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| 3 | How do you shut down questions from people who believe that it’s their way or no way when being a SAHM?I’ll never understand people questioning SAHM’s with literally babies and toddlers who stay home. I stay home with my toddler and I’m pregnant. Once my second is off to preschool around 3-4, I’ll get a casual teaching job but I want to raise my babies and bond with them as much as possible before they will benefit from socialising and education. Why would I work to pay someone to take care of my child when I can do it because I’m their mother?. I also don’t trust strangers with my babies, not un… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/22 02:28 PM |
| 258 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 65 -HerHax Cybersecurity Researchers Dispel Myths About AirTag StalkingPlease come back 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/22 10:19 AM |
| 11 | Honesty about cooking for himI was in your position when I moved in with my husband, I cooked all the dinners for a few months and completely burned out and before loved cooking. Now after having kids and being a SAHM, he has learned about 15 meals and we take turns cooking each night. It’s honestly amazing and makes me see cooking as a hobby and not a chore because I get a break, plus my husband now loves cooking too and has a great adult skill that everyone should know. Our kids are still little but they helping out in th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/22 11:04 AM |
| 19 | Honesty about cooking for himIf you’re working and have kids then there’s no reason why he shouldn’t be cooking half the time. Unless he wants to do all the dishes and take on bed time as a fair split. Alternatively, you could be a SAHM and have all the time in the world to prep and cook while your kids are in school. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/22 10:42 AM |
| 66 | Red Flag Of The Day: Grown Men Referring To Adult Women As ‘Girls’…..🤮I think this is the only instance where I accept being called a girl. My mum calls my sister (22) and I (30) “my girls” because we will always be her daughters. “My women” just sounds weird. We also call my cousins “the boys” who are all in their 30’s because that’s what we grew up calling them. Maybe it’s an Aussie thing too idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 01:58 AM |
| 135 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I’m sorry but everyone crying VIOLENCE needs to get a grip. It was a bitch slap between two grown black men in a controlled environment. I have alopecia and it’s a life altering and earth shattering disease to have. Jada has probably spent countless hours crying and confiding in Will to the point that he empathises so deeply with her suffering. If my husband sat back and let a misogynistic weasel with internal racism shit over me and not do anything….yikes. Also will slapped a guy for trying to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:14 AM |
| 7 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?You’re so right. I have also noticed that men will happily approach me when I’m alone or with my kid but if I’m with my husband then no way. My husband isn’t even a big guy, he’s a sweet nerd type who wouldn’t hurt a fly but of course they respect him because he’s a man. They don’t respect me or my kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 11:28 AM |
| 33 | The darker underside of the “cool girl”Message her and ask if she’s ok. Showing concern might plant a seed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:22 AM |
| 11 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?I have a toddler and I’m pregnant so my fav outfits aren’t suitable to be running around in the park and getting food smeared on me constantly 🤣 as soon as I give birth though and drop the baby weight, you better believe I’m going on a date with my husband and dressing cute as hell! I also wore a mini skirt and crop top once when I was pushing the pram and I got beeped at so many times 😭 I thought the pram would be protection but men don’t care. The checkout lady at the shop said I looked adorab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:34 AM |
| 99 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?I do things for the female gaze. If men didn’t exist, I’d 100% dress like Maddie from euphoria, Cher from clueless, the girls from the craft, Fran from the nanny, Elle from legally blonde etc. I dress down in because I don’t want guys creeping on me or making fun of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 01:42 AM |
| 171 | I'm sick of Eurocentric beauty standardsI’ve seen a lot of tik toks where Asian women get double eyelid surgery and it looks brutal. I often think they looked so much prettier before too. I wonder if it’s the trend of looking racially ambiguous which has driven the internalised racism. Ariana grande spent the last decade black fishing to now Asian fishing in order to appeal to whatever is “in” right now. The kardashians are also known for black fishing. The more “mixed” you look, the more desirable you become. As a white woman myself,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:11 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, what are your experiences with a covert narcissistic ex after breakup?Yes to everything you listed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:56 AM |
| 9 | The word “rude” is overused.I don’t think this is the right sub to put other women down for using a word incorrectly in your eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 06:15 AM |
| 22 | another quick vetting strategy: how a man views your job and work historyI’m a preschool teacher and the amount of guys who have said “you must be the hot teacher that all the kids love” like my students are 4-6 year olds? The pornsickness is real. They just hear the word “teacher” and think of sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:00 AM |
| 40 | Remember this post everytime you feel guilty dropping the guy over seemingly "small" issue. Men won't tolerate even 0.000001% of the crap they put us through.TACKOS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:00 AM |
| 90 | Woman levels up, LVM ex is vengeful and escalating. She's trying to co-parent for their daughter but it's entirely one sided.She was 38, getting an abortion, divorce and then immediately trying to have another baby with another man might have taken years and she doesn’t have that time to spare (not everyone wants to adopt and the process can be expensive, long and heartbreaking). She didn’t expect her husband to be a crazy narc, she thought he had just cheated at that point. She also had the means to 100% support herself and the baby while levelling up. Telling her she’s wrong for keeping her child is victim blaming a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 02:34 AM |
| 149 | Does anybody else get tired of fake women's posts undoubtedly written by men?It’s funny because most women I’ve met with high standards for men are gorgeous, healthy, intelligent and don’t settle for less than what they offer. That’s why I don’t understand the stereotype of FDS femcel. The pick me’s I know don’t take care of themselves physically or mentally and are desperate for a man’s approval cause their self esteem is in the garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:02 PM |
| 24 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬We had a ferret growing up and my mum gave him away because even though she bathed him everyday, he just smelled so bad. We loved him but saw how happy he was at a ferret rescue farm with all the other ferrets because they’re pack animals so he was better off. But yeah, they reek. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:10 AM |
| 4 | My friend says "I don't like men that are kind to me, they're boring, I like my men a little bit toxic" how to respond to her? She keeps ending up with trashy men, and when they use and discard her I'm the first person she comes running to and I'm sick of it😩I didn’t mean the men were boring, I meant the stability of a healthy relationship felt boring because I was so used to being hyper vigilant in abusive relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:42 PM |
| 123 | My friend says "I don't like men that are kind to me, they're boring, I like my men a little bit toxic" how to respond to her? She keeps ending up with trashy men, and when they use and discard her I'm the first person she comes running to and I'm sick of it😩I used to say/think like that too and then I realised that liking “bad boys” was rooted in trauma. The chaos of LVM’s reminded me of my childhood and I had never experienced a secure relationship so it felt boring. Once I got therapy and started treating myself better, I no longer craved being abused because it didn’t feel safe. My HVM husband has made me feel so loved and cared for, there’s passion but it’s mostly just a safe space. Eventually you have to stop obsessing and putting men first, i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 07:49 AM |
| 72 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄Yeah men think pick me’s are downright stupid. That’s why they abuse them during sex and pay for cheap coffee dates. A decent man will never hurt a woman during sex, and will show that he can provide and take care of her. I mean, I’m glad there are lib fem pick me’s like this to take in the LVM’s and leave the HVM’s to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:13 AM |
| 12 | Are you testing him?I’m married and I still never initiate texting with my husband unless it’s urgent 🤣 hate the game not the player! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 09:30 AM |
| 27 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"This is why I only see non religious female doctors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 09:25 AM |
| 471 | Strippers are finally coming out with the truth. Faithful and respectable men DO NOT go to strip clubs. you’re not a ‘cool girl’ who lets her man go hang out with strippers. You’re just a fool who is getting playedI worked as a stripper when I was 18 in Australia and in my state, there was a VERY strict “no touching” rule for strippers. It was a table top club and we didn’t provide lap dances, we did however do private shows where we got completely naked and danced on a small stage while they sat in the chair in front of us. Overall, compared to what I hear about US strip clubs, it was very G rated. If someone said something to us or touched us, they were removed immediately. We had a lot of business men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 09:20 AM |
| 19 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementI know these times aren’t the best but many women have always wanted children and some are 35+ and don’t have time to wait until the pandemic is over. Also, there’s always been a baby boom during uncertain times such as the war. I don’t judge women for having children as long as they take vaccinations seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 56 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.I’m a SAHM and married to a thoroughly vetted HVM. If things goes wrong, I get half. I also will have family support and my country has pretty good benefits for single mothers. I’m also studying to further myself once I go back to work in a few years. My husband also splits his retirement fund with me through his work so I’m not missing out on that while I’m home. You CAN be a sole SAHM but make sure you’re smart about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:27 PM |
| 75 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.I find a lot more than 80% of men unattractive TBH. He should fix his “facts” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 458 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.“Maybe it’s not the consent issue but another thing is making me uneasy” So now every time she meets her bf’s friends, she will know that he’s masturbated to them. Regardless of what scrotes and libfems say- NO person wants to think about their partner jerking it to other people, unless they have a cuckold fetish and…who wants to deal with that shit? There’s nothing wrong with you for feeling human emotions such as jealousy, inadequacy, worthlessness when your partner openly tells you he desires… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 11:02 AM |
| 67 | People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡The worst thing about this is that he made the CHOICE to share his misogynistic thoughts. LOCK HIM UP AND THROW AWAY THE KEY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:52 AM |
| 147 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.Imma bet he’s 5’5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:35 AM |
| 185 | Dating someone I like a lot but starting to feel insecureDefinitely start therapy if you haven’t already. Also a good strategy is to ask him WHY he likes you. If he can list of things about you personally, then that’s a green flag. If he says things the benefit him like “you put others before yourself, you’re so caring, you always take care of me etc” then it’s a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 15 | what do you all think about familiarities? I DESPISE them!I live in Aus and calling stranger sweet names isn’t common, unless you’re an old man. I especially remember being called “darling and sweetheart” from about 14-22 by men 50+. It always felt icky and degrading. When I was about 20 I shot back with “no worries bro” and this man was so offended, it was great 🤣. Men who expect you to be overly feminine HATEEEE it when you act “masculine”. So now whenever I want a guy to go away I just call him “bro or mate”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 23 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.Oh honey, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:44 AM |
| 14 | Y'all, they're talking about us again 😂HAHAHAHAHAHAHA ✨die mad ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:55 AM |
| 32 | You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away.I literally said bye to my husband after our first date and he texted me “best date ever! Are you free tomorrow?” in the Uber as I was a street away 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 12:29 AM |
| 133 | How Being In Public Feels: Men VS WomenI actually got in an argument years ago because a scrote read something about the government issuing a curfew for men at night so women feel safer. He was soooo offended because HE would never hurt a woman or had seen a woman hurt at night 🙄 I was just fascinated about going for a run at night, popping to the grocery store for ice cream or just walking around to clear my head without feeling like I was going to be abducted or raped every second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 10:25 AM |
| 136 | Lily Tomlin WALKS OUT After Chad Everett's Sexist Remark! | The Dick Cavett Show (it happens between 6: 35 - 6:55Yuck chad Everett is such a creep. He cheated on his wife and his mistress had a baby. She took him to court for a DNA test which was 94.67 percent accurate to be his but the court somehow said it wasn’t enough evidence? And SHE was sentenced to probation for “harassing him” to be her kids father. He offered private financial support, would he really do that if the kid wasn’t his though? Absolute prick. Lily Tomlin is a queen for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 10:11 AM |
| 465 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes“My daughters sent me a letter telling me how much they hate me and included wedding picture of my ex. It’s so soon so I wonder if something happened before we broke up” I love his savage daughters! and projection much? he said she married a long time family friend so they would have already built trust/friendship and once the old scrote was out of the picture, provided emotional support and attraction blossomed. That’s NORMAL. I’m so happy for the EX wife living her best life. I feel horrible f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 12:49 AM |
| 26 | What do *you* think a pick-me is, and why do you think you used to be one?I know someone who’s almost 40 and does this too. It’s sad because they’re wasting their prime doing shit I did when I was 18 and didn’t know any better. Hopefully they’ll wise up soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Pickmes really need to shape up and get a clue 🤢Cheers 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:48 PM |
| 25 | I lost one of my best girl friends because of a scrote 😕She’ll be back. 1,2 even 10 years down the line she’ll try to reconnect with her friends after he made her cut them off. Classic narcissist boyfriend move. She just needs to learn for herself. Hopefully she doesn’t get pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:52 AM |
| 22 | One more reason to cut off men who watch pornThe porn stars lie. They have to keep the fantasy up even in interviews. Think of how many of their “fans” would be furious if they were honest and said “of course I don’t orgasm, I haven’t eaten all day and spent hours douching my asshole for anal sex. I’m sore from insert recent plastic surgery and I’m being penetrated at rapid speed while in an awkward position and NO clit stimulation. My co star smells like body odour, smegma and I can taste the cocaine every time he kisses me. There’s a hig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 04:48 AM |
| 57 | Rekindle with an old flame? Just do it! All it costs is a cup of coffee.Dodged a HUGE bullet there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:42 AM |
| 32 | Men need to stop being celebrated for the bare minimum. 👏🏼 All neurotypical/able-bodied adults should know how to take care of themselves & have their basic needs met. The coddling needs to stop.“Omg he even knows how to wipe his own ass, love looks so much different now than when I was younger because my standards are in hell 🥰” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 73 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!There are so many other things I’d rather do to be fabulous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:10 AM |
| 21 | Scrote is mad that his date has standardsI dated a 30 year old when I was 24 and we ended up breaking up because we had NOTHING in common. I then started dating a 26 year old and it was so nice to date someone around my age who had the same experiences growing up. To a 24 year old- 30 is OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:52 AM |
| 295 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬I saw this too, it was in the “what happens to men that women don’t understand” thread and it was 100’s of comments about erectile dysfunction in young men. OH WE UNDERSTAND! We just refuse to tolerate PIED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:19 PM |
| 10 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.I’ve always known I would be a mother. It’s something I really wanted for myself so I knew I would have to buckle down and prioritise it. I did have my son earlier than I originally wanted, but he is the best thing to ever happen to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 102 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.I have a child (with one on the way) and I have never been so passionate about anything than being a mother and having a family of my own. I’m saying that, I vetted ruthlessly until I found the HVM of my dreams and I’m studying to further myself once I go back to work. I also have a wonderful support network and adore my in laws. In saying that, I’m SO glad women everywhere are deciding not to have children unless they really want them. My heart breaks for children of useless abusive fathers and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 327 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?I think what you were looking for was commitment. Even though you want to abort, you wanted him to say “I would respect your decision and raise this child with you” instead he decided that he fucked up and wasn’t ready for lifelong commitment. I don’t think he’s inherently wrong for not wanting a child, but you’re also not wrong for wanting to feel cared for. If you have the child, you will probably be raising it alone. A HVM would let the woman decide what she wants to do with her body and stan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 12:23 AM |
| 10 | PIED confirmedand they say “I’m just telling MY experience” which also happens to be every woman’s experience in porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 09:31 AM |
| 9 | Anyone know of any of HVM Youtubers, influencers, etc.?The feminine fancy and Alexandra’s girly talk are my fav | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:11 AM |
| 12 | This just in: man says show where a man stalks and murders women is too "liberal" and femme.Look up fragile white male masculinity in the dictionary and this is what should pop up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:09 AM |
| 43 | Texting AdviceIt takes a second to text you. This is the honeymoon phase where he should be trying to woo you. If he can’t put in effort to send a two second text then he won’t put in effort when things get hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 09:57 AM |
| 44 | On “hard to get & hard to keep” what men value & respect & men courting prestigious organizations. Men’s effort for men’s love and respect / lack there of for women’sYeah yeah we get it, “not all men”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 313 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.Let’s reword it. “FINALLY LEGAL 🤩❤️ I can’t describe what you mean to me and what kind of person you are because we have nothing in common and you only care about tik tok and high school drama. I have been grooming you for 4 years, you are my victim that I have manipulated, coerced and you have submitted to me completely. Every moment I spend by your side reminds me that I have full control of you and that’s beautiful. So excited to marry you and abuse you for as long as you will tolerate it and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:08 PM |
| 210 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.Pretty sure they’re taking the pictures. Religious parents don’t care how old the guy if he is held to a high regard in the church. I know a guy who ran a youth group when he was 25 and one of the youths was 16. They’re married now with a daughter. So creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 40 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.Oh he loves it. It’s a big “screw you because she’s lEgAl now! and there’s nothing you can do about it” I feel bad for the girl, I’m hoping once her brain fully matured she can realise how wrong this is. I’m ready to place bets that she finds his porn searches full of “teen and barely legal”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:59 PM |
| 27 | UPDATE: on 46 y/o coworker claiming to be 34.I feed on scrotes insecurity, keeps me young lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 26 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.SO true!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 55 | UPDATE: on 46 y/o coworker claiming to be 34.I would have torn this guy apart “wait WHY do people overact about your age?” And then let him expose himself. Then I’d say “I just think it’s really weird that you lie about your age, maybe you should get therapy about that”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 362 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.The “finally 18 🤩” in the caption confirms everything about this. Apparently he’s a pastor too and she goes to the same church which just adds to the pedo vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 170 | DAE have a visceral negative reaction to Hinge’s social media ads? Who are these meant to market to? It can’t be women.“aRe wE dOiNg tHiS oR wHaT” omg imagine getting getting all dressed up and risking your safety for string cheese and a zero effort guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:56 PM |
| 23 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.Yes this is very true! Especially in the past and present in many eastern countries. In modern times and western countries though it’s horrible how “expected” it is for women to take care of a newborn alone AND the household and many women even go back to work 6 weeks post birth on top of that. Men need to realise that when they are home, they need to pitch in. My husband works on his feet at the hospital doing shift work with chronic fatigue from an auto immune disease yet when he is home- he c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 67 | Found a pic of the average scrote lurking our subIt’s funny how she was the villain yet spitting straight facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:15 AM |
| 60 | Found a pic of the average scrote lurking our subAs if they’re THIS self aware 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:14 AM |
| 124 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.In Jesus’s name, Amen 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 69 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 01:45 AM |
| 182 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.I’m a mum but I would rather raise my kid alone than have to deal with a man child too. My husband was amazing when my son was born, he took two months off work so he could help me. I exclusively breastfed but he did all the changing, rocking, would stay up with me, literally feed me with a spoon because I was holding and breastfeeding the baby and would constantly tell me I was doing an amazing job. I KNOW how hard a newborn is and this post pissed me off so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 01:44 AM |
| 9 | Could dating be anymore discouraging for women today? 🤦♀️ I found a log book today that logs potential online dating matchesSame I get that it’s a waste of time but I bloody love meticulous and detailed journals 🤣 if it’s got stickers then I’ll buy it, even though I’m married 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 12:41 AM |
| 88 | Some of the creatures lurking on online dating sitesIt’s the mattress without a sheet for me. In regards to a first message on a dating site I would say “just don’t say anything and delete yourself from the gene pool.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 01:07 PM |
| 52 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.“So many women kept correcting their men ALL the time and were left doing everything on their own” this is exactly what I’m talking about. They WANT women to correct them, so they can get out of doing the basic jobs and play the “I’m just not good at it card”. He didn’t put any effort in to making the bed when his partner is clearly house proud so he is actively trying to not have to do it again. Perhaps YOU don’t think made beds are important but she does, and a HVM would want to meet their par… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 12:29 PM |
| 150 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.YES! I would totally post this in the comments but I’ve already been banned from other cleaning pages because I point out the short comings of husbands 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:49 AM |
| 135 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔Good on you! I was brainwashed and let my exes do it. I was confused when my HVM husband would always pull out and I asked why he didn’t just cum in my mouth and he said “cause it’s gross” 🤣. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 191 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔Exactly. Ask the guy to kiss you after he cums in your mouth and see his reaction, they all know it’s nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:04 AM |
| 100 | Even OTHER men can sense LVM/NVM/ZVM’s red flags with women at the beginning of a relationship, such as “being too busy.”Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:50 AM |
| 530 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔“Came all over my face” tell me your husband is porn sick without telling me your husband is porn sick 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:44 AM |
| 370 | Even OTHER men can sense LVM/NVM/ZVM’s red flags with women at the beginning of a relationship, such as “being too busy.”I’m surprised they were this honest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 08:04 AM |
| 33 | Women’s Universal ExperienceMe telling my ex to go slow and focus on the clit. My ex doesn’t listen and just goes hard and rubs my clit like he’s trying to get bird shit off his car. Me “I don’t really enjoy sex because you don’t listen” Him “you KNOW I don’t have much experience before you” Me “how would sleeping with lots of other women make you better at pleasuring MY body” Him “fine we just won’t have sex then” 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 02:56 AM |
| 43 | Just need some supportHe couldn’t cover $20 for his own GF? and if money was tight then he should of cooked for you since you have cooked before. Dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 04:59 AM |
| 210 | 35+ Queens - He Still Ain't S**TI wised up around 28 and I’m 30 next month- only because of FDS. I was a liberal feminist pick me before 😭 and guess what! LVM hateeeee me, it’s like they know that I know all their dirty little secrets. I don’t give them the time of day and they scamper around for a pick me to make them feel better after the mean and OLD 29 year old stared them down. I now only attract HVM and HVW, they love that I don’t take bullshit and genuinely appreciate me. I’ll never forget my NVM ex say to me when I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 59 | REMINDER: Playing devil's advocate is a social fauxpas, and men who do it are LVYou’re a lot nicer than me! I remember talking to my girlfriends at parties or bars and some guy would always try to insert himself into our conversation so we would immediately get up and find a new spot to sit and continue our conversation 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 11:35 AM |
| 130 | REMINDER: Playing devil's advocate is a social fauxpas, and men who do it are LVThis is great advice but don’t even smile, they could see it as a “defeat”. Personally I would just say to the other person “let’s finish this later when we have some more privacy” or “I’ll call you later about this” and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 11:24 AM |
| 30 | My motivation app visits this sub✨die mad scrotes✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:41 AM |
| 27 | The audacityI know the women post this and think it’s cute/funny but it’s actually embarrassingly sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:18 AM |
| 914 | girl whatI’m sooo happy to see that she’s realised her marriage was a sham. Thank god for that prenup, blessing in disguise! I hope she lives her best life after dropping the dead weight 💃🏻✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:31 AM |
| 27 | Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating appThere’s a huge difference between 5’10 and 6’1. Weed him out of your gene pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 12 | REMINDER: STAY MADMood for life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 37 | Rules of misogyny: the default is always maleJust to be the exception but I have a really good looking toddler and everyone assumes he is a she, he doesn’t have long hair. He is Just super beautiful and I never correct them 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:17 PM |
| 189 | REMINDER: STAY MADYes tbh I never understood the whole “forgive and forget” because it helps you personally heal. NO, remembering makes sure I never make the same mistake again and my anger pushes me to strive for better. No one ever got anywhere through indifference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:35 AM |
| 62 | Anyone else get lonely or disappointed when they can’t share FDS and their dating life with their friends?Women learn the hard way eventually, remember how we all were before the event that led us to FDS? They’re just naive and haven’t experienced their own event and some will continue to gaslight themselves instead of seeing the truth. I have hope that change is coming and men don’t like it, which is why we have the wave of lib fem but that will burn out soon enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:39 AM |
| 148 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?Dear Megan: I WAS ROOTING FOR YOU! WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU! Dear MGK: how dare you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:40 AM |
| 18 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮Omg yes 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 07:53 AM |
| 94 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮Can’t wait for us to refer scrotes to being “mushy soapy ass hair level” on future posts 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:56 AM |
| 136 | Dude needs therapyHe probably thinks Asian women are all submissive and docile. He probably doesn’t want a westernised Asian woman either because they don’t take mens shit. Total creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 10:02 AM |
| 63 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)It’s already going out of fashion fast. The kardashians have reduced their Butts and we are definitely heading towards a thinner body trend. Women should never alter their body for a changing standard, because we will probably all be “in trend” at some point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 08:03 AM |
| 65 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)Even was I was anorexic, I still had a little tummy…I hated it but it was literally there to protect my reproductive organs because I’m not a man 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Looking the same after babiesI looked better after giving birth because I breastfed full time and the weight fell off, my hair was full and my skin was clear. Now it’s a few years later and I’ve gained weight due to the stress of having a toddler and my boobs are starting to sag a bit now that I’m weaning, not too mention my lower belly. At least if I looked worse after birth I’d have an excuse, now it’s as if people think I’ve just let myself go which isn’t true. I’m just tired and stressed. I also hate that I even have to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 21 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyeI feel like this is men with any famous men and think they’ve been wrongly accused. I can’t speak on WOC though personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 162 | Flip the scriptAn example of being spontaneous is deciding one night that you will go hiking the next morning and inviting someone, you organise the picnic, pick the person up and drive. Then maybe while you’re hiking, you see a waterfall and you spontaneously decide to go swimming even though you don’t have your cozzies. You can be spontaneous and still plan a little. These scrotes are just lazy and boring because they can’t imagine leaving their gaming/porn dens to go live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 23 | Trigger warning!!Please protect your private information ladies! This scrote ordered a hit on a woman be met online!!!His picture is what I imagine every male redditor to look like 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 119 | To those raised by guardians in an age gap relationship, what did you observe?Haha you should say “ok I’ll make you a deal, if dad learns your McDonald’s order, take you out on weekly dates and does half the house chores then I’ll consider marriage being worth it” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 133 | What to do?IT’s is 10000% normal to have less sex after a baby and that is completely fine. The fact that he discussed this with his friends and not with you means he values his friends opinion over your feelings. It sounds like he thinks it’s something you “owe” him because you “belong” to him and have wifely duties. Seeing a therapist in secret is really weird and not something a healthy person keeps from their spouse. Maybe I’m ruthless but if my husband pulled any of this crap I’d be filing for divorce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 07:08 AM |
| 51 | To the men and Libfems who think we've reached the point where 50/50 is fair....I recently had a guy try to tell me that the reason women are outnumbering men at college is because they don’t want to be around women so they’re just not applying..like what? Women are the ones sexually assaulted on campus constantly yet men don’t want to be around us? I WISH! Imagine a women only college 😍😍😍 Also no, men are just smoking and fapping themselves until they’re brain dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 03:39 AM |
| 13 | You can be happier and more successful as a single mother! My second chance story:Good on you! I grew up with a narcissistic step father from ages 6-10 who my mum kicked out and life was SO much better before and after he was in our lives. Your kids are still so little so not only are you thriving but they will too! Honestly him having minimal contact is probably best, the kids will grow up and most likely cut contact with him but have a very strong relationship with you 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 20 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsIt is hell on earth if you don’t have a supportive partner, which most women don’t. I’m lucky because as soon as my husband is home everything is 50/50. I’ve always wanted kids and love being home but it’s hard work, that’s for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 59 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsExactly. I can only think of one amazing single SAHD who raised his kids alone but he’s gay and had them via surrogate so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 10:45 AM |
| 144 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsExactly. I’ve worked many different jobs in the past 10 years from waitress, childcare, IT and being a SAHM is the hardest job I’ve ever hard. I don’t get to clock out at 5, it’s 24/7. Meanwhile these SAHD’s DO get to clock out when their wife gets home and enjoy weekends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 10:34 AM |
| 47 | Gaslighting women into staying with LVMExactly. Even if my husband was Chinese, you better believe I’m celebrating Chinese New Year like I was born and raised there myself- because it would make him happy! It’s also funny how the only people who say Christmas is a commercial holiday are all LVM yet pout when you don’t buy them anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 10:23 AM |
| 11 | Bodyshaming and -negging: It has nothing to do with what you look like, but you NEED to leave at the first sign of it.☠️☠️☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 05:20 AM |
| 13 | Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now?Omg that sounds amazing! can I come 🤣🎉✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 03:25 AM |
| 13 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?The only true feminist subreddit is FDS, thank you to the mods for all their hard work. I’ve never felt safer than this subreddit 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 56 | Another post about Gold-digging/Sugar-babyingThe pandora of cities 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:23 AM |
| 96 | [deleted by user]Yeah that’s why we were all attracted to Jonah hill and not Channing Tatum 🤣 Girl enjoy that weak sweaty many on top of you, I married for a hot guy with a great personality because I’m hot with a great personality. I refuse to downgrade with this pick me bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:47 AM |
| 39 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateNext post- Husband “maybe you should hook up with him?” Her “wait what?” Husband “um yeah…and I can watch?“ Her “….GUYS IM SOOOO HOT THAT EVEN MY HUSBAND WANTS TO WATCH ME HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY AND HE’S TAKING ME OUT FOR PIZZA TO CELEBRATE” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 11:55 PM |
| 22 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.No he just said he would if I left him, absolute psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 242 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!Crumb is probably more hygienic than the scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:00 PM |
| 169 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.My ex said he would do this if I broke up with him and then say “not so pretty now” and I noped the f out. It’s sad because he will probably do a lot worse to her in marriage 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:52 PM |
| 22 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsOmg love this! I can’t wait for someone to say “pOrN iS hEaLtHy” and hit them back with “ew, please don’t make me think about you cuckolding yourself alone in your room jerking it to a screen” and then see their reaction 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:46 PM |
| 68 | lowkey don’t even care at this point if a guy wants to screw around with my feelings like that i simply just do not have the time and resources to deal with it - block and delete✨and deleted✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:44 AM |
| 47 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsI agree, if you’re in a space where people are open to have a proper discussion then yes. My post was more directed at people who want to talk at you and not with you, so test the waters but don’t dive straight in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:24 AM |
| 25 | Have any of you ever dated a widower? What was the experience like? Would you advise against it?My HVM dad died a few months before I was born and had photos of him all over the house, her next LVM husband moved in and would get so jealous and take them down. I think if kids are involved then yes, keep the pictures up. If not then keep them tucked away somewhere safe. A widow shouldn’t have to erase their dead partner like it was a break up because there was still love there, like a family member. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:56 AM |
| 179 | Reminder: Dont be with a man like thislol imagine the backlash if he bought her a Cartier piece of jewellery and she bought him a book yet this shit gets upvoted and awarded to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 04:21 AM |
| 6 | Spotted this on my FB feed just now... good LORD y'all, is it nearly 2022 or is it 1952 🤡Sometimes I get hungry and my husband and I have lazy sex because we are trying for a baby and it’s not great. Should I cheat? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:46 PM |
| 87 | Why I have trust issues and why we should be guarded.It’s all a lie that the patriarchy have sold to women. 9/10 when women snoop, they find something. My husband and I have access to each other’s phones and it’s not a big deal, like what would be in there that I don’t want him to see? The motto is “trust but confirm” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:41 AM |
| 28 | Where do you find HVM?I met my HV husband on tinder, had to sort through a lot of trash to find him though 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 09:55 AM |
| 18 | Man in a hetero relationship doesn't do housework -> solution = "get a cleaner!!!!"That’s actually shameful. She’s just raising her own children to be as incompetent as their father. The father, 12, 16, 20 and 21 year olds should have a rotation of who cooks and cleans. They would still only have to cook 1-2 times a week each, master meals for when they move out and feel a sense of accomplishment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 03:20 AM |
| 4 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?I bought myself a Chloe perfume and I’ll be spending Christmas Eve on the couch watching whatever I want and eating ice cream because I wrapped all my kids gifts early and have all the food sorted for Christmas too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:07 AM |
| 10 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?I find that women who have a high body count usually have trauma and use sex as a way to self medicate, men who have high body counts are predators. Men and womens body counts mean different things, I wouldn’t judge a woman for having a high body count if she was actively working on herself and critically thinking about why she felt the need to sleep around but I was judge a man 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 01:53 AM |
| 32 | Yes.I didn’t even realise this was sarcasm for a sec because most men are toxic and abusive and most women are (close to) perfect 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 09:25 AM |
| 12 | Relationship status = singleI’ve always been taught that you serve youngest to oldest. So I serve my 2 year old son, my 29 year old self and then my 31 year old husband 🤣 he couldn’t care less too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 12:45 AM |
| 76 | Another Cringey Article Glamorizing Polygamy as Being More 'Secure' and 'Open-Minded': "My Husband's Girlfriend Is One Of My Best Friends. Here's How Our Family Works."The best outcome in these gross situations is for the women to fall in love with each other and leave the scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 07:59 AM |
| 422 | A "compliment" that men need to stop usingI’ve had “wow you’re really funny for a girl” my whole life. IMO women ARE funnier than men in general because our sense of humour doesn’t revolve around sex, toilet humour and the expense of a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Only the real feminist men can pass this test!I just got that song out of my head 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 01:19 PM |
| 21 | Are extremely HV people less common than extremely wealthy or conventionally attractive people?I hope you mean positively discipline them opposed to old school punishment aka abuse( that has been proven to be ineffective and cause psychological problems in children later on). Setting firm boundaries and actually having tough but necessary conversations with your children will raise well rounded people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 12:55 PM |
| 3 | This is why venting is a must! And also, it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship because we can straight up get murdered. Some men can’t take No. Rip to these poor souls.This is why I would never date a man if I was no longer with my husband for whatever reason. I would exclusively date women or be alone. It’s not worth risking my kids in such close proximity to potential pedo’s or sociopaths which many men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 11:07 PM |
| 171 | Pay Attention To Where His Eyes LandDon’t even go up to the girl, just say to the guy “can you stop staring at me like a piece of meat, I don’t appreciate it” and she will overhear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 04:32 AM |
| 124 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Funny how literally every post has the following: cans of energy drinks/beer, bongs, gaming set ups, weird collections. Yet they all blame their mess on depression when their lifestyle is clearly the cause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:47 PM |
| 69 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Wait what’s a nest 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:45 PM |
| 27 | Men can hate you, despise you even, and they’ll still string you along for years to get their revengeAs a mother to a two year old baby boy, I’ve never been more horrified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 04:24 AM |
| 12 | What is your sexuality?Oh I see, like how libfems call themselves “sluts” to reclaim the word from men 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 10:22 PM |
| 6 | My cousin turned into a LVW and Pick-me since she married an LVM.Can we please start a petition to call LVM’s “Scrote Goblins”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 8 | What is your sexuality?May I ask why you don’t like the word? I have a lot of gay friends who have “queer” in their Instagram profiles. Not even sure what queer really means tbh 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 11 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.Ew no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:34 PM |
| 8 | Lets talk about COWARD MenI remember some loser in the passenger seat of the car was shining a laser in my eye while stopped in traffic and my husband (we had just started dating though) and I were waiting to cross. My husband went up to the car and said “what’s your problem?” With a serious look on his face and the car quickly drove off. He’s the shy quiet type too and still stood up for me. My lame narc ex who was obsessed with rap music and being the “alpha” never stood up for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:51 AM |
| 12 | Who’s the best example of a HMV celebrity?John Krasinski (Jim from the office) married to Emily Blunt and the way he talks about her is just to die for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:22 AM |
| 208 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsThat’s why he specifically asks what kind of foreplay she likes because he has no idea how to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:32 AM |
| 41 | Saw a surprising amount of HVM in the wild under a facebook article today. Happy Friday ☀️My husband shaved his head last year during isolation because I messed up his haircut so badly 🤣 At first it was weird and then after a few days, I didn’t even notice it. I look back at pictures and he is still as cute as ever, looks really don’t change much when you’re madly in love. I also gained some weight and this year and he hasn’t noticed and gets upset when I talk about it because he thinks I’m so beautiful. My narc ex would notice when I gained two pounds 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 182 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.and wear gloves 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 10:22 AM |
| 124 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Yet single mothers everywhere who work full time and have several children find the time to clean. This guy probs wakes up, goes to work, comes home and orders takeaway and then games/watches porn until 3 in the morning. GUySsssssssdd hE wOrKs sO hArD hE cAn’T cLEaN tHe cAkEd oN sHit oFf hIs tOlLiEt oR wIpE hIs OwN aSssssssss!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 10:20 AM |
| 78 | Anyone had a scrote try this on them?Omg yes I have! Some really annoying sales guy at my old job would always call me by the wrong name and one day I said “that’s not my name, you KNOW that’s not my name because you have to send me emails and enter my real name to do so, from now on call me by my real name or don’t talk to me outside of emails” and he got flustered and walked off lol we never spoke in person again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 7 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.Yes! My husband took me to see Hamilton at the theatre today and we would have gone to a nice restaurant for dinner (he specifically checked that it had GF and vegan options for me beforehand) but we have a toddler and had to pick him up after the show so we ordered it at the place and took it home, while eating our favourite dessert. He really made it special and I can’t imagine settling for Netflix and chill at home with pizza for dinner that some scrotes think is a great anniversary- even wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:56 AM |
| 15 | Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need helpI remember in my dating years, I was dabbling in polyamory and met my current husband. I said “you can see other people if you would like” and he said “no thanks, I’m a one woman man...I’m not really built like “that”” and I remember feeling...safe. All the other guys made me feel like I had to work to get their affection let alone commitment so I acted “cool”. Anyway, we were official within a week, married with a son and TTC a few years later and it’s exactly what I wanted. Having someone head… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 09:00 AM |
| 44 | At this point women should just complain about going 50/50 for the sheer hilarity that'd ensueI would have just awkwardly said “let’s give him some space girls” and fucking left lol delete and block in real life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 07:50 AM |
| 5 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.The kids probably in daycare too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:28 AM |
| 93 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.Yeah you can get every movie/show for free. He doesn’t want to miss out on his fav “actresses”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:28 AM |
| 38 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beThis got fucking awards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 01:45 AM |
| 16 | Anti-Seductive Qualities to AvoidToxic positivity is a thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:14 AM |
| 12 | Men don’t humanise us!I agree, like what he said is the bare minimum but there are men who will never see women or girls as people. Many go as far as sexually abusing their own daughters 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:35 AM |
| 33 | The Dying Art of ConversationI’m so glad I’m married. Now I just have no need to have mediocre conversations with men who will neg or use me as emotional labour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:38 AM |
| 12 | Men do really think like thisWow he really thinks he’s on to something 👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:40 PM |
| 12 | I have to wonder what kind of vibes I'm putting out these daysI think 40 is still quite young, well I consider a person young until they go through menopause. I’m 29 and I don’t want to be considered “old” at 40 🤣 that’s when my babies will be starting high school and I’ll finally have some freedom to focus on myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 70 | Apologizing for or sympathizing with "cancelled" woman-abusers is big time Pick Me behaviour - From Vanity Fair: 'Dakota Johnson Calls Cancel Culture "Such a Downer"So that’s why she’s famous? I always thought she was as interesting as cardboard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 09:29 AM |
| 172 | Apologizing for or sympathizing with "cancelled" woman-abusers is big time Pick Me behaviour - From Vanity Fair: 'Dakota Johnson Calls Cancel Culture "Such a Downer"I mean, she was made famous by starring in 50 shades of grey. I don’t think anyone is really listening to anything she has to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:10 AM |
| 14 | I feel like this is reflective of HV people.True | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:42 AM |
| 146 | Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play.Can someone please tell me that the comments were telling her to leave his ass? There’s no way you can justify this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 42 | It doesn’t serve me to tell people that I’m happy not having had children.Or “we got it right the first time” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:12 PM |
| 17 | It doesn’t serve me to tell people that I’m happy not having had children.I’ve always wanted kids and now I have one and am trying for another. When I was younger >25 I would always ask people after they got married when they would have kids, or after they would have a baby, if they were going to have another one. Now that I’m older, I realise how insensitive those questions were but it never came from a place of “you HAVE to have kids as a woman!” It was more, just being raised with the idea that people stereotypically get married and have kids. I know that a lot of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:10 PM |
| 31 | Violence against women in movies and TV? Oh, it's just for the realism effect!Mods- this is a male LARPING. Check their post history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Not Taylor 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 10:12 PM |
| 69 | "She's a cool girl" is not a compliment!Ewwww your family praised him for that? 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 12:09 PM |
| 207 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)Lyk dis if it made u cry 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 11:40 AM |
| 234 | "She's a cool girl" is not a compliment!Unfortunately this is how most women learn that men ain’t shit. Hopefully she wises up from this experience and doesn’t bury her head in the sand and become a pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 41 | I love my friend, but she’s a pickmeisha.Responses I would say to her A woman’s touch? This isn’t 1950, and you’re not their mother. It’s a turn off when grown ass men can’t clean up after themselves. Don’t reduce yourself to their maid, let’s go enjoy ourselves because we are guests! Men who want sex on the first night weed themselves out of prospective partners and makes it easier for women to know who to date, see it as a good thing! Also those girls might feel pressured/lonely/manipulated into the one night stand so I don’t think i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 89 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?That’s actually horrible. I hope his dad writes him out of the will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 95 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Omg 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 86 | There is nothing that can validate cheating, not even in revenge.I agree with what you said. HVW would never cheat on their partner, if we aren’t happy then we just leave and work on ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 11:41 AM |
| 15 | How can I help a friend with absolutely zero self esteem?Sometimes they just need to learn for themselves. I’m sure most of us refused advise from our loved ones when dating NVM/LVM’s but we learned from experience and we are better for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 123 | Just saw a guy entering the subway with a bag of laundry…That’s what I was thinking too. Especially if he had bigger items and needs a bigger washing machine than the ones on campus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 12 | To dress up for dates or show up as you are?I wear them when I go on dates mostly or events. not really to run errands/exercise etc. sometimes I’ll wear them to work too. Waterproof lash glue! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:04 AM |
| 39 | To dress up for dates or show up as you are?Me living in Australia and wearing false eyelashes on the reg 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:44 AM |
| 19 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’Thank you for sharing some history. I’m a white woman and I 100% think we should we calling out racist woman for their behaviour regularly. I think the point of this post though, is that men have taken the name Karen and are using it against white women for standing up for themselves or others in order to keep us submissive. I feel weird telling a cafe or restaurant that my order was wrong because I don’t want to be a “Karen”. I think it’s important for POC to be able to have labels for protecti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:49 AM |
| 134 | Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page?I’m a SAHM but I’m also studying at university. I think you can be a SAHM as long as you’re levelling up! Also, make sure your working partner is putting half of their retirement fund, super etc so that you will accumulating while you’re not working. Try to also keep in the loop of job prospects, volunteer, build your skills so you’re employable if things go south. To be honest, I would love to spend my life taking care of my family but we live in a capitalist and misogynistic society so while I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 11:06 PM |
| 59 | What the acronym “BDSM” stands for.I’m the type of person people just open up to, maybe it’s because I’m shy and narcs just love to talk about themselves. I might write a post about the crap LVM and pick me’s openly tell me for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 154 | What the acronym “BDSM” stands for.I’m sorry but “he won’t need to hang you off his ceiling while he wears a bear suit while jerking off to reruns of Reba on his dusty ass tube TV from 1996” absolutely sent me 🤣 Next time a woman says “I’m into BDSM” I’m going to say “why?” and I’ll probably get the generic responses of “it’s exciting and kinky” but I’ll just say “why is it exciting to be hurt?” And they will probably just be like 👁👄👁... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 05:41 AM |
| 222 | Today in 'having a kid together won't fix your relationship'How horrifying. I never knew much about Zayn but saying that about his own daughter sounds like he has hardcore narcissism. I feel horrible for Gigi, I wish her and her baby the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 01:44 PM |
| 220 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)I worked with a guy who was a dwarf and extremely attractive. He was so confident and flirted with me all the time to the point where I forgot about our height difference. I was in a toxic relationship and he would always tell how I deserve better and I ended up having a little crush on him. Anyway, I haven’t seen him in years but now he has married a dwarf woman and they have two dwarf babies and they’re just the happiest most stable family. Anyway, moral of the story is that most of the time s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 05:13 AM |
| 36 | Three children and still a forever girlfriend. I love Lily Rabe, she deserves so much better.I thought that FDS only suggests marriage for financial reasons more so than personal reasons. I think the majority of women want commitment via marriage and it’s better for them financially however, what about cases with wealthy women? What if they don’t really value marriage for reasons such as religious distain or societal push back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 12:53 PM |
| 154 | Scrote wants woman to pay for dates, even though they’re not exclusive after several dates. Pretty impressed to see the comments from other guys saying that they happily pay for dates.I agree but a lot of the comments were telling OP to move on if he doesn’t meet her standards or suck it up and pay it. They were also questioning why they have been dating for two months and still not official- it made me so proud I almost shed a tear lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:22 AM |
| 12 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyYeah this is a guy larping as a woman lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 11:53 PM |
| 87 | We can't even have subreddits that are clearly for usThis is why I LOVE FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:10 AM |
| 119 | Cringeworthy :/Right!? enjoying abuse during sex isn’t a personality trait. Get therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:33 AM |
| 32 | Scrote defends abuse scrote who physically assaulted his bride with a 5+ layer wedding cake, claims "it wouldn't be traumatic"She defended him saying “this is us, I’m sorry you have a different sense of humour”. I’m sorry that you’ll be filing for domestic violence charges soon enough. What a toxic mindset not only to herself but to others witnessing this. Bloody pick me’s! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:28 PM |
| 70 | Pickme Logic: I know he's a player and I'm already sleeping with him but will ignoring his texts get him interested in more?“I’m a player too” girl the only person you played is yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:58 PM |
| 85 | Look at how normalized it is to make ""jokes"" like this...1k upvotes 🤢Welcome to reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:01 AM |
| 57 | The level of mental gymnastics herethe name “jered” explains all of this lol her name is probably Mackaylyn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:20 AM |
| 80 | Make sure he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave.This isn’t partnership, this is adoption. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:51 AM |
| 425 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Yeah, she’s horny but she’s not in the mood to act like a pornstar while you lay there with your mediocre dick. Maybe she actually wants an orgasm- a real one not a fake one (to all you scrotes reading- a girl has most definitely faked an orgasm with you). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:44 AM |
| 512 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileThis is why I’m wary of men who make “dark jokes” or have “dark humour” like tell me you’re a sociopath without telling me you’re a sociopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:59 PM |
| 10 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???I actually had this conversation with a male friend a few years ago and he said he always crosses the street if he’s walking behind a woman in order to make her feel safe due to how many women get assaulted/raped in BROAD DAYLIGHT. This guy said that it didn’t take much effort on his part so crossing the street is worth it to make a woman feel secure. Like, it’s not hard to be self aware. Also what if they weren’t “fat feminists”, would they be worthy of his assault? What a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 184 | Pick me cultureI’ve always looked up to Megan Fox, especially when she started going head to head with Michael Bay and calling out his sexist bullshit and how he groomed her from a young age. I think Megan has always been hyper sexualised by men and it’s what made her famous. She broke away for a while (I’m assuming after she had kids and started to reflect, got angry at the patriarchy and then just focused on her kids) Now her kids are older and she splits custody with her ex, I think she is losing herself an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:15 AM |
| 34 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?High quality women relationships are more valuable than male attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:45 AM |
| 64 | When friends enjoy the circus 🤡I have a relative like this and honestly, I think she thrives on the drama. She does suffer from mental health issues and I don’t think she knows how to “feel” unless she is in emotional turmoil. To be single would make her feel bored and numb. It’s sad but the only people that can help is themselves. They need to WANT to change. Just support from a distance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:25 AM |
| 149 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴“Another one on the way” the AUDACITY. Stop shopping for a bang maid and get therapy my god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:04 AM |
| 58 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.My three favourite people are all men/boys. My husband, my son and my gay best friend however, I’m done giving my time and energy to any other man. I’m a SAHM currently so I’m lucky to avoid most male interactions and ill start working as a teacher which is a female dominated industry so I’m pretty set for a good life lol. Prior to FDS, I was a liberal pick me feminist too and I spent my time trying to get men to like me- not even romantically, I just felt like I NEEDED male validation? I was al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:37 PM |
| 666 | Comment Section of Reddit’s “Popular” Posts Today on a P*rn Meme…Lmao imagine if the girl was like “I love this male pornstar so much! He has the biggest dick and muscly body” and then have the LOUDEST most earth shattering orgasm while staring at the screen and not making eye contact with the scrote who suggested you watch porn. Then when he sulks about you getting more turned on by the male porn star just reply “I can’t help what my body does...it’s BiOlOgY” and then suggest therapy for him to deal with his insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 11:56 PM |
| 119 | Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids?When I got pregnant with my son, I was sure I wanted to stay home with him until he starts school. I’ve worked in daycares and have a degree in early childhood education so I know how crap daycares can be for children’s development. My HVM husband agreed that he would rather me stay at home (if I wanted to) and he would financially provide during this time. Literally everyone we know just puts their babies in daycare and stay at home mums get so much flack for being lazy. If I wanted to be lazy,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:34 AM |
| 135 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.I literally can’t even think of any women incels (not a thing btw) who have committed mass murder. Men on the other hand....I can think of MANY. Stop projecting scrotes and focus that energy in levelling up like every woman in this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:48 AM |
| 7 | I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.I commented on a male decor post that had a guy in his living room sitting in a gaming chair with his computer and.... nothing else so I commented “this is embarrassing” and a guy called me an asshole because I follow FDS, not even because of my comment lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:46 AM |
| 279 | Be careful about helping "disabled" men!(potential trigger warning!)Say “I’ll find a strong man to help you” and find the biggest guy you see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:40 AM |
| 27 | Mother-son bondsMy mother treats my brother much differently than my sister and I. Maybe it’s a generational thing of her growing up with the “boys will be boys” narrative but he got away with everything while my sister and I were held accountable and told that we should just “know better”. Anyway, he’s 30 and lives with her, jobless and useless. My sister and I are accomplished. I used to be bitter that my mum treated my brother differently but in hindsight she did him no favours by coddling him and as much as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Tell me all of your favourite ways to treat yourself to a date!I’m in lockdown and have a demanding toddler but if I were able to take myself on a date, I would go into the city and watch a movie with my favourite snacks, buy a Starbucks coffee and go shopping, then I would sit in the park with a fresh juice and do some journaling in the sun ☀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 01:37 AM |
| 32 | Bisexual queens - what does FDS mean for you?I met a HVM and we have a baby together and are trying for another. If something happened to him or between us, I would never date another man again. Maybe it’s because I have a kid now, but I wouldn’t risk letting a man around my children- the risks outweigh the benefits. Also, I’m more sexually attracted to women but never had the chance to properly date women. Pretty sure I’m a lesbian but have made an exception for my HVM 🤣. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:41 AM |
| 24 | Men Who live With Parents or RoommatesI wouldn’t date a guy beyond his 30’s living at home and if he’s single, I would hope he lived alone or with roommates but it’s a cultural thing here for women and men to live at home well into their 20’s. I personally liked getting to know guys parents and seeing the “real him” opposed to him hiding stuff from me through the independence of living alone. Also, I always made sure to understand how much work he did at home such as, did he cook for the family sometimes? Did he do housework? How mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:14 AM |
| 136 | Men Who live With Parents or RoommatesI live in Australia and due to the housing crisis and insane prices- 2 mil for a small 2 bed/ no car space house in Sydney anyone? It’s incredibly common for people to live with their parents until 30. I met my partner when we were 24 living at home but he had a significant amount in savings for a deposit. We are both around 30 now and are renting but hope to buy a house soon. If I lived in an area where house prices were cheap- then I wouldn’t date a man over 25 who was still living at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 03:49 AM |
| 55 | Empowering Question to Women Engaging in Hookup Culture (watch till the end)I think about this with my own child. Would I want anyone to treat my child the way I’ve been treated by men? NO. I need to set a good example by cutting out anyone who does not truly value and appreciate me so they will do the same. Monkey see, monkey do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 07:58 AM |
| 3 | I wrote out this rant about my husband's coworker. And I can't just keep it to myself.What did I even just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:11 AM |
| 95 | Following hot girls on instagram - red flag?I don’t agree with it. Instagram should be for following people you know in real life and sharing your own life too, or maybe even keeping up with some actors/sports players etc to see what they are up to. To follow models- especially Insta hotties who make money off being hot is a red flag. If they’re the opposite of you then he may have a Madonna/whore complex. You are nAtUrAl and pure but HIS and they’re fake bitches who he can jerk off to like all the other guys. Also my HVM partner has neve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:45 AM |
| 84 | Looks are so importantMy ex looked like a damn chode, like no neck, no muscles. His mom was a big super model in the 80’s and he literally inherited nothing from her except nice blue eyes. Such a waste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:54 AM |
| 49 | Looks are so importantMy ass fell off my body a long time ago, I am beyond loose at this point. I am ASSLESS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:52 AM |
| 11 | Reminder: Men will lie about anything, including their sexuality!I think a lot of men who are straight do gay porn because it’s way more money. Straight male actors get paid peanuts in porn because they’re not the main focus and can be easily replaced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.100%. I would be doing the procedures for confidence in myself, I couldn’t care less about what men think. I do love a good compliment from a woman though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 05:01 AM |
| 46 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.My teen years were filled with insecurity, eating disorders and naivety. My early 20’s were filled with toxic drug addicted men and manipulation. When I turned 25, I was healing from trauma, met the man of my dreams and now at 29 I’m at university and on track to get my dream job with a healthy and happy two year old son in a lovely house. I don’t take anyone’s shit and I genuinely love who I am. I’m SO excited to see what my 30’s have in store, hopefully another baby, some animals and more exci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:45 AM |
| 118 | Porn use literally damages your dopamine reward systemSo basically porn sick men have ruined the part of their brain that controls impulses, will power and morality?! I am SO shocked 🙃 At least they can fap themselves out of the gene pool 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:39 PM |
| 9 | Where is the lie?Me: they were probably faking it like I did up until I had enough and told you just now Them: how DARE you! REEEEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:21 AM |
| 157 | I love it when the trash takes itself outLmao I used to strip when I was 18 (regrettably) and I’m 5’8 so like 6’2 with stripper heels and all the women were AT LEAST 5’8+ wearing heels. It was so embarrassing watching midget men waddle around these tall goddesses trying to get attention but like “it’s dark in the club, I’m sorry I almost stepped on you but bloody MOVE out of my way” These men think they’re in control and feel powerful in strip clubs when in reality strippers see men as dollar signs, that is IF we can even see you short… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:58 AM |
| 64 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menLove your approach, I have a two year old son and I’m always wondering when is the right age to start talking about this. I’m sure he will know what porn is by the time he is 8 (which makes me sick). Do you have any age appropriate resources on how to talk to your sons about sex and porn? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:48 AM |
| 61 | Shades of LVMs; They're not always black or whiteI’m sure he never “forgets” his wallet when he goes to work, or grocery shopping or out with his guy friends. The last time I forgot my wallet was when I was...oh wait I never have because I LIKE buying things and don’t rely on other people to pay for me (besides my fiancée who even gave me his second debit card to use how I please). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:43 AM |
| 195 | He asked to borrow moneyThat’s REALLY weird and unprofessional. Are you able to get a refund? I would always go with a female trainer. I find male personal trainers to be some of the biggest LVM’s around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:25 AM |
| 186 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.That’s a lot of words for saying “I need intensive therapy”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 10:48 AM |
| 81 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 10:41 AM |
| 7 | Tell us about what it's like to be a woman in your countryI live in the inner city of Sydney and I feel comfortable walking around during the day for the most part, not so much at night time though. I agree with everything you said and just want to also express that most of the women in Australia are libfems and enable men to be openly misogynistic. If you ever speak up, you’re labelled as a prude and closed minded ironically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:51 AM |
| 5 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.HV Men really love women who stand up for what’s right and are truly confident in who they are. LV men love women who let them exploit other women on the side and don’t make them feel guilty. I know which one I would rather be with... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:27 AM |
| 15 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.That was, the most horrifying thing I have ever read. FUCK men who pay for sex. This is what porn does to men, makes them think REAL women are BEGGING for their old, fat, disgusting cock when in reality they would rather be anywhere else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:25 AM |
| 79 | Another scrote exploiting a teenager.It’s not normal, because for most people, the thought of being seen by ANYONE- children, old granny’s, police ect is a turn off. Normal people have the ability to think logically about sex. Porn sick people have fried the logical part of their brain and think no one will see them, no bugs will bite their ass and they won’t be uncomfortable out in the sun and wished they just had sex in the comfort and privacy of their own bed like a NORMAL person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:33 PM |
| 232 | Another scrote exploiting a teenager.Hurting HIS feelings by telling him you don’t want to be treated like a sex object that doesn’t have boundaries or emotions? Girl, he couldn’t care less about your feelings. He’s also heavily addicted to porn by bringing up those specific suggestions. Anal, sex outdoors and threesomes are not normal. I hope she asks him if her hottest male friend can join the threesome or if he’s excited to get pegged and see how he reacts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:08 PM |
| 165 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.Can I date your brother lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:29 PM |
| 116 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.Block and delete 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 14 | HVMskitty dating strategy where we discuss HVKs/LVK’s and meowmishas 🙀😽😸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:43 AM |
| 13 | A FAFF reminder for you all todayOh my god 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 21 | A FAFF reminder for you all todayThe second photo 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:53 AM |
| 45 | The Manic Pixie Dream Girl, the Bechdel Test, and other LV Hollywood tropes500 says of summer 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:27 AM |
| 7 | men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it.Imagine if she turned around and said “oh thats so funny because I actually prefer men who are 6’3, super muscly and hung like a horse” and just watched him freak out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 133 | “What do you bring to the table” is actually a modern question. Don’t fall for it.I am the table | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:42 PM |
| 183 | Queen mindset 👸Picture this. You’re having your 1097th argument with your unemployed, narcissistic and ugly scrote bf. You’re trying to cOmMuNiCaTe with him that watching porn while you’re asleep next to him makes you feel really weird and want him to stop. He says “you’re the only girl that’s ever had a problem with it, you’re too much for me”. She hops on reddit and asks if she’s the asshole for being upset, some incels in the comments are attacking a woman who mentioned that she check out FDS, she does and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:36 PM |
| 229 | Just for laughs ladies.Finally! some GOOD advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:39 PM |
| 44 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?Get my license and learn to drive Continue doing well in my degree Establish a work out routine from home Continue skincare regime Learn to sew and play the piano Invest in learning about clothes that perfectly fit my body type and have fun with fashion Focus on gentle parenting and Montessori learning with my 2 year old. Get married to my HVM fiancé 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | What's with youtubers and their hate boner for women? And as women, why do many of us seem to brush it off?H3 has a total Madonna whore complex. He loves his wife (who is lovely but dresses in t-shirts most of the time) but loves bashing women who show off their bodies who you KNOW he probably wants to fuck. He’s pro porn too so...LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:17 AM |
| 130 | Dear Scrotes: cope and SEETHE. 😎✨We make ourselves and our environment beautiful. We love pretty things! Why would we expect any less from men? GIVE ME ALL THE PRETTY BOYS 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:49 AM |
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