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| 8 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.God I wish when I realized my ex wasn't all that into me at the beginning of our relationship I would've just left a year wasted 2 cats I had to leave and an expensive couch and chair he gets to keep 🙃 too bad I wasn't here yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 04:17 PM |
| 23 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.Sooo he doesn't want to date your past but he's literally got a child on the way lol boy bye 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:16 PM |
| 14 | Reading reviews for “Secrets of Playboy” is depressingly sobering for me. It’s a reminder that although some of society is on our side, so many lvm & pick-me’s still exist to victim blame/gaslight/further perpetuate the patriarchy. Why are evil dead men exempt from criticism? Hugh can burn in Hell.Ugh gross that man was disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:01 PM |
| 28 | how men really feel about women centering themWhats hilarious is if u don't make them first priority they get mad or lose interest ive had guys i was talking to suddenly stop talking to me when I mentioned I was meeting up with a friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 68 | Kind of mad I wasn't born 2-3 generations later so I can experience "enlightened" menIk what u mean gen z men suck most low effort generation of men and flaky as hell too im so close to just giving up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 81 | Remember no man can be "baby trapped" if he doesn't let it happenI didn't even think of that good point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:44 PM |
| 80 | Remember no man can be "baby trapped" if he doesn't let it happenYeah this is more for men because vasectomies are easier to obtain and not as stigmatized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:56 PM |
| 99 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayMaybe this is just anecdotal but every guy I ever knew that never posted about their girlfriend was cheating 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:30 PM |
| 35 | Her cancer diagnosis causes HIM anxiety so he leaves - now she’s considering stopping life-saving treatment to coax him back home.When my mom went thru a mental health crisis and checked herself into a psychiatrist place for a few days her LVM bf of 6 FUCKING YEARS decided to go rent an apartment in the city and pretty much ghosted her not even a real breakup this was a man who had PTSD himself and had had numerous mental health breaks and my mom had always supported him through it but the second she wasn't the strong one anymore off he went | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:59 PM |
| 85 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Drunk words are sober thoughts one night my ex got drunk and told me he had gotten stuck with and settled for me we'd been living together for a year and had talked of marriage 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:04 PM |
| 44 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild.The vast majority of men are horrible parents I've always said if women left men single fathers like they leave us there would be a lot of kids dead or severely neglected | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 21 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himOk so reading all these comments is crazy like the fact that this is so common is really eye opening I really thought I was the only one but so many of us women have this same experience and for the scrote in my inbox saying how women are just as big of pieces of shit as men please show me the hundreds if not thousands of examples of women doing this as you men do I'll wait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:52 PM |
| 81 | On "Roasting"Yup me and my ex used to banter like that at first ot was all light hearted and funny but as time went on especially towards the end of our relationship it be came a lot more mean and hostile its like he was using these "jokes" as a way to disguise his resentment towards me I will definitely now pay attention to men like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:58 AM |
| 45 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.Ahh yes the good old manly "logic" of degrading women for sexual acts they also participated in gotta love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 234 | In my country, a father killed his 2 special needs sons, dumped their bodies in a canal, and caused the police to go on a manhunt. Yet, the top comments on Facebook are people sympathizing/rationalizing the father’s behavior. Even when men murder, society excuses their behavior.So many men killing their kids especially special needs kids it reminds me a lot how women who become sick or disabled are three times as likely to be left it would make me very wary of having children around a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 14 | Giving up sex with men has been the best thing everHow do u manage the "desire" when it arises i haven't had sex in a long time either but I have to admit I definitely still crave it sometimes and masturbating helps but its not a cure all for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 17 | "Daddy issues"Oh one thing I forgot to add if all girls without fathers have "daddy issues" how come nobody talks about girls with lesbian mothers do they also have daddy issues or is it only girls being raised by a single woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 8 | Do any of you NOT want to get married one day?I always did want to but I find myself desiring it less and less not only have I not been treated well by my previous partners or men in general. The more I realize how unhappy and loveless most marriages are the less I wish that for myself also the fact that women are the least happy overall in marriage. I would still accept marriage if I found the right guy but im not sure I love marriage as a whole feels very patriarchal. I do really like the idea of going to a sperm bank to have children and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 14 | Strategy: How to know if a man is only after YOUR money and successDon't do it i went down this road moved in with a bf and it was one of the biggest mistakes I ever made. Like you I was living at home and was excited to move out and have some independence and get to play house with this man and it absolutely sucked he was a lazy avoidant workaholic slob I did everything in the house while he worked 2 jobs I even packed his lunch for him everyday when he went to buy a house I helped him with the viewing of it he prob wouldn't even have that house today if it wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:31 PM |
| 12 | From all of us at FDS, we wish you happy holidays and have a wonderful new year!Happy holidays ive learned a lot from this place and even tho last Christmas sucked this Christmas is much better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:24 PM |
| 53 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?Typical women can never have their own spaces 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 04:43 PM |
| 50 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?I've always wondered why lesbians didn't have their own apps to go to exclusively gay men have grindr and others but there doesn't seem to be any for women seems a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 02:49 PM |
| 87 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.Eww some of these men really view a potential partner as property that "everybody will see what's yours" comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 55 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfilePffft as if men read our profiles anyway I have been asked so many questions that are right there in my bio and despite the fact I've written TWICE im not interested in hookups these dudes still message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Daddy issuesGirl therapy ASAP you likely have an anxious attachment style as do I and your fathers avoidant abuse is what gave it to you without therapy you will continually seek avoidant men in order to relive your childhood experiences dont date right now start doing the work to unlearn that attachment it will save your ass in the long run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:05 PM |
| 9 | Men are emotionally stuntedJesus that dude sounds repressed as hell although I definitely agree my ex had a lot of childhood trauma that he refused to address and instead would shrug and laugh off but when he had been drinking that true character would always come thru | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:33 AM |
| 147 | Roe will likely be overturned.Is anyone else sick of our rights being up for debate? like dont get me wrong ive always advocated for the rights of others and I've always known as a woman people hated me but I didn't really realize how prevalent it was I guess I've been kinda sheltered as a straight white woman. But seeing how so many people only view me as a walking incubator realizing how much cultural and systematic misogyny there is and how many people see me as a second class citizen has been so disheartening and dehuman… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:48 PM |
| 32 | Ladies please share your experiences with gamer guysI refuse to date gamers now I find it super unattractive and immature my ex used to video game all day when he had a day off from work I didn't mind it occasionally but I quickly realized that for him it was just another form of escapism (he was also a workaholic dont date these either) when he had a day off I wanted to go out and do things or perhaps we had obligations we needed to fulfill and getting him off the console was like pulling teeth. When I would tell him "hey were not gonna play ps4… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.God i relate to this one so much u hit almost every nail on the head with my last relationship I was fucking miserable but stayed because I was naive and liked certain other qualities about him I swear that man traumatized and ruined me I don't know if ill be able to trust or care about someone again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:12 PM |
| 5 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFOk so I agree that 100% a man wrote this that being said this is pretty shocking and gross like even when I was deep entrenched in hookup culture this shit would have never flown with me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:06 PM |
| 113 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.And notice how he didn't list any other attributes about her either just her loyalty not thats she smart funny hardworking fun to be around etc simply that she's loyal to him thats it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 80 | Importance of political beliefs?This is actually one of my vetting strategies I need to know a man's political views early on i know where not supposed to talk politics on the 1st date traditionally but I actually recommend it if me and him don't agree on a number of key things then I am not interested. It just shows a difference in perspective and values and especially with the conservatives being the crazies that they are right now there's no way in hell I'd be interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 100 | "in sickness and in health" must have a fine print clause that says something like: "except menopause of course". Because so many men abandon their wives during middle age it's astounding.I also have never had a guy break up with me properly one guy got close but chose to come back to use me and then dump me again when a new girl came along I've always said I've never been upset that a guy broke up with me only with the way he broke up with me and it seems that most men just don't know how to do that respectfully its like once there no longer interested in a relationship they don't think they need to treat you like a person anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 118 | Annoyed with How Pressured Women Are Not to Be Angry or Bitter After a BreakupThis i was disrespected by my ex after a year of living together but apparently I was just supposed to get over it and move on despite the insensitive way I was dumped and thrown out The truth is I was angry and bitter for a long time I still kinda am I am thankful that it led me to radical feminism and taught me what ill never tolerate again but that doesn't mean I don't feel the hatred and anger from time to time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:56 PM |
| 29 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”Preach preach preach I was just thinking of this the other day how so much of dating advice for young girls is just how to be on defense against men and decode their language because they lie so damn much. Like dating cant even be a fun carefree experience for us because we constantly have to be on guard against lying and manipulative men and if we do fall for it society gaslights and blames us and tell us it was our fault for trusting him and believing his lies. Everyday I wish more and more fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 08:20 PM |
| 101 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.The fact that he actually blocked her number should tell her everything she needs to know my ex was a scrote but he never blocked my number even when we were in a big fight he might not reply to me but never block and after 11 years and a child if hasn't married you he never will This girl needs to cut her losses and run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:00 PM |
| 7 | TRUTH! My music tastes have really changed and I can't listen to a lot of rap music now.I also wrote about men who only listen to rap music in my last post here and got complaints from other fds member it seems some women don't like to hear the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:11 PM |
| 28 | This weird type of poor communication that I dealt with after talking to a guy for a few monthsOmg my ex was like that dismissive avoidant if I brought up an issue he would get mad and stonewall me give me the silent treatment and ice me out then it would become all about everything I had done he didn't like eventually I would just hold it all in because of how we would react then I would be criticized for "not communicating" resentment grew heavily in that relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:43 PM |
| 278 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?Honestly I wish someone had told me sex isn't as great and wonderful as I thought and hook up culture is damaging i prob wouldn't have listened but it sure would have saved me a lot of trouble and grief | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 5 | “Under the patriarchal rules they ascribe to, providing financial support should come with the promise of control.”Preach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 02:10 AM |
| 35 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”I almost never wear a bra anymore there sweaty and uncomfortable I prefer to let them free | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 05:47 PM |
| 13 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workI'll never forget the time I told my ex as a joke I wanted to be a stay at home mom/wife he got upset and acted like I was serious really showed how he viewed stay at home moms and despite the fact we had no kids yet I cooked and cleaned the house already and guess who had no appreciation for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?Ong this just triggered a memory when I was in kindergarten and 1st grade there was this mean boy who always would bully and touch me and the teacher constantly sat him beside me it happened so much I asked to not be sat beside him but because I was so well behaved and good and he was such a menace they thought I might rub off on him when I went to open house in 2nd grade they had me sitting beside him again and my mom asked the teacher to move my seat thankfully he never showed up to school tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 3 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?In the same vein tho you definitely don't want a man who only has male friends because then he's not hearing womens perspectives on issues also if a man says a man and woman can't just be friends it let's you know he only sees women as sex objects and not as people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:06 PM |
| 12 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Eww literally so gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 18 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?I just thought of another one if he's pro life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 75 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Ohhh thats a good one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 39 | A joint Facebook account won’t stop him from cheatingYes it takes too much time and energy for all that I'd rather just be with someone I trust | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 5 | If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you.Also stubborn my ex used to say (brag) about how he was such a stubborn person even his mom said so quickly realized it was true and a horrible trait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:41 PM |
| 11 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Social workers i dated one for a year at first I thought it was great that he was working in mental health and helping the vulnerable of society nope turns out he had a lot of his own trauma and I was emotionally manipulated and stonewalled also based on some things he said about his workplace social workers appear to be catty and gossipy and definitely cliquey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:42 PM |
| 16 | Old but goldUgh this is what worries me im 25 and I've heard dating over this is a nightmare for us women unfortunately this looks to be where im going to be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:27 PM |
| 14 | Blurred Lines but the lyrics are changed so it's about consent and respecting boundaries.Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 65 | What was your moment of clarity?Me and my ex were once talking about his car and I accidentally got the model of his car wrong minor slip up no big deal and he proceeded to laugh and make fun of me for it then called up his mother right then and there to get her to laugh at me with him only causing me more embarrassment she didn't find it funny so his plan kinda failed but still who does that to a partner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 71 | What was your moment of clarity?Unfortunately my moment of clarity came after it was already over and there many incidents that should have clicked for me but I think the biggest one was when he came home from work one night and out of the blue told me that I wasn't what he was looking for he was looking for a super ambitious woman and I wasn't it (the woman he described was a complete unrealistic fantasy) how he could have any co worker he wanted but chose me lol and perhaps the most hurtful thing that he just got stuck with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:58 PM |
| 17 | Remember men are not loyal and don't value loyalty in othersOh believe me I learned my lesson never ever ever again and yes I did read the handbook and it really resonated with me definitely won't ever move in with someone again til there's a ring on my finger and he's properly vetted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 10:14 PM |
| 16 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Wow he seems nice can't imagine why some lucky woman hasn't snatched him up yet/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 8 | It’s easy to miss your ex if you only remember the good and not the badVery similar to me rn I just found out my ex is in a new relationship and for some reason its making me sad ive been crying for a few days and remembering our good times but I haven't forgot abt the bad ones either hopefully one day we'll both heal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:34 PM |
| 19 | Why his music taste is extremely important during the vetting process.Watch out for metal heads too my ex loved heavy metal and most of the bands he listened not only were inappropriate but super immature and guess what kind of person he was? His favorite band was gwar just look up some of their songs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 6 | No lies told.Absolutely I never thought of it this way but great point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 37 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?For me its because it consumes their life my ex was an avid gamer but also completely addicted to it. He had little free time so when he did we wanted to play ps4 I didn't mind that I'd sit and watch him and sometimes I'd even join in. But when I would tell him hey were not gonna play ps4 all day today or I'd tell him to turn it off we had things to do he would become pissy like a petulant child. That's when it would become a turn off for me now I'd prefer a man that doesn't game | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:27 PM |
| 12 | Men's selfishness really knows no boundsDon't get me wrong its really hard care giving my mom isn't completely bad off and can do a lot of things still. What he said isn't even something I haven't thought to myself plenty of times but still he had no right to say it especially because be barely knows me it just comes off as rude and weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 09:26 PM |
| 109 | Men's selfishness really knows no boundsOmg me too like what kind of night do u have planned a night of murder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 78 | Men's selfishness really knows no boundsI agree shouldn't have replied at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:13 PM |
| 20 | Always Google Your DatesOmg i did this once and I was so glad I did turns out dude was a registered sex offender that's had touched 2 young boys at his job so so glad I actually googled him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:45 PM |
| 19 | A very serious warning: keep your eyes wide open with men that seem to work too much.My ex worked 2 jobs 7 days a week he hated down time and would become depressed if he had too much time off and u are absolutely right he had so many insecurities and personality problems he also expected me to work like him and when I didn't he resented me. He actually told me at the end of our relationship that he was unhappy because he was looking for someone more ambitious and motivated then him that would push HIM as if he should be working more ultimately he was a selfish and manipulative … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Four Statistics on Living Together Before MarriageI can vouch for this myself made that mistake last year and moved in with a man much too soon a year later and a lot of wasted time and heartbreak and I've learned my lesson I will never ever ever move in with a man before marriage ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 48 | When a man cancels on the first date, don’t reply and just delete him. Learn from my mistakes.Something similar happened to me when I was 21 i started talking to this guy on okcupid he was nice and we had a very nice conversation and he asked me out to dinner I was super excited and kinda nervous. Red flag number 1 should have been when he messaged me the next day asking to change the date from dinner to this bar/arcade thing but again I liked the dude and was excited so I agreed. The day of the date came and he canceled on that morning saying his job had scheduled him to come in that da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:47 PM |
| 27 | Ladies please be careful while dating! Men like this still exist!I've had every hair color now except orange and its always crazy to me to watch men fall over themselves about it as if it means anything maybe I just like having blue hair but no according to them I must be some secretly abused woman or gay or crazy or some crazy feminist which I am so that's fine but still it is funny to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 12 | The Mask SlipsMine too he'd sulk for hours upstairs or in his room and completely give me the cold shoulder while I begged him to talk to me never going to deal with that shit again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Got a 🍤🤏 pic once due to my activity here, but today I woke up to my first hate-spewing PM.I've made 2 posts and a handful of comments here but have yet to receive any hate mail cant wait to get one 😍🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:13 PM |
| 11 | How can I figure out what I'm truly physically attracted to, since we've all been coerced into having no standards?I dont have a type either ive been with lots of men and they've all looked and acted differently i don't know what causes me to like some but not others so for a long time I really didn't have a type so I made a loose guideline for a few different features that I prefer its not set in stone but I suggest doing that it doesn't have to be a lot but just a few physical preferences for example I prefer heavier guys over muscular or skinny I prefer dark or ginger hair over blonde I prefer my height o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:06 PM |
| 45 | No Other Spaces To Vent About How I Really Feel About MenThank you I haven't been able to speak on this issue because of fear of backlash but it pisses me off to no end how feminists are basically called out and pressured to care about and talk about men's issues like why is it my problem? 99% of men's problems were created by and perpetuated by men men not being able to show emotions perpetuated by other men who call him a p*ssy if he does male r*pe perpetuated by other men most of the time Circumcision created by Kellogg who was a man and its typica… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:49 AM |
| 34 | Cautionary Tale: Don’t Get Fooled Into the Idea That Doing Housework/ Raising Kids Makes You a Mature WomanOh man this reminds me of myself just last year cooking and cleaning a man's house that wasn't even mine thinking I was so grown up for running a house by myself only to be completely invalued and unappreciated and then cruelly cast out and abandoned lesson learned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:45 PM |
| 9 | Stay away from deadbeat dads even if your child freeAnd notice how women never get that option at least not without judgement mothers who chose not to be in their child's life even if she pays support receive nothing but condemnation but these scrotes think they should have the right to just dissappear out of their kids life forever cause they don't want the responsibility of their orgasm gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 11 | Stay away from deadbeat dads even if your child freeAny woman doing that is just as LV as him ain't a man in this world more important then my flesh and blood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:24 PM |
| 13 | Stay away from deadbeat dads even if your child freeIts sickening we have a family friend who is the epitome of a pickmeisha who used to push for her ex husband to see his 3 children from a previous marriage eventually they divorced and he hooked up with another woman and my friend got so pissed at new gf because unlike her she didn't push this NVM into seeing his kids like she did including the son they had together like girl hes a grown ass man she shouldn't have to just because u chose to doesn't mean she's gonna be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:23 PM |
| 13 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️I moved into his crappy apartment just 4 months into dating (stupid i know) leaving my job and the only city I know despite the fact I'd found out before that when we first started dating he didn't even like me while he worked 2 jobs I cooked and cleaned the disgusting place we got a cat and he had a bird and I cleaned up after them too packed his lunch for work everyday eventually he buys a house that I had nothing to do with financially So we move in there get another cat now I have an even bi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 9 | Men all of a sudden showing empathy for a rape victim...guess the gender of the victim and the gender of the rapist?The homophobia in many of these comments was really the icing on the cake of all this nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Weird Red Flags?Oh man so many but here's a few I always vet out On OLD they put in their bios "just looking to see where it goes" or "not sure what I'm looking for" or any variation of that hes 9 times out of 10 just looking for a hookup immediate swipe left for me His words and actions not matching up men say a lot of things but their actions very rarely match up to their lips I dont even care what a man says anymore I 100% look to how he behaves to see his true character In a similar vein to the last point l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 8 | The myth of the "cock carousel": male projectionIts also jealousy because men wish sex was as easier for them as it is for us, gay men ride the "cock carousel" all the time and straight men wish they had it as easy. Your right if they could ride the pussy carousel they would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:54 PM |
| 21 | What are ways that emotionally immature men are "too sensitive" that society ignores?God so much of this describes my ex especially #2 I couldn't communicate with him at all without the silent treatment or him getting all insecure and flipping the conversation off himself and how I didn't "love" him or "care" about him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:13 AM |
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