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GREEN FLAG 🟢PixiesGem/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 11:34 PM
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I am in my 40's. My boyfriend is significantly younger than me because the men my age hit the wall so long ago I could never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:28 AM
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I am 43. I am currently in a relationship with the first HVM I have ever met outside my immediate family members. They are out there, there is just so many weeds that it it hard to find a flower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:41 PM
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What would we think if a man asked this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:18 AM
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My ex hated hated her. He would screw his face up and be so angry at her because "Walt is just lying to help his family" I started looking at him differently after he said that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:31 PM
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I agree decent men won't do that. Most men are low value though. I feel like you're arguing with me except we have the same point so I will say have a nice day 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:03 PM
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Our experiences must be very different. Most men I have encountered happily comment on other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:52 PM
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Since when is it normal for men to not comment on woman's appearance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:36 PM
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My ex was very simular. I think he may have even done it as a form of negging. He wouldn't dare insult me directly but he would insult other women with things that he didn't like about me. Or he may not have been that clever and he is just that superficial. He would insult both men and women, from their looks to their clothing, car, date choices. He was definitely very insecure overall, even though he was a pretty handsome man. My current boyfriend has never said a negative word about anyone's l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:17 PM
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Haha I knew you would be asking for the show. I left it out because it is not an FDS type show and I like to watch this type of show when I am doing housework as background noise. The Millionaire matchmaker. My boyfriends comments on the show were things such as Boyfriend "If that man wants a family and a stable home, why is he picking her for his date?" (Refering to a party girl) Me "because he thinks she's hot" Boyfriend "typical" If my ex came in the room while the show was on... Ex "ew are y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:24 AM
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The realization that my ex, who I was with 16 years, didn't love or even like me, answered all my questions about how he could have left me suddenly and in a horrible way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:19 PM
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I can't remember what episode I saw it in. He was talking to the producers I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:31 PM
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He made a comment that she should be studied by science because she has so much extra skin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:49 PM
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I showed this to my boyfriend. I asked him what goes on his side if the circle. He looked nervous and asked me if this was a trick. Lol. Then he made a huge list of all the things I do for him and how it benefits him. Afterward he said that he needs to do more for me so it was more even. It literally took him 30 seconds to make his list and it was easy for him be because he appreciates and loves me and often reflects on the things I do for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:32 PM
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Not enough to be posting Instagram posts here as high value examples
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:29 PM
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My ex did "thoughtful" things like this.he was still ultra low value. Sorry to rain on a parade but one action doesn't indicate high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:47 PM
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I think that he is doing a fantastic job for his country. He has many HVM characteristics, but what we know is based on media that needs to make him into a superhuman in order to give hope to his country and the world. We can never assign HVM title to a celebrity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:36 PM
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But didn't you write in a previous post that he tries to insert his fingers on two occasions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 03:51 PM
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Oh boy, that is some pertinent missing information
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 03:41 PM
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Wtf these women look as good if not wayyyyyyy better than these men? Their delusions are strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:40 PM
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Damn. I was such a moron for matching with this guy too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:46 AM
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It said we were fat and miserable and we need to pick better men to date. It is our fault for going on dates with bus drivers and then complaining about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:48 PM
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What's wrong with a bus driver? If he is respectful and kind and not trying to trick us into sex that might be a great date. I'm sorry you are so angry that we want to date men who treat us well. Are you a man who is not capable of respecting women, or are you a woman who has been treated very badly by men and you think that is normal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 01:16 PM
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If I think something I do is funny and puts someone in their place, this is not emotional labour or trying to teach a man. I am amusing myself. Nothing wrong with that and it doesn't mean we are leveling down. No one is trying to teach a man anything here because they will do a mental gymnastic about why we didn't show up for coffee or hotel sex, they will never conclude that they are being punked because of their audacity and low effort. It is simply satisfying to do this and I am onboard regar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:52 PM
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People acting like you are expending a ton of effort to do this. This is one line written back instead of immediate block and delete. This wastes their time like they waste ours. I don't think this behaviour is leveling down. I think it's funny and they deserve it. I have a lot of free time because of the type of work I do so this maybe if I was scheduling every minute of my day this would be a waste of my time. But seriously... telling someone yes to a coffee date and then ghosting them doesn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:08 PM
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Oh wow. I am sometimes the woman who messages for something and then sends my boyfriend. This is because I work from home and he works in the city which makes it much more convenient for him to pick stuff up. I never considered that this would make a woman selling an item uncomfortable! Thank you for sharing. I just leveled up ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:32 PM
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Yes! It is so rare to see women going around circles with each other or making off topic threads and jokes. We make effort to understand what each other are saying. It is so refreshing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:23 PM
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Actually this would be fun for guys that want to hook up too. " Ok sure. Get us a room at Holiday Inn and I will meet you at 8:00. Text me the room #"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:00 PM
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💯 my family was fantastic but other factors led me down the pickme road
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:07 PM
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That was my first thought too. He is hard trusting her vagina thinking that it works in porn. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:56 PM
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Ha! This is fuccking fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:52 PM
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My son will be judged on how he behaves, things he says, what his job is, how tall he is, how well he looks after himself and his home, if he is bald, etc etc etc. Depending on the woman he may be judged for much more. That's normal and expected. If a woman thinks it is a red flag that his parents split up and he may have some potential issues as a result, that is fair and often the case. I try extremely hard to guide my son to be high value and I hope he is. Might he have some emotional baggage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:39 PM
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But we make snap decisions about other things men have no control of such as being short. How a person is raised and what values are instilled in them shapes who they are as a person and I think it is fair to consider those things. There are many single mothers on here that are probably feeling attacked but they are not the ladies causing the issue and just as a high value man doesn't chip "not all men" I would think high value women wouldn't be chipping in "not all men with absent fathers" I am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:40 PM
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That is terrible and of course there are lvm from all "catergories" of men. In my experience there are more from dysfunctional families but they certainly exist everywhere. My only relationships that were good or at least not horrible were with men from a stable family. For me it is like short men. Not all short men are terrible but it improves the odds that they will be terrible if they are short. Not all men from broken families are terrible but majority of them end up with no positive role mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:26 PM
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And even bigger red flag is absent fathers and LVW mothers. The two men I was in long term relationships with had this dynamic and the hell those men put me through... I will only ever date a man from a stable family who had a wholesome childhood. I do believe how we are raised is a major indicator of whether we will be a high value person. Of course, people are capable of leveling up and we have tons of hvw here who grew up in broken households but as we know women can overcome these things muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:22 AM
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You're welcome! People outside of FDS think we have unrealistic standards but we are really just looking for kindness and consideration from someone on a simular level as us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:17 PM
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Eww husband's only like this when they are more concerned about men's opinions. A man thought his new car was hot -big compliment. A man thought his wife was hot -big compliment My ex was like this and just saw me as an abject for other men to admire which made his status symbol. It is so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:22 PM
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Thank you. It really is the little things that make all the difference. Consistent little things that show he values you and wants your life to be easier. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:01 PM
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You are right! I guess I just thought the example was silly compared to what other women might share. It really did make a big difference to me and is just one of the many things I love about him ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:00 PM
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This is a silly one. My boyfriends mother is afraid of birds which translated to him being somewhat afraid of birds. Maybe "nervous" of birds is more appropriate. I have chickens and pigeons. When I showed him them I tried to get him to hold one and it flapped its wings as he tried to hold onto it and it freaked him out and he let it go. We laughed and he said he likes them but would rather not try to hold them. After a period of time I was experiencing some burn out and I felt like caring for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:40 PM
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I wish I had this advice 15 years ago. What a ton of heartache it would have saved me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:05 AM
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Wait, I hate traveling. "Not all women" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:59 PM
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Ho ho ho motherf........ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:57 PM
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"I am a 8/10, thanks! You're a 6."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:56 AM
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I believe most of them do it because they all think they have the one magic dick we will actually want to see. Their level of deluded is so ridiculous that I really think that although women constantly say how gross it is, he will believe he has one we would want to look at. There is also the man who does it because he doesn't care about you. He will send the pic to see if you might be open to sex, but doesn't care that there is a good chance you will block him since he doesn't have an interest …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:17 PM
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Not even in the same country. Seems to be a popular thing I guess. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:08 PM
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Right? I should have done it anyway. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:52 AM
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I have been offered money to "snuggle" and to kick a guy in the nuts. (Some sort of fetish I guess?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:08 PM
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I wonder if he was lying. Maybe he thought he could get a pity lay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:41 PM
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Go with your gut. You were put off. Don't talk yourself out of that feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:31 PM
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Gross. I also have gotten these messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:51 PM
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They will force you to either live in their filth or clean up after them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:45 PM
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You can't save people who don't want to be saved. If you want to try, go ahead and try but there is a very good chance she will take his side against you, be prepared for that. I'd start the conversation with something along the lines of... I noticed these things that your boyfriend says/does/etc. and I felt concerned that it was controlling behaviour, when you came to me saying that I am inappropriate with him, I know it is controlling behavior because nothing remotely like that happened and I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:16 PM
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The best way to tell if a man is lying is to watch to see if his mouth is moving. His words mean nothing at all so asking him something is just an opportunity to lie. We watch what they DO and evaluate their actions to see what they value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:00 PM
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The FDS response is "Block and delete" "If he wanted to he would" There is no power dynamic to change here. He has disrespected you. Block and delete. You do not ask for a conversation. Of course, you did ask for a conversion, he disrespected you again by ignoring that. You are far past Block and delete at this point in time. Don't be a pick me that makes excuses for his behaviour. Be a queen and take our advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:47 PM
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If this happened to a man he would have lost his shit! Instead, it happened to a woman so she paid. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:05 PM
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I am yelling at this woman while watching. I wish her dad had tik tok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:14 PM
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Oh yes! My nvx always complained about not getting enough affection. I could not be within an inch of the guy without him sex pestering me. I'd kiss him. He would poke me with his dick. I'd hold his hand, he would grab my breast. I'd hug him and he would try to stick his finger in my butt. It was SO GROSS. When we split up he told me he watches so much porn because I don't give him affection. Lol. Porn sick scrote who couldn't barely cum due to wanking off 7 times a day with a death grip but tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 01:23 PM
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Oh my ex did "movember" religiously since it became a thing. He insisted it was for donations to charity but he didn't ever collect a single cent. I absolutely hated how gross he looked and he made me deal with it "for charity" yet didn't contribute a thing to the charity. He looked so unattractive and would continue to pester me for sex after laying on the couch and doing nothing but grow a nasty mustache. Blek!! The funny thing is that the man I am with now has a huge long beard. I thought fac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 04:37 PM
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Ugh, I hate to admit it but I definitely outsourced my character to men. I was the worse pick me. All of my value was based on what men thought of me and it was my while identify. I was the coolest cool girl 🤮🤮🤮 What a fool I was and so many years I wasted. But, the good news is I completely did a 180. I found FDS principles and completely changed myself. It was a huge wake up call. Even us who are too far gone can be saved. If we are in pick me mode, stay away, I was a terrible friend for a lon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 02:59 PM
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That is what he told reddit. The reality is that his girlfriend was catching him masturbating with porn. Men only tell the story that they want others to hear. You have to read carefully to realize the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:21 PM
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I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 11:49 AM
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The closest I am coming to Greece is a parcel I sent there yesterday 🤣 Looks beautiful, congratulations on your successes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:46 AM
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You are right! I am picturing saying this to a friend or someone questioning why I think porn is bad or someone else I can not block and delete like a coworker. I dont have interest in trying to reason with a potato so I wouldn't bother trying to reason with a scrote either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:30 PM
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Congratulations, so far so good! My guy is always doing so much for me too without any prompting as well. This is the first time in my 42 years that I have had strict standards and the first time in 42 years where I have been treated amazing. It's so funny how wrong those pickmeisha are about this. If they just gave it a try, they could be happy too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:24 PM
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If I encounter this I plan to say "Men who watch porn are terrible in bed and their dicks barely work. I want to enjoy myself an have an orgasm, if that is controlling, toxic, or insecure, then so be it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:17 AM
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I am 42 and I am awesome. Younger men are very interested in me. I have no shortage of men who fawn for me even though I am in a relationship. I am not a rare beauty and am pretty average looking as far as I am concerned. Trust me ladies... when you hit 40 you will laugh, I swear I have way more options in men than I ever did before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:10 PM
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Maybe this is how porn will end up benefiting women in the end. The porn sick will die out (most men) there will be no one left to watch porn so it will vanish. Nearly half of humanity will be gone so climate change and environmental problems reduce drastically. It will be humanity's finest evolutionary story 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:05 PM
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TV character question was in my first job interview 25 years ago. I could not answer it. I still can not answer it and I think back to it frequently. I just dont identify with anyone on TV, movies or otherwise in the spotlight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:49 PM
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Jadzia Dax is an interesting one because she has also been male :) Totally agree with your picks! I am a nerd too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:44 PM
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I relate to this in a hard way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:29 AM
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I chose 10+ My partner is much younger than me. I think this is an interesting study, but I am not sure I believe that him being younger will take years off our life. I am also quite a bit older than many of you, and quite a few of us over 40 are enjoying the company of younger men. People who don't know he is younger have no idea. We look the same age. I feel like your poll could have used options for choosing if the age gap was older or younger, those results might be interesting. I just wante…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:43 PM
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Especially hentai, lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:20 PM
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Mistake with date one... do NOT be friends with men. They are only your friend because they want to have sex with you. You have learned that clearly now :) Mistake in date 2.... online dating 😆. That is jist a dumpster fire. The questionnaire is kinda cool. I'd change "do you watch porn?" To "what kind of porn do you like?" This way they answer thinking you might find porn acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:54 AM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:25 AM
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I am really frustrated today. Almost 2 years ago my lvm of 16 years left me for another woman. He lied and said he left me because of me, but moved 2 hours from his job and an hour from his kids to move into her home so.... sure. Anyway his family was my family for 16 years. NOT ONE of them reached out to me or expressed anything at all over our breakup. His sister and I were pretty close. I was in her wedding. She stayed on my fb contacts and I hoped she would eventually reach out to me, expres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:32 AM
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I think you forgot some screenshots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:33 PM
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Having a rotation is encouraged because then we don't get overly attached or invested in a single man too early in the relationship, giving us a chance to vet unbiased. It has nothing to do with getting an ego boost and it is not advised to date someone you don't find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:31 PM
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"This isn't an airport, no need to announce your departure." 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:37 PM
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He is bad with money and doesn't value his commitments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:15 AM
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At least you learned this before you prepared his Christmas present.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:40 PM
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I am happy to offer some feedback if you like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:38 PM
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I think that is fine based on your situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:37 PM
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That would be so great....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:27 PM
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I am 42. My boyfriend is 29. People don't know we have an age difference. Younger guys tend to try so much harder. Maybe they know we are older and won't put up with normal male bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:40 PM
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Porn does not equal masturbation. Porn is bad for everyone. Masturbation is ok for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:19 PM
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I agree, I wasn't thinking of the screenshots when I replied. Those don't do anything for me either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:49 PM
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You are not insecure, dude is lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:42 PM
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Depravity posts really really helped me when I was new to FDS. They can get tiresome when you have heard it all before, but I think those posts are really valuable for woman who have been manipulated throughout their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:36 PM
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I read your post about that guy. What a relief to have him out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:32 PM
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Cringe AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:49 PM
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What benefit is it to you to tie yourself to a man unnecessarily? If you want a child do it but do it on your terms and never trust a male friend to actually follow through with anything at all. Male friends are almost always your friend because he thinks he might be able to have sex with you one day. It would not be unusual for him to use his child with you to manipulate you into a relationship you dont want. If you deny him the relationship it will hurt his ego and he will use that child to ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:44 PM
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He gave you a low value gift in comparison to yours. He reduced effort once he was getting sex. He is not high value. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:52 PM
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It depends on if the games are balanced with the rest of life. Is he neglecting life in order to play games or are games just a hobby he enjoys sometimes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:23 PM
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My 6 year old daughter asked my HVM to play minecraft with her. He just got here from a long day of work and said, "how about we play after dinner?" She happily agreed. We finished eating. He set the game up and called her, "ready to play?" She gleefully ran over and they played for an hour, he indulged her in building all the silly things she wanted. Her LV father would have responded to her request to play by saying "maybe tomorrow" and he would have never initiated the game himself hoping she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:31 PM
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Preach! I am 42 as well. The man I am seeing is much younger. I dont need a dusty wrinkly overweight idiot half way to his heart attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:27 PM
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Spot on. I experienced this. It was much better for his ego to play the victim and start fresh with someone who had no idea what he was like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:43 PM
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I am interested in seeing how many upvotes posts and comments get when scotes can't vote them down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:33 PM
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Good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:23 PM
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Because men don't have platonic friendships. They just have women around who they hope to have sex with one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:37 AM
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Exactly. This man offers nothing at all. What is the point of dealing with him? She says she loves him. Why??? He obviously doesn't love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:12 AM
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How would you have a meet up without exposing yourselves? This has been discussed before and I believe it is in the handbook as well. It would definitely be awesome to be able to meet each other, but the risks are too great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:17 PM
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This would be not recommended at all. FDS advises NEVER give out your real info or meet up with other FDS women. Too many men would love to infiltrate something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:08 PM
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They find value in their ability to get a man. Extra value if it is someone else's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:21 PM
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Hmm, idk, he seems ok. 🤔 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:49 PM
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Yessss. I bring nothing to the table. I have my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:25 PM
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Ugh, I fell for it twice 😩 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:41 PM
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Scrubs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:39 AM
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My ex complained out being touch starved. He then said it was my fault he masterbated (used porn) so frequently, because I didn't touch him enough. Dude... if you had not grabbed my tit or tried to jam your hand in my pants every time I touched you, then you wouldn't be so starved! Not like his porn use would have decreased though 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:47 PM
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That is exactly it! I often read FDS posts to my man and he agrees with most as well, and if he doesn't immediately agree he will listen to the point and consider the new point of view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:39 PM
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Yes. Honeymoon phase is code for love bombing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:58 AM
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I dont know what is wrong with Canada. After my 2nd daughter was born, my LVM jokingly (to my horror) said "give her an extra stitch for me" The FEMALE doctor made a disgusted face. Then she DID IT!! I had to have a procedure 6 weeks later because she had nearly sown my vagina up! This was 10 years ago. Not long enough ago to ever think something like that would happen to me... in Canada.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:41 PM
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"Not all journalists" 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:51 PM
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At least he is gone. It was worth the payout in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:11 AM
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Why is she cleaning it up!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:00 PM
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I am happy to read this. I am involved with someone who I consider high value. He does like to game but it is what I consider a reasonable amount of time (less than 3 hours a day) we play together as well and enjoy the time together. If he is gaming and I suggest doing something else, he is happy to quit the game and do what interests me. He spends very little money on the hobby and has many more interests which we share together. A high value man is not a specific defined thing and will have di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:14 AM
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This was me and my ex except it was alcohol I was monitoring. Oh he used porn too but I was a cool girl so porn was fine 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:04 PM
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I could have written this a year ago. FDS has changed everything about me since them, and let me tell you, I am 42 years old and wish I found FDS so much sooner. My entire mindset has changed. My confidence has increased exponentially. I am not ashamed that I was a pick me, that is what society molded me into and I was surviving. Now I make the molds. No one gets my time and energy that doesn't deserve it. I am leveling up significantly in such a short time. You will likely spend a while reading…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:16 AM
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🚩 Sex pest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:03 PM
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Successful sales person has learned to figure out all the ways around an objection. These are great tools for them to use on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:39 AM
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People want to believe they are good people so can not accept evidence that they might not be. Cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:01 PM
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I have been reading posts from here to my 11 year old daughter. Is anyone else using FDS to educate their children? Right now I have been avoiding the posts related to sex, but eventually I will. Is anyone else doing this, any tips?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:59 PM
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