The type of music a man chooses to listen to is very telling of his character and his values. I don't want to paint everyone with the same brush, but from personal experiences this seems to be the case.

A man who listens to very aggressive music, whether rap or otherwise that consistently preaches objectiying women is a man who most likely believes in the message. I've never met a man who listens to music preaching "fucking hoes, having threesomes, and getting bread" as high value. In fact, these men were so entranced by this music and pop culture that they built their entire identity around it. Although these men weren't working jobs (half the time they were unemployed) that indicated they were "getting bread", they still tried to keep up with the Joneses by going into serious debt, and kept a harem of women.

This post was inspired by someone who thought it was brilliant to play me the song "Like That" by Yo Gotti. This song has literary genius verses such as "But I only bought you Chanel cause I wanted you. You let me fuck you with your friend so I don't cheat on you." Surprise! This person was a NVM fuckboy who had no healthy relationships at the ripe ol' age of 36.

Continuing to listen to music with such a toxic message began their descent from treating women respectfully and seeing them as human.

On the contrary, a man who listens to music with a positive message or is thought provoking views usually had a healthier take on relationships.

As a great vetting question, you should ask a man what kind of music he listens to and who his favourite artist is. This question will give you more insight on what kind of things he nutures his brain with. Is it nonsense drivel with the overall goal of objectifying women? Or does he listen to music that is thought provoking and has artistic value?

As you can tell by my username, I'm a huge fan of electronic music. Not big room EDM stuff, but more underground progressive stuff. Now unfortunately, a lot of people who listen to this kind of music have a penchant for drugs so my dating pool is narrowed based on this common interest in music.

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.