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87

Thank you for attending to this. I’ve found the website to be frustratingly slow in responding, causing me to finally just leave. Can we continue to have the sub here until it is fixed? It would certainly help refresh my interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 06:46 PM
37

Honestly, I find the new site so slow and frustrating to navigate that I just don’t go there anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 06:35 PM
-4

Him standing up for his wife gave me butterflies. I know people are criticizing the hell out of him, but to me that was hot. Damn the torpedos..
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 03:28 AM
38

I’m sure that this “romance” is a PR move and nothing more. I’ve seen Bennifer at several events and he looks like he would rather be anywhere else than there with JLo and she looks glum and pouty. They certainly do not look like a couple in love AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:36 AM
6

That’s right; I just had to leave a friendship because I couldn’t stand her self-delusion anymore. When you’re 58, you need to admit that the rich handsome prince is not coming to save you or even put a bookshelf together for you, so get yourself some fucking tools!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:55 PM
68

Personally, I was pleased to see Chris Rock’s disgusting misogyny and bullying called out publicly and to finally receive consequences for it. Hopefully, being on the receiving end of being humiliated in front of peers, colleagues and an international audience will give him something to reflect on. Karma is a bitch(slap). As FDS loves to say, a joke isn’t funny unless everyone is laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:22 PM
195

If he were inclined to ask Op out, she gave him the perfect opening with her comment about Pho restaurants. He didn’t. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 05:24 AM
29

Wow, a critical thinker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:35 PM
5

Personally I have always much preferred men of your description, OP. 👱‍♂️👀💋 I’ve never dated swarthy men; they are invisible to me.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 06:11 AM
8

We have to remember that this is how WOMEN bond, not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:00 PM
21

I guess “walls” is a new word for boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:52 PM
482

I had a friend who would unload her traumas caused by other men onto whatever new scrote she would be dating. Her reasoning in doing this was that she was actually saying “Please don’t hurt me like this person did”. Except scrotes hear “ Here’s a sure fire way to fuck me over in the most painful way possible”. So several weeks or months down the road like clockwork, the scrote would then re-enact her trauma with her, there would be drama and they’d break up. So in addition to not clueing dates i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:08 AM
44

I told my ex NVH that I was divorcing him and that Since there was no equity in our home, I would be keeping it. Neither of us wanted to uproot our child. He asked if he could stay while he was looking for a place. I stupidly agreed and five months later he was still “looking”. I was just done with him and all this stuff being underfoot. On a Friday morning I started packing his crap up, stacking all the boxes by the front door. These were ALL his things including whatever he used every day. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:01 PM
248

Way back in the late 80’s it was shameful for a white woman to have a big butt. It implied that you were lazy and sat on your ass too much. My waist was 25” and the fullest part of my hips measured 38”. I was very sensitive about it. My boyfriend at the time made constant neg comments about it-“ Your ass would be big on someone 6 feet tall” (I’m 5’2”). “If I let you sit on my face you’d suffocate me”. “You could never be a stripper with that ass”. Of course now women are paying $$$$ to have my b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 08:52 PM
16

Our next door neighbor is like this. My husband nor I can have a conversation with him without him correcting us at least a dozen times. After the third or fourth time it just becomes like a drinking game and you hang in there just to count how many times he’ll do it. Maddening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:55 AM
-3

Status among other men. Men with a high body count are looked up to. Women with a high body count are looked down upon.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/22 05:47 AM
58

“ it’s really not a compliment when some man tells you you’re “beautiful,” or “gorgeous.” It’s all just words that mean I would mate with you. “ This. All they’re saying is that they find you fuckable and they think this “compliment “ is their price of admission. It’s the most worn-out, meaningless, obvious, transparent thing a man can say when meeting a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:26 PM
2

I get this very sort of follower frequently on Instagram. Many are in the military for some reason. I have no idea what they want as they don’t actually message me. It just feels weird and scammy. Since my account is for my business that centers around a primarily feminine hobby, I’m not interested in male followers so I block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:56 PM
1

r/retroactivejealousy
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 10:26 PM
13

My husband and I just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary. When we met I was a single mom of an autistic 7 year old boy. While we were dating, he took it upon himself to take classes for parenting special needs kids so he would know what he was getting into. He’s been a stellar father and husband and we’ve had a wonderful marriage. He had been married twice before, so one would think he would have been a bad bet (you know, the way guys think of single moms). But he’s actually the most stand-…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 03:08 AM
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I went on a date (Pre-FDS) with a movie-star good looking guy who I discovered during our date conversation, had 3 kids with his ex girlfriend and an on-off relationship with her. He told me all about how cRaZY she was, fat and a loser, etc.. I sat silent and just let him go on about her. As he spoke negatively about the mother of his children, those good looks faded away replaced by a nasty, disgusting scrote. When he finished with a big shit-eating grin on his face I said, “So you have the fir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:53 PM
222

Oh yes, I’m fine now thank you. Just celebrated my 21st wedding anniversary with my 2nd husband. He’s everything that my ex was not which was how I vetted him. Ex has not remarried which isn’t a surprise, and for a long time would tell people that I was the one that got away. He was ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:27 PM
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Yes, they do haunt you forever. My ex husband told me that he settled for me five years after we were married and when I was 7 months pregnant. This was just a few days after we had been at a party that his ex also attended. She was stunning. I was utter chopped liver. When I divorced him a few years later, he immediately ran to her to try picking up where they left off. She essentially told him to piss off, that she left him for a reason. My schadenfreude was real, y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:42 PM
156

It ain’t Cirque de Soleil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:28 AM
227

This was my first thought as well and is even mentioned in the article. “But for some, they might be more like breeding grounds, places where abusers-to-be practice for real life brutality yet to come. “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:30 AM
138

My son (30) is special needs with autism and moderate mental retardation. As a kid, we taught him to pick up, vacuum and dust his room, run and fold his own laundry, load a dishwasher, clean the cat box and feed the pets, take out the garbage as needed and put out the cans every week. He was also taught to make simple things in the microwave. Quesadillas, oatmeal, hot dogs, etc. Mothers, if a mentally retarded child can learn and employ these tasks, your neuro-typical kid can too. There are no e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:15 PM
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High value men have ethics and an obvious moral compass. Cheating in any form precludes those qualities.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 10:59 PM
11

I hope so too, but it’s a great relief to me that she is no longer my problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:03 PM
310

I recently removed myself from a friendship with a woman who simply couldn’t stop herself from hooking up with married guys. She got a thrill poaching other women’s husbands even though they always went back to their wives. Who wants a man who cheats? THats exactly what she’ll get when one of them finally decides to be with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:45 AM
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Dr. Malone is no slouch. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_W._Malone
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 04:47 PM
16

I see what you did there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:15 AM
6

Me too! Talk about a LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:41 AM
89

Some years ago my husband and I moved to a rural area where the homes are on 5 and 10 acre parcels. One Friday night I heard lots of what sounded like a bunch of college boys drinking and tearing it up, yipping and howling in that stupid way young men do. I commented to my husband that I was disappointed that I thought we’d be far enough away from neighbors that we wouldn’t have to listen to that crap anymore. He laughed until tears were rolling down his cheeks. “Ok city girl; those are actual c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:46 AM
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It would just be a waste of your time. They don’t care about it harming women and girls. We already know that about men. I do believe it’s a step in the right direction, however ego-centric it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:22 PM
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I just “broke up” with a friend of 20 years. We have been very supportive of each other through marriages and divorces, births, miscarriages, job losses, medical issues, etc. Within the last couple of years, I realized that having her as a support system caused me to overlook issues with her that I am ethically opposed to such as the ease with which she hooks up with married men. Her head would explode if a spouse cheated on her, but there is no empathy or thought for the wives of these men. So …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:22 PM
2

I’m just gonna say this. Many times women will offer to pay for themselves because they don’t want to feel as if there is some kind of obligation to have sex on the first date.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 09:38 PM
3

100% correct. Time is a resource that once gone, you can never get back. Money comes and goes, so my time is way more valuable than your money. For you to expect me to use my time on you AND my money when I’m not the one who first expressed interest? Hard no.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 07:39 PM
3

It is rude as hell to ask someone (anyone; friend, family members,etc.) out and not offer to pay.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 05:42 PM
46

This is nothing new. I’ve had a business and personal profile since 2009. If they’re going to use Facebook to cheat, chances are they’re already doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:42 AM
31

In many states, inheritances belong exclusively to the heir no matter if they are married or single. The only way they become community property is if the money is co-mingled such as depositing it into a joint account or purchasing a home with it that the family then lives in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:15 AM
171

Yeah, if men could think with their other head for more than five seconds they’d realize that this will mean the end of hookup culture and get on board with helping fight this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:57 AM
103

I’ve been married for 20 years and we have always followed these “rules”, except we know it as mutual respect and love. Ain’t no big thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:17 PM
11

I think you just put your finger on this being a red flag or not. There’s a huge difference between just noticing an attractive person or lustily commenting on their hotness. The first is just being an expressive human, the latter is being a pornsick dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:14 PM
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“Zoey Daeshanelle is so hot, I want to c*m on her face.” I cannot understand how it has become common to want to humiliate and demean a beautiful woman in this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:19 AM
3

RIP Peter Scolari.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:22 AM
205

-You’re a beautiful girl, but you’re just not sexy. -Why do you have such thin lips? -Have you had a child you never mentioned? Your vagina is so loose..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:35 AM
13

My brother encouraged his friends to harass me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:15 PM
18

It’s a bad idea at any time in a relationship. I’ve had men ask this and told them it was none of their business. They were only asking so they could judge my ‘value’. I’ve been married for quite a while and my husband doesn’t know how many and vice versa. We don’t care. It doesn’t matter.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:39 AM
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And our governor opens the doors of the jails and the incarcerated flow out into the streets, most with nowhere to go. Yep, buckle your seatbelts because it will only get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:28 AM
17

I did the same when I lived alone. My cats liked to tear holes in the fabric under the boxspring and hide up in there. So I foiled them by putting the whole thing on the floor. It was fine, looked nice and I didn’t have to freak out if I couldn’t find a cat. Somehow I don’t think this is what the OP was referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:20 PM
377

Too many fathers bail and everyone knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:16 PM
74

Mullets are back for Spring 22’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:13 PM
209

Yeah, it’s just so hot to see and hear a guy who GETS IT!!💋😍🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:12 PM
11

My ex NVH was in the closet and I was too naive to figure it out. He would ogle every woman he came across right in front of me, but let me know I “just wasnt sexy”. Months would go by between sexual encounters with him and they would last 5 minutes and be quite dull, UNLESS he was doing cocaine. It turned him into a god and he would last an hour and was able to make me cum. I’m ashamed to say, I would go out and score drugs every now and then just so I could have some decent sex. He stopped wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:41 AM
15

Unfortunately, he has bigger fish to fry than catfish at the moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:34 PM
23

This is what happens when you date without vetting, Alec.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:27 AM
39

Is this on Netflix? Hulu?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:43 AM
94

One high school boyfriend would ask me every few days how much I weighed that morning “because you look like you put on some weight”. I was 5’2” and 102 lbs and would “blow up” to 106 lbs during my period. He would make some rather ugly remarks about my body that totally scrambled my head. Where did a 17 year old boy learn to be such a POS??! There was no internet back then and porn was something in magazines or dark movie houses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:18 AM
4

Me neither. I’m dark haired /eyed and petite. I like big blonde/blue eyed dudes.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 01:29 AM
5

And you are arguing this point with an ACTUAL WOMAN who is telling you you’re wrong. Clearly you are not looking for truth, just validation for your situation.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 10:18 PM
14

Did you even read my post? No. Casual sex is not conducive to love. That is fucking, not love. I’ve been married to my husband for 20 years. I love him and I think he’s very attractive. We have sex frequently. This is our real life, not the internet.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 08:14 PM
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You are confusing sex with love. Like men, women can also experience sex without love. Attraction and lust are not love. No strings attached sex is about attraction and lust. Love comes later when emotions are involved if both parties choose to stick around for it. Most women do not knowingly fall in love with fuck-boys. One might as well stick hot pokers in their eyes.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 08:07 PM
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It is absolutely his body and his choice. He can do what he wants. It’s also her body and her choice. She can take her body and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:55 PM
18

Personally, if a man has been the town dick (lots of one-off partners) I wouldn’t be interested. Yes, men can be seen as sluts too. Not attractive.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 07:14 PM
1

You know years ago, Howard Stern had this very problem. His lower jaw was very small and kind of just slid from his lips into his neck. I was watching a show he was on with a plastic surgeon who was demonstrating a new tool that had come out where he could take photos of his clients face and digitally manipulate them to show what the result of different surgeries would look like. Howard Stern was wisecracking at the doctor, basically being an asshole, until the doctor showed him what he’d look l…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 06:09 AM
12

Or that the woman is the public pussy so get in line for you to use her. Disgusting implication.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 11:26 PM
30

Interestingly, you describe what it’s like to be a woman.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:58 AM
2

I recall a date that I was excited to go on. I thought the person and I had a lot in common and were on the same page about many things, including fashion. I was excited to meet them and spent time getting ready, doing a home facial, carefully applying my makeup, choosing a nice outfit, etc. When they showed up to the restaurant in grey athletic sweats, ratty trainers and unkempt hair, I was disappointed and actually embarrassed by their lack of care in presentation. They honestly looked like th…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:49 PM
2

This! My best friend of thirty years and I are very compatible. But since we’re both straight, it’s a friendship. We’ve been through several husbands between us and both say we wish we could find men we relate to as well as we do each other.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 10:02 PM
3

It’s actually the other way around; platinum is harder. It’s also twice again as expensive as the metal is more valuable and is harder to work with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:45 PM
21

My wedding set is white gold. I’ve worn it daily for 20 years and it still looks like white gold. I Also spent 5 years in the jewelry business and never heard of rhodium plating white gold every year to keep it from turning color. It sounds like an unnecessary expense and bother, like something an unscrupulous jeweler would say to up sell a customer into a platinum ring. Where I worked, the solution for the “softness” of white gold was to use a platinum head ( the pronged basket that the diamond…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:11 PM
46

And quite frankly, the word “racist” has been so overused to indicate behaviors that someone simply doesn’t like (as the scrote in this video so aptly demonstrates), it has begun to lose its meaning. If I’m racist for running from a scary, aggressive man in a dark alley, well fuck me, I’m a racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:33 AM
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There are many women who don’t see themselves getting married either, but would like a nice companionable relationship where they are committed and spend a lot of time together but aren’t married and may not even live together. If my husband were to pass away before me, that is the only kind of relationship I would want.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 03:06 AM
32

Men project. Everything they fear in women is what they themselves do.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 11:51 PM
2

I love how he’s got half his face covered while hers is fully exposed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:40 PM
7

Why would she be embarrassed? She didn’t do anything wrong. He should be mortified that his scrotery is on display.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:49 PM
18

Years ago you had to take film in to be developed and it cost $$ to get prints made. I had taken my camera to a huge family party. I took a couple of shots of my little nephews playing in the pool and put the camera down to go make myself a plate. I saw my husband pick it up and didn’t really think any more about it. Later that week, I went to take the film to be developed. When I picked it up, I saw that other than two or three shots of my nephews the entire roll was shots of the teenaged girls…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:51 PM
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You sound very much like my husband. He is wonderful and I have single friends who tell me they want to find someone just like him. So there’s that. Also, those huge porn penises? You just don’t find them except for quite rarely in the wild, so women just don’t expect them. Learn how to give great cunnilingus and penis size becomes far less important.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 05:00 AM
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Actually, there was a marriage. Her best friend passed away soon after giving birth to a child. Stevie promised her that she would always watch over her daughter and in doing so, married her widower. After working through their grief they decided it wasn’t going to work and they divorced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:05 AM
52

Cher has been married twice that I know of. Plenty of young lovers though, including Val Kilmer whom she claims to still love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:03 PM
65

Interestingly, this man is married. Living with him must be hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:44 AM
22

If it didn’t work for them, they wouldn’t do it. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:34 AM
64

“Free” is never free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:04 PM
15

The subtext being that you’d have spent the night in order to be there to cook him breakfast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:11 PM
3

I have no answers as this was an overheard convo, but I agree. If this were really as rapey as it sounded, why wouldn’t #3 call the police or buy a taser or something? I gotta think #3 was getting something out of it or maybe was being blackmailed .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:30 PM
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Yeah. Here’s a post I made a year or so ago that talks about this subject: Have your boyfriends been “straight”? Depends on your definition... I just have to get something I overheard some years ago off my chest. I was at the gym and was doing my workout with headphones on, but my music off. I just wore the headphones so I could work out in peace . On the Machines behind me, two guys were talking about a third guy who wasn’t there. The first guy was saying that he had the third guy “terrorized” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:34 AM
1

👋🏻
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 08:47 PM
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Please read the handbook. You will then understand what was wrong with this picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:51 PM
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So accurate how he absolutely would not hear anything negative.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:48 PM
5

I’ve always stayed away from men who behave like the public dick. Lots of pussy is no guarantee that they know how to give a woman an orgasm.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 01:50 AM
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Perhaps he doesn’t bring enough drama to tickle your trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:11 PM
30

For me it’s the time I wasted. I can always make more money, but time and youth I can never get back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:03 AM
23

This!! Women have been brainwashed that being selfish is the worst thing you can be. It’s honestly one of the best things you can be! Setting boundaries can be spun as selfishness when it’s actually self-preservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:52 AM
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Clearly they don’t enjoy it enough to override their disgust at being seen/treated as a warm fleshlight.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 07:31 PM
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“Men don’t have the luxury that women do of assuming the person they matched with is actually interested in them.” Women don’t have this luxury either. Many, many of the men on online dating are simply interested in women’s looks and vaginas; nothing more. This attitude is so prevalent that this is now what women assume and are VERY selective to defend against this mindset.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 04:40 PM
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Take my poor-man’s award for a very insightful post!🥇🏆
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 02:34 PM
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Their dad or uncle likely turned them on to prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:04 PM
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Put it this way: Most of these men would like to use your vagina. To them, your vagina is the most interesting thing about you. In that light their attention is not flattering or validating, just shallow and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:06 AM
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Can confirm: Much tarot reading is actually therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:53 PM
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I am well over 50 and know that at the very least I am on the spectrum. My son was diagnosed 25 years ago as autistic with adhd and I was in denial about myself so did not seek a diagnosis at that time. At this point, my life consists of so many hacks and work-arounds to manage the adhd that I can’t even imagine what it would be like to not have to use them. I went two years ago to try to get myself on medication to see if it would help, but with my crap health insurance a diagnosis would have c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:52 PM
6

What the hell IS that?!😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:49 PM
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The first thing my exLVH (43)did when we separated was hit up the 18 year old office assistant at his work for a date, and displayed a surprised Pikachu face when she turned him down. She said “I’m 18 and don’t date older than 20”. Not sure why he felt the need to tell me this, but my reply was “You should probably take a look in the mirror; it’s been 15 years since you last dated”. He would neg me about looking older and refused to think he was aging right along with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:22 PM
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What I want to know is, will he ever try pulling that shit again or did this abject failure teach him anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:31 PM
11

Woman here. Married 20+ years. I want sex with my husband a couple times weekly. I am post-menopausal meaning I no longer ovulate. Desire starts between the ears for most women, not in the ovaries. My husband keeps me warm by flirting with me, lots of kissing and touching that doesn’t necessarily lead to sex, being interested in my day, being protective of me, being empathetic and supportive when I’m upset or sad. OP, don’t disregard the mental component of what women need to feel desire. It is …
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 02:41 PM
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Size queen 👑here. Can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:33 PM
10

Are you me ?!?!🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:46 AM
10

But I like that he was determined to get his sex doll back - Fixed that for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:39 PM
21

I really wonder what his definition of “passion” is. What does he want her to perform for him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:29 PM
27

He kept herding her into therapy expecting her to change. And his very LAST option before throwing in the towel was to change himself. Interesting how if he wants a girlfriend, he has to start acting like a boyfriend. No shit, Sherlock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:17 PM
32

Sounds like it’s only the BW doing the actual LoViNg..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:56 PM
1

Even Jesus was a bit of a scrote that way. Witness: The Shroud of Turin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:12 AM
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Yes, I don’t resent her at all. I really wished she and I could have had a long talk about him when he had proposed so she could have opened my blind eyes and saved me 11 years of hell. Doing just fine now, thanks.👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:31 PM
479

The whole time I was married to my ex NVH he triangulated me with his ex-girlfriend. Let me know after we were married that he settled for me. When I divorced him he went running to see if she was available and she essentially told him “There’s a reason I broke up with you in the first place. I don’t do reruns. Fuck off.” I smiled. Go 👑queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:20 AM
18

Kidnap that poor pup on your way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:39 PM
2

Most women want a man who has a good work ethic and makes enough to cover the bills when children come into the picture. Pregnancy and caring for small children is truly a full time job, so if he can support the family until the youngest is in school (and she can go back to work) all the better. If you’re a grown man who is not working or make part time wages or are a gamer whose priority is buying the latest game platform, you shouldn’t be dating. A woman sees this and knows she’ll be expected …
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 02:33 AM
33

Yeah, he certainly is an old lizard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:43 PM
4

Why do these guys get to be the only ones uncomfortable in this situation?? The wife is uncomfortable watching his head on a swivel, the girl(s) being ogled are uncomfortable, the daughter watching her dad ogle girls is uncomfortable. I remember when my NVX was doing this constantly and it became so egregious that I had to say something. I told him it was disrespectful to me to do this in front of my face. He exploded with all the angry, bullshit excuses, i’M mARriEd NoT deAd, YOu dOn’T oWN Me, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:02 PM
44

That is despicable. Well done dumping his grifting ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:19 PM
66

That was my first thought; he was disappointed that the attention she was giving him was “too professional” and not flirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:38 AM
113

“...he wouldn’t feel emasculated”. He doesn’t feel emasculated; he feels guilty that he doesn’t want to reciprocate. Big difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:16 PM
27

This was a Covid date for my husband and I who have been married for 20 years. If he had offered this as a first date, we would not be married at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:07 PM
41

Yeah, “unconditional love” in a romantic relationship is bullshit. No Ron, you can’t abuse me for a decade and be surprised and dismayed when I finally give you the boot. BUt wHaT aBOuT uNcoNdiTIonAl LOvE?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:42 AM
54

Though we don’t like to admit it, there is a lot of truth in stereotypes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:02 AM
4

It’s been a while since I saw this so perhaps someone correct me if I’ve got it wrong, but I’m not so sure Ned Stark was so high value. Yes, he was a great father; but husband? He brings home Jon Snow as a baby and tells his wife that the child is a product of an affair and expects her to raise him. She is extremely pissed off about this and takes it out on the child. I realize that he was sworn to secrecy by his sister(?). So essentially he lied to her which had a very detrimental effect on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:40 AM
27

With her high end job, it would be an embarrassment to wear a $3k ring. Co-workers notice that shit. Honestly, his attitude says a lot about what he values and it’s not her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:49 AM
6

Most women are socially groomed from a very young age to want marriage and to think that a man wanting to marry her is validating. That having a husband and children is the pinnacle of womanhood. Then they grow up and “achieve” this only to find they’ve been sold a fairy tale. The women who initiate divorce have married men who don’t pull their equal weight , who are abusive, who neglect their family, who are immature and expect to be catered to like another child, who are porn addicts, who chea…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 03:42 AM
23

It’s that many men think having a job is their contribution to the marriage. They don’t think they should have to participate in raising children, household chores, arranging social and family events, cooking and groceries or interact emotionally with their family. They want their wife to also work a full time job in addition to the above duties so she can contribute financially 50/50. Women are deciding there is little benefit to being married and since they’re doing it mostly by themselves any…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 11:50 PM
68

It was not like this before porn. Source: I’m old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:50 PM
86

She got $12,000,000 in the divorce settlement. She’s okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:13 PM
117

I just looked up Analease because I’d never heard of it before and this was in the description: “Anal-Ease is one of the best know anal desensitizing cream available! Enhance the pleasure of anal intercourse with desensitizing lubrication.” So if it’s so pleasurable, please explain to me why one needs to be desensitized?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:59 PM
5

“Women are not a monolith. Some don't have integrity. Some do. Find ways to tell the difference”. This. Sorry to go against the tide in here but I’m just gonna say it, many women do prefer big dicks sexually. That doesn’t mean they can’t love a man who is average size or that they will cheat if he isn’t huge. Women do not date and marry dicks, they marry people. If a man has a huge dick, but cheats, is lazy, abusive, selfish, expects a woman to bear and take care of his children AND go 50/50 on …
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 05:11 PM
6

Exactly! I’m tired of random people thinking they’re entitled to use my stuff, suck up my time and interfere with my day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:59 PM
47

I’ve started saying no to anyone I don’t want to deal with, not just friends and family. A strange woman came up to me outside the grocery store yesterday while I was texting my son. She asked to use my phone and actually reached across me for it. I said no, I wasn’t comfortable with that. She started to argue with me, saying I could dial the number for her if I was afraid she was going to do something sketchy, and again I said no. She asked why. I said it doesn’t matter why and that my comfort …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:43 PM
3

Living well is the best revenge and he got to watch me do just that.😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:33 PM
18

I would have exploded on him. The entitlement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:21 AM
10

A cautionary tale. Source: My XNVH, who though getting high was more important than seeing his son come into the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:10 AM
146

My XNVH and I had a son who has autism and is also moderately mentally retarded. When we split he said, “Good luck finding another man who will accept your son.” I not only found another man who accepted my son, he took it upon himself to take classes to learn the best ways to cope with such disabilities before he even proposed. He wanted to be prepared for the huge commitment he was undertaking. There were scenes just like this at our house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:17 AM
1

Maybe the chandelier falling, but not on Christine. I seem to remember that the Phantom demanded a salary from the new owners of the opera house and they wouldn’t pay it so he dropped the chandelier on the chorus in rebuttal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:51 AM
1

Not sure what happened in the book, but in the play she ran off with her childhood sweetheart, Raul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:12 PM
11

Yes, my NVXH felt a kinship with the Phantom of the Opera character, hiding his ugliness in the depths of the Paris opera house, but was actually a stunning musical genius and also a murderer. But one with a beautiful soul./s We saw the play 4 times. His quiet sobs ruined it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:59 AM
1

(((Nailed it)))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:48 AM
12

She’s right. Real freedom comes when you can stop worrying about how fuckable you are to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:23 AM
44

Right? If his dick makes you sick, why are you continuing to let him fuck you? Ok, the first time might be a fluke, but after the second infection its block/delete. Screw the “begging”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:47 PM
9

She sounds like a smart cookie, so it shouldn’t be long before she catches on that her boyfriend is a jealous little bitch who is just waiting for something disastrous to go wrong in her life so he can justify his smug assessment of her and say ‘I told you so’. Dump the boat anchor, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:09 PM
16

Just cast on stitches for a lacy scarf, watching fashion shows on YouTube. Soooo relaxing....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:38 PM
11

It is actually a very thoughtful thing to do. My girlfriends and I always do this. And it is very attractive when a guy does it for us. Just make it a quick conversation and you won’t appear needy.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/21 06:02 AM
10

Honestly? In spite of what RP says, women who want to be in relationships don’t want slutty men as men don’t want slutty women. So lying about one’s body count that way is actually counter productive. You should tell her. There will be some relief for her knowing you really weren’t the public dick and she will likely be flattered that you made yourself vulnerable enough to tell her this.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 02:10 PM
32

How shocking that must have been for you. I’m shocked for you. Wow, when the mask slips it just explodes off their face.🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:51 PM
3

Ah. Apparently then, the relationship isn’t going as amazingly for both.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 06:09 PM
2

I agree with this. My social media is for my business only. No photos of family, even my husband, and nothing overly personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:49 AM
8

I couldn’t read the article either, but I can guess that it means one day your hanging in with your relationship fighting the good fight, and the next day you’re absolutely done and walking out the door without a tear. That happens to me when I’ve exhausted every avenue and idea I can think of to make things work and there quite simply is nothing left to be done. That’s when my switch flips. This is more for me than for the relationship, as I must feel that I’ve exhausted every option before cut…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 02:14 AM
21

Same. Dad and both brothers.😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:10 AM
12

Girls as young as 10 have become pregnant from rape. Are you going to try to tell us that’s not a child? Yes, 17 is still a child. Legally and morally.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 03:19 AM
9

That explains a lot. He would probably have preferred for you to be seen and not heard. You expected interaction and involvement which was too demanding for a bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:01 AM
36

She was a child, not a woman. He was a pedophile. Now he’s a murderer. Nice...
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 11:39 PM
8

Flack , Prime video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:51 PM
27

Agreed. It’s so sad to recognize people you love in that book. I’m taking it slow as it is heart-wrenching for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:08 PM
66

And I am not saying this to victim blame AT ALL; however I really have to question why so many women feel they need to keep their nudes on their phone in the first place? If you must have them, get one of those photo lock apps or store them somewhere not so easily accessed. Better yet, don’t have them. Men do not deserve to see you naked unless they’re putting in the work of being in a relationship with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:29 PM
40

That’s right; THAT dude thinks HE’S the princess. How dare you try to usurp his title!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:53 PM
26

Dick dust everywhere!😫😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:04 PM
15

My husband is in his mid fifties and I am several years older. He is blonde/blue eyed and did lots of outdoor activities in his younger years. Skiing, hiking, running, surfing; all without sunscreen. His skin is trashed with sunspots, wrinkles and sagging skin and to be honest his face looks 10 years older than his age. I never have done sun, period. When my friends would lay out using baby oil or Hawaiian Tropic, I sat in the shade. I’ve always used sunscreen and spf moisturizer, have a nice sk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:29 PM
19

All this to say “When I tell you your tits are too small, your forehead is too high, your waist is to thick and that I just loooooove redheads (which you are not), you’ll know I’m jUsT bEinG hOnEST and won’t take it personally “. Welcome to life with my exNVH. 🙁😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:16 PM
10

Yet here we are.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 03:43 PM
8

I’d been in the jewelry business for 5 years and there is most definitely a difference between a 6k ring and 25k ring. Of course you can get a fake that looks like the 25k ring, but thats not what we’re talking about here. The question is should the guy pop for an expensive ring because that’s what fiancée wants. Since he has essentially admitted that the reason he doesn’t bounce right now is that she makes bank, then he should invest in his secured financial future by getting her what she wants…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:45 PM
3

Definitely would FFM with those two...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:25 AM
127

I’m betting that the girlfriend has a fairly high powered career and in those careers you need to dress the part, right down to the jewelry. So him wanting her to sport a $6k engagement ring would be a definite record scratch to an observer. No one would come right out and say it but it would be obvious that she married down and it could be embarrassing for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:48 AM
80

Yes, and that object is an ATM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:42 AM
7

“If they’re interested “ being the three key words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:12 AM
40

If I were not married to a man currently, I would definitely be dating women exclusively. Men are just too dangerous and difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:22 PM
1

Unless they’re Leo DiCaprio.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 07:41 PM
86

Agreed! Heading into my 6th decade shortly and my skin is lovely with just a few little laugh lines. No foundation or anything other than mascara and lip gloss needed. The only thing I actually listened to my mom about was staying out of the sun. I paid heed since skin cancer runs in the family. I also moisturize twice a day with an spf moisturizer. Bonus: I look like I’m 43.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:40 PM
20

You are absolutely right! One of the happiest days of my life was when my divorce was final. My ex tore me down bit by bit for 13 years, so having the will to pull myself out of that felt extraordinary and like I could breathe again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:27 PM
10

Wedding marketing is directed at women because we have been groomed from childhood to want the pageantry and attention that comes with a wedding. Little boys aren’t groomed to look forward to “their big day” where they get to wear a special dress and look like a princess. No dress or party is worth years of a shit marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:23 PM
0

Thank you for the thoughtful post. It helped me today.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 04:05 PM
13

An uncle. A boy from catechism. My brother. My brothers friend. A boyfriend ‘s roommate. Another boyfriends dad. Random scrote at a concert. My first boss. My husband (non-consensual sodomy).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:21 AM
32

I recall being on a date years ago and he and I were talking about pets. He was relating a story about a cat that he had and I asked “ Does your cat still do that?” He said “I don’t know, I left him with a friend in Oklahoma City.” “Ok”I thought,”well I guess they had some kind of arrangement”. Then he tells another story about another cat he raised from a kitten. I asked if he still had the cat. “Um no, I left her with my ex.” What the actual fuck?! In my family, we bury our pets. We commit to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:00 AM
24

Perhaps a “buy your woman whatever she wants” kink?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:20 PM
47

Can confirm. I so appreciate this about my husband after my XNVH used to practically twist his head right off to check out every waitress in the restaurant. It was so satisfying divorcing him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:15 PM
48

🏆Nailed it. Here’s my cheap award!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:00 PM
21

This made me tear up. To see a man who actually gets it and stands up for what is right, is....moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:39 PM
49

I remember having these thoughts too when I was dating. I could see the pixie dust that was in his eyes when he looked at me just melt away and be replaced by disappointment/disapproval. I knew there wouldn’t be another date and would go over and over the conversation to see if I could determine what went “wrong”. I was just being myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:05 PM
-1

How about responding to the meat of my post instead of picking out three words?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 06:29 PM
-1

The only pornstars who speak out about the industry are the ones who have left it. There are videos on YouTube of former pornstars who speak of the abuse, violence, humiliation and degrading acts they were forced to perform. One in particular interviews a beautiful young woman of 23 who was made to drink a bowl of a man’s urine mixed with her own vomit. She involuntarily retched when speaking of this. There are teenage girls who have seen porn and think it would be glamorous to become a porn sta…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 05:38 PM
9

We need to have that whole industry regulated harder as the trafficking of women is rampant.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:47 PM
16

Porn is the root of that entitlement. Incels consume a lot of porn. Incel thoughts: Women in porn engage in all kinds of sex easily, why wouldn’t it be that way in real life? So if women are easy and I still can’t get laid it must be that women are withholding sex from me specifically and that pisses me off. This is a personal affront!!1!
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:39 PM
33

So, is there an ex-FDS subreddit? Doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:12 AM
9

I was young and stupid. Knew him casually for 2 years, dated for 8 months, he proposed and the wedding was 6 months later. Charming and sweet right up to the wedding. A week later I was crying my eyes out on the honeymoon because he was blatantly flirting with every woman on the cruise ship and wouldn’t have sex with me. And it was all downhill from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:12 AM
53

Oh yes; got remarried to a HVM who is also very easy on the eyes. Vetted the hell out of him to be sure I wouldnt get fooled again. Thanks for asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:01 PM
318

Yeah, I unfortunately know this too. My ex NVH was piano-legged, beer bellied, picket-fence toothed, soft-shouldered and a minute man. But wow, could he be charming and generous when he was trying to land me. Projected a deep and thoughtful personality. Fake as shit. After the wedding, I never saw that guy again in the 10 years we were married. An utter waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:25 PM
72

I just saw this dynamic in “Long Shot” with Seth Rogen and Charlize Theron. “Fred Flarsky is a gifted and free-spirited journalist who has a knack for getting into trouble. Charlotte Field is one of the most influential women in the world -- a smart, sophisticated and accomplished politician. When Fred unexpectedly runs into Charlotte, he soon realizes that she was his former baby sitter and childhood crush. When Charlotte decides to make a run for the presidency, she impulsively hires Fred as h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:57 PM
134

....and that it’s normal for hot women to pair up with lazy, fat slobs. So women get the message that they shouldn’t expect better if this is what beautiful women end up with. Also it grooms men to think they are somehow entitled to a supermodel wife. My ex NVH was one of these guys who negged me about my “average” looks for years. When I divorced him I actually said “ Now you can go find a supermodel to marry”. Guess who is still single 20 years later?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:54 PM
1

Time is a cruel mistress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:09 AM
24

To make them act like we want them to? In a perfect world every woman would shut down having sex with men until they started treating us right. In reality that would be an act of war and the consequences could get really dystopian and ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:11 AM
24

Wow, men are shit no matter where you go...🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:59 AM
2

I love that he’s just conversing with himself in the void.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:29 PM
13

Wow. Unbelievably disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:15 PM
13

But your last name is your father’s name. Women simply don’t have last names...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:01 PM
16

And your reply, “Wow, the only way a drink is going to get your dick wet is if you pour it down your pants!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:19 AM
7

This is a kink that absolutely should be shamed! And perhaps some therapy for his evil, immoral, disgusting fetish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:43 PM
18

cringe I was married to that guy.🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:10 AM
14

Yum. That’s what I’m saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:22 PM
45

Butt crumbs and dick dust!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:23 AM
10

And can we mention the pressure that some parents put on their daughters/daughters-in-law to give them grandchildren? It’s gross and they act quite entitled about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:22 PM
21

You are spot on. I have a special needs son (autism, mental retardation) that does his own laundry, makes his own bed/cleans his own room, takes out garbage/recycling, loads the dishwasher, brings in groceries/ helps put them away as well as any other things I ask him to do. I did start training him young and these chores are firmly engrained now. Soooooooo, if an intellectually challenged person can do all these things, what are normal kids excuses? I would HATE having to train a teenager to do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:32 PM
57

You are correct, and it isn’t only toward young women. I’m in my 50’s and was out at an antique fair last weekend, enjoying the sun. Walking by one of the vendors (looked to be 15 or so years older than me), he made a very loud comment about my chest “looking fine in that shirt”. My mouth fell open and I looked from him to his poor wife who was cringing and mouths “I’m sorry”. I shook my head and said loudly to no one “Apparently they never grow out of it” and walked on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:47 AM
23

Let a woman post something like this and stand back because the flames will roast her. But it’s fine to let everyone know you’re a man-slut. Thanks for the heads up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:25 AM
21

Yeah and from my experience you can’t trust your brother either, Ron!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:06 AM
14

Geezus. I’m probably older than they are and I wouldn’t date them either. The low effort they think it will take to get their dick in a young woman is just insulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:49 PM
55

Can you imagine the “REEEEE!!!” If he came into the bedroom and she had a life-sized doll of Dwayne Johnson with a 9” dick propped up in the corner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:33 AM
10

Six-pack Saturday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:06 AM
119

I just read a post on another sub that portrayed exactly this. Scrote sat down next to a 17 year old on a train and started creeping on her, talking to her even though she had her headphones in, tried to actually take off her mask so he could “see how pretty you are“, kept touching her thigh and generally just would not leave her alone. She was so timid she couldn’t even ask the conductor to help find her another seat. Young girls need to be educated how to set their boundaries with strangers li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:11 PM
-6

And the teachers unions (who gave a lot of money to get Biden elected) are lobbying the CDC to keep schools shut down (far easier to teach kids online) and teachers continue to collect their paychecks. Women are suffering for this, because ultimately they are the ones staying home with kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:57 PM
9

“Some parts of me are really dark...” Don’t stick around to find out what they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:45 PM
46

“Scrotal Recall” 😵I’m DEAD!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:16 AM
126

Mine truly wouldn’t have pissed on me if I were on fire. I’d divorce him again in a minute because the first time felt so wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:34 PM
66

Truth! If anybody can have him, I don’t want him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:41 PM
2

“Your tone is so sHriLL!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:17 AM
9

Great grandma wasn’t so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:23 AM
13

“I WaS jUsT JokInG!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:37 AM
22

We must be sisters, because my mom did this too. And when I first moved away from home, my dad gave me a $100 bill to keep tucked away in my makeup case (not wallet) in case I ever got stuck somewhere in an emergency. I’m old so this was long before I carried a credit card regularly. It was a lot of money, but could get me a long way in a cab at the time. It made him feel better knowing I always had this on me and it made me feel better too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:58 PM
35

Global problem? Yes, it’s global. No, it’s not a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:10 PM
124

Yeah, I had to do this with my ex NVH. Divorced him so he would relieve me of some of the child care and actually pay his fair share of my son’s expenses. He was suddenly able to come up with child support every month when previously all he did was moan about having no money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:58 PM
8

I used to travel a lot for work and always fantasized about meeting a handsome man in the airport, getting on the flight and sitting together while getting to know each other and dating at our destination. I mostly ended up sitting next to crying children or snoring old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:28 PM
18

No advice as I wouldn’t know what to do either, but I am so very sorry that this piece of shit is making your family live in fear. I would have to arm myself with whatever weapon was available and use it if necessary. Fuck the legalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:29 AM
3

Start wearing a wedding band at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:19 PM
100

I’m older but work around NV men like this. It is astonishing to see the lack of drive and foresight for the future. One in particular 30 yr old got a DUI a few years ago. It’s now the excuse he uses for EVERYTHING going wrong in his life. He wanted to be a truck driver, but now that’s shot. Still, he continues to drive drunk and calls workmates at home in the evening to complain about his life while drunk. Lives at home with his parents who also drink and has drunken rows with his dad. Wants to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:29 PM
38

I’d always been told men were stronger so they could protect women so as I grew up, I expected that men would protect me. My brothers did not, my dad did not, my boyfriends did not, my male friends did not, my first husband did not. My current husband absolutely does, but by now I’ve become so annoyed and disillusioned that men on the whole have become a disappointment around this that I no longer expect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:23 PM
93

“I feel like you were made for me.” Translation: “You have a vagina.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:46 PM
51

Butt crumbs and dick dust. Nasty scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:34 PM
11

Kind of the same here. By the time I started my period at age 11 we’d already had the sex Ed at school, so I wasn’t entirely in the dark. My mom however, gave an obligatory speech about how “the man breaks your ‘thing’ on your wedding night”.... I mean, wtf was that? It was all that was ever mentioned about it, but she did at least keep me in pads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:42 AM
47

“She stopped being the woman I fell in love with a year ago.” I doubt she became someone else. She simply stopped putting up with his self-centered bullshit. And even at that he didn’t stop using her vagina or we wouldn’t be here now. What a child. And he has the audacity to complain they’ve not had sex in 4 months. What do you want to bet he cOMmuNiCatEd that he didn’t love her anymore and that’s when the bedroom died. I hope she told him to piss of .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:45 PM
26

This. Your weight should never be a point of discussion with any man you are dating. Hard boundary, period. Nothing good ever comes of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:49 AM
67

Not surprised. The husband of a dear friend was always jumping in on situations like this until one day he jumped in on a couple who was having a confrontation outside a bar. The guy took out a gun and shot him dead. Interestingly though, he was abusive to his own wife, yet wanted to be a hero to strangers. WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:43 AM
14

The only hole they want to get into is yours!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:06 PM
290

What is hilarious is they just don’t see how stupid this makes them look. “Curses, my compliment failed; must not leave her feeling good about herself since she rejected me!” As if their opinion about anything even matters. Keep your weak ass compliments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:12 PM
61

Yeah, I had a brother just like that. Good for nothing, certainly didn’t have the Cajones to protect me from a mosquito bite let alone another man. Useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:04 PM
54

Yeah, miss me with that “now’s not a good time” weak ass shit. So glad she stepped in and gave him both barrels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:01 PM
8

Jesus. Even my NVX husband sat down to pee in our bathroom. It was the only thing his mother taught him that took.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:25 PM
86

Where are all the cats?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:02 PM
124

The reality of anal. The idea of having to give myself an enema to rinse out my bowels to engage in sex that will be painful, humiliating and practically guarantees that I will not cum is far too much work for that sort of encounter. Hard no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:50 PM
10

I wasn’t always married and this sub answers a lot of questions I had about incidents that occurred when I was dating. It’s very affirming to find that a lot of the relationship problems that I was told were my fault were not me at all, but scrotes just doing what they do. Also, one of the FDS tenets is to keep vetting even after marriage , lest the HV husband’s mask slips and a LVM peeks out. This was not something I thought about until finding FDS. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. Honestly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:16 AM
93

I’m married to one. His interests are hunting, fishing, gardening and building things with his hands (he built our home and built himself a boat). When he has leisure time those are the things he turns to, not a computer screen. He does not have the kind of phone or data plan that supports hours of porn. I’d say looking for outdoorsy types is the best bet I can think of. If a man is a gamer, odds are very good he watches porn as well. If I were single and looking, I would stay away from gamers a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:49 AM
6

Everything about this is disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:16 PM
36

Right?! Say NO to pre-boxed jewelry as a gift!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:24 PM
60

I’ve let my hair go grey with Covid. I have white streaks in front and the rest is salt and pepper. I think it’s beautiful and goes so well with my silver jewelry. I’d dyed my hair for about 10 years and was actually losing hair from it. Receding hairline and small clumps coming out when I’d wash it. 6 months after stopping dyeing, little baby hairs started to appear and my hairline came back. I’d rather have grey, healthy hair than colored sparse hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:20 PM
47

God bless this poor girl. I wish her nothing but the best. I lived in LA years ago. Was 19 when I moved there. I was not anything near as beautiful as this girl, and yet was invited to do porn three times in separate situations. I declined, but if I had been in financial dire straits or been just a little more naive than I was would probably have done it. Good times/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:52 PM
101

Yeah, disgusting. I once had a brother in law whose girlfriend I taught how to knit. She took to it immediately and loved it. She would knit when they would sit and watch TV. Turns out he didn’t like the fact that she wasn’t paying attention to him when she knitted, so he made her stop. He packed up the yarn and needles I’d given her and gave them back to me. I asked why and he said “She’s mean to me when she knits.” WTF?? Turns out that as a newbie knitter she had to count her stitches quite of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:00 PM
15

I saw Diane Keaton in the flesh at the Rose Bowl swap meet in Pasadena once, and followed her around at a distance so I could dissect her style. She was wearing a gorgeous tweedy three piece suit (the pants were cuffed) with a pinstripe menswear shirt underneath, brogues, a silver watch chain on her vest. She had an overcoat over her shoulders that was oversized and a fedora. Everything looked VERY expensive and was of the best quality. That woman is committed to her esthetic! Edit: She was also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:37 PM
25

I’m older and have been married forever, so long ago abandoned dressing for the male gaze. I am at this point, deeply into my fashion esthetic which is Southwestern/cowgirl/boho. I find that LV men dislike this look. It doesn’t show enough skin, isn’t body-conscious enough, “not sexy” as my LV brother said. My husband however, adores it and he follows along in his own way by pairing western vests with beat up Levi’s and boots. I have a collection of turquoise jewelry and he borrows the more masc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:15 PM
31

“Cringe to the point I felt bad for him and like not responding would mean I was a selfish bitch.” See, we have to stop this kind of internal dialogue. You are not a “selfish bitch” for guarding your time and not squandering it on random scrotes. This person is not your friend, your boss, your family member or even an acquaintance, really. You owe him nothing just because he made the questionable decision to storm your inbox. There is zero obligation on your part to even reply. This is part of o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:43 PM
13

This. I know who I am and that I am attractive. Some scrote starts picking at me and I just look at him while he tries to knock me down with his “assessment “ of my value. Then I block and delete or gather up my things and wish him good day. I have better things to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:34 PM
3

Yep, things sure do look different under the FDS lens including what used to be one of my favorite songs and performers. This song now makes me retch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:56 PM
4

What is with everyone supporting the abuser?! 🤷🏼‍♀️ How does that work? My parents saw the abuse, but made excuses for it and blamed me as being “oVErLy DraMaTIc “ when I would go to them for help. Then I was the asshole for refusing contact when we were older. Victim blaming at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:59 PM
34

I went NC with my NV brother years ago. When he came down with pancreatic cancer in 2010, the family tried guilting me into “being there for him”. I thought about this long and hard. He abused me all through our childhood. I moved out at 18 primarily to get away from him. I decided that my peace and boundary was more important to me than opening myself up for more abuse and declined contact. Flying monkeys let me know what a monster I am when he passed away. I searched my heart and found that I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:43 AM
2

Maybe he should have hung on to that remarkable woman. But you know, something better will prolly come along, so don’t commit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:32 AM
42

We got my old kitten when she was six weeks old and she had her 20th birthday on March 13th. That’s 96 in cat years! I’m sure she has outlived her parents and litter mates. She’s in my lap asleep right now and I’m the only mama she needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:21 AM
17

He’s been focusing on porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:51 AM
3

My ex NVH constantly picked me apart. From my hair to my teeth to the length of my legs to my lips, ad nauseum. When we were divorcing, he came by the house to pick up some of his stuff and made some comment about how chunky my arms looked in the top I was wearing. I let loose on him and said everything I wanted to say about his looks. Piano legs, horrid teeth, big gut tiny shoulders and arms, back acne, etc. I could see the hurt on his face. He asked,” How come you never said anything?” My resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:00 AM
2

The only time I’ve ever heard it was Whoopie Goldberg describing what it was like having sex with Ted Danson. So rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:37 AM
2

Same. I was a fatty at 102 lbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:26 AM
32

This is attempted m*rder. Man Eats Slug, Dies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:24 PM
10

I love that./s You’re a bitch for not being happy about being their emotional spittoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:51 PM
17

It will seem as quaint as Rosie the Riveter by then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:58 AM
117

Yeah, they’re just looking for you to nod and make the right noises so they know you’re actually listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:42 AM
5

Is that a talking potato? 🥔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:18 AM
3

I see. Just another way to make women one dimensional in their tiny minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:38 PM
4

What is a thot, please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:49 PM
8

Since Craigslist did away with the “Men Seeking Women” personal ads, scrotes seeking females try to press other platforms into service. The minute the column was eliminated on Craig’s, Words with Friends became a meat market!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:08 AM
37

When I was in my 20’s (decades ago) I was told repeatedly by men I dated that I had a big ass. This was NOT a compliment and made me terribly self-conscious as this was the early “designer jeans” era and the desirable butt was flat and narrow. Now my ass is in fashion. Just this morning, a young man sidled up to me in a coffee shop to quietly compliment me on my plush booty. I’m still shocked when anyone comments favorably on my butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:17 AM
108

The sooner we embrace the idea that not everybody has to like us, the better off we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:01 PM
3

Queeeeeeeeeeeeen!👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:31 AM
58

Nope. I Googled it. “Noun. Jap's eye (plural Japs' eyes) (Britain, slang, vulgar, offensive) The slit of the penis; the male urethral meatus.” If he owns a penis, he has access 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:07 AM
23

I think this could be a fine vetting technique. Tell your date you’re bi and see where he goes with it. That should tell you everything you need to know about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:48 PM
29

I remember going on a blind date years ago and I met my date for lunch at an outdoor cafe. I had on light daytime makeup and was wearing a nice, casual dress. I was a little disappointed because the friend who set us up said he was my type and he was definitely not. I thought “oh well, I’m here so may as well give him a chance”. He had a great sense of humor and his work was interesting so I was enjoying the conversation until he said “You’re a lot more average looking than I was expecting.” Ok,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:44 AM
21

“..yoU’r3 luckY YoU eVeN GOt a HELLo.” Haaaaa! You’re so lucky some scrote thought he should waste your time! Wow, aren’t they full of themselves!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:22 PM
13

Isn’t that crazy? I tell my husband about some of the instances of my being sexually harassed and groped and he is dumbfounded. Didn’t want to believe it but I asked him why he thought I would make up such humiliating trash? He reluctantly believed. Honestly? I’d have a hard time believing some of it too had I not seen it happen when with my friends or it happened to me directly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:59 AM
19

Discussion about my weight is one of my boundaries with men. Absolutely off limits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:07 PM
2

I personally do think that cut flowers are a waste of money and whenever I’ve received them I felt disappointed. I much prefer that men buy me jewelry and I let them know it with the reasoning that with flowers, they are thrown out in ten days. With jewelry, I wear it against my skin and carry thoughts of them whenever I wear it. I can also sell the shit when we’re done.🤑💵💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:22 AM
4

Would a woman even think of offering leftovers to ANY guest, let alone a date?! The disrespect here is off the charts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:58 PM
9

Just picture the dude you’re thinking about hooking up with not wiping his ass for a week. That should take care of it..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:25 PM
1

Sexualizing topics is a red flag for many women. It tells them you are not respectful of them and that you are looking for a way to get into their pants as quickly as possible with the least amount of effort. In other words, it’s a turn off.
/r/seduction11/10/20 10:43 PM
3

I hate to think of the kind of prostitute you’d get for the price of a simple date, but if that’s all you’re looking for then by all means save up your pennies and go buy that hand job in the back alley beside a dumpster. No strings, no simping, easy peasy. Leave actual dating to the real men.
/r/seduction03/10/20 11:56 PM
4

To be honest, that sounds like a dull first date and I’d probably not want a second one with that little effort put into it. Women appreciate when their date has an actual plan for their time together and it doesn’t have to cost a lot to be fun. Take her bowling. You can get food or beer there and you’re not going aimlessly from place to place. Also, having an activity to focus on if the conversation lags can be helpful. Let her know that this is what you’ll be doing so she can dress appropriate…
/r/seduction03/10/20 11:18 PM
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