Just sitting here thinking about my ex and how towards the end of the relationship he treated me like some mooching gold digging woman simply because I didn't have a job at the time while he worked 2 and he provided financially for us. Of course what he failed to remember was A I cooked cleaned took care of pets and did all the stuff around the house B i had a job when we first met and partially lost it due to moving in with his LV ass and the pandemic and that I spent plenty of money on him I paid for groceries hotels when we went on vacation lots and lots of take out food for him so its not like I didn't spend money.

Of course what he also failed to remember is how when we first started dating and moved in together he lived in a crappy apartment in the ghetto with mold and bugs wild dogs running around at night neighbors knocking on the door wanting to borrow money etc etc that kind of place. Did I care about any of this? No I didn't mind it I even cleaned up and made it look a bit nicer 😅 I never once complained about the place even though it was small dumpy and I didn't feel safe walking around the neighborhood.

Eventually he was able to buy a nice house and we moved out of the neighborhood and that slum apartment and into a much bigger nicer place which I continued to clean and maintain (hell I even met with the realtor and did the walk in tour before he did) now despite cooking cleaning and doing everything in the house do you think I was appreciated? Spoiler alert no and despite the fact I was with him when he had his crappy ghetto apartment and had supported him thru his upgrade and never once complained was my loyalty rewarded? Again spoiler alert no.

Instead I was told I was mooching that I only cared about what he provided and not him that I needed to go out (right in middle of pandemic) and get a job the physical and emotional labor i provided was unappreciated and unvalued completely i was given no reciprocity in anything. My loyalty towards his humble beginnings was completely forgotten about and eventually I was thrown out because in his words "he had lost the connection with me" a huge middle finger to the face after everything I'd done for him.

Ladies take my warning men are not loyal to anyone but themselves and because there not loyal they don't value loyalty in others this is why we don't build a man this is why we don't date broke men or in my case men who live in crappy places. You can be as loyal as you want but he's not gonna care because he only sees it as you being weak and pathetic and as soon as he has something better your outta there your loyalty completely forgotten about. I stayed with this man despite his disinterest in sex despite his lack of emotional intelligence and despite his constant criticism and lack of support and respect for me and all I got out of it was tears heartbreak and the walk of shame back home with all my stuff in a box.