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GLOBAL RESISTANCEfingernmuzzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:08 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTfingernmuzzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:22 PM
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“Health issues” makes me picture rows of pill bottles everywhere and lots of doctor visits….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:26 PM
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Oh yes. Somehow the rule was: if my ex cooked, I cleaned up. If I cooked, I cleaned up. Because if you cook, you should clean your own mess. But if my ex cooked, I should clean because, well, they COOKED. And so on - the narc “logic” that poisoned every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:09 PM
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Can relate. I didn’t realize how much stress and tension I felt all the time- until it was gone. It’s been 3 years on my own and I LOVE it. And I’m sure I’m much healthier overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:48 AM
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😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 04:50 PM
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Ok so I went through menopause a few years ago- aside from feeling really crazy during it, I feel no different afterwards. I feel as sexual as ever- with one difference. I am now multi-orgasmic- which I never was before. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:32 PM
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Girl, no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:25 PM
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They have every other Reddit community to comment in. This space is sacred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 10:12 AM
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THE W WORD BHAHAHAA so tru tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 10:06 PM
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Thanks for this. Enables us to decide whether to check in on Mondays. Over abundance of depravity posts leaves me feeling icky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:34 AM
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Decorate your space with lots of childhood shit: lots of Barbies and dollhouses, display your shoe/hat collection, trophies and balls from high school, posters of superheroes and pop stars, and all the corks from all the bottles. Or the bottles themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:03 PM
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One of the many priceless things about FDS is that women are willing to go deep and share what they’ve learned about themselves. I relate so much to posts like this one, and just a general shout out to all of you who share this stuff. I am so grateful that this space exists— where we can be vulnerable and honest and level up together as a result. The clarity and strength I’ve acquired through your stories and experiences- I just hope I can pay it forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 11:13 AM
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That sucks. Did it finally sell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:26 PM
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I think if there is a signed purchase agreement it’s pretty cut and dried. The rest is just getting the buyers loan financials and the title search done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:15 PM
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If Will Smith wanted to support his wife who was visibly upset at a lame joke at her expense, he could have turned to her & put his arm around her and given Chris Rock the finger, talked to him about it later backstage making sure the cameras were rolling. Or he could have helped her up, said fuck you and your Oscar, and they could have walked out. Or he could have gone to that podium and said a few words about cheap humor at the expense of another’s feelings. The fact that he used violence spea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 08:31 PM
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Pure gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:14 PM
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My mom was 42 when she had me. She was 45 when she had my little sister. We were both surprises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 10:22 PM
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Men still behave like their grandfathers but women don’t want to live like their grandmothers did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:29 AM
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Interesting that there was an option at the end of the article to make a financial donation to the goodmenproject. I’m not inclined to give my hard earned dollars for the purpose of trying to…. what? fix the broken half? publish articles that merely preach to the choir? support a snowballs chance in hell that maybe 1 guy will suddenly come correct and change his ways? This is SO not my problem and certainly not mine to finance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:34 PM
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Literally a crime. Call the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:40 PM
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The Scrote Script: I have to use the bathroom. I’ve been drinking. I don’t want to carry these books all over town. I didn’t drive here and it’s a long walk home. I forgot my jacket. I’m too tired to drive home. I need a glass of water. LADIES!!!!! NONE of these things is YOUR problem to solve. It’s all manipulative bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 10:17 AM
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Simple, easy-going guy seeks drama-free LTR. Career-wise I’ve burned a few bridges, but not a big deal because I can’t stay in one job too long anyway- let’s goof off 6 months out of the year!! YOLO!! I’ll def be sitting on my ass whole you take care of ALLLLL the adulting!! I like spending time on my phone and spending money I don’t have- let’s buy it!! Narcissist is my name, and passive-aggressive is my game! Count on me vacuuming- but only at midnight when I’m pissed off and you need to get u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:46 PM
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Violence against women should also be prosecuted as a hate crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:55 PM
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They plug in computers and hook up the mouse for the actually professional staff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:07 PM
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Yeah that whole “men ordering women to do shit” like that is far too typical. Tedious boors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:38 PM
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That’s a lot of crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:24 PM
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The risk post tonsillectomy for adults is bleeding/swelling/losing your airway. You can’t be on your own afterwards. He’s a child. “Surprise” international visit 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:22 PM
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Came here to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:01 AM
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A quote I’ve seen: “Your brutal honesty? Ain’t nobody asking for that. Where is your clever honesty? Your compassionate honesty? Your insightful honesty? Uplifting? Poetic? Empowering? Take your brutal honesty and go sit in the back with all the devil’s advocates”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:45 PM
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Me: Why? Them: Because, well, blah blah Me:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:51 PM
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Miranda and Steve on SITC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:18 PM
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EwwwDavid. Also, his post is a completely self-serving attempt to get laid: “now that I publicly acknowledged it’s humanity, it should def wanna fuck me” /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:44 AM
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I immediately respond in kind with the girliest nicknames I can think of. Very effective in shutting that shit down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:45 PM
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MOM???!!!??? EEWWWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:00 AM
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Mind also blown. How would this even be achieved? GPS tracker on your phone? And for what purpose? I’ve been married and in other LTRs and nobody has ever suggested anything like this. Why on earth would someone think this was appropriate, necessary, desired? ESPECIALLY if you don’t even really know the person. I’m so confused……
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:16 PM
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Perspective on not jumping into the next relationship and taking time for self-reflection: I have always been in back-to-back relationships with no time in between; sometimes even with overlap. April 2022 I will have been intentionally single for three years. It has been heaven and gets better as more time passes. I feel so confident. For me, this is the amount of time alone required to really level up without distractions & make positive change. And I’m not looking. I’m not craving. I’m not lon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:06 PM
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Fantastic idea! I love a smart ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:30 PM
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There it is. This is the message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:10 AM
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“Everyone” who? Sounds like pretentious controlling BS. Get it while it’s hot 👍🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:23 PM
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So sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:25 PM
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Agree. He was probably bored, no immediate prospects for sex, and fishing cuz it’s easy to hit up an ex. Cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:16 PM
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Officially Belly Laugh Day on FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:38 PM
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How do you politely decline an invitation to “get coffee” and let them know a dinner date is your minimum expectation? I’d like some scripting please ✏️📋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:53 AM
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This is growth 💪💪 you’ll come out of this phase with a different, leveled up perspective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:18 AM
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Customer service persona at all times, ladies!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:10 AM
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You are living FDS principles and I am taking notes!!!!! ✏️📋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:03 AM
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So they stated that they had this convo w dad because they are concerned for #1 their mother and #2 their little brother. YOUR well-being didn’t even place…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:55 AM
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All of them are a house of cards. Religions were invented by primitive peoples trying to explain thunder and bad crop years and meteors and stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:06 AM
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💦💦💦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:03 PM
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ICK NINE THOUSAND 👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:47 PM
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When are we doing this? The 5th of never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:40 PM
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Fully agree w OP. I applied this mindset recently with a contractor who was coming to give me an estimate on construction work. A few days before we confirmed via phone convo he’d arrive Saturday 830-845 AM as I was busy the rest of the morning Saturday 850 AM no show; I texted: We had an appt this morning- ETA? Him: Ok I can get there by 930 Me: We stated 830-845 as I have stuff going on the rest of the morning Him: Ok, I can be there at noon Me: I’m all set with my deck repair 👍🏾 Him: 👍🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:36 PM
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Exactly. Women have been told by men what constitutes sexy. I feel no obligation to contrive this esthetic for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:20 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:33 PM
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Savage lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:30 AM
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It’s like reasonably telling your kid to do xyz- they don’t- and the 50th time you yell it- and everyone’s like “why is mom always yelling”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:27 AM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:19 AM
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There it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:27 AM
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The amount of leisure time each person has is a clear measurement of whether the division of labor is equitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:53 PM
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They should try smiling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:37 PM
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They don’t care about the life support system attached to the pussy they want to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:04 AM
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Mega 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:52 PM
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You can’t. Comments from men never make it to this page; we never see them 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:58 PM
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This is very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:18 PM
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SCROTESCROTESCROTESSSSCRRROTTTTTE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:11 AM
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I’ll make you a sandwich when you get back from harvesting that wheat field Jebediah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:45 AM
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It’s exhausting and pointless. I simply don’t waste my energy on them. I have an entire life to live so- scrolling on by. Not gonna provide their entertainment; I’m busy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:37 AM
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“…there 👏is 👏more 👏to 👏being 👏hv 👏than 👏being 👏a 👏decent 👏human 👏being.” there it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:37 PM
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I’m practicing: YouToo YesYouToo TheVastMajorityOfMen MostMen EveryManIHaveEverMet AllMen YesAllMen DefinitelyYou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:46 PM
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Omg my 40s??? Easily the absolute best so far!!!! 😃🥳😘👸🏼☄️😎👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/osf4xu/i_learned_quickly_that_if_i_have_to_chase_you_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:53 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ei9bs5/pickmeisha_rehabilitation_first_steps/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:33 PM
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THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:40 PM
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This can be done. A family member called me extremely distressed a week or so before her wedding saying she just couldn’t go through with it. Was agonizing about the gifts they had already received, the guests, the expense, what would people think, etc etc. Thankfully she was able to see reason: this was her LIFE- and NONE of that other stuff actually mattered. She found the courage to cancel. Dodged a HUGE bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:33 PM
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This is so true. The “one perfect soul mate” fairy tale has women scared to leave just in case this guy is “The One”. I don’t believe this myth, but if I did and my “one” turned out to be some pain in the ass LVM/NVM— hard pass. Single fo life 👍🏾 and btw there are 7,889,989,317 people in the world as of today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:04 PM
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Crystal clear and cold as ice. Thank you OP; pure gold. Loving the comments, ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:49 PM
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The lies. We were married for 3 years before my ex told me “I’m an addict”. This liar had relapsed and started using again, followed by years of employment gaps, legal problems, huge expenses. Other information that subsequently came out: had had cars repossessed, had been evicted for non payment of rent, huge debt. I knew nothing of any of this. How can you protect yourself when you think you know someone, but they’ve been hiding huge chunks of their past???? I feel like I burned 10 years of my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:35 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:20 PM
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Car character: How does he drive in heavy traffic or when running late? Does he let other cars merge in? Does he tailgate? Cut people off? Use turn signal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:39 PM
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Exactly. In general, if women don’t get what we want/our standards are not met, we simply walk. If men don’t get what they want/feel entitled to, they get butthurt/angry/violent/homicidal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:49 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:30 PM
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That’s not how any of this works…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:51 PM
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Exactly. Afghanistan will be Gilead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:25 AM
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SEX DIGGERS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:57 PM
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Omg get one. SO. MUCH. FUN. 🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:20 PM
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The audacity. Quick story: I drive a Porsche 987.2. I pull up to the gas station. Scrote standing there, loudly: “Your husband lets you drive a car like THAT??” 🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:43 AM
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When you wear rose-tinted glasses, red flags just look like flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:44 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:23 PM
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Guy, fuck all the way off. My ADDRESS???? 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:09 PM
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I think a better yardstick for measuring whether the division of labor is equitable is the amount of leisure time each has. THAT should be the same…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:50 PM
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And who tf builds furniture any more? The list of “jobs” that men supposedly do that is supposed to exonerate them from any household stuff is stupid. “Fix the car”. What POS car needs the same amount of time spent as routine housework? “Cut the grass/yard work”. I live by myself and my yard is 1.25 acres with a lot of planting areas, etc.. I spend maybe 2-3 hours a week keeping it looking great. “Fixing things” bitch you don’t know how. Hire it out to a professional. The man task list doesn’t a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:15 AM
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No addicts. No actively using addicts and no “in recovery/recovering” addicts. I am not interested in getting dragged to NA meetings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:28 PM
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This man has absolutely zero respect for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:06 PM
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Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:20 PM
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“I’m a dick woman” 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:12 PM
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Amazing. I am also 57 and have had a crush on a 39yo acquaintance for a couple years. I haven’t done anything about it of course- FDS 💪- but I love hearing that it’s not out of the question haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:01 AM
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I love that the “nest” has become a thing we all recognize lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:44 AM
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BULLYING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:04 AM
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Very accurate. Driving is an opportunity to control. I have observed hundreds of thousands of drivers over 40 years: worst drivers on the road? White guys in pickup trucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:15 AM
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Manipulative and cowardly. Where are these “balls” they’re always going on about? Say hello ffs, ditch the sinister theatrics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:21 PM
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They don’t care. We take up zero headspace until horny time. There’s just no object permanence in their perception of women. We fade in and out of their awareness based on their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:31 AM
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I hate all these shitty people in your life— more than all the other shitty people I have read about here @ FDS. I am so sorry you are experiencing this abuse, especially with a newborn to care for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:34 PM
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So he notices and makes it a point to dish out abuse when it’s not done, but ignores and has nothing positive to say when it is done. It’s not about the housework at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:09 PM
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When I changed my locks I bought the exact same brand and style so they were really easy to change- no door modifications or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:23 AM
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I’m assuming “laundromat” wasn’t a typo. Wtaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:19 AM
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Classic abuse. I am currently reading “Why Does He Do That?” for the first time, and you are describing absolutely definitive abusive behavior. It’s on the FDS reading list- highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:10 AM
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Beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:55 PM
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This is a whole ass tour of the red flag factory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:53 AM
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I couldn’t even- tapped out 30 seconds in. Whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:25 AM
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“I still believe there are good people out there” - 3 metric tons of baggage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:41 PM
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This is tattoo-worthy 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:52 AM
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At least they can laugh about past ridiculousness- acknowledge it and then move forward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:11 AM
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Thank you for this post. I need you women. I’m learning, and getting stronger. I am recovering from limerence. It’s been 2 1/2 years. The content of this post has helped me to see my limerent object in a clearer light. When he “I do not recall this”-ed at me I now know that he most certainly does recall fully pressing his body against mine from behind- at work. His denial response was gaslighting. He’s a Triple Nine Society genius- there’s no fucking way he didn’t know that the little gestures- …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:52 AM
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