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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | “If they have no bread, then Let Them Eat Dick”The old adage Money= Power = Sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:51 AM |
| 6 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsLol, never be in a relationship where the guy won't tell you about his past, his troubles, feelings, whatever. Signs that he's done some shady shit or he has mental illness with a baggage of unprocessed trauma. A man who only knows how to cry because someone said no isn't a man at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:27 PM |
| 8 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.Ugh. You know why sex industry exists? It's because often women are pushed into it because her opportunities or survival routes were cut off BY MEN. Any women who says they love sex has tragically been sexually and emotionally assaulted and in denial. What they need is therapy and something like FDS, you're not going to get power and control over your life from making money from having sex with men. You won't be getting 'power' or 'control' back. The loss is lost. However, you have your life ahe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 47 | Expose them early and often!If anyone is being rude to you and making you feel uncomfortable, instead of internalizing it, externalize it and fling the poison back at their faces. If you truly want to adopt an 'I don't give a fuck' attitude, it comes with being less reactive to what happens in your external environment. Not caring means to remain unaffected or stoic, not flinging your arms in the air, pushing or shoving everything out of your way and saying out loud that 'You don't care'- this is what social media and OLD … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Actions don't lie, how does he react in these situations?This! Their extra niceness is very embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:46 AM |
| 12 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.No..... Every guy I've met into casual hookups and shit treat women shit, are shit and have other serious issues going on in their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:30 AM |
| 73 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyThis is on point. Except most narcs I've met think they are special shit. The worst ones on the spectrum loved to gossip and talk about anyone behind their back. They don't have their best foot forward either. They only start getting better when you start getting worse. Remember, if anyone makes you wonder 'why are they doing this/that' RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | You're not hurting anyone's feelingsHow can you not 'mean to hurt someone'? When you're over a certain age, it's inexcusable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why his music taste is extremely important during the vetting process.Yes this! It's not being snobby about music but the relation between LVM and LV music is undeniable. It gets really annoying when men and LVW use your music tastes to 'profile' you psychologically. I could just like a song and be singing about loving myself despite the words are 'I love you'. It's these people who listen to songs and build their image around them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Friendly reminders 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Two fantastically summarised points of gatekeeping yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 23 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.She probably doesn't even know why or what is happening, but just that she knows it's bad and out of her own will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Psychologist ScroteIf you're going to see a psychologist, go see a lady psych. Men who caused illnesses in women can't be the ones to help us cure. The last time I had a male psychologist, one did nothing and the other tried to get me diagnosed with schizophrenia. (Because if you get diagnosed with something like that, you have to get meds and treatment, in which the clinic EARNS money from. Fucking dirty bastards.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:46 AM |
| 7 | If anyone gives you a backhanded compliment or neg at the start of a conversation, walk away...Ooh that's a good comeback. Honestly, how can you be rude to someone who initiated or already is being rude to you? Funny how they almost always get away with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:06 AM |
| 10 | If anyone gives you a backhanded compliment or neg at the start of a conversation, walk away...That's a good line. I always use it when people genuinely compliment me but it's a good comeback for anything. What if you get angry as a result of what you had to withstand from them? And people point at you for being the asshole? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:45 AM |
| 10 | If anyone gives you a backhanded compliment or neg at the start of a conversation, walk away...Yep, and no point in giving even constructive criticism as they think it's personal jabs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:38 AM |
| 18 | If anyone gives you a backhanded compliment or neg at the start of a conversation, walk away...Exactly! I've identified that whenever someone makes me confused or questioning 'Why do they do that'- it's abuse including overstepping of boundaries. Hence the book name 'Why Does He Do That'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Ladies: Don't be afraid to LIE. Nobody is entitled to any information about you, EVER.Or if you grew up with a pickme mother, she'll have taught you to always tell the truth so she can manipulate it for her own benefit. Oh did I forget to mention you'll meet a lot of these women as an adult too? Facepalm. I'm not a good liar so I think I'll just walk away or ignore unwanted questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 7 | “If she doesn’t put out by the third date, she’s not into you bro.”I know in some cultures a third date means you're officially a couple now. Not really sure how that works... I've also met men who thought they were in a relationship with women (including me) just because we 'hung out' many times and they were entitled to my body. What the fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:37 PM |
| 10 | Men will tie themselves in knots to victimise themselves 🙄Ugh. Don't they ever think why the wife became insufferable? People don't become unpleasant for no reason... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:25 PM |
| 16 | Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasonsJeezus f* this was frightening to scroll past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | A male friend of mine said something interesting to me recently about leveling up.Some men with also don't care. They just want to throw it around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 17 | Pickmes move like they are the exception and not the ruleI find pickmes fall into two groups: They're young and inexperienced, they want to be FDS but they go in the wrong direction instead. They're probably around pickmes otherwise they wouldn't have the 'I'm not like that' mindset. Or, they're pickmes, well seasoned and served. And they hang out with other pickmes and scrotes. They'll discriminate you for your FDS views. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 40 | Why is it the most hideous men that are Ethically Non Monogamous (ENM)?I strongly second this. They develop a whole outer appearance and 'strategies'. I've found they commonly move from victim to victim every two months. Three months is stretching it. Their outer appearance and interests also changes based on who they've fixated on and who they're aiming for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 11:25 PM |
| 17 | Princess Diana knew she was headed for a terrible marriage but her family still pushed her into itWhat was she going to spill? Yes, a true princess to the people. It's sad how she was reacting as a normal person but everyone around her called her unstable, paranoid, crazy, etc. It's also frightening to see how common it translates to our own society today- even if we aren't royals women are constantly called out for being overly emotional, crazy, etc and seen as reproductive tools. Honestly all the genuinely good people in the world are killed off or literally driven to death by others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:04 AM |
| 22 | Princess Diana knew she was headed for a terrible marriage but her family still pushed her into itAnd her two boys still ended up leaving the royal family... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inYes. I can't even enjoy a holiday by MYSELF without being approached. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 07:13 AM |
| 1 | “YoU haVe loW vIbrAtiOnAL eNerGy”, tHat’s wHy YoU aRe sIngLe”Yep. I mean, if you can make use of the 'energy', great, but these men rarely get anywhere. Same with women who're always competing with you. Sad bunch of losers I will patron-a you back to Azkaban. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:44 PM |
| 11 | “YoU haVe loW vIbrAtiOnAL eNerGy”, tHat’s wHy YoU aRe sIngLe”I've been told I have high energy and they all wanted a piece of that until I have no energy left. These people are sick af and anyone who supports them are equally guilty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:20 PM |
| 12 | Markers of AbuseYes. You can have an extensive list as reference but it's much easier to remember if something or someone makes you feel uncomfortable you need to distance yourself from them. Don't be nice or polite and try to diffuse the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 18 | Reminder for ladies to keep vetting in a relationshipThey're looking to have sex. They're get married to have a maid. They're looking to have sex. Pickmes get high off of being 'chosen' by an 'already taken' man. Sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 09:33 AM |
| 22 | Keeping in contact with ExesThis baffled me as well. How can you remain friends with someone you constantly argue with? These people lack boundaries and won't respect yours either. And they have severe unresolved issues in their life. They'd rather keep a bunch of backups they call friends than to make genuine connections. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Beware of shady matchmakers, ladies.I used to have friends who loved to play matchmaker. Those people have no life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Can age gap relationships stunt the mental development of the younger person?To me, age gap relationships, especially when the younger one just entered their twenties, is like a parent-child relationship. They're looking for someone to fill their missing parent figure. Same with young men who seek relationships with older women. You will recognise these women will have taught how to present himself, how to dress, how to adult basically. It definitely stunts the younger person''s growth because it's a codependent relationship. There's no room for growth or individuality. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:27 PM |
| 27 | Male fragility means that a picture of a small sausage in a South Korean ad makes men there feel bad about the size of their genitals. So the answer is getting back at feminists by playing cancel culture towards the supposed companies they work for. (You can't make this shit up!)And men accuse women of taking things too personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Things I wish I could go back and say to younger versions of myselfEven if you had the best parents to tell you this stuff nothing shields you from the world. You can do all the right things and still have bad things happen to you. I think you should be proud of yourself to awaken to the many truths of this world. That truth is different for everyone because you are not them and they are not you. Continue to live your truth and live without regret. I sense a bit of regret here and I hope you aren't being hard on yourself. It's not your fault. Live. Love. Laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:30 AM |
| 90 | Men are intimidated by my educationWe weren't allowed to read or write or be authors, or scientists, etc. I really guess this is something etched in their genes. All men who I've met who either graduated or have their masters neg me saying that it won't be worth it. I know YOU won't be worth it. Also remember that an educated man could also be just another educated fool, LVM. Vet vet vet. Regurgitating facts and statistics don't mean shit. Action! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Do you think childfree men are less inclined to provide or less or more likely to be HV than non-childfree men?I don't think FDS has any exceptions for CF men. This is a choice and discussion to be communicated between the two of you. Vet all men and bring up CF early if you know they are HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 10:42 AM |
| 33 | Love that FDS is making a generation of women for whom this will NOT be the case 💕A well written and concise message shedding light on the state of marriage. Is sex the only thing men want after an unhappy partner? Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 06:51 AM |
| 2 | People complaining about Scarlett Johansson suing Disney for more moneyYes and that. It costs $30 to watch newly released films and that price was strategically decided. You tell them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:53 AM |
| 2 | People complaining about Scarlett Johansson suing Disney for more moneyDo you ever get scared of underperforming and they would cut your salary and be like 'You negotiated and couldn't do the work', etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:50 AM |
| 26 | Article: Has The Sex Positivity Movement Peaked?Amen to that. I never worked out the logic of sex work being feminist. It's a demand created by men for men and they can manipulate the prices in a lot of ways unless if all women stand together. ALL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:22 AM |
| 64 | Article: Has The Sex Positivity Movement Peaked?To 'reclaim' our body and sexualisation of it is misinterpreted as sexualizing ourselves first. If we claim to like it or we show off our bodies first, we beat the men (or women) who take it away from us by force. We feel more in control when we actually aren't. That isn't sex positivity. That's a combination of gaslighting ourselves and coercing ourselves into giving our bodies away, like the writer has stated. Young girls and women in general need to realise what trends are dictated by especia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 03:47 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI used to love Rihanna but not so much anymore. She's more of an well-made image, she had the right people beside her to support her, but after Chris Brown and dating billionaires, she ends up with ASAP ROCKY? The term 'Queen' is irresponsibly used these days. Not one of the 'Queens' everyone labels popular artists is actually a good model for behavior and women. Most of these women, end up with deadbeat cheating men and stays with them, or chooses the same type of deadbeat men over and over aga… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:20 PM |
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