It’s obviously stands for Bad Dick Shitty Men.

Right?

A man who really knows how to please a woman sexually will not need to pull out all the bells and whistles to do so. He won’t need to hang you off his ceiling while he wears a bear suit while jerking off to reruns of Reba on his dusty ass tube TV from 1996.

A man who really knows how to please a woman sexually will not need to disguise abuse as a “kink”.

There’s nothing kinky or erotic about being a warm body for a man to masturbate with. There’s nothing kinky or erotic by being a “sub” to a man who has absolutely 0 self respect for you and expects you to be as performative as a sea lion at Sea World on cocaine.

Anytime a woman tells me she’s into BDSM, I raise my brow and just ask if she means she’s into Bad dick and shitty men? Surely that’s what it means?

A woman in pursuit of a HVM will not support this garbage and be with a man who pushes for BDSM in the bedroom. A real HVM man will respect your boundaries and take his time exploring your body. It’s no coincidence that women are more likely to orgasm with parters they’re comfortable with as opposed to some loser you meet at a dungeon party.

I‘ll kinkshame until I’m blue in the face if that means standing in solidarity with my sisters who’ve faced years of abuse in their sexual encounters and preaching the fact that BDSM is inherently toxic and continues to leave womankind in the dark.

Don’t believe the hype, that’s what they want you to fall for.