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| 4 | Protip: Be careful of the photos you post on social media as a HVW.Sis, you sound like an absolute loser prostitute judging by your posting history. Being sexually attractive to men is literally the easiest thing anyone can do in their lives. Sure you’ll get the attention of men by posting shit like that, but good luck having any good man of high value stick around. I’m also much older than you with a solid career who’s speaking from a place of experience. Enjoy your life doing steroids and eating at cheesecake factory lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/22 12:55 PM |
| 9 | Make Photographers Are Usually PervertsGuys with Cameras or GWC’s. Do y’all remember Model Mayhem and the plethora of this kind of man on there? I’ve heard countless stories from friends who’ve gotten raped by these men, who lure them into secluded places like the woods to take provocative photos for FREE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 12:46 AM |
| 253 | I’m so glad more women are taking back the cool aunt title!I won’t be an aunt, I don’t have siblings. My friends are also CF. My lineage dies with me, but at least I have my parrots and 40 cats in my future 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Saturday Motivationdon’t link directly to tiktok. I saw your picture and name clearly even without an account. Please repost as a screen recording. This is for your safety. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 03:24 PM |
| 18 | Men with social media harems.This is SO true. I wish I could upvote this a million times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:17 AM |
| 122 | Can we stop calling them fuck boys and move forward to the simple and subhuman title of skank?“Skank” is usually associated with women, though. Let’s call them scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 10:55 PM |
| 51 | It’s not “playing games” to maintain our own boundariesYes, you can ignore it when the topic comes up especially if it’s three dates in. Are you kidding me? I’m not sure what kind of relationship you’re expecting, but men are nefarious and they don’t think you’re having an innocent conversation. It’s good to be confident about your sexuality, but three dates in is way, way too soon to be entertaining those discussions. But you do you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 106 | It’s not “playing games” to maintain our own boundariesYou’re already talking about your preferences in bed on the third date sis? That’s where you screwed up. Even discussing sex will make a man think you’re down to fuck. The three date rule is a thing for them, if you don’t put out by the third date they claim you’re “playing games” and “not worth it” to them. You played with fire and you’re surprised you got burned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this? Her take is normalizing casual relationshipsDo not link directly to Tiktok. I can see your face and name clearly. Screen record this and repost it, it’s for your safety girl the men that lurk are unhinged. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 45 | Self sabotage.❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 347 | Access to HVW is a privilege. Cut off contact the second it does not serve you - you do not have to tolerate anything subpar for even a second.Once women stop centering their life around men, they get rid of a scarcity mindset. I think the main issue for many women is feeling like they can't do better. That they have to tolerate poor treatment. That they need to allow men access to their bodies, emotions, and time just because a man gave her the time of day. Dick is abundant and of low value. If you don't believe me, ask yourself who the biggest consumer of porn is? Who is the biggest consumer of prostitutes are? Who the most desperate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | We need more young ladies who carry this energy!Removed. Do not link directly to Tiktok. Take a screen share of the video. Your name was showing. This is for your safety. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 09:25 PM |
| 103 | if you are using OLD here's some tips from my experiencesOLD is trash. It attracts the lowest value of men. You can literally be doing all these things to a T and following OPSEC and still get stalked/your photos used/whatever. If you must, do not use your real name on OLD at all costs. Especially if your name is unique in any way. I’ve had stalkers before when I didn’t even use my real name. I used the first two characters of my name and mentioned the industry I work in and that was enough to have a man find my full name/place of work/Linkedin etc. O… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 11:58 AM |
| 276 | Gross how pornsick men can infiltrate non sexual parts of the internet (my yoga video disaster)It’s almost like women can never have a presence on the internet where they show what they look like. If it’s on the internet, it can be used for whatever reason. We aren’t even safe from other women. If you read my post the other day, you’ll know why. I’m really sorry OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 02:41 PM |
| 54 | losing friends ever since accepting FDS valuesYou are who you surround yourself with. Losing a friend like that is not a total loss since they clearly didn’t respect themselves. Some women will always pick men over you. That’s just the way it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Just another NLOG. Nothing to see here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 07:35 PM |
| 18 | Another reason why you shouldn’t use dating apps: your photos can be used without your consent.By pure chance. It was posted to a very popular subreddit that I frequent. This person assumed I didn’t have reddit nor had knowledge of this subreddit. That is why you can never assume. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 03:05 PM |
| 76 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseMen expect sex in exchange for taking you out on one date. All of them. Him balking at the idea of a $70 dinner shows you how low value he is. He’s expecting a free prostitute. Women don’t owe men shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 05:04 PM |
| 12 | 63 year old scrote with 38 year old woman expecting a 7th child together 🤢🤢. Good luck sis!Are you really defending this couple? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 6 | 63 year old scrote with 38 year old woman expecting a 7th child together 🤢🤢. Good luck sis!But she’s not, she uses surrogates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:57 AM |
| 299 | Genuine question: how can a woman maintain the hope that there really are good men out there?FDS wouldnt exist if there wasn't a small percentage of high value people out there we are trying to look for. There is a tiny tiny fraction of high value men worthy of our time. Our attitudes on situations or people are based on our collective experiences. If a majority of your interactions with men were bad, that's most likely the view you'll have towards them. Personally, that's why I have such a negative view towards men. 99% of the men I've encountered are cheaters, abusers, narcs, believe … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 11:52 AM |
| -1 | TL;DR: her 'hack' is buying Tinder Gold to change your location and minimising small talk by, I assume, inviting men on a date.Let’s be honest here. Her face is not attractive, and many people would agree. She has a great body though, and that’s why she’s constantly trying to show it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 11:44 AM |
| 404 | If he wanted to, he wouldLawd I pray for you to bless me with a man like that someday 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 10:01 PM |
| 227 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himYou've wrote about this specific man quite frequently in the past. And quite frequently, he's been exhibiting low value behaviour. I'm not sure why you come to FDS to ask for advice, and then not take the advice people kindly provide you to heart? 7 months is not a long time in the grand scheme of things. You and him are wildly incompatible. You sound smart and career oriented, so you should know to dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:02 PM |
| 39 | TL;DR: her 'hack' is buying Tinder Gold to change your location and minimising small talk by, I assume, inviting men on a date.Big difference between “dating” and being a sexual object to use in NYC. The lingerie pics, suggestive poses. God damn sis! You really broke the system!! I wish 15 pornsick men would “date” me, I MUST be doing something wrong!!! Edit: also 15 men in 21 days 🤢🤢🤢 it’s tinder so you know she slept with 15 men. In 21 days. You go girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:08 PM |
| 108 | Jesus Christ, is she in the Pick-Me Olympics? Did not see 1 tiktok encouraging men 2 give their woman oral sex. Her feed is just pandering to male pleasure constantly. Women get enough pressure from porn fried society to give head. It’s men who need a reminder to eat a woman out and make her orgasm.This is why I don’t trust men who use Tiktok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:02 AM |
| 7 | What if you want to hook up/have casual sex?A vibrator guarantees you an orgasm with no headache, mind games, potential STD/pregnancy scares. Hook up culture does not benefit women. Even if you are physically attracted to a man and act on that, he will talk shit about you. Men simply do not respect women who hook up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:43 AM |
| 163 | Why “safewording” is not as safe as the kink community paints it to be. 💔 ‘consent’ here really doesn’t mean much when it comes to trying to claim it isn’t abuse. There’s an unhealthy power dynamic where the ‘sub’ feels like they cannot deny their ‘dom’ of pleasure through being put through torture.There’s a strong correlation between men who are high value and are anti-kink. How do I know? The most apparent LV men I’ve encountered were very much into kink. Viewing women as mere orifices to act out their pornsick fantasies on. A HVM would never dream of hurting me. Vanilla sex is synonymous with a man who respects me and puts effort into making me cum. Vanilla shame me all you want, but I’d rather be with a man who’s vanilla. And I’m saying this as someone who, embarrassingly, dabbled in t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:49 AM |
| 72 | Ughhhh this excuse making ridiculousness. Sometimes it *is* that simple.Lmao “life coach”. You lost all your credibility there sis Life coach translates to unemployed loser who instagrams their macchiatos and minimalist jewelry aesthetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 10 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!The amount of men that don’t do this is literally less than 5%. Men are depraved. They’re all sex addicted losers who cheat on their partners whenever they have a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 07:44 PM |
| 126 | RE: OnlyFans - an unsustainable model in and of itselfThis is an excellent perspective, and one that many "content creators" forget to think about. They also forget to think about the long term consequences of their actions. They think that the money will keep rolling in. They think that men will continue to desire them when the reality is, since men view women as commodities, our looks are depreciating assets. A lot of these women will tie themselves in financial commitments that aren't sustainable. The luxury apartments, the luxury cars, designer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:40 PM |
| 34 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)As a WoC, I can also attest to this. A majority of my friends, 98%, are WoC as well. They aren’t necessarily from my culture or country, but they have similar lived experiences as I do and have a different lens to viewing situations and life in general. I am extremely friendly to everyone. I’m a firm believer in treating people with kindness and respect. You are so right, the only people I’ve experienced snarky remarks or rude treatment (backstabbing etc.) was from Caucasian men AND women. They … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 11:54 AM |
| 12 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.Define “traditionally feminine”. I have to admit, I wore very skimpy clothing. I think there is an obvious difference between a woman in a sundress and a woman in a latex mini skirt with her boobs busting out of a low cut top. One example is classically feminine, the other one is classically objectification. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:23 AM |
| 133 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.Being a "bimbo" is another performative act for the pleasure of men. As someone who dabbled in the bimbofication culture and deliberately dumbed down my intelligence to appeal to low value, pornsick men, I can tell you that its not empowering or a form of "feminism". My stint with bimbofication led me to losers, abusers, and men who simply do not give a fuck about women at all. Men WANT to see women humilliate themselves. Men WANT to see women lack ambition and drive. Men WANT to see women with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 88 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.Because these men truly believe all women have to offer is their looks, fake tits, ridiculous makeup. They hate us. It’s almost as bad as cultural appropriation or blackface. These men truly believe that’s what being a woman entails. Why do you think many transwomen enter sex work? They think it’s the easy way out “as a woman”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 87 | Opinion | Consent is not enough. We need a new sexual ethic.I’m poor plz post the article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 04:24 PM |
| 287 | No comment.“Normal healthy men”. “Normal men” would fuck a child if it wasn’t illegal to do so. Hell, they still fuck children regardless. Proof that “normal men” are depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 05:50 PM |
| 24 | Nah sis.Yep same, sis. Although I don’t want to debate about religion, it is in fact a religion that strives for advancing the patriarchy and making men seem like the “prize”. Encourages men to have a harem too, but women can’t have more than one partner. NO THANKS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:35 PM |
| 51 | stripping / OF aren't actually "empowering" no one genuinely wants to do themMost of the hidden comments are from women who have come to FDS accusing us of being jealous of the fact they engage in prostitution and how successful they are. Listen, we aren’t jealous. I don’t give a fuck if you paid off your college debt. I don’t give a fuck if you paid off your home. I don’t give a fuck you’re doing your “masters.” I don’t give a fuck if you give money to your family back home. The thing with the internet and OF, is it’s there forever. Have fun wasting your time getting a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 531 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?Most marriages are a complete waste of time. As women, we see marriage as honour, devotion, and fidelity to our partners. Men see marriage as a status symbol, a tool to get more women attracted to him, and a live in caretaker. I have my doubts I will ever get married. I’m happy dying alone with my parrots and boxed wine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 85 | It’s women’s day tomorrow. How are you planning to celebrate it?Isn’t women’s day the day instagram models post pictures up close of their assholes and write some caption novella about “empowerment”? I don’t miss instagram at all. Women’s day is everyday. Let’s stop masquerading and falling to the notion that there’s only day where women should be celebrated. We are the bringers of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 01:11 AM |
| 74 | Howl at the scrotesShe’s brave but I wouldn’t recommend doing this. What if those men were armed and dangerous and had a temper? Most LVM react dramatically to being confronted for their actions. Her reaction is exactly what they were vying for. It’s best to just ignore the catcalls and move on with your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 110 | What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them?💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 08:01 PM |
| 80 | Which famous, historical, or fictional women would you describe as HV?Audrey Hepburn. Not only was she a charismatic, beautiful, classy and elegant woman, she was also an amazing humanitarian and activist. I love her very much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 210 | This is just another incredibly powerful reason why female only spaces are critical and why I love FDSThat guy to the right with the baseball cap on has such a look of disinterest and disrespect to the entire topic. Part of me thinks he was probably a perpetrator in the past, which is why he’s ignorant about the topic and slouching over in his chair not giving a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 07:12 PM |
| 53 | Kind of mad I wasn't born 2-3 generations later so I can experience "enlightened" menIf you think a porn addicted, 50-50, broke ass, video game obsessed, low achieving, uneducated losers for a majority of the male population is our society on the way to “being better”, you’re in for a real treat sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | I’m a work pick-mePlease post this on r/Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 19 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveAll the male “feminists” I’ve had the pleasure of encountering were all for BDSM and polyamorous relationships. It’s just another schtick to get in bed with impressionable, vulnerable women. Sex by deception or coercion in my mind, is rape. It is assault because you did not consent to it. Edit: Omg this Lance Sosi guy is hideous. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 48 | HVM and HVW in pop culture?Ironic that most “healthy” relationship dynamics portrayed on TV are from homosexual relationships and heteronormative relationships between men. Just shows you how much men really hate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:54 PM |
| 61 | 'Mums Unite To Make Porn They Are Happy For Kids To Watch' | This is just soooo embarrassingI’m not surprised this is being pushed by a group of unattractive women who most likely think their only value to society is sexual. This is disgusting. ALL porn is bad! It doesn’t matter if it’s fucked up BDSM porn or softcore porn. It still conditions the mind to constantly try and seek out greener pastures, so to speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:19 PM |
| 176 | On Pornhub blocking russian users. A strategic move and some history lessons.Virtue signalling from a website that constantly has CP posted on it and tapings of r*pe and exploitation of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:43 PM |
| 215 | Men on Reddit be like:The fox is way too in shape to represent any man who frequents Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 06:51 PM |
| 147 | Two OLD apps have coffee dates as part of their ad... admitting they're trash. Made me laugh.Also why tf is the woman suggesting a coffee date? This is some weird fantasy porn scenario. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:39 PM |
| 89 | Two OLD apps have coffee dates as part of their ad... admitting they're trash. Made me laugh.No you aren’t gay. I was about to comment that too. But unfortunately these are the “attractive chads” you see on dating apps that neckbeards like to caw about 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:25 PM |
| 13 | Red pilled Twitter caught encouraging men not to wear condoms and thinks STIs are part of a government conspiracy to keep birth rates down🤡I wish sexuality was a choice. Men are a disease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 34 | My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym todayI live in a region that has a hard on for bilingualism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 09:50 PM |
| 355 | My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym todayThat’s the way it should be. I understand mistakes happen, and it was nice of your teacher to acknowledge that. In this situation though, he didn’t apologize for his comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 151 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.2.2k upvotes from men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:07 PM |
| 19 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.She’s also suggesting that we should let our guards down when it comes to vetting because Thailand is frequented and a “playground for the rich”. Sis we aren’t desperate for money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:19 PM |
| 21 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.Girl stfu your whole “luxury” and “rich” schtick is getting tired. Your entire post history revolves around it. No, Thailand is not a “playground for the rich”. It’s a playground for loser, desperate men who throw coins at thai women who graciously accept because they would do anything to get out of their financial situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:06 PM |
| 152 | Signs You've Been F*ckzonedHandbook worthy post sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 08:03 PM |
| 135 | Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? | the guardian articleDating apps are a meat market for cheap, LVM to get free, easy sex. “Free and easy” through manipulation and coercion. Do you think 90% of men on apps have the courage to approach a beautiful woman? Fuck no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 07:50 PM |
| -1 | What Scrotes Get Wrong About MarriageWhy are we taking advice from someone who isn’t biologically a woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 145 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?“That feeling” or “gut feeling” has been right 100% of the time when I had my suspicions about my partner either emotionally or physically cheating. I could not get comfortable with them from the jump. I didn’t feel like I could trust them. This is even before all the signs you’ve listed, which are important to look out for. The main takeaway is personally, I know a man is a cheater and swiftly exit the situation as soon as I have the off feeling. The most loyal men I’ve been with never gave me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 08:24 PM |
| 12 | Traits of a man with BDE (big dick energy).> HVM .> Engages in risky promiscuous sex with more than one person. Pick one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 26 | The occupation of men on OLDIt's mainly blue collar men with HS diplomas on OLD here. I'm not saying that blue collared men with HS diplomas aren't intelligent, but I prefer to date people who are as educated as me, if not higher. It's jarring that I have entirely different world views and interests than these men on OLD /s. They're not able to hold a thoughtful, pragmatic conversation. The doctors/lawyers/businessmen are always looking for the opportunity to harem build. Online dating is just another meat market for them.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 50 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”She still does sell porn so I don’t respect the message she’s trying to send. She regrets doing porn, sure. Where’s the proof she regrets it? She still sells porn as an “independent content creator” on Onlyfans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:39 PM |
| 55 | Valentine’s Day is on the same day every year. He has no excuse to be “busy.” Expect more! Expect better!The scrote is so broke in the picture he can’t even provide VHS from blockbuster from 1993 to please his lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:38 PM |
| 89 | Imagine being so mentally weak that your entire mood depends on over-identifying with men who throw a ball around.Rams won, cool I guess. What a shocker. /s Man superbowl is the optimal opportunity to vet for low value behaviour. Watching how drunk and belligerent men get is eye opening and hilarious at the same time. Watching how open they are about ignoring their gfs and putting them down in front of other men in favour of looking “cool” in front of his football watching bros is a thing too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:03 AM |
| 221 | If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.Statistically, Valentine's day may be the day where the most scrotes get blocked by HV women. Enjoy Feb 14th ridding yourself of negative energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 08:48 PM |
| 83 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Haha yeah I wrote about this! It's not a weird coincidence that men break up with women right before the hoildays... Pure comedic timing for clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 57 | Valentine’s Day Gifts if you’re in a relationship ?I think how much effort he puts into valentine's day is related to what he does for you for the holidays. If a man is celebratory for Christmas and goes all out and buys you something thoughtful and nice, the likelihood of him taking you out on a nice date and getting you a gift is high. I expect an amazing date and a thoughtful gift, which thankfully, the man I've been vetting for half a year has done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 03:06 PM |
| 40 | Just relax and let HIM worry about the date.THE SPERM DOES NOT SWIM TO THE EGG! A man with HV traits will actively try and impress you by planning dates and constantly portraying respectful behavior, The most respectable men I've dated did all the legwork when it came to planning dates and wanting to always impress me, even months into the relationship. But don't get it twisted though. Some men are excellent at planning dates to make you think that he's high value, but he has other ideas when it comes to what he wants out of you and your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:15 PM |
| 96 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereI’m happy I’m wasting his time. He thinks I’m seriously interested in his proposition. I can do a background search on him, that’s easy. People shouldn’t do this often because sometimes it backfires and the other person gets jilted enough to doxx you back. I don’t recommend doing it but if you want, do it from an account that’s linked to nothing. No emails, no posts, no karma. Nothing. Make it a very obvious throwaway account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 200 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereOk in a span of 10 minutes I managed to get his real number, real name, and the kind of porn he wants to make. These men don’t understand what OPSEC is 💀. edit: The porn he wants to make is boss/employee which is why he’s specifically targeting younger women. Talk about predatory power dynamics all around. And no, I did not use this account. 2nd edit: Also how is this concept “unique?” Over 2839383 million hits come up for boss employee porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 08:11 PM |
| 48 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincere😈😈😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 07:54 PM |
| 129 | In Australia one step back. This timeline is need fudged…Australia is full of libfems and LVM. This isn’t a shock to me. And for those who aren’t libfems from Australia, congratulations, you’re an anomaly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:22 PM |
| 100 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereCan you pm me the original post? 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:16 PM |
| 98 | normalizing rough sex & kinkI haven’t met a HV man in my life who was into BDSM. Do with that information what you will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 04:52 PM |
| 69 | When is the last time you had 5 star sex ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐?Very very few exist! It took me ages to find him. But it’s no coincidence he is thoughtful and considerate in other areas, too. Every time he sees me, he brings me either a plant or a beautiful bouquet. He brings me groceries. He brings me thoughtful gifts he knows I would enjoy. A man who who’s attentive and loving in bed will extend his behaviour to other areas of the relationship. There’s no BDSM shit or performative stuff in our relationship. He worships me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 170 | You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross”I can’t stand weddingbee. It’s a bunch of lonely girl boss type women who talk about “their hubbies” and basically a dick waving contest. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:53 PM |
| 90 | When is the last time you had 5 star sex ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐?This Monday. Honestly it feels so surreal being with someone who actually knows how to please me properly. Who puts my sexual needs above his. Sorry this might be TMI but it really sets him apart from anyone else I’ve ever been with. Once you have that kind of chemistry, it’s hard to 1 up it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:47 PM |
| – | Trafficking disguised as dating or job offersI am stickying this because everyone needs to read how important it is to stay vigilant. Especially since restrictions are being lifted in many places, and we are more exposed than ever to predators. Safety tips are important to discuss on FDS. Just today, I was approached by a sex trafficker at the gym out of all places. Like Platipus said, they lure you in with anything. It may sound harmless, but it’s disguised as something sinister. In my case, he was offering me a vague “modelling job” for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 22 | Promise rings are a fucking joke.I beg to differ, there’s everything wrong with a promise ring. If he truly loved you and wanted to be with you, he would propose with an engagement ring sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:52 PM |
| 52 | Promise rings are a fucking joke.That’s a purity ring, something entirely different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:16 PM |
| – | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄I do applaud them for coming for a few of my posts specifically. Hope you get picked, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 08:12 PM |
| 17 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄Why are we giving them clicks? They are literally making money off us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Why are women hated so much by men?Pm’d you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 13 | Why are women hated so much by men?u/purasangria Yes good idea. I will reach out to the poster of that comment to see if they’ll be able to draft a post about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 11 | Why are women hated so much by men?Did you want me to add this to the handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:35 PM |
| 21 | Super Bowl SundayI respectfully disagree. I have my v-day celebrations planned for the Saturday, as I don’t like to drink or stay up too late before a work day (if we’re celebrating on the Sunday instead). I’ll let him do the super bowl thing, but he knows to shower me with attention and positive affirmations the entire week. I do think they’ll be a plethora of men who ditch their partners if they celebrate on the Monday though, on accounts of being “too drunk” on Sunday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:26 AM |
| 128 | Men who try and escalate things too quicklyI’ve been with player narcissist men who were happy parading me around town to fancy restaurants. I was just one of the many women they were sleeping with. Some men simply don’t give a fuck, and actually love looking like playboys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 05:12 PM |
| 276 | If he doesn’t lovingly and passionately kiss you during sex, he does NOT love you.Yes. Also watch out for men who only want to have sex in certain positions. I am guilty of this, but in my past way before FDS if I didn’t have any emotional feelings for a man and just wanted to use him as a human dildo, I would get him to fuck me doggy style. No eye contact is a sign of a man who just views women as a human flesh light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 01:01 PM |
| 112 | Conman pretended to be a rich guy to scam women he met on OLD. Nope, just nope.Come for me for this comment I’m about to make, I don’t give a fuck. As much as I feel sympathy for these women for falling for this shitbags lies, I can’t help but think that they are partially to blame for believing him. First, billionaires of that calibre don’t need dating apps, they usually have other means of meeting people. Second, no wealthy man is going to ask to borrow money off you. I can’t help but feel that his victims were mesmerized by the fake lifestyle he could provide them. From… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:03 PM |
| 504 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?Yes, no, and because he threatened to end his life and I fell for his lies. Never take someone back. They never change. If they cared so much about you, they wouldn’t have treated you poorly in the first place to make you break up with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 308 | Warning ⚠️ Some red-pill guys have started adopting FDS lingoHigh value male is a term used way before FDS existed. It’s red pill rhetoric. Yes, these men are aware FDS exist and lurk actively, but wouldn’t dare admit it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 315 | A forever girlfriend I metI’m ready for part two about the guy you mentioned at the end 👀☕️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 5 | When they come back please tell them to go straight to hell, do not pass go, do not collect $200!!You should have blocked and deleted as soon as he messaged you sis. He wanted you to engage with him. He wanted to see you were bothered. He won. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 01:50 AM |
| 173 | Pretend you can't cookI did this all the time. Some asshole asked me to cut an onion for him, and I pretended to not know how to do it. Instead of helping me, he scoffed and decided to text his friends in a group chat telling them how much of an idiot I was. I know how to cook and cook extremely well. That was a beautiful strategy on testing a man’s patience and if he’s willing to be empathetic and teach others how to do things. No surprise that this man was a raging narcissist who was a closet bisexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:01 PM |
| 240 | Did you saw the news that british universities make coursers/workshops for students working in adult industries? link in commentsImagine encouraging your own student body to engage in sex work. Imagine knowing that the university tuition is being paid by coddling women and applauding an industry that continuously puts women in a cycle of misogyny and economic despair. 🤡 The UK is clowning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 15 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮don’t do this!!! Have some self respect. No thank you.I have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 27 | Where is your kids dad? Not 1 mention of him. Be careful who you procreate with.I agree with you, but there’s other outlets to highlight this problem and LinkedIn isn’t the appropriate channel to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 107 | Where is your kids dad? Not 1 mention of him. Be careful who you procreate with.Is it just me or does anyone else find people who desperately try to look for attention on LinkedIn appalling? I do feel bad for what she’s going through, but it’s a desperate cry for help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 94 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!As a feminist, we don’t claim her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 102 | Harbouring resentment in future relationshipsThank you! You’re so right, that’s why I used “the wall” in quotations. I’m looking forward to my 30s and beyond. I’m extremely happy to hear that you have a wonderful relationship, too. I know the next few decades will be the best yet :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 463 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsSo he actively swiped on “large” women he’s not attracted to, then complains when they match? Make it make sense. Just goes to show you men will swipe blindly and take whatever the fuck they can get. They’re pussy vultures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 19 | Ladies please don’t do this. You deserve your dream ring!You could be like me and stay with a loser for 7 years who basically faked a proposal and engagement 🤡🤡👽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 07:07 PM |
| 104 | West Elm Caleb: Women Warn Each Other about LVM on TikTok, Patriarchy Immediately Freaks OutEveryone who got into an entanglement with Caleb NEED FDS. They clearly didn’t look for the red flags like love bombing and texting excessively in the beginning. They fell for it unfortunately. Also not surprised this happened in NYC. NYC is teeming with LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 10:16 PM |
| 115 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateHonestly sis, I haven’t heard of any HV man attending a speed dating event. They think because it’s “speed dating”, they can skip the courting process and put as little effort into getting to know someone as possible while reaping the benefits of a relationship. All the women that I know that have attended these events are beautiful, educated, and talented. They have the same sentiments about the men that attend these events, they’re low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:27 PM |
| 220 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateAlso, a beach date where the expectation is to wear a bikini or revealing clothes as a first date is sus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:19 PM |
| 406 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateHe’s looking for someone to play mommy to his daughter. RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:02 PM |
| 96 | DAE have a visceral negative reaction to Hinge’s social media ads? Who are these meant to market to? It can’t be women.This is great adveritsing, it's telling me to AVOID Hinge like the plague! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 60 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍I love this story sis! May you have a lifetime of happiness and I dream of having a proposal as beautiful as yours one day ❤️. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 494 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleYou said he was nice in the second sentence of your story. Nobody is nicer than a man who's trying to fuck you for the first time! OLD is equivalent to dumpster diving. 99.9% of the time you won't find anything other than trash, but 0.01% you might something. Not worth wasting your time sis on it, so good for you for deleting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 01:45 AM |
| 4 | Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating appThis is huge, next him. With the current man I’m seeing, just to verify that he’s actually 6’2”, I measured him. Call me crazy, but if a man can lie about something menial like height, best believe he’ll lie about other things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:22 AM |
| 2 | How long should I see this guy to know he's the oneOP, you're assuming that someone is HV because they have the money to take you out to an expensive restaurant. It's laughable. Please re-read the handbook. This entire situation is going to be awful for you. At 29, you should know better but everyone is different I guess. You're assuming this guy is "HV" without knowing him well just because you dated a loser before him. Dump his ass and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 57 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”Holy shit I wish I could unsee that…please give me eye bleach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:30 PM |
| 357 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”Lmao gross, she had sex with a man that old AND managed to get impregnated. No amount of money in the world is worth that nightmare 🤮 congrats sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:22 PM |
| 36 | Vetting Strategy: Ask a man how he feels about his sexual health.Oh absolutely. I agree with you. I didn’t say a serious relationship though, I said a monogamous one. But yes, any inkling of doubt warrants an exit from me but that doesn’t mean I won’t get tested just to be 100% sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:22 PM |
| 74 | Saw this on a popular subreddit and it grosses me out that chivalry is dead and they are promoting women engage in masculine behaviors. Don't we earn less anyway?Hope you get picked sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:58 PM |
| 25 | Hearing about scrotes everywhere I goBut sis, they are as greasy as oil spills and walking biohazards so using dish soap DOES make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:56 PM |
| 17 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasure☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 234 | R*pe by deception is seen as normal by men in the comments.Why would you need to pay for literally the most easy to access thing on the planet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 648 | How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into youThis is a LOADED question, and it's really really easy to get the two confused. From anectodal experience here's the difference between love bombers and a man actually being into me. Love bombers: Are a little TOO rehearsed. Pulls out my chair, pour drinks for me, talks about all their successes etc. etc. without giving me an opportunity to talk about myself. Calls me pet names or general nicknames that can be used for everyone "Babe", "Honey", "Baby" within days of beginning to talk to me. This… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 85 | LVM / Dating down never worksYep, never date down! These men think just because they scored someone who would otherwise never give them the time of day, that she has low self esteem and worth and that it's ok for him to cross her boundaries and be generally disrespectful. These men are always intimidated by the women and project their own insecurities onto the relationship and behave in a way that makes them terrible partners. As a previous poster on here has said, we are not NGOS of pussy to low value scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:49 PM |
| 16 | Red Flag: Men with feminine voices.Good to hear your experiences! This post is mainly for our male lurker friends who expect us to sound as ridiculous as them and completely factious. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:28 PM |
| 5 | University Presidents/Administrators know that young girls are selling their bodies to pay tuition, yet they choose to do nothing about it.Sorry, what? There’s also countless women who take out loans and work jobs that don’t involve sex work to pay off their tuition. It’s not the majority that does that. Saying that these women have no excuse other than to prostitute themselves is ridiculous and exactly what the libfem movement pushes for. Unfortunately many jobs require this “expensive piece of paper.” Saying that the school system knows about women selling themselves to pay off tuition is a complete waste of time. It happens rega… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 230 | It is SO easy for women to access sexTo answer your question, if you post a link from tik tok your username will show and you can get doxxed. Please just screen record the video and upload it instead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:43 AM |
| 323 | Be careful ladies and especially young women100%. I was groomed and tricked into having sex with a 39 year old man at age 19 who claimed he was 29. He had me fooled and literally told me his age after he rolled over in bed. I lost my shit and left immediately. He tried to call me non stop and beg for my forgiveness asking for another chance and how “I’m so mature for my age” and that I wouldn’t have given him a chance or slept with him if I knew his real age. He’s right, I wouldn’t have given up my body to a man 20 years older than me. I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 41 | Attractive FDSers - Are Low Value Couples Hostile Towards You?Yes. It’s called jealousy and insecurity from other people. Pretty privilege is a thing but there’s a negative side to it, whether we like it or not. People who aren’t secure in themselves love to talk negatively about others who they don’t even know. The more attractive/put together you look, the more of a threat you are to people who are teeming with insecurities. They want what you possess, but are so caught up in their heads and worrying about other’s business that they can’t achieve it them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 04:46 PM |
| 15 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesWow that’s a whole lot of words on his part for a man who just wants to give you a disappointing 2 minutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 07:40 PM |
| 215 | Early warning signs to spot "avoidants" and... avoid them?You’re so right about the hot and cold behaviour, and this is quote apparent in texting conversations with these kinds of men. I feel like there’s a lot of cross over with narcissistic tendencies and avoidants. They’ll love bomb you and chase you in the beginning, and then pull away and start with the hot and cold behaviour. They’ll be unresponsive to your texts but weeks later, they’ll pop out of nowhere and text you like nothing ever happened. Avoidants have a hard time maintaining friendships… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:00 PM |
| 365 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsHonestly asking a man you’re vetting what he thinks about sex work is an amazing strategy. Most men will proclaim that sex work is empowering and women are getting their bag. Some men even go as far to say if they were a woman, they would exploit their bodies for money. The most disturbing men I’ve ever had the pleasure of interacting with applauded sex work. The ones who were respectful towards women had a fierce stance against sex work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:45 AM |
| 149 | Be aware of “holiday daters” looking for an entertainment while on vacation.Yeah that’s why when I was still dating, I would avoid going on the apps around the holidays for this very reason. Bonus points if the dude changes his location to your city when he’s not in your city yet 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 04:32 PM |
| 236 | Beware: don't respond to Holiday / New years Texts from New numbersJust put your phone on airplane mode for the holiday season, problem solved. But you’ll miss out on texts/calls from people you truly love as well. All jokes aside, for anyone who’s reading this, just because a scrote texts you “Merry Christmas”, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s thinking about you or cares about you. He’s going through his rolodex and texting every woman he’s been in contact with to look for an “in” so he can manipulate and use you for sex. If he really cared about you, he would co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:22 AM |
| 537 | If you found yourself starting to NAG your man - LEAVE.It’s not “nagging”, it’s him refusing to do it with every ounce of his being. Let’s stop giving men the benefit of the doubt and assume they “forgot” or “they had a long day.” Men are smarter than we give them credit for. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to wash a plate that’s been sitting in the sink for 4 days, or do the laundry that’s been piling up for weeks. Like the other said, don’t remind men. Just replace them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:16 AM |
| 388 | AITA cringe age-gap but the comments are telling her to wake up, dump him, grow upThis isn’t her “boyfriend”, this is her sugar daddy. I’m on the daughters side. This is absolutely disgusting behaviour from her father. I can’t judge the woman dating the geriatric because she was most likely groomed into the situation in some way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:11 PM |
| 369 | Dating Down"Back then I treated my vagina like it was an NGO established to comfort the disadvantaged scrotes of the world." I felt this in my soul. Needs to be an FDS meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:52 PM |
| 31 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.All of them are balding too 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | This Woman's Date Sent Her Home In An Uber — He Was "Too Embarrassed To Be Seen With Me" In The Outfit I Was Wearing... At least she broke up with him immediately!We have different definitions of bravery, but ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 31 | This Woman's Date Sent Her Home In An Uber — He Was "Too Embarrassed To Be Seen With Me" In The Outfit I Was Wearing... At least she broke up with him immediately!This made Buzzfeed? Man they're really hurting for articles. Who the fuck cares, and the fact she probably submitted this for validation or to gain instagram followers is kinda sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 07:28 PM |
| 84 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?“Is it a partner who we orgasm with?” This is exactly what red pill bullshitters caw about to other men. They call women “sluts” and “used goods” for not being honest about their body count and assume we’re looking for ways to avoid the amount of men we’ve had PIV sex with by the orgasm schtick. At least they know they can’t make us cum. Clown world. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 01:49 PM |
| 181 | Woman in Denial About being in an Abusive, "open" Marriage."He takes out the trash" the pickme proudly proclaimed! Sis, he didn't take himself out. This is a portrayal of a very emotionally insecure woman who's completely dependant on the attention from a man to see any value in her life. Her friends are trying to talk some sense into her, but it's not going to get through to her. Being a 'traditional housewife" doesn't mean tolerating your husband cheating on you and abusing you. May sis see the light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 20 | Sex toys- is your body a plaything or a sacred space?Vibrating cock rings were an absolute god send to me. It all depends on the strength of the "vibration" too. I noticed that I didn't get the clitoral stimulation I wanted unless it was one of the more powerful ones around the $50 mark. The ones from the drugstore didn't work for me. It only worked when I was in cowgirl. Missionary didn't work with it, so I can totally see why it only worked for you in a specific way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:57 PM |
| 52 | Sex toys- is your body a plaything or a sacred space?Yeah sure I’ll let my partner use my sex toys! I have a 10 inch black dildo for shits and giggles, we can play with it by sticking it in his ass. No man that truly loved and respected me wanted access to my “toys”. One guy knew that I couldn’t orgasm without clitoral stimulation, so he bought one of those vibrating cock rings to make sure I had a good times. The men who were incredible in bed didn’t need to use any toys. They didn’t need the bells and whistles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 133 | This lady is PickMe Hall of Shame personified 🤡 She "outsourced sex" with her boyfriend to another woman🤡 She said it didn't go as planned 🤡 No shit, SherlockCan you summarize it please? I don’t want to sit through a podcast and listen to people I would rather not give a listen to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 09:12 PM |
| 68 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?My expectations are high, but realistic on the lifestyle my partner has/can afford. I’ve been gifted designer bags/shoes etc. in the past from wealthy men. Buying these things doesn’t hurt their bank account. Would I expect the same from someone who doesn’t make nearly as much? Hell no. Would I still expect them to get me a thoughtful gift? Yes. A gift should be what they can comfortably afford, and also a thoughtful one. If my partner knows I’ve spent $400+ on his gift and he doesn’t return the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 35 | Anyone want some? (FDS sketch by me)Loving the receding hairline on the scrote on the bottle. Great touch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 72 | Common arguments used to defend the sex/porn industry debunkedGet em sis. Waiting for this to be crossposted to our favorite subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:48 PM |
| 38 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?Tell me you pay for sex without telling me you pay for sex. The cope is real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 07:34 PM |
| 151 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?You know what, normally we don’t approve comments from men but you told on yourself and I love it. “Women want only the top 10% of men.” Oh so you’re saying that 90% of men are low value and lack basic human respect and we must accept less than the bare minimum and drop our self respect to be in a relationship with 90% of men? No thanks, I’d rather die alone in that case. I can assure you that there’s lots more than just 10% of men who are HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:04 PM |
| 280 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.It’s the madonna/whore complex. Unfortunately there’s lots of women in society that equate being desirable sexually to being respected. That is, selling their nudes online and having men lust over them is the ultimately form of admiration and flattery. I have no idea what’s so flattering about a morbidly obese man in Uganda masturbating furiously to photos of barely legal women while his wife and kids sleep in the room next door, but you do you sis. Come at me and tell me that I’m a SWERF, idgaf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:08 PM |
| 767 | What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?”No. I don't give a fuck if my boyfriend is eyewateringly rich, I'm not giving up my financial security and career trajectory to live a life of being "pampered". What will happen when I'm no longer the shiny play thing to my partner? What's going to happen when he decides to start cheating on me and isolating me making me entirely reliant on him because he's given me a life of luxury? What's going to happen when he leaves me for a younger woman and I lose everything and any career prospects I had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 08:05 PM |
| 75 | Men on saying they “want children someday”Spot on! Especially not telling them you want kids someday. Usually with men like this in the past, I would tell them I was against kids entirely or on the fence about it. It filtered men out exceptionally quickly that just saw me as a young incubator for them. On the other hand, it made the whole "dangling the possibility of kids someday" carrot in front of me near impossible. The sad part of all of this is some women actually do fall for it and end up having kids with these men in their late 4… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:34 PM |
| 97 | Woman shares her gruesome story of being in the porn industry. But sex work is empowering, right?She's incredibly well spoken and very interesting to listen to. She's one of the rare actresses who's done porn that understand the severity and depravity of the entire industry and encourages people NOT to go down the same path as she did. Thank you for sharing. I truly wish her all the best in her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 18 | Why I used to wear a ring on my “wedding finger” and why I won’t do it again.Let people spend their money how they want to, sis. Some people buy rings for themselves because they want something beautiful to look at for an achievement in their life. Don’t bash people for wanting to spend their money on jewelry if they want to. In my case, I bought a ring because it was a present to myself BUT I wore it incorrectly letting people make the assumption that I was off the market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 01:14 PM |
| 534 | If it’s true it’s sad :(I thought the surprisingly clean bathroom was enough of a giveaway he has a woman who frequents his place, if not lives there. Don’t ask me how I know 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 02:30 PM |
| 275 | No matter what anyone says, sex work has nothing to do with respectThis is a super intriguing post. So you’re saying there’s no hot single mom’s that want to fuck an ugly, pathetic scrote at the drop of a hat in my area? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 02:27 PM |
| 259 | sEx pOsiTivitY 🤡🤮I can’t stand her and the bullshit she advocates for. Considering how popular and how watched her videos are on Youtube though, it’s a sign from the masses that we live in a pickme society that caters to low value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:17 PM |
| 110 | Female Researcher undertakes research on Ayuhuasca with NVM Shaman (while trying to be politically correct and ignoring her instincts) and is later sexually assaulted - Sexual Assault in the AmazonNot trying to downplay the severity of sexual assault, but taking drugs around anyone you don’t know is a bad idea. This news isn’t shocking anymore. Doesn’t matter if it’s with the guy down the street who’s seemingly “nice”. Doesn’t matter if it’s with a “shaman” and you’re doing “research” on drugs. Always do drugs around someone you trust. I’m not promoting the use of drugs but if you must experiment or “research”, do it in a controlled environment with people you trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 11:47 PM |
| 8 | How do you know if he's "the one"?Lmao I just realized I'm signed into my boyfriends Youtube account so he's going to see that on his history. Oops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 65 | How do you know if he's "the one"?Absolutely. I don't believe in some mythical soulmate that's out there desperately looking for you. You respect someone, you love them, and you try to make it work. Unfortunately, many men are missing this concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 06:27 PM |
| 122 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Oh yes "I'm out with a friend for dinner." "I have a friend staying over this weekend." "They really enjoyed that movie with me." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 167 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Holy shit wtf he killed his pets?! What a monster. There’s a special place in hell for him I’m sure. I’m happy you’re out of that situation sis. If he could kill an innocent animal, imagine what he could have done to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | He had to change his status to “in a relationship” because sooooo many women bugged him when it was listed as single , righhhht 🚩It's the very fact you messaged him in the first place when he probably showed low value tendencies before sending that message to you. To me, that's investing your time and energy in a low value man. But thanks for letting us know about the handbook, we'll look into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:41 AM |
| 493 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Oh I love this one! There's a long ass list. Basically, any man with narc tendencies is almost certainly a cheater. These men are super calculated, almost too good to be true. Attractive, successful, opens doors for you, pulls your seat out, pours you wine etc. Everything is carefully rehearsed. He's a master at it because he's done it countless times before. These men are rampant on dating apps. They have hundreds of women on their social media following them, they've built a harem. They'll nev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:38 AM |
| 465 | Hilarious. Also, this is a genius move if you want to use a scrote bug spray.This is an automated messaged generated by the Reddit™ team. Your message has been found to be a violation of 38 U.S.C.S. The message you sent has been scanned by our AI Bot, and was flagged as potential sexual harassment. Your account is scheduled to be reported to your local authorities. If you believe this message was sent in error, reply "HELP". Copy pasted text for you ladies to use! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:23 AM |
| 237 | When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt.Repeat after me, if he wanted to he would! If he truly values you as a person and values the connection you have, he wouldn't dare to let it slip away. Think about the times you've been with men who were REALLY into you. They were attentive to texts, never bailed, called you etc. The men who use women frequently are the ones who pull these kinds of stunts because they have no regard for who you are as a person. Women to these kind of men are disposable trinkets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | He had to change his status to “in a relationship” because sooooo many women bugged him when it was listed as single , righhhht 🚩Lol I’m a mod and yeah, we have final say of what’s appropriate to keep posting on the sub. You seem to invest way too much time in entertaining LVM. I suggest you re-read the handbook and the entire room sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:17 AM |
| 2 | He had to change his status to “in a relationship” because sooooo many women bugged him when it was listed as single , righhhht 🚩Nah sis, if most of your content is mostly text conversations with people it gets old real quick. We love seeing strategy posts on FDS. It takes a lot of thought and dedication to formulate a strategic post to share with others. Constant posts of text conversations with LVM you shouldn’t even be entertaining mainly for karma farming gets annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:58 PM |
| 6 | :)“With the ability to make my own money, but no need to.” So we’re endorsing being fully dependent on a man now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:53 AM |
| 108 | Evidently it’s necessary to confirm upfront if their listed location is where they actually live 🚩He knows what he’s doing. He won’t be embarrassed because it’s clearly worked for him in the past. Sis we really think these men are dumb and we want to give them the benefit of the doubt, but they’re sinister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:30 AM |
| 386 | Evidently it’s necessary to confirm upfront if their listed location is where they actually live 🚩idk why you’re giving him tips to be more dubious sis, you should have blocked and deleted after he texted you about his “sister”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:16 AM |
| 210 | 50/50 (FDS art by me)Drawing needs to be more accurate…the guy needs to have a dad bod. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 11:18 PM |
| 97 | Ugly men have been engaging with this trend and the comments are even worse... yeah, I'm content being single the rest of my lifeEvery time a dude does that stupid unsexy jaw roll I wanna sock them in the face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 07:38 PM |
| 48 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileAs a whole, OLD was an effective way to waste time. Out of hundreds of profiles I've seen/people I've interacted with, I can say that I can count the amount of genuine/interesting people I met in person on one hand. The men that I'm mentioning I met were respectful enough. Paid for dates, understood my needs, weren't handsy/didn't push for sex. I stopped communicating with them and pursuing things because we had massive ideological differences that wouldn't be suitable for a long term relationsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 136 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileYes - bitchy profiles do work. However, she's going on a tangent and investing way too much time in crafting her profile. Online dating sucks, and when I was still online dating I was using apps that didn't allow this amount of detail in profiles. Maybe that was correlated with the amount of men looking for flings/casual dating. However, I made due with the menial word count I had and the most successful profile was the one where I was directly bitchy and vocal about what I wanted out of a relat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:56 PM |
| 100 | Men telling on themselves on OLD, exhibit ADad bod at 28? No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:42 PM |
| 3 | "Let's see where things go..."Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?Divorced yes, kids, no. There has to be a really good reason for his divorce though. Lots of men marry really young and meet the wrong partner, but that’s obviously not the case for all. I refuse to raise someone else’s kids, especially since a lot of these single dad types don’t want to have more kids with the woman they’re dating. Plus, the ex will always be in the picture in some capacity. I’m approaching 30 so I’m going to be seeing lots of men like this. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 07:54 PM |
| 83 | 🎄👻It’s that time of year for the annual Holiday Hoover from your scrote ex, again! Beware! Don’t get sucked in by their sentimental bullshit!👻🎄They can ho ho ho somewhere else. We ain’t talking to no dusty ass frosty the snowman looking dudes anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 17 | Delusional, visibly ageing NVM creates a website and ads to find a girlfriend...I’ve seen this ad floating around for literally years. Obviously this approach isn’t working for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?He looks like a reflection in the mirror on acid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:16 PM |
| 208 | Yes please, more of that eagerness and love.Plot twist: The guy got driven home by a woman he tried to fuck, and when that didn’t work, he resorted to making up an imaginary “wife”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:38 PM |
| 96 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesThis is the 1940s, remember? We’re in a time space continuum where we think we have access to jobs and technology as women, but we really don’t. We’re all desperately looking for a geriatric to take care of us because we’re incapable of being productive members of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:37 PM |
| 143 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesI love being someone’s midlife crisis! Bonus points for being married in their 40s and on dating apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 21 | If any of you have made an account on ThePinkPill.co I highly suggest you reconsider itI mean their logo does look like a ballsack, it was only a matter of time before they pandered to the very gender they so openly spoke out against. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:29 AM |
| 60 | SighWow the bare minimum. Especially when men expect us to shave our entire bodies, down an entire container of mouth wash, douse ourselves in expensive shower creams, and then wear Tom Ford perfume before they want to fuck us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:18 PM |
| 119 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingWait, a man can be an asshole and completely heartless and lovebomb people?! Shocked Pikachu face. Sorry to hear about this, OP. I advise against buying any expensive gifts for someone who you’ve known for such a brief amount of time. I’ve heard of men who deliberately look for relationships around Christmas so they can milk women dry and have expensive gifts bought for them, and then they ghost them shortly after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:24 PM |
| 59 | Queens Bringing the Bar Out of Hell (FDS Art by me)Love the art and talent sis, keep it up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 435 | Porn is the worst template for what real sex is: an exampleSome men must enjoy having things shoved up their ass, so I'll make the assumption that most men I encounter are fine with this according to porn! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 168 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itThese porn addicted men are also not ones to be chased or prized ladies. So many people get it confused that a man is desirable since he managed to manipulate many woman for sex. This man is community dick. Chasing a man or trying to lockdown a man with a porn addiction/sex addiction is impossible. Even if you're his "dream girl", he will still try and do better and think with his dick. Leave community dick where it belongs, for the streets. If a man seems like a prize (well educated, succesful,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 33 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFImagine going to reddit to try and get attention from strangers by posting stories about your sexcapades from fuckboys. I cannot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:59 PM |
| 157 | Does anybody else never click links posted here for security reasons?The FDS mods work hard to make sure things that make the front page of the sub are safe for everyone. Things that don’t make the cut get deleted from the mod queue. Always practice your due diligence on Reddit, but we have made our best efforts to ensure the links that are posted on the sub are legitimate. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:20 PM |
| 415 | My date before vs. after FDS + vettingHe got you flowers and perfume for your first date? Tbh sis flowers might be ok, but perfume is a little lovebomby. It’s sad that even a potentially genuine guy needs to be vetted ruthlessly because narcissists are so good at what they do. Happy for you sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:10 PM |
| 134 | This ancient dating wisdom still applies to modern dating. Young women: beware age gaps and older men.So true. Ladies, if he can’t get a woman his age and women his age actively avoid him, there’s a reason for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 02:12 PM |
| 1077 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everReverse the roles and now the main character is a man who gets catfished by an unattractive woman. Do you think he’d fall in love with her personality? Hell no. This is a new one to add to the list of tropes Hollywood loves to define women with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 04:23 PM |
| 124 | Don't date players even reformed ones (avoid, avoid, avoid)(potential TW)The amount of women that have been coerced and RAPED with men saying “jUsT tHe TiP!!” is astounding. I’m so sorry this happened to you OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 03:26 PM |
| 52 | Chicken 🐓 Queen 👑 spreading the gospel that males of all species are generally uselessToday I watched what they do to male chicks in the egg industry, they macerate them. It was painful to watch but that’s how little people think of male chickens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 53 | Lvm telling on themselves: "sex work is a valid profession" and yet he would "never touch that sk@nk with a 10 ft pole"Forests make sense, they’re used to nests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 220 | Lvm telling on themselves: "sex work is a valid profession" and yet he would "never touch that sk@nk with a 10 ft pole"They have no issues with “sex work” when it’s “free”. As in, manipulating innocent women into sending them nudes and explicit content. As in, coercing them for sex for little to no investment (coffee date/netflix and chill). They’ll always want the “whore” if she’s free! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:27 PM |
| 235 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abuseIt’s not just that. She clearly lacks self esteem and has a very low view of herself. Her username refers to herself as piggy? The sad thing is that she probably thinks she doesn’t deserve anything better than being abuse. BDSM is popular with people with low self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 433 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abuseThis is disgusting but she’s taking it so lightly and like it’s something funny to brag about? Like it’s some sort of event in the pickme olympics? Also that audio in the video made my ears bleed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:00 PM |
| 14 | Is this a red flag?His father is DYING. Of course they’ll prioritize taking care of him and being his aid over their son getting married. How is this a red flag? Now if his father wasn’t in the condition he was in, or the wedding was after his passing then yes it would be a red flag that his family wouldn’t want to attend the wedding. Im sorry OP but you lack emotional maturity and empathy in this situation. Normally I do side with my sisters, but having complete disregard for your partner about to go through a lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 07:04 PM |
| -1 | Ugly scrotes fishing for women in low income countries… they’re scrambling!I’m sorry, how is that any better? So you’re saying in order for a woman to escape poverty she’ll need to literally prostitute herself to a man she’d never give the time of day to? What about all the women who don’t need to resort to that to leave their country and “get a green card?” I know plenty who have managed to leave their oppressive countries and escape without having to commodify themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 17 | Ugly scrotes fishing for women in low income countries… they’re scrambling!Yeah I don’t trust any man that needs to solicit sex/get married to a woman that’s from a third world country exclusively. They buy into the whole “wholesome submissive” trope and usually end up marrying someone at least 10 years younger than them. There’s a reason why these men have a hard time dating women back home. Nobody wants them. Everyone sees through their shit. Women in third world countries are so desperate to leave and are willing to give these losers a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:00 PM |
| 167 | Beware of men who claim they’re a “homebody” and love “staying in”.Men who are homebodies are just looking for another word to tell you that they’re cheap. They’d rather have you come over and watch netflix on their tube TV after you drink a glass of water they so kindly offer you after sucking their dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 05:01 AM |
| 200 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialWow that’s even worse. A woman spewing this nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 01:20 PM |
| 114 | Stance on posting sexy photos on social media?Remember that social media is a careful curation of what you want people to think of you. A majority of the time, the people that see these photos don’t actually know who you are as a person and are quick to make judgements about you based on the content you post. Although you think it looks like a great photo, other people may have alternate ideas about it. Especially men. Plus do you really think it’s a great idea to have another photo up for men to masturbate to on social media? Just my two c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 43 | How come if two people get into a physical fight, one or both parties catches assault charges? Yet, if a woman gets beaten up by a dom, it’s cOnSeNT?Exactly all this. BDSM is synonymous with coercion and I’d even arguably say it’s a form of rape. A great majority of women don’t give informed consent to it, and are pressured into performing these acts because they fear their partners will leave them or they’ll get humiliated because they’re not kinky enough. So many women unfortunately fall victim to this coercion and their entire outlook on what sex and intimacy is changes entirely. That’s why you see sites such as Fetlife full of lost manip… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:24 PM |
| 469 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmI wanna upvote this a million times lol. You already have reports from angry scrotes on this post sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:19 AM |
| 21 | Sugarbabies and the trope of "modern dating through female empowerment!"Hey sis, I really enjoy reading your posts on here. I’m happy you’ve escaped that toxic lifestyle. I’m hoping more women do as well, but with the way social media is, I feel like the situation is getting progressively worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:41 PM |
| 40 | Testing for "sexual compatibility" is a bullshit lie to cross boundaries and get sexOk, I want to test men for financial compatibility. If we were to get in a relationship and I was in a tough spot, would men be willing to help? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 620 | Let’s count the red flags together!To be fair, I absolutely hate when people are late to anything without a heads up or apologizing for their lateness. But the rest is pure scrotacity. Boohoo he didn't get his dick wet although he paid for all of her expensive drinks! Going out to dinner/drinks for a majority of men means trying to get in their dates pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:17 PM |
| 206 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????He looks terrible for 60! I would have guessed he was in his 70s. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 05:22 PM |
| 46 | What's the best gift you received by a HVM?I haven’t met a HVM yet. Getting nice gifts doesn’t equate a man being HV. Actually LVM are the ones that have gotten me the most “generous” gifts. They’re usually paying me for my silence and assume I would be ok with poor treatment just because I’m getting things. I had someone gift me a 3 series BMW. I had another person fly down to a different country to get me a limited edition sold out bag to surprise me with it for Christmas. What these men had in common? They were both LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 12:37 PM |
| 115 | I found FDS this month, and I have a new outlook on men and dating!As a middle eastern woman, I can relate to everything you've said. Although I don't live in the middle east, I can wholeheartedly agree that middle eastern men are the most misogyntistic. So many middle eastern men sleep around with anything that moves, and yet expect a pure and pious 'virgin bride' from a random unknown village somewhere. So many middle eastern women are conditioned to believe that being in a marriage (with a LVM or HVM), is the end all be all. On paper, they appear "better" th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 61 | LV partners who ask to see us in VERY specific lingerieThat's some big brain shit. Love it sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 04:27 PM |
| 57 | LV partners who ask to see us in VERY specific lingerieYou’re so right, and I 100% agree with you. That’s why I mentioned that, personally, if it was in addition to another thoughtful gift (and from someone I’ve been vetting for a long time), that’s a different story. But yeah I also agree that it’s just a gift mainly for the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:33 PM |
| 254 | No man is ‘seemingly HV’ — he simply did the bare minimum on the first couple of dates. Stop labeling men HV too EARLY on!THANK YOU. The most shocking story a user posted a couple of days ago is how her "HV" partner of THREE YEARS gave her an STI! The mask will drop eventually for many, MANY men. A majority of men are master manipulators. Try to take sex out of the equation, come down with a serious illness, or be in a rut of some sort. Most men that were deemed "HV" will disappear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:34 PM |
| 301 | Saw my best friends married and currently going through IVF, uncle on tinder.This isn’t surprising. Men view women as incubators to carry on “mUh LeGaCy!!!” The amount of men that cheat on their pregnant wives or wives that have recently given birth is astonishing. It really makes me question why women are willing to go through all the trauma of going through pregnancy and giving birth for men who are likely putting up a facade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 258 | Hook-up culture is a lie! (This time with math!)Also please stop buying into the myth that being promiscuous is hot and attractive, it really isn’t. Sure, men will want you sexually. But men will fuck anything, don’t forget that. Once they’re done using you like a real life fleshlight, they’ll start shit talking you to anyone who listens. You’re not going to be “cool” anymore, you’ll be talked about and become the “town bicycle and carousel rider.” The biggest difference between men and women is that women rarely kiss and tell. Men will certa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:00 PM |
| 370 | I don’t know what to do.Wow I’m so sorry this happened to you. And this is proof that you can NEVER STOP VETTING YOUR PARTNER! Even after 3 years he managed to cheat on OP and give her an STI. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 68 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?Exactly, it's all performative. She's basically an e-girl on steroids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 141 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?This a million times over. It’s the same shit but refurbished and repackaged. Tell me why sucking dick is considered empowering? How is dry humping a teddy bear empowerment too? The cognitive dissonance is real. I’m convinced now that these sexpozzi libfems are so tired of being used and abused by LVM sexually, they just embrace it and now gloat about how empowered they are and how they won’t catch feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:14 PM |
| 81 | If you want a complete stranger to stop and give you the time if day, call the phone company.Why does it look like he’s strangling his cat though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:10 PM |
| 4 | "Using" LVM for sex?Please don’t roast you? Lol. We’re not going to coddle you on FDS sis. Invest in a Hitachi Magic Wand (ok scrotes maybe fds is sponsored by hitachi magic wand), and drop the LV men in your life. There’s no such thing as “using a man for sex.” The man is using YOU. Always. Dick is abundant and of low value, and you’re willing to give up your self respect for a man who’s not worthy of your body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.Ok good!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 10 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.Why are you still entertaining this man? Your replies instead of blocking and deleting him immediately make it sound like you’re OK with his behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:31 PM |
| 122 | TRUTH! My music tastes have really changed and I can't listen to a lot of rap music now.I wrote a post about this and so many women disagreed with me. If a man is listening to misogynstic music talking about making money, fucking "bitches", and running a stable, he's actively thinking about these things with women he's encountering in his day to day life. I haven't met a HV man that listens to garbage rap. It's not a coincidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 02:27 PM |
| 903 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)I spat out my coffee. I LOVE THIS. Some scrote reported this video as sexual content about minors? Get bent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Breaking my heart was by far the most generous thing my NVM ex ever did for meNever post photos of yourself to FDS. Although this is a great post, I had to delete it because you doxxed yourself. Use your common sense and try again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 430 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postIn this thread: Men who pay for OF subscriptions and have anime waifu pillows then complain that all women are “whores” and damaged”. OLD is littered with men like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 156 | FDS IS OFFICIALLY 200K STRONG!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳scrotes mad so sad. In before they say "iT's aLl mALe LuRkeRs And fAkE aCcOuNts!!!" "No way in hell women have self respect for themselves and are opening their eyes to our bullshit!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 50 | I don’t cook nor clean for any manHe’d rather spend his time playing video games and masturbating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 04:06 PM |
| 170 | I don’t cook nor clean for any manI used to be engaged to a man who didn’t know how to boil pasta. Like legit, didn’t know how to put a pot of water on the stove and let it boil. He was 30 years old. He blamed his incompetence on his parents divorce when he was 7. He still lived with his mother. I pray to all that’s holy that no woman gets into a relationship with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 02:01 PM |
| 137 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆Oh yes “I’m in your city.” Me, a dumbass that’s too nice of a person 🤡. Letting them crash at my place for 2 days getting crushed by their negative energy. Me, not charging them the hotel room fees they would have paid if I said no 🤡🤡 Me, burning the shit out of my place with tonnes of sage 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:31 PM |
| 16 | What the acronym “BDSM” stands for.You’re mentally damaged and I can clearly tell by your need for validation and attention from reddit losers by your post history. There’s nothing positive about “kink”. Liberal feminism is made up of toxicity like the stuff you’re spewing. I’m sad to see you’ve resorted to BDSM and appearing sEx PoSiTiVe to try and get the attention of males you’d so desperately lack otherwise. Get off this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 12:19 PM |
| 404 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.This infuriates me but I’m not surprised. Men are trash. Casual sex is a scam. This is a sponsored post by Hitachi Magic Wand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 10:48 PM |
| 50 | PSA: Halloween is almost here for many of us.Absolutely, but I’ve also heard horror stories of people setting up their friends to get r*ped, drugged and robbed. Or pickme’s pushing their gfs to do things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:30 PM |
| 206 | You should have a “hoe phase!”That ain’t a friend, that’s a toxic pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 99 | Just because a man looks good on paper doesn't mean he is HVUnfortunately the number of true HV men is incredibly small, and we're inundated with LV men who try to appear HV with specific traits. From personal experience, the men who looked amazing on paper (great career, successful, attractive) were the LOWEST value of all time. These men were extreme narcissists who kept harems of women, were actively cheating on their partners, were exceptionally controlling, one dimensional views on the world, the list goes on. A lot of men strive to be successful JU… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 01:51 PM |
| 95 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Chest tattoos. Sorry. I haven’t met a guy who wasn’t LV who made good life decisions that’s had writing sprawled across his chest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:01 PM |
| 46 | What are your thoughts?Curious to know what her instagram photos consist of, and I guarantee it’s flaunting her “assets” for the male gaze if she has a massive following of men from OLD and otherwise. Sounds like a SW if her entire world revolves around men and just showing off what they provide for her. If she has a new bf every 6 months, it shows her taste in men is quite shallow anyways and probably centres around something you wouldn’t stand for. That’s why social media is toxic. Unfollow her and maybe even delete… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 11:12 AM |
| 505 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.Pickme olympics 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 05:14 PM |
| 102 | A short video on why casual sex doesn’t benefit women.This is super well done! Ladies, please don’t succumb to societal peer pressure of having meaningless casual sex. Part of the libfem agenda is to pander to men and seek out things solely for their benefit. Just because you don’t engage in casual sex doesn’t make you a prude. Just because you don’t engage in casual sexual doesn’t make you uncool. These are false narratives pushed by men. Don’t fall for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 08:57 PM |
| 188 | Let's talk about why women have sex with men they don't really like and/or are not attracted toSadly lots of women see relationships as transactional, as do men. Women feel obligated to sleep with a man just because he took her out to dinner once. Women feel obligated to sleep with a man due to social pressure. Women feel obligated to have mindless casual sex with men they aren't attracted to so they're better accepted in the toxic libfem culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 06:53 PM |
| 155 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsSo wait, you got engaged to this guy in less than a year judging by your post history? You barely know this guy. His friends spilled the beans on what kind of a person he really is. Your friends are usually a reflection of who you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 133 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsIs this the same dude that watches porn everyday? You’re getting engaged to him with the expectation that he won’t go behind your back to a strip club anyways? You’re in for a real treat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 68 | Case Study: The fortysomething year old "PICK ME". I'll even give a you a TLDR: I had sex with a man on the first date even though I was not attracted to him or even felt a connection. He feels the same way, but asked to have sex with me again.lmao sis I totally thought you wrote this post and I thought you lost your mind for a second. Happy I saw this comment. PHEW 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:26 PM |
| 102 | Lies “body/sex positive” influencers tell 🧐 (Mega-post about self-objectification and posting sexy pics)I’m sick and tired of all these “body positivity” influencers using their “body positivity” as a means to pander to men and overly sexualize themselves on social media. Great, you have stretch marks! Cool you’re embracing that tummy roll. Is it necessary to take a photo of yourself basically spread eagle for your male followers to show off how BrAvE and EmPoWeReD you are? We all know you’re not doing this because you want to break the mold of fakeness on social media. You’re doing this because y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 01:18 PM |
| 67 | He cheated because he “liked me too much” 🥺🥺🥺🥺What a great and innovative excuse! Blaming past trauma for your cheating behaviour! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:38 PM |
| 12 | If you're struggling with block/delete try these ideasGood advice. Another great trick is to relegate people who should have no space in your life to certain apps and have the notifications turned off for those apps. That way, you’re less likely to wonder if they’ve responded to you or messaged you, let alone text back in a timely fashion. If i’m not talking to you on Whatsapp or iMessage, you’re pretty low on my attention totem pole. When I delegate people to specific apps, they become an afterthought to me. Block and delete is always the best cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 03:43 PM |
| 196 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Also imagining having to pay someone to take nude photos of you that they’ll masturbate to and plaster all over their instagram page and the internet. dM fOr RaTeS!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 276 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Ah yes, the classic “guy with camera” photographer. Praying on vulnerable, young women selling them the dream of potentially becoming published models. Selling glamour and nudity as “empowering” for both the model and the consumer. Offering “free” photo shoots so these women build up their portfolio, and failing to mention that the compensation required is sexual assault. These photographers are a dime a dozen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:33 PM |
| 239 | Seasonal PSACuffing season is cancelled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 115 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)BOO HOO WOMEN EVERYWHERE REALIZED HOW MUCH OF A LOSER I AM AND REFUSE TO GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY. NOW THAT I ASKED SO NICELY AND TRYING TO GAIN SYMPATHY, TOUCH MY PP PLZ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:37 PM |
| 472 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨NO ONE CARES SCROTE DIE MAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:22 PM |
| 37 | "Should I really vet for the rest of my life?? That seems excessive and too much work!" Yes, sis, yes you should“This is why the most promiscuous men are the most charming.” I hope everyone has this statement seared into their brain! A guy who’s forthcoming about his intentions of treating you like a disposable fleshlight is not one who would give the time of day to! Men lie lie lie to get what they want from you (ultimately sex). When the gig is up and you’re no longer the new shiny play thing, their mask falls off. The “honeymoon stage” is just another euphemism for “Act l”. Things WILL get progressivel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 12:43 PM |
| 18 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Because he’s fucked in the head, bar none. He thought we were “buddies” and he could tell me anything. Then I had a wtf moment and asked myself why I was entertaining someone like that in my life? I’m a kind hearted, smart person. He was a loser who didn’t have aspirations past high school and went to jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 12:59 AM |
| 148 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..He told me he was a pimp who beat his ex gf’s for “getting out of line.” Told me his ex gf who lived with him was a sugar baby/escort and he beat her up when he found out she was doing it behind his back (???). Weeks later, he messages me telling me he hooked up with her WHILE she has a fiancé. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:55 PM |
| 14 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual giftsI laughed way too hard at this one. You should have dumped his ass, stop seeing him. That’s not only a perverse gift, but a total waste of money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]He was clear from the beginning that he doesn’t want anything serious with you. It sounds like you were ok with that, and that’s what you need to expect it to be if you’re OK with being used and not having him take things further. If you’re ok with “going with the flow” and a casual relationship, be prepared to be treated like an after thought. He doesn’t need to be staying in touch with you or exchanging pleasantries, you are not in a defined relationship. At FDS, we don’t stand for relationshi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 84 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual giftsLet me guess, did he get you a makeup train case from Walmart? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:00 PM |
| 28 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual giftsI’m extremely happy for you! That’s an incredibly good sign! I truly hope it works out for you. Ugh tell me about it. I was a pick me to guys who had “amnesia” when I would bring up things they had mentioned to me previously. They forgot they said to things to me, and not the million other women they were talking to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:59 PM |
| 99 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual giftsI noticed this too. The men with thoughtful, respectful personalities thought of thoughtful useful gifts to get me! The pornsick ones are the ones that will give you things that will purely benefit THEM 🤢. I’m in the same boat as you, I’ve been vetting someone who’s green flags galore and LOVES to bake me/cook things and bring over flowers or a houseplant when he visits. I have quite a sizeable collection now too and he said that he never wants to see me with a dying plant or flower, so he’ll br… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:52 PM |
| 17 | Why you shouldn’t pay for dinnerWell said! A man who is truly interested in you will move heaven and earth for you. The men who took me out to elaborate dinners / well planned out dates were men who were clearly interested in me. But you brought up a good point, some of these men were interested in nothing more than sex. They put up the facade of being a HVM by taking you out to dinner, then they expect you to “return the favour”. A man who is authentic is one who CONSISTENTLY plans wonderful dates and doesn’t bat an eyelash a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:24 PM |
| 23 | Don’t save his number in your phone.LMAO THIS IS BRILLIANT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 134 | She made a PowerPoint about strippingIf only she was this enthusiastic and productive in creating something or formulating ideas for the betterment of women in society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 19 | Why? Just why?If they’re talking about other women and their past sexual conquests to you, they will talking about you to other people. Good for you for blocking them! 9 times out of 10 men will make up stories about their sexual conquests to appear more desirable to women (funny that’s how their brain works). And if their stories were true, do you really think a HVW will be blown away and thrilled at the fact he had a drunken night in Tijuana and fisted 3 midget prostitutes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:05 PM |
| 25 | Avoid using OLD to meet menYeah this. Some guy on OLD found out my profession / full name just by my name and the fact I work for the government. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 03:45 PM |
| 31 | Weekly FDS Check-inYou’re not looking too much into it. The weekend is LV and all of his songs involve sex and drugs in some way. Don’t poison your ears with that filth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 438 | How do you deal with rejection?Why are you still hung up on a guy who’s dating someone 8 years younger than him? You’re reminiscing on a loser. Don’t feel bad you got rejected by him and stop letting him consume your thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 34 | The ole blast from the past “I’m in your town let’s get coffee” text“I’m in your town, let me stick my dick in you for a disappointing 2 minutes and let you live with a lifetime of regret for your poor life choices.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:20 AM |
| 7 | What does the community think of age flairs?No. More opportunities for people to LARP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:18 AM |
| 42 | "It's ok if he cheats on me, my bills are getting paid." And other pick-me mom comments.YOuR'e JuSt JeAlOuS yOu ArEn'T mArRiED WitH a RoCk (probably a CZ from walmart) oN yOuR FiNgEr!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:32 PM |
| 126 | My new definition of BDSMExactly. Let these men end up where they belong, they're for the streets. A majority are still single way into their 30s-50s. The best sex I've had is with people who AREN'T into BDSM or manipulating/abusing women. They had respect for the female body and took the time to learn about it. Coincidence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 410 | My new definition of BDSMBDSM men are one trick ponies. Just because they watch a bunch of gonzo porn and know shibari, they automatically think they're sex gods. Take away all the equipment and they are absolutely terrible in bed. No passion. No rhythm. No general knowledge of basic female anatomy. If only they could invest as much time in finding the g-spot as they did learning a new harness tie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 84 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.I get your point but no need to “hun” me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 10:51 PM |
| 387 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.Honestly I really love this post and I encourage women everywhere to read RP forums, listen to RP podcast men, and carefully absorb and analyze their rhetoric. Obviously don’t subscribe to their YT channels, just lurk in the shadows. More women will have their eyes open to the truth on what men truly think of us. Men simply do not care about our emotions and are actively searching for ways to manipulate us and form communities to discuss ways to further delve into their depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:39 PM |
| 47 | Vetting for low value behaviour in men doesn't just apply to romantic relationships. It also applies to your friendships and associations.What do you mean? My friend is HV because he’s 6’2”, very attractive, and travels around for work. I can look past the fact he sees women as disposable flashlights because he has all the qualities of a high value man! Maybe one day he’ll learn to respect me too, and I’ll be the one to change him and make him settle down! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 170 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or single“We are exclusive babe. You’re the only one I’m sleeping with, without protection!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | “One third of hookups ends up in marriage.”I can’t edit the title 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 09:34 PM |
| 41 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areArthur. That show had so many great life lessons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:06 PM |
| 119 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardSome more proof that men are attracted to prepubescent girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 227 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areYou really think someone would do that? Just go on the internet and tell lies?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:41 PM |
| 20 | Where is the lie, tho?I don’t want to have sex with the clowns from my 6 year old birthday party, do you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 115 | Where is the lie, tho?Ethically Non monogamous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 106 | I feel like this needs to be said, but let’s stop praising men for doing the bare minimumBut did your previous bf get you a stuffed animal though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 372 | Where is the lie, tho?Very very few people (approximately 0) who are ENM are attractive. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Pure clownery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:55 PM |
| 86 | Dissociation During Sex & Strategies to Cope With ItI disassociated during sex with men who were terrible and narcissistic. It was my body telling me how toxic the situation was and just going through the motions as a means to an end. In my healthy relationships, I did not disassociate. Weird!!! What a strange coincidence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 302 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.I wish you could have screamed this at my past self. I bought into the libfem trope of “eMpOwErMeNt” and “it’s only sex”. Men simply do not care about us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:57 AM |
| 91 | Looks are so importantMy preferences are a strikingly attractive man who’s 6’1” or above. Fit body, nice hair, nice dick. I need to be in a relationship where I’m not only intellectually stimulated, but I have the constant desire to jump my partners’ bones. It’s usually one or the other for me, so when I meet the entire package I’m extremely interested in pursuing something exclusive. Have I dated people who don’t fit my physical preferences? Yes. They’re not non-negotiables. Like you, I refuse to date someone I’m no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 37 | Reminder: Men will lie about anything, including their sexuality!Damn sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 11:57 PM |
| 60 | Reminder: Men will lie about anything, including their sexuality!Specifically talking about men on the DL with this post. Either way, the fact he did porn was a deal breaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:32 PM |
| 724 | "All ages considered!"“Lovely lady”. Scrotalese translation = Must be barely legal with a tight body and be willing to worship my geriatric body and micro penis. Will pay the generous sum of $6 / Hr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:24 PM |
| 54 | This 50/50 crap makes me want to rip my hair out - Priyanka Chopra says Nick Jonas only bought an engagement ring; reveals they split wedding expenses equally“Priyanka Chopra married the man of HIS dreams Nick Jonas in a lavish wedding ceremony in Udaipur with their family and close friends in attendance.” Even Times of India knows Priyanka be acting in her masculine energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:16 PM |
| 207 | The audactiy knows no bounds.Sis at least he’s transparent and honest about it! Men these days manipulate women into 50-50 relationships and essentially the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:52 AM |
| 17 | Mainstream awareness of OnlyFans’ impact by NYTSomeone else helped out, thank you though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 109 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?Imagine changing your entire life trajectory for the possibility of locking down an imaginary pornstar who has absolutely 0 interest in you. Porn ruined society for real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:12 PM |
| 93 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?I didn't have to tell him about my body image issues, my actions and demeanor spoke out enough. If he was emotionally intelligent to realize my insecurities, he would support me and love me just the way I was and attempt to make me feel like I was the most beautiful woman in the world in his eyes. But he didn't. Actually, he was overall an extremely unintelligent man. He didn't even try to hide his porn addiction from me after he promise he would stop. I found hundreds of GBs of porn saved on an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:08 PM |
| 203 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?Yes, I did the surgeries. I have struggled with body image issues all my life and being with a porn addict further exacerbated the problem. He did not pay for the surgeries nor did he pamper me during the recovery. I was on my own for all of them. Men are the most selfish people ever. They have absolutely no empathetic regard towards others and are callous with their actions. You proved my point that women are absolutely more empathetic than men are. If we bodyshamed our partners and compared th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:53 PM |
| 66 | Mainstream awareness of OnlyFans’ impact by NYTCould you please post the text here for people to see, OP? There’s a paywall and this is an extremely interesting article considering how liberal NYT is. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 443 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?I was with a porn addict for years of my life. Those years were the most painful and mentally taxing. I was never “good enough”. I became unhealthily obsessed with my body image and getting surgeries to become his “ideal woman in porn.” I lost my identity. At the end of it all, I wasn’t enough. After that relationship, I learned to recognize the signs of a porn addict quite quickly. Snide remarks about my body by LV men really reopened the wounds. My ass is “too small”, my vagina isn’t “porny lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 54 | Where is the lie?Lol so relatable. I love when men tell me i’m giving them attitude when I tell them the truth about how I’m not enjoying it, “yOu’Re SuCh a BrAt!!!11”. No, Jacob, you’re insufferable. Please leave immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:47 AM |
| – | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:Thanks for this post OP, and I’m happy to hear that psychedelics worked for you and helped you heal from your trauma. The dose you mentioned is a heroic dose. As someone who also dabbled in psychedelics, I will reiterate your point that people who have underlying health issues, especially mental ones, should refrain from taking them all together without consulting a medical professional. Talking to an “experienced friend” alone won’t cut it. What could be a fun and enlightening trip for you coul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:59 AM |
| 24 | Unilingual men and their many red flagsAlthough you make some good points, this is a strange post. Many men who have an interest in learning many different languages don’t do it out of interest for culture of others, or bettering themselves as individuals. It comes down to learning many languages to try and fuck as many women as possible. Sad but true. A white man that speaks Spanish will make him believe he’ll have a better chance at manipulating women on his sex tourism escapades. A white man speaking Thai (and a poor attempt at th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:25 AM |
| 24 | Weekly FDS Check-inPersonally, 2 or 3 days max. And the date needs to be a high effort suggestion. At 2 or 3 days of talking, a man has a general idea of who you are as a person and if he’s interested in pursuing you, he wants to meet you in person as soon as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 47 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡Bullet dodged! I was in a relationship like this pre-FDS. He wasted my time for about 7 years. We were engaged for about 4 of them. I was never good enough to “marry”, but I was good enough to be a therapist, bangmaid, and mommy figure. Honestly it’s a blessing in disguise that I didn’t end up marrying him anyways. I would have been miserable to the ninth degree. Obviously I don’t stay in touch anymore but I’m pretty sure he’s desperately looking to trap another girl into a similar scenario sinc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:08 PM |
| 46 | Why you shouldn’t go back to OLD.And it’s always food that has 0 nutritional value or is rancid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:15 PM |
| 548 | Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guiltSomeone here said if something was truly “empowering” for women, men wouldn’t be supporting it. That hit different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:40 PM |
| 152 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.100% agree. These women end up being the biggest backstabbers and will shit talk about you to anyone who listens. Be wary of what you say to "friends" like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 107 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?Ohhh yes. They have their age set to 35 and then their bio says “I’m actually 43, can’t change it.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:31 PM |
| 62 | Kicked out of FDS!!!?If you read FDS everyday, you would have seen that there was a pinned post warning people about FDS going private for the 1st and 2nd of September. We're doing our best to clean up the sub. Nobody has been "kicked out". See you soon. edit: Oh honey; with your edit on your post surely you didn’t wish a mod to drop dead? You’re not welcome on FDS anymore with that attitude. Have a nice life sis: | /r/askFDS | 01/09/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Help having discussions around money / career with current partnerOP has been banned. It's insulting that they continued to make threads asking for advice about the same man, and countless people have given up their precious time to give her advice she's not willing to take. I hope she sees the light and gets out of this situation, he's not good for her at all. | /r/askFDS | 01/09/21 12:19 PM |
| 75 | JFK, the Harvey Weinstein NVM of his time who cheated on his wife Jackie Kennedy with more than 30 women: His conga line of concubinesShocking! Politician has numerous affairs with dozens of women, more breaking news at 6. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 34 | Watch this scrote get roasted for his views. Hands up if you’ve encountered an angry short guy with a complex like this 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️This is the exact kind of guy that slides into your DMs with unsolicited dick pics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 168 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndThanks Jammies! And thanks y’all, you’re incredible members and we truly value your contributions to this community. As mods, we don’t get paid for our time and all the work we do for FDS is completely voluntary. We will do our absolute best to bring things up to speed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:21 PM |
| 180 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Wow so many words for just asking to get his dick wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:25 PM |
| 36 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!Sis she’s 18 judging by her post history and posted about never wanting to work. Plus invests all her time in hair and nails. She’s cultivating a transactional relationship, she can get picked for sure by mr.geriatric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:08 PM |
| 26 | When an older man tries to ask “what do you bring to the table?” RUN!!!Sis, the fuck is this post? She says this post “isn’t about sugar daddies and sugar babies” and then “as a woman who primarily dates older men”, then has a laundry list of demands she wants from an older man mirroring a transactional relationship. Sorry I can’t take her advice seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 328 | I’m glad that pick me’s are getting called out on just how crazy they soundI find it ironic she’s calling out women for this behaviour when her profile picture is literally her in a thong showing her ass a la thirst trap. Sounds like “not like other girls” material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:45 AM |
| 418 | Notice how she's the one trying to get advice, not him$900k in student loans?! I know student loan debt is pretty hefty, but nearly 900k? Sis dump his ass. You’re going to get stuck helping him pay back that loan payment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:34 AM |
| 92 | Gabriel Tostee has acquitted of murder and has since changed his name to Eric. He continues to harrass women on Tinder and OLD appsThis is awful. Never trust a man who frequents misc on bodybuilding.com, 4chan, or religiously on reddit. They do fucked up things to women just to brag about it online to their male fan club. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 149 | Ladies, do you consider seeing a man once a week (every Saturday) as fulfilling dating?I would see guys once a week who I wasn’t exclusive to/had no intention of taking things further. Take that with a grain of salt. If you’ve been dating for 4 months and it’s still once a week? Something’s up. Doesn’t sound like he wants to commit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 343 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.COVID should have killed all these disgusting scrote sex buyers off. This is more proof that men view relationships as purely transactional, ladies! The point the man made about taking a girl out for a few dinners before getting laid vs. just paying for sex outright came straight from the horses mouth. When men offer you” “drink/coffee” dates, they’re trying to get their dicks wet for the least amount of money possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Don't get plastic surgery just to attract menI remember when I was younger I would talk mad shit about people with plastic surgery done making the same statements you did. Deep down I was just jealous, because years later guess who ended up getting surgery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 28 | Don't get plastic surgery just to attract menAs someone with numerous procedures, I can confirm. Not only does it attract LV men who care only about my appearance and don’t have the gall to get to know me as an individual, it severely affects my day to day life. I get sneered at by random women on the street and laughed at about my comically sized boobs. People assume that I work in “entertainment” because of my look, although I’m highly educated with a comfy job in my field. Plastic surgery will also hinder your ability to be taken seriou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Don't get plastic surgery just to attract menI’m really disappointed in you, considering you’ve had amazing comments in the past. As someone with numerous plastic surgery procedures, I’m highly offended by your statement. Does my surgery mean I despise myself? No. I struggled with self esteem issues and a porn sick ex who pushed me to get a surgery that I’m regretting. Your comment is so offensive on so many levels. This is not the space for you if you feel the need to put down other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:53 PM |
| 110 | Public Service Announcement for Fellow Queens: Male Sexual Interest in you is NOT unique or special!Just remember men will literally fuck a McChicken sandwich, there’s video proof out there with a simple google search. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:04 AM |
| 129 | If he pulls away, don't give him space...We put the first man on the moon YEARS ago, why did we stop there? Why did we not send all of them there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:59 PM |
| 25 | And this is why you should NEVER allow yourself to become financially dependent on a man.That's why her hair is so big, it's full of secrets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:34 AM |
| 28 | Even the plants know what’s upI think the way a man treats a plant is very telling of his relationship with anyone. If a man’s plants are dying or unmaintained, you know that he’s irresponsible and doesn’t have the gall to take care of something that requires the LEAST bit of maintenance. Many houseplants are low maintenance, requiring you to water them once a week and put them in a place where they get sun. If a man can’t even do that? Throw the whole man away. Surprisingly all men I’ve met that were exceptionally low value… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 103 | No, Women Who Support Porn, I'm Not "Insecure".OP forget to mention cave men porn, where men would draw stick figures with boobs and masturbate furiously to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 121 | Even the CDC is promoting 50/50 😅No, I don’t miss going halfsies on the bill. What do you expect from an organization that’s most likely run by pornsick men? Trust me when I say this, but people in positions of power are the most corrupted when it comes to women and socially conditioning them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:32 PM |
| 726 | Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory!“If you want to treat me like an escort, you better start paying me like one” is my favourite mic drop quote of the year. Watch the LVM scatter who proposition you for casual sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 206 | It was too good to be true.Women can be categorized to hundreds of porn categories! DiVeRsiTy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:59 PM |
| 422 | It's not him being turned off, it's meSo sorry that most men don’t have a vocabulary past a fifth grade level. You know what’s real elegance? Not giving a fuck what men or anyone else thinks about you. Elegance coaches are frauds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:39 PM |
| 79 | OLD strat: what's yours?Yes take lots of bikini pics!!! In fact, bend over backwards in your photos and just let men know you’re there to be used and abused and you’d be down to be their “unicorn”. OLD is a total shit show. Delete the apps, that’s the best strategy I can offer you. There’s so many threads on this topic already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 04:42 PM |
| 244 | It was too good to be true.They were over 4 months late for April Fools. These “empowered” content creators will have a safe space to sell pictures of their assholes for $5.99. What a hard working, intelligent group of people! Edit: I also hate these buzzwords companies use. “Inclusion” in this instance is a poor play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Let's take a look at the ownership of Liberal Feminist bible VICE! It includes TPG Capital (44%)- one of the main profiteers from the opiate crisis (right wing) and A&E Networks (20%) which is owned by both Hearst (which used to publish Adolph Hitler) and Walt Disney (which acquired Fox News)Sis you came through with receipts. chefs kiss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:42 AM |
| 5 | How do I deal with my extremely high libido?Yes, usually! But OP didn't bring up checking their horomone levels, that's why I asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:59 PM |
| 11 | How do I deal with my extremely high libido?Have you checked your horomone levels? Not trying to sound rude or off base here, but high T levels can cause an abnormally high sex drive. There's plenty of posts talking about how to find out if a guy is going to be good in bed or not before actually having sex with him. A simple search in the subreddit will give you answers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 132 | An empowered class of people does not have to beg and scramble to maintain control of their means of survival like this.Guaranteed that “woman’s rights” account is run by a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 8 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?Jfc, that’s why I said a LOT of the principals can carry over. Of course not all, and that’s why I hammered that point home. Some of y’all like taking things out of context to try and start a debate and I’m not having it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:15 AM |
| 22 | Queer women, what are some things you consider red flags while dating?This is actually a great question, and I’m curious to see the replies. A lot of FDS principles can carry over to non-heteronormative relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 65 | If he wanted to, he would.Are we not forgetting he’s a 57 year old man married to a 26 year old woman? She’s also his fifth marriage. Nicolas Cage is for the streets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:59 PM |
| 570 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Nope. A tiger can’t change his stripes. Although we all want to believe the mythical woman exists who can “change him”, deep down that porn sickness and misogyny is embedded permanently. Men who consistently seek out casual sex are ones that always have “the grass is greener mentality.” Ever why they use the term “can’t turn a ho into a housewife” to describe women? That’s because they know it’s true about THEMSELVES. It’s clear projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 402 | OLD profiles of attractive men be likeLol look at this guy thinking he’s the prize and making women pander to him by offering their vaginas. Guaranteed this guy has STDs of the incurable variety. And yes, I judge myself for going to bed with someone on the first date! Infinite swipe left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 06:48 PM |
| 208 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!That neanderthal haircut, that terrible gamer posture. He’s truly blessed to even have a woman pay attention to him at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 101 | Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras!It’s a terrifying thought. Men are so pornsick. Basie’s post has inspired me to write a post about where to find hidden cameras and staying vigilant. I’ll post about it soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 01:04 PM |
| 184 | Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras!Ladies, they make hidden cameras so small now that you wouldn’t be able to spot them unless you have a hidden camera detector that helps you find them by emitting signals. I recommend this one because it does a pretty good job with finding if the place is bugged: https://www.spyguy.com/products/lm-8-hidden-camera-bug-detector?currency=USD&gclid=CjwKCAjw64eJBhAGEiwABr9o2Caa10GcNRPThXnSAkB0MaKSMU4hh54hrfwBO0NHDkXlIFI8c7K0AxoC2pgQAvD_BwE I’ve heard of way too many stories where women have been film… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:43 PM |
| – | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problemsLmao 15 reports, keep screeching into the void scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 577 | Starting to Regret Getting TattooedMen associate tattoos with poor decision making and spontaneity, which means they’ll assume you’ll jump into bed with them immediately. It’s disgusting. Your tattoos could be extremely well done and thoughtfully placed, but men still find it as an invitation that you’re down to fuck. Other RP tropes include discrediting women with tattoos for any long term relationship and equate them to bright colours in the animal kingdom, alerting others animals of danger and staying away. I have tattoos as w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:40 AM |
| – | So really? I've supported this sub from day 1 and my posts are still not showing up?Your posts have been showing up, as seen here. All the comments are automodded because this is a women’s only space. The mods (myself included) are extremely busy with our lives OUTSIDE of Reddit. It’s a shame that you don’t see the community we’ve built and how hard we try and keep it safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:37 PM |
| 45 | Man 36m lies about divorce to 29f gf. Input girls?Yeah nah. The thing is with married men, if they’re cheating with you while they’re married, they’ll cheat on you with someone else when they finally get divorced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 40 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorThis needs to be upvoted a zillion times. I love a good Simpsons reference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 129 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorAre those cubicle panels? Also love the weights at the end of his bed, like getting in shape is his only chance at ever getting laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:39 PM |
| 262 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.Isn’t this the lady who was sexting Anthony Weiner? She also calls herself a political activist. If this is what “activism” is, I don’t want it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 124 | WTF is wrong with people? A kink party as a second date?! This is peak Pickmeisha fuckery. ( she posts a bunch of pics of herself in extremely sexual lingerie and then freaks out because he didn’t even bother to tell her the theme is white). Just why?!? What’s in it for her? Make it make sense...Lol omg and she’s posting on a Facebook group, which isn’t anonymous at all. Sis I’m dying of embarrassment for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 22 | Why his music taste is extremely important during the vetting process.Honestly mainstream rap was the easiest to single out because a lot of the music put out these days has a lot of VERY blatant messages that are deemed aggressive and pandering to furthering the patriarchy. But yes, a lotttt of mainstream music has extreme LV themes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:57 PM |
| 22 | Why his music taste is extremely important during the vetting process.I love Tool!!! They put on such a great show. Come to think of it, every Tool concert I’ve gone to I was surrounded by the kindest, most genuine people. You’re right, their music correlates to the message and people they’re trying to inspire. You have excellent taste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:57 PM |
| 362 | WTF is wrong with people? A kink party as a second date?! This is peak Pickmeisha fuckery. ( she posts a bunch of pics of herself in extremely sexual lingerie and then freaks out because he didn’t even bother to tell her the theme is white). Just why?!? What’s in it for her? Make it make sense...“THX BABES!!!” I want to gag (not in the kinky way, you lurkers). But yes, this “date” is the epitome of pickmeishaism. I love how she’s asking outfit advice when this scrote simply does not give a flying fuck about what she’s wearing, he’s only trying to get her into some depraved sexual acts as fast as possible. I also love how she’s mentioning that this kink party is happening in some old villa in Rome, so it appears more glamorous and less depraved. Where are you finding this fan fic from OP… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:55 PM |
| 37 | Why his music taste is extremely important during the vetting process.You’ve nailed it! I’ve noticed the same, too. I’m ok with rolling/tripping too, and it would be hypocritical of me to say I’m against it entirely (I was a huge fan of psychedelics and other things in my past). But yes, the men who become dependent on it are usually ones with undiagnosed emotional issues that need therapy and not drugs. Maybe my city is too small, but I haven’t met anyone yet to share this common interest with that wasn’t attached to the “lifestyle” assumed with it :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 40 | Why his music taste is extremely important during the vetting process.Oh absolutely! I love hip hop too. There’s lots of great female rappers out there with powerful messages and thought provoking lyrics. Noname is an example, and I highly recommend checking out her music if you haven’t heard of her before. The DJ and producer comment, that’s true too. I feel in that case, they’re a product of their environment. With the money, travelling, and harem of female fans, many of them lose touch of reality and seeing women as human beings. It’s quite sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 21 | I'd say any super common/basic/unimaginative chain restaraunt is a no *for the first few dates*, with few exceptionsSorry, the cheddar biscuits are the secret way to my heart. But now that my secret is out, a majority of men are still too dumb/cheap to suggest anything other than a drink/walk date these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Hot Take: The new rules at OF will push more women into hardcore pornography and physical prostitution.Yes! The average monthly income was an eye watering $160. I really hope this move doesn’t push women into porn/prostitution at all. It’s infuriating that their stigma and history will leave them in a cycle of poverty. Sex work is just another way of men wanting to keep women out of the workforce. My heart truly goes out to all of them who were likely coerced into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:49 AM |
| 51 | Small wins!! OF to ban porn.They’re only banning pornography, but nudes are still ok. I know we want to feel bad for the libfems, but they’ll be fine. They’re still allowed to sell nudes of themselves to scrotes for $5.99 a month. They won’t be out of a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 63 | Well that was bound to happen🙄This is disgusting and no surprise it happened in ratchet ass Florida! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:26 PM |
| 463 | What’s your best FDS quote?DICK IS ABUNDANT AND OF LOW VALUE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:12 AM |
| 20 | Staying safe whilst travellingThese are all excellent tips and ones that I should have followed when I travel alone. For my next trip, I’ve screenshotted this list to remind me! I’m an extremely friendly and outgoing person irl and unfortunately see life with blinders on when it comes to travelling. I always make the assumption that if I’m nice to someone, they wouldn’t dream of hurting me (LOL NOT TRUE). I tend to over share with people when I travel in order to make friends with the locals and have made the brilliant mista… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:43 AM |
| 69 | Sisterhood is resistance!!Yes! Because the pickmeisha claws don’t come out. I think that’s the reason why it’s hard to make and maintain female friendships nowadays. The internalized misogyny and social conditioning by men to pit women against each other is too real. That’s why it’s important to value and cherish authentic friendships with other like minded women . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:39 AM |
| 128 | Sisterhood is resistance!!Yes sis. Men aren’t less drama, they’re just easier at manipulating women into hating each other. I’m happy we have platforms like FDS to enlighten other women on the scrotacity that’s out there, without fear of judgment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:34 AM |
| 1135 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /s“This tweet has been deleted” Oh okay, please delete the man too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:07 PM |
| 22 | drink datesDrink dates are easy for men because they put you in a state of intoxication, making it a breeze for a compromising situation to happen (aka r*pe). Taking a girl out for dinner costs just as much as taking someone out for drinks. But the likelihood of you getting drunk at a dinner date is far slimmer. Never forget that men see dating as a purely transactional affair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:43 PM |
| 114 | FDS are female incels 🙄The biggest farce ever. We can literally breathe and a man will be knocking at our door begging to have sex with us. We’re not involuntary celibates, we have standards. Men can’t get that through their primitive brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:40 PM |
| 34 | So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy?This is a great question. Unfortunately there’s no way to tell for sure if someone’s deleted their apps or their social media. The beauty of anonymity means you can make a bunch of burner accounts without a trace. On Facebook though, you can link your phone number to your account. If you look up an LVMs number, and a facebook account comes up, it’s more than likely associated with him (even though it might be a fake name). For dating apps, there’s the option to go “incognito” now, which means yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:40 PM |
| 125 | So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy?Facts! I’m with you on this. I haven’t had facebook for almost 13 years now. Deleted instagram last March and never felt better. It’s surprising how many “friends” forget about your existence when you stop posting your day to day life online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:13 PM |
| – | Myron Gaines from the Fresh & Fit podcast exposed as a sugar daddy. They’re all hypocrites ladies!!!Stop promoting prostitution on FDS, OP. Your post history is entertaining because you seem to love bashing men so much, yet you’re pandering to them on sites like this one. To everyone else, posts like this will get you banned. We do not promote prostitution on FDS. Also careful who you get “advice” from, if they don’t follow their own gospel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:05 PM |
| 77 | Believing your gut feeling the first time is crucialThis is scary accurate. I’ve written a post about this a while back. Sure enough, the guys I had an impossible time falling asleep next to were gaslighting narcissistic assholes. But I have my body to thank cueing me to exit the dating situation because I know it wouldn’t get better. Sleeping is a vulnerable act, and your body is smart enough to know when/where to do it safely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 11:44 PM |
| 791 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.Men are the biggest hypocrites. They’re quick to cheat on you with a prostitute or jerk their peen to random OF girls, and when you tell them that’s a boundary and you dump their ass for it, they call you iNsEcUrE!!!1 If men are SO enamoured with women who partake in these activities as we can all tell by your instagram/snapchat activity and onlyfans subscriptions, then why don’t they date them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 131 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.I want it so badly to be fake, but there's also plenty of pickmeisha sexpozzi women that would 100% be down for this. If my friend called my husband or partner hot, you bet your ass I would assume she had some sort of attraction to him and would try to keep them away from each other as much as possible. This woman had the brilliant idea to invite her friend who called her husband hot to have a threesome and regrets it? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 333 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileSis I had to look these guys up on Youtube and God LORD. They have some nerve insulting anyone looking the way they do. They're lucky they even have subscribers. I see that they made a follow up video standing by what they said and they're happy they got all the traffic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 973 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileNot only did they discuss women like literal animals, they're suggesting mutilating them like animals and shooting them in the back of the head "like cattle?" This is shit that serial killers and people who commit offenses like the tragic Plymouth incident would say. The fact his was even allowed to air on Youtube confirms that Youtube doesn't give a flying fuck about what's posted on their platform, as long as they can get ad revenue from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 25 | “If she doesn’t put out by the third date, she’s not into you bro.”The audacity LOL. The entire story made me giggle snort. The nerve of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 7 | “If she doesn’t put out by the third date, she’s not into you bro.”Projection? Care to elaborate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 11:39 AM |
| 202 | I am so glad I was banned from this sub-reddit so I don’t have to see clownery like this anymore!The dog was porn sick okay!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 62 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.No worries! I didn’t take it the wrong way. I’ve already done a post on cosmetic surgery and my personal experiences with it, so I didn’t feel the need to repeat myself. Welcome to FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 42 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.You can probably guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 342 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.So true. In my extreme kinkmeisha days, I wanted to be called “fuckdoll” and “fuck toy”. I cosmetically modified my body to fit this mould, so men could continue to objectify me. It’s not sexy. It’s not admirable. It’s plain ol’ abuse. Men weren’t calling me a fuckdoll because of my surgery, they were calling me a fuckdoll because that’s what they saw me as, a living object meant to be abused and used. Fuck off with this kink shit. We will kinkshame you because that’s not a healthy view of women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:20 PM |
| 218 | The bar is in hell ladies 🤦🏻♀️Really she’s asking if she should cancel the date? Not only did this dude fetishize her, but he dehumanized her to the point of not putting her name down as a contact! And on top of that, subtly negging her by sending her the screenshot of the train wreck. She’s beyond help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 251 | This card at the store made me think of y’all…This is what I would propose with to my morbidly obese LARP loving boyfriend of 11 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 109 | A few safety tipsAmazing tips! Just to let everyone know, if you post a picture on reddit the meta data already gets stripped from it. But if you want to be extra careful, strip the meta data aka EXIF before posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 1349 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.As a mod, I can tell you the amount of hate mail we get each day is sickening. All the automod hidden comments from men are also very alarming and are on almost every post here. A great majority of these men are very unstable and will harm you in some way if they know who you are irl and know you frequent FDS. Like Lilith said, be careful who you talk to on here. Don’t reply to DMs, better yet close them. Same for chat requests. These men will dox you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | This fucking audacityAgain, shit like this proves that men think the world revolves around their average at best dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 22 | Decriminalizing sex work. What are your thoughts?Sex work is not work. Disgusted by this virtue signalling and pandering to the patriarchy by this post by Clementine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 643 | “FdS IS JuST As BaD As InCeLs” when was the last time an FDS’er, or any woman, went and killed innocent people because they couldn’t get a man?Imagine going your entire life as a gender that thinks they’re owed sex. I cannot. They’re absolute monsters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:05 PM |
| 155 | Sex buyers want to normalize Sugar Dating. That's regressive and dangerous.Of course they do! For most sugar daddies, they're looking for a prostitute that will do literally anything for the lowest price! Why pay an average escort $200 an hour when you can woo a 20 something naive woman with the promise of 1k a month for 2 evenings a week. These evenings obviously consist in sex, having the woman host, and end up being 7 hours or longer. So an average escort would be making $1400 from one evening at a rate of $200 an hour. A month, this would be $11,200 if the escort w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:37 AM |
| 9 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Probably not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:17 PM |
| 220 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Did y’all hear about the telegram app groups where men trade girls nudes like pokémon cards? It’s not an anomaly. Our naked bodies are not sacred to these men, and are literal trophies to show off to other men in and outside of their social circles. Even if you find out that your ex bf or fwb or whatever still has your nudes, and you ask them to delete them kindly, they won’t do it. Trust me on this one. I was dating/engaged to someone for a very long time pre-FDS. I visited him one year for Chr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 5 | Why do men try to downgrade you from literal GIRLFRIEND to FWB? I've seen this play out multiple times.Because men are never satisfied with what they already have. They’re always out there looking for their mystical unicorn. You could literally be a Victoria secret model who rides him like a triple crown jockey and panders to his every whim, it still won’t be enough. This is why we’re big on rotational dating. If a guy gives you any indication that you’re not his priority and he’s trying to “bench” you, you already have option B, C, D, and E to fall back on. And for the women who agree to being d… | /r/askFDS | 12/08/21 11:46 AM |
| 37 | How do I know if this is good for me?You post about this loser way too often. If he’s the best you think you can do, you really have some deep rooted issues you need to work on. Obsessing about a directionless man who’s 6 years older than you and has an unhealthy relationship with money and poor sexual performance isn’t healthy. Please dump his ass, get help, and stop posting about him online on so many different subreddits if you’re unable to accept advice. | /r/askFDS | 11/08/21 11:05 PM |
| 276 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Yes!!!!111 We’re so in love!!!!111 I begged him to propose to me after 8 years of dating. He’s cheated on me with over a dozen woman but in the end, he chose ME! Stop being jealous of my choice, you’re just bitter a man won’t propose to you. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 187 | Always Date with Intent. Anything less is a waste of timeAgreed. Also never assume a man will change his mind and want anything more than FWB or casual. Men categorize us very quickly and will assign their intent with you within the first few dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 51 | How to tell if a guy watches porn?They have braille porn for these scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:44 PM |
| 44 | Deleting OLD never felt better!Ever wonder why failed relationships and infidelity are at an all time high? You can thank the dawn of the internet and the abundance of “choice!” Back in the 80s, if you met someone, you met them organically. You were more likely to have a partner commit to you (not saying that infidelity didn’t exist back then). People were in relationships longer. There was no grass is greener mentality. OLD has constructed unrealistic dating expectations and killed any semblance of a traditional courtship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 57 | Oh no…the NEST! 🤡If only they behaved like male birds and had their nests, I wouldn’t care. Be aesthetically pleasing and court us, and you can have your nest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 8 | FDS hits The Guardian 🥳: ‘Sales funnels’ and high-value men: the rise of strategic dating’WE LIVIN FOR IT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 47 | I had to share this lovely poem, so romantic ☺️“There doesn’t seem to be anything here” is referring to his brain. ………………….MY GIRL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Women Making it HappenPlease post this on our sister sub, r/femalelevelupstrategy. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 214 | This study's results are disturbing. Some goung men believe they have the right to force a woman to have sex If they spent money on her. (source: Lundy Bancroft "Why does he do that?")Women are not sex vending machines. I love how the word “force” is in there. Let’s not forget how men also intoxicate women to forcefully have sex with them, too. No to drink dates, but no to any kind of date where a man expects a prostitute on the cheap! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 430 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.YES SO MUCH THIS. All the men I’ve met who were into BDSM were the losers in high school that women didn’t give the time of day to. As soon as they became successful and grew into their looks, their “payback” was to subject the women (usually much younger ones) who rejected them into degrading sexual acts. I know how to spot these men now like the back of my hand. So predictable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 156 | He is LV or NV if you see any of these 🚩also, “sexual compatability” is a myth. Only a porn sick man or a man with bizarre kinks struggles to get and sustain an erection in the presence of a woman. Notice how the bumblers make basic dating etiquette and healthy sex/intimacy seem like rocket science.Ah the good ol' grocery shop and cook together schtick, the oldest trick in the book! Let me guess, he made you do all the cooking and the cleaning as well? I find that this "date" is the most classic form of LV fuccboi behaviour. Grocery shopping together builds intimacy and "future faking", while cooking together seems like an intimate act, but he's just too broke to take you out to dinner. This list is all so accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 07:40 PM |
| 41 | Join a male dominated sportThank you, you’re so right. Looking back, the instructor was pretty misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 65 | Join a male dominated sportYou are so lucky that you've had a positive experience, I wish I could say the same! I have my black belt in Karate that I've gotten years ago, but there was an equal number of women and men in my dojo. I decided to take up Krav Maga recently to increase my self defense knowledge and the gym that I went to was 99% males. Although I'm pretty athletic and focused on acquiring new skills, these men didn't view me as an equal at all and I was just a piece of meat in their eyes that was trying to lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 54 | It astounds me how pickmes can be so... malicious.My experience too has been like this! You’ve literally described every woman who’s wanted to be my friend by coming on way too strong. To test these kinds of women, I like to talk about a person i’m seeing at any given time and see how they react about it. Usually they’re snarky about the man I’m talking about in question. Then, I’ll invite the man to hangout with us. Tell me why these female friends who were snarky and talked about how much they hated him are suddenly all over the man and flirt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 977 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Sandra is queen energy and probably lurking on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:57 PM |
| 258 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceHe looks like an idiot sandwich, that’s for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:46 PM |
| 439 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceLook at those pornsick eyes and 90s ricky martin haircut. I cannot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 68 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.100% this. I hate how people always say "oh men aren't catty! If they have an issue with each other, they're physical about it and then forget about it!" Who perpetuated this myth? Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 197 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.Men are the worst gossips! Especially in the workplace, holy hell. All the politicing mostly comes from men and their content with pitting people against each other, mainly women! Sounds like a typical boy mom. Ever notice how there's a staggering trend of women pushed to succeed academically (which is awesome!), but men can leech off the system? Why do you think women hold more degrees than men do, on average? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 22 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.You're an anomaly then, good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 8 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationThis post blew my mind. Everything you said is so true. I love living solo. There’s nothing better than having peace of mind that you aren’t cohabitating with someone who’s potentially unsanitary, a cheater, poor with financial management etc. Even in a relationship, I had a hard time sleeping in the same bed as my partner. It’s just so unsettling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:49 AM |
| 25 | 97% of modern birds do not have penises because of female bird choice!🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:09 AM |
| 78 | more examples of "subtle negging" and what's in a Neg Sandwich?The sad thing is, most of these men are too daft to realize they’re saying something so left field. Not only are they stupid, but if they are negging like you’ve mentioned, it’s a perfect opportunity to exit stage left. I find that the men who are dumb enough to neg like this usually do it within the first few dates. The women who are oblivious to it think it’s endearing and a way for them to “connect” through banter. Nah sis, this is a clear cut example of why you should leave unless you enjoy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 124 | 97% of modern birds do not have penises because of female bird choice!This right here confirms my love for birds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:34 PM |
| 1220 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?There’s actually a name for it, it’s called the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 56 | Blocking is therapeutic.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qp34FXmSDD8 Your reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 06:29 PM |
| 49 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Yeah this. I’m not going to put my body through severe trauma and endure extreme amounts of emotional changes and potential career stagnation to give birth to a child for a man that doesn’t deserve it. The thought alone of it disgusts me. Like you, I’ve seen nothing but trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:52 PM |
| 20 | Things that are definitely NOT queen energy and why FDS must remain blunt and focused on priorities / real life strategies rather than blind following ideologies and people pleasing everyoneThanks for posting this sis, it really needed to be said. It appalls me to say that there are many users of FDS who have took it upon themselves to message/chat request me and call me a "Whore",""Bitch", "Slut", "man" among other slurs. Sometimes the truth really does hurt people, and we do live in a generation where being direct and blunt is considered offensive. I do it out of the love and care for others, I don't want others to continue being manipulated by men and other people in their lives… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:54 PM |
| 157 | Men on Reddit are Porn SickSis isn’t “wide”, he just has a pencil dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Ohio man charged with hate crime in plot to commit mass shooting of women.fDs iS MiSaNdRy!!!111 You never hear of any woman plotting to kill men in masses. Look at Genko’s dead pornsick eyes. This is a man who believes he’s owed sex by women due to societal conditioning. Glad this monster is locked up but there’s thousands more where he came from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 16 | I don’t need to have children to be a real woman and I’m tired of my conservative family telling me im not a real woman and most men telling me I’m not a real womanPreach. Too much emphasis is put on our "value" as a woman and our reproductive health. LV and NV men/people suddenly lose interest in you if you're physically unable to have children or choose to be child free. Either we're a living fleshlight, or an incubator. Our society is doomed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 61 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Lmao there’s no such thing as “ethically produced” porn. Are you for real? Nobody wakes up one day and says “Hmm you know what would be a great idea? Getting railed on camera and destroying any future I could have potentially built for myself!” Porn is the result of patriarchal conditioning and years of trauma. I refuse to believe otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:51 PM |
| 53 | Solo female travellers: stay vigilant no matter where you areThank you so much for posting that doorstop alarm. I too highly recommend it and use it while travelling. When I was alone in Turkey, the owner of my airbnb and his friends wanted to enter the apartment without my consent. I had one of those doorstoppers under the door but also got up out of bed and walked towards the door. The floors are VERY creaky because the building was old, and the men miraculously stopped trying to turn the knob and disappeared. The next day, I decided that I was going to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:14 PM |
| 511 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Dead soulless eyes while they’re talking to you or about to be intimate with you. I can’t explain it better than them looking right through you while looking you dead in the eyes. Fingers in the mouth is a huge one! Hair pulling and forcing you down to blow him is another. Complaining that you don’t go down enough and that he needs to finish while you use your mouth before he returns the favour is a massive sign too. He sees you as nothing but an object for him to use and discard, and you have t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:00 PM |
| 379 | POV: Date with a LVM 😂The accuracy is astonishing 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:25 AM |
| 104 | Nickeled and Dimed by NVMsYes this! Beware of the man who also pretends to have money. They’ll be sweet and charming in the beginning and take you out on nice dinner dates, then slowly nickel and dime you and start asking YOU for stuff. For these men, the initial date investment was a small investment to reap financial rewards from you. Beware of the men who are unemployed yet have questionable items for their non existent source of income. Does he have a luxury car, does he rent an expensive house? If he’s not employed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:51 AM |
| 11 | Kink community showing their true face. This is why kinkshaming is importantI- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Why have a LVM when you can have someone who profoundly loves you and wants to make you fall in love with him all over every single day? You deserve it.Oh wow I’ve never seen her before or did I know that. But that explains a lot, so everything they’re doing is just for social media clout. I’m sure all of us have shared intimate and special moments with our partners but our first thought isn’t to hop onto social media and take a photo of it. I don’t like the glorification of couples like this because it sets an unrealistic standard and expectation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 14 | Why have a LVM when you can have someone who profoundly loves you and wants to make you fall in love with him all over every single day? You deserve it.“It’s been so many years” Is this sis engaged or married yet? Is it just me or do these kinds of posts make people cringe? If you have to always announce you’re happily in love to the world on social media, it usually means you’re compensating for something. Excessive gestures or constant posting makes me think that there’s something more sinister that’s being covered up because social media is just a careful curation of what you want to the world to think of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:59 PM |
| 67 | So sorry her period is annoying to you! 😡 And how proud he seems of his complete ignorance of female bodies. Notice she's already used her amazing body to create his children.Yep! These LV men will say “your mouth and ass are still functional and not out of service!” A man who gets disgusted at the thought of period sex as a suggestion is immature af and is solely using you as his personal fleshlight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:04 PM |
| 396 | Porn teaches men to derive pleasure from causing women pain. This blatant misogyny is in full view and being promoted by lvm and libfems with internalized misogynyWe live in an age where I would say a good majority of men are pornsick. It’s so rare to find a man who isn’t. If you’re not willing to be performative and consent to acts of degradation, suddenly you’re “not his type” or he has a valid excuse to cheat on you. Gone are the days of vanilla eye contact “boring sex”, now if you’re not willing to get pissed on and choked while your man wears a gorilla suit and caws like a seagull, you’re not “kinky enough.” Men complain that our libidos are far lowe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:07 PM |
| 243 | Violent Sexual Lingo…“Blow you out/stretch you out” like it’s something that’s going to get my heart pumping and hot and bothered. Don’t men make fun of women who they deem “loose?” Why on earth would they suggest blowing us out then? Oh I know, because they view us as nothing more than objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:57 PM |
| 261 | "Under the skin of OnlyFans"--BBCinvestigation reveals that the abuse goes deeper than we knewWhile BBC does a great job of highlighting what’s inherently wrong about Onlyfans in terms of security, threats, etc. it still sounds like they’re peddling Onlyfans by mentioning it “financially transformed people’s lives” and still mentioning how much money some women made from the site (Over 700k GBP) in some cases. I really wish this site wasn’t as celebrated as it is. It’s lining the pockets of men who still profit off oppressing us, using the ruse of liberal feminism and “empowerment.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:55 PM |
| 27 | My colleague (27M) fasts almost all day so he doesn't have to cookThis is soooo common now it’s absolutely mortifying. I know a 36 year old who doesn’t know how to cook and orders take out for literally every meal. Took a “leave of absence” from work due to “stress”, yet still has the time and energy to go out drinking and partying with his friends. In the off chance he actually decided to be an adult, he would cook eggs sunny side up and then leave the dirty pan on the stove or sink for literally DAYS. It’s no surprise he’s still available at 36. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 201 | You are allowed to eat.Just another classic case of negging. Men try and have control of our bodies in any way possible, even including controlling our food intake. Your post is extremely well worded, these men have no place in your life! In fact, even family members/friends who talk to you this way have no place in your life either. The examples you’ve listed hit close to home for me and were the catalyst for an eating disorder I had in my late teens. These men think it’s a joke but really don’t understand the impact… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 29 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."It’s a joke sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:27 PM |
| 33 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."She deserves all the money in the world for touching that atrocity of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:03 PM |
| 31 | How do you do it?Yeah this. Block and delete his advances. He has no reason to be texting you or adding you on snapchat if he was your coworker 2 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 02:37 PM |
| 28 | Why do so many women think they need violent sex now?Porn ruined society, period. BDSM is applauded, encouraged, and celebrated. The most "desirable woman" is the one who allows men to do the most degrading acts to her. Pure clownery. Breath play (choking), flogging (literal physical abuse), electroplay (literally getting electrocuted), fisting... the list goes on. How does that sound like its pleasurable at ALL for a woman? It sounds like some sort of medieval torture that we need to endure to be peformative for mens pornsick desires. The men I'v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:10 PM |
| 23 | Low value people lack nuance.Medusa, you always nail it, thank you! The unfortunate truth like you've mentioned is seeking a HVM that sits between those two extremes. That's such a small portion of the male population. I can confidentally say that every man I've dated can fall into either one of those categorical extremes. It's quite interesting how men can be easily grouped into either one of those categories. For women? Not so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 58 | What does FDS think of men who post a lot on social media?Personally, I don't have social media as I don't see the need for apps that encourage seeking validation like instagram. Very few people use these apps appropriately and cultivate meaningful connections with people over shared interests. Lots of men lie about not having social media, but I absolutely can't stand the men that do have social media and use it for glorification and pickmeisha wrangling. In the early stages of vetting, I always ask for a man's instagram handle (although I don't have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:08 PM |
| 20 | Everybody is telling her that she's the problemThis is the fifth dimension of pickmeism. They broke up for 4 months and her husband is sticking his dick in other woman and getting them pregnant? That's a huge exit sign flailing in her face to get the hell out of that situation. That child will be a constant reminder of his fling with the woman he decided to entertain while his wife sat at her sister's house trying to bide her time as things blew over. She doesn't need to live with this situation, she needs to leave immediately. If getting ot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 231 | Ladies, now the war is really on. We have came this far now. One down, many more to go!1 down, 1.3 million other porn sites to go. But honestly, although this seems like a win, it’s just a strategic business move. The real money maker for Mindgeek was Pornhub, let’s be real here. Pornhub has the most visitors and unique visitors each and every day and the most media clout. This is a move on the company’s part to continue to increase traffic to the site to boost revenue. Not necessarily because of anything nefarious (although the entire industry is sickening, mindgeek didn’t have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common argument (Part. 5)This is amazing. Again, you’ve written an incredible and well rounded post. I can’t fathom the amount of women who still don’t get it, let a man act in his masculine element. A man who truly cares for you and values you will want to protect and provide for you. There’s nothing more emasculating than a man who allows his woman to split the bill or go 50-50. I want a partner, not a roommate. Unless someone provides positivity in my life, they have no place in it. Especially true when it comes to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 07:20 PM |
| 43 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Lmao the music they’re playing in the background for this video, I am freakin’ dying of laughter!!!! Bunch of scrote losers hiding behind voice changing software and a stupid mask graphic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:52 PM |
| 14 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY JUNE 26 2021I am so sorry! I just noticed that. Will update shortly. We’re so happy you like these posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:25 PM |
| 15 | Went on a really nice date today, or: I think I found a HVM!“Our first date was at his house.” Stop reading there sis. This man is not HV and you didn’t find a “HVM”. Finding a high value man is after months or years of consistency. You were the one who suggested a date at his place, which was a wrong move imho. I’m hoping this post is satire, if not, you have a lot of handbook reading to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 193 | FDS isn't about giving the benefit of the doubt. It's about being smart women who don't get played.I agree sis. Never give a man sympathy because they could care less about us and our feelings. Stop doing mental gymnastics for a man who’s clearly disrespecting you or acting strange. No, he doesn’t have a personality flaw you can magically fix. No, he won’t change for you sis. Our biggest flaw as women is that we’re naturally dispositioned to have higher levels of empathy. Save that empathy for people who deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 34 | Change My Mind: Modern Feminism is a Male Insurgent MovementHear hear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 101 | I see so many guys complain about how easy it is for girls to get matches on dating apps and how much it sucks that they get so fewOLD dating is a meat market for scrotes to target their next victim who'll fall for their sweet nothings lickity split in order to give them a less than mediocre performance with their 2" dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 239 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Lilith, you’re going to be missed dearly from all of us on here. But everything you said is true, why are we continuing to moderate and generate revenue for a website that could care less about women and their rights and continue to oppress our entire gender? Reddit was a great way to group together like minded people and lead them to other platforms where they’re free of misogyny. Thank you for everything you’ve done for FDS, and I am sure all of us will continue to stay in touch with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 51 | Just because I’m nice to you scrotes, doesn’t mean I want to sleep with you.Lol the auto-smile “I’m smiling but secretly i’m dying inside.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 39 | Just because I’m nice to you scrotes, doesn’t mean I want to sleep with you.I need to learn from you. I’m TOO nice to people in general. As an empath, I get walked all over or misinterpreted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 17 | JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us.I don’t associate with poors. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 172 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and prosperous life and you’re setting an amazing example for everyone else that fell into the clutches of the industry. I hope you land your dream job someday soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:33 PM |
| 72 | TW: Hot take, liberal feminism and the glorification of "Sex work" will signficiantly increase the number of woman mental health issues/suicides in the next 5-10 years.Thank you for your authenticity, Lilith. I really enjoyed that episode on the podcast. People need to stop having their blinders on regarding the reality of sex work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 6 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexWhy are you reducing these women who have a conscious choice in their decisions to “girls”? Girls belittles them and makes them sound like objects, fitting for the industry presumably. Nobody has ever told women who decide to go down the route of prostitution to go back to whatever terrible situation they were in, what are you talking about? I’m fully cognizant of the fact that there are woman who resort to this line of work because they’re trafficked or come from extreme poverty where employmen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 40 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexSorry I’m approving your comment this time because I’m so interested on hearing why stripping and prostitution is “feminist.” By feminist, you mean liberal feminism that was essentially made by the patriarchy? You’re turned off men and date woman as a lesbian, yet you still pander to them? At 26 years old I would expect your brain to be fully developed. No amount of money, 1.5k-3k a week is worth sacrificing your self respect and future for. If that’s what you define as “feminist”, FDS is not th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 113 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerSome scrote tried to show me paperwork from back in December to prove he was “clean”. He’s been sleeping with dozens of women since then unprotected. They don’t value their own personal health and the health of others. They don’t LiKe UsInG cOnDoMs!! because they can’t “feel anything”. These men will lie and literally tell you anything to appease you. Even coerce you into unprotected sex. I’ve fallen victim to this, as I’m sure many others. Stay safe this summer ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 132 | Have you noticed how much better the quality of your sleep is after cutting all contact with a LVM or simply sleeping by yourself?YES. For me it was the anxiety and ruminating over every awful thing they’ve ever did or said to me. I was a big believer in second chances and that people could be changed. BUUUUT, after I blocked these people I finally got the beauty rest I need and my anxious thoughts miraculously disappeared. Having LV people in your life totally ages you, and having your sleep patterns affected proves it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | A friendly reminder on flairs.Hey there, Each post is manually approved to align with our rules at FDS and to ensure there’s quality content on the sub at all times. All posts go through a moderator queue, so please be patient while we get around to reviewing and approving it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:10 PM |
| 47 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY JUNE 5 2021That’s a great suggestion! Maybe we can incorporate a throwback post as a 6th post in the Saturday Strategy Spotlight. Personally, I love seeing everyone else’s content and it would reduce the number of days mods pin things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:47 AM |
| 16 | Mario Di Vaio - hot Italian D&G model🤪Damn sis. Off topic, but why do perfume announcers at the end of these commercials sound like chain smokers in their 40s? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:23 PM |
| 37 | And that’s the 🍵👀I totally agree with your statement, but in my case that wasn’t the root of my issue. I don’t want to go into personal details about my psychological life and let’s leave it at that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 140 | And that’s the 🍵👀Totally. As someone who’s an ex cool girl and was okay with casual sex, I can tell you I’m paying the price now. I have extreme difficulties forming emotional connections with men, and it might happen once in a blue moon. When it does happen, I get scared and run away. Casual sex was the fuel for my intimacy issues. I can admit that shamelessly now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:10 PM |
| 35 | It's empowering!!! /sThats an anomaly. So many strip clubs encourage substance abuse because they know the women will keep coming back to make money to fuel their addictions. Please don’t think that strip club owners and house mom’s are genuinely nice people. At the end of the day, they’re exploiting women to make money from predominately a male clientele. I refuse to believe that a majority of these women working at a strip club don’t have some sort of substance addiction or mental illness of some sort. Lots of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 125 | The random man I locked eyes with the other week shopping for cool ranch doritos and mountain dew 🥰🥰Sis, why are you hating on my preferences? 💅🏽💅🏽 don’t standard shame me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:10 PM |
| 65 | It's empowering!!! /sLol so now being a Madame is praised? What a backwards generation we live in. I hope she lost many subscribers after this. I did enjoy her content in the past because she was honest about what she does for a living and it was interesting to listen to. Now that she’s dragging people into it? She can go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:07 PM |
| 137 | It's empowering!!! /sMost of her subscribers are freshly 18, this is vile. Imagine. She’s grooming the next generation of women into prostitution. Also I don’t know why you need to audition for a strip club. I never understood it. Men will masturbate to literally anything (even fuck a McChicken). Learning to “dance” and “auditioning” to essentially pander to men who would have jerked off to you anyways is hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:01 PM |
| 67 | This is just so sad. Them LVM got her manipulated that one night stands are really going to have any benefit to her.Yeah sis, this is sad. Very VERY few women can pull a Samantha from SATC and totally detach their emotions from a sexual encounter. It already sounds like she has some sort of emotional attachment from meeting him once and having sex once, or else she wouldn’t come to Reddit to write about it and ruminate on the situation. Casual dating isn’t for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:48 AM |
| 27 | Scott BakulaWho’s father is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:59 AM |
| 22 | Part 1: Personal Finance and AdviceNO SIS. We need a man who makes 7 figures who lets us be stay at home kweens! Stop polluting our brains with this information!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 29 | Broke men on Reddit be likeYes! Stop settling for scrotes kween, i believe in you 👸🏾😇💅🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 47 | Broke men on Reddit be likeKWEEN, he better buy Jamaica for me 💅🏽💅🏽👸🏾 if he wanted to he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 111 | Broke men on Reddit be likeWe only do 0/200000 💅🏽💅🏽👸🏾 scrotes better be paying for our meals 20 years from now through email gift cards while we’ve settled down with our HVM. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 71 | Pay attention to how he talks about his own mother and sistersHmm nah not always sis. The most terrible men I've ever met spoke extremely highly of their mothers and sisters. They put up this high value facade to try and reel unsuspecting women in. Some of them even spoke highly of their mother and sisters because they appreciated their motherly tendencies and were forever peter pans. Yes, it's also bad news if a man talks poorly about his mother and sisters. This is cause for great concern, but my ears perk up even more when he talks poorly about random w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 201 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...I actually like asking the man i’m vetting how he feels about threesomes. They’re all dumb and tell me about all the threesomes they’ve had in past and how they’d do it again in the future with the right partner. Bye Felicia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 101 | I hope she gets picked !She’s probably the same woman who’s OK with scouting for women for her boyfriend to cheat on her with. “It’s ok, we both like looking at hot women together!!!! HEHEHEHE!” Those 69 upvotes on the original post are obviously from pornsick men who thinks this is some novel revolutionary statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:41 AM |
| 92 | Porn Addiction Is More Common Than Anyone Wants To AdmitPorn addiction would also explain such young men developing ED as well. Men even 30 years ago would perform and be thrilled to have the opportunity to sleep with a woman. A man in his 20s to mid 30s shouldn’t have any issue getting and maintaining an erection for an attractive woman. Porn has skewed what the idea of sex and femininity is in the eyes of men. A dead giveaway of someone with a hidden porn addiction is exactly that, a man who is young who can’t maintain or keep an erection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:55 AM |
| 19 | If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.Lmao for the giveaways, that’s a new one. You know he’s super LV because he’s expecting free stuff too. Men are a special breed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 71 | Are you doing the Pickme Backslide?Wow I didn’t expect an entire post calling me out like this. Thanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:21 AM |
| 16 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.It’s not a coincidence I only date buff/bodybuilder dudes exclusively. Sadly there’s a lot of LV tall men too, but those are usually the lanky ones with hardly any muscle that were bullied in HS. Edit: TALL bodybuilders with deep voices especially. None of this effeminate BS. Too many tall men out here sounding like Marilyn Monroe. But you’re RIGHT. There’s nothing more attractive than a man who’s taller/a lot bigger than me and the protector type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 15 | Red pill /abuse tactics I’ve seen on the field over the last few yearsSis you've nailed it all to a T. These men are extremely easy to spot on the first date and there's no reason why a woman with a good head on her shoulders won't be able to spot the signs when they read about men and their playbook. Watch out for the man who's a little "too smooth". Opening your doors, pulling out your chair, pouring drinks for you. This is a man who has a routine with many women, he has figured out what works to fool women with standards and masquerades as a man with high value… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:33 AM |
| 71 | That's a lot of words for "I'm too cheap for a ring and want to keep her a forever gf"I wonder what the flocks of pickme’s are cawing about in the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 61 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common arguments (Part. 2)"He is far more attractive than me and I'm afraid to lose him!" I am appalled this constitutes going 50/50 on a date. I think the world needs to remember that men continue to be the oppressors of woman and also pay for access to their bodies. Men are aware of power of vagina. It's extremely rare to hear of any woman paying for sex from a man, because there's a 0.000000001% chance of that ever happening. Dick is abundant and of negative value. When you go 50/50 on a date sis, you're essentially a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:59 PM |
| 40 | Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING.*Dominque Sisley has entered the chat* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 58 | Stop letting men triangulate you against other women - they are trying to deliberately belittle you because they are threatened by your confidence. You are a Queen. A bad bitch. You laugh in the face of men who try to make you jealous- you see them as insecure and attention-seeking. They are LVM.Yes omg. I had a guy try to triagulate me with some other woman on our literal first date. She was at the event too, and he couldn't stop telling me how "crazy and obsessed with him" she was. Of course, she leered at me and then happily went up to him and hugged him like everything was great. He looked quite happy too! That should have been my biggest clue to cut it off then and there. But no, I was a pickmeisha and stayed with a literal diagnosed narcisisst. If a man shows you who they are with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.This is a great idea, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:51 PM |
| 35 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.Dead sis LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:49 PM |
| 73 | Date with a LVM starter pack 😂😩🥴Where's the picture of a field? And wow, this is a generous LVM! You'd be lucky if a man offers you a glass of water these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:33 PM |
| 14 | Daily Queen reminder 👑 don’t let men rob you of the idea that things could be very different. The more women unite and refuse to appease, the sooner that vision will become a reality.This needs to be a REAL movement like disruptive technologies have shifted our global landscape! The more this community grows, the more that I know the message of FDS is being spread and received as it should be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:16 PM |
| 48 | Post title says this queen asked for a proper date, but his description then labels the request as a demand. Why is this man outing himself as low effort?Scrotalese 😂 I’m shaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 51 | Why I forget things at his place.Lots of men don't want to be honest about seeing multiple people because they would never respect or see a woman that is honest about seeing many men. They want a pure and pious woman, while they continue being disgusting. Yes, cheating fuckboys and RP men are extremely common and without strategies to vet them, we'll always be one step behind their games. You could still talk/text/see a man frequently during the week, and you'll still be one of the many "plates" that he's spinning. Family/frien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 66 | Why I forget things at his place.First of all, excuse me? Obviously we weren’t aware of their disgustingness before we found that out through experience. You don’t need to have sex with them for this strategy to work. I take my earrings off all the time because costume jewelry makes my ears itch (and for some reason I like wearing costume jewellery). You could also leave a ring in the washroom or by the kitchen sink after taking it off to wash your hands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:30 PM |
| 58 | What are your basic standards that others consider high standards?This. 9/10 these men won't want to meet your "standards", and will just reply with a negative comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:42 PM |
| 6 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized.PICK MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:09 PM |
| 61 | Keep SlayingHer brow game on fleek too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:52 PM |
| 57 | Say no to "potential"Also to add, men will never date a woman “for her potential.” He’ll only want a woman who already has whatever qualities he’s looking for (model attractiveness, her own place, etc). Why should we date down and settle for a project? This isn’t 3rd grade science fair. Especially look out for the guys that have these low value traits and jump into one long term committed relationship after another. They’re just looking for a woman who’s willing to mother him and pick up the pieces of his destructio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.Okay great, good for you! I also have plastic surgery done (not just my boobs), but this post isn’t in reference to surgery we get for our own self confidence. This post is about doing things in excess for the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Ignorance is bliss I guess??That’s way too much work. But yeah I could see that working too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:38 PM |
| 8 | Ignorance is bliss I guess??No unfortunately, if they’re set to private you can’t see their followers or who they’re following. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 44 | Ignorance is bliss I guess??I actually love when men drop their IG handle to me expecting me not to snoop. These are men I haven't met irl for a date yet, and that I'm vetting before that point. I don't have IG anymore, but if their profile is public you're able to see their followers list through apps/web-based browsers. If I see that he's following half naked woman on his IG? Immediate block/delete. He put his cards out on the table showing me how LV he is, without actually having me meet him in person and experience it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 28 | GhostingExactly. You don't owe anyone anything. If you ghost someone (who you're not in a long term relationship with), they're usually aware of the behaviour they've done that caused you to feel so disrespected you decided to ghost them. Trust me, men aren't stupid and are extremely aware of their actions. Also your post in general is very rudimentary, OP. The topic of "ghosting" comes up at least once a week, and posts are a lot more thought out and well written. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 13 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.This is exactly the reason why I don’t have instagram anymore. If you don’t post thirst traps, you’re basically invisible on instagram to a majority of people. Too much filtering, fakeness, and curating the best moments of your life which is farthest from the reality. The pickmeishas are trying to hard to compete with one another, they’re literally prostitute themselves to some old guy fat mexican guy so they can post pictures of their luxury designer hauls and expensive trips. Most “influencers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:42 PM |
| 82 | Porn culture and Only Fans promotes the dehumanization of women everywhere.The sad thing is that it’s so socially accepted now, it’s hard to find people who aren’t involved in the porn industry/prostitution in some way. Liberal feminism wants the world to believe that porn = empowerment, and it’s a totally acceptable way to make money. The pandemic and loss of many many jobs made this theory even more apparent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 16 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressiveEven animals aren’t safe from sexual harassment from males! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 268 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteThat’s the hand writing of a serial killer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:15 AM |
| 27 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.Yes I totally get that, but looking younger at work doesn’t mean you get monstrous implants and a BBL right? My post is more targeted towards unrealistic body expectations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:24 AM |
| 66 | Don’t know if this one has been posted, but the absolute depravity of this man.i'M aLwAyS tRyInG tO iMpRoVe MySelF tO pLeAsE HiM mOrE!!! Sis, please divorce this rapist. I feel horrible for her, but guaranteed, she's going to come back for more "advice" on her "relationship" while continuing to spend precious years of her life with him just for internet points. I hope that's not the case and she gets out of this situation desperately. He will end up killing her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 85 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.If more men could get away with fucking a child, trust me, all men would. Men are extremely quick to infantilize woman. Why do you think men are obsessed with Belle Delphine and other "content" creators that center their marketing and "product" around acting/looking child like? 96 percent of people who sexually abuse children are male, 76 percent are married men, and 76.8 percent of people who sexually abuse children are adults. The younger the victim, the more likely it is that the abuser is a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 58 | Am I wrong though???The dawn of the internet futher exacerbated the problem. Men have always been conniving since the beginning of time, but the internet and social media made it so easy to cheat on their partners in all sorts of ways. Porn is the product of third wave liberal feminism and the patriarchy's desire to keep women destitute and slaves to their microdicks and ridiculous fantasies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 81 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.👨🏼🦲👨🏽🦲👨🏿🦲 yOu UsE tOo MaNy EmOjIs!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:20 PM |
| 145 | Do not message men first! Like complimenting them, it just inflates their ego so they try more girls.You should avoid online dating in general, but Bumble especially. Since as a woman you NEED to message the guy first to get the conversation going, it sets the dynamic and expectation that you’ll always be the one pursuing him. Also never compliment a man, as I’ve said before, unless he’s your long term partner who you’ve deemed HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:44 PM |
| 74 | Nah you can be mean to men and still find a HVM who gets why you're mean lolHonesty is being mean? Ok I'm happy to die alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 09:05 PM |
| 94 | The Faux PatriarchMen love to bitch and complain that we're looking for a unicorn and that we'll never find our HVM blah blah, but this is exactly why. REAL patriarchs are extremelyyyyyyy scarce, and of course we're making our generalizations and observations about men and how they present themselves to us. I've only ever met ONE man in my life that is a true patriarch, and that's in my 29 years of existence (13 years of dating experience). I hate to see it, but so many pickmeishas continue falling into the trap … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 88 | SEX POZZY MYTHS BUSTED : Why women struggle to emotionally detach from casual sex despite their best efforts. Male semen contains a concoction of chemicals designed to enslave her to the man she had sex with.Gross. More proof that males and semen is parasitic. I'm a fence sitter now and potentially considering being a single mother by choice. The semen part scares me so bad, espectially potentially being attached to a man I have 0 knowledge of other than picking out from a catalog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 159 | Men & “the wall”Exactly. Now why on earth will a young, attractive woman in her 20s and 30s be attracted to a man in his late 40s or older? Keep in mind most men are painfully unattractive. Then these men complain about women being goldiggers. Really, you think a woman in the prime of her life is genuinely attracted to you for your receeding hairline, beer gut, and boring hobbies? Get real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 847 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?Porn would make you believe that women orgasm from PIV sex in 2 minutes of jackhammering, moaning like a walrus and squirting on their male partners. This is why so many men are conditioned to think that sex is just a perfomative thing for us, and the false belief that our entire existence revolves around trying to get an orgasm from a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 10 | Antonio Lujak, a Croatian modelThis is why i’m planning on going to Croatia 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:28 PM |
| 199 | Saw this on Instagram and thought it belonged here. STAY WOKE LADIESWhy do you think so many scrotes have an unhealthy obsession with Shrek? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:54 AM |
| 2 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face.Read until the very end thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 22 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face."Me calling men attractive has actually made them think I'm more confident than the usual (most women don't compliment men on their looks anyways)." And how's that working out for you sis? Lmao. Most women don't compliment men on their looks at all because they know how quickly it gets to their heads. "They don't necessarily like to hear it anyway" Uh, in what world? They LIVE for the attention and compliments about their looks. My post is centered around validating a man for his physical appera… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 20 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face.There's other ways to identify if a man is LV or not, and trying to compliment them isn't the way to go about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 101 | The NVM I was with would complain about celebrating my accomplishments. My HVM just celebrates being with me! Thank you ladies ❤️Waiting for the guys from the other subreddits to repost this and claim you bought these flowers yourself lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 53 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face.ALL men are LV until proven otherwise. So yes, this advice applies in any situation with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 154 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face.Exactly. Its female intuition. It's very unnatural to court a man or compliment him right off the bat. I've already been getting downvotes from pickmeishas or scrotes on this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 6 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021So many men trying to chime in on this topic claiming you’re delusional. Sorry you scrotes can’t handle spreading of the TRUTH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:50 PM |
| 168 | FDS principles lands on a political news channel. A few FDS’ers in the comments defending this woman for setting standards. So many complaining dinner is expensive and she’s a gold digger for the bare minimum.Lol, so much to take in. No neck Nathan here claims he’s been on hundreds of dates when he was single, and finds this gorgeous Tik Tok lady insufferable. Pickme Patty comes to men’s rescue claiming nOt aLl MeN!! Yes, honey, ALL MEN. Just because you look like you probably don’t have any luck with men and have never been asked out on a date where you’re put in a compromising situation, doesn’t mean you have to defend men and come for Cornellia on your awful fake news channel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:16 AM |
| 152 | Men are ‘getting away with murder’ by claiming they killed partners during rough sex in ’50 Shades of Grey defence’ (this is why you have to be so picky including with wealthy men.)This is why you should never date a man who suggests BDSM at all. Point blank period. Not only are they pornsick and depraved, but they literally have a defence WHEN THEY KILL YOU. Never have I ever met a man who didn’t have some sort of personality or mental disorder that was into BDSM. BDSM only benefits the man anyways. Even if the man is a submissive, he’s still getting sexual pleasure at the expense of his female partner engaging in performative sex he jerked off to an hour ago on PH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:21 AM |
| 87 | Why scrotes are triggered by this subI got a message saying that I’ll be raped and murdered in 7 days, and nobody will find my body. And nobody has or will ever care about me. If that’s not scrote behaviour, then I don’t know what it is. Thanks for further validating my points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 186 | Had a funeral for a close relative a few years ago and it helped me get some closure. They don’t like expensive weddings and now they don’t think people should have funerals either if they want one? Fuck outta hear with your cheap assHow on earth will men be able to afford their Onlyfans and porn subscriptions if they have to pay for a wedding or a funeral?! THINK OF THE MEN. SHOW SOME COMPASSION! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:54 PM |
| 70 | The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪This post is chefs kiss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 71 | Men who get salty when you're transparent about not pursuing things further and why you should GHOST!Lol the men I know that are into astrology fake interest just to get closer to woman. I've dated men who were yogis, into healing crystals, tantric sex, and astrology who were absolute nutjobs who have no interest in spirituality and fake "wokeness" to appeal to a certain kind of woman. Any guy who mentions astrology in a non sarcastic way is an immediate red flag to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 23 | Men who get salty when you're transparent about not pursuing things further and why you should GHOST!LOL, lemme guess, are you a Scorpio? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:39 PM |
| 52 | Rant about a subreddit :/Exactly this. OP, a lot of these woman suffer from mental illness or trauma. Many of these women were sexualized at an extremely young age and now think their entire existence is based on the validation of men. Any attention, no matter how depraved, is good from men. I feel pity for these women. Not for their choices, but for their lack of self reflection and their willingness to get help to overcome the constant need for infamy and validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 12:15 PM |
| 89 | It’s okay to have preferences. Ladies, don’t let unattractive men shame you for wanting “Chad”.It’s natural selection! The weak and undesirable die off and don’t get to continue their lineage. It’s true in nature, why do women need to settle for men who would otherwise be overlooked if they were animals in nature? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 74 | Physical Red FlagsHave a penis. That’s it, that’s all. Thread closed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 97 | misandry isn't real and men who say it IS are more likely to be dangerous.I see nothing wrong with misandry. Over millennia, which gender has predominately been the oppressor of people? Which gender has brutally murdered, raped, and abused woman? The statistics don’t lie. Misandry is formed from the actions and treatment from men towards women. Women who form these views have witnessed the deprivation from men and have even experienced it themselves. Women don’t develop this view overnight. Misogyny on the other hand is solely based on wanting to continue to oppress w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:45 PM |
| 20 | What’s up with left wing LVMs?? 🤔This is exactly why I don’t talk about my political views early on in the vetting process. These men always tell on themselves. And like other ladies have mentioned on here, narcissists will mirror you or even falsify their traditionalist stance to try and lure you into a situationship with them. These men may appear “HV” at first, pulling out all the stops (think paying on dates, putting on the traditional provider role), then slowly push some libfem ideologies onto you like polyamory etc. You’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:50 PM |
| – | To our lurkers: Just don’t read our sub.The thing that bothers me the most is their consistent urge to invade our female only space. As a mod, I can tell you the amount of false reports, hate mod mail, and negative comments that aren't approved on every post is substantial. Dear scrotes, we don't invade your special circle jerk male spaces with our thoughts. We don't brigade, downvote your posts, make false reports on your posts, or send you hate mail. Get a fucking life and leave us alone and maybe you'll find a woman who's intereste… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:19 PM |
| 8 | Montgomery Clift is perfectionYes yes yes! Take all of my upvotes. 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 40 | Surviving Sex Trafficking [Full Documentary]This is the reality of forced prostitution! It’s not empowering whatsoever. These women are sexually abused from a young age, kidnapped and forced by various forms of assault to have sex for money in order to fund their captors lifestyles. Liberal feminism has sold the GROSSLY incorrect fact that “sex work” is empowering! There’s nothing empowering about selling pictures of your asshole for $6.99 a month on Onlyfans to people who could potentially be related to you. There’s nothing empowering ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:10 PM |
| 364 | Just got attacked by a man on the street for not talking to him.Holy shit. I am so sorry this happened to you! Men are despicable. Too many men are let go scott free for this very behaviour. You mentioned it happened in front of a preschool, can you call the police and report the incident? They can get footage from the security cameras in front of the preschool. At least you’ll protect other woman from this violent man if they’re able to identify him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:58 PM |
| 42 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"Liberal feminism has indoctrinated a generation of prostitutes who need to take to twitter to pander to men and defend their poor life choices for twitter clout. Getting paid to suck dick is nothing to brag about. The men who need to pay for sex are the ones any rational and sane woman would stay far the hell away from. Enjoy sucking Rupert’s 76 year old dick from Utah. Hope having his shrivelled balls in your mouth is worth the mental trauma and max $200 bucks you’ll earn sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:35 PM |
| 682 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Cops and military personnel is synonymous with LV abusive men. This is alarming behaviour, and it’s extremely sad that she had to literally move towns to get away from him. There’s a lot of camaraderie with men in these professions who will cover each other’s asses for stalking, rape, abuse, and literal murder. Always avoid these men from dating apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:34 PM |
| 8 | My personal projectThis brought tears to my eyes, bless you sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:52 PM |
| 28 | Not repeating others’ mistakesYou are certainly on the right track. Nobody is able to provide the same solitude and tranquility as you're able to provide yourself. Like you, learning this lesson throughout a majority my 20s has really solidified the fact that I can't trust men at all, and the "white picket fence" fantasy is just a pipe dream and social construct. There's absolutely no need to be in a relationship with man. It's not the end all be all. I refuse to give up my happiness and reduce myself to nothing just for the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:43 PM |
| 30 | Is Bill Gates LVM?Why do Bill and Melinda need to stay together anymore anyways? Their plans of microchipping the world is complete. This divorce is just clearly a distraction. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:24 PM |
| – | My husband has admitted to watching porn again and I have no idea what to do about it.Locked the thread for further commenting. OP, your post history shows that you've used every excuse in the book to stay in the relationship. He is an abuser, plain and simple. You cannot constantly come to AskFDS and FDS looking for advice to get out of a situation, without actually taking said advice. This isn't a new issue and you need to get out with your children, in a place where you'll be safe. | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 07:02 PM |
| 71 | No HVW wants to be talked to like a porn star. The scrotes are realizing they’re c*ckblocking themselves! 💀These guys get left on seen forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:57 PM |
| 22 | I hate how women have been brainwashed by libfem. No, you're not a bad girlfriend for wanting to be monogamous. It's NOT a dealbreaker!"Much older" 10 bucks that this man is her sugar daddy, and he's manipulating her into joining his other sugar babies in some sort of weird threesome or orgy situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 52 | SATC Clip: Carrie and Big. Who Deserves the Most Hate/ Responsibility for this Scene?Although Carrie is a major pickmeisha, the amount of hate for her in comments is totally unfair considering how shitty Mr.Big was to her over all 6 seasons of the show. He is the classic epitome of a NYC fuckboy. He even proclaimed that he loved her, which is such a profound word to use for someone who you have no intention on settling down for. I think the Tik Tok comments are from people who have been conditioned that this behaviour by men is completely normal and ok, and it’s Carrie’s fault f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 86 | How to spread the word of FDS & warn other women about TRPAmen to this. The other issue is many woman are aware of TRP and the PUA community yet still entertain this tomfoolery. They're so conditioned by society to pander to men and ignore all the red flags for just a crumb of LV miniscule dick. I try to tell the people in my life as much as I can about TRP, including men that I'm vetting. Woman who aren't pickmeishas will side with my statements and apply the knowledge gained to their current situations with men. The woman who argue with me are ones I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 66 | Disney lied to us. The original little mermaid movie was made in 1975 and was made to teach girls to avoid being a pickme/give up everything for a man because you’ll just be used as a placeholder until his dream girl comes along. Ending is very dark.Same actually. My parents picked up this VHS from Blockbuster as a mistake. I begged to see the Disney Little Mermaid "at home" when it was still in theaters and wasn't released on VHS yet. My parents tried to explain that things in the theatre weren't available for viewing at home yet, and I didn't understand that concept. So they searched high and low, and rented this version out instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 203 | Disney lied to us. The original little mermaid movie was made in 1975 and was made to teach girls to avoid being a pickme/give up everything for a man because you’ll just be used as a placeholder until his dream girl comes along. Ending is very dark.This version of the Little Mermaid always makes me cry, and is far better than any pickme bullshit Disney tries to make. Marina (The Little Mermaid) knows that she will die in the morning of the Prince getting married to someone else, so her sisters try to save her. They all cut their hair off and gave it to the sea witch in exchange for a magic knife to give to Marina to plunge it into the Prince's heart so that his blood will sprinkle onto her feet and turn her into a mermaid again so she can … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 16 | Female friendships and misogynistic propaganda (Part 2)In a perfect world, people would gossip about other people’s successes and wish them well. Let’s be real here, an enormous chunk of the populous doesn’t engage in this “positive” gossip. Although yes, positive gossip is still considered gossip it doesn’t happen as often as we lead to believe. Normally gossip revolves around trying to tear others down and spreading malicious information about them. Think about all the negative friends you’ve had in your past. They partook in gossip, most likely w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 24 | Female friendships and misogynistic propaganda (Part 2)Yeah, I totally agree with this comment. 3 to 4% of gossip being malicious, really? A majority of gossip is malicious and we shouldn’t be in people’s business anyways. Although her argument started off strong, I don’t agree that gossip is “good”. Her tiktoks are coming off as a cool girl trying to sound pseudo intellectual and justifying gossip. Nah sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 10 | Ads on Reddit targeting poor women and girls for prostitution. Absolutely disgusting.Mind I ask why you do it then? Not trying to be rude or anything, but clearly you know how much of a sham Onlyfans is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:45 AM |
| 40 | Last one for now! Hopefully she posts more!I WANT TO BE HER FRIEND. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 55 | Porn Actress Reilly Reid’s InterviewOmg hearing her talk is so painful, what a terrible day to have ears. Between her lack of class and respect for herself, you can really tell she valued the D over formulating a comprehensive vocabulary and not one at a 12 year old level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | THEY NEVER CHANGE. GUESS HOW OLD THIS GUY IS? I will never help nor have a LVM as a friend again. My professional advice/rate is $600/hour and he was getting it for free as a now former friend. DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR THESE MEN! They choose to behave this way.Why are you entertaining this clown and sending him paragraphs of texts? He’s not worthy of your time period. Block and delete him, and please refrain from posting these text threads on FDS. They are not welcome here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:45 PM |
| 48 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HVabout:blank | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 400 | So you don’t want to date women who strip or do porn? That’s fair. We don’t want to date men who go to strip clubs or who watch porn.The cognitive dissonance is real with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:18 PM |
| 69 | The bar is in hell. I don’t know who’s worse: OP or the commenters!“Somebody pin this post I swear” Even that poster knows how hilarious and out of touch this post is. sO wHoLeSoMe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:13 PM |
| – | If I guy hasn’t confirmed details of a first date, what should I do?Read the handbook sis! We do not ask men out first here. This entire post reeks of desperation, and I don’t think this community is for you until you take the time to read the handbook. He’s not into you. He’s blatantly ignoring you, and you’re the one who approached him. Save whatever self respect you have left and move on, do not text him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:37 PM |
| 177 | Has anyone else gotten these? I am disgusted that they want to groom women to think their husband being on a porn site is okay. He said in the ad "it has tons of non-adukt content" NO ONE CARES. IT IS A PORN SITE. EFF OFF!! No husband should be on this site!Yeah, because anyone actually wants to pay money to see DJ Khalid being...DJ Khalid? Are we even shocked anymore? Reddit is run by men and is FOR MEN. Of course they’re going to try and brainwash the woman that do use reddit that this behaviour is totally normal and acceptable. This site is getting progressively worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 9 | Me! Me! Pick me! Keep picking me hubby!! I’ll treat us both 🙋🏻♀️and you’ll never have to feel bad!Anyone who uses the word “hubby” unironically is usually a pickme cringemeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 68 | High Value Dates OnlyYes you’re right, it can go both ways. But narcissistic people also have an overinflated sense of self worth and try to make themselves appear better than everyone else. In my experiences, the men who were rude to waitstaff were the ones who ended up treating me exceptionally poorly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 289 | High Value Dates OnlyAlso a good observation or thing to study is how your date treats the waitstaff. Does he treat them with dignity and respect? Or does he talk down to them like they’re less respected human beings. That’s a clear indication of how he will treat you in the relationship. It’s also a sign of covert narcissism and helps enormously in the vetting process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:54 PM |
| 103 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Praying i’m reincarnated into a lizard to avoid the mess of a gender that is men all together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 102 | A reminder on the scope of this sub.Also another reminder! If you’re inclined to post Tik toks, make sure that you screen record instead of linking directly to the Tik Tok. If you link directly, people are able to see your Tik Tok account and potentially your real name/photo (if you go by it). We want to prevent doxxing as much as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 24 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.Do you have any hobbies outside of work? I wouldn’t advise you meeting a partner at work anyways. Do you volunteer? Paint? Dance? Maybe take up a class once the world is somewhat back to normal. It can be a great way to meet someone who has similar interests as you, without meeting someone the standard way at a bar. Anyways, meeting someone at a bar usually doesn’t lead to a serious relationship. Men are there to get drunk and take advantage of women under the influence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | SAY IT LOUD.“Serious risks include blood clots, strokes etc..” You know what else isn’t normal? The pharmaceutical industry being painfully aware of the terrible side effects birth control has on women. I think this ad is still pandering to men, while trying to masquerade as a “woke movement teehee let’s use the word vagina!” Why not use all those resources to develop a feasible birth control for men to use? Oh that’s right, the pharmaceutical industry is run predominately by men who want to continue to hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 60 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.You’re on Tinder where men will swipe right to literally anything with a pulse. Don’t brag or feel flattered that you have 1300 likes. Tinder and OLD in general is not a place to find a high value man of substance. This isn’t a new revelation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:08 PM |
| 124 | Deleted dating apps because I realized I deserve betterLouder for the people in the back: DATING APPS ARE A WASTE OF TIME! You have a better chance getting struck by lightening than you do finding a HVM on a dating app. The few great men that are left in the world are too busy with a well rounded busy life than to actively spend hours on dating apps swiping to find their next match. All those pseudo-intellectual hot “CEOs”, “Doctors”, “Lawyers”? They’re on dating apps purely for validation reasons and have no intention of actually forming a real hum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:11 PM |
| 17 | Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arsonThis is exactly my kink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:19 AM |
| 8 | Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arsonFirst of all, the person who posted this isn’t even a mod. Second, they posted this before YOU did. Therefore they had priority. Stop making baseless accusations about the very people who work tirelessly to make FDS a safe and enjoyable space to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:17 AM |
| 9 | I found this poem by Nayyirah Waheed recently...and then this criticism. How do u feel about it?Men of facebook aren’t as insane as men of reddit. Men here are even quicker to doxx you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 20 | I found this poem by Nayyirah Waheed recently...and then this criticism. How do u feel about it?Maybe let’s not show people’s real names on Facebook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 309 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180Umm EXCUSE YOU?! I make 120k a month on OnlyFans! You're just jealous because you have self respect for yourself and actually care about your long term life goals and financial security I have a luxury apartment, luxury car, and a closet full of designer clothing all either rented/leased/put on credit. Plus you don't have to be NAKED on Onlyfans, you can post anything you want and some simp will pay you a monthly amount to have access to pictures of your asshole for $6.99 a month your empowered … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 133 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂"M'lady, I look forward to jousting you playfully in the utterance component below *tips fedora*" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:41 PM |
| 42 | I Am Proud of MyselfWelcome sis! Its only going to get better for you from here on out. When you realize the power you have as a woman and harness it, you'll attract high value positive people in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 17 | Any viable use cases for this, like filing a police report?Now why on earth would anyone ACTUALLY be wanting photos of dicks? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:46 AM |
| – | Need Some Good Advice On How To NOT Waste My Life And My Early 20s???This is a great question, please ask it to AskFDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:49 AM |
| 37 | NYC just decriminalized prostitution.NYC is a misogynists playground. I like how the decision of decriminalizing sex work was for the purpose of “helping traffic victims and helping them find resources to get out of sex work if they want to.” Let’s be real here, a massive majority of women who are prostituting in NYC aren’t trafficked into it. They come from well to do backgrounds and flock to NYC in attempts to live out their SATC dreams and sell themselves to try and maintain an affluent lifestyle. Sure, there’s still many women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 5 | Oh, here's a good idea for vetting pornsick scrotes. Check his email for that OnlyFans account.Because a HVW has better things to do with her time than try to sign up for porn sites to prove something. This whole thing was a trend on Tik Tok targeted towards extremely young people who live for the drama. Always trust your gut and intuition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Oh, here's a good idea for vetting pornsick scrotes. Check his email for that OnlyFans account.Someone playing a prank? Would YOU like it if someone tried to sign your email up to a porn site just to see if you used it? I can only imagine how many of these emails get sold to other mailing lists. This is such stupid advice to "vet your partner." If you have any suspicion that your partner frequents these kinds of sites, there's no need to jump through hoops to try and find evidence. Leave the relationship, especially if your partner gets awfully defensive about the question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 17 | Oh, here's a good idea for vetting pornsick scrotes. Check his email for that OnlyFans account.Don't do this, on accounts of you will look super stupid if the person doesn't have an OnlyFans account. If you have to snoop or get the inkling they're lying to you, the relationship is dead anyways and you gotta go. Even if you pick a generic name like "John" or "Brad" as a username, it will still let you sign up. I tried this out of curiosity, and the person didn't have an OF account attached to that email. Now they're going to get an email to confirm their OnlyFans account sign up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 52 | Some art for my new favourite subwHeRe ArE yOuR cAts AnD BoXeD WinE?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 145 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenDid you have a date with Big Ed from 90 Fiancé? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 108 | It's still the same thingiT’s EtHiCaL PoRn!! It’s free range nudes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 78 | They are the same picture oops💀💀Offended scrote counter: 5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:52 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on Poly BS“Guy with a camera” and plenty of amateur pickmeishas willing to be their muse! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Qveen Herby - Who Is She (song about supporting other women)I’m not a fan of artists like this. They’ll release one “empowering” song to try and attract people to their fan base, but their underlying message is disgusting af. She’s not FDS material and her sugar daddy song makes me sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 121 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.Yeah, my ex has an entire folder of my photos (including nudes) on his desktop. When I confronted him about it, he swore up and down they were for his eyes only. Not only did he disrespect my wishes of deleting these pictures after we broke up, but he totally disregarded the fact that his laptop could get hacked and everything, including my nudes, could get exposed. No surprise he was also pornsick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | 57M wants to have children with me (26F)Read the handbook before posting here again. We are against predatory age gap relationships. He’s literally 31 years older than you, there is no chemistry other than him paying your bills. Don’t delude yourself and keep this off FDS. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?Thank you, that’s very nice to clarify :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 50 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?Hidden cameras are also a thing. A lot of those women (obviously not all) have their nudes taken without their explicit consent. A lot of these women send nudes “innocently” to men they thought they could trust on Snapchat, who end up using another phone to take a photo of the nude. Unfortunately, a lot of women are pressured into sending nudes by NVM. It’s just the way it is now. A lot of women are coerced into doing so to get the approval of the men they’re interested in. I’m not going to say … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 60 | This isn’t empowering.As someone who was suckered into the entire bimbofication subculture for quite some time, she’s lying when she says she’s not doing it for the male gaze. For me, it was 50% insecurity and 50% shock value because people would judge me based on my appearance and not my intellectual capacity and somehow I thought that was brillIant? Now i’m paying the price with my permanent body modifications. Although I’m educated and intelligent, the “bimbofication” phase in my life is permanently embedded on my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Posting here as a former PickMeisha, and current Feminist undergoing a workplace sexual harassment/assault claim. Sex positivity and sex work can be empowering- but it's more likely to lead to trauma, abuse, and more.I fail to see how your title inclusion of “sex work is empowering” is anywhere relatable to your story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 41 | When men offer to cook for you (translation in the comments)Where did you find this picture of me? 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 12 | Why are men like this on social media? Why do they think it’s okay?This guy again? Obviously he’s not drowning in pussy if he has time to make tik toks like these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 59 | I don't defend men or their plights on social media at allGets popcorn ready for angry scrotes to try barrage into the comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 23 | Retired #1 porn star (who now denounces the industry) sharing some of the horrific acts which are being pushed and normalized. This is just another example why we need spaces like FDS, and to keep pushing to educate young people.Yeah see that I can’t stand by. Sure, warn people about the pitfalls of sex work and the industry but at the same time ACTIVELY try to restrain yourself from falling into the trap of the industry again. I am sure she makes money from other sources, no need for her to resort to doing OF for “ethical pornography.” Honestly I’ll be taking down this post soon, a lot of it is anti FDS and not worth it for the points she makes about the industry for 20 minutes tops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 22 | This is why sex work is stupid. They don’t want to actually pay for it. Paying for it doesn’t fulfill their desire for power.That entire subreddit is a train wreck. I pray for everyone there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 51 | Retired #1 porn star (who now denounces the industry) sharing some of the horrific acts which are being pushed and normalized. This is just another example why we need spaces like FDS, and to keep pushing to educate young people.Good points, but they also discuss their approval of sex workers and how they love watching porn in an ethical way. So not entirely FDS friendly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:10 PM |
| 21 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨Nah, just the top 👀 although it’s probably as low value as the men she attracts with this pandering nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 12 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨I actually like her top 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 41 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.Go offfffff 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 292 | Scrotes Are Mad 🗣😂“By the age of 35, approximately 66 percent of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss. By the age of 50, approximately 85 percent of men will have significantly thinner hair.” That explains everything, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 19 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionThis is an excellent post, well done! I agree with all the points you’ve made. In fact, I feel more confident when I dress for myself and really show off my eclectic style to other women. I always dress classy and I feel confident in my decision to eliminate the male gaze in its entirety. When I was younger, I would care so much about looking like an artificial sex robot to pander to men. They would always tell me I looked better in tighter, revealing clothes and natural hair colours with extens… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:12 PM |
| 55 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionIsn’t it the best feeling?! It’s so flattering getting compliments from much older women (seniors) because they’re even more honest about their love for your style. In a world where women are conditioned by the patriarchy to compete negatively towards one another, a positive compliment certainly makes the world a better place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!Now I see her edit, but her initial post didn’t come off that way. I understand now, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop yourself from internalizing rejection?Post this on AskFDS; thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 28 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!Lol you’re making it sound like men with money aren’t inherently low value or no value. Just because you go to a $200/month gym and meet wealthy men, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re “high value.” You’ll experience male depravity literally everywhere you go. As someone who’s been to both the expensive gyms and the cheap gyms, a great majority of men are low value and will ogle women any chance they get. You said you weren’t hit on or stared at this expensive gym of yours, then how did you meet t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 15 | How long did you wait before being proposed to?Previously Engaged/Single. Two years max. That’s an adequate amount of time to get to know someone and realize your compatibility. If a man isn’t crazy about you, he’ll continue to drag his feet about the subject. In my case, he was LV to the max and getting married would have been the biggest mistake of my life. I’m focused on my career and self development and hoping to be travelling around for my career in the next few years. I won’t have time to ‘settle down’ in one location. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:04 PM |
| 8 | Since I started commenting on here, I’ve been getting a lot of messages like this one.Post this to FDS Superfans Honestly just think what a lonely, pathetic existence he lives to message a random stranger after seeing her post on a woman’s only subreddit and scouring her post history. I’m betting money that he’s morbidly obese covered in adult acne, hasn’t gotten a haircut in years, has a pube beard, and an anime pillow he humps with his micropeen approximately every 3 hours just dying for the attention of a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 27 | "dating for a free meal"The NEETs are a protected socioeconomic class. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:21 PM |
| 47 | "dating for a free meal"You should be grateful he used the allowance his parents gave him to take you on a coffee date! It was his one chance to have an interaction with a real woman and not a poorly drawn Japanese cartoon character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Life teaches women to be givers, be a takerShera, is that you? This sounds like a users mantra with how it’s written. FDS women are not users, we don’t see men as open wallets and free meals. This paints us in such a bad light and I don’t advocate for this. If you think this is what FDS is all about, I suggest you carefully read the handbook. Amazed you’re an “apprentice”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 322 | jfc, even the comments are a goldmine, so it’s wrong to have standards???This guy is 27! Most women in your appropriate age range have their shit together and are absolutely looking for high quality partners they can eventually call their husbands. Women treat dating like an interview because we have so much to offer and so much to lose at the same time. If he really wanted to have a “care free dating experience”, why did he choose to pursue this in his late 20s? As women collectively, we also want to avoid you, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Comment from a scrote on a news article about a woman who was murdered and her body mutilated.Who are the two laugh reactions from? I’d like to have a word with them too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:35 AM |
| 120 | Another Reason to Ditch Online DatingThis is terrifying. And of course one of the guys that’s involved looks like Neil deGrasse Tyson distant unsuccessful cousin. Also, the guy on the left is 25?!? Wait, and men say women hit the wall? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 56 | FDS users taking it in turns to roast Scrotes in the comments like:The bear in the background has better fashion sense and is in much better shape than a majority of scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:02 AM |
| 5 | Looking for support and strength from the queens of FDS!Didn’t you write an entire post about finally leaving him? You went back to him after members of FDS poured their hearts out to you, applauded your decision, and gave you valuable advice? You need to read the handbook and stop commenting here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 100 | Poor woman.Pornsick eyes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:22 AM |
| 40 | I’ll never understand how beautiful young women can be attracted to this LV 37 year old man 🤮Well, wouldn’t you be attracted to someone that looks like a poptart with scrotums hanging off a gold chain placed delicately on his divine, muscular chest? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm so effing mad about France, help me calm downGreat! You studied it, so you obviously know so much more than me as someone who was born into it and grew up in an islamic household. I had the choice to wear traditional clothing or not, as do many other islamic women. Also great new points you’ve made, but totally deflecting from my observation. I’m done arguing with an ignorant academic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:55 AM |
| 1 | I'm so effing mad about France, help me calm downDon’t make that generalization, you sound ignorant. Yes, there are many women who are forced into wearing islamic dress but there are also many women that do it by choice. I understand your point though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:39 AM |
| 8 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?Surely it’s a man who’s pressed about my preferences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:26 AM |
| 4 | I'm so effing mad about France, help me calm downThey try to sell the hijab, burkini, and abbaya as “OPPRESSIVE”! You know what else is oppressive? Stripping women of their right to what they choose to wear. Forcing women to assimilate with the French culture. Giving up their cultural and religious identity to dress like a majority of women in France. Who does this benefit, exactly? The patriarchy. It’s oppressive to men because they can’t see tits and ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:22 AM |
| 14 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?you’re asking too much sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 19 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?My man has to have a 12”+ or bigger dick, the girth of a pop can, 6’8” in height, built like the love child of Frank Zane and Jay Cutler, make over a billion dollars, a philanthropist. sarcasm if nobody got that, y’all really tried to report this? lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 29 | This man claims that men MURDER women because they have morals. I have no idea how he’s still allowed to post this shit on YouTubewow, i totally trust the advice of someone who calls himself “alpha male” and offers strategies via Youtube filmed on a potato. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | I have a crush on a man 30 years older than me. Should I make a move?read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 32 | The waitress was just doing her job by being nice and NV Big Ed thought she was into him. He keeps going for girls half his age and way out of his league 🤢The human thumb doesn’t understand basic human interactions. THE WAITRESS HAS HER ARMS LITERALLY CROSSED! SHE IS NOT INTO YOU MY GUY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:19 PM |
| 14 | Never settle for less. If he really loves you, he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Stop giving your energy to guys who are just going to leave you in read for two weeksWhat are you talking about? He obviously sent her “open bobs dear” randomly on facebook, and now they’re together! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 36 | Every day the bar descends deeper into hell...Alex Trebec is probably rolling in his grave RN. RIP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 26 | Men claim you have stronger feelings towards them to manipulate youMen ain’t clowns, they’re the entire circus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:20 AM |
| 18 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersOh this is a perfect example of a “privileged” sex worker giving up her cushy teaching job in Special Education in favour of OF. Oh, she also dragged women farther into the hole with her starting a “life coaching” service where she encourages other women to start OF as a form of “empowerment”. She was helping educate special needs children which is honourable in itself. She also holds a masters degree. The thing that grinds my gears the most is encouraging others to give up their education and p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | To wait for a text or give in and text himThe egg does not swim to the sperm. Him not initiating contact with you means no interest. Move on. Also read the handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:09 PM |
| – | I hate (priveledged) sex workersI’m watching this thread very carefully. Please keep it civil. The whole mandate of many subreddits is to support men and furthering the patriarchy by selling prostitution as “empowerment.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 10:10 PM |
| 180 | How to make friends with FDS-friendly women in real life: the more open you are about your beliefs, the more likely you are to attract people who share those beliefs.So true! I love when other women call me “golddigger” or high maintenance. I love when men call me a maneater. These terms are badges of honour to me. Obviously i’m doing something right and not pandering to men. These are people I try to avoid at all costs. In your late 20s, your circle gets a whole lot smaller. The pickmeishas I was friends with are confused as to why they’re getting used by men both physically and emotionally before getting kicked to the curb. These are people in the 30s who … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 34 | A big thank you to the moderators of FDS 💕No, it does not! Reporting is completely anonymous. However, it’s quite easy to rule out if comments and posts are being reported by men. Men are hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:48 PM |
| – | Is my friend’s boyfriend being cautious or being controlling?Read the handbook before posting, and next time ask this question in AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:09 AM |
| 24 | When you finally get into your FIRST healthy relationship...This was me almost 5 years ago!Nah. Plenty of men have second phones where they actively cheat on their partners on. Their main phone might look pure and pious, but his second phone has all the secrets and his side chicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 24 | I design and made this - self love strategy.How can I buy these?! Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:04 PM |
| 77 | Tom Hanks has an NVM sonWhat a very punchable face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 01:58 AM |
| 23 | Canadian Ladies!!! CTV's W5 'P*rnhub' Documentary is on tonight at 7PM.I hate TV BUT I AM SO EXCITED FOR THIS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 53 | Can we redefine sex to include the female orgasm?“Only count men that’s given us orgasms as sexual partners.” So much yes, on board with this! I’ve only ever had one partner in my existence that was attentive in the sense he would go down on me and make sure I was satisfied before PIV. His attentiveness and consideration for others also reflected in his personality and his interactions with people, shocker! Men who expect us to moan for them or that our sole purpose to exist is to be their human flesh light are detrimental to society, and ther… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Thought you ladies would like this YouTuber. She talks about self love and not settlingNah sis. She also promotes kink and has videos on how to send “your best nudes.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:22 PM |
| 3 | I don't know why I'm even here.I’ve assigned you a flair, and i’ll go ahead and approve your comments. Please be mindful of how busy the mods work to protect this community against people who want to put us down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 12 | Tealol what is this? reads like some sort of gossip girl fan fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 293 | I don't have words for thisI expect no less from a subreddit and a website that predominately caters to men. I guarantee you a majority of those 1.9k comments came from pornsick male losers that still applaud prostitution and want the industry to flourish. They’re trying to paint prostitution in a positive light! It’s not oppression for women! What are you talking about?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 56 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.Wow! A sEx PoSiTiVe libfem edgy woman who lives in NYC, what a rarity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 134 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮Yeah, sure, older men have hit “peak desirability” because you’re literally PAYING a woman half your age for love and attention! It baffles me that these older men think that much younger women are interested in them for their “looks”. Really, Tim? Let me tell you how aroused I am looking at your 9 head receding hairline and pot belly from drinking Labatt Blue all day. It’s ironic because then these same men go ahead and call us golddiggers. I mean, we have our youth and beauty to offer. What co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Advice neededPlease direct your question to AskFDS. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 76 | 15 years of dating, 2 kids... and she’s worried about holding *him* up?mArRrIaGe iS jUsT a PiEcE oF pApEr!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 39 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenLol this guys entire Twitter account is a mess. Unfortunately these men are a dime a dozen and EVERYWHERE you turn. I wish we could all send them off to an island and let nature take its course with the syphilis they contract from all the "fucking" they do (by fucking I mean their left or right hand because I would hope nobody in their right mind would agree to fucking a guy like this). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 149 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡I spat out my coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 11 | Rejected a low effort dateI never explicitly said to give this guy another chance. In fact, her response to him about the coffee date proposition is perfect. 9 times out of 10, these men end up falling off the face of the Earth showing their true LVM traits and intentions when a comment like the one she made is said. They were always low effort and never had any intentions on changing or respect for women. They are used to being pandered to. Unfortunately, a lot of men suggest coffee/bar/drink dates because of the number… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:06 PM |
| 25 | Rejected a low effort dateI understand what you're trying to say and I agree with you, that's why I prefaced my comment with "AT FACE VALUE". Because, to the average non-FDSer, this person would sound like a "catch". A majority of non-FDSers who would most likely agree that the descriptors she used about this man would make him a "catch". Maybe you're not familiar with my commenting style, and for that I do apologize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 64 | Rejected a low effort dateCongrats sis! I hope he follows through with a REAL date proposition. If he doesn't, that's his loss. At face value, he sounds like a "catch". A lot of these men who are "catches" like to strategically set up multiple coffee "dates" on the same day. Having a low effort date for each woman he's trying to court means that he has more free time to go on other dates with other women on the same day. Think about it, how long is a coffee date? Maybe a 1 hour tops time commitment? I would be wary of pe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 68 | Social Media - How to protect yourself and other womenThis post is beautifully written and you’ve nailed all the important points. Like you, i’ve deleted social media and i’ve never felt more mentally happier and clear. Social media, notably instagram, was the cause for my severe self esteem issues and partially the cause of my surgery obsession. I really advise people to use social media in a meaningful way and to avoid things that are actively toxic for your mental well-being. Although I wasn’t following any thirst trappy accounts on instagram, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 123 | Struggling to see value in myself because although I'm fairly attractive (or so I'm told) literally every guy I come across just wants to sleep with me and it's emotionally exhausting.Because evolution forgot to progress male brain growth and improve the trajectories of their existence. Instead, all their “thinking power” went to their sacred penises. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 89 | To the LV Male Lurkers: II IS GOING TO GET WORSEPreach sis! The men who get bothered by FDS are low value anyways, and not ones we are trying to entertain. We don't care if you hate us. We don't care if you think we're picky. We don't care if you think we're golddiggers. Just because we have standards for ourselves and have fought tireless for centuries for our rights, doesn't mean we're callous or evil. We are ALLOWED to be "picky". As women, we are the bringers of life! Show us some respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Lvm?READ THE HANDBOOK! Also - please post this question to AskFDS instead. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:19 PM |
| 75 | How do men just stop talking to someone to end a relationship?Because the entire male gender lacks empathy and emotional maturity. When this happens, block and delete them. They ALWAYS try and weasel their slimy asses back into your life. Ghosting after having a serious relationship with someone then having the nerve to try to come back into your life deserves absolutely no attention. Keep these men in the trash where they belong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 9 | New weak-ass harassment method, phishing attempt. A reminder to not respond to private messages from scrotes. This one includes a link that asks for your user log in credentials. 🤣🤡Sis you got a report on your comment back to me claiming that it’s “self harm” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 22 | New weak-ass harassment method, phishing attempt. A reminder to not respond to private messages from scrotes. This one includes a link that asks for your user log in credentials. 🤣🤡If only they could put the time they invest into sending these stupid messages into better themselves as men, they wouldn’t be so bitter about us and actually have a chance in the dating pool. I feel left out for not getting one though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 11:11 PM |
| 193 | Oh no, men’s porn addiction is our fault apparentlyThese clowns also believe that there needs to be government intervention for them to get partners and spouses aka forced marriages. No, us women “don’t fuck all the same men.” This is the stupid Chad and Tyrone theory they’d like you to believe. As women, we complain about men who have porn addictions who we’re attempting to have loving, committed relationships with. We don’t give a fuck if a man we’re not interested in has a porn addiction, go ahead and continue to be LV. We won’t pick you anyw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 19 | Be wary of men who say they hate certain powerful womenLVM are the ones that always make comments like this obviously feeling emasculated, and you’re totally right. It’s a crimson red flag to avoid them at all costs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 17 | Another dog went after my dog and it's proof men are trashI agree with you. Not everyone is empathetic or as understanding as this woman was. She definitely behaved in morally correct way for sure, and I would have done the same. Many other FDSers would too. But unfortunately many, many people don't have the compassion to understand that animals DO get injured, and an animal that gets in a tiff with another animal is expected to just "take it". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 34 | Beware the Aladdin TrapI really love how well written your posts are! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:14 PM |
| 14 | WHY are Males?Lol really? 37 reports, and the most popular report for this post is "It's promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability." Nice try, scrotes. Stay mad. So now you're literally defending a sexual predator who could be taking photos of literally anyone for nefarious purposes aka j*rking off his 2 inch pp that's concealed by his gut. NAMALT indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Spring has Sprung...It is time to uncuff and move on from that LVM😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:52 PM |
| 395 | It seems what we do is workingGood! Men have lied to us, berated us, and manipulated us for years. OLD is full of garbage left overs like men who get identified as pieces of shit in a normal, face to face environment. As woman, we’re allowed to have standards, boundaries, and be assertive with our wants and needs. I need someone who possess basic respect and dignity for others. The dating world is teeming with men who fail to fulfil that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:30 PM |
| 18 | Do whatever you want ladies because men don’t care!Do a quick Google search. I really wish I was lying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 51 | Do whatever you want ladies because men don’t care!Who are we kidding, let's not forget about the guy that fucked a McChicken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 92 | Do whatever you want ladies because men don’t care!Have a pulse? Have a vagina? Great! You'll get picked by any man in existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 32 | Is the Hitachi Magic Wand worth it?It's really, really loud. Also the orgasm it gives you doesn't feel like your standard clitoral one. It's almost painful and artificial feeling if I can put it into words. You're still going to love it. I like mine and it's better than exposing myself to scrotes and their diseases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Asking for a large raise at work?Please post this question on FemaleLevelUpStrategy. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:54 PM |
| 29 | Yet another man not wanting to level up and blaming women for men wanting to end theirselves.I'm not average honey, why should I settle for average? I hope this guy is crying and wiping his tears using his McDonald's coupon booklet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:46 PM |
| 96 | Short video on the (livestreaming) spycams hidden in hotel rooms & how it is now a career to be a 'spycam hunter'This is disgusting. Now I can only imagine the amount of hidden cameras in innocent items like alarm clocks in scrotes rooms that have recorded me in the past without my consent. You can’t trust anyone anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:00 AM |
| 28 | Oh look, another libfem pickme "journalist" spreading lies about FDS. This was the author of the Verge article 🤡“WoW look at me!!!1 Do I have the attention of my morbidly obese twitter demographic yet?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 62 | Defining GF and Wife BenefitsThis is actually a great post as someone who's also fallen into the trap of giving wife benefits to men who haven't proved themselves worthy of that treatment. I think "expensive gifts" would fall under more wife benefits, than GF benefits in my subjective opinion. A big financial investment in anything or anyone involves a substantial amount of commitment. I'm so ashamed that I've given so many "wife" benefits to people I would never openly introduce to my friends and family in hopes of winning… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 169 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.wow and all those related articles/advertisements! men are absolutely the trash of the earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 141 | Well this is a new one. Even if he's actually disabled, why would it matter what the woman looks like if it's not for anything except for "therapeutic and health reasons!"good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:07 PM |
| 26 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.yOu ArE eXcLuSiOnArY! tHiS iS a cULt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:45 PM |
| 39 | Lost and found at the same timeWow that guy is using you as a flesh light at his disposal. Disgusting. Please block that low value scum immediately. You are worth FAR more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:39 PM |
| 61 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?You already have the answer to this, as you’ve witnessed online dating apps attract LVM and NVM. You’re not missing out on much. You sound like a high value woman who has well rounded interests. Online dating is shallow because you’re essentially judging someone within seconds based on their appearance, and swiping left or right based on that. You lose the ability to connect with people on an intellectual level, and the end game for a majority of these men is to use you for your sexual appeal an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Don’t let someone dictate who you’re going to be.Really well said. I hope those false words get erased soon from your mind repository. “the only stupid people are the ones that can’t acknowledge other people’s intelligence”, SO true. Actually now that I think about it, the people who belittled me saying those things had very few friends or no friends at all. I thought it came down to them being “selective”, but it’s so clear it’s their negativity and belittling of others that’s caused them to live a lonely existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:05 PM |
| 23 | Don’t let someone dictate who you’re going to be.I'm so happy you've adopted a positive mindset after being negged and told "you'll never be happy." This is indeed another form of negging, and a way for men to reduce our confidence and worth in order for them to have the ability to manipulate us more easily. I've been in your shoes, and I can resonate that it hurts. Every guy who's negged me calling me "stupid", that I'll always be "miserable and unhappy", and that I "Push everyone away because I'm selfish." can go fuck themselves. I will alwa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:45 PM |
| 26 | A warning about older men!Thank you. The loser scrote had the audacity to find me on social media recently and slide into my DMs asking “how i’ve been etc etc.” He’s 49 with a kid now, living with his baby mama and still felt the need to message me? I deleted my social media for a multitude of reasons but that was the icing on the cake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:38 PM |
| 38 | A warning about older men!Ick I'm so so sorry to hear that. Men are seriously pure evil. When I was 19 years old, I was really really lost and so easily manipulated. I had a "friend" who claimed to be 29 (to be honest he really did look 29), who basically got me inebriated and then literally right after sex, told me he was 39. I kid you not, he literally rolled over and then proudly announced his real age to me, knowing full well what he did. The feeling of disgust with myself and the look on my face is something I will … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:59 PM |
| 512 | A warning about older men!Fact! Older men that target much younger are manipulative and predatory. I wish I could tell my younger self to avoid them like the plague but I was so MaTuRe FoR mY aGe according to them! All lies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:41 AM |
| 4 | DO NOT USE THE TERM 'SEX WORK'. Prostitution is not work. It is sexual slavery. It is one of the oldest forms of female oppression. The female body is not a commodityI absolutely agree with your statement, but this conversation/debate is posted almost daily on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 40 | Overwhelming Demand on Sperm Banks as Women Turn Away from LV ScrotesI’ve considered this for my future, and of course my mom had a field day when I brought it up casually in conversation. I wish it was more socially acceptable to be a single parent BY CHOICE, without the need to procreate with a loser scrote. Although the donor the used for the article is the farthest thing from attractive for my own personal tastes IMO. He looks like the exact loser on dating apps that demands to sleep with 9/10s, while he lives in his mothers basement playing call of duty all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 5 | "Do not accommodate your value for people who are not ready to pay your value."I love MJ Harris and i’ve been watching him for years! Everything he says is fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 21 | If you are asking yourself whether you should block himI’ve really been working on my ABB workouts lately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 24 | He paid you for sex and you are happy about it? Yikes.dick is abundant and of low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:00 PM |
| 28 | Beware of bars/clubs/restaurants that offer "Free drinks for ladies!"Yes, they’re still prime pick up places. The thing with OLD is many people ghost once they feel uncomfortable in a situation. People don’t really have the ability to do so in a bar environment. Scrotes think this heightens their chances of getting laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:52 PM |
| 68 | Beware of bars/clubs/restaurants that offer "Free drinks for ladies!"Ha i’ve never heard of that saying, thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 61 | Beware of bars/clubs/restaurants that offer "Free drinks for ladies!"Thank you! Exactly my thoughts. A lot of people don’t realize this and think it’s the bar just being nice and traditionalist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 52 | The amount of disassociation on Reddit....Was it a man who said that? See, they're telling on themselves that their sex addictions are the catalyst to mass shootings on innocent groups of people. Men and their poor pps! Unless they get their pp's satisfied, we're going to keep seeing mass tragedies! /s Also I'm really upset that many news outlets reduced these poor innocent women to "sex workers" when describing them and their deaths. Where did respect for the dead go??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 172 | A reminder that porn ruined relationships and livesMen who watch porn or expect me to watch porn is an immediate next for me. I've been in a relationship with a porn addict who made me feel extremely insecure about myself to the point where I went under the knife to try and become his "fantasy big-titty woman". Guess what? He still watched porn with women with boobs bigger than my ridiculously sized, back pain inducing ones and fantasized about them instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Quantity does not equal QualityAre you serious? You took the entire point of the post in a wrong way, and ran with it. Never did she mention she was triggered by seeing happy couples online. Social media is a carefully curated image of the *best* or fabricated best parts of your life. She's saying that its wrong for us to compare ourselves to other people, which thanks to social media, its super easy to do. Not everything that glitters is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 138 | What should be the dating strategy for child free women?The answer is simple, FDS applies to everyone who has self respect for themselves and realizes their value as a woman. So yes, FDS principles can certainly apply to you if you're childfree. In fact, many women on this sub are childfree and not planning on having any children in the distant future. Personally, I don't plan on having any kids because I highly doubt I will meet anyone I trust enough for that. I do agree with you that many men will view women as a "fun time" or a casual partner if t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:04 PM |
| 548 | If he wanted to, he would.This is so cute. Manifesting this kind of man in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 07:41 PM |
| 16 | The FDS podcast is now LIVE!!! Weekly Discussion Thread: Episode 1This is the kind of energy I live for! Excellent job, you're going to get lots of regular listeners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 29 | Watch out for love bombers !I'm happy that you've had loving, respectful boyfriends so far. And yes! the PUA community has grown substantially even within the last 5 years. The main point that really stood out to me in OPs post that she hasn't heard from him in 6 days. In any scenario, that would be an immediate block/delete and shouldn't warrant a post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 87 | Watch out for love bombers !Holy shit, by 34 years of age she shouldn't be asking this question. The answer for her is to block and delete his number!!! This guy is textbook love bomber/narcissist. Once they have you the chase and excitement is over. I am hoping she never thought it was exclusive between them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:25 PM |
| 248 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSAnother sub has dubbed us "Free Dinner Strategy", because we have more self respect for ourselves then to sleep with scrotes for a dinner from Olive Garden. Seriously these men tell on themselves with referencing our sub like that, making it very apparent they view women as disposable and relationships as a purely transactional relationship. Men are against FDS because it gives us a platform for our voices to be heard, our standards to be projected, and a warning to other women not to fall into … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:34 PM |
| 10 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?I've had the same issues to the point where I realized I'm having sex to scratch the itch, not necessarily because I need the touch of a man. Casual sex can be quite daunting in many scenarios and having a moment of clarity/aha moment made me realize that I was just going through the motions because I was horny, willing to give up my self respect to someone who wasn't deserving of my body, mind, or time. Refraining from drinking with a man, masturbating, and being so busy/preoccupied with other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:13 PM |
| 45 | MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnTMaybe if you're lucky, he'll treat you to something other than his 5 in 1 head and shoulders shampoo if you spend the night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 11 | "Everyone look up. The young lion takes its crown"Honestly I'm getting really fed up with these low effort meme/music video posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:30 PM |
| 17 | My eyeballs did not deserve this type of assault- reported this disgusting scrote to the Hinge app. Imagine thinking all women want to look at your tiny shriveled peen. It’s a hell no from me. ☠️“HiNgE iS fOr ReAL rElATiOnShiPs!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:01 AM |
| 110 | Sugaring is Sugar-Coated PimpingThis article hit the nail right on the head. So many people have the false belief that this is “the new norm.” I really blame social media for the glorification of this form of sugar coated prostitution. People will do anything to try and keep up with the Joneses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 40 | Even the men on Twitter are defending FDS over Dominque. Regarding the whole Vice article, this was one of the responsens on the Vice twitter. Meanwhile not a single person has been patting her on the back and told her she did a great job- quite the opposite.Ha you're right. I wish I knew how to do that :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 564 | Even the men on Twitter are defending FDS over Dominque. Regarding the whole Vice article, this was one of the responsens on the Vice twitter. Meanwhile not a single person has been patting her on the back and told her she did a great job- quite the opposite.Good. That article was an absolute train wreck and so construed to paint FDS in a negative light by making it sound like we promote misandry. Just because we have bare minimum standards for ourselves, we are man haters. Just because we stand against the objectification and exploitation of women, we are man haters. Just because we have encountered a multitude of negative experiences in our past when it comes to men and found a platform where we can share our stories and help other move on from th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:55 PM |
| 13 | Even the men on Twitter are defending FDS over Dominque. Regarding the whole Vice article, this was one of the responsens on the Vice twitter. Meanwhile not a single person has been patting her on the back and told her she did a great job- quite the opposite.https://www.vice.com/en/article/akdm4a/female-dating-strategy-relationship-advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Desperate Pickmeisha LITERALLY screaming for guys to look at herOh honey, no. Calling yourself a "Bitch", aching for the attention of men by obviously trying to dress in a way to attract them is too painful to watch. This is an FDS rescue mission. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 63 | Apparently I need to lower my body standards of men now 🥴Is there a male equivalent to a pickmeisha? If yes - this is it. Also, the "average" looking "dad-bod" having men are the ones who were the most narcissistic, low value, and arrogant from my personal anecdotal experiences. A man who is confident in his appearance, takes care of his body AND his mind, and lacks arrogance is the most attractive. These men are SCARCE. What he's saying would be the equivalent of a man swiping left on a woman who is in shape, takes pride in her appearance and appears… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 157 | Have you guys noticed the pickmes that have realized it’s weird not to have friends?Yes! It's called being a chameleon. Those are the same kinds of women that use their fabricated "friendships" just for social clout and the opportunity to collect more information/incriminating evidence to tear those same friends down in order to attract a man. It's pickemeishaism on steroids. Unfortunately in the past, I've had countless "friends" like this. They try to befriend a substantial amount of people, make it seem like their life is exciting and that these women are "ThEiR BeStIeS!1" A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 109 | From HV to NV, a short story.Good for your friend for realizing what an asswipe he is, what she deserves, and exiting the relationship swiftly. I'm happy she's not like many others that always try to justify the actions or lack thereof of their partners just because they sank a substantial amount of time into the relationship. The mask always slips. Imagine if she got married to him and had kids and then his true colors finally showed. Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckThe fact that 1k people on Twitter liked her post astonishes me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:57 PM |
| 80 | Men who lie about their careersWow! Putting down your own children is such a LVM quality, along with the lying. Things have certainly changed though. If any company finds out you lied about your degree, you'll get dropped quicker than a hot potato. It's scary to think the amount of people out there that have lied about their education/degrees to get them to where they are today. I really thought it was only men in our generation that were garbage, guess it spans quite a few centuries back. Nothing is more of a turn off than s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?“At your age I had two masters degrees and flew to Mars.” “I am in such a higher position than you, must be nice to have less responsibilities!” Like no shit, you’re 12 years older than I am, of course i’m not going to have the same sort of life experience as you do. You just leave without explaining in this instance. They certainly know what they’re doing, it’s not a “joke.” They’re actively trying to put you down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:17 AM |
| 23 | PSA: Please DO NOT reply to the random “Happy Valentine’s day 🥰❤️” texts from LVM or NVM from your past today!Ugh your ex sounds terrible! I’m so happy you noped out of that situation. Did he try to reach out again after that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:52 PM |
| 45 | PSA: Please DO NOT reply to the random “Happy Valentine’s day 🥰❤️” texts from LVM or NVM from your past today!Exactly! Takes no effort to send a mass text to everyone. I pray for women who haven’t opened they eyes to the truth to find FDS and affirm that this isn’t actually a high value behaviour, unless there has been substantial vetting and a formulated authentic relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:51 PM |
| 18 | Women’s Health Mag publishes “8 Booty Calls Every Girl Can Relate To”. Notice how literally NONE of these “relatable” things are good experiences - Just disrespect and terrible sex. Can someone name 8 GOOD things women can relate to about booty calls or nah?LOL Woman’s health mag. That’s all I needed to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 47 | Why have I never heard about this woman until now? She helped 600 women get out of forced/abusive marriages before divorce was an option!I like how the first thing as a suggested search term is “How to make Aqua Tofana”. Clearly lots of people love her idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:41 AM |
| 37 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.We aren’t bashing her for getting a tattoo, we’re bashing her for literally branding herself as property to a man who will most likely dispose of her for a “newer model” in the next 5 years. She has a striking resemblance to his ex, and of course she’s younger. Learn to understand the context please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 79 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.Her claim to fame is being a “playboy model” and acquiring low stint modelling gigs for pornsick LVM. And then she turned into a real estate agent, lmao. Predictable. She obviously thinks she bagged a “HVM”, that’s why she’s being the most pickmeishaist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 46 | Y’all ever see something so true it lowkey makes you wanna cry because everything seems so hopeless?Whooosh i’m slow today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 91 | Y’all ever see something so true it lowkey makes you wanna cry because everything seems so hopeless?A variety of reasons, and I agree more of them should come forward. A lot of victims blame themselves for the incident and are afraid of reprisal for being vocal about what happened to them. Being assaulted is a very traumatic experience, and many people don’t feel comfortable coming forward about it. Some cultures still believe firmly that being raped is solely the woman’s fault, and because she is no longer “pure”, she needs to be ostracized from her community. I know in my culture, that’s the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 172 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.Lmao she’s textbook definition and image of like 99% of women that are on fetlife giving porn away for free as a form of empowerment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:37 PM |
| 327 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.See those smilies? Those are the forced fake ones you see on social media for those “HaPpY cOuPlEs” Guaranteed this guy still slides into the DMs of every instagram model he encounters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Teenage girls are proud to be approached by college guys. They really believe they are ”the winners of the game”🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️What i’m trying to say is she definitely doesn’t look 17. I don’t understand the obsession with teenage girls wanting to look much older, then promoting this behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Can’t help but be proud of my development 🥳Congratulations! 🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 12 | Teenage girls are proud to be approached by college guys. They really believe they are ”the winners of the game”🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️She looks MUCH older than 17. If she didn’t write her age, I would guess at least 28. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:59 PM |
| 32 | as a WLW, this sub opened my eyesI’m also coming to terms with the fact I may not be attracted to men after all. Like you, I’m finding them entirely repulsive. Nothing draws me towards them anymore and I’m incapable of forming an emotional connection with them at all. Even friendships with men I have a hard time committing to, knowing that a majority of them always have ulterior motives. I come from a cultural background where being anyway involved with the LGBTQ2+ community is severely shunned, and in some instances the cause … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:54 PM |
| 46 | ...or will he?💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:34 AM |
| 350 | ...or will he?He looks like one of the Easter Island heads with a BMI of over 40 🗿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 01:38 AM |
| 12 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyI find positive value in hilariousness. Swiping through a few tragic profiles such as these ones affirms my disdain for men and reminds me of the audacity they have. I don’t actively message these men, nor do I swipe right to them. For every blank profile, there’s gems like these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 10:08 PM |
| 7 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyHe looks like John Goodman’s obese older brother with a meth habit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 46 | The letter my assaulter slipped under my apartment door. THE AUDACITY!Right! Typical man, blame shifting on anyone else but themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:56 PM |
| 81 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyI already answered this question and I know. I have my settings set high to get some quality scrotacity and laughs. Seems to be prevalent in men 40+ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:32 AM |
| 16 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyAbsolutely not. I have my settings set high to get some quality scrotacity and laughs. Seems to be prevalent in men 40+ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:22 AM |
| 18 | Men who obsess over ”being dominant in bed” and defend their right (entitlement) to be soThat too sis. Even if you’re a a show pony for these porn addicted scrotes, it’s not enough. Also my previous comment struck a nerve with some people, so sorry about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:31 AM |
| 151 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyI’m 28. You guessed right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 91 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyhttps://ibb.co/WcnrkjJ make sure you contain yourself sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 77 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyAdded bonus, be mentions that “finding a woman to settle down with and raise children with in my city name is a superpower because most women in my city name aren’t in the right “headspace.” lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:46 PM |
| 157 | 9/10 the men that lurk, comment or post screenshots from FDS, are men that feel disenfranchised from normal “masculine” circles. And in an attempt to regain power, they enter female only spaces to try and obtain an “authority” or “power”.Yep! You don’t see us posting their insulting comments or memes about our subreddit. Yet, they constantly make an effort to try and shit on us every chance they get. One of my posts was targeted by them and I couldn’t help but laugh. I’m imagining morbidly obese acne ridden men in their 30s keyboard warroring from the comfort of their mother’s Dorito stained, musky smelling basement while surrounded by their anime figures and gaming posters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | TikTok providing some factsThis is the right strategy to use. I love pretending not knowing how to cook or do basic tasks a man should expect his WIFE to do, not someone he’s dating casually. Never give these scrotes wife privileges unless they’ve earned it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 57 | Life is so much easier and better this way🤷🏻♀️Yeah it’s probably referring to porn, considering the meme page is run by a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 01:59 AM |
| 176 | Life is so much easier and better this way🤷🏻♀️She obviously was checking her investment portfolio and her 3 side businesses and how successful they were doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 01:54 AM |
| 90 | Life is so much easier and better this way🤷🏻♀️MOOD ALL 2021 AND BEYOND! Why have unfulfilling sex with a man when my vibrator guarantees me an orgasm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 8 | I know he’s not talking 😐Really? This Mr potato head looking scrote feels entitled to spew his pornsick thoughts and preferences? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 89 | The Risks Associated with Dating in the Modern EraYou’re a queen. Although i’m almost 30, I’ve witnessed these exact men both ranging in their 20s to their late 40s. I can definitely agree with you with men getting worse with age. The men in their 40s are either libertines or continuously cheating on their spouses. I see absolutely no reason to date a man. I don’t plan on having kids and there’s too much at stake mingling my life and finances with a man who could potentially switch up on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 30 | How many of you have found a HVM husband that really doesnt watch porn?ALL men watch porn, if you really think your partner has never watched porn don’t kid yourself. Porn doesn’t have to be hardcore full on gangbangs and shady sites. As you’ve mentioned, instathots are absolutely considered porn. Men will always have a wandering eye. They’ll actively try to find ways to do it behind our back. I’ve even heard of stories where men fabricate entire instagram accounts under pseudonyms to watch porn and follow their favourite “instagram models”, all while remaining pio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:26 PM |
| 151 | The Risks Associated with Dating in the Modern EraI’m perfectly content with being alone, and what you said is the catalyst for my consideration to go my own way. The likelihood of finding a HVM is like winning the lottery. It’s not going to happen for a majority of the female population because they are extremely scarce. It’s sad that we live in an age where porn is applauded and seen as empowering. Men are expecting us to look like a pornstar, while possessing 2 masters degrees, fuck like a pro but be a virgin, and expect us to put up with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 72 | In case you weren't convinced bumble is a breeding ground for an all-around LV experience...Just remember that this app is planning on holding its initial IPO and going PUBLIC! They make it sound like a woman actually designed this app, when it was her billionaire male colleague named Andrey Andreev who is the conceptualizer and designer. I’m not surprised. This app is more misogynistic than other ones out there. From “women making the first move” to “incognito mode.” There is no reason to support this app, all OLD is trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 05:13 PM |
| 55 | OMG.💀 The word I've been looking for to describe the feminist/liberal man lmao.😂😭so basically every man in existence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 02:05 AM |
| 35 | This artist's work hit me hard! @violetclair on instagramHaha I love all of her work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 20 | There's literally NO ESCAPE from this constant bullshit and male pandering from pickmes.Wow imagine being this desperate for male attention. Hate to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 44 | new male just droppedSo a fuckboy with a beard to hide his receding chin and lack of forward growth? Sign me up pls! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:10 PM |
| 19 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???Oh it gets better. One of his prompts is: “We’ll get along if...” And his response word for word: “You and I get off. My mission is to bring you to a level of erotic extacy you have never reached and will never reach again...” Why does he sound like every “Dom” type? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 17 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???LOL. It’s too late now, and I’m praying to whatever higher power there is that I won’t be ambushed with his hideous face on my dating stack again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:40 PM |
| 13 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???You know those herpes on lips pictures we used to search for intensively on google just to confirm either we or the person we were seeing didn’t have herpes? Yeah that’s what Patrick’s lips look like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 22 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???First of all, I absolutely love your username. Second of all, is it wrong to say that I was debating swiping right to see if he really thought he had a chance with me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 71 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???Because they’re EDGY and you’re just S H A L L OW! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 34 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???The fact someone was insane enough to reproduce with this man baffles me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 40 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???On bumble out of all places! So this pickmeisha has such low self confidence she swipes and makes the FIRST move! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 97 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???This is probably the same kind of guy who says you have to “earn a dinner” and “wOmEn HaVe UsEd mE b4” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 87 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???Guaranteed he’s into some BDSM scrotacity, but he’s so mysterious he left that detail out of his profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 397 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!I hate this expectation from men that a woman needs to bust it wide open for a lunch special at Applebee’s. “i’ve been used before!!” Oh honey, did your date not agree to going down on your micropenis in your 1987 toyota tercel that reeks of cigarettes and walmart cologne? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 13 | "I love you too much to use condoms"Debating it, that way I won’t have to fake my orgasms anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 23 | Boundaries : Enforced!Yeah exactly this. I didn’t mean to come off rude in my post, and her time is indeed better spent invested into other meaningful things. This scote has already wasted her previous time and continued to linger in her thoughts. OP you are lovely and I’m happy to hear you are learning valuable lessons from this moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 09:10 PM |
| 52 | Boundaries : Enforced!Yes. Months. My male friends have showed me the “male perspective” of dating apps because I was curious about it. Keep in mind that a majority of heterosexual men will go after anything with a vagina. That means swiping right on everyone although they have no chance of matching with the person they swiped to. I am not a mod on this sub, and there’s no limit to how many words you use. Just be mindful of the fact some situations don’t deserve an extremely lengthy story when the best approach was j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:32 PM |
| 91 | Boundaries : Enforced!Wow what a wall of text for a man who shouldn’t have been given a minute of your time after not texting you for a full 24 hours after a week long conversation on online dating. I’m happy you learned a valuable lesson out of this. Men on OLD sites are 9/10 LV and you should X out of the situation once there’s a strike. Dick is abundant on these apps, and never forget that these men wait days or MONTHS for a match. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 69 | "I love you too much to use condoms"“Babe i’m not seeing anyone else” is the biggest lie of our time. Sometimes I fantasize about forgoing the male populous in it’s entirety and dating my dildo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 05:37 PM |
| 88 | From a female politician in my country. My response: Oh, because we should praise men for doing the bare minimum required for being a father. Meanwhile, women never get praised for partaking in this kind of labor because it’s expected of us.We live in an age where we need to applaud men for doing the bare minimum. Also these kinds of instagram posts scream desperation and pickme vibes. If you need to constantly broadcast every “victory” your husband has done, there’s deep rooted issues in your marriage that you’re glossing over in order to remain looking pious on social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:00 PM |
| 18 | Boundaries are not just about peopleWhy are we playing into men’s desires of infiltrating our body and autonomy by going through painful procedures to please them? Let men learn our cycles if they’re obsessed with sex and our vaginas so much. Let men bear the weight and use condoms (although I know the IUD is way more effective then a condom). I have an IUD too and the cramps after insertion were pretty brutal. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. Can I also mention the fact the amount of men that think a woman having an I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:47 AM |
| 51 | Negging because your pretty 💀Just remember that social media, OLD, and internet in general is riddled with loser men who wouldn’t have the nerve to say such things to your face. This guy sounds like he was trying to knock you down a few pegs to be more on their level. On OLD especially, men will go out of their way to make fun of a woman’s appearance. It’s all part of their “men good women bad” incel mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:30 AM |
| 10 | Dress For The Man Not for Yourself 🤮 why is fds so obsessed with her ?“You made it when you have 3 sugar daddies” - words from the respectful Shera. let’s encourage women to manipulate men AND have sex for money while we’re at it! These women that claim they don’t sleep with their sugar daddies and get cars and houses bought for them are such bullshitters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 23 | Dress For The Man Not for Yourself 🤮 why is fds so obsessed with her ?FDS shouldn’t be obsessed with this woman because she’s the very definition of what we’re trying so hard to fight against. She panders to men. Her entire life revolves around “securing the bag” from a geriatric man, and engaging in manipulative behaviour to do so. There is nothing respectable about this woman. Moreover, she’s incredibly rude to her loyal viewers. Of course she wants to dress “for the man” because she has no redeemable qualities other than her appearance, at least that’s what she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 316 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄Well of course, dating advice is moderated by men who want to infringe on our own standards and comfortability. The fact you mentioned FDS is an intrusion on their misogynistic trope. how DARE you give this woman advice and invite her to a community where having self respect is applauded! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 65 | Call 1-800- unpicked todayHilarious but for someone who’s trying to defend against misogynistic views she really used the word “bitch” in this context. Ironic, and would have been funny without it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:46 PM |
| 238 | What will I not give to live in a world where women are not constantly bombarded with male propagandaAh, an article from Mashable India. A country with one of the biggest rape problems in the world. Let’s continue to push the narrative that abuse is ok! Let’s totally forget the New Delhi bus attack and men forcing the concept on us that unless we’re KiNkY we are BORING! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 28 | Plastic surgery and the paradox of datingThank you so much, and that has been my mentality. If someone judges me on my apperance, surgeries or not, they are not people I want to associate with. I don't have time for close minded people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:48 PM |
| 22 | Plastic surgery and the paradox of datingYes sis! Happy to hear it. Good confidence means you'll radiate positive energy, which attracts high value people into all facets of your life. I am approaching my 30s, and I am on the journey of self acceptance. Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 24 | Ladies! Cell Phone Tango PART TWO 😍My favorite sisters!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:07 PM |
| 82 | Armie Hammer’s (34) ex girlfriend (22) reveals his canibalistic BDSM fantasies“I do genuinely believe many men like him and ones in BDSM...internalized homophobia...take anger out on women.” The validity in this statement is astounding. It would also explain the obsession with anal sex by men in the BDSM scene as well. In fact, man men who are hypersexually “straight” are secretly closeted. Every man that i’ve questioned that shows an interest in the scene was bullied tremendously in high school, mainly by women. They pull out all these bells and whistles when they get ol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:50 AM |
| 84 | Sex with a HVMTo add: A HVM is never into BDSM or harming his partner. This is well written but this important point was overlooked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 01:01 AM |
| 84 | Although OLD is a dumpster fire, let me highlight the new way scrotes can cheat!Wow. I didn’t know that, i’ve never used Tinder. I guess the difference here is that bumble offers this feature for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:52 PM |
| 43 | Although OLD is a dumpster fire, let me highlight the new way scrotes can cheat!Theoretically, yes you could do this. Depending on how big your city is, his and your filters will have to be super specific in order to have you show up in his dating stacks. And if he never swipes right to your dating profile, how would you know that he’s still active on the app? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:49 PM |
| 298 | Although OLD is a dumpster fire, let me highlight the new way scrotes can cheat!Picture this: Your seemingly HV “boyfriend” you met on Bumble “deletes his account.” His account states that it’s deleted in your matches. You genuinely believe he’s done with online dating and he’s fully committed to you. Everything is going great, you think! Little do you know is that he remade a new account and enabled incognito mode. Gone are the days where your single girlfriends can warn you that they saw your boyfriend active on the dating apps you’re using. It’s so easy for men to cheat … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:45 PM |
| 17 | I had a gut feeling about this one... glad to find out sooner than later!The dude looks like Mr.Clean’s persian cousin, there’s literally nothing redeeming about him. Also “=)”?? How old is this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:30 AM |
| 30 | Strategies to vet porn/prostitutionBringing up the topic was tough, but I kind of segued from the conversation of “how do you feel about social media?” and then slowly dove into the topic “i see all these content creators on social media now. how would you feel if...yadda yadda.” It’ll be a good way to vet the person and explicitly state your stance on the matter. Your results may vary however, I had done some “creeping” on his socials to see what kind of accounts he follows and the writing was on the wall that I was just some fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:41 AM |
| 75 | Strategies to vet porn/prostitutionMen will try and chameleon to anything to try and please you enough to get into bed with them. What helps though is this question. I’m speaking from personal experience because I was on a second date with someone and this was enough to cut them off. I asked the person I was vetting: “If your daughter started an onlyfans and engaged in sex work, would you support her?” Not only did the scrote answer “yes” but he also added he would “subscribe to her content in order to support her.” What. The. Fu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:22 AM |
| 214 | Honestly I need a full series of this: a modern Cell Block TangoThis is amazing and definitely made my day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:12 AM |
| 50 | Toss out those complain-y LVM!Lol. Here’s a funny one: A guy I was starting to see complained about facetiming me all the time because his data bill was “too high.” But then told me he appreciated staying in touch with me while travelling! Hilarious because he’s a 39 year old man who’s too cheap to afford wifi for his place. But miraculously, he had the money to go out and get drunk with his other LVM friends every night. How precious. Ghosted/blocked/deleted him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 68 | Woman explains how men ruined My Little Pony for children (mostly girls) by making it hypersexual and catered towards a masculine aestheticThis video is over an hour long, could you please summarize? And honestly i’m not surprised, men will jerk it to anything, a cartoon horse is probably one of the more tame things that deranged porn sick men fantasize about unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 10:07 AM |
| 61 | For the ladies who are dating... remember the sooner you cut him off, the less it will hurt. At the first red flag, block and delete.My mindset for 2021 and beyond, for sure. Ladies, please don’t be afraid to “ghost”. It’s not ghosting when he’s blatantly disrespecting you, and believe me, men are smart enough to realize what exactly they’re doing wrong. I started my year ghosting someone who was extremely disrespectful and lied about every aspect of his life. The scrote had the nerve to try and get his friends to add me on my private socials in order to spy on me. So gross, and i’m kicking myself for giving someone who had r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:10 AM |
| 84 | Connor McGregor allegedly spent $2.7m on this shit. Ladies. I just. No comment.I can just imagine him going into a public restroom and using his “watch” to relieve himself 🤮🤮. The scrotacity is real, especially from entitled millionaire men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:57 PM |
| 341 | Connor McGregor allegedly spent $2.7m on this shit. Ladies. I just. No comment.Oh nice, a LV watch for a LV man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:46 PM |
| 21 | StoryTime 📖: “Tom” promised to cook me a salmon dinner (I wanted to avoid restaurants). He says he’s pumped...then bails. His explanation was that I was “too intimidating” 😅 Now he’s back + wants me to cheat on my new man (who, so far, treats me like a Queen)! Ugh. Anyone got scrote repellant? 😷🧼🐜These low effort conversations are getting tiring to see on this subreddit. Sis, you didn’t behave in an FDS approved manner. You should never offer to be friends with someone who blatantly disrespected you like that. It sounds like you were eager to hear from him, to be honest. Next time you should block as soon as he disrespected you. If you really valued the man you’re dating, you wouldn’t even entertain being friends with this person who asked for FWB. Wtf lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:47 PM |
| 118 | Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.There’s a common theme here where it’s well off, privileged, caucasian men who are into the most depraved shit. I can’t begin to count the number of men who fit this exact archetype. Although BDSM runs rampant in the repertoire of LVM, and NVM, I find it astonishing that it’s so common with this specific demographic of men. It’s like they all have some 50 Shades of Grey fantasy where they believe to be wooing women with their depraved BDSM B.S. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:40 PM |
| 292 | Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.“I respect you too much to do these things that I kind of want to do.” Straight from the scrotes mouth! You hear that ladies? Any partner who pushes for BDSM type shit in the bedroom does not respect you or your boundaries! Things I should have learned a long time ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:20 PM |
| 13 | Reminder: You are allowed to reject a man for any reason you chooseHappy you dumped that trash sis. I have to add the other kind of guys to look out for are the ones with an alarmingly high number of female followers. These men won’t follow these women back, although they met them in real life or developed some sort of relationship with them. They are not randoms and usually people from the same city the guy resides in. They’re trying to cover their tracks. e.g: Guy with over 300 followers, almost exclusively women. Only follows 100 people back, a majority gene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:01 PM |
| 16 | Reminder: You are allowed to reject a man for any reason you choose“bUt ThEy’Re JuSt FRiEnDs~!!!” Babe why do you have to be so insecure, obviously this isn’t going to work out because you can’t trust me.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:30 AM |
| 65 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?Any man into BDSM is a psycho and cannot be trusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:33 PM |
| 28 | What do you think of Cindi Lu’s Four Man Plan?Yes it’s in line with FDS. i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again. When you’re applying for jobs and get an interview at one place, do you stop hunting for other jobs in hopes you’ll hear back from one place? The answer is no. Dating multiple people is perfectly fine and encouraged actually. I highly doubt the person that you’re seeing is exclusive to you early on in the vetting process. However, I don’t think you should say yes to all dates. Time is precious, and if you’re not feeling it, yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:13 AM |
| 35 | How many here ended up with the man they met on tinder, bumble and other dating apps?End up with them from OLD? For a very, very brief period of time. OLD is a cesspool for LVM, narcissists, and emotionally unavailable men. I have never formulated a relationship of substance with a man from any of the apps. Well to be honest, i’ve only ever used Bumble and that was the worst of the worst. There’s this false expectation that since you’re “making the first move” as a woman on Bumble, that the trajectory of the relationship will end up in YOU taking the lead. From the egotistical n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Oh this guy was a lost cause, i don’t even think he would pick up on any “tips.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 81 | If I’m happy and I know it, start dating? No thanks!SO MUCH THIS! Unless someone adds value to your life in some way, they don’t deserve a place in your life at all. Why expend energy? Why expend negative energy, at that? I think many people have major FOMO and settle for relationships that don’t benefit them in any way, and cause unnecessary stressors in their life. Once you learn to love yourself, you realize YOU ARE ALL YOU NEED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 07:16 PM |
| 120 | Beware of overly draped couple photosSocial media is a joke. If you need to constantly advertise the fact you’re in a relationship with your LVM partner in attempts to ward off other women, there’s deeper rooted issues. I agree these photos are cringe worthy at the least, and give LVM a false sense of superiority. I have nothing against people posting a couple photo here and there, but curated photo shoots on a weekly basis are a bit depressing. Personally, I don’t post who i’m dating on social media. Not because I have anything to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:25 PM |
| 5 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.Oh that deserves an entire post on its own...it’s pretty bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:21 PM |
| 8 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Nah, your ghosting approach is better then what I did honestly. Some people are so lost that they don’t even deserve an explanation of what they did wrong. I normally ghost, but in this instance I wanted to see how low this scrote will go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:52 PM |
| 16 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”A little far is probably closer to how far I live, which is about 2 hours away. Yeah, sounds like such a far distance to travel to see your own children. He’s 41 and i’m 28. Of course he’s a groomer, someone pointed out the age gap between him and his ex baby mama, and how she would have been even younger to have young children from him. Exactly. Men should own up to their mistakes. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I’m with you on that, i’m throwing in the towel completely on dating in 2021… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:14 PM |
| 9 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Normally I don’t engage, but I wanted a laugh and some quality content. I know what i’m doing, trust me lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:36 AM |
| 19 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”He only had children from one of the ex’s, but apparently tricked into it eyeroll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:14 AM |
| 16 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”one of his ex gf’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:49 AM |
| 30 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”ex girlfriends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 174 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”because they’re old enough to see through his bullshit. always so suspect when a man dates 10+ years younger exclusively! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:39 AM |
| 58 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”I’m with you on that one! Sometimes I can have empathy for certain situations where there’s kids involved, but i’ve dated someone who had kids and guess who he ended up choosing in the end. I don’t blame him though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 335 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”It’s not fair because now he has to pay child support 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:07 AM |
| 134 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Yeah..like why would you not see your kids very often? It sounds like he’s proud of being an absent father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:06 AM |
| 149 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”lmao I wanted to see the other stupidity he would come up with. Like you, kids are a dealbreaker in many instances. Mind you, he hid the fact he had kids until much, much later into the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:05 AM |
| 389 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Right? He’s 41 years old, and his ex is “my age”, which is 28. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 454 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Like how tf do you get tricked twice...sounds like he doesn’t understand the basic principles of sex and forget to ask the basic question “how babby formed, how girl get pragnent” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:32 AM |
| 80 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.I didn’t give him the opportunity to give it to me because I dumped/ghosted his LVM ass, but he got me a MUZZLE. He had the audacity to announce it so proudly to me over the phone while I was on vacation without him. He desperately wanted me to come home to “gift” it to me. Instead, I dumped/ghosted his ass. He deserved no explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 583 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?Growing a beard is usually a strategy to hide weak facial structure. You sure as hell know they’re hiding their no neck, double chin and lack of forward growth under it. The only guy that i see has potential to look somewhat attractive without the beard is the one in the top left corner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:44 PM |
| 100 | International LVM #firstpost 👋🏽tl;dr: “show bobs and vagene pls” this is the probably the same guy that would sexually harass any tourist from the “west” who visits his “third world country”, because apparently, all you need to do is say hi to us and our panties will automatically drop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 56 | Pick-me begs fame hungry NVM for babies.Lmao no jaw and doesn’t look to be over 5’8”. And she’s literally begging for him to do what every man is programmed to do, i’m howling. Also tf is up with her spray tan. I couldn’t stop looking at it, then i noticed her cringy dance moves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:39 PM |
| 18 | First Valentine’s Day as a single woman. What can I do to have a fun ass time?“As for me, i’m getting myself a nose job lol” OKKK QUEEN GO OFFFF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:35 PM |
| 25 | Valentine’s Day is coming up!unpopular opinion: valentine’s day is literally just another commercialized holiday. no, i’m not saying that our partners shouldn’t do anything nice for us on v-day, but v-day is the perfect opportunity for narcissists and deadbeats to do the bare minimum to try to convince us “that they care.” In fact, the most malicious men i’ve ever met are the ones who go all out for valentine’s day hoping that it would be the sand in my eyes to blind me to all the other bullshit they put me through. Please … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:05 AM |
| 92 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolLmao i’ve never seen someone so thirsty and persistent. Is this man over the age of 19? I’ve never seen someone use so many emojis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:02 PM |
| 57 | For the ladies who are not necessarily marriage mindedWell written sis. This is going to be my approach and mantra from now on, too. Why invest time and energy into a situation that won’t serve me and is essentially a waste of time? No more situationships, “going with the flows”, and placeholders. If i decide to give up my precious time to a man which could be better spent investing into my friends and hobbies, you sure as hell know I see marriage in the near future with that person. In the meantime, a vibrator is a better investment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 5 | He made this so easy for me, I’m actually laughing out loud. Men are CRAZY! 😭“i was drinking and felt like talking shit.” more red flags than a chinese communist parade! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 03:50 PM |
| 9 | When older men shame younger girls that they need to have kids ASAP for biological reasons, but still think they are forever fertile. Rant in the comments:It’s disgusting. Okay, so what if their wish does come true??? Do they really think a gorgeous, intelligent woman in the prime of her life would be perfectly fine and willing to run after a toddler, while their geriatric dating app “prize” is wearing depends at that point, comparable to the diapers their children are wearing? These men have children for the most selfish reasons in attempts to pass on ‘muh legacy’ with absolutely no consideration of the future of their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:54 PM |
| 92 | In other news, at least 64% of women are delusional pickmes.Yes, let me continue to be a disposable cum rag to a scrote for years of my life for the very minuscule chance he might change his mind and actually want a real relationship with me! The madonna-whore dichotomy reigns true more than ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 6 | 🤮🤮🤮I can only imagine the amount of onlyfans content creators and “gAmEr GuRlZ” who will flock to this app to entertain the sausage fest that it will entail. Make them coins sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:54 AM |
| 49 | When older men shame younger girls that they need to have kids ASAP for biological reasons, but still think they are forever fertile. Rant in the comments:Lol every guy 40+ on every dating app ever. Never had a serious relationship over one year long. “Wants kids someday.” Ok, Tim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:51 AM |
| 138 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?wow, of course men find a way to sexualize past trauma and self harm too! why am i not surprised. i’ve had countless realizations that my former partner was LV. for one, his video game addiction led him to still living with his mom at age 30 with no credible life skills. addicted to porn and fetishized anyone who wasn’t white (he was caucasian). 7 years of my life i’m never getting back, and happy to get rid of that 182 lb deadweight off my shoulders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:19 AM |
| 18 | Am I the only one turned off by men on social media?I don’t have anything wrong with older men using social media for business related purposes per say, but few actually use it for that sole purpose. You can tell A LOT by what accounts a man chooses to follow on his “professional” business account/page. A man who is high value and cares about his image won’t follow misogynistic pages, or accounts that post pure smut under the guise of “empowerment” and “content creation.” These men also use social media is a form of a little black book, collectin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:52 AM |
| 88 | This is why we say no to age gapsI expect nothing less from 4chan, which is a collective of mid-life crisis, morbidly obese men who jerk off religiously to anime figurines and underage women. And yes, lots of men lie about their age in dating apps to try and show up on younger women’s stacks. I can’t count the number of times I’ll swipe right on a guy who’s in the age range I’m looking for, then looking at his profile I see “lol can’t change my age! I’m actually 41.” These scrotes are delusional. They get so mad when younger wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:46 AM |
| 90 | The older man conExtremely well said! These men never end up changing, or they end up marrying a poor, unsuspecting woman from a SEA country who they can financially manipulate and abuse. Being 35+ and not having time for relationships because you’re focused on your “career” is NOT an excuse. How many men have you heard of being in pain carrying someone else’s child for 9 months? How many men have you heard of are expected to work a full time job, while juggling full time familial responsibilities? Nil. The abso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:09 PM |
| 14 | How to ignore the feeling of having to keep up/be sexually ‘freaky’?This is the best comment ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 57 | My heart is breaking for this woman.A MAN WROTE THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 15 | YOU CAN’T CHANGE HIM. PERIOD.Amen sister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:16 PM |
| 16 | Because a Dr. Pickme thinks this is “science” (notice 0 discussion of socialization or how from a “scientific perspective” women should also desire younger men)Can you link the article? I want to have a good laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:53 PM |
| 10 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.This is beautiful! You’re extremely talented and I would love to be half as good as you at making icing flowers. Have a wonderful birthday and keep being the HVW you are. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 39 | Us telling men “I’m not interested anymore” after seeing them follow tons of new girls in the same city on Instagram. Stay vigilant queens!LOL my ex’s were ALL CRAZY!!!11 I actually find this behaviour entertaining and mind blowing at the same time. I don’t condone stalking LVM ex’s, but look at how quickly they circle through women. Look at how many women he follows then unfollows shortly after. Better yet, look at all the women who catch on and unfriend him. It’s entertainment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:21 PM |
| 125 | Us telling men “I’m not interested anymore” after seeing them follow tons of new girls in the same city on Instagram. Stay vigilant queens!...excuse me? What do you mean? He told me he was just being nice and followed them back! I thought it was completely acceptable and normal for my boyfriend to follow scantily clad women who purely focus on sexually driven messages on their Instagram. Also, he just moved to the city and he’s trying to meet new people!!! Stop attacking me like this!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:11 PM |
| 103 | Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /sHe’s probably jerking off so triumphantly in his semen encrusted computer chair from the 1990s, surrounded by cool ranch Dorito crumbs and empty cans of monster energy drink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 152 | You can look up the npr article. I read this and now want to pack up and move to another planet, bye 🤮Can confirm also! As a bartender, I’m always egged on to take my mask off “just for a second”, so men can make a man accurate judgment of me 🤮. “So many girls have hot eyes, but terrible faces!”, these men joke. Of course, part of my job is pretending to be nice to scrotes so I giggle awkwardly. Plus of course my boss is male, and encourages this behaviour from his patrons. COVID or not, males are depraved and working in the service industry on the weekends really confirms my hatred for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Imagine if every male on earth suddenly vanished ...Less headaches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:40 PM |
| 99 | The Rise of The PickMeisha has really ruined society!$20 is actually an overestimate. Many pickmeishas are perfectly happy with a box of Kraft dinner or a simple glass of water. THAT is the golden ticket to some kitty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:50 AM |
| 679 | I think I found the queen of pickmesThis is a man masquerading as a woman. I refuse to believe a woman has such little self respect for herself. Having anal, for example, is not a small and meaningful act. Enjoy your prolapsed anus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:28 AM |
| 81 | Scrotes be like:ANY man who calls himself “daddy” is predatory and guaranteed laughable in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 19 | The R/roastme threadsLet’s participate in self depreciating behaviour to drive more traffic to places where I engage in EVEN MORE self depreciating behaviour!!!11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 423 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madWait. We’re an incel sub? Which one of us drove a car through a crowd, stabbed people at a massage parlour etc etc. Because we voice our standards and bare minimum expectations from men, we’re compared to the degenerates of society? I don’t hate men. As a matter of fact, I LOVE men. Just HV ones. I’m such a misandrist. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:49 AM |
| 9 | Inspired by an FDSer pointing out ex’s low effort. Thank you so much for keeping me afloat.This needs to be on every FDS’ers fridge ever, love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:31 AM |
| 165 | Pulling the old switcheroo when you’re vulnerable 😐The shoulder: 🍤🤏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:25 AM |
| 31 | I bet Clint’s WIFE doesn’t even know she’s in a non-monogamous relationship.Instead of that tirelessly long message, he should have just messaged “🚩” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 28 | Thanks for completely ignoring the history & relevance of IWD to show you’re a “cool chick” 🙄happy international clown day!!! 🤡 let’s celebrate the most oppressive gender on the planet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 29 | Should I leave him? I don't look at him the same.Take a trash bag and throw the whole porn sick limp dick man away. It’s disturbing to realize that a majority of men nowadays are absolutely porn sick. Even if you are “their ideal”, they’ll end up fetishizing someone totally different. Scrotes are never satisfied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 03:27 AM |
| 84 | File this under 'Things That Sound Like A Compliment, but Not Really. "Why does he look like the love child of snoop dogg and Goofy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:12 PM |
| 97 | Are men who cold approach LVM?Personally, I’ve never met a HVM who cold approaches. Keep in mind that PUA are encouraged to cold approach women so calm and collected to “establish an authentic connection.” If a man doesn’t have any shred of nervousness while approaching me, I make the quick assumption that this behaviour is rehearsed and he’s done it many, many times before. I’m not saying all men who cold approach are inherently low value players. I’m sure there’s an anomaly, but with the PUA strategy in mind I would rather… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:55 PM |
| 82 | Ain’t that the truth 😍They want a Ferrari on a Toyota budget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:45 AM |
| 25 | Post on r/ trashy. You should see the comments. Such a young boy already saying "she wanted it". And they find it all funny, the comnents are so disgusting, I have completely lost hope in men.Have his balls even dropped? Serious question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 20 | Giving up birth control?Omg I’m so sorry sis. Yikes, I hope the practitioner didn’t insert it too far in! I heard of people’s uteruses getting punctured from IUDs. I hope you have a painless removal. I know my practitioner didn’t cut the strings too short because she said it would be easier to remove that way. Guess what? I still had a disgusting NVM complain about the strings “scratching his dick”. Like good, I hope you bleed asshole. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 21 | Kamala Harris Was Single Until She Was 50 Years Old - Psychology TodayYou know what’s even more sad? People are claiming she slept her way to the top JUST BECAUSE it’s impossible for a highly educated, driven woman to be as successful as she is without succumbing to trading her body to advancement in her career! Edit: She did date a 60 year man when she was 29. She dated Willie Brown. She is definite queen energy. Being in a relationship, and having kids does not mean you lived a successful and full life. For some it may be the goal, but definitely not mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 51 | Giving up birth control?PREACH SIS. So tired of this narrative. Men need to take accountability for their actions and stop holding women to the expectation that they must accept their dusty ass sperm in their vagina. I got a hormonal IUD and it was pretty excruciating pain. I have a high pain tolerance, and had to take the day off work. My hormones are fucked, I feel lightheaded and spacey all the time. My disassociation has gotten significantly worse. All for what? A guy who it didn’t work out with. Now I’m deciding t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 83 | He deleted his video afterwards.Imma start singing the 1998 bop it theme to scare men away if they try and pull this shit on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 58 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'Time is also extremely valuable and precious. I understand we all have hobbies, but think about all the hours men sink into their games when they could be putting that effort into something to improve their skills and marketability in the job market today? All money spent on physical games, in game purchases etc. All that time lost has monetary value. I refuse to date gamers ever again. Been there, done that. And yes, he treated me like absolute shit, was cheap af, and had no aspirations for his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Even just publicly linking online harassment to mass shootings and violence against women is a huge step. Let’s send all of our good vibes to this initiative!https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=ydYxocpZ0kM Oh yes his actions in this video certainly indicate he’s a firm believer of keeping women extremely safe! /s Let’s hope all his promises are fulfilled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What is the weirdest thing a LVM did?I don’t think anything I could possibly think of can ever top your story. Wtf lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:58 PM |
| 36 | Condescending Female Dating Coaches- SheraSeven + Black MermaidSorry I’m NOT a fan of Shera. I was at some point, until I noticed how condescending and mean she was to her generous supporters. Her end goal in life was to secure a geriatric man to fund her lifestyle. She achieved her goal. I’m sorry, but riding off the coat tails and sucking geriatric dicks doesn’t mean she’s qualified to give authentic advice for women who want genuine relationships. Seems like everything is calculated and monetary to her, to each their own: definitely not my thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 05:56 AM |
| 12 | "National men make dinner day?"Limp noodles that resemble their porn sick limp dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:24 AM |
| 213 | Let a bot run through a dating site and match me with 9870 guys. Here are the resultsWow so moral of the story, out of 9870 guys you matched with NONE were high value enough to ask you out or have a proper conversation without ghosting you. This is basically a summary of why OLD sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 17 | How to deal with men talking to youHe could have been already signed into the app when she took his phone and sent herself the money. But it doesn’t make sense, adding herself as a recipient would take longer than putting her number in his phone. Unless the dude was really drunk and didn’t realize how long she was taking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:02 PM |
| 22 | If you don’t meet him half way he really does go all the way.Yep! It’s like you’re dating an entirely different person and your “free trial of a HVM” expired. We’ve all been there. Someone being this cold and calculated definitely possesses narcissistic traits as well as sociopathic ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 4 | If you don’t meet him half way he really does go all the way.100% agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 51 | If you don’t meet him half way he really does go all the way.This. Enjoy the feeling of being “chased” for the first month or so. Also be careful of him behaving seemingly HV on the first few dates, then doing a complete 180. It’s all part of a majority of men’s games but I wish you the best sis. It sucks that I sound this jaded, but it’s best all women continue keeping their guard up. Good on you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 65 | No 50/50 birthdayI really hope you take our advice and not continue sticking around with this degenerate and making constant treads on various subreddits looking for advice sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 234 | No 50/50 birthdayDump his ass. He doesn’t love you, he loves the financial security and comfort you give him. Also, you’re almost 30 which is the prime of your life. Making 6 figures too, good for you. Find an equal, not this guy. You have time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 144 | Never let anyone tell you how much you worth!!Shout outs to glitterinfection for that A1 clap back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:04 AM |
| 13 | Found on instagram. This shouldn’t be normalised! Girls, stop texting and start having fun.“I was sleeping” Wow, how interesting! I too fall asleep from 7 pm on Friday and wake up on Monday morning mid afternoon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 7 | [Sperm] are treated as unwanted invadersMUH LEGACY!!11~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:37 PM |
| 4 | When he feels like the prize smh“Called attractive by more than just my mom” Why he be lookin like this 👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 10:50 PM |
| 33 | “Online dating is so easy for women, you get so many messages!” My inbox:Yeah I definitely get Chris Hansen vs Predator vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:49 PM |
| 6 | Don’t Allow a Man’s Talent/ Genius to Cause You to Forget Your OwnCertainly. These people are too daft to realize that not everyone has the same opportunities handed to them. For example, it’s nice that they have wealthy parents who provided them funding for schooling and rent. These same people will look down on you for not being as “accomplished” as them, or owning your own place in your early 20s. Now that I think of it, the only people who behave snootily and rub their privilege in other people’s faces are white men. I am a POC and I definitely notice the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 12 | Don’t Allow a Man’s Talent/ Genius to Cause You to Forget Your OwnThank you, I needed to hear this! The worst kinds of people are the ones who belittle you or question your intelligence because you aren’t as successful or as far ahead of them in your life. Well duh, Daniel. You’re almost 15 years older than I am. Of course you’re going to be more successful and established. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:55 AM |
| 5 | Harmful shows (Private Practice)Notice why there’s so many trash shows like this widely available? It’s because producers are trying to get people to emulate this behaviour. It’s gross. For one, never shit where you eat. I hope people don’t actually think this is hot or accepted behaviour because irl it’ll land them a nice trip to HR and their work reputation being tarnished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 20 | The Intellectual Manipulator, Mr. Machiavellli (per request ;)So eloquently written! Thank you for taking the time to write this post. Unfortunately: I attract a lot of people who possess these negative traits. You’re absolutely right, they target empathetic people who try to give people the benefit of the doubt and see the light in every situation. Many, many people in positions of power have mastered these techniques. Coincidentally, males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:58 AM |
| 23 | What are good OLD sites?None. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 14 | This house definitely belongs to a LVMThe monster energy drinks. I’m dying LOL. This scrotacity is owned by a Kyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:57 AM |
| 8 | Would have entertained this clown a few months ago. Thank you FDSLook at how long her texts are compared to his lol. Sis if I were you, I would have blocked after your “low effort” comment. I’m under the assumption you never met this person irl before. They aren’t worth your precious time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 13 | Oh no :/ I feel bad for her...“We have a baby together and I want to work on a family with him.” Wait, what? So you’re telling me you didn’t think about that before you had the baby? You didn’t talk about having a committed, loving relationship and family unit before bringing another human into this world? After making that comment, I really hope she’s not “planning on making a family with him”. Having a toxic partner who’s condescending to her and her appearance will shatter her psyche and any future children she decides to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 69 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himUgh, its disgusting how he tried to turn the conversation sexual. He probably brought up the fact that he "thinks all boobs are beautiful" to definitely try and hit on you and have a shot at sleeping with you. Here's a little story of mine: I have heavily enhanced features. When I mean heavily, I mean my boobs are comical looking. I have a tough time finding clothes that fit and not attracting attention to myself. People don't take me seriously. My intellect is questioned both at the office and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 102 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himmen: "I pReFeR WoMeN WiTh NaTuRaL bOoBs AnD LiPs!!!~" also men: *proceeds to jerk off to overly enhanced women found on various adult sites and instagram.* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 250 | RiChArD’s small scrote brain can’t comprehend women working for a body that doesn’t please himI absolutely hate this guy, “entrepreneurs in cars.” Richard, we don’t want you period. You’re bald, absolutely hideous, and hide behind your pube beard as your “halo”. You rip on single mothers all the time while you’re a divorced dad yourself. You claim that single mothers made poor decisions to become single mothers, what about you? Did you have any idea you would create a life with someone you’ll get divorced from? Did you have that foresight? Enjoy being forever alone or eventually having t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:31 PM |
| 9 | Little Mermaid is a pick-meisha who needs FDS and needs to heal her self-esteem.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=w3o25eVh-Xg Here’s the full version for you. Yes it’s the anime version! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:05 AM |
| 138 | Remember that LVM/NVM are the rule and not the exception--anyone who tells you otherwise is a pickme. Men ghost us all the time, it's only fair to give them a taste of some eQuAliTy rIgHt nOw sInCe wOmEn hAvE aLl tHe DaTiNg AdVaNtAgEsThere is absolutely nothing wrong about ghosting someone who is blatantly disrespecting you. They know exactly what they’re doing, so it shouldn’t be a shock to them when you finally gain a backbone and pry yourself out of the situation. Block + delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 33 | Little Mermaid is a pick-meisha who needs FDS and needs to heal her self-esteem.WOW. I seriously didn’t know that was the premise of the story! Thank you for sharing that bit of history, definitely changed my perspective on the story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 28 | Little Mermaid is a pick-meisha who needs FDS and needs to heal her self-esteem.I still cry watching the version from 1975. I remember my parents accidentally rented that version for me when Blockbuster and I was traumatized watching it when I was 5 years old. I didn’t hear about that alternative version, but it sounds less sad I guess? At least she goes to heaven?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 10:40 PM |
| 236 | Little Mermaid is a pick-meisha who needs FDS and needs to heal her self-esteem.The original version of the little mermaid by Hans Christian Andersen portrays her as even more of a pickmeisha. Not only does she give up everything she knows to try and be with the prince, but she is told by the sea witch that she will literally die if the prince marries someone else. So the prince does fall in love with someone else, and the little mermaid’s time was almost up as soon as the sun rose the night after his wedding. The only way to escape death was to kill the prince with a magic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 91 | Deleted all my dating apps todayGood on you sis! I just don’t think dating is a great idea during a pandemic period. Men are becoming exceedingly LV and using the pandemic as an excuse for their low effort actions. I remember reading a post on here from a wonderful lady who said that every 10 minutes swiping on a dating app each day translates to 70 minutes a week. That 70 minutes a week is best used for something that will level you up in some way, such as learning a new skill, picking up a hobby or mastering a language. That… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:50 PM |
| 132 | He is showing you who he is - believe him.HE TOLD ME HE WAS BUSY WITH WORK AND HIS PHONE COINCIDENTALLY DIED ON FRIDAY NIGHT AND HE DIDN’T GET IT BACK UNTIL LATE TUESDAY!! He doesn’t have to be glued to his phone all the time! He’s a very popular man who has an oh so well rounded busy life. I should be honoured I even heard back from him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 5 | No, unicorn, you’re a douche and please correct your age and put your own photo, thanks.Any guy who calls himself fit and attractive is most likely neither of those. Also such a cultured man lying about his age and looking for a purely fetished based relationship on a dating app targeted towards hookup culture! These men are so predictable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 6 | How do you avoid intelligent LVM?My pleasure! Yuck, I’m glad he’s out of your life. It’s a very common tactic and super easy to spot, easy way to vet any person out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:34 PM |
| 18 | How do you avoid intelligent LVM?Triangulation is when someone tells you about another person or persons they’re seeing, whether it be truth or a lie. This makes you “compete” for the narc, driving yourself to do wild shit to try “and impress them”. You’re constantly thinking about these potential other people. Some narcs are clever and try to slip in triangulation techniques less obviously. An example of this would be a narc who says “oh I had lunch with a girlfriend the other day, don’t worry she’s just a friend!” Whether thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:57 PM |
| 30 | “If he wanted to, he would”... what matters is he didn’t! Who cares! Keep doing you!!Love her energy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 5 | BrilliantOh 100%. They want to be babied and coddled, get outta here with that noise. Also a scrote messaged me angrily after seeing my original comment saying I’m going to be alone forever and that I’m probably actually stupid. Scrotes mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 04:40 PM |
| 112 | Man Sexualizes Other Women And “Gifts” It To WifeOh look, another woman looking for attention on the internet by posting something incredibly misogynistic and s0 fUnNy for internet points! Edit: not blame shifting on her, but her husband is a LVM POS. There’s absolutely no way this is funny, not even in the slightest. “look honey, I’ve been looking at sexualized photos of girls playing volleyball and look, UR SO MUCH BETTER THEN THEM!!!1 let me make a meme about it lol!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:34 PM |
| 59 | Do not trust men, even childhood friends WILL betray you without a second thoughtThis is horrific. I'm truly truly sorry this happened to you. I hope they both get what's coming to them, I'm a true believer in karma. However, I don't think karma is as traumatic as the trauma you're going to live with for the rest of your life. I agree entirely with your statement. Never trust a man. They will turn on you in a split second for their own personal gain. For 99.9% of men out there, we are built for their use and disposal however they deem fit. We are still regarded as the less v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 84 | BrilliantI absolutely do this, I think it’s part of the “dumb fox” strategy. I’ve pretended not to know how to do things to get out of doing them for demanding LVM ex’s. Most notable favourites: 1) pretended I didn’t know how to cut an onion so he would stop asking me to help him with his terrible cooking. 2) pretended I didn’t know how to do something with my phone to see how far he would snoop in it He legitimately thought I was stupid and it was quite hilarious to see how infuriated he would get. I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Celebrated my favorite season autumn and one year of being happily single (after an abusive breakup) by cooking chicken khowsuey, baking caramel apple cheesecake bars, whole-wheat apple spice cake for myself❤️🍁🍂 happy autumn!My thoughts exactly. Sis please drop the cheesecake bar receipe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:13 AM |
| 32 | They know, they just don’t care 🤮Would be accurate but you’re forgetting the skid marks my ex also had in his decade old underwear with holes in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:11 AM |
| 240 | have you ladies seen this? I’m laughing so hard (but also crying)Literally so true. I could not stop laughing. The male they’ve depicted in the picture looks identical to every scrote on every dating app. 5’3”, acne ridden, “LoOkiNG 4 a CoNnEcTiON” No, Jared. You aren’t any better than “Chad”. Your end goal is the same, however he’s 1000 times hotter than you. We know the game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 01:29 AM |
| 3 | I would never, ever do this. I want to be happy for her but this is not it.You're fire today sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 07:37 PM |
| 143 | “Womanly” activities are cooking, cleaning, caretaking & appearances 🤢A man wrote this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 09:10 PM |
| 4 | An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans UsersA girl who wants to continue in the profession and have the excuse of “I can’t find a job” to fall back on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 3 | An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans UsersThis. Seriously I’m tired of the straw man fallacies with their arguments. Let’s be real here, a majority of women on OF are using SW to fund an opulent lifestyle. They’re engaging because of their WANTS not their NEEDS. Do they really NEED a Chanel bag, or a BMW? Yes, there’s some people who have turned to it to support their families. These people NEED to feed their families. That I can be empathetic toward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | If you ladies don’t see a ring within the first 2-3 years, drop him.Actually, a ring can mean one of two things: 1) If it’s thoughtful and selected with integrity and care for the person receiving it, it is a sentiment of love. A ring symbolizes the investment that individual is willing to make in the individual receiving it. A ring symbolizes that individual is willing to provide for their future spouse. Eg: Pickmeishas will argue “it’s okay if he proposed with costume jewelry! How much he spends on me doesn’t indicate how much he loves me!” Okay sure; but put … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 15 | Personal Security & Self Defense ThreadYes please do! I’ve been doing Krav Maga for a while now to work on my self defence in situations like these. Karate wasn’t enough. Unfortunately, I don’t have a license to carry weapons. Would be interesting to read your post on other martial arts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 3 | A quick reminder to block and delete such people and level up 🙏🏻💖I’m so happy to hear you broke free of that toxicity! Here’s to many high value years ahead of you. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 23 | Free porn and tons of other ways men can see a woman's body (stripping, escorts) and its still not enough. They trade deep fake nudes of regular women. #pornsicklimpdickUnfortunately I tried it because it’s so interesting and scarily realistic looking. My mom is the most HVW I know and she’s like “why are you doing that?? They’re going to use your pictures for nefarious purposes.” I hope it’s not hacked anytime soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:13 AM |
| 146 | Free porn and tons of other ways men can see a woman's body (stripping, escorts) and its still not enough. They trade deep fake nudes of regular women. #pornsicklimpdickThis is disgusting. Imagine a woman's entire life ruined by some asshole who decides to make a deep fake of her and circulate it amongst her relatives and employers. I see many vindictive men partaking in this behavior. Even women who don't take nudes aren't safe from revenge porn. Which brings me to an interesting observation of a new popular app called "Reface". This AI technology superimposes your face onto any actor or situation and looks fairly realistic. I've tried this app for fun, which … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 8 | An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans UsersI hope you find a job soon. This year has been a total write off. Sorry to hear about your friends, I wish the best for them too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans UsersYeah because everything you see in documentaries is fact, and not skewed to make you feel bad for the people you see in them. Of course you'd get rejected if you explicitly say you're a working girl, wtf? Why wouldn't you omit that information. You could easily say you took a few years off to care for a sick family member or whatever other story you can think of. A lot of women who try to look for jobs who've engaged in sex work use stories like this as a way out to normal employment. The girl i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 46 | A quick reminder to block and delete such people and level up 🙏🏻💖I'm not a religious person but this verse hits me: 1 Corinthians 15:33 states " Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals. " Remember that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 29 | An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans UsersShe's capitalizing on the easiest thing to get money for, which is your sexuality. "Undermining the ones who've had to turn to onlyfans because they don't have the resources to get another job." lol, wut? That's what they want you to believe. Anyone can get a retail job, or flip burgers. Selling pictures of your bleached asshole $3.99 a month to people who could potentially be your RELATIVES is not a job. I hate that invalid argument of "I had no choice but to partake in sex work!" like bitch, y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 108 | An Interesting Watch- The Psychology of OnlyFans UsersTl;dw: both men and women who participate in this are LV and must be avoided. Unfortunately that’s a majority of society these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:29 PM |
| 76 | My cousins weddingAgreed. Made me cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:39 PM |
| 193 | I bought the berries & chocolate, dipped them myself, a card, flowers, & her favorite wine for < $30. My mom is supporting me during grad school & tonight I’m making her fave dinner + this surprise. I’m a broke graduate & I found the time to do this for the queen in my lifeHVW qualities learned from your HV mom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:19 AM |
| 108 | I was told by OTHER WOMEN to don't shame and that sex work is work while trying to stop a 16yo from becoming a sexworker and meeting up with a 30yo sugar daddy?? Are people REALLY becoming this brainwashed? Shes underage, what the hell?SEX WORK IS NOT WORK. Laying on your back for a man three times your age who you wouldn’t dream of having sex with if money was not involved is not empowerment. In fact, that’s forced labor/sexual slavery with severe emotional and mental implications down the line. I’m so tired of this fucking narrative everywhere I turn on the internet that I’m close minded since I don’t applaud women for carrying out in the oldest profession of all time. I don’t support it because it’s not what feminism stands… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 06:00 PM |
| 93 | REMINDER: No, You Don't Have "Resting Bitch Face"Exactly. I don’t need to be fake nice or “inviting” to any scrote walking down the street and who happens to make eye contact with me. My “RBF” is my symbol of indifference and confidence with who I am as a person and how I carry myself. I don’t live for the acceptance of others, let alone a LVM scrote who wants to try and “seduce me.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 84 | BDSM grosses me out so much. To any women reading this, don't allow anyone to pressure you into doing that. It's misogynistic as hell.It’s sexual abuse masqueraded as kink. So empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:16 PM |
| 23 | Is this supposed to be funny? He can't spare 10 minutes to feed a baby? Game is more important.I feel sorry for whoever decided to breed with this basement dwelling creature. She’s a massive pickmeisha for filming this and thinking its funny. I can only imagine what kind of dumpster fire relationship she has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:23 PM |
| 110 | ‼️🚩 If a guy says “Don't post pics of us online. I don't like PDA” dump him immediately. 🚩‼️Also to add to this: He refuses to let you take pictures of him at all. Or he’s always in motion and a blur when you try to take a photo of him. Definitely playing the field and doesn’t want to get exposed for the cheating scum he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 8 | Am I the only one who despises this absolute nutcase?!Stop I’m crying LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:48 AM |
| 55 | Am I the only one who despises this absolute nutcase?!But she is insanely cool! Look at that fashionable onesie and her intricately done tattoos!! Also she’s SOOOO FUNNY! She pronounces dick in such a fun and quirky way!! We’re obviously mad and jealous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:38 AM |
| 77 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!Perfectly said sis. Edit: Also he probably has no male friends because they’re tired of his malicious personality and need for constant validation. These are the types of men who always feel the need to one up others in every situation. When men are honest about this, run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:16 AM |
| 46 | Don’t respondOh you don’t get the heart eyes or fire emoji response? Consider yourself lucky sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | And then I blocked him!Yeah it’s hilarious how you’re suddenly ugly and old news when you reject sexual advances. Men are simple creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:18 AM |
| 88 | Marmoset dads >>> human dadsA FUCKING MONKEY IS MORE RESPECTFUL AND THOUGHTFUL THAN MALES LOL. You don’t see this marmoset on the couch, scratching its balls after it jerked off for the 6th time in a span of 4 hours watching his partner suffer with the children. Sounds a lot like breaking moms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:45 PM |
| 26 | “Universal Hot Crazy Matrix - Everything A Man Needs To Know About Women”The amount of LVM I know that actually follow this matrix religiously cracks me up. This is “babby’s first objectification of wemen” chart for RP’ers and incels. One could only hope that this is satire, but trust me it’s not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄🤣😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:17 AM |
| 13 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄Oh totally. They also all have the same vapid manufactured look. I remember when modelling meant unique features, class and poise. Now it’s whoever can take the best pictures up their uterus with the same stupid filler face and fashion nova wardrobe. We’re going backwards as a society in terms of female progression. Yes, we gained many rights and liberations over the decades but it’s definitely a tit for tat situation. This society still benefits men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 11 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄For empowered liberated sex workers! Not us lowly folk who are extremely close minded and judgmental. The only thing holding us back from success is joining them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:55 PM |
| 17 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄So right about the clothes and shoes. 10 years from now, these women will have nothing but a closet full of outdated clothes, handbags and shoes they’ll have a tough time selling. These men don’t invest in the women bettering her life with a meaningful career because that means she’ll gain a backbone and intellect. The total opposite of the submissive sex doll they desire. It’s going to be interesting to see what will happen to these “fast money” social media girls in 10 years time. Poor money m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 22 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄They’re hoping some simp will play captain save-a-hoe and whisk them off from their disgusting plight à la pretty woman. Which hey, it happens. A lot of seemingly “HVM” marry women who have this kind of past and enjoy objectifying themselves on social media. Mind you, his dreams of having a woman 20 years his junior are fulfilled while the lucky lady gets to feel his saggy balls dragged across her face for a few years before the divorce. It’s all worth it for a few designer bags, an entry level … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:36 PM |
| 62 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄You’re just jealous because you’re not jetting off to the Maldives with your Birkin bags and stacks of Cartier bracelets! It’s so empowering because I live a falsified image of what “success” should be, and I’ll continue to do so while peddling to my 100k Instagram followers. Sleeping with these creatures means I’m way ahead in my life then you sis! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 9 | You have 8 hours to text him... or else! So get that side boob out and start typing!sPiRiTuAL~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:52 AM |
| 45 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.Officalbetch is their other handle if you want a laugh. I’m 99.9% convinced a man is handling this account. Some quality quotes: “Go out an be a hoe! It’s a beautiful day” “We’re proslut in 2020. The whorin’ 20s” “We all have that one song that awakens the stripper in us” WOW SO EMPOWERING. HOW HAVE I NEVER STUMBLED UPON THESE MOVING WORDS? The trajectory of my life has been changed forever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:55 AM |
| 53 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.VERY EPIC MUCH WOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:39 AM |
| 122 | Your age is your age....it’s not a sliding scaleLet’s count the rings around his neck like a tree! Also lol at “keep at real and people will respect your vibe.” Nice segway to a lie about your age, scrote. Stick to getting drunk at dive bars doing Jagerbombs with guys half your age trying to stay relevant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:32 AM |
| 11 | how do we get rid of toxic friends?I do the slow fade thing and mention I’m “too busy” to hangout every time they ask. Usually they get the message loud and clear, and we both go our separate ways. I’m not an advocate for ghosting or slow fading, but I only use it in instances where I’m painfully aware that my “friend” is aware of their toxic behaviour. These women are usually the ones who talk badly about their other friends to me, ask me to take 10000x pictures of them when we’re together, don’t give 2 fucks about my life. Life… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | "A garbage collector? Give him a bar of Irish Spring and marry him."I didn’t say they weren’t important jobs. I was referring to going to school for electrician jobs/plumbing jobs etc. I’m not sure if you need to go to school to be a garbage collector. I know they get paid decently, I’m saying that people expect to date people way out of their league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 60 | Found a discarded notebook at the thrift with this inside, sis is a queen.Lmao this is like the FDS testament some deity left you so you can find it and share the knowledge and wisdom with all of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 107 | A coffee date is ________Best in a field | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:09 AM |
| 62 | like most women, i loathe old men perving on me. but it's going to be much worse for the young women in 10 or so years. young awkward guys that are currently being successfully indoctrinated in mass online by redpill/mgtow types to believe that beautiful young women prefer old guys.This is exactly the reason why I don’t want to have kids. If I had a daughter, she would be victimized by these predatory scrotes. If I had a son, although I would try to raise him the best I can, I KNOW he would be swindled into believing women are merely objects and things to subscribe to on onlyfans. Our world has gone to shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:07 AM |
| 32 | "A garbage collector? Give him a bar of Irish Spring and marry him."All I’m gathering from that is women are more ambitious and higher educated then men. Plumbing jobs and electrician jobs make a considerable amount of money. I’m not going to bash on them. A garbage collector though? That “garbage collector” is probably expecting to date a 5’9” Victoria secret model who has 3 masters degrees and will be his bangmaid. Let’s be real here, men won’t “date in their lane”. Men call us golddiggers all the time and want to peddle hypergamy as the excuse. It works both … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 24 | Does following FDS leave you a little guarded in relationships? Or are you open and all in, but still “ready to walk” at a moment’s notice (if he acts up)? Does the balance come naturally with time?FDS just solidified my views on dating and men in general. I’ve always been an extremely guarded person in relationships. My intuition is usually right about people and various situations that I always listen to my inner voice. I’ve honestly ever met one HVM in my many years of dating. He’s set the bar extremely high for what I look for in a partner. Although he continues to be a big part of my life, there are many reasons as to why we can’t be together. FDS has just affirmed the respect we dese… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:26 AM |
| 31 | Lets pour one out for our sisters who start interactions with men by saying they have a boyfriendI hate it. Every scrote mistakes my politeness for flirting. Just because I replied to your “hi” so I don’t come off as a Bitch, doesn’t mean I want to do backflips on your dick. It’s gotten so bad I’ve even started wearing a Cartier love band on my marriage finger so men stop bothering me. That doesn’t even work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:21 AM |
| 60 | Possible red flag: if he justifies his past shitty actions with other women instead of taking accountability.100% a red flag. Not sure why he’s bragging about his disgusting behaviour, especially in front of a woman he’s dating. I hope your friend has his words seared into her brain now. This is definitely not HVM behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:43 AM |
| 83 | Guy asks people with expensive car what they do for a living. Her response is 💯. I wish this for all the HV sisters here!Manifesting this energy lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:21 AM |
| 15 | What would happen if we stopped sleeping with LVM 🤔They would shrivel up and die (one can only hope). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 37 | Redpill scrote (former incel) sats FDS is for “unattractive women”. Help me roast this scrote ladies.Yes. We are hideous creatures because we demand bare minimum human decency and respect. He’s right. I’ve never had a man glance at me twice. I’ve never been in a relationship. I’ve never been approached. I’ve never had men court me and spoil me lavishly just for an opportunity to be with me. I would take everything this scrote is saying with a grain of salt. Besides, he has a WOMAN’S name. Stay mad Ashley. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 60 | Woman gets a ticket she could barely afford to be with a dude she never met. He blocks her number while she's on the flight.Part of me can’t help but feel bad for her. She’s only 23 and probably hasn’t fully opened her eyes up to the reality of how toxic men can be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 68 | We all know those scrotesNobody’s nicer than a man who’s trying to get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 189 | Some woman must have thought at some point that this guy is safe to reproduce with. I’m equally revolted with him and saddened for his kids. If I had her contact, she’d be getting this screenshot just in case she had any doubts about moving away.This is not a father. This is a sperm donor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:58 PM |
| 8 | Pre-order your copy!A New York Times best seller! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 75 | I've said it before, I'll say it again. The. Audacity.at least he’s being honest! Also that second picture, lol. Imagine how vapid you have to be to take a photo of yourself looking down with your hat slightly tilted. Imagine how many takes and filters he ran it through to finally be like “yes! This is the one that’s going to have me drowning in pussy on hinge” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 23 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.“aS a WoMaN wHo’S iNtO bDsM” Congrats, kinkmeisha! Only 19 and terribly brainwashed. I wish you all the best for your future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 50 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.You’re 19 and according to your post history, you’re looking for an online daddy. Seriously get therapy and don’t go down that road. Saddens me you’re also using your race (Mexican) as a way to appeal to these LVM losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 158 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.Many “doms” have serious trauma and personality disorders that stem from their childhood. They use BDSM as a cover up to “get back at people who hurt them” and disguise it as a kink. Even therapy isn’t enough for these pornsick scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:35 PM |
| 16 | Always listen to your body.How did you meet him again?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:53 PM |
| 38 | Always listen to your body.Beautifully said, thank you for sharing. You're right, we certainly do live in a society where as women, we are viewed as the 'fairer and kinder sex'. That includes being totally cool with being a doormat. I feel as woman we have the wonderful quality of always trying to see the good in people, but it backfires on us a majority of the time when it comes to men. Yes. We are no longer under any obligation to entertain anyone that doesn't provide respect, genuine kindness, and reciprocity in our li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:52 PM |
| 102 | One of the best things I’ve learned on FDS is asking a man to explain himself when he makes a dumb sexual joke. This was a quick unmatch.The nerve of these 2/10 at best men making direct sexual advances baffles me. All men regardless making these kinds of advances are pathetic, but our friend Andrew here is far from a panty dropper! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 13 | The delusion is realEw what a predatory creep! I guarantee you he ended up in a SEA country and married a poor young woman so she can fulfil his dreams of carrying on “his legacy”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:13 PM |
| 111 | Is marriage really worth it ? Are men even worth the trouble ?Marriage is definitely not worth it. The amount of men who are high value and will remain loyal to their women dwindles by the day. The way society works now is sex is so easily accessible and validation is rapid to get. Think of how easy it is to download a dating app as a married person, and see how many people are willing to sleep with you in a span of a day. Think of the wandering eyes your husband will have when he lusts after a 20 something with a tight body when you destroyed your body af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 23 | The delusion is realHe also has nipple piercings he proudly shows off and a picture of him holding a fish he proudly caught. So basic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 8 | The delusion is real🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:49 PM |
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