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I never understood the "never ask a woman her age" thing. Why are we supposed to be offended? People are going to find out your age as they get to know you. If any man in the workplace says something about my age, I'm ready to insult him back. Hit him with the "mens looks peak at 20. especially the hairline"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 12:57 PM
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"I'm a simple man" = don't ask me for anything, woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:07 PM
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Why isn't anybody talking about this? Because they'd rather a woman talk 'til she's blue in the face instead of leaving the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:27 PM
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"The 16 rules of misogyny" + "Building your girl gang"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:01 PM
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"The 16 Rules of Misogyny" & "Building Your Girl Gang"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:37 AM
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Yeahh you're not alone. It'd be cool to have yt mods who remove most of the scrote comments and leave up the ones who get roasted like this guy. Shit, I'd volunteer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:45 AM
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This user replied to one of my comments (not shown here), asking me if there was a platform he could DM me on. When I didn't respond, he deleted it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:44 AM
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Yes it's the FDS Podcast YT channel comment section. It's pretty entertaining because it's what the FDS subreddit would look like unmodded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:41 AM
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Sometime in 2019, men on the internet learned the new vocab worb "accountable" and now use it 1) incorrectly and 2) to mansplain women's behavior to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:21 PM
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Depends. If you own a Vegeta body pillow, that'd be concerning😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:25 PM
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11-year-old me preferred his hunky and polite son Future Trunks lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:23 PM
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Did we date the same guy?! I'm normal weight but ex always pinched my lower stomach🤬 It always made me mad but I wouldn't express my anger. Nonverbal negging is totally a thing because he's focusing on your "flaws." \Grabs your muffin top** = "Look at this fat on your body." Your comment is worthy of its own post on here. I didn't realize that this was negging until reading this. We gotta watch out for spoken and unspoken insults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:07 PM
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18 undiagnosed mental illnesses in tow LOL why is this so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 09:57 PM
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What also pissed me off was the fact that she ended the chat before I even got a chance to message her and let her know my experience. Props to her for blocking and deleting so that he wasn't able to unleash his verbal abuse upon her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:31 PM
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Ew the drawing on the left encompasses so many American dudes. Black shirt and cargo shorts is their go-to outfit no matter how old they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:34 PM
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(translated) How is a woman going to be my unpaid maid, chef, and sex machine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:32 PM
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glad someone has a dissenting opinion regarding therapy. Best case scenario, therapy allows you to talk unfiltered in a way that you wouldn't talk with a family member or friend. But that's about the only benefit. They help you help yourself since they can't really give you blunt advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:24 PM
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100%. Any woman with common sense avoids community dick. Male promiscuity is not shamed enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:22 AM
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Same thing with all the male characters from Yugioh Sis you just gave me flashbacks to when my child self had a crush on yami yugi😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:55 PM
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Enjoy that weak sweaty man on top of you 😂 dead. But yes to everything you said. This "growing to be attracted to him" mentality encourages overthinking and women to gaslight themselves out of dating the Channing Tatums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:19 AM
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This woman's smile is so disingenuous. Unwashed obese men already have out-of-control ego and she's making it worse with this tiktok. From personal experience, fit women who date fat men are highly insecure and want to be the "pretty" one in the relationship. They think that being with jabba the hut means he's not going to cheat. Somehow, her being "pretty" means that his tubby ass is going to value her more. WRONG. Pickmeism: Not even once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:13 AM
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Alleviate their guilt by apologizing Lol it's a cold day in hell if a man outright apologizes. They instead try to pretend everything is ok by playing "nice" after treating you poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:51 AM
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Another manosphere lie: "women spend their 20s "riding the c\ck carousel.*" The truth: Men have more sex partners over the course of their lifetime compared to women. When they call women sluts, it's pure projection. Men talk about women with high "body counts" even though men are the more lustful and promiscuous. The community dick types who do settle down can't keep a happy marriage to save their life. The pua who wrote "The Game" book cheated on his ex wife with her friend. This is why I thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:24 PM
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His body fat percentage. The fatter the dude, the shorter his peen. The way he carries himself. There's a saying "big talk, small c*ck." Highly insecure dudes who don't respect women = small peen Go swimming with him. If he's wearing swim trunks, watch him get out of the water. Check the outline on his crotch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:39 AM
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then when he does, don't say it back lol just smile, hug, and kiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:29 PM
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On a side note, even if a man pursues you and ticks all of the boxes, make sure to vet for how they handled women pursuing them in the past. You might be onto something with this vetting strategy. This got me thinking of my dad. Before he met my mom, my mom's friend flirted with him but he'd politely decline. He said that she wasn't his "type" and preferred to pursue a woman, but he didn't dehumanize her. Recently, she underwent a traumatic hysterectomy and gastrectomy so both my parents went to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:03 PM
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I notice so many women, even in their late 20s and beyond, think that a guy who is "nice" automatically means he's a good man. It's just insane that people get older but they don't get wiser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:37 AM
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When men refer to women as "females" 🚩 Sir, just remove the filter and call us bitches like you actually want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:15 AM
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There are restaurants that have outdoor heaters. Those are good for when you want to eat outdoors but it's chilly. It sounds like this guy didn't want to put in the effort to find one of these places. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:52 PM
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To ladies with a social media presence, be aware that: There's a 99% chance that men have masturbated to your pictures. Yes, even your "childhood male friends." I saw a guy once confess that he masturbated to a store catalog that had a picture of middle age woman wearing a turtleneck. Men see social media and dating websites as "window shopping," "looking at the menu," or "seeing what's for sale." Women who post pictures of themselves on social media for other men to see are providing a (usually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:18 AM
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"Make yourself as unpleasant to be around as you can and say the dumbest shit that comes to mind at any given opportunity" 2 theories for why pua/redpill gives them that advice: There really are enough pick mes out there for them to think that this works on all women. pua/redpill purposely give bad advice to create bad dates so they can get returning clients seeking more "advice."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:06 PM
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"You finished high school and you don't do drugs and you don't have any visible tattoos... what are you doing with my son?" OOF. An insult like that goes right over a pick me's head. This makes me so thankful for FDS and the access to other valuable information that helps women. Majority of internet users in the early 2000s were male and these early forums were used to exchange PUA techniques. Scrotes don't like that more women are sharing our experiences and advice on our own digital forums. Tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:16 AM
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what in the alabama🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:35 PM
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Agreed. I like your confidence and optimism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:30 AM
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Same. I'd love to see it brought back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:12 PM
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The ladies went easy on men compared to the stuff men say about women's bodies. Anyhow, great podcast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:36 PM
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You asked him what the dog's name is and he didn't even answer your question🚩 The first interaction and this man can't respond like a normal person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:20 PM
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A man with provider-mentality prefers giving gifts. Usually, a man's pride prevents him from gracefully receiving gifts, especially if it's from a woman. My next paragraph is anecdotal so take it as you will. A woman once gave my dad's friend a bottle of cologne as a gift. Dad's friend never used it and later he gave it to my dad. My sister once gave my brother a computer. My brother uses the fuck out of that computer but also resented my sister for helping him. Another time I gifted my dad a me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:57 PM
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My apologies for the late reply. That's a highly disturbing account but thank you for sharing and reminding us about psychopaths lurking among us. Good thing that nutcase is your ex. I hope other people he crosses paths with don't become victim to his rage impulses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:47 AM
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crying???😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:08 AM
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100% agree. I guess my line of thinking was "am I not intimidating enough, to the point that some dude I barely know feels like he could do this to me with impunity?" You're right, I could be a stone-faced women wearing all black and scrotes will still try you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:54 PM
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Your decoding of his behavior is spot on. When you word it like that, it sure gives the chills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:45 PM
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That is some childish shit right there and the end result of "boys will be boys" socialization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:42 PM
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Your advice hit deep. When I get a free award, I'm giving it to this comment. It's tough because normally I'm a stoned-faced person who has been told I "look mean." I guess the result of trying to change that is men thinking they can assault you! Since it's late in the semester and the project is due soon, I'll have to go with the first suggestion. I might even neg him in front of our group for shits and giggles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:38 PM
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Good point about medication! Yes, it's expensive to replace and what do you tell your pharmacy? "Some asshole pushed me into water"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:41 PM
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I once unintentionally got a man to reveal his weed habit. When I recounted this conversation to my male ex-friend, even he was impressed. Here's somewhat how it went. Me: You kinda remind me of a friend I used to have. Except he was a stoner. *laugh* I don't know if you're into that. Him: I've been clean for about 2 weeks. I got pneumonia and decided maybe it's best to quit. I can't remember how I responded but I just remember thinking "2 weeks is not impressive" and that the more I learned abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:18 AM
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Sorry to read that your father is like that. "This is how men are" is a lie. HE may be like that and he's just projecting his less-than-good qualities onto every man. Let me say to you: please don't succumb to the spirit of defeatism. The men I've met who don't watch porn are employed and when they're not working, they're still doing something productive. They know that idleness is not a good thing, so they'd rather fill their free time with exercise, reading a book, or spending time with loved …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:50 PM
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Men who don't watch porn do exist. You just have to know how to vet them. Lots of men will be eliminated from your pool. they all view us as meat. Here is a dose of optimism. Men who are serious about avoiding porn can return to their right mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:25 PM
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John Wayne Gacy was also known to view stag films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:49 PM
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Interesting. So I guess the takeaway for women: Non-pornsick men follow the social rules of normal eye contact. I've dealt with weirdos who are staring at my face when they think I'm not looking (but I see them in my peripherals). In one-on-one conversations, I've also dealt with dudes who seem to not want to look at me while I'm talking or while they're talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:36 PM
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The scrote lurkers sure are down-voting. Thank you for this post, OP. This is one thing that's a bit confusing: Viewers of the sexually-explicit film displayed more dominance and anxiety, ignored contributions of their partner more often, touched their partner for longer periods of time, and averted their partner’s gaze more compared to viewers of the non-sexual film.- Viewers of the sexually-explicit and degrading film spent longer periods of time averting their partner’s touch and gazing at th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:19 PM
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this is an underrated truth. Men have gaslit society into thinking that only women gossip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 04:52 AM
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fuckboy scrote was more important than a dying person she'd known for her whole life... Also she had no interests outside of banging... Girl, read a book. These people think sex is a personality trait lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:57 AM
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It takes a certain personality type to stab ink into your skin. Unpopular opinion but men without tattoos give a better impression than inked men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:35 AM
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When Nixon completely severed the link between the dollar and gold in 1971, some speculate that one of the consequences was the rise in short-term thinking and restlessness in people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:18 AM
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The social rules for physical contact have been complicated by the pandemic, but I get what you mean. A parting kiss after the first date is iffy, but a hug is reasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:38 AM
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ugh so true to the childhood social conditioning. Boys' clothing + merch never has stuff like "be kind" but I've seen that on little girls' merch. The shaming of women into not having standards and boundaries starts so young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:52 AM
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Negging is a quintessential part of LVM dating strategy. It is not "unintentional." Do not give him the benefit of the doubt by assuming he's socially unaware or perhaps dense. He knows what he's doing. If he makes you feel bad during the date, that should be the last time he sees or hears from you. If there is a single neg, block and delete. No second chances. Edit: I also want to talk about the no compliments part. A man giving no compliments is a red flag🚩 Compliments are such a bare minimum …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:06 AM
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Yeah I don't like beards on men. Only clean-shaven or five o'clock shadow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:56 PM
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"Men age like wine. Women age like milk" is a common manosphere one-liner. It is: 1) Projection on the part of men, hence your post. 2) A coping mechanism for men who don't want to accept the reality of their graying/thinning hair. Basically a lie they tell themselves. 3) A lie meant to bully women and make us feel bad for aging, even though we age better than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:49 PM
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that "smirk" is called the smile of contempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:19 PM
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I do this for men I don't like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:41 PM
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A guy who sits next to me in my uni class did this. Next day, he came to class wearing a wedding ring. I can see in my peripherals that he still looks over at me but I avoid looking in his direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:57 AM
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It's exactly what Jordan Peterson did jp is so nauseatingly insidious. His whole shtick is manosphere ideology disguised as philosophy justified by pseudoscience (especially the evolutionary b.s.).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:11 AM
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This issue (Premarital sex) is one of the few disagreements I have with FDS. Instead of the three-month rule, I believe in the wedding-night rule. Edit: I do not have a track record of perfection. After engaging in premarital sexual activity in the past and getting burned, I've decided to be celibate unless I'm married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:07 AM
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"I've been with my fiance for about 11 years, off and on" Oh boy. "In the process of getting ready for the wedding, I find out that he's living paycheck-to-paycheck and has no money saved up." It's good that she got this information before it was too late. On the other hand, what have they been talking about for the past 11 years? "I'm really scared now." Listen to your intuition sis. Don't go through with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:00 AM
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These demented dudes get off on seeing women degraded. I knew a guy who once told me that he wanted to stop watching porn because there was no way to know whether the women in the video are above 18. In my head I'm thinking, "even if they were 18, why would you want to watch them get degraded?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:35 PM
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sounds like a manosphere one-liner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:13 PM
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I had a friend in first grade and there was a boy who gave her a bloody chin. She said that he liked her. I remember being really confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:09 PM
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The support systems that women have are the ones we created for ourselves, our friends. Since the day we are born we are bombarded with movies, books about how female friendships are "fake" and how women are catty and hate each other, while men get bombarded with "brotherhood" so why aren't men being support systems to each other? Instead of expecting women to be that? Men gatekeep women from a lot of things, and friendship is one of them. Don't you know that real friendship only exists between …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:56 PM
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Yes that too. If you do remember, he's banking on you being gracious after he was being an ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:24 PM
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They remember. They just hope that you don't remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:15 AM
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Women are too nice and receptive to other people's bullshit commentary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:16 PM
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As someone who just finished reading the book of genesis (gonna start exodus after I'm done with uni), I love your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:47 PM
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found the guy's twitter. he's ugly af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:26 PM
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Before the original video was deleted, the comments were full of angry men confirming what matthew is saying but also being angry at the women for laughing at the truth. Here's the video in question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:03 PM
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Lots of mental gymnastics in this podcast. 84% of the world population has a religion. 93% are theists (believe in a god or gods). They talk about the importance of hearing other viewpoints but then bash religious people. Elle states that she grew up muslim but rebelled against her parents by adopting liberal views. This is right after saying that she has never voted liberal... contradiction much? She held her muslim values but she's not religious, making her conservative without being religious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:44 PM
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Should I have just left him there and gone home? Yes. Assuming this is a real story... Sis the time to bail was when he proposed meeting at his house. You should have never even left your house. I'm glad she later found someone who she is happy with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:57 PM
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That is very offensive to monster energy drinkers named Kyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:19 AM
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knucklehead thinks men are the prize lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:09 AM
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Blocking hurts guys😇. I once witnessed a conversation between 3 teenage boys that I wasn't supposed to. This guy was telling his boys about the time he got blocked by a girl he was DM'ing. In public, they may say "FUCK THAT BITCH! SHE WAS UGLY ANYWAY!" In a private setting, they're showcasing their inner sad boy. His 2 other friends were there for him but they're also amused by the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:29 PM
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One thing I've learned about relationships is that the tone is being set from the very first interaction. Pickmes and anyone who likes to engage in mental gymnastics claim "you don't know what their relationship is like outside of social media!!!" This couple has given enough information for us to deduce that this will be a rocky relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:44 PM
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does the "bro" standup comedy include bill burr?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:50 AM
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that twitch streamer hasan piker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:01 AM
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What happened to your friend was awful. Your friend reacted to your warning the way she did because female social conditioning encourages women to be naive and prideful (not the self-serving kind). If he lays a finger on you I'm going to cut his balls off of with a cheese grater.' After this comment, she thought you were talking about her looks. That is a very egotistical reaction. Be there for your friend if/when she wants to talk about it. Do not repeat my words to her verbatim. Ask her questi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:40 PM
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Exactly, the man's exterior has nothing to do with whether or not he's a jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:52 PM
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I'm not Korean but it sounds like Korean women don't want to be slaves for their husbands AND their in-laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:42 PM
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They left out a few words. A mating crisis **for men**
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:21 PM
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As many FDSers have said before... Men can dish it, but they can't take it (especially from a woman)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:24 AM
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This dude is definitely a roosh v follower. roosh wrote an article about how men are better at everything. Ok bro, just date men then and leave women alone. Also reading this gave me a stroke. Use proper english scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:34 PM
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That's the best attitude to have💪 Instead of dwelling on it, I decided to stop hiding behind clothing. A dude who tries anything will get pepper sprayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:07 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please know that when shithead boys assault your being, it has nothing to do with how you were dressed. He is the one who wronged you. You're spot on when you assert that these dudes actively enjoy making women uncomfortable and they're not just "playing around and don't know better." There really is no need to voice our grievances to men but it's scary how even at such a young age, girls are encouraged to cOmMuNicate. When I was about 12 or 13, I experienced 4…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:29 PM
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"I guess..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:56 PM
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This reminds me of that trevor wallace skit "Why would I go to college when I have the Joe Rogan podcast?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:12 PM
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pickmes direct their critical female gaze towards women. We need more of it directed towards men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:06 AM
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I'm sorry about your last relationship. The man's attitude towards porn is important information but getting this information in a discreet manner can be tricky. First and foremost, the best way to vet is listening to your intuition. If you get the feeling that he is a womanizer, drug/porn addict,etc... he probably is. Here, Savannah mentions that you don't even have to ask him about it. The coomer energy comes through in the man's vocabulary and general aura. A quick vetting strategy is looking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:06 AM
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About to listen to this episode. Just the title alone makes me brace myself for the roast-a-scrote😆 Edit: Fuck yeah, this episode is so empowering but it's also a reminder that Team Women has a lot of work to do as far as raising the bar goes. Arrogance/entitlement is what comes to mind when most people think of pride, but pride manifests in many ways. A manifestation of pride that women are the most guilty of is excessive people pleasing and worrying about appearing "mean/bad" in the eyes of ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:19 AM
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I certainly don't have that energy. FDS is a digital space where women can speak freely about men in today's dating pool. Besides that, I go on with normal life outside reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:28 PM
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Scrote in my class won't get the hint that I don't want to talk to him. Thankfully this is my last semester at uni. The first few weeks of class, he didn't shower or shave his scruffy beard. Not even the guys wanted to be near him. When he started talking to me, he suddenly began showering and coming to class clean-shaven. Pretty laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:54 AM
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weaponized incompetence and feigning ignorance/stupidity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:02 AM
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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:20 AM
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"How did I get so lucky." I used to take that as a compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:16 AM
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What is the appeal of gym dates? You're both drenched in sweat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:18 PM
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unfunny people lean on shock humor. What they don't realize, the audience is only laughing out of discomfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:18 AM
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As a Christian, I can confirm that they say the same thing about churches. "Feminization of the church." Little do they know, female church attendance has been higher than male church attendance since the third century A.D.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:39 AM
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Boomer pickmes as well as younger pickme boy-moms like to argue that academia is just not geared towards men. This argument is not based in history or reality. Even when only men were allowed to get an education, school has always been a teacher + students with pencil and paper. It sounds to me like these pickmes want to continue raising their boys with little to no involvement and just "letting boys be boys." Undisciplined toddlers whose moms took the "boys will be boys" approach to parenting e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:32 AM
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Most public personalities are in touch with their local police department to prevent doxxers from sending SWAT teams to their house. There are services like deleteme that wipe your digital footprint. Afterwards, it's a matter of never hinting on where you live exactly and concealing the identities of your family members. Your story is unsettling and I'm sorry that you have to deal with that. The only way for people to take someone seriously, especially in the U.S., is threatening an expensive la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:06 AM
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Never understood why this is an issue. If you can't afford to foot the bill for dinner, you shouldn't be dating. Every week, my uncle would take his wife and 3 kids (my cousins) out to eat. The bill would be like $100+. If I (his niece/goddaughter) was in town, he would pay for me. A HVM is generous. But these 50/50 dudes are complaining about a $20 meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:36 AM
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100% to everything you said. Guys like brad(and most guys) can dish it but they can't take it, especially when it's a woman mocking them. Hopefully Mason has safeguards for her information especially since it's so easy to dox people in the U.S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:16 AM
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I get your point, but I'm an advocate of always having something to defend yourself even if you're around people that you know. I've had to pepper spray my cousin's relative before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:53 PM
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"Brian Laundrie, 23" Those have been a very rough 23 years. Roast aside, street smarts ladies. Never be alone with someone who you stand no chance against in a 1v1. Edit: I just visited their youtube channel. A comment on one of the videos says that the guy is a junkie. If so, makes sense why brian looks 40 instead of 23. Edit 2: The more I read, the worse it gets. Apparently the van they traveled in belongs to Gabby, the missing young woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:30 PM
54

blue balls is a thing that guys make up so they can guilt women into having sex with them. Fuck that guy for not returning that girl's bikini. Those things aren't cheap. Guys who complain about men getting "falsely accused" of sexual assault are definitely redditors/webcrawlers and it's a huge red flag🚩 LVM get into sulky moods so that they can bait women into trying to put them in a good mood again (search the pua concept "dread game"). Lilith's story about her ex physically blocking her from l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:12 PM
48

LVM and control freak go hand-in-hand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:43 AM
133

have you ever seen how men are when they get a slight cold?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:39 PM
2

Hahah the little boy is angwyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:00 PM
24

Smile a lot, say "thank you!" a lot. I say thank you even when they do small things like lighting a candle at my table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:43 PM
2

He just screams "my dad is a lawyer"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:39 PM
36

of course his name is Brad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:42 PM
47

Since I have my own space, I expect the man to also have his own space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:33 AM
124

A male friend???? Unless you want to endanger your children, don't do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:54 PM
77

I like the fearlessness of this post. When my ex and I broke up, one of the things I regret not doing is removing every friend of mine who was still friends with him after everything he did to me. Me and those "friends" eventually drifted apart but I regret not just blocking and deleting right then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:49 PM
29

Who even came up with the idea that women "live life on easy mode?" Gamer scrotes refer to us as living life on "recruit difficulty."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:43 PM
92

Chef Makes sense. Lot of em are cocaine addicts too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 09:50 PM
1

did we all date the same dude? They all must be learning the same lines from the same source.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:21 AM
7

Do we have the same sister? lol But seriously, tell her that instead of looking at all the time they've spent together, she should be looking at the present day and beyond. TODAY, she is not satisfied. Is this what she wants for the rest of her life? It's not going to get better, so if the answer to the previous question is no, she's gotta cut her losses and break up with him. Adults in their 30s who are "bf/gf" for more than 2 years are embarassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:58 PM
58

It's standard procedure for men to lie about their height. My brother played football in highschool and was 5'11 at the time. When they were measuring everyone's height, he told them 5'11, and his teammate says "let's just put you for 6'0." So ladies, unless you see him getting measured, don't trust any numbers they give you. I have a pretty good eye for height and know what 6'0 looks like (dad is 6'0 and brother is 6'2).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:56 PM
2

'nerdy revenge cheaters" Is this a reference to that rapey 80s movie or are you talking about the high levels of insecurity within gamers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:32 PM
2

The FDS youtube channel. You can also pay money to access the patreon-exclusive episodes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:49 AM
73

e-sports is an oxymoron lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:26 AM
29

Better to be "rude" then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Plus, it's not really rude in this context. It's just a woman standing her ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:38 AM
107

"I might pop up in like 5 years to see how you're doing" This dude is a massive troll and didn't deserve a pure-hearted woman like you. Don't send him those pictures. I'm sorry that you went through this. Your feelings are valid. Remember that women are very resilient and these feelings will pass. Afterwards, you will emerge stronger❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:42 AM
7

Ew indeed. Also, thank you for your input and break-down of what these crazy dudes are thinking. My ex's intentions were definitely sinister and he's a good candidate for a roast-a-scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:08 PM
22

Woah now that you ask, no he didn't. Great question btw you're more keen than I was lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:00 PM
30

My ex (before we started dating) followed all of my friends on twitter, even the ones he has never met before. He also liked every tweet I have ever posted (like 50 tweets at the time). In retrospect, were these red flags or am I reading too much into it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:53 PM
228

Lol @ ian complaining about having to do the courting as the man. How tragically ironic—the physically stronger sex is lazy af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:16 AM
17

At this point, bitch is a compliment that means "not a pushover." A lot of guys see getting called "asshole, dick, douchebag" as affirmation that their tough guy act is on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:26 AM
33

Yes, I remember seeing something like that on twitter. In a nutshell: self-assured men are dominant, blunt, straight-shooter. Self-assured women are mean, rude, stuck-up, bitchy, aggressive, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:16 AM
22

"bitch" is all that these scrotes have lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:04 AM
53

this is why you never tell or even drop hints about your sexual history, even if you've never had sex. A man is going to ask himself if he's dealing with a women who no one wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:57 AM
90

Love the message. Ladies, don't be afraid to be "mean!" If you were a guy, people would be calling you "confident."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:08 AM
8

Right on! Pickmes and LVM always try to make you seem weird because you don't have men (who aren't cousins) on your social media. I don't need their likes/attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:26 PM
18

Really grinds my gears when sleazy dudes mention their sisters to give themselves moral brownie points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:11 PM
16

I go even further. I don't buy any gifts for a dude older than 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:57 AM
80

The purpose of intuition is to pick up on the red flags our eyes and ears might miss. These red flags could be present in: facial expressions body language things said in conversation voice tone physical presentation (especially jewelry and way of dressing) It can be hard to consciously pay attention to so many different things at once. That's where our intuition kicks in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:12 PM
4

A fascinating read. You put into words what I've been thinking since at least 2012 when the rise of facebook, ig, and snapchat began. The easier that internet communication got, the lazier people got. (Excuse me if I sound old) People used to put way more effort into friendships and relationships because minutes and text messages costed extra money. Now everyone is addicted to screens, in the form of smartphones, netflix, tablets, computers, gaming, etc. which adds to the obesity problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:19 AM
66

This episode reminded me of the time I almost dated a 31-year-old when I was 19🤡 There was no FDS at the time and the only person who talked me out of it was my older friend. If it weren't for her, I would have gone through with it🤢 Extra context that makes it more gross: 31M's father was wanted for child molestation and had to flee the country. Last time they heard, 31M's father who is in his 70s, was about to get married to a 16-year-old. Found out this information after I stopped entertaining…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:21 PM
296

It's an indirect way to devalue women. Whoever came up with this term viewed women as whores, potential whores, or retired whores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:45 PM
79

As the youngest daughter/sibling, FDS made me realize that just because I'm the youngest doesn't mean that they can treat me like I'm the stupidest. They're gonna hear what I have to say whether they like it or not and I refuse to be condescended to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:24 PM
24

it's just an excuse for them to act like cavemen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:57 AM
121

Men take note of the music women listen to. To them, a woman who listens to Cardi B or Rihanna is a hoe. So yes, women should do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:56 PM
97

Mistake 1: Disclosing your sexual history Mistake 2: Disclosing your sexual history to a man Mistake 3: Disclosing your sexual history to a man with that much detail Have some boundaries or save it for your therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:19 PM
8

Good on you for standing up for yourself instead of allowing people to run roughshod over you. Those who exploit others' politeness always have the surprised pikachu face when they get pushback on their BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:45 PM
435

"I swear he is a kind man." When you gotta lead with that... "The COVID situation has made his fuse shorter." Parroting his excuses. "I'm ok with yelling." She should be saying "I'm ok with leaving this POS." Lack of a spine and soon it's gonna be "I'm ok with choking."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:44 PM
18

I lurk on their forums and many of these "western" dudes agree with the way muslims treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:16 PM
82

Here's an interaction I had that confirmed the first rule about men that women need to know: Men Play Dumb. I was talking to a guy that I've known since childhood (we don't talk anymore). Me: I'm convinced that vast majority of dudes hate women Him: (innocent tone) You really believe that men hate women? Me: Yes *many months later during a monologue of his* Him: blah blah blah I used to hate women because I had 3 older sisters in addition to my mom blah blah blah This guy also used to be heavily…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:59 AM
1

$10k PC Set Up but has a problem with $10k ring lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:02 AM
28

10 years is better than 15, 20, 30. You got so much ahead of you! Keep moving forward :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:58 PM
30

Why do you think a greater percentage of men are atheists compared to women? They don't appreciate anyone telling them that sexual immorality is a violation of the 6th commandment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:16 PM
18

Let's not forget that sometimes, sex isn't always possible/practical (like after having a baby). Entitled men do not care about a woman's desires. Only his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:25 AM
17

Am I the only one who notices that pot smokers in particular tend to have lots of premature gray hair? I'm talking dudes in their early and mid 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:16 AM
34

Stay woke ladies. I lurk on their comment sections. They tell each other that "I'll quit porn, but she better give me sex whenever I want."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:03 AM
13

YES. The widespread mask-wearing is a blessing because we don't have to wrinkle our faces from smiling. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:32 AM
11

Wtfff I'm so sorry this happened to you. The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:06 PM
6

People back then had more common sense/street smarts when it comes to men. My grandma had a gun in her home and shot it frequently when she would hear someone on her property. In her village, burglars would rape elderly women. But yes, you should never be alone with someone who you stand no chance against in a 1v1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:42 PM
6

If she doesn't sleep with you on date 1/2/3, she just wants a free ride. Cut her loose. If she sleeps with you on date 1/2/3, you ain't the first. She's a hoe. Cut her loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:37 PM
72

Societies who do not value women have no future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:15 PM
1

I totally agree. My main reason for posting this is because it reminded me of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:54 PM
-8

My friend talked me out of blocking him since he's a mutual friend. It's a long story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:11 PM
21

I'd argue that most women still look good well into their 40s and if they really take care of themselves, 50s (examples: JLo, Sandra Bullock). The only man I've seen who looks unusually well-preserved in his 50s is that clown Tucker Carlson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:25 PM
72

serious subject matter aside, you just gave me the most hilarious visual of Frieza from dbz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:14 PM
16

"People are liars and will tell you what you want to hear" This is why you have to be very careful about how you word your questions and how much you reveal to men. When he gets the idea that you want a dude that doesn't consume pornography, he will put on that mask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:30 PM
141

She forgot spilling water on the perimeter of the bathroom sink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:28 PM
40

Exactly! All this was was a house date at the end of the day. He's lucky that the woman accepted his offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:24 PM
205

Men are confusing. They call themselves straight forward and bad with subtlety/hints. However, they'll invite a woman over for dinner+movie and have the surprised pikachu face when the woman eats dinner, watches a movie, then leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:11 PM
19

Any man who uses the term "wifey" or "the wife", I immediately side-eye them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:13 PM
17

this reminded me of this girl back in high school that was dating a somewhat popular guy. On the corner of my eye, I'd see her mean mugging me, making sure that I wasn't checking out her man. Like chill I'm not looking at your guy who probably can't wipe properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:00 AM
149

"But I feel like he was trying to take advantage of me" Why do women ignore their intuition?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:19 AM
29

We were at the Carl's Jr drive thru. I'm pretty skinny and never worry about gaining weight so I order what I want. I ordered chicken tenders, medium fries, and an oreo shake. 400-pound slob tells me "wOw tHas aL0tta fO0d"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:05 AM
19

It's not you, it's them. No respectable man sees himself as the prize. If you aren't their idea of attractive, his loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:42 AM
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