So after finding fds and realizing how low effort most men are i discovered a strange phenomenon with low effort men and maybe even a vetting strategy so back when I was OLD a man would message me up and give me dry boring stale conversation just total lack of effort in the pursuit and normally I would try to make up for it by being super engaging and asking lots of questions and making conversation. But since fds I decided to just match his energy he would give me low effort conversation and I would respond with the same level of effort.

And you know what I discovered these dudes would get weird as hell about it they would sometimes get angry I had one guy who sarcastically told me " I must not be interested" like bro you hit me up and then gave me nothing it really made me see how so many men especially on OLD want you to be the chaser they want YOU to pursue them and put in all the effort and when you match their energy they don't like that.

Like this probably isn't revolutionary to anyone else here but seeing it firsthand was kinda crazy to me and it reminded me of an old ex I had at 22 who dumped me out of the blue one day because I was "too boring" for him but he was boring as hell too I didn't realize I was even supposed to be his entertainment and its not like he entertained me. It has helped me a lot to weed out low effort dudes and only give my energy to men who are giving me reciprocal energy just something to keep in mind ladies.