at Planet FitnessHe tells her to “rELaX”. The fucking audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | She’s pregnant & trying to prepare for having a child & her husband is mad because he’s expected to learn the necessities of being a new parent? Breastfeeding is “gory” & she should be the same as when she was 22? Carrying his child & he’s mad because she doesn’t want to dress up & buy him things.This guy is fucking disgusting, he expects his wife to be the same person she was when she was 22 & not pregnant. Refuses to prepare to be a new parent with her, considers any function of a female body “gory”, thinks that being a supportive husband is weird & in heard of. Considers talking about being a new parent as not adult conversation & obsessive. This guy took part in marrying her, starting a family & impregnating her & sees the whole thing as a chore. He wants a young bangmaid who doesn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?When men look at you as a woman, you have to be on high alert, regardless of their age. In the male eye (& let’s be honest, the societal eye)women are something to be consumed, not respected, never to be seen as an equal human being. Women are treated as a conquest, a challenge, an obstacle. When dealing with women it’s “how do I get her to sleep with me?” Or “ how do I make her feel inferior so I can dominate her?” Or “how do I make her feel that she needs me?” How do I make her feel,”...” so t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Men’s HygieneThere’s nothing wrong with any skin tone, we’re just not allowed to be happy unless it serves a man or he can somehow take credit for it 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Men’s HygieneI remember the first time seeing “dude wipes” & just thinking what the actual fuck? It’s a fucking wet wipe, how can that possibly affect your sense of masculinity so much that you have to buy one specified for men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Men’s HygieneI am very insecure about getting wrinkles & I do spend extra time trying to prevent aging. One of those things is sunscreen & not actively tanning. This guy I work with brags about his year round tan & pokes fun at me being pale. But when I get a fake tan, he makes fun of that too! Dude, I’m just trying to prevent skin cancer & premature wrinkles, let me fucking live my life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 17 | Her Face is A Mood🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Woman gets hit by a car, boyfriend looks back and continues on peddling 😟Bike vs car accidents are incredibly traumatic, I still get sweaty palms when riding by parked cars. I got “doored” a couple months ago while riding behind my boyfriend on a busy street in our city. He stopped the guy from leaving the scene, grabbed my busted bike & locked it up, went & got me water while I was fully melting down & dealt with the cops while I was being loaded into the ambulance. I ended up being fine, but he made sure to document all of my injuries, all of the damages to my bike… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:23 AM |
| 14 | Pushing buttons on purposeMy daily work environment: “it’s a joke!! I was just waiting to see you explode! LoLOL! It’s funny!!!!!” In reference to over sexualizing young girls, women’s dress, calling women “crazy”, gay implication jokes etc. I’m all in for some work place comedy, but that’s not fucking funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:24 AM |
| 59 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedI saw this one & immediately thought 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:29 PM |
| 15 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.“Women are so emotional” “Men are so inarticulate about their past trauma & feelings that they use women to bump their egos & be their therapists so they don’t have to grow emotionally” “Fuck you, you’re only into hot, successful dudes! Gold digger!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Caution: you’re thinking about sending a nude.It’s not so much safety as it is I’ll be written off as overly sensitive & unreliable. I’ve worked for almost two years to be responsible, likable, cool headed, approachable & the best at my position only to be written off as “too sensitive.” I’ve had both female & male cooks come to me about physical harassment(literally grabbing their various parts) & I have to beg for these incidents to be addressed. It’s disgusting & I’ve found that the things I say don’t make a difference. Like I said in my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:13 AM |
| 11 | Caution: you’re thinking about sending a nude.Hey thanks for your support, I really do appreciate it! This is why I come to this sub. To know I’m not crazy & that these things are not okay. Hopefully soon I will be in a better environment, but for now the reassurance helps me get through the day to day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:03 AM |
| 5 | Caution: you’re thinking about sending a nude.Men only surprise me by being decent. Any other time, I expect them to be bottom dwelling scum. I have yet to be disproved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:53 AM |
| 5 | Caution: you’re thinking about sending a nude.I’m so sorry y’all. I can’t be that strong one that turns the system on its head, I can’t report. It would do nothing but put a target on my head. I can’t complain anymore about this asshole without being “difficult to work with”. Everything about my situation is why I am grateful for FDS. I’m not crazy, I’m not asking too much, I deserve respect, I am worthy. I am stuck in this job because of circumstance & the bad luck of the world. But I am planning my way out. All I wanted from this post was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Fuck this guy & that mason jar dude. Fucking scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:05 AM |
| 97 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤He’s “concerned” about how much she’s spending on something he finds “wasteful?” Honey, no, YOU are the wasteful thing she’s spending money on. Gtfo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤I just saw this & got so angry. I don’t have a huge collection of skincare, but a decent amount that I buy for myself or ask for as gifts because it is important to me & helps my self esteem. If some grungy ass dude took it upon himself to STEAL my stuff & hide it to TEACH ME A LESSON, he better find a new place to live. Not to mention, it’s part of the career she’s pursuing, she pays for it HERSELF & for his crusty ass & his hobbies. Regardless of whether it’s a hobby or not, it’s not up to him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:48 AM |
| 33 | I spat my drink“I’m gonna fuck you so good, you see stars!” Meanwhile, I’m seeing stars I would rather be fucking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Seeing a comma in my savings account made me realize I have a futureYes yes yes! Here with all of the support, take care of you, love yourself & if someone good comes along, meh sure. You don’t need them, you’re a baddie killing it! Happy for you 💜💜💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Men : "wat do u bring to the table" Also, men :🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenCame here to say this. Got it two years back & I love it! My skin is super smooth & not irritated at all after using it, very few ingrowns & part of the packaging is compost friendly(if you’re into that). So great, my boyfriend even has his own Billie razor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Why do men...Exactly. Also, my day to day dealings with LVM/NVM is fucking exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propaganda🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:22 AM |
| 45 | Why do men...Maybe this should have been flaired “rant”, I’ve dealt with 3 too many cases of male fucking depravity today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:15 AM |
| 5 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.Reminds me of the Zodiac killer letters. OP please stay safe & be overly cautious. As harmless as it may seem, preserve yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:18 AM |
| 80 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.I fucking can’t. The amount of disrespect, the disregard for her basic desires & comfort as a person, absolutely disgusting. Dump him in the trash, cover him with his own toxic waste, pin the location as a “toxic waste facility”. Burn it, bury it, deem it uninhabitable by living beings. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:45 AM |
| 3 | I posted in r/nosurf about enjoying the communities I’m part of & dude got real mad that we have standards. Delete if I’m wrong.It’s a sub about restricting one’s use of social media, especially when it gives you anxiety or makes you feel bad about yourself for not having a bunch of followers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:41 AM |
| 7 | I posted in r/nosurf about enjoying the communities I’m part of & dude got real mad that we have standards. Delete if I’m wrong.Exactly. Sorry bud, you were never on the role call to begin with. Thanks for peacocking that we don’t want you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:37 AM |
| 6 | I posted in r/nosurf about enjoying the communities I’m part of & dude got real mad that we have standards. Delete if I’m wrong.Missing text: “Then you can avoid those ‘toxic’ women & they hopefully never have to deal with someone ‘like you’.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:15 AM |
| 6 | Do you ever feel like no one understands your standards?I have been really lucky to have met an amazing woman in the last year that continually gasses me up & assures me that my feelings of indignation or sadness or anger are valid. When I talk to her about work or my relationship, she is real as hell. Yes, you should be upset about how the men you work with talk to you & downplay your feelings & make you feel stupid. Yes, you are totally in the right to be pissed off at your boyfriend for the way he responded to your feelings. Up until her, my mom, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:05 AM |
| 8 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:59 AM |
| 1 | HVM supporting a HVW. The way it should always be.My bad, haven’t browsed since yesterday! Still agree with the message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:33 AM |
| 6 | "If you're old enough to assert your power, you're old enough for a man to attempt to take your power away."🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:25 AM |
| 13 | The hoops we have to jump through. Stay safe!The things we have to do to not get raped/murdered/harassed is mind boggling & bat shit crazy. All with a smile. Ask men to show even a fraction of that effort for any simple task, they lose their damn minds. Absolutely exhausting to deal with men, over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:42 AM |
| 5 | Even women fortunate enough to not be attracted to me are not safe from having their entire lives invalidated by scrotes.Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Men post things like this to get a Pickmeisha to dance for themYa eggs are dry, cinnamon rolls from a can, sausages/bacon precooked & heated in the microwave, muffins from a plastic container & ya orange juice is from concentrate. Quit your bullshit boys, you can’t even make yourself a bowl of cereal & you’re expecting women to bust ass to make you food while you ignore them & can’t even load your dishes into the dishwasher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:02 AM |
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